1 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi. 2 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 2: Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. Actor Val Kilmore has 3 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 2: died and we are going to get into his cause 4 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: of death and also the cancer he. 5 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 3: Was living with. 6 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 2: We're also going to get into a crazy story about 7 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 2: someone who made a homemade canon. 8 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 3: Like what could possibly go wrong with that? 9 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 2: Right, We're going to talk about Virginia Jeffrey's bizarre post 10 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 2: saying that she had days to live. Let's start off 11 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 2: with Val Kilmore. This was a bummer this week. 12 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I really I don't know. 13 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: I guess I haven't been keeping tabs on him, but 14 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: I didn't really know he was sick. So when my 15 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: husband told me yesterday that he died, I was pretty 16 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: shocked because he's young. He's only sixty five years old. 17 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 2: He's most How do you think that he was wearing 18 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 2: that what would you call that? 19 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 3: As caught? 20 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: Well, I haven't really I just said I haven't been 21 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: keeping tabs on him. I haven't really seen pictures of 22 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: him in the last couple of years. And I guess 23 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: he was in the latest Top Gun remake and he's 24 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 1: wearing a scarf in that movie, but I just wasn't 25 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,200 Speaker 1: paying attention to it. But he was young, and they're 26 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: saying he died from pneumonia, all. 27 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: Right, so he had I kind of was not talked 28 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: about this at all when I heard it, because as 29 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: soon as I heard it, I was like, oh, yeah, 30 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: there's been a long history with him. So apparently he 31 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 2: felt a lump in his neck back in two thousand 32 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 2: and fourteen or twenty and fifteen, and he kind of 33 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: waited a while to get treatment of it because he's 34 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: a Christian scientist. Did you know that, Oh no, so 35 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: interesting thing about Christian scientists, don't I really never had 36 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: heard of them. And when I was rotating at the 37 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: Medical Examiner's office, we actually had a case of a 38 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: little kid that ended up getting pneumonia two year old, 39 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:11,119 Speaker 2: and her parents wouldn't treat her because they were Christian scientists, 40 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:15,200 Speaker 2: and apparently they believed that diseases and ailments are errors 41 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: of the mind, and they really give precedence to spiritual 42 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: healing rather than modern medicine. And obviously I'm telling you 43 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 2: this story from the Medical Examiner's office, which means that 44 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 2: this kid died and the parents actually got charged with homicide. 45 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 2: Because the medical examiner rolled it a homicide because she 46 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 2: wasn't treated for something that could have been treated. 47 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, now that you bring that up, I'm curious how 48 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: that plays into religion because there's a lot of religions 49 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: that believe that. Yeah, and it is it is an 50 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 1: interesting theory because I did once also have an autopsy 51 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:54,399 Speaker 1: on a woman who is postpartum that was bleeding due 52 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: to complications with the delivery, and they were Jehovah's witness. 53 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 1: The husband refused blood products for her and she ended 54 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: up dying. And she didn't have to die. She died 55 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: because she didn't get a transfusion. So it is interesting, 56 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 1: and I'm honestly like, I really just don't know how 57 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: that works, because ultimately that's a little bit different. You're 58 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: in charge of yourself, so you can make the choice 59 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: if she had had that in writing that she didn't 60 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 1: want the blood. 61 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 2: Products, like, that's her choice. But with the being and 62 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 2: the same with val kilmorph he didn't want to get 63 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: treatment of his cancer, that's his choice. But when you're 64 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: talking about raising a child and not doing an intervention 65 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: because of religion, then I mean in the case that 66 00:03:42,960 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 2: I dealt with, it was considered to be a homicide. 67 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, now that you're saying all that, I do 68 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: think maybe the religious laws should be a little lax 69 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: when it comes to minors that can't make decisions for themselves. 70 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 1: When you're an adult, that's a whole different story. But 71 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: I agree those rules should not apply when it's little 72 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: kids that are sick, especially when it's something that's preventable. 73 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: Let's start off first by talking about what this lump 74 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: ended up being. So he has said that he was 75 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: diagnosed with throat cancer. Now what is throat cancer. Your 76 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: throat is a very complex area which consists of the 77 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: back of your throat, which you would think if you 78 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: looked in the mirror, so your tonsils, your uvula, the 79 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: back of your tongue that would be considered the upper 80 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: part of your throat, and then the lower part of 81 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: your throat would be considered your larynx. So I'm not 82 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: really sure exactly where this tumor originated because he's saying 83 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: that he felt a bump in his neck, and that 84 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: could quite possibly be just a lymph node that had 85 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,480 Speaker 1: the cancer spread to it, So it's not I'm not 86 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: one hundred percent sure where it originated. From but most 87 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 1: of the time in the oropharynx, which you would think 88 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: is the back of the throat. What you think about 89 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: looking in the mirror. Those cancer a sixty to seventy 90 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 1: percent of the time are caused. 91 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 2: By the HPV virus. So that's the majority of those cases, right, 92 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 2: So how do you get HPV? It's a sexually transmitted infection, 93 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 2: the same exact way you would get it in your 94 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 2: badge or on your penis or anything like that. And 95 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 2: the reason that this is becoming so prevalent now is because, 96 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 2: especially with younger people, they don't consider oral sex to 97 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: be sex. So sometimes you could even speak with people 98 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 2: and say that they would never have sex without a condom, 99 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: but they would have oral sex without any protection. And listen, like, 100 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 2: if you think about giving someone oral sex with either 101 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 2: a condom on or a dental dam, do you know 102 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 2: what a dental dam is? 103 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: No? 104 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 2: You never heard of that. 105 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: Really, it's nice because I'm sitting here like, well, how 106 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: is this even possible that you're doing it? Like on 107 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: a femail. 108 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 2: In particular, they sell these things called dental dams, which 109 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: are basically a square piece of a latex type of 110 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 2: material similar to a condom, and it's it's like performing surgery. 111 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 2: You have to take this thing out of the package. 112 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: Like have you ever taken latee You probably haven't, but 113 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 2: at all topsy. When we use like legit surgical gloves, 114 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 2: when you take them out of the package, they have 115 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: this like fine talk powder on them, so they don't 116 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: stick together, right, So you have to take this dental 117 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: dam out of the package and then you have to 118 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 2: rinse it off to get the powder off of it, 119 00:06:29,720 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 2: and then you have to dry it off, and then 120 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 2: you have. 121 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:32,800 Speaker 3: To put lube. 122 00:06:32,880 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: They recommend you put lube first on the vulva and 123 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 2: then you put the dental dam on top of it, 124 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 2: and now you're ready. 125 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 3: To have oral sex. 126 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 2: And it's nobody's doing that exactly. So this is this 127 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 2: is where it comes in when you're like, okay, well, 128 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,839 Speaker 2: how could you prevent that? And this is where the 129 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: HPV vaccine is important. And I'm not like one of 130 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 2: these like vax pusher people, but I have a lot 131 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 2: of experience with this particular virus because I was a 132 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 2: cytotechnologist before I was a PA, and I looked at 133 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 2: pap smears all day long, which just are HPV HPV. 134 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: So it's something that's always kind of freaked me out 135 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 2: and something I definitely thought that I never wanted to have, 136 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 2: because not only is it responsible for vaginal vaginal cervical 137 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 2: vulvar cancers in females, it could cause penile cancers and men, 138 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 2: but that's definitely not as common. It could cause anal cancer, 139 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 2: but it also could cause throat cancer, and like, nobody 140 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: wants this because when we tell you the hell that 141 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 2: this guy went through, you're gonna see why. So the 142 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: HPV virus a lot of people get. It's just the 143 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 2: most common sexually transmitted infection, and most people's immune system 144 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 2: kind of gets rid of it on its own. But 145 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: if you get certain strains of the virus, then they're 146 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 2: the ones that can lay dormant for years and then 147 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 2: all of a sudden they come back and start changing 148 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 2: the cells, and then they start looking pre cancerous, and 149 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: then they look cancerous. Oh, cervical cancer and females used 150 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 2: to be the number one killer of women back in 151 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 2: the day, and then they started doing pap smears and 152 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 2: stuff and just checking women all the time. This is 153 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: what a cytotechnologist does, is look at pap smears and 154 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 2: they were able to say, okay, if we screen these 155 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 2: women once a year, we'll be able to see that 156 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 2: there's changes inside of the cervix and then we'll be 157 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 2: able to catch it when it's pre cancers instead of 158 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 2: full blown cancer. And of course that's evolved over time 159 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 2: because now we have DNA technology and they're able to 160 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 2: tell if a person's carrying the high restrain or not. 161 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 2: And these tests are all done when you go get 162 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 2: a PAP smere So now they don't have to look 163 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 2: at it under the microscope every single year because they 164 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 2: know if you have this the higher restraints or not, 165 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 2: and they'll monitor those people accordingly. But ever since these 166 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 2: screening things have happened, the risk of cervical cancer in 167 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 2: females has dropped so much that it's like it's not 168 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 2: even on the radar anymore how it used to be. 169 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 2: But the problem is now with throat cancer because this 170 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 2: could happen in both male and females. How are you 171 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 2: going to do a PAP smear of someone's throat and 172 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 2: check for these atypical changes. So it's just it's invasive, right, 173 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 2: So they haven't come up with like a PAP smear 174 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: screening for the throat. 175 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 3: Yet so and. 176 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, when you present with this kind of cancer, it's 177 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 2: like he, like Val Kilmour was saying, I have a 178 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 2: family member that actually had a cancer like this too. 179 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 2: You present with a giant lump in your neck and 180 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 2: that's already like late, it's already full blown cancer and 181 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 2: possibly has even spread to a lymph note at that point. 182 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 2: So of course the treatment is just going to be 183 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 2: a lot more you know, aggressive to take care of that, 184 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 2: rather than if you see atypical cells on a PAP smear, 185 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 2: you would just you could just cut them out a 186 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 2: little bit and leave the person intact, and sometimes that's enough. 187 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 3: To make it go away. 188 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 2: So finally he tells family like, hey, I'm not getting 189 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,199 Speaker 2: this treated because I'm a Christian scientist and blah blah blah, 190 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 2: and they convinced him, no, you're going to get this done, 191 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 2: and he eventually agreed to getting it done. So, like 192 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 2: I said, I'm not really sure if he had tonsil 193 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: cancer or if he had it at the back of 194 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 2: his tongue or wherever he had cancer. But what they 195 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,960 Speaker 2: do is sometimes if the tumors consider to be not operable, 196 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 2: which means that them taking it out is too close 197 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 2: to major structures or it just would be too much 198 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 2: of a surgery, and they think that they could shrink 199 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 2: it with chemotherapy and radiation. They often choose that. And 200 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 2: the good thing about having an HPV based cancer is 201 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 2: that it's very it responds very well to treatment as 202 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 2: opposed to people that get throw cancer from smoking. So 203 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: that's the good thing. But the bad thing is is 204 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 2: whenever you radiate an area like that, radiation causes a 205 00:10:55,280 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 2: lot of scarring and it causes damage to the area, 206 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 2: and it's really it's really brutal, especially having had a 207 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 2: family member that went through this treatment. I mean, it 208 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 2: leaves burns in your throat, you can't eat, you lose 209 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 2: a lot of weight. It's it's like really terrible. And 210 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 2: think about like one thing, even if you feel shitty 211 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 2: or whatever, like one thing always makes you feel better 212 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 2: is having a good meal, and then all of a 213 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 2: sudden you lose your taste and you it's really terrible. 214 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 2: And during that treatment it could damage your vocal cords too, 215 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:31,079 Speaker 2: and your. 216 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 3: Ability to speak. 217 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 2: So he had a procedure done called the tracheostomy, which 218 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 2: is when they put a hole inside of your throat, 219 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 2: So no longer are you using your nose and your 220 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: mouth to breathe, but you're breathing out of this hole. 221 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 2: And the reason they do that is number one, because 222 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 2: of scarring, because of the treatment, but also if the 223 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: tumor is so big, it might block your airway, so 224 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 2: they're kind of bypassing it so you could still get 225 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: air into your lungs. And a tracheostomy also another thing 226 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 2: that you never want to have if you don't have 227 00:12:01,280 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 2: to have. So he, like I was saying earlier, he 228 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 2: wore an ascot every day because he was hiding that 229 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 2: whole that. 230 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:08,560 Speaker 3: He had in his neck. 231 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 2: He recently had a documentary that he made within the 232 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 2: past couple of years, if anybody really wants to check 233 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 2: it out, because in that documentary he talks about it. 234 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 2: But when there's damage, so when they put this tracheostomy 235 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 2: tube in between that and the treatment, you could have 236 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 2: damage to the vocal cords, and that really affects your 237 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 2: ability to speak, which is another terrible side effect. He's 238 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 2: actually been quoted as saying that the treatment for this 239 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 2: cancer was worse than the actual cancer, which many people 240 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 2: who have. 241 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 1: Cancers is going to say that. 242 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's a common thing. 243 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 2: So these people are able to speak. Sometimes there's different things. 244 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 2: There's a thing that you could call the speaking valve 245 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 2: that you could block off the hole so when the 246 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 2: error is coming out of the lungs, that could kind 247 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 2: of be pushed up and redirected more up through the 248 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,680 Speaker 2: vocal cords, but the voice will be very weak sounding. 249 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 2: And I guess he was able to do that because 250 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 2: when he did the latest movie that you were saying earlier, 251 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 2: the Top Gun movie, a lot of people were speculating 252 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 2: that they used AI for his voice, and really it 253 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 2: was his voice, they just kind of digitally enhanced it 254 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 2: so it sounded better because he basically probably has like 255 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: a very hoarse whisper that is difficult to come out, 256 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: so they just kind of clarified it a little. There's 257 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 2: also this thing that's called an electro larynx, and you've 258 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 2: seen that, right, Like, I feel like the guy that 259 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 2: used to run the softball league had one, remember. 260 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, our umpire head. 261 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:45,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and he used to talk on the microphone like 262 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 2: opening day and stuff, and he had one. So it's 263 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 2: it's this battery operated device that detects vibration. When a 264 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 2: person that has it either doesn't have vocal cords or 265 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,719 Speaker 2: vocal cord paralysis due to treatment or whatever, speaks it 266 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 2: pay upt this vibration and it allows them to talk, 267 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 2: but it sounds very electronic and course kind of it's 268 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 2: it's definitely not the person's voice, but you're allowed to 269 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:17,640 Speaker 2: at least communicate your words through a voice in that situation, 270 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 2: and I believe that he used one of those in 271 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: the documentary as well. So the bottom line is, so 272 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: this didn't kill him, right, he survived. I think in 273 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 2: twenty twenty or twenty twenty one, he said that he 274 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 2: had no he was cancer free, which you know I've 275 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 2: said a million times I don't like that term. But 276 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 2: there was no evidence that he had any cancer. So 277 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 2: his cancer was well under control and treated. But the 278 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 2: problem is is that when you have a hole in 279 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 2: your neck like that, and the air is bypassing your mouth, 280 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 2: which is your first line of defense for any kind 281 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,200 Speaker 2: of infections to come in, Like your tonsils are like 282 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 2: a filter that catches a lot of that stuff, and 283 00:14:55,400 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 2: then you also have saliva that has antibiotic property in 284 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 2: it as well, Like you're bypassing all that stuff in 285 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 2: the air, this dry air is going directly into your lungs. 286 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 2: So because of that, people that have traits are at 287 00:15:08,440 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 2: an increased risk of lung infections. And ultimately, that's what 288 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 2: his daughter is saying, that's how he died, is from pneumonia, 289 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 2: which is common in these patients. 290 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: I kind of think it's amazing that you have this 291 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 1: religion your whole life where you don't get medical treatment 292 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: and you could live until sixty five, because I just 293 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: feel like there's so many things before that that could 294 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: take you out that are treatable. 295 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:34,440 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 296 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I guess in theory when he got diagnosed, 297 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 2: he was only fifty five ten years ago. 298 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 3: No, it's it is true. 299 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 2: I mean sometimes I just read a story of somebody 300 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 2: recently that had that was sixty something and said they 301 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 2: weren't on any medication and they didn't have any high 302 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: blood pressure or this or that, and you're like, that's 303 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 2: kind of in America, that's like kind of amazing in 304 00:15:59,360 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: this day and eight. 305 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: Well, it's one of those things like once you start 306 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 1: it's like yeah, and we know, yeah exactly. 307 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 2: And we know that like there's been a couple of 308 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 2: times that physicians have wanted to put me on high 309 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 2: blood pressure medicine and I'm kind of. 310 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 3: Like, eh, that And that's the thing. 311 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 2: It's like once you're on it, like it's just not 312 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 2: really great to go on and off those types of things. 313 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 2: And a lot of times those drugs lead to other 314 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 2: complications and then you need another drug for that. And 315 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 2: it's like, we know, there's like a huge people on 316 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 2: way too many drugs in this country, like prescription medications. 317 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 2: So it is, it is interesting, but I think a 318 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 2: lot of things, I mean certain things like let's say 319 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 2: you have diabetes, for example, you have to have insulin. 320 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: There's no praying that's going to make that go away. 321 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 2: But but there's other things that like especially antidepressants and 322 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 2: this and that, like you just don't a lot or 323 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 2: you probably even say most people don't really need to 324 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: be on you just but it's a quick fix to 325 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: put someone on medications a lot of the time. 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Then you're gonna 345 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 1: screenshot either your review or your subscription and email it 346 00:18:05,680 --> 00:18:08,119 Speaker 1: to us at stories at Mothernosdeath dot com. 347 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:09,280 Speaker 3: Thanks guys. 348 00:18:12,760 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 2: All right, So I'm listening to the radio yesterday and 349 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 2: the local New Jersey radio, and I hear this story 350 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 2: which I guess happened a while ago, and they just 351 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 2: got charged or something, or just got went to court 352 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 2: over this. 353 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, so a father and son are facing jail time 354 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 1: after they fired a homemade cannon which left a bystander disemboelled. 355 00:18:37,200 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 2: It's out, it's so outrageous. So they made a homemade 356 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 2: canon and then they brought it to a local park 357 00:18:43,000 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 2: and they made it explode. Whatever they were doing with 358 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 2: this canon, it caused shrapnel to go seventy five feet 359 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 2: away from the device into multiple houses. And this guy, 360 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 2: this thirty four year old guys just standing there and 361 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 2: this shrapnel just comes through the wall and cuts open 362 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 2: his like his abdominal wall, and his intestines literally fell 363 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 2: out of his body. And luckily, like I don't know 364 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 2: if it was his family or there were people there 365 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 2: that were able to call nine when one went right 366 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 2: away and they metevacked him to the nearest trauma center. 367 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 2: But he had to have ten surgeries in three weeks 368 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 2: because of this. 369 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm surprised, Like, how do you even survive 370 00:19:27,920 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: something like this When you're reading an article that's like 371 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 1: I got struck by shrapnel and my intestines are falling out. 372 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: I can't even believe these people end up being survivors 373 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 1: at the. 374 00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 2: End of it well it you know, it seems very 375 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 2: it seems very gruesome, but your abdominal wall is just 376 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:49,680 Speaker 2: is holding your organs in from spilling out. So all 377 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:53,240 Speaker 2: it is is like a really thick blanket that's covering them, 378 00:19:53,760 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 2: keeping them inside. So if that blanket opens up, they're 379 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 2: gonna spill right out. And as long as they're still 380 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 2: attached to the mesentry, which is the blood supply to them, 381 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 2: you could kind of just stick them right back in. 382 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 2: Oftentimes they do surgeries when they cut someone open to 383 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 2: do let's say a pancrea surgery or something, and when 384 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 2: they make that large incision, they'll take the intestines out 385 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 2: and just kind of push them to the side because 386 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 2: they're attached. I'm just trying to think of. You know, 387 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 2: the intestines are like a hose mouth to anus is 388 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 2: just one two basically that's all crinkled up inside. But 389 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 2: the back of them, where the blood supply comes in 390 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 2: to feed them oxygen, is all attached to back towards 391 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: the spinal cord, so they're kind of just like freely 392 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 2: floating off even though they are attached at that point. 393 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 2: So as long as that point is there and they're 394 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 2: still getting blood and oxygen. It's it's not really hurting 395 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 2: them at all, which sounds weird. But I don't know 396 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 2: if the shrapnel like actually cut open the bowel, because 397 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: then you have problem if you cut open that hose, 398 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 2: that poop is going to start leaking everywhere and then 399 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:01,439 Speaker 2: you or if you hit a blood vessel too, that 400 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 2: you could bleed out. And there's definitely complications with it. 401 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 2: But I've seen a lot of injuries where a person 402 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,680 Speaker 2: just had an injury to the abdomens, so your abs 403 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 2: where you would work out and stuff, there's just a 404 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:18,360 Speaker 2: hole going into your abdominal cavity and the intestines pop out, 405 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 2: but like they can go to the hospital and get 406 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:23,679 Speaker 2: them popped back in and sew it up and be 407 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 2: totally fine. So the reason that he had ten surgeries, 408 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,920 Speaker 2: I'm assuming is that it was a little bit more 409 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: than just his abdominal wall being cut open. He probably 410 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,959 Speaker 2: had the bowl leakage like I was saying, and then 411 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,199 Speaker 2: get infection. It's just it's a mess because that abdominal 412 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,480 Speaker 2: cavity should be sterile, and once there's poop in there, 413 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 2: forget it. There's like you're introducing all of these bacteria 414 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 2: into a sterile space, and they might have to keep 415 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 2: opening you up to cut you out, and all of 416 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 2: these antibiotics and this and that. It's just freaking scary, right, 417 00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 2: Like you're just sitting in your house and a piece 418 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 2: of shrap comes through the wall when you're living in 419 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,359 Speaker 2: the burbs in New Jersey, Like, come on. 420 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: Well, these people had a history of causing public disruptions, 421 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:11,199 Speaker 1: as this article is saying. So in twenty nineteen, the 422 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: father in this case had been arrested after they found 423 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 1: four devices in his house. I guess police got tipped 424 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 1: off after a mysterious package filled with fireworks was found 425 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,440 Speaker 1: at a Labor Day parade, which prompted them to search 426 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: his home. Both the father and son have pleaded guilty 427 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:29,240 Speaker 1: to criminal mischief and they're facing jail time. The dad 428 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: seems to be facing more jail time with six years, 429 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 1: probably because he has an arrest history, and this son 430 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: is facing time because because he's a horrible influence on 431 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: his kid. Yeah, like that's like the weirdest father son 432 00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: activity ever. 433 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:44,159 Speaker 3: It really is. 434 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 2: So this Virginia Guffrie go Frey, how do you say 435 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: her name? 436 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 3: I don't know. 437 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:54,800 Speaker 1: This story is so freaking bizarre. Yeah, So for those 438 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,360 Speaker 1: of you who don't know, she's one of Jeffrey Epstein's 439 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:01,680 Speaker 1: most notable accusers. She also has said that Prince Andrew 440 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:04,000 Speaker 1: was wrapped up in the whole scandal and that he 441 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 1: assaulted her. This is this is alleged, they keep saying 442 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 1: in the articles. But she was in a lawsuit with 443 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 1: Prince Andrew and he settled. So is it still alleged. 444 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 1: I'm not really sure how that works. Anyway. She posted 445 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: the other day on Instagram that she got in a 446 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 1: really bad car accident and she was given only four 447 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: days to live. But the police are saying that there 448 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,239 Speaker 1: was an accident, but there was no reported injuries, and 449 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 1: now people are questioning what is going on at all. 450 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 3: So I have to be honest with you. 451 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 2: When I first saw the story, because everybody's posting it 452 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 2: on Instagram, right. 453 00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 3: I was thinking like this. 454 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 2: I just thought this is very weird because obviously people 455 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,720 Speaker 2: get in car accidents all the time and die a 456 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 2: couple days later. That's a normal thing that happens. But 457 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 2: usually it's like the person has injuries that were so 458 00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 2: bad and they're in the ICU and they're intubated, and 459 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: their family is making a post like, oh, we're gonna 460 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 2: have to take them off like support tonight, like this 461 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,879 Speaker 2: is it? I was thinking, like, how is this woman 462 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:10,879 Speaker 2: totally fine right now to be posting a selfie and 463 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,959 Speaker 2: writing herself that she's going to die in four days 464 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 2: after a car accident. I just thought it was I 465 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 2: just thought it was very unusual. And then to say 466 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 2: that she went into kidney renal failure. But like why 467 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 2: after an accident you're thinking an accident causes blunt trauma. 468 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 2: It just it didn't really add up to me. And 469 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 2: of course, like listen, if a person's laying there in 470 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,680 Speaker 2: a bed and bruised up and saying they got in 471 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 2: an accident, they're going to die, Like who am I 472 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 2: to question it? I'm not the kind of person that's 473 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 2: going to call the police department and say did this 474 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:48,359 Speaker 2: really happen? 475 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 3: What happened? 476 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 2: But apparently like people did that and this is how 477 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 2: this all came out. Well, I just want to say, first, 478 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 2: I understand it's weird to make an Instagram post, but 479 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 2: I also think that you know, like if something happened 480 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 2: to me, you have access to my Instagram account and 481 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,360 Speaker 2: you could post a picture of me in the hospital 482 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 2: bed and write a caption. I understand it's bizarre that 483 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 2: it's in first person, but you don't know if that's 484 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 2: what they were trying to do. I was thinking that 485 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 2: at first, but apparently her family has come out after 486 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,159 Speaker 2: and said that she thought she was posting it to 487 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 2: a private Facebook group, so I don't know what that's about. 488 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 3: And then the whole accident thing is just very weird. 489 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 2: But the thing is is that she posted it, so 490 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 2: she was fine enough to take a selfie and post it. 491 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 3: It's just like. 492 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:38,119 Speaker 2: When you're given days to die like that, you're not 493 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 2: totally fine, and then all of a sudden they're saying, 494 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 2: like you're dying in two days, Like that just doesn't 495 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 2: happen like that. Do you understand, Like it's just like 496 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,879 Speaker 2: if you're if they're giving you days to live, it 497 00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 2: means that you're almost dead. You're not. You're not taking 498 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,200 Speaker 2: selfies and posting. So I don't know if I'm being 499 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,400 Speaker 2: clear or not that it doesn't make any sense. It's 500 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:05,159 Speaker 2: just bizarre. 501 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: Listen, I understand what you're saying, but like the whole 502 00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,160 Speaker 1: situation's weird. She's saying that a school bus slammed into 503 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: her car when she was making a turn. Some people 504 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 1: are saying that the police were called and they said 505 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 1: nobody was available to come to the scene and if 506 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,080 Speaker 1: anybody was hurt, to go to the hospital, which then 507 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: we're saying that she did go to the hospital, and 508 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 1: somebody confirmed she was. They're saying a source, So we 509 00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 1: don't know who the source is, but a source has 510 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,719 Speaker 1: said she was in the hospital but was definitely not 511 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: in life threatening condition. 512 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 3: I mean, if no. 513 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 1: Cops responded to the scene, how could they confidently say 514 00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: nobody was injured. 515 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 2: Well, I guess they said that the car only sustained 516 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:50,719 Speaker 2: two thousand dollars worth of damage, and she had said, like, 517 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 2: I guess she initially maybe didn't think that she was 518 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 2: injured that bad. And and then I mean, listen, like, 519 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 2: I don't know how things work where this accident was. 520 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 2: We're in Australia, but let's say this, like, if there's 521 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 2: not enough resources, it's like if you're on the road 522 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 2: and you get in a fender bender, right, if they 523 00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 2: have limited resources, they're gonna be like, all right, we're 524 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 2: not sending an ambulance out because we can't. But if 525 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:20,880 Speaker 2: you called and were like a person got ejected out 526 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 2: of a vehicle, they're going to send an ambulance. So 527 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 2: based upon the call at the time, they didn't think 528 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,879 Speaker 2: that it was necessary that they even needed to send 529 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 2: an ambulance at all for her. And she went later 530 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 2: and listen, that happened to me once I got in 531 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 2: a car accident. I mean, my air bag deployed and all, 532 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 2: but I didn't really feel like I had to go 533 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 2: in the ambulance when they showed up. 534 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 3: And then a. 535 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:46,119 Speaker 2: Day later, my neck hurts so frickin' bad, Like it 536 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:47,680 Speaker 2: was so so bad, and I had such a bad 537 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 2: headache and it was probably just like whiplash or whatever. 538 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 2: But I actually went to the hospital because I was like, 539 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:55,720 Speaker 2: I hope, like nothing's wrong. 540 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:56,159 Speaker 3: I don't know. 541 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 2: I was just in a car accident yesterday, so let 542 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,360 Speaker 2: me get checked out. So, I mean, that's not out 543 00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 2: of the realm of possibility, but it's like if she 544 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 2: was in an accident that they're saying was less than 545 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 2: two thousand dollars worth of damage and there was no 546 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 2: air bag deployment, and the actual bus driver was interviewed 547 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 2: and was just like, yeah, like this she wasn't hurt 548 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 2: at all. How did she get these crazy bruises on 549 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:24,400 Speaker 2: her face? That's like one thing that's just super bizarre 550 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 2: to me. And the thing that's the weirdest part about 551 00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 2: this source that they keep saying is like it sounds 552 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 2: like somebody that's working in the hospital. That's the source, 553 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,640 Speaker 2: which is really fucked up. Like they're saying the source 554 00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 2: has knowledge of the situation and says that she's a 555 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 2: current impatient at the hospital, was not in a life 556 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:52,520 Speaker 2: threatening condition. She does have the bruises shown in the 557 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 2: social media picture, but according to the source, has not 558 00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 2: told the hospital what caused those injuries. Like, doesn't that 559 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 2: sound like someone that works there or was treating her. 560 00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the whole situation's really bizarre. I mean, 561 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,760 Speaker 1: I just feel like the police saying, well, there was 562 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 1: no reported injuries is kind of ridiculous when they didn't 563 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 1: even show up to make an official report, and like 564 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 1: you're saying, you could very easily think you're fine that 565 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 1: day and then have to go later. I think the 566 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 1: extent of her injuries is very confusing. I think because 567 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: of the weirdness of the story. I was looking at 568 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: the comments under her Instagram post and now a lot 569 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:31,320 Speaker 1: of people are like. 570 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 2: Are questioning the Jeffrey Epstein thing. 571 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,959 Speaker 1: Well, they're questioning the Jeffrey Epstein thing. But let's let's 572 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: you know, remember that he was convicted for prostitution charges 573 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 1: in two thousand and eight, So like everybody could chill out, 574 00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: like I know, you still did what he did. 575 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 2: It's still like listen, if someone's faking this, then like 576 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 2: you have to question other things because it's a certain 577 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 2: person that fakes cancer and a certain person that fakes 578 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 2: assaults and things. I'm just putting it out, are you 579 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 2: so people aren't dick heads for like, yes, again, it's 580 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 2: totally possible that this this poor woman was traumatized her 581 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 2: young adult life and now she's just like lost and 582 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 2: feeding for attention or having mental health issues. 583 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 1: I mean, the conspiracies are gonna be all over. You 584 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: could say she got in this accident, and then you 585 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:23,040 Speaker 1: could think that all these mega rich people wrapped up 586 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,760 Speaker 1: in this Epstein scandal are like paying somebody to like 587 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: try to get her killed or beat her up or something, 588 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: and she doesn't know what happened. 589 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 3: Like I don't know. 590 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: I'm just seeing all these crazy conspiracies like all over 591 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,960 Speaker 1: the internet, and we're just not going to really know 592 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: what happened. I mean, I haven't seen any reports that 593 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 1: she that she has passed away or anything yet. 594 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 3: So because she's she's not. 595 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, and is this credible source from the hospital, 596 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,200 Speaker 1: the same person tell her where she's gonna die in 597 00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: four days? 598 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 2: There was something nobody told her she was dying in 599 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 2: four days. That's that didn't happen. So she So there's 600 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 2: a story out recently that says something about this happened 601 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 2: like days after she violated some kind of family restraining 602 00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 2: order or something. And I don't even know what that's about. 603 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: Oh I don't know anything about it. 604 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, so so there'll be more to common. We'll we'll 605 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 2: talk about it all right. 606 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 1: Well, thank you guys so much. We hope you have 607 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 1: a good weekend. Don't forget to submit your submission for 608 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 1: our one million download giveaway. 609 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 3: Thanks guys, have a good weekend. 610 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to mother nos death. As a reminder, 611 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 2: my training is as a pathologist assistant. 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