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Speaker 1: This is the episode. You all know it, you all

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Speaker 1: love it. Teresa g d J flips the table, table flipping,

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Speaker 1: New Jersey GTL Baby. There was only one person we

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Speaker 1: could bring in for this episode, the Jersey Queen herself,

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Speaker 1: Nicole Snooky Palizzi. This is the Real Housewives of New

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Speaker 1: Jersey Season one, Episode six finale. We met years ago

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Speaker 1: at a like a club as part of something like

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Speaker 1: a big I remember it's like a buy an escalator

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Speaker 1: where do we meet. I feel like it was, um

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Speaker 1: what are they called. I feel like it was like

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Speaker 1: an upfront or something. But I was literally obsessed with

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Speaker 1: you and I cann't wait to stop you. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you've done so well. I have to say, like you really,

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Speaker 1: you feel like you made like real chicken salad out

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Speaker 1: of this thing? I mean, I'm trying to be like you,

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Speaker 1: but I feel aren't you succeed? Yeah? Is it going well?

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, I feel like it's doing great. I mean,

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Speaker 1: like you said, you know, you start on a crazy,

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Speaker 1: you know, party reality show. We didn't even know it

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Speaker 1: was going to be like all these seasons and still

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Speaker 1: on air to this day. And then obviously you know

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Speaker 1: you're getting all these opportunities. I can't say yes everything,

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Speaker 1: so I said, actually love and um, I'm still going.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like it's good. Yeah, I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: because it's just like an iconic name brand person you understand,

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Speaker 1: like it's just fun. So anyway, I'm excited to have

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Speaker 1: you here, and how great for us to review a

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Speaker 1: real Housewives of New Jersey episode. And I'm literally so

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Speaker 1: excited for you. I love all your reviews and your

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Speaker 1: Instagram and I just love how honest you are, Like

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Speaker 1: you just don't give a ship, and I feel like

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Speaker 1: that's been me always, so I just I look up

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Speaker 1: to you. Well, I really appreciate that I presume that

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Speaker 1: like you really know the show intimately. Yeah, so, um,

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Speaker 1: I hung out with Molissa a few times, saw Theresa

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Speaker 1: who is it the Man's out? Caroline, Caroline hands out?

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Speaker 1: Um My husband knows the sun. So they're like a

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Speaker 1: nice family. Um, so yeah, they're nice people. And do

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Speaker 1: they live close to you? No? No, I think like

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Speaker 1: an hour away maybe Okay, okay, And did you ever

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Speaker 1: don't think I can handle it. I'm like more of

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Speaker 1: and I feel like Housewives is all that. So I

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Speaker 1: feel like, um no, I couldn't. Okay, all right, So

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Speaker 1: this is the real Housewives of New Jersey. This is

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Speaker 1: the iconic table flip episode, and it's crazy and it's

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Speaker 1: some episodes look more dated than others, and this episode

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Speaker 1: does look dated, like it looks like from another era. Right,

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Speaker 1: But this is the messy This is really the best

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Speaker 1: more like Jersey Shore old School episodes where they're not

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Speaker 1: So I want to get into it. There's a part

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Speaker 1: reality TV, Like that's that's not there's and cast members

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Speaker 1: discussed that, like I'm not hanging out with our math

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Speaker 1: And that's funny because you're more mature than the Housewives,

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Speaker 1: because that's what happened when Lisa vander Pump wouldn't film

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Speaker 1: as a truth and for me too, it comes first

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00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 1: and everything revolves around it. And that's the end of

424
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 1: the story. Um, the stuffed animal situation. I mean, I

425
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:26,480
Speaker 1: I have massive organizational issues like I have. I'm the

426
00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 1: most psychotic organized person. To another level, to another level.

427
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,959
Speaker 1: That was that was an episode of Hoarders. I've never

428
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 1: seen it. The candy in the drawer. I was like,

429
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 1: They're gonna be mice in there. I was like my

430
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,080
Speaker 1: house panicking. There had to be a ton of spiders

431
00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: under that bed with all the stuffed animals. I and

432
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 1: I wanted them to make that big stuffed animal chair.

433
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 1: You've seen that chair. They're like they take all the

434
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 1: stuffed animals, stick them together and like you attach them

435
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 1: to So I just wanted them to do that, but

436
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 1: they did not do that. Um, And oh my god,

437
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 1: the dog is so like scary Jersey like security dog,

438
00:21:58,960 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 1: a German Shepherd, the German Shepherd airline dog. Yeah. So

439
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 1: we just adopted a dog two months ago because my

440
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 1: my kids have been dying for a dog, and I

441
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,040
Speaker 1: was like, Lorenzo in your tent, we'll think about it.

442
00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 1: And then I just did it, adopted a little sheep.

443
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 1: Who um. But my husband always wanted a German Shepherd.

444
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 1: He's like, we're going to get a dog. We're getting

445
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,159
Speaker 1: a German Shepherd. And I'm just like I'm not ready

446
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 1: for that. Like let's start. Let's start with a with

447
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 1: a little you know, with a little doggie, and then

448
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,160
Speaker 1: if you know, we do good, then we'll get another one. So, yeah,

449
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 1: German shepherd's. Everybody here wants a German Shepherd. Oh really,

450
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: that's like a thing. That's a hilari thing. That's hilarious. Yeah,

451
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 1: that's like a serious dog. Gorgeous animals, but like that's

452
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: a very serious I love them, but it's like, you know,

453
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:46,680
Speaker 1: it's a lot. Um. Okay, So we're getting close to

454
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,400
Speaker 1: to to the to the meat of the matter. I'm

455
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 1: just trying to do some for a play. Um, let's

456
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 1: get to the restaurant. We're at the restaurant, so there

457
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: are kids at the table. I just don't think the

458
00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 1: first time around, I really realized how much there are

459
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 1: kids at the table. And how much hypocrisy is gonna

460
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: go down. This should have been called the hypocrisy episode. Okay,

461
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 1: so the parents are there, the kids are there, and

462
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: now we're talking about Teresa's boobs, vagina and how much

463
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: he wants to have sex and he's trying to have

464
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,160
Speaker 1: sex with the right after surgery. It's making me sick,

465
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 1: like I don't want that thought, you know, you know

466
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: it and if you had a c section or after

467
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,360
Speaker 1: you had your kids, like you have to wait six weeks,

468
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,359
Speaker 1: but the thought of it is not like leaving a

469
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: breast surgery and he's trying to have sex with her,

470
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 1: like put him in jail. Then I would have died

471
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,119
Speaker 1: because I got my bovie son, and I remember leaving

472
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 1: and I was just hysterically crying in pain, like so

473
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 1: much pressure. But talking about the kids me as a mom,

474
00:23:48,480 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 1: like you know, thinking, Okay, I'm filming with my roomies.

475
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 1: I know ship's gonna go down. I would not bring

476
00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: my kids because I knew, you know, knowing that I'm

477
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: inviting someone that I have an issue with and we're

478
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 1: drinking ship mean and wine, like she's gonna go down.

479
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: So I don't know why they broke their kids know.

480
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: And earlier in the episode, Dina was talking about her

481
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 1: I have a twelve year old So Dina's daughter is twelve,

482
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,840
Speaker 1: and Dina is talking about Lexi's boobs at the table, Brinton,

483
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: I mean, if I do it, If I did in

484
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: front of my assistants, who are girls who were twenty

485
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: four years old, and my daughter are doors and her

486
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 1: like sisters star up I heard her boobs in front

487
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: of one of them, she'd be so upset. I cannot

488
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: imagine on television talking about my daughter getting breasts like

489
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 1: that's they like, they do not want to talk about

490
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 1: their period, getting breast. It is not something to bring

491
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: up on camera. Yeah, that was oh my god, Oh

492
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 1: my god. Um. And at the dinner, I noticed that

493
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 1: like Albi and Chris, I think they're laughing really hard

494
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: at like the Joe's sex conversation, and I'm just like

495
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 1: feeling a little bit of misogyny. You know, there's always

496
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:58,959
Speaker 1: that person who's like a little bit of an animal,

497
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,880
Speaker 1: and the younger guys like look up to that person

498
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 1: for the wrong reason. So they're talking about sex and

499
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: all the wrong things and so many appropriate in appropriate

500
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: things and the sun even though they're in their nineteen

501
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: eighteen It's just like it's not appropriate that they're like loving,

502
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:17,879
Speaker 1: they're listening to their parents friends talk about having sex, like,

503
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: it's just not right to me. Well, even Joe was

504
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 1: asking the boys like, is your mom's boobs real? Like

505
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: if someone said that, so you feel like, what, like,

506
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,719
Speaker 1: why about my mom's books? Oh my god, I think

507
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 1: I noticed that, but like yeah, yeah, wow, are you sure? Okay,

508
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 1: So the most staged thing is obviously Danielle just taking

509
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 1: the book out. Oh my god. Yea. The brucer said

510
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: it's time and she took it out right, it's and

511
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: having it and the whole thing right right. Totally dramatic. Um,

512
00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: But I give her cry it for cutting it off

513
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: at the past. So I did respect that move then.

514
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: I just don't think back then I did. I respected

515
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: it as a move. Yeah. I also loved the fact

516
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: that she was just honest and she wanted and she

517
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: was She wasn't screaming at first. She was just like

518
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,959
Speaker 1: being honest and just talking getting her feelings out. Then

519
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 1: she got interrupted. It was just like a snowball effect.

520
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 1: But I love the fact that she was like just

521
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: kind of just talking in a normal voice and saying, listen,

522
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 1: I just want to talk this out. Here's what it is.

523
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 1: And I kind of I respected her how to how

524
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 1: she brought it up, so it's like, well, I'm very

525
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: classy of her, by the way, but I don't think

526
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: the audience and I felt this way when it first

527
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: aired years ago. I don't know why. I think we

528
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: were more um prudish or we thought someone who because

529
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: back then, like everybody didn't have a book, everyone didn't

530
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 1: write everything. Everything was in page six back then, like

531
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: a book coming out with the housewife in it about

532
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 1: the person's past was very salicious, like Alex's nude pictures.

533
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:06,119
Speaker 1: Who cares? That would be a Tuesday now. So I

534
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: think that when watching and I want someone to like,

535
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 1: I want to check on this, but the listeners will know.

536
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: I think that Danielle was more judged than the way

537
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,400
Speaker 1: that we both respected it. So I had the same

538
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: take as you. I thought they are judging her. And

539
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 1: she's saying it was ninety. I don't know how many

540
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: years ago. She's saying it was twenty nineteen years so

541
00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 1: it's nineteen. What the hell ninety? Someone said to me recently, Oh,

542
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: you're failed talk show which by the way, I didn't

543
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: love doing and that was literally over your show. Oh

544
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 1: thank you. I was going through a terrible divorce and

545
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: it's just not my genre. But someone said it to me,

546
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,160
Speaker 1: and I thought, what was your hairstyle like over ten

547
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: years ago? Like, I mean, yours was similar, but but

548
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: other people, you know, you know, you had you had

549
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: you had half up and half down like you do now,

550
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 1: but you didn't. You don't mean it's kind of the same,

551
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 1: but you don't have the poof but um, but yeah,

552
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: like to be so sad, demonious and judgmental and come

553
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 1: in and talk about what someone did nineteen years ago.

554
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 1: So she's coming in and saying, Hi, two things are true,

555
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 1: two truths and a lie. They should have called the

556
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: episode two truths and a lie. She's it's two truths

557
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 1: and one. I was not a prostitute. So now Teresa

558
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: gets a little sanctimonious a us knowing that later she

559
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:26,160
Speaker 1: would be arrested. So the thing that she's coming after

560
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 1: Danielle about in this book is that you know, cop

561
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,240
Speaker 1: of that badge I think it's called, is that she

562
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 1: was arrested. And also Teresa, who's just been talking about

563
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 1: her store vagina is now say you were a stripper, well,

564
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: judging that you were a stripper, yeah, And also I

565
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,719
Speaker 1: don't want my kids around this. You would just talk

566
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: about the conversation. Yeah, you know what I mean. No, yeah,

567
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: but I can't. I feel like for me, I don't.

568
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 1: I don't judge anyone's past because it is what it is.

569
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: And for that to be what was it you said

570
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: nineteen years ago? I think it was twenty five years ago.

571
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And they're they're they're all like, I

572
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: can't believe you did that, Like it's twenty five years ago.

573
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 1: I feel like they didn't have anything else to talk about,

574
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: so they had to talk about that, right, And she

575
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 1: changed her name. But if you had gotten arrested twenty

576
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 1: five years ago, you might change your name. So no

577
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 1: one judged you by that, which justly what was happening. Yeah,

578
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: I mean, well I did get arrested, but it was

579
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: it wasn't not bad, right, well, you know, but he

580
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: conducts not Yeah no, no, we did just a little

581
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 1: just a little d c um. Yeah, but I think

582
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: her thing was more serious. And you know, that's the

583
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 1: that's the risk you take to going on a show

584
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:42,080
Speaker 1: when you have kids that are gonna watch this and

585
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: like they're gonna have to drect this up to they

586
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: probably didn't know about this. It's it's you pay a price,

587
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: mm hmm um. But so I was l O L

588
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: and when she's like I don't want this in front

589
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 1: of my kids, like that became the holier than that.

590
00:29:53,840 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: That's hypocrisy. Um. I noticed Caroline, you know, acting like

591
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: she's the boss of every scary Yeah, she's like the

592
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 1: mom like stop it. I know she's intimidating. She I

593
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: always thought she was intimidating, but you know, like in

594
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's I want to say, like

595
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: a boss way, but then sometimes it's just like like

596
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: taking over, you know, like we're all adults here. You

597
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: don't need to mommy me a little bit. And I

598
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 1: feel like that's that's how she was coming off in

599
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: that argument with all the girls. Oh, I would have

600
00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: been I would have been like, I wouldn't have allowed that,

601
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: Like I don't I don't do that, like you're not

602
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: we're all at the same table. I would have been like,

603
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 1: what do you like the moderator? I would have been

604
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: all over that. I realized that now I would have

605
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: been like, take it easy. Is the Supreme Court hearings relaxed?

606
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: Judge you, So I would have fully been like absolutely not.

607
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 1: But um yeah, I just just thinking like, no one,

608
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: everyone doesn't deserve to know. Tell me every skeleton in

609
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: your closet, Like everyone we're at a dinner, that is

610
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 1: to like, for someone to explain themselves about their past

611
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 1: over a quarter or a century ago, it just felt like,

612
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: who the funk are you'd asked me about my past?

613
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: Like what happened? You know what I mean, Like I don't,

614
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. It hit me sideways where it didn't

615
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: back then. M h. And I like to reset a lot.

616
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:18,959
Speaker 1: But I did think it was interesting. People in glass houses,

617
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: people in glass Jersey overly designed houses. That's why I

618
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 1: don't judge, Just just do you keep keep doing you

619
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: no judge. And Caroline said it was interesting, the tricky

620
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: little bit between Caroline and Dina, where Danielle kept going

621
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: after Dina and finally Caroline says it was her. I

622
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: have no idea if that's even true. It seemed like

623
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: it was a half true. It seemed like there was

624
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: something going on on the side, but like I don't know,

625
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: but Caroline. Then the moderator is telling Danielle like, if

626
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: you're going to attack my sister, which she absolutely didn't

627
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: attack any funny. Oh yes, she was saying her piece.

628
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: I just was gonna say she said, yeah, she was

629
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: trying to resolve it. Um. But I definitely feel like

630
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: she was trying to save her sister there and she

631
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: was like it was me, come to me, and I'm like,

632
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: oh my god, oh she she scares me that in

633
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: that scene out scared. No, No, that was a distortion

634
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: of reality. Nobody attacked anybody. Okay. So now Jacqueline jumps in,

635
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: and you gotta give her credit because she stays quiet

636
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: most of the show overall, and this is when she

637
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: decided to get in right in the middle of the lions. Dan.

638
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: Someone must have been like, get your ass in there, uh,

639
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: and she says, well, well, Dina called her out. You know.

640
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: It was like, Jacqueline, you have say something like you

641
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: were there, like say what happened? And then I feel

642
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 1: like she got fluster because you could tell she did

643
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 1: not want to be involved at all, like she just

644
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: wanted to watch what went down. She you know, she

645
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: wants to be cool with everybody. That's her family, that's

646
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 1: her good friend. Like she just didn't want to be involved.

647
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: I think it was nice that she was, because somebody

648
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: had to stick up for the girl, you know, just

649
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: saying you know, she's trying to she's trying to talk

650
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: this out or whatever. Um. But she got a little

651
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: heated with her sister in laws. So it's like, oh damn,

652
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: Like if that were me and my sister in laws, like, oh,

653
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: I would do sleep because I love my sister in laws.

654
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: That was That was her getting in deeper than she thought.

655
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: But apparently daniel was on an island on her own

656
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 1: and I did not remember the DNA prodd and Jacqueline

657
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 1: to get involved. She was probably like, dude, somebody's got

658
00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: to help me here. And then Rocklyn did, and you

659
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: saw Danielle say thank you, and then the sisters were

660
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: not happy. Like but it did seem a little fifty

661
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: shades of truth because it was like I didn't bring

662
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: it the book, and then you felt Dina like a

663
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 1: kind of brought it or showed it on a computer

664
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: like it was they had been sort of caught a

665
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 1: little bit in something. I can't explain exactly what, but

666
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: they definitely were in the mix of moving this story

667
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,839
Speaker 1: around the town. Yeah. I mean, at that point, if

668
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: you're talking about it and you're this far in the

669
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:20,359
Speaker 1: conversation and it's already getting heated, just say what she did,

670
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 1: get it over with, and then move on. So I

671
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 1: feel like eventually they were like, yeah, it was me.

672
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 1: I brought it up, And I feel Likedina even said

673
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: it before she left. She was just like, you know,

674
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: was I happy that this happened, because you know, we're

675
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,840
Speaker 1: not in good terms. Yes, So I was like, I

676
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: was kind of happy that she was like honest about it,

677
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 1: you know, yeah she I mean, listen, there are red flags,

678
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,800
Speaker 1: but we're not judging. I think, did I imagine this

679
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 1: or did you? Oh did Theresa talk about skeletons? So

680
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: I think Theresa said I have no skeleton to my closet.

681
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 1: Yeah she did. Yeah, that's that did not age. Well,

682
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: that's funny. She said, I have no skelet into my

683
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: closet except tax Yeah, tax of Asian. Interesting. Maybe that's

684
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,320
Speaker 1: why she got so heated and she flipped the table

685
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:11,400
Speaker 1: because she knew, wow, look at that. Wow, doctor snooky

686
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: dcor snooky regular here. Yeah, and then she says something

687
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: to Danielle and Danielle Danielle a couple of good nights.

688
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,440
Speaker 1: She's like, pay attention please, Like I like that, and

689
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: then she later said something like, sweetie, the feeling is mutual.

690
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 1: There was something there was something about that where she

691
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: was like, the feeling is mutual. Um, yeah, well that's

692
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 1: what got her going. That's what got her going. Dna

693
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: copped and then said, I'm going to pray for you.

694
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 1: That is so passive aggressive. Oh that hurts. Yeah, that

695
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 1: is that is so passive aggressive. And Chris stops the

696
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: whole thing. I like how we did that? And he

697
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: was just like, you are acting children like relax, like

698
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: we're all the families supposed to be a nice dinner.

699
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: I mean sometimes you need that, especially with a group

700
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: of women that you know there's always gonna be drama,

701
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 1: especially all of them. It was nice with the fact

702
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 1: that he said that to like kind of bring it

703
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: down to be like what are we doing? But also

704
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 1: you know, I'm still not over it, right, and he

705
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: he was like, Danielle's welcome in my home. And that's

706
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,479
Speaker 1: what happens with housewives. So here's the problem. You become

707
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: friends with people you wouldn't necessarily become friends with, and

708
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: then you're introducing them to your kids and your family

709
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: and they're in your house, and then the next month

710
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 1: you're not speaking to them, and the people around you

711
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 1: don't understand, and it's like, it's for the show, but

712
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: it's like not you think it's real. It's not technically

713
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 1: for the show. I mean, it's technically for the show,

714
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 1: but you think it's real. Like you think this is

715
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:55,120
Speaker 1: a friendship, but it's I have really good, sustainable relationships

716
00:36:55,640 --> 00:37:00,320
Speaker 1: built on the Housewives. It's just it's not it's not

717
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:05,040
Speaker 1: absolutely unheard of, but it's fairly impossible. So are you

718
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 1: still good friends with everyone from your season? Well, I

719
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: was never good friends with anyone because I always sort

720
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:16,399
Speaker 1: of knew what this was. I was good friends with Jill,

721
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 1: and that was a very public fallout we met on

722
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,839
Speaker 1: the show, and then there was a fout on the show.

723
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:28,279
Speaker 1: I was friends, i'd say, not as close, but very

724
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: good friends of Direnda, and I message with Dorenda, and

725
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: I respect, I like Dorenda. But there are friendships that

726
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: I haven't maintained kind of because of the show. When

727
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:42,279
Speaker 1: you're friends of people that are on the show, and

728
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: you're not on the show, it becomes something that you're

729
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 1: kind of always talking about. So if you've just left

730
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 1: the show, you're always talking about it because you sort

731
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: of like are checking them with your ex boyfriend to

732
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 1: see like what's going on and who they're dating, and

733
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,800
Speaker 1: like you kind of want to know what's going on

734
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: because you were so clear, like you have SOMA, You're like,

735
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: what's going on? Kind of well, once you realize that

736
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: that is not your world at all, once it rinses,

737
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,280
Speaker 1: like you know, and you don't think about your acts anymore.

738
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 1: I never think about that. It's ironic because I'm on

739
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: doing this show, but I never think about like my

740
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 1: participation in the house Wives anymore. I watched from a

741
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: far Lenger fan, which is great, So that's good. You

742
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: got totally not over that. But then when you talk

743
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,600
Speaker 1: to people who are still on or want to be on,

744
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:26,440
Speaker 1: which Torenda does, it's all that's talked about, and you

745
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: really don't want to talk about it anymore. You don't

746
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: want to hear about it. And it's one of the

747
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: things that when Kyle was Kyle and I knew each

748
00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: other for years normal life, and when she was going

749
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: on I was leaving, and I just it just becomes

750
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: something that's all people are talking about. You're talking about

751
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: your gossip, and you talking about other casts angling. Everyone's

752
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: always angling and telling stories, and like they all think

753
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: it's real. It is real for them, So it's hard

754
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: to maintain friendships. I call Sonya every once in a

755
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: while just to say, how are you in? Happy holidays?

756
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,439
Speaker 1: But then she'll get into the show and this one's

757
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: off and this one's on and this is and I

758
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: just don't care that much, you know what I mean, Like,

759
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, you moved on, which is nice, yes,

760
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 1: you know, it's bigger things, right, Like it's like if

761
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:16,759
Speaker 1: you're still talking to you know, all the people that

762
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: were in your kindergarten, the parents in your kindergarten class,

763
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 1: you're probably not you have something in common at that

764
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 1: time with that class. You're not talking about parents. So

765
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: that's what how that is? All right? So let's talk

766
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: about the main event, though, which is the table flip?

767
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:35,720
Speaker 1: What do you think? I don't know why I felt

768
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:39,839
Speaker 1: like back then it was more crazy, Like looking at

769
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: it now, I'm like, oh, this is just like an

770
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 1: everyday scene, you know what I mean, because with reality

771
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 1: and like us and I don't just housewives in general.

772
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: I mean that that happens all the time now, But

773
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 1: back then it was like, oh my god, like what

774
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: is happening and me, me being a freaking mom, like

775
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 1: an old person, I'm like, oh my god, all the

776
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: food on its able to They apologize to the owner

777
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: of the restaurant, Like that's what I'm thinking now, Like,

778
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: holy sh it, Well it's funny you say that because

779
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: I thought so too, Like the table didn't flip over,

780
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 1: like she pushed the table, and the episode overall, it's

781
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 1: funny because choosing it, it was like I'm choosing iconic episodes,

782
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: and the whole episode wasn't the most iconic. It was

783
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 1: just that scene that made it. It was Yeah, it

784
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,439
Speaker 1: was like boring, that boring, but it was like different

785
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 1: scenes that scene. But yeah, she pushed the table. But

786
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 1: like if that happened with you at a restaurant in

787
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: your real life, that would be jarring. But I understand

788
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 1: what you're saying, Like Ramona threw a glass at somebody

789
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: Lisa Arena and this one through like people have ripped

790
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: weaves of Eva through a leg like and it is

791
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 1: staged it's not like Teresa has ever done that before.

792
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 1: She you know that reality TV is like you've added

793
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 1: alcohol and like just taken into by it by five

794
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 1: whatever you would normally do, I'd say multiply it by five. Yeah,

795
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: or or because like if you're on a reality show

796
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: with some of the kids that you pick up and

797
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: drop off, you might say to the person, what were

798
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: you think of when you put that outfit on? But

799
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 1: you don't say that to the people that pick up

800
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 1: and drop off because they're not on a reality show

801
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 1: with you, and you didn't do this unwritten contract with

802
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 1: them that we're all going to just say what we

803
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: feel and do what comes to mind. And that's why

804
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: it's like the housewives are like gremlins. You add alcohol

805
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: and the cameras and they go crazy. Oh my god,

806
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: we call each other gremlins. I was like, when we drank,

807
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 1: we are all gremlins, were zoo creatures, were just like

808
00:41:34,719 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 1: crazy people. And then we wake up the next day

809
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: and we have to deal with build this drama and

810
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: we're all hungover, and we're like, oh, like can we

811
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: just take a beat? Yeah, we for each other gremlins.

812
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 1: That's funny, right, So and then just shows their relationship.

813
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,400
Speaker 1: She's just what the table she goes over and you

814
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: could tell like Joe liked it a little. That's an

815
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 1: Italian husband liked it Like he's like yeah, and she's like,

816
00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 1: I love you and like it's normal. Yeah it's but

817
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: then I love, I loved, I loved. At the end,

818
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: she was like I never acted like this, like I've

819
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: never done this before. Oh my batch, come on, I right.

820
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: And also she's an iconic housewife. Yes, when I think

821
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: of housewife, she's like the number one that I always

822
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: think of Teresa. Yeah, she's on my might have a

823
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: Mount Rushmore and so far she and Nini are on

824
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: my Mount Rushmore. Well, well deserved. Yeah, I need to

825
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,799
Speaker 1: pick the last two. Um, all right, well is there

826
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: what were your what was your high? What was your low?

827
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: Who won the episode for you and who lost the

828
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 1: episode for you? I want to see Asay won the

829
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:45,439
Speaker 1: episode for me. Surprisingly Danielle, I was like I really

830
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: respected her and I feel she's a good mom in

831
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: this episode, you know, like she's she's just being a

832
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 1: good mom, She's good to the girls. Um. The low,

833
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't know to say. I felt that for Jacqueline

834
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 1: because she got pushed into all that, and I feel

835
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: like she's such a nice person and she just wants

836
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: to be friends with everybody, wants to have peace, and

837
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 1: then she got you know, thrown into that and then she,

838
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,919
Speaker 1: you know, she got upset. That made me upset because

839
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: I feel like we kind of have the same personality

840
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 1: in that episode because I hate being thrown and ship.

841
00:43:18,400 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: But then when I am, I get crazy. So so yeah,

842
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: I related to her, but I don't know. I feel

843
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 1: like the table flip was so iconic to me, and

844
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: then when I watched it again, like knowing I've done

845
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,920
Speaker 1: all this reality and watching all reality, I'm just like,

846
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: that was it. I think, like, you know when you

847
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: go with your high school, same way you know when

848
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: you go to your high school and in that moment

849
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: in high school, it's a huge high school. It's just

850
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 1: like so big, and then you go with your kids

851
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: and it's like this is the high school. Yeah, that's

852
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: that's That's kind of how I felt with it. That's

853
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 1: how I felt it. Love it. So I loved it.

854
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 1: Loved it. Yeah, and it started, well, what's funny is

855
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: my scene with Kelly when she based sickly says this

856
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,399
Speaker 1: is me, this is you, and it's like I'm up here,

857
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: you're down here. I thing people thought it was the

858
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 1: craziest scene. It was because it was mental warfare. It

859
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,720
Speaker 1: wasn't physical, it wasn't throwing something, but it was basically

860
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,040
Speaker 1: saying you're a loser and I'm a winner. And it

861
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: just it provoked every single girl at every single school

862
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: table that's not sitting at the cool table for lunch,

863
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: and it just did something. And this table flip was

864
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: a moment like that where just there's something about it

865
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 1: just struck everybody. Um. But I think in going back,

866
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 1: Teresa was celebrated for the table flip and Danielle seems

867
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 1: like she was shamed for the book. And I think

868
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 1: now watching it back, being a mother and all these

869
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:44,680
Speaker 1: other boring things that we're talking about, Danielle, Danielle stood

870
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 1: up for herself and and just explained to herself where

871
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,920
Speaker 1: she didn't have to. And Teresa was talking about a

872
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: vagina and flipped the table in front of her kids

873
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:57,960
Speaker 1: and then yelled at her for being a stripper and prostitute. Right,

874
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: So you know, we as parents lead by example, so

875
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: they do everything we do. There's no world where you

876
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: would want your children to think that flipping a table

877
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: would be condoned. No, And I feel like I've never

878
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 1: done that. I said, no, I want through drink on

879
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 1: the wrong people. I mean, oh yeah, I've done that,

880
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: but like flip the table, that's the what's the worst

881
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: thing you've ever done? The probably through a drink in

882
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 1: somebody's face or the liquid or the glass. Oh no,

883
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 1: not the glass. I mean that was good, yeah, or

884
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: through shrimp and Angela and his hair and I was wasted.

885
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: But so I think I have to steep throwing a

886
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 1: drink on someone's like it's actually it's terrible. But that's

887
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 1: saying yes, but it's like worse than a punch in

888
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: the face. I think it's so just mean. It's freaking mean.

889
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: Somebody said to me, I rather get punched in the face,

890
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 1: because if you're gonna throw a drinking my face, I'm

891
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:08,320
Speaker 1: attacking you. If you're punching me, I'm suing you. So

892
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: it's different, thanks different. If you're gonna throw a drink

893
00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: in my face, I'm attacking you. But then you're gonna

894
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 1: get sued exactly. So I'm saying I rather get punched.

895
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: Uh interesting, Oh you were looking at how smart again?

896
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: Back to Dr Snooky. I can't with me Doctor Snooky

897
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:33,839
Speaker 1: giving amazing sound advice. That's exactly right, thank you. Yeah yeah,

898
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: you'd rather someone punch punch you in the face than

899
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: throw a drink on you. Was one you're attacking them

900
00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: and you're getting sued. The other you're getting sued. This

901
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 1: is this is snooky knowledge. I like this. I'm really smart.