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Speaker 1: How much.

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Speaker 2: What would you say is the most Ruvio is the

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Speaker 2: most expensive part about being a parent? What do you

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Speaker 2: spend the most of food the most amount of money on?

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Speaker 2: Like you pop out this little creature? Yeah, and then

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Speaker 2: and now you're spending money.

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Speaker 3: I feel like in the beginning it's like formula and

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Speaker 3: diapers for sure one hundred percent, and now like Ashton's

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Speaker 3: potty train. So I mean, I would say yet, food

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Speaker 3: is probably the most expensive.

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Speaker 1: How's the body training going? Like he's got it? Oh,

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Speaker 1: I still have to wipe his butt.

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Speaker 3: That's about it, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, because you can't get back there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, little ones aren't I thought.

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Speaker 4: You were saying, like you know right, No, I was

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Speaker 4: talking about little kids like it takes a really long

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Speaker 4: time because they have little skid marks for a long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, he's got a little box of briefs.

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Speaker 2: And but it's the funniest thing when they call you

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Speaker 2: from the bathroom like come wipe up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so funny. And he's like in the he's like

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Speaker 1: in the position.

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Speaker 5: I got something you did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that is the funniest thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's are incredible human beings. I guess I guess

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Speaker 2: if i'd been doing it for two years, then what's

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Speaker 2: another six months? But of course I would do it,

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Speaker 2: But the way you describe it, I'm like, oh god, no.

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Speaker 2: But like when you became a parent eight five, five, five, nine,

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Speaker 2: one one o three five was a number you can

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Speaker 2: text us a number two when you became a parent,

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Speaker 2: what was there anything that shocked you about how much

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Speaker 2: he was going to? Like, I know, you've probably got

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Speaker 2: to think in your head, like another creature, another human,

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Speaker 2: like this is going to cost me more. I bring

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Speaker 2: this up because, according to the US Department of Agriculture,

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Speaker 2: the cost ranges from twenty thousand to fifty thousand dollars

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Speaker 2: when it comes to caring for a newborn just in

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Speaker 2: their first year of life. One mom on TikTok said

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Speaker 2: that she spends thousands on her kids. She broke down

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Speaker 2: and explained forty seven thousand dollars a year to pay

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Speaker 2: for children. I don't know how many there are. I'm

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Speaker 2: looking to see how many kids she actually has. But

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Speaker 2: you know, you got Christmas gifts, you got food, you

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Speaker 2: got daycare and that's part time. You got school, I guess,

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Speaker 2: depending on where you send your kid to school.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, we're lucky that we don't. I mean, we

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Speaker 3: have a family to do daycare.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That is huge blessing, huge

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Speaker 1: blessing that she doesn't charge you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously we paid jess as mom, but it's not

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Speaker 3: what I'm not paying, like daycare prices.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, fifteen hundred bucks a month for what is

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Speaker 2: this here? Yeah, childcare like everybody extra activities.

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Speaker 3: People are saying, Oh, I mean in their fresh year loan,

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Speaker 3: you got all the formula, you got the diapers. They

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Speaker 3: outgrow their clothes in a month.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would think get like all star cheer someone's

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Speaker 2: I would think it was like that stuff like.

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Speaker 1: Traveling this Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, traveling dance And my sister was

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Speaker 2: traveling dance and had to have shoes and outfits and

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Speaker 2: it was wild. I can't imagine how much was spent

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Speaker 2: on all of that stuff. Chrissy, good morning.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Hi, Hi.

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Speaker 2: The most expensive part about having a kid that you

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Speaker 2: figured out.

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Speaker 4: I can't believe how much childcare is. I went to

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Speaker 4: KinderCare and they want to they want just as much

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Speaker 4: per hour as I make. M Like, how am I

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Speaker 4: supposed to start like my child like I'm a single mom.

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Speaker 4: Unfortunately his dance on a sick journey where but it's

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Speaker 4: like I'm doing it all by my soul.

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Speaker 1: God bless me.

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Speaker 4: And it's so hard because my dad died and my

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Speaker 4: mom in Colorado. So literally I am like, it's like

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Speaker 4: my credit card dead is crazy just because of.

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Speaker 2: Childcare mighty cheaper just to put the kid on Southwest

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Speaker 2: every day and just send out of Colorado.

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Speaker 1: You have heard you know you get atwa airplane ride.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm just thinking out loud here.

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Speaker 1: I'm just rain. I'm just brainstorming, Chris. I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: help out.

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Speaker 3: You know what Taylor said, the dumb ideas bring.

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Speaker 1: That's a direct quote, Yeah, said one career out of it. Chrissy. Hey,

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Speaker 1: thanks so much. Good luck to you. We love you.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day. By Jason. Good morning, Greed.

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Speaker 5: What's up man?

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Speaker 4: How we doing? Hey?

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Speaker 2: Jason, you were surprised at how much you had to

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Speaker 2: spend on what for your kids?

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Speaker 5: So I'm a new father of about two months and

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Speaker 5: my fiance Kelly and I we were very fortunate. What

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Speaker 5: we did was at the baby shower, we bought like

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Speaker 5: four or five gift cards and anybody who came that

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Speaker 5: brought a bag of diapers, we gave them a raffle

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Speaker 5: ticket and we raffled off these gift cards to different places.

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Speaker 5: So we are absolutely stocked on diapers now, but if

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Speaker 5: we weren't, it's amazing how many diapers you go through per.

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Speaker 1: Day, man.

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Speaker 3: And it's always when we do, like when I go

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Speaker 3: to a baby shower, I don't always automatically buy like

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Speaker 3: infant diapers, Like I'll buy diapers.

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Speaker 1: Later a later stage. Yeah, yeah, you don't know how

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Speaker 1: fast they're gonna grow. So hm, ma'am Jason, two much?

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Speaker 1: Congratulations boy or girl?

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Speaker 5: It's a boy JJ all.

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Speaker 1: Right, well, congratulations, thank you for calling. Have a good day.

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Speaker 5: Thanks man. You guys do the same.

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Speaker 2: And that's another thing too, is like I've heard this

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Speaker 2: in relationship with my friends are in marriages where it's

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Speaker 2: like they both want to work, but you have to consider, Okay,

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Speaker 2: how much are you gonna make, how much is one

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Speaker 2: or the other gonna make, and how much is it

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Speaker 2: gonna cost for someone to watch the kid while you

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Speaker 2: pursue this career, And then it becomes a matter of

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Speaker 2: like whose goals are more important or who makes more?

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Speaker 2: And the other person sort of has to not you know,

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Speaker 2: put their stuff on hold because it would cost way more.

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Speaker 2: You know, maybe you don't. Maybe you are, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: doing a job that doesn't pay. Like like to the

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Speaker 2: Christy's point where she's making what it would cost to

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Speaker 2: for daycare for the kid, well, it's just her, so

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Speaker 2: she has to do it. But then you wonder, like it,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, am I better off going to work

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Speaker 2: every day and making X when it's going to cost

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Speaker 2: why to put my kid in school? So I guess

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Speaker 2: I just won't do what I want to do. And

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Speaker 2: then you go, you know, pursue your thing, and maybe

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Speaker 2: the person who makes more money doesn't like their job

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Speaker 2: as much, you know what I mean. It's it's a

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Speaker 2: very I kind of think it's a very tough balance

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Speaker 2: that you have to, yep, that you have to accomplish

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Speaker 2: there for sure, because one person may have to sit back.

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Speaker 2: Is like you make you're making, you know, thirty twenty

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Speaker 2: bucks an hour whatever it is, and the babysitter's twenty five.

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Speaker 2: We're actually losing money on this. But then again, some

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Speaker 2: people just want to get out of the house. And

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Speaker 2: then you know what's what's that worth?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: What you happy wife, happy husband, happy life. That's what

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Speaker 1: they always say, right, That's what I say.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right alongside the over the shoulder, What was the

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Speaker 2: other over the shoulder?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, throw them back, yeah, throw them back, yeah. Up

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Speaker 1: the roof, up the roof and over. Then the river

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Speaker 1: is grandmother's house, which