1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,200 Speaker 1: Today fed up by trying to tell a kid the 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: throat punch is bully at school. This is okayopi home 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: with the craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sam and Sophia. 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: Under what circumstances would you tell a kid the throat 5 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: punch another. 6 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 2: Kid throat punch or throw a punch throat punch, roat punch, 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: punch in. 8 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: The throat If that kid. 9 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 2: It was mean, all right, that's. 10 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: Good enough for me. So this comes from user pure 11 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 1: discipline two nine to three. Actual f up happened yesterday 12 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: at the dinner table after school. After effects of my 13 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: fuck up have me currently at the er getting my 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 1: son checked out for anaphylactic shock. This is not This 15 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: is not a good situation. This is not good at all. 16 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: From the punch from the yeah, okay, well we will see. Yesterday, 17 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: my kid came home and was obviously upset, so I 18 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: asked him what was wrong. He's eight, so he still 19 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: talks to me about this stuff. That's pretty cute. Oh. 20 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,559 Speaker 1: He proceeds to tell me that at lunch another kid 21 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: in his crass is bowling him about his peanut allergy, 22 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 1: saying that he's faking his allergy and that he's gonna 23 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 1: wipe some peanut butter on him to prove that he 24 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: is faking. 25 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: I feel like that's somewhat of a like, I mean 26 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: not at my school, but I feel like apparently that's 27 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 2: like a thing that kids like that's not real, Like 28 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 2: you're fully threatening to kill another child, But they don't realize, 29 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 2: I know, crazy the. 30 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: Other day, like they have understand free schools. 31 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 2: Now, yeah, I will when I I did a I 32 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:37,600 Speaker 2: worked at a summer. 33 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 1: Camp and it was peanut free Oh where butter and 34 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: jelly is are gonna go extinct? But getting back into it, 35 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: so my kid says to him that he isn't faking 36 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 1: and that he could die from just touching peanut gut butter. 37 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: Other kids said he didn't care that he wanted him 38 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: to die anyway. Oh my god. At this point, my 39 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: kid that he that said that he told the teacher 40 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: and the lunch room monitor, who both know about his allergy, 41 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: and they were able to intervene. Yesterday, this kid's about 42 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 1: literally about to commit murder. Going to the chat a 43 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: little bit, Mick Fizzle sixty seven says, as an educator, 44 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: I was told that a child said this or heard this, 45 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: being said. My goodness, I was calling the parents and 46 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: telling them. 47 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,959 Speaker 2: Yes, oh absolutely, if someone's threatening to murder another. 48 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: Child, yeah, yeah, I don't murder other children. 49 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: Don't do it. 50 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: I feel like that's never a good move. 51 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: If any children are watching, don't do it. 52 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't do it at all. I had a long 53 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: talk with my kid about doing the right thing and 54 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: telling the teacher and not letting this other kid make 55 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: him lash out. Then we talked about the hard part. Now, 56 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:48,119 Speaker 1: I'm gonna sure to generate some hate with some people here, 57 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: but what I told him next with what I told 58 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:56,519 Speaker 1: him next, that's fine. We are allowed to have different opinions, 59 00:02:56,680 --> 00:03:01,959 Speaker 1: but I'm not apologizing to anyone. We're teaching my kid 60 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:07,240 Speaker 1: to stand up and defend myself. So, uh, I think 61 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: we're about to maybe get to the throat punch. 62 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, heart, the throat punching part of the story. 63 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, the throat This is what we've all been waiting 64 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:18,839 Speaker 1: all the stories. And now I'm gonna generate some hate, 65 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: but I'm not apologizing. After we talked about doing the 66 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: right thing and doing everything you can to avoid a 67 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: bad situation, I told him that sometimes you have to 68 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 1: do the wrong thing. To protect yourself, and that should 69 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: always be the absolute last resort. When he asks what 70 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: I meant. 71 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: What's the wrong thing? 72 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: What's the wrong thing? I told him that if this 73 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: kid is only taunting him with words, then he should 74 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: always walk away. But if he ever did try to 75 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: put peanut butter on you, then you hit him as 76 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: hard as you can with the side of your hand 77 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: in the throat, kind of like a throat chop. Then 78 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: you stop until the bully keeps trying. 79 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: That's that's kind of insane advice. 80 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 1: What do you think I advice or bad advice? Throat 81 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: punch a kid if they're spreading peanut butter on you. 82 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's like it's like, you know, 83 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 2: they might die. I guess. Okay, I'm wondering if this 84 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 2: is if this advice is like this person is coming 85 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: at you with peanut butter and you need to take 86 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 2: him down swiftly, boom, throat punch. 87 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: If you were throat punching a kid or dying, then 88 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 1: I guess. 89 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,599 Speaker 2: But also I feel like if that is the if 90 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 2: that's the advice, they should go to the they should go. 91 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: To the authorities. I don't know. Sometimes you have to 92 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: get to take the law on your own hand. There 93 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: already justice peanut butter spreading kid. Scotty says, perfect advice. 94 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: Uh MJ. Gros says, how much to make so feel 95 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: worm happened. 96 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 2: It's already begun. 97 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: It's already begun right now. I just saw a dead 98 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: worm on the sidewalk outside. I was here her. Feed 99 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 1: her or she'll die. So fast forward to this very 100 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 1: afternoon and I get a call from the principal of 101 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 1: the school saying that my son assaulted another student and 102 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: needed to be picked up. I asked what happened, and 103 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,679 Speaker 1: of course they won't talk about it over the phone, 104 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 1: but I smiled a little bit because I already knew. 105 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 1: I feel like we're. 106 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: Getting I'm concerned. I feel like throat punch, specifically, giving 107 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 2: the advice to do a throat punch rather than just 108 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: like a hit away is interesting. No, like like like. 109 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: That's what you got, Like like you gotta like make 110 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: sure that you're like decapacitating the kid capacities incapacitating and 111 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: capacitating's like or he'll come back if you just push him, 112 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: He's gonna come back and spread more peanut butter. 113 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 2: I need to know. I need to know the circumstances. 114 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 1: Anyway, I get to school and I see my kids 115 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: sitting in the office. Here's streaming down his face. So 116 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 1: I walk in and the principal tries talking to me, 117 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: but I blow right past her and ask my kid 118 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 1: what happened? 119 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, go straight to the stores. 120 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 1: Go straight to the source. He says. The bully had 121 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: peanut butter on his fingers and he was threatening to 122 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: wipe it on his face. 123 00:06:19,160 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that's pretty concerning that. I just don't understand why, like, 124 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 2: no one was none of the teachers were doing anything because, 125 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:27,239 Speaker 2: like I don't know the teachers. 126 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: Teachers don't really pay attention. But that's like a huge 127 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: like they should, Yes, they should, but often they don't. 128 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: Normally, I don't con don't throw punching, but in this case, 129 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 2: in the case of life or done. 130 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: Also, Skyla Rain, thanks for the ten US dollars, Riley. 131 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: I guess they submitted a post in our subreddit, so 132 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 1: maybe we can read them later in the stream. 133 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 3: I got you. 134 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: I'll check it out. 135 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 2: Oh what does that say? Then? The number? Thank you? 136 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: I got a cute outfit? Ye? Classic, everyone's cute outfitting. 137 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: So anyway, let's get back into it. So I walk 138 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: in and the principle tries telling me about a blowpass. 139 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: So then my kid said he did it because the 140 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 1: kid was about to throw peanut butter. Gina, thanks for 141 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: thee hundred u us. We appreciate you. I think it'll 142 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: update on that little ticker at a little bit. It's Friday 143 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: night and I have nothing to do. Here to the 144 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: one show that keeps me saying during the week. 145 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 2: It will be Friday night and we'll be here. 146 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: Here keeping you guys saying. He says, the bully had 147 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: peanut butter on his fingers and starting to wipe on 148 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 1: his face. Then my kid said he did what I 149 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: told him to do and hit the kid in the 150 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: throat because he wiped the peanut butter on his arm. 151 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: I looked at his arm and it was pretty swollen 152 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: up and asked him if he was having trouble breathing. 153 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: Kid said he was fine, just a little shaky. 154 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, did like the teachers give him an eppipen or anything? 155 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? What are the teachers? 156 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 2: I don't understand why they like didn't do anything because 157 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:58,040 Speaker 2: this has already been something that like the kid brought up. 158 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: To exactly exactly. I feel the teachers are just kind 159 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: of being negligent. Yes. So at this point, the principal 160 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:08,800 Speaker 1: interrupts with her, mister, so and so, we can't just 161 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,680 Speaker 1: have kids hitting other children just because they had a 162 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: little peanut butter wiped on them. Kids do this kind 163 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: of thing, We're going to have to suspend him for 164 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: a few days. 165 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 2: But are they suspending this bully for literally attempted Okay? 166 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 2: I think that honestly, if they're not taking a different school. 167 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: They don't understand that this kid will die if like, 168 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: will literally die? Yeah, will literally die? Yeah? Like right? 169 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 2: No, absolutely, Like I think they're just really I don't know. 170 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 2: I feel like, if the school is not going to 171 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: take it serious. 172 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: Do they not know about peanut allergies? Apparently not life 173 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: and death here. Anyway, it's obvious to me that this 174 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: principle is clueless about the peanut allergy. So I cut 175 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: her off and ask my kid if he told the 176 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: bully to stop before he hit the other kid. He 177 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: said yes. I yell at him several times that I'm 178 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: allergic to peanut butter and told him to stop, and 179 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 1: he just kept acting like he was gonna wipe it 180 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 1: on me. 181 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know that. 182 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: That's yeah, you kind of got it. You gotta go it, 183 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: you have to. At that point, now the principal has 184 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 1: a shocked look on her face. I asked to see 185 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: the video from the cafeteria, and sure, shit, the kid 186 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 1: can be seen and heard screaming and trying to back 187 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,560 Speaker 1: away from his bully. At this point where it looks 188 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: like the bully grasps and grabs my kid's arm, my 189 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: kid yells at the top of his little lugs, I 190 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: told you to stop. Then he grabs a bully by 191 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: the arm, pulls him towards himself, and executes the best 192 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: clothesline I've ever seen anyone do and floors the kid. 193 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: Then my kid sits down and starts crying in the 194 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:45,960 Speaker 1: middle of the cafeteria. 195 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: It's so traumatic and sad, but also like it's kind 196 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 2: of sick. That's kind of sick. He's like, I told 197 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:52,319 Speaker 2: you to stop. 198 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,839 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like this is what needed to happen, 199 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: I think at. 200 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 2: This point, because at first it was like that seems intense, 201 00:09:59,720 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 2: but he literally would like could. 202 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: Die, He literally could die die. 203 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 2: And no one the teachers don't care. 204 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then ex husband U says, holy shit, allergies 205 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: are nothing to fuck with. Yeah, agreed, agreed, uh nids 206 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: would said, where's my fellow kiwis at? We got some 207 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: people from New Zealand. Let's go, hey Mcphislesky seven, don't 208 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: I would be physically in between the bully protecting the kid. Yeah, 209 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: where are again? 210 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: I just don't understand, like, where are the teachers and 211 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 2: even but it seems like they don't even think it's 212 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 2: like that give an issue because the principle was like, oh, 213 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,559 Speaker 2: he was just rubbing peanut butter, it's fine. 214 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: I think they don't know. 215 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:36,360 Speaker 2: They don't they don't know that. 216 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: It's like it could literally kill the kid, even though 217 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: they've been told, even though they've been told, but some 218 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: people just don't know. At this point, I tell the 219 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: principle that if my kid isn't allowed back at school tomorrow, 220 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: I was consulting with the lawyer, yeah, about the attempted 221 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:52,959 Speaker 1: murder of my son. 222 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:54,959 Speaker 2: And that's true. That is true though, but it is 223 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 2: attempted murder. He was told that. I mean, obviously it 224 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: sounds a little intense because it's a child, but it 225 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: is h. 226 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 1: I mean, like I don't. But it's not the kid 227 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,600 Speaker 1: really because the kid doesn't know better. But it's on 228 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 1: the school. You're not protecting the kid more. 229 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 2: So, I mean, like that is what it kid is. Yeah, 230 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 2: but yeah, no, it's on the parents or not the parents, 231 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 2: the teachers and stuff. 232 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: I also said that, assuming he didn't have any other 233 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 1: ill effects from this, I would be fine not pressing 234 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: charges against the school and the bully since it looks 235 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: like he may have already learned his lesson. Since I 236 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 1: didn't get a response and it's been about half an 237 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,319 Speaker 1: hour since the peanut butter was wiped on my kid's arm, 238 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:38,439 Speaker 1: I picked him up and left to take him to 239 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: the er to get it checked out. About ten minutes ago, 240 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,359 Speaker 1: I got a phone call from the school board superintendent 241 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: saying that the school board has decided to let my 242 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 1: kid come back to school, and there is an update 243 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: and some edits and such. 244 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,719 Speaker 2: But if this other kid get suspended, I know. 245 00:11:57,440 --> 00:12:01,040 Speaker 1: I feel like he won't. I feel like he won't. Yeah, 246 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: it's uh, I don't know, like like it kind of 247 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: like goes to show just how ridiculous some of these 248 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: schools can be with like just not being there for 249 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: their students. 250 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 2: An Actually I have a story time about that. It's 251 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 2: it's not as intense as this, but. 252 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: Okay, I definitely want to hear it, and we're going 253 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: to get into it in a sex So Edit one 254 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 1: kid has a clean bill of health from the hospital. 255 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: Swelling is starting to go down after some epinephrine. Edit 256 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 1: two kid got cookies and ice cream. Edit three. I 257 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 1: have been invited to a meeting with the school board Thursday. 258 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:40,360 Speaker 1: We'll update afterwards, so I guess we'll see. So apparently 259 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 1: I can't add more at this point, so here is 260 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:46,199 Speaker 1: the rest of the update. Edit four just left the meeting, 261 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: which wasn't with the school board, as I was led 262 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 1: to believe on the phone. It was with the principal 263 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: and a legal representative from the school board had the 264 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: law had a lawyer with me and prior to this meeting, 265 00:12:58,160 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: and we discussed what I want out of this meeting. 266 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: My main concerns were making sure there was a procedure 267 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 1: in place to keep allergens away from my child. Two, 268 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 1: ensuring that this child has no ability to assault my 269 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 1: child again, which I feel like is yeah, it's reasonable request. 270 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,599 Speaker 2: Well, when you go to a school, they you're given 271 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 2: information about the child, saying like, these are the allergies. 272 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 2: This is like that's what I had to do at 273 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 2: my summer camp, Like it was all on the file 274 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:28,480 Speaker 2: and we had to read like make sure that we 275 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 2: knew all that to keep it away from them. No, 276 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 2: so thank you Laala thirteen twenty three for the for 277 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 2: the donation. 278 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 1: We appreciate you. So I also wanted to know how 279 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: it was the principle wasn't informed or aware of my 280 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: child's allergy prior to trying to tell me that he 281 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: was going to be suspended. Yeah, so like basically, why 282 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: did the principle not know about my child's allergy? 283 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 2: I should have been in the thing. 284 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: Lawyers talked legal stuff for a little bit while I 285 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: listened and principle listened. Eventually my turn to talk came 286 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: and I simply explained points one and two above. I 287 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:06,080 Speaker 1: also asked why principal didn't take time to assess the 288 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 1: whole situation. The explanation I got was that she she 289 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 1: was told by the monitor that it was almond butter, 290 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 1: not inanut butter by the monitor, so she really didn't 291 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 1: look further into it. 292 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 3: Also, what that's insane, that's that's that's that's wild. Also 293 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 3: shout out to Jesse for the one hundred dollars on 294 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 3: our tips page. 295 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: And wait if we go up a little bit, I 296 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 2: think there was another donation that we just got. 297 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Martika Waterman twenty dollars. I'm in the er. 298 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: Oh no, I hope you are okay, and thank you 299 00:14:41,080 --> 00:14:43,600 Speaker 1: for the birthday wish. Natty t thanks for the donation. 300 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: And I think there was one more yeah videographo on 301 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: my way to Ruin Sam's evening. You guys are just 302 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 1: like continually doing I'm gonna do it. I'm so what 303 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: of my friends are supposed to take me out for 304 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: a late birthday dinner? But I guess gonna come on 305 00:14:58,160 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: the show again. 306 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 2: Y'all are we were reading a lot of stories or 307 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 2: we read this one story this morning about sugar Daddy's 308 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:07,119 Speaker 2: and I feel like, you guys. 309 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: Are you guys are all our sugar? Oh no, baby 310 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: Godzilla is in the chat. You know you already funded 311 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 1: the first two hours of those dating I got it 312 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: all right, So she really did look further in so 313 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: cut and dry stuff. First, the bully child has been 314 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: moved to a different school. Unfortunately, I don't have any 315 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: legal recourse to find out which school he has been 316 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: moved to, and frankly don't nice care sleeveless hugging out 317 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: the cats of my plants again. Yeah, we're over. I 318 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 1: just got a calculate it. Yeah, all right, we're over 319 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: slaveless nights. Let's go. Thank you sleepless nights. That means 320 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: we are here for a three hour stream. 321 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna make you a card. 322 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to get a po box. Yeah. The 323 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: bully child has moved to different school. Unfortunately, I don't 324 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: have any legal recourse to find out which school he 325 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: has been moved to, and frankly don't care. The cafeteria 326 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: monitor has been fired. I didn't hear this at this meeting, 327 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: but my son's teacher called last night after the school 328 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,360 Speaker 1: and told me. I asked why, and I was told 329 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: that she was distracted by her phone when all the 330 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 1: commotions started, which explains why this was allowed in the 331 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 1: first place. 332 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 2: She should not be on her phone. 333 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: Distracted on the phone not a good move. 334 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 2: Not a good move when I again does just to 335 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 2: relate it to my teaching experience, you cannot be on 336 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 2: your phone when you're around children. 337 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: They are a little gremlins. They are little. 338 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 2: Gremlins, amable, What time is it? And then put it. 339 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: Away, peanut butter on each other. 340 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta keep your eyes on. Also, there was 341 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 2: a donation that I think we. 342 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: Just Sky Nicholson, thanks for the donation. 343 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 2: Thank you. 344 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,200 Speaker 1: Based on the recommendation of a friend, Thanks Ax and 345 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: many of you private messaging, I requested and it was 346 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: accommodated with an allergy free table at our school, which 347 00:16:54,720 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 1: is good. But does that mean that kid is just 348 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: sitting all alone at that table? 349 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 2: I hope not. 350 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: I really hope not. But it is sad. 351 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 2: It is sad. But also it's really important because you know, 352 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 2: if like oh, for a lot of peanut allergies, it's contact, 353 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 2: So you know, if you have peanuts on a surface 354 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 2: or something, which obviously whenever kids eat you get a 355 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 2: lot of crumbs everywhere, and so that is kind of 356 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 2: a necessary measure. Fair hopefully he has I. 357 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: Hope yeah, I hope he brings friends over there. And 358 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 1: I'm being told every other school in the district will 359 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: now be implementing one as well, where children with nut 360 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 1: allergies will eat at and anyone who eats with them 361 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: will have their lunches inspected by a teacher and a 362 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: monitor to ensure no allergens are present. Now the weird stuff. 363 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 1: As if this story wasn't weird enough, there's more weird stuff. Okay, 364 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: the kid probably did wipe almond butter on my son. 365 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: Kid's parents found out through a mutual friend where we lived, 366 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,920 Speaker 1: and showed at my house last night. The bully kid 367 00:17:52,960 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 1: was very apologetic to me and asked if he could 368 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:58,160 Speaker 1: apologize to my son, which I said, yes, of course. 369 00:17:58,359 --> 00:17:59,479 Speaker 2: He's got peanut butter on them. 370 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you at your place of home, at 371 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,240 Speaker 1: your place of home, your place of I was going 372 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: to say a place. 373 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 2: Of work, yeah, and that was kid's don't work. 374 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 1: Wait, so is the kid also allergic to but. 375 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 2: We don't know. That's okay, I don't think they are. 376 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: I should not wipe your nuts on anyone. 377 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:26,280 Speaker 2: Oh, pushing past that, pushing past that, straight on past that. 378 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 2: I was going to say that we don't know for like, 379 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 2: the hall monitors shouldn't have have assumed that the kid 380 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,159 Speaker 2: wasn't not like, wasn't allergic? 381 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, kids are allergic to everything. 382 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, potentially potentially your child might be allergic to everything. 383 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,719 Speaker 1: I was. I was trying to cook dinner. I have 384 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 1: a date on Sunday, Yeah, and I'm going to cook 385 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: her dinner. I'm going to cook raticuy. But she's allergic 386 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: to corn, she's allergic to wheat, she's allergic to a soy, 387 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,720 Speaker 1: she's allergic to like a couple other things. And I 388 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: was like, it was very hard to come up with something, 389 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 1: but I did, what did you cook? Well? Cook? I 390 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,720 Speaker 1: decided and rat itituy. But like I was like going 391 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 1: through like Thaie recipes too, and everything has like soy 392 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: or yeah yeah, so tricky, yeah yeah, but it can 393 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,400 Speaker 1: be done. So like schools do better, you know. 394 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, absolutely, and yeah and. 395 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 1: Gluten, yeah, gluten as well. The kids probably did wipe 396 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:27,199 Speaker 1: almond butter. My kid bully was apologetic. I invited my 397 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 1: parents and son into the living room, and this child 398 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,840 Speaker 1: started crying and said he didn't mean to hurt my son. 399 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: My son started crying as well, and. 400 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 2: I'm sorry to him. 401 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: He did a bunch of them, yeah, deservedly. Yeah, And 402 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 1: he apologized as well. Then the parents asked the bully 403 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: child to explain what happened. So Apparently this kid likes 404 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 1: peanut butter and almond butter and has almond butter on 405 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: a sandwich and a little pack of peanut butter in 406 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 1: his lunch for crackers. 407 00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 2: And he just wants to share it. 408 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: Bully child thought it would be funny to continue tormenting 409 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: from yesterday and said something about putting peanut butter on 410 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 1: my son and put a little bit on his fingers 411 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: to make him think it was peanut butter. Then he 412 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,640 Speaker 1: wiped them off afterwards, got some of the almond butter 413 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: from his sandwich, and that's what was on his hands 414 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: when he grabbed my son's arm. 415 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 2: But didn't we establish that the sun got hives. 416 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: So yes, but maybe it was because like. 417 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 2: The prior to that there was contamination. 418 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, maybe it was just like a little like 419 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 1: there was like yeah, because he had peanut butter on 420 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: his hands and then put almond butter over it. 421 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,960 Speaker 2: But this is like, this is premeditatd This is That's 422 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:34,720 Speaker 2: what I was gonna say. 423 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: It almost makes it worse that he was like, I 424 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: know he's going to get fucked up by peanut butter, 425 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 1: so I'm going to really mentally tormentum. 426 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. No, this is this is scary. 427 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:48,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he bullies. Bullies aren't great. I can only 428 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,480 Speaker 1: guess that there was a little peanut residue on the 429 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: bully's hand when he grabbed my son, which explains the 430 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 1: subdued swelling reaction because it wasn't that bad as it 431 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,000 Speaker 1: would have been. I asked the kid if he knew 432 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: what a peanut allergy does to a person, which the 433 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,360 Speaker 1: other parents credit they already explained to him, and they 434 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,679 Speaker 1: read to him on web MD about it, and he 435 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,719 Speaker 1: explained the whole inability to breathe and some other things 436 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 1: his mind grasped onto. So I took the opportunity show 437 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:16,239 Speaker 1: this young man the EpiPen neal. We have one that 438 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 1: we've had to use previously, just for show and tell 439 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: purposes that you have to stick a person with in 440 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 1: an anaphylactic shock scenario. That have you you haven't yet 441 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: to use in it at the app. 442 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't need it. 443 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: I don't have any You don't have any allergies. 444 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 2: I do have a lot of allergies, but I don't 445 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 2: have any allergies that would kill me. 446 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 1: Or mom wanted to get an EpiPen for my did 447 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: I for bees. Yes, I don't remember Eppen no idea. 448 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: Then I gave him the trainer unit and showed him 449 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,200 Speaker 1: where it goes and how to press the button. I 450 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: guess on the anaphalactic doc. 451 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 2: Oh, oh, that's actually really I'm glad that they're like 452 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 2: teaching this child. 453 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, only education. This is like like a moment 454 00:21:58,480 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 1: for education, which is great. 455 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:01,640 Speaker 2: This is what it does to you. This is why 456 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 2: it's wrong. This is how you help someone who you 457 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 2: know is experiencing. That's good. 458 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,880 Speaker 1: I like this. Then I gave him the trainer unit 459 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 1: and showed him where it goes, how they pressed the button. Yes, 460 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,199 Speaker 1: I told him it was a trainer unit, but I 461 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,679 Speaker 1: really thought hard about not telling him. I ultimately decided 462 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: against that because that would wouldn't make me any better 463 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,840 Speaker 1: than that bully in front of me. I don't understand 464 00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 1: what that means. 465 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:23,639 Speaker 2: What is a trainer unit? 466 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 1: I gave him the trainer unit and showed him where 467 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 1: it goes. Oh yeah, I oh maybe, yeah. I actually 468 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm not sure what that means. When the 469 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: button actuated, I think he jumped about fifteen feet in 470 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,399 Speaker 1: the air, and he was obviously scared. So I guess 471 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 1: like when it goes parents apologize again, as did the 472 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: bully kid. I told all of them that I was 473 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 1: satisfied that a lesson was learned here and I wouldn't 474 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 1: be pursuing any additional charges against the kid or his parents. Yeah, 475 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: I know, you can roast me for it with down votes. 476 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: As the parent and the bully kid are leaving, my 477 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:01,000 Speaker 1: son runs right past us and gives the bully a 478 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 1: hug and tells him that he hopes he isn't in 479 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: too much trouble. 480 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 2: This is a budding friendship. 481 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 1: That's so cute. I was asked to sign a non 482 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 1: disclosure agreement, which of course we declined. I want my 483 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 1: options open to me in case something like this happens again. 484 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: Until I'm letting this die and Maddie a booly thank 485 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 1: you for the donation, uh, and yeah, we're glad to 486 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 1: get you. 487 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 2: Tell us how to pronounce that. 488 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Sam doesn't keep butchering, dude, I'm doing I 489 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 1: am doing my best, but yeah, I mean, like, honestly, 490 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: this is kind of like the best case scenario for bullying. 491 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 2: Absolutely, like, not only did this kid not get suspended, 492 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,439 Speaker 2: but the bully got pots and kicked out of school. 493 00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like there was repercussions for the action, which is good, 494 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 1: and there was also like a little redemption r for 495 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: the bully's. 496 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 3: Like, oh I'm learning about us maybe yeah yeah, And 497 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 3: now they're friends. 498 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 1: That's like the cutest thing. 499 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 2: All the best friendships begin with a little bit with. 500 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: A little bit of bullying. Actually, one of my best friends, 501 00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 1: uh will not say is full name, but I think 502 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 1: you'll know who I'm talking about. We had this carpool 503 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 1: little okay story time before we get into the next one. 504 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: We had this carpool and in carpool, there was this 505 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,840 Speaker 1: thing called carpool fight Club where everyone in like the 506 00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 1: front seats, who are the older kids, would just like 507 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,399 Speaker 1: beat up the kids in the back seats. And I 508 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: was the kid in the back seat. It was only 509 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,719 Speaker 1: the dads. When the dads were driving, dad like uh, 510 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 1: not not dad, but the other dad's. Well it was brutal. 511 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 2: That's great. 512 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,360 Speaker 1: But there was this one kid who would always try 513 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,200 Speaker 1: to lick my eyeball and. 514 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 2: I don't like that. 515 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 1: Yeah it was, and he would like try to pin 516 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: me down, and like I was like, honestly, I was scrappy. 517 00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 1: Like one time, like I pinned both of his hands 518 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 1: down and like I just give little slaps. But he 519 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:50,919 Speaker 1: was like one hundred eighty pounds and I was like 520 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: one hundred pounds soaking wet because I was like a freshman. 521 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 1: He was a year older than me. Well not so 522 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 1: just I mean, like I mean figuratively like I was. 523 00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: I was, I was all little person. But yeah, he 524 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: like beat me up for a while, but like kind 525 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:07,160 Speaker 1: of toughened me up, and now we're really good friends. 526 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,119 Speaker 2: I don't know who you're talking about. Uh no, you 527 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 2: don't have to say it. 528 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: Sweat. We swam together and Carpool lives around the area. 529 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:22,919 Speaker 1: Has two sisters. Initials are J and f H not 530 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,640 Speaker 1: John Fry. Oh my god. 531 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. 532 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,199 Speaker 1: You know about that. Yeah, Corpool fight Club. But like 533 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: I think it started off of him kind of bullying me, 534 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:32,440 Speaker 1: But after a. 535 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,959 Speaker 2: While, I think we just in kindergarten. 536 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 1: Isabella Isabella bullied you. 537 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like she she told me that I used 538 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,119 Speaker 2: to wear little buns on the side of my head, 539 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 2: and she told me that I look like shruk. 540 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 1: Oh Is that is that the bull is that bullying 541 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 1: maybe hurt his love and Shrek his life? 542 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 2: I don't know. I was kindergarten, but have. 543 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: You seen all the sexy Shrek memes? I feel like 544 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: that could be that could be a a compliment. Carmel says, 545 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 1: I have definitely consentually licked an eyeball as a kid, 546 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:01,760 Speaker 1: lightly salty. 547 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 2: I thought that was my mom. 548 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, our mom's name is Carmel. Wait, can you tell 549 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 1: us that story? Also? VIDEOGRAPHO thank you for the five bucks? 550 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: Who are they really your bff? If they haven't tried 551 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: to murder you at some point? No? Probably not. Oh, 552 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: Sofia has tried to murder me. 553 00:26:18,920 --> 00:26:19,639 Speaker 2: That's not true. 554 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:20,240 Speaker 1: That's true. 555 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,919 Speaker 2: That's not true. I've never I've never tried to murder you. 556 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 1: She's tried to. She's tried to. 557 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Sam's when we were twelve. Sam threw a water 558 00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 2: polo ball at my head, and water polo balls are heavy, 559 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 2: and then I was like oow, and I cried because 560 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 2: it hurts. 561 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 1: I think I was tossing it to you. 562 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 2: No, you threw it in my head because I remember this. 563 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: Your response. Sam's response was I didn't know I meant 564 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,000 Speaker 2: to throw it at you, but I didn't mean to 565 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 2: hurt you. 566 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: That's probably true. 567 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 2: Obviously it was gonna hurt me. 568 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: I didn't mean to like destroy your brain. Yeah. Also, 569 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,560 Speaker 1: I accidentally almost killed Sophia in New York. 570 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I thought that's true. 571 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: Though, that's what mom says. I was pushing you in 572 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 1: the stroller and then you flipped out onto the street 573 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 1: in front of a car. Yeah, I would have been traumatic. 574 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 2: Yeah. Dad always tells the story. He's like, you flew 575 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 2: into the street. Yeah. Wait, wait, I want to tell 576 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 2: my story. Okay, thank you. There's one thing that I request, 577 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,640 Speaker 2: set up a po box. There are some things, including 578 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:18,439 Speaker 2: shirts I've designed. 579 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,199 Speaker 1: Oh no way, Yeah, we need to do it. 580 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,239 Speaker 2: We need to do We already going to set that up. 581 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 2: That's the plan. Wait, okay, so my story about administration 582 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,160 Speaker 2: not doing a good job. 583 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 1: Okay, okay. 584 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 2: So at my high school, we have this thing. We 585 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:34,199 Speaker 2: went to a Catholic high school, and we have this 586 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,600 Speaker 2: uh like we have retreats. And so one year this 587 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 2: when I was a senior, the seniors were running the 588 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 2: junior retreat and so like a couple of the seniors 589 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 2: went on this retreat and they were like the favorites 590 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,399 Speaker 2: of the religious sect, like all you know, like all 591 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 2: the religious heads of the school really loved them. Like 592 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 2: they were always like doing stuff for churches. They were 593 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 2: all always leading retreats. 594 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 1: They were like the goody two shoes kids. 595 00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 2: But not really what you're about to find out. So 596 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 2: on the retreat, the seniors who were like heading this 597 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 2: retreat brought a bunch of alcohol and a bunch of 598 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 2: like weed and stuff, and they got caught. The good kids, 599 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 2: they weren't good two shoes. They were just like the 600 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,200 Speaker 2: ones that were showers. Yeah yeah, And so they got 601 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 2: caught with all this stuff. But instead of them who 602 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 2: they brought all that stuff, they didn't get in trouble. 603 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 2: The only people who got suspended were the juniors who 604 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 2: they gave it to. Isn't that crazy? 605 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 1: Oh, because they brought it and they they didn't they 606 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: didn't they didn't like prosecute the dealer. 607 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,479 Speaker 2: They ply they prosecuted the people who were taking it. 608 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 1: That's lamb, I know, that's super late. 609 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 2: And a bunch of these juniors got suspended. 610 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,719 Speaker 1: So that's nothing literally illegal for the seniors like that 611 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:48,480 Speaker 1: would like that could get you jail time. 612 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 2: Yes, they brought alcohol and weed and served it. 613 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 1: Not only were they distribute yeah with fighters. Yeah, also 614 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 1: Kepler's pause. Thanks for the twenty five dollars Nation. Listen 615 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: to you, guys, is getting me through the last of 616 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 1: your PhD. We got freaking Marty's over here. Let's go. Yeah, 617 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 1: let us know what your PhD is in. 618 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 2: But yeah, so that's my story about the administration playing favorites. 619 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:12,680 Speaker 1: That's absolutely instant. 620 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I remember hearing this from one of the 621 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 2: seniors and they were like, yeah, but I didn't get 622 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 2: in trouble for it, and they just like they were 623 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 2: disappointed in me. 624 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 1: What bro they didn't even suspend it. Well, maybe like 625 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:28,479 Speaker 1: a suspension looks worse than the seniors resume or something, 626 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 1: because juniors, you're like, you're playing, you're playing college. 627 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 2: I think one person probably spelled. One junior got expelled. 628 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: Well, you know it's even crazier, Sophia. This next story 629 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 1: is going to pull it up right now. Bernie Heart Dragon, 630 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: I stepped on my brother's head once. Emerald Pearson says, 631 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:54,840 Speaker 1: I'm in my last uh semester of undergrad Let's go, 632 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 1: Dylla Davis, I have a pH d in running away 633 00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: from my problems. Annia says, my mom trained me to 634 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: defend myself from a bully from my neighborhood by making 635 00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:09,400 Speaker 1: me punch my sister, Like, like, was it fight club 636 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 1: with your siblings? 637 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 2: Did your sister also learn or was she just maybe they. 638 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: Were like fighting each other, you know, like. 639 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:22,280 Speaker 2: Like like in Cora when when like I'm on, when 640 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 2: they're kids, you know, and they have to train, they 641 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 2: have to blood bend each other. 642 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 1: Cora had to bend. 643 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 2: No, No, I'm on the first season. I'm on Ben 644 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 2: his brother. 645 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 1: I haven't. I haven't watched Cora in a while. That's 646 00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 1: what's I only watched like one episode recently. Also out 647 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 1: of her car bender is out. 648 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 2: I've heard bad things. 649 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 1: I've heard bad things. 650 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 2: I've heard bad things. 651 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: So worried. Anyone seen the first episode? Please tell us 652 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:49,920 Speaker 1: good things. 653 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 2: I saw one thing about you, ays uh Wig, and 654 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,200 Speaker 2: it looks horrible. And someone was like, the M Night 655 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 2: Shyamalan Wig looks way better. 656 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: No, if you're if you're telling me that The M 657 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 1: Night Shamalan is better than anything. Yeah, no spoilers, no 658 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,160 Speaker 1: spoilers in the comments. 659 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 2: Just tell us whether he liked it or not. 660 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: Okay,