1 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: One, two, three, Okay, great, beautiful and good to go. 2 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: What about my rhythm because it's such with two gay guys, 3 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: I can't concue. Like I'm like, my clap was a 4 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: little off. I could tell Georgia were rings sweet. We 5 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: did the third time. We were supposed to do it twice, 6 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: but the third time when I count of my clapping rhythm. 7 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: But I'm just like you know when you know when 8 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: a clap starts, like in a song or a cheer 9 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: or like you know, I'm always like trying trying to 10 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: get the beats and I simply cannot. But the gays 11 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 1: are like, can't like in sync, like they made the 12 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: whole quiet, like the whole thing is. It's now, it's 13 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: like a symphony. It's this thing, and I'm just like Dike, 14 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: just don't clap. We can't clap. We don't have it. 15 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: It is what it is. It's I have to say 16 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: with with finding the beat. It's always something I feel 17 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: I can do when I'm on my own listening to music. 18 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm a little drunk and got home and I'm 19 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,040 Speaker 1: doing a little little dance before bed. But now when 20 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 1: I'm in public, I completely lose it. Yeah, Well, maybe 21 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: you think you completely, but have you been around some 22 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: dikes recently, You'll see how much more together you are 23 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: in relation to the funkiness. And they just there's a 24 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 1: sharp edginess. There's no there's no suavet like, there's no smooth. 25 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: There's nothing as smooth. I clunk into a room. I 26 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 1: don't know what, like, there's not in boots, Like there's 27 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: no reason I can't explain. I'm trying to find flow. 28 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find like counter examples. I feel not 29 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 1: to be gross immediately, I guess the podcast already started. 30 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: But um, like sex, I feel like lesbian sex. I 31 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: feel like it's like water, every beautiful and like like 32 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: whereas gay men having sex is like yeah, it's just 33 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: like yeah. So that's when I be like, lesbians are 34 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: not clunky when they're in their natural state of having sex, 35 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: but we're also yeah, exactly, we also don't have sex. 36 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: And my ex used to get upset that I said that, 37 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 1: but I'm like, we kind of do just roll around 38 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: like that. It isn't a fair comparison because it's like, yeah, 39 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: you're coming, I'm coming. I'm happy with what's happening, but 40 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: to call it sex is a bit of a stretch 41 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: most of the time. Now, there are things that we 42 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: do that are intercourse fine, but I'm like, I'm also 43 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: happy to hook up. Like it's not like it's bad 44 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: that we don't think, but we don't fuck the same 45 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: way other people fuck. It's it's fine. Lesbians. I'm like, 46 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: you don't like, you don't like, but there's more in 47 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: your repertoire, so it's like you are doing. Also, am 48 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 1: I wrong to say that it usually lasts long? I 49 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: think it can, but at this age, it's like how 50 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: many times you want to go? I'm like, I have 51 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: a thing the podcast with these guys. I'm happy. I'm 52 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: happy to bring back the quickie, like we deserve the quickie, 53 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 1: Like Nick, that's true, there's nothing like it. There's nothing 54 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: like being like we have literally seven minutes, yeah, already 55 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: seconds of sex is perfect? Yeah, yeah, like we the quickly, 56 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: like seven minutes. It's like we don't even have time 57 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 1: to hold hands, Like there is not even the time 58 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 1: for that. It's it's a blip like you'll you'll start 59 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: having sex with a girl and then it's like it's 60 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: two pm. I'm like, what I'm late for work? Goddamnit, 61 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: like what we started, like, yeah, so crazy? Is there 62 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: by the way I realized we're on a podcast right now? 63 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: Is there in that I didn't do that? We didn't 64 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: do that, you said, normally, Sam and I normally start 65 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: by doing an intro um and then we introduce you. 66 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: But the conversation was flowing so naturally that we said, 67 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: why not just go with it. I don't want to 68 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: stop you. I'd love an intro, you know. I don't 69 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: want to break what you do on my don't on 70 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: my account do anything you didn't want to do. Yeah, 71 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: I mean, well it's too late for that. We completely 72 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: revamped our entire podcast entirely on your This is You 73 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: spin off podcast where you're the co host. So I 74 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: hope you're available to record the next I'm not even here. 75 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm not even here, Okay, I'll be get like we can. 76 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: Honestly not even here. It is iconic to now start 77 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: our intro. I am including everything. Yeah, so Sam, what's up, 78 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 1: old Chica? How are you? Hey? Bitch? Um? You know 79 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 1: I'm good. I have to say I was saying this before. 80 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: I am feeling like this is I'm feeling relaxed and chill. 81 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm feeling my my voices is syrapy. It's very you're 82 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: giving NPR vibes this afternoon. It's because I spent yesterday 83 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: in nature and it was just so. I went to 84 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: um Storm King with two of my college friends. With 85 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 1: Storm King is kind of where straight couples go to 86 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: break up. I feel, um, but then you can kind 87 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: of queer it by going there. It is not part 88 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 1: of a straight cuple. I went with two women, one 89 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 1: was queer and one was straight. Um. Such a powerful combination. 90 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: And I have to say that art so uninspiring. Yeah, 91 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: well that's not do nothing to think about. It's just 92 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: you're taking a hike and every now and then you 93 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: see kind of a large red structure and you're just 94 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: kind of like, huh. I think that's the whole appeal though, right, 95 00:05:51,839 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: It's like it's you're not really going for like the art, 96 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: and you're not really going for like the hike. You're 97 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: going for like a walk that's out outside and like 98 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: no one is there to be challenged. Yeah, it's not 99 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: physically different. I'm not allowed to be okay, oh my god, 100 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: I have to be serious. I haven't been introduced it 101 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,360 Speaker 1: so I'll just be the other. I'm not yet on 102 00:06:17,400 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 1: the podcast, but I did have a our producers are 103 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: texting me where everyone's going to tell her to stop 104 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: here we are. One of the tenets of this podcast 105 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: is silence women. Um. But but anyway, But but then 106 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: I have to say to take the basically, you're you're 107 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: taking a hike without the athletic element, and then you're 108 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: going to a museum without the intellectual element. So you 109 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,559 Speaker 1: truly are just like, how can I feel as little 110 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: as possible while being slightly relaxed? In many ways, it's 111 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:58,320 Speaker 1: the best of both worlds. Yes, And if you want 112 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: to to not, like I said, to not be challenged, 113 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 1: which I really was not in the mood to be 114 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 1: challenged yesterday. Sometimes I when I go to a museum, 115 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 1: it's not it's truly just to be in an indoor, 116 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: large space that is mostly clean, Like I just want 117 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 1: to be in a space, and that's kind of what 118 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: storm King offers. But it's outdoors. Yes, I don't think 119 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: I've ever been challenged by fine arts. What a statement 120 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: to begin with. Outside of the museum, Robbie, what would 121 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: you say was the moment in your life for you 122 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 1: felt the most artistically challenged, the most artistically challenged or 123 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 1: intellectually challenged than for it. I'm still waiting for it, 124 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: to be honest with you, I don't know that I've been. 125 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: You know, I challenged myself for the most part, So 126 00:07:55,840 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know that that is something, you know, 127 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: if you're talking about like an incident or something in 128 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: my career, like when I did my I did it 129 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: just for laughs stand up special. I did an hour 130 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: filmed in Toronto for Crave TV here in Canada. And 131 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 1: before doing that, you know, when they called me just 132 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:20,559 Speaker 1: after they said, hey, would you be interested in doing 133 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: a streaming special and our stand up special? And I 134 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: said yeah, but I had never done an hour, um 135 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: and I had six weeks to prepare. And the first 136 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: time I did an hour was my taped hour answering 137 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: one time when was the So that was a challenge. 138 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 1: And actually I don't look at a piece of metal 139 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 1: in a park and go huh, I don't give a ship. 140 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: I don't like a dozen. Even as a kid, we 141 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: would go I remember going to the museum. We saw 142 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: Monet and we had like a little picture that you like, 143 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,079 Speaker 1: the museum had a little thing where they give you 144 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: a little piece of paper and was the most perfect 145 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: piece of paper. I kind of plain when these little 146 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: crafts happened at the museum. It was like it was 147 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 1: such a The texture of the paper was just I'm 148 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: still waiting for the weight of a paper like that. 149 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 1: I've either had too much too little. This was like 150 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 1: the Goldilocks and the Three Bears of papers they gave 151 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: to you at a museum. No too Then you were 152 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 1: gonna sit in front of a painting you like and 153 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: draw it, okay, and you had so um, you know, 154 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 1: And I remember sitting in front of a Monet and 155 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: I kind of thought it was blurry, and you know, 156 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 1: there wasn't a lot like they were like, sit in 157 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: front of your favorite one. So I'm like, okay, of 158 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: all the paintings in this place, Like, first of all, 159 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,960 Speaker 1: I don't love any single one. If I had to pick, okay, 160 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: I'll go with this one. But it's blurry. It's impressionism. 161 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 1: I don't care for blurry. I wear glasses already. I'm like, 162 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 1: you kept putting on your glass and it's not getting 163 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: any less blurry. Yeah, I don't want black. Like Claire, 164 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, let me see with the lily pads look 165 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: like like looking. Yeah. So I think from that from 166 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: being told from a young age that the best art 167 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: is in this thing I like, and then you go 168 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: and you're like, I like some of the books at 169 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: home better, some of the pictures, the illustrations of my books. 170 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: You know, when you're a kid, you're like, I like 171 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: Robert Munch or whatever, like whatever the kids, you know, 172 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: some of the illustrations kids books, I think is some 173 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,719 Speaker 1: of the best art, arguably in the world. Why not? 174 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: Who cares? But we don't care. I'm just saying. I'm 175 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 1: just saying that, like, it didn't make it didn't make 176 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: sense to me what was great it was not. And 177 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: obviously it's all subjective and that's the point of it. 178 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,599 Speaker 1: But I I do wish I could be I I 179 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: feel like it would be so fun to feel like 180 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: I looked at a piece of metal and I went, huh. 181 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes when I'm not able to access that, know, 182 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: if I look at a very crazy building, like a 183 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: very you know, ergonomic or something like really that looks 184 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: like the physics is being challenged, then I go, how 185 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 1: do they do that? It must be there, There must 186 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: be a beam or something here. You know, that's the 187 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: only way I can imagine right now looking at something 188 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: and feeling a challenge is like how is that standing? 189 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 1: Definitely type challenge, but it's very hard for me. I 190 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 1: wish I could be those people and movies like Closer. 191 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: Anybody in Manhattan going to a museum and just going, 192 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: what do you think the artists? I'm like, you know 193 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 1: your guess as good as it doesn't. It doesn't. I 194 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: don't really sit with it. And then I get hungry 195 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,199 Speaker 1: at the museum and there's no food. You start, well, 196 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,080 Speaker 1: you gotta go to the museum cafe. You get balls 197 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:47,839 Speaker 1: for fourteen exact than we are being completely insane and absurd. 198 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: We have not introduced our guests. I'm not even here, 199 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,960 Speaker 1: not even here, and yet and yet you hear her talking. 200 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 1: And yet the entire Western art canon has been completely dry. 201 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,839 Speaker 1: I am not even here for giving. Intellectualism has been destroyed, 202 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 1: and we have not even introduced our guests. I mean, 203 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: I think we should just do it, you know, because 204 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: collectually challenges me. Let me tell you something. Please put 205 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: your ears to the ground and feel the vibrations of 206 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: the footsteps of our guest Robbie Hoffman, Oh my god, 207 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: thank you so much for having me. Welcome from Canada. Yeah, 208 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: waiting all day to be you know, on this podcast. 209 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,839 Speaker 1: It feels good to finally be here and talk to 210 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 1: you guys. We really went, I have to say, Robbie, Like, normally, 211 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: you know, we would kind of like see what the vibe, 212 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,000 Speaker 1: we see what topics you had in mind, and then 213 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: start recording. But you start you were so on from 214 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: the first second, and we said, there is no point 215 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: in stopping this momentum. This is a once in a lifetime, 216 00:12:55,960 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: uh experience. Every I just talk and talk and talk 217 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 1: and talk. I don't even know. Sometimes I think, like, 218 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 1: you know what, when I was younger and I was 219 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 1: closet and I would go out with guys. I went 220 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 1: out with shout out to Phil Dabrun if he's listening, 221 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: he went to Princeton. It's not nothing. Um, I went 222 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: out with this guy and like my friends who encouraged 223 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: me to, like his whole family goes to Princeton. That 224 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: that that that that that, and and I didn't even 225 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: know Jews went to Princeton, but God bless him, Yeah, 226 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 1: she did go to no. I then realized I didn't. 227 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't even in my like like as I can, like, 228 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: these just are not as a teenager. Wasn't a school 229 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: even really I only heard of it because Phil was 230 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: going there and so I assumed it was good. But anyway, 231 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: I remember having to do one on one with him, 232 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: and I would try and think of like topics. I 233 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 1: would tell my but like, what do you even speak about? 234 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: Like just because I was so uncomfortable being one on 235 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 1: one with this like pressure that we would maybe hook 236 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: up or kiss or do something that I would like 237 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: literally think of topics. And then the first time I 238 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 1: was with a girl romantically, it's like it just flowed 239 00:14:04,320 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 1: and flowed and flowed, and now I like have never 240 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: had to think of a topic in my whole life. 241 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: I just like, if I'm up, there's a if I'm 242 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: up where there's something happening. Well, Robbie, we really pride 243 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: ourselves on, you know, deconstructing what a podcast is. Sort of, um, 244 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 1: it's a this podcast is about straight culture, but that's 245 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: also podcast about a podcast about straight culture. The whole 246 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: thing is like it's like, you know, you think of 247 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: this idea, Okay, what's kind of like imagine two gay 248 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: comedians having a podcast about straight culture. It's like, okay, 249 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: twenty fourteen Cold Wants It's entire ethos back, you know. 250 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 1: And so we're doing that, sure, because it's expected. But 251 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 1: then that's not enough, right, So we're at every turn 252 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: holding a mirror to ourselves and and kind of looking 253 00:14:54,920 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: at it and getting distracted. Yeah, and so you're coming 254 00:14:57,840 --> 00:15:00,640 Speaker 1: in here and sort of um showing us that we're 255 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 1: not pushing far enough if we're really deconstructing what a 256 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:07,200 Speaker 1: podcast is, you know, let's switch up the order. Start 257 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: with just chatting, you know, then try the intro. Then 258 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: then who who the hell knows? I mean, we we're 259 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: flying completely by the seat of our pants today in 260 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 1: a way that I find refreshing. I find it exciting. 261 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 1: It's the it's all the all the intellectual rigor I 262 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,960 Speaker 1: was missing at Storm King is now finally on the table. 263 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: We'll see, Because you know, I also think that like 264 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: I hate being told you look at this thing, you 265 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 1: must think now, I'm like, I've been thinking the whole 266 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: fucking day, but where where the hell are you? Like 267 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: it the least important thought I'm having my day and 268 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,760 Speaker 1: you don't even know what I've been through by two days, 269 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: no idea what it's like to be a day in 270 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: my head for work, and like people are just like wow. 271 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: That really made me think, Like I don't even separate 272 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: thinking from not from other things. It's like everything is 273 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: making me think. I'm constantly thinking. I just but being 274 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,640 Speaker 1: told like you know, like like your walk, I can 275 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: understand why it's so dissatisfied. You're kind of like you 276 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 1: were told you're gonna be seeing some ship and you're 277 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: gonna have in a pain, but you didn't even you 278 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 1: were like wow, Like I guess if you're you know, 279 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: going to you know, like I guess, okay, I like 280 00:16:21,000 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 1: the color of the metal. Somebody had a painted red 281 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: you know about the guy who gets up there, like 282 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: was he at lows? Where did he get the paint? 283 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 1: Like are also not intellectual enough for the ask, like 284 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 1: the ask of looking at an art piece like something 285 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: like that is like you should have this like really 286 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: grand origin story or how the artist was feeling in 287 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: connection and mineus, Like do you think it's like the 288 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 1: oil paint or he went to lows and got an 289 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: outdoor paid because he knew it would be outdoors, or 290 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: you're you're thinking, you know, was he fairly compensated? Was what? 291 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 1: You know? The artist whose name is on is how 292 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: much did he or she do? How much of it 293 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 1: was kind of unpaid interns with little paint brush and 294 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: and who's to say that's a less intellectual question than 295 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: does it resemble a frog? I just want each piece 296 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 1: to have a big price tag on it, so I 297 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,720 Speaker 1: can see the most expensive one and go and I 298 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: can tell why that's expensive. I can tell that one's 299 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:22,199 Speaker 1: really expensive. That you're so right the fact that like 300 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:24,640 Speaker 1: the art world is based on I mean, it's essentially 301 00:17:24,680 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 1: kind of an extension of the global finance world because 302 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 1: it's a way people like you know, avoid taxes money. 303 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 1: So it's right, it's a way people hoard money. No 304 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:38,199 Speaker 1: one actually cares, no one actually has an eye for art. 305 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,360 Speaker 1: Of the people that are actually buying the art, it's 306 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: literally all like kind of men named I don't know why. 307 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:47,239 Speaker 1: My my instinct went to say Rob, because then you're 308 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: implicated because your name is Rob b B. But that's 309 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: not what I meant. A man named Rob. Yeah, sorry, 310 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,600 Speaker 1: go ahead anyway. My point is it's like, if it's 311 00:17:57,600 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: all about money anyway, just make the sub text text, 312 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: just tell me how much each thing is worth. Well, 313 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: that's it, you know what that's like that that I like, 314 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: that is for me, And I think maybe because we're 315 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 1: both gay comics and this is the way that we 316 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:15,719 Speaker 1: were like very honest about that sort of stuff. It's like, um, 317 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: I grew up talking like when I was in the 318 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 1: secular world, like like most of my friends growing up 319 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 1: as a teenager in the world. Now it's like the 320 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 1: girl I'm saying now and her family, like they don't 321 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 1: talk about money, they don't talk about politics, And I 322 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,400 Speaker 1: grew up what we talk about money? We talk about politics. 323 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: That's all we talk about. And I think one of 324 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:37,359 Speaker 1: the bigger issues happening is that like this one percent 325 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: who's holding wealth in multiple ways, you know, one being 326 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: the art world or you know, whatever they're doing offshore, 327 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:47,760 Speaker 1: but they also hold the conversation. They also try and 328 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: make the people feel like you shouldn't talk about money 329 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: because they don't talk about money because of how immoral 330 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 1: they would sound talking about how embed hourishing it must 331 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,840 Speaker 1: be for them to talk about money. First is me, 332 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 1: we have to talk about money. We talk about money. 333 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,239 Speaker 1: It's like something I tell like my girl when you're 334 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: about to meet my family, I said, like, you know, 335 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: my ex was working in commercials. I said, by the way, 336 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: my brother small is gonna come up, going to be 337 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,879 Speaker 1: like how much you make on something like that a commercial? 338 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: Now he's not being rude, he is relating to He 339 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 1: wants to know, and the easiest way to get rid 340 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:29,200 Speaker 1: of him is just to say what you know? Eight 341 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: k and like okay, pretty good. He walked away. Skirt 342 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 1: if you skirt. I actually had a very famous conversation. 343 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: I don't mind doing this, but this really famous movie 344 00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: Start and I were talking and this is what it is, 345 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 1: and we were talking about this, and I said, like, 346 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: if you you know there was a possibility that this 347 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 1: person might end up at a family function of mine. 348 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,239 Speaker 1: I said, if that ever happened, you would just have 349 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: to tell my brother. He's not gonna know who the 350 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: hell you are, and he's gonna want to know what 351 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: you make on a movie like Carless Angels. He's gonna 352 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 1: be like, hey, so what does that run you? And 353 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 1: if you if you skirt and say oh I do okay, 354 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,479 Speaker 1: or you know, I'm comfortable, He's gonna be what what 355 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 1: do you mean? What do is it and then so 356 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:15,439 Speaker 1: you just have to be like twenty million. He's like, 357 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: so it is Kristin Stewart, you know, and then yeah, 358 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 1: and then he walk away, you know what I mean. 359 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:23,400 Speaker 1: But there's no skirting. But I realized it's this thing 360 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 1: that people do to keep the masses down. It makes 361 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: no fucking well, it's an admission of guilt already, because 362 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,399 Speaker 1: if you say talking about money is not tasteful, you 363 00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:36,439 Speaker 1: are literally agree, You're like, yes, if I say how 364 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: much I make, that is tasteless, Like because what because 365 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:44,440 Speaker 1: my entire lifestyle is immoral. Yeah, it's all hoarding and 366 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: immoral and weird. And yeah, that's why you don't talk 367 00:20:49,240 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: about You don't talk about politics as you don't have to. 368 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 1: You don't talk about money because you don't have to. 369 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 1: And the thing is is you might not be talking 370 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: about it, but you show it. You talk louder than 371 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 1: anybody else in the damn world about it. Well, you 372 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 1: hint at it. It's like that's the thing with money. 373 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 1: It's like if you're if you're kind of one of 374 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 1: those people, like the way that you achieved taste is 375 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: by essentially hinting at the money you have without explicitly 376 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 1: saying I love rap It's like I love watching rappers 377 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: going I got this, I got the ice, I got this. 378 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: Oh I yes, you do? Yes? How much was the 379 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 1: lambo too fifty? That's what I thought, That's what I thought, 380 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: you know, I want to know. You know, I was 381 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: having this conversation with another friend of mine recently, not famous, 382 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:37,919 Speaker 1: and that wasn't even like that that that we just 383 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:41,400 Speaker 1: ended up in that conversation somehow with you know whatever. 384 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 1: But this person, wealthy, not famous, does well for herself. 385 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,199 Speaker 1: Her family very wealthy, and she's humble about it. You know. 386 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: She was asking me like, oh, what's your dream car, Robbie, Like, 387 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: what you know, because I like cars? Is well, Porsche obviously. 388 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,800 Speaker 1: How do you dream of something and it not be 389 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 1: the best? I don't understand that. I don't understand how 390 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: any he ends up with something like a Maserati or 391 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, okay, we'd obo. Do you have a 392 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 1: master card too? So strange to me anybody ends up 393 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,280 Speaker 1: with a master cards like it's visa, it's poor. Like 394 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:16,280 Speaker 1: there are some truths. So she didn't want to tell 395 00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 1: me that her father has a Porsche or two or 396 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:20,960 Speaker 1: something like that. Her girlfriend told me when she was 397 00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:23,320 Speaker 1: by the way, she's very humble, and I assumed that 398 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 1: her father had at least a fleet of something. But 399 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: I told her when she got back to the bathroom, 400 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: I said, it feels more honest to me when rich 401 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 1: people are rich and poor people are poor. What I'm 402 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: saying by this is if I went to your house. 403 00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: If I showed up at your house, your parents house, 404 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: for shops for dinner, and they didn't have four cars 405 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: in the driveway, I called the police. I know you 406 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: shouldn't anymore, but that would be a reason for me. 407 00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: That would be a reason for me. If you came 408 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: to my mother's for cockta apartment and she had a 409 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: maserati in the drup, you fucking call you what This 410 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 1: doesn't make, you know? I want the world to make sense. 411 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:04,400 Speaker 1: That's going to come down to is is things need 412 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 1: to be things need to be placed where they belong, 413 00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 1: so that so that we could kind of so that 414 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: you can look at the world and and then interpret 415 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: it in a literal way and have it make sense 416 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 1: rather than having to go through like five layers of 417 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 1: interpretation based on each person's weird insecurities or you know, 418 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 1: kind of like the way they want to be the 419 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: way the way they want to be seen versus how 420 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,280 Speaker 1: they actually are mental plastics of it all. But that 421 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 1: would require kind of an honesty that I feel like, Um, 422 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 1: the current systems in place do not encourage. I just 423 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 1: this convo. We really haven't brought out the going awful 424 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 1: arm in a while. Yes, we haven't brought out the 425 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 1: going off alarm and so long. But Robbie, honestly now 426 00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 1: ringing in the background. Well, we'll add that in in post. 427 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 1: We're adding and but we're additing in post. But um wait, 428 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I do want to very quickly go back 429 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 1: to the art conversation, because Robbie, you raised the interesting point, 430 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 1: which is that you think all day, so you're not 431 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: going to wait to be inspired by something, and that 432 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:17,159 Speaker 1: which is interesting because it does then it's like it 433 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: kind of implies that the people that are inspired most 434 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: by art are the people who spend most of the 435 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: day not thinking, and so then they're so in awe 436 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: that something is making them think that they start tearing up. Yeah, 437 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 1: it's it's I don't know how I wish I could 438 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: live that life. I mean, I wish I could like 439 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: or or simply I wish I could turn off. I 440 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,160 Speaker 1: wish I don't have to think so much. I wish 441 00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:41,400 Speaker 1: I could not want the things I want. I wish 442 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: I was okay, you know, I wish probably I was 443 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 1: less intelligent than we are, because I think an artist 444 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 1: takes some level of intelligence, some level of of guts 445 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 1: to say, like all these structures put upon me, like 446 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 1: I still feel that my soul, Like that's the thing 447 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: living for like we do do this thing where we 448 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 1: we a free of something to some extent um. Does 449 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: this apply to like film and TV also like or 450 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 1: is it just like visual art like paintings and sculptures 451 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 1: or like life to me for all of it. I 452 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: mean I think visual are like the people who are 453 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 1: like hoity toity and go to like the museum, because 454 00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:25,240 Speaker 1: it's like I think there's a special category for those 455 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:29,959 Speaker 1: people somewhere, maybe not Hell, but somewhere, And I do 456 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 1: think that, Like I can't remember I was going to 457 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 1: say something else in one of in one of my 458 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:41,439 Speaker 1: going off friends, but but yeah, the idea of like 459 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: having you know of I just wish I could be simpler, 460 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: like I was on a flight and the lady next 461 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 1: to me was sipping her shard, a middle age, wonderful woman. Okay, 462 00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 1: she is having a time. She's there's no kids, there's nothing. 463 00:25:56,200 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: She's watching a legend. Yeah, mall com actually Jan Arden, 464 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: No she is Katie Link. No, she was just you know, 465 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 1: sitting on the plane. She's watching Mall Cop too. Okay, 466 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: Paul Blar, you should know this is interesting to bring up. 467 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of Kevin James. Keep going, oham 468 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: wants to fuck Kevin James. I think, yeah, I'm sure 469 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 1: he gets like, yeah, he's the cutest. I loved King 470 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 1: of Queens. I still think it's like one of the 471 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 1: best that comes my family, like strangely likes everybody's like, Okay, 472 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: she hates fine art and she loves King of Queens. 473 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 1: Queens was excellent, excellent, Later, Minny lovely, Yes, okaya, go 474 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 1: back to this anyway, she's watching Mall Cop too. I 475 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: kid you, not every set up she was already like 476 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,199 Speaker 1: every setup to every joke, she was like already like 477 00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 1: she like could barely take it. And then when they 478 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 1: hit with whatever punchline let it, whether it was a 479 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:58,080 Speaker 1: line or a pratfall. Literally, she was like dying her 480 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 1: sharp nay splashing everywhere, like she early enjoyed thoroughly this 481 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: movie start to finish, and I should only be so lucky. 482 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: Do you know what it even takes me to watch 483 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 1: a movie to the point that, like I am like 484 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 1: searching the entire flight and maybe I find a documentary 485 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 1: of inside the worst Prisons of America, And I'm fine, 486 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 1: But it's like a very difficult for me to get 487 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,360 Speaker 1: to that level of interest, let alone laughter the way 488 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 1: that she can watch anything. This wasn't even more cop one, 489 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:32,120 Speaker 1: which I'm sure she feels like. This lady has figured 490 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 1: it out, like with like she is enjoying the best life. 491 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: The more you know, the worse it is to enjoy 492 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 1: life because you just know too much. You're too in 493 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: tune to the t So I do wish that I 494 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,479 Speaker 1: could like be more naive to certain things so that 495 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 1: I can just enjoy. Yeah, I'm I'm trying to put 496 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,880 Speaker 1: in the work to become less informed. I think that's 497 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: a real goal of mine. Yeah, I'm with you on that. 498 00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: I don't watch people like did you watch the debate? 499 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, my masoch istic Are you asking me if 500 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,879 Speaker 1: I cut myself? Like there's a question here. It's so weird, 501 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: it's so stupid, and why would you want Like I 502 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 1: already fucking voted, Like, I'm not watching this debate just 503 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 1: to feel bad and get piste off. I'm already mad. 504 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,880 Speaker 1: Who cares? Well, there is I think that the kind 505 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: of the idea of the political junkie as a figure 506 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:24,359 Speaker 1: in our culture, Like these are people that want to 507 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 1: feel bad. Yeah, like they get off on feeling bad. 508 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: That's like the people whose thing is that they keep 509 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: up with the news. Like sorry, I think it's important 510 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,080 Speaker 1: to keep up with news, but like specifically keep up 511 00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: with like the minutia of electoral politics. It is people 512 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:46,920 Speaker 1: who literally are seeking both to feel angry and slighted 513 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: and also to feel like they It's like a sense 514 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 1: of control, like if I know all the details, and 515 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 1: if I know every the name of every person that 516 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 1: is involved in this decision, then I will then it 517 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: will somehow make me more Like what it actually does. 518 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 1: It literally what you're describing right now is sports. You 519 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: come to understand why people have this affinity for sports, 520 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 1: And I never I thought sports always was so stupid. 521 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: It's just two people going to a you know, a 522 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: ball to get it here or to get it there. Um. 523 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: But really, people who are very into sports are into 524 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: every little character that it really is a soap opera 525 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 1: for them. They know the backstory. If this person was 526 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,719 Speaker 1: from here, he was drafted here, he comes from this family, 527 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 1: nothing nobody believed in him. That they're literally like gays, 528 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 1: like you think like, oh, we're getting you like soap operas. 529 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 1: You like soap operas to your sports is like you're 530 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 1: literally screaming from what's his name, Tom bred I don't 531 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 1: even know their names, like you are doing the exact 532 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: same thing. Sports is now every you know. I mean, 533 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: I would not to say yeah, I'd be remiss. I'd 534 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: say guy random has a bit exactly about this that 535 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: he does where he's talking about how reality like real 536 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 1: housewives are just emotionally and and and and kind of 537 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 1: structurally the same as for it. So they're just like, yeah, yeah, exactly, 538 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 1: he would be. You know, I like, I I think 539 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 1: everything is just kind of in that structure, especially politics 540 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,000 Speaker 1: right now and the way it's set up, Like first 541 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 1: of all, it's such bad art, Like to watch the debate, 542 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: it's a play, so everything and you're like it's a 543 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 1: bad play. Yeah, it's like like they're not having the 544 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 1: best people, Like we didn't even get off we didn't 545 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,040 Speaker 1: shoot for off Broadway. People even to produce this. It's 546 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:29,560 Speaker 1: like now it's just like a bad, weird play, Like 547 00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: it's people kind of other lines and it's not a 548 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: good set and the director is absent. Yeah, it's just 549 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 1: like why would I watch that? Plus, I do dike 550 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: Vice on Thursdays and it was competing. Our numbers did 551 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 1: not dip. You'll be happy. I love a plug Binet 552 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,720 Speaker 1: scum Dot Live, my weekly call and show. You can 553 00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: call me in about anything, what shoes to wear, where 554 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 1: I'll tell you. You You can call me about financial advice. 555 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: Let me look at a statement, I'll tell you where 556 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: you're going wrong. Love whatever you want. I'm going to 557 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: tell you what your therapist won't and we'll see a 558 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,000 Speaker 1: lot quick or believe me. Oh my god, I could 559 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: go therapy. We need to do Um. Wait, Robbie, we 560 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 1: need to do our first segment, but I do want 561 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,720 Speaker 1: to talk to you about therapy. Um. Okay, So so 562 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: Robbie our first segment. And yes, this podcast has segments, 563 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: if you can believe it. Um, it's called Straight Shooters um, 564 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 1: because this podcast is um about straight culture sort of 565 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: and so uh you know, to sort of started off 566 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: with our first segment, we just sort of ask you 567 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 1: a series of rapid fire questions to gage your familiar 568 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 1: familiarity with the tapestry of straight culture. UM, and if 569 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 1: you ask any follow up questions, we're gonna be piste off. Okay, George, 570 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 1: should we start yes, Robbie, air pods or air Jordan's Okay, 571 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 1: Robbie starting a TikTok out of a desperate need for 572 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 1: attention or starting a podcast out of a desperate need 573 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:12,959 Speaker 1: for attention TikTok anxiety or depression anxiety. I don't know 574 00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 1: who I'm I'm doing what I like the most. You're 575 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:22,080 Speaker 1: doing great. Um. Being a dog person, being a cat person, 576 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 1: or being a people person. It depends on the person, 577 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 1: cat or dog. I I need to meet and see 578 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: if I have a rapport with everything I don't like. 579 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:32,520 Speaker 1: I like some people. I don't you know. I'm a 580 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 1: people person, yes, but there's some people I don't like. 581 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: I gotta meet your dog if we ever rapport, and 582 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: then we'll go. There's a cat. I love my cat. 583 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: It doesn't mean I like your scratchy as cat. I 584 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: have a relationship with this person U animal on very 585 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: case by case. Okay, okay, Robbie. Upholding the status quo 586 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: or updating your status on Facebook? It's too many words. 587 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,920 Speaker 1: That was That was a word salad? Uh, definitely not 588 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 1: the status quo? That okay? Great? Okay, Robbie, UM Prada 589 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:20,959 Speaker 1: Gucci Fendi or bill a bong A Gucci, ah Prada 590 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: and bill a bung All right, and you know what 591 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: I think we're I think we can ended here. What 592 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: do you think? Say? Do you have another one? Well? No, 593 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,040 Speaker 1: not really? Okay, go for it. This one's um a 594 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: little bit different than the form, Robbie. How many Boras 595 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 1: do you think we'll see in our lifetime? I have 596 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,360 Speaker 1: not seen Bora yet, but I gotta go. I gotta 597 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: watch one of them. You haven't seen the first one? Yeah, 598 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,440 Speaker 1: I've never seen Bora, but I love it. I've seen clips, 599 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:50,719 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And I feel like I 600 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: loved it, but I never have like sat down to 601 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: do it, but I want to do it, do you 602 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean? It's like one of those like 603 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: I want to finish the morning show, like there's a 604 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: lot for me to do is it's like I think 605 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: I was, Um, obviously, I remember liking it when I 606 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:09,880 Speaker 1: was younger, but I don't think, or I imagine, I 607 00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:13,480 Speaker 1: didn't fully get like the actual political satire element when 608 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 1: I was, you know, that young, And I do wonder 609 00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: if I should rewatch it now as an adult to 610 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 1: see like what it is saying about post nine eleven America. Yeah, 611 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: I definitely, I don't know I'm gonna do it. You know, 612 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,120 Speaker 1: I watch a lot of Wendy Williams recently. I'm candy 613 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,440 Speaker 1: keeping it pretty light. Again, there's not a lot of 614 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,360 Speaker 1: there's not a lot of people not specifically following politics, 615 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 1: and it brings me down, and I have enough weird 616 00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,040 Speaker 1: thoughts in my head that I'm like, I would rather 617 00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: you know, Wendy's a mess and a half when I'm 618 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,400 Speaker 1: here for it, you know, stuff like that. But I'm 619 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: gonna watch borat Um. I want to watch I mean, 620 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,399 Speaker 1: I asked because I have not seen bore At two 621 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,719 Speaker 1: yet and it came out on Friday, and you know, 622 00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: my my boyfriend is sort of some sort of where 623 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 1: he's not letting me watch it. My boyfriend watched it 624 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:09,760 Speaker 1: without me. Cook play Okay, play when your boyfriend watches 625 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 1: bot without you, that's cook play and it's absolutely disgusting. 626 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 1: Descrit to me cuck play again, but go ahead, s 627 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:19,799 Speaker 1: oh um, well, cook play is it's sort of you 628 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:24,160 Speaker 1: enjoy watching your partners sleep with someone else. Oh my god, 629 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,480 Speaker 1: the games are up to some ship. I mean, I 630 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 1: have to say a lot of straits are into that too, talking. 631 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 1: I feel like it's mostly straight gay gay guys are 632 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,120 Speaker 1: just like, well, let's just all have sex. Like if 633 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,480 Speaker 1: you do want to have sex and we want to 634 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,359 Speaker 1: have sex, like, then the four of us are having sex, right, 635 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,960 Speaker 1: we gotta get more involved. But against sex is so 636 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 1: loosey goosey on my end that who can I tell 637 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,200 Speaker 1: you something? I knew this group of lesbians and when 638 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,840 Speaker 1: I used to live in Boston. Um, and in fact, 639 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 1: I hung out with one of them recently. This was 640 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 1: I would say, three couples. Yeah, I gotta get you 641 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: know what. I gotta get involved. I gotta reach out 642 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: to the community. I'm not I really, I really. I 643 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 1: realized that I don't even have like a big QUI like, 644 00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 1: I'm friends with comedians and I have my my my 645 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 1: old I have friends like who are like in private 646 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 1: equity and like friends I went to university with who 647 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: are like not evolved in the scene at all. But 648 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,919 Speaker 1: I don't have a specifically lesbian like there's all types 649 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 1: of lesbian dramas happened, like she's dating her, who's dating 650 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 1: I never have that because I always made lesbians in 651 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,600 Speaker 1: the wild. I look so gay, you know, me being 652 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,839 Speaker 1: visibly gay. It's like girls who are gay let you 653 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,600 Speaker 1: know if they like me or they have a crush 654 00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,200 Speaker 1: on me. They'll let me know that they're gay. And 655 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,440 Speaker 1: so I meet him out in the wild. I'm not 656 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,240 Speaker 1: on the thing. I'm not like meeting them through the circles. 657 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 1: I just meet like one offs, like oh, all the 658 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 1: thing here and there's a one off Dike there, Like 659 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,880 Speaker 1: that's who I end up meeting. But I gotta community. 660 00:36:55,160 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 1: I gotta get in the commune. Maybe after COVID we'll 661 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:04,360 Speaker 1: see the touch based back. Yeah, I feel like I 662 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,399 Speaker 1: mean like, we hang out with a lot of gay 663 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 1: men Georgian I do, but it's they're all like comedy gays, 664 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 1: and none of them are There's no drama. There's no drama, 665 00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: there's no hooking up, there's no like oops. It's like 666 00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: we're all like respectful of each other, which kind of sucks. 667 00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,879 Speaker 1: It really is very um I would actually have to say, Sam, 668 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 1: we're very lucky in that regard the go ahead. Well, 669 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,240 Speaker 1: I just mean like the fact that we have somehow 670 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,359 Speaker 1: maintained this circle of gay male friends, and with a 671 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:40,440 Speaker 1: couple of very minor exceptions, there are no like weird 672 00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 1: sexual triangles happening. People aren't like hooking up with their 673 00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 1: friends and then ruining their relationship. Everyone is having sex 674 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 1: on their own and not bring it into the group. 675 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: We can learn a lot from the game and in comedy. 676 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,279 Speaker 1: I think it's the last friend. I disagree, but I'm 677 00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:56,279 Speaker 1: interested in hearing you out. Well, I think that up 678 00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 1: until recently, we haven't there hasn't been a hugely famous 679 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 1: gay guy comic, you know, it really hasn't been. And 680 00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: we haven't had our Ellen or our Seinfeld or that 681 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,239 Speaker 1: sort of stuff for gay men, you know what I mean. 682 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: It's like, really they were almost no it's still the 683 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 1: newest group in comedy to some extent, is like gay 684 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:22,239 Speaker 1: men doing comedy on a bigger level because dikes have 685 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,160 Speaker 1: had it going, you know, I mean, so many of 686 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: the great comics are lesbians back from our queer women 687 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,600 Speaker 1: more generally. I mean it's like it's not just Ellen. 688 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: I mean it's like Wanda Sykes and you know, even 689 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: more more recently, like you know, my own thoughts about 690 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,640 Speaker 1: this society, Like the biggest special lest year was in 691 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 1: the NET, which was like there it really is. I 692 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 1: mean even back to like Paula Poundstone, it it really 693 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 1: is like uming. My theory is that masculinity is so 694 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 1: promoted in every culture, right, So in straight culture, obviously 695 00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 1: men are funny. Obviously, um you know, men are the 696 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 1: thing you relate to. Most men are revered, men are strong, 697 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:11,239 Speaker 1: amass And in the lesbian culture, I think dikes who 698 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,440 Speaker 1: have more masculinity are taken more seriously than regular girls 699 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 1: i e. Fem girls or the gay male culture is 700 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 1: the same thing. Femininity is always the second er uh tier. 701 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 1: You know, the mask gaze mask for mask is a 702 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,359 Speaker 1: very promoted thing in gay man culture. And it's just 703 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:34,040 Speaker 1: like everywhere you go there's misogyny, you know, to the 704 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: extent that even in a fully male world, i e. 705 00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:41,440 Speaker 1: A gay only world, maybe it's still femininity is still 706 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 1: fucking the pits. It's still not respected. It's still you 707 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:47,560 Speaker 1: can't be funny if you're feminine. And I think I 708 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 1: benefit from having some masculinity to my femininity. That like 709 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:54,680 Speaker 1: that gets me a little bit more. And you know, 710 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:57,360 Speaker 1: I think lesbians have a little bit more of that, 711 00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,239 Speaker 1: even though it's such a weird mental gymnastics that were, yeah, 712 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,400 Speaker 1: you know, it's this weird thing. And then gay guys, 713 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:06,080 Speaker 1: it's like you're choosing to have femininity. It's like almost 714 00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:10,799 Speaker 1: like doubly disrespectful, or it's doubly like frowned upon for 715 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,040 Speaker 1: some meschigos reason that maybe there was a gay guy 716 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,120 Speaker 1: comic but he was masked, you know, or he was 717 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 1: you actually know of one who you know? I mean, 718 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:23,440 Speaker 1: it's interesting because it's like pretty mad. Also, Richard Pryor 719 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:26,880 Speaker 1: literally had sex with men, and he is the most 720 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 1: famous and best comedian. Look, we go out of our 721 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: way to say people aren't gay men. It's like you 722 00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 1: look at Prince, Yes, guys, I don't well, I don't 723 00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:42,799 Speaker 1: know nothing about Prince. But the fact that I can 724 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,640 Speaker 1: say I think he's gay. It's like people take offense 725 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 1: to that, like what's wrong with me? I'm not because 726 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 1: I'm straight. I don't take offense. I mean, nobody's saying it, 727 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,840 Speaker 1: but you know what I mean saying that, I'm like 728 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: that I think he's gay. I have enough, but whether 729 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 1: the reason I have enough going there's enough evidence for 730 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:06,399 Speaker 1: me to think he is. It's you know what I mean, 731 00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:11,080 Speaker 1: he's wearing he not know this was heading to Prince's gay. 732 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:12,960 Speaker 1: But it's also like people get mad at me, like 733 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 1: you can't talk about Prince like that, like what like 734 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 1: he's gay? Like this is right. It's like you can 735 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 1: just say that it might be wrong, but it's not 736 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 1: offensive offensive. Yeah, it's so weird. Yeah, it's interesting how 737 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:29,359 Speaker 1: people are. You can't have it both ways. You can't 738 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: be like being gay is not bad, but also calling 739 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,880 Speaker 1: a straight person gay is offensive. Is offensive. It's like 740 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: do you remember when John McCain was asked, like, is 741 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 1: Obama a Muslim? And then his answer was like no, 742 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,000 Speaker 1: he's a good family man. And then everyone was like 743 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 1: that is so powerful. No, that's still actually offensive. It's wild, 744 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: It's like and then you're it's like so gas lightly. 745 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,240 Speaker 1: I remember I was working on a show and I 746 00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 1: was one of the jobs was I had to write 747 00:41:56,760 --> 00:42:00,160 Speaker 1: jokes for some of the correspondents on the show. And 748 00:42:00,239 --> 00:42:03,239 Speaker 1: we would have to like introduce the correspondence. It's like 749 00:42:03,280 --> 00:42:06,400 Speaker 1: you guys introduced me, and for my introductions for one 750 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: of the correspondents, I was constantly doing like a gay thing, 751 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,520 Speaker 1: like just bought a Subaru has two cats, like like 752 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,920 Speaker 1: hack dumb things, and I got pulled aside saying like, oh, 753 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: you can't insinuate this person is gay even though this 754 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,719 Speaker 1: person looks gay, you know. To me, I'm like, why 755 00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:26,440 Speaker 1: can't I insinuate somebody's gay? It's wrong with that? Bad? 756 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 1: Are you? What are you insinuating? Sir? Yeah, it's I 757 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,880 Speaker 1: mean I was being a ship. Here's the only no no. 758 00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: Like on guys lighting the guys like you think you're 759 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,520 Speaker 1: gonna guys like me, I'm gonna show you whose guys 760 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 1: lighting host? I invented it. Bit, I have to say, 761 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,799 Speaker 1: I have an idea for our topic, which is to 762 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,200 Speaker 1: have the topic just be society. Yea, by the way, 763 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 1: I did com prepare. I want you guys, I have 764 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,839 Speaker 1: a topic. Maybe maybe we won't ever do the top 765 00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,480 Speaker 1: like maybe at the end of the mesode we will 766 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:01,840 Speaker 1: finally do the topic. But I want you guys to 767 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,799 Speaker 1: know I come prepared to everything, just like this. You 768 00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 1: asked me for a topic about straight culture gay culture. 769 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:13,800 Speaker 1: What was the exact request? A topic about straight culture. Yeah, 770 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,239 Speaker 1: if you're thinking of a topic about gay culture, that's 771 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:20,920 Speaker 1: for our sister podcast, Gayteo Lab. Okay, okay, I have it. 772 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 1: It's it's like a difference between straight and gay culture topic. 773 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you want to talk do you 774 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 1: want to bring it up now? I feel like, did 775 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:33,000 Speaker 1: we do your segments or do we go normally a score? 776 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,239 Speaker 1: We didn't one segment and then we have another one 777 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:36,919 Speaker 1: right at the end that we do. Don't worry about 778 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,719 Speaker 1: it to Yeah, we give you a score at the 779 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,160 Speaker 1: end of the top or at the end of the 780 00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 1: first segment. But we did. This is a deeply deconstructed 781 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:49,680 Speaker 1: version of our podcast, and so we score. I think 782 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:52,640 Speaker 1: the ten. I think I nailed everything. It's a ten, 783 00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 1: ten out of one thousand doubs. Um. No, my topic 784 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,280 Speaker 1: was really just about dating. Something I'm thinking about in Quarantine. 785 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:02,840 Speaker 1: I have a lot of dikes coming to me getting 786 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 1: together in are you not in a relationship? I am, 787 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 1: But I'm saying all these Quarantine relationships that are happening 788 00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:14,720 Speaker 1: are like I have some diet. Here's something different between 789 00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,800 Speaker 1: gay culture, or specifically maybe dike culture and straight culture. 790 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,400 Speaker 1: For me is like dikes don't get to date anymore. 791 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:25,680 Speaker 1: We've lost the privilege, okay, because we're constantly obsessed with 792 00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 1: where this is going. I have two friends who have 793 00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:31,400 Speaker 1: gone on three or four dates with each other and 794 00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 1: they're constantly and she pursued me, but now she's the 795 00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:39,720 Speaker 1: one saying she wants a little space. So what's that about? Yes, people, 796 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 1: Ebb and flow, you don't have the temperament to date, 797 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:50,399 Speaker 1: do not date. Straight people date and what they do 798 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,839 Speaker 1: by dating is figuring it out in a few months 799 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,239 Speaker 1: and be like, well we're still figuring it out, but 800 00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:01,359 Speaker 1: dis like right away, like but where is this? Like 801 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 1: you don't get to know. It's like my buddy Sean 802 00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:08,400 Speaker 1: is thinking about getting married to his to his girlfriend 803 00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:14,080 Speaker 1: of six years and I almost said partner, but what 804 00:45:14,120 --> 00:45:19,160 Speaker 1: are you gay? Anyways? Like he's been thinking and it's 805 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 1: so like a matter of factor and he's like it's 806 00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 1: everybody would say, like girls would say or dicesive, what's 807 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,319 Speaker 1: the hold up? Like why do they wait? It's like 808 00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 1: there's been no hold up. They've been enjoying, Like there's 809 00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:34,480 Speaker 1: there's literally he's chilling, he's been good, there's been no problem, 810 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,920 Speaker 1: and now they're thinking of it like it's just so natural, 811 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 1: but diets don't operate that, and it's like, what's the alternative, 812 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,480 Speaker 1: Like you just have to go on Love is blind. 813 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,960 Speaker 1: You get to meet three people and you're married by 814 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 1: the end of the episode, so you're temperament to date. 815 00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,759 Speaker 1: This is in praise of straight culture, something that we 816 00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 1: can all learn, or at least the act incredible assertion 817 00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 1: that straight that dating is actually better for straight people 818 00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: and they and they are doing a better job. They're 819 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 1: doing it, They're there or I don't know. I mean, 820 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:13,680 Speaker 1: I have to say, I have to say, listen, I 821 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 1: don't know how smoothly dating is going in the straight world. 822 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 1: I think there. I think they are in a in 823 00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:25,400 Speaker 1: a crossroads where the practices that were considered so socially 824 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:28,359 Speaker 1: acceptable for so long are up in the air now. 825 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:33,360 Speaker 1: And I think a combination of like um of of 826 00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,640 Speaker 1: of kind of gender politics coming to a head, and 827 00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:39,840 Speaker 1: also men not being sure what it means to be 828 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,600 Speaker 1: a masculine straight man anymore, so that there's actually like 829 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,480 Speaker 1: more um uncertainty in the straight world than in the 830 00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 1: gay world. No, I agree that they're doing it bad. No, No, 831 00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,880 Speaker 1: I think there's way more. I think men are the problem, 832 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,840 Speaker 1: you know, for sure in the straight world to some extent. 833 00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,279 Speaker 1: But I think too. You know, people always ask me 834 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:02,439 Speaker 1: what went long in my last relationship. I'm like, it's 835 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 1: two women. It's too much. It's just like, I don't 836 00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:08,480 Speaker 1: know how you don't think you know, if there's no 837 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:12,440 Speaker 1: in yang, you know that makes sense, It's like, what 838 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:16,160 Speaker 1: are we doing here? Like every every few months I 839 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:17,960 Speaker 1: wake up as a lesbian. I'm like, how weird is 840 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 1: it that I like other girls? I'm like, isn't it 841 00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 1: just weird? Like, but imagine not being able to relate 842 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,799 Speaker 1: to at least you can relate to someone because you 843 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,480 Speaker 1: have similar experiences. Imagine if you were dating someone who 844 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:35,640 Speaker 1: is who had a different lived experience than you. I know, 845 00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:39,880 Speaker 1: it's crazy, it's that that you you you hit it 846 00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:44,239 Speaker 1: nail on the head. What's that? Thank you? But it's 847 00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 1: like I was trying to convince somebody, my sister's best 848 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:52,000 Speaker 1: friend husband, who's this straight white dude who's successful whatever. 849 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: I was trying to convince him. Like I was in 850 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 1: Georgia recently and I look like this in Georgia, and 851 00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 1: so it's confusing to me to him, and you know, 852 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,799 Speaker 1: he said it was so hard to explain to him, 853 00:48:04,840 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 1: Like we got like a weird we had a weird 854 00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,920 Speaker 1: interaction in a store just because I was like in 855 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,680 Speaker 1: deep Georgia, I wasn't like in Atlanta, and we had 856 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,160 Speaker 1: a weird thing because I look like this and they 857 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 1: don't see me like this. And then you know, so 858 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:20,960 Speaker 1: you I'm accustomed to looking different. And but the thing is, 859 00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,240 Speaker 1: this guy was like, how do you know they cared 860 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,840 Speaker 1: that you were gay? Like how does he even know 861 00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:28,200 Speaker 1: you're gay? And it's like you're trying to convince somebody 862 00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:33,399 Speaker 1: who's never looked or been perceived different what it's like 863 00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 1: to have that experience. It's like because I know it's 864 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: because if you have ever had a feeling that you 865 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 1: were different, it's at a distinct you know it immediately. 866 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:44,920 Speaker 1: It's like love, it's like anything else. It's like you 867 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,160 Speaker 1: just have these it's a feeling that you know and 868 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,680 Speaker 1: it's true. You know it's it's it's undoubtedly like you 869 00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,840 Speaker 1: feel it as soon as it happens to you. But 870 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:57,399 Speaker 1: these people, it's it was hard for me to articulate. 871 00:48:57,800 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: I kind of just gave up because I'm like, oh, 872 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:03,319 Speaker 1: I can't explain to this person what it's like to 873 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:08,920 Speaker 1: feel different in anyway because he's truly never he'll never 874 00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:12,879 Speaker 1: get to know that. Like ever, it's like maybe he'll 875 00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:17,600 Speaker 1: go to you know, I don't even know, maybe he'll 876 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:22,840 Speaker 1: go to China, or he'll go somewhere where he's different 877 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:25,439 Speaker 1: than the rest of the population. But even then there'll 878 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 1: be a reverence more so than a different than the different. Yeah, 879 00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,560 Speaker 1: I mean, there is something I find interesting is sometimes 880 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,160 Speaker 1: you'll see a straight person. This happens very rarely, but 881 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:37,960 Speaker 1: like a single straight man be in a gay space. 882 00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 1: Like maybe it's like a birthday party and it's mostly 883 00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:44,000 Speaker 1: gay people, but one of them it's like a girl 884 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:45,520 Speaker 1: that's friends with all the gay man and she brings 885 00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 1: her boyfriend. Or it's like it's a it's a sibling 886 00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:51,319 Speaker 1: of someone. Like sometimes you use witness this where it 887 00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,080 Speaker 1: is a straight man who has never ever not been 888 00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,719 Speaker 1: comfortable suddenly surrounded by people that are different from him, 889 00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,520 Speaker 1: and suddenly everything he's the things he's wearing that are 890 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:05,280 Speaker 1: such markers of conformity, like you know, straight boot cut 891 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:09,160 Speaker 1: pants and like sneakers or boat shoes and like a 892 00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: colored shirt. Everything that in his entire life has helped 893 00:50:12,640 --> 00:50:16,560 Speaker 1: him blend in suddenly is making him stick out. And 894 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,840 Speaker 1: it's the most like disorienting thing for him. And you 895 00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,719 Speaker 1: can just tell, yeah, it's so hard, and so that 896 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:25,360 Speaker 1: those experiences I wish upon everybody to something and just 897 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 1: for perspective. Um, but of course, you know, not everybody 898 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 1: can have everybody's experience, and it's all about us bridging 899 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,839 Speaker 1: those gaps without needing everybody to experience the other thing. 900 00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:39,879 Speaker 1: It's like, how can I not experience what you're experiencing? 901 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:43,279 Speaker 1: But still at least, UM say, I understand, I don't know, 902 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:46,480 Speaker 1: and I believe you. You know. It's like I was 903 00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:50,439 Speaker 1: explaining my brother in law Bruno, Um, my sister worked 904 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,279 Speaker 1: in tech, you know, she work in tech sales for 905 00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,560 Speaker 1: like twenty years, And I said, like, you know, he doesn't. 906 00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,880 Speaker 1: He wasn't unsure of misogyny to some extent, he believes 907 00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,680 Speaker 1: in it, but he was like, how much is it realized? Said, 908 00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:01,520 Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it's not even a feeling. I'm like, 909 00:51:01,719 --> 00:51:05,680 Speaker 1: imagine being my sister who was five one and every 910 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,959 Speaker 1: day for ten years she walks into an office where 911 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:12,919 Speaker 1: most people are bigger than her. Most people are men 912 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:16,759 Speaker 1: in her office, and they're all physically bigger than her. 913 00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,200 Speaker 1: Imagine he's six four, I said, Imagine you walked in. 914 00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 1: You never meet people taller than you barely, but imagine 915 00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:27,040 Speaker 1: you went to work every day and every person was 916 00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 1: eight feet tall. Like, but that is literally the perspective 917 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 1: she's had, Like, at any point, these people could annihilate her. 918 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:40,280 Speaker 1: They could literally squash her. And that that that power 919 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,960 Speaker 1: dynamic is in bed, you know it is. It's not 920 00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:46,880 Speaker 1: only I was trying to explain, it's not only a 921 00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 1: mental power exchange. There was a physicality to take for granted. 922 00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:56,040 Speaker 1: And it's very interesting, you know. It's just like, imagine 923 00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,040 Speaker 1: everybody you walked into work with was women. I was like, 924 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,360 Speaker 1: imagine for ten years you've only got like and most 925 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,479 Speaker 1: people were women. How weird. You can't even imagine because 926 00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,600 Speaker 1: you're like, but that is what it's like for us, 927 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:10,279 Speaker 1: those women who went to tech jobs, as women who 928 00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 1: did those things. It's like they went in every day 929 00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:16,680 Speaker 1: and mostly was the other thing. Um back to uh 930 00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:20,439 Speaker 1: like straight dating v. Gay dating? Yes, Yes, I am, 931 00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,799 Speaker 1: I'm I'm insisted. I have the salle you finish stay, 932 00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:25,680 Speaker 1: But I really do feel like the title should be society, 933 00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:33,440 Speaker 1: but um, this general society. I think, um, you know 934 00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:38,120 Speaker 1: how like we like cable was a thing and then 935 00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,400 Speaker 1: there's like one streaming service, and then there's like a 936 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:42,680 Speaker 1: thousand streaming services and now it's like you have to 937 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:44,080 Speaker 1: have all of them, and it's like, okay, well now 938 00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,480 Speaker 1: I just have cable again. But it's through this I 939 00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,239 Speaker 1: feel like cable is straight dating and it's like this 940 00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:51,279 Speaker 1: is the standard. And then people are like, well we 941 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:53,120 Speaker 1: can be kind of we can be queer and be 942 00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:56,680 Speaker 1: different about it. And then it's like eventually like that 943 00:52:56,760 --> 00:53:00,440 Speaker 1: becomes the million streaming services and the queer data is 944 00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,920 Speaker 1: also just like like the roles were different and now 945 00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 1: it's like, well you figure out you're like hetero roles, 946 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 1: like one of you is cooking, one of you is 947 00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:13,960 Speaker 1: being annoying and working. I'm not even really gay. I've 948 00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 1: just recently liked this, like I like I am gay, 949 00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: but I live basically a head of renormal lifestyle or 950 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,360 Speaker 1: something I need looking like me, and I date them. 951 00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,680 Speaker 1: And so she say, when people talk about butch and fam, 952 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,239 Speaker 1: I understand that there's a history there I'm not an 953 00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,680 Speaker 1: idiot to understand that it's like a history. I'm not 954 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 1: part of part of lesbian culture or whatever. But the 955 00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:35,279 Speaker 1: way some people talk about butch and fam, I'm like, 956 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,719 Speaker 1: do you realize you're just literally replacing the words man 957 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:41,799 Speaker 1: and women? Yes, except the differences were both women like 958 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:45,160 Speaker 1: we're you know, but but but really I agree with you. 959 00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,920 Speaker 1: I don't even really the only gay thing about me 960 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:49,680 Speaker 1: is that I'm gay. But other than that, I'm not 961 00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 1: even gay. Like that's how I feel like I'm not. 962 00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:59,080 Speaker 1: I live a pretty exactly like you said, I'm some 963 00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:01,239 Speaker 1: lesbians good friend who wears the pants. I'm like, pitch, 964 00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,920 Speaker 1: I wear the pants. Yes, I'm I'm the boy that 965 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm the man in the relationship. Is that what you 966 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,520 Speaker 1: want to hear? Because I'm fun to tell you like, 967 00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 1: I'm funny that then that's considered, um, you know, heteronormative. 968 00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,000 Speaker 1: But in fact, for you as a woman to say 969 00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 1: you're a man, that's actually so it's like that is 970 00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,239 Speaker 1: not conforming to general is you're literally like, yeah, I'm 971 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:23,279 Speaker 1: a man, but I'm a woman Like yeah, yeah, it's 972 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:27,000 Speaker 1: just like yeah, it's just we go we go so 973 00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,439 Speaker 1: far around we're back where we started. Literally, yes, there's 974 00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,920 Speaker 1: no point. And what I have you read? I read 975 00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,000 Speaker 1: The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson, where she's just like grappling 976 00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 1: with the fact that despite being queer and despite all 977 00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 1: of this, she's like raising a heteronormative family and she 978 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:44,040 Speaker 1: just cannot wrap her mind around. And she's like, I 979 00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:46,640 Speaker 1: saw a photo of me and my husband and we're 980 00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:48,640 Speaker 1: both queer and he's trans and all this stuff and 981 00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:51,319 Speaker 1: I and I was so disgusted to think to look 982 00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 1: and see that, Oh my god, we literally just look 983 00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:56,160 Speaker 1: like a straight cup. And it's like, yeah, just embrace it. 984 00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:58,719 Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. It's on my show, and you're like, 985 00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:03,080 Speaker 1: I joke, like, pretty queer. Now everybody's you know, everybody's queer. 986 00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:07,960 Speaker 1: Now you know everybody's uh, you know, there's no nobody 987 00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:11,080 Speaker 1: left not queer anymore, you know. And I asked in 988 00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 1: my audience, it goes anybody stranger and somebody raises, I said, raise, 989 00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:18,120 Speaker 1: You're You're perfect just the way you are, Like there's 990 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:20,040 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with you. Like we've gone so far that 991 00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:24,560 Speaker 1: now like you feel like you are valid. Yeah, it's 992 00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 1: okay for you to like, well you like they got it. 993 00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,560 Speaker 1: Jarring now to dr to truly lay your eyes on 994 00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:37,879 Speaker 1: someone who just is straight in like a nineties way, 995 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 1: like truly look at a woman who is wearing ballet 996 00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,759 Speaker 1: flats kind of like a skinny pant and like a 997 00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:50,799 Speaker 1: long shomp bag. That's like, wow, good for you. Yeah, 998 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:56,680 Speaker 1: really watching Paul mall tom do and laughing, living it up, 999 00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:00,640 Speaker 1: having a blast with her, with her, you know, I 1000 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:03,920 Speaker 1: always on a plane. I whatever the cost of alcohol 1001 00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:05,440 Speaker 1: is on a plane, I get it because what if 1002 00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:08,319 Speaker 1: it's your last drink. I don't understand people who it 1003 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,200 Speaker 1: is wored every last dollar to me when you're on 1004 00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,640 Speaker 1: a plane, I'm like, twelve dollar beer, Like I'll take two, 1005 00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:20,320 Speaker 1: Like literally, I'm like, this could be it. I don't understand. 1006 00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 1: Like that's the one place not to be frugal, and 1007 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,840 Speaker 1: coming from me, believe me, it's. This is my financial tipic. 1008 00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 1: If you on a plane, get the cheese plate, get 1009 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:30,360 Speaker 1: the wrap, get the things. Spend a hundred dollars on 1010 00:56:30,440 --> 00:56:33,919 Speaker 1: the flight. That meal is and it's a ship meal, 1011 00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:39,120 Speaker 1: but it could be the last Robb's financial corner, like 1012 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:44,279 Speaker 1: one where dixplurages on the plane because there's never heard 1013 00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:48,480 Speaker 1: that insane plane it's gonna be like so expens I'm like, yeah, 1014 00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:52,600 Speaker 1: and it could. What are you doing with the money, Robbie, 1015 00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,840 Speaker 1: You're gonna spend your life savings. By the time you land, 1016 00:56:56,040 --> 00:57:02,799 Speaker 1: you you get debt because you keep spending on every flight. 1017 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,960 Speaker 1: I also spend nowhere else but the flight. You have 1018 00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:11,480 Speaker 1: to you have to pick what you're doing. Spent on 1019 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:14,560 Speaker 1: the flight. It still counts. It's not its own currency. 1020 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,640 Speaker 1: Have got to like it could be like you've got 1021 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,680 Speaker 1: to live for whatever remainder time you have to live. 1022 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:25,160 Speaker 1: These planes they're not replacing. You see, these planes were 1023 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 1: on old, yellowing planes. I'm like, this has got to 1024 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,000 Speaker 1: be state of the art. Like when you go to 1025 00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:32,800 Speaker 1: rent a car, a car is probably brand new. Like 1026 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 1: the cars are are basically new. They're all twenty three models. 1027 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,960 Speaker 1: You get onto a plane from. Like, if there's anything 1028 00:57:38,960 --> 00:57:42,400 Speaker 1: I want to be brand new, it's the the fucking planes. 1029 00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:47,440 Speaker 1: It's like crazy, we're taking risk, risk, risk. We have 1030 00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:52,960 Speaker 1: no reason being up there. It's not natural, okay, and 1031 00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:55,200 Speaker 1: then you're gonna tell me you're not gonna slurg seven 1032 00:57:55,200 --> 00:58:00,240 Speaker 1: dollars on a wrap. I don't even understand. I see 1033 00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 1: people sitting there, I see even you know, people like 1034 00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:05,320 Speaker 1: we're not you know, if you can afford the planet. 1035 00:58:05,320 --> 00:58:08,080 Speaker 1: It's like I see people sitting there one belt going 1036 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 1: how much is that shut up? I have? It is 1037 00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:14,560 Speaker 1: so it is so fitting that we are ending on 1038 00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 1: Plane Humor. We have come talk about coming around full circle. 1039 00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:23,080 Speaker 1: You have analyzed every possible element of society and culture, 1040 00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:26,320 Speaker 1: and we are coming back to literally like Ellen level 1041 00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:32,720 Speaker 1: Plane Humor Canadians. This is also our most straight episode 1042 00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:36,720 Speaker 1: by far. We really did talk about straight culture, which 1043 00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:41,400 Speaker 1: really really did have to Sarabby really kept us in check. Yeah, 1044 00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:43,960 Speaker 1: and and and also unfortunately it is I think it's 1045 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:47,760 Speaker 1: time for a final segment. Let's do it all right. 1046 00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 1: Um So, so Robbie, this is really one of our 1047 00:58:50,760 --> 00:58:54,439 Speaker 1: straighter things is that we do this final segment called 1048 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,320 Speaker 1: shout Outs, where we kind of as a tribute to 1049 00:58:57,360 --> 00:59:00,240 Speaker 1: the radio shout out, the kind of TRL shout out, 1050 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:03,160 Speaker 1: you know people like shouting out people you know they're 1051 00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:06,040 Speaker 1: they're fan back home. We each give a shout out 1052 00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 1: to something that we uh feel deserves some love this week. 1053 00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,800 Speaker 1: And I actually have one, Sam I can go from 1054 00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:16,880 Speaker 1: please do what up listeners? I want to give a 1055 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:21,120 Speaker 1: quick shout out to the thirty plus antique furniture accounts 1056 00:59:21,120 --> 00:59:24,000 Speaker 1: so recently followed on Instagram. I just moved into a 1057 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:28,040 Speaker 1: new place and it is very unfurnished. But I want 1058 00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:30,640 Speaker 1: to not buy from Ikea and all the and all 1059 00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 1: the cheap places. So then I thought, where do I 1060 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,520 Speaker 1: find things that have character? And then and someone recommends, 1061 00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:37,520 Speaker 1: and you know, you should follow an account on Instagram. 1062 00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,920 Speaker 1: Cut to two weeks later, my house is no more furnished, 1063 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 1: and I'm following upwards of forty five Instagram accounts looking 1064 00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:48,000 Speaker 1: at furniture all day, completely paralyzed, not making any offers 1065 00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:51,360 Speaker 1: on anything, obsessed with finding a deal, and not living 1066 00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:54,280 Speaker 1: any better than I was looking for At this point, 1067 00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,360 Speaker 1: why not just order something for my Kiah. But let 1068 00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,160 Speaker 1: me tell you something, I'm gonna keep doing this for 1069 00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:00,600 Speaker 1: the foreseeable future. I'm never gonna get furniture, but I'm 1070 01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:05,000 Speaker 1: going to be so well versed in kind of sixties 1071 01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:09,000 Speaker 1: through eighties furniture trends in America and Europe, especially Denmark, 1072 01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:13,000 Speaker 1: based on some of these accounts, that you know what 1073 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:14,880 Speaker 1: I want to piggyback off that I don't know if 1074 01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:18,360 Speaker 1: I have my own shoutout, but people don't give me 1075 01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:21,160 Speaker 1: credit for and lesbians. Enough credit is I'm bringing fashion 1076 01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:25,360 Speaker 1: to the lesbian world. You are in a taste sense. 1077 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:27,520 Speaker 1: And what I mean by that is I also, by 1078 01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:29,280 Speaker 1: the way, you can call into Dike Vice and I 1079 01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:31,600 Speaker 1: will give you furniture help. I happen to be great 1080 01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:36,680 Speaker 1: with furniture design design. It's a very It's the gayest 1081 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,800 Speaker 1: thing about me is that I'm more gay man like 1082 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,920 Speaker 1: than probably Dike in the way that my fashion works 1083 01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:45,720 Speaker 1: and the way that my taste works, particularly for interior design. 1084 01:00:45,840 --> 01:00:49,960 Speaker 1: I just got the eighties piece myself of a glass 1085 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 1: table and the four chairs looks phenomenal in the space. 1086 01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:55,880 Speaker 1: I'm happy to share a picture with your listeners. Um 1087 01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:59,160 Speaker 1: so shout out shout out based on that to this 1088 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:02,480 Speaker 1: is my tip to you Walls in my shoutout Craig's list, 1089 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:09,520 Speaker 1: do not discount Craigslist. Our website has not been They 1090 01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:12,960 Speaker 1: need help. Okay, they need somebody in the Silicon Valley. 1091 01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:15,360 Speaker 1: What it is they are not at the speed. Do 1092 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 1: not let the website re lack. They're a fool you 1093 01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:25,600 Speaker 1: There are still grape fines on Craigslist, then Facebook Marketplace. 1094 01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,120 Speaker 1: That's what I'm her. Fine grape fine, send me a link. 1095 01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:31,400 Speaker 1: You guys need help, should I get this table? This table, 1096 01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:33,520 Speaker 1: I will let you know if you've gone to down 1097 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,600 Speaker 1: the rabbit hole that now you're you fucked yourself into 1098 01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:40,320 Speaker 1: this very specific look that you'll like for a year. 1099 01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 1: But I can tell you timeless but also I catchy 1100 01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:46,840 Speaker 1: stuff that you should get. So George giving up with 1101 01:01:46,840 --> 01:01:48,160 Speaker 1: a couple of links. I'll tell you if it's a 1102 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:51,880 Speaker 1: yes or no. Um. And I'm trying to just change 1103 01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 1: this to lesbians. It's like Ellen's flipping houses and doing 1104 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,080 Speaker 1: all this, and we see what she's doing, but Ellen 1105 01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,520 Speaker 1: is revealed this a fraud to some in I'm going 1106 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,880 Speaker 1: to have the reverse to Ellen thing where I seem 1107 01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:07,360 Speaker 1: aggressive and angry when I'm talking to you when I'm 1108 01:02:07,400 --> 01:02:10,360 Speaker 1: on camera, but in fact, behind closed doors when you 1109 01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:13,000 Speaker 1: hear people working with me and people friends with me, 1110 01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:15,880 Speaker 1: I happen to be very kind and generous and benevolent 1111 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,680 Speaker 1: as a person. And I'm going to have the reverse 1112 01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:21,440 Speaker 1: Ellen canceled. You're gonna find that I'm actually much nicer 1113 01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:26,720 Speaker 1: than I seem to. That's a great way to approach it. Um, Okay, 1114 01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 1: I'll do my shout out, all right, Um, what's up, listeners. 1115 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:31,160 Speaker 1: I just want to give a quick shout out to 1116 01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,440 Speaker 1: all of my gay male friends that do not have 1117 01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:35,640 Speaker 1: sex with each other. Teach and every one of you 1118 01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 1: are so beautiful and chaste, and that is so important 1119 01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:43,440 Speaker 1: to maintain healthy friendships. I know we've all been in 1120 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,240 Speaker 1: houses together, We've all been in underwear parties together. Heck, 1121 01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:48,840 Speaker 1: we've been in back rooms together. And never do our 1122 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:53,680 Speaker 1: holes or wieners or mouths touch. We are celibate with 1123 01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:57,360 Speaker 1: each other, and we have sex with strangers exclusively and 1124 01:02:57,480 --> 01:03:02,800 Speaker 1: our partners and not each other, and that is so powerful. 1125 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,880 Speaker 1: Love you all my gamail friends. By wow, God, what 1126 01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:13,040 Speaker 1: a range furniture Craigslist gay sex. Honestly, not that big 1127 01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:17,280 Speaker 1: of a rage. Not Actually they're wonder one. Well, Robbie, 1128 01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:20,280 Speaker 1: this has really been incredible. Thank you so much for 1129 01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:23,360 Speaker 1: coming on the pond today. Oh my god, thanks for 1130 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:27,040 Speaker 1: having me. Um and yeah, I'll go I'll leave this 1131 01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:30,840 Speaker 1: and go think somewhere else now, OK, you guys follow 1132 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:32,880 Speaker 1: me on everything. I don't know if you plug me 1133 01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:36,200 Speaker 1: now Robbie Hoffman on Instagram or some road to ten 1134 01:03:36,320 --> 01:03:40,560 Speaker 1: k yourself and you're doing the road to ten k 1135 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,080 Speaker 1: trying to get ten k followers. It's the least you 1136 01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:49,439 Speaker 1: guys could do for me. No, I don't do any 1137 01:03:49,440 --> 01:03:51,560 Speaker 1: type of exercise that is also I'll leave that to 1138 01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 1: the game and you can follow me on Twitter. I 1139 01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:58,360 Speaker 1: am Robbie Hoffman. Thanks guys for having me than you