Speaker 1: The second date of date. You've ever been just casually
Speaker 1: hanging out with someone when suddenly they start to give
Speaker 1: you a vibe and you think, wait a second, do
Speaker 1: they think that this is a date?
Speaker 2: Oh? Oh, you're not excited about it. I was excited.
Speaker 1: It was just like unexpected.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, because you didn't think it was a date.
Speaker 1: Because it happens to me all the time. I'm just
Speaker 1: doing my thing in studio and then Brooke will slide
Speaker 1: her scarf blanket to the side and show me a
Speaker 1: little extra shoulder and lower her glasses down her nose,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hold up, does Brook think that this
Speaker 1: is a date?
Speaker 4: I definitely do.
Speaker 1: Excuse me, because you're married first of all us, I'm
Speaker 1: young enough to be your son, so that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 3: If I slide my glasses down just because my face
Speaker 3: got a little sweaty.
Speaker 1: That's all really okay. I understand I make you in
Speaker 1: all sorts of ways, but you need to get over
Speaker 1: for it. Because one of our listeners found himself in
Speaker 1: an unexpected romantic situation. He's asking us for help today.
Speaker 1: His name is Julian. Julian, Welcome to the show Man.
Speaker 5: Hey, how's it going.
Speaker 3: We'll like you to have the expert in Jeffrey on
Speaker 3: with you.
Speaker 1: Julian, you don't think this is a date now because
Speaker 1: I tend to have that effect on people.
Speaker 2: Brook is showing a lot of old shoulder.
Speaker 3: Julian, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's focus not on each other, and let's focus
Speaker 1: on the lady you want us to call to day.
Speaker 1: Who's she?
Speaker 5: So? Her name is Abby And the date that you're
Speaker 5: talking about was unexpected, you know it was that actually
Speaker 5: happened like in real life, wasn't off of an app
Speaker 5: like every other date.
Speaker 2: Oh whoa cool you are?
Speaker 3: Like, you're a rare man on this segment. Yeah, where'd
Speaker 3: you meet?
Speaker 1: Throwback?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was on a work break and I went
Speaker 5: to grab some coffee, you know, downstairs, and there's a
Speaker 5: coffee shop right across the street and barista is like,
Speaker 5: make my drink and she offers to give it to
Speaker 5: me for free.
Speaker 3: Oh really, yeah, Like, I know, how good do you
Speaker 3: look that day?
Speaker 5: I mean, hey, you know, I guess I remember to
Speaker 5: shave or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so is Abby the barista?
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, she's not so yeah. So
Speaker 5: so I was a little surprised, but then I looked
Speaker 5: behind me and there's this really cute girl which is
Speaker 5: Abby behind me, and so I tell the brista, okay,
Speaker 5: well I'd like to buy her drink.
Speaker 3: Wow, just shatter the barista's dreams.
Speaker 2: And I think she was probably hitting on you. But
Speaker 2: you forward, yeah, that's right, that's.
Speaker 1: Right, that's a good.
Speaker 5: Well she was like, well that's really nice, and so
Speaker 5: you know, that opened the door for us to talk.
Speaker 5: And you know, I didn't have that much time on
Speaker 5: my break, was only like ten minutes or so, but
Speaker 5: you know, I asked her, like, hey, do you want
Speaker 5: to go sit outside and drink our coffees? And she
Speaker 5: said yes. So we did it and it was great.
Speaker 5: I mean, it was short, but it was great.
Speaker 1: Is this your date?
Speaker 6: Though? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Why are you like this was the date? This is
Speaker 5: the date?
Speaker 3: It was ten minutes long.
Speaker 1: You don't need drinking in casual sex for it.
Speaker 3: But this is just a meeting, Like I feel like
Speaker 3: we have forgotten what happens in the real world.
Speaker 1: Really good, just calm down. Maybe we should ask what
Speaker 1: did you talk about? Was there some flirtation happening? Date vibes?
Speaker 5: There? We we had a great conversation. So you know,
Speaker 5: I'm a big hockey fan and she's not. But she
Speaker 5: was like interested in that, and she was like, Oh,
Speaker 5: isn't it just guys like punching each other all the time.
Speaker 5: And I was like, no, no, it's like there's a
Speaker 5: lot more finetse to it.
Speaker 1: And they skate and then punch each other and hit
Speaker 1: each other with sticks.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Did you like parlay that until we should watch a
Speaker 3: game together sometime or anything like that?
Speaker 5: So I did not, but I did parlay it into Hey,
Speaker 5: i'd like to take you on a real date sometimes.
Speaker 2: I'm glad it was. I'd like to punch you in
Speaker 2: the face.
Speaker 1: Yeah, faith off right now, although that would be more
Speaker 1: a Brooks Sally for style.
Speaker 2: Oh I'll punch a man whenever you want.
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean it. I mean it sounds a good
Speaker 1: a good connection, even if it was a short amount
Speaker 1: of time.
Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly. And that's what's so bizarre, because I have
Speaker 5: texted her a few times since then. When I called it, like,
Speaker 5: I heard her voice on the voice announce I know
Speaker 5: it's like her actual number. I don't know if I
Speaker 5: just totally misread the situation, or maybe she has a boyfriend.
Speaker 5: I don't know, but I'm very confused.
Speaker 3: Did she give you her number after you said I'd
Speaker 3: like to take you on a date sometime? Yes, So yeah,
Speaker 3: that's been pretty direct, and then she knows the intent
Speaker 3: the number giving.
Speaker 1: I mean, aside from hockey, did you guys talk about
Speaker 1: anything else?
Speaker 2: Hopefully?
Speaker 5: We talked about breaking bad and Better Call Saul.
Speaker 2: I haven't seen Better Call Saul yet.
Speaker 1: One of the most erotic shows on TV for sure,
Speaker 1: The Lawyer. Yeah, that bald spot gets me. Was there
Speaker 1: a hug or was there a kiss or.
Speaker 2: A physical vibe?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Like, was she playing with her hair? Was she smiling?
Speaker 2: Was there a lot of eye contact? Was there no
Speaker 2: eye contact?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: No, there was a lot of eye contact. She was
Speaker 5: playing with her hair. She was smiling.
Speaker 3: So wait, I forget You've reached out and she hasn't
Speaker 3: called you back at all. How long is that?
Speaker 5: It's been about a week?
Speaker 3: Oh too long?
Speaker 1: That long?
Speaker 2: But she just forgot. It wasn't a very good forget.
Speaker 5: I mean I left her a message, so I don't
Speaker 5: know how she could forget.
Speaker 3: Oh, it takes me more than a week to check
Speaker 3: my voicemails. There for at least three weeks before I
Speaker 3: actually listen.
Speaker 1: But I texted, okay, well, and let us try giving
Speaker 1: her a call. Maybe she'll answer from a number that's
Speaker 1: completely unrecognizable. We might have better luck there. We're going
Speaker 1: to play a song. Who knows. Try, We're going to
Speaker 1: play a song. Come back, try and get your second
Speaker 1: date update Right after this, some of us are clearly
Speaker 1: flustered in studio today after hearing about Julian's first date
Speaker 1: with Abbey, which, to Brooks shock and horror, involved no drinking,
Speaker 1: no cooking, drugs in any back alley sheds, and no
Speaker 1: fluids exchanged except for the coffee that he bought her
Speaker 1: after they met.
Speaker 3: Sure, I always bring fertilizer to my dates and some coughs,
Speaker 3: but I'm not saying that everybody has to do that.
Speaker 3: It's just strange, like it's ten minutes and they it's
Speaker 3: a chance meeting in a coffee show.
Speaker 1: I know, it's crazy. People can have a romantic connection
Speaker 1: just talking to each other.
Speaker 3: How is that crazy that we're considering it a date?
Speaker 1: Anyway, did give me a good idea for the coffee
Speaker 1: shop fluid exchange?
Speaker 2: I like interesting crowd. I feel like you're.
Speaker 3: Going to be a quad guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely, what's crowdfund this? Then, but before that, we
Speaker 1: got to talk to Julian because it's been a week
Speaker 1: since that date happened. He's having trouble locking down date
Speaker 1: number two.
Speaker 5: I have to say, I mean, I just felt such
Speaker 5: a strong connection with Abby, you know, I mean, it's like,
Speaker 5: how often do you have something like this happened? It
Speaker 5: just felt like a really great connection. So I'd love
Speaker 5: to see her again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think it's a good sign that she
Speaker 3: gave you her phone number, like I said, after you
Speaker 3: had mentioned that you want to take her out, take her.
Speaker 4: Out, yeah, you said, yeah, and a real number, Yeah, yeah, exactly,
Speaker 4: because if she was in a relationship and she just
Speaker 4: didn't realize that she needed to tell you that, then
Speaker 4: a fake number would have sufficed.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, well, now's the time to get all those answers.
Speaker 1: We're going to dial her number and double check if
Speaker 1: it's real, and then ask why she's not calling you
Speaker 1: back to get another date.
Speaker 5: All right, all right, thanks, Jeff.
Speaker 2: Are you going to ask her if she wants to
Speaker 2: invest in the fluid exchange?
Speaker 1: Well, let's program. I'll get to that obviously, But obviously
Speaker 1: we're going to focus on Jewelian here here. Hello, Hey, is.
Speaker 6: This Abby and it is yes.
Speaker 1: Hey, Ibby. My name is jeff from a morning radio
Speaker 1: show you may or may not have heard of called
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's okayby, are we on air?
Speaker 1: We are look at you term.
Speaker 2: Here?
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Do you have a background in broadcasting?
Speaker 6: I did an internship in high school.
Speaker 2: You want to run the board more experienced at Alexis.
Speaker 2: That's true, So.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's a I don't know if you
Speaker 1: did this at the place where you interned. But we
Speaker 1: have a segment on our show called second Date Update.
Speaker 6: No, I'm I'm not familiar with that.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well it's pretty simple. Basically, one of our listeners
Speaker 1: reaches out to us after they can't get a hold
Speaker 1: of somebody they went on a date with, and they
Speaker 1: want to know why. And you are the person we're
Speaker 1: reaching out to because you met up with a guy
Speaker 1: named Julian the other day.
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean it was a quick meeting.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I remember, I remember Julian.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Yeah, Julian told us that he thought you're
Speaker 1: really cute, thought that things were going well when you
Speaker 1: were chatting with each other and he was hoping to
Speaker 1: see you again. He doesn't really understand why that isn't
Speaker 1: coming to fruition.
Speaker 6: Wait, so he's he's asking you to find out why
Speaker 6: I didn't call him, right, because.
Speaker 1: You're not really responding to him.
Speaker 3: Is there a reason or is it just you know,
Speaker 3: it's only been a week, maybe you haven't had time.
Speaker 6: I mean I saw that he called, and I've been
Speaker 6: just kind of thinking about it.
Speaker 3: But I mean, oh, you're like on the fence.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, kind of on the fence about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, can we ask why? Like what are you on
Speaker 1: the fence about?
Speaker 6: Well, I don't know, like what he told you about.
Speaker 6: Get it wasn't a date. I mean like we we
Speaker 6: met in.
Speaker 7: The line at the coffee shop and the grassa gave
Speaker 7: him his coffee for free, and she said thank you
Speaker 7: for your work, thank you for the work that you do.
Speaker 5: And he was he was wearing scrubs.
Speaker 3: Oh oh okay, he's like a doctor.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, yeah, I agree to do the doctor or
Speaker 6: you know, just did something in healthcare.
Speaker 3: Okay, we didn't know that, So that's cool, Like you
Speaker 3: wouldn't want to date somebody like that?
Speaker 6: No, No, I mean I did think that was cool.
Speaker 6: I thought that was definitely worth taking a couple of
Speaker 6: minutes getting to know him better. You know, when he
Speaker 6: was like, Heyle, you want to go sit out, find
Speaker 6: and half our coffees.
Speaker 2: I'm in between brain surgery?
Speaker 6: Is it?
Speaker 3: I only have ten minutes between bedpants?
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 1: I mean for most women hearing that would be the
Speaker 1: absolute green light to definitely see them again.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I mean, it either means he was really successful or
Speaker 6: he's really good hearted, like one of those two.
Speaker 1: So where's the disconnect happening?
Speaker 6: Well, he talked about his work a little bit, but
Speaker 6: he was talking about like how much he loved his work,
Speaker 6: and he was saying that sometimes he can get really
Speaker 6: close to his patients and he just loved being able
Speaker 6: to help his patients and make them happy. And I
Speaker 6: was and I was thinking, that's really really cool. I
Speaker 6: got a great vibe from that medical field. Yeah, that's
Speaker 6: what I'm thinking, right, And then he asked me for
Speaker 6: I'm my number and said he'd like to kick me out.
Speaker 6: I gave him that and and we parted ways, and
Speaker 6: I was getting to my car and I was just
Speaker 6: that look back. I was kind of watching him, and
Speaker 6: he was walking across the street going back into his work,
Speaker 6: and he he went into one of those waxing salons,
Speaker 6: like antic place, like yeah, like the way they do
Speaker 6: like Brazilian wax. No, like a Brazilian. I didn't even
Speaker 6: know those guys worst clubs.
Speaker 3: I've never even had a male do that. I close,
Speaker 3: he's never walked out a waxing place and seeing.
Speaker 1: A dude, I didn't know that was a career option.
Speaker 6: Immediately, I thought of him saying, yeah, I get really
Speaker 6: close to my patients.
Speaker 5: And I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 6: That just made me go, oh, maybe he.
Speaker 2: Just maybe he just met physically close.
Speaker 1: I'll thank you for sharing that with us, But there
Speaker 1: is kind of an awkward part that I need to
Speaker 1: get to here, and it's best to probably just rip
Speaker 1: it off real quick and let you know that Julian
Speaker 1: has actually been on the other line listening this entire time,
Speaker 1: and he wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean I just think this whole Hi, I yeah,
Speaker 5: this whole conversation. I mean it's just so it's so
Speaker 5: pathetic because you know, no legitimate profession.
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't think anyone to say that.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not.
Speaker 5: Trying to being a doctor. Frankly speaking, I mean I
Speaker 5: had to go fourteen hours of online webinars to get
Speaker 5: my state hold on.
Speaker 1: Did you just say that being a wax technician is
Speaker 1: as legitimate as being a doctor.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I'm very proud of my work. I
Speaker 5: make people's lives better. And also the whole women thing.
Speaker 5: I mean, there are men who come to our practice
Speaker 5: as well. You know, I've seen it on I've seen
Speaker 5: naked men as well. You know, I'm a professional.
Speaker 2: Good for you.
Speaker 3: Yes, we didn't mean I mean, honestly though, we didn't
Speaker 3: mean to insult your profession. I think what she's saying
Speaker 3: is that she just had one impression and then it
Speaker 3: was just totally different. So she just needed a minute
Speaker 3: to kind of reconcile that for a week.
Speaker 5: Well, you know, you know, you shouldn't be making assumptions.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's not like I said that I just
Speaker 5: got off operating on someone's heart.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 5: I mean, you you can assume based on things, but
Speaker 5: you know what they say about assumptions.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he wasn't operating on hearts. He was shaving
Speaker 1: a triangle, yeah, exactly, which takes a lot of skill.
Speaker 3: Could have been a landing strip.
Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean hours of studying to get to it.
Speaker 5: You guys are joking about it, but it's super hard
Speaker 5: to do. I mean it's very sensitive that skin, that area.
Speaker 1: You know, we're not trying to insult anybody's profession here,
Speaker 1: We just wanted to get the two of you talking.
Speaker 1: So Abby, why don't you talk directly to Julian here?
Speaker 6: Okay, So I ago with what they're saying, Like it
Speaker 6: was not I wasn't intending to insault your profession. I
Speaker 6: just I think I felt a little bit misled. And
Speaker 6: I don't know, I think maybe if you're in that
Speaker 6: like that's the kind of thing that and I know
Speaker 6: we didn't have a ton of time, but is it
Speaker 6: kind of thing that would be good to know?
Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, grow up, Like seriously, I kind of agree.
Speaker 2: With him on that line.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
Speaker 3: I mean, it's just like if you see it every day,
Speaker 3: it's not like he's looking at it in a sexual
Speaker 3: way like the body part exactly. I agree with him
Speaker 3: on that, just on that piece, Like.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I look it up every day and it
Speaker 2: is never.
Speaker 3: Getting it is the purpose, the intent is different.
Speaker 1: I heard that Abbey was impressed with what he can do.
Speaker 1: Isn't that right?
Speaker 6: Actually I didn't say impressed. I said I felt a
Speaker 6: little misled.
Speaker 1: Well, those are mostly the same letters in those arranging.
Speaker 5: The same Well, you know, I guess I should start
Speaker 5: putting it on my forehead that I.
Speaker 3: Wax like you.
Speaker 6: Oh.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's because she's my customer. That's why she gave
Speaker 5: me the free drink.
Speaker 2: So much.
Speaker 1: A satisfied customer, clearly.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeahstomers five stars.
Speaker 2: Oh and he can wax stars. I maybe get your
Speaker 2: number after this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we can. Let's all get waxed together. We'll do
Speaker 1: a morning show wax and put it up on the
Speaker 1: broken jeff I think mine's going to take a lot
Speaker 1: longer than
Speaker 3: Your broken Jeffrey in the morning.