Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Josh is on the phone today for to catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and he thinks that his girlfriend of three and
Speaker 1: a half years named Karina might be cheating on him.
Speaker 1: So we'll see if we can help him out. Thank
Speaker 1: you for coming on the show, Josh. This is never easy.
Speaker 1: Hopefully we find out that she's not cheating, though, tell
Speaker 1: us a little bit about the situation. Man, why do
Speaker 1: you think Karna might be messing around?
Speaker 2: Yeah, as you mentioned, we've been together for about three
Speaker 2: and a half years, and you know, I just feel
Speaker 2: like she's kind of checking out of our relationship a
Speaker 2: little bit. And you know the big thing is she
Speaker 2: used to always like drop hints about an engagement ring
Speaker 2: where she wanted to go for our honeymoon, But the
Speaker 2: last three months that's kind of stopped. You know, she
Speaker 2: never misses a pol Audius class. You know, she's going
Speaker 2: and working out extra hard these days, more often than
Speaker 2: usual usual. You know, she's she's a very beautiful woman,
Speaker 2: but now like heverybody's looking extra fine. You know, are
Speaker 2: you spending more time out? You know, she says with
Speaker 2: her friends, you know, doing her own thing away from me.
Speaker 2: When she is at home, she's you know, she's always
Speaker 2: on her phone. You know, I don't know what she's
Speaker 2: doing on there. But and I've been trying to be
Speaker 2: more fretacious and you know, more than normal since I've
Speaker 2: noticed this and not not as responsive as she used
Speaker 2: to be.
Speaker 3: Could be something else besides her cheating.
Speaker 2: I mean, I you know, I hope she's not. I
Speaker 2: hope she's just you know, I hope she really is
Speaker 2: going to pilate's. I hope when she says she's out
Speaker 2: with her girlfriends, that's really the key.
Speaker 3: Good chance it might be. But also it's kind of
Speaker 3: weird though, just because like I don't know, when you
Speaker 3: have your heart set on where you're going to go
Speaker 3: on your honeymoon or like your ring, it's like, did
Speaker 3: you get distracted? Did somebody get you off course of
Speaker 3: that particular fantasy that you have with your man?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, that's kind of what I'm wondering. It's
Speaker 4: like what you why, like why why has the behavior changed?
Speaker 4: And you know, I mean the first case my mind
Speaker 4: goes is all, maybe she's cheating.
Speaker 2: You know. Again, I hope not, But it's it's hard
Speaker 2: not to contemplate that.
Speaker 1: So the engagement thing. Has she thought you were going
Speaker 1: to ask her to marry you for a long time?
Speaker 4: I mean, I mean, I don't know if she like
Speaker 4: thought I was, but she definitely has been like she
Speaker 4: definitely was hinting that that's the direction she wanted this
Speaker 4: relationship to go.
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is a thing, but Nina,
Speaker 1: you could answer it. Would you give up at a
Speaker 1: certain point if it was two years and you were
Speaker 1: waiting for your boyfriend proposed, and then you would just
Speaker 1: be like, Okay, he's not going to that is how
Speaker 1: would how you would feel if.
Speaker 3: That's what I wanted, like more than anything, and then yes, okay?
Speaker 1: But then would you cheat or leave the relationship?
Speaker 3: Maybe? I mean, what how what happens if she finds
Speaker 3: somebody that you know, is on a different path and
Speaker 3: is moving faster than Josh and hopefully not maybe it
Speaker 3: hasn't even gotten too that part yet, and then maybe
Speaker 3: Josh can still get back in there and you know,
Speaker 3: save the day. But a lot of this is communication,
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 2: I yeah, I mean, you probably are right. I mean
Speaker 2: I probably should have picked up on these hands. I
Speaker 2: probably should have been more proactive about that, and that's
Speaker 2: on me and kicking myself.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, Josh. You should do it
Speaker 1: in your time, right because you want to make sure
Speaker 1: you're ready. Also, if you think you if you really
Speaker 1: think you should have been more proactive than okay, But
Speaker 1: don't beat yourself up about it. That's a big decision
Speaker 1: to make, and you should do it in your time.
Speaker 1: If she wants it earlier, then maybe you guys have
Speaker 1: a conversation of how long can you wait or something
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 3: But I also think that if you're in a relationship
Speaker 3: for three and a half years and let's say you
Speaker 3: are somebody that's like, okay, well you know how I
Speaker 3: feel about you, and if you don't feel the same way,
Speaker 3: then what are we doing?
Speaker 1: So yeah, that was the conversation I was saying to have,
Speaker 1: but you said it much more clearly than.
Speaker 3: Well, Jost's find out if you're having that conversation today.
Speaker 1: All right, Josh, So is there anybody that you suspect
Speaker 1: she might be cheating with?
Speaker 2: No, it's no one in particular.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, you told us what grocery store she
Speaker 1: shops at, So we'll call and pretend to be from
Speaker 1: that grocery store and say that every single month, we
Speaker 1: choose one Rewards card member at random who gets free
Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our beautiful, new and improved floral department,
Speaker 1: and we'll see if she sends those flowers to you
Speaker 1: or someone else. Okay, all right, singer's crushed, Please don't
Speaker 1: come back and get your to Catch cheeter.
Speaker 5: Right after this, it's time to Catch a Cheater only on.
Speaker 1: The Tubile show. Right in the middle of To Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheeter and if you're just joining us, Josh is
Speaker 1: on the phone and he thinks that his girlfriend of
Speaker 1: three and a half years, Karina, might be cheating on him.
Speaker 1: We're about to call her and see if we can
Speaker 1: catch her if she is, or hopefully find out that
Speaker 1: she isn't. But Josh, before we call her, why don't
Speaker 1: you refresh everybody's memory on why you think she might
Speaker 1: be messing around.
Speaker 2: You've been together for about three and a half years,
Speaker 2: and you know, for a while now she's been hinting,
Speaker 2: you know, basically she wants to get married, and I've
Speaker 2: really taken the hint.
Speaker 4: So for the past three months she's kind of been
Speaker 4: more distant, spending more time out of the house, working
Speaker 4: out more, and spend a lot of time on our
Speaker 4: phone when she is at home.
Speaker 2: So I'm I'm a little worried.
Speaker 1: Well, we're going to call her and do the usual,
Speaker 1: pretend to be from the grocery store where she's a
Speaker 1: rewards card member, and we'll say that. Every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one rewards member hotly random who gets free
Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our Florida department. We'll see if she
Speaker 1: believes that, and if she does, if she sends the
Speaker 1: flowers to you, Josh, or to someone else. Okay, are
Speaker 1: you ready?
Speaker 2: I'm ready?
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna call he right now.
Speaker 5: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, is this Karina?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: This Karina. You're a rewards card member at.
Speaker 6: Ah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Karina. My name is Jorban and I'm calling to
Speaker 1: say congratulations. You're this most big winner.
Speaker 5: Oh where did I learn?
Speaker 1: Thank you the flowers?
Speaker 5: I won some flowers?
Speaker 1: Yes, every single month, I don't know if you know
Speaker 1: this or not, we choose one rewards card member at
Speaker 1: random to say thank you very much for shopping with
Speaker 1: us and we appreciate your business and you being a
Speaker 1: loyal customer. You've just won thirty six long stem red
Speaker 1: roses to be delivered anywhere in the United States absolutely free.
Speaker 1: It comes with the box chocolates and a card.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I love it.
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you, no problem. We just started doing it,
Speaker 1: so it's kind of new.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, I never went anything. This is crazy.
Speaker 1: If you know who you want to send to right now,
Speaker 1: I can take the info over the phone in just
Speaker 1: a matter of minutes.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, no, this is perfect. Thank you. Yeah. I
Speaker 5: definitely have like the perfect person to send these two.
Speaker 5: This is awesome.
Speaker 1: I would let's start with the name, first and last
Speaker 1: name of the person that you would like to send
Speaker 1: these flowers. Marcy, would you like to put anything on
Speaker 1: a card?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 5: Yes, okay, love you mom. Thank you for always being
Speaker 5: there for me.
Speaker 1: Oh that's your mom. Yes, that's nice. That well, that's fabulous.
Speaker 1: She will love it. Well, I guess she would love
Speaker 1: it if it was real.
Speaker 5: What what do you mean it was real?
Speaker 1: I mean this is actually Jubil from the Jebel Show.
Speaker 1: It's a radio show.
Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Nina. Also on that radio show. Hi I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we don't really have flowers to send.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, Like I said, I never win anything.
Speaker 1: You did. When we do a segment on the show,
Speaker 1: it's called War of the Roses to catch a cheater.
Speaker 1: Your boyfriend Josh is on the phone, has been listening
Speaker 1: and no.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: No, I'm not Josh.
Speaker 5: Hey, mabe, Josh, are you kidding me? Is this happening?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's happening.
Speaker 3: So are we clear? Are you cheating on?
Speaker 7: Karina?
Speaker 5: Wait? Who is cheating on?
Speaker 2: Who?
Speaker 5: What is going on? I don't understand what is happening here.
Speaker 1: The segment is Karina, if you think your significant other
Speaker 1: might be cheating, we call up and pretend that you
Speaker 1: want flowers, and we see if you send the flowers
Speaker 1: to someone else. Sometimes we catch people, sometimes we don't.
Speaker 1: And that's what Josh set up because he was suspicious
Speaker 1: that you might be.
Speaker 3: So you send the flowers your mom so cool. So
Speaker 3: we just want to make sure there's no side piece. No, no,
Speaker 3: there is no side piece. I whole I think I
Speaker 3: believe this is happening.
Speaker 4: If you're not cheating, and what's going on? I mean,
Speaker 4: you're calling what is going on?
Speaker 2: You're always out of the house, You're always on.
Speaker 4: Your phone or you know you don't talk about a
Speaker 4: honeymoon anymore or a rain so talking.
Speaker 7: About a honeymoon if there's no wedding.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, this is insane.
Speaker 3: I have been following a.
Speaker 5: Few passions lately, and okay, maybe I have checked out slightly,
Speaker 5: but cheating.
Speaker 2: Passions what kind of passion?
Speaker 5: I don't know. I'm really into the Pilon studio.
Speaker 7: I'm going to I've been enjoying doing like the paintments
Speaker 7: with the ladies.
Speaker 5: I don't know, some.
Speaker 6: Wine tasting lashes, I don't know, just the things that
Speaker 6: you aren't into. I've just been exploring, like some more
Speaker 6: fun things to do, because I'm gonna be really honest,
Speaker 6: it hasn't been that fun lately.
Speaker 5: And I can't believe we're doing this on the radio, Like.
Speaker 2: What hasn't been that fun?
Speaker 6: That's there's just there's.
Speaker 5: Like nothing to look forward to. I'm sorry, Like there's
Speaker 5: like every day is just the same. We've been together
Speaker 5: a really long.
Speaker 7: Time, and I just was like, I need some new interests.
Speaker 7: Like COVID kind of kept us like locked in forever,
Speaker 7: and I am just trying to like spread my wings
Speaker 7: a little bit.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, but how come you don't bring Josh
Speaker 3: with you.
Speaker 5: He's just not interested in anything.
Speaker 2: Like, I mean, are you happy with me? John Shure?
Speaker 5: I love you, but I just don't know where things
Speaker 5: are going at all.
Speaker 2: Like you just said that nothing's fun and interesting, and
Speaker 2: in your board it sounds like you don't want to
Speaker 2: be with me anymore.
Speaker 5: No, it's not that.
Speaker 6: I just I feel like.
Speaker 7: We're like like just kind of going in circles and
Speaker 7: there's like nothing to look forward to, and I just
Speaker 7: feel like I'm not getting.
Speaker 5: Any younger, and I just kind of want to look
Speaker 5: forward to a future.
Speaker 7: And I don't know if you're on the same page
Speaker 7: with me. I want to get married someday. I really
Speaker 7: see kid in my future, and I just.
Speaker 5: Don't know if we are on the same page. And
Speaker 5: that's what's made this tough. I do love you, but
Speaker 5: I don't know what our future looks like.
Speaker 7: I just can't sit here and wait around forever, and
Speaker 7: so I'm kind of at a loss of what to do.
Speaker 5: I mean, need to be hear what three years like
Speaker 5: you should know by now, right.
Speaker 4: I mean, I mean I do know, I you know,
Speaker 4: I just didn't feel like I was ready, mostly from
Speaker 4: a financial perspective. You know, I want to want to
Speaker 4: make sure that I can buy a house and support you.
Speaker 4: I think that's the real reason I've been holding off.
Speaker 4: I'm proposing.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 7: I just feel like you had very cold feet and
Speaker 7: it just I don't know, it didn't seem like you
Speaker 7: were waiting on anything.
Speaker 3: So does that make you feel better though, Karina? I
Speaker 3: mean he wants to marry you?
Speaker 1: Marry me? Oh wait?
Speaker 2: What will you marry me?
Speaker 7: You're you're asking me right now on the radio, will
Speaker 7: I marry you?
Speaker 2: How has this day.
Speaker 5: Gone like this?
Speaker 6: Like seriously, no, I mean not this way.
Speaker 2: You said he retired waiting. I don't want to make
Speaker 2: you wait any longer.
Speaker 7: You have the rest of my life.
Speaker 5: Me on the radio complaining that I'm waiting to do
Speaker 5: and then you, by the way, like.
Speaker 1: That's not how this goes.
Speaker 5: This is not my story.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, I got it.
Speaker 2: Just give me like a week.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, okay, okay, don't tell me, like, don't
Speaker 5: get me.
Speaker 1: I want to be all right. Well, at some point,
Speaker 1: congratulations you guys, I mean cheating. That's good and it
Speaker 1: sounds like you guys are going to have a long
Speaker 1: future together.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you'll get engaged at some point, at.
Speaker 1: Some point within the week, probably.
Speaker 2: The jubile shows.
Speaker 5: To catch a cheater,