WEBVTT - Ep. 375: Crimes Of Passion (Ft. Sistas Who Kill) 0:00:02.720 --> 0:00:04.400 Guess what decision we're about to make. 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:05.960 Horrible decision. 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:12.319 Hey, y'all, welcome to another episode of Harbard Bled. 0:00:12.480 --> 0:00:13.080 This is Young. 0:00:13.640 --> 0:00:16.640 I'm your girl, Mandy b aka Stallion aka Debt Beach. 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:20.520 It's sugar and wheezy, and I'm super excited for this episode. 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.360 Can I tell you it's a secret? Tell us a secret. 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:24.599 If I wasn't a. 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:28.400 Sex podcaster, I would totally talk about true grime literally 0:00:28.680 --> 0:00:31.000 what she was wanting us to do on Patriotic I 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:34.640 was like, bitch, we talk about six indeed, girl gonna 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:35.280 make another show. 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:41.199 Any literally came together, though, I do because niggas be 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:42.239 trying to kill my pissy. 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:45.400 And two, I get a little crazy to where, you know, 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:48.120 I just feel like anybody at every dated it is 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:49.560 like should I sleep with one eye open? 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:52.400 But we have the ladies from Sisters who kill and 0:00:52.600 --> 0:00:57.400 do crime podcasts, and I'm really excited again. I love 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:01.960 collaborating with other podcasters, but also tee because we don't 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:04.160 all been there where we might want to kill a motherfucker. 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:04.480 Yep. 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:07.800 So with our little icebreaker, there's four of us. I 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:10.360 do want you all to introduce yourselves and then we 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.119 gonna see who the craziest bitch of. 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:12.920 All of us is? 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:13.319 Oh? 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:17.520 Okay, okay, hi everybody, I am Mara Williams. You can 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.800 find me everywhere as Maraba magnificent. 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:24.320 Come on, magnificent, non tesz okay. Now we have to 0:01:24.319 --> 0:01:27.319 know for the sex. Remember we needed like AOL chatroom 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:29.800 age sexual orientation location. 0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:36.520 I am twenty nine, I will be Oh, I'm thirty. 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:40.759 I'll be thirty next week. Okay, okay cash at Mara 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:47.520 will So, I am thirty. I identify as bisexual and 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:48.960 I am in Atlanta, Georgia. 0:01:50.840 --> 0:01:56.560 I am thirty, I said, I also identify as bisexual. 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:58.840 And what was the last question? Where you located? 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:04.360 Elma, the Atlanta girls and a bisexuality. It's in the water, honestly, No, 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:06.400 I just meet it everywhere now, No, no, no, I 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:08.359 think meeting straight people in Atlanta's kind of like, oh 0:02:09.040 --> 0:02:09.560 are you lying? 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:13.200 But what's crazy is that when I grew up here, 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:15.360 I was dating guys all of high school and then 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:17.880 it wasn't until I went to college that I had 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:18.560 my first girlfriend. 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.400 I pretty much was dating all girls. 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:22.000 And one of my friends was like, I don't think 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:23.840 that you can't claim bisexual anymore. 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:25.360 Because I ain't seen you with a man in a 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:26.680 long time. 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:29.400 So she's trying to say right, and so now that 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:31.639 I'm dating a guy again, they're like, okay, you do 0:02:31.720 --> 0:02:33.720 remember what men look like. 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:35.400 Waves. 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:38.680 I went out last night to Copper Cove and I 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:41.760 was just looking around, and I was like, everyone here 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:45.399 is so fucking pretty, Like Atlanta is just full. 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:47.720 Of so many women, Like the place was full of women. 0:02:47.760 --> 0:02:52.520 But I was like, bitch, everybody fine, everybody is fucking gorgeous. 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:54.600 And I was just like, I guess New York is 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.520 school too, but there's it's just so mixy. It's mixed 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:01.399 in terms of like how everyone dresses. I look everyone here, 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:05.240 not saying y'all look alike, but everybody look really motherfucking 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:06.240 I'll say that my. 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:08.400 City, for what you just said, is d C. 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:14.120 I think what I love about Atlanta is the girls 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.320 all themselves up here, and I think that's dope. But 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:18.520 what I love about d C is I do think 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:23.920 I could see the most natural looking natural, like a 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:26.200 very ethereal looking girl, and I'm just like, oh damn. 0:03:26.320 --> 0:03:29.440 But you know, we're in like those spaces where it's 0:03:29.520 --> 0:03:33.440 just like black cities with colleges and you're we're just 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:34.359 not surrounded like that. 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:35.560 New York is a melting pot. 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:38.080 It is beautiful, but Brooklyn in the summertime is the 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:39.440 most blow. I love it. 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:43.000 I love it. All Right, let's get out to kill. 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:46.080 Yes, if you can explain a little bit about what 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:49.000 y'all get into on the pot, and then we go 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.840 see how we navigate that in real life over yere. 0:03:51.920 --> 0:03:56.520 Well, well, we talk about black women who kill. 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:01.280 We basically try and start in the beginning getting as 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:04.520 much information as we can what was their childhood like 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:07.760 because maybe those instances played in effect on. 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:09.080 What led up to the murder. 0:04:09.160 --> 0:04:13.080 You know, yeah, we uh introduce them to the victim 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:16.360 or maybe their accomplishes, and keep going through these stages 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:18.479 of life because everything that happens to you build you 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.520 as a person, and then get to the crime. 0:04:20.920 --> 0:04:24.520 Talk about the trial and where are they now. 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:27.720 They might still be in jail, some are released, some 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:30.839 are dead, So just kind of talk about that. And 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:34.000 then we have two segments that we do after telling 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:37.120 a story. We have I'm not black, I'm Oja because 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:37.400 you know. 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:39.680 You, oh god. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:43.360 You know how you be watching like a crime show 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:45.040 and be like wow, would she do that? Now she 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:47.279 knows she should have, so I ain't do it. But 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:51.240 if I did, yeah, and we'll tell like stuff like that, 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.360 and it we'll do parole and no parole, and so 0:04:53.440 --> 0:04:57.280 we just right. And so sometimes they'll be in the 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:00.640 prison and they'll be like doing work, like teaching classes. 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:02.400 Or sometimes we might have think she got a hard 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:05.839 sentence or something, so we might parola. And sometimes she 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:07.400 just did what she did and she deserved it. 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:10.960 In a snowfro, why do you think we're obsessed with 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:15.359 crime in jail in death. What do you think that 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:17.560 is from what you learned from like doing the show? 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:19.440 I don't know. 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.640 I mean I always liked True crime before I started 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:23.640 the show, but I think it's the sense of the 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:25.560 fact that it's real, like I can actually go out, 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:31.680 it can happen. I know, if I feel overly prepared, 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:33.240 then I finally feel a little bit prepared. 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:35.120 There ain't no fairies, there ain't no aliens. 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:35.800 These are real life. 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:40.880 They literally had regular jobs, families, They could be your. 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:44.920 Labor is so normal, so normal killer. 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:49.040 Oh absolutely, We went to high school with the first girls. 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:50.360 That the first story that we told We went to 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:51.800 high school with them. I was on the track team. 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:55.000 They were at ROTC. You were in a class or something. 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:57.640 We saw them get arrested at school. 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:02.600 What yeah, what was. 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:03.960 The tea around school for that? 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:04.240 Like? 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:04.960 How do you? 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:10.000 Oh? No, the icemaker nigga go. Well, see, they got 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.320 arrested on the last day of school. They didn't even 0:06:13.400 --> 0:06:15.239 have to think in right. 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.240 But but Task told us when we told the when 0:06:18.240 --> 0:06:20.160 we did the podcast. I didn't know this, but Task 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:22.480 that she heard that there was an informant, like one 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:24.160 of the students was an informant at the school. 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:25.159 I don't know if that was true. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.760 I didn't hear that, but I read that in an 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:29.640 article like when I was doing research. 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:34.960 Hold on, why did they kill their right? She didn't 0:06:35.040 --> 0:06:37.240 let them go out? Okay? 0:06:37.400 --> 0:06:44.200 So they grew up being raised by their grandmother. Generationally, 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:48.200 the parents have had their kids as teenagers. The great grandmother, 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.880 the grandmother, and the mother have had their kids at teenagers. 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:52.400 So she had her twins at sixteen. 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:55.160 I know she was having twins, found out while her 0:06:55.200 --> 0:06:55.880 legs wide open. 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:58.040 I feel like I'm in their podcast, you know. 0:06:59.320 --> 0:06:59.760 And so. 0:07:01.160 --> 0:07:03.320 They were raised by their grandmother because the mom was 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:06.599 young and she wasn't necessarily ready to be a No, 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:10.160 they was raised by their great grandmother and their mom 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.360 is young, so she's not necessarily ready to be a parent. 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:15.120 She gets a boyfriend, she decides, and now she's ready 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:18.720 to settle down. She wants her twins back. And the 0:07:18.760 --> 0:07:21.760 way the articles present it is the mom wanted more structure. 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:24.360 They were, you know, getting over on their grandmother and 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:26.280 they didn't have too many rules, and that's why they 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:30.440 wanted to stay with their grandmother. But I think looking 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:33.720 deeper than that, there was one twin you know, said 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:37.520 that she was sexually assaulted and. 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:40.520 Old mom and mom was like, no, you weren't you 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:41.760 just out here being fast? 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:45.840 Wait a second, and was this? Did it get clarified 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:49.200 whether it was someone their age or if it was 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:50.040 a family member. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:55.520 They didn't clarify that, but okay, they were being blamed 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:56.360 when they brought it to their mom. 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:58.080 They were being blamed also, like when. 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:01.320 A lot of the articles were like, these girls were 0:08:01.320 --> 0:08:03.960 so spoiled, how could they have possibly not liked their mom? 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:06.040 They had everything they needed. Their mom was a hairdresser, 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:07.600 so of course their hair was always going to be done. 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:11.280 That's just a given. And we know, like when your 0:08:11.280 --> 0:08:13.680 mom is mad at you and she not talking to you, 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:15.840 and y'all kind of got the silent treatment in the house. 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:18.480 What are the things that break the ice? Let's go 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:19.480 get something to eat here. 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:21.560 I bought you this from the store, so you can 0:08:21.800 --> 0:08:24.200 we know as black women that you can be look 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:26.160 spoiled on the outside and really have a lot of 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:28.560 trouble on the aside. And every time that white people 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.840 were telling this story, they weren't saying those. 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:36.040 Things, what are you making us side with the king? 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:37.920 No no no no no no no. 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:41.200 No no, but your own mother like and and trigger warning 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:45.120 your own mother though not really taking in to protect 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:47.280 you when you come to her that you've been sexually. 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:50.680 Assault right, and it makes us question the bigger thing. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.040 So like they had to be in family court for 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:55.360 quite a while because the girls were running away, they 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.080 were doing a lot of things, and in the family 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:58.800 court they were saying, we don't want to be a mom. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:00.959 Mom is trying to get starting, get drug tested, going 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:03.080 to the parenting classes so she can get the girls back. 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:05.440 The girls say in the courtroom, we do not want 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.560 to live with her. They even yelled out after the 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.400 judge that they had to live back with mom. They 0:09:09.440 --> 0:09:10.679 were like, if we have to live with her, we're 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:15.280 going to kill her inurthouse and no one did anything. 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:18.199 So now here's the bigger question. Who's really to blame? 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:20.440 If the girls are saying that they're distressed in this situation, 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:23.880 they don't want to be here there their family, the 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:26.160 family court gave them therapists through a year. They went 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:28.199 through like what nine different therapists, So how are they 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:29.880 really getting helped? So now we get to ask the 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:32.080 bigger questions. We know that wrong is wrong and they 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:35.240 shouldn't have killed their mother, but who else was responsible 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:36.800 for making sure that this didn't happen? 0:09:36.880 --> 0:09:38.760 So this is giving me a little bit of Gypsy Rose. 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:41.000 And for those that, yeah, don't know who. 0:09:40.880 --> 0:09:44.520 Gypsy Rose is, well, no, when Gypsy and her mom 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:48.480 kept her being ill, was giving her medicine? Like making 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:51.120 her think that she was sick, wasn't giving her a 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:54.440 normal life? Like I'm actually totally on the fensive killing 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:56.320 Like I understand. 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:59.000 And I think I think that's the purpose of it 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:01.480 because it's not always going to be as blatant as 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:02.520 my mom was. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:04.800 It's not black and white jugging. Yeah what I'm saying, 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:08.320 and in this case you see another girl. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.880 Oh yeah, but like and that's and that's why we 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:14.600 find it important to start at childhood and say these 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:17.839 life events because the more information you got, you're like, Okay, 0:10:17.880 --> 0:10:19.880 well maybe they do have a side to this. And 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.679 it's again not to say that they're right, but are 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:25.000 they the monsters that everybody points them out to be? 0:10:25.200 --> 0:10:26.400 Right? Black and white? Though? 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:31.200 The way that we got to understand Gypsy right, not 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:34.480 to say that these girls had no you know, story 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:37.280 similar to hers, but I watched like a little Hulu 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:40.600 doc and it made me feel sympathetic for her, right, 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:44.240 I still think she deserves that empathy. But yeah, you're 0:10:44.240 --> 0:10:46.719 watching her mom take all this money and all these 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:50.640 donations to fund her daughter who's not sick, put her 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:53.400 on TV, putting her a little in the little gauze 0:10:53.440 --> 0:10:56.600 turban that she got cancer. That's fucking crazy. It's crazy 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:58.360 to me because but do they do it for black Cat? 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:01.839 Going back just that story and them saying that in court, 0:11:02.400 --> 0:11:05.360 I think definitely wanting to lean into the relationship and 0:11:05.520 --> 0:11:10.800 romantic passion kills. That's what happened to my cousin last year, 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:14.040 like she was trying to leave. Also, another friend of 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:16.240 mine is oh my god. I think in the last 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:20.640 two weeks two people murder suicides have been brought up. 0:11:20.840 --> 0:11:24.679 But someone trying to leave a relationship, someone saying I'll 0:11:24.760 --> 0:11:27.280 kill you, someone saying they'll do this, and a lot 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:31.760 of people unfortunately don't believe that as a threat until 0:11:31.800 --> 0:11:32.520 it happens. 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:35.160 And the most importantly, the police don't believe it is 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:35.880 the police. 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.080 You know what I mean? You have anything to back 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.640 this up? And it's like if I'm not coming in 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:42.679 with cuts and bruises, like. 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:44.440 I don't have a case, you know what I mean? 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:47.320 Like you have to Well, I want to make this 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:47.760 a little fun. 0:11:47.800 --> 0:11:49.080 I want to stay who. 0:11:48.920 --> 0:11:54.520 Is Yeah, we get deep, but I do want to 0:11:54.559 --> 0:11:57.520 see which of us we think would be you know, 0:11:58.240 --> 0:11:58.880 more of a killer. 0:11:58.960 --> 0:11:59.920 Yeah, out of YouTube. 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:03.280 If there was a crime of passion to happen, whether 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:07.040 you're fans, it would be me. 0:12:07.320 --> 0:12:11.520 It would be me. Now, why is that? I love? 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:14.760 I love hard and when I do, I give you 0:12:14.800 --> 0:12:16.840 my all. And then if I feel like you taken 0:12:16.840 --> 0:12:19.040 advantage of that ship, I will snatch that shit back. 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:22.440 What's the craziest thing you've done? In a relationship, like 0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:25.520 have you like Keita Keita car or. 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.160 Like you know, I've actually never messed with anybody's vehicle 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:31.240 because it was very it was a long journey for 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:33.200 me to get my first car, so I really in 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:36.160 my first car. I love that hooped evend know ac 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:39.400 so much, so much, so I actually have never messed 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:40.120 with anybody's car. 0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:41.520 I have stolen somebody's car. 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:48.800 Well, I drove it back like ten minutes later, she said, 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:50.880 after she said she was calling the police. I would 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:53.400 have been sisters who go to jail, So you stole 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:57.640 a car, Okay, I actual physical altercations have happened, but like, 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:02.319 I've actually never been arrested. I've said people, I've sent 0:13:02.400 --> 0:13:03.080 some people to jail. 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:06.760 Have you sent people to jail? Because you see. 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:09.320 I don't want to go to jail, so I'm gonna 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:11.959 send you. And if you mess with me, I am like, oh, 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:12.600 you're gonna hit me. 0:13:12.600 --> 0:13:20.880 You're gonna hit me? You're absolutely no, no, wait, yes, I'm. 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:23.880 I think I think out of us, it's definitely weazy 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:26.400 more than me. I feel like the comments are like, yeah, 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:29.720 that's like yeah, for sure, I'm not like that crazy, 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:33.520 but I'm erratic, Like I think I'm so like normally 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:36.400 chill and calm every day that like you do that 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:39.760 one little thing it's over dude, Like I can be like, 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:40.680 but it could be anyone. 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.040 It's not just romantically. 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:45.280 It's like sometimes I feel like maybe it's because I 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.440 don't set enough boundaries, which also is the thing I 0:13:47.440 --> 0:13:50.120 see with killers, right, Sometimes I don't really let people 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:50.920 know that the things. 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:51.840 They're doing are bothering me. 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:56.800 Yeah, and when you let that boil in fester, what happens. 0:13:56.240 --> 0:14:02.440 My bro story, and this was the only time I 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:05.120 put myself in a position and was like, damn, I 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:08.320 might kill the motherfucker for this. 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:13.160 So she was dealing with a guy at the time 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:16.640 who was in a relationship. The guy was living with 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:22.840 his girlfriend. The guy was bringing my friend to the 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:26.960 girlfriend's house to fuck, and she came home early like 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:30.000 one day while she was at the house and hid 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:31.000 and snuck out. 0:14:31.160 --> 0:14:33.200 And so all I could do was why did she hide? 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:33.760 Because she heard it? 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:35.560 She did because the girl came in the house. The 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:38.520 girlfriend came home, so she had in the bathroom and 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:40.960 he had to navigate getting her out of the house. 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:43.400 He was with her while the girlfriend. 0:14:42.960 --> 0:14:43.480 Was in the house. 0:14:43.840 --> 0:14:47.280 So I'm hearing this story and I immediately actually put 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.600 myself in that position. My last relationship was probably the 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:53.560 most I've ever loved someone, the most. I felt like, 0:14:53.720 --> 0:14:58.160 Oh my god, And even though we had dealt with 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:01.080 other women, I to bite sexual. Even though we had 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:04.600 dealt with other women. I couldn't fathom if I came 0:15:04.720 --> 0:15:08.320 home and he had a bitch in my ship. That 0:15:08.560 --> 0:15:11.400 to me. I thought about it, and I was like, oh, yeah, no, 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:13.360 I'm on a bitch, I'm on the top. 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:17.800 In the purse. The goddamn who's gonna go in the purse? 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:20.120 What do you mean? Like, I'm like, I don't even 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:22.200 know who I would get first, because there are not 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:26.000 him him. She might not know even though my pictures wait, no, 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:26.880 my pictures all over them. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:31.280 A woman's such in the house is very prominent. They 0:15:31.360 --> 0:15:33.960 know you're right your homegirl. You didn't know she was 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:35.200 in another woman's house. 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:37.120 And no, I think she knew. That's how And she said, 0:15:37.160 --> 0:15:38.080 that's how good the dick. 0:15:38.080 --> 0:15:43.200 Was, girl, I see. And those are the times where 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:45.240 I was like, and that's when the side bitch gotta go. 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:48.560 Okay, yeah, you know, I both gotta go no, you 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:49.720 can sit there and suffer. 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:55.040 You can sit there and suffer. Good luck dating, tell 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:57.120 me about your eggs. Well, she's in prison because she 0:15:57.200 --> 0:15:58.920 killed my side bitch because I was cheating. Good luck 0:15:58.960 --> 0:15:59.760 dating for the rest of 'am. 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:01.880 Yeah, no shit, oh my god. 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:03.560 And I'll sit there a smile on my muck shot. 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:07.040 Honestly, with Mandy's X the stories that we've heard on 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:09.680 the show, it wouldn't be be surprised a lot of 0:16:09.960 --> 0:16:11.280 I'd go to court for you for, but that one, 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:14.120 I'd be right there. I didn't see her, do I 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:18.000 have nothing camera watching us slit his throat. 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:20.120 That was I in my right mind. I think I 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:20.520 was asleep. 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:23.400 Oh yeah, nah, yeah no. And it's crazy too, and 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:26.160 I would love to know if there's a story, We'll 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:28.160 get into some But I was just talking to someone 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:33.920 about hypnotism and and how he could literally hypnotize people, 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:35.800 and you know he was doing it for some time, 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:38.040 and I was like, damn, I wonder how many times 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:41.560 that's used in court that maybe they were hypnotized or 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.280 under some psychological spell to do something. 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:46.960 I mean, clearly I don't know about spells, but I 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:50.640 mean you can have a psychosis that is admissible in 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:51.880 court as a defense. 0:16:52.960 --> 0:16:54.400 So why don't everybody just say that? 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:57.800 I think they are. 0:16:56.560 --> 0:17:01.480 But how do you grow that? 0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:03.160 I mean, I mean you have to be like a 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:05.520 doctor has to sign off on that this is a 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:07.840 break and I think I can't remember who it is. 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:10.040 But remember she was playing and they kept sending her 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:11.320 back to as a doctor. 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:13.399 And the doctor kept saying, stop sending her here. She 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:15.800 is fine, she can she can go to the Green 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:19.600 Britter and doctor has cleared her. What. There's a dude 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:21.879 in the Young Thug trial. I wish the one that 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:25.840 is played. He's like, I don't remember, I don't remember. 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:30.720 You know, he's trying not to be a snitch. I 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.960 get it. He's like, I don't know nothing. I'll do 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:36.159 that for you, friend. Well thank you. Now let me 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:38.879 ask all this. This is kind of a sick question. 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:42.320 But fuck it. Okay, okay, I'm not saying I've learned 0:17:42.359 --> 0:17:45.000 anything from Netflix murder shows or anything, but what I 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:48.520 will say is you we we hear that the people say, well, 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:52.720 this is teaching you how to kill, right. I don't 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:55.960 think I could kill someone like with a knife or 0:17:56.040 --> 0:17:57.680 fit like something like that where you touch because I 0:17:57.680 --> 0:17:59.879 feel like that's too far. When I'm like watching the 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:02.040 ain't happened, I'm not gonna take pleasure in that, right, 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:04.640 I can see me shooting a nigga if they're gone 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:05.360 right there though, So. 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:08.600 You definitely gonna do that in Cali, not New York. Mean, 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:12.480 ain't nobody got guns in New York? Oh yeah, the 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:14.439 gunloads are crazy. That's why I don't feel safe here. 0:18:14.440 --> 0:18:15.440 I'm ready to get the fuck out. 0:18:16.800 --> 0:18:19.920 I just feel like in Atlanta, you automatically In the South, 0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:22.520 you just automatically assume that everybody has a weapon, yes, 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:23.760 and you move accordingly. 0:18:23.880 --> 0:18:26.639 Yeah, but that's my thing, not the way people be 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:29.639 dealing with other people's bitches and niggas and dating and 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:31.160