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Speaker 1: the time to do it. How can I do this?

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Speaker 1: Call that and send it in. Yeah, and we'll also

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Speaker 1: read it on the show.

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Speaker 3: This is gonna be like only.

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Speaker 4: Three numbers in my life that I know, and it's

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Speaker 4: going to be my parents. And I'm gonna put you

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Speaker 4: guys down as my my emergency contact.

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Speaker 1: There we go. If you have an emergency, do not

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Speaker 1: call k call your local authorities. We are not professionals

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Speaker 1: or and we will also not pick up. Tell us

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Speaker 1: Basically said the same thing, Sophia, how can we do this?

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Speaker 4: I think you need to make some time. I think

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Speaker 4: I think that's something you gotta make time for.

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Speaker 1: You wait until you're just send a Google meet Google Meet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you send a calendar invite.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you say, hey, it's titled break up with Boyfriends.

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Speaker 4: And he goes, hey, I just saw a Google calendar invite.

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Speaker 4: What what's this about?

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Speaker 3: And you're like, oh, don't worry about it, just jump up.

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Speaker 4: That's how Sam would That's exactly what I was thinking.

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Speaker 1: So I had a great poem at Sam's birthday last

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Speaker 1: are you kidding me? I was? I was wowed. I

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Speaker 1: was like Sophia's poetry, this is me. Snap.

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Speaker 3: Wow, guys, I did I did write a poem for

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Speaker 1: Because yes, yes, and the Google calendar when I say killed,

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Speaker 1: big laughs, big laughs, big laughs. Okay, anyways, we got

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Speaker 1: a story from Just Another White Girl ninety six.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I do have an okay story time about someone

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Speaker 2: that did plan to break up with me once. I'm

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Speaker 1: Story time at the end. All right, please be nice.

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Speaker 1: I only made this account to get others opinions. Riley,

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Speaker 2: That's all I am.

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Speaker 1: That's true. You're a sweetheart, and hopefully give me some

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Speaker 1: perspective of what to do. In my last post, I asked,

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Speaker 1: We've been together for a year and a half and

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Speaker 5: Times through six sixty five, four and eighty times, four

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Speaker 3: You know, you're supposed to get like eight to ten

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Speaker 1: We're building Riley up to eight hugs a day. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Bad bad, bad fuck.

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Speaker 1: Then he was upset that I never did the things

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Speaker 1: Video games stay ruining these relationships here and with other people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Necessity, yeah, not a daily necessity.

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Speaker 1: Actually, so sick and twisted. It's an Okay, story time

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Speaker 1: How dare you? How dare you? As this has gone on,

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Speaker 1: That changes a lot. What should I do? If you

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Speaker 1: Yeah. For safety ultimately your safety yes, utmost hair amount yes.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's see if we still have it?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Riley has receipts.

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Speaker 1: Riley has receipts today, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 4: Actually, how many times are you saying we need to talk?

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Speaker 1: Here, oh man, live, oh man.

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Speaker 1: I realized though? What's that all I needed to do?

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Speaker 1: It's like really simple. You basically like take the beef,

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Speaker 1: And I did? I did make and you did give

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Speaker 2: Okay, John Alden, I don't think he is, but you

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Speaker 1: I want to see. I want to say I should

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Speaker 5: You're just picking another He didn't makee tacos though he

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Speaker 2: What was that taos.

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Speaker 6: Karen refuses to believe that I'm blind and steals my

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Speaker 6: I I say finders keepers, losers blind. I'm kidding, say

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Speaker 6: Guys, pay no mind. But entitled parents represent a certain

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Speaker 6: So hey, why not make myself feel better by making

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Speaker 6: you guys read about my misfortune. We love that, we

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Speaker 1: So since my.

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Speaker 6: Parents are more at risk from COVID, I've been going

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Speaker 6: Gumbo inside with me. That's a cute name. The dog

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Speaker 6: Like it's like, dude, life would be so hard you

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Speaker 6: They like even like you can't pee standing up, You're

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Speaker 6: that's my Like, I couldn't even stand and be now.

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Speaker 6: During my shopping I always get a wide array of

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Speaker 6: by the loud screech of that doggie's so cute? Can

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Speaker 1: What should I? What should my child voice? You be?

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Speaker 4: But like, uh uh, that dog is so cute?

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Speaker 1: That dogg is so cute?

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Speaker 1: That dog is so cute? Can I pet him?

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Speaker 6: tell the mother about what I told her about how

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Speaker 1: Like if this Karen wasn't in the picture, it would

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Speaker 6: This kid's like, oh my God, like, look at this

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Speaker 1: These I used to walk? Are you kidding me? That

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Speaker 2: Why are you lying?

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Speaker 6: That's basically that that's that's this is the Karen John.

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Speaker 6: John John perfectly portrayed Karen Academy of Ward. He goes

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Speaker 6: pretty bitchy to refuse a child something like that. My

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Speaker 1: Maybe like the hairs on your neck or something. How

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Speaker 1: do you know that I'm contexclusive? Okay, I am me. Well, ma'am,

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Speaker 1: not all blind people are the same. Just because you

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Speaker 1: Karen said, John, Oh my gosh, you're so right. Excuse

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Speaker 6: Why are you lying? Your eyes are completely fine? Just

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Speaker 1: Excuse me?

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Speaker 6: But I'm not lying. My eyes looking fine have nothing

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Speaker 6: She's been well behaved all day and it's Marlon Raisable

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Speaker 1: Pet your dog. Yeah, my daughter, who the only concern

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Speaker 6: Don't you be so good me? I said, no, I

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Speaker 1: It's like I would I would die, I would die

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Speaker 6: Low key the power of a Karen, Like nine out

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Speaker 1: They just don't want to deal with I don't want

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you said no, using I'll be as excuse. You're

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Speaker 6: miss her off. I don't know who you think you are,

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Speaker 6: How if you don't stop it, I'll get security to

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Speaker 6: establishment right now. Wow, now, I'm sure you get the picture.

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Speaker 6: This went on for a good five minutes of her

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Speaker 1: Insanity. The daughter was actually silent through the whole thing,

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't think she even cared that much at

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Speaker 1: Like like it wasn't like, oh now I want to

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Speaker 1: The end what the entitled.

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Speaker 6: Mother, however, was another story. Eventually, she screamed out.

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Speaker 1: Lots of I'm going to get security.

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Speaker 6: If you're smart, you'll be gone by the time I

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Speaker 6: By that time, my food had arrived, so I started eating.

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Speaker 6: I didn't really believe she'd go to security. But with

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Speaker 1: No, you can't.

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Speaker 6: Ain't at the truth about I don't know. Five minutes

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Speaker 6: Oh wait, there's more.