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Speaker 2: On this week's episode of Cultivating her Space.

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Speaker 3: it's how you handle it. It's the next problem.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Cultivating her Space, a podcast dedicated to uplifting.

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Speaker 4: She is all about stocks, bitcoin, passive income, sisterhood, and

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Speaker 3: Thank you, so happy to have you. And the way

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Speaker 1: So the quote of the day is going to sound

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Speaker 1: Like I I love to hear about this community just

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Speaker 3: Oh, that you need a lot of money like you

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Speaker 3: down to women all the time. I say, ladies, how

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Speaker 3: much time do we go to brunch this month? Let's

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Speaker 3: count right, how much time do we go to brunch

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Speaker 3: in a year? And I said, how much vacation?

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Speaker 1: Do you know?

436
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Speaker 3: The average American takes one vacation in a year. How

437
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Speaker 3: much vacation did you take in a year. I'm on

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Speaker 3: my third one, but it was only five hundred dollars. Oh,

439
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Speaker 3: it was only four hundred dollars. And I said, do

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Speaker 3: you know five hundred dollars in the stock market. Investing

441
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Speaker 3: five hundred dollars in Apple in twenty twenty, right now

442
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Speaker 3: you have over ten thousand dollars, right. And when you

443
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Speaker 3: start breaking things down like that, they're like, oh okay.

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Speaker 3: And it's just like we have to be able to

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Speaker 3: really start analyzing our priorities here and how we look

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Speaker 3: at loss. And I always say, like lost, how much

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Speaker 3: of us have bought a no good man, maybe a

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Speaker 3: president or a god that we weren't good?

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: I always I'm a realist, and I think that's better

451
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Speaker 3: to preach. I'm like, we spend a lounch of times

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Speaker 3: on the outfit for a guy that's, oh, probably isn't

453
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Speaker 3: good for us, right, and we can't wear the outfit

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Speaker 3: again because we took photos, you know, with it. So

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Speaker 3: let's be real here, right when we talk about loss

456
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Speaker 3: and things like, you know, we can all have the money,

457
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Speaker 3: but we just need to understand it better. And that's

458
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Speaker 3: just my biggest mission is to get on as much

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Speaker 3: stages as possible and be real and have these conversations

460
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Speaker 3: and talk about finance in a realistic way as if

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Speaker 3: you're hanging with your girlfriends. And I think That's why

462
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Speaker 3: MPG works so well, because we are not you know,

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Speaker 3: oh my gosh, we'll the stock market went up twenty

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Speaker 3: five nights and it's consolidating here. That's not us, right,

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Speaker 3: We're are going to break it down in a way

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Speaker 3: that's digestible and easy so you can really understand what's

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Speaker 3: happening and you don't have to be intimidated, and you

468
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Speaker 3: know you can do what you need to do with

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Speaker 3: your account and your life. Really, I love that.

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Speaker 4: I want to say, I have a task to sign

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Speaker 4: up for one of us, so like all of your courses.

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Speaker 4: But I saw Don's facial expresson when you were talking

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Speaker 4: so down. What were you thinking?

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Speaker 1: So yes, So I felt like you were like speaking

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Speaker 1: my life in terms of like thinking about like vacations

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Speaker 1: and brunch and like the things that you spend money on. Right,

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Speaker 1: And I think about as you're saying this, it makes

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Speaker 1: me reflect back to last year when the markets were

479
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Speaker 1: down and I invested like small amount right in a

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Speaker 1: couple of stocks that will remain nameless, and when I

481
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Speaker 1: see when I go in and look, and honestly, it

482
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Speaker 1: really wasn't even that much. It might have been like

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Speaker 1: fifty bucks and just seeing the percentage of growth over

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Speaker 1: this last year, like that the one particular shock that

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of, like it grew two hundred percent over

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Speaker 1: this last year, and I'm looking at it, and then

487
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Speaker 1: there's a piece of me that's like kicking myself, like, well, damn,

488
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Speaker 1: I should have invested more money because because of how

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Speaker 1: much growth there was. But I think that goes back

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Speaker 1: to what you were saying around it's eighty percent psychological.

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Speaker 1: And like you said about not liking to lose, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't like losing at all.

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Speaker 1: And so the idea of investing money that I could

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Speaker 1: be spending on a vacation, that I could be spending

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Speaker 1: at brunch, that I could be spending on a new

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Speaker 1: handbag or whatever it is, right, the idea of investing

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Speaker 1: that such a large amount at once is intimidating. And

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Speaker 1: so but I also, as you were saying that, something

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Speaker 1: that I thought about is about the long game, right that, like,

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Speaker 1: right now that five hundred dollars may feel like a lot,

501
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Speaker 1: but it's pennies compared to the ten thousand dollars that

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Speaker 1: it could be in two years. And so I love

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Speaker 1: the way that you are breaking this down because it

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Speaker 1: makes sense right. The next question that I have, it's

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Speaker 1: about cryptocurrency because that's the latest thing, right, is that's

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Speaker 1: the latest discussion, and so can you break that down

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Speaker 1: for us in a way that you've done so far,

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Speaker 1: like so that we understand it.

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Speaker 3: So you know that they're silent right now. Right, it's

510
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Speaker 3: not as loud anymore about cryptocurrency. Right, Yes, Rembad was

511
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Speaker 3: everywhere you a baby, you kindergarten could tell you a

512
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Speaker 3: little bit about bitcoin at one point, right, But before

513
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Speaker 3: we even get to that cryptocurrency, digital currency, right, it's

514
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Speaker 3: the new way of everything, the way we use money.

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Speaker 3: And then that's non regulated. You know, there's certain there's

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Speaker 3: certain rules, certain regulations, certain things that should be put

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Speaker 3: in place when it comes to money. Right, imagine if

518
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Speaker 3: there was no rules to money, you could do whatever

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Speaker 3: you want. That's kind of like bitcoin, but it's within

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Speaker 3: a certain market. It's within the crypto space. And you know,

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Speaker 3: value of money goes up like with anything in world, right,

522
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Speaker 3: you know, the dova goes up, the pound goes up,

523
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Speaker 3: it goes down, same thing with digital currencies. But there's

524
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Speaker 3: thousands of different currencies depending on you know, there's countries

525
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Speaker 3: that have currencies there's projects that have currencies, there's you know,

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Speaker 3: there's so much different things that can have some form

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Speaker 3: of cryptocurrency. You can have one if you own one, right,

528
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Speaker 3: you know, it's not that hard to get one. So

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Speaker 3: that's what it is. And as you can see, the

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Speaker 3: world is going to more a more digital space. Blockchain

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Speaker 3: is how you dig and how you find cryptocurrency. Well,

532
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Speaker 3: the blockchain is the technology for cryptocurrency, right, so remember

533
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Speaker 3: it's digital.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it just made me think about how Usher was

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Speaker 4: on the Shade Room. They had like Usher books. I

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Speaker 4: know it's a little different, but is it basically like,

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Speaker 4: if I believe in if I get people to believe

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Speaker 4: in this type of like digital currency I have and

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Speaker 4: they buy into it, that's my own cryptocurrency or bitcoin.

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Speaker 3: Dodge cooin, dodgecoin. Dodgecoin had no value. It was a joke.

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Speaker 3: Dodge Coin was a joke, doggy coin, dodge But the

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Speaker 3: power of social media, the power of the internet, the

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Speaker 3: power of influence is bittersweet, right because anyone could Yes,

544
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Speaker 3: anyone can create a coin. So my issue with cryptocurrency

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Speaker 3: is that cryptocurrency I feel like it hurts the black

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Speaker 3: community a lot. Reason why is because Unfortunately, as black people,

547
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Speaker 3: we have a tendency of liking quick money. We like

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Speaker 3: quick money. That's just we're the bigger consumers of fast fashion,

549
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Speaker 3: fast food. We like things fast. And with cryptocurrency, the

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Speaker 3: stigma around it is you get to make money quickly,

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Speaker 3: when in hindsight that's not the case. Okay, a lot

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Speaker 3: of the people that made millions of dollars in cryptocurrency,

553
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Speaker 3: they've had crypto for a long time. That's what they

554
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Speaker 3: forget to tell you. They've had crypto for maybe since

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Speaker 3: twenty seventeen, twenty twenty ten. Like I've known about bitcoin

556
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Speaker 3: since twenty ten. It was huge in Brooklyn. So people

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Speaker 3: don't realize that this thing has been around for a

558
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Speaker 3: really long time. But because they have spikes in the market,

559
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Speaker 3: they think, hey, I'm gonna make quick money, and investing

560
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Speaker 3: could almost feel like a drug adreeneral adrenaline comes in

561
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Speaker 3: and you keep going. A lot of people don't have

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Speaker 3: that discipline, and with cryptocurrency, they never They don't teach

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Speaker 3: you discipline when it comes to dealing with x amount

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Speaker 3: of money, because you will make money and you will

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Speaker 3: take profit. Right, But what happens when the community online

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Speaker 3: community that you're trading with investing with has another big coin,

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Speaker 3: You're gonna go throw that money back into it, versus

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Speaker 3: really understanding what's happen and understanding why you should invest

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Speaker 3: in this project versus just noise and chatter. And that's

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Speaker 3: why I don't like cryptocurrency for someone that wants to

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Speaker 3: build wealth for themselves. Right now, it hurts us more

572
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Speaker 3: than it helps us. Because now what happens is I

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Speaker 3: have a lot of people that are in the bitcoin space.

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Speaker 3: They're coming over to the stock market and they think

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Speaker 3: they want this. They don't want to learn skill, right

576
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 3: because back last year at the beginning of this year, right,

577
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Speaker 3: it was just a free for all when it comes

578
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Speaker 3: to that space because there was so much people in

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Speaker 3: the market when they're not understanding that the noise was

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Speaker 3: created by the people that are making the most money

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Speaker 3: from this coin. And I think the difference between bitcoin

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Speaker 3: and the market is easier to find out when people

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Speaker 3: are pulling out of things, when things are dipping, it's

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Speaker 3: easier versus bitcoin. Right, Bitcoin is a market that is

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Speaker 3: twenty four hours, which means you can go to sleep

586
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Speaker 3: and be down fifty twenty fifty, eighty sixty percent, right,

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Speaker 3: versus the market. You have this time to this time, right. Yes,

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Speaker 3: things can happen in pre market, but there's certain things

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Speaker 3: that you can do, you can set stop, there's certain

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Speaker 3: things that can help mitigate your loss. And for crypto,

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Speaker 3: it's just something where if you really want to build wealth,

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Speaker 3: that's just not for me at this point. That's not

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Speaker 3: the way to do it now. If you want to

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Speaker 3: build something long term. I do think cryptocurrency is the future.

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Speaker 3: Digital currency is the future. However, that's just not something

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Speaker 3: that you're going to see real returns right now. So

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Speaker 3: I always say build your liquidity, build your capital up

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Speaker 3: in the stock market, and once you have some extra

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Speaker 3: you drop it into bitcoin. You said it, and you

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Speaker 3: forget it. You don't look at it for the next

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Speaker 3: three to four years, which the people that are making

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Speaker 3: the money off of you, they've said it for six

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Speaker 3: eight years. They forget to tell you, guys, that part.

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Speaker 3: And that is the biggest issue with cryptocurrency to the

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Speaker 3: black community. And I'm not a big fan of it

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Speaker 3: for that one reason. If as a collective we were

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Speaker 3: better with money and we understood what was going on

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00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 3: in that space, yes, sure, but for now, the stock

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Speaker 3: market is just something that I would suggest for any

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Speaker 3: person of color, anyone. Really Wow, wow, I appreciate that

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Speaker 3: because I recognize I've been doing some research myself and

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Speaker 3: like intercryptocurrency and yeah, and learning that. Oh wait, like

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Speaker 3: you said, like it's been it's it's the hottest thing

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Speaker 3: right now, but like you said, it's been around for

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Speaker 3: over a decade. Now, relate to the party. When you

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Speaker 3: have stock site Roadblocks that just hit the internet that

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Speaker 3: I piled a couple of months ago, right, roadblocks, kids,

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Speaker 3: there's no, there's not a kid on. I don't know that,

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Speaker 3: don't know what roadblocks is. Okay, Roadblocks just hit the market,

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Speaker 3: and that is an opportunity where Roadblocks. I talk about

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Speaker 3: this company all the time easily just for what they are,

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Speaker 3: the technology that they have. The stock right now is

623
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Speaker 3: trading around eighty two dollars eighty eight dollars is sure

624
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Speaker 3: on that range. In the next three to four years,

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Speaker 3: that could easily be a five hundred dollars three hundred

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Speaker 3: dollars stop with options that can make that that is

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Speaker 3: life changing money. But you're gonna have to know some skill, right,

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Speaker 3: You're gonna have to and that's some time in your

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Speaker 3: education to understand how to do that. But even if

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Speaker 3: let's say, if you don't right, let's say you just

631
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Speaker 3: sit in and forget it, you can still see a

632
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 3: lot of money in that space. But people would rather

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00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 3: hear doggy coin because it's trending on Twitter versus doing

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00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 3: some research and understanding what roadblocks really is and how

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00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 3: they're disruptive when it comes to the kids, you know,

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Speaker 3: just getting into disruptive companies to invest in. They don't

637
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,800
Speaker 3: want to do the work when that is going to

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Speaker 3: be the real game changer. In the past two to

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Speaker 3: three months, most of my clients are people that have

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Speaker 3: been coming to me are bitcoiners. I like to call

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Speaker 3: them cryptocurrency. Yeah, they're all coming to me because the

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00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 3: market is silent, it's dead. Bitcoin is it's not dead.

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Speaker 3: They're going to a bear market. So there's bear markets

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Speaker 3: that happen, and in a bear market, what that pretty

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Speaker 3: much means when the market is okay. The last bear

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Speaker 3: market that bitcoin went through lasted for about three years.

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Speaker 3: People don't realize that and lasts for a very long time.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not for it bitcoin and I teach it

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Speaker 3: because there's some girls that you know, they're in that

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Speaker 3: position where they understand how currencies work, and I'm like, yeah,

651
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Speaker 3: I go for it. There's some money in there. You know,

652
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Speaker 3: we're in a bear market right now. This is the

653
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Speaker 3: time to buy, buy and did it? Forget it. But

654
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Speaker 3: if you want to really make wealth for yourself. A

655
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Speaker 3: lot of our women learned at the top of the

656
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Speaker 3: year in January. Some of the women learned three months ago.

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Speaker 3: A lot of these girls are averaging easily to one

658
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Speaker 3: thousand dollars a day trading. When they do trade. I

659
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 3: have girls that have made over six figures, seven figures

660
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Speaker 3: in the market since they started with Modern Black Girl,

661
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 3: because they invested in their education and they figured out

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Speaker 3: their strengths and their weaknesses when it came to certain

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Speaker 3: things like hey I don't do good with loss, maybe

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Speaker 3: I need to do a different trading strategy. Or hey

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Speaker 3: I'm actually too jumpy, I get too excited. Maybe I

666
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Speaker 3: need to work on that. What do I need to do?

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Speaker 3: They found their niche, they worked on it, and now

668
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Speaker 3: they have a groove and now they're unstoppable. You know,

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Speaker 3: that is what I recommend for every woman. You know,

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Speaker 3: that's and that's why I recommend the market for everyone,

671
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Speaker 3: because there's a way for everyone, you know. And the

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Speaker 3: thing about our girls is as eventure. We have high schoolers,

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Speaker 3: we have lawyers, we have entrepreneurs, we have people that

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Speaker 3: work nine to fives. We have people that work twelve

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Speaker 3: hour shifts, hospital shifts, hotel shifts, you know, all over

676
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Speaker 3: and they are making money in the market because there's

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Speaker 3: literally a way for you. It doesn't matter, it doesn't

678
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Speaker 3: matter what you're doing in your daily life, you can

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Speaker 3: do it.

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Speaker 4: This is so helpful to This is amazing, and we

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Speaker 4: appreciate you and the work that you've done for our

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Speaker 4: community so far. I know that you're just going to

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Speaker 4: continue to do more. But we want to shift up

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Speaker 4: the vibe of this interview.

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Speaker 3: That's okay with you?

686
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Speaker 4: Yeah, because we recognize, appreciate, and celebrate the multifaceted woman,

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Speaker 4: and we believe that it's okay to be classy and ratchet.

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Speaker 4: You can still be elegant and dance to strip club music.

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Speaker 4: We want to invite you to the oh you clatch

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Speaker 4: it segment? So do you take on the challenge?

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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, I love that son. We're gonna ease you in,

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Speaker 1: you know, Okay, make it easy to start to start it.

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Speaker 1: All's one question or topic that you wish people asked

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Speaker 1: you about more often.

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Speaker 3: Music. Yeah, I love music conversations like I love it,

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Speaker 3: like I'm such a I like to call myself a

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Speaker 3: nineties music historian, like you know, like I love like

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Speaker 3: I know a lot about music.

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Speaker 1: So that okay, okay, nineties music historian.

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Speaker 2: Listen.

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Speaker 1: I love nineties R and B. So all right, So

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Speaker 1: all right, So what you got for us in terms

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Speaker 1: of nineties music history? Drop some knowledge on us?

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Speaker 3: Some knowledge? Okay. So Escape is one of my favorite groups,

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Speaker 3: like ever right there? Their music it just hits, so

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Speaker 3: you know, the dynamic of the women. They're like my favorite.

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Speaker 3: But Escape do you know that Escape? Before Escape became Escape,

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Speaker 3: there was only four of them, So there's four members

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Speaker 3: initially before the whole group came together. But could you

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Speaker 3: guess who was the last member to join spape?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna pass that to you.

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Speaker 1: Don It feels like I should be saying that Candy

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Speaker 1: was the last one to join m M tiny, But

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, okay, so music is one of those topics

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Speaker 2: for you. What about Okay, I'm going to shift it up.

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Speaker 4: What about the most embarrassing thing you've ever done to

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Speaker 4: get your cruscious attention.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm definitely like accidentally bumped into accidentally bumped into

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Speaker 3: someone a few times, you know, it's like a bump

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Speaker 3: and be like, Hi, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know you were gonna be here.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm so sorry. How are you doing though?

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Speaker 3: You're having a good time?

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Speaker 2: No judgment? Okay, yeah, yeah, I got you.

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Speaker 3: I love it. I love it.

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Speaker 1: So what is the sexiest it? Don't that you own?

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Speaker 3: Wow? Everyone has a dress like the material just fits,

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Speaker 3: it just hugs all the body pots.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: I have this one dress. I've had it literally, I'm

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Speaker 3: twenty six. I've had this dress since I've been like

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Speaker 3: nineteen years old. And I get it dry clean. I

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Speaker 3: made sure it's good because what I'm ready to really

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Speaker 3: get like if I'm really trying to like pop out

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Speaker 3: or like more Brooklyn terms, if I'm really trying to

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Speaker 3: show out and like really really really just like impress

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Speaker 3: a guy or something. So the killer dress and you

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Speaker 3: know you got a nice I have a nice perfume.

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Speaker 3: You know you put that on. It's like the perfect match.

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Speaker 5: I love that.

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Speaker 4: And it's so funny because one of our last interviews

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Speaker 4: that was the same answer. It was like all she

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Speaker 4: said was this dress, remember doll. She said, I just

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Speaker 4: had a dress. We just gonna call it the dress.

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Speaker 4: So I'm with you.

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Speaker 2: I love Sometimes it's just like, what do you love

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Speaker 2: most about yourself?

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Speaker 3: I think I love the ability to pivot. I think

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00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 3: that's important, right, we have to know when we got

751
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 3: to give it up. Yeah, and my self determination, Like

752
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 3: you know, I like to say it's a bitter speech

753
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 3: quality of myself, but I love it. Sometimes it could

754
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 3: be too much because it's like tips, like you can't

755
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 3: like yeah, but I love being able to just like

756
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Speaker 3: pivot and being able to just really drive myself with

757
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 3: a passion. Like if I'm passionate about something, I can

758
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Speaker 3: get lost in it, like you know, movies, books, people,

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00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 3: you know, jaw anything that I deem it, something that

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Speaker 3: I like, I can't really get lost into it. And

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Speaker 3: I'm going to figure it out, like it will bother me,

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00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 3: Like I have to figure it out, you know, And

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Speaker 3: I mean, look at it. This is the biggest, the

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Speaker 3: biggest thing, right, I'm like, I have to get it.

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Speaker 3: There's no more women would have to deal with the

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Speaker 3: men that I dealt with, Like, oh, I was like no,

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Speaker 3: and I'm telling you my mom and like people around

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00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 3: me with like it was almost toxic, like literally locking

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Speaker 3: myself in a room like Huff. Remember Huff from What Scandal?

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Speaker 3: You know, Huff would just like sit in his room

771
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 3: and just lock in. That was me, Like yeah, yeah,

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00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 3: that was me. And you know fine, I mean and

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00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 3: I still get like that because there's certain things in

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00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 3: the market that like you. There's here's the market. You're

775
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:34,839
Speaker 3: always learning, you know, you're always evolving. There's so much

776
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 3: new things, so much new way, so much new strategies

777
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 3: to always try and always lock in. Okay, no one

778
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 3: bothered me, D and D my sister's like, can't take

779
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 3: any call right now. We have to figure this out.

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Speaker 3: We have to see this works.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: That's kind of just like yeah, so that's self determination

783
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 3: and being able to just pivot, knowing when to just like, okay,

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Speaker 3: we have to go on.

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Speaker 1: Well, Tiffany, we thank you so so much for dropping

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Speaker 1: so much knowledge on us today. And for those that

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Speaker 1: are interested in joining the Modern Black Girls squad and

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Speaker 1: following you on social media, where can they find you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, modern BlackGirl dot Com, you know, Modern black Girl Google,

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Speaker 3: you know, be LK not be lac K. We're working

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Speaker 3: on that though, but for right now we're be Okay,

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Speaker 3: modern black girl like coming. Everything is there for you.

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Speaker 3: You know, we have the community, a free community for

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Speaker 3: you to join if you don't want to learn, if

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Speaker 3: you want to feel it out. You know, you want

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Speaker 3: to see how the girls are doing. You know, we

797
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,360
Speaker 3: put that there. You can see the girls wins and

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Speaker 3: their losses. Okay, we put that there so you know

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Speaker 3: what you're signing up for. And you know you can

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Speaker 3: see the community of people there. And also our classes

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Speaker 3: are there and you know this is believe. Now we're

802
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Speaker 3: still in our first year of our company, so you know,

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00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 3: we started in November. We're still super new and now

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Speaker 3: we're we're we're starting to we have a lot of

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Speaker 3: exciting things. So if you don't don't find us, trust me,

806
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 3: we might find you really soon if you are a

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Speaker 3: black woman. Because you know, my mission is to get

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Speaker 3: five hundred thousand black women in the market. And when

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Speaker 3: I say that, I really mean it, like if we

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Speaker 3: want five because literally to start a movement, you only

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Speaker 3: need about ten thousand the people to really start a

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Speaker 3: moving Some people say a thousand, but I say ten,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, if we can get five hundred around

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Speaker 3: the five hundred thousand women around the world, we can

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Speaker 3: shift the dynamic of the black dollar within the black

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Speaker 3: family household and just for our lives. So that's my goal.

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Speaker 3: So we'll find you. But if you want to find

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Speaker 3: us now Modern BlackGirl dot com for sure everything that

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Speaker 3: you need is there.

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Speaker 2: Tiffany, thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: You are absolutely amazing and to think that you've done

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Speaker 4: all this at the age of twenty six, I can

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Speaker 4: only imagine where you're going to go. So, lady, if

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Speaker 4: you are enjoying this episode, we have well over one

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Speaker 4: hundred episodes right now on the podcast on various topics

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Speaker 4: from miscarriages to daddy issues, to mommy issues, to narcissism

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Speaker 4: and all that.

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Speaker 2: Good stuff, so be sure to stay tuned and check

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Speaker 2: us out.

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Speaker 4: Hope.

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Speaker 1: Please note that our show may contain conversations about self help, advice,

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Speaker 4: so I no longer ask for permission,