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Speaker 1: Jenna and Friends on NBC. We love that Today's show excitement.

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Speaker 1: But in all all chokes aside, Steve said to me

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Speaker 2: Yeah, as most of you know, and thousands of you

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Speaker 3: God, you're great. Okay, I love you.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, so, Steve, I'm not sure if you're

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Speaker 1: It's not over yet. Some people went back to school.

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Speaker 2: Guys, you get lazy, which when they're delivering ten to

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Speaker 1: But thank you for many nag. This is the same,

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Speaker 1: Laura m Klung says, my husband and I are child

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Speaker 1: Thank you Laura for that question.

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Speaker 2: My favorite thing about being child free is our freedom.

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Speaker 4: And so I enjoy just getting you know, to you.

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Speaker 3: The worry, the stress.

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Speaker 4: That all.

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Speaker 3: To you.

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Speaker 4: Well, is today Christmas? Or is today Christmas?

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Speaker 1: But actually, since we're on that subject, I think, because

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Speaker 1: be a part of today, And thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: And you would have told me I'd be stepping in.

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Speaker 2: For the greatest sideline reporter of all time on our own.

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Speaker 1: Because you're a lot younger than Aaron and I. So

442
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 1: there's that, I think if that's what you're getting at,

443
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:47,680
Speaker 1: You're correct, you are younger than I, me and Aaron.

444
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,119
Speaker 3: No I was. I get asked a lot, and I

445
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:51,880
Speaker 3: know you do too.

446
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 1: In fact, I got asked this weekend by our wonderful

447
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,199
Speaker 1: director of the shoot that we had when I'm going

448
00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 1: to make an honest man out of you? So we

449
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 1: get asked about marriage, and we get asked about kids

450
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 1: very often, which is that a.

451
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 4: What does that mean? Is that? Is that saying mean you.

452
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,520
Speaker 1: Have make an honest man and out of you? Like

453
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 1: put like when are you? When are you going to

454
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 1: marry Steve? So that you're off, like you're not available,

455
00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 1: you're not on the market anymore because you're taken by

456
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:18,199
Speaker 1: being married to me.

457
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 3: It's like it's just an expression.

458
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:23,200
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, okay, you're taken.

459
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,119
Speaker 3: No, it's just an expression. But it is a question

460
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:27,440
Speaker 3: that we both get.

461
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 4: A lot every single day.

462
00:21:30,040 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 3: Correct.

463
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:34,200
Speaker 1: So since we have this platform and I speak about it,

464
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 1: you know at length, because a lot of questions.

465
00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,360
Speaker 3: Oh boy, here we go. I always wanted you.

466
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 1: To propose from a conference room in studio City.

467
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 4: I do, Okay, you.

468
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 3: Got to ask, you got to ask the question.

469
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 4: Nervous.

470
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 1: Okay, Well that's the next to the JumboTron. A conference

471
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,360
Speaker 1: room in studio city is my favorite way to be proposed.

472
00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 4: To Studio City. Whatever. You keep going Studio city.

473
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 3: Oh that's right after. Remember you're not you.

474
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,640
Speaker 1: You haven't lived in Los Angeles that long, okay, as

475
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 1: somebody who used to drive to Burbank every day to

476
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 1: go work at extra. Studio City is right over there,

477
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,239
Speaker 1: all right, I digress. We get asked about children, and

478
00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 1: we get asked about being married a lot. Why don't

479
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,879
Speaker 1: you answer this question? It's not on the it's not

480
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,120
Speaker 1: on the pregame question. Also, how much do I love

481
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 1: you? You're my screensaver? Cute, it's a great picture. So is

482
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 1: it going to be weird if one day like you're

483
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: not the screensaver and then you're gonna think.

484
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,440
Speaker 4: When you show. When I saw that, I was like, well,

485
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 4: like if I'm not anymore?

486
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 3: Just like do I ask if man? I hadn't thought

487
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 3: about that, Like now you're forever my screen saver.

488
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 4: Because I mean you can it's okay.

489
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 3: I mean, this has been a couple of months run.

490
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:48,199
Speaker 3: That's long for me.

491
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:49,400
Speaker 4: It's good. It's good.

492
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 2: That's good.

493
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: I answer this question a lot on here. So why

494
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,560
Speaker 1: don't I get the floor to you? Are you okay

495
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: with not getting married? And we have part of the

496
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 1: kids question, so we'll start with marriage. Are you okay

497
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: with not getting married?

498
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 4: Yeah? We've discussed this, I know, but.

499
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 3: We're discussing it now in this setting.

500
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:20,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I am. If I wasn't, I would I

501
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 2: would be vocal about it. I am never at a

502
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 2: you know, I'm never short of words. So yeah, if

503
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 2: it was something that really bothered me, I would say,

504
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 2: like this is what I need.

505
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,360
Speaker 4: But uh, I don't.

506
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 3: Why are you okay? Why are you okay with not

507
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 3: being married?

508
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 2: I mean I think the same reason that you've are

509
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 2: you always vocalized? Like I don't need a piece of

510
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 2: paper to wake up and love you every day? Like

511
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 2: I don't know what would change, like when people ask them, Mike,

512
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:50,880
Speaker 2: we're pretty much married anyway, I don't know what would

513
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,439
Speaker 2: change except we'd spend a lot of money on a

514
00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 2: wedding and sign a piece of paper. So maybe we

515
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 2: have a party one day and then buddy that has asked,

516
00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 2: can you know, come and put their fears to rest

517
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:06,879
Speaker 2: that we're not going to get married and just have

518
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 2: like a party so everyone can enjoy that.

519
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 4: But no, I just I don't know. I don't I

520
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 4: don't need.

521
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:15,120
Speaker 3: That, Okay, thanks.

522
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 4: I never before you, I've never I never thought about it.

523
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: It's just like you never need you were in a

524
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: relationships that never got brought up.

525
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 3: I mean maybe I was.

526
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:26,120
Speaker 2: Just indifferent about like it was like one of those

527
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: things where you know, in Atlanta where I grew up,

528
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 2: that it was you go to school, you probably marry

529
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,199
Speaker 2: your high school or college sweetheart, and you're having kids

530
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 2: by your early twenties, and if you haven't done all that,

531
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 2: you're you're so far behind, and like kind of like, well,

532
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 2: what's wrong with yeah, Steve, he doesn't you know, he's

533
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 2: not engaged or married and doesn't have kids, and he's

534
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 2: thirty now, he's thirty two now, he's thirty four, thirty

535
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 2: five now, So it's I'm thirty seven now, thirty eight

536
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 2: thirty seven or eight one of those.

537
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: Two old are you? Are you thirty eight things seven seven.

538
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: I'm six years older than you, so yeah, I don't know.

539
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 2: I have friends that have been married for fifteen years now, yeah,

540
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 2: seventeen years, and that is crazy. I have friends that

541
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 2: got married in college, so I just yeah, I'd never

542
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: really thought about it, like if it were to happen,

543
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 2: great and if not.

544
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 4: Like, but no, I'm uh, I'm totally fine with it.

545
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 3: Well and again this, I know you've been to therapy

546
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 3: with me.

547
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 2: The one thing, the one thing that is weird is

548
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 2: when someone writes an art I guess you know, people

549
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 2: listen to this podcast and someone writes an article and

550
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 2: my friends and family will send it to me that CHRISA.

551
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,159
Speaker 2: Thompson rejects Steven's marriage proposal, and they're like like, and

552
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: people won't send it. I'll just start getting text messages

553
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,199
Speaker 2: random like dude, I'm so sorry.

554
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,480
Speaker 4: Hey man, are you okay? I can't believe it.

555
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: Dude, you know, I'm sorry, Like, if you need anything,

556
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: call me, And I'm like, did somebody Well.

557
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,600
Speaker 1: Wait till the headline comes out that you just proposed

558
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: in the conference room and I said, I mean this

559
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 1: is getting bad.

560
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, anyway, I don't know if like, did someone

561
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 2: die what happened? And then the like senate articles like

562
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 2: Carissa rejects boyfriend's marriage proposal and a Mike.

563
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you read.

564
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: So, so what I would say to that?

565
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:17,640
Speaker 3: Since?

566
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: And again going back to that idea of you and

567
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: I have had these conversations at length, but I think

568
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 1: that there's people that listen to this podcast that may

569
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 1: be in similar situations as far as like not having kids,

570
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,159
Speaker 1: as we just had one of the you know, somebody

571
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: write in not having kids or not getting married. So

572
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 1: what would you say or what advice would you give

573
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: to somebody that was in your position that I, you're

574
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,400
Speaker 1: not having kids and you're not getting married, because those

575
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: were my terms that I said entering into this relationship,

576
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: like those are my non negotiables. I'm not getting married

577
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: and I'm not having kids. How would what what advice

578
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: would you give to people that are in a similar

579
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:57,440
Speaker 1: situation because those are massive things I don't want to

580
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 1: say to concede to but to like, okay, we have.

581
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I didn't just I felt the same

582
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 2: way on both things. I didn't just go oh yeah,

583
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 2: I'm cool with that, Like yeah, there're two major life

584
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,199
Speaker 2: moments or things that happen or things your parents and

585
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: grandparents they're great grandparents, or family wants.

586
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 4: So it's like it's.

587
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 2: Something that you know, put thought into it, and you

588
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 2: know there's a ton of I mean, we've gone through

589
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: some of them reasons why or why not we've chosen

590
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 2: to not do those things. So yeah, I think it's yeah,

591
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 2: just put some thought into it. And it's you know,

592
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 2: I don't need like I said, I don't need a

593
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,920
Speaker 2: piece of paper to wake up and love you every day,

594
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 2: like nothing would change.

595
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 4: I don't think.

596
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 1: So you're not going to get mad at me though

597
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: in like ten years when you're like, oh, we'd never had.

598
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 2: I'm keeping it in my back pocketing case like I

599
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 2: ever need it. So maybe I'm not going to say

600
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,359
Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not not going to get mad in

601
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 2: ten years. But like if I ever you know what

602
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 2: a trump card, if I ever need something, to just

603
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 2: really get mad about.

604
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 3: It and be like you, you don't make the bad

605
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 3: Andrew when.

606
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 2: You asked me if we wanted to get married, and

607
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: I said no, well yeah I lie, Okay, I lied.

608
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 3: How's that therapy sessionally gonna go?

609
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm kidding.

610
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: That was a joke, yeah, relax, not good ones, blue

611
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: mind living, describe each other in three words.

612
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 3: This is oh god, three words. Safe.

613
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 1: You make me feel very, very very safe. I've never

614
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 1: had that in a relationship before. There's always been chaos.

615
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 1: I've always been in fear of something, and just you

616
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: make me feel so safe. Two I've never You're my

617
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: best friend, so the friendship as well as loving you,

618
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: so I know they're not just three words. So maybe

619
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 1: I can be better of this. Safe, loved, and laughter.

620
00:28:56,080 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: I laugh every day all day with you, and even example,

621
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: the other day, you guys. I have asked Steve multiple

622
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: times to fix the timer on the lights because they

623
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: come on. They come on when it gets dark, but

624
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: the timer's off and I don't know how to fix it,

625
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: and so the lights are on all working day outside

626
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Steve, can you please fix the lights? Okay,

627
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: So I'm gone and I check on our security cameras

628
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: and sure enough, the lights that he said he fixed

629
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: are on, and I text him, I said, so, did

630
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 1: you ever fix those lights? Because I see that they're

631
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: still on, to which he doesn't even miss a beat,

632
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 1: and he writes back, oh yeah, I forgot to tell you.

633
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 3: Those are love lights.

634
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: My love for you never goes off, so they stay

635
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: on twenty four hours a day, to which, of course

636
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: I then had to laugh hysterically on the other end

637
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: of the text and be like, this fucking guy's pretty

638
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: good because now I can't be mad at you but

639
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: also fix the goddamn lights.

640
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 3: But you're very funny and you make me laugh and

641
00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 3: I love you.

642
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 2: That's lovely. Well, thank you for that. This is this

643
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 2: is great. I hope I come on more often.

644
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 3: You know, therapy, when you have the Calm Down podcast.

645
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,480
Speaker 4: You know that's true. That is true.

646
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 1: So three words to describe me. You can be quick,

647
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 1: because you know you've already said how much wrong?

648
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, for sure. You've been through a lot and

649
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 2: you've come out the other side of all of it.

650
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: So I think strong is an appropriate term to describe you.

651
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 2: Thank you, First and foremost confident. Uh, that's not that's

652
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 2: a good thing. It's for me. It's a good thing.

653
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: If you weren't, I just wouldn't work. Yeah, I love

654
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: that about you. Strong, confident. And the third word to

655
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 2: describe you is uh, I mean.

656
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 4: You're you're low key, very funny.

657
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 2: I would say beautiful, but well, I don't feel like

658
00:30:58,160 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 2: you don't get enough credit for how funny you are.

659
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 3: Oh but I mean, I'm not about you.

660
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 2: Funny is like kind of a cop out. It's like,

661
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Speaker 2: oh you're funny. Yeah, we know you're funny. I would

662
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Speaker 2: say beautiful obviously physically beautiful, but I think your personality

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Speaker 2: is you have a really you're so sweet and kind

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Speaker 2: to everyone, like overly sweet and kind and caring.

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Speaker 4: So I think all three of those were wrapped up.

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Speaker 3: You know, we talked about this is really great for us.

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Speaker 5: This is really about this, like with the gifts and

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00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 5: things like, oh yeah, you don't like some of you

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Speaker 5: that listen that never set those thank you notes off

670
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Speaker 5: the list this year, so when nothing shows up, don't

671
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Speaker 5: think it got lost.

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Speaker 3: See you guys a little bit.

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Speaker 1: You gots red sheet that he thinks I buy too

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Speaker 1: many gifts for people, and he said the old I

675
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Speaker 1: should only buy gifts for people that buy me a gift.

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Speaker 3: But that's not.

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Speaker 2: No, no, nope, time out rewind that three two. I

678
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Speaker 2: said you should only buy gifts for people that say

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Speaker 2: thank you. If you buy a gift for someone and

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Speaker 2: they don't acknowledge it, okay, I think they should be

681
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Speaker 2: off the list.

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Speaker 1: Well, maybe I'm not acknowledging people that said me gifts

683
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Speaker 1: because the neighbors are stealing the packages. And now I'm

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Speaker 1: the person that you don't like because I can't say

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Speaker 1: thank you for the gift that's sent because you're It's

686
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Speaker 1: not about all.

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Speaker 4: It's not about liking or not liking.

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Speaker 2: It's about if you can't take the time to say

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Speaker 2: thank you when someone send you a gift, I think

690
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Speaker 2: you should be off the gifting list.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we got a question from Lauren Powers. How did

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Speaker 1: Steve and Matthew meet? Did y'all hang out? For those

694
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Speaker 1: of you that don't know, Matthew and Kelly Stafford introduced

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Speaker 1: me to Steve. So, how did you and Matthew meet?

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Speaker 3: Steve?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we met in college. I was Matthew's wife, Kelly.

698
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 2: I was dating one of her friends in college, so

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Speaker 2: we met through that.

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Speaker 1: I was wondering if you were going to include that part,

701
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Speaker 1: because that's an important part.

702
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: I mean, Calm Down podcast is all about telling the

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Speaker 2: truth exactly.

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Speaker 4: Thanks you guys, tagline, But it was no. Yeah, I

705
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 4: was dating one of Kelly's lifelong best friends. We met

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Speaker 4: that way.

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Speaker 3: So one of the twins.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to meet them, by the way, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they due for a Georgia like reunion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just inserting myself.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sure, Tom any time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, go ahead. You met through Kelly's friend, Yes,

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Speaker 1: who you're dating?

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, and you know, we've all been friends

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Speaker 2: ever since. So it's been I think we're going on

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Speaker 2: twenty years now, no, seventeen, eighteen, nineteen years somewhere around there.

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Speaker 2: So we've got a great group of friends. We've all

718
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 2: been really close since then and even before. It's really

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Speaker 2: cool that, you know, that's when Matthew and I met.

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Speaker 2: But a lot of my friends from high school are

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Speaker 2: also in our friend group, and Matthew's friends from high

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00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 2: school are also in our friend group. So it's really

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Speaker 2: cool how all of us have kind of been close

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Speaker 2: for a long time now.

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Speaker 1: Also, I don't know, well you should, you don't include

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't because it's not who you are. Be like, well,

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00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 1: I also played football. You played football at Georgia Southern.

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Speaker 1: That's how you ended up, right, Like in that same

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00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: How far is Georgia Southern from Georgia Matthew and Kelly? Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so it's like typical to like have friends in both places. Yeah,

731
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 1: not low places. That's a different song. I love Garth Brooks. Okay, last,

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Speaker 1: but not least for our pregame questions. One tan hand?

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Speaker 3: What a name?

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Speaker 1: By the way, how about that handle? Which also brings

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00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: up one point. When Steve and I first started hanging out,

736
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: he would say these crazy expressions.

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00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 3: There we go, there's a face, and I would write.

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Speaker 1: Them down because I thought they were In fact, I

739
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: might still have the list.

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Speaker 3: Let me look for a while.

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Speaker 4: Let's go what does a profile picture look like? Is

742
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 4: a the hand? Actually? That tan, Steve.

743
00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: I'd have to go back three years for this thing.

744
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: Steve would say ridiculous things like, I'm always so tan.

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00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: We can only take take pictures in black and white.

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Speaker 4: You were pale at the time.

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Speaker 3: You were pale right now. I don't know what it's

748
00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 3: a time. So that's what he was saying.

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00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 1: I'm as a fitness model. That's not something you say

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Speaker 1: to the new world.

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00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's easiest, So would so you would wait till

752
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 6: I find this list. I would write these things down

753
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 6: because they were so wild and just in without any context.

754
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: You're like, who is this guy? Anyways, I'm finding the list.

755
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: I won't waste our time right now looking for it.

756
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: But it was very funny. So one tan Hand says,

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00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 1: what is Steve's favorite thing about ranch life?

758
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Speaker 2: My favorite thing about ranch life is the place that

759
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 2: we can be together and just relaxed, like no one

760
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 2: can find us. It's just kind of, you know, usually

761
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 2: the grid, Yeah, off the grid. It's just us up there,

762
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 2: and it's kind of just our place to get away

763
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 2: from everything. We both run a thousand miles an hour,

764
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 2: seemingly NonStop, so when we're up there, it's nice to

765
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 2: be able to slow down and relax.

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00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 1: My favorite thing about being up there is yes, slowing down,

767
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 1: but also seeing you with all the animals. Because I've

768
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: always had a love for animals, I've always left dogs.

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Speaker 1: I mean I just like always had a thing of,

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00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,280
Speaker 1: you know, wanting to have as many animals as possible.

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Speaker 1: So when I first met Steve, he didn't tell me this,

772
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: but he really didn't tell me this at the time,

773
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: that he didn't really love dogs, and.

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Speaker 4: So I was terrified of dogs.

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00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: He came over and anyone that knows my two dogs

776
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Speaker 1: that are with me full time in Los Angeles, Willis

777
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: and Daisy. They're not the friendliest dogs they at first

778
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 1: because they protect the house, they protect me, and they're

779
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 1: a German shepherd and a husky and so they're very

780
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 1: like a lot if you walk up to them and

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00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: they don't know you. So the first time Steve came over,

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00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: he didn't even say that he didn't like dogs. And

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Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, dogs are a little aggressive and

784
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: they're probably gonna like lose their shit and bark at you,

785
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,320
Speaker 1: but like it's okay. We walk around the backside of

786
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Speaker 1: the house to the gate. No, no dog barks, no one.

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00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: They don't make a sound, and I'm looking at I'm like,

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Speaker 1: are you guys okay, Like what's wrong? Literally did not

789
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Speaker 1: bark it, Steve, And I was like, maybe that, maybe

790
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: that was like the first moment I loved you, because

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00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:25,279
Speaker 1: I believe that dogs no energy of people, and even

792
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 1: though you were terrified, they like probably sense that you

793
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: were such a good person. So they didn't dark and

794
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: they didn't bark, and any other person would have been

795
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 1: like like Kujo on the other side of the fence.

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00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: So you walk the dogs, which at that point you'd

797
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 1: never walk a dog, right.

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00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 4: I mean, no, not right, and yeah, it was terrified.

799
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Speaker 1: But I was cool, right, trying to be cool. And

800
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: he called the leashes strings. He's like, what are these?

801
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: Are these their strings that they walk with? And I'm like, well,

802
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 1: they're called leashes. So you had, like your baseline was

803
00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: zero with dog interaction. And then fast forward to you

804
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 1: tell me the backstory on why you didn't like dogs.

805
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: You had something traumatic happened to when you were younger,

806
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: you saw a dog hurt somebody.

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00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 3: Okay, we get it. But now you have.

808
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: Seven dogs, you have cows, you have a horse, you

809
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,720
Speaker 1: have pigs, you have a sheep and cats and everything,

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00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 1: and so I think it's the way that you love

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Speaker 1: the animals and that they love you that I enjoy

812
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: the most. Lowin he was I know, I know. Yeah,

813
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 1: but Bindy his daughter, what, she's amazing. Okay, again, if

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Speaker 1: I haven't said it, I appreciate you taking time out

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Speaker 1: of your busy schedule to fill in for Aaron on

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Speaker 1: the Calm Down podcast.

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Speaker 4: This is literally one of the great days of my life.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna go ahead and say that.

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Speaker 3: You know, I think this is really good for our

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Speaker 3: relationship lifetime.

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Speaker 1: Like we've been really telling each other a lot of

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Speaker 1: like how much you love each other and how you're

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Speaker 1: supporting This ole.

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