Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Holly is on the phone
Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater and she thinks that
Speaker 2: her husband of four years, Alan might be starting to
Speaker 2: see somebody else. Holly, thank you for coming on the show.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry that you're dealing with this. What's going on
Speaker 2: with Alan?
Speaker 3: We've been married for four years, but we were together
Speaker 3: probably three and a half years before that, so almost
Speaker 3: eight years we've been together. He's just been really distant
Speaker 3: all of a sudden, for like the past five to
Speaker 3: six months. I don't know what's going on. I've asked him.
Speaker 3: She's just like everything fine or it's not you. I'm
Speaker 3: just going through some things. So I was like, okay, well,
Speaker 3: if you're going through some things, do you want to
Speaker 3: be in therapy or anything like that? And he was
Speaker 3: like sure. So he started therapy, which I commend him
Speaker 3: for and I'm like, oh, I'm I'm happy that you're
Speaker 3: doing that. But he's still like distant, and even after therapy,
Speaker 3: that's not like it got kind of worse. He spends
Speaker 3: his time on Twitch and on his phone, and we
Speaker 3: even used to once a week, like we would take
Speaker 3: our lunch breaks together from work and have lunch together,
Speaker 3: and that stops like two months ago, Like, we don't
Speaker 3: even do that anymore.
Speaker 2: Huh.
Speaker 3: I don't know what to do. So I'm suspecting there's
Speaker 3: another person.
Speaker 4: Is there anything that is pointing to another person outside?
Speaker 4: I mean the distance is definitely a big flag for sure,
Speaker 4: But have there been any signs of another person?
Speaker 3: Well, he's always on his phone, right, like I said,
Speaker 3: and we don't do our once a month lunch breaks
Speaker 3: together anymore.
Speaker 2: So did he give you a reason for stopping those?
Speaker 3: Well, he just said he's swamped at work and everybody
Speaker 3: knows that's a cliche.
Speaker 2: Come on, really, I mean it could be.
Speaker 4: I mean, have you tried to just show up at
Speaker 4: his work with lunch and be like, hey, you couldn't
Speaker 4: do that?
Speaker 3: Do that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah's surprise.
Speaker 3: I mean, for lack of a better to.
Speaker 1: I do not have a to do that.
Speaker 2: It's okay, okay fair. Does he interact with his friends
Speaker 2: the same way that he was before?
Speaker 3: No? Really, so that's kind of weird too. And I'm like,
Speaker 3: who is getting all of this attention from him?
Speaker 5: You know, because it's not me, it's not his friends.
Speaker 1: It is his phone, So I'm not going to go
Speaker 1: through his phone like I tried to want we got
Speaker 1: in a big argument, didn't work out, so I stay
Speaker 1: away from going through his phone.
Speaker 5: I just don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, so everyone's supposed to help, but it
Speaker 3: got worse. So now do I'd be like, stop going
Speaker 3: to therapy.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna look crazy.
Speaker 3: Yeah. What if he's like having an affair with a.
Speaker 2: Therapist, Oh, that would have been a potwaste. Yeah, then
Speaker 2: I would say, ask him to stop going to that therapist.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then go to a therapist that can talk
Speaker 4: about ethics.
Speaker 2: And yeah, teach you how to get over divorce. Because
Speaker 2: not getting.
Speaker 4: A full blown, like one hundred percent cheating vibe from
Speaker 4: this though, I'm getting more of a like something's going
Speaker 4: on with him and he's just isolating himself from the
Speaker 4: world's kind of a thing, which is tough because when
Speaker 4: a guy gets to that space, it's hard to break through.
Speaker 2: But if he's not acting like if he's acting weird.
Speaker 4: With his friends also, that's what I mean, he's an
Speaker 4: isolation phase.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I just feel like it's got
Speaker 3: to be something like he's never done a drug in
Speaker 3: his life, so it's not drugs.
Speaker 2: Well that's good, yeah, all right, Well we'll try to
Speaker 2: figure it out for you. We'll play a song. You
Speaker 2: already told us what grocery store he's a Rewards card
Speaker 2: member at, so we'll do the usual and call up,
Speaker 2: pretend to be from the grocery store and say that
Speaker 2: he's this month's lucky winner of thirty six longstim red
Speaker 2: roses delivered to anybody that he wants to, and we'll
Speaker 2: see if he sends us to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, we'll play a song. Come back and get
Speaker 2: your to Catch a Teater next, it's.
Speaker 4: Time to Catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Teater.
Speaker 2: Holly is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 2: husband of four years might be messing around. We're about
Speaker 2: to call him and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 2: store that he is a Rewards card member at, and
Speaker 2: say that every single month, we randomly choose one Awards
Speaker 2: Card member who gets free flower delivery from our Florida department,
Speaker 2: and we'll see he sends those flowers to Holly or
Speaker 2: to somebody else Holly. Before we do that, why don't
Speaker 2: you refresh everybody's memory on what's going on with Alan.
Speaker 3: Alan and I have been together total of almost eight years,
Speaker 3: four of them married. She's guys really distant. He spends
Speaker 3: most of his time playing Twitch or on his phone.
Speaker 3: He stopped our monthly lunch date that we do together
Speaker 3: from work. He did start therapy, but it only got
Speaker 3: worst after Jappy and I don't want to go through
Speaker 3: the phone and I'm not the tack of pop up
Speaker 3: at work.
Speaker 2: You ready for us to call him? Yeah, okay, here
Speaker 2: we go. Hi, this is Jorable calling from I was
Speaker 2: looking for our rewards card member named Alan.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, this is Alan.
Speaker 2: Hi, Alan, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm calling to give you some exciting news.
Speaker 2: You're this month's big winner. Thank you very much for
Speaker 2: shopping with us. Yeah, clopping for We're here in the
Speaker 2: office and everything.
Speaker 5: Hey what did I win?
Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member totally
Speaker 2: random who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department.
Speaker 2: So it's thirty six longstim red roses, a box of
Speaker 2: candy or chocolates or whatever, and a car that sent
Speaker 2: to anybody that you want.
Speaker 5: Oh hey, that's pretty cool.
Speaker 2: You said free, right, absolutely free, nothing out of pop.
Speaker 2: It will give you confirmations on everything, so you know
Speaker 2: that it's free. It's just our little way of saying
Speaker 2: thank you very much for shopping with us.
Speaker 5: Oh well all right, I mean I guess I could
Speaker 5: use that for sure.
Speaker 2: Great. If you know the person that you want to
Speaker 2: send the flowers to right now, I can do it
Speaker 2: quickly over the phone in just a matter of minutes.
Speaker 5: But yeah, I can give it to you on the
Speaker 5: phone now, so it's easy.
Speaker 2: The first thing that I will need would be the
Speaker 2: first and the last name of the person that you
Speaker 2: would like to send the flowers to.
Speaker 5: Okay, why don't you make the card out the judy
Speaker 5: it's j U d Y.
Speaker 2: Okay, and you have the last name on on judy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, what's the name? Is my last name?
Speaker 2: So it was your last name? Is what was that?
Speaker 2: Your wife?
Speaker 5: Uh? No not actually I'm going to put this in
Speaker 5: the card. But if you could write I love you mom,
Speaker 5: it's going to be okay.
Speaker 2: Oh that okay, Yes, I can do that. Were it
Speaker 2: and at this point, I'll just let you know that
Speaker 2: I'm not from the grocery store at all. Wait what, Yeah,
Speaker 2: this is actually Jewbel from the Jewel Show. That's a
Speaker 2: radio show.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm Nina on the radio show too, Hi, and I'm Victorian.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and wait, what's going on?
Speaker 2: Your wife, Holly is actually on the phone with us.
Speaker 5: Holly, Are you kidding me?
Speaker 2: Nope? Holly. Do you want to explain what this is?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I kinda. I feel stupid now, but I kinda
Speaker 3: ask them to do this because you've been getting like,
Speaker 3: really really distant, and you haven't been telling me what's
Speaker 3: been going on, and I've been asking you about it,
Speaker 3: and you've spend most of your time on your phone
Speaker 3: and you've been canceling Island State.
Speaker 2: The segment is called to Catch a Cheater Alan, So
Speaker 2: if somebody thinks they're significant other might be cheating, then
Speaker 2: they will email us to call them and see see
Speaker 2: who they send flowers to.
Speaker 5: Oh no, okay, I've seen Now. Well, I gotta tell you, babe,
Speaker 5: I'm not I'm not cheating on you. I'm so sorry
Speaker 5: that you even thought that. And yes, I've been distant lately,
Speaker 5: and the truth is that I do have a secret,
Speaker 5: but you know, it's it's nothing about you. It's actually
Speaker 5: my mom has been getting sick.
Speaker 2: Oh cancer, so sorry.
Speaker 5: Oh we just kind of figured this out. And you know,
Speaker 5: my siblings, they're not going to be helping me, so
Speaker 5: it's it's like pretty much my responsibility here. Oh my god,
Speaker 5: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3: I mean, your mom had Why why wouldn't you tell
Speaker 3: me something like that.
Speaker 5: I don't want to put the burden on you. I mean,
Speaker 5: you know me. I'm the kind of person who just
Speaker 5: kind of deals with whatever is in front of them,
Speaker 5: and I should have told you.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And also Alan, just a quick note, I get what
Speaker 2: he's saying with that person that deals with stuff in
Speaker 2: front of him. Everybody needs somebody to lean on, especially
Speaker 2: if you have a wife. Sounds like you have a
Speaker 2: supportive partner.
Speaker 4: It sounds like it's been going on for a long
Speaker 4: time and you probably you know, you shouldn't have to
Speaker 4: bear this by yourself.
Speaker 2: I have six months and if you if your partner
Speaker 2: can about you, it's not burdening them with anything. They
Speaker 2: want to be there for you all. Do you want
Speaker 2: to be there for him?
Speaker 3: Of course I do. I'm even embarrassed that it had
Speaker 3: to come this far to be on the radio, but
Speaker 3: like I wish I would have known, like this is
Speaker 3: a big deal.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, you know what, it is my fault that
Speaker 5: you feel this way, And you guys are totally right.
Speaker 5: I mean you should have let her know and and yeah,
Speaker 5: I guess I could use some help myself.
Speaker 2: So yeah, there you go a little bit all that.
Speaker 3: Okay, do you want to finish having this conversation like outside.
Speaker 5: Of Actually, baby, you know what I really missed and
Speaker 5: we haven't done it in a while because you know,
Speaker 5: I've been so wrapped up in all this. But you know,
Speaker 5: we haven't had lunch in a while, and I think
Speaker 5: if maybe we go to lunch today that I'd be
Speaker 5: pretty cool. I'm if you're up to it.
Speaker 3: Of course, Yeah, let's do that.
Speaker 2: Okay. Well, yeah, I mean, you have a lot to
Speaker 2: talk about, and I'm glad that he wasn't cheating.
Speaker 3: Me too, me too.
Speaker 4: I am sorry to hear about about your mom, Alan,
Speaker 4: and this is going to be a tough time for
Speaker 4: all of you, but thankfully you have each other and
Speaker 4: a lot of love, so you're lucky in that.
Speaker 5: Thank you, And I appreciate you guys for that.
Speaker 4: The Jewel shows to catch a cheater.