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Speaker 2: So you know, hangovers in your twenties, in my opinion,

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Speaker 2: are different than in your thirties, and then obviously when

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Speaker 2: you add life, work, kids, whatever on top of that,

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm struggling to figure out a way to overcome

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Speaker 2: them quicker because I feel like I'm down bad. And

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Speaker 2: I know we've talked about this, but like I really

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Speaker 2: am down bad for like maybe two days. And my

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Speaker 2: hanging out with my in laws until like two am.

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Speaker 1: And you know, it's like amazing, and like.

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Speaker 2: We talk about life and the stock market, like well

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Speaker 2: anything anything, Wow, We'll talk about it.

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Speaker 1: It's great. Well life in the stock market. I should

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Speaker 1: ask you for tips.

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Speaker 2: No, not me, not me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know nothing. I'm trying to learn.

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Speaker 2: But like and then like they've got their friends or whatever,

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Speaker 2: and like these people, like I love my in law

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Speaker 1: I mean, they they go hard.

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Speaker 2: Okay, they're all in the fifteen up club, but they

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Speaker 1: So I'm over here, thirty three years old, trying.

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Speaker 2: To keep up with them, okay, and I try my best.

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Speaker 2: I've been doing good. And it's nice too when my

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Speaker 2: He's that person that it's like he's in a certain

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not like that. So I like to just you know,

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Speaker 2: So I'm trying to figure out what remedies are we

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Speaker 2: what I've kind of found to work and it's still

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Speaker 1: A couple of things.

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Speaker 2: Right, I like my dia coke in the morning of

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I just need to like burp

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Speaker 2: it out or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know it sounds weird, but.

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Speaker 2: Like I need that like fizz, And then I do

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Speaker 2: I do the manula, which is like a like a

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Speaker 2: Mexican soup. I've been doing that. That's kind of like

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Speaker 2: the go too. They say it's for the hangover. It

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Speaker 2: sure is for the hangover. I said, hobby to eighteen

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Speaker 2: Street the next morning to go get me some. But

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Speaker 2: the thing is, I feel like that's that's still not enough.

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Speaker 2: And then not with a kid, I have to send

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Speaker 1: Torm get out of here. Yeah, I think that's probably

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Speaker 2: It's very impossible to have them around because well, hey,

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Speaker 2: they don't care. They don't care if you've been up

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Speaker 2: wake up at six seven am. Most babies, toddlers do

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Speaker 2: ready to start a business, Like that's their mindset, Like

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Speaker 1: Like it really hurts. Yeah, the hangover, it just changes

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Speaker 1: hangovers and the metabolism definitely changed. My sister and my

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Speaker 1: to partake in many many things. They like to have

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Speaker 1: they got stuff to do, and they don't care that

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Speaker 1: And so I think, yeah, I think being able to

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Speaker 1: one thing. But none of these hangover cures ever worked

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Speaker 1: for me. Like it's just a lot of drink, a

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Speaker 1: lot of water. I mean, sure, I guess, eat some

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Speaker 1: greasy food maybe. But I think that what you're talking about, Paulina,

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Speaker 1: are other substances you can take, like crack cocaine for example. Hell,

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's other things you can do. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are where it's legal,

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Speaker 1: are using THHD, right, and yeah, it gives you like

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Speaker 2: It's really not and I think, obviously being a mom

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Speaker 2: to a one and a half year old, I definitely

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Speaker 2: feel like this isn't worth it. Do I like to

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Speaker 2: whoever's around. Yes, that's always a good time, But I

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Speaker 2: don't know. At the same time, I'm kind of like

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Speaker 2: trying to lose weight too, and I know that's probably

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Speaker 2: not the greatest thing. So I've got other priorities. Get

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Speaker 2: better sleep, i want my skin to look good. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: well it's balanced. I want to buy one of those

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Speaker 2: hangover caps. Have you ever seen that?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: What is that?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 5: You can put it on your head and I think

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Speaker 5: you put it in like the fridge or freezer, and

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Speaker 5: it's supposed to help a lot. I don't know if

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Speaker 5: they have other elements that go into it, but I

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Speaker 1: You're a real drinker, hangover cab girl, Yeah I am.

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Speaker 1: We're getting somewhere. I like, Wow, I know people get

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Speaker 1: like ivs. You know, they'll go to those places and

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Speaker 1: the you know, overhydrate and vitamins and whatever else. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but I mean what percentage of the time,

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Speaker 1: that was worth it. I really needed to have seven

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Speaker 1: shots of tequila, Like it was really necessary. Like in

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Speaker 1: the moment, it seems like a great idea, but you

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Speaker 1: fifteen where you're like that was I feel terrible, but man,

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Speaker 1: train was off the tracks, you know, hours ago, and

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Speaker 1: it didn't need We could have stopped. We could have

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Speaker 3: You have a.

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Speaker 5: Shot when you're drunk, though, so like I feel like

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Speaker 1: Oh it's always a shot. It's always a shot. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's so fun at the time. And people have these

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Speaker 3: So they're joking around about how he's going to be

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Speaker 1: Oh no, also that the peas, there's the word Kiki

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Speaker 7: It was the piece for you, Yeah, girl, you bringing

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Speaker 1: It, Jane. One thing I found about cheaters is they

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Speaker 1: Because and I hate to generalize old men. There are

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Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't. I don't think it's like, hey, everybody,

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Speaker 3: So you think I should just blow it off and

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Speaker 1: I do. Let me. I don't know what's the equivalent.

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Speaker 7: Exactly out of all the people he could text, you're

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Speaker 1: You don't want to text your dad or your brother.

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Speaker 6: You could tell you.

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Speaker 1: I might be way off, Jane, and we got the

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Speaker 1: and thank you for sharing. Have a good day.

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Speaker 3: Thanks guys, you too.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, let's see what tie has. I want to

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Speaker 6: So here go.

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Speaker 1: This woman is upset because her husband sharing with a

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Speaker 8: I'm definitely thinking that she should stay. I mean, I

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Speaker 8: You know, it was definitely a conversation to go around,

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Speaker 1: thank you man, have a good day.

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Speaker 8: Absolutely, you two.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, ladies, what do you guys think? And Jason, uh,

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Speaker 1: does this bother you? I actually think it would bother me.

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Speaker 5: I feel like mentioning it flippantly at work is very

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I actually usually I don't lean this way, but it

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Speaker 1: You seem to have an issue. It seemed to bother

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Speaker 1: She didn't say any of that. She's I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what was she supposed to say? Nothing?

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Speaker 7: He wasn't supposed to be talking to her about that.

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Speaker 1: That's very odd to me.

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Speaker 7: I feel like we have a lot of other people

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Speaker 1: So like I'm saying, if I was a street, if

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we would, like if I'm that female.

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Speaker 2: If I'm on the other side of this, right and

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Speaker 1: Have to discuss this. It doesn't sound like you just

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Speaker 5: Would you, But would you text a straight male coworker like, hey,

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not, mariss I'm not texting me.

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Speaker 1: You told Michael Coolina you did. I know. I know

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Speaker 1: every procedure you've had done in the last couple of years,

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Speaker 1: and we're not involved in any way.

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Speaker 2: Well because well a like, I work very closely with you.

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Speaker 2: You're like a brother to me, and number two were okay,

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Speaker 2: so you go post procedure different, you don't tell me

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Speaker 7: If went in your phone, he would know exactly who

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Speaker 7: you talking about her? You talking about your jewels with

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm more can I think with Calen, I think

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Speaker 1: I'm uncomfortable he's cheating, you know. Yeah, and I don't

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Speaker 1: know any think that's fair. Hey, Jenna, let's take the female.

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Speaker 1: We'll take another female perspective. Hi, Jenna, good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 6: I love you guys.

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Speaker 6: I think he's seeking attention and wants coddling and sympathy

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Speaker 6: from other women, which isn't a great feeling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see that. I could see that he's

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Speaker 1: But I again, I think that men. This is just

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Speaker 1: procedures on the male anatomy, for whatever reason, are typically

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Speaker 1: hopefully pretty foreign for men, and I think that we

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Speaker 1: all become big babies about it and talk about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why that is, but most people I

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Speaker 1: know who've gotten to a sectomy I know about it

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Speaker 1: because it was all I'm getting to Azam, going to

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Speaker 1: get neutered, or you know, whatever it is. I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying that we should. Yeah, right, that a cold too, right, right?

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Speaker 1: So I mean, don't I don't necessarily hear this and

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Speaker 1: go he's looking for sympathy from one particular woman and

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Speaker 1: then he's going to cheat. But I mean, I guess

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Speaker 1: she could, as his wife, say I'm not really comfortable

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Speaker 1: with that conversation with that woman, and maybe that's the

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Speaker 1: end of it. I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: Maybe that's what I'm leaning towards. It's worth a conversation.

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Speaker 4: I don't think a breakup over but yeah, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Jenna. I have a great day you too.

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Speaker 1: M glad you called. Thank you for listening to me

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Speaker 1: part of the thirteen. Hey, Karen, see Hi, how are

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Speaker 1: you hi? Can you t any radio down? Please? Yes?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Perfect? Thank you. I love what I said forty seconds ago,

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Speaker 1: but I'd much rather hear what you have to say

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Speaker 1: about a lady coworker and the ps and the dude

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Speaker 1: with a vasecto me.

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Speaker 9: I agree that some men, you know, with the previous

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Speaker 9: caller said once attention, some women are like, you're such

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Speaker 9: a big baby, blah blah blah blah blah. But not

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Speaker 9: all men share personal intimate things with other women coworkers,

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Speaker 9: especially through text. Now when you're having lunch with people

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Speaker 9: in your office, I'm getting a sectomy.

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Speaker 1: Like you said, I'm going to.

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Speaker 9: Be out for a few I'm going on vacation, whatever

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Speaker 9: that happens. But something's raising a red flag with me,

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Speaker 9: and I feel like when you're in a relationship, you

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Speaker 9: should have, you know, respect and boundaries and there's just

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Speaker 9: a lack of event right now. So I don't think,

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Speaker 9: you know, she should leave, but definitely say, what's going on,

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Speaker 9: why are you texting this woman? Because not all men.

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Speaker 9: I mean I've dated you know, men, and some men

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Speaker 9: would do that. Some men would never ever disrespect and talk.

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Speaker 8: To another woman like that.

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Speaker 9: So it just depends on what's going on I think

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Speaker 9: with this guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would also be curious Karen, to your point

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Speaker 1: about how this dude, how this dude kind of is,

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Speaker 1: what his personality is like, you know, and what is

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Speaker 1: coworkers think of him, because for example, you know, I've

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Speaker 1: had I've been in relationships before where people can't believe

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Speaker 1: the things I share on the radiar with other people,

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Speaker 1: but like, that's what we do. That's that's right, That's

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Speaker 1: that's always kind of been my thing. It's you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm very open and so so then when someone comes

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Speaker 1: along and says I don't like that openness, it's like, well,

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Speaker 1: but that's kind of my personality. And not only that,

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Speaker 1: but it's the way that I share with the audience

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Speaker 1: and stuff. So if you don't like that, then I'm

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Speaker 1: not for you. So I would be curious, is this

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Speaker 1: how he always has been and now she doesn't like

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Speaker 1: it because she doesn't like this one woman, or is

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Speaker 1: he only like that with her, in which case I

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Speaker 1: would say, why are you so? Why are you sharing

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Speaker 1: so intimately with her when you normally don't talk about

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Speaker 1: this stuff. I think that's.

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Speaker 6: Important, absolutely.

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Speaker 9: And I you know, I work in a school, and

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Speaker 9: people in schools talk about everything.

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Speaker 1: There's no boundaries. But to text my coworker.

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Speaker 9: About this a male coworker is different than being with

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Speaker 9: a guy coworker because I have like a lack of boundaries.

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Speaker 9: I can talk about anything like you. But it's different

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Speaker 9: when you're in a relationship and then you're texting another

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Speaker 9: guy something. What's the function of the behavior, like why

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Speaker 9: is he doing that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I get I would yeah, I would love to

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Speaker 1: know if it's abnormal. I agree with you. Thank you, Karen,

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Speaker 1: have a good day.

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Speaker 9: Thank you, have a great day.

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Speaker 6: Love you by bye.

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Speaker 1: I love you too. I think that's fair. Now here's Bob, Now,

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Speaker 1: Bob really, Bob, go ahead, now tell me what you think.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you, man, Yeah, No, I love you guys.

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Speaker 4: You guys are awesome. Okay, So two things. Number one,

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Speaker 4: I've gone through this procedure before. Would I tell in

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Speaker 4: my line of work, would I tell my coworkers, No,

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Speaker 4: just I just would not. But number two, I think

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Speaker 4: he's dropped in subliminal messages here. So, like you said, Fred,

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Speaker 4: you know, the conversation that's going on that is more

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Speaker 4: concerning than him actually telling that coworker what he's going through. Now,

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Speaker 4: maybe it's a coping mechanism, maybe he's scared. Maybe you know,

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Speaker 4: he feels a certain type of way that he can't

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Speaker 4: talk to his wife or whatever. But at the same time,

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Speaker 4: I think the intimacy of that conversation he is definitely

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Speaker 4: there's another intent. And coincidentally, he's just sharing his procedure

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Speaker 4: about his nuts.

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Speaker 1: Let's say, so, I guess I would be equally concerned

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Speaker 1: if he were sharing his deep fears about any kind

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Speaker 1: of procedure with this woman when maybe he should be talking.

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Speaker 1: Is like, let's say, God forbid this guy. We're having

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Speaker 1: sarge about his brain or something, and he's texting with

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Speaker 1: this Yeah, he's texting with this lady going I'm so

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Speaker 1: scared about you know what? You know this and that

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Speaker 1: those are conversations you probably have with your wife. I

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Speaker 1: think that we're hyper focused on the fact that we're

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Speaker 1: talking about his balls. Yes, yeah, so.

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Speaker 4: With what's going on, so it's irrelevant. Even though it's relevant,

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Speaker 4: it's irrelevant. But even the whole you know, you could

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Speaker 4: tell there's an intimacy because of her saying, hey, I'll

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Speaker 4: bring the peas over, and this is and that, So

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Speaker 4: there's something else going on. There's another intent because I

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Speaker 4: wouldn't go to none of my female coworkers and say, hey,

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Speaker 4: you know, guess what I got clipped, you know, over

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Speaker 4: the weekend, because also too, because of my line of work.

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Speaker 4: So what do you do, Bob, I'm on your team

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Speaker 4: right now, okay, right, perfect, all right, I work and

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Speaker 4: I'm in I'm in the banking industry, so okay, females

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Speaker 4: a lot of respect, a lot of you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that makes sense. And and and you know what,

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that your job is to listen to us,

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Speaker 1: because boy do we need it. So thank you.

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Speaker 8: Have a good day, all right, you too, Love you guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. Yeah, there you go. It's always

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Speaker 1: the piece