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Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, the show that takes

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Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment,

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Speaker 1: and culture. We start with headline news and then journey

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Speaker 1: to deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are

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Speaker 1: presented in every single story. I'm ourselves, whally that dude,

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Speaker 1: And today let's chop up some wood in Russia, I

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Speaker 1: mean America. I mean she's home, My Babby's home. Brittney

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Speaker 1: Grinder released. Yes, it stole the headlines this week, and

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Speaker 1: it also divided people. As usual, we find a way

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Speaker 1: to pick a side. Boy, I'm talking about jets and sharks,

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Speaker 1: cripts and bloods, liberals conservatives. We find a way, don't we. Uh,

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Speaker 1: we'll talk about that maybe another time. While we do that,

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Speaker 1: it's actually for our own protection. But let's talk about

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Speaker 1: Brittany Grinder being home and this negotiation that was forced

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Speaker 1: the rules that we played by we're forced on America

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Speaker 1: by Russia. Why, because Russia doesn't have to play by

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Speaker 1: the rules. Now, they played by a set of rules,

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Speaker 1: but not the rules that America aligns and the bides by.

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Speaker 1: So now you've got a situation where you're playing one

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Speaker 1: game with two sets of rules. So what set of

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Speaker 1: rules wins well in this negotiation. I tell you why

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Speaker 1: Russia certainly had the upper hand. It's because they played

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Speaker 1: America based off America's desires. They looked at us and

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Speaker 1: said what do they need? Where America usually walks into

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Speaker 1: a negotiation as Americans do, and we say what do

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Speaker 1: I want? Y'all test the difference, and this is something

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Speaker 1: that we all can learn from, Like, go into a

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Speaker 1: situation and don't think about yourself first, think about how

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Speaker 1: they're going to try and play you against yourself. First.

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Speaker 1: America was it and they're saying what do I want?

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Speaker 1: And the Russians said, oh, we know what you want,

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Speaker 1: because we know what you need. You need to protect

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Speaker 1: your image of dominance. You need to protect that domestic

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Speaker 1: product that you guys export greater than anything you export

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Speaker 1: from America, which is our culture. You ever left America,

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Speaker 1: you ever go anywhere, and immediately you're hit with questions

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Speaker 1: and fascination from people talking about America's culture. Our arts

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Speaker 1: are entertainment, our music, our sports, just who we are,

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Speaker 1: way of life, our celebrity. So this negotiation, as much

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Speaker 1: as it was about Victor Bowd and Paul Wheeling getting

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Speaker 1: country and Brittany Grinder actually being a celebrity so therefore

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Speaker 1: getting the preferential treatment. This negotiation was a conversation of

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Speaker 1: needs and wants, and America had to protect his greatest interest,

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Speaker 1: which is that image. It became obviously a political chick

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Speaker 1: for the Biden administration and something you could throw on

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Speaker 1: your resume. Uh, it rings around the world differently to

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Speaker 1: bring home Brittany Grinder than Paul Wheeland. Let's just be real,

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Speaker 1: So what does Russia do. The first thing they say

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Speaker 1: good when you're sitting back just theorizing on what America

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Speaker 1: should do, not really feeling the impact, not only politically,

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Speaker 1: but to the lives of the individuals were discussing. It's

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Speaker 1: easy to make your decision from afar, but our administration

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Speaker 1: was really in this fight, and this wasn't a quote

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Speaker 1: unquote fair fight. Therefore the outcome wouldn't be quote unquote fair.

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Speaker 1: If you understand what I'm saying. Yeah, it was a

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Speaker 1: because we made this decision a long time ago. Therefore,

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Speaker 1: Russia gave us no choice. We made this decision a

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Speaker 1: Britney Grinder playing six years in Russia is a celebrity

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Speaker 1: and Russia on top of being a celebrity in America.

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Speaker 1: So this was a conversation where they used attention as

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Speaker 1: the currency in said America, we know y'all will pay

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Speaker 1: merchant of death, the merchant of that of death. The

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Speaker 1: we gave him up for Brittany grinding the ball out

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Speaker 1: and speaking of someone who everyone wishes with balling out,

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Speaker 1: Andrew Luck. Andrew Luck got tired of being on that

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Speaker 1: psycho being on that treadmill, of getting hurt, rehabbing getting hurt,

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Speaker 1: Then you have to rehabilitate yourself just to get back

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Speaker 1: that person, that version, you gotta trust yourself. And it's

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Speaker 1: don't trust him. Now, imagine that's your entire being, that's

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Speaker 1: a second. Ain't that easy, big dog getting knocked down

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Speaker 1: the youth level, Obi Moore, and I ran track with Obie.

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Speaker 1: He was younger than me, but boy was he faster

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Speaker 1: This dude said every single record I swear, from age

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Speaker 1: eight to seventeen, like insane, like probably faster than you,

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Speaker 1: And I remember, I think it was his junior year

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Speaker 1: it in a resolute way. He was like, I've made

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Speaker 1: He tried, he tried, but he didn't. Man. It seems

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Speaker 1: like Andrew Luck doesn't want the spotlight, but somebody who

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Speaker 1: And maybe he doesn't want the spotlight in this respect

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Speaker 1: unquote being a sellout. Oh my god, I don't know

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Speaker 1: many words, if any words. Maybe the N word, and

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Speaker 1: not even the N word. That disturbs me more than

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Speaker 1: this word. And it's not so personal that it's disturbing.

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Speaker 1: It's because of its effect on others. Let's talk about sellout.

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Speaker 1: That word. And one thing that I always say is,

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Speaker 1: you're not in the healthiest place. So therefore you think

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Speaker 1: things are binary. You think that you're either black or

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Speaker 1: you're not quote unquote sell out. Here's the issue. That

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Speaker 1: Dion is not a sellout for going to another job

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Speaker 1: what keeps you boxed in? What keeps you from stepping

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Speaker 1: of what blackness is? Someone calling you a sellout? I

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Speaker 1: know it. I know it. I talked to it to

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Speaker 1: me and catch who will dm me, will call me,

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Speaker 1: will text me something that is not quote unquote supporting

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Speaker 1: the culture. Let's just say that. And I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: then say it. Tell the world. Why are you telling me?

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Speaker 1: Only because I'm you know me, I'm gonna say it.

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Speaker 1: And what I mean, come on, dog, you know what

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Speaker 1: they you know what they're gonna say, you know how

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, so you'd rather stay in terms of ideology, confined,

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Speaker 1: just say, funk it. I'll do what the hell I

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Speaker 1: question my identity. You can have an idea, you can

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Speaker 1: a term like change? All of what I can be,

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Speaker 1: all of my potential, all of who I am, and

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Speaker 1: should love themselves and beat themselves and stay away from

425
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: them butt shots. Well, that message is old, um, and

426
00:27:55,560 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: that message needs to stay current because it's crazy. While

427
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 1: around here now looking at people looking like Robo corp

428
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: poor androids, I don't know what the hell like caricatures,

429
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: like like, first of all, bodies don't look like that.

430
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: But more importantly, I don't care if you carve up

431
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: your body like that. I don't care. Let me tell

432
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: you why, because I carved up my body a little

433
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: bit different way. I remember, I got five ear piercings

434
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: on one side, three on the other, A nose ring

435
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: that I still have. If you really look, you'll see

436
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 1: a dot on my nose. And it's not the oldest

437
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 1: pimple in the world. It's damn while you thought you

438
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: was tupac with your big ass yep, that was me. Um.

439
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm not here to tell you exactly do what your body,

440
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: but I'm here to help you in terms of your

441
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: thoughts and why you even did that to your body,

442
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 1: In terms of your mindset. I love that natural love,

443
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: that authentic love, that aging self that you are whatever

444
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: is coming, I mean, go to the gym, yeah, eat right, yeah, uh,

445
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: get rest. Yeah, but don't get the surgeree just because

446
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: you're trying to keep up with the Joneses. Don't get

447
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 1: the surgery because you think that a fifth year old

448
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: shouldn't look like a fifth year old. Don't get the

449
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: surgery so you get Holliday at the club, Like, that's

450
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: some stupid stuff right there. And I think Cardi b

451
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: is coming from that angle like love yourself, especially more

452
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: than those who are out there trying to judge you. Oh,

453
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: speaking of judgment, Michael Parson, do y'all see his tweet

454
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: Michael Parson got caught that third rail, that that social

455
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:34,160
Speaker 1: media third rail. Michael Parson tweeted out talking about Paul

456
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: Wheeling and we we we got Brittany Grinder and not

457
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: a marine, a serviceman and immediately had to come with,

458
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: as I call it, the double tap, someone double taps

459
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: you on your shoulder, like did you really mean that?

460
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: Excuse me? Do you want to take that back? What

461
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 1: you mean? What you mean? And then he had to

462
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 1: start tweeting and tweeting, and this was the worst part.

463
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 1: Michael said, with your chest, dog, you said it with

464
00:29:58,120 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: your chest and then all of a sudden, your chest

465
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: is caved in. Said, um, look, I'm not a Trump

466
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: supporter and uh also not a fan of Biden, but boy,

467
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: they you got this dude in the voting booth now

468
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: scared to scared to even put a name down. And

469
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: I thought it was private in the voting booth. We

470
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: don't give a damn who you're voting for. What I

471
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: gotta do with the tweet? That's our problem today. All

472
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 1: this divisive conversation and rhetoric, name calling and labeling leads

473
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: you to saying what you really feel and then retorting

474
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: because you feel that you have now been called out, ostracized,

475
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: or challenged. What happened to doubling down? Damn it like

476
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: people don't double down no more. I understand if you're wrong,

477
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: say you're sorry, but you're not wrong. Michael Parsons. You're

478
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 1: just different and it's okay to be different, like you're

479
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: on that football field boy, that boy different um. Y'all

480
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: see the me Bills punter Matt Riser reason, I don't

481
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: know how to say your name, bro Um. No criminals

482
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: filed Interesting. Interesting. Didn't see many headlines on this, but

483
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: they flashed across. I'm amazed at how the apology is

484
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: never as loud as the accusation, like in any situation.

485
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about did he do something he

486
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: just got off or they didn't even try to press

487
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 1: charges and he did something. Y'all going way too deep

488
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 1: with this. I'm just saying it was headline news when

489
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: my man was up for these charges, and now it

490
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 1: is barely bottom ticker when he has no criminal charges

491
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: fouled against him. Obviously, it's still gonna be a civil lawsuit. UM.

492
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 1: But I want to just educate people to both sides

493
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: of this. UM. They say the number one reason for

494
00:31:53,480 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: false accusation is shame. Shame like, oh, I did that,

495
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,959
Speaker 1: but I don't want the world to know I did that. Shame,

496
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: so my story will change so people don't think I

497
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: did that. That's one side. The other side is it's

498
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: really tough to get charges pressed against you when you're

499
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: talking about sexual assault. For the obvious, he says, she

500
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,600
Speaker 1: say crime, right, or he say he says, she says,

501
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: she says in this world today with the pronounced. But

502
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 1: the point is it's your word against there's most of

503
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: the time, and then it falls into circumstantial evidence and

504
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: witnesses who weren't there, eyewitnesses but there in terms of

505
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 1: trying to create story narrative, or I saw him ten

506
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: minutes before, oh, I saw her fifteen minutes before, oh

507
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,680
Speaker 1: they were flirting. That doesn't lead you to the moment

508
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: of truth. And that's the issue with these, but be

509
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: interested to see how this plays out in the civil court,

510
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 1: and more important me to see how it plays out

511
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: in terms of his career. If you are accused of

512
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:08,959
Speaker 1: something and exonerated, don't you get your opportunity back? At

513
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 1: least that's what it says in the book. That's what

514
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: it says in the letter to the Law, the law,

515
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: letter to the ethics. But let's see if that intent

516
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: is met in reality. Leads you, guys on a sad note. Unfortunately,

517
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: I saw a ten year old lost their twelve year

518
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: old sister. She lost her mother and father in the

519
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: plane crash and woke up texting her parents when will

520
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: they pick her up from her sleepover? Texting her deceased parents,

521
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: not knowing, but asking when would they pick her up

522
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: from her sleepover? I had a traumatic experience and it

523
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: wasn't on this scale by any stretch, but it still

524
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 1: hit me like none other. M Uh I lost my

525
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 1: best friend when I was eleven. Uh. Corby Van Drake

526
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:12,200
Speaker 1: got hit by a car on his bike on the

527
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: way home from school. And why this story hits me

528
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: just like that hit me? Then? It is because he

529
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: went to school roll his bike, was riding his bike

530
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 1: home and we had a plate date. We were about

531
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: to ride our bike as soon as we got back

532
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 1: home from school. That's what we were gonna do. That's

533
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 1: what we normally did. And for him to be late,

534
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: and I remember in those moments him not coming at

535
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: the normal three thirty four o'clock. Now I'm thinking, do

536
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: I gotta get on my bike and go. I know

537
00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: where at school is? Do I gotta go find him?

538
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: Do I gotta trace his tracks? But I'm like, why

539
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: would I do that? And where will I start? He

540
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,160
Speaker 1: won't be there, and then he'll be home and I'll

541
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: be at the school. But I remember, I remember the

542
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: first person that told me that he was hit by

543
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: a car. And you don't even understand where to place that.

544
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: And I didn't know where to put it. I didn't

545
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,799
Speaker 1: know what extreme to put it, like he got hit

546
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: by a car and oh, go see him and he's okay,

547
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,919
Speaker 1: or he got hit by a car and it wasn't okay.

548
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 1: But I remember going to the hospital was all that

549
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: uncertainty and get into the hospital and not being allowed

550
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 1: to see him because I wasn't family. Oh look that's

551
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:47,839
Speaker 1: my best friend, You're not family. I was like, I'm

552
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:51,720
Speaker 1: closer to him than some of his family. You're not family.

553
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: And I'm a eleven year old, so I don't have

554
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 1: much fight in this. I don't have much sway in this.

555
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 1: And m I remember this doctor walking by. He said,

556
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,399
Speaker 1: so you can look right here and you can see

557
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: your friend. And it was a window, and out that

558
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: window was a helicopter and the gurney rolling my friend out,

559
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: and all I could see was sheets, bandages, braces. It

560
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: looked like a blood stain head area. And the helicopter

561
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 1: is just swirling. It's propellers. That was the last time

562
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:48,280
Speaker 1: I saw my friend ever in that state. He passed

563
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 1: away the next day head trauma from the accident. My

564
00:36:56,080 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: my prayers, my my whole essence and desire of strengthen,

565
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 1: encouraging enlightenment goes out to that ten year old girl

566
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: who has to suffer through the uncertainty and what she

567
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: went through in the future without her family, without her parents.

568
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 1: Oh that's tough, all right. Let's switch gears, and I

569
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,399
Speaker 1: mean switch gears. Let's get to ticky time. Goodness, boy,

570
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,479
Speaker 1: donna have me over be a cry Uh ticky time.

571
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: What's your favorite movie? Oh? I hate to be this guy.

572
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm a fencewriter, but I'm on both sides. I got

573
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: to I hate to do it, but I got a tie.

574
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: One is Boys in the Hood Yep, stereotypical call me

575
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: who I am? Damn right? I love that movie. Uh

576
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 1: by other one is Good Will Hunting. Yeah. I adn't

577
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: see that one coming, did you? You know why? I

578
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 1: think both of them have this thing in common that

579
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: your dream has to get reimagined, like the way you

580
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 1: want to live your life. If the way you wrote

581
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: down your life what you want to become in life,

582
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to hit the edit button a few times. Right,

583
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 1: It's gonna get changed and misdirected, but ultimately you can

584
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: achieve what you want, no matter what the circumstances are,

585
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 1: whether you're in Compton, South Central Boys in the Hood

586
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: and your tray and you got friends who in the

587
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: streets and friends who are up to no good, and

588
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: you've got friends also bauling out of control who get killed. Rip.

589
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: That movie hit home obviously because I'm from that neighborhood,

590
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: but more importantly because of the variables the attributes, like

591
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:41,719
Speaker 1: it just seemed like it was a gumbo mix of

592
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: all the things that I was dealing with, and I

593
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 1: was seeing the adversity, the poverty, the gangs, the drugs,

594
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 1: the low ambition, and how you still gotta find a

595
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: way out of that m and good will hunting. That

596
00:38:56,680 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: grabbed me because here's a guy what immense potential, like

597
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 1: a genius who's like a janitor, like like a genius

598
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 1: who can't imagine himself living that grand of life, displaying

599
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 1: his greatest talents. Oh man, And that's what the Hood

600
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,959
Speaker 1: made me feel like at times like like it made

601
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: me think I can't imagine being exactly who I want

602
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 1: to be, exactly who I should be. Those two movies

603
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:31,439
Speaker 1: intersect right there that you can be who you want

604
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: to be, but you gotta be courageous, you gotta be persistent,

605
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,720
Speaker 1: and you better find that passion and ride that fuel

606
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 1: all the way out. Alright. New segment asked that dude,

607
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: I do this on Twitter typically people just right in

608
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 1: uh questions to me, and I said, I tell you,

609
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: I told y'all I was gonna answer him. Here we

610
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: go at Jim mug No mug now asked me on Twitter,

611
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,280
Speaker 1: who was the kindest person you've met? Entertainment in sports,

612
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,839
Speaker 1: there's another tie here we go. Look at me like, damn,

613
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,040
Speaker 1: why are you gonna rip your jeans splitting the fence?

614
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: Oh man, it's a tie between Doug Flutie and Junior

615
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: say O. Now this is a high tide too, because

616
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 1: there's a lot of guys, dozens, if not hundreds of

617
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 1: guys who has just been great, great, big hearts, cool dude,

618
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: Phil Hanson, Bruce Smith, like, come on, I'm gonna forget

619
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: more than I'm a name. But I remember when Doug

620
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 1: Flutie came into our locker room one time, and maybe

621
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 1: I was a second year player. Yeah, He's like, who

622
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: wants to go with me back to BC to get

623
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 1: inducted into the Wall of Fame. And I'm looking around like, damn,

624
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:49,359
Speaker 1: I want to go, but damn, I'm a second year

625
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,919
Speaker 1: player who ain't that cool with Doug Flutie And ain't

626
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: no way I'm gonna skip the line like that. So

627
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting there and surprisingly remember I told you

628
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: about Russell Wilson's birthday party. A lot of good, a

629
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 1: lot of use. They raised their hand. They were like, uh,

630
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: you know, the kids, all the wife Ah man, we

631
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: till we get back blah, blah blah. So all a sudden,

632
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 1: I'm getting the courage. I'm raising my hand. He's like, wow,

633
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 1: you want to go, Let's do it. Wow, time of

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Speaker 1: my life. Doug Flutie. His face is a walking ticket

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Speaker 1: to any sporting event in this world. Dude, we land.

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Speaker 1: First of all, we take a private plane. That's my

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Speaker 1: first time ever in the private jet, like Dug Fluty.

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Speaker 1: We over there eating with the fancie foods. We Land

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Speaker 1: private plane police escort for Duck Fluty. Damn get there.

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Speaker 1: This dude sitting in the crowd. We're watching a BC

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Speaker 1: game in the crowd with Dug Flutie. Hello, It's like,

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Speaker 1: what am I doing right here? It was insane. I

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Speaker 1: was like I am with like the living legend in

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Speaker 1: his soil on his turf, and people were so fascinated,

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Speaker 1: Like people thirty rolls from us was sitting there trying

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Speaker 1: to take pictures but not even coming up to us

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Speaker 1: to take the picture, just like I gotta have Dove

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Speaker 1: Flutie and taking a picture of himself like a selfie

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Speaker 1: but polaroid style or something. Selfies of Dove Flutie thirty

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Speaker 1: thirty rolls back. It was crazy then obviously he goes

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Speaker 1: to the induction, we take the private jet back and

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00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: make practice next day. That dude was just open man

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Speaker 1: to this day, man, we text back and forth. Amazing dude,

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Speaker 1: amazing heart. Him and Junior say out because say o,

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Speaker 1: mom's chicken. His mom used to hook it up for

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Speaker 1: the whole locker room to eat. He had his restaurants,

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Speaker 1: says restaurant. And every time you walk in there, buddy,

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Speaker 1: I'm looking out. And Junior was like on a mission

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Speaker 1: to take the tab, to intercept the tab. And he

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Speaker 1: just always was open all ways, open arms to you,

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Speaker 1: to your teammates, to your family, to your friends, to

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Speaker 1: your cousin who wanted to autograph, always there for us.

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Speaker 1: It was crazy, man. And Junior say, oh man, it

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Speaker 1: was almost like he couldn't say no. That was the

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Speaker 1: craziest thing about Junior. That dude was so kind hearted.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I ever saw him saying no. Let's

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Speaker 1: end on the wily is M. Y'all y'all ready for

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Speaker 1: this wily is M. Let's do it, real ones, stab

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Speaker 1: you in the chest, not the back, real ones, stab

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Speaker 1: you in the chest, not the back, y'all catch it,

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Speaker 1: y'all know what I'm talking about one. You're not my

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Speaker 1: friend if you don't talk bad about me somehow, some ways,

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Speaker 1: somewhere for real, Like, if you don't have a criticism

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Speaker 1: for me, we got a problem. Real one stab you

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Speaker 1: in the chest, not the back. So real one's gonna

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Speaker 1: come up to you, face to face, hit you with

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Speaker 1: something and tell you, hey, dog, you know when you

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Speaker 1: were doing that, maybe you should have or hey man,

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Speaker 1: it could be something just simple like I wouldn't do

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Speaker 1: that if I were you. Your friends, So you don't

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Speaker 1: grow into this world where you got yes men and

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Speaker 1: yes women around you. Right, real ones stab you in

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Speaker 1: the chest, not the back. These fakers out here, these

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Speaker 1: posers out here, Oh they're gonna they're gonna talk about you,

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Speaker 1: but not when you're there. And that's the craziest thing.

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Speaker 1: Because we all criticized, stop acting like you don't you YouTube,

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Speaker 1: We all criticized, we all got an opinion, we all differ,

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Speaker 1: But who's gonna do that in front of the person.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times my wife was to have an

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Speaker 1: issue with somebody and at the end of the conversation,

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Speaker 1: I'm always saying the same thing, So why don't you

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Speaker 1: tell him? Like and that is so defeating to anyone

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Speaker 1: who's huffing and puffing about somebody. You say, so, why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell them? Like I could help. I could

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Speaker 1: try and navigate this conversation from afar. But the simple answers,

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Speaker 1: y'all talking this out, y'all get through this. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: she hates me when I do that, but real once

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Speaker 1: to have you in the chest not the back. Oh

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Speaker 1: the how to do it for us? Man? That's another

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Speaker 1: episode of More to It. Check the show notes for

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Speaker 1: all the information on our topics today. Y'all want to

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Speaker 1: keep the conversation going, let's talk. You can find me

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Speaker 1: on all socials at Marcellus Wiley. Also that has hag

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Speaker 1: you know what it is? Asked that dude. More to

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Speaker 1: It as a production of Dan Patrick Productions, That Dude

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Speaker 1: Entertainment and Workhouse Media Shows executive produced by Dan Patrick,

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Speaker 1: Marcel's Wiley, Paul Anderson, and Nick Panella. I'm Marsels Wally

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Speaker 1: that dude. Thanks for listening and thanks for those reviews,

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Speaker 1: and I need more reviews. Damn, y'all don't give me

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Speaker 1: enough review Stop tweeting me, d M and me on

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Speaker 1: the show is bum? Are you killing it? Texting me

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Speaker 1: leave a review, damn it. Thanks for listening and thanks

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Speaker 1: for the reviews. Like I said, keep them coming. There's

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Speaker 1: more coming from, more to it. Talk to y'all next

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Speaker 1: week if y'all do some reviews, all right, yah ch