WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Pink Doesn't Stink + Unconventional Beauty and the Feast 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:02.720 Hey, we got Back to Back Classics for you. It's 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:04.680 Brooke and Jeffrey. Thanks so much for being part of 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:09.080 our podcast. We really appreciate it. And if you can subscribe, yep, 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:10.680 he's really blow us out of the water. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:13.440 It goes a long way, it really does. 0:00:13.440 --> 0:00:16.320 So thank you again. And before we get to your 0:00:16.360 --> 0:00:19.599 Back to Back Classics episode that happens every Saturday, let's 0:00:19.600 --> 0:00:20.280 read some comments. 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:24.160 Uh yeah, Hannah in Montana say not not Hannah Montana. 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:26.400 Unfortunately I follow, but close second. 0:00:27.080 --> 0:00:28.760 I've been trying to get my son to take a 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:32.000 nap for hours and I finally put on your podcast 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:34.200 and he fell asleep within the first minute. 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:35.839 All jokes aside. 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:37.600 He's a year and a half old and we listen 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.080 to your shows together every day of his life. So 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:41.920 I guess you guys are the stream just lullaby? 0:00:42.000 --> 0:00:42.880 Now? I don't know. 0:00:43.120 --> 0:00:44.960 I wonder what segment was playing the. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:47.560 First minute of the show, so sho collar question of 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:49.240 the day. I don't even think they finished this intro 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:53.400 right now? Yeah, hey, thank you for being here. In 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:56.400 whatever way you listen. It's your back to back classic. 0:00:56.120 --> 0:00:57.120 Good morning or good night? 0:00:57.360 --> 0:00:58.480 Yeah right now. 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:03.400 You know there's a lot of talk about RIZ right now. 0:01:03.600 --> 0:01:09.319 Oh yeah, like producer boys, risen baddies again. Look out 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:10.679 he does. 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:12.360 Yeah, yes, somebody does. 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:15.000 Using it the wrong context. And we tend to think 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.560 RIZ is all about saying the smooth line and acting 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:22.720 confident it is, but we have proof it's actually way 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:23.600 easier than that. 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.000 Oh easy, You're gonna hack RIZ right now? 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:30.280 Is one of our listeners had women literally flocking to 0:01:30.360 --> 0:01:34.080 him all night because of one subtle change that he 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:38.440 made to his wardrobe. Ah made him an instant rizzler. 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:41.640 You're gonna find out in a second date update. 0:01:41.520 --> 0:01:44.840 Next Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date updates. 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:49.840 You know those axe body spray commercials where some lanky 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:51.840 guy sprays a little bit of axe on his shirt 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:55.840 and then immediately thousands of gorgeous women start flocking to 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:57.480 him from miles around. 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:03.360 You made the axe documentaries you watch, Well, yeah, I 0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:08.520 tried that and didn't get any hot models running up. 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.640 But a few sick cats did come by and cough 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:19.160 hairballs onto my doorsteps, So that's something okay. But apparently 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:21.639 there is a trick that men can do to make 0:02:21.800 --> 0:02:24.720 random women want to come up and approach you out 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:25.320 in public. 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:29.440 You don't want to talk to him, You just want 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:30.080 the free drink. 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.560 One of our listeners tried it out. His name is Mark, 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.640 so let's talk to him about it. Mark. Welcome to 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:36.040 the show. 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:38.600 Hey, thank you for having me. 0:02:39.160 --> 0:02:41.960 Hey, you got quite the voice. Mark. What's going on? 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:42.200 Man? 0:02:42.480 --> 0:02:43.080 Is that your trick? 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:43.320 Mark? 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:44.200 You just talk? 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.440 No? No, there's a little bit more to it than that. 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:48.520 Okay. 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:50.959 I don't want to take all the credit for this one, 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:54.360 but I was let in on a little secret, and 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.680 believe it or not, it actually worked in my experience. 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:01.320 Okay, so even before you did. 0:03:01.200 --> 0:03:03.600 It, I was I didn't think it was going to 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:05.080 be that easy. 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:08.400 Okay, Oh wow, it's easy now easy. Well, we have 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.560 to know what this is. Can you tell us about it. 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:14.360 A friend of mine, a female co worker, she's given 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:18.600 me some advice. She said, the secret to get them 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:22.440 to approach you is to just wear a pink shirt. 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:25.400 I could see this. 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:30.800 And apparently it's just enough of a warmth collar that 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:34.200 it gives off approachability. I don't know what it is. 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:38.120 Immediately say secure masculine guys. 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:40.680 And it's funny. Every time I'm working shirt, I always 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:41.680 get that compliment. 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:45.200 Says, your mom doesn't count as someone should be taking 0:03:45.200 --> 0:03:47.960 each other For Alexis, would this work for you? Is 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:49.680 if you saw a guy in pink, would you be 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:50.560 wanting to talk to him? 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:51.760 I mean, even if I want to talk to him 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:53.640 in like a flirty way, I could see myself drunkenly 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:54.680 walking by being. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:56.560 Like, hey, I like your outfice. 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:58.440 You want to steal his clothes off? 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.760 It's a sweatshirt I'm going to take. Yeah. 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:05.000 So, Mark, this is something that you actually tried. 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:08.520 Well. First off, I realized I didn't own anything pink, 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:09.000 so I. 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:12.440 Had to go yeah, of course you did, okay, And 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:13.520 it's a flattering color. 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:16.200 So how did this work when you were like trying 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:16.839 to meet women? 0:04:17.360 --> 0:04:19.159 So I went to the bar with a couple of 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:23.880 my friends, just regular night, nothing crazy, and I wasn't 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:26.440 saying anything to anybody. Me and my guy friends were 0:04:26.480 --> 0:04:32.360 just talking and these girls, oh wow, nice shirt. Yes, 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.760 and they're ignoring all my friends and my friends. They 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:36.359 were looking at me like I was a junk. 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.080 I'm a little bit surprised that it was this effective 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.559 the first time that you tried it, But that's cool. 0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:44.480 You're wanting us to call one woman in particular, right, 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:49.320 not every woman that you met that definitely, not all 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:49.600 of them. 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:52.440 Is a woman. We're calling someone who approached you. 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:58.000 She is. Her name's Tamara. Tamara, and we were both 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.880 waiting online for the unisex bathroom and of course she 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:02.240 saw my shirt. 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.000 Yeah, Amerah, what's up? 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:05.960 I love it? 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:08.040 What did she say? She just said she liked it. 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.400 She was just said, Wow, that's a really nice shirt. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.640 You wear it? Well, you know, she just called me 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.120 out on it, like as if she was surprised. I 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:18.720 was even okay with wearing a shirt like most guys 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:19.440 would never. 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:23.200 Like, oh my gosh, is that thing? 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:24.719 And how do you reply to that? 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:27.599 Well, at this point, I had heard it so many 0:05:27.680 --> 0:05:29.760 times in the night. I was like, I'm gonna I'm 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:31.760 gonna let her in on a little secret. And I said, 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:36.560 to be honest, I'm actually wearing this shirt to meet women. 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:40.880 What was her response, Why would you say that? 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:44.599 I don't know. I wasn't trying to sabotage myself. I 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:46.800 thought I was trying to be honest and transparent. 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:50.040 Women do like actually laughed, she. 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:52.640 Laughed, Yeah, I thought it was a joke. 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:57.200 She laughed, that's kind of like saying she felt for 0:05:57.200 --> 0:05:57.560 your truck. 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:01.800 That's deterring the She's not probably not as uptight and 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:04.440 skeptical as you guys are. So this is one of 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:07.240 those you meet out in the world, you know us. 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:10.960 Wait, did you turn that into a hag out? 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:13.520 So yeah, later on in the night she ended up 0:06:13.560 --> 0:06:14.359 finding me again. 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:17.760 Oh, which is a little drunker A little more exactly. 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:20.240 We both had a little bit more influence going on 0:06:20.279 --> 0:06:22.080 at this point, and we found a spot where we 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:25.120 could sit down by ourselves and actually talk not have 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:26.320 to shout over everybody. 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:30.080 Yeah, an intimate sit down. How did that go? 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:32.880 It was great. We got to know each other. We 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:36.440 talked about travel, we talked about our families. We even 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:37.520 got to our childhood. 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:39.240 You got what. 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:40.800 Into our childhood? 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:45.120 Wow, whole therapy session. 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:47.600 I don't know if it was the color, if it 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:50.240 was the pink bringing it out in me, but you know, 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:52.360 I just felt very sensitive. 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:57.680 Fourth dra I got it could have been that too. 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:58.680 I won't lie. 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:01.040 To be honesty. 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.120 So after you got done crying in each other's arms, 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:04.680 then how did. 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:04.960 You leave it? 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:08.320 Well, eventually she had to go. I found my friends, 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:11.880 and then she hasn't really been replying my text. You know, 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:15.480 we exchanged numbers and stuff, and I didn't know what 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:18.120 to do, so I asked my coworker, a female gave 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:20.840 me the advice in the first place, and she was like, 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.840 you know, just send her a question mark, like the symbol. 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:26.640 Yeah, it's actually not the worst. 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:28.760 It's kind of passive aggressive Okay, Like. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:30.880 I need more. Yeah, Like it does feel passive. 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:32.760 You're a married woman, Brook, You're not allowed to be 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:34.320 a parson. You shouldn't be. 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:37.840 Asking for it just feels angry a little bit. Maybe 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:40.280 question mark totally? 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:41.679 Did it work? Did she respond? 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:44.760 All she did was put a summed up. 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:49.280 Your question It is Actually that's really bad. 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:52.600 Okay, well that's not a good time. We need to 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:54.760 get to the bottom of this. We're gonna call Tamera 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:57.640 and try and get you a pink themed edition of 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:00.520 a Second Date Update. Can we do it after this? 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.720 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:09.920 Today, we learned about the seductive magic of the pink shirt. 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:14.200 So powerful it's a man's secret weapon to get random 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:17.840 women to approach you out in public and say flirty 0:08:17.880 --> 0:08:20.400 things to you, like, huh, nice shirt. 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:24.400 Yeah, yeah, I know. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.560 It turned up the heat with that one, and it 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:29.720 worked for our listener Mark, not just on Brook in 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.800 her low standards, but on actual women out in the 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:38.760 real world. So the second part, that's how he met 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.560 a woman named Tamara at a bar. They ended up 0:08:41.559 --> 0:08:43.560 hanging out the entire night after that. 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:44.920 Oh it's so cute. 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:50.240 But following their bar meetup, she's been almost completely avoiding 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:53.000 his texts other than the question mark that he sent 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:54.720 to her and she just liked it. 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:57.320 Is that the only communication? Is that the only text 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:58.120 you sent to her? 0:08:59.000 --> 0:09:01.559 Yes? What Mark? 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:04.200 Are you willing to work every day for the rest 0:09:04.240 --> 0:09:04.720 of your life? 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:05.400 If this works? 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:07.120 He needs a text in pink at this. 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:11.600 Yeah, can you change the bubble to a pink bubble? 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:14.320 People really want it. 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:19.320 That's why he's turned to us for some radio helps. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:21.679 So we're going to do our best here. I'm about 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:22.480 to dial to Mara. 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.280 If our low bar is just a question mark, I 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:26.120 think we've got this. 0:09:27.520 --> 0:09:30.000 You never know with us, though, So here we go. 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:31.240 I'm dialing your number right now. 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:41.559 Hello. 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:43.400 Hi, is this Tamara. 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:45.840 Yeah? 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.720 We are a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:49.559 in the Morning. 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:51.280 On the show with us. 0:09:51.400 --> 0:09:54.560 Good morning, Hi, Thanks good morning. 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:57.840 Sorry to surprise you like this, but we're doing a 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:00.880 segment called a second Date Update, and one of our 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:02.760 listeners asked us to reach out to you. 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:08.600 Okay, uh, okay, who was it that? 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:10.680 It's like yes, And then it just dawned on me 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:12.560 what you just said. That was dead. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:15.360 Maybe you don't realize what you're getting yourself into here. 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:18.600 But a guy named Mark met you the other night 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:20.080 out at the bar Mark. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:26.319 Oh yeah, yeah, what what did he tell you? 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:30.800 So far? Good reaction. He told us a little bit 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.760 about your guys' night, that you complimented him on his 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:38.320 nice pink shirt. I'm sorry, I'm sorry to stop. Is 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:40.960 are you in a construction zone or are you in 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:41.679 a stairwell? 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:43.319 Are you building a staircase? 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:48.360 There actually is contractors working underneath me in the apartment. 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:51.079 I think you're streaking the popcorn feelings underneath me. 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:56.839 That's good, nobody wants those anymore. We're not h TV. 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.160 But now it's been days of this noise. 0:10:59.559 --> 0:11:02.840 Yeah, get I assumed that you had met somebody else 0:11:02.880 --> 0:11:04.679 that night and brought him home and locked him in 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:05.920 a room, And now he's trying. 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:10.600 To I think Mark would still be that Yeah, he's 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:12.559 jealous that he wasn't the guy locked in the room. 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:14.640 Yeah, because the whole reason that we're calling is Mark 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:16.840 told us he felt like he had a connection with you. 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:20.280 Is that all that he told you? 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:22.360 Yeah, I mean he said that you guys talked about 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.839 a lot of stuff, like you talked about your childhood 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:26.040 and travel. 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:29.560 And yeah, did he tell you about our discussion about families? 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:31.480 He said childhood. 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:33.840 I mean he said, you guys talked about family stuff, 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.079 but not you didn't get into detail. 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:37.440 But the way you're saying it right now, it sounds 0:11:37.480 --> 0:11:39.080 like something bad. Yeah. 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:42.280 Yeah, well Mark, he definitely tried to get into detail. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:45.480 So we were talking about families, and he asked to 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:49.079 see a photo of my family. So I pulled one 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:51.959 up from Christmas when we were all together, okay, and 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:56.040 it got really weird and actually, honestly it got really rude. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:12:00.840 He like honed in on my sister from the picture, yeah, 0:12:00.960 --> 0:12:03.720 and was like his immediate reaction was, Wow, your sister 0:12:03.800 --> 0:12:05.040 is so gorgeous. 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:07.760 Yeah, which I mean would have. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:12.000 Been would have been okay, But then he kept going. 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:15.360 Oh yeah, like maybe if anything you compliment her mother, 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:21.960 just say beautiful family. Yeah, yeah, And I'm telling you 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:22.680 that's not a lot. 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:25.680 No, he was asking a ton of questions, like he 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.840 wanted to know how old she was, where she lives, 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:32.480 to get a date. You're going to try to find 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:35.000 her on Instagram? Why are you asking so many questions 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:35.720 about my sister? 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:41.719 Well, yeah, we didn't hear any of that stuff. 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:44.160 From him, but he did want to call you and 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:47.560 your sister. Yeah, like my sister's phone number. 0:12:47.640 --> 0:12:49.120 Otherwise he probably was why. 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:54.840 True, we're trying to help here. Remember, And I need 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:57.320 to tell you at this point that Mark is on 0:12:57.400 --> 0:12:59.200 the other line listening to this call. 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:00.640 I think he needs great. 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:05.640 Yeah, he wants to talk to you unless your sister 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:07.439 is there right now, in which Dames put her off. 0:13:08.480 --> 0:13:14.880 I I mean, Mark, you had to have read my 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:18.640 reaction when you kept asking about my sister, Like I 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:21.880 pretty much stopped talking to you altogether once you wouldn't 0:13:21.920 --> 0:13:22.720 leave it alone. 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:29.920 I think you seriously misconstrued everything I was saying. 0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:32.319 Why I don't think I don't think so what did 0:13:32.360 --> 0:13:33.520 she misunderstand? Mark? 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.120 If you'd seen her and her family. It's like when 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:38.040 you go buy a picture frame and there's like a 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:42.080 stock photo in there. I mean she's her mom. She's 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:45.080 knockout for like you would never think she was a mom, 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:45.760 that's for sure. 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:50.280 Okay, now you're talking about my mom too, and now 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:52.040 it's my sister and my mom. What he wanted to 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:53.000 base the whole family? 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:58.080 Yeah, move on to a males figure in the family. Please. 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:03.480 Okay, he too, both dad and her older brother or 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:04.880 I don't know if he was older or not, but 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:07.000 he looked like he kicked my butt. 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:12.680 So you were impressed by her family and it just 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:13.400 came off all. 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:17.560 Jeans that's the word I should have used, But I 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:18.640 was drunk. I don't know. 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:22.680 Tamara said that she had a problem with you complementing 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:25.040 the physical attractiveness of her sister. 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.520 Yeah, and it wasn't. You weren't going on and on 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:31.000 about my whole family. It was specifically just my sister 0:14:31.120 --> 0:14:32.320 for several minutes. 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:35.160 What would Tamara be something that he should have said 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:37.360 that would have come off as a better reaction to 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:38.120 seeing the photo. 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:40.600 I want totly anything else, but you could have said, 0:14:40.760 --> 0:14:43.800 oh my gosh, your family is so good looking, no wonder, 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:46.160 you're so beautiful, Like you could have given me an 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:46.880 out of that. 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:49.440 Do you hear that? Mark, does that click for you? 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:53.040 Totally? Sorry, it's clicking for me now. I was just 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:55.920 in the moment, I was star struck by your sister. 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:57.600 It's like she's beautiful. 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:58.480 Okay, and. 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:05.040 No again he's on it again. This is insane. 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.920 Okay, but learning to be honest here and tell you 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:09.800 what was going on in the moment. And you never 0:15:09.840 --> 0:15:12.120 even told me is she older or younger than you? Too? 0:15:12.200 --> 0:15:13.320 Like I have been thinking. 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:17.680 About that, You've been thinking about it. You've been okay, 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:20.160 so you've been trying to do you want to, but 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:24.640 not really a question. Mark, isn't really trying to test me. 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.080 That's like the bare minimum. But you've been thinking about 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.960 my sister and her age since then. This is creepy. 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:32.280 He's just trying to get to know your family. 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:35.240 I'm sure I'm trying to avoid being creepy because I 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:37.960 want to make sure she's not like super young or something. 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:43.760 Question, you shut your mouth. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:45.840 You don't need to make sure of that because you're 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:46.800 never going to meet her. 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:52.680 Well, because she's not invited on their next day. 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:55.240 Yeah, okay, Mark, you need to just be quiet. Let 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:56.880 me try and help you here for a second if 0:15:56.920 --> 0:15:59.480 I can. I don't think you can Tamara as a guy. 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:02.680 It's it's difficult to be in a situation where you're 0:16:02.720 --> 0:16:06.000 meeting somebody new and they show you a picture of 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.640 a gorgeous woman and it happens to be your sister. 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:10.520 Like that hard, it's a trap. 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:13.240 It's a trap. It's hard to know the right thing 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:15.760 when you're drinking. That is the right compliment to give? 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:17.520 Would you say the right thing? When he was sober 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:20.200 on the phone, Yes, you can't use alcohol as well. 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:24.200 I'm sure that he's pounding alcohol right now. He's totally 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.320 nervous and flustered. Because the truth is, to Mary, the 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:29.560 reason why he reached out to us is because he 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:32.360 likes you that much that he's willing to do whatever 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:33.520 it takes to see you again. 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:36.000 No, I I think at this point I don't trust 0:16:36.080 --> 0:16:38.360 that he just wants to get to my sister through me. 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:40.160 So there's no way that that's happening. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.280 If you don't trust what I say. Let Mark tell you, Mark, 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:44.200 this is your chance. 0:16:45.040 --> 0:16:45.800 Do I blust? 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:46.840 Do I fold? 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:49.840 I don't even know, man, Mark. 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:51.240 Are you texting the girl that told you to wear 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.520 that pink shirt for advice? I want what to say here? 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.120 I don't think she would help. You probably did this 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:57.080 whole deeper for me. 0:16:57.400 --> 0:16:59.880 Yeah, now you've dug it deep enough on your own. 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:00.400 It is. 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:03.800 It is, honestly like one big pink grave to honesty. 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:07.280 Is there another color that can fix a yellow where 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:09.840 it feels like the moment has come and gone? 0:17:09.960 --> 0:17:12.119 So it's a valiant effort. 0:17:12.240 --> 0:17:13.880 Jeffrey to Mary. We were going to offer to send 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:15.440 you out on a date, but it sounds like it's 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:15.679 a no. 0:17:16.280 --> 0:17:20.160 Yeah, I think yeah, all right, okay. 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:21.200 So in that case, are you cool if you just 0:17:21.240 --> 0:17:23.560 give him your sister's Instagram now? So if you just 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:24.480 cuts more to it. 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:29.679 You know he's already founded if he had not found 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:30.160 her at all. 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:36.720 Right, well good, I'm glad you shipped them. Congratulations Brook 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:40.520 and Jeffrey in the morning, if we ever get an 0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:44.520 update update email from Mark saying hey, I found her 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.920 sister and it worked out way better? Do I reply 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:50.439 to that email, Brook, or pretend like I didn't see it? 0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:53.880 You reply because you love it. I don't know what 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:55.760 to do if someone shows you a hot. 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:58.399 Woman, I said, if you're drinking as a guy and 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:01.720 you're presented with a hot and you're in the moment, 0:18:01.920 --> 0:18:04.359 you might say the wrong thing as a dude. We 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.320 tend to make those mistakes, okay, but. 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:08.119 You don't say the wrong thing over and over and 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:09.280 over and again. 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:15.159 Yeah, he was like he doubled down. So it's whatever. 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.879 That relationship is probably never gonna happen. Wouldn't it be 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:21.640 interesting if Tamara like found somebody in Mark's family. 0:18:22.400 --> 0:18:23.320