WEBVTT - "CHEERS, REGARDS!" With Alarik Myrin 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:08.000 Oh yeah, I'm gonna get all up and feels so good. 0:00:09.320 --> 0:00:20.360 I just got a wonderful pushing girl. Where rules to 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:38.400 your words? Your word? Hello, welcome to a very special 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:41.800 episode of Will You Accept This Rose? Happy fourth of July. 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:45.920 My name is Arta Marine. I am coming to you 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:50.160 live from my family's den in Little Copton, Rhode Island. 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:52.640 You gotta turn your head to get close to the pillows, 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:55.680 so kid doesn't yell at me. I've captured my brother 0:00:56.520 --> 0:00:59.800 because we did a replacement j J. So I have 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:03.800 I have captured my brother. Aleric, you're the new marine. 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:06.920 You've done it before. Alert ladies and gentlemen. Aleric Marine, 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:11.760 thank you? Yeah, Aleric JJ had Janna Marine from little 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:14.240 comp from real estate for all your summer rental needs. 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:17.959 We do you got to be like Aleric has a 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:22.520 cycling company that's it's sort of like Peloton, but it's 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:30.720 even cooler. It's called Swift. So you're Aleric Marine cycle kid. Yeah, 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:36.600 that doesn't work? What so on that subject, Yes, the 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:40.680 most exciting thing was that my uh that the the 0:01:41.360 --> 0:01:46.039 VP of engineering. Yes, yes, during there was there was 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:50.480 before the season started. There's a preview season and they 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:52.520 were doing a sort of like where are they now? 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:56.480 From the past match pastors and one of them was 0:01:57.000 --> 0:02:01.520 Drift on the show. He found the Lord, just like 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:03.640 I think he was one of the ones that found 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:07.760 the Lord, very similar to Shower Jesus Well, he found 0:02:07.760 --> 0:02:11.440 the Lord. Ends with um okay. So for those of 0:02:11.520 --> 0:02:14.480 you have been longtime listeners of the podcast, you know 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:18.160 it's the only podcast about The Bachelor and grief. If 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:20.680 you are new to the podcast, just fast forward through 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:23.200 these first five minutes and we'll get to the Bachelor. 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:28.079 We're doing a very Never in my whole life did 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:31.280 I think my mission would have a anything to do 0:02:31.320 --> 0:02:33.280 with The Bachelor, because I just start watching it till 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:36.280 like three years ago, and b I never thought I 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:39.520 would be on this earth to normalize grief. But here 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:43.560 we are. We're in Rhode Island. We are we are 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:51.679 burying JJ's remains tomorrow. We actually ever we word. I 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:54.200 only got blessed whod Island, but it's a we had 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:57.000 some like problems with its very small town. We had 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:59.880 some problems. We couldn't get our remains for the act 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:02.880 to a funeral. And now she's been in our friends 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:07.720 armoir and aler's been snuggling the box with my mom 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:11.040 and it, and we watched The Bachelorette with her. She 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:14.720 likes Peter. Yeah, I think she likes Peter too. I 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:18.079 think she likes Peter. I'm just checking in and we'll 0:03:18.080 --> 0:03:21.320 get back to the Bachelor al Worth almost four months out. 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:30.320 How are you doing? I've been better? This have socks? 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:34.560 This socks you. You said that you've been feisty. You've 0:03:34.560 --> 0:03:37.600 been feisty in your grief. People keep asking if you're okay, 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:43.080 like you're a hothead. No, no, I haven't been fisty. Now. 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:46.080 I think I may be forgetting to smile at people 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:48.800 as much. And then people like, how are you doing? 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:51.839 I'm like, how are you doing? Yeah? Right, how are 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:56.160 you doing? How are you doing? I would say I've 0:03:56.240 --> 0:04:00.760 also preferred periods of my life to this um. But 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:05.160 should we say what we may be doing tomorrow night 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:08.320 or no? We may not be. If any block of 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:12.720 officers were good, you can. You can talk about it 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:15.880 after we've we've done this well on air till Wednesday. 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:22.560 We may or may not. I don't want any like evidence. Okay, 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.960 so we're not doing this. We discussed doing this, but 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:28.760 we definitely did not have all of her friends over 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:32.159 and play all the single ladies, and definitely did not. 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:35.800 With a little techniny bit of her ashes sent her 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:39.520 over her wild flower field with like with everybody with sparklers, 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:43.680 playing single ladies and and and maybe launched by a rocking, 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:48.800 But that didn't happen. We decided not to do that, right, Uh, 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:52.080 we decided not to do for sure, We're for sure 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:54.960 not doing that unless we did that. But we for 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:58.240 sure did not do that. Yeah, Snifer gets to stake here. 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:01.280 She liked it here, she liked here. And here's just 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:04.479 what I want to say if anybody out there loses anybody. 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:09.719 First of all, it sucks. It's the worst. It sucks 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:13.359 so hard. I've cried every day for four months, except 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:16.560 for three days. This week I didn't cry, but I 0:05:16.600 --> 0:05:18.880 will say I sold your doll. I also laughed a 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:21.400 lot between that and now, like you're still yourself, but 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:26.640 you just cry, you get sentimental. I have increased the 0:05:26.760 --> 0:05:31.520 frequency with which I mutter the phrase everyone can go 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:36.040 fun that everyone. I've always said it a lot, but 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:40.479 I said more. Now everyone can go. Everyone can go themselves. 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:41.599 And I want to say one more minute and then 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:44.240 we'll get going what was so fun about JJ And 0:05:44.320 --> 0:05:47.240 here we are. She was so fun and we just 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:50.640 best off for her. Here's some best offs. Every year 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:52.440 when we were little kids, once a year she would 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:54.240 pull each of us out and she'd be like, it's 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:56.719 hookeey day to day and she would like take you 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:58.960 down for a picnic down on the rocks. It was 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:02.359 always a beautiful in like early June. Yeah, when it 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:04.000 was like towards the end of the school year, go 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:06.400 down to the ocean and we have like we go 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:09.240 climb on the rocks and we'd have hooky day. And 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:12.120 then there are these big old summer houses that are 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.520 empty at the time, you know, we just go sit 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:18.240 on like the porches of them and have our picnic. Yeah, 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:20.320 and then we'd like look at the windows that like 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:25.080 how all the hoypool OI lived should be like, uh, 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:28.720 by the way, it means like the exact opposite. We 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:35.960 got it, Fiancy, it's the problem. It's all really Rosie's fault. Yeah, 0:06:36.040 --> 0:06:40.560 but yeah, opposite of what it means. Looked up. She 0:06:40.720 --> 0:06:43.839 also very much did not limit our television time. She 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:47.880 led us like, are like I'm continuing that pad parenting tradition. 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:50.120 I think that's right. I felt quite honestly, I feel 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.839 like there was many times because she worked in the afternoon. 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:58.760 Sometimes I feel like my babysitter with Scooby Doo. Uh. Yeah, 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:01.720 I mean it was we had limited choices because there 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.200 was no cable and until like two years ago and 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:06.560 we had like three channels right depending on the weather. 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:09.600 But we loved it. Yeah, and so well, there wasn't 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.280 a ton of children's programming, but so you know, we 0:07:12.360 --> 0:07:16.320 watched a lot of Barney Miller and Mash reruns. Not 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:18.600 in the original We're not at all. We're not at all. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:21.520 They had reruns because that's what they played. Also, and 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:25.880 uh and Mash. Yeah, and the news. We watched a 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:28.120 lot of the news. And then so she loved The 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.360 Bachelor and The Bachelortch was super into the podcast. She 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.840 loved coming to Nashville last year. She loved that needle 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:35.800 point that somebody gave us for her that they brought 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.160 a fan brought to the show that said little Contentability 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.720 for all you summer rental needs. We had another needle 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:43.960 point pillow and the House growing Up that appeared one 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.440 day that said that was for Willie and it said 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:49.000 happiness is a positive cash flow. That's right. Happen is 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:51.920 happiness is a positive cash Who made that? Who Needle 0:07:52.000 --> 0:07:57.480 pointed that? A genius, you know what, someone who's so right. 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:00.440 I can't imagine Willie had the pay she is to 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:04.920 actually do some cross IT patients. He lacked this small 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:09.720 motor control to pacis. So this j J, this tributes First, 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:11.480 she's gonna stay with us. We'll be here's our her 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:14.480 box and I got her some good wishing stones. So 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:17.600 anybody out there going through hard times hanging there, it 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:21.280 just takes time. Play helps. You have to play. You've 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.240 got to play. You gotta play. We're gonna have a 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:26.680 little dance party tomorrow night too. When we don't he 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:29.760 had knowing everybody can go themselves playing house Bachelor. The 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:33.319 podcast tops. She loved the podcast. Okay, so we're in Netherlands, 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:38.000 tulips pot and hookers. Um, you've been to the Netherlands. 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:41.079 I happened to the Netherlands. Can you ever run through 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:44.320 a beautiful tulip field that was striped? It was so pretty? No, 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:47.760 it was super pretty, and I've never I spent all 0:08:47.800 --> 0:08:52.360 my time in Amsterdam. Yeah, he did, getting super high. 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:56.800 So I didn't want it. So I was like, well, 0:08:56.840 --> 0:09:00.679 I'm in the Netherlands, legal and so I tried. I 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:03.080 was looking for like like a pot brownie. I'm not 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.480 a stoner, but it's like, well it's legal, how about 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:08.600 And I found some candy. Yeah, and it was nasty 0:09:08.800 --> 0:09:11.640 and I didn't get high at all. That sucks. Yeah. 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:14.240 I was a little drunk form the wine beforehand. But 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:18.120 the last person years ago eight pot brownies Zak Galpanekis 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:20.360 and Nick Swardson, and I was high for like three days. 0:09:20.480 --> 0:09:24.240 I was. Yeah, I was not high. I knew I 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:27.120 couldn't smoke anything because like I tried that one time 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:30.400 and it was angel dust. Well and I literally like 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:36.600 vomited because I don't smoke and we're lightweight sweet Marines. Yeah. Anyway, okay, 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:39.800 so it was by one time and uh and then 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:43.360 the hooker thing. I've never done. That's good God to Hooker's. Okay, 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:44.760 but you know what if you do, go to Hooker's 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:47.200 no judgment. Okay, here we go. So she's in the 0:09:47.240 --> 0:09:50.920 Netherlands and she her voice sounded so haggard at the top, 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:55.120 like she was like, I mean, no offense to the 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:56.920 sex workers out there. I don't mean to say this, 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:01.200 not for me, not for you, not for you. Her 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:05.720 voice sounded haggard. I think she was sick. She must 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:09.760 have been sick, right, she must be exhausted, Like I'm 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:16.040 falling from multiple people. It's exciting, and then she's like, um, 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:18.600 and then poor Connors started for you guys, like I 0:10:18.640 --> 0:10:20.400 heard the earliest one on one. I'm really hoping, I'm 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:22.079 I'm hoping my name is on there because I need 0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:23.559 one on one because I'm pretty sure she wants to 0:10:23.600 --> 0:10:27.760 spend more down with me. Yeah, and then she's getting 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:33.760 one week before Hometowns with four guys, and um, Jed 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:37.160 got the one on one. It's hard now watching Jed 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.760 because he comes off as such a good guy and 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.960 I'm like, you are a dirt ball. Not only did 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:46.479 he have a girlfriend, apparently he cheated on that girlfriend 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:50.160 before he took her to the Bahamas. Allegedly he like 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:57.840 had sex with some other girl before, so I've known. Yeah, 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:05.440 who are are are? You know? Are kind of horn 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:07.520 dogs like that? Right? Yeah? Yeah? And the thing is 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:11.079 right to do it? Well, yes, you have to mean 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:13.480 it with every girl. Well, I actually think that's what 0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.600 a sex and love at like I think some guys. 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:17.240 That's why I think Ari was. I don't know if 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:20.920 you've watched NI. I think they become obsessed with telling 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.640 people I love you, and they love to have they 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:25.600 love to fall in love and have people fall in 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:27.800 love with that. Yeah, because it's exciting to have something 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:29.400 to make someone fall in love. So who do you 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:33.160 know this like that, I'm not telling you, I'm not 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:36.960 telling you. Well, I'll cut it out. I'll cut it out. No, 0:11:38.440 --> 0:11:47.200 you don't know, then where what part of your life work? No? Okay, college, 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:53.439 probably some point. Whisper whispered to me, whisper pose it okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:55.640 we're back. He told me it was good. It was 0:11:55.679 --> 0:11:58.680 really good. Okay. So then yeah, they're there one on one. 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:03.240 They're hugging or on the eight um Tyler. Meanwhile back 0:12:03.280 --> 0:12:06.760 at the hotel, is like I like Tyler giving um 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:09.520 just sort of feel like the people who like sorry, 0:12:09.600 --> 0:12:13.760 who like I feel like. Being a musician totally plays 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:16.480 into that too. Oh yeah, because everybody falls in love 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:21.360 with you when you played exactly yeah. Um, Well, and 0:12:21.840 --> 0:12:24.880 a musician who's also a he's got a few secrets. 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:28.160 He's got a girlfriend, and he's actually a burlesque dancer. 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.880 That's a secret that seems like the kind of thing 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:33.120 you'd want to disclose to your future wife. And that 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:35.880 you have a girlfriend. Those are two disclosures that have 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:38.480 not been touched. If he wins, she's not gonna like 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:42.520 those two, probably unless she thinks it's exciting that he's 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:44.920 just I think he's a burlesque dancer, so it might 0:12:44.920 --> 0:12:47.360 be different. You know what again, you know not no 0:12:47.440 --> 0:12:50.680 offensive sex workers out there or the burleste You gotta 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:53.640 you gotta make a living, absolutely well. But but you 0:12:53.679 --> 0:12:56.080 would want to know if he's a stripper. I think 0:12:56.480 --> 0:13:00.000 I feel like I feel like a Southern Christian beauty 0:13:00.080 --> 0:13:03.640 the queen. You want to know if your guys are stripping. Okay, 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:06.960 So Tyler is saying to Luke, pay nip it in 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:10.640 the bud. And you thought he said sniff it in 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:13.959 the butt. He totally said step in the But that's great. 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:15.920 So then they go she's on her date. She goes 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:18.920 in these chocolates with Jed. They're on the boat and 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:21.760 they're dancing in the street and he clicked his hand 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:24.800 with a jig. Is only a trained mail stripper can 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:28.560 I mean he was really well trained, like a magic 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:33.400 mic dancer. Like if leprechn was his theme, he really 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:36.880 was quite the That jigs and that's also made her 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:39.520 fall in love with him was like tall jig step 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:46.600 uh yeah, yeah exactly. That was the thing that was 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:50.760 like that. It was like, oh, you were so good 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:54.040 dancing on that pole or whatever. Yeah, when you're dancing 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:57.720 on that pole with that Leprecn kick. When you did 0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:02.920 that pole dance, Leprecn dance kicks all in. So they 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:05.280 go and then you have a little stee there outside 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:08.160 and these people are like you're not for another Lander's like, no, 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:11.240 what are you English? I thought, oh, you're dumb, dumb 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:15.840 you you know you speak English, you're American. It's like 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:20.920 when people come back and they're like, cheers, I did that. 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:23.400 There are other people in town have done there, and 0:14:23.520 --> 0:14:29.120 they're like, remember to study abroad and cheers. So I 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:31.160 want to know what I say cheers to people. I 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:33.720 try to only say cheers to people when I'm in England. 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:39.600 Yeah you should Alaric w we gotta go alerc Marine 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:44.600 for all your indoor cycling needs. Has that you got 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:51.120 to ring a little cheers? That's it. Alerc Marine for 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:55.160 all your indoor cycling needs. Cheers, cheers. My wife has 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:57.560 a theory that when someone says cheers to, what they 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:01.440 really mean is yourself, which is what we are actually 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:03.880 are saying these last four months. So you've been cheers 0:15:03.960 --> 0:15:05.960 in right and left. It is your secret code to 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:08.920 tell every did you go them? Also, someone says regards, 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:14.760 and I'm going I'm one step away from suing you regards. 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:19.240 Wait a minute, you mean like in an email? Yes, 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:23.360 for sure, that's that's exactly like you're about to be 0:15:23.440 --> 0:15:32.400 served papers when you came over to my house and regards, Hey, cards, 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:36.640 go fuck yourself, cheers, cheers in regards, go funk yourself. 0:15:36.680 --> 0:15:41.360 You're about to get suits, cheers were cars? Okay? So 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:45.040 then oh I like that, I'm going to write that down. Okay, 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:50.160 cheers in regards Okay. So then we have UM. So 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:53.560 then they've been He's like, you've been together a long time. 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:56.960 He's like long enough to know to know things. And 0:15:57.000 --> 0:15:59.920 then she's like, well we fell in love. We got 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:03.280 right after ten days. It was written the stars, and 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:07.600 they like that. They're like, this is effortless feelings. I 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.320 kind of feel like we're on the same page. I've 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:14.880 been protective of my heart. Um, it's harder than I thought, 0:16:14.920 --> 0:16:18.800 but I feel better. It's hard to articulate, to trust 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:25.480 and not be afraid, and she really she should would. 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:27.760 Then had dinner with them. She wore a red suit. 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.240 She was in sexy men's wear for our Rookie of 0:16:30.320 --> 0:16:32.240 the Year and she was like, I'm trying to be 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:35.120 as open as I can, but my feelings for multiple 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:37.840 people here, I just got hurt. And he's like, I 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:39.640 want to hear about this. I want to hear about this. 0:16:39.680 --> 0:16:42.840 It will make you stronger. I want to build our foundation, 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:48.040 a foundation powerfully relationship. He doesn't always he might be 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:51.760 a dumb dumb didn't you had a dumb dumb? He 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:54.840 doesn't seem like the dumbest went up there. That's true. 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:57.280 There's a few that seem dumber. Luke seems like a 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:00.680 dumb dumb. Luke seems like a total dumb dumb and 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:04.800 it's a dangerous being a dumb dumb slash of psychopath. 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:08.600 Don't kill me, kill Katie. Okay. So then we have clicking. 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:11.360 She was like, you know, I had a moment when 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:13.200 you were clicking and your heels are up and I 0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:15.400 was laughing. It's spinning around, and I saw your face 0:17:15.440 --> 0:17:18.280 and we kissed and she thought, oh my gosh, is 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:21.040 this real? And then more click at the heels and 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:24.359 she said, Jed, I am falling in love with you. 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:30.320 And then he goes, I am shaking inside, and she's like, 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:32.119 I've known it for a little while, I just haven't 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:34.720 said it. And he goes. She said, I don't know 0:17:34.720 --> 0:17:37.040 where this ends for me, but my heart is just 0:17:37.280 --> 0:17:40.560 feels like it's through the earth. Did he say that 0:17:41.119 --> 0:17:43.360 it fell through the earth? Its heart fell through the earth, 0:17:43.440 --> 0:17:45.480 which I was supposed to be a compliment. I'm not 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:47.800 sure I would take it as such, but it was. 0:17:48.440 --> 0:17:51.480 It's one of those things where they say, of you know, 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:54.199 verbal communication is not in the actual choice of words, 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:57.040 but in like how it's delivered the choice of words. 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:04.000 I was like, your heart fell to the earth guards. 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:11.080 I mean, I feel like I hate that he has 0:18:11.200 --> 0:18:15.680 all the other girlfriends. To be fair, she's making out 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:18.639 with dozens of guys in this process, but that's the show. 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:21.960 That's the show. But you know, she's not exactly in 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:24.080 a position to be like, oh my god, you had 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:29.040 another girlfriend, because I've told about three guys, I'm falling 0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:32.080 in love and that is since you're the new marine 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:33.760 and I've stucked you in and now you're gonna be 0:18:33.800 --> 0:18:35.280 part of the show. I might even make you do 0:18:35.320 --> 0:18:37.760 a live show with me, because Alec Mareene, for all 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:42.960 your intercycling needs cheers regards. I what you need to know, 0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:46.080 they really spleed the d. They split the dip. I'm 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:48.439 gonna trademark that phrase bleed the day just so you 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:51.920 know they really spleed the d on you can. It's 0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:54.240 if somebody said to me, I'm falling in love with you, 0:18:54.520 --> 0:18:56.840 I would, in my mind think somebody just told me 0:18:56.880 --> 0:18:59.400 they were in love with me. That's not the same. 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:02.280 It's also it apparently different than I love you. That's 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:05.160 what I'm saying. I love you is the only one 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:08.760 that's binding on this show. I'm falling in love with 0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:10.919 you is not binding. It's like I just said I 0:19:10.960 --> 0:19:12.840 was falling. I didn't say I was in I said 0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:16.520 I was fauling. It is not binding on earth life. 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:18.800 If somebody said I'm falling in love with you, in 0:19:18.840 --> 0:19:22.359 my mind they just told me they loved me. Uh yeah, 0:19:22.560 --> 0:19:24.320 I think that would be I think that would be 0:19:24.359 --> 0:19:27.840 a fair interpretation that you could hold the other person 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:29.640 accountable too, and if they did it, then I could 0:19:29.680 --> 0:19:31.960 send them a letter that set three cards aren't. When 0:19:32.000 --> 0:19:33.640 you said I'm falling in love with you, I took 0:19:33.640 --> 0:19:35.439 you at your word. I will see you in court. 0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:38.320 And by the way, I boiled your rabbit, I boiled 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:40.359 your rabbit. I will see you in Judge. Judy's scores 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:45.320 for those kids out there that were born since in 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:49.640 the movie Fatal Attraction, Glenn Close was like a stalker 0:19:50.000 --> 0:19:53.080 and she was obsessed with who was the guy, Michael Douglas. 0:19:53.119 --> 0:19:56.159 Michael Douglas. And he was married and he had a wife. 0:19:56.480 --> 0:19:58.959 That's what happens when you're married. And she got jealous 0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:02.800 and she boiled his wife or his daughter's rabbit. Yeah, 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:06.080 something like that. There's a The only scene I remember 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:10.320 from Sleepless in Seattle was Tom Hanks's character his his 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:13.680 child was trying to encourage him to open up and 0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:17.080 be open to dating this woman who's met on the internet. 0:20:18.600 --> 0:20:21.280 And he says, he says to his kid, he said, 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:24.720 have you ever seen if you ever seen fatal chactions 0:20:24.720 --> 0:20:27.720 because said no, you wouldn't let me. And he said, well, 0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:29.560 I've seen it scared the ship out of me. It 0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:32.120 scared the ship out of every man in America. That's true. 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:35.359 It just scared the ship out of everybody. Um, you 0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:38.399 were saying that you were watching another dating child. I was. 0:20:38.520 --> 0:20:42.520 I just completed watching Double Shot at Love on MTV 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:48.359 staring Staring Polly Day fellow Rhode Islander, and it was 0:20:49.160 --> 0:20:51.159 it was part of the Monday what was in the 0:20:51.200 --> 0:20:56.320 lineup Thursday Jersdays Thursdays from the Jersey Shore, Jerseydays on 0:20:56.440 --> 0:21:00.920 MTV and so that it's so it's sort of like 0:21:00.960 --> 0:21:04.439 a low budget Bachelor. But the the interesting thing here 0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:07.840 there were two bachelors and then a bunch of ladies 0:21:08.000 --> 0:21:10.280 vying for their attention. But the ladies got to choose 0:21:10.320 --> 0:21:12.159 which one they were interested in, and they didn't have 0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:15.640 to choose until, you know, they didn't have to really 0:21:15.680 --> 0:21:19.600 pick a team until pretty late in the process. And uh, 0:21:19.960 --> 0:21:23.199 there'd be a cab waiting outside instead of a rose ceremony, 0:21:23.240 --> 0:21:25.480 is a cab ceremony called they called at the carabs 0:21:25.480 --> 0:21:27.880 cab ceremony and they'd be like, get cabs are here, 0:21:29.280 --> 0:21:32.639 and then the other ones would be like, They're like, 0:21:33.119 --> 0:21:36.800 do you still want a double shot at love Oh Yes, 0:21:36.920 --> 0:21:41.400 and then big Big Hug. But there was Valerie, there 0:21:41.520 --> 0:21:46.879 was one. I would say generally everybody was very um 0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:49.800 cautious with their emotions in this process, except for one 0:21:49.920 --> 0:21:54.040 person who fully was a bunny boiler who it was 0:21:53.840 --> 0:21:57.000 it was potentially gonna boil someone's bunny. She was a 0:21:57.040 --> 0:22:00.200 super fan of pod It's not I don't think that 0:22:00.320 --> 0:22:01.800 was it. I don't think it was. I don't think 0:22:01.840 --> 0:22:03.760 it was the celebrity crunch. I just think she just 0:22:03.880 --> 0:22:06.240 at some point early on decided like I'm in love 0:22:06.280 --> 0:22:09.280 with him. Um. Also, we may need to on Patreon, 0:22:09.400 --> 0:22:12.480 you were saying. On and MTV, there's a show called 0:22:12.480 --> 0:22:16.159 Tattoo Far where they have I don't know anything about this, 0:22:16.240 --> 0:22:19.119 but where they have they take how far is tattoo Far? 0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:21.960 So they'll have people that are like brothers and sisters 0:22:22.200 --> 0:22:26.200 or relationships or best friends or something, and each person 0:22:26.359 --> 0:22:28.960 gets to pick a tattoo and the placement of the 0:22:29.000 --> 0:22:31.400 tattoo for the other person and they have to get it. 0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:34.439 And Alex's a preview. They don't find out what it 0:22:34.440 --> 0:22:37.480 is into the tattoos on their body. And Alex said 0:22:37.520 --> 0:22:40.679 he saw a preview that said, what it was just 0:22:40.720 --> 0:22:43.800 a guy looking in the mirror and me like, we 0:22:43.920 --> 0:22:49.840 got those dicks. Apparently there was a gichanic dicks with 0:22:50.119 --> 0:22:53.200 huge hairy balls coming out of his armpit. It was 0:22:53.240 --> 0:22:56.400 like a huge like vany dick and balls coming out 0:22:56.440 --> 0:22:58.760 of the armpit and you have to get it. It's 0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:01.920 a great idea. We might have to watch it on patreo. Okay, 0:23:02.359 --> 0:23:08.720 so you need you need that at that Christine's name, Oh, 0:23:09.080 --> 0:23:14.760 back it up, back it up. Okay. So our lady 0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:17.600 friend said she was watching it and that there was 0:23:17.640 --> 0:23:20.439 a guy that had a huge dick with harry veins 0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:24.440 and balls and that it had like coming out of 0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:26.720 his armpits and he had to get it. We might 0:23:26.760 --> 0:23:29.840 have to watch this on patreot. How many episodes are there, 0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:34.919 of which one of tattoo far I didn't watch it. 0:23:35.040 --> 0:23:37.480 We gotta watch it. Yeah, you know what it looked. 0:23:37.640 --> 0:23:42.840 I mean, I'm horrified at the Frankly, I'm I'm freaked 0:23:42.880 --> 0:23:47.000