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Speaker 1: My fiance isn't with me because he loves me. He's

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Speaker 1: in it for the money. Should I stay or should

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Speaker 1: I go? This is okayop, home of the craziest true

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Speaker 1: stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and Riley. Should op stay?

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Speaker 1: Where should they go?

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Speaker 2: He's definitely staying. What's she getting out of this? What

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Speaker 2: do you think she's getting out of this?

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Speaker 3: Love?

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Speaker 1: Oh? And not love? I guess love, not love?

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Speaker 2: But if he has to pretend like he's in love? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what do couples do to pretend like they're in love?

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Speaker 1: What do they do?

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Speaker 3: I'm saying? If he's packing and you're liking it's all good,

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Speaker 3: it's all good. But if you don't like it, immediately leave.

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Speaker 3: It's not worth it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Also if you had money wait, Also, if he does

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Speaker 2: have money, you should figure out like those life insurance

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Speaker 2: are pinching things where.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, give me waiting until you die? Like what it

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Speaker 1: is he's trying to, like sneak in in the will?

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Speaker 3: I don't know? Are they I don't know?

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Speaker 1: So ro Ara? Why do they say ara instead of

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Speaker 3: Ra? Please help us understand?

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Speaker 1: Ro Ra A Maistreet says, I female twenty five found

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Speaker 1: out my fiance, male twenty seven, is with me for

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Speaker 1: my money. Flash family business to preface, my family owns

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Speaker 1: and makes loads of profit. Thus I am a trust

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Speaker 1: fun baby. I try not to be spoiled and have

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Speaker 1: always worked myself. I met my fiance Mark when I

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Speaker 1: was twenty and working as a waitress. We began dating

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Speaker 1: a few months later, and he proposed to me last year. Now,

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Speaker 1: Mark is not poor. He is upper middle class, and

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Speaker 1: while he doesn't struggle in light, he didn't have to

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Speaker 1: were still dating, and he would cook for me instead

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Speaker 3: He was saving his money, he.

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Speaker 1: Was waiting for the right moment. The beginning of my

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Speaker 1: accept him. When Mark graduated, Dad hired him and now

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Speaker 1: he is in a high earning position. Sunday, I was

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Speaker 1: Instead of staying in our bedroom, I made my way

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Speaker 3: The man, bro.

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Speaker 1: Then they started laughing about me being willing to not

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Speaker 1: just three more years and I'm free. That's such a

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Speaker 3: Who does that depends on how how big the bag is.

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Speaker 1: But like, that's such a long time for three years

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Speaker 3: Would you do it?

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Speaker 1: Do I like them? But that's the question? You do

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Speaker 2: You like them, but you do not see like them

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Speaker 1: No, I don't think I could do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it. Five million dollars for five million dollars,

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Speaker 2: You are but like you like them, you like hanging

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Speaker 3: I just it just depends on like you like them,

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Speaker 1: Well then, but that then I just have a good Really,

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Speaker 1: I'm just hanging out with someone for ten million dollars?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, would you not do that?

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Speaker 2: You're just hanging out with them, like you can do

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Speaker 1: Going to marry. This depends on how much I'm lying

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Speaker 3: But like that was just a flaw on their plan.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but would you do it? I don't know, would you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I would hang out with someone for three years

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You don't take you lying to them.

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Speaker 1: It depends on how much I'm lying to them.

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Speaker 3: You just don't tell them. The only thing you lie

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Speaker 1: About is that am I breaking up with them?

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Speaker 3: You'll have to yeah. Yeah, if you don't want to

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Speaker 1: I don't know. That feels harsh. See what Mark did.

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Speaker 3: Sophia's a lover girl.

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Speaker 1: At this moment, I felt sick to my stomach and

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, why would.

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Speaker 1: They do that in her? Oh that yard. I didn't

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Speaker 1: I haven't returned home and just told Mark that I

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Speaker 1: ashamed about everything. My family was right. Mark is a

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Speaker 1: far as I know, he's excellent at what he does,

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Speaker 3: This is a very tricky thing I'm feeling.

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Speaker 1: I feel like he could just make his own money

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Speaker 1: at this point, Like he has a high paying job

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Speaker 1: that he already has money. How much money does he need?

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Speaker 1: I mean, are people so greedy? Have you? Have you ever?

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Speaker 2: He would have to start a business and that takes

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Speaker 1: But like he would have to do what do you mean.

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Speaker 3: Like starting a business? I don't know how else.

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Speaker 1: No, he already he's already got a job.

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Speaker 3: I know, but it's in the family business.

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Speaker 1: Oh so if you laugh, what what are you saying?

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Speaker 3: What are you saying?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: You're saying he doesn't need money because he already has

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Speaker 2: a help well paying job. He got the well paying

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like why does it Because it seems like

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Speaker 2: He's probably waiting to get married and then get divorced

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because did they what they say about the prenup?

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Speaker 3: He didn't sign one. Yeah, yeah, sign that's his game plan.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she should just make him sign a prenup, be like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about it. Let's sign a prina and

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Speaker 1: don't say anything, just keep going with the relationship sign an.

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Speaker 3: That's a good point. Yeah, I like that. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then if he's like, no that and break up.

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Speaker 3: True true, I like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But how do you get him fired?

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Speaker 1: Classic Disney Channel plots, You like, what's that movie? A

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Speaker 1: big fat liar? I don't know how this applies, but

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Speaker 3: I want him to be like, hey, here, honey, take

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Speaker 3: then he does. But then it's like infested with rats,

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Speaker 3: and then it gets into the company, and.

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Speaker 1: Then the yats are in the beer bottles, they're in

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Speaker 3: It's full of rats. And then it goes from.

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Speaker 1: And everyone's like, why would you break this cooler? And

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Speaker 1: the snake cooler until he got to the word exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: genius masterminds. Okay, there's an edit from OPI who says

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Speaker 1: we're non us. Mark wasn't talking about anything else. He

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Speaker 1: and with part of it I helped pay off, and

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Speaker 1: he's already getting so much out of this relationship. There's

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Speaker 1: no way he wasn't talking about me. Edit to thank

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Speaker 1: you all for your great advice. I open up to

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Speaker 1: my sister about it, and she's right now with me

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Speaker 1: reading all of your responses. We have call up Dad

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Speaker 1: and I will talk to him tomorrow. I will be

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Speaker 1: Some questions have come up. I don't drive that. I

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Speaker 1: don't drive, that's why my fiance didn't see in my car.

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Speaker 1: I mostly uber around. Okay, so the fiance didn't realize

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he wouldn't say that if he knew.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, that's true. I will.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, makes sense unless he wants her to find out

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Speaker 3: that that plan it's like those super villains that like

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Speaker 1: It all out. Yeah, and then he's like, how did

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Speaker 1: you foil that plan? My plot? I worked as a

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Speaker 1: If, like, if my partner ever said any of those things, like,

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Speaker 2: Like like I think it was a It was like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, don't be me into your trust fun Barbie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't even if that's what it is. Yeah, dumb,

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Speaker 1: Strawberry? Yeah, okay, that's fine. But I don't mind lemon.

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Speaker 3: She's just not going to rank people as No.

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Speaker 1: Mark couldn't have seen my car and known I was

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Speaker 1: do it when necessary. I feel like if they're wealthy enough,

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Speaker 1: name Arnold, be fancy name Arnold, My name Arnold.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get a knockoff version of Batman's Alfred

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Speaker 1: Iron Man doesn't have a Mayby.

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Speaker 2: This is a little robot dude. Oh Jarvis, Yeah, give

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Speaker 1: The yeah, get yourself a show for a name, Arvis.

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Speaker 1: I don't work as a waitress anymore. I worked at

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Speaker 1: his way out. They weren't joking. This is referring to

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Speaker 1: the friends. They have never made that kind of remarks

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Speaker 2: I don't think that is a great joke, and jokes

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Speaker 1: If you're not laughing joke exactly. Everyone should be laughing

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Speaker 1: There's more to this update.

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Speaker 3: Oh boy, where do you think this is gonna go? Oh? Yeah, yeah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you do when mister so? Is she gonna say hey?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're gonna break up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think she's got to break up

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Speaker 1: We finished lunch and Dad served him the papers, saying

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Speaker 1: instantly see that he didn't expect this. He got angry

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Speaker 1: him and that this just felt like a personal attack.

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Speaker 1: He was trying so hard to sell me the role

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Speaker 1: Then he just said that he needed think everything through

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Speaker 3: But she kept it together.

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Speaker 1: Good for her. Yeah, but I kept it together. That's nice,

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Speaker 1: pull the I told you so. We looked into everything,

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Speaker 3: Wow, it's crazy get a little smaller payout.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. After that was all sorted out, I decided to

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Speaker 1: just simply text, as one of you suggested, Hey Mark,

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Speaker 1: free in three years, I'll do you a big favorite

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Speaker 1: and set you free now. Kisses, Opie, what an icon?

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Speaker 1: When did I I'm just imagining, Heymark, trust Fun. Like

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Speaker 3: I hope she got her nails done. I'm so obsessed

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Speaker 1: Got Hey Mark, She's got like six inch nails. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's just got her haircut.

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Speaker 3: Make with the girls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's not like a mimosa in hand. She's like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Hey, she's really upgrading. Yeah, I love this.

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Speaker 1: I love this for eup. My phone completely blew up

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Speaker 1: with Mark's messages. After I sent that, he texted and

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Speaker 1: my phone. Wow, too little, too late. Mark. He came

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Speaker 1: He promised that it was just a joke, like a

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Speaker 1: appear better, he pleaded, he cried, He begged me not

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Speaker 1: ruining his life. Honestly, I don't care. I love that.

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Speaker 1: He's going through all this denial, denial, Yeah, so he

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Speaker 1: He said, why are you spying on me? Bargeting? He's begging,

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Speaker 1: he's he's begging. He's apologetic.

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Speaker 3: Oh, depression. He started crying.

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Speaker 1: He eventually yeah, did he where?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? He was like he was begging and crying.

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Speaker 1: Plee did he cried? He begged me not to end things. Wow,

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Speaker 1: he's going through all. Let's see if he gets to

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Speaker 3: This is the last one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Then his manner changed once again to apologetic. He

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Speaker 1: he told me this weird story of them being cousins

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Speaker 3: Yeah, someone's got to be talking about her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think I know who it is. I

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Speaker 1: never know what exactly his plan was, but it's better

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Speaker 1: to have things this way. We still have to sort

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Speaker 1: see Mark again. Good Sorry for any mistakes. I am

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Speaker 1: really sleepy. It just thought it would be a good

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Speaker 2: What are some of the financial stuff, Like is she

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Speaker 3: Is it donated to charity?

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Speaker 1: She's like, give it back. You have to pay. I'm

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Speaker 1: the loan now and you have to pay back. This

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Speaker 2: You probably came from the severges he got from his dad.

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Speaker 2: Her dad, Oh they same?

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Speaker 1: Sure're true?

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Speaker 3: That'd be cool?

441
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:37,000
Speaker 1: Uh. Edit, because you have to spoon feed people every

442
00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:41,720
Speaker 1: tiny bit of information or this gets written off as fake. Obviously,

443
00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,280
Speaker 1: the lawyer didn't draft to prenup from zero in half

444
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,040
Speaker 1: an hour. I do have siblings, I do have cousins,

445
00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,479
Speaker 1: and some of them are engaged married. Thus we already

446
00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:52,639
Speaker 1: had established prenups to go. Also, we didn't need a

447
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 1: bulletproof prenup for this. I just wanted to see his reaction.

448
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,640
Speaker 1: Serving him with a boiler plate prenup would have served

449
00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,920
Speaker 1: the same purpose. Also, No, I didn't ruin his life.

450
00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:04,160
Speaker 1: He will not be fired he will not be bad

451
00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,520
Speaker 1: mouthed in any kind of way. He has still all

452
00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,560
Speaker 1: the opportunities in the world to succeed. I thought it

453
00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 1: made it clear that I gave him notice for inviction,

454
00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,520
Speaker 1: meaning he had days to leave the property. That's why

455
00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:17,360
Speaker 1: I'm still staying with my sister. It's not a done deal.

456
00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:21,000
Speaker 1: It's still in progress, but the biggest steps have been made. Jesus.

457
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,919
Speaker 1: People said it was for the trolls. Yeah, it's for

458
00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:27,880
Speaker 1: the trolls. All the trolls in the comments who don't

459
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,560
Speaker 1: seem seem to be on Mark's side, which I don't understand.

460
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:35,719
Speaker 2: I don't think they can, like think about things from

461
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,879
Speaker 2: a female's perspective. Sorry, I don't think they can think

462
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 2: about things from a woman.

463
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:44,400
Speaker 1: You have to tell Riley so well, you're so good.

464
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:45,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

465
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 1: No, I think that they're yeah, a little bit crazy

466
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 1: because it's so obvious that Mark's in the wrong. They're like, gods, Josh,

467
00:20:56,119 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 1: he's just joking around like you do with your partner. Yeah,

468
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 1: it seems like you guys have unhealthy relationships.

469
00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 2: You know, and in some other places disrespect. They just

470
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 2: cut your head off, not your money off, they just die. Yeah,

471
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,679
Speaker 2: so be grateful you were born in that country and

472
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:14,920
Speaker 2: was in that situation.

473
00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, or you ended up in that country.

474
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 1: That is the far end of the spectrum.

475
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 3: That is in the spectrum.

476
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, you don't get a prenup, you just apparently

477
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:27,679
Speaker 1: lose your head. According to Ryley.

478
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 3: Thing overall, do you think OP did the right thing?

479
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:34,120
Speaker 1: Yes, I do. I think we did the right thing.

480
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 1: And I'm glad that you set them up with the

481
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,120
Speaker 1: fake or not the fake preenup, but with the prenup. Yeah.

482
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 3: The reaction.

483
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, if I was with someone that was rich, I'd

484
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,680
Speaker 2: be okay with prenup.

485
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I meant.

486
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 3: I got assets too.

487
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Eventually, Yeah, maybe they're trying to take high They

488
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 1: might be trying to.

489
00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 3: Take my land. Yeah, in the mountains land, I do

490
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 3: have land, but yeah we're not like yeah, but like

491
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 3: I probably will. Like within your you.

492
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,360
Speaker 1: Probably will and you do have land or different Yeah.

493
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 3: I probably have. I probably will be like inherited land.

494
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 1: What down the roads to me? Yeah, down the road

495
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 1: you're here land dollar road.

496
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,919
Speaker 3: Not down the road. This is in the Appalachian mountain zones.

497
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 2: That's what happens when the family has sawmill. I mean

498
00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 2: I probably could I'd probably just sell the timber on it.

499
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, do that. If I had land, I would make

500
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,640
Speaker 1: a little ranch. I would invite all my friends.

501
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 3: That's so cute. You know what, you should invite all

502
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 3: your friends too, though. Right now, this next story.

503
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: I borrowed two thousand dollars from my girlfriend, but I

504
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,439
Speaker 1: can't pay her back. What should I do, Briley? What

505
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 1: should OPI do?

506
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 3: Get a loan?

507
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, get alone, get alone, pay back. Take get alone,

508
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 1: Get a loan and then alone.

509
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 2: If you can't pay that loan, get another loan, pay

510
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 2: that loan off. Yeah, and then build your credit up.

511
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 2: Get another loan, pay that loan off, and just keep

512
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 2: building it up and to your in debt of a

513
00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 2: million dollars.

514
00:22:57,960 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 3: And then that's when your work ethic will start.

515
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, go to the mafia. Take I don't known, dude.

516
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 3: Have you ever read the book The Poor Dad?

517
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: No? What was it about?

518
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 3: Okay?

519
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 2: Uh So it's about like how to like get rich

520
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 2: and get out of this like money, the rat race.

521
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,679
Speaker 2: He basically explains what the rat races and shows you

522
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 2: how to get out of it. Apparently, this guy is

523
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,119
Speaker 2: in a million dollars in debt, but like in his videos.

524
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,119
Speaker 2: He's explaining how he's using debt to his advantage to

525
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: get more assets.

526
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,239
Speaker 1: But I'm like, yeah, I don't know about that.

527
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,960
Speaker 3: I wonder, Okay, if he's in debt for a billion dollars,

528
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 3: how much is this guy's worth?

529
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:42,919
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, oh so he's not.

530
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,919
Speaker 3: So this guy has a billion dollars in debt, but

531
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,160
Speaker 3: his net worth is like a million.

532
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 1: One hundred million, one hundred million, one hundred million.

533
00:23:54,359 --> 00:24:01,120
Speaker 3: So bad Yi yi wow, box of the story. Oh,

534
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 3: I was just saying, take out the debt and build

535
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 3: up your credit.

536
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

537
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, however that.

538
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: Works, Briley's giving me excellent fine with flags do that?

539
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: I think that it depends on if you established like

540
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,160
Speaker 1: this is when we need to pay it back. Okay,

541
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 1: Like obviously you should pay it back, but like like

542
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 1: I need it back now. Yeah, that's what's the paid date.

543
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:26,920
Speaker 1: So something. Someone twenty four says, I, female twenty five

544
00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: borrowed two thousand dollars for my girlfriend, female twenty five

545
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 1: credit card for my girlfriend's female twenty five credit card

546
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: to pay for my parents overdue rent to avoid eviction.

547
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 3: Whoa, whoa. Oh, well there's a whole nother story here.

548
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: Whoa so it's not doesn't even have anything to do

549
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:45,000
Speaker 1: with you.

550
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 3: It's just yeah, oh maybe, yeah.

551
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess like eviction is pretty serious, but

552
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I need a readmark.

553
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,520
Speaker 3: It's just a red flag for me right there.

554
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's a little bit yeah, barring from your Yeah,

555
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. My mom came to me

556
00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: asking for help to pay their overdy rent. At the moment,

557
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 1: I didn't have any money to help pay for the rent,

558
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: so I asked my girlfriend to lend me some money.

559
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 1: She knew me and my family were struggling to make

560
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: money right now because some of the business transactions we

561
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: have fell through, so she was adamant and concerned on

562
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 1: how we could pay her back at all. I understand

563
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: the concern, and it's valid to think that. But I,

564
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: on the other hand, was expecting a big tech in

565
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: two weeks, so I was confident that I could pay

566
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: her back right away. So it seems like the girlfriend

567
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: was worried about getting the money back, and she was right.

568
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: Thank Yikes, yikes.

569
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 3: It's two thousand dollars worth of breaking up over.

570
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: I think.

571
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 3: Like you have two thousand dollars that's the only thing

572
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 3: left in your bank account to your next paycheck.

573
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,360
Speaker 1: I think if my partner didn't pay it back, I'd

574
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 1: be like, hey, are you gonna, you know, pay it back.

575
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,679
Speaker 3: But like, let's say that you gave it to him

576
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 3: and they do not pay you back.

577
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: I feel like that would be I would be like, hmmm, yeah, yeah,

578
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: I think that I would just yeah, I feel like

579
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: that is a lack of true yeah, and also kind

580
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:06,439
Speaker 1: of shows you know, bad financial what's the word like

581
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: financial stability, stability, but also just like intelligence, how yeah, yeah,

582
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:12,880
Speaker 1: which you know.

583
00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:14,199
Speaker 3: Soil test trial honestly?

584
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, are you? Yeah, Like here's the loan, We'll see

585
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:18,480
Speaker 1: how it goes.

586
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

587
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. A day before the big check, I borrowed another

588
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:26,360
Speaker 1: four hundred to treat my family out. Whoa four hundred,

589
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: four hundred dollars. You borrowed four hundred dollars from your

590
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 1: girlfriend to treat your family? Was your girlfriend there? That's

591
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: crazy that.

592
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,199
Speaker 3: That three hundred of it should have been going to her.

593
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 1: So you are twenty four hundred, two thousand of which

594
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: to out your family pay rent, and then four hundred

595
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: to just treat them to like lunch. Yeah. No, I'd

596
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 1: break up. It was incredibly stupid and irresponsible of me

597
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: to do this self aware.

598
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, wait questions the moment, Do you have a

599
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 3: question at the end, I'll ask later.

600
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: I told my girlfriend that I would have the check tomorrow.

601
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: She was concerned and scared about spending more for money.

602
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: The day came, my girlfriend and I were excited to

603
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: pick up the check, but the company suddenly had a

604
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: change of mind. They decided not to release the check

605
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: for under reasons the owner refused to say or even

606
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 1: acknowledge when they will pay me. WHOA, Okay, well that's

607
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 1: like a thing you can like sue them for or something.

608
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 3: Right if you got a contract. Yeah, this is just

609
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 3: like hand this is handshakes.

610
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: Though, what company do you work for that can like

611
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,800
Speaker 1: just refuse like refuse to pay you. Are you like

612
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:27,040
Speaker 1: a freelancer?

613
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 3: Probably?

614
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yikes. But also like, don't spend money that

615
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: you don't have, you know, yeah, don't spend like yeah,

616
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 1: because like there's always something could come up. That's true.

617
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: My heart sank. I was close to crying on that meeting,

618
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 1: knowing that I could not pay her back on time. She,

619
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: on the other hand, was pissed at the owner and me.

620
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 1: When we came home, my girlfriend was depressed and pissed

621
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: for what happened that day. I don't blame her, I

622
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: blame myself. She clearly was holding back her emotions and

623
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 1: tears for what happened. I told her to let it

624
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 1: all out, to say what she has to say to me,

625
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 1: and that I would accept it. I apologized over and

626
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: over again, but the damage is done. She doesn't trust

627
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 1: me anymore. She's not at my family and me for

628
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: spending money that we don't have. I regret and blame myself.

629
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: I hate that I put her in that position. I

630
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 1: assured her that we would pay her bill before the

631
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 1: do comes, but she doesn't trust me anymore. I'm such

632
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,880
Speaker 1: a low life right now, I know, and she knows

633
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: that everything changed. Now. She barely talks to me. I

634
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,680
Speaker 1: miss her so much this past few days, even though

635
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: we're in the same house. It feels like she's a

636
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 1: thousand miles away. I love her so much and scared

637
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: of losing her. I don't think you deserve her, yeah jumpin' yeah,

638
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: but what do you think Riley twenty four hundred.

639
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 2: I mean, that's a tough place to be at. Yeah,

640
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 2: I think you figure this thing out with your parents. Yeah,

641
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 2: that's my only issue about it. Yeah, I think, like

642
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 2: it was twenty four hundred, it's a good way to

643
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: test the relationship.

644
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think.

645
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: I don't think it's enough money to break up over.

646
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 2: I don't know, money wise, not enough to break over

647
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 2: over brust wise.

648
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

649
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Like if I if I lost four hundred

650
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 3: to the woman that I love, I'm gonna probably spend

651
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 3: that money anyways or whatever.

652
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's well, I think it would just

653
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: be so yeah, just the trust thing. Yeah, I think

654
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 1: that would kind of be a deal breaker for a beebet.

655
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: Like and also I think if I because it seems

656
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 1: like op he did from the way that this is reading,

657
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: it seems like, oh he didn't really fight the not

658
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 1: getting the money, Like I would be like I need

659
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 1: to pay if I I don't think I would take

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Speaker 1: money for my girlfriend, but in this case, like, oh

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Speaker 1: he needed it for the family, which I understand that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but like also the spending four hundred was horrible decision. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but like if you if I borrowed money from my partner,

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Speaker 1: I would be like I need this money, Like give

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Speaker 1: me this money. I would fight harder for it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it seems like op he kind.

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Speaker 3: Of gave up to really try for it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that would be really frustrating to Like if

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Speaker 1: I was the partner, that would be really frustrating. Like

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Speaker 1: if my partner came home and was like, I, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like I can't pay you back that twenty four hundred

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Speaker 1: dollars because they won't give me the money, I'd be

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Speaker 1: like why not, Like are you going to talk to them?

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Speaker 1: And I was like no, Like that would be frustrating.

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Speaker 3: Yikes. Yeah, how would you think this relationship is gonna

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Speaker 3: last three months? Two months?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe a month and a half. It depends on

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Speaker 1: how long it tasts to get that money. Like it's

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Speaker 1: it's like two weeks later and I know he's like, here's

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Speaker 1: the money paid. I'm so sorry for the delay. But

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Speaker 1: also it seems like because I like, I'm wondering if

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Speaker 1: this has happened before, because the girlfriend already seems pretty

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Speaker 1: worried about the scenario, Like so many times throughout the story,

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Speaker 1: the girlfriend has expressed expressed doubts about getting this money back,

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Speaker 1: and then to be proven right, it seems like it's

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Speaker 1: happened before.

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Speaker 2: Well wait, choose the credit card. Does that change anything?

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Speaker 2: He's building credit, she's not credit.

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Speaker 1: No. I think that makes it worse because if you

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Speaker 1: have to pay that off and you don't have the

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Speaker 1: money to pay off.

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Speaker 2: Well, then you'd just like be making monthly payments, I guess.

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Speaker 2: But it depends on the interest on the credit card.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it depends on it because, like you know,

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Speaker 1: you have to pay off your credit card by a

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Speaker 1: certain time, and if you don't have that money to

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Speaker 1: pay it, like the whole thing off.

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Speaker 3: That, well, then you just accumulate interest on it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Like if if you have a credit card and your

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Speaker 3: interest is like ten percent and you have to pay

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Speaker 3: off two thousand, you just whatever ten percent of two

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Speaker 3: thousand is is what's added.

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Speaker 1: To I don't know. I think it could. I think

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Speaker 1: it could make some things better, but also could make

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Speaker 1: it a lot worse. Yeah, that was not a credit card,

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, that's tough. I think one at least pay

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Speaker 3: her monthly payments on your credit card.

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Speaker 1: Like pay what you can. That's a great point. Like

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Speaker 1: maybe you don't have that twenty four hundred, but maybe

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Speaker 1: you have something else, Like maybe you have the four

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Speaker 1: hundred and take her out or just something family hope

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Speaker 1: that she was at this dinner. Like that's crazy. You're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just going to take four hundred of your money

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Speaker 1: and treat my family insane. So Riley, you think not

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Speaker 1: worth breaking up over?

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Speaker 3: Money amount not worth breaking up over?

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Speaker 2: I think breaking up if you want to keep her,

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Speaker 2: think trust wise, pay this, pay that credit card thing.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's like you said, the trusting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that was good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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