1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to I've never said this before with 2 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: me Tommy di Dario. Today I am joined by one 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: of the coolest people I have ever come across. And no, 4 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: it's not just because of what he does, although it's 5 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: pretty cool, but it's also because of who he is 6 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: as a human being. Tyler Henry is the star of 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 1: the Netflix series Life After Death and continues to be 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,560 Speaker 1: the most sought after clairvoyant medium in the United States 9 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: and around the world now at just ten years old, 10 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: Tyler began receiving intuitive mental images with the foretelling of 11 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 1: his grandmother's death and that's where tapping into his abilities 12 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 1: truly began. On his first show, which was on The 13 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,000 Speaker 1: Entertainment it was the mega hit Hollywood Medium with of 14 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: course Tyler Henry. He communicated with the other side to 15 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 1: bring messages to stars like Rue Paul and Sophia Bergara, 16 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 1: even Kim Kardashian and the list goes on and on. 17 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: But Tyler, he mainly reads for everyday people like you 18 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: and me. He brings comfort and closure and so much 19 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:08,479 Speaker 1: hope to his clients, whether it's a one on one 20 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: session with Tyler or experiencing his ability on one of 21 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: the stops on his amazing national tour. The bottom line 22 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: is people are left better off with a little Tyler 23 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: Henry in their lives. Tyler has been interviewed many, many 24 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: times before by many different outlets, but today we dive 25 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 1: into topics that Tyler doesn't quite often get to chat about. 26 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: And I just personally find this interview fascinating. It is 27 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: so inspiring. He is so much fun and I hope 28 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: you enjoyed the episode as much as I do. So 29 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: let's see if today we can get Tyler to say 30 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: something that he's never said before. Tyler Henry, my friend, 31 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 1: how are you? 32 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 2: It's so good to see you, My friend has not 33 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: been that long. I feel like we're in touch all 34 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 2: the time, but I'm so glad to finally get to 35 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 2: join you. 36 00:01:57,600 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: I'm so happy to have you on the show. Today. 37 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: We are going to dive into hopefully a very different 38 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: type of conversation for you. But before we dive in, 39 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 1: I do want you to set the stage, so just 40 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: tell everybody what exactly it is that you do. What 41 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: is a clairvoyant medium? 42 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: Sure, so as a clairvoyant medium. To break it down, 43 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 2: a clairvoyant is a French word that means clear sight, 44 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 2: and it really kind of just speaks to the modality 45 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 2: of which I receive intuitive information predominantly through very strong 46 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 2: mental images, kind of like active daydreams. And then as 47 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 2: a medium, that really just kind of means I'm a conduit, 48 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:35,080 Speaker 2: so I act as kind of an intermediary. Some people 49 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 2: kind of refer them as historically as shaman, but it's 50 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: just somebody who essentially relays messages from this realm into 51 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 2: the next, and from the other realm into this one. 52 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 1: And of course not everybody can identify with being a medium, obviously, 53 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 1: but I think a lot of people can identify with 54 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 1: struggling to figure out who they truly are and stepping 55 00:02:57,480 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 1: into that identity. Has that been something you faced? Have 56 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: you struggled over the years trying to figure out who 57 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 1: you are? 58 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 2: Absolutely? I mean there's something to be said about identity 59 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: and the courage that it takes to be able to 60 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 2: stick with what makes us different. You know, there's this 61 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 2: kind of cliche which I do love, which is this 62 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: idea that we you know, are our superpower, that are 63 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: superpower is what makes us different. And I think that's 64 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 2: very true. We all have different aspects of individuality, to offer. 65 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 2: Diversity is our strength. We are stronger together. But I 66 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 2: think very often in a world that wants to mold 67 00:03:32,840 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: us into a certain compliancy, it can sometimes take extra 68 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 2: courage to be true to who one is, particularly if 69 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: you know you fall into a minority category, as so 70 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 2: many do. 71 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: So what has given you the courage to be who 72 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: you really are? 73 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 2: You know, I couldn't really think of living any other way. 74 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 2: I often think of those early days of being bullied, 75 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 2: you know, for the very thing that now has gone 76 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 2: on to allow me to be successful and share my passion. 77 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 2: And you know, for me, there really was no choice. 78 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: Wow, so you did? You did get bullied for this ability? 79 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 2: Absolutely? You know. The question is often, you know, were 80 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: you bullied more for being gayer for being a medium? 81 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: And I would say, you know, both in different ways 82 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: and at different times. But I think it really does 83 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 2: speak to that idea that everybody can relate to, you know, 84 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 2: even if you can't necessarily relate to those two things. 85 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 2: Everybody you know deals with within the workplace, within school, 86 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 2: maybe even within their own families, a sense of being 87 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 2: an outsider and having to be true to who one is, 88 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 2: or you know, the alternative is never as as meaningful. 89 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: Right right, Well, and it's safe to say that today 90 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: you've stepped into who you are and there's no looking back. 91 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: But back then, when you were going through some of 92 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 1: those things, and the bullying and things like that, how 93 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: did you manage to push through that and not lose 94 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: yourself throughout all of that? You know. 95 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 2: One of the greatest pieces of advice I was ever 96 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 2: given was this some told me, was you know, Tyler, 97 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 2: that you can be the biggest, juiciest peach and there's 98 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 2: still going to be people who hate peaches. And that's 99 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,679 Speaker 2: one of my favorite quotes because it really does speak 100 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: to that universal truth that not everybody is for everybody, 101 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 2: and that's okay. And I think so long as we 102 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 2: can create our own family, you know, through bonds, through love, 103 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: the love that we create, whether it be with friends 104 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,600 Speaker 2: or companions, you know, I think there's great value in that, 105 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: in finding our tribe. But of course, you know, I 106 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 2: try to remain open to all people. It's just kind 107 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 2: of by nature of my job being a communicator. I 108 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 2: get such an insight in different cultures and different worldviews, 109 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: and so I'm open to it all. 110 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: It's that one of your favorite things about what you do. 111 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:43,599 Speaker 2: I would say, so, I would say that by far 112 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 2: being able to see not only the differences, but the 113 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 2: common links, the threads that really unite all people fundamentally. 114 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 2: And you know, people often think that people are in 115 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 2: pursuit of closure, and I don't really necessarily think that's true. 116 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 2: I think that closure kind of implies a period a 117 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: conclusion to grief. I think what people are really looking 118 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 2: for largely is validation. Validation that life goes on, that 119 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 2: the love that we create, you know, has value beyond 120 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 2: just the material world. And that really kind of speaks 121 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 2: I think to a common soul that we all share 122 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 2: and maybe even an inclination kind of a hint that 123 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 2: we all know that there's something to that. 124 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 1: Wow, that's amazing. I mean I can only imagine the 125 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: different walks of life you get to meet through what 126 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: you do, and how exciting it is to connect the 127 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: dots with people right absolutely. 128 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 2: I mean you can relate into interviewing so many iconic 129 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 2: people and being able to kind of get really interesting 130 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:41,840 Speaker 2: answers from them. It really speaks to the fact that 131 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: no matter where people are within SATs quo or society, 132 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: fundamentally you do find people deal with the same issues, 133 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 2: and oftentimes, as Oprah says, when you have a big life, 134 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 2: you know, those problems that we all deal with kind 135 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:56,559 Speaker 2: of become magnified, and I think we see it often 136 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 2: in the media and in public figures. 137 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: I'm loving that you just quoted Oprah. I mean, this 138 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:03,400 Speaker 1: is the best interview ever. 139 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 2: Already, Super Soul Sunday. I'm bringing to your baby Tyler. 140 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: You brought up the word identity earlier, and going back 141 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: to that for a minute, do you feel like people 142 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: marry what you do being this clairvoyant medium to who 143 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: you are as a human being and does that get 144 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: difficult for you ever? 145 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 2: Absolutely in the sense of yes, I do think people 146 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: conflate the two. But I think that's very common in 147 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: the sense that in life, we especially in nature of 148 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 2: social media. You know, we all have bios, and if 149 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 2: you think about it, in our bios we kind of 150 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 2: put what we self identify as, you know, perhaps as 151 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: a journalist there as a medium, where as a television 152 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 2: personality or whatever. So I think we live in a 153 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 2: day and age where, more than ever, labels and identifiers 154 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 2: are kind of used to you to sum up people. 155 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 2: With that said, I have a lot of clients who 156 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 2: very often, I find, you know, kind of take on 157 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: the role of mom or daughter. And sometimes when people 158 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 2: identify two wrongly with any role, it can become all consuming, 159 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 2: and we can lose sight of the fact that we 160 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 2: are multifaceted souls having a human experience, and so not 161 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 2: only are we perhaps you know, mother, we're also daughter, 162 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 2: We're also a human being, we're also a soul, we're 163 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 2: also so many other things. And it's important, I think, 164 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: to see past those self identifiers. 165 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: I think so too, and I think it's important to 166 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: have people see you for other things than just what 167 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 1: you do. 168 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:30,360 Speaker 2: Right, absolutely, for what you have to offer, you know, 169 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 2: maybe in a monetary sense or in a value sense, 170 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 2: whatever that equates to you in a societal way. Yeah, 171 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,119 Speaker 2: we are so much more than our jobs. 172 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And it's a catch twenty two in a way, 173 00:08:41,640 --> 00:08:43,559 Speaker 1: because I think when you really enjoy what you do, 174 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 1: so much of your life does become that. But it's 175 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 1: healthy to figure out boundaries. 176 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 2: Right absolutely. I think it's really true integration of self 177 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 2: when you know you can love what you do. And 178 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 2: of course I don't know if ever anybody loves what 179 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: they do all the time. You think, if you had 180 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 2: a fifty year career, there's certainly going to be highs 181 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,199 Speaker 2: and lows. But yeah, as you said, finding that balance 182 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 2: is I think the key to harmony. 183 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 1: Highs and low. So what's a high with what you 184 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 1: do and what's a low. 185 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 2: High with what I do? Is leaving somebody better than 186 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 2: I found them with the real, true validation that there 187 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,959 Speaker 2: was something to the experience that was real and tangible. 188 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 2: There's a moment in time in ever reading when someone 189 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 2: leaves as a believer where there's a switch that happens. 190 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 2: They come in, they're not sure, they might be skeptical 191 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 2: or might be believers, but they just don't know what's going 192 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 2: to happen, and then you say something and they make 193 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 2: a shift where you can see that they've integrated this. 194 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 2: They don't know how they're going to process this information, 195 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 2: but they know it's real, and that moment acts as 196 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,440 Speaker 2: kind of a catalyst oftentimes that people carry with them 197 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 2: for the rest of their lives trying to kind of 198 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 2: contextualize that experience and that evidence that they got. So 199 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 2: that's my favorite part. It sends people onto a whole 200 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 2: journey of self discovery and asking questions. The lows, I 201 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 2: would say are the self imposed expectation I want to 202 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 2: save everybody. You know. I've sat across from people that 203 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 2: I've gotten intuitive readings about Alan Thick being a really 204 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 2: good example. I sat with him and he very clearly 205 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 2: had a medical problem come through, and I warned him 206 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 2: about it on television and he kind of laughed it 207 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 2: off and he said, oh, thanks, doctor Tyler. And indeed 208 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:22,719 Speaker 2: he passed away with this very issue a matter of 209 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 2: months later, and if he had taken it seriously, it 210 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 2: may not have happened. And so as a medium, you know, 211 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 2: knowledge is power, but you can't fix everything. And in fact, 212 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 2: you can't really fix anything. You just have to be 213 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:36,200 Speaker 2: a conduit information. 214 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: Wow, that must be a heavy burden to Kerry if 215 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: you don't know how to separate the two. So are 216 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: you at a point in what you do now where 217 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: you can feel those things and warn somebody about something, 218 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: but then you kind of let it go and put 219 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: it out to them in their life, you. 220 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 2: Know, To be completely honest, I really am not there 221 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 2: yet as far as mastering that. One of the greatest 222 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 2: difficulties of my personal life is coping with the intensity 223 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 2: of the emotion, and I when I lay down at night, 224 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 2: I think about the people that I read and I 225 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 2: hope they're doing okay. I think about the clients I've 226 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 2: read that have passed. You know, all these people just 227 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 2: kind of exist inside me, living and on the other side, 228 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 2: and so it just kind of is who I am. 229 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 2: I just deeply I can't separate that for better or 230 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 2: for worse. And it certainly creates a lot of anxiety, 231 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 2: a lot of high emotional, you know, moments, But equally, 232 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 2: I don't think I'd have it any other way. I 233 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: think it makes me empathetic and humble. 234 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: So you just feel things all day and night, all 235 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 1: day and. 236 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 2: Night, and it just it's a reminder of the human experience, 237 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: the human condition, and you know, as an interviewer you're 238 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 2: faced with it as well as well as I'm sure 239 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 2: GEO with seeing people who have survived true crime. You know, 240 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:59,959 Speaker 2: you realize there are people who always have it worse 241 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,920 Speaker 2: off and things could always be worse. And as a 242 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 2: journalist or as a medium, we're just kind of conduits. 243 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 1: I think for storytelling, Yeah, no, one hundred percent. Was 244 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: there ever a reading you did that that made you 245 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 1: need to take a pause and just separate a little 246 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: bit from your ability. 247 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,439 Speaker 2: You know, every reading does require a pause on some 248 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 2: level after to just kind of like bifurcate the experience 249 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 2: and then trying to go back to some place of normalcy. 250 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 2: But to kind of answer your question more specifically, I 251 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 2: remember my reading with Anne Hash being a very very 252 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 2: clear example of both of us kind of needing a 253 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,319 Speaker 2: moment of a break. You know, we since know what 254 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 2: has tragically happened to it to Anne, and at the time, 255 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 2: you know, the reading was very healing and very cathartic, 256 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: but she got way more out of that experience than 257 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 2: she was expecting, and she had to actually get up 258 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:51,080 Speaker 2: and leave and go into the other room and kind 259 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 2: of just like process and you know, when she came back, 260 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 2: she gave me a big hug and wanted to continue, 261 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 2: and I needed to stop. I needed to stop and 262 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: just kind of like collect myself because there was a 263 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:05,719 Speaker 2: lot of weight to that reading, a lot of weight 264 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 2: to the messages. There were really clear personal messages that 265 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: came from loved ones who had passed that I think 266 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 2: really changed the trajectory of her life in that moment 267 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 2: for the better. It let her know her loved ones 268 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 2: were with her, watching over her, and she could get 269 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 2: through this next step and it was just so tragic 270 00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 2: to see what unfolded after. 271 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:29,839 Speaker 1: Wow, that's incredible that you were a part of the 272 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: piece though that she could receive in her life, And 273 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: I think that must be a really good feeling. Is 274 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 1: there ever a point for you where you're reading for 275 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: someone and you think I might need to suggest this 276 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: person goes to get some sort of help because I'm 277 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,240 Speaker 1: not sure if for reading is enough for their well being. 278 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 2: Absolutely, In fact, every single reading I do, I encourage 279 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 2: people to look into resources. I'm really a big proponent 280 00:13:56,640 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 2: of Western medicine, which I did spiritualists to kind of 281 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 2: get a red very Eastern. But if I get a fracture, 282 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 2: I'm going to the hospital. So I encourage people to 283 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 2: consider grief counseling by all means, and various things work 284 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 2: for different people. There's so many aspects of psychotherapy that 285 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 2: are just as subjective as the medium world, to be honest, 286 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 2: but different things work for different people. And I really 287 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: encourage people to find a sense of community through grief. 288 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 2: I think it's very important. It's such an isolating emotion, 289 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 2: so when you can be around others or have support systems. 290 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 2: It really helps us get through it. 291 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:36,479 Speaker 1: Has your view of grief changed over the years. 292 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: I would say, I mean almost on some level. How 293 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 2: could it not. I think starting off as a young, 294 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 2: even younger person at ten years old, with my first premonition, 295 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 2: I did not understand death. I had lost a goldfish 296 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 2: and that was about it. And then my grandmother passed 297 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 2: and I kind of got a brief introduction, and then 298 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 2: I lost a friend. And now as I've gotten older, 299 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 2: you know, people start dropping like flies. So you kind 300 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 2: of started developing a with time, and appreciation for life, 301 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 2: a respect for death and the fragility of life. And 302 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 2: if anything, my work has taught me the importance of 303 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 2: I think saying it now being present to the best 304 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 2: of my ability. You know, look, we all get road rage, 305 00:15:16,880 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 2: we all get we all have moments where you know, 306 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 2: we are very very human, and that's okay. But I 307 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 2: try to also extend the compassion that I extend to 308 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 2: others to myself. And I think that's a very important 309 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 2: thing that people miss when we talk about spirituality and compassion. 310 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 2: Should extend that same love and grace to ourselves, because 311 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 2: none of us chose to be here. We're all works 312 00:15:38,360 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 2: in progress, and I think we often forget that. 313 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: That's such an interesting point. It's it's so right on, 314 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: because you're someone who is so compassionate and giving of 315 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: your time and your energy and your love and your 316 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 1: thoughtfulness to other people all the time. But for yourself, 317 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: that's something you have to continuously work on. Huh. 318 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:01,640 Speaker 2: Absolutely, And I you know, I do think we receive 319 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 2: in giving and there's so much value in that. And 320 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 2: so for me, you know, in many ways, my work 321 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 2: sustains my self esteem, It sustains my own self love 322 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 2: by being being able to act as an extension of 323 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 2: love tell other people through the work or whether you know, 324 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 2: it can be in many modalities. You know, charity work 325 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 2: is always a good example, but there's so many aspects 326 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 2: we all, I think can act as extensions of light 327 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 2: and really help the world based on kind of growing 328 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 2: where we're planted. 329 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, Tyler. You've read for how many people? Would 330 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: you say? 331 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: Thousands by far? But as far as celebrities go, we 332 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 2: read over two hundred on Hollywood medium. 333 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean the amount of readings you've done is incredible. 334 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: Is there a situation or reading you did that truly 335 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 1: just kind of surprised you. Even I'm sure by now 336 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 1: you see a lot of the same themes and patterns, 337 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 1: and you know there's there's so much that you can 338 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: connect the dots with, But did you ever walk away 339 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:07,239 Speaker 1: kind of like, wait a minute, what just happened? You know? 340 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 2: They are all surprising, and people often find it surprising 341 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 2: that I find it surprising, but it is always mind 342 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 2: bending and stunning for me when there's a validation that 343 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 2: comes through that is just bizarre, which I know is 344 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 2: a bit of a generic answer, but I would say this. 345 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:27,240 Speaker 2: I did one reading actually very recently on a live tour, 346 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 2: and this was not with a celebrity, and it was 347 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 2: with a lady who I just got drawn to out 348 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 2: of two thousand people, and I felt that there was 349 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:36,880 Speaker 2: a man who was coming through who had been fortunately 350 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 2: shot from the side, and I had her stand up 351 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 2: identified this young man he had indeed been shot from 352 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 2: the side, identified that he had been shot from a vehicle, 353 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:53,959 Speaker 2: and this then basically unraveled into a situation where this 354 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,400 Speaker 2: man was a police officer and he indeed had pulled 355 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 2: up and this man in a car had shot and 356 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 2: killed him and right after that, this validation came through. 357 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,520 Speaker 2: I said, for some reason, he's having me talk about 358 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:08,720 Speaker 2: another police officer fatality around the exact same time he went, 359 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: and I don't know why, but you seem to know 360 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:13,399 Speaker 2: they both are honored together. And she looked at me 361 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: and she said, well, that's because the gunman also turned 362 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 2: around and shot and killed the other police officer who 363 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 2: was also with him. So this person into the life 364 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,919 Speaker 2: of the police officer and his partner, and that moment 365 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 2: of validation knowing they were together, it was deeply jolting 366 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 2: for everybody who watched it and witnessed it, but it 367 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 2: showed that they were so much more than how they passed. 368 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 2: And I think that resoundingly is the greatest takeaway. We 369 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 2: are so much more than our worst moments. They are 370 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 2: so much more than their cause of passing, and they 371 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 2: deserve to be remembered for their life, not necessarily just 372 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 2: their death. 373 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, And that's incredible that you could again be 374 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: there for someone in the way that you are there. 375 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of misconceptions about what you do, 376 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 1: and I'm sure you get all sorts of questions all 377 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,200 Speaker 1: the time, but one of the biggest misconceptions, I would 378 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: guess is people just assume that if they walk up 379 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: to you, you're immediately going to start being able to 380 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 1: read them. And that's just not the case, right, or 381 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: is it? You know. 382 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,880 Speaker 2: I've given bearing answers to this because I just don't 383 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 2: like when people walk up to me and start asking things. 384 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 2: But in reality, there are times where it does happen. 385 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 2: There's times where I'll I was at Nika once and 386 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 2: a girl recognized me and I said, it's not looking 387 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 2: good with your boyfriend, is it? And she said, oh, no, 388 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 2: you know, I've gone to a fight and there's a 389 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 2: whole thing, and you know, I felt bad after that. 390 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 2: I thought, well, okay, you know, I may have been correct, 391 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 2: but it wasn't my place to involve in the relationship, 392 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 2: even though she kind of wanted, you know, the advice, 393 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 2: and honestly it probably was valuable. That was the universe 394 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 2: given her sign. Hey, maybe he's not right for you, 395 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 2: but there's a time and a place. Yeah, right, And 396 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 2: I try to be my of that. 397 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: So yeah, So who is Tyler Henry without his abilities? 398 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 2: Oh, Tyler kola Wine without the abilities. That's my real 399 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 2: last name. Henry is my middle name, and I'd say, 400 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 2: you know, for me, I think what I do and 401 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 2: who I am have became so intrinsically connected as far 402 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 2: as my interests, passions, and ironically identity as we've discussed. 403 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: But I would say, really, my goal is always just 404 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 2: then to be a conduit for storytelling, for conversation, and 405 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: for life experience. If I can take my life, my privilege, 406 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 2: all the blessings I've been given and kind of act 407 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 2: as a platform for other people who might be underprivileged 408 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 2: or who might have important stories to share with the world, 409 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,400 Speaker 2: then I'm really stepping into my purpose. And I really 410 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 2: feel like you and I have a very similar kind 411 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 2: of life lesson in that way of really acting as 412 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 2: that conduit, quite literally a medium for stories that need 413 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 2: to be. 414 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: Told and for the people who are skeptical, because as 415 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 1: we've talked about, there are skeptics out there, and that 416 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 1: just comes with the territory. What do you say to them? 417 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 2: You know, I am brace skepticism in the sense that 418 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 2: I've read people who are religiously skeptical to scientific skeptics, 419 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 2: and I ongoingly am very open to study of my ability. 420 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:23,679 Speaker 2: I've undergone brain scans, particularly on episode on the last 421 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:27,719 Speaker 2: season of Hollywood Medium. The last episode underwent an active 422 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 2: brain scan of neuro feedback and was able to with 423 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 2: doctor Hill and doctor Drew determined that there were some 424 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 2: very real changes going on in the brain. So I've 425 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:39,880 Speaker 2: always shown a willingness to be tested under non biased circumstances. 426 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,239 Speaker 2: I continue to There's some very exciting work I'm doing 427 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,280 Speaker 2: that I can't talk about quite yet, but I definitely 428 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:47,920 Speaker 2: am working with some institutes to try to kind of 429 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 2: quantify more So last note on that, I think really 430 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 2: the proofs in the pudding. The nature of readings is 431 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,600 Speaker 2: so subjective, right, It's kind of more like falling in 432 00:21:55,640 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 2: love or like art. It's really experiential. So some people 433 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 2: see value in it, others don't. But I'm really more 434 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 2: here for the people who see value in it. The 435 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 2: people who don't, that's completely fine. It's really like art. 436 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 2: Some people love that arts, people like, oh, I could 437 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 2: do that at home. Yeah, and that's okay, you know 438 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,400 Speaker 2: what I mean. So that's how I approach it. Well. 439 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: I think that's really healthy because then you don't constantly 440 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: feel the pressure like, oh, I have to prove myself 441 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 1: to everybody. It's like, no, you don't. 442 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I try to have evidence in ever reading, 443 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,439 Speaker 2: but I can't because it's not necessarily coming from me. 444 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 2: I can't force something that isn't there. So you know, 445 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 2: either the information is compelling or it's not. And my 446 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 2: job's just to show up and do my best. 447 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,679 Speaker 1: What's been your favorite celebrity reading? 448 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,439 Speaker 2: Favorite celebrity reading? Probably hard to say, and you know, 449 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 2: it's such a should probably have a better answer because 450 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 2: of mass a million times right, It varies. RuPaul was 451 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 2: pretty cool just because this gay community, and that was 452 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 2: pretty neat to get to kind of help somebody who 453 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 2: helped me watching it on TV, but really anybody who 454 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 2: just truly needs It's that's where I find the most value. 455 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 2: When I lay my head on the pillow at night, 456 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 2: I'm not thinking about most of the celebrities I've read. 457 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 2: I'm thinking about the folks who you know, no one 458 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:10,119 Speaker 2: will know the name of it. 459 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, do you ever think of things or do 460 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: things come to you after somebody's left, And if so, 461 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,880 Speaker 1: how do you determine whether or not to reach out 462 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 1: again or just kind of let that experience be what 463 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:23,919 Speaker 1: it was? 464 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,399 Speaker 2: You know, I would say for the most part. It 465 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,280 Speaker 2: requires discernment. Like anything, I try to get it all 466 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,439 Speaker 2: out when I sit with a person. When I do 467 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 2: a reading, if I start getting information coming through, it 468 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 2: tends to kind of be like a breadcrimb trail, and 469 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 2: so once I get to a certain point in the reading, 470 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 2: I kind of feel like I have let it all 471 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 2: out or the majority out, and that's when I can 472 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 2: conclude the reading. There's times where that happens at forty 473 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 2: five minutes that's before been also times where it's happened 474 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,040 Speaker 2: it six hours into a reading. I sat with Carmen 475 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 2: Electra for I want to say about five to six. 476 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 1: Hours, so it's a long time. 477 00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: Try to get it out when I can get it out, 478 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 2: and then when I leave, that minimizes the chances of 479 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,640 Speaker 2: stuff coming after. But it does happen, and when it does, 480 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:06,400 Speaker 2: I make a phone call. 481 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: What is the recovery like after five six hours? 482 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 2: It's crazy. I will even listened to really heavy metal, 483 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 2: like really loudly in my ears, which is funny because I'm, 484 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 2: you know, Twink of the Century over here. But I 485 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 2: listened to like Trent Reznor out of Castrass, like really 486 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 2: like grungey loud ro music, and it helps kind of 487 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 2: just cleanse my mind, or I'll just be in complete 488 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 2: solitude and silence, and that creates kind of an inversion 489 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 2: of that. 490 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,240 Speaker 1: We love a good moment of silence. 491 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,440 Speaker 2: That's right, moment of silence, moment of rock. 492 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's incredible. You are a badass rock star. 493 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 1: Who knew. 494 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 2: I didn't even know. 495 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,719 Speaker 1: That's incredible. Well, you've been also selling out on your 496 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,160 Speaker 1: national tour. I've seen you popping up all over the place. 497 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I know you were recently in you and 498 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: didn't call us. I'm gonna let that slide. 499 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 2: No, you were there in spirit. I could feel it. 500 00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 2: I just brought you through. 501 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 1: Tommy, Oh my gosh. I don't even know if we 502 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: were in town, but I was like, as in New 503 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 1: York too. Oh my god. I wish FA cauld hang out. 504 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 1: But tell me what the tour is like. It looks incredible. 505 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 2: It's really a lot of fun. You know. It varies 506 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 2: from anywhere from eight hundred sometimes three thousand people. I 507 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 2: personally prefer the smaller audience just because I feel it's 508 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 2: a little bit more intimate, but it's really special. I'm 509 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 2: going to be coming in November thirtieth to Anaheim, as 510 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:32,880 Speaker 2: well as December first, so I have two dates coming up. 511 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 2: I think we have about six shows left this year, 512 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 2: so for people who are interested, they could check it 513 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,399 Speaker 2: out over my website. But overall, it's just really been 514 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 2: an incredible experience to get to travel. It really represents 515 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 2: I think that idea of being able to connect to 516 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 2: diversity and storytelling. I go to rural places. You know Oklahoma, 517 00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:53,520 Speaker 2: you know I've gone to Missouri. I'm going to Mississippi. 518 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:59,800 Speaker 2: There's so many different important lessons to be learned through grief, 519 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,919 Speaker 2: and I think so many people have stories that just 520 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 2: go untold. So to be able to have a platform 521 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,400 Speaker 2: and a place where people can congregate together, I think 522 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 2: it really allows for an outlet for grief and to 523 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 2: know that even if you get a reading or don't, 524 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,159 Speaker 2: we are still together, not necessarily through our loss, but 525 00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 2: through our love and through that shared connection and reverence 526 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 2: for those who came and went. So there's something powerful 527 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 2: about that in the sense that I think society doesn't 528 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,679 Speaker 2: have a lot of outlets for collective grief, and these 529 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 2: shows kind of act as a way to come and 530 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 2: be a part of the experience and also laugh and 531 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 2: have a surprisingly happy time on a very heavy sybtom. 532 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And these tours seem like they're probably something 533 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 1: really fun for you to do because you reach so 534 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 1: many people at once. 535 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 2: Absolutely, it's really cool to be well. Even if I 536 00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 2: don't necessarily read everybody in the audience, is it's impossible. 537 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 2: I really say, there's something for everybody in every reading. 538 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 2: And I'm a big believer that one of the biggest 539 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,959 Speaker 2: signs our loved ones give us our meaningful coincidences or synchronicities, 540 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 2: and very often we find the people who get red 541 00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 2: kind of coincidentally ended up there. And so I believe 542 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 2: that everyone who attends, you know, is exposed to a 543 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 2: message for a reason. I encourage people to take what 544 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:13,159 Speaker 2: resonates and leave the rest. You know, there's a reason 545 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:17,160 Speaker 2: I think that information's being brought into someone's atmosphere. 546 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: And I like that it makes you so accessible. I mean, 547 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 1: you have a waiting list. I think last time I 548 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: saw was over six hundred thousand people or something that 549 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,119 Speaker 1: crazy like that. I mean, that is so many people. 550 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 1: So at least at an event, people can get that 551 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: access and interaction and see you physically, which is amazing. 552 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 2: It's my favorite thing in the world. I love to 553 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 2: go out into the audience when there's stairs, I like 554 00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 2: to hug people and I go out. I haven't crowdsurfed yet, 555 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 2: but we're working on it. I have a lost little weight, 556 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,040 Speaker 2: so I think it should be a little easier now. 557 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 2: But now I feel so so privileged to be able 558 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 2: to see the joy and I think I know you 559 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: can relate people who are fans of you. You know, 560 00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 2: just the joy that you can bring to people when 561 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 2: they see you, they're like, oh my god, ah, And 562 00:27:58,119 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 2: it's so weird as a little nerd who got bully, 563 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,479 Speaker 2: I'm with you elicit that reaction to people were very 564 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 2: excited to see you versus wanting to the deck you right, yeah, 565 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 2: And for me, that's unusual. So I'm always pinching myself 566 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,240 Speaker 2: and just eternally grateful for everyone who has supporting me, 567 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:16,360 Speaker 2: yourself included. 568 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:20,879 Speaker 1: Of course, you deserve it. You are such a pure person, 569 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: and you're helping so many people and bringing that joy, 570 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,679 Speaker 1: like you just said, to so many people. When you 571 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 1: think about what you do and your ability overall, what 572 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: makes you the happiest, Like, what are you the most 573 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 1: proud of? 574 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 2: I was proud of, you know, I would say for 575 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 2: me on my Netflix show, one of my favorite parts 576 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 2: that was explored was a family mystery of my own. 577 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,640 Speaker 2: And for those who don't know, my mom was taken 578 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 2: as a baby and ultimately the person who took her 579 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 2: ended up murdering two people and serving thirty over thirty 580 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 2: years in prison, and it was a big thing that 581 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 2: we explored on the Netflix show. But what was so 582 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 2: special for me was in that show to be able 583 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:02,080 Speaker 2: to display my aunt and uncle who are African American, 584 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,840 Speaker 2: my uncle who was falsely imprisoned at the age of eighteen, 585 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 2: and to be able to hear his story and to 586 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 2: be able to act as kind of a platform for 587 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:16,200 Speaker 2: that I think was not only timely but necessary. It spoke, 588 00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:19,400 Speaker 2: you know, his story was so valid with police brutality, 589 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 2: with our current justice system, incarceration, and so to be 590 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 2: able to almost vindicate him, to allow him to tell 591 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 2: his story of what his mother made him do under 592 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 2: threat of death, was so powerful compelling. This was a 593 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 2: young man who was still a child, who wanted to 594 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 2: be a police officer, and he found himself manipulated by 595 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 2: his own mother to bury a dead body too in fact, 596 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 2: and so to go back to the scene with him 597 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 2: to process that was so healing, and I think spoke 598 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 2: to a larger conversation of tolerance and not judging a 599 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,160 Speaker 2: book by its cover and understanding that we all have 600 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:57,600 Speaker 2: pain and trauma and we're all biting a battle often 601 00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 2: that nobody truly knows about. 602 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: That's a super powerful thing to bring up because we 603 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on with somebody in their life, 604 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: and it's so easy to judge a book by its cover. 605 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 1: And I imagine through the work you do, you've really learned, 606 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 1: not that you ever were a as a mental person, 607 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: but you probably have learned that that's not a way 608 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:15,040 Speaker 1: to live. 609 00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:18,320 Speaker 2: It's really interesting. We all have preconceptions, right, and I 610 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,719 Speaker 2: think by humans are comfortable with labels, and I think 611 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:23,440 Speaker 2: labels oftentimes are a way that we make sense of 612 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,920 Speaker 2: the world. But my work has taught me that there's 613 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 2: so much nuance, that life is not just black or white, 614 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,640 Speaker 2: that there are so many shades of gray and so 615 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 2: many variations, and that that's not a bad thing. That 616 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 2: ambiguity is something I can actually be comfortable with. I 617 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 2: don't have to be certain or really hold onto any 618 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 2: belief strongly about a person, or about myself or about 619 00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,680 Speaker 2: the universe, that I can just be okay with the 620 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,480 Speaker 2: nature of the way things are and focus on love 621 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,680 Speaker 2: and not get too wrapped up in the trivial things. 622 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 1: Tyler, do you think we all have a little bit 623 00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,440 Speaker 1: of our own intuitionbsolutely. 624 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 2: We all get a first impression when we shake our hands. Everybody, 625 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 2: you know gets a feeling I think when they walk 626 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 2: into a room, be it how they're perceived or perhaps 627 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,880 Speaker 2: the feeling of what might be around. And I think 628 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 2: it's often an evolutionary perk that many have. And for 629 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 2: those who have survived near death, there are so many 630 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 2: stories of their intuition giving them indications. As we've seen 631 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 2: the geos know true crime stuff and make it. Yeah, 632 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 2: I'm sure you have stories of people kind of getting 633 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 2: those red flags. 634 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 1: Got feeling one undred percent? Oh my god, Yeah, it's 635 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: it's it's it's really remarkable what people feel and can 636 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: sense if they allow themselves to tap into that, you know. 637 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:42,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, And half of it's just believing it and showing 638 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,640 Speaker 2: a willingness to go with it. You know. We all 639 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,920 Speaker 2: get feelings, and some deserve weight, some don't. But that 640 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,320 Speaker 2: discernment helps us, I think, navigate life with a deep 641 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 2: inner compass that can really act as a valuable tool 642 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 2: when we need practical help. 643 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, one hundred percent, teller, you are a wall of energy. 644 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 1: I feel like, first of all, I don't even know 645 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: if you ever sleep. Do you sleep? 646 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 2: I know, I actually hang upside down from my room 647 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 2: like you know, K. I don't even close my eyes. 648 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 2: They stay open. That's why they're so like droopy. 649 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: I would believe you don't sleep, though, Really, what do 650 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 1: you get like three hours a night? 651 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well no, I yeah. My dog unfortunately was 652 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 2: like had a er vet thing at three in the 653 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 2: morning last night. So and I I was on an earlier, 654 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 2: good good day la this morning, so I've been bright 655 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 2: and early and bushy tails. But I was so excited 656 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 2: to get to talk to you, and it's just it's 657 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 2: made my day. 658 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm living for everything you're doing right now. 659 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 1: I think it's it's such a gift to have you 660 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 1: in this world, and I like that. Hopefully today people 661 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: have gotten to know you a little bit deeper, a 662 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,800 Speaker 1: little bit more personally, because there's so many layers to 663 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 1: who you are aside from just the work that you do. 664 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,320 Speaker 1: And I think that's what's really interesting. And I don't 665 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: think you could be who you are doing the work 666 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: that you're doing if you didn't have those layers. Does 667 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 1: that make sense? 668 00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 2: Absolutely? I got to be a fully formed person, especially 669 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 2: when you're dealing with other people. 670 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And I think it's so funny. I think 671 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 1: we were at dinner. God, I don't even know. Was 672 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 1: that two years ago when we all had. 673 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 2: Dinner going on? Yeah, about a year and a half, 674 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 2: I think, yeah. 675 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were at dinner and I asked you a 676 00:33:13,960 --> 00:33:17,719 Speaker 1: question about your energy. I'm like, how do you release 677 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 1: that energy? And you said something so interesting and you said, 678 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 1: you actually will feel like if you don't do readings, 679 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: it's like pent up and it's bubbling. Talk to me 680 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,080 Speaker 1: about that for a second. 681 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,360 Speaker 2: Absolutely. Yeah, if I don't do readings, it kind of 682 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 2: builds up. And I call it jokingly spiritual constipation, because 683 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 2: that's really what it feels like. I'm able to kind 684 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,560 Speaker 2: of blow off this necessary steam by having a time 685 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,440 Speaker 2: and a place to do readings, allocating appointments, and so 686 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 2: long as I kind of allow that sacred time and 687 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,720 Speaker 2: sacred space, it allows me some sense of normalcy and 688 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,000 Speaker 2: kind of bifurcation as I go about my day to 689 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 2: day life and go to the store and go upund 690 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 2: my routines. There are always exceptions. There's still times where 691 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 2: stuff pops in and I can't help it. But it's 692 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,120 Speaker 2: at least been my way of maintaining normalcy and not 693 00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:57,920 Speaker 2: losing my mind. 694 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I'm sure your boyfriend Plane appreciates that. 695 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 2: I think so. He definitely does. He's like, Tyler, you 696 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 2: need to do a reading. It's been a couple of days, right, 697 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 2: you can feel like. 698 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 1: Bring that ball of stress home? Do not bringing home 699 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 1: to me? 700 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,400 Speaker 2: Tyler Tog's head spinning around, pea soup shooting. Now you 701 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:13,800 Speaker 2: need to do a reading. 702 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,759 Speaker 1: Well, I think also, it's fascinating that you are in 703 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 1: this amazing, beautiful relationship because people probably wonder, like, how 704 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: does that work out? Is it? Is it just like 705 00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 1: any other relationship or is it different by nature of 706 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:25,919 Speaker 1: what you do? 707 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,360 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, no, noly. The funny. The great thing is, 708 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 2: I think one of my favorite things about him is 709 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,360 Speaker 2: he views me as a human being more than a medium. 710 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,399 Speaker 2: And I love and I wouldn't have it any other way. 711 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,320 Speaker 2: And I think that that's one of our best qualities 712 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 2: is while he does care about readings and cares about work, 713 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 2: he just wants to make sure I'm okay first and foremostly, 714 00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 2: and having someone that loves you for you versus necessarily 715 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 2: your role, as we discussed earlier, is so essential and 716 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 2: I encourage anybody in their lives to kind of ask, like, 717 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:58,000 Speaker 2: with those that we love, are we loving them for 718 00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:59,880 Speaker 2: who they are? Or are they we loving them for 719 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,359 Speaker 2: they're providing for us? And I think hopefully we love 720 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 2: them for they are? 721 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And you two have a beautiful, beautiful love story. 722 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 1: We love cheering you you boys on from afar Oh, 723 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,600 Speaker 1: We're always cheering you on. And for everyone listening who 724 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: wants more information on how to connect with you or 725 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,960 Speaker 1: things are involved with, tell me about Fireside by the 726 00:35:18,000 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 1: Collective absolutely. 727 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 2: Firesides have been a wonderful platform that's been created by 728 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,480 Speaker 2: Flon for Tummy and Mark Cuban, and it's basically been 729 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 2: an opportunity to kind of create an interactive almost like 730 00:35:27,360 --> 00:35:30,520 Speaker 2: visual podcast, but in my case, I use it through 731 00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 2: a platform called The Collective, which is a membership service. 732 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 2: Through Fireside, you download an app where you can check 733 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 2: it out on your desktop and basically we go live 734 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 2: twice a month. We do group virtual readings that go 735 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,240 Speaker 2: anywhere from an hour and a half to two hours, 736 00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,440 Speaker 2: so we connect people all over the world from the 737 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 2: comfort of their own home. Readings are unedited, you can 738 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 2: see the process live and in person. It's all recorded 739 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,759 Speaker 2: so you can go back and watch the readings and 740 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 2: it provides hours of entertainment. And then we also do 741 00:35:56,680 --> 00:36:01,160 Speaker 2: private reading giveaways, interviews with experts on Chelsea Hammler on 742 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 2: which was a lot of fun to kind of talk 743 00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 2: about the relationship with comedy and grief. So there's so 744 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 2: many interesting things to come and we've created a really 745 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 2: beautiful community. 746 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 1: How do people find that. 747 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 2: You can check that out over at the Tyler Henry 748 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 2: medium dot com. I don't talk about myself in their 749 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:19,719 Speaker 2: person It's just I lost the domain name. But that 750 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 2: is all of our tour dates, as well as information 751 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,360 Speaker 2: on the collective, which you can check out through fireside. 752 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 2: If you check out fireside on on I Google it, 753 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 2: It's technically not fireside dot com because I think that 754 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,160 Speaker 2: was also taken, but just look up fireside. It's a 755 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:32,919 Speaker 2: little purple app. 756 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 1: Purple app guys look up for it. That's great, And Tyler, 757 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,879 Speaker 1: last question for you. This show is called I've never 758 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 1: said this before, and I'm wondering, what is one thing 759 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:46,960 Speaker 1: that you have never said before. 760 00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 2: I gave this some thought, okay, and I want to 761 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:54,600 Speaker 2: say I want to say that I've never said that. 762 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 2: Hear me out how I mean this. I heard a 763 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,080 Speaker 2: ghosts say hello to clar and I in the shower. 764 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,440 Speaker 2: Now bear with me. There's meaning to this. Okay. You 765 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 2: might be like, what the heck, that's weird. This happened 766 00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 2: to me and I've never shared this because it happened 767 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,880 Speaker 2: a few years ago. But to be very very concise, 768 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 2: I was sent it in the shower and I was 769 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 2: at a very low point in my life, and I 770 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 2: was talking to Clint and was expressing out loud if 771 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,720 Speaker 2: I was doing right. By the other side, I was saying, 772 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,359 Speaker 2: you know, I feel like i want to make sure 773 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,319 Speaker 2: I've done everything right. I want to make sure I'm 774 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,480 Speaker 2: doing enough readings. I want to make sure that I'm 775 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 2: not going to give up like I feel like I 776 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 2: want to do right now. And just as I said that, 777 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 2: between us both something said how we both jumped out 778 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 2: of the shower. I've out cocked on my head. But 779 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,000 Speaker 2: the reason I share that story is not because I'm 780 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,479 Speaker 2: really giving you the X ray to details. It's more 781 00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 2: because the timing spoke to the value of the message. 782 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 2: I was going through a time of deep interpersonal questioning 783 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,360 Speaker 2: and turmoil, and all it took was a little nudge 784 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 2: from the other side, a little hello, to introduce me 785 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 2: into a sense of validation that I was on the 786 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 2: right track. And so I encourage people out there for listening, 787 00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 2: listen to those coinstances, look at the timing of when 788 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 2: they happened, because they might be giving you guidance. You 789 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 2: don't even realize. 790 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 1: All it took was a hello, Hello. 791 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:16,799 Speaker 2: From the shower. I really wish they would have waited 792 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 2: for me to dry off. 793 00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,040 Speaker 1: Did you get a visual of what that person may 794 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:22,080 Speaker 1: have looked like at one point? 795 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:23,239 Speaker 2: That was the weird thing. 796 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:27,080 Speaker 1: It was just a Hi, that's amazing, Okay, it was 797 00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 1: me and that was me? 798 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know if a megaphone. 799 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,759 Speaker 1: Tyler, that's awesome. Thank you for sharing that, and thank 800 00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: you for coming on today and sharing your light with 801 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,000 Speaker 1: everybody who's listening. You are seriously such a light in 802 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: this world. And G and I are just so happy 803 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,960 Speaker 1: we have connected and that you boys are a part 804 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 1: of our lives. 805 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,759 Speaker 2: Likewise, and you as well so much what you do. 806 00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 2: I just I love being able to watch every single thing, 807 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 2: every interview. You shed your light everywhere and you go 808 00:38:58,280 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 2: so thank you for having me. 809 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,879 Speaker 1: Thank you, Tyler, be well and we will chat soon, 810 00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: know it, Thank you soon. I've Never Said This Before 811 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 1: is hosted by me, Tommy Diderio. 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