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He 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:49.840 said that's not far enough, and then he let one 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:54.440 go from Ithaca. I said, god, y'all gonna look Goat James. Hey, 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:56.240 if you know that, you know what I should have 0:01:56.280 --> 0:02:00.240 patented that, because I am the first to ever call 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.000 that man Goat James. And now you see everybody in 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:06.240 Golt suits, everybody wearing Golt masks, got ant lists. 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:07.600 I gave him that name. 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:11.320 Are you thinking? Was the first look it up. 0:02:12.720 --> 0:02:14.920 I guarantee you never heard anybody refer to him as 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:16.079 Golt James until I did. 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:19.520 Until you did by that boy dropping that boy dropping 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:20.119 for that man. 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.480 But hey, you know what I'm saying. And I got 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:24.720 the old goat Jay. Looker that goat Jay right there. 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:27.040 Oh so you got his So you you kept his 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:27.799 funk code too. 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:33.480 I got old Joe goat and goat James go funk cod. 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.240 Hey you might you know? Are you gonna ever give 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.000 us some stuff back? Man? 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:38.840 How bought this? 0:02:40.000 --> 0:02:41.959 What you mean somebody sent you that? By accident? 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:45.960 How you accidentally saying something to somebody? You ever seen 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:47.200 somebody something by accident? 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:47.959 You bought that? 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:50.160 Lebron win or you bought I asked you a question, 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:51.520 have you ever seen somebody? 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:53.400 I guess you. I bet you ain't. Never deposited no 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:54.840 money in somebody's account by accident? 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.720 Did you? Oh? No, I never do that. 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:00.480 But sometimes sometimes back in the day, you ever send 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:01.760 a text mesis to the wrong person? 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:09.480 Yeah, hey, that was back then. You couldn't underseid that 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:12.200 weren't for you? Oh my bad? 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:14.440 Yeah? 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:17.639 So hey, they played who they played? 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:19.760 They played the nets? Lebron who's in in his twenty 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:21.480 first season the league. Then here it at the end 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:24.720 of at the end of at the end of his career. 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:27.639 After the game, he was asked how much longer would 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:29.440 he play. He said, not very long. I'm on the 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:32.240 other side obviously up the hill. I'm not going to 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:33.440 play another twenty one year. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:34.000 Well we know. 0:03:34.000 --> 0:03:36.320 That that's for damn sure, not very long. 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:38.600 I don't know when that door will close as far 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:41.880 as when I retire, but I don't have much time left. 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:45.120 I mean, how you on the other side of the 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:47.600 hill at thirty thirty nine and drop a goddamn forty 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:50.560 against the nets? You nine to ten from three, But 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:52.240 you're on the other side of the hill. I don't 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.440 know what he'll he owned, but Jack ain't on it. 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:57.240 Ain't Jacks Bill, Hey, you ain't here that bar roun. 0:03:57.520 --> 0:03:58.120 Yeah I heard it. 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.520 I don't know what hear you own, but Jack ain't 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:05.320 on it. Yeah, Jack fail down, Hey, Ocha. 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:08.800 But here's the thing. He got that forty on thirteen 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:15.600 on seventeen shots. Damn, that's incredible. That's incredible efficiency, right, 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:20.120 I mean he look, he saw it going in and 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:22.560 like he said, he said, now I'm able to get 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:26.000 on the court and do things in between games so 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:28.440 I'm able to keep my rhythm. He shoots like forty 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:33.320 from the three right, making his free throws. Look, he's 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.640 still gonna be able to get downfield. I'll get downhill. 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:39.120 The question is, O Joe, how much longer does he 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:42.320 want to keep up this kind of moniogal training? How 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.960 much more time does he want to keep up with 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:50.200 this monocal dedication? Because that's that's what it comes down to, 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.160 is that how much longer does he? 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:54.640 Right? 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:59.000 How much longer can he keep his mind sharp? And 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:02.000 will there be other things to interest him? Because because 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:04.400 you know, Kobe body started to break down. But then 0:05:04.480 --> 0:05:07.200 Kobe started to see like, man, you know what, I 0:05:07.279 --> 0:05:08.480 kind of want to do it. I want to kind 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.279 of be in the movie thing. I want to do 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:12.520 this short and animated features. I want to do that. 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:16.120 And he had the same kind of passion. Can Lebron 0:05:16.240 --> 0:05:18.360 just develop a passion. 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:23.120 Or something outside of basketball? Right? I mean what would 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:23.800 that be too? 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:27.840 When you think he has a production company, I think 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:31.720 he his production company got they got to do three features, 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:34.240 I think one with Jesse Owens, one with Jim Thorpe, 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:40.920 and another to be named later he was phenomenal. They 0:05:41.040 --> 0:05:43.520 played for the game. Really, a part of me was 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:46.360 sad that that game should have been over. 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:47.880 Oho. They played great. 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.200 They were about like twenty six points and then the 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:52.120 nets cut it all the way down to eight. 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:54.240 And Lebron should have been on the bench. 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:55.760 But if he'd been on the bench, we wouldn't have 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:59.279 saw this virtuoso because he scored seventeen points in the 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:02.440 fourth and they needed all seventeen to with stand because 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.440 cam Thomas started to heat upright uh uh uh, and 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:07.520 so they and they started turning ball over it. That's 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:09.680 what really got up in trouble in the third is 0:06:09.680 --> 0:06:12.680 that the turnover and so uh and that's. 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:13.640 That's that's crazy, man. 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:14.960 When I when I think about it, and I sit 0:06:15.000 --> 0:06:16.800 back in hindsight, I look at look at some of 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:19.919 the great basketball players in our era, think about some 0:06:20.080 --> 0:06:22.000 some of the friends I know, some of the players 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:25.599 like Lebron himself, and and and Westbrook and and and 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:29.520 indeed the d Wades and and I think during my 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:32.000 time in my era when those individuals were in their prime. 0:06:32.080 --> 0:06:33.599 And you know me, I like to do everything. I 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:36.040 like to challenge everybody. Obviously, as you can see when 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:37.440 people come on, come on the show. 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:37.840 I love it. 0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:41.480 But like the fact that, like I used to consistently 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:45.120 beat Lebron one on one, you know, in competitive and 0:06:45.160 --> 0:06:49.040 competitive games at the YMCA. It's crazy to see what 0:06:49.080 --> 0:06:52.760 he does in instruction environment in five on five or 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:56.279 just just dominating the NBA for twenty one years. I'm like, 0:06:56.440 --> 0:06:58.760 but you, you know, but I'm saucing you up in 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:01.560 the gym knowing one on one situation, which is not 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:05.279 that's not structured basketball because it's five on five. But 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:07.039 I mean, I just sit back and think about that now, 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:09.840 I kind of, I don't know, just kind of prided 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:12.920 myself on my game and thinking like I could have 0:07:13.040 --> 0:07:14.440 went to the NBA, but I chose. 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:19.520 I chose football. I think everybody glad you chose football. 0:07:19.520 --> 0:07:19.920 Old shoke. 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:23.560 Yeah, Kobe Bryant's two thousand NBA Finals ring sold for 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:26.720 a record nine hundred and twenty seven thousand dollars at auction. 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:31.720 Sale broke the soul. Yeah, who who would sell his ring? 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:32.640 His father? 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:36.680 The sale broke the record set by Bill Russell's nineteen 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:39.680 fifty seven championship ring, which sold for seven hundred and 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:43.680 five and twenty twenty one. I guess Kobe Pats had 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:47.560 fallen on hard times and the ring that he gifted 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:51.920 his dad ended up on the trademarket. Now, we shouldn't 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:54.760 be surprised by this, because they started hanking his stuff 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:57.400 while he was alive. They were selling this high school memorabilia, 0:07:57.640 --> 0:08:01.160 his trophies that he has won, of that nature. So 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:04.160 I don't think anybody is surprised by this. I know 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:05.440 I'm not. So. 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:07.200 Kobe's parents didn't. They didn't. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:08.880 They didn't get along. He didn't get along with mom, 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:11.160 mamm and pops. I guess I don't know the backstory. 0:08:11.160 --> 0:08:12.040 I don't know the backstory. 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:16.520 I guess I mean Kobe Kobe started dating Vanessa shortly 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:20.360 after he got to l A. They ended up getting married, surely, 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.280 And if I'm not mistaken, I think the crooks of 0:08:22.360 --> 0:08:22.880 the argument. 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:26.280 Now I don't like to speculate, but uh, you hear. 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:28.440 Things that he got mad without a prenup and his 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.120 father being a former NBA player and said, son, that's 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:32.199 career suicide. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:34.360 But he did it. 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:37.200 He was in love, and uh he did it, and 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:41.040 uh uh and the and the and the mom and 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:45.680 dad didn't go to the wedding no, so I don't. 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:50.320 I don't get anybody. Well, Kobe bro So, so you 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:54.400 don't show up. I mean, your mom's alive, you were 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:58.440 real you, your mom's alive. Your mom and grandma don't 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:01.880 come to the wedding. Obviously, Rail's gonna feel some type 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:04.679 of weight. You're gonna feel some type of weight, but 0:09:04.760 --> 0:09:07.920 you won't. Okay, Well, Vanessa should have just put that aside. 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:14.480 A lot of times people say things they would never 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:15.320 do themselves. 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:18.440 Oh you just let that slide. Oh you turn the 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:23.680 other cheek. Hey, that's that's tough. Though. Yeah, I'm thinking. 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:26.520 I'm thinking, like it's bad enough. 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:28.560 Me and Hurricane Paula we didn't we didn't see eye 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:30.120 to eye throughout the years. 0:09:30.800 --> 0:09:31.480 It's bad. 0:09:31.640 --> 0:09:33.840 But this is a situation that's not about you. That's 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.280 not your wedding. That was not Covid and his mom's wedding. 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.400 That was their son's wedding. You couldn't swallow your pride, 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.120 you couldn't bite your tongue. Say you know what, son, 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.959 I don't agree with that, But I love you. I 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:48.040 love you so much that I know how important this 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:48.920 is for you. 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:53.880 That day, especially that day. Oh yeah, that's I didn't 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:54.640 know it was that bad. 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:55.720 I don't know. 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:57.440 I don't damn, I adn't know it was that bad. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:59.559 That's you. 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:02.040 You you you want, you want of all people when 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:05.640 you get married, you want your mommy, your dad there, Yeah, 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:08.400 want your mommy day. And if they made the conscious 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:11.400 decision not to show up, yes, and. 0:10:11.320 --> 0:10:13.640 Then I know, knowing how Kobe is Kobe. 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:17.000 Nah, Kobe ain't gonna forget nothing. Now, he ain't forget that. 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:19.480 He got that MJ in him. Yeah, he got he 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:22.199 cut through with it. You're wrong one of them. 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:22.360 Bro. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:24.760 He Hey, you go ahead and take that to the grade. 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.120 Oh yeah, might as well take that to the grade. 0:10:27.720 --> 0:10:30.160 So, like I said, I don't really know the totality. 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:30.960 I mean, look. 0:10:32.880 --> 0:10:36.920 Without unfortunately Kobe is not here to give his side. 0:10:37.559 --> 0:10:37.839 Uh. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.679 Basically, you would need to have both parties and they 0:10:40.720 --> 0:10:44.040 can all both say Okay, where did this split come from? 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:48.160 What caused this riff between Kobe and his mom and dad? 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:54.320 Because I mean, if the likelihood, O Joe, if you 0:10:54.480 --> 0:11:01.440 and your mom aren't cool, wow, you're alive. The likelihood 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:05.520 of the wife or the in laws becoming clud once but. 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.120 That's not that's not very likely. 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:09.400 No, not at all, because the only thing. 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.240 That could have bringed you, guys was was Kobe when 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:16.200 he was alive. And now Kobe it look you know, 0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:18.320 o Jo, you know how it is. Now Sometimes you 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:20.680 start falling love and you you would repeat thing that 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:24.319 you tell real thing, that her hurricane A pall of 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:26.679 us said that she's gonna feel some type of way. 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:28.959 Oh so that's oh who whoa this one? This one 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.400 thing about hurricane. This is why she was called a hurricane. 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:33.559 She ain't gonna tell me nothing. She gonna text rail 0:11:33.600 --> 0:11:36.319 and tell herself. Oh you gonna tell real heart, and 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:38.600 we'll cuss up? What will cuss rail? Lass up? 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:38.840 Boy? 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:39.679 In a heartbeat? 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:44.160 Listen, un my mama. Oh I missed my baby. I 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:46.600 want to show you something real quick. My mama passed 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:48.720 away in twenty twenty one. 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:54.320 Right right. I didn't even get to say goodbyeer. I 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:55.440 didn't get to say goodbyer. 0:11:56.360 --> 0:11:59.600 But the way she has always been throughout the entirey 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:03.040 in my life is the fact that we had a 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:05.680 thing my brother and I were you not a friend 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:06.160 of mine. 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:07.560 There's no way you're a friend of mine. 0:12:07.600 --> 0:12:10.200 If my mama hasn't cursed you out, if you if 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:12.280 you haven't been cursed at my mama, it ain't no 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:14.120 way you really my friend, because you ain't been around 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:14.560 long enough. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:19.240 So my last messages and I could, I could show you. 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:22.680 Oh ship, you have to tell it because the camera 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:26.280 is the light. It won't show yeah, because so you 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:28.480 gotta understand the light. So you're gonna have to tell 0:12:28.520 --> 0:12:29.120 that so we can. 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:34.640 Damn, I don't know how to do it, but hold on, 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:38.920 no we case. 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:44.280 Hey, the last messages from her, it is me of 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:45.920 her cursing me to cussing me out. 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:49.720 But you put your mic. 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:54.640 The last message from her, I still got them. It 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:56.240 scrolls as long as hell. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:56.800 I know. 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.320 You can probably see me scrolling right, Yeah, you see, 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.600 I'm still scroll You see you don't see you don't 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:03.560 see no response from me. 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.880 Oh there we go. A happy birthday man, listen uncle. 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.120 And it just felt so right, the fact that I 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:14.240 wasn't able to say bye because I wanted to remember 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:18.200 her and what I knew best, her cursing me out. 0:13:18.360 --> 0:13:21.120 My friends out, customer real out custom those I have 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:24.319 kids from out hell customer kids out. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:27.400 That's why she got that nickname Hurricane Paul, because everybody 0:13:27.440 --> 0:13:29.880 can get it. Everybody can get it. But that's my 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:34.840 baby though. But I couldn't go to that extent and 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:37.920 just completely cutting off my mama. I would always have 0:13:37.960 --> 0:13:39.760 to keep some kind of communication. For the fact that 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:43.040 Kobe was able to do that, I mean, that's oh shit, 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:43.959 hurt it? 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:46.599 I think, I think, I think what hurt it? 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:49.520 I mean because I read with Stephen they said the 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:52.040 thing that hurt Michael Jordan the most is when Scottie 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:57.160 didn't send him condolences for his father tragically losing his life. Wait, okay, 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.600 you know they're they's a source of content there between 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:01.360 Michael and Scotty. 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:04.480 Okay, just imagine on your. 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:09.319 Day, you taking someone's wife, you're taking someone's daughter's hand 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:12.360 in marriage. You won't you you want everybody, if don't 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:15.720 nobody else come, if you ain't got no friends, you 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:18.040 want mom and dad, mom and daddy, and they choose 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:22.440 not to come. Now, overlook that you're basically your mom 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:25.120 and dad gave you the day that Kobe was probably 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:30.920 the happiest. Mom and Dad said, nah, we're not coming. Okay, now, 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:33.200 why are you alive? I don't bought you, I done 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:34.920 gave you this, gave you Dad gave you a house. 0:14:34.960 --> 0:14:37.720 Blah blah blah. Come to find out there's an auction 0:14:37.840 --> 0:14:43.080 going on. Kobe Bryant's high school memorabilia up for auction. 0:14:46.080 --> 0:14:49.840 Come on, man, I don't care. Every man has a 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:56.600 breaking point. Every man has. Everybody said, oh Mama, yes, yeah, 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:58.400 there are certain things that your mom and your dad 0:14:58.400 --> 0:15:00.880 could do to you that you yes, yes, it would 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:03.400 cause you to pause. So stop it just because your 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:06.680 mom or dad hasn't done that. You see, I'm a 0:15:06.760 --> 0:15:09.600 believe this. I am O Joe. I will never say 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:12.440 what I won't do because I haven't been in every situation. 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.600 All you can do is say what you've done in 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:18.520 situations that are similar. Because a lot of times when 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:20.120 I try to when I try to talk about things 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:23.560 that in a locker room, I've been in similar situations. 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:26.320 Has certain things happened to be a high school, college 0:15:26.320 --> 0:15:28.880 of the NFL, or things that have happened in my life. 0:15:28.880 --> 0:15:32.720 So I'm speaking from firsthand knowledge or from a personal 0:15:32.760 --> 0:15:37.320 experience or being around a situation. I mean that that 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:40.960 had to have heard Kobe, that my mom, not not 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.200 that you didn't. If it's a secret wedding, we run 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:45.720 off in a low we didn't want you there. Yes, 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:49.240 but if I tell you this and you choose not 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:53.320 to come right, that hurt. But I but that's it. 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:55.200 No no, no, no no no no no no no 0:15:55.440 --> 0:16:01.280 no no. So I'm glad that I'm I'm glad. I'm 0:16:01.320 --> 0:16:05.040 glad this is this is over. They got nine hundred 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:07.760 and twenty seven thousand. The auction house probably takes what 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:08.760 thirty three percent of that? 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:12.880 Damn man. 0:16:14.560 --> 0:16:19.200 Yeah, they keep nine twenty seven Okay, so they got 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:22.680 so hopefully that that that will sustain them, because I 0:16:22.680 --> 0:16:24.840 don't know if they got anything else to yoursell. 0:16:27.560 --> 0:16:31.200 Do you think, I mean, even though it's not Vanessa's responsibility, 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:33.440 do you think she will ever try to make amends 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:36.000 and bring everything and bring everything. 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:39.840 Back full circle? As far as the no, obviously, the 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:40.840 green is. 0:16:40.880 --> 0:16:44.080 Real mom alive. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it real. 0:16:44.160 --> 0:16:46.240 She told really you know how she felt about you. 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:48.200 I don't know why you married that man. That man 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:50.920 got lem a eight nine kids, blah blah blah, so 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:52.480 forth and so on, he did this, this and this. 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:54.800 You trying to make amends? 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.840 Okay, I see who you're going with it the wedding come, 0:16:58.120 --> 0:16:59.200 I ain't going because I don't. 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:01.760 I don't agree with you him broll. So she's not coming. 0:17:02.400 --> 0:17:07.920 She had agree to marrying this shit fuck and we 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:10.520 ain't nothing else out there I'm talking about. 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:15.000 Oh yeah, I think when you put it like that, well, 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:17.480 hell that that's that's hypothetical, and that that that hurt me. 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:18.240 It hurt me a little bit. 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:21.800 And now that that's that's stung then ship also oo. 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:24.160 I think the thing is, yeah, who knows? 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:24.720 Time? 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:26.760 They say time can heal a lot of things. And 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:31.080 maybe maybe ten years, fifteen years, Kobe would have had 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:35.880 a They could have had a reconciliation, but Kobe didn't 0:17:35.880 --> 0:17:37.600 get you know, you know. 0:17:37.600 --> 0:17:41.840 Who might bridge the gap ten fifteen years the kids? 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:44.520 Maybe the kids might do it, you know what the 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:45.399 old Oh. 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:47.800 Joe, you don't have when you don't have that connection, 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:51.000 I mean, think about it. I don't know will the 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:53.240 last time. I mean, they haven't had any communication since 0:17:53.280 --> 0:17:53.960 twenty thirteen. 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:58.440 God the damn. So he's twenty twenty four. 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:02.800 The older daughter, the oldest daughter is probably nineteen twenty, 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:05.960 so she hadn't seen them in eleven years, so that's 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:06.880 nine years. 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.240 The other kids, the other girls weren't even born. 0:18:09.440 --> 0:18:14.200 Right, But do you understand how kids and minds work. Curiosity, yes, 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:17.880 the feeling of the unknown, of wanting to to scratch 0:18:17.960 --> 0:18:21.199 that itch, to see what what could have been, what 0:18:21.280 --> 0:18:25.440 I've missed. Grandparents are important. I mean they are. I 0:18:25.480 --> 0:18:28.000 mean missing the majority of your life is still just 0:18:28.040 --> 0:18:31.840 wanting to fill that void and what was never there? 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:33.080 I remember. 0:18:33.920 --> 0:18:36.680 And if I'm not mistaken, I think Vanessa and her 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:38.080 family aren't strange. 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:39.800 Her mom tried to suit her. 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:43.840 Huh, yeah, what the hell they got going on? 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:46.600 But I guess, you know, I guess, I guess, I guess. 0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:48.400 But the people in the chat go say, yeah, if 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:50.199 my mom tried to sue me and take me for 0:18:50.280 --> 0:18:53.120 five ten million dollars, I most still love my mom anyway, 0:18:53.200 --> 0:18:55.400 because you know, we got people in the chat like, oh, 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:57.399 there's nothing my mom or dad could do to do 0:18:57.480 --> 0:19:00.520 me that ever make me change my mind. Well, I'll 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:03.040 tell you what. Let a family remember. Try to show 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:08.800 me and I'll show you after all I've done, Yeah, 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:11.440 after all I currently do. But something that don't even 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:14.679