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Speaker 1: Well, I invited you here. I thought I made myself

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Speaker 1: perfectly clear.

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Speaker 2: But you're a guess to my home.

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Speaker 1: You gotta come to me empty, and.

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Speaker 3: I said, no guests.

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Speaker 1: Your own presence is presence. And I already had too

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Speaker 1: much stuff. So how did you dare to surbey me?

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Speaker 2: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Bridgard Wineger. We're

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Speaker 2: here in the studio. I after, you know, a white

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Speaker 2: knuckle drive here, multiple wrong turns, the wrong freeway, just

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Speaker 2: an experience, but I made it and we're here. It's

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Speaker 2: cool and quiet, cave like. Ah, what is going on?

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Speaker 2: Not a lot? I mean, I would just take a second.

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Speaker 2: Something I've been struggling with recently. The least, I mean,

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Speaker 2: the people I liked least in high school have got

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Speaker 2: to get something other than Facebook. I'm talking to you.

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Speaker 2: I need you to get on Instagram. I don't have

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Speaker 2: a Facebook account, and it's making it very difficult for

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Speaker 2: me to spy on you. I need to keep tabs

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Speaker 2: on you freaks. Get an Instagram account and if it's private, fine,

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Speaker 2: but have a little, uh, you know, at least a

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Speaker 2: photo of yourself for the profile. I want to I

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Speaker 2: want to catch up with you. And I feel like

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Speaker 2: a lot of people are begging for this. Everybody, You've

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Speaker 2: got to open at least another account on some social

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Speaker 2: media other than Facebook, for most of us have left,

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Speaker 2: and that's probably why you're still there. But please, for

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Speaker 2: my sake open an Instagram account. That's a little, just

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Speaker 2: a little public service begging. And I think, you know,

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Speaker 2: my life other than that, other than trying to spy

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Speaker 2: on people I don't like, is empty. So let's get

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Speaker 2: into the podcast. I love today's guest. It's Chris Grace. Chris,

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Speaker 2: welcome to I said, no gift.

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Speaker 3: I think you should add a truth Social account. That's

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Speaker 3: probably where you're going.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, why didn't I think of that?

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Speaker 3: Probably where they all are.

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Speaker 2: That's certainly where they are all. Wow, have you been

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Speaker 1: I have not.

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Speaker 3: I've never been.

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Speaker 2: I assume it's like Twitter, I think, so. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 3: Mean, I have an account, I just don't publish that

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Speaker 3: my Yeah, my my main media manager posts on truth So.

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Speaker 2: All of your more secret opinion.

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Speaker 3: I just say what my hot take of the day is,

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Speaker 2: You're huge untruth Social.

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Speaker 3: There are a lot used to be a lot of

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Speaker 3: like feral cats in my neighborhood. I live in East Hollywood,

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Speaker 3: in your Korea town. Sure not as many recently also

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Speaker 3: rise in immigrants.

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Speaker 2: I mean two and two together. P put racism and

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Speaker 2: racism together and you had double racism. Wait, so the

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Speaker 2: but have you seen many feral cats recently? I've got

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Speaker 2: a lot suddenly in my neighborhood.

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Speaker 3: Well, we just have. We have ones that we are like,

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Speaker 3: oh what happened to? And then you know, sometimes they

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Speaker 3: We had a very friendly one that we called Rusty

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Speaker 3: almost like we had an outdoor cat.

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Speaker 3: I haven't seen Rusty in two months.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's tough. What color was she?

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Speaker 3: We called her Rusty because she was a black and

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Speaker 3: A friend of mine was like, oh, tortoise shell cats

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Speaker 2: Oh that's an interesting thing. I feel like with orange

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Speaker 2: No, I've heard that about cats, and recently I heard

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Speaker 3: Those white dogs can't feel the groove? Is that what

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Speaker 2: Most white dogs cannot dance, that's a fact. No, I've

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Speaker 3: That mother had a right to reproductive help.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Our cats still have it. That's very sweet.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's very cute to see a mother cat

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Speaker 3: The saddest thing about that was and I didn't tell

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Speaker 3: I know it's right, but I'm sure the mother was

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Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, she knows how nature works. The rest of

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Speaker 3: That's rough living. Well, I guess it's the way when

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Speaker 2: I kept eating all my mom's food and she asked

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, that was your territory.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. She got very violent.

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Speaker 3: That cold Stone was hers.

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Speaker 2: Do you have any pets?

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Speaker 3: We had two pets, two cats we had.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. They passed away two years ago, one within forty

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's a lot. I mean it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, one percent. I mean it was every.

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Speaker 2: Look it's eight fifteen, We've got to get home.

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Speaker 3: It's like, I think that animal could survive another twenty

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Speaker 2: That is an enormous benefit to having any type of pet.

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Speaker 2: Is an immediate escape from any situation. Yeah, and people

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Speaker 3: I can hack into your ring camera and monitor that dog.

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Speaker 2: While you've never had a dog as an adult, that's

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Speaker 3: I had one as a kid, but I wasn't the

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Speaker 2: Exactly right. I'll sure smaller big.

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Speaker 3: My husband likes German Shepherds and Golden Retrievers, high energy.

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Speaker 3: on Modern Family. Okay sure, and they're very like your

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Speaker 2: I mean, you didn't need to say any of this.

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Speaker 3: You start tripped to toss kind of mistake.

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Speaker 2: We can blame the Koch brothers.

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Speaker 3: But exactly. But I did find one shirt that I

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Speaker 3: Then I got I did need a belt from Unicloth,

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Speaker 2: I love unlo of course, for all sorts of staples.

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Speaker 3: Also stables. They their clothes seem to fit me well,

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Speaker 3: have been it. I've cut the receipts for all these things.

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Speaker 2: What color are the crocs?

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Speaker 3: Crocs are a dark purple.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm glad you picked an actual color.

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Speaker 3: I try to buy colors in general, like you know,

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Speaker 3: Ever? No, I've been in a lot of hot pinks

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Speaker 2: I can see you in both of those colors.

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Speaker 3: I'm enjoying them. This shirt I bought at a Tesco

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if I bought it from Food for Less smart Final,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But I mean, I think the UK always has

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Speaker 3: On UK's grocery stores are so much better than ours.

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Speaker 2: They're beautiful, ye, corgious stores. I think most European countries

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Speaker 3: They do. They're a lot. You just have to get

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Speaker 2: Right, You're not just assaulted by an entire wall.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, is that losing that much really, like, yes,

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Speaker 2: No, we need in the United States. We need the

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Speaker 3: I think probably we use more purchasing things. I know

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Speaker 2: Right, you make mistakes shopping.

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Speaker 3: And I think that, yeah, you make bad decisions. I

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Speaker 2: Every single thing there.

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Speaker 3: And I think we are open to that in every

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's probably very true. I mean on the topic

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Speaker 2: I love all mustards. Do you every single mustard? Have

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Speaker 2: Oh, the mustard's on display at this place. I get

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Speaker 2: every bottle I've got. I've got one broad Worst, but

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Speaker 2: I eat I try every mustard well every time I go,

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Speaker 3: So do you like them all or do you have

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Speaker 2: The ce deer one, like the whole grain one. Yes,

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Speaker 2: but I don't think that. I think they basically are

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Speaker 3: And that's not ephem. Do you is there some kind

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Speaker 2: I feel like there there's got to be a reason

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Speaker 3: That's a problem.

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Speaker 2: I think there is some some German in my family.

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Speaker 2: And so maybe there's this mustard love dormant somewhere and

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Speaker 3: I haven't forbid you ever go to Berlin or something.

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Speaker 3: No? Actually, I am not going to next week the

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Speaker 2: That I mean, I was ready to say you're wrong, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yes, unfortunately, But I have heard wonderful things about Berlin

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Speaker 2: To get Yeah, people go crazy for it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a there's this super exclusive club called bert

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Speaker 3: I mean, not really my speed, but I'm intrigued.

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Speaker 2: What what are you as a person? After seven hours?

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Speaker 3: Perfect to get rejected from burg Hinding. I mean I

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Speaker 2: Two hours is too.

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Speaker 3: Much on the West Side, and got rejected because I

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Speaker 3: it's too casual. I'm not gonna be able to do

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Speaker 2: After midnight is khaki hour.

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Speaker 3: I think that, you know, people are leaving and they.

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Speaker 2: They're just trying to keep the club full. They should

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Speaker 3: That was one of the only times that I ever

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Speaker 2: That just does not exist within me.

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Speaker 3: I I mean, I think I've only done that maybe

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know that I could do it those.

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Speaker 2: You know, I don't care what age I would be.

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Speaker 2: chapter when suddenly I've got the second wind.

444
00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 3: The one thing is that gay men you have access

445
00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:47,359
Speaker 3: to the circuit party life until you are dead, Like

446
00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,240
Speaker 3: there is no maximum age as long as you're only

447
00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,120
Speaker 3: wearing white. Or if you want to be the guy

448
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 3: that does the flags in the corner, yeah, I mean

449
00:20:57,600 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 3: the guys that do the flags. It's like, well they

450
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:02,480
Speaker 3: found a skill and there I never seen more than

451
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:03,320
Speaker 3: one at one.

452
00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 2: Party, but right well I'm going to dominate that part

453
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 2: of the circuit parties.

454
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 3: Do you have you done? Stand up? Do you stand up? No?

455
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:11,800
Speaker 2: I don't do stand up.

456
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:15,880
Speaker 3: Maybe this is your time in the corner to do it.

457
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 2: Who knows, there's always something waiting for us. It's a

458
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 2: new chapter.

459
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 3: I mean that relentless youth of the gay man as

460
00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 3: he ages, you know what I mean, Like they just

461
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:28,400
Speaker 3: don't give up on anything. They never really.

462
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 2: Realize cleaning to their thirties.

463
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 3: I mean, I bought some of those sweatshirt swove rolls.

464
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,919
Speaker 3: You know this. It's overalls made out of like sweatshirt material.

465
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,440
Speaker 2: Wow, how have I never come across very comfortable?

466
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,400
Speaker 3: But also they do make me look like I'm trying

467
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 3: to be like twenty years old.

468
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:47,200
Speaker 2: Or a baby.

469
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

470
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's baby clothing.

471
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 3: Or you know gay man wearing those like kaftans and stuff.

472
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm familiar. I've got I've basically been given one

473
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:56,640
Speaker 2: on this podcast.

474
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:57,119
Speaker 3: There you go.

475
00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 2: It's more of a tunic, but you know, like loose,

476
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:02,120
Speaker 2: flowing piece of material.

477
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 3: But I mean, I think there's going to be admired

478
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 3: about that, you know that. I think we feel like

479
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,719
Speaker 3: we can just have access to anything we want our

480
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,360
Speaker 3: whole life. Like we never age ourselves out of anything, right,

481
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 3: We're never just like maybe I shouldn't go to precinct

482
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 3: and dew Poppers till one am or whatever, you know,

483
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 3: like there's no you know, I mean it's also to

484
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 3: be despised as well, of course.

485
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:30,800
Speaker 2: Of course, I mean, speaking of things to despise, Chris,

486
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 2: I was very excited to have you here on the

487
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 2: podcast today. I thought, he'll come by, we'll just chat,

488
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 2: get to know each other, wrap the podcast, and we'll

489
00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: go home. No feelings, sirved. Yes, the podcast is called

490
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,919
Speaker 2: I said, No Gifts. Yes, I assume you got an

491
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 2: email about this at some point with the title of

492
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 2: the show. Yes, pretty clear directive. So I was a

493
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:59,679
Speaker 2: little thrown when you waltzed into the studio holding what

494
00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,399
Speaker 2: would not more clearly be a gift for me.

495
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,919
Speaker 3: Well, this is a card that says Bridger on it.

496
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 3: So I guess you could assume that. But one of

497
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 3: my love languages is gift giving.

498
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 2: Is that true?

499
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 3: It is? Actually I'm a very good gift giver.

500
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 2: Oh I wish I was a good I'm good for

501
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,400
Speaker 2: like one one gift a year for one person and everyone.

502
00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 3: We'll text it, I mean we'll see so yes, unfortunately,

503
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 3: and it says it does.

504
00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 2: There's an immediate apology, which I appreciate. Yes, every card

505
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 2: should just have a sorry underneath it.

506
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 3: Just a lower expect this, I mean, this is, this

507
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,120
Speaker 3: is meeting the minimal definition of wrapped.

508
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 2: By the way, this is much more wrapped than a

509
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:39,160
Speaker 2: lot of give.

510
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 3: I didn't I didn't know that. Oh wow, well then,

511
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 3: I mean clearly in the median of yeah.

512
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: You're like a nice average it passed so nice.

513
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,360
Speaker 3: That's that says something poor about your previous guests.

514
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 2: I would say, I'm happy to say a lot of

515
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 2: bad things about previous guests. Okay, so it's in this

516
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: nice little brown on Alpe and I'm opening it and

517
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: I'm seeing them says Typo on it, which I do

518
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 2: know is a store in the Glendale.

519
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 3: I didn't I left off one stop. I will say.

520
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 3: The card and I got at today, but the gift

521
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 3: I did not get today. Okay, okay, the gift was

522
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 3: not a last minute Okay.

523
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,240
Speaker 2: This is again, And I will say a lot of

524
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: the gifts on this podcast were probably found in someone's

525
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 2: glove box.

526
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 3: So you're in studio here, you're killing I'm giving you

527
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 3: a canon camera, I wish.

528
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 2: Okay, So this okay, So the card says goodbye. It's

529
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: just scary.

530
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:43,239
Speaker 3: Inside it is just anthrax. I like giving cards that

531
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 3: are just don't fit the occasion at all. Sometimes.

532
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that this fits any I.

533
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 3: Also thought that this was a funny card because if

534
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 3: you look on the inside, you can unfold that later.

535
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 3: But like, there's no it's a blank card, right.

536
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: This is a very cold, scary It.

537
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 3: Just as goodbye on the outside and nothing on the inside. Oh,

538
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 3: so this is.

539
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 2: You give this to somebody before, you know, assassinating, executing,

540
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,160
Speaker 2: or in hospice.

541
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 3: Maybe you giving them a card you're giving them one

542
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,360
Speaker 3: last thing to throw away as they're in their their

543
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 3: hospice room is getting all cluttered for the nurse.

544
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 2: To throw in a plastic exactly, goodbye. That's that's a

545
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 2: tough card to get. Oh god, I'm gonna have to

546
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 2: be careful driving home tonight. Okay, so now we're hoping

547
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 2: there's a piece of paper in here that I'm unfolding.

548
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: I am thrilled that it's a voucher for I Fly,

549
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:43,880
Speaker 2: which is the thing where you go in the cage

550
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 2: and there's the shooting, yes, where they blow you up

551
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 2: into the air.

552
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:49,719
Speaker 3: That's right.

553
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 2: Have you done this before?

554
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 1: No?

555
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 3: I listened to I think maybe it might have been

556
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 3: a Jimmy Parter episode. You were saying that you don't

557
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 3: like you you're getting too much clutter.

558
00:25:59,200 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

559
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 3: I specifically mentioned that you you wanted an I Fly.

560
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 2: Wait did I really say it?

561
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 3: Did? That's this is the kind of gift giver. I am, well,

562
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 3: you're incredible this.

563
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 2: You should do this as a second career. I mean,

564
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 2: that's amazing. I don't have any recollection of that, and

565
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 2: I mean, but of course this is something that I

566
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 2: would love to do and would never buy for myself.

567
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, the gift Universal City Walk, I believe is

568
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:26,479
Speaker 3: where it is. Oh, and it's yeah, I wouldn't get

569
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 3: that for myself either, because I find that a little scary.

570
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 3: But it seemed like you were open to the ideas.

571
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:32,960
Speaker 2: I'm open to the idea of flying through the air

572
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 2: and possibly being thrown against the side of a wall.

573
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,640
Speaker 3: And also this doesn't clut up your home.

574
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 2: Oh absolutely not. I mean it's a life experience. This

575
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 2: is probably going to immediately go into top ten. Experience

576
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 2: is so wonderful. I don't know what that says about

577
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 2: my life that something at the City Walk is in

578
00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 2: top ten. But I is there anything that could get

579
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 2: you to do this? Is it super scary or is

580
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 2: it like I just would rather not?

581
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 3: It's more I think now it's more just that I

582
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 3: would rather not, because like there's rides at Disneyland in

583
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 3: California Adventure now that I can go on, Like I

584
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 3: can go on Matterhorn, and I can go on Space Mountain. Yes,

585
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 3: they're not overly scary to me, right, But the last

586
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 3: time I went Space Mountain, I was like that might

587
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 3: be the last time, because it just threw me around

588
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 3: in a way that I was like, Eh, that wasn't

589
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 3: so fun, right, It wasn't so much like they're like

590
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 3: some genuine roller coasters I am scared of. But Space

591
00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 3: Mountain is not one of them.

592
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 2: No, it's very it's a very mild ride.

593
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I felt for my back.

594
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 2: It was a little well, do not get back on

595
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: the matter.

596
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 3: Horn matter horns horrible. I'd rather be murdered by the yetti.

597
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 3: I will say that this is my This is why

598
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 3: I say I'm a good gift giver, because often I'll

599
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 3: give my husband things at Christmas or whatever that he mentioned,

600
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,639
Speaker 3: like in February off hand, and I'll have a little

601
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,160
Speaker 3: note somewhere or an Amazon wish list or something that's

602
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 3: so you know sweet.

603
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 2: I wish I had the wherewithal the memory or just

604
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 2: the heart, or to listen to people interesting, the people

605
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: I love. Would you ever actually skydive?

606
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 3: I'm so neutral about that. I don't feel particular. I mean, yeah,

607
00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 3: I think I would be very nervous and scared, but

608
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 3: I'm not like terrified of it. I'm also not super

609
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 3: interested in it. I don't know why. I'm like, I

610
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 3: just feel very not anything about it. I don't know.

611
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 3: That's that's maybe maybe it's a form of dys time.

612
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:28,240
Speaker 2: Here or interesting thing to have no opinion.

613
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 3: It's so it's I've never done it, and it's but

614
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 3: it's not a thing that I'm like, Man, it's on

615
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 3: my bucket list one day, I want to how are you?

616
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 2: Oh, I couldn't do it. I mean, I think I

617
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: catch the bug after this, though, I know maybe this

618
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 2: is you.

619
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 3: This is gonna be it's too low to the ground and.

620
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: This all leads to goodbye.

621
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 1: No.

622
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,880
Speaker 2: I feel like I could probably get there. I could

623
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: get up into the plane, but I think once we

624
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 2: get to the what do we call that the door

625
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: on the plane that you jump out of that can't

626
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 2: possibly call the door hatch.

627
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 3: My friend skydived, and he said the weirdest thing for

628
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 3: him was being in the plane on the ascent and

629
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 3: realizing that he was not going back down a plane,

630
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 3: which which is kind of weird. I never thought about

631
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 3: it that way, but yeah, it's like, oh, it's a

632
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 3: it's you're only taking half of this plane ride.

633
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 2: Oh god, that's terrifying.

634
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

635
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 2: I feel like the you know, the instructor taped to

636
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 2: the instructor or whatever. But I feel like animal instinct

637
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:22,680
Speaker 2: would take over for me and I would injure them

638
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 2: myself in the plane.

639
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 3: I mean, there was there was someone in New York

640
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 3: State that died because when he you know, they did tandem.

641
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 3: When he jumped out, his head whipped back and he

642
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 3: knocked out the instructor. So the instructor just passed out

643
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 3: and they both died. And I think they I think

644
00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 3: they died because the student, I think he could have

645
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 3: pulled whatever, but he just didn't like if you, if you,

646
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,959
Speaker 3: He didn't realize he had knocked the guy out. So

647
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 3: you're just you've passed the lower altitude where you should

648
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: have pulled this.

649
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 2: Why is doing it horrible at his job?

650
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, yelp review for that, it's gonna be awful. He's

651
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 3: leaving it at last one hundred meters. He was leaving

652
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 3: a Yelp review.

653
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 2: This is the worst service.

654
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,920
Speaker 3: I as soon as he got in so range, he

655
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:14,240
Speaker 3: was like, you know, with skydiving, I think one is that. Yeah.

656
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 3: I think your first whatever, like twenty or maybe are

657
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 3: like tandem or whatever.

658
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 2: You can't just do it on your own.

659
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 3: And so I think part of my reluctance too, is

660
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 3: like I feel like if I actually think skydiving. There

661
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 3: are a lot of things like that that I easily

662
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 3: could fall into a rabbit hole of, like, oh, I'm

663
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 3: really getting into skydiving now, and now like every weekend

664
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to do jumps or whatever.

665
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, And that's who you are now.

666
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 3: I think I have to be more judicious as I

667
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 3: get older about which of these things I allow myself

668
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 3: to get into rabbit holes.

669
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,640
Speaker 2: What's the last thing you went into a real fixation

670
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:51,360
Speaker 2: with this year?

671
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 3: The biggest fixation is this social deduction game called Blood

672
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 3: on the clock Tower, Oh, which all of my friends

673
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 3: are so sick of hearing me talk about. It's been

674
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 3: just over a year that I've been extremely deep into this.

675
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 3: That's why I will be in Vegas on October for

676
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 3: that reason. Really, Vegas clock Tower con. You're deep, So.

677
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 2: You're picking a con in Vegas over going to Berlin.

678
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 3: Essentially, Yeah, I mean what I could have done was

679
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 3: go to Berlin and just stay in Europe through that

680
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: middle week and skip the convention completely. That is an

681
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 3: option that I could have been right.

682
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: But basically, what I'm saying is this game that you've

683
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 2: become obsessed with is really starting to affect your life.

684
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:35,959
Speaker 3: Would I mean, no question at all. I mean I

685
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: am very dedicated to it. I am very chagrined to

686
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 3: talk about it to my friends.

687
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: Well, I've got a podcast episode for them.

688
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 3: Oh, what's that this one? Well? Have you ever played

689
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 3: Werewolf for Mafia?

690
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 2: I've played Mafia, and what do you feel about it?

691
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 2: I enjoy it?

692
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 3: Okay, It's essentially Mafia with some improved rules to it

693
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 3: that make the game like a lot more fun, such

694
00:31:56,120 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 3: as such as in Mafia, when you die, if you're

695
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 3: killed by the mafia or if you're voted to die

696
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 3: by the town by the villagers, you can't talk anymore. Right,

697
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 3: You can open your eyes at night so you can

698
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 3: see who's evil and who's not, but you can't speak

699
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 3: anymore for the rest of the game. So if you're

700
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 3: the first one killed in Mafia, you go the rest

701
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 3: of the You're essentially not participating in Blood on the

702
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 3: clock Tower. When you die, you continue to speak through

703
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 3: the rest of the game, and you win or lose

704
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 3: with your team good or evil. But you still close

705
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 3: your eyes at night, so you don't know everyone's identities. Okay,

706
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 3: and when you die, your your role is not announced.

707
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 3: The town doesn't know if you were good or evil.

708
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: Wait, so what does dying do at all?

709
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 3: You lose your ability, which everyone in the game has

710
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 3: an ability as opposed to to yes, where as opposed

711
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:46,400
Speaker 3: in Mafia there are some villagers who don't really do anything.

712
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 3: Everyone has one, and when you die, you lose it

713
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,680
Speaker 3: and you only get to vote one more time for

714
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 3: like a town execution. Okay, those are like the big changes,

715
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 3: but they do a lot like the fact that you

716
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 3: when you die you get to keep playing. Right. Also, specifically,

717
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,239
Speaker 3: if you are an evil player that gets killed and

718
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 3: you were trying to bluff and convince people that you

719
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 3: were good, you keep doing that, you keep up the ruse,

720
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 3: or you try to like confuse information, deflex suspicion away

721
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 3: from your other teammates and that kind of stuff. It's

722
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 3: very fun.

723
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 2: This sounds like it was created by somebody who was

724
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 2: constantly losing in Mafia, and.

725
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 3: It is specifically created by a guy named Stephen Medway

726
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 3: who was killed in Mafia and had to be silent

727
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 3: for another two hours.

728
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 2: He's very unpopular in his friend.

729
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:32,880
Speaker 3: Wow.

730
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I always wonder who the creators of these games

731
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 2: are because they're almost like sleepover games that seem like

732
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 2: they just appear out of nowhere.

733
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a youngish company that's like five to

734
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 3: ten years old now, and because of my falling into

735
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 3: the rabbit hole, I'm not friends with everybody in the company.

736
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and you're an ambassador.

737
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 3: I am actually genuinely like this conversation. I've hanged with you,

738
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 3: I've had with a lot of people, and I have

739
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 3: turned a lot of people onto the game. You're welcome

740
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 3: to him play.

741
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 2: Oh, I would love to. I'll probably make everyone mad somehow.

742
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 3: Uh No, you'll be fine.

743
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:07,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

744
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 2: Don't underestimate.

745
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. I also want to say that my

746
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 3: husband is a musical theater actor. He's going to really

747
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 3: I don't think he'll like that I said this, but

748
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say anyway, a casting director once told

749
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 3: him that he could be I can't remember the exact phrasing.

750
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: I think he was told that he could be the

751
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 3: next Jimmy Smoo.

752
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: I was about to be like, oh, my boyfriend is

753
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: also we can't this is going to inflate jim Zgo

754
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: so much. That's crazy.

755
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 3: Well, because my husband is also often a person doing

756
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 3: sit down your rock in the boat. I'll just say

757
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 3: that that's that was his you know, oh yeah crack.

758
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 2: Did in the Jimmy Part episode, did we talk about

759
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 2: the first time I saw Jim sing.

760
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 3: No?

761
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 2: Because it's it's such a was this at the Jeff

762
00:34:58,120 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 2: Franklin's house, the creator of Full.

763
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 3: So because I thought you were at that party, because

764
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 3: you knew Jim I was.

765
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 2: We had been dating for two weeks, okay, cool, and

766
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 2: he was like, I'm doing this weird thing. You probably

767
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: don't want to go. I was like, of course I want.

768
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 3: Yes, So this this whole story of the shark tank

769
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 3: and the Yeah, because I'm a dedicated part of listener,

770
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:20,479
Speaker 3: this has uh this is part of like Jimmy Potter lore,

771
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,359
Speaker 3: right because it's come up a few times, and also

772
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 3: other people tangential to it, like or people that know

773
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:33,879
Speaker 3: Iliana Douglas. This hit this story and you were on

774
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 3: the podcast as well and you talked about so it's

775
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 3: almost like Bat's doing echo location, like each Bat has, like,

776
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: you know, cast a new part of this story. And

777
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 3: then actually recently my husband and I looked at a

778
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 3: there's a recent like YouTube real estate video of that house.

779
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:57,280
Speaker 4: Oh no, shark Tank one like the it's like sixty

780
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 4: million dollars, so much money, And it's a tour of

781
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 4: like the house that I think you were in because

782
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 4: you can see the shark.

783
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 3: Tank on the I to look at this, it's but weirdly,

784
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 3: like I we were watching I know this sounds ridiculous,

785
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 3: but we were watching that going like I don't think

786
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 3: I'd want to live in this house. Like no, it's

787
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 3: kind of like the tasted level is not there.

788
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,280
Speaker 2: The taste level doesn't exist at all. It's so tacky. Yeah,

789
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 2: and for like sixty million. Whenever a house is that

790
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:25,840
Speaker 2: much money, I'm like, if someone has that much money,

791
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 2: aren't they just making the house they want?

792
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but oh I'm not.

793
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna go buy Jeff Franklin's gross used house

794
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 2: if I have one hundred million dollars.

795
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 3: But maybe. I mean it's weird to think that you

796
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:40,919
Speaker 3: would see that house and be like, yeah, that's.

797
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 2: This is for me.

798
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 3: That's the they the decorations there, or the way it's

799
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 3: laid out or whatever. The way it's like inside is

800
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:52,359
Speaker 3: like a Spanish villa, but like like partially, Yeah, it

801
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 3: was very confused in terms of its style and also

802
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 3: I always think about the maintenance of those. Of course.

803
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: I mean, if I could ever afford a I think,

804
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 3: what's a really what's a realistic house price for us

805
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 3: to hit.

806
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 2: In Los Angeles? Like if we've got became moderately pretty

807
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 2: successful in.

808
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: Los Angeles makes it hard because everyone's like, what, well,

809
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,720
Speaker 3: because you legitimately need to like, say one million dollars

810
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 3: for like yeah, like I think if I could get

811
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 3: like a larch month two million dollar house.

812
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 2: That doesn't exist. I think in Large one it's at

813
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 2: least three at this point. Oh, I like larche Mont

814
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 2: so much, so you've got to keep working working.

815
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 3: That's why I'm doing this podcast exactly.

816
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:39,720
Speaker 2: The check is huge.

817
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 3: Where can I get that two million? Like at water?

818
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 2: At Water?

819
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 3: Yes?

820
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 2: Absolutely, Okay, I'm not the way the confidence that I'm

821
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: bringing to real estate, I don't know.

822
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 3: Don't you like Larchemont though it's so nice?

823
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 2: Large One's very nice, But you're not going to get

824
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:56,359
Speaker 2: a two million dollar house there.

825
00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 3: I'll show you Bridger. I come back on this pocket.

826
00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 2: As we have ah dangling the key.

827
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 3: Yes, so one. I have a lot of friends who

828
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,279
Speaker 3: post those things of like, I forget what they do

829
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 3: and they're like, we we closed on whatever, and you

830
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: know they live in like Indiana or something, and it's

831
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 3: so slightly frustrated.

832
00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they're like, oh, you've got a house.

833
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 3: Easy. But the thing that was, she'll never listen to this,

834
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 3: So I don't think it's the matter. My niece, who

835
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 3: is much younger than me, bought a house and I

836
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 3: was like, oh what this isn't how this is supposed

837
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 3: to Wait a minute, You're supposed to like come to

838
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 3: La and sleep on my foot on.

839
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 2: It's a it's a hard city to explain to anyone

840
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: who doesn't live here, which just makes no The cost

841
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 2: of living makes no sense to anybody.

842
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:53,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the despair. I also, I think it's hard

843
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,399
Speaker 3: here because you have friends that are not even like

844
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 3: distant acquaintances, but you have some friends that just like

845
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 3: have done very well. And I had just I have

846
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 3: friends where I go to their house. I'm like, oh,

847
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 3: what how did this happen?

848
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,520
Speaker 2: No? I mean I was just talking to somebody about

849
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 2: this in La, like I know, legitimate like multi millionaires,

850
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 2: just like the nature of being here and working in

851
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 2: the business. And then I have friends who are like

852
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,120
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm gonna have health insurance this year.

853
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're all.

854
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 2: In the same business in the same city. It makes

855
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 2: no sense whatsoever.

856
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,280
Speaker 3: Yeah. Like, I have a friend who was like season

857
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 3: regular on a CBS show for like eight years, oh,

858
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 3: and started investing in homes and so now owns like

859
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 3: four homes in La Wow, and like two apartments in

860
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 3: New York. And it's just like, yeah, because like season

861
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:47,720
Speaker 3: three of whatever medical Cops show or whatever your season

862
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 3: regular season three and four, You're just like, oh, I

863
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 3: just have like eight hundred thousand dollars sitting around. What

864
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:53,760
Speaker 3: am I gonna do with it?

865
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 2: So crazy to make the dream to become a to

866
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: play a nerd or a data scientist on.

867
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:06,919
Speaker 3: To be to be the hacker comic on the very

868
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 3: serious Murder show where on CBS shows they go to

869
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,439
Speaker 3: that character and that character just does like straight up bits.

870
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 3: It's so weird because I watched them sometimes and it's

871
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,240
Speaker 3: just like, Oh, I've auditioned for like Scorpion or whatever,

872
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 3: and it's just like it's so odd to me.

873
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 2: Just jarring Tonal.

874
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, there was there was a remember a Scorpion or

875
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 3: a CSI cyber oh, where Horatio Sans like guests starred

876
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 3: and just did a fully comic character in the middle

877
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 3: of like the room was covered in blood.

878
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 2: That's the dream. It's the dream ten seasons.

879
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 3: Better to be that than the medical examiner on a sitcom.

880
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's a dull job. Yeah, that's very dull

881
00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:00,480
Speaker 2: job to give. Just going back a little bit to

882
00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: give some context about the Jeff Franklin House, because I

883
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 2: don't think I've ever actually talked about on this podcast.

884
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 2: I'm curious to know, like you piecing it together from

885
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 2: Jimmy Parteros, what you what the situation.

886
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,240
Speaker 3: I'll give you a quick summer what I know. Iliana

887
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 3: Douglas was tasked with sort of organizing these home concerts in.

888
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,240
Speaker 2: Our variety shows called living room shows.

889
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 3: Yes, in Jeff Franklin's or maybe other people's rich home,

890
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 3: rich people's house. And I've done some home concerts shows

891
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 3: as well, and you invite some other friends. I believe

892
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 3: Tom Jones was in the audience, because Jimmy's obsessed with

893
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 3: Tom Jones and Jimmy Smagoula. Did he sing sit on

894
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 3: You're rocking the Boat? He Okay, which I think was

895
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 3: on YouTube at one point. It was Yeah, there are

896
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 3: a bunch of clips from this. These Illienna Douglas living

897
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 3: room shows were on YouTube at one point and they're

898
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 3: not anymore.

899
00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 2: Oh no, they've been scrubbed.

900
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 3: They've been scrubbed, and maybe by Iliana. The what I

901
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 3: remember because I remember seeing the Sit on Your Rocking

902
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 3: Boat on YouTube at one point, and then Jimmy did

903
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 3: not want to go on and explicitly asked to not perform,

904
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 3: and then Pardo Jimmy Parter, yes and uh, and then

905
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 3: Ileanna put him on anyway and it went poorly. That's

906
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 3: that is. I think that's the summary of what I

907
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 3: know from the part O verse.

908
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 2: He kind of directly addressed Tom Jones.

909
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 3: Yes, because he does like Tom Jones. He knows that

910
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 3: Tom Jones rap or whatever's the Tom Jones song where

911
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 3: Tom Jones rapped.

912
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 2: I got to hear this. Yeah, yeah, Tom Jones. I'm

913
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: always shocked that he's Welsh. Oh yes, yes, yes, it

914
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: makes no sense to me, right, it seems very Florida.

915
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 3: That's right. Have you seen Jimmy Smagoula on Broadway?

916
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 2: Yes, last year he was. They did spam a lot.

917
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 2: Oh cool, and he's uh, they're in rehearsal. Right now

918
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 2: for a new thing about Louis Armstrong called Wonderful World.

919
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 3: And he's playing Louis.

920
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 2: Yes, he's planning to end his career.

921
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 3: He's puffing his cheeks out.

922
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,919
Speaker 2: No, he's playing Louis Armstrong's manager. I want to see, of.

923
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 3: Course, all these bio musical I don't know if it's

924
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 3: by a musical. Yes, they always have a white manager

925
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 3: or record executive that comes in and is, like, you know,

926
00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 3: gives them some advice or whatever, and then ends up

927
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 3: sort of like screwing them over on a contract or

928
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 3: something like that. And like the I think the Gloria

929
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 3: Stefan one had one. I think the Donna Summer Musical

930
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 3: had one. Oh my god, like the Temptations one has

931
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,799
Speaker 3: one or whatever. Like there's always just like a guy

932
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 3: in like a leisure suit.

933
00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 2: Of course, mind a desk slime ball. Yeah, I think

934
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 2: he is. He probably. I don't know that much about

935
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 2: the character, but I have to assume it's kind of

936
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:36,960
Speaker 2: a slimy guy.

937
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 3: I just I can't wait to see him in the

938
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 3: middle show seeing what a Wonderful World as this character.

939
00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, it was a Jeff Franklin's house which was

940
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 2: built on the former grounds of the Sharon Tate.

941
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,479
Speaker 3: Home, So not the same house like they tore down.

942
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: They tore down a very I mean, there are limited

943
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 2: photos of that one because I think most of them

944
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 2: from the crime scene the manson. But that looked like

945
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 2: a nice, charming home, right, he ripped it down and

946
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 2: made something way more cursed.

947
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,000
Speaker 3: I mean, every time you see a photo of like

948
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 3: some old Hollywood legends home, they always seem nice and

949
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 3: kind of by moner standards modest, yes, yes, And they

950
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 3: seem like that would be a cool house to live in,

951
00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 3: like it'd be cool to live in Fred Astaire's house

952
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 3: or whatever, of course, and then they often are replaced

953
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:22,280
Speaker 3: by these sort.

954
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: Of like Vegas style trash bins. Yeah, this place sucked.

955
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 3: Also, I bet Sharon Tate's version had a lot more

956
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 3: yard to it.

957
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sure this had a very little yard.

958
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 3: They always push out to the edges. Yeah, of course,

959
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 3: you know, maybe having that much yard allow of people

960
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 3: to sneak onto the property.

961
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 2: And Jeff Franklin is you know his fans are just

962
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 2: trying to get over that fence all the time.

963
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,400
Speaker 3: Yes, And who was Jeff? Wait you said Jeff Franklin.

964
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, Full House, and then I believe we might have

965
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 2: to cut this. But I think there were a lot

966
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 2: of allegations. Okay, I think that the Franklin.

967
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 3: Trail, allegations that Full House sucked.

968
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 2: None of the more true. It's an excellent program.

969
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 3: Never watched an episode of My Whole Life.

970
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:04,839
Speaker 2: Oh I loved it as a kid.

971
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 3: But for children, what's full about the house?

972
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,960
Speaker 2: I mean, the whole family's there. You've got the father,

973
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: everybody except for the mom who died and that starts

974
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 2: the show.

975
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 3: How many fathers are there?

976
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 2: There's one father, two uncles, three. Dave Coolier is one

977
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 2: of the uncles. John Stamos is an uncle.

978
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 3: Who's Oh, Bob Sackett is the dad.

979
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 2: Bob Sacket's the dad. Lori Laughlin is oh college lady. Yes, okay,

980
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 2: this is These are my connections to the show. Oh wait,

981
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 2: are the uncles his brothers or are they the dead

982
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 2: mother's brothers? That is such a good question.

983
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 3: I don't know if Stamos is his brother and Kolier

984
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 3: is the.

985
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 2: Right the ghost's brother, I don't remember, but I Stamos's

986
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 2: character is very Greek, and no one else in the

987
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 2: show is Greek, so I don't know how that plays

988
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 2: into it. Maybe he's just a friend who calls himself.

989
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 3: Maybe the dead mother is like the goddess Athena.

990
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 2: She's been pulled into the under world and Danny Tanner

991
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:10,000
Speaker 2: has to confront hates.

992
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 3: Right, and then John Samos was walking out of Hell

993
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,480
Speaker 3: and turned back, and she turned into she went back

994
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 3: to Hell. But then they brought them back as fuller house.

995
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 3: So Jeff frank was a little around. He's not living

996
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 3: in that house anymore. It's for sale. I don't know

997
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 3: what you make from this podcast, but we could get

998
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:30,400
Speaker 3: you into that.

999
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking at look, I'm circling the property. Yeah,

1000
00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 2: I'm constantly on the phone with my book marked on

1001
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 2: Zillo Jeff frankon. He may have been run out of town.

1002
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 3: You know, I think, I know this is often said.

1003
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:45,919
Speaker 3: I don't think people really get run out of town.

1004
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 3: I told you before we recorded that I was in

1005
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 3: Burbank all day and I was what I did, literally

1006
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 3: have six hours to kill in Burbank, and I just

1007
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 3: I have I had my car, like I could have

1008
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 3: driven home, but you know, I don't know, I just

1009
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 3: didn't feel like it, Like I was like sometimes when

1010
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 3: if I go to Santa Monica.

1011
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 2: Oh, you're not coming back, right.

1012
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 3: And I don't know. I mean, Burbank is really not

1013
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 3: the same. But I just stayed out here in Burbank,

1014
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,839
Speaker 3: and so I went to see Megalopolis. Yes, and that

1015
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 3: has a lot of I would think we're canceled people

1016
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 3: in it.

1017
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,960
Speaker 2: Oh, certainly. I mean, uh, what's his name?

1018
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 3: John Voight? John Voight, Shila above.

1019
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:24,760
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so annoyed.

1020
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 3: You saw this movie I saw.

1021
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:29,799
Speaker 2: I saw the first hour and I knew it was

1022
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 2: going to be horrible, and I wanted to keep watching.

1023
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 2: But I got a little sleepy.

1024
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 3: Oh I just go to sleep. You you left because

1025
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:38,399
Speaker 3: you were getting sleepy. Yeah, I'll just sleep in it. Oh.

1026
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,920
Speaker 3: I'm actually during the movie today, I was thinking, one

1027
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 3: day I'll write a memoir. It's going to be called

1028
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 3: sleeping at the movie. It's so I would encourage everybody,

1029
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 3: what is it, Get your AMC a list where you

1030
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 3: don't pay for each movie. Go in the middle of

1031
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,800
Speaker 3: the day to see a film. It's so nicely air conditioned.

1032
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 3: You do need. I think you have to bring like

1033
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 3: a hoodie or an extra layer. Oh right, yeah, and

1034
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 3: then just let yourself sleep through the fucking marvels or.

1035
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 2: Feeling when your eyes start to get heavy and you

1036
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 2: can't fight it. I mean, there's nothing like that in

1037
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 2: the world.

1038
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,359
Speaker 3: I think what it is is like through all your

1039
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 3: school years, you had to fight that. Oh interesting, And

1040
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,080
Speaker 3: like I was just an Edmr Fringe and I watched

1041
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 3: a bunch of plays. When you're watching a play, especially

1042
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 3: if your friend is in the play and the venue

1043
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 3: only seats twenty people, when they can see you, you

1044
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 3: gotta stay awake. But in a movie you get that

1045
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 3: and you're like, no, I can I can just let

1046
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 3: it go.

1047
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 2: I'm free, I can just sleep through this. Yeah, that feeling.

1048
00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: And recently I've been really treating myself to a little

1049
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 2: nap very late at night in front of the TV.

1050
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,400
Speaker 2: Oh what time, you know, Like we'll get around, well,

1051
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 2: it'll be eleven thirty midnight, and I'll be like, I

1052
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 2: don't want.

1053
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 3: To be finishing as vocal cool down for the.

1054
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 2: Day, screaming, And I'll be sitting there and I know

1055
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 2: it's time to go to bed, but I think, well,

1056
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 2: maybe it feels so good to fall asleep here. So

1057
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 2: I'll sleep in about twenty minutes.

1058
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll tell you that you're gonna hear a lot

1059
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 3: of my secrets. I can't have my husband listening to this.

1060
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 3: He knows this, but he'll be embarrassed. I say this

1061
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 3: out in public, which is that this is my if

1062
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,439
Speaker 3: I ever get to buy that sixty million dollar house,

1063
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,520
Speaker 3: you think about like what you would do? What would

1064
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 3: be the weird rich guide thing you do? So mine would.

1065
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 3: I'm genuine, but this will happen. I'm telling people now

1066
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 3: so that like, if there's a Rolling Stone profile of

1067
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:26,480
Speaker 3: me in twenty years and they say, like, this is

1068
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 3: what happens in the house, they'd be like, yeah, I

1069
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 3: said that twenty years ago on several podcasts. I want

1070
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 3: to be able to fall asleep on the couch watching television. Okay,

1071
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 3: and I have like a live in assistant that is

1072
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:47,760
Speaker 3: the build of the mountain from Game of Thrones.

1073
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:48,839
Speaker 2: Okay, fantastic.

1074
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 3: He will come pick me up and bring me to bed.

1075
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:56,600
Speaker 3: I think, in the grand schemer of things, that's not

1076
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 3: that scandalous a thing. But do you think it's weird?

1077
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 3: But you know how when you were a kid, you

1078
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 3: would fall a sleep in the car ride home, Oh

1079
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 3: the best?

1080
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 2: Then you were just to uber. I think that that

1081
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:12,640
Speaker 2: should be an option on Uber. Carry me asleep over

1082
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 2: your shoulder to the front door or.

1083
00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 3: All the way in all the way, you give them

1084
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 3: a key code for your August lock or whatever. The

1085
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 3: feeling of Like I see now when I see kids,

1086
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 3: like at the mall or something and they're sleeping on

1087
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 3: their parents' shoulder, I'm so envious of that child. I'm

1088
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 3: not envious of the world they've been born into. Yeah,

1089
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:35,479
Speaker 3: the climate they.

1090
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 2: Have to breathe to take a lot of napps.

1091
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 3: But so, yeah, that is I'm being dead serious about it.

1092
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 3: I will definitely hire someone to do that. It will

1093
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 3: not be sexual in any way unless they won't, you

1094
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like, it's not a it's just

1095
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 3: it will be someone that needs to have the physical

1096
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 3: strength to do that.

1097
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:55,400
Speaker 2: Right, right, And if they're incredibly good looking, that's just

1098
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:57,880
Speaker 2: another you know, that's their problem.

1099
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 3: Isn't it everyone's problem, own problem.

1100
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 2: The entire house problem. Yeah, No, I support that. I

1101
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 2: think that that feeling of being asleep in the wrong

1102
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 2: place and then being carried.

1103
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't have any other like weird celebrity show business.

1104
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 3: See things that I'm gonna want to do, like I'm

1105
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 3: not gonna have like an Epstein Island or a you

1106
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 3: know what I mean.

1107
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 2: Yet, Yeah, I mean, you get that money and you're

1108
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 2: gonna freak out right.

1109
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,279
Speaker 3: I also say I'm never gonna have a shark tank

1110
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 3: with the Spanish villa half interior deckering style and then.

1111
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 2: With Jimmy Parkle confronting Tom Jones in front.

1112
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 3: Yes, I did do I did do a home concert.

1113
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 3: I will brag intentionally brag about this. I did a

1114
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,279
Speaker 3: home show this year at Manny Patinkin's house.

1115
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 2: Oh, that's amazing, which was very fun.

1116
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 3: Oh, that's it was very cool to do a show.

1117
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 2: For him, and I bet he has a tasteful home.

1118
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 3: He does, Yeah, I mean he has a great house

1119
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 3: in Upstate New York. And it was really really lovely.

1120
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 2: And were there other performers on the show.

1121
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:54,360
Speaker 3: No, it was just me doing my show from Ed

1122
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 3: Befrinch Last Amazing, which is which was filmed as a

1123
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 3: special this year that'll drop out now, but like that,

1124
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 3: doing the live version of that for him and people

1125
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 3: from around the neighborhood in Upstate New York where he lives,

1126
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,439
Speaker 3: where my impversion was like, oh, it's kind of out

1127
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,439
Speaker 3: there a little bit, so maybe y'all don't have too much,

1128
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:14,960
Speaker 3: you know, like this is their way to see theater.

1129
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 3: And I said to one of them after I was like, no,

1130
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 3: we got a lot of stuff to do. I was like, okay,

1131
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 3: I thought I was special out here. But yeah, it

1132
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 3: was like in a little farmhouse that he has. I

1133
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,080
Speaker 3: mean it was. It was obviously had to be very

1134
00:52:26,120 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 3: low tech, like there was no lights, like there was.

1135
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 2: Just like a light switch in a flashlight.

1136
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,360
Speaker 3: But yeah, it was wild, but I mean it was

1137
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 3: very weird doing it.

1138
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 2: Did you stay at Mandy's house overnight?

1139
00:52:38,000 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 3: I did? Oh my god, that was really cool. And

1140
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 3: also it was funny because my husband is in musical.

1141
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 3: I'm in a musical theater. My husband's really in a

1142
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 3: musical computer. I don't know how much trivia that Jimmy

1143
00:52:51,160 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 3: could answer, but.

1144
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,359
Speaker 2: Oh he could answer a lot, and I could answer almost.

1145
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 3: So I have not met anyone who knows more about

1146
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,839
Speaker 3: it than my husband, and so obviously this was mind

1147
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 3: blowing that we were staying it.

1148
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, of course.

1149
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 3: And then the first moment that we met him, he

1150
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:11,719
Speaker 3: came in to fix like a screen door, you know,

1151
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:15,759
Speaker 3: and he was just like complaining about the you know it,

1152
00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 3: will come help me with this thing, like you know

1153
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 3: what I mean. It wasn't like a there was no

1154
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 3: ceremony to it whatever. It was just like he needed

1155
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 3: to fix this door and he was just like and

1156
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 3: so that was nice to not be like that whole dance.

1157
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:33,800
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm so jealous.

1158
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:34,760
Speaker 3: That was exciting.

1159
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,479
Speaker 2: Well, is there anything before we play the game anything

1160
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,799
Speaker 2: else we should say about I fly? What is the

1161
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 2: scariest thing physically?

1162
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:47,919
Speaker 3: You've done the scariest thing physically I've done. I mean,

1163
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 3: I think a lot of people would be scared by

1164
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 3: playing rugby, which I've played for many years. Oh, that

1165
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 3: terrifies me, and it is scary. You do have to

1166
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 3: get over it. And I have stopped playing because.

1167
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 2: That's that's a rugby scar my arm playing rugby.

1168
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 3: WHOA, So that doesn't make it less carried.

1169
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:08,359
Speaker 2: Did the bone come out of your arm?

1170
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 3: It did not. But but this is an interesting fact.

1171
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 3: I was holding the ball like this with my elbow

1172
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 3: bent in front of me, and there's two bones in

1173
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 3: your forearm here, and the other player his skull hit

1174
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 3: the outer bone, but the outer bone didn't break. Oh,

1175
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 3: so much force was transferred to my arm that the

1176
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 3: inner bone broke. Whoa, I thought that was interesting.

1177
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 2: Wow, that's fascinating.

1178
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. And also I broke it into Mecula, California, Okay,

1179
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 3: and I don't know why, but I drove home by

1180
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 3: myself with a broken arm, with a broken arm, and

1181
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:43,879
Speaker 3: then checked into like hunting in hospital and Pasadena to have.

1182
00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:45,959
Speaker 2: It like that's like a two hour drive.

1183
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 3: It was like ninety minutes. I think I was in chock.

1184
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:51,839
Speaker 2: And did it? Were you in pain?

1185
00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 3: I was in some it was it was like in

1186
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,359
Speaker 3: pain if I moved it, but I was able to drive.

1187
00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:58,359
Speaker 3: I mean that must have been being in chock. But

1188
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 3: the thing is the game was still going lean. They

1189
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 3: were kind of like, oh, well, well we got to

1190
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 3: take care of yourself. Yeah. I mean there's an element

1191
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:07,399
Speaker 3: to that. Other I don't know what other scary things

1192
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 3: I've done? What what what are the things do we

1193
00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:12,320
Speaker 3: categorize scary?

1194
00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:15,280
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think. I mean, like cliff diving, cliff diving,

1195
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 2: rock climbing a lot of heights or where you're moving quickly.

1196
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 3: I haven't done a lot of climbing things because I

1197
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 3: don't feel my wrists and arms are strong enough. Dude,

1198
00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 3: like I did a bungee, not a zip line at

1199
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 3: a water.

1200
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 2: Park one okay, sure, but this.

1201
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 3: Was one where you hold on with your hands.

1202
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 2: Oh and you can just let go.

1203
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:47,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, whoa. I lost my grip immediately, Like I went

1204
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 3: out and like one meter away from where you step out,

1205
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 3: I just dropped straight down because I couldn't, like for

1206
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:57,760
Speaker 3: like presidential fitness.

1207
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 2: I could never do a pull up presidential fitness. Yeah,

1208
00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 2: what a bizarre thing.

1209
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 3: The president really cared about.

1210
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,320
Speaker 2: He wanted elementary schoolers to be ripped.

1211
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 3: I don't even know if they do that anymore.

1212
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder.

1213
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 3: I think it does date you if you're like, because

1214
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 3: it was like a mile and a half run, how

1215
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 3: many sit ups could you do and how many pull

1216
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:20,840
Speaker 3: ups could you do?

1217
00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 2: Right? And we were doing only a mile. I guess

1218
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 2: they didn't care about us as much.

1219
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 3: He was like, I want more into the sprinter type

1220
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 3: this year.

1221
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 2: This isn't a marathon anymore.

1222
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 3: I wonder which president stopped caring about that.

1223
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 2: I mean, if I had to guess some Clinton, maybe yeah. No,

1224
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 2: Clinton was my era and he was going for it. Oh,

1225
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 2: so I must.

1226
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 3: I don't know. You feel like you just petered out. Yeah,

1227
00:56:48,480 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 3: because I feel like the bushes would care.

1228
00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:53,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like they've got the baseball bullshit going

1229
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:57,239
Speaker 2: on or whatever. Yeah, so maybe it's still going.

1230
00:56:57,320 --> 00:56:59,919
Speaker 3: Let's just hope a yearly source of anxiety for Chill.

1231
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,719
Speaker 3: And I think, yeah, Presidential fitness.

1232
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 2: Test that miles seemed like a million miles. It seemed

1233
00:57:06,520 --> 00:57:11,920
Speaker 2: truly un undoable physically. Yeah, and now I'm like sure,

1234
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 2: I mean it would be annoying, Well.

1235
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 3: We could have I think I don't know if we

1236
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,160
Speaker 3: thought back then that like, oh I could just kind

1237
00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:23,520
Speaker 3: of walk it, right, I think now as adults you'd

1238
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 3: be like, ought be annoying, but like I could walk

1239
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 3: slash jog a mile if oh, very slowly, right, you know.

1240
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 3: But I think but also there was some kind of

1241
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 3: time pressure back then. It was like to pass the

1242
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 3: test you had to.

1243
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 2: Do under two hours.

1244
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and I think it would have been like

1245
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 3: under seven minutes or something that.

1246
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:46,439
Speaker 2: Under seven can't possibly be true. Under probably ten. Oh

1247
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 2: seven's a good mile. No, I mean, it's like it's

1248
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 2: a decent.

1249
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 3: But the thing is you always had some kid in

1250
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 3: your class that ran them mile in like five minutes.

1251
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,320
Speaker 2: Well, that person's a psychopath.

1252
00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 3: When we break I'm going to look up with the

1253
00:57:58,960 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 3: historical mile standard for the presidential fitness testmentscause I don't

1254
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 3: think it's ten.

1255
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 2: No, I feel like it was under ten. Was like

1256
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 2: you want to shoot for under that? But five of

1257
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 2: course you're an incredible runner. Yeah, this is this is

1258
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 2: what's going to break us up.

1259
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:17,440
Speaker 3: I just feel like ten it like a child should

1260
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 3: have more stamina than that.

1261
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 2: But my legs were probably each three. Yes, it's very difficult. Okay,

1262
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 2: well I think it's time. I cannot wait to do this.

1263
00:58:27,360 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 3: I yes, please let me know how.

1264
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 2: I really can't express you how excited I am about this.

1265
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 3: It's exciting. I think you have I think it's for

1266
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 3: two jumps or whatever. Okay, so I think unless you

1267
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 3: have some charm you can. I think you have to

1268
00:58:41,320 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 3: do both of them.

1269
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 2: I don't think it's okay like another person or show

1270
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 2: up another time.

1271
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,600
Speaker 3: Who knows it's probably some minimum wage Oh yeah, kid.

1272
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,040
Speaker 2: I remind myself of that every time I'm anywhere, Like

1273
00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 2: this person hates they don't.

1274
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:55,960
Speaker 3: Like the rules. I mean, also, do they care enough

1275
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:57,959
Speaker 3: to make sure all the safety measures are in place?

1276
00:58:57,960 --> 00:59:03,280
Speaker 3: Probably not? Goodbye? I mean, do you think Jimmy would

1277
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 3: do that.

1278
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 2: No way, he won't ride Space Mountain really. Oh, going

1279
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 2: to Disneyland with him not huge. But I enjoy roller

1280
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 2: coasters and stuff, so if if it were just us

1281
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 2: at Disneyland, it would be a nightmare. So we always

1282
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 2: have to bring other people who.

1283
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 3: So that someone goes on them with you, yea, and

1284
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 3: someone else talks with.

1285
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 2: Him, right, I think the most scary he'll go on

1286
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 2: Indiana Jones, which is very jerky and scary.

1287
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 3: Enough jerky to steal all those antiques. Yeah, it's very

1288
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 3: rude of leave them in their countries.

1289
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 2: Yes, exactly.

1290
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:39,720
Speaker 3: No, that is actually it has a back and forth

1291
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 3: nature that's tough on the back.

1292
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:47,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels unhealthy. But I love any roller coaster mostly. Oh,

1293
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 2: I don't like them as long as they don't like

1294
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:50,520
Speaker 2: I get dizzy, Like.

1295
00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 3: I don't I will. I don't think I'll ever go

1296
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 3: in that Guardian to the Galaxy, Oh, I mean or whatever.

1297
00:59:57,080 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 2: They they ruined. They ruined the.

1298
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 3: Vibe with the Guardians.

1299
01:00:02,200 --> 01:00:06,000
Speaker 2: Yes, it was a perfect ride. Yeah, it was actually spooky,

1300
01:00:06,320 --> 01:00:08,479
Speaker 2: and now it's like this weird thing where you listen

1301
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 2: to Van Halen. I mean it's still a fun sensation.

1302
01:00:12,600 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 2: But before it felt like you were among ghosts. It

1303
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 2: was very fun. Marvel Universe has ruined it my entire life.

1304
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 2: What am I talking about? Let's play a game. I

1305
01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 2: need a number between one and ten from you.

1306
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:27,080
Speaker 3: Eight.

1307
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 2: Okay, I have to do some light calculating. So right

1308
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 2: now you can promote, you can recommend, do whatever you want.

1309
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 3: Well, my special Chris Grace Ascot Johansson is now available

1310
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 3: on dropout dot tv, that is its own streaming service.

1311
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 3: You can sign up for the three day free trial

1312
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 3: and watch the special. But I think I'll actually find

1313
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 3: a lot of fun stuff on dropout to watch. And

1314
01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:52,240
Speaker 3: then my new show, it's called Sardines. I think I'm

1315
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 3: doing it at the Illsion here in Los Angeles. Have

1316
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 3: not settled the dates yet, but it will be in November,

1317
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 3: I believe, and then next year I'll be in Wisconsin

1318
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 3: in January, Portland Center Stage in May and June, and

1319
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 3: this is all doing Scarlett Rohnson, and then in July

1320
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 3: of twenty twenty five, I'll be at the Kennedy Center. Oh,

1321
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 3: Chris Grace is Scarlet Jronhansson.

1322
01:01:13,760 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

1323
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it'll be really fun, so exciting. I'm very excited.

1324
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 3: It feels very That's the one when I tell like

1325
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 3: people in my family, I'm like, well, I'm doing the

1326
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:23,240
Speaker 3: Kennedy Center, and they're like, oh, you must actually be

1327
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 3: good at this. Right finally proof, Well, like I just

1328
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 3: shot over the in the spring, I was in a

1329
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 3: Shonda Rhymes Netflix show. And the fact that now if

1330
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:34,959
Speaker 3: I say Shonda Rymes are like ooh, I mean.

1331
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 2: It's getting harder and harder in the television business to

1332
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 2: be impressive to anyone because no one's heard of any show.

1333
01:01:41,560 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 2: So these few remaining things that everyone's heard of, Yes,

1334
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 2: that's the goal.

1335
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:50,120
Speaker 3: My family isn't like, ooh do plus brothers? Yes, I am,

1336
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 3: I am. You know I love that.

1337
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 2: But right right, my parents have been I mean, they're

1338
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:59,439
Speaker 2: bored before plus.

1339
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 3: We're gonna play non plus, We're.

1340
01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,480
Speaker 2: Gonna play a game called Gift or a Curse. Okay,

1341
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 2: I'm going to name three things. You're gonna tell me

1342
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,880
Speaker 2: if there are a gift or a curse and why,

1343
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:09,240
Speaker 2: and then I'll tell you if you're right or wrong

1344
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 2: because there are correct answers and you can lose the game.

1345
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 3: Oh okay, and each individually is a gift or a curse?

1346
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 2: Yes, exactly.

1347
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 3: Okay.

1348
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:18,960
Speaker 2: Number one this is from a listener named Andrew. Andrew

1349
01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 2: suggested gift or a curse, pre installed tombstones that have

1350
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 2: your birth year but an empty death year.

1351
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 3: I mean, I think this is like literally a curse,

1352
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 3: Like this is literally asking for it, you know, I mean,

1353
01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 3: this is this is I don't think there could be

1354
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 3: a stronger invitation to death then going like establishing your tombstone.

1355
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:49,280
Speaker 3: And so I think it's actually like genuinely a curse

1356
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 3: and also presumptuous of you to decide the design of

1357
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 3: your tombstone. That is clearly something left to others. Controlling behavior,

1358
01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 3: very controlling. Well, you're wrong.

1359
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:04,200
Speaker 2: This is a gift in every possible way. I love

1360
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 2: these things. First of all, I'm trying to get into

1361
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:08,720
Speaker 2: the mind of the person that's doing it. They're saying

1362
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 2: with their family, you don't get to be involved with this.

1363
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 2: I get to choose the tomb soon. And it's probably

1364
01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 2: a little spooky experience where you're like, I'm looking at

1365
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:19,439
Speaker 2: this thing that's gonna be above my body. Yes, then

1366
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,280
Speaker 2: they install it in the graveyard or I think we

1367
01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:24,600
Speaker 2: should only call cemetery's graveyards. Let's get rid of the

1368
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 2: word cemetery. Graveyards are Morphis.

1369
01:03:26,480 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 3: There's not a distinction.

1370
01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 2: No, I think it's Oh, I wonder, is I wonder

1371
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 2: if there's like a fine line between the two cemetery

1372
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 2: does seem.

1373
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 3: Fewed between the American Graveyard Association and the National Cemetery Families.

1374
01:03:38,120 --> 01:03:43,600
Speaker 3: Mister graveyard, it's like Adidas and Puma.

1375
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. No, they're installing it in the graveyard, and

1376
01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:51,160
Speaker 2: now anyone that passes by is getting this weird feeling

1377
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 2: of like, oh, what is the future hold for me?

1378
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 2: A nice reminder of mortality and the mystery of mortality.

1379
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,280
Speaker 3: Don't they get that from the other two, know.

1380
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 2: Because everybody else are like, well, those are just skeletons.

1381
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 2: But this thing, there's the fog of the future in

1382
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 2: this person's life, Okay. And I love that feeling.

1383
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:09,640
Speaker 3: I love that that is the one that tips them

1384
01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 3: over into thinking about mortality as they walk through a graveyard.

1385
01:04:14,160 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 3: I think I would only be on board with doing

1386
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:19,440
Speaker 3: this if you get the ones that have like video

1387
01:04:19,480 --> 01:04:25,360
Speaker 3: clips installed. It has to be your whatever IMDb thinks

1388
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 3: you're real is, so it has to be on there

1389
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 3: because then you can still you can still book absolutely

1390
01:04:34,280 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 3: booked before the last you know, think of it this way.

1391
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,520
Speaker 3: Bridger and I made this up. I came up with this.

1392
01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 3: You're living in the dash. You can still book when

1393
01:04:42,880 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 3: you're in the dash.

1394
01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 2: That's what casting directors say. Yeah, you still have the dash, right.

1395
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 3: That song is about that you can still get.

1396
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 2: Cast, and casting directors are constantly pouring over graveyards to

1397
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 2: make sure who's alive and who's dead.

1398
01:04:56,280 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 3: Also, casters are constantly thinking about how actors can get

1399
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 3: more cast, like they that we are the first people

1400
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 3: on their minds.

1401
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,560
Speaker 2: Okay, well you got one wrong. Okay, that's got a sting,

1402
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 2: but we'll move on here. Number two. This is from

1403
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 2: someone named brendan gift or a curse sleeping with socks on.

1404
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 3: I mean, this is not for me. I don't like it,

1405
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 3: so I think I'll have I don't like. I almost

1406
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:29,280
Speaker 3: want to say that the option is potentially a gift,

1407
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 3: but I would never do it. So I guess I'm

1408
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:34,360
Speaker 3: pro choice. This is the only thing I'm pro choice about.

1409
01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 2: You've been very clear about it.

1410
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 3: Yes, that's my special is like a total like a

1411
01:05:42,760 --> 01:05:49,439
Speaker 3: pro life special. I'm gonna say that. I Oh god,

1412
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:50,960
Speaker 3: I don't know. I just I'm gonna say it's a

1413
01:05:50,960 --> 01:05:52,840
Speaker 3: curse because I don't like it, like I actually don't

1414
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 3: like it annoys me. So the only time it's a

1415
01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:59,960
Speaker 3: gift if it is of like you your heat broke

1416
01:06:01,840 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 3: and then you are living old style with like a

1417
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 3: nightgown and like one of those long sleeping caps. Then

1418
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 3: you gotta have the socks for me personally, there's a curse.

1419
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 2: Another one wrong, horrifying you, and you really were getting

1420
01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 2: close to saying it was a gift, and then you

1421
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 2: describe this beautiful sleeping outfit that should have really sent

1422
01:06:22,240 --> 01:06:26,439
Speaker 2: you in the right direction. The cap, the nightgown, Yeah,

1423
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:28,280
Speaker 2: that's my nightly uniform.

1424
01:06:28,400 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 3: And when you have a little feather that goes up

1425
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 3: in the air.

1426
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 2: This is no I love. Look. It depends on the

1427
01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:41,680
Speaker 2: time of the year, but yes, during the winter, even

1428
01:06:41,920 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 2: I've got the heat on, I want the socks on

1429
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:43,960
Speaker 2: my feet.

1430
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 3: So coy, thinner lad than I bet we have the

1431
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 3: same shape feet. I'm gonna bet that in Vegas when

1432
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 3: I'm there, odds are. I do love not to be

1433
01:06:59,480 --> 01:07:01,720
Speaker 3: too La centric, but I love in La when it

1434
01:07:01,720 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 3: starts getting cold at night and you get to put

1435
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 3: on your little sweater. Oh so nice. So I guess

1436
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 3: socks are like sweaters for your feet. I mean, of

1437
01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 3: course I did recently, like two days ago, this podcast

1438
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:20,120
Speaker 3: just gonna revealed that I have a shopping problem, I

1439
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 3: which I do. I bought a not a snuggie, but

1440
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 3: like an oversize Waterburger branded.

1441
01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 2: What I've never heard of this?

1442
01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 3: What? No, have you been to Texas? No?

1443
01:07:33,880 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 2: Or no, I've been to Austin, then there, what about?

1444
01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:38,240
Speaker 3: I grew up in Houston, so Waterburger is like a

1445
01:07:38,280 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 3: famous burger chain there. I had a lot of fun merch.

1446
01:07:41,600 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 3: Gotta say, beloved burger chain. You know, similar feelings to

1447
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 3: the way that we feel about in and out.

1448
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I never heard of this. A lot of Hamburgers.

1449
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 2: I'm in the scene.

1450
01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 3: Yet. Anyway, I bought a snuggie type thing that is

1451
01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:05,360
Speaker 3: extremely warm, and it's the only size that comes in

1452
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 3: is five X. So it's meant for like, you know,

1453
01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:12,080
Speaker 3: the oversized thing. You you get in on the couch

1454
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:14,680
Speaker 3: and you know, and you watch It's a wonderful life

1455
01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 3: or whatever.

1456
01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 2: I mean, this is right up my alley.

1457
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:19,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so it's so I understand why you're the

1458
01:08:19,320 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 3: socks is a gift.

1459
01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, so you've gotten zero points so far

1460
01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 2: and that sucks for everybody. Ah, this is your final chance.

1461
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,680
Speaker 2: This is from a listener named Beth, and Beth suggested

1462
01:08:30,760 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 2: gift to a curse peeling a potato with a knife

1463
01:08:34,080 --> 01:08:35,120
Speaker 2: instead of a peeler.

1464
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but this is absolutely a curse that is insane.

1465
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 3: What do you on PK duty in the army? Like,

1466
01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:42,599
Speaker 3: what are you?

1467
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 4: Like?

1468
01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 3: You've been You're in the corner and over a ten

1469
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:48,920
Speaker 3: bucket because you pissed off the sergeant somehow, and you're

1470
01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:53,480
Speaker 3: in like a Beetle Bailey cartoon Like, uh no, potato

1471
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:58,759
Speaker 3: peeler for sure, because first of all, you're always taught

1472
01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:02,360
Speaker 3: as a kid to cut away from you. Sure right, yes,

1473
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 3: every time on TV when people peel things with a knife,

1474
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:07,559
Speaker 3: like an apple or potato, they're always cutting it towards themselves.

1475
01:09:07,560 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 3: They're always doing this rotake. Just it does sounds fay.

1476
01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:14,839
Speaker 2: I mean when you watch, it's like that looks satisfying.

1477
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, the is no way. I mean, first of all,

1478
01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 3: eat the skin. It's got lots of vitamins. Sure. Also,

1479
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 3: we invented potato vegetable potato pillars for a reason. Don't

1480
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:29,920
Speaker 3: deny the validity of that person's contribution to the world.

1481
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:34,599
Speaker 3: I can argue against it from the Alton Brown school

1482
01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 3: of you should never have devices that only do one

1483
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:40,639
Speaker 3: thing in your kitchen. But whatever, Alton Brown's time is over,

1484
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:42,879
Speaker 3: do you get canceled?

1485
01:09:42,920 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 2: No?

1486
01:09:43,080 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 3: I just haven't heard from Alton Brown in what five years?

1487
01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 2: So, like, right, I haven't either, Alton reach out?

1488
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, come on, Alton?

1489
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:53,120
Speaker 2: Ah? Well, I mean what I mean? What is there

1490
01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:55,760
Speaker 2: to say at this point, Chris, You've lost the game completely.

1491
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 2: It's a gift, Oh my god, because it's cool as hell.

1492
01:10:02,000 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 2: What could easily be cooler than peeling a potato with

1493
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:08,200
Speaker 2: a knife. You do that off the back of a motorcycle.

1494
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:11,160
Speaker 2: You've got a cigarette in your mouth. There's there's nothing cooler.

1495
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:15,160
Speaker 3: I don't buy this answer coming from Bridger Wineger.

1496
01:10:15,360 --> 01:10:16,799
Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

1497
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:20,599
Speaker 3: The Sultan of Cool? The movie Easy Rider was based

1498
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:25,719
Speaker 3: on Bridger Winderger's young life just riding two motorcycles across

1499
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:26,719
Speaker 3: the American heartland.

1500
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 2: I'm in a leather vest right.

1501
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 3: Now, potatoes throwing them into a pot for a midnight campfire.

1502
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,840
Speaker 2: Stew, I don't know what your problem is with cowboys,

1503
01:10:36,840 --> 01:10:38,280
Speaker 2: bikers and badasses.

1504
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 3: But that's your lifestyle.

1505
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:44,800
Speaker 2: But you lost the game in the most horrifying way.

1506
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:46,599
Speaker 3: Wow, how many people have gone zero for three?

1507
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 2: It's very a very small group. I mean, I think

1508
01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 2: smaller than even I think there are more winners of

1509
01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 2: all three for three. Yeah, so you're in a very

1510
01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 2: elite group. Well there you go, although you're making it

1511
01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 2: less elite by joining it. Yes, it's like getting bigger

1512
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:03,040
Speaker 2: and that's a shame.

1513
01:11:04,439 --> 01:11:05,479
Speaker 3: That's what my mom said.

1514
01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 2: Your mother, I hope she's listening.

1515
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:15,719
Speaker 3: From the grave. I mean her, she's got both dates

1516
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 3: on her grave stones. Put it that way.

1517
01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm so soon. Okay, moving on. This is the final

1518
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 2: segment of the podcast. It's called I Said No Emails.

1519
01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:28,559
Speaker 2: People are writing into I Said No Gifts at gmail

1520
01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 2: dot com to beg for answers to all sorts of

1521
01:11:31,520 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 2: life problems.

1522
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:34,200
Speaker 3: I see advice, advice.

1523
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, all sorts of advice. Sometimes it's about gifts. But

1524
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,840
Speaker 2: I encourage them to just bring their problems to me. Wow,

1525
01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 2: because I know what's best. Okay, and my guest always

1526
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 2: knows what's best.

1527
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 3: Wow.

1528
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 2: So we helpe me answer a question. Sure, Okay, this

1529
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:50,840
Speaker 2: is dear bridger and presumably delightful guest presumed correctly. My

1530
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:53,679
Speaker 2: cousin is getting married soon, and she's being very traditional

1531
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:56,360
Speaker 2: about the whole thing. People are always writing in and

1532
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,680
Speaker 2: just immediately throwing family members under the boss on this

1533
01:11:58,720 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 2: podcast RSVP.

1534
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:02,120
Speaker 3: Because there's a little shade in there.

1535
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my god, there's a lot traditionally. Exactly when

1536
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 2: I RSVP to her wedding for my fiance and I

1537
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:12,599
Speaker 2: I bought a set of bowls from her, quickly selling

1538
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 2: out gift registry as someone does Taylor Swift concert, she

1539
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:19,800
Speaker 2: invited me to her bridle shower, an event I have

1540
01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:22,800
Speaker 2: never known anyone else my age to actually have. Oh

1541
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:25,880
Speaker 2: my god, she's really going after this person. And I

1542
01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:28,040
Speaker 2: of course didn't go because I'm not going to travel

1543
01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:31,040
Speaker 2: three hours to New Jersey for that. My mother, however,

1544
01:12:31,160 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 2: did attend the bridle shower.

1545
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 3: Wait, wait, is this is her sister?

1546
01:12:34,760 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 2: This is her cousin cousin?

1547
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:40,320
Speaker 3: Okay, still three hours is not that long a drive.

1548
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 2: You drove two with a broken arm, that's right. My mother, however,

1549
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 2: did attend the bridle shower. She brought a shower gift

1550
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:52,600
Speaker 2: silverware on behalf of the whole immediate family. Okay, it

1551
01:12:52,640 --> 01:12:54,719
Speaker 2: seems like a small thing for the whole immediate family.

1552
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 2: But that's another story set. Yeah, it's where we buy

1553
01:12:58,479 --> 01:12:58,800
Speaker 2: it from.

1554
01:12:58,880 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 3: I recently was research genuine sterling silver. Oh for the home.

1555
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:07,160
Speaker 2: You do have a major shot. I'm concerned.

1556
01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:09,680
Speaker 3: I didn't buy anything. It's so expensive.

1557
01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:10,559
Speaker 2: How much is it?

1558
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:13,960
Speaker 3: I mean, I forget his name. He's an Indian actor

1559
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 3: that was in Mean Girls, the movie. He has a

1560
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 3: YouTube channel about living well and he suggests buying a

1561
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 3: single piece at a time. Oh, and having just kind

1562
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,920
Speaker 3: of a mismatched said, I'd find it charming, and that's

1563
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:28,519
Speaker 3: probably the only way I could get into this hobby.

1564
01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:29,679
Speaker 2: That would drive me crazy.

1565
01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 3: But one fork is like seventy five dollars.

1566
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:34,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, that would I'd lose

1567
01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 2: my mind.

1568
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 3: Anyway. If the mother brought a whole set of silver, I.

1569
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 2: Mean that is could be thousands of dollars.

1570
01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 3: So that was on behalf of the entire mother and

1571
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,200
Speaker 3: her whole unit. Yes, okay, got it.

1572
01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:46,720
Speaker 2: At the bridle shower, there was an enormous pile of

1573
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:49,519
Speaker 2: gifts that my aunt, the bride's mother had wrapped herself

1574
01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:53,160
Speaker 2: on behalf of other people, excuse me right? Included in

1575
01:13:53,200 --> 01:13:55,240
Speaker 2: this pile were the bulls I had purchased for her

1576
01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:58,479
Speaker 2: as a wedding gift, with absolutely no indication they were

1577
01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 2: for the shower. There were all also several other gifts

1578
01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:03,639
Speaker 2: from the registry from other family members of mine who

1579
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:07,280
Speaker 2: were not in attendance. Clearly my aunt brought any gift

1580
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:09,640
Speaker 2: sent from the registry by people who were invited to

1581
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:12,439
Speaker 2: the shower. You should know that my aunt is a

1582
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 2: very volatile person with anger problems. What does that have

1583
01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:21,160
Speaker 2: to do with any of this? Am I correct that

1584
01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 2: this is completely insane? Do I need to buy another

1585
01:14:23,400 --> 01:14:25,599
Speaker 2: wedding gift? Do I need to write that I hope

1586
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:28,679
Speaker 2: she likes her wedding gift of bulls in a card?

1587
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:30,840
Speaker 2: Do I run away forever and never speak to these

1588
01:14:30,840 --> 01:14:33,080
Speaker 2: people again? What do I say to them? Please help?

1589
01:14:33,120 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 2: And they didn't even sign their name as an anonymous

1590
01:14:35,120 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 2: person because they're just attacking the entire family here.

1591
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:41,559
Speaker 3: And I'm so curious why the aunt got the presence

1592
01:14:41,600 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 3: to begin with. Maybe they live near the or live

1593
01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:50,200
Speaker 3: with the interesting so, because let's say they're on Amazon

1594
01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:52,599
Speaker 3: doing a registry right, and you're just saying, like, give

1595
01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:57,439
Speaker 3: me these bulls chip them off to the couple, right right? Also,

1596
01:14:57,520 --> 01:14:59,920
Speaker 3: do you when you I mean we registered an ami?

1597
01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 3: I can't remember. Were we getting the are you married? No?

1598
01:15:05,160 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 3: When is it going to happen?

1599
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:08,559
Speaker 2: I mean if I can get some silverware out of it?

1600
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:11,840
Speaker 3: I can't remember if you start getting the gifts as

1601
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:13,640
Speaker 3: soon as people buy them, or if they're sort of

1602
01:15:13,680 --> 01:15:15,639
Speaker 3: held to a certain I think you get them as

1603
01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 3: they the purchased. Okay, So I think in the this

1604
01:15:19,520 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 3: is my guess. I could be wrong. I think in

1605
01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:22,160
Speaker 3: the weeks and months leading up you start. I mean

1606
01:15:22,200 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 3: obviously do, because this ant had it before the wedding. Right,

1607
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:27,479
Speaker 3: So how did the ant get hold of all these gifts?

1608
01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:27,840
Speaker 3: You know?

1609
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 2: Maybe she has a really big porch, yeah.

1610
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:34,799
Speaker 3: Or a pork pirate? She said the aunt was volatile.

1611
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:40,360
Speaker 3: Pirates are volatile. Well, I think you would be okay

1612
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 3: not getting another gift.

1613
01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:45,160
Speaker 2: She clearly doesn't have a very good relationship with this person.

1614
01:15:45,200 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 2: She's writing emails about her to podcasts. Yeah, she doesn't care.

1615
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 1: You.

1616
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 3: Also, have you heard the thing that you have a

1617
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:54,559
Speaker 3: year to give someone present after the wedding?

1618
01:15:54,600 --> 01:15:56,160
Speaker 2: No? I shouldn't have heard that, because now.

1619
01:15:56,000 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 3: That's going to that is. The thing that gets said

1620
01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 3: is that you actually don't have to get a present

1621
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 3: in by the wedding date.

1622
01:16:02,120 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 2: You can just let it haunt you for a year.

1623
01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:05,800
Speaker 3: For a year, you could, like the registry will still

1624
01:16:05,840 --> 01:16:08,679
Speaker 3: be open, interesting, you can you can get in laid

1625
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:10,519
Speaker 3: on it, so she could kind of ride it out

1626
01:16:10,560 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 3: and see if there's any reaction and then maybe throwing

1627
01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:18,639
Speaker 3: another little custer, you know, because every registry has got

1628
01:16:18,640 --> 01:16:19,679
Speaker 3: some real cheap items.

1629
01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 2: Oh look, I'm doing sort of lowest to highest. I

1630
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:26,920
Speaker 2: don't care who you are, right.

1631
01:16:27,080 --> 01:16:29,439
Speaker 3: I always think that's funny when the when the thing

1632
01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 3: that you bought was like one of eight steak knives,

1633
01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 3: and then now they just have.

1634
01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:38,559
Speaker 2: One to peel potato.

1635
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:42,880
Speaker 3: That's right. It looks so cool. If you're listening only

1636
01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:46,200
Speaker 3: on audio, I can't describe how cool bred it looks.

1637
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 2: I have four cigarettes in my mouth right now.

1638
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 3: It's so intimidating.

1639
01:16:51,520 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 2: I'm kind of the original cool guy. Uh No, I

1640
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 2: think I agree, And I almost think, why bother with

1641
01:16:58,360 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 2: this cousin? Get rid of them.

1642
01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:01,919
Speaker 3: That's such an escalation.

1643
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:04,320
Speaker 2: Well, this person asked for it, But do you think

1644
01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:05,160
Speaker 2: they still do the same.

1645
01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 3: They're still going to the Oh no, there are little

1646
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:08,360
Speaker 3: trepidations about going to the wedding.

1647
01:17:08,600 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, do I need to?

1648
01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:12,880
Speaker 3: No, that's fine. You know why because there's even people

1649
01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:15,839
Speaker 3: that come to the wedding and bring they still physically

1650
01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 3: bring the gift. That day, there'll be a table, and

1651
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:23,960
Speaker 3: so the bride will have no idea that you will

1652
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:26,360
Speaker 3: have no way to even think that you've shirked your

1653
01:17:26,360 --> 01:17:30,519
Speaker 3: responsibility until three hundred and sixty six days later. Right,

1654
01:17:30,960 --> 01:17:33,560
Speaker 3: So at that point you're probably not even talking to

1655
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:34,400
Speaker 3: his cousin anymore.

1656
01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:35,200
Speaker 2: No, it's over.

1657
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:36,479
Speaker 3: I wouldn't wory about it.

1658
01:17:36,479 --> 01:17:38,719
Speaker 2: Just go and enjoy the And also, you're setting yourself

1659
01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 2: up to be to have the real high ground when

1660
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:44,320
Speaker 2: the cousin confronts you and you say, actually, I did

1661
01:17:44,360 --> 01:17:46,679
Speaker 2: send you a wedding gift. This is your angry mom's fault.

1662
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's I think you want to avoid

1663
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 3: that completely, especially since they said that she was molotile.

1664
01:17:54,320 --> 01:17:56,840
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, it depends on the day you want

1665
01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 2: to be dealing with a screaming ant.

1666
01:17:59,000 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 4: Man.

1667
01:17:59,280 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 3: If you and Jimmy ever get married, the podcast audience

1668
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,160
Speaker 3: is gonna hop on that registry because it's so on

1669
01:18:07,280 --> 01:18:08,440
Speaker 3: brand for the podcast.

1670
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:11,360
Speaker 2: Now you're really selling me on the idea of marriage.

1671
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean this is the reason, right, there's two

1672
01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:16,600
Speaker 3: reasons why. Well, one is now it just fits the

1673
01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:20,280
Speaker 3: theme so perfectly because you'll say I said there. It'll

1674
01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:23,519
Speaker 3: be like there'd be a special sub series called I

1675
01:18:23,520 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 3: said there's no registry, and then you'll surreptitiously say the

1676
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:31,400
Speaker 3: Amazon link at the end of every episode, and your fans,

1677
01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:33,920
Speaker 3: I think, will instantly go and buy.

1678
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:36,200
Speaker 2: All those Okay, I'm considering marriage.

1679
01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:38,240
Speaker 3: These are the two big reasons. That's one and the

1680
01:18:38,280 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 3: other one this is genuine. The other reason to get

1681
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:43,960
Speaker 3: married is it's so weird. I'm sure people tell you

1682
01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:45,960
Speaker 3: this all the time, but like it is very weird

1683
01:18:46,040 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 3: that you make this public decoration of the relationship and

1684
01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 3: then the next time you have a big fight, it'll

1685
01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:56,719
Speaker 3: be like, oh, we just like went through that whole thing,

1686
01:18:57,439 --> 01:19:00,040
Speaker 3: and there is like social pressure to be like we

1687
01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:02,240
Speaker 3: made a commitment, Like now we just we made a

1688
01:19:02,240 --> 01:19:04,320
Speaker 3: commitment to those hundred people too.

1689
01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 2: Right, they're counting on us to be their favorite characters.

1690
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:11,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's an interesting like village Uh peer pressure.

1691
01:19:11,760 --> 01:19:14,400
Speaker 3: Oh that does does appeal to you.

1692
01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:17,200
Speaker 2: No, the smallest fight, I say I'll leave, I'll walk

1693
01:19:17,200 --> 01:19:20,439
Speaker 2: out the door. This thing means nothing to me.

1694
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:23,559
Speaker 3: I'm sure you don't have dramatic fights at all. Oh,

1695
01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:28,479
Speaker 3: we have dramatic I think anybody. Eric and I are

1696
01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:32,960
Speaker 3: both have a background coming from the theater. So our

1697
01:19:33,000 --> 01:19:35,000
Speaker 3: fights are are theatrical.

1698
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:38,280
Speaker 2: Albums are theatrical because Jim is a theatrical person and

1699
01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:41,759
Speaker 2: I'm someone who buries their feelings until the absolute worst

1700
01:19:41,760 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 2: moment and then they all come out. So it's a

1701
01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:48,639
Speaker 2: it's a combination. Yes, but we're all safe, that's right,

1702
01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:53,559
Speaker 2: and you know we're doing fine. But did we answer

1703
01:19:53,640 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 2: the question?

1704
01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:58,679
Speaker 3: I think lay low, Okay, let it, let it ride,

1705
01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:00,719
Speaker 3: and just go and have a good time at the wedding.

1706
01:20:01,320 --> 01:20:03,479
Speaker 3: And I think you'll be fine. That's my I guess.

1707
01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:06,920
Speaker 3: I think maybe look into your unresolved issues where you

1708
01:20:07,000 --> 01:20:12,479
Speaker 3: judge everyone. I know some very strong opinions about people

1709
01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:13,479
Speaker 3: in your family.

1710
01:20:13,720 --> 01:20:16,280
Speaker 2: Well, take a ride to New Jersey.

1711
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:19,920
Speaker 3: Well that I actually do think if you're I don't

1712
01:20:19,920 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 3: think bridle shower is like mid tier obligation. But three

1713
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 3: hours is also not that long. No, it's a little trip,

1714
01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,519
Speaker 3: like three hours. If she's in New Jersey, three hours

1715
01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:33,639
Speaker 3: from like three hours from where they are in New Jersey.

1716
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 3: You could also still be New Jersey.

1717
01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 2: That's true, you know, Yeah, where is this person coming

1718
01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:38,880
Speaker 2: from that it's three hours to New Jersey.

1719
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:40,960
Speaker 3: I mean they could be coming from the from Greenwich

1720
01:20:41,040 --> 01:20:44,000
Speaker 3: Village and it's two hours to get to the Hollandic

1721
01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 3: you know. So, I mean, you know what, I think,

1722
01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:51,760
Speaker 3: get some clarity for yourself on how you really feel

1723
01:20:51,800 --> 01:20:54,320
Speaker 3: about these people. Because if you don't want to drive

1724
01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:58,000
Speaker 3: three hours to go to the bridle shower, like maybe

1725
01:20:58,000 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 3: this whole maybe just go to this wedding and then

1726
01:21:00,200 --> 01:21:01,360
Speaker 3: just cut him.

1727
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 2: Off, cut him off for good. I support that. I mean,

1728
01:21:05,040 --> 01:21:12,040
Speaker 2: this podcast is about yes, change your number, change your name. Wow,

1729
01:21:12,160 --> 01:21:15,280
Speaker 2: we answered it perfectly perfect, Chris. I mean, You've given

1730
01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:17,840
Speaker 2: me such a thoughtful, beautiful gift. I'm thrilled. I mean,

1731
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:19,960
Speaker 2: this is such a rare moment on this podcast.

1732
01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:23,760
Speaker 3: I'm so excited to hear how this goes. Oh my god,

1733
01:21:23,800 --> 01:21:25,320
Speaker 3: maybe they have a thing where they like shoot a

1734
01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:27,439
Speaker 3: video of it. Oh and that could be some bonus content.

1735
01:21:27,520 --> 01:21:29,759
Speaker 2: I can at least drag thee there to film me. Yeah,

1736
01:21:30,120 --> 01:21:30,880
Speaker 2: some boord.

1737
01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:33,680
Speaker 3: French Because you said, Jim wouldn't do it.

1738
01:21:33,800 --> 01:21:34,720
Speaker 2: Well, he's in New York.

1739
01:21:35,040 --> 01:21:36,960
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, Oh you mean you're doing this like soon?

1740
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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course. This is what happened the next year, stood.

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01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:45,439
Speaker 3: The open until nine tonight. Just head over there. That's

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01:21:45,479 --> 01:21:47,400
Speaker 3: admirable because a lot of times I get a gift

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01:21:47,520 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 3: voucher like this and it just sits.

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01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, of course, not this one. This is the

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01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:52,679
Speaker 2: thrill of a lifetime.

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01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:53,160
Speaker 3: Excellent.

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01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:55,040
Speaker 2: Well, thank you for being here. I've had such a

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01:21:55,080 --> 01:21:58,520
Speaker 2: great time. It's been such a blast listener. The podcast

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01:21:58,640 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 2: is over. Hopefully you've learned something or taken something away

1750
01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:06,880
Speaker 2: to make your life more meaningful. The show is over.

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01:22:07,160 --> 01:22:15,799
Speaker 2: Get going, I love you, goodbye. I said No Gifts

1752
01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 2: is an exactly right production. It's produced by our dear

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01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:22,559
Speaker 2: friend Analise Nelson, and it's beautifully mixed by Ben Holliday.

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01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 2: And we couldn't do it without our guest booker, Patrick Kottner.

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01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:30,519
Speaker 2: The theme song, of course, could only come from miracle

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01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:34,520
Speaker 2: worker Amy Mann. You must follow the show on Instagram

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01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 2: at I said no Gifts, I don't want to hear

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01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:38,800
Speaker 2: any excuses. That's where you get to see pictures of

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01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:41,040
Speaker 2: all these gorgeous gifts. I'm getting. And don't you want

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01:22:41,080 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 2: to see pictures of the gifts I invit?

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Speaker 3: Did you hear?

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01:22:48,520 --> 01:22:53,639
Speaker 1: Thun? A man myself perfectly clear? But you're I guessed Tom.

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01:22:56,640 --> 01:23:02,639
Speaker 1: You gotta come to me empty, And I said, no, guest,

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01:23:02,960 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 1: your presence is presents enough. I already had too much stuff,

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01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 1: So how do you dare to surbey me?