Speaker 1: The big question today would be could you get over this?
Speaker 1: Could you forgive this guy for what he.
Speaker 2: Did on this date? Let us know.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's your Second Date Update podcast with Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for finding us. And before we.
Speaker 1: Start, we always love to highlight your comments because they
Speaker 1: mean a lot to us. It's awesome that you interact
Speaker 1: and let us know how you're feeling. So what do
Speaker 1: you see, Alexis Oh?
Speaker 3: I saw one from TJ Luxembourg who said I like
Speaker 3: to listen to you guys in the morning on my
Speaker 3: way to work, and all I have to say is
Speaker 3: sometimes I think my past dates were weird, but due
Speaker 3: to your second Date updates, I think they might be normal.
Speaker 1: Seriously, honestly, you know true, I will say that online
Speaker 1: dating has given us endless supply of people with crazy stories.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: Someone on my stream yesterday I mentioned the whole reason
Speaker 4: they listened because one time they were flipping the channels
Speaker 4: and they heard about the.
Speaker 5: Guy using dress like a dinosaur on his dates, stomping legs. Yes,
Speaker 5: I was hood on your show after that. Thanks for
Speaker 5: having awful dating lives.
Speaker 2: Yeah, seriously, and if you ever want to help.
Speaker 1: You can't go to our website. It's Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: dot com. And there's a little less submit button there. Yes,
Speaker 1: share away, and let's get your second date started, the.
Speaker 5: Second date of day. We really need to get a
Speaker 5: victory today, Okay, not just for our listener, but for
Speaker 5: ourselves too.
Speaker 2: Couse, I'll always take a victory.
Speaker 5: Brook's going through some deep ish right now with her life.
Speaker 5: Jose and I tried to high five in the break
Speaker 5: room and miss ombarrassing. It's a sad moment. And then
Speaker 5: Alexis's spray tan only covered three quarters of her body
Speaker 5: this week.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's hard to get my back on my own and.
Speaker 5: That's better than usual, by the way. Yeah, it's a mess,
Speaker 5: and we're all a little down and out right now,
Speaker 5: including Tiffany, who's on the phone because she's having trouble
Speaker 5: getting a guy to ask her out again. Tiffany, if
Speaker 5: you could describe your mood right now using one emoji,
Speaker 5: what emoji would it be?
Speaker 6: Probably that one that's like the dejected sad face, squinty eyes.
Speaker 5: Oh, the one that's drooling.
Speaker 6: Not that one.
Speaker 5: Maybe asking emojis wasn't the best way to start Tiffany,
Speaker 5: but maybe instead tell us about the guy that you
Speaker 5: want us to contact. Who's he?
Speaker 6: Yeah, so Mike. We met on an app and I
Speaker 6: thought it was really funny. Like one thing I remember
Speaker 6: from his profile is that he liked to take the
Speaker 6: scenic route.
Speaker 5: You know, That's what he wrote as his like bio
Speaker 5: a little tagline.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I thought that was kind of cute.
Speaker 5: It takes a long time to do stuff that most
Speaker 5: people get done in a short amount.
Speaker 1: Of I feel like he's just lated everything.
Speaker 6: It sounds like, well, I mean, it's less room for discovery,
Speaker 6: like is he later? Is be more just like a
Speaker 6: really present soak up time with people.
Speaker 7: Like me?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, what did you guys do on your date?
Speaker 6: Well, so we talked a lot before our dates. Like
Speaker 6: I'm I'm not someone who just like dates a lot
Speaker 6: of people. I'm the one at a time kind of person,
Speaker 6: and I wanted to really get to know him before
Speaker 6: we went out. So we talked a lot, and.
Speaker 5: He takes the scenic roud. Even setting up a first date,
Speaker 5: it takes a long time.
Speaker 6: Maybe maybe I'm a scenic rout kind of person myself.
Speaker 5: But ok so what do you guys talk about?
Speaker 6: We talked about all sorts of things and we had
Speaker 6: really good conversation and then he asked me out, and well,
Speaker 6: I didn't tell you guys this because I know it's
Speaker 6: like technically second date update, but we actually have been
Speaker 6: out twice. So the first time was happy hour and
Speaker 6: I just like wanted to talk to him more so
Speaker 6: when he asked me how the second time, I went
Speaker 6: and he asked me to go back to his place
Speaker 6: watch movie and I did, and oh, stay the night,
Speaker 6: And then you.
Speaker 2: Did stay the night.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Nice.
Speaker 7: Wow.
Speaker 6: It was just like one of those things where when
Speaker 6: we were at his place, it just felt like we
Speaker 6: had known each other for a really long time, Like
Speaker 6: it was comfortable, we were cozy. It just felt good.
Speaker 6: It didn't feel like, oh, this is the first time
Speaker 6: of at your place. It felt it felt very like.
Speaker 5: A family member, like a younger probsistant.
Speaker 1: Like someone's been in a relationship with That is what
Speaker 1: I said. Do you think you said anything to scare them,
Speaker 1: like you talk too much about wanting to be in
Speaker 1: a relationship or something.
Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, anything is possible, Like I don't claim
Speaker 6: to be the perfect dat anything like that. It just
Speaker 6: felt good and I'm confused.
Speaker 5: Yeah's amazing. It was easy, maybe too natural and easy
Speaker 5: as a red flag though sometimes people get scared by
Speaker 5: that there suld be more problems here.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I I just I don't know. I didn't see
Speaker 6: any problems. And then since then it's just been like friends.
Speaker 6: It's been very much like the texts aren't as common
Speaker 6: or as frequent, and I don't know something. He is
Speaker 6: just like friendly and I don't know, like if you
Speaker 6: that someone else or is something went wrong?
Speaker 5: Okay, it seems a little bit odd, especially because you've
Speaker 5: been out with him twice and spent the night. I mean,
Speaker 5: Alexis talk if that ever happened to you? Like, what's
Speaker 5: your read on the situation?
Speaker 3: You better text me the next.
Speaker 5: Day ask you what do you think that you did wrong?
Speaker 5: Alexis loving never me problem. Something's wrong with the dumb question,
Speaker 5: Timny do you think that there's anything that you could
Speaker 5: have done wrong?
Speaker 6: I don't think so. I mean, I'm sure it's possible,
Speaker 6: but that's that's kind of what I need help with, Like,
Speaker 6: I just don't know.
Speaker 1: It may be like I know, you're a date only
Speaker 1: one per a time type of person, but maybe he's
Speaker 1: not did you guys discuss that?
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like on his stating profile it said he was
Speaker 6: looking for a long term relationship and marriage. So don't
Speaker 6: be lied about that. I thought we were kind of
Speaker 6: on the seat page.
Speaker 2: So he does.
Speaker 1: I mean, like even that is set in the vibe
Speaker 1: where he's not like a one night only type of guy.
Speaker 4: Well, some guys may be embarrassed by their performance or something,
Speaker 4: or maybe he's a little shy and he's.
Speaker 5: Like, Okay, it wasn't my best I think I think
Speaker 5: we get it. No, I think we get it. But
Speaker 5: Brook said, what so I don't keep going.
Speaker 2: It's like she's calling him back.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Shouldn't that be enough affirmation?
Speaker 5: He wouldn't want it, tivity, He doesn't have anything to
Speaker 5: be embarrassed about.
Speaker 6: Right, No, definitely not.
Speaker 5: He definitely doesn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Well, but sometimes when when somebody likes the scenic route,
Speaker 5: I mean, you just want to see the scenes one
Speaker 5: time and then you're good. You don't keep driving back
Speaker 5: down that same road over and over again. This movie. Yeah,
Speaker 5: maybe he's before I.
Speaker 7: Don't know that.
Speaker 8: Heard you're looking for love.
Speaker 5: We're trying to find answers here and hopefully, but we
Speaker 5: already kissed one been there. We'll see what he has
Speaker 5: to say though, when we come back and try and
Speaker 5: get your second date update right after this. All right, okay,
Speaker 5: hold on. We've been talking to Tiffany about her dates
Speaker 5: plural because she went on two of them sex there
Speaker 5: with a guy named Mike. The second one ended in
Speaker 5: a sleepover over at his place.
Speaker 1: An.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I've ever called it sleepover, Jeff.
Speaker 5: That's what it was, an adult sleepover. And Tiffany, I
Speaker 5: feel like we've gotten close enough over the last few
Speaker 5: minutes for me to call you a nickname at this point.
Speaker 5: Is it cool if I call you tea dog? Or
Speaker 5: should I just stick with tiff No?
Speaker 6: I prefer Tiffany, my friend.
Speaker 5: The full Tiffany Okay, dog is just insulted.
Speaker 2: Almost.
Speaker 5: That's how you know that I'm cool with you if
Speaker 5: I put a dog afterwards. But forward, So, Tiffany is
Speaker 5: confused because after having this great connection with Mike, who
Speaker 5: maybe I should call Michael to not offend her. At
Speaker 5: this point, he's not calling her back, and she wants
Speaker 5: some answers. Luckily, Brooke knows exactly what went wrong. Brooke,
Speaker 5: go ahead, tell him.
Speaker 2: Yes, I actually have no idea.
Speaker 5: Oh why would I know?
Speaker 2: I mean, I.
Speaker 5: Sound so lovely, you have the answers.
Speaker 2: No, I'm bummed out for her. You know, it's a
Speaker 2: guy who says he's.
Speaker 1: Looking for a serious relationship makes an amazing connection with
Speaker 1: a woman.
Speaker 2: Yeah, totally, and then nothing.
Speaker 5: Does that make you feel better, Tiffany, there's no reason
Speaker 5: for him to not be calling you back, but he's
Speaker 5: still not doing it better.
Speaker 6: I guess not really.
Speaker 5: He depressed her even more.
Speaker 2: Maybe there's a reasonable explanation.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, I just I thought he was really lovely.
Speaker 9: It felt really easy, It felt right. I would really
Speaker 9: like to see where it goes, because I don't feel
Speaker 9: that like comfort and natural feeling on the scary often.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm really hoping this works out for you.
Speaker 5: Well, let's find out for sure. We're gonna call him
Speaker 5: and see what he has to say. All right, let's
Speaker 5: get m Dog up on the line here. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 5: what's up is this? Mike?
Speaker 1: Yep?
Speaker 8: This is he? Who's this?
Speaker 5: Hey? My name is Jeff but all my friends call
Speaker 5: me Jay Dog.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, Yeah, hey man, so I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're on a radio show right now called Brook
Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 8: Okay, I'm trying to heard of you guys. Kind of
Speaker 8: why am I on this show?
Speaker 5: Well, you're on this show for a segment we do
Speaker 5: call the second Date Update, because you went out on
Speaker 5: a couple of hot dates with one of our listeners
Speaker 5: named Tiffany.
Speaker 8: Oh Tiffany.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sounds like you two had a lot of fun together.
Speaker 8: I don't know if they were hot tea, but yeah,
Speaker 8: we went on a few dates. They were interesting.
Speaker 2: That's wait, did you say that they weren't hot?
Speaker 8: I didn't find none to be that great. I don't know,
Speaker 8: maybe insulting, a little depressing the middle of the let down.
Speaker 8: She's a nice growing up.
Speaker 5: But.
Speaker 2: Didn't she stay the night at your house?
Speaker 8: I don't know how much you talked to Tiffany.
Speaker 5: But so we we did speak to her a little bit.
Speaker 5: From what we've learned, there were two separate dates that
Speaker 5: you guys went on. Yes, one that it was a
Speaker 5: happy hour and the second one was.
Speaker 1: I think dinner and then back to your place something
Speaker 1: you watch a movie and she stayed the night.
Speaker 8: I mean dinner was fine. I think here's the thing. Uh,
Speaker 8: he repeatedly fell asleep during kind of serious conversation about.
Speaker 5: No way, what do you mean?
Speaker 8: Well, let me give you example, kind of like nailing
Speaker 8: the coffin for me. Was I was talking about time
Speaker 8: I was died once. I'm not a big out door
Speaker 8: rec guy climb I ski.
Speaker 1: So I so wait, wait, wait, are you sitting at
Speaker 1: dinner talking about this or you back at the house
Speaker 1: like on the couch.
Speaker 2: Where are you?
Speaker 8: That moment was back at the couch after the dinner. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 8: so I'm you know, I'm whitewater rafting. It went the
Speaker 8: wrong way, almost about to go over a fall and
Speaker 8: was bad.
Speaker 7: And it's kind of the exciting interesting part when I
Speaker 7: don't die and I look over and I thought.
Speaker 8: Maybe she was closing her eyes because like, ah, it's dressed.
Speaker 7: Oh no, no, she was.
Speaker 8: She was out like a light. Oh and you know,
Speaker 8: I get it. We all worked, life's busy. She might
Speaker 8: have been tired. But he's falling to sleep on like
Speaker 8: two other phone calls at night when we've just been
Speaker 8: chatting trying to get to know each other.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, she is kind of jealous.
Speaker 5: She could do that.
Speaker 8: Maybe I bore her. I don't know my light's boring
Speaker 8: to her, or she just likes to hear herself.
Speaker 1: Can I ask is she was she drunk during all
Speaker 1: these times that she fell asleep?
Speaker 8: No, not drunk at all, Absolutely not.
Speaker 7: I'm wide awake for her stories and she's telling hers
Speaker 7: and then she's zogs out.
Speaker 8: I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 5: That's interesting because when we talked to her, Tiffany didn't
Speaker 5: mention anything about falling asleep, probably because she didn't remember
Speaker 5: falling asleep.
Speaker 2: That's crazy.
Speaker 5: But I see during the movie because some people you
Speaker 5: turn a movie on instantly out. But the phone conversation, I.
Speaker 1: Mean, I could go to sleep right now, and maybe
Speaker 1: it's a good idea to bring Tiffany on the line
Speaker 1: right now before she falls asleep just listening to this.
Speaker 5: Because I need to tell you, Mike, she's been on
Speaker 5: the other line this entire time.
Speaker 8: Oh wait, what do you mean she's on the line now,
Speaker 8: like listening to our conversation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's how the segment works. We have them waiting
Speaker 5: to jump in.
Speaker 8: Tiffany, are you.
Speaker 5: Awake, Yes, I'm awake. Okay, there was a moment there.
Speaker 2: Wait you sound you sound mad?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm frustrated because really, I mean, I remember you
Speaker 6: telling me about the story that you died or whatever,
Speaker 6: Like I remember that every time.
Speaker 8: I was walking about important things in my life that
Speaker 8: weren't boring and we're interesting and full time you were
Speaker 8: not there, you were sleeping. We're loosing off.
Speaker 5: Maybe your life isn't as interesting as you think it is, Mike,
Speaker 5: and you need to have more crazy experiences to hold
Speaker 5: her attention.
Speaker 8: I guess that's the message. But I'm looking for like
Speaker 8: long term love and marriage and perfect Wait, I don't
Speaker 8: want someone who falls asleep, like.
Speaker 5: Do you take this man?
Speaker 2: How long are you stories? Like, let's be real.
Speaker 1: I mean you guys, I mean, it doesn't matter if
Speaker 1: we think they're boring or not. Because Tiffany said to us, Mike,
Speaker 1: like when you were on the phone, how amazing you
Speaker 1: were and how interesting you were and how connected she
Speaker 1: felt to you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I just felt very at ease and comfortable.
Speaker 6: And I guess you know, it was a Thursday, it
Speaker 6: was the end of the week. I was the Keith
Speaker 6: and I just dozed off a little bit. Like it's
Speaker 6: not an insult.
Speaker 2: It sounds like he has such a nice couch.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're the human version of a sleeping show.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I get maybe I get being comfortable
Speaker 7: on me, but I'm just not into that.
Speaker 5: Sorry, But you say that you're looking for long term
Speaker 5: relationships in marriage. That's kind of what happens when you
Speaker 5: get married. You kind of just start to tune each
Speaker 5: other out and fall asleep in the middle of conversations.
Speaker 5: Am I right, Brookes?
Speaker 8: That's but not at the beginning, not at the beginning hopefully.
Speaker 5: Well yeah, I mean you don't want your marriage to
Speaker 5: last that long.
Speaker 8: Apparently, you know.
Speaker 7: The next morning, she's kind of cheap to see, like leep,
Speaker 7: so like, can you finish the story?
Speaker 8: And you know it's just like wait what that's even
Speaker 8: more offutty to me.
Speaker 1: Oh man, I thought you guys like had a night
Speaker 1: together together.
Speaker 6: I never said that. I just said I stood the
Speaker 6: night there.
Speaker 5: We're talking about the perverts over here that we we
Speaker 5: just assume.
Speaker 1: Who would assume that she fell asleep in the middle
Speaker 1: of the story and.
Speaker 3: Just how she just stayed.
Speaker 6: I mean, what do you want like we made out.
Speaker 6: It was it's like my first time going over there.
Speaker 5: I'm not doing that in first grade. It doesn't impress her.
Speaker 1: It's hard to think of like making out and then
Speaker 1: getting so tired.
Speaker 5: Oh God, Okay, I think we're kind of losing the
Speaker 5: point of the problem here, which is her falling asleep
Speaker 5: while he's trying to talk to her.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you know me, I really don't think you're as
Speaker 7: injur me as you say you are, because like, if
Speaker 7: you were, you wouldn't be falling asleep.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 7: I just would at least have a better vibe about
Speaker 7: if you fall at sleep once or something, but so
Speaker 7: many times during I don't know.
Speaker 6: I mean, I can't convince you that I had a
Speaker 6: loose times, like I've told you, I like you, I
Speaker 6: thought it was natural. I can't convince you of that
Speaker 6: if you've decided that you bore me.
Speaker 5: You know, the fact that she reached out to a
Speaker 5: radio station to get in touch with you is a
Speaker 5: pretty good hint that she has feelings, some sort of feelings.
Speaker 5: Fall asleep three times like actually, not right?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Not yet?
Speaker 8: Is right?
Speaker 5: Not yet?
Speaker 8: I know, I just those feelings aren't mutual.
Speaker 5: Oh really, you don't even want to give her at
Speaker 5: least a chance to stay awake for an entire date.
Speaker 5: We'll send you out at noon to really, and we'll
Speaker 5: pumper full of seven red bulls right before the coffee.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that I wouldn't do it either.
Speaker 5: Sorry, well, I'm sorry it sounds like, Tiffany, we're not
Speaker 5: going to be able to get you out another time
Speaker 5: with Mike, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not hitting on him or anything, jeff
Speaker 1: but I got two kids that will not go to sleep,
Speaker 1: So if he was a pop on my house.
Speaker 5: Any time, Mike, if you want a baby, shit, we
Speaker 5: only need you for like thirty minutes. Yeah, and you'll
Speaker 5: probably get further with her than with Tiffy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning, I might be alone on this,
Speaker 4: but I feel like it is a compliment when somebody
Speaker 4: falls asleep while you're talking because they're so comfortable with
Speaker 4: your voice and your presence.
Speaker 5: It's like a warm blanket coming home.
Speaker 2: That's not how you show you're excited in somewhere check Well.
Speaker 5: It gives me a great excuse for when Brooke tells
Speaker 5: me another story about her kids. Okay, oh what they
Speaker 5: were doing, Well, to tell me more about the art
Speaker 5: project that they were. Sorry, I fell asleep because I'm
Speaker 5: just so comfortable with you and your family.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Actually, you know, after hearing that, it does sound kind
Speaker 5: of bad. It isn't. I'm gonna switch side. It's not
Speaker 5: a good thing to fall asleep during a date ever, especially.
Speaker 1: If someone's mid story about how they almost die.
Speaker 2: Yet the worst storyteller.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe it would have been more story. Yeah, long,
Speaker 5: or maybe it would be more exciting if he did die,
Speaker 5: that'd be a great story to tell. Yeah. But uh,
Speaker 5: you know what, if you ever want to get some
Speaker 5: help getting another date, we can be that help for you.
Speaker 5: Hopefully well, promise to do better than we did today.
Speaker 5: Just email the show. We'll call that person who wasn't
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll help you sleep.