WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Catching Feelings and Z's 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.880 The big question today would be could you get over this? 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:05.240 Could you forgive this guy for what he. 0:00:05.320 --> 0:00:07.680 Did on this date? Let us know. 0:00:07.880 --> 0:00:10.399 Yes, it's your Second Date Update podcast with Brooke and 0:00:10.440 --> 0:00:11.280 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:00:11.320 --> 0:00:14.560 Thank you so much for finding us. And before we. 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:17.560 Start, we always love to highlight your comments because they 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:19.640 mean a lot to us. It's awesome that you interact 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:21.759 and let us know how you're feeling. So what do 0:00:21.800 --> 0:00:22.880 you see, Alexis Oh? 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:25.759 I saw one from TJ Luxembourg who said I like 0:00:25.800 --> 0:00:27.360 to listen to you guys in the morning on my 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:29.560 way to work, and all I have to say is 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:32.040 sometimes I think my past dates were weird, but due 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:34.280 to your second Date updates, I think they might be normal. 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:39.879 Seriously, honestly, you know true, I will say that online 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:44.640 dating has given us endless supply of people with crazy stories. 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:45.960 Oh yeah, yeah. 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:48.120 Someone on my stream yesterday I mentioned the whole reason 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.160 they listened because one time they were flipping the channels 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:51.600 and they heard about the. 0:00:51.360 --> 0:00:55.800 Guy using dress like a dinosaur on his dates, stomping legs. Yes, 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:59.720 I was hood on your show after that. Thanks for 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:00.960 having awful dating lives. 0:01:01.080 --> 0:01:03.120 Yeah, seriously, and if you ever want to help. 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.080 You can't go to our website. It's Brook and Jeffrey 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:08.119 dot com. And there's a little less submit button there. Yes, 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:12.560 share away, and let's get your second date started, the. 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:17.800 Second date of day. We really need to get a 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:21.840 victory today, Okay, not just for our listener, but for 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:23.000 ourselves too. 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.240 Couse, I'll always take a victory. 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:28.559 Brook's going through some deep ish right now with her life. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:32.200 Jose and I tried to high five in the break 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:36.720 room and miss ombarrassing. It's a sad moment. And then 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:40.560 Alexis's spray tan only covered three quarters of her body 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:41.080 this week. 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:44.160 Okay, it's hard to get my back on my own and. 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:46.680 That's better than usual, by the way. Yeah, it's a mess, 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:48.800 and we're all a little down and out right now, 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:52.320 including Tiffany, who's on the phone because she's having trouble 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:55.880 getting a guy to ask her out again. Tiffany, if 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:59.160 you could describe your mood right now using one emoji, 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:00.560 what emoji would it be? 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:09.160 Probably that one that's like the dejected sad face, squinty eyes. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:12.760 Oh, the one that's drooling. 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:19.880 Not that one. 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:25.320 Maybe asking emojis wasn't the best way to start Tiffany, 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.240 but maybe instead tell us about the guy that you 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:28.600 want us to contact. Who's he? 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:32.720 Yeah, so Mike. We met on an app and I 0:02:32.720 --> 0:02:35.480 thought it was really funny. Like one thing I remember 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.040 from his profile is that he liked to take the 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:38.840 scenic route. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.320 You know, That's what he wrote as his like bio 0:02:42.800 --> 0:02:43.720 a little tagline. 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:46.080 Yeah, I thought that was kind of cute. 0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:48.000 It takes a long time to do stuff that most 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:49.600 people get done in a short amount. 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:52.240 Of I feel like he's just lated everything. 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:58.880 It sounds like, well, I mean, it's less room for discovery, 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:01.240 like is he later? Is be more just like a 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.919 really present soak up time with people. 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:06.800 Like me? 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:09.760 Yeah, okay, what did you guys do on your date? 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:12.480 Well, so we talked a lot before our dates. Like 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:14.240 I'm I'm not someone who just like dates a lot 0:03:14.280 --> 0:03:16.160 of people. I'm the one at a time kind of person, 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:18.520 and I wanted to really get to know him before 0:03:18.600 --> 0:03:21.280 we went out. So we talked a lot, and. 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.600 He takes the scenic roud. Even setting up a first date, 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:24.560 it takes a long time. 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:27.800 Maybe maybe I'm a scenic rout kind of person myself. 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:30.200 But ok so what do you guys talk about? 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:32.799 We talked about all sorts of things and we had 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:36.640 really good conversation and then he asked me out, and well, 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:38.520 I didn't tell you guys this because I know it's 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:41.880 like technically second date update, but we actually have been 0:03:41.880 --> 0:03:44.040 out twice. So the first time was happy hour and 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:47.400 I just like wanted to talk to him more so 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:49.680 when he asked me how the second time, I went 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:52.240 and he asked me to go back to his place 0:03:52.280 --> 0:03:56.120 watch movie and I did, and oh, stay the night, 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:56.800 And then you. 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:57.520 Did stay the night. 0:03:58.200 --> 0:03:58.480 Yeah. 0:03:59.040 --> 0:03:59.280 Nice. 0:03:59.560 --> 0:03:59.760 Wow. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:02.120 It was just like one of those things where when 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:04.240 we were at his place, it just felt like we 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.560 had known each other for a really long time, Like 0:04:06.600 --> 0:04:10.680 it was comfortable, we were cozy. It just felt good. 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.240 It didn't feel like, oh, this is the first time 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:16.360 of at your place. It felt it felt very like. 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:28.799 A family member, like a younger probsistant. 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:29.719 Like someone's been in a relationship with That is what 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:35.520 I said. Do you think you said anything to scare them, 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:37.840 like you talk too much about wanting to be in 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:39.240 a relationship or something. 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:43.159 I mean, honestly, anything is possible, Like I don't claim 0:04:43.200 --> 0:04:45.920 to be the perfect dat anything like that. It just 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:47.840 felt good and I'm confused. 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:52.719 Yeah's amazing. It was easy, maybe too natural and easy 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.080 as a red flag though sometimes people get scared by 0:04:55.080 --> 0:04:59.360 that there suld be more problems here. 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.560 Yeah, I I just I don't know. I didn't see 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:06.760 any problems. And then since then it's just been like friends. 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:10.960 It's been very much like the texts aren't as common 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:14.800 or as frequent, and I don't know something. He is 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:16.840 just like friendly and I don't know, like if you 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:18.880 that someone else or is something went wrong? 0:05:19.839 --> 0:05:23.000 Okay, it seems a little bit odd, especially because you've 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:25.520 been out with him twice and spent the night. I mean, 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:29.520 Alexis talk if that ever happened to you? Like, what's 0:05:29.560 --> 0:05:30.840 your read on the situation? 0:05:31.000 --> 0:05:32.359 You better text me the next. 0:05:32.240 --> 0:05:35.599 Day ask you what do you think that you did wrong? 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:42.320 Alexis loving never me problem. Something's wrong with the dumb question, 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:47.440 Timny do you think that there's anything that you could 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:48.080 have done wrong? 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:52.799 I don't think so. I mean, I'm sure it's possible, 0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.680 but that's that's kind of what I need help with, Like, 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:56.560 I just don't know. 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:59.600 It may be like I know, you're a date only 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:02.200 one per a time type of person, but maybe he's 0:06:02.240 --> 0:06:03.640 not did you guys discuss that? 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.440 Yeah, Like on his stating profile it said he was 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:11.159 looking for a long term relationship and marriage. So don't 0:06:11.240 --> 0:06:13.039 be lied about that. I thought we were kind of 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:14.000 on the seat page. 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:14.440 So he does. 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:16.400 I mean, like even that is set in the vibe 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:18.400 where he's not like a one night only type of guy. 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:24.000 Well, some guys may be embarrassed by their performance or something, 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:26.800 or maybe he's a little shy and he's. 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:29.800 Like, Okay, it wasn't my best I think I think 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:31.360 we get it. No, I think we get it. But 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:32.960 Brook said, what so I don't keep going. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:34.920 It's like she's calling him back. 0:06:35.200 --> 0:06:35.400 Yeah. 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:37.560 Shouldn't that be enough affirmation? 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:40.320 He wouldn't want it, tivity, He doesn't have anything to 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:41.320 be embarrassed about. 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.120 Right, No, definitely not. 0:06:44.400 --> 0:06:45.159 He definitely doesn't. 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:45.560 Yeah. 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:49.720 Well, but sometimes when when somebody likes the scenic route, 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.520 I mean, you just want to see the scenes one 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.960 time and then you're good. You don't keep driving back 0:06:54.000 --> 0:06:57.400 down that same road over and over again. This movie. Yeah, 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.160 maybe he's before I. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:06:59.520 Don't know that. 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:02.800 Heard you're looking for love. 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.440 We're trying to find answers here and hopefully, but we 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:09.000 already kissed one been there. We'll see what he has 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:11.040 to say though, when we come back and try and 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:14.920 get your second date update right after this. All right, okay, 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:22.080 hold on. We've been talking to Tiffany about her dates 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:25.360 plural because she went on two of them sex there 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.280 with a guy named Mike. The second one ended in 0:07:28.320 --> 0:07:30.280 a sleepover over at his place. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:31.320 An. 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:35.040 I don't know if I've ever called it sleepover, Jeff. 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:38.080 That's what it was, an adult sleepover. And Tiffany, I 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:40.200 feel like we've gotten close enough over the last few 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:42.280 minutes for me to call you a nickname at this point. 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.560 Is it cool if I call you tea dog? Or 0:07:44.560 --> 0:07:46.680 should I just stick with tiff No? 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:48.920 I prefer Tiffany, my friend. 0:07:50.080 --> 0:07:53.440 The full Tiffany Okay, dog is just insulted. 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:54.840 Almost. 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:57.480 That's how you know that I'm cool with you if 0:07:57.520 --> 0:08:02.040 I put a dog afterwards. But forward, So, Tiffany is 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:05.400 confused because after having this great connection with Mike, who 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:07.440 maybe I should call Michael to not offend her. At 0:08:07.440 --> 0:08:10.559 this point, he's not calling her back, and she wants 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:14.440 some answers. Luckily, Brooke knows exactly what went wrong. Brooke, 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:15.320 go ahead, tell him. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:16.640 Yes, I actually have no idea. 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:19.000 Oh why would I know? 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:19.560 I mean, I. 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:22.640 Sound so lovely, you have the answers. 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:26.320 No, I'm bummed out for her. You know, it's a 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:27.480 guy who says he's. 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:31.320 Looking for a serious relationship makes an amazing connection with 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:31.720 a woman. 0:08:32.720 --> 0:08:34.880 Yeah, totally, and then nothing. 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:38.200 Does that make you feel better, Tiffany, there's no reason 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:40.040 for him to not be calling you back, but he's 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:41.320 still not doing it better. 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:44.119 I guess not really. 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.320 He depressed her even more. 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:47.920 Maybe there's a reasonable explanation. 0:08:48.440 --> 0:08:51.600 Yeah, I mean, I just I thought he was really lovely. 0:08:51.679 --> 0:08:55.280 It felt really easy, It felt right. I would really 0:08:55.440 --> 0:08:57.680 like to see where it goes, because I don't feel 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:03.400 that like comfort and natural feeling on the scary often. 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.480 You know, I'm really hoping this works out for you. 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:08.640 Well, let's find out for sure. We're gonna call him 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:11.400 and see what he has to say. All right, let's 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:22.559 get m Dog up on the line here. Hello, Hey, 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:23.480 what's up is this? Mike? 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:25.120 Yep? 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:26.280 This is he? Who's this? 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:29.679 Hey? My name is Jeff but all my friends call 0:09:29.720 --> 0:09:30.320 me Jay Dog. 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:37.360 I'm sorry, Yeah, hey man, so I'm sorry. 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:39.920 Yeah, you're on a radio show right now called Brook 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:40.800 and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:45.840 Okay, I'm trying to heard of you guys. Kind of 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:47.520 why am I on this show? 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:49.840 Well, you're on this show for a segment we do 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.920 call the second Date Update, because you went out on 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:54.880 a couple of hot dates with one of our listeners 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:55.720 named Tiffany. 0:09:57.559 --> 0:09:58.480 Oh Tiffany. 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:02.320 Yeah, sounds like you two had a lot of fun together. 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:04.840 I don't know if they were hot tea, but yeah, 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:06.760 we went on a few dates. They were interesting. 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:09.280 That's wait, did you say that they weren't hot? 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:12.480 I didn't find none to be that great. I don't know, 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:14.840 maybe insulting, a little depressing the middle of the let down. 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:15.960 She's a nice growing up. 0:10:15.920 --> 0:10:16.079 But. 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:20.560 Didn't she stay the night at your house? 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:26.760 I don't know how much you talked to Tiffany. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.400 But so we we did speak to her a little bit. 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:32.240 From what we've learned, there were two separate dates that 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:34.720 you guys went on. Yes, one that it was a 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:36.839 happy hour and the second one was. 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:39.319 I think dinner and then back to your place something 0:10:39.320 --> 0:10:40.800 you watch a movie and she stayed the night. 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:46.720 I mean dinner was fine. I think here's the thing. Uh, 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:52.080 he repeatedly fell asleep during kind of serious conversation about. 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:54.120 No way, what do you mean? 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:57.960 Well, let me give you example, kind of like nailing 0:10:57.960 --> 0:10:59.719 the coffin for me. Was I was talking about time 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:02.319 I was died once. I'm not a big out door 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:05.200 rec guy climb I ski. 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.520 So I so wait, wait, wait, are you sitting at 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.560 dinner talking about this or you back at the house 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:11.280 like on the couch. 0:11:11.320 --> 0:11:11.840 Where are you? 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:16.480 That moment was back at the couch after the dinner. Okay, yeah, 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:19.000 so I'm you know, I'm whitewater rafting. It went the 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:22.200 wrong way, almost about to go over a fall and 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:23.240 was bad. 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:26.000 And it's kind of the exciting interesting part when I 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:29.040 don't die and I look over and I thought. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.000 Maybe she was closing her eyes because like, ah, it's dressed. 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:32.520 Oh no, no, she was. 0:11:32.880 --> 0:11:35.920 She was out like a light. Oh and you know, 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:38.240 I get it. We all worked, life's busy. She might 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:40.720 have been tired. But he's falling to sleep on like 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.120 two other phone calls at night when we've just been 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:45.000 chatting trying to get to know each other. 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:47.400 Oh wow, she is kind of jealous. 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:47.880 She could do that. 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.200 Maybe I bore her. I don't know my light's boring 0:11:50.200 --> 0:11:51.760 to her, or she just likes to hear herself. 0:11:51.960 --> 0:11:54.760 Can I ask is she was she drunk during all 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:56.360 these times that she fell asleep? 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:58.840 No, not drunk at all, Absolutely not. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:02.840 I'm wide awake for her stories and she's telling hers 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:04.880 and then she's zogs out. 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:05.480 I mean, I don't know. 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:09.040 That's interesting because when we talked to her, Tiffany didn't 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:13.040 mention anything about falling asleep, probably because she didn't remember 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:13.880 falling asleep. 0:12:14.040 --> 0:12:15.199 That's crazy. 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:18.120 But I see during the movie because some people you 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:21.880 turn a movie on instantly out. But the phone conversation, I. 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:25.880 Mean, I could go to sleep right now, and maybe 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.840 it's a good idea to bring Tiffany on the line 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:31.640 right now before she falls asleep just listening to this. 0:12:31.720 --> 0:12:33.280 Because I need to tell you, Mike, she's been on 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:34.560 the other line this entire time. 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:36.760 Oh wait, what do you mean she's on the line now, 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:38.360 like listening to our conversation. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.040 Yeah, that's how the segment works. We have them waiting 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:41.760 to jump in. 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:43.719 Tiffany, are you. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:47.920 Awake, Yes, I'm awake. Okay, there was a moment there. 0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:49.760 Wait you sound you sound mad? 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:55.520 Yeah, I'm frustrated because really, I mean, I remember you 0:12:55.640 --> 0:12:58.200 telling me about the story that you died or whatever, 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.679 Like I remember that every time. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.280 I was walking about important things in my life that 0:13:02.360 --> 0:13:05.120 weren't boring and we're interesting and full time you were 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:07.720 not there, you were sleeping. We're loosing off. 0:13:08.360 --> 0:13:10.960 Maybe your life isn't as interesting as you think it is, Mike, 0:13:11.000 --> 0:13:14.160 and you need to have more crazy experiences to hold 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:14.640 her attention. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:16.920 I guess that's the message. But I'm looking for like 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:20.520 long term love and marriage and perfect Wait, I don't 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.320 want someone who falls asleep, like. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:24.880 Do you take this man? 0:13:25.920 --> 0:13:27.600 How long are you stories? Like, let's be real. 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:29.559 I mean you guys, I mean, it doesn't matter if 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:32.560 we think they're boring or not. Because Tiffany said to us, Mike, 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:35.000 like when you were on the phone, how amazing you 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:37.280 were and how interesting you were and how connected she 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:37.920 felt to you. 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:41.400 Yeah, I mean I just felt very at ease and comfortable. 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:44.000 And I guess you know, it was a Thursday, it 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:45.880 was the end of the week. I was the Keith 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:48.320 and I just dozed off a little bit. Like it's 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:49.280 not an insult. 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:51.200 It sounds like he has such a nice couch. 0:13:53.840 --> 0:13:55.960 Yeah, you're the human version of a sleeping show. 0:13:56.280 --> 0:14:01.240 Yeah, I mean I get maybe I get being comfortable 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:02.959 on me, but I'm just not into that. 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.679 Sorry, But you say that you're looking for long term 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:08.680 relationships in marriage. That's kind of what happens when you 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:10.600 get married. You kind of just start to tune each 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.679 other out and fall asleep in the middle of conversations. 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:13.680 Am I right, Brookes? 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:17.040 That's but not at the beginning, not at the beginning hopefully. 0:14:17.200 --> 0:14:20.280 Well yeah, I mean you don't want your marriage to 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:20.920 last that long. 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:22.440 Apparently, you know. 0:14:22.600 --> 0:14:26.080 The next morning, she's kind of cheap to see, like leep, 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:27.680 so like, can you finish the story? 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:30.040 And you know it's just like wait what that's even 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:30.960 more offutty to me. 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.760 Oh man, I thought you guys like had a night 0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:34.760 together together. 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:37.400 I never said that. I just said I stood the 0:14:37.520 --> 0:14:37.880 night there. 0:14:40.080 --> 0:14:42.960 We're talking about the perverts over here that we we 0:14:43.040 --> 0:14:43.840 just assume. 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:46.640 Who would assume that she fell asleep in the middle 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:47.640 of the story and. 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:48.760 Just how she just stayed. 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:52.480 I mean, what do you want like we made out. 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:55.920 It was it's like my first time going over there. 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:59.360 I'm not doing that in first grade. It doesn't impress her. 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:02.920 It's hard to think of like making out and then 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:03.920 getting so tired. 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:09.920 Oh God, Okay, I think we're kind of losing the 0:15:09.960 --> 0:15:13.360 point of the problem here, which is her falling asleep 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:14.720 while he's trying to talk to her. 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:17.800 Yeah, you know me, I really don't think you're as 0:15:17.880 --> 0:15:19.960 injur me as you say you are, because like, if 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:21.400 you were, you wouldn't be falling asleep. 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:23.120 Yeah, I don't know. 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:26.040 I just would at least have a better vibe about 0:15:26.280 --> 0:15:28.160 if you fall at sleep once or something, but so 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:30.600 many times during I don't know. 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:33.120 I mean, I can't convince you that I had a 0:15:33.120 --> 0:15:36.000 loose times, like I've told you, I like you, I 0:15:36.040 --> 0:15:38.960 thought it was natural. I can't convince you of that 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:41.160 if you've decided that you bore me. 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:43.280 You know, the fact that she reached out to a 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:45.440 radio station to get in touch with you is a 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:48.280 pretty good hint that she has feelings, some sort of feelings. 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:50.720 Fall asleep three times like actually, not right? 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:51.720 Yeah? 0:15:51.800 --> 0:15:52.240 Not yet? 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:53.400 Is right? 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:53.920 Not yet? 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:56.880 I know, I just those feelings aren't mutual. 0:15:57.200 --> 0:16:01.960 Oh really, you don't even want to give her at 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:04.840 least a chance to stay awake for an entire date. 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:07.600 We'll send you out at noon to really, and we'll 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:10.280 pumper full of seven red bulls right before the coffee. 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:11.440 Yeah. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:14.040 Yeah, that I wouldn't do it either. 0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:17.560 Sorry, well, I'm sorry it sounds like, Tiffany, we're not 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:19.600 going to be able to get you out another time 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:21.040 with Mike, you know. 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:23.080 I mean, I'm not hitting on him or anything, jeff 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:25.200 but I got two kids that will not go to sleep, 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:27.040 So if he was a pop on my house. 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:30.600 Any time, Mike, if you want a baby, shit, we 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:33.320 only need you for like thirty minutes. Yeah, and you'll 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:35.160 probably get further with her than with Tiffy. 0:16:35.240 --> 0:16:39.480 Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning, I might be alone on this, 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:42.480 but I feel like it is a compliment when somebody 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:45.640 falls asleep while you're talking because they're so comfortable with 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:47.280 your voice and your presence. 0:16:47.760 --> 0:16:49.600 It's like a warm blanket coming home. 0:16:49.760 --> 0:16:52.160 That's not how you show you're excited in somewhere check Well. 0:16:52.160 --> 0:16:54.000 It gives me a great excuse for when Brooke tells 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:57.200 me another story about her kids. Okay, oh what they 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:59.000 were doing, Well, to tell me more about the art 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:02.280 project that they were. Sorry, I fell asleep because I'm 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:04.040 just so comfortable with you and your family. 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:06.000 Yeah. 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:08.800 Actually, you know, after hearing that, it does sound kind 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:11.719 of bad. It isn't. I'm gonna switch side. It's not 0:17:11.760 --> 0:17:15.399 a good thing to fall asleep during a date ever, especially. 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:18.400 If someone's mid story about how they almost die. 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:20.800 Yet the worst storyteller. 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:23.720 Yeah, maybe it would have been more story. Yeah, long, 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:25.760 or maybe it would be more exciting if he did die, 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:31.399 that'd be a great story to tell. Yeah. But uh, 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:32.960 you know what, if you ever want to get some 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:36.080 help getting another date, we can be that help for you. 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:38.760 Hopefully well, promise to do better than we did today. 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:41.200