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Speaker 1: The big question today would be could you get over this?

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Speaker 1: Could you forgive this guy for what he.

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Speaker 2: Did on this date? Let us know.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's your Second Date Update podcast with Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for finding us. And before we.

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Speaker 1: Start, we always love to highlight your comments because they

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Speaker 1: mean a lot to us. It's awesome that you interact

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Speaker 1: and let us know how you're feeling. So what do

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Speaker 1: you see, Alexis Oh?

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Speaker 3: I saw one from TJ Luxembourg who said I like

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Speaker 3: to listen to you guys in the morning on my

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Speaker 3: way to work, and all I have to say is

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Speaker 3: sometimes I think my past dates were weird, but due

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Speaker 3: to your second Date updates, I think they might be normal.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, honestly, you know true, I will say that online

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Speaker 1: dating has given us endless supply of people with crazy stories.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Someone on my stream yesterday I mentioned the whole reason

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Speaker 4: they listened because one time they were flipping the channels

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Speaker 4: and they heard about the.

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Speaker 5: Guy using dress like a dinosaur on his dates, stomping legs. Yes,

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Speaker 5: I was hood on your show after that. Thanks for

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Speaker 5: having awful dating lives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, seriously, and if you ever want to help.

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Speaker 1: You can't go to our website. It's Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: dot com. And there's a little less submit button there. Yes,

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Speaker 1: share away, and let's get your second date started, the.

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Speaker 5: Second date of day. We really need to get a

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Speaker 5: victory today, Okay, not just for our listener, but for

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Speaker 5: ourselves too.

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Speaker 2: Couse, I'll always take a victory.

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Speaker 5: Brook's going through some deep ish right now with her life.

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Speaker 5: Jose and I tried to high five in the break

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Speaker 5: room and miss ombarrassing. It's a sad moment. And then

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Speaker 5: Alexis's spray tan only covered three quarters of her body

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Speaker 5: this week.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's hard to get my back on my own and.

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Speaker 5: That's better than usual, by the way. Yeah, it's a mess,

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Speaker 5: and we're all a little down and out right now,

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Speaker 5: including Tiffany, who's on the phone because she's having trouble

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Speaker 5: getting a guy to ask her out again. Tiffany, if

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Speaker 5: you could describe your mood right now using one emoji,

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Speaker 5: what emoji would it be?

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Speaker 6: Probably that one that's like the dejected sad face, squinty eyes.

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Speaker 5: Oh, the one that's drooling.

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Speaker 6: Not that one.

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Speaker 5: Maybe asking emojis wasn't the best way to start Tiffany,

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Speaker 5: but maybe instead tell us about the guy that you

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Speaker 5: want us to contact. Who's he?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so Mike. We met on an app and I

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Speaker 6: thought it was really funny. Like one thing I remember

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Speaker 5: You know, That's what he wrote as his like bio

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I thought that was kind of cute.

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Speaker 5: It takes a long time to do stuff that most

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Speaker 1: Of I feel like he's just lated everything.

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Speaker 6: It sounds like, well, I mean, it's less room for discovery,

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Speaker 6: like is he later? Is be more just like a

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Speaker 7: Like me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, what did you guys do on your date?

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Speaker 6: Well, so we talked a lot before our dates. Like

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Speaker 6: I'm I'm not someone who just like dates a lot

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Speaker 5: He takes the scenic roud. Even setting up a first date,

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Speaker 6: Maybe maybe I'm a scenic rout kind of person myself.

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Speaker 5: But ok so what do you guys talk about?

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Speaker 6: We talked about all sorts of things and we had

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Speaker 6: I didn't tell you guys this because I know it's

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 6: It was just like one of those things where when

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Speaker 6: It didn't feel like, oh, this is the first time

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Speaker 5: A family member, like a younger probsistant.

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Speaker 1: Like someone's been in a relationship with That is what

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Speaker 1: I said. Do you think you said anything to scare them,

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Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, anything is possible, Like I don't claim

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Speaker 5: Yeah's amazing. It was easy, maybe too natural and easy

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I I just I don't know. I didn't see

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Speaker 6: any problems. And then since then it's just been like friends.

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Speaker 6: It's been very much like the texts aren't as common

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Speaker 5: Okay, it seems a little bit odd, especially because you've

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Speaker 5: been out with him twice and spent the night. I mean,

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Speaker 5: Alexis talk if that ever happened to you? Like, what's

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Speaker 3: You better text me the next.

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Speaker 5: Day ask you what do you think that you did wrong?

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Speaker 5: Alexis loving never me problem. Something's wrong with the dumb question,

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Speaker 5: Timny do you think that there's anything that you could

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Speaker 1: It may be like I know, you're a date only

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Speaker 1: not did you guys discuss that?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like on his stating profile it said he was

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Speaker 2: So he does.

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Speaker 4: Well, some guys may be embarrassed by their performance or something,

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Speaker 5: Like, Okay, it wasn't my best I think I think

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Speaker 5: we get it. No, I think we get it. But

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Speaker 5: Brook said, what so I don't keep going.

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Speaker 2: It's like she's calling him back.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Shouldn't that be enough affirmation?

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Speaker 5: He wouldn't want it, tivity, He doesn't have anything to

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Speaker 6: Right, No, definitely not.

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Speaker 5: He definitely doesn't.

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Speaker 5: Well, but sometimes when when somebody likes the scenic route,

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Speaker 5: I mean, you just want to see the scenes one

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Speaker 5: down that same road over and over again. This movie. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: maybe he's before I.

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Speaker 7: Don't know that.

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Speaker 8: Heard you're looking for love.

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Speaker 5: We're trying to find answers here and hopefully, but we

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Speaker 5: get your second date update right after this. All right, okay,

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Speaker 5: hold on. We've been talking to Tiffany about her dates

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Speaker 5: plural because she went on two of them sex there

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Speaker 1: An.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I've ever called it sleepover, Jeff.

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Speaker 5: That's what it was, an adult sleepover. And Tiffany, I

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Speaker 5: minutes for me to call you a nickname at this point.

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Speaker 5: Is it cool if I call you tea dog? Or

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Speaker 5: should I just stick with tiff No?

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Speaker 6: I prefer Tiffany, my friend.

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Speaker 5: The full Tiffany Okay, dog is just insulted.

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Speaker 2: Almost.

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Speaker 5: That's how you know that I'm cool with you if

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Speaker 5: I put a dog afterwards. But forward, So, Tiffany is

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Speaker 5: maybe I should call Michael to not offend her. At

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Speaker 5: this point, he's not calling her back, and she wants

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Speaker 5: some answers. Luckily, Brooke knows exactly what went wrong. Brooke,

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Speaker 2: Yes, I actually have no idea.

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Speaker 5: Oh why would I know?

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Speaker 5: Sound so lovely, you have the answers.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm bummed out for her. You know, it's a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally, and then nothing.

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Speaker 5: Does that make you feel better, Tiffany, there's no reason

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Speaker 5: still not doing it better.

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Speaker 6: I guess not really.

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Speaker 5: He depressed her even more.

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Speaker 2: Maybe there's a reasonable explanation.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, I just I thought he was really lovely.

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Speaker 9: It felt really easy, It felt right. I would really

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm really hoping this works out for you.

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Speaker 5: Well, let's find out for sure. We're gonna call him

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Speaker 5: and see what he has to say. All right, let's

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Speaker 5: get m Dog up on the line here. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 5: what's up is this? Mike?

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Speaker 1: Yep?

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Speaker 8: This is he? Who's this?

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Speaker 5: Hey? My name is Jeff but all my friends call

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Speaker 5: me Jay Dog.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, Yeah, hey man, so I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're on a radio show right now called Brook

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Speaker 5: and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I'm trying to heard of you guys. Kind of

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Speaker 8: why am I on this show?

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Speaker 5: Well, you're on this show for a segment we do

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Speaker 5: call the second Date Update, because you went out on

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Speaker 5: a couple of hot dates with one of our listeners

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Speaker 5: named Tiffany.

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Speaker 8: Oh Tiffany.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sounds like you two had a lot of fun together.

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Speaker 8: I don't know if they were hot tea, but yeah,

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Speaker 8: we went on a few dates. They were interesting.

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Speaker 2: That's wait, did you say that they weren't hot?

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Speaker 8: I didn't find none to be that great. I don't know,

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Speaker 8: maybe insulting, a little depressing the middle of the let down.

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Speaker 8: She's a nice growing up.

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Speaker 5: But.

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Speaker 2: Didn't she stay the night at your house?

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Speaker 8: Well, let me give you example, kind of like nailing

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Speaker 5: She could do that.

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Speaker 8: Maybe I bore her. I don't know my light's boring

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Speaker 8: No, not drunk at all, Absolutely not.

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Speaker 7: I'm wide awake for her stories and she's telling hers

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Speaker 5: But I see during the movie because some people you

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Speaker 5: Because I need to tell you, Mike, she's been on

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's how the segment works. We have them waiting

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm frustrated because really, I mean, I remember you

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Speaker 8: I was walking about important things in my life that

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Speaker 5: Maybe your life isn't as interesting as you think it is, Mike,

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Speaker 8: I guess that's the message. But I'm looking for like

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Speaker 5: Do you take this man?

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Speaker 2: How long are you stories? Like, let's be real.

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Speaker 1: I mean you guys, I mean, it doesn't matter if

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I just felt very at ease and comfortable.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like he has such a nice couch.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're the human version of a sleeping show.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, But you say that you're looking for long term

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Speaker 5: Am I right, Brookes?

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Speaker 8: Apparently, you know.

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Speaker 8: And you know it's just like wait what that's even

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Speaker 1: Oh man, I thought you guys like had a night

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Speaker 6: I never said that. I just said I stood the

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Speaker 5: We're talking about the perverts over here that we we

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Speaker 1: Who would assume that she fell asleep in the middle

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Speaker 6: I mean, what do you want like we made out.

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Speaker 5: I'm not doing that in first grade. It doesn't impress her.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you know me, I really don't think you're as

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: You know, the fact that she reached out to a

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Speaker 5: Fall asleep three times like actually, not right?

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Speaker 5: Not yet?

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Speaker 8: Is right?

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Speaker 5: Not yet?

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Speaker 8: I know, I just those feelings aren't mutual.

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Speaker 5: Oh really, you don't even want to give her at

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Speaker 5: We'll send you out at noon to really, and we'll

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, well, I'm sorry it sounds like, Tiffany, we're not

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not hitting on him or anything, jeff

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Speaker 5: Any time, Mike, if you want a baby, shit, we

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning, I might be alone on this,

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Speaker 5: It's like a warm blanket coming home.

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Speaker 2: That's not how you show you're excited in somewhere check Well.

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Speaker 5: It gives me a great excuse for when Brooke tells

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Speaker 5: Actually, you know, after hearing that, it does sound kind

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Speaker 5: a good thing to fall asleep during a date ever, especially.

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Speaker 1: If someone's mid story about how they almost die.

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Speaker 2: Yet the worst storyteller.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe it would have been more story. Yeah, long,

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Speaker 5: that'd be a great story to tell. Yeah. But uh,

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Speaker 5: you know what, if you ever want to get some

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Speaker 5: Hopefully well, promise to do better than we did today.

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Speaker 5: Just email the show. We'll call that person who wasn't

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Speaker 5: calling you back, and find any of our second day

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Speaker 5: podcasts up online wherever you get your podcast at Brooke

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll help you sleep.