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Speaker 2: Amanda is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Brian.
Speaker 2: So we'll see if we can figure out why and
Speaker 2: see if we can get another day. She still wants
Speaker 2: one after here after she hears why in just a second, Amanda,
Speaker 2: thank you for coming on the show. Before we get
Speaker 2: into your date and why you think you're getting ghosted
Speaker 2: by this dude? How long has it been since you
Speaker 2: heard from Brian?
Speaker 1: Hey, so I haven't heard from Brian and got it.
Speaker 1: It has to have been like eight days now, so
Speaker 1: I mean it hasn't been like excessive, but it's more
Speaker 1: than you know. He said he would call back with it,
Speaker 1: like he said he'd call back within a couple of days.
Speaker 3: Have you reached out to him at all?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean I like messaged him like hello, but
Speaker 1: he didn't respond to that, and I didn't feel like
Speaker 1: sending another message because I thought that would be weird.
Speaker 3: I feel you, that's probably a good movie. What happened
Speaker 3: on the date?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 1: So I went to this rock show and I met
Speaker 1: Brian there and he seemed really cool.
Speaker 4: We just kind of started.
Speaker 1: Talking and we like shot out the bar next to
Speaker 1: each other during the show, and then we started talking
Speaker 1: for a really long time after the show, and when
Speaker 1: everything closed down, we just decided to go like across
Speaker 1: the street to another place and then just keep talking
Speaker 1: for so Like it was going really well, and like
Speaker 1: he is so attractive, and you know, I wasn't surprised
Speaker 1: at all to learn that he was also a guitarist
Speaker 1: in a band.
Speaker 3: This answers my question.
Speaker 5: After eight days always the guitar guys.
Speaker 4: I mean, I get it. I'm a musician too, Like
Speaker 4: I get it's fine.
Speaker 3: Whatever.
Speaker 2: Oh, that's gotta be awesome if you're a musician to
Speaker 2: meet another musician for a date, I mean, that's cool.
Speaker 3: You guys are both in Yeah, we were really bonded.
Speaker 4: It was it was really cool, and you.
Speaker 1: Know, after they closed everything down at the second place,
Speaker 1: I was kind of like, you know, my apartment's only
Speaker 1: a block.
Speaker 3: Away, okay, girl.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So like I just I decided I wanted to
Speaker 1: take him home with me. Yeah, And so he agreed
Speaker 1: and we went to my place and we had a
Speaker 1: lot of fun and then he left the next morning,
Speaker 1: and you know, before he left, we did exchange numbers
Speaker 1: and he told me he'd call like the next day.
Speaker 4: And you know, again, it's been like well over a week,
Speaker 4: and I don't really get it.
Speaker 5: Well, I hate to state the obvious, sorry, but do
Speaker 5: you think it's like we got that see you later?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 5: I mean, it sucks. It sucks that that's a real thing,
Speaker 5: but it is. Do you think that could be it?
Speaker 4: I don't know. I really hope it's not that.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, I was really smitten with him, to
Speaker 1: be honest, and like, you know, among everything else, I
Speaker 1: especially love talking about our music taste, and you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not very snobby.
Speaker 4: About music, but like, maybe it's that, like I can
Speaker 4: be a fit judgmental and like Brian said, he was
Speaker 4: exactly the same way. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'll admit it's been a long time since the guy
Speaker 1: has pleased.
Speaker 3: Me like that.
Speaker 6: Okay, so that's okay.
Speaker 4: But yeah, so I don't know.
Speaker 1: We like talked about jamming together at some point, and
Speaker 1: you know, I've played in a few bands as well,
Speaker 1: So I don't know, it would be cool to just
Speaker 1: jam with him artistically, and maybe physically that.
Speaker 2: Thing happened that he was able to do. Okay, well,
Speaker 2: we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: him and see if you can tell us, see if
Speaker 2: he'll tell us why he's ghosting you, and maybe get
Speaker 2: you another date if you still want it. Okay, jam
Speaker 2: another jam sash. All right, we'll play a song come
Speaker 2: back and get your first day follow up next. Amanda
Speaker 2: is on the phone today for a first date follow
Speaker 2: up and she is not getting a call back from
Speaker 2: a dude named Brian, and she really wants to almost said,
Speaker 2: rock out with socks off. Yeah, there you go, rock
Speaker 2: out with her sock sauce. She wants a jam sash
Speaker 2: with Brian, and we're about to call him to see
Speaker 2: why he's been ghosting her and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 2: But before we do that, Amanda, refresh everybody's memory. Tell
Speaker 2: us about your date with Brian. Why you think you're
Speaker 2: getting ghosted?
Speaker 7: I met I met Brian otel rock concert at a bar,
Speaker 7: and we were really in touch with each other, like
Speaker 7: we were both musicians and really just kind of bonded.
Speaker 1: And so he spent.
Speaker 4: The night and said he.
Speaker 8: Would call the next day after he left, but then
Speaker 8: he didn't end up calling back, and it's been about
Speaker 8: eight days since then, and I'm really just confused.
Speaker 2: And Amanda wants another date she does, or at least
Speaker 2: another evening. All right, so we're gonna call him right
Speaker 2: now and see if we can figure it out.
Speaker 6: You ready, Amanda?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Brian.
Speaker 6: This is him, Brian. How are you man? My name
Speaker 6: is Jebel calling from a radio show called The Jubil Show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Brian, I'm here on the.
Speaker 9: Show's guys up?
Speaker 3: Why are you on my phone?
Speaker 2: Why have you ever heard a segment that we do
Speaker 2: called the first a follow Up?
Speaker 9: I think so? Yeah, I'm pretty sure I have.
Speaker 2: What that is is if you go out on a
Speaker 2: date with someone and then you end up ghosting them,
Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 2: to find out why you've been ghosting them. And we
Speaker 2: got an email about you from someone.
Speaker 9: Oh, I'm guessing it's probably Amanda, right.
Speaker 8: Oh.
Speaker 5: Oh, Andy's smart too, so this is an intentional ghosting.
Speaker 2: Yes, A's Amanda. Yeah, for you to know right away
Speaker 2: it is Amanda, Amanda, Yeah, And She told us that
Speaker 2: she like, really really enjoyed her evening with you and
Speaker 2: wanted to see you again. But you know, it's been
Speaker 2: a while and she hasn't heard anything, so she's wondering
Speaker 2: if you might tell us why you're ghosting.
Speaker 9: Yeah, well, I mean, Amanda's great. She was really great.
Speaker 9: We had a really good time. We talked a lot,
Speaker 9: we drank a lot. They had an excellent time. Where
Speaker 9: things kind of went a little south is when we
Speaker 9: got to her place. I don't know how much she
Speaker 9: told you.
Speaker 3: But everything she told us everything she didn't give us.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't give us all the details, but I
Speaker 2: want some of the details later on, not on the radio,
Speaker 2: because she said that you, sir, did a great job,
Speaker 2: and I would love some point.
Speaker 9: There out of bread Right now, I'm.
Speaker 3: I don't know what happened at her place.
Speaker 9: We got back to her place, and she kind of
Speaker 9: she went from like rock musician fangirl to like Danny
Speaker 9: Tanner from Full.
Speaker 3: House, he's a clean freak.
Speaker 9: She is a clean freak. Yeah, I felt like I
Speaker 9: couldn't sit down in the house and we were drinking
Speaker 9: at her house still, and like she wanted me to
Speaker 9: use coasters which is fine. You know, I understand, it's
Speaker 9: your house, you want to keep it clean. But I
Speaker 9: also felt like there was nothing I could do in
Speaker 9: her house without breaking some rule or doing something wrong.
Speaker 9: There was a lot of no, No, don't do that,
Speaker 9: do this instead the whole time I was there. It
Speaker 9: was just a bit much. It's too bad because she
Speaker 9: was real cute, She has a lot of fun. She
Speaker 9: plays instruments, which is a rare thing, it seems like
Speaker 9: these days. And I was really looking forward to jamming
Speaker 9: out with her, but just.
Speaker 6: Couldn't put up with the fact that she might be
Speaker 6: too much of a clean freak for you.
Speaker 9: It was too much. And I'm not even scratching the surface. Guys,
Speaker 9: if you if you had seen it, you'd understand I'm
Speaker 9: trying to.
Speaker 3: Picture, because I would just feel like clean is such
Speaker 3: a turn on.
Speaker 9: All her chairs are wrapped in plastic.
Speaker 1: Uh.
Speaker 9: And if it was only you know, once or twice, Okay, fine,
Speaker 9: it's your house, I'll follow your rules. But it was
Speaker 9: the whole night.
Speaker 6: Thank you're being honest with this, man. I appreciate that.
Speaker 9: Yeah, is this gonna be on the radio?
Speaker 6: Yeah? It is.
Speaker 2: Also, she's actually on the phone, has been listening this
Speaker 2: whole time and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 9: Oh I should have guessed, right, Hi Bryan, Hi Amanda,
Speaker 9: how are you?
Speaker 1: Can I just say it like, I feel really ridiculous
Speaker 1: for going overboard about the cleanliness because weirdly not the
Speaker 1: first time that someone's referred to me as like a.
Speaker 4: Danny Tanner kind of are you serious?
Speaker 1: But like I guess, I get kind of anxious when
Speaker 1: I have a guest over, so like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I feel I feel bad about going over for like
Speaker 1: I'm usually pretty chill and.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't I just I think I
Speaker 1: was just really nervous.
Speaker 9: So then what's with the plastic wire? All of the
Speaker 9: chair is wrapped up like Christmas presents and clear wrappers.
Speaker 1: Well, so like the plastic you might actually find this funny.
Speaker 1: I actually I'm really lazy and haven't unwrapped it since
Speaker 1: buying it.
Speaker 9: Wait, why are you serious?
Speaker 4: I mean, like, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: It does make it easier to clean, and it is
Speaker 1: kind of like my grandma vibe, which I hear his
Speaker 1: cheek now, is to have Grandma speak in your house.
Speaker 6: So somehow your laziness turned stylish all of a sudden.
Speaker 4: Right, But is that comfortable though?
Speaker 3: I just feel like my butt would stick to the chair,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 4: Sometimes it does. I'm not even gonna lie.
Speaker 9: Are you on the couch naked a lot?
Speaker 4: I guess yeah, But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess like after the pandemic, I feel like everybody
Speaker 1: is really just psyched out about like coming into a
Speaker 1: place and knowing that that person isn't clean or washing
Speaker 1: their hands or whatever.
Speaker 4: So I think I have a little bit of that
Speaker 4: going on too.
Speaker 3: I love how honest you're being about your cleanliness. I
Speaker 3: think that that's something that I mean, do you appreciate
Speaker 3: that a little bit?
Speaker 9: I mean I do. Yeah, I don't think there's anything
Speaker 9: wrong with being clean. I just don't, you know, want
Speaker 9: a list of rules to follow if I'm going to
Speaker 9: come over, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I definitely get that.
Speaker 1: I totally could see why that came across as abrasive
Speaker 1: and maybe a little.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I promise I'm not crazy. I maybe it's just
Speaker 4: a little normal about it crazy, but that's not crazy.
Speaker 3: A little crazy is good, right, Brian?
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean a little crazy.
Speaker 2: Is a lot of fun, exactly, Yes, so, Brian, see,
Speaker 2: would you like another date with Amanda?
Speaker 6: We'll pay for it, you know.
Speaker 9: Yeah, Actually I honestly didn't think we would ever talk again,
Speaker 9: but yeah, I think we could have a good time still.
Speaker 9: Jam said, yeah, yeah, let's jam out for sure. Well,
Speaker 9: let's get wild next time. I ripped that plastic off
Speaker 9: the furniture.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'll make sure to bring the faith next time
Speaker 1: for our jazz question.
Speaker 3: You've been tucking dirty. I can't tell.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't tell, roppling plastic off the furniture and
Speaker 2: slapping the base of it.
Speaker 6: All right, Well, congratulations, you got another date?
Speaker 3: Yay? Are you excited?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 9: And I'm excited too.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we're all excited, so excited.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the chairs are excited and the bass is
Speaker 2: excited and the band's excited.
Speaker 6: Thank you, guys, No, thank you.
Speaker 9: Thanks.
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