1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: Welcome back to Almost Famous. It's been I'm here and 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 2: I have an incredible co host today and we have 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 2: a lot to break down. Bachelor in Paradise is happening. 6 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 2: Episode four of Paradise has just aired a few minutes ago, 7 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: and we're here right now to talk about everything we saw, experience, 8 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 2: think and feel. And we have not only a former 9 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 2: paradiser but one of America's favorite bachelorettes along with Now, 10 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna call a reality star because I 11 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: don't think we can just consume this within the Bachelor world. 12 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 2: Rachel Rekia, thank you for co hosting with me today. 13 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 3: Hi Ben, thank you for having me. I'm so excited. 14 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,160 Speaker 3: I have so many thoughts. Oh, lot to go over. 15 00:00:52,840 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 2: I have zero doubt when Rachel comes on that she's 16 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 2: gonna have thoughts. 17 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 3: Oh, I'm prepared with my notes. Always so much to say. 18 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: And I ask for a co host. Rachel's my top choice. 19 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: But Rachel, before we jump into this together, because we're 20 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 2: on the same team today, I do have to interview 21 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 2: you for a second. 22 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:13,400 Speaker 3: Of course, I expect nothing less. 23 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 2: Now it has just come out that on August first, 24 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 2: there's a new Netflix show called The Perfect Match that 25 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 2: you're going to be on along with Clayton Eckerd. 26 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: Who would have thought those two names? I went back 27 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 3: in the same sentence you did. 28 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody's gonna try to bring that back. If somebody's 29 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: gonna try to make that happen, Rachel, I know you 30 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 2: well enough, but I'm not gonna claim to know your 31 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: ins and outs in dating and your lifestyle choices. I 32 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 2: know you well enough to know that I like you, 33 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 2: and I appreciate you, and I respect you, and I 34 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: get excited anytime we're going to be on the same 35 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 2: trip together because I know you're a good time. I 36 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: watched the trailer for The Perfect Match. It looks what's 37 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: the I'm going to say the word sexy, promiscuous. 38 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 3: Yes, very out of my element. Netflix is very sexy. 39 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 3: It's like too hot to handle, Temptation Island, and then 40 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 3: randomly like there's Bachelor people there. But I like to, 41 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 3: you know, I try to step out of my comfort 42 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 3: zone a little. I think I did that. So, yes, 43 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 3: the show is very different I think from what the 44 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 3: Bachelor audience is used to. 45 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 2: I don't we're not going to spend a ton of 46 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 2: time on this. I think it's gonna be a great show. 47 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: I'm very excited to watch it. We're gonna be breaking 48 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 2: it down. Actually right here, I'm almost. 49 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 3: Oh god, god, Yeah, okay, So I can't wait to 50 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 3: hear your thoughts. I'm actually kind of scared. 51 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, I'm going to say it, like 52 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 2: I feel it. We're going to protect you. 53 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 3: I was gonna say, you better say nothing bad about me. 54 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 55 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 3: I was an angel the whole time I was an angel. 56 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: It did nothing wrong. 57 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 2: Did you feel I mean, I feel like I would 58 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 2: have felt this way, But you know, being the lead 59 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: on such a huge franchise like The Bachelorette, do you 60 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 2: feel more hesitant kind of going on these other shows 61 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: when somebody's like, hey, get in a bikini and let 62 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,520 Speaker 2: somebody take a body shot off of you. Which I 63 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 2: only say that because we just saw that during this 64 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 2: episode of Paradise. Yeah, Like, would you feel a little 65 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 2: bit more reserved than others or do you feel like 66 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 2: you just still. 67 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 3: Dove in Well, I definitely dove into the best of 68 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 3: my ability. I don't think The Bachelorette is something that 69 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 3: ever held me back, but I still do have a 70 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: job as a pilot and a teacher, so I definitely 71 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 3: keep that in the back of my mind. I never 72 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 3: did anything really that the audience hasn't seen me do. 73 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 3: Like if I kiss a bunch of people, they've already 74 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 3: seen me kiss thirty two So nothing too bad. But no, 75 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: I was really excited to like jump in and I 76 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 3: hope you guys enjoy it, and I can't wait to 77 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 3: hear the thoughts. 78 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: I can't wait to watch it. Last question, I only 79 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 2: know you and I won't even say who it was 80 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 2: to date one person post bachelorette or have any type 81 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 2: of fling with them. Is this show about finding love? 82 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: Like you go on to it hoping that you find 83 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 2: your perfect match or is it more of a it's 84 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: a good time, let's just do it. 85 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: Well, I think for the most part, like a lot 86 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 3: of people just go on for it's like paradise, kind 87 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 3: of like the Vibes. But our season actually we have 88 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 3: an engagement and a baby, multiple engagements, so it's like 89 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 3: this season was supposed to be a fling, and when 90 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 3: you go into it like that, I think that's when 91 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 3: serious things happen. 92 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 2: So you could be engaged right now, you could be child. 93 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 2: I don't know you anymore. 94 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 3: I know you do you do? 95 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 2: I don't know? 96 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 3: But yeah, No, this is definitely their most serious season. 97 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 3: That's why I think they brought in Bachelor people and 98 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 3: people from more serious shows, because they wanted that kind 99 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 3: of vibe and they got it. But still sexy. 100 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:59,159 Speaker 2: Well, we're gonna be excited watching in August first on Netflix, 101 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 2: perfect match with our girl Rachel and Clayton. Who knows 102 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 2: there could be a new a rekindled fling happened, which 103 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 2: would be even more mind bowing, which I'd have so 104 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 2: much to say, and I probably wouldn't protect Rachel at 105 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 2: that point, but Rachel, let's dive into. 106 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, enough about that. So many thoughts. I want to 107 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 3: know your opinion on this season two, and that's. 108 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,039 Speaker 2: Where I want to start. I want to start with 109 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: kind of the overarching let's like regroup, catch up. It's 110 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 2: episode four. The Goldens are now on the beach. We're 111 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 2: seeing relationships deepen, We're also seeing relationships start to dwindle 112 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 2: and fray. Overall you've been in Paradise, You've watched yourself 113 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 2: in paradise. My thoughts have always been this. I don't 114 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: hate the modernization. I do. I do not like the location. 115 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 2: I will say that it's very confusing for me. Compared 116 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 2: even four episodes in, It's hard for me to track 117 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: where people are at what they're doing. I miss people 118 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 2: just being on the beach, lounging, swimming, chasing whatever they 119 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 2: were chasing. I miss the bugs. I miss seeing like, 120 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 2: really beautiful people smack bugs off their faces in the 121 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,480 Speaker 2: middle of the night. I love that. I think it's 122 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: a great element of the show that people enjoyed. I 123 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: don't now. I'm getting used to the like kind of 124 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 2: the filming and how it's edited and the modernization of that. 125 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: I don't hate it as much as I used to, 126 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 2: But I will say this, I am still four episodes 127 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 2: in discombobulated while watching the show because I don't feel 128 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: like I understand what's happening and where people are kind 129 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 2: of like mingling, and as a result, I lose touch. 130 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 2: Because I used to love it when somebody would watch 131 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 2: walk down the stairs of like the cabana room, and 132 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: I would know that, like, hey, there's significant others making 133 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 2: out with somebody in the pool, and they're gonna walk 134 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 2: right up on them. I miss that part of it. 135 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: I don't know what this resort looks like right. 136 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 3: It's almost like, as a viewer, you could walk around 137 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 3: the old villa and know exactly where everything was. Yes, 138 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 3: I'm so happy I was on Paradise before this, Like 139 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 3: no shade, Well, I'm gonna probably shade a little bit. 140 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 3: But I like you said, everything has to be updated right. 141 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 3: The way we were doing stuff was a little bit behind. 142 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 3: I think we could have still done an update in 143 00:07:21,080 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 3: a Bachelor way. What I don't like is it feels 144 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 3: like it's trying to be not the Bachelor anymore. And 145 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 3: that's where I feel like it's just not like doing 146 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 3: well for me. I don't like the dream sequence thing 147 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 3: that they're doing this little like I don't know. I 148 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 3: like the editing. I like that they get to have 149 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 3: you know, Ac, that's great for them. I like that 150 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 3: they're eating on camera. Amazing. But it's just a lot 151 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 3: of change at once, and a lot of change with 152 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 3: the Goldens coming in and with the cast. I feel 153 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,679 Speaker 3: like getting the short end of the stick of six 154 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 3: couples total, Like how do you find options in that? 155 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 3: And now the couples are all locked in because there's 156 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 3: no one there. I don't know. 157 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: No, I'm with you, I'm tracking. I agree with everything. 158 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 2: They've slowly eliminated the dream sequence more and more. I 159 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 2: can tell yeah to the audience, being like, this is 160 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 2: just distracting from the show. I personally, Rachel, you might 161 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: hate this. I loved watching you have bugs like I 162 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 2: loved watching have crabs while they're trying to use their 163 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 2: morning constitutional. I loved seeing like the most put together 164 00:08:35,520 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 2: social media influencer who's always like looking clean and nice, 165 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 2: sweat through their bikini and no, I agree, like I 166 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 2: loved it. I thought that was the best thing. 167 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 3: I miss seeing the people on the beach looking so 168 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,959 Speaker 3: to shovel and then the new fresh person coming down. 169 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 3: You could tell who's been there the longest. Now everyone 170 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 3: looks fresh. Yeah, this isn't fair, Like you need to 171 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 3: look at their and you need to have bugweites on 172 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 3: your face and sand in your bed. Yeah, that's paradise. 173 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 3: Eating French fries, like surviving off round fried food. It's 174 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 3: just definitely not paradise. 175 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 2: No, And I think from a viewers standpoint, one of 176 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 2: the things, you know, as the show became more influencer 177 00:09:17,559 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 2: focused and as people came off The Bachelor and Bachelorette 178 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 2: and made their own name for themselves by doing whatever 179 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: they'd on social media, and as everybody comes back home 180 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 2: and they are beautiful people who you know, can take 181 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 2: a beautiful picture and mark it up. I think it 182 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 2: was the thing saving the show for those same people 183 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 2: to have to go to the beach and for the 184 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 2: viewer to go, yeah, you're still pretty, you still look great, 185 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 2: but you're also very human. And like Sam's story last 186 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 2: year or two years ago was so good, Like she 187 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 2: didn't poop for what ten days? That's amazing. That's so 188 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 2: good for the show. 189 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 3: That's what I was saying. And I think the reason 190 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 3: last year I feel like I got so much hate 191 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 3: was because it was in tandem with the goal in 192 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 3: the first Golden season, so people were like, this is 193 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:06,120 Speaker 3: so stupid compared to the Golden I'm like, that's the point. 194 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 3: It's been stupid every single season. You guys are just 195 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 3: forgetting it. And now I'm like, it's kind of not 196 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 3: as stupid anymore. It's kind of just like I'm watching 197 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,959 Speaker 3: couples lock in day one, and now I feel like 198 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:18,839 Speaker 3: everyone kind of knows how to play the game. M 199 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 3: h I feel like that's what I'm watching, watching people 200 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 3: try to produce themselves. Yeah, some things did surprise me, 201 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 3: like the Jeremy and the SUSI. That was wild. I 202 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 3: loved that. But some of it is just like, Okay, 203 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,319 Speaker 3: you guys know how to do this, and I'm watching 204 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 3: you play a game. 205 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's dive in. Let's dive into this episode. We 206 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:42,319 Speaker 2: have all the couples, all the people on the beach. 207 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 2: We had the same introu that we've had as the 208 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 2: last episode, with a lot of winking. It's cute, it's great, 209 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 2: it's fine, it's fun. Everything looks awesome. It's a cool 210 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 2: way to do it. I we kind of started this episode. 211 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 2: We started out slow with the water aerobics and oh 212 00:10:59,240 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 2: you missed. 213 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 3: The whole Jonathan and April in purry. 214 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, go ahead and talk about that. I do think, actually, 215 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: you're right, that does play into kind of the big 216 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 2: Row ceremony moment. So I do think this is a 217 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 2: foreshadowing of what is to come. 218 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:18,839 Speaker 3: I mean just kind of crazy, Like I think Paradise 219 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 3: is like even for me. I feel like I when 220 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 3: I was there, I had a lot of connections, Like whatever, 221 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:28,959 Speaker 3: I wasn't the most solid. But I hate this constant 222 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 3: pushing of this golden and young narrative. I feel like 223 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:34,599 Speaker 3: we're seeing the peak of it right now, Like I 224 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 3: feel like this is where it's coming from, and I'm 225 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 3: just not into it. I don't like it. 226 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 2: I don't like it. I mean I don't I've never 227 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 2: liked it. I won't say that I wouldn't be interested. 228 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: If April and Jonathan actually made out, I would be like, Wow, 229 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 2: that's crazy, not a great Like I don't want to. 230 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:54,080 Speaker 3: See it, like we can make TV in so many 231 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 3: other ways. 232 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 2: Like I don't know it does. It does make me uncomfortable. 233 00:11:59,200 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: And one of the reasons is, and you've been around 234 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 2: them with me. We know so many of these Golden Ladies. 235 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 2: I don't know as much of the Golden Men because 236 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 2: there's season happened and we haven't done as many things together. 237 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: But I know so many of the Golden Ladies. Well. 238 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 2: I respect them so much, and they are such motherly figures, 239 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 2: like they they sent Winnie my daughter, like a huge 240 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 2: gift when she was born, you know that, and it's 241 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 2: an incredible gift that she still plays with so sweet, 242 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 2: like when we're together they're so like encouraging and such 243 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 2: good listeners. To see those same women on the beach 244 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 2: and to know just in my mind that they're going 245 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 2: to be pursued by somebody my age or younger makes 246 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 2: me uncomfortable in so many ways, and I don't think 247 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 2: viewers want to see it. Now Again, I'm a hypocrite 248 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 2: because I did say at some point during this episode, 249 00:12:55,520 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: I think April would be really down to make out Jonathan, 250 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 2: and it would honestly feel a little different for me 251 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 2: because I know April as well, and I know she'd 252 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 2: be really down to like probably make out with Jonathan literally, 253 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 2: so like that doesn't feel as weird to me, but 254 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 2: that's a one off scenario. 255 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 3: I love April having her like share a moment like 256 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 3: I do, but I also am like, Okay, if you 257 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 3: had rules reversed and this was kat Is Oh and 258 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 3: Captain whatever, this would be not okay. So like I'm 259 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 3: trying to put it in that perspective where, like I 260 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 3: do get age gap relationships, no problem with them, but like, 261 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 3: I don't want to view the Goldens in this light. 262 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 3: Like I thought they were there for advice and I 263 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 3: love that they're like being crazy and doing body shops 264 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 3: like I love that, but it's making me look at 265 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 3: them different, and I don't want to. I want to 266 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 3: keep this image like Santa Claus in my head of them, 267 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 3: like you're perfect. 268 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 2: You're like my wife. She watches The Golden Show because 269 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 2: there's a purity to it that she loves, and she 270 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 2: can like invest into these people and be like, I 271 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 2: just want to see you thrive and find your everlasting love. 272 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:14,719 Speaker 2: But the switch would be like she doesn't I think 273 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 2: view them in the way of you just want to 274 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 2: hook up, like you just need to get laid again. 275 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 2: Interesting thing though, April, you could tell me if I'm wrong. 276 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 2: April's like strutting around into bikini. She's looking good, She's carrying. 277 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 3: It well, like yes, she has shook great. 278 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 2: She's showing it off like she is there too. She's 279 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 2: definitely the one with the youngest energy. Now we do 280 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 2: have other relationships, obviously you did the water aerobics were 281 00:14:41,280 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 2: just was just a good filler, nice and fun. We're 282 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 2: gonna kind of skip through this episode. You stop me, 283 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 2: Rachel wherever you think. Hey, there's a big moment. I'm 284 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 2: really bummed and I hate when the show does this 285 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:55,440 Speaker 2: and I feel like they've done this more over the 286 00:14:55,520 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 2: last five years than ever before. I feel like they 287 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 2: haven't completed story I and so I invest into a 288 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 2: story and then there's like a twist that I don't 289 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: even see coming or understand that's a twist. It just 290 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 2: feels like I missed out on something. And I felt 291 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 2: like that with the RJ Natasha scenario. I know that 292 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 2: maybe she had mentioned hey, like he's funny or whatever, 293 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 2: and it didn't feel like the connection was as strong 294 00:15:18,760 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 2: as maybe he since it was, But in my mind, 295 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 2: watching this episode and watching everything so far, they had 296 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: something good enough to continue on with this potentially you know, 297 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 2: leave this beach together and so well spoiler alert, like 298 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 2: she doesn't give RJ the rose he goes home. What happened? 299 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 3: I know? I want to say. I do think Natasha 300 00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 3: was very openly interested in Gary. And the thing about 301 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:50,480 Speaker 3: the Goldens is I feel like they're not like I 302 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 3: need to get a rose. They're like, I'm interested in 303 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 3: this one person, like kind of tunnel vision, and they 304 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 3: don't really want to get him. Am I wrong? Like 305 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 3: I kind of felt that way watching Leslie, and I'm like, 306 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 3: I feel like, once they like something they kind of 307 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 3: just go all in, which is respectable. I feel like Natasha, 308 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 3: which is more gary. You No, I liked Margin more, 309 00:16:11,560 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 3: but there was more potential there. 310 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it felt like there was actually something there. 311 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 2: I never saw the gary thing coming. You mentioned that 312 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 2: it feels like people nowadays are playing the game more 313 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 2: than they used to it. It sounds like what you're 314 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:37,320 Speaker 2: saying too, is the Goldens just haven't played the game, 315 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 2: Like they don't know how to play the game, so 316 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 2: they don't know to stay open and to kind of 317 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 2: date around. 318 00:16:42,880 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 3: It could also be because they know what they want. Yeah, 319 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 3: Like maybe it's like it could be either, but yeah, 320 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 3: we're watching game players versus like newbies, Like we've never 321 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 3: seen anything like that before. 322 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 2: It's like the old school paradise back in the day 323 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 2: where it just started and you had that's where you 324 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 2: had a lot of the like like weddings coming from 325 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 2: because people would invest right away. And that was one 326 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,480 Speaker 2: of the things the show struggled with. It got boring 327 00:17:08,560 --> 00:17:10,880 Speaker 2: because all these couples would couple up and they'd be like, no, 328 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 2: you and I to the end and it was beautiful, 329 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 2: but it was kind of like the middle of the 330 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: season got so boring because everybody was just like enjoying 331 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:24,679 Speaker 2: each other's company on you know, the beach, right, and 332 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 2: it seems like the stage the Goldens are in. Well 333 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 2: you mentioned this, you know Gary showing up. Gary Levinson 334 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 2: shows up. He's a big personality. He's full of a 335 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 2: ton of joy. He's from Jones season obviously of the 336 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 2: Golden Bachelorette. You know, those big personalities will always stand 337 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:46,680 Speaker 2: out on the beach. He seems in very he comes 338 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 2: in very confident. I did not see the Leslie relationship happening. 339 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 3: I didn't either. I was gonna say that, I wrote, 340 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 3: no chemistry. She likes to dance. Leslie could love anyone 341 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 3: when she's dancing like that. I got. 342 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, it just felt like it missed it the whole time. Now, 343 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 2: the show did a good job, like with the rain 344 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 2: and the dancing and the you know dips and the toils. 345 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 2: It made it look beautiful, but it just never felt 346 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 2: like the whole time I watched, and I said, is this, 347 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:18,639 Speaker 2: it feels like I'm not watching what they're trying to 348 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 2: communicate to me. It feels like it misses it. Even 349 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 2: you know they like usually you can tell they're in 350 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 2: the conversation. The dancing part like it is what it is, 351 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 2: but during the conversation you can usually tell if there's 352 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 2: chemistry or not. And I watched this and it did. 353 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 2: It felt like two people on a first day that 354 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 2: would leave being like, hey, I think you're great. 355 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:44,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, like two friends set them up. They're both hopeless romantics. 356 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,280 Speaker 3: I feel like they're similar in some sense, but I, 357 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 3: just like you said, I did not get any sort 358 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 3: of chemistry with them. 359 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 2: I want to keep on Gary for a second, Rachel. 360 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 2: You know, he's a huge personality. I think Bachelor Nation 361 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:00,639 Speaker 2: has always known him as this bubbly figure, and I 362 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: think he is. I'm not gonna say I don't know him. 363 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 2: I'm assuming he is. We saw Gary after the rose ceremony, 364 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,960 Speaker 2: after Natasha gave him the rose. We saw this, I 365 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 2: would say, an other side of him, not the bubbly, welcoming, 366 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 2: like come give me a hug, good morning type of person. 367 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:22,479 Speaker 2: He is either really into Leslie and really nervous about 368 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 2: ruining whatever is happening there, or he is really not 369 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:29,919 Speaker 2: into Natasha and giving hold her the cold shoulder. So 370 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: I say all this for you to comment on it, 371 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 2: and also for me to ask the question because you've 372 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 2: been to Paradise. I haven't. Why would he say yes 373 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:39,880 Speaker 2: to her rose if he wasn't at all into it? 374 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 3: And it's so hard to watch them again, like you said, 375 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 3: because they are not playing a game. And even when 376 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 3: he accepted Natasha's rose, he was like dancing up there, 377 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 3: and like you said, the first thing I thought was, Okay, 378 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 3: well we missed something, like they're clearly getting on so 379 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 3: much better if like Leslie was like, okay, well we 380 00:19:57,080 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 3: had the date, so it's the right thing to do 381 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 3: to give him the rose, like she's thinking in that way. 382 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 3: But the morning after Natasha comes up, she's like, oh, 383 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 3: you guys had like a chance to talk. And he 384 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:11,159 Speaker 3: definitely was disappointed that he was matched with Natasha, and 385 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 3: you could see it. And I think Leslie was disappointed 386 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:16,919 Speaker 3: as well with her day. So I'll be interested to 387 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,359 Speaker 3: see what happens with them. 388 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 2: It seems like I expected Gary to either decline the 389 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 2: rose and hope that Leslie gave it to him, or 390 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 2: if he did accept the rose the next morning to 391 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 2: be very brutally honest with Natasha and say, hey, I 392 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:34,879 Speaker 2: know last night I played out the way it did 393 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 2: I just want to be honest with you. We don't 394 00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 2: have something here. I'm very interested in Leslie and kind 395 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 2: of free her up to not stand there and do 396 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 2: the thing that I've been stuck doing so many times, 397 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,919 Speaker 2: which is, you know, you stand by their side and 398 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:51,919 Speaker 2: be like, uh so what are you having for breakfast? 399 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 2: What are you? What are you into? And then ignoring 400 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 2: you and you feeling about as you know, an inch 401 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: big that's such a terrible feeling. 402 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,120 Speaker 3: I think we could say the same thing for Leslie though, 403 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 3: because Kim wrote that amazing like no or the poem. 404 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,160 Speaker 3: The ending was weird because he said I think you're 405 00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,440 Speaker 3: my number one until something changes, which was not romantic. 406 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:15,439 Speaker 3: But she still sat there and was like, oh thank you, 407 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 3: Like why didn't she say something and kind of cut 408 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 3: it off. So I think it'll be definitely interesting because 409 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 3: we're watching definitely two people who I don't see have 410 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 3: chemistry find their way back to each other. Maybe I 411 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 3: don't know. 412 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll be interesting. It's the storyline to follow, other 413 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:38,119 Speaker 2: storylines to follow. Some quick hits here, Kathy's you know 414 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 2: body shot, big deal. Love Kathy. She's amazing, She's amazing, 415 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 2: and she's so good on TV. Mm hmm, definitely didn't 416 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:47,919 Speaker 2: know how to do a body shot. 417 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 3: I loved the way she did it, and I love 418 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 3: the way she got like right on top of him 419 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 3: and everyone else there being like, oh, the young people 420 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 3: would never do that because they're so cautious of like image, 421 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,960 Speaker 3: and but they like. I love Kathy. She's bringing something 422 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 3: to the beach that I will be so disappointed if 423 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 3: we do not get her for the whole season. 424 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 2: I'm with you, Kathy would be the one to get 425 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,680 Speaker 2: me into trouble if I was on the beach with her, 426 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 2: Like she would be the one to be like, hey, Ben, 427 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,119 Speaker 2: let's go rip shot to the bar, even though she 428 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 2: supposedly has never taken a shot in her life. 429 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 3: I looks like that one pretty easy. 430 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. I have a hard time believing that she has 431 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,640 Speaker 2: not tipped them back her with. 432 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,880 Speaker 3: This champagne in the hot up like. I love her. 433 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 3: I love her so much. 434 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 2: She's great in g The only thing that could have 435 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 2: made it better was Susan being there alongside of her, 436 00:22:36,800 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 2: because the two of them are absolute clown show and 437 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 2: the sweetest, most carrying, great women. And I'm so glad 438 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 2: so far that we have not seen Kathy with a 439 00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 2: younger man, because that would have broke my heart in 440 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:50,159 Speaker 2: so many ways. 441 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,280 Speaker 3: I just don't think she would. No, I think I 442 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 3: really don't. 443 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 2: No, she's too she she still sees her. I mean 444 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 2: she is, she's a mom, she has kids, our age 445 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: like she just could never go there. We've talked about 446 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 2: the Leslie and Gary day, We've talked about Natasha and Gary. 447 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 2: I think it's time, if you're okay with it, Rachel, 448 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:15,359 Speaker 2: to dig into what I find to be the most 449 00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 2: non shocking I guess part of the show, which is 450 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 2: this Cat and Dale blow up. 451 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 3: I wanted to talk to you about that. 452 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:27,320 Speaker 2: It's not shocking to me. I don't know where we 453 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 2: have forgotten things along the way. I don't know where 454 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 2: we thought things would be different now than it was. 455 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 2: But there's so many parts of this that I had 456 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 2: to write in my notes. Don't be too judgmental, because 457 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 2: there's so many elements to this dynamic that just makes 458 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:52,560 Speaker 2: me cringe and go, what are you thinking? 459 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm interested. I feel like we might have different 460 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 3: opinions on this. 461 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:02,159 Speaker 2: Okay one, I'm with Kat. This dead thing, this debbit 462 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 2: thing is very confusing. It's it's very odd to me. 463 00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 3: Ben, I had to chat GBT debtit. I had to 464 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 3: look it up. 465 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 2: My question to you, because I'm typically less likely to 466 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 2: be in the know on cool new things happening in 467 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,719 Speaker 2: this world. I've always been slow when it happens with that, 468 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,840 Speaker 2: and so this debit, I'd never heard of it. I'd 469 00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 2: never like thought of it. I think I knew what 470 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 2: it means, meaning like it's over, move on. However, if 471 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 2: that's is that what it means, let me be clear. 472 00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 3: I actually I guess it kind of means like we 473 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 3: took care of that, like it's over. It's like early 474 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 3: two thousands slang is what it says, Like when has 475 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 3: anyone ever used that? And so many times, not only 476 00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 3: with Kat he did it in the bedroom, he did 477 00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:56,160 Speaker 3: it in his interview. Like I mean, I didn't get 478 00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 3: to see enough of Dale and clar season obviously because 479 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 3: he was gone in a day. But now I'm seeing 480 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 3: del like what is wrong with you? 481 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,479 Speaker 2: Kind of one hundred percent? Well that was my point 482 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,160 Speaker 2: it Okay, so let's sit on the debt it because 483 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 2: he does kiss somebody else, I don't even have a 484 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 2: problem with that. It's paradise. It happens, it's part of it. 485 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:18,919 Speaker 2: You do what you gotta do. 486 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 3: I think they should kiss more people with you. 487 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,399 Speaker 2: Stay open, go kiss, go have fun, see what fits, 488 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 2: see what doesn't. And then at some point in the 489 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 2: season it feels like a natch. Always a natural transition 490 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 2: to be like, hey, you know what, I don't want 491 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 2: us to leave alone. I want you to be here 492 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,680 Speaker 2: with me. But at the start, I'm always confused at 493 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 2: the relationships that are like, nope, you and I only. 494 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 2: I think it's very fair. However, by saying that, I 495 00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 2: also will say that I think both sides need to 496 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 2: be very open and honest about that. That they're kissing 497 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 2: other people, that they're dating other people, that they're still 498 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 2: into each other. It's a very weird dynamic. It felt 499 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 2: like to me the course of this argument that Dale 500 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 2: was wanting to end it or thought they had ended 501 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 2: it without actually asking if the other person involved was 502 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 2: okay ending this conversation and moving forward. It felt like 503 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,960 Speaker 2: he was almost forcing it, being like, hey, it happened, 504 00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 2: it's over. You gotta be okay with this. Move on. 505 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 2: When Cat's sitting there, and I will say my criticism 506 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: the Cat is she gets very upset very quickly, and 507 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,919 Speaker 2: she doesn't clearly communicate that, Hey, I don't want to 508 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 2: move on from this because I am hurt by this. 509 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 2: I thought we had something more than special and I'm hurt. 510 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 2: So she didn't. I won't say she did that perfectly, 511 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 2: but it felt I don't want to use the word 512 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,640 Speaker 2: manipulative because I know that, but I've already used it. 513 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 2: It felt like a forced closure to a scenario that 514 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 2: the other person had not signed off on closing. 515 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 3: I agree, And to be fair, I was on Bachelor 516 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:06,400 Speaker 3: Comparadise with Kat the way Catherine Izzo would blow up 517 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,239 Speaker 3: on a drop of a dime. I'm seeing such a 518 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 3: mature cat. I'm so proud of her. I messaged her. 519 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,959 Speaker 3: I was like, I just watched the episode and I 520 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 3: was I didn't know who I was watching. She was 521 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 3: like so clearly telling him that she's upset not because 522 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 3: of the kiss, but because he wasn't honest and she 523 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 3: wanted this open communication. And I think he was upset 524 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 3: I guess because of the timing, Like they kept arguing 525 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 3: about the timing and that in his world they keep 526 00:27:33,800 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 3: things so close and they don't say their relationship problems 527 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 3: and like First of all, Dale, you lied on camera 528 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 3: because you said you guys kissed once. Lie, she's gonna 529 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:46,200 Speaker 3: see this back, Like do you not think there are 530 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 3: cameras here? And second, it was kind of giving, like 531 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 3: you said, not manipulation, but I think when people tell 532 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 3: their partner we need to keep this between us. We're 533 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 3: not supposed to be talking about this. It's given, like 534 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 3: you know you're wrong, and you just don't want her 535 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 3: to go ask other people because they'll tell her you're wrong, 536 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,399 Speaker 3: Like he wants to kind of just never have this 537 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 3: discussion again. 538 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 2: It's not fair to cat And that's why I was 539 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 2: hesit to use the word manipulation. I don't exactly know 540 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 2: what it was more than just it felt like he 541 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 2: tried to control the narrative that at this point should 542 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,199 Speaker 2: not have been controlled. It didn't need to be. It 543 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 2: didn't need to be an issue. I think if the 544 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 2: two of him sat there and said, hey, I'm hurt 545 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 2: by this, and he said, I did this, but I'm 546 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 2: still very interested in you, and what that kiss led 547 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,000 Speaker 2: me to was to know that I still want to 548 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 2: come back to you, I think this gets a lot easier. 549 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 3: He could have just been like, listen, it was day two, Like, 550 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 3: I'm sure if someone else wrote your name down that 551 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 3: you would have also done it. If not, that's okay. 552 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 3: But I chose you. This is what I did, like 553 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 3: I'm only interested in you. And then maybe you have 554 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,840 Speaker 3: the conversation of we're keeping this closed now, not going 555 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 3: to see other people. It's a perfect time for it. 556 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 3: But like you said, he got angry. He told the 557 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:09,560 Speaker 3: boys about it. He got mad at her because of 558 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 3: the timing of it, and then it carried on into 559 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 3: the next day and that night after the. 560 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 2: Ropes, it felt like he was trying to say the 561 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 2: same thing. If he came up with a better argument, 562 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 2: I think I get more on his side, But felt 563 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 2: like he was saying the same thing the whole time. 564 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 2: It felt like, even when he was talking to Gary 565 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,480 Speaker 2: at the bar, he was doing this thing where it's 566 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:32,480 Speaker 2: like and we just come from different places, and I'm 567 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 2: wanting to ask him, or I wish Gary would have 568 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 2: asked him, what do you exactly mean by that? Because 569 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: coming from different places doesn't change the fact that somebody 570 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 2: you care about his hurt. When somebody care about his hurt, 571 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,600 Speaker 2: if you care about them, you spend a little more 572 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,480 Speaker 2: time listening and trying to figure that out and coming 573 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 2: up with some solution or at least walking through it. 574 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 3: Or an apology or ownership to some degree, he took. 575 00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 2: None, none, none. 576 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 3: I think yeah, like he wasn't even meaning like. I 577 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 3: think we come from different backgrounds. I think he kept 578 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 3: using that word. What I think he meant is, in 579 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 3: my family, we don't talk about our relationship problems with 580 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,920 Speaker 3: other people. And you did this in front of a camera, 581 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 3: and you're doing this before a Rose ceremony. And I 582 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,560 Speaker 3: think that's what he was saying. That's what I got, 583 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 3: and that's what I wrote down. 584 00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 2: I'm confused. I will I will say this whole thing 585 00:30:27,240 --> 00:30:32,240 Speaker 2: that mostly Dale's reaction. Now, I do think Kat, from 586 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,320 Speaker 2: your time on Paradise to now, like just there's a 587 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 2: big difference in how the response looks. And I will 588 00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 2: say also, she didn't perfectly communicate that she was hurt 589 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 2: and say how she was hurt. But Dale's response to 590 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,760 Speaker 2: her is at this point, and I think we'll get 591 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 2: more clarity as the season goes on. At this point, 592 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 2: it's nothing short of confusing to me. And also it 593 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 2: feels like he's protecting something like defending himself. In a 594 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:09,840 Speaker 2: way that doesn't it doesn't fit. It doesn't feel like 595 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 2: he's properly or intelligently defending himself so that she has clarity. 596 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 2: It just feels like he's like, no, stop talking about it, 597 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 2: you're hurt, it's over. We'll all move on. 598 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 3: But then she tried to move on, like right after rose, 599 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 3: she was like he haha, he was like no, no, 600 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 3: like he got mad about it again. Like we're missing 601 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,959 Speaker 3: something with Dale. He's not being honest to the camera 602 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 3: with how he feels. And I think that's why interviews 603 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 3: are so important, like to be honest if you don't 604 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 3: want to be honest with Kat. But like now we're 605 00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 3: all confused. 606 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 2: Like you said, we haven't seen obviously, the episode just 607 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 2: came out. It's always interesting to see the viewer's response. 608 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 2: I'm assuming the viewer's response is going to be very 609 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 2: much in kind of feeling like we're feeling where it's Hey, 610 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 2: this felt unhealthy, it felt weird. It didn't feel like 611 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: the start of a good relationship. Which we'll skip forward, 612 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,120 Speaker 2: like we have all episode here. Why would she give 613 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 2: him the rose? And then that's a part that confuses me. 614 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,719 Speaker 3: I think Kat has grown so much like truly, but 615 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 3: I think at the end of the day, like Dale 616 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 3: is probably the only one that she really is like 617 00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 3: sexually attracted to and interested in, and she in her mind, 618 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 3: like I think, kind of likes a little bit of 619 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 3: like the drama and toxicity, like not to a full extent, 620 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 3: but I think there are some couples that kind of 621 00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 3: like that a little bit, and I think Kat could 622 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 3: be one. Not trying to speak for her, but I 623 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 3: know couples that love to fight and then get like 624 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 3: be fine. 625 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 2: After yeah, fight and then because. 626 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, literally, I think Kat has a little bit of 627 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 3: that vibe. 628 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense, I mean it does. It, Just 629 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 2: it's it's unfamiliar to me, Like, yeah, you know, I 630 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 2: walk a very safe line. I'm like, I don't want 631 00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 2: to fight and I don't want to have to figure 632 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,959 Speaker 2: out how to make up if we do fight. So 633 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,120 Speaker 2: I watched this and I feel uncomfortable. And that's why 634 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 2: I had a lot of shock, honestly, when she gave 635 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 2: him the rose. It also feels like a decision now 636 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 2: watching the previews for future episodes that she will I 637 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 2: don't regret, but that probably wasn't a great decision. It's 638 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 2: just going to cause more drama and turmoil in her life. 639 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 2: A couple couples that have no drama in turmoil. Alex 640 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 2: and Andrews seem to be clicking around really good. 641 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 3: I love them. I love Andrew personally. I love Alex. 642 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 3: I think she's so different than like a lot of 643 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,920 Speaker 3: people we see on reality TV. She's very refreshing. I 644 00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,480 Speaker 3: see this as a couple. 645 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 2: Now. I just want to bring something up. Okay, you 646 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 2: can disagree with me, please, do you feel it. I 647 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 2: think she's a lot more in him than he is 648 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 2: into her. 649 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 3: I think Andrew is very nonchalot like I've seen him 650 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 3: like be, not like personally, but like I know him, 651 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 3: I feel like and I think when he's into people, 652 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:16,400 Speaker 3: he's not very like, I don't know, super forward. I 653 00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,240 Speaker 3: feel like he likes to like hang back a little. 654 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 3: I think he's also a little bit burned from his 655 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 3: time with Teddy in Paradise, and I think he's trying 656 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 3: to like not seem all into soon because he did 657 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 3: get that edit of like he couldn't get over Teddy 658 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,440 Speaker 3: and they met so fast. So I think he also 659 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 3: has been here enough where he knows what he's doing 660 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 3: and thinking about that and thinking about things. 661 00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 2: He's more hesitant. 662 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, justin as well. I think you see with like 663 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,480 Speaker 3: these seasoned you know, Paradise people, like they're kind of 664 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 3: a little bit more hesitant to like make a big move. 665 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 2: That's that's fair, and that that would answer a lot 666 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 2: of my questions. I just see her kind of like 667 00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,040 Speaker 2: saying things like I go to bed at nights, I 668 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 2: see you next day. He goes, that's sweet, and I'm like, dude, 669 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 2: like it's a big comment. 670 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think he's just playing it a little sake. 671 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 3: I do think he'sn't her, but we will see. 672 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 2: I hope he is. I love the couple if it works. Yes, 673 00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 2: Jeremy and Bailey, we barely see them. 674 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 3: I don't like I love her not any fact that 675 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 3: he still hasn't told her what he did that is 676 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:29,960 Speaker 3: grounds for absolutely never talking to him again. And she's 677 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 3: watching this now for the first time. 678 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,760 Speaker 2: Do you think she will ever know until she watched 679 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:35,160 Speaker 2: it back. 680 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:39,399 Speaker 3: I don't know. And I'm just a little bit also 681 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 3: upset with Alex because isn't that your best friend? Like 682 00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 3: I would be sprinting to Joe's room to tell her 683 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:50,239 Speaker 3: like that is an insane thing to know and not 684 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:50,880 Speaker 3: tell her. 685 00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. We don't see a lot of in 686 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 2: this episode. We do see them swapping gum. 687 00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 3: In sunburn and just talking. 688 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:02,960 Speaker 2: No, the iHeart team really wants us to talk about 689 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,839 Speaker 2: the idea of them swapping gum, sharing gum, making out 690 00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,799 Speaker 2: gum goes another person's mouth. I have never experienced that. 691 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 2: It's honestly something I would not do with my wife. 692 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 2: If I mean, if her gum fell in my mouth, 693 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,760 Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, this is yours, or I'm throwing 694 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 2: it away. It's not something I particularly am going to enjoy. 695 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 2: It's not something I'm going to be cool about, or 696 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 2: would I give it back to them or share it 697 00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 2: with them any longer? My wife and I would not 698 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 2: be That's just gum is a bacteria ridden substance that 699 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: is meant to do clean up whatever it is that's 700 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,280 Speaker 2: going on in your funky mouth at that time, truly, 701 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:41,600 Speaker 2: And the. 702 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,760 Speaker 3: Way they passed it like it wasn't even like a 703 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 3: They were like mouth to mouth. And then she goes, 704 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:51,880 Speaker 3: there's no flavor to it, So you're just chewing this 705 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 3: piece of gum that has all the food he just 706 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:58,080 Speaker 3: ate stuck to it with no flavor and then passed 707 00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 3: it back. 708 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 2: You're not into it either, No, I think. 709 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,640 Speaker 3: It's absolutely repulsive. And I also I'm just so mad 710 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,279 Speaker 3: at him that anything he does right now is making 711 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:05,800 Speaker 3: me pissed. 712 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 2: Oh so he's like, he's your villain number one right now? 713 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:12,120 Speaker 3: Ye us? Are you the way he just did her 714 00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 3: so dirty? Like you went on a date? You almost 715 00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:17,560 Speaker 3: gave your ross, Susie. She goes on a date and 716 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,320 Speaker 3: you have when he's talking to Shabby in the corner 717 00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 3: call her up right now, I was like, you're nuts, 718 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 3: you're crazy? Shoot or shoot? Come on. I'm sorry. I 719 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 3: know we haven't talked about last episode together, but I'm just. 720 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:32,320 Speaker 2: Like, no, please keep going. 721 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,920 Speaker 3: This is good over it? Like I'm sorry, Jeremy, Like 722 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,120 Speaker 3: I met him once, like seem like a good guy, 723 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 3: but that was just crazy. And then to be cuddling 724 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:44,279 Speaker 3: with her on the couch sleeping, passing gumback like no, 725 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:46,480 Speaker 3: and then you still haven't told her? 726 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:50,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, so let's play this out, listeners. I 727 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,880 Speaker 2: think would appreciate this. He never tells her. Let's just 728 00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,160 Speaker 2: let's just play it out that she doesn't ever know 729 00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,240 Speaker 2: that he said the things he did. And then also 730 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 2: went after easy the way he did. She they're still together, 731 00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 2: let's say at the end, happily they better not be. 732 00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 2: Do you get upset? 733 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 3: Like I love her, she's an angel baby, like she's 734 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,160 Speaker 3: like the queen of the beach, like all the boys 735 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 3: love her, Like I hate that for her, Like I 736 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,640 Speaker 3: don't know, I just think it's so disrespectful. 737 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I it's weird too, because it's not. I mean, 738 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,360 Speaker 2: I think you come at it from this place of 739 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,600 Speaker 2: protection because you love some of these women, you know 740 00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 2: some of them, You care about him, You've been there. 741 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 2: The show isn't making it as big of a storyline 742 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 2: as I think they could, meaning it doesn't feel like 743 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,319 Speaker 2: they're lighting the switch to blow this thing up, like 744 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,200 Speaker 2: they're kind of just secretly being like, yeah, Jeremy did 745 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 2: what he did, and I do feel like it's a 746 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,080 Speaker 2: big deal at least, as we said at the beginning, 747 00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 2: if he wanted to date other people, fine, but I 748 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 2: think Paradise has always been best served when communication is 749 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:02,880 Speaker 2: honest and open, and he should we should hear him 750 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,560 Speaker 2: have to tell Bailey, I'm still into you, and Susie's 751 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 2: out of my mind and I don't want to pursue 752 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:11,480 Speaker 2: her any longer, or we need him to tell her. Hey, 753 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,239 Speaker 2: I haven't stopped talking about thinking about Susie since the 754 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 2: moment she left, and you and I are not going 755 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 2: to make it, but we should see that conversation have 756 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:18,920 Speaker 2: to happen. 757 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 3: I think he said it at the Rose ceremony. I 758 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,719 Speaker 3: think to Jonathan, he goes, I'm second guessing my decision. Now. 759 00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:28,280 Speaker 3: I hope that Susie stays and takes this rose. And 760 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 3: and on top of like you calling her right after that, 761 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 3: like this is a huge story, and you do make 762 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,160 Speaker 3: a good point. The fact that they are not blowing 763 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,239 Speaker 3: it up does make me maybe think that they're together, 764 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 3: because when they protect a couple, lets together. 765 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:48,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's and so the great part will 766 00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:49,719 Speaker 2: be the after show if we have one. 767 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,319 Speaker 3: I know, because I genuinely don't know. I only know 768 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:57,200 Speaker 3: Jill's like little worlds like that. So I hope they 769 00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,000 Speaker 3: have a reaion. I'll be front row. 770 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,360 Speaker 2: Let's talk about your girl, Jill. Let's give her a moment. Ear. Obviously, 771 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:06,880 Speaker 2: Jill and Ashley are good friends. You love Jill, and uh, 772 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,480 Speaker 2: Jill is one of those people that I think if 773 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 2: I was on the beach with her, she would be 774 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,240 Speaker 2: like a safe, fun just like one of those people 775 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 2: that light up a room and bring positive moments to 776 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:24,840 Speaker 2: any situation she's in. I want her so badly to 777 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 2: find love on this beach. It does. It feels like 778 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 2: she gets pushed aside. I don't know why. It feels 779 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:37,000 Speaker 2: like these guys don't. I've done some live events with Jill. 780 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 2: She's gorgeous, she's funny, she's witty, she's smart, smart, she's engaging. 781 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,600 Speaker 2: I don't get why some one of these guys is like, 782 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 2: that's my girl, Like that's it. 783 00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 3: Genuinely. It's funny because watching back I told her, I'm like, 784 00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:51,759 Speaker 3: I feel like she would have hit it off with 785 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,080 Speaker 3: Kyle from the very beginning of the season, the one 786 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 3: who everyone was like, who is Kyle. I'm like, he 787 00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,720 Speaker 3: just seems so like smart and mature and to earth, 788 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:03,879 Speaker 3: and I feel like Jill needs like an intellectual guy. 789 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,200 Speaker 3: That's funny, And I think a lot of these guys 790 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,120 Speaker 3: on the beach, I would say Justin would have that too, 791 00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,640 Speaker 3: but they're also such good friends. Jill knows two guys 792 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 3: that are on the beach currently. Yeah, I don't think 793 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,839 Speaker 3: they gave them a recipe for success with only having 794 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 3: six couples. 795 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:24,520 Speaker 2: It's too little, too little, But it's still even with that. 796 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,640 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm with you, I even with that. When 797 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,920 Speaker 2: Ashley told me that Jill was coming back to Paradise, 798 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 2: my first thought was, goodness, I hope this one works well. 799 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 3: I thought she was engaged when she was there. I'm like, oh, 800 00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 3: she's engaged. I had a feeling. I had a feeling. 801 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:42,800 Speaker 2: I hate it. I hate it. But her story isn't finished. 802 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,719 Speaker 3: No, but she's with Sean. Yeah, so I already know her, 803 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,120 Speaker 3: like I without knowing. If I watch that happen, I'd 804 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,839 Speaker 3: be like, all right, So she's in a dark place 805 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,399 Speaker 3: right now. Love you Sean. He knows I love him. 806 00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:58,279 Speaker 3: But she even took her rose and said, I love 807 00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,680 Speaker 3: the opportunity to be here next week. 808 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, brutal. 809 00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 3: You're pissing off. 810 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:07,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's brutal. And so we'll follow her along. We're 811 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,400 Speaker 2: gonna pause here on the breakdown of the show. We 812 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 2: still have a few things to get to. The rose ceremony. 813 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:15,960 Speaker 2: Jonathan's moment trying to figure out if he's gonna stick 814 00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 2: around or not. Our girl, Hannah Brown, she's a Bachelorette, 815 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,360 Speaker 2: just like you were. She was announced to be in Paradise, 816 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:29,239 Speaker 2: she was given a title. Really before this whole competition 817 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 2: thing starts with this season, I thought we'd see a 818 00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,280 Speaker 2: lot of her. It to me, it feels like they 819 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 2: hired her on for a position that they don't know 820 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:40,879 Speaker 2: what she was gonna do, and they're trying to throw 821 00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 2: her into most random scenarios and it just doesn't fit. 822 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,799 Speaker 2: It's weird to see Hannah Brown in the background of Paradise, 823 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:54,600 Speaker 2: passing out champagne and making like doing some like random interview. 824 00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 3: We're not even seeing interviews of her. I'm seeing so 825 00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,760 Speaker 3: much of Wells, which I love. While was his interviews 826 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:02,520 Speaker 3: are incredible, Like I think he's such a crucial part 827 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 3: of Paradise. But Hannah is known for being outspoken and 828 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:10,960 Speaker 3: funny and crazy, and we're getting none of that, like 829 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:13,279 Speaker 3: not even an interview clip, not even her going up 830 00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,239 Speaker 3: and like laughing with the girls. Like I feel like 831 00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 3: they're not utilizing her at all. She's so funny. 832 00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 2: It's it's very odd to me. It's felt odd when 833 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 2: they announced it, because I mean, I love Wells, I 834 00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:30,959 Speaker 2: love Hannah. I think she's great, But I was like, hey, 835 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 2: Wells is enough here? Like this beach doesn't have room, 836 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 2: there's only six couples for everybody. What is Hannah going 837 00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,279 Speaker 2: to be doing? And the show, you know, had some 838 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,319 Speaker 2: fancy title like Champagne Hostess or whatever it was, or 839 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:46,840 Speaker 2: Bubbly Hostess, And then we watched this season and my 840 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 2: thought is why is she there? And that's not because 841 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,840 Speaker 2: it's the diss on Hannah, it's just what is she 842 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 2: doing there? 843 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,120 Speaker 3: Is? Yeah, I think there could have been like so 844 00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 3: much utilized because I think we needed some feminine energy. 845 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,320 Speaker 3: We have Jess, we have Wells. Wells gives the best advice, 846 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 3: but I think Hannah in a girl chat, Hannah leading 847 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,680 Speaker 3: dates or or meeting them on dates, I think there 848 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 3: could have been so much more. And she's so funny 849 00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 3: and chaotic. Yeah, they're definitely just I think fumbling with 850 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,440 Speaker 3: Hannah a little bit. For sure. 851 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,640 Speaker 2: We should see Hannah on every day. We should see 852 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,280 Speaker 2: her in every day, at least stopping by the table 853 00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 2: and you know, doing the random funny here's your two champagnes. 854 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:29,320 Speaker 2: How are you guys doing right? Saying something ridiculous and leaving. 855 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:33,040 Speaker 2: We should at least see that we're getting none of it. 856 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:33,800 Speaker 2: It's very odd. 857 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 3: I think the audience sees it as well. I've seen 858 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,279 Speaker 3: a couple tiktoks about it, and like everyone was so 859 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,560 Speaker 3: excited and now it's like, I want to see my girl, 860 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,840 Speaker 3: and I see her teaching Leslie how to use a megaphone. 861 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,040 Speaker 3: Like that's all I saw. I think, yeah, passing out 862 00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:52,200 Speaker 3: maybe one champagne so sad, you know, I want to 863 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 3: see more, all right? 864 00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,919 Speaker 2: And closing here, Rachel, I should ask you first, any 865 00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:00,120 Speaker 2: thoughts that we haven't covered before we get into to 866 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:06,400 Speaker 2: the Jonathan Rose ceremony scenarios, anything that you felt that 867 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 2: stood out to you. 868 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,799 Speaker 3: Nothing really, I feel like I kind of went over 869 00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:13,880 Speaker 3: the most of it. I do love going into the ceremony. 870 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:18,520 Speaker 3: I do love the footage from the rooms of everyone talking, 871 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 3: kind of like the hitting camera. I think it's giving 872 00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 3: a lot of insight that normally, like when you're in 873 00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:25,760 Speaker 3: front of a big camera, you don't get so before 874 00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:28,600 Speaker 3: the row ceremony, like Cat crying and having that moment, 875 00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:30,399 Speaker 3: and I did like to see that. 876 00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,239 Speaker 2: So that's good. It's true. I mean, yeah, and you 877 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,919 Speaker 2: see it even with the guys when Nancy comes in 878 00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:41,279 Speaker 2: and Gary's talking about you know how well endowed she is. 879 00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 2: And I don't think they know they're being filmed. 880 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,800 Speaker 3: And I love that because you genuinely forget. I experienced 881 00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,160 Speaker 3: this for the first time, and I'm like, oh my gosh, 882 00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 3: like you literally just like you're filming so much you 883 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:55,240 Speaker 3: forget that there's something in the corner. 884 00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:59,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good to have this moment. It's really good 885 00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:05,759 Speaker 2: because you're gonna get the more like authentic, like very loose. Hey, 886 00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:08,360 Speaker 2: there's six guys in a room talking about what girls 887 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,560 Speaker 2: they're into conversation and not so put together. To put 888 00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,719 Speaker 2: together gets old. I want to see Gary be like 889 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 2: I noticed something about Nancy and all the guys are like, 890 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,839 Speaker 2: I didn't do. I think it's funny. I think it's 891 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,040 Speaker 2: you know what, not like it. I think it's it 892 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:26,680 Speaker 2: feels a lot more like my real life than anything 893 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:27,480 Speaker 2: else that's happening. 894 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 3: Agreed. Now the Rose ceremony. 895 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,880 Speaker 2: Okay, so we're in the Rose ceremony. Now, we obviously 896 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,760 Speaker 2: have to mention. The easiest Rows of the whole season 897 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,840 Speaker 2: so far is the Spencer and Jesse Rose. They seem 898 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 2: to be never shown because I think they're just one 899 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 2: of those quiet, steady couples. They are one of those 900 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 2: couples to go back and talking about the beginning that 901 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,080 Speaker 2: maybe would have the conversation of like, hey, I'm so 902 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,319 Speaker 2: into you that it would crush me if you date 903 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,439 Speaker 2: anybody else, And they both reciprocated those feelings, and they 904 00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,239 Speaker 2: could like be the the Jade and the Tanners, the 905 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:17,520 Speaker 2: Ashley and the Jared's, like those couples that just work forever, 906 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,279 Speaker 2: which is fun to watch. I have always been in 907 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:24,839 Speaker 2: the camp of I know they might be boring, I 908 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 2: know they might not have drama. I want to see 909 00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:32,120 Speaker 2: more of them because honestly, I watch this show not 910 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 2: only to see people make fools in themselves and to 911 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:38,080 Speaker 2: say things like debt it, but also to see love 912 00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 2: come out, like to see love actually work from the show. 913 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,879 Speaker 2: That's what makes this show so great is there has 914 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 2: been real relationships happen and new humans being born, and 915 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 2: we don't see enough of them. 916 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:51,720 Speaker 3: I don't think, no, they completely kind of It reminds 917 00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 3: you of like Brandon and Serene and those couples that like, 918 00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,279 Speaker 3: do you genuinely make it at least for like some 919 00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:00,920 Speaker 3: like portion, but yeah, it's like the only time you 920 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,280 Speaker 3: see them is when they're doing, like their couple advice 921 00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 3: for people like you never genuinely see them talking, and 922 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:08,840 Speaker 3: we know, like being on the show, you have so 923 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 3: many conversations that don't get like shown. And I would 924 00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:15,279 Speaker 3: love to see them having like deep conversations about like 925 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,440 Speaker 3: family and what they're looking for, even if it's for 926 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 3: a second. I agree. I would like to see more. 927 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:21,520 Speaker 2: Want a cheer for them and root for them, but 928 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,200 Speaker 2: it's hard to and you don't see them. Here's the 929 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:28,000 Speaker 2: rundown of the Roses this episode. Chrisa gives her rose 930 00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,800 Speaker 2: to Brian. That's not a shocker at all. At this point, 931 00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,120 Speaker 2: it seems like they're a very steady couple. Bailey gives 932 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:37,160 Speaker 2: her rose to Jeremy, Alex gives her rose to Andrew. 933 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 2: Natasha gives her rose to Gary. We've spoken about how 934 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,560 Speaker 2: big of a moment that was and kind of confusing 935 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 2: and what that led into. Leslie then gives her rose 936 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 2: to Kim. We'll stop here to talk about Kim for 937 00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:53,799 Speaker 2: a second. Captain Kim. At first, April thinks Captain Kim 938 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:57,759 Speaker 2: is very into her and that was missing the mark 939 00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:02,040 Speaker 2: he is. He's perfect for the show, he's not made 940 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:05,800 Speaker 2: for ally television. No, he's such a good so serious 941 00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,280 Speaker 2: and so direct that I love to watch him because 942 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:12,399 Speaker 2: he makes every moment a little awkward and. 943 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,560 Speaker 3: He's so confident about it, even if. 944 00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 2: He's so wrong, like he didn't have Leslie's rose. If 945 00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 2: Natasha doesn't give her rose to Gary, Gary has Leslie's rose. 946 00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,360 Speaker 2: So when he said I'm going to be getting Leslie's 947 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:27,040 Speaker 2: rose and I'm not going to be pursuing anything with April, 948 00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,320 Speaker 2: he was so wrong. He got lucky. 949 00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,160 Speaker 3: And then he wrote it in his little poem again 950 00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:35,080 Speaker 3: that he was so confident and he knew, like, oh 951 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,359 Speaker 3: my goodness, yeah, no, he definitely is not meant for TV. 952 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,920 Speaker 3: But you know, we need all kinds of characters. 953 00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:45,840 Speaker 2: Oh, I think he has nothing. He has nothing wrong 954 00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,600 Speaker 2: about him. He's not hurting anybody in the process. I 955 00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,279 Speaker 2: respect his honesty, but goodness gracious, he just has a 956 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 2: way to make things a little bit weird. Yes, agreed, 957 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,120 Speaker 2: And I appreciate it because I am right in that camp. 958 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,160 Speaker 2: I think gives her rose to Keith. It feels like 959 00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:06,520 Speaker 2: a friendship is forming between Kathy and Keith. Jess gives 960 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:10,200 Speaker 2: her rose to Spencer. Not a shock there. Jill gives 961 00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 2: her rose to Sean. Is she happy to give her 962 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:15,840 Speaker 2: rose to Sean in this moment or is this a 963 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 2: but grudgingly like I have nothing else to give. 964 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,439 Speaker 3: I feel like at this point Jill is so mad 965 00:50:21,440 --> 00:50:27,000 Speaker 3: at Jonathan that anything that you know can work. Besides that, 966 00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,040 Speaker 3: she's kind of just like, all right, I'm gonna give 967 00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,120 Speaker 3: this a chance and pray for men tomorrow. Like that's 968 00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 3: a bybe I got. I think she was definitely invested 969 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,600 Speaker 3: in Jonathan, and that did confuse me. So I think 970 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,839 Speaker 3: this is more of a we both know, we're just 971 00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 3: like waiting for something better to come along. 972 00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,640 Speaker 2: Fair enough, Kat gives her rose to Dale. We've talked 973 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:50,759 Speaker 2: about it. It's very still up in the air in 974 00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:53,280 Speaker 2: that relationship. It's a good relationship to have in Paradise 975 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 2: because it does bring drama. I don't love the path 976 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 2: that the preview you seem to put this relationship on. 977 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,640 Speaker 2: It feels like it just gets more hurtful and more sad, 978 00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,759 Speaker 2: and I don't want it for either of them. But 979 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:13,320 Speaker 2: after Kat's last time in Paradise and how she publicly 980 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:16,879 Speaker 2: said how much it hurt her, I don't want more 981 00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 2: pain to come. Paradise should be kind of that like 982 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 2: Resurrection show where you reinvent yourself, you give yourself a 983 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,319 Speaker 2: better light. You come out of the ashes and you say, hey, 984 00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,360 Speaker 2: I know what you think I am. I'm somebody different. 985 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,480 Speaker 2: And it feels like pat or Kat is on a 986 00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:36,239 Speaker 2: path kind of walk down a similar lane that she 987 00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:37,359 Speaker 2: did two seasons ago. 988 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 3: I think she is, from what I've seen, getting like 989 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,920 Speaker 3: a redemption arc and she has it, but it is crazy, 990 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,680 Speaker 3: like you guys have. Kat was wild on my season 991 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 3: and so I again don't wish her pain with this 992 00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 3: Dale situation, but if it keeps going down this path, 993 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:55,040 Speaker 3: I do think she kind of might be the victim 994 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,280 Speaker 3: in it. But again we'll wait and see. 995 00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:00,720 Speaker 2: April gives her rose to Jonathan. Jonathan is sticking around. 996 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:05,600 Speaker 2: Based on the generosity of April, there was no romantic 997 00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:09,719 Speaker 2: communication for this rose being given. She just really likes 998 00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:13,040 Speaker 2: this guy and thinks he's the best and has straight 999 00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 2: up told him, hey, if you if I was younger, 1000 00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:18,439 Speaker 2: I'd jump your bones. And I think what she's really 1001 00:52:18,480 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 2: saying there is you deserve your chance. And so he's 1002 00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:24,719 Speaker 2: sticking around for another week, which is good for the 1003 00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:29,000 Speaker 2: show because he kind of has that Andrew Spencer first 1004 00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,920 Speaker 2: season of Paradise vibe where you're like, he's a nice guy, 1005 00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,880 Speaker 2: he's attractive. It feels like he's gonna friend zone a 1006 00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:35,480 Speaker 2: lot of people. 1007 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 3: Well, so with Jonathan, it's like, Okay, I think there 1008 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,480 Speaker 3: all comes a time where everyone needs to be like 1009 00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:43,600 Speaker 3: all right, like maybe this isn't for me. It feels 1010 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:46,560 Speaker 3: like Jonathan is not giving anyone a chance. Yeah, just 1011 00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:49,080 Speaker 3: like Alex and then like no one else for the 1012 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:52,680 Speaker 3: rest of the time, and then take a rose from 1013 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,000 Speaker 3: a guy, and like all the Golden Women were saying, 1014 00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,880 Speaker 3: now we're down a guy. We have three men. So 1015 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,719 Speaker 3: you took that rose and you're still not open to 1016 00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:04,320 Speaker 3: giving people a chance. I hope we see more next episode. 1017 00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,560 Speaker 3: Hopefully he goes on a date and it opens up, 1018 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:07,560 Speaker 3: but I'm not seeing it. 1019 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, this the Golden Men that go home? R j 1020 00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:15,440 Speaker 2: C K Jack go home. It is the question I 1021 00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,520 Speaker 2: want to I mean, it does seem like the show is 1022 00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,640 Speaker 2: now in a weird position. It just doesn't feel like 1023 00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 2: the show wanted to be in this position. It seems 1024 00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:28,120 Speaker 2: from a production side to be a very unbalanced moment 1025 00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:31,520 Speaker 2: where there is so few golden Men when when you 1026 00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,839 Speaker 2: have so many people women and men going, we need 1027 00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:38,160 Speaker 2: more men here, Like this isn't looking like we wanted 1028 00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,360 Speaker 2: it to. There has to be more Golden men coming, 1029 00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 2: I would expect, right. 1030 00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:47,960 Speaker 3: Hopefully, I mean, but we've already gotten two Golden women arrival. 1031 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,520 Speaker 3: Like it's truly not fair I think for them or 1032 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:54,680 Speaker 3: the young cast, Like how small this is, Like it 1033 00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 3: feels like they all got the short end of the stick. 1034 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,000 Speaker 2: I actually wonder and this could be a real price 1035 00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 2: problem if the show had a hard time get convincing 1036 00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 2: men from the Goldens to come on, and they had 1037 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:11,359 Speaker 2: their like group and they had pictured out, Hey, this 1038 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,399 Speaker 2: is how we're going to make it through and then 1039 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,920 Speaker 2: the Jonathan scenario threw them off and they don't have 1040 00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:17,760 Speaker 2: a like anybody else hanging out the hotel. 1041 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:20,239 Speaker 3: Why didn't they like send a young person down, Like 1042 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:21,879 Speaker 3: why didn't they send leya down with the road? 1043 00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 2: It's a great that could have been. 1044 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,560 Speaker 3: Like an incredible like, oh my god, like Leah knows 1045 00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 3: what she wants or I mean, she's the only one 1046 00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:35,200 Speaker 3: we've seen that's coming in like this week. But it 1047 00:54:35,320 --> 00:54:38,320 Speaker 3: just seems like an easy thing to do instead of putting. 1048 00:54:38,400 --> 00:54:40,320 Speaker 3: But they wanted that age gap grows. 1049 00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 2: They it's what it was. I think they did. I 1050 00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,759 Speaker 2: think the show knew it would cause enough of an 1051 00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:49,400 Speaker 2: upstir to make the press and the headlines and to 1052 00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:52,320 Speaker 2: make people possibly tune in and go, what kind of 1053 00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:53,920 Speaker 2: chaos is happening on this show? 1054 00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:54,640 Speaker 3: I agreed. 1055 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:58,120 Speaker 2: You know, obviously they bring it Nancy. So Nancy's one 1056 00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 2: more golden woman. She's a hot commodity. We see every 1057 00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 2: man on the beach kind of go. I'm into that. 1058 00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,320 Speaker 3: Heads are turned for Nancy. 1059 00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:10,839 Speaker 2: You know, I've said on the podcast before, Nancy's from 1060 00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:12,920 Speaker 2: the same place I am in Indiana. She grew up 1061 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:16,760 Speaker 2: in the same lake, and I know in Nancy's family 1062 00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:20,600 Speaker 2: really well. I know Nancy. I love watching Nancy and 1063 00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 2: Paradise because these men are trying to flirt and be 1064 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:24,799 Speaker 2: like is it breakfast in ben She's like, we're not 1065 00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 2: sleeping together, and I'm like, that is very on. 1066 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 3: Par I love her. I'm excited to see who she 1067 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:31,920 Speaker 3: hits it off with. 1068 00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:34,920 Speaker 2: It's tough. I think it's going to be hard in 1069 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:39,160 Speaker 2: Paradise for Nancy, especially with only three men left. Now. 1070 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,880 Speaker 2: You mentioned Leah coming to the beach, you mentioned Nancy 1071 00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 2: coming to the beach, we have really towards the end 1072 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:52,799 Speaker 2: of the episode, for me, it was a lot of 1073 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,920 Speaker 2: filler space to kind of figure out who's going to 1074 00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:59,200 Speaker 2: stay together and who's not. And obviously the Dale in 1075 00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:02,920 Speaker 2: the cat scenario, so is the overarching storyline to the 1076 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:06,600 Speaker 2: end of this episode, because they kind of split ways 1077 00:56:06,680 --> 00:56:09,480 Speaker 2: once again after the rose ceremony to say this isn't working. 1078 00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:13,080 Speaker 2: We see Gary kind of turn down Natasha, and Natasha's 1079 00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:14,600 Speaker 2: kind of out on her own looking to see who 1080 00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:18,480 Speaker 2: she could possibly connect with, which is just brutal. I 1081 00:56:18,520 --> 00:56:23,680 Speaker 2: think to watch any of these Goldens feel lost, I know, I. 1082 00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:25,839 Speaker 3: Don't want to watch them be sad, Like that's why 1083 00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 3: I love The Golden Bachelor. 1084 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,120 Speaker 2: I don't want to seem and they do seem sad. 1085 00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,560 Speaker 3: It's hurtful no matter what age, especially if they're not 1086 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:37,040 Speaker 3: dating as much as like we are, Like this is 1087 00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:39,719 Speaker 3: their one chance to really go down and meet people 1088 00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 3: who are willing to like date and like to see 1089 00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:44,840 Speaker 3: anyone get hurt. It's so sad. 1090 00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,040 Speaker 2: If I was them, I'd almost be in the mindset 1091 00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,319 Speaker 2: at this point too, like, hey, we have like four 1092 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:52,560 Speaker 2: more days together here, Like, doesn't look like any of 1093 00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,920 Speaker 2: us are get in roses. Do you girls just want 1094 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 2: to party, like, let's just go have. 1095 00:56:56,600 --> 00:56:59,160 Speaker 3: Far genuinely, And I would like to watch the I'd 1096 00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 3: like to watch them have to do rose ceremony and 1097 00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:04,600 Speaker 3: then be in the champagne lounge with Hannah Brown and 1098 00:57:04,719 --> 00:57:07,200 Speaker 3: having fun. Well the kids have the drama, and then 1099 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,000 Speaker 3: we just get like glimpses of them partying like that's. 1100 00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:13,320 Speaker 2: What we want, and having the most like beautiful judgmental 1101 00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:16,520 Speaker 2: conversations about everybody dating, like they kind of commentate it. 1102 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:18,200 Speaker 3: That's what we need. 1103 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:24,000 Speaker 2: It'd be amazing because we get Kathy just you know, unveiled, 1104 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,640 Speaker 2: with enough champagne in her to loosen her lips, Natasha 1105 00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:31,800 Speaker 2: saying what she says, Hannah Brown guiding the way that's ivy. 1106 00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:36,040 Speaker 3: Yes, it should be completely separated and they just don't 1107 00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:37,720 Speaker 3: have to worry about going home and they can make 1108 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 3: their connections organically, and then at the end we'll see 1109 00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:41,600 Speaker 3: if there's couples. 1110 00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 2: I love it. Faith Martin also arrives at the beach 1111 00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:47,480 Speaker 2: One more Golden Girls, six Golden Women, three Golden Men, 1112 00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:53,040 Speaker 2: which leads us to the previews for the next episode. Uh, 1113 00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:56,680 Speaker 2: previews don't tell me much, but Rachel, really I think 1114 00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:59,240 Speaker 2: the most interesting part of this and where I think 1115 00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 2: I've always your opinion on is this money element added 1116 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:07,720 Speaker 2: to Paradise? First question, do you like it or not? 1117 00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 3: I think again, going back, like it's too much, too 1118 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:15,200 Speaker 3: soon for me, like it is, And maybe it's because 1119 00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:18,880 Speaker 3: I've been there and I just hold this show in 1120 00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,240 Speaker 3: such a high regard. It feels like they're like, all right, 1121 00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:25,120 Speaker 3: let's change every single thing and see what sticks. And 1122 00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,439 Speaker 3: I just don't like it. I don't like that they're 1123 00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:29,440 Speaker 3: changing to try to be other shows. 1124 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,400 Speaker 2: I'm with you, it does. I think we talked about 1125 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:33,840 Speaker 2: it a few weeks ago. It does feel like they're 1126 00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:38,760 Speaker 2: like there to too late. One. It's not revolutionary. What 1127 00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:43,320 Speaker 2: the Bachelor always had was this kind of upstanding above 1128 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:48,480 Speaker 2: reproach exactly, content that made us all go love is possible, 1129 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:52,560 Speaker 2: even in the wildest ways. I really now. I'm four 1130 00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 2: episodes in, I really hate I don't like the money element. 1131 00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 2: I think it. I think it ruins this show to me. 1132 00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:03,280 Speaker 2: It is distracting me. It also makes me question everybody's motives, which, 1133 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:07,080 Speaker 2: going back, the beauty beautiful part about Paradise was it 1134 00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:10,600 Speaker 2: was relatable because we knew your motives have to be 1135 00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,920 Speaker 2: pretty pure to stick around in a place that is 1136 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:18,760 Speaker 2: so uncomfortable only with the hope of finding love. Now 1137 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:20,520 Speaker 2: you have air conditioning and money. 1138 00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:24,120 Speaker 3: No, genuinely, and I think it's okay whatever, Like it said, 1139 00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:27,040 Speaker 3: it's going back to the OG bachelor pad days. Then 1140 00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,320 Speaker 3: I want to see every single person knowing that when 1141 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:31,960 Speaker 3: they walk in, I want to see how they act 1142 00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:36,320 Speaker 3: different knowing that. But now I have like, I don't know, 1143 00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,720 Speaker 3: it's just too much, too soon. I don't like it. 1144 00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:43,120 Speaker 3: I think it's so unnecessary bachelor's fantasy. Like you said, 1145 00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:46,440 Speaker 3: it's this love, and it's this it's OG. It's the 1146 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:48,920 Speaker 3: first that it's a first dating show, and now it 1147 00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:50,560 Speaker 3: feels like you're trying to be like everyone else. Now 1148 00:59:50,600 --> 00:59:53,480 Speaker 3: we're like lost everything that we've had. And then Paradise 1149 00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:57,560 Speaker 3: was our one, like funny, humorous, like got to have 1150 00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:01,080 Speaker 3: the cheesy intros and we don't have even now nothing 1151 01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,760 Speaker 3: is the same. There's no bachelor to it. 1152 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,920 Speaker 2: It was an escape to laugh with and at people 1153 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:10,280 Speaker 2: and then go, I like you like at the end 1154 01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:14,520 Speaker 2: of Paradise, get married. Yeah, it's amazing, Like it had 1155 01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:19,320 Speaker 2: so many good elements. The money to me, Rachel distracts 1156 01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:26,160 Speaker 2: from all of it. I also, I don't know. I 1157 01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,760 Speaker 2: don't know the why, because if the why was to 1158 01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:33,439 Speaker 2: intrigue viewers one, they saved it for way too long 1159 01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,360 Speaker 2: in the season. You've lost all the viewers. If money 1160 01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,280 Speaker 2: was going to be your big you know, catch them 1161 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:41,720 Speaker 2: all and and kind of like you said, people, we 1162 01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,800 Speaker 2: don't know how people are going to respond. It could 1163 01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:48,200 Speaker 2: break up really beautiful relationships. Half million dollars is not 1164 01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:52,480 Speaker 2: nothing like. It could definitely change the dynamics of the 1165 01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,720 Speaker 2: Spencers and Jesse's if all of a sudden, a half 1166 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:57,760 Speaker 2: million dollars is on the table and they have to 1167 01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,080 Speaker 2: decide between each other after a few weeks of knowing 1168 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:03,280 Speaker 2: each other. I just don't know the why it hasn't 1169 01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:06,280 Speaker 2: been clearly communicated to me and why this money exists 1170 01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:11,600 Speaker 2: and what it's for. I would I would be less 1171 01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:14,680 Speaker 2: upset with this season, and I still am watching it 1172 01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:17,640 Speaker 2: and I'm still intrigued. I'd be less upset with this 1173 01:01:17,680 --> 01:01:20,800 Speaker 2: season if I didn't have this kind of cloud over 1174 01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:22,800 Speaker 2: the whole thing so far, being like, but when is 1175 01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:24,680 Speaker 2: the money going to be introduced and what's that going 1176 01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:26,640 Speaker 2: to do? Because it feels like a whole different season than. 1177 01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:29,080 Speaker 3: Me, and people are not going to be coming down 1178 01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:32,080 Speaker 3: to the beach anymore, Like that's the point of periodise. 1179 01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,520 Speaker 3: I want to see bombshells. I want to see people 1180 01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:38,920 Speaker 3: like breaking out and breaking up or staying together, like Okay, 1181 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:40,880 Speaker 3: now there's no more bombshells. And we have all these 1182 01:01:40,960 --> 01:01:46,080 Speaker 3: instable like or whatever couples like Jail and Cat. Yeah, 1183 01:01:46,080 --> 01:01:49,760 Speaker 3: they're going to be competing. They're fighting, like Jill and Sean, 1184 01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 3: who are not Like, how did we get to this 1185 01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 3: point where we don't have solid couples. Jeremy hasn't even 1186 01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,880 Speaker 3: told Bailey, and now we're going to play for. 1187 01:01:58,000 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 2: Half a million dollars doesn't make it. 1188 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,120 Speaker 3: I don't like it. And are the Goldens doing these games? 1189 01:02:03,360 --> 01:02:05,120 Speaker 2: I have no idea, Like I said, we have not 1190 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,360 Speaker 2: that we have not gotten any communication on what this 1191 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:12,240 Speaker 2: many means. We're four episodes in, uh what episode five? 1192 01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,040 Speaker 2: They're going to drop the bomb and be like, oh, 1193 01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:15,880 Speaker 2: by the way, you've been here the whole time and 1194 01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,919 Speaker 2: it hasn't been ideal, but you're here for a half 1195 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 2: million dollars. It feels so odd to me. It feels 1196 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,400 Speaker 2: like they wanted to do this and they were trying 1197 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:27,800 Speaker 2: to land a sponsorship, and they finally landed a sponsorship 1198 01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,720 Speaker 2: last week. They had some sponsored date by the movie 1199 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:32,520 Speaker 2: and they're like, Okay, now we can offer a half 1200 01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,280 Speaker 2: million dollars without it, we didn't have it, but now 1201 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:36,440 Speaker 2: we got a half million to offer these people. 1202 01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:41,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like, yeah, it's just too much. It's 1203 01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:44,320 Speaker 3: too much change for me. It feels like they're trying 1204 01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:47,000 Speaker 3: to be Love Island in a way. But the challenges 1205 01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 3: from the preview didn't even look like Love Island challenges, 1206 01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:53,360 Speaker 3: where it's like let's test chemistry and get drama going. 1207 01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:55,840 Speaker 3: It was like they were like doing these survivor challenges, 1208 01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:59,160 Speaker 3: like why am I watching tribal console and like a 1209 01:02:59,200 --> 01:03:02,640 Speaker 3: Love Island end, where's the engagement's? Like where is Neil 1210 01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:05,840 Speaker 3: Lane in this preview? Like this is not the Bachelor. 1211 01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:06,880 Speaker 3: I don't like it. 1212 01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to see Rachel Rekia stand on one 1213 01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:12,760 Speaker 2: leg for thirty minutes and see if she survives it. 1214 01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:14,800 Speaker 2: I don't want to see it. It's not interesting to me. 1215 01:03:15,520 --> 01:03:19,280 Speaker 3: Let's switch out Jesse and Jeff probes, like I too 1216 01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:21,400 Speaker 3: much at once, too much once, and maybe I'm coming 1217 01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:24,040 Speaker 3: from like being old in the franchise, like I want 1218 01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 3: things to be the same, but no, no, no, I 1219 01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:27,880 Speaker 3: don't like it. 1220 01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:30,600 Speaker 2: That's the best part about having a podcast is if 1221 01:03:30,640 --> 01:03:33,120 Speaker 2: you are wrong and people don't agree with you, they'll 1222 01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:38,720 Speaker 2: tell you, but they they also I think we're speaking 1223 01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:43,440 Speaker 2: to most listeners and watchers right now. From most of 1224 01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:47,240 Speaker 2: the polls and the comments and the feedback that we've received, 1225 01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:50,600 Speaker 2: people are feeling very similar to to how we are 1226 01:03:50,680 --> 01:03:54,600 Speaker 2: right now about this season, Rachel, as we close up here, 1227 01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 2: any final thoughts based on the preview, based on what 1228 01:03:58,840 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 2: we've talked about that we did not cover. 1229 01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:04,360 Speaker 3: Oh, I'm glad we got a chance to talk. I'm 1230 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,520 Speaker 3: glad we're on the same page. This has been great. 1231 01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:10,400 Speaker 2: Okay. I love to do this with anybody that has 1232 01:04:10,440 --> 01:04:13,160 Speaker 2: a big moment. First Off, congratulations. Anytime you're asked to 1233 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:15,680 Speaker 2: be back on television, it is a big deal. It 1234 01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:20,000 Speaker 2: means you are after Why should people starting August first 1235 01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:22,640 Speaker 2: on Netflix start watching Perfect Match? 1236 01:04:24,080 --> 01:04:27,600 Speaker 3: Well, it's gonna be great. There's never been anything like 1237 01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,440 Speaker 3: it before. It's like the Dating Avengers. All your favorite 1238 01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:34,200 Speaker 3: people from across reality universe are coming together and it's 1239 01:04:34,400 --> 01:04:37,080 Speaker 3: actually different than any other season they've done. So it's 1240 01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,640 Speaker 3: gonna be exciting. And I'm on it and. 1241 01:04:39,560 --> 01:04:42,160 Speaker 2: You're on it. I was hoping you'd just say, like, 1242 01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:45,200 Speaker 2: watch it because I'm here. You can watch Rachel and 1243 01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:49,560 Speaker 2: Clayton August first on Netflix Perfect Match. Rachel, thank you 1244 01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:52,760 Speaker 2: for coming on Almost Famous talking about Bachelor and Paradise 1245 01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:56,000 Speaker 2: episode four. We will be talking to you again soon 1246 01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:59,560 Speaker 2: and also the Almost Famous podcast will be breaking down 1247 01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:03,920 Speaker 2: the Perfect Match every week and talking about all we see, experience, feel, 1248 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:04,400 Speaker 2: and do. 1249 01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:05,280 Speaker 3: Uh. 1250 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:11,040 Speaker 2: It's gonna be great. So if you're into Rachel and 1251 01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:14,320 Speaker 2: all these reality stars coming together to see if love 1252 01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:16,320 Speaker 2: can be formed, make sure you tune into the Almost 1253 01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:18,160 Speaker 2: Famous podcast. Rachel, thanks for joining us. 1254 01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:19,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. 1255 01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 1256 01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:26,360 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts