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Speaker 1: at gnute. That's what we talk about today, Big Facts Fridays.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. We gotta keep it going,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? So many people hitting us
Speaker 1: and enjoying our conversations. That's what we're talking about today. So,
Speaker 1: in a situation where your spouse or a significant other
Speaker 1: person's family member does something that you were like, y'all
Speaker 1: get into it or whatever. Are you expecting your spouse
Speaker 1: or a significant other person to side with you or
Speaker 1: are you okay with it if they side with their
Speaker 1: family I personally, in the situation it's a side with
Speaker 1: what's right right because I could be wrong. That's the first.
Speaker 1: But it gets way deeper than that. Keep keep talking,
Speaker 1: I cause gets way deeper. Obviously. Just sign with me
Speaker 1: if I'm on the bullshit. No. But see, here's the
Speaker 1: thing though, I feelt you can't side with no motherfucker
Speaker 1: who don't need no wrong. I mean, I don't give
Speaker 1: who they That's what I'm saying. I did something me,
Speaker 1: your mama came in my house and stowed something me,
Speaker 1: fuck your mama. And if you go with it to yeah,
Speaker 1: what if she thought it was her daughters and she
Speaker 1: didn't know it. You ain't You ain't got you ain't
Speaker 1: got no. Yeah, you ain't got no. You ain't got
Speaker 1: no reason to steal out of our ship, period, no
Speaker 1: matter who then ship you thought it was. But you know,
Speaker 1: like some parents feel are like if it's their child,
Speaker 1: it's like it's theirs too, but it's not even really
Speaker 1: still for example, like if your mom and your dad
Speaker 1: come to your house and they just go on your
Speaker 1: wallet and they text you. Let's say she texts you
Speaker 1: like wallet, Yeah, like I ain't tripping if my mom.
Speaker 1: Different people have different situations. If they text you saying
Speaker 1: I got some money from some deceitful ship. You don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm saying, secrets going there. You got them when all
Speaker 1: way up under the bed winning the shoe about ten
Speaker 1: thousands of a hundred thousand, fuck your mom, and then
Speaker 1: denied it. And it was gonna take that type of ship.
Speaker 1: And we on the way we found that because we
Speaker 1: had a gamera in the house and you were saying
Speaker 1: that you did some real fun ship. If she had
Speaker 1: a drug addiction and it's the drugs, well you got drug.
Speaker 1: They said, there's obviously the situation a drug addiction that
Speaker 1: they might kick it one day. Yeah, we gotta get
Speaker 1: this bit help and she can't come over. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: and I don't. It ain't gonna be no side. Then
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, you deliberately did some bullshit, and you
Speaker 1: know your mama, you know your people did some bullshit
Speaker 1: to me. But you're trying to get me to see
Speaker 1: it in a different light. But if you're like you
Speaker 1: did business with like your wife, brother or something like that,
Speaker 1: and the business went wrong, business different different, because they
Speaker 1: can I would go wrong. I'm saying like, if you
Speaker 1: do some like you're saying like men men men personally
Speaker 1: sending somebody up like ship that you kind of can't
Speaker 1: come back from, like sending somebody up for some bullshit,
Speaker 1: even lying like if a bank, oh wife, mama, or
Speaker 1: some ship lied on him about some ship and they
Speaker 1: funked up what they had going on because maybe they
Speaker 1: didn't like him. Or I'm saying, like deceitful, deceitful ship
Speaker 1: that's different than just ship that this happens within families,
Speaker 1: should be happening in their families, happening family, family, family ship.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, it's like you're doing some ships some
Speaker 1: option like your brother, No God, them gave a nick
Speaker 1: my address to do something to me and I've seen
Speaker 1: it and the nigga told me, like, man did this?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, how you bitch? How
Speaker 1: are you gonna trying to how you see some lighting
Speaker 1: it and you stay here too? What if it went through? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So if you own so, if you if you don't
Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying, that means you on that too.
Speaker 1: So you need to go on over the whim. So
Speaker 1: do you expect there not to ever talk to them
Speaker 1: ever again? Or I expect for you the hell of
Speaker 1: how I am. I have whatever, whatever, it can't get
Speaker 1: right until I get it right. If I don't get
Speaker 1: it right, that you don't be right. Fuck y'all, fuck him,
Speaker 1: fuck her. They called me like, I can't he answer
Speaker 1: to talk to man? You know what you did, bro? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's that's that's what talked about them like, there's
Speaker 1: just certain things you gotta understand that even though the
Speaker 1: person might be doing it subconsciously and consciously, there's some
Speaker 1: things you just can't come back from and should kind
Speaker 1: of know in certain ships you know better than you
Speaker 1: know you already know. You know, if I go through
Speaker 1: with this and I do this, I cannot come back
Speaker 1: from this. That's for every human being, you know. And
Speaker 1: if you choose to go ahead and go through with it,
Speaker 1: then you're basically saying fuck me. I ain't saying like
Speaker 1: you can't gotten them be to be quadrant at the
Speaker 1: family union, but you can't brainy folks my house, nor more.
Speaker 1: I only want to hear talking on the phone with
Speaker 1: eat people, nor more, none of that, because at the
Speaker 1: end of the day, it's like, what y'all plot m yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: because the bitch want to stow my tin thoutand if
Speaker 1: if she want your mama, she didn't feel that comfortable.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm saying, she wouldn't even know how to
Speaker 1: get in get up because I'd be around exactly exactly.
Speaker 1: I ain't even got that in my mix on the
Speaker 1: way she stowed it because I was vulnerable because of you. You,
Speaker 1: So that would make that would make you in. It's
Speaker 1: through hand that because I wouldn't even be exposed to that.
Speaker 1: If it wasn't for you, exactly, your mama, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: even know this all like period, she wouldn't add access
Speaker 1: to my house, she wouldn't had access to under my
Speaker 1: bad she wouldn't have had access to none of my chance.
Speaker 1: I guess that's come from a man point of view,
Speaker 1: because if somebody in my family did something my wife,
Speaker 1: I'm automatically stepping up on that. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I guess because it comes from I guess to
Speaker 1: protect the energy. So it's like, but the female protective
Speaker 1: energy is twice as strong as that thought, or it
Speaker 1: should be. So that's what I'm saying. So if you
Speaker 1: can't understand that, then hey man, what are we doing? Nothing?
Speaker 1: M hm? No, go to it, go to honor like
Speaker 1: it has to be. But on the type I put,
Speaker 1: I put myself in a situation where it can't even happen.
Speaker 1: I don't do be it's with people. Family, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't even when you see me
Speaker 1: A damn, that's it. I'm not friendly. We're cool, but
Speaker 1: I ain't friendly, you know what I'm saying. Like, I'm
Speaker 1: just being real because I'm not gonna open myself up
Speaker 1: to make you have to choose. They're not believe it,
Speaker 1: I feel comfortable enough to even do anything more. You're not. Like,
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to be funny, but what you're doing
Speaker 1: at my house, I'm screaming. The family can't come to
Speaker 1: the picnics, be outside. They can't come to the family
Speaker 1: dinner or something. We can do that in family time,
Speaker 1: my immediate family, my kids, they're like my kids and
Speaker 1: there they're significant others and ship like that. I'm exposed
Speaker 1: to them, but like family members, like, yo, can my
Speaker 1: kids stay? He just got a jib. No, No we can.
Speaker 1: I can help them get a hotel. But I'm not
Speaker 1: putting people in my mix at all, not even my family.
Speaker 1: Because your house is your safe Your home is your
Speaker 1: safe space where you're supposed to be completely and totally
Speaker 1: comfortable and be able to be yourself at all times.
Speaker 1: And you can't do that with a foreign object in
Speaker 1: your house. And you don't want people seeing ship like
Speaker 1: you gotta think, bro, when you bring people into your house,
Speaker 1: into your house with your relationship, you now they're starting
Speaker 1: to see how y'all really are with each other, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So now that ship hit the
Speaker 1: streets and got damn, I gotta act a certain way
Speaker 1: because because he and the or she and now I
Speaker 1: gotta feel like you know what I'm saying. Now your
Speaker 1: people see I come home at seven o'clock in the
Speaker 1: morning and ship, you know what I'm saying, And now
Speaker 1: you gotta act like that's a problem when it's never
Speaker 1: been a problem. Yeah, yeah, so so certain ship, you
Speaker 1: just don't even put your allow yourself, even the facts,
Speaker 1: even being involved in you know what I'm saying, Because
Speaker 1: soon as you do that, that's your fault. Like if
Speaker 1: if I got your mom around here cleaning up my
Speaker 1: house and she see a shoebox up now and she's
Speaker 1: just so happening to see it. That's on me because
Speaker 1: I add over the clean up. I clean my own
Speaker 1: shot up. I can get the people here clean up,
Speaker 1: and I can put the money in the car. Why
Speaker 1: don't you whatever, You get what I'm saying. When you
Speaker 1: expose yourself a certain ship, you can't say how how
Speaker 1: it's gonna go. But me now knowing that I don't
Speaker 1: do that, That's what I'm saying. I said all that
Speaker 1: to say this, me knowing that I don't even put
Speaker 1: myself in a situation for a motherfucker to do nothing
Speaker 1: to me. So that means you gotta come. You gotta
Speaker 1: follow us on, break in, sneak in, so we find
Speaker 1: that out. You know you volt to say fucker. Yeah, yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So I ain't gonna have you
Speaker 1: like the family reunion. I ain't gonna do that. Like
Speaker 1: we all let my ship. You know, we do this
Speaker 1: a groundma house. Yeah, well we do that at or
Speaker 1: let's let's get an airbnb, or let's go to a
Speaker 1: Parker bench. My safe is on. My safe is on
Speaker 1: because you know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, I get it,
Speaker 1: I get it. I get it. People be knowing what
Speaker 1: the going on and then even outside of that, even
Speaker 1: outside of like bringing people to the house and you know,
Speaker 1: letting them in on your secrets and like that, people
Speaker 1: be having spirits and ship people's spirits like rub off
Speaker 1: on ship. You know what I'm saying, They'll fucking come
Speaker 1: to your house and lead a spirit at your house
Speaker 1: like that ship. No hell no, no that I said.
Speaker 1: I don't let people come to my house. I never understood.
Speaker 1: I never understood that that first, Like I used on
Speaker 1: the one like ship, we just don't got the big
Speaker 1: ranch raised on like kids together, y'all, bring y'all and
Speaker 1: say like, no, no, that ain't gonna work. Because now
Speaker 1: I got Now we gotta day too far in our business.
Speaker 1: No matter if we're telling it to them or not.
Speaker 1: They in our business. They know we are arguing. They
Speaker 1: know God damn when you didn't come here. They know
Speaker 1: what this is happening. Is now I gotta respond to accordingly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get what I'm saying. Like I never I couldn't
Speaker 1: see that because I'm thinking, like you, you just want
Speaker 1: to be stiff, You want all my time all that
Speaker 1: ship looking at it like a bit started looking at
Speaker 1: for the war, like yeah, they do need to go on.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying at it, like I accept
Speaker 1: you for you. They're gonna probably be on some bucks
Speaker 1: and were under we don't did our part with them.
Speaker 1: They need to go yeah, like they need to going
Speaker 1: on on so we can do what we do. Okay,
Speaker 1: I get that, but I just couldn't get it at
Speaker 1: first because I went in that space. I was in
Speaker 1: the space with really fuck you too, like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying like like, but I get it because
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you pride. That's when
Speaker 1: pride kicking. We can got them, we can got them sit,
Speaker 1: we can got them get get upset by some simple
Speaker 1: ship and it won't go nowhere, but got them. You're
Speaker 1: going to the room, out, going on the room whatever, whatever, whatever.
Speaker 1: I smoke then with two tecon later, but then you know,
Speaker 1: you want some eat and then that ship changed back
Speaker 1: over to something else. But now somebody else here they
Speaker 1: know what I got. I gotta still from a bit,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I gotta keep that energy
Speaker 1: for them, which you don't even really fit the same
Speaker 1: way we're talking about last week about the Pride ship,
Speaker 1: because they know of this. Now I gotta act like
Speaker 1: this when I really don't feel like this. I'm really
Speaker 1: over this ship now. I'm really ready to let go
Speaker 1: get some food or whatever I want to do. Either
Speaker 1: we sit there and no talk, we know this ship
Speaker 1: moving in a better direction. Instead of me saying I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna be up, they ain't gonna last night, I
Speaker 1: ain't actually cook, I ain't even been up. Sick weakness. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the facts. Now that with the energy due bro
Speaker 1: trying to go out there because you what you call
Speaker 1: it unconsciously doing ship, I'm gonna ask a little curveball questions.
Speaker 1: So with that, with that conversation, and I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I disagree, I agree, but how do certain other how
Speaker 1: do certain other races do it? Because Latinos Asians, some
Speaker 1: of them have they bring everybody into the house, everybody,
Speaker 1: how do you think they do it? I'm just curious.
Speaker 1: I think they all probably leave their egos at the door.
Speaker 1: They're not niggers. So you're saying, okay, they they have
Speaker 1: less attitude and they have you know, well maybe not
Speaker 1: the Latinos, but you know, because they're kind of spicy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like like because you gotta look at how they how
Speaker 1: they work. You gotta look at how like and this
Speaker 1: is not like rationally discriminitary question or whatever, but you
Speaker 1: gotta look at even just how they work together. Like
Speaker 1: they fucking pack up in a car, they share lunch,
Speaker 1: you know, they take shifts. You know, they do what
Speaker 1: they gotta do to help each other, build a pot
Speaker 1: so that the whole house and the whole family can
Speaker 1: fucking go save their money and go buy some ships
Speaker 1: so that they don't have to work it's hard anymore.
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah. Niggas ain't doing that. Niggas ain't helping
Speaker 1: each other like that. Man, Niggas are not. Niggas do
Speaker 1: not work well together generally. It's that in reality, I
Speaker 1: hate that. I think that sometimes black folks didn't get
Speaker 1: together and work about one thing about Yeah, damn you
Speaker 1: be around any about it too much if they're not
Speaker 1: just snifficant their brings like slight tension, envy, hate because
Speaker 1: they've been applies to the ship. I think said on
Speaker 1: your mid tape, the more you show the niggas, more
Speaker 1: danger they've been come to. That's the truth. Mmates. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I've never done that. The more, the more, the
Speaker 1: more person know about you, the more danger they is there,
Speaker 1: that's the truth. Like, because they know how to manipulate you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they know how to hurt you because because you don't
Speaker 1: told them you're deep, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 1: that's why so many people have so much ship so
Speaker 1: bought on end because it's like like like I said
Speaker 1: that week, because of that fair of discovery. Yeah, some
Speaker 1: people keeping friends just so their hand won't be exposed
Speaker 1: to who they really is. Fact ship, some people be
Speaker 1: like I gotta keep this friend because they know everything.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I'm saying, And I can't mate no more
Speaker 1: friends because I don't want to tell them ship. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: but then just like gets you to your therapist. That's
Speaker 1: what I just want to say. You need to tell
Speaker 1: us somebody you don't know. You got a mob boy,
Speaker 1: and what's that one of those people that's like, you know,
Speaker 1: free spirited and they just tell everything and the damn
Speaker 1: says they're like people who just don't give a funk too.
Speaker 1: I was thinking that too. There's people who just don't
Speaker 1: give a what this person think. Don't think, I don't sure,
Speaker 1: just don't give a sure. But you've got certain ship
Speaker 1: that you you don't. You might not give a You
Speaker 1: told one person, but I'm saying that I don't everybody.
Speaker 1: You ain't never met somebody, but you ain't never met
Speaker 1: that person that you felt like it was too open
Speaker 1: to tell you anything. You know a lot of people
Speaker 1: like they don't like that. You ain't got to it.
Speaker 1: You got to friends, to your friends and all my friends,
Speaker 1: not even friends, this to everybody, just to everybody's just
Speaker 1: walking a room and just just start telling you everything,
Speaker 1: and you just be like, damn business. Everybody else did?
Speaker 1: I just started talking not here when people when I'm
Speaker 1: around people that do that and like to start talking
Speaker 1: about all of their business and everybody else business, I
Speaker 1: cut them off like real quickly. I don't want to
Speaker 1: hear that ship. I don't no offense, but I don't
Speaker 1: want to hear that this offensives offensive. The mayor is,
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear everybody business. I don't want
Speaker 1: to hear that ship. Don't put me in that ship
Speaker 1: because again that that goes back to energy, Like that's
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of like negative energy that they're dumping
Speaker 1: on you for no reason, and it's unwarranted, Like what
Speaker 1: the fuck they got a key plaque for you. Oh,
Speaker 1: what's up? Shots key? I need another plaque for the crib.
Speaker 1: Appreciate the key. No, but that really the other day,
Speaker 1: it would be hard not to keep people out of
Speaker 1: your business when you family and ship like that. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. The only way you can if
Speaker 1: you set boundaries. Yeah, I mean, look, family don't know
Speaker 1: some of the business. It's family business. You see what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But what I was I got that for
Speaker 1: my grandma a long time and go like She's be like,
Speaker 1: don't go to running your goddamn mouth by We're going
Speaker 1: to my house for everybody to break you. Goddamn I'm
Speaker 1: gonna break your ass. Not you know I'm gonna break yours. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we learned that earlier. But you'll get your back.
Speaker 1: It ain't happen in the first place. And I was
Speaker 1: told talk to about it, Yeah about it. Don't be
Speaker 1: going to talk to everybody that asked. Was worse than
Speaker 1: fucking cutting up in school, Like like you at school,
Speaker 1: trying to beat your teacher. You get your ass killed.
Speaker 1: My grandma brought my head one time. Man, see that
Speaker 1: what to your head? Bushed it? I still gotta get
Speaker 1: like bushed. I was too bad. She mean here with
Speaker 1: skate on the old old ass skates too good. But
Speaker 1: she might have made the motherfucker curving running trying to
Speaker 1: run on curtain and hit me in the head. She
Speaker 1: picked me up, take me to the hot hill, and
Speaker 1: folks like, so what happened? She looking like, don't talent,
Speaker 1: It's gonna be worse if you telling like ship, I
Speaker 1: fell out my bike, your hands, don't say not nothing crazy.
Speaker 1: She gonna push your ship into ship. So we learned
Speaker 1: that ship early. Bro, Like all that running your motherfucking
Speaker 1: mouth about somebody, she said, nobody likes to tell till
Speaker 1: that's about anybody in my family what I'm winning, ain't
Speaker 1: nobody never told my dad and my brother nephews because
Speaker 1: nobody the game. Because she was just instilled as a child,
Speaker 1: like if you come home and ship that happened in
Speaker 1: the house, and she said, who did it? Prepared to
Speaker 1: get your head with whoever? Everybody? Everybody else you like,
Speaker 1: because if you say screen, did you come in front
Speaker 1: with your Yeah, that was my god, mom, But did
Speaker 1: you just ask question? She might let the girls got
Speaker 1: them get away with your ass, say who did it?
Speaker 1: You want to. I'm just saying that, like we see
Speaker 1: the ship heaven, but she who often to stay gone
Speaker 1: to the get passed out because they ain't ben to
Speaker 1: be here. You know what I'm saying, I'm really got
Speaker 1: them go high. I want to eat here. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: ain't see it. I don't know. I don't know. Then
Speaker 1: I used to get your asked with for losing fights.
Speaker 1: Not grandma. Grandma dropping a fight. She acted like sheally
Speaker 1: breaking up, grabbing you, but grabbing a little by by
Speaker 1: the y'all stop stopping the mouth out. But you have
Speaker 1: got them like you into your teacher, to the councilor
Speaker 1: you think some of that you think you think some
Speaker 1: of that ship start with tattle tales of school. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it starts with tattle tales, and it starts with niggas
Speaker 1: that can't properly defend themselves and they get beat up
Speaker 1: and ship and they get abused in school and they
Speaker 1: fucking they want revenge. That's where most of them, Why
Speaker 1: do you like, I honestly feel like that's where a
Speaker 1: lot of these like police officers that are brutal, and
Speaker 1: you know they do like the most and extra ship
Speaker 1: to people they are bred from that like when they
Speaker 1: were younger, they were taking advantage of this is the
Speaker 1: power to control, I feel like because they didn't have
Speaker 1: any when they were young. Some of them club security
Speaker 1: guards be on that ship to some of them, some
Speaker 1: of them cool with some of them like extra, this
Speaker 1: is my club. You're not getting it. Security guards just
Speaker 1: be pussies like they're just big for nothing and that's
Speaker 1: the only time that's my club. Bigh matters be some
Speaker 1: holes like yeah, that should be I don't know, that
Speaker 1: should be lame, Like I'd be feeling bad because just
Speaker 1: like just like for instance, like I don't know if
Speaker 1: you've ever been to like Central Station like back in
Speaker 1: the day, but like man, I didn't see Central Station
Speaker 1: security like do some niggas. Some some niggas like the dirtiest,
Speaker 1: like you don't even able to do it too, yeah
Speaker 1: at all, Like niggas niggas said, really ain't even had
Speaker 1: no business in there, like type ship like got like
Speaker 1: folded up and bent up out of their shoes and
Speaker 1: tossed out the door on their ass Like yeah, them
Speaker 1: niggas used to take that ship personal. I think they
Speaker 1: used to probably get like incentives for every nigga that
Speaker 1: they used to like bend up and ship like that
Speaker 1: ship was out of control like every week, like y'all
Speaker 1: gotta do this to this many niggas. Like now they
Speaker 1: don't really you on this ship. Yeah that was hard
Speaker 1: on you one time. Now security and they're like all right,
Speaker 1: well you got it. Yeah this club security now like
Speaker 1: everybody know everybody, everybody knows everybody to like I think
Speaker 1: the security nowadays, like recently when the last couple of years,
Speaker 1: I think they're scared to get shot. We'll think about
Speaker 1: them two situations, um shooters alley, Well, oh I think
Speaker 1: somebody got bounced and then went back, came back and
Speaker 1: like the nigger you know what I'm saying. They don't
Speaker 1: happened a few times. So I think, like you know,
Speaker 1: you're looking at the hourly rate verse what it is
Speaker 1: your life? And then it all goes back to what
Speaker 1: we've been talking about for the last couple of weeks.
Speaker 1: Pride and ego. Pride and ego. So who you saying
Speaker 1: got the produc ego? The security are the people who
Speaker 1: got to ask me. Initially the security had the pride
Speaker 1: in the ego, Yeah, but the person got to ask me,
Speaker 1: couldn't could they might have been wrong. They might have
Speaker 1: winning the strip club trying to touch all the strippers,
Speaker 1: got their ass kid got kicked out, but they couldn't
Speaker 1: take the fact that security beat the ass and kicked
Speaker 1: them out and that product in front of people. Don't
Speaker 1: put your hands on them, leave, put your hands right,
Speaker 1: put your hands on put your hands on right, and
Speaker 1: then that's like that's like your hands and put what
Speaker 1: I did. Yeah, yeah, but that's like the security for
Speaker 1: some security, that's like the safe word, like don't put
Speaker 1: your mother hands on me, all right, nigga, Like like
Speaker 1: that's like, okay, it's time to go. Like hands at
Speaker 1: that point becomes so down. We gotta respect thing that
Speaker 1: walking saying I ain't going nowhere, put your hands on dude.
Speaker 1: But if I'm walking, I'm leaving, bro, they don't put
Speaker 1: don't touch me, I'm gonna leave, and they push your
Speaker 1: grass at the club. Then what then you then you
Speaker 1: trap me like saying i'd say that ship happen, I
Speaker 1: don't punch your hands on me. They're walking, they go
Speaker 1: all the way to the door, don't put his hands
Speaker 1: on them, and then when it get that yeah, they push,
Speaker 1: Then what what you're doing ain't the club. Ain't gonna
Speaker 1: I'm going to be in a situation where I'm not
Speaker 1: even to somebody general and on general populationship. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna be in a situation where I'm touching those strippers.
Speaker 1: Ain't gonna be doing those ship that goes against the
Speaker 1: community rules. So if you do that to me, then
Speaker 1: whatever I do, it's justified because I'm not on that.
Speaker 1: So you just come through the club move and pushed
Speaker 1: me out of the way that ship. Are you just
Speaker 1: putting me like that? You know I'm saying, no, they
Speaker 1: ain't search me right beause right, don't do that to me.
Speaker 1: So I ain't even to be standing in the way.
Speaker 1: I'm probably to be in my own section and deal
Speaker 1: with my security. I have security also, and the folks
Speaker 1: don't go So deal with those people. If you need
Speaker 1: to tell me to put my blunt out, tell him
Speaker 1: and he'll tell me the message. Don't say ship to me,
Speaker 1: saying to me so we don't even have to have
Speaker 1: no kind of interaction for it to be taken the
Speaker 1: wrong way or no ship like that. That's what these
Speaker 1: people are here for. My barrier before I even before
Speaker 1: I even get out of the color going to club.
Speaker 1: What we're going in an even to be don't miss
Speaker 1: something that they're like, God damn, they're searching it. Hey,
Speaker 1: they know they ain't doing no ceerchain all that. You
Speaker 1: already got that understood. Yeah, come on, they got you
Speaker 1: coming through this way right. So now if I got
Speaker 1: to go to the doing am and he I D
Speaker 1: and all that ship, that would brain the bullshit. I
Speaker 1: ain't got nick stuff. Feel like you try I D.
Speaker 1: How you gotta be getting this ship? Yeah? How old? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like so that brain out. Then the nigga's security started
Speaker 1: looking like no bit it though, Yeah, so too nigga.
Speaker 1: Then my jaws show me I D my club and
Speaker 1: then they go like that. Then they ain't getting in.
Speaker 1: If he ain't got no idea getting in my club,
Speaker 1: it's just it's just And then you're a thirteen dollar hour.
Speaker 1: When you know your attitude, you have to you have
Speaker 1: to refrain from putting yourself in certain situations that anything
Speaker 1: anything you're like, well, you know your attitude, like why
Speaker 1: would I even put myself in that situation? Why you
Speaker 1: don't see me certain places? But it's just like even
Speaker 1: when I used to work the door at the club,
Speaker 1: like some ship you you just can't avoid because some
Speaker 1: people are coming to the club already with issues. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so it's like me, just like me, I'm sitting at
Speaker 1: the door, I'm taking money whatever, whatever. Like this fucking
Speaker 1: lady or whatever just got into it with her nigga,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. On the way there, you
Speaker 1: know whatever, whatever, blah blah blah. Now she thinks that
Speaker 1: she's gonna go back and forth with me, and all
Speaker 1: I'm simply asking her to do is pay so she
Speaker 1: can go past me and get in the club. But
Speaker 1: she got the female caddie blah blah blah, whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: And I'm not I'm not here for that, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do whatever I can to go above and
Speaker 1: beyond to prevent any type of argument or altercation. But
Speaker 1: at the same time, bitch, you're not going to disrespect me.
Speaker 1: And I didn't do nothing to say you just give
Speaker 1: me the money to pay your money and go to
Speaker 1: the who for that. Because I don't like the East
Speaker 1: Side Club days. Like we started off with, pull up,
Speaker 1: We're gonna cut the parking man up trying to got them,
Speaker 1: well you're paying, no goddamn parking blah blah blah. Then
Speaker 1: you get up there and you trip about got them
Speaker 1: paying and get in the club. Then got there, you
Speaker 1: trip on the security and pat me down. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, that's these people job. It's all
Speaker 1: what you put yourself into. I could never be a
Speaker 1: parking attendant because I can't go through that. I can
Speaker 1: never be security because I can't go to that. Will
Speaker 1: never be the person taking the money to dope because
Speaker 1: because I can't, I don't know how to have customer service.
Speaker 1: That's so you gotta count of You gotta got into
Speaker 1: it with too many niggas at that door. You got
Speaker 1: to kind of have a patient to be at the dough.
Speaker 1: You gotta kind of have a patient to be like
Speaker 1: like Nigga, like Alex got all the patient in real
Speaker 1: Like right what you're saying, Hey, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: get into it with you. You You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like you gotta have a certain type of I guess
Speaker 1: patient for that ship you do. I don't, so I
Speaker 1: don't even put myself in it, Like like I want
Speaker 1: to get the dough and get the money at the
Speaker 1: dough because I know I'm gona see some nigga to
Speaker 1: feel like I can't charge. I know I'm gonna see
Speaker 1: some niggas that I don't want to let it in.
Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna do. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So why the funk am I even at the dope
Speaker 1: with my emotions? Right? That's a fact. Yeah, like certain ships,
Speaker 1: you can't even put yourself in the position like you know,
Speaker 1: they don't even fit you, bro, right, like you want
Speaker 1: to argue, you want to go back and forth somebody
Speaker 1: if you're trying to do this jumbe because you know
Speaker 1: you're not a customer service person. Bro. Yeah, Now club,
Speaker 1: a club owner is going to get a person to
Speaker 1: also like someone like ja that the community kind of
Speaker 1: fully respected. Not to say you won't get it into
Speaker 1: it with nobody, but I'm here to get the money.
Speaker 1: You're to get the money when they see me that
Speaker 1: gotta pay. But in the club popping, you put in
Speaker 1: about out there. You just put put in about out
Speaker 1: of that don't know aboudy know some of them be
Speaker 1: soft though you couldn't put you couldn't put any you
Speaker 1: couldn't put any door person that club chocolate. What a
Speaker 1: security right that you could Okay right there, you couldn't
Speaker 1: don't matter who get the money right right? And you're
Speaker 1: like blazes and all that, the old white man getting
Speaker 1: the money never heard of talking. You're right, But what
Speaker 1: you're talking about, why if you want to get in
Speaker 1: this ship, well you canna get squirted. Yeah you know.
Speaker 1: Station was like that too, Station was like that sent
Speaker 1: a station was like that man ship Josh used to
Speaker 1: be at the door of Central Station. That's the owner, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: the white man. Yeah, yeah, ain't know v I P
Speaker 1: and all that. Ship You don't understand all that, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you getta pay. You know, it's a business, get it,
Speaker 1: So you gotta understand when you go into that business
Speaker 1: what's going on. But I do think alcohol, other substances
Speaker 1: ego get to plan and then ship can go the
Speaker 1: other way. Even restaurants like restaurants with waiters and waitresses
Speaker 1: and stuff, bartenders and ship. Certain people don't supposed to
Speaker 1: be in no position because you know, your attitude don't
Speaker 1: fit this position. What I'm saying like, you can ruin
Speaker 1: a person the whole motherfucking me on the day everything,
Speaker 1: be ready to whoop your mother sucking because of how
Speaker 1: you feel. You know what I'm saying. I'm coming to
Speaker 1: be served, right, I'm a customer. I'm right. I want
Speaker 1: an extra pack of muster, So bitch go get it
Speaker 1: because that's your job. Yeah. Like, that's why I like
Speaker 1: Chick fil A in the nice neighborhood. They're supposed to
Speaker 1: be so high neighborhood. They'd be like on point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's on, and I think that's that's that's what they
Speaker 1: got there. People to Chick fil A school, No, you know,
Speaker 1: when they get hired, they're going through the whole training.
Speaker 1: That's how they train. When y'all go through that Chick
Speaker 1: fil A line, y'all ask for y'all food in a
Speaker 1: different manner than when y'all go through that McDonald's line
Speaker 1: because they energy nigga's trained. The McDonald's line different because
Speaker 1: niggas don't even really want to eat that ship bad.
Speaker 1: Let's think about the pull up to the pope eyes
Speaker 1: of the hood. What's your order? That's what they said,
Speaker 1: Chick fil A is, how are you doing today? It's
Speaker 1: a beautiful day of Chick fil A. Serve you. I
Speaker 1: can't I can't get on a bullshit with you. Oh
Speaker 1: you could get me a number one, Thank you so much.
Speaker 1: There's a different energy than what's no because even if
Speaker 1: you pull up and they're like, hey, how are you doing?
Speaker 1: I want to let me get it up. It's when
Speaker 1: you're dealing with people that you know how you doing?
Speaker 1: What happen? You know what I'm saying? Being held Just
Speaker 1: be like cats black. You can already sense that this
Speaker 1: person don't want this job. Exactly. Check us on Glenwood.
Speaker 1: I used to go there all the time, mant people
Speaker 1: be like that. It would be different, like different, not
Speaker 1: just black people, be different, people like you could tell
Speaker 1: she don't want he don't want jump right. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you something because when I used to bart him right,
Speaker 1: it used to be certain people that said, come and
Speaker 1: sit their ass down, and granted I may. I could
Speaker 1: look at them be like, oh, it's gonna be a
Speaker 1: hard time. There's gonna be some bullshit, so I may go.
Speaker 1: You manifested to seek my last week. You already putting
Speaker 1: this person on the bullshit you're looking at and what
Speaker 1: that guy? Yeah, what that guy on? And you already
Speaker 1: put the energy out there to day on some bullshit?
Speaker 1: Be right, because I'm typing of g I was just
Speaker 1: for say that I don't want to the old white
Speaker 1: restaurant and been profiled. It was them acting funny with me,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, don't you know I matched the bill
Speaker 1: and tip. But what I'm saying, but I let them
Speaker 1: when they can do that, ship, I ain't getting Yeah, ship,
Speaker 1: but motherfucker, like just say I can deal with a
Speaker 1: person who really fucking up, but I know they ain't.
Speaker 1: That's their job trying, but they're trying. I do the most.
Speaker 1: I don't have them happen to. Sorry, I'm sorry. This
Speaker 1: is my second day and this is my second day here.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying. I'm sorry, it's my second day. That
Speaker 1: type of ship rather than the person that you tell
Speaker 1: to go get the buster to get an attitude. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but times people come to the restaurants and bars and
Speaker 1: ship and act like because they're there that you become
Speaker 1: like their servants. Like although your do you think your
Speaker 1: servant a servants like safe? For instance, like if it's
Speaker 1: some napkins right there, and you'll ask can reach and
Speaker 1: get them napkins. You can't be like, hey, you can
Speaker 1: give me some napkins. You see what I'm saying that
Speaker 1: servants ship. Yeah, yeah, you get your If somebody comes
Speaker 1: to you and take my dick to the bathroom, friends
Speaker 1: and they everybody got everybody order, They brought everybody food,
Speaker 1: got you your little extra ship, And as soon as
Speaker 1: they're walking off, people like, let me get a um,
Speaker 1: let me get a like all that ship, you get etiquette.
Speaker 1: You should have etiquette. Hey hey, yeah, yeah, yeah, all
Speaker 1: that got mad when the server switch off, servers on
Speaker 1: your ass. You gotta go. You gotta have customer etiquette. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: It goes both ways, y'all look like that. Let me
Speaker 1: get my much. But like if I forgot something, or
Speaker 1: if you forgot something, I'm just gonna be like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know, um, you forgot to bring me such and
Speaker 1: such order and I get this blah blah blah whatever whatever,
Speaker 1: YadA YadA. But like if I keep having to remind
Speaker 1: you about the same ship and you've been back to
Speaker 1: my table four or five times, and the ship that
Speaker 1: I asked you to get the first time, you still
Speaker 1: and brought it, Like okay, man, what's going on? You
Speaker 1: can do that with me if your attitude ain't that Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you could forget a hunt of times if your
Speaker 1: attitude ain't I'm trying to forget right, Yeah, you could
Speaker 1: get a hunted things like I just said about the persude,
Speaker 1: like what I'm saying, like like you're trying your best,
Speaker 1: but damn, I forgot it because everybody helse you man
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But if you like if I say
Speaker 1: excuse me, uh, and then he'd be like it's Sean,
Speaker 1: Like damn, so you just said the tone excuse me.
Speaker 1: I don't know how else to say because I don't
Speaker 1: know your name, like it's Sean. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, Okay, I see that. So then then
Speaker 1: you start got there forgetting ship. I'm in my feeling
Speaker 1: yeah yeah. But if I say excuse me and he'd
Speaker 1: be like huh, then then you'd be like, uh, I'm sure,
Speaker 1: and then I'd be like okay, cool, like the first
Speaker 1: few words before you know what I'm saying, like you
Speaker 1: ain't telling me, like what you suggest the ship like
Speaker 1: that on the menu, I see what you want like
Speaker 1: you're just standing like you want yeah yeah yeah if
Speaker 1: you want to eat ship, like right, you got that energy,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be like but but I get up a
Speaker 1: lead though. Yeah, no, I'll do it all the time
Speaker 1: that that ship, that ship can spread, Like I said,
Speaker 1: a fault into that kitchen because a lot of time
Speaker 1: to wait is just cool or wait it is cool
Speaker 1: with the preppy people in the kitchen is like I
Speaker 1: don't even go And I'm saying with the motherfucker who
Speaker 1: I know gonna make it to that, So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: gout there. I'm gonna try to set the energy for
Speaker 1: the table off the rip, like hey, what's your name?
Speaker 1: Because I know I got got them chante over or
Speaker 1: Jade or somebody ready to got them be on them
Speaker 1: before before the you get what I'm saying. So I'm
Speaker 1: trying to got them make cool. Let me be the
Speaker 1: one cool with us because y'all got in the middle
Speaker 1: of the ship. Y'all don't have a food spit on
Speaker 1: or whatever whatever, because I can't eat this ship. But
Speaker 1: see another thing too, like I know you'll probably don't
Speaker 1: have a problem with this because you don't have hair,
Speaker 1: but like even like when it comes down to like
Speaker 1: when somebody's doing your hair and they got like bad energy,
Speaker 1: like when they're washing your hair or like you know,
Speaker 1: doing something to your hair, or whatever, Like when you're
Speaker 1: getting your hair done, like if your hair stylist or whoever,
Speaker 1: like it's talking on the phone while they're doing your
Speaker 1: hair and arguing with somebody, you gotta attitude or you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever, when they're washing your
Speaker 1: hair and like got their hands on like on your
Speaker 1: head and ship, that energy transfers. So like that's why
Speaker 1: I like, if I if I go something, I don't
Speaker 1: only let like one or two people the same one
Speaker 1: or two people do my hair like every time. But
Speaker 1: if I if I I have gone had to step
Speaker 1: out because like these one or two people weren't able
Speaker 1: to do it. But if I'm like getting my hair
Speaker 1: washed or getting something done and this person is like
Speaker 1: arguing on the phone with somebody, or they arguing with
Speaker 1: somebody in the shop, or you know what I'm saying, whatever, whatever,
Speaker 1: I'll politely like ask them to you know, rent the
Speaker 1: soap or whatever out give me one of those little
Speaker 1: plastic caps. I'll pay them for their little service, and
Speaker 1: I leave because at the end of the day, like man,
Speaker 1: that ship, that ship is more like powerful than the
Speaker 1: tongue ship that we were talking about before, because people's
Speaker 1: energy is like transferable. Yeah, very transferable. It's contagious and
Speaker 1: like I don't want that ship on me because sometimes
Speaker 1: it's hard to get it off. No, I agree, I agree.
Speaker 1: I gotta protect that energy. Yeah, like all times, big
Speaker 1: facts Friday, How did this even start? This great conversation?
Speaker 1: But where do we start? Always did we start with
Speaker 1: the mamas and the Okay, alright, so we got we
Speaker 1: got to the over that and we definitely got to
Speaker 1: the bottom of talking about club coach. But I try
Speaker 1: to give everybody like, oh, you know, the service, the
Speaker 1: service industry, you know what I'm saying, one more thing
Speaker 1: to say about club culture, right, But you know, like
Speaker 1: another problem with these security is that like some of
Speaker 1: these owners be telling the security to be aggressive, to
Speaker 1: do this, to do that, and you know, bark on
Speaker 1: these people whatever whatever. But then when certain people come
Speaker 1: and certain people buck on like the standard procedures because
Speaker 1: they feel like they're above and beyond these procedures and
Speaker 1: they go take the security to the owner or have
Speaker 1: the owner come out or whatever, and the owners like no, no, no,
Speaker 1: they're good. It's like, yeah, like what the are you talking? Like,
Speaker 1: Like what is it like you want me to fucking
Speaker 1: bark on these people, or do you want me to
Speaker 1: make exceptions for people, because it becomes make sure you
Speaker 1: bark the artist. Yeah yeah, but it becomes make sure
Speaker 1: you bark on the motherfucker's we keep the ship. Nobody
Speaker 1: everybody got. But then they walk out and the security
Speaker 1: barking on Bank. No, no no, don't bark on Bank. Put
Speaker 1: me your bark on to everybody. You know what I'm
Speaker 1: saying that you don't give a funk who it is.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, like everything is based on you, though,
Speaker 1: don't they don't think you walk up to the dough.
Speaker 1: If I walk up to the door the club, I'm
Speaker 1: coming with even security. I'm coming with what suck security
Speaker 1: for you even get a chance to even now if
Speaker 1: you're just acting like a whole bit, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying straight up, your hope ain't nothing else Because
Speaker 1: I came on the you know what I'm saying, before
Speaker 1: I even got up here, how to chip the parking nigga?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm doing overcompensation. I'm overcome
Speaker 1: and saying never about it when I'm coming through. So now,
Speaker 1: if you're just a nigga, that feel like this is
Speaker 1: your time to drop your nuts. I gotta I gotta
Speaker 1: tell you that, and I gotta and if you keep
Speaker 1: pushing it like, I'm gonna have to show you. Like type,
Speaker 1: they had a little meetings before the night start amongst security,
Speaker 1: when they huddle up and they'd be on whatever they'd
Speaker 1: be on. I know that from the DJ and clubs
Speaker 1: and ship they got their agenda or what they're from
Speaker 1: to be on so you can set the energy, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean was saying. And at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, it's all along how you how you
Speaker 1: carry it because the nigga jeb you don't beat the
Speaker 1: funk out of the nigga before you. And you can
Speaker 1: walk up and nigga start smiling or nigga be smiling,
Speaker 1: beat the nixt nigga behind or the niggle with you
Speaker 1: right in front of you, beat the funk out of you.
Speaker 1: He ain't sunk with me. But you know what I'm saying, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I ain't even put myself in that situation before
Speaker 1: and even get that far, I'm gonna either walk off
Speaker 1: or pop it off right because I know y'all nigga
Speaker 1: is here to embarrass a nigga. Damn, that's what they security.
Speaker 1: You think that's what some of them. Yeah, some want
Speaker 1: to the old mass. Someone just trying to get their
Speaker 1: little money. Though I say something someone they want the
Speaker 1: holes in the club and scripplehole like he did what right,
Speaker 1: like beat your hand deaf for the whole like no,
Speaker 1: but Jennie heard the whole situation, like he act like
Speaker 1: you don't want to pay Yeah he didn't coming there
Speaker 1: straight being you up. Don't even got them get a
Speaker 1: chance like a like Alex not like say like you
Speaker 1: just don't the bitch word or whatever. She said. Somebody
Speaker 1: disrespect her and y'all can't fly there. You get what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because he's showing out for the bit she
Speaker 1: probably yeah, yeah, facts facts. I'm standing on the even
Speaker 1: that what they're trying to give me fun that I
Speaker 1: ain't got I ain't because I ain't got no But
Speaker 1: we're coming. We're coming on some players ship like him. Man,
Speaker 1: whatever happened bro, Well, but well when when we need
Speaker 1: no stories, we didn't even want to go, We're gonna
Speaker 1: pay you extra like whatever. People you just can't get it.
Speaker 1: You can't get through too. They might made up because nothing.
Speaker 1: It's something that you don't even know why they still, Yeah,
Speaker 1: try to keep my job. Back to that school ship
Speaker 1: though it's something that happening fucking school, or it could
Speaker 1: be a motive. It could be I'm doing this because
Speaker 1: I know this is how my boss really is. I'm
Speaker 1: doing this because these girls right here looking at me
Speaker 1: already said I left whooping and the night about what
Speaker 1: it is? Hey, back to the people of service. That
Speaker 1: got the cool people of services? We fun with security.
Speaker 1: Do your job got them? What is it? Waiters, waitresses, bartenders?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, what these service people is
Speaker 1: out there? I know, I forget motherfucking the people on
Speaker 1: the plane, the stewardess and all that ship. Sometimes people
Speaker 1: be running them around on some bullshit too. If you're
Speaker 1: on some cool shit, salute to you showing some bullshit.
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