WEBVTT - Bulletproof Bodycon 0:00:00.400 --> 0:00:02.640 Forever. 0:00:03.920 --> 0:00:08.400 All right, we're here, we are, we are here in 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:14.400 the virtual studes, and one of us is going through 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:15.520 it and the other one isn't. 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:23.000 Which is which? Andrew looking at us right now, in 0:00:23.000 --> 0:00:24.920 which one of us is not well? 0:00:25.880 --> 0:00:28.400 Sydney has a cup of like broth in her hand 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:30.479 that she has to drink with this vegan diet that 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:33.040 she's working on. So I imagine that you're the one 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:35.680 going through it, Sydney. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:38.800 Are you going through it? I am? 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:41.000 I have to drink a gallon of water a day, 0:00:41.720 --> 0:00:47.080 and there's these this broth that's got garlic and any 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:49.720 and everything else that you should have as a seasoning 0:00:49.920 --> 0:00:53.360 and not as a liquid. 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:56.240 To just drink, not as a beverage. So it's blended. 0:00:57.320 --> 0:01:01.320 It is blended, and it's and it's hot like like tea, 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:06.639 and it's a it's a kidney flush, a liver flush 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:08.399 or something like that flush your system. 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:12.600 Have you ever done a cleanse before? Friend? Oh? 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:15.440 The only cleanse that I do is on my face. 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:19.440 That's about it, kay, hash taxaph. 0:01:19.920 --> 0:01:23.000 I use a cleanser. Don't know about a clean son. 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:27.040 Go ahead and use the Unofficial Expert as your coupon code. 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:34.399 Sydney City. That's the most la thing I've ever heard. 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:38.080 I can't believe you're moving to la and leaving me 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:40.679 here cleanseless. 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:45.119 First of all, Marie, you you two will be by 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:48.120 coastal and we'll all live together. 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:51.840 No, we won't live together. Yes, you guys are gonna 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:53.840 move to bell Air and I'm gonna be the first 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:59.200 prince when my overall clipped on one side, and I'm 0:01:59.200 --> 0:02:03.800 gonna be like, oh my god, imagine JoJo's uncle Phil. 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:06.840 That would be a that would honestly be a funny 0:02:06.840 --> 0:02:09.600 ass show and I would love to see it. It's 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:14.560 like Fresh Prince of bel Air meets Three's Company. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:18.960 You know, I've never seen Three's Company. Was there a 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:21.880 baby on that Three's Company? 0:02:21.960 --> 0:02:25.720 No, there was a couple and there's like two friends, 0:02:25.760 --> 0:02:26.760 two girls and a guy. 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:31.600 And this show was black and white in my mind, 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:32.280 Three's Company. 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:32.920 No, it. 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:37.800 Came on after I Love Lucy. Yes, don't you do that, Marie? 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:38.200 No? 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:42.239 What channel did three is Company? Play? One? I don't 0:02:42.280 --> 0:02:44.079 remember channels, so no, I don't. 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:46.800 I don't know, but I have like TV Land in 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:47.600 my mind. 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:54.640 Yes, tv Land Bewitched. It came on between Bewitched and 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:56.799 I dream of Genie. That's in my head. That's when 0:02:56.840 --> 0:03:01.680 I feel like it came on. So Sidney's doing a 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:04.639 cleanse and Andrew still wearing his glasses. 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:08.280 I'm still wearing my glasses. It's fully allergy season, and 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:09.920 so like my eyes are just acting up. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:13.280 You know, it's so bad. It really is bad. Like 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:17.560 I feel like it looks like I'm an alcoholic. My 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:22.160 eyes will be so red, like bloodshot. It look like 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:26.480 a lab rat. And I'm just tearing up. It's like 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:29.239 I never even had cocaine. 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:32.440 That strong that would make me look as bad as 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:34.280 I've been looking in the streets. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:35.000 Eyes. 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:39.480 Yeah, like after you sniff it, like it goes through 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:43.560 your system and your eyes get you know, bigger, and 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.160 you like veins come out. 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.880 You look crazy. Have you ever seen somebody on coke? 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:52.120 It's not them like that, like they're they just be 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:56.400 like sweaty and sometimes their jaws moving a little wild 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:57.960 a while. With this hat on, I look like a 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:02.800 young Barack Obama. I gotta take it off. Uh. I 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:06.040 bought two new wigs this weekend. I would show you, guys, 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:09.200 can we see? I would show you, but they're too far. 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:12.960 One is first of all, I have to stop going 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:17.240 to the beauty supply store high and that now you 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:20.080 should go live. That's when you should go live, since 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:24.680 and the beauty sohon beauty shop when you're high. Because 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:26.080 the first of all, they don't even want you to 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:28.880 take pictures of the wigs at the beauty supply store. Oh, 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:30.280 you're going to the wrong one. 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:34.159 You have to go to the one that's remember by uh, 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.000 you know, my old the old place that I used 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:38.120 to live Sidney. 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:40.360 I'm not getting on a I'm not jumping in an 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:42.720 uber to go to a far away beauty supply store 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:45.119 so I could take videos and or go live. 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:49.320 I just walked ACROSL. I'm already sweating. This ship is terrible. 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:51.600 Take your up off, and by your top, I mean 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:56.159 you're a wig. Take it off. It'll cool you down tremendously. 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:02.040 Okay, So you're not going live in a beauty salon, 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.520 so a beauty shop, so they don't want you taking pictures? 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:05.240 What else? Wait? 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:06.840 Why don't they want you taking pictures? 0:05:07.120 --> 0:05:09.040 I don't know, but you know they also don't like 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:12.919 when you take pictures at Sephora as well. Oh I 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.520 didn't know that. I'm always taking pictures in Sephora, I know, 0:05:15.600 --> 0:05:18.800 but I remember, uh, I want to say the one 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:23.880 on Broadway, like me in Soho. I was in there 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:27.440 like taking pictures of like the colors of the display 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:29.600 and they were like, oh, this is please, no photos 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:33.159 in here. And I was like, why you think I'm 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:36.360 building a competitor store and I'm trying to see how 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:39.920 you laid out the product, Like it's weird, We're weird. 0:05:39.920 --> 0:05:44.080 We have cell phones now we're taking photos. You know that. 0:05:44.080 --> 0:05:46.320 That's like you got you go to the museum and 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:47.800 they tell you can't take pictures of the stuff at 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:51.919 the museum and it's like no, but I'm I'm just 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:55.520 trying to understand what's the point of it though I 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:58.080 don't know. I don't know, but they had signs posted. 0:05:58.200 --> 0:06:01.120 I mean usually when I'm in there and I'm sneaking 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:03.080 my photos, it's because I'm making fun of the wigs 0:06:03.080 --> 0:06:05.720 that they have. Like I feel like the last time 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:07.719 I was, I was sending you pictures of like the 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:11.400 wigs that had like the bandana attached. Yeah. I think 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:12.560 that's what the deal is. 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:18.120 It's like they don't trust us enough to come to 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:21.000 an establishment and not make fun of it, or take 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:23.479 pictures and show other people like, yo, don't come here 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:26.920 because they shit is trash, that's what. That's why they 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:31.640 don't like if you go to Sephora, right, they have 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:37.360 specific lighting to make you think that the stuff looks good. 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:40.200 Then you get out in regular daylight. 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:43.800 And bitch that that foundation is nowhere near the color 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:46.880 of your neck exactly, that this stuff that's on your 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:51.719 eyebrows do like it's they trick us. I hate the 0:06:51.839 --> 0:06:58.200 lighting in department stores and make up places like Sephora, yeah, 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:01.440 because they have like warm life and cool light, and 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:01.920 it's like, well. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:04.800 Where's the outside light, where's the street light, where's the 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:08.920 regular I'm sitting in my mom's kitchen and she's judging 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:11.560 all of my life choices. Light. Where is that light 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:14.320 in the Saphora? But that's why I always put my 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:14.800 phone on. 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:16.360 I was like, let me see and they're like, here's 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:17.600 a mirror, and I was like, no, no, no, no, I 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:19.560 need to see my phone because that's when you can 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:20.760 really get into it. 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:24.080 Yeah, it is a very soft glam light. And then 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:27.240 you set department stores whenever you try stuff one at 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:30.920 like in a Zara fitting room, you always look. You 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.400 be like, oh my god, look how fick I look? 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:36.160 How good this looks against my skin tone? And then 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.240 you get home and you're like, why did I buy this? 0:07:38.760 --> 0:07:43.080 Look like I look like Dug Funny H and M. 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:45.640 H and M. I hope you're listening. They are. You 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:48.840 should be ashamed of yourself. The amount of cellu light 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:52.200 that I can see, and those fucking those overhead lights. 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:55.640 Who is the lighting for? A man? Made those lights? 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:59.080 Because they you know, man, they take pictures from underneath. 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:02.000 They chin they like they're barely lit. 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:02.640 They don't care. 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:06.880 Overhead lighting was absolutely made by Satan himself. 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:09.720 Oh okay, I see me by your name. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:14.440 Yeah, I could see every single dit in my thigh. 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:17.360 At H and M. At we canceled H and M 0:08:17.400 --> 0:08:20.440 after that cutest monkey in the jungle t shirt saga. 0:08:20.520 --> 0:08:22.800 So you shouldn't even you still at H and M. 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:26.040 Sys No, But I'm just telling you, like when I 0:08:26.120 --> 0:08:28.480 did go to H and M, I could see all 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:29.480 of the cellul. 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:30.920 Like, well, that's what H and M is all about. 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:35.480 It's called it's honesty. Honesty In months months, months, I 0:08:35.520 --> 0:08:37.079 can't think of an m thing, But you know what 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:40.280 I mean, honest monsters. They want you to see what 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:42.240 you really look like. And you're a monster, babe. So 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:45.280 I don't like it. And Andrew, are you googling coolest 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:46.800 monkeling monkey in the Jungle? 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:49.880 Yes, I didn't know about this. This is awful. 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:52.920 Yeah, Andrew, welcome to twenty eighteen or whatever. 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:55.040 I'm late. 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:59.440 Yeah, what is that fiasco? Yeah? 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.680 That was twenty eight You're right on the money. 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:03.679 Has hashtag never forget. 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:09.760 Someone someone told them, someone made them think that that 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:10.560 was the look. 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.079 Well, for those of y'all who were born after twenty 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:18.679 eighteen and listening, H and M put a small black 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:22.160 child in a sweater that said coolest Monkey in the 0:09:22.240 --> 0:09:25.880 Jungle and then they blasted it on their website and 0:09:26.000 --> 0:09:28.880 maybe in the store, and people were like, why is 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:29.400 the little boy? 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:29.600 Where? 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:32.599 Why's the black child wearing the monkey shirt? And H 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:34.400 and M was like, cause he's cool. 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:34.520 And. 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:42.360 They were and no, you could tell nobody on the 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:45.080 team was black, because they were like, I'm sorry, because 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:49.760 of history, we will not be equated to anything having 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.440 a monkey or a gorilla or apes or any of 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:53.560 that sort. 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:56.720 No, we cannot. We just it's a strong no. And 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:59.800 then people were writing they were like, well, where's his parents? 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:01.960 Why did they let him do that? Da da da 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:04.520 da da? His parents? His mother speak out about it. 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:07.000 Yeah, I think I'm seeing something here for that. 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:09.079 Yeah, what did the mother say? Let's give us the 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:09.760 follow up. 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:13.960 In the twenty twenty one Okay, mother of boy and 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:18.040 h and M's Close Monkey says get over it. She 0:10:18.360 --> 0:10:21.559 said Terry Mango and her son featured in the controversial 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:22.240 AH and m Ad. 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.040 She said, get over it. Is he adopted. His mother 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:27.480 looked like. 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:31.559 She said that people calling it racially insensitive need to 0:10:31.600 --> 0:10:34.280 get over it. This is his mother. 0:10:35.360 --> 0:10:38.520 Oh, she had already kept Yeah, she needed the coin. 0:10:38.720 --> 0:10:41.800 She said, she needed the coin. She's his manager, his mammager, 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:45.240 and she gives twenty percent of that Coolest Monkey hoodie sales. 0:10:46.000 --> 0:10:49.160 Uh, Marie, how do you feel about making choices based 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:51.600 on finances and not because your heart is in it? 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:55.120 How do you feel about that doing things for the money? Yeah, 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.000 I think it depends on what the thing is. 0:10:57.200 --> 0:11:01.280 Right. If you are desperate for money and you got 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:03.600 kids at home to feed and stuff, and you're at 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:05.800 the end of your rope, you're gonna do something different 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:09.760 than somebody who you know is bored. You know, I 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:15.160 think that I think that bored people, bored people create, 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:18.880 they have to find stuff to do. Right. If I'm 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:21.720 I don't know why, Sidney, why are you asking me 0:11:21.720 --> 0:11:23.200 this question? What you're doing over there? 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:27.360 Oh girl, you already know where we've been. You know 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:29.839 where we've been through, what we've been through, and what 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:32.600 we do. I mean, sometimes I look at things and 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:35.679 I'm like, I can't believe I said yes to this, 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.640 But I was like at the time, I was. 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:41.200 Like, well, the money works. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:44.440 And there are so many times where I'm just like, 0:11:44.600 --> 0:11:48.440 if I made things based off if I really want 0:11:48.440 --> 0:11:52.760 to do it and how this is gelling with what 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:55.359 I want my career to look like, I probably. 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:58.520 Wouldn't have done it. Yeah, But I think when you 0:11:58.600 --> 0:12:03.079 start your career out get any actor, anybody who's famous, 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:06.600 anybody who is an entertainer and is successful right now 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:09.880 or working their way up to being successful when they 0:12:09.920 --> 0:12:14.040 first start out, the pickings is slims is you gotta 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:17.160 say yes to stuff just so you can get the exposure, 0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:20.160 the experience, and like get your foot in the door. 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:23.200 I don't know why, but I feel like this weekend 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:27.440 people were bringing up like embarrassing first celebrity roles, and 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:31.000 it was like Julia Roberts and Sandra Bullock and all 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:34.199 these like their first movies are things that they wouldn't 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:36.480 say yes to now, you know. 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:39.520 Yeah, But but I think that that's what people have 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:44.280 to think about. Like, you know, I was watching Denzel 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:49.280 Washington was speaking at Fordham University, and he was saying 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:54.480 that if you don't fail, you're not even trying. So 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.679 it's like you have to in order to get to 0:12:57.720 --> 0:13:01.000 where you need to be. You have to make mistakes 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:05.280 and fail and learn. And you can't do any of 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:08.520 that if you're always like, oh, no, I'm not gonna 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:11.040 do that, or yeah, that's just not gonna work. 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:14.040 But you know what I mean about it, it makes sense, right. 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:17.080 I mean, the libra in me, the perfectionist in me, 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:20.080 doesn't want anybody to see what I'm working on until 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.640 I'm done with it or until I feel like it's perfect. 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:25.560 But then I'm looking at what other people are sharing 0:13:25.559 --> 0:13:27.240 and putting out into the world, and a lot of 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:32.880 it is some of it is trash, but they do 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:37.480 it consistently and gradually their stuff gets better. And if 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:41.400 you're not used to failing, ever imagine this, you've never 0:13:41.440 --> 0:13:45.160 failed in your life, you've never not done well. That 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:49.120 first time you fail at something, it's gonna crush your soul. 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:53.600 You're gonna be reevaluating every single choice that you made 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:55.400 to get you to where you were that ended up 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:57.880 where you ended up failing. But if you're trying a 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:00.280 lot and sometimes you win and sometimes you lose and 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:03.400 sometimes stuff works out, that is how you learn because 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:05.760 you'll be like, all right, well, next time, I'm not 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:07.600 gonna I'm not gonna do that, or I'm not gonna 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:09.960 wear those shoes on that date, or I'm not gonna 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:13.960 you know what I'm saying. You have to try or 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:18.760 you'll never move forward one. But also the more you fail, 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:20.760 the easier it is to fail the next time. 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:25.200 Well, my issue is it's like, Okay, you put stuff 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:30.080 out there and everybody is I mean, the people who 0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:33.080 follow you normally are the ones that's gonna be like 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:33.720 praising you. 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:36.400 There'll be like some randoms are like this is this 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.040 is unacceptable blah blah. 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:41.360 But for the most people, most part, the people who 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:44.600 follow you are gonna love it because they love your brand. 0:14:44.920 --> 0:14:48.320 But then there's my issue with the internet. Is that 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:53.360 people who don't love you can just write whatever, can 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:56.640 repost and be like this is the bullshit that this 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:57.360 is the reason. 0:14:57.160 --> 0:15:00.560 Why black women or are not where there's supposed to be. 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:04.440 Like I I remember doing that viral video for the 0:15:04.520 --> 0:15:11.280 dildo hoverboard and and it just it honestly, it ruined 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:15.640 my my belief in like just doing stuff for fun. 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:21.280 So you would not have done that if they asked 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:23.760 you to do that, knowing what you know now, would 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:28.080 you still have said yes? I don't know, Marie, I 0:15:28.120 --> 0:15:32.080 don't know that. The comments were pretty rough, they were 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:36.040 not nice, But that's the thing about comments on social 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:41.280 media is there's always gonna be bad ones. Yeah, And 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:47.000 on Aqua Fina was like trending on Twitter, and you know, 0:15:47.200 --> 0:15:51.720 Sis has a golden globe and she's she went from 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:54.680 I think she was a rapper at some point to 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:01.760 Remembers and then she was on Got Code, and then 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:07.080 she did Oceans eight, Ocean Right, and now she's doing 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:11.000 Marvel movies and she's like a legit actress. But like, 0:16:11.960 --> 0:16:15.840 there are people who celebrate her growth, but it's a 0:16:15.920 --> 0:16:20.160 lot there was a lot of people just dragging Aquafina 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:23.560 for what she was doing when she first came out, 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:28.600 which was appropriating black culture and talking in a black scent. 0:16:29.120 --> 0:16:32.800 And you know, she's from like Forest Hill, Queens, which 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:36.160 has like two percent black people. So it's like, it's like, so, 0:16:36.200 --> 0:16:38.840 where did you get this accent that you were talking 0:16:38.840 --> 0:16:43.080 to us in? And people dug up quotes of her 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:45.920 saying she would never do like an Asian accent. She's 0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:49.560 not ever gonna do anything that like mis represents Asian people. 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:51.120 And then people were in the comments like, but why 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:53.440 you do why were you doing a little black girl? 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:54.400 Like what was that? 0:16:56.040 --> 0:17:01.960 Yeah, I mean, listen, when it comes to shit that 0:17:02.040 --> 0:17:03.960 you're like, I thought this was a look. 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:07.240 At the time, people were like, yeah, this. 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:10.400 Is cool, but now where we are in twenty twenty one, 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:11.199 it's a no go. 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:14.560 So, you know, trends changed, Things change. 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:18.680 I was just talking to some friends last night about 0:17:19.080 --> 0:17:22.159 a video that was on BuzzFeed and it was like 0:17:23.600 --> 0:17:29.720 questions black people asked other black people. And at the time, 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:33.280 the person who put it together thought it was a 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:34.440 brilliant idea. 0:17:34.520 --> 0:17:37.879 Well, what were some of the questions? Friend? Oh friend? 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:40.920 Why do why do we eat black chick? Why do 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:44.960 we eat fried chicken? Why why is five minutes turn 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:46.000 into twenty minutes? 0:17:48.160 --> 0:17:53.520 It's just chicken because it's good. But also no, no, 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:58.919 I like, it was just the most stereotypical coon shit 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:04.199 that like the people involved, like them asked the questions Medea, like, 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:07.800 I'm confused, that's too, like where the questions came from. 0:18:08.320 --> 0:18:13.359 It has over two million views and uh, it was 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:16.960 the video that set everything off for BuzzFeed and black 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:22.160 people not to work together. Oh people. People were highly 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:30.920 upset because busfeed is is through a white gaze. So 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:33.440 it's like, yeah, you got black people working there, but 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:39.080 it's it's white consumption, a white gaze gaze, not g 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:43.040 a Y s no, no, no, no white gaze, which 0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:47.399 also should be a title white gaze. How do you 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:53.120 have these gaze with a Z not Z white gaze 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:56.640 with a Z not a Y. That's a funny title whatever. 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:02.399 I'm confused about the letters. But yes, a lot of 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:06.439 things that we could consume is through like it is 0:19:06.440 --> 0:19:09.520 filtered through a beige lens anyway, that's just the way 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:12.360 that the world is set up. Beige lens is great too. 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:17.439 Put down, yes, but I think that anything that you 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:19.920 put on the internet, it could be the most perfect 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:22.600 thing you've ever posted. It could be a picture of 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:26.720 your baby, your beautiful baby. Someone in the comments gonna 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:29.439 say that baby got a big ass head, or someone's 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:32.440 gonna say why would you post this, Or someone's gonna 0:19:32.480 --> 0:19:35.359 say I could tell by the way he's gripping your 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:39.119 breast that this baby is a misogynist. Like, someone is 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:43.320 always gonna find something negative to say you post your 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:46.080 perfect cat I someone's zooming into the background and they're like, 0:19:46.400 --> 0:19:48.879 well I could I could see that your house is dirty, 0:19:48.960 --> 0:19:49.560 and it's like. 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:52.800 But it's not about that, yeah, but it's also like, 0:19:52.880 --> 0:19:54.920 my cat eye is so perfect. Why the fuck were 0:19:54.960 --> 0:19:57.040 you looking? Why were you zooming in in the back? 0:19:57.359 --> 0:20:00.159 You know? The bitch like right right, But maybe they 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:02.800 zoomed into your pupils and they looked at the reflection 0:20:03.040 --> 0:20:04.800 of yourself in you, you know what I mean. Like, 0:20:05.040 --> 0:20:10.240 people are crazy people. People will say anything and do anything, 0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:15.040 and people have like burner accounts. That's that's what the 0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:18.840 real problem is. People are going they're trolling from the 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:22.320 fake account that they set up because they can't stand 0:20:22.359 --> 0:20:28.040 on their real page and say that stuff to anybody. Hello, Hello, attention, attention, 0:20:28.160 --> 0:20:32.840 you scary ass people stop, Like, you know what, You 0:20:32.920 --> 0:20:37.199 use a burner account to stalk your ex, to stalk 0:20:37.240 --> 0:20:40.879 an old friend that you hope is doing poorly, and 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:43.199 then you check and you're like, oh, wow, they're on 0:20:43.240 --> 0:20:44.440 a fucking boat. 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:48.240 In santro Pei. Why don't I just mind my fucking business. Listen, 0:20:48.720 --> 0:20:52.000 if you're going to actually use your burner account to 0:20:52.080 --> 0:20:57.240 write underneath someone's page negative shit, get help, get help, 0:20:57.359 --> 0:21:00.520 go to therapy, maybe get some meds. It's that's wrong. 0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:04.200 It's like I can never see myself. I think things 0:21:04.240 --> 0:21:07.640 all the time and it never reached my fingertips. 0:21:07.720 --> 0:21:10.959 Never hit the keys. They never hit the keys. But 0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:15.720 that's because you are a public facing person. Yeah, you 0:21:15.760 --> 0:21:18.240 say the wrong thing under the wrong post at the 0:21:18.280 --> 0:21:21.880 wrong time. Yeah, people are going to bombarge your page 0:21:21.960 --> 0:21:25.119 with you know what I mean, Like people are just 0:21:25.119 --> 0:21:26.919 gonna say, you know, they're gonna come after you. And 0:21:26.960 --> 0:21:30.520 it's like, I don't have time to be battling the 0:21:30.560 --> 0:21:35.439 beehive or the Kardashian hive or the whatever these hives 0:21:35.480 --> 0:21:39.480 are that these famous people have, because at the same time, 0:21:40.600 --> 0:21:42.320 there's always gonna be somebody that has something negative to 0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:44.840 say about you. But there's also always gonna be somebody 0:21:45.160 --> 0:21:47.119 who is a fan of what it is that you're doing, 0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:50.040 whatever the hell it is that you're into, whatever your 0:21:50.280 --> 0:21:53.639 style of khmedi is, whatever your face shape looks like, 0:21:53.920 --> 0:21:56.200 there's somebody somewhere that is a fan of that. 0:21:56.520 --> 0:21:59.920 And Maria's saying that because let's get into it. Are 0:22:00.119 --> 0:22:05.840 good friend viral sensation on Instagram? I mean, jeez, Louise Murray, 0:22:05.560 --> 0:22:08.919 the girlies were loving what you had to say about 0:22:08.960 --> 0:22:13.159 the police, and it was beautiful. I mean I was truly, 0:22:13.440 --> 0:22:15.720