1 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: Can we talk about the silver platter teenager generation. I 2 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: think it's because of social media, and I know when 3 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: we were kids, they had commercials, but it just was 4 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: a slower burn, like you had to have TV shows 5 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: in between commercials. It wasn't like every minute of the 6 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: day there was something for a kid to be obsessed 7 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: about and want. And I ranted on TikTok about the 8 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: ten year olds at Sephora, but I wanted to talk 9 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:43,640 Speaker 1: about the teenagers at Sephora because I'm not kidding. A 10 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: year and a half ago was the first time in 11 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: my life I would ever have the cahonis to order 12 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: a fifty dollars blush or lip gloss like it makes 13 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: me sick. I today, I'm gonna have to talk to 14 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: a therapist about the fact that I ordered a Stanley 15 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,680 Speaker 1: cup for thirty five dollars that has like a little 16 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: handle and it's supposed to not topple over. Because I 17 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 1: know that like five below and everybody else have and 18 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: TJ and everyone else have like five dollars versions of it, 19 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: and yes they're knockoffs of it, so I should like 20 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,760 Speaker 1: want the original Aramas bag, I guess, but like, look 21 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: at my assistant she has a Stanley cup. Danielle, a 22 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: woman I work with, she has a Stanley cup, like 23 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: women on a budget, working women at a back and 24 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: look at them like, who the fuck do you guys 25 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 1: think you are having Stanley cup? You spend forty dollars 26 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: on a cup and they're like they love their cup, 27 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 1: they idolize their cup, they take care of their cup, 28 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 1: they pet their cup. The ice they got, the whole 29 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:40,160 Speaker 1: fucking ice thing. The ice from last night is lasted 30 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: till today. I'm like my ice and my shitty cup 31 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: from TJ lasted till today too. It started years ago 32 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: with the swell bottle, Like we understand the ice concept. 33 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: Guess what Thermis did it too a long time ago. 34 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: And it'll stay hot you eating soup out of your 35 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: Stanley cup. So anyway, these kids, can we go get Bubba? 36 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: Can we get Starbucks? And then John Galla like they 37 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: want everything and they want it now, and it's like 38 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: it's just so fast. And I know I sound like 39 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: the one who's like why we took a divorce and 40 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: carriage to go to Target? Like I know, but like 41 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: it's just a lot right now, that's still and the 42 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: teenager age is just silver platter. Anyway to begin with 43 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: your life is the games and the practices and the 44 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: schedule and the concert at school and the oh, I 45 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: mean God. We serve at the pleasure of the teenagers, 46 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: Serve at the pleasure of Britain happy, serve at the pleasure. 47 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: I talked about this a little to Holly Madison, but 48 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: I think we should talk about the rate of divorce 49 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: and its connection to young people wanting so badly to 50 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: be married. So there's so many different things to break 51 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: down here. The rate of divorce is high, it's over 52 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: sixty percent. I think and think about the number of 53 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 1: people that you know that are married divorced who are 54 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: not happy. And I talk about how people who are 55 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: in quote unquote traditional marriages do judge people in non 56 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:14,399 Speaker 1: traditional marriages. But I believe that non traditional is working 57 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: because people are being honest about the fact that they 58 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: are married to someone that is not them. They're not 59 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 1: married to a clone. That person has their own cultural beliefs, 60 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: their own ideology, their own moral beliefs, their own business 61 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: ethics and business style. Do they believe in horoscopes? They 62 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: like to ski? Do they like a sunny vacation? What 63 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: about being strict, parenting indulgent. Two different people getting married 64 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: means two different ideals, and so in many cases, two 65 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: different people means two different previous spouses, two different sets 66 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: of children, blending different ages like these are things that 67 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: have to come together. So how do you make that work? 68 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: It's often with non traditional Some people don't see each 69 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: other every day. Some people don't have dinner together every night. 70 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: Some people travel a lot, some people have long distance relationships. 71 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: Some people don't like their in laws, you know, some 72 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: people have a disparity in income. There are millions different ways, 73 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: And I've seen from Kurt Russell and Goldie Hahn, who 74 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,159 Speaker 1: for years weren't actually married, which would seem like something 75 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: to judge, weren't legally married, that they sort of indicated 76 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: that it works for them because they both are on 77 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: different paths but have similar sensibilities about where those paths 78 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 1: are leading. And they never thought it was going to 79 00:04:44,200 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: be one thing. It's a living and breathing organism that 80 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: has highs and lows and ins and outs, and it 81 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: ends up in a different place. Neil Patrick Harris I 82 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: heard recently say something similar, and I think about the 83 00:04:55,800 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: young generation that is marketed marriage marketed. We buy makeup 84 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: because of marketing. We buy a Stanley cup because of marketing, 85 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: We buy a brand of cottage cheese, or you know, 86 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: go on a vacation or stay at a hotel, or 87 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,359 Speaker 1: buy a shirt because of marketing. Why would we not 88 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 1: be getting married because of marketing? Because you're marketed the dress? Oh, 89 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: don't you want to pick out a dress? Don't you 90 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 1: want to be doing the lace on the top or 91 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 1: the big fairy princess. You're gonna get to be the 92 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: star if you're not an actual star, you get to 93 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 1: be the star, the bell of the ball. You get 94 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 1: to be a princess. So how much how intoxicating is 95 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: that you get a ring? You're gonna get a gorgeous ring. 96 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: What's it gonna be? Is a oval? Is it hard? 97 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: Is it marquis? What are the side stones? That's a 98 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 1: big thing that's exciting. You get to make your friends jealous. 99 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: You've got prince charming, You get to like live this 100 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: life and act as if you just have such an 101 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: enviable life because you're getting married, and where are you 102 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: going on your honeymoon? So all of this is marketed, 103 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: And why wouldn't you want to buy it. You want 104 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: to flip through the magazines. You get to out florals. 105 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: What are you gonna eat? What's the cake? Oh my god, 106 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 1: it's all about you. Everyone's fawning over you. You get to 107 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 1: have another party. You can have an engaging party. You 108 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: can have a bridal shower. You can, you know, do 109 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 1: so many different things and you you can. You're gonna 110 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: get all these gifts, you get to register. This is 111 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: the stuff that we're marketed. And the problem is we 112 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: spend more time thinking about the foreplay and the marketing 113 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: than the actual main act, which is an actual marriage 114 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:27,599 Speaker 1: that you have your whole life to have if you 115 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: choose to do it, and what does that entail? And 116 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,919 Speaker 1: how are you choosing? Are you choosing wisely? Are you 117 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: spending enough time really thinking about the nuts and bolts, 118 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: What the bench looks like when you're seventy five, if 119 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: someone's sick, what the finances look like, what a divorce 120 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 1: god forbid looks like. It's a fact. You can't be 121 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 1: a dummy. If sixty percent of business deals fail, which 122 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: probably the numbers higher, doesn't it sound insane to not 123 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 1: have a prenup? And isn't it something that you want 124 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: to walk into really understand the terms you got to divorce, 125 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: what happens, what's the child's situation going to be like, 126 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: what about custody, what about religion, what about medicine, what 127 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: about college? What about you know, all that stuff. But 128 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: the point is I think that the fairy tale is 129 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: being marketed to young people and it's also relating to 130 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 1: their motivation. Young women in particular want to bag a 131 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: rich guy. They want a good looking but really they 132 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 1: definitely would love someone to take care of them. It's 133 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: a lot of young girls that really talk to each 134 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,160 Speaker 1: other about wanting to bag a rich guy. Now you 135 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: bag a rich guy, you give up power. If you 136 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: don't have your own money, if you're not working, you 137 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: give up power. You give up decision making, even in 138 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 1: ways that aren't so tangible. The tangible ways are on 139 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 1: where are you're going to go on a vacation. Yes, 140 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: you're both going to weigh in on where you want 141 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: to go on a vacation, and you'll have a lot 142 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: more leverage in the beginning of the marriage when your 143 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: husband isn't sick of you like you're sick of him. 144 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 1: But ultimately he or she who makes the gold makes 145 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 1: the rules. You gonna buy a house, You're just gonna 146 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: go buy a house on your own without having to 147 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: ask your husband permission. You're gonna go buy a Rolex, 148 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: or some vancleeve earrings, or a three hundred and fifty 149 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: dollars facial treatment or something without asking permission. No, because 150 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: they who make the gold make the rules. And what 151 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: if you don't love your in laws, you don't want 152 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: to like hang out with them for a whole weekend, 153 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:32,839 Speaker 1: or you don't want them to just stop by all 154 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: the time. Yes, that's not related to money. But if 155 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:40,199 Speaker 1: your in laws know that your husband is supporting you, 156 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: your in laws are going to use that as leverage too, 157 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: because he supports you. So then therefore you have to 158 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,560 Speaker 1: go along with the program, their program. So don't be 159 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: so quick to think that you meet a rich guy 160 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 1: that you're taken care of and you're set for the 161 00:08:54,320 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: rest of your life. To the things in life that 162 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: people don't want to do anymore is run for president 163 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: or host an award show. Running for president sounds like 164 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: the worst fucking job ever you have, like a drooling 165 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: man who is you know, like a bull of oatmeal 166 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: running the country. No, problem, and you've got Joe Coy 167 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: up on stage basically being like, oh, you didn't like 168 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: that one my writers wrote it, like throwing his own 169 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:25,959 Speaker 1: writers under the bus and then being trashed and made 170 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: fun of. He did finish the fucking race. And then 171 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: he's up there like a child at a recital being 172 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: like can I start over? Wait a second, saying like, 173 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: wait a minute, I only got the gig ten years ago, 174 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 1: like wha when I don't know why Joe Coy was 175 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 1: hosting the Golden Globes. Respectfully, I know who he is. 176 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 1: I saw one of his movies, and I don't know 177 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: if he was at the level to be hosting the 178 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: fucking Golden Globes. I really don't. I think I'm as 179 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: equipped to host the Golden Globes as Joe Coy. And 180 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 1: he shipped the bed. Will Smith slapped Chris Rock at 181 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: an awards show. Joe Coy shit the bed. Chelsea Hammler 182 00:09:57,280 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 1: hosted a show and the ratings are down twenty percent. 183 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 1: Sounds like a horrific gig. Call me. Let's talk about 184 00:10:15,880 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: lab grown diamonds. Someone I work with was telling me 185 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 1: that a lot of her friends have rings that don't 186 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:30,560 Speaker 1: seem like the size of rings that would be appropriate 187 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:35,640 Speaker 1: for them based on their economic status, which leads me 188 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: to believe that these are lab grown diamonds. They're not 189 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: cubrics or conia. I don't know what mousinite is exactly. 190 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: I thought that was a lab grown diamond. I think 191 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 1: it's like a different thing. There's another thing, ziam in. 192 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: I think there are these branded non diamonds. But a 193 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: lab grown diamond is a diamond. It's just grown in 194 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: a lab. So now that's significantly less expensive. It's still expensive, 195 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 1: but like you're gonna get a four and a half 196 00:11:00,559 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: carrot lab grown diamond probably five six thousand dollars. You're 197 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: gonna get a four and a half carrot, you know, 198 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: not spectacular quality diamond, just good quality diamond for fifty thousand, 199 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: So it's got to be it's costing ten percent. It 200 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: sounds like, so this is like a serious thing to discuss. 201 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: And is this gonna be something where people are not 202 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: gonna be buying diamonds anymore, they're only gonna be buying 203 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: lab grown or is this gonna be like air mez 204 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:29,959 Speaker 1: where diamonds are still going to be elite and they're 205 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: flourishing in you know, the Harry Winston and the Oscar 206 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: Hayman and the graf worlds of brands, but also the 207 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: dupes are flourishing as well. Like I don't think there's 208 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: ever been a time that air Mez has been bigger 209 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: and Chanel's been bigger. But I also don't think there's 210 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: ever been a time where dupes and replicas and fake 211 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: bags have been as big. So I think both areas 212 00:11:55,679 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 1: have exploded. And the question is is that up fronting 213 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: and stunting? Is it fronting and stunting to have a 214 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 1: five carrot a lab grown diamond when your fiance can 215 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: really only afford a two carrot diamond? Do we go 216 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 1: big or go home? Or do we want a two 217 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: carrot diamond? You know, I sit here, I'd want the paperwork, 218 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 1: the gia I'm putting in my safe, a real diamond. 219 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 1: It does mean something, because otherwise what does anything mean? 220 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:33,719 Speaker 1: What does anything mean? Why does anything need to be 221 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 1: real anymore? So the question is is it would annoy 222 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: you if you knew someone couldn't really afford the giant 223 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 1: diamond that was on their hand, but they're wearing it 224 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: because they're fronting and stunting, and it's lab grown. It's 225 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,079 Speaker 1: one of those things that would really annoy girls about 226 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 1: other girls, who would annoy the girls that have the 227 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: real diamond because because it's like, you don't get to 228 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: wear a T shirt that says, my diamond's real. This 229 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: bitch over here hers is lab grown. Let me tell 230 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: you about a little scandal it's going on over on TikTok. 231 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 1: TikTok is its own planet, its own universe, its own world. 232 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: It has its own rules, its own laws, its own scandals, 233 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: its own news stories, its own things that go on 234 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 1: that you don't know about. It's a world. In that world, 235 00:13:20,520 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 1: there's a man who owns a bronzer company, and Mikayla, 236 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: who's a famous TikTok beauty influencer who has transcended and 237 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: doing well on Instagram too. But she's a social media 238 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: influencer and she's like the Oprah of beauty because she 239 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: can move a product. So she talked about this bronzer product, 240 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: and this guy who owns a competing bronzer brand said 241 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 1: that the brand she was talking about copied his brand. 242 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: So allegedly she told him by text or phone or 243 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: something that she was going to review his Bronzer brand 244 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: in the next couple of days. He spent ten thousand 245 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:01,559 Speaker 1: dollars to make sure he had another product ahead of time, 246 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: and she didn't review it, and he called her out. 247 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 1: How Michaela cost me ten thousand dollars And most of 248 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:11,600 Speaker 1: the internet is about like, it's not a binding contract, 249 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 1: and so this is her business and there are nor guarantees. 250 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: And while we understand you were preparing, you shouldn't have 251 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: spent ahead of the brand. And it really was an 252 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: interesting conversation because you know, she gets so many different products. 253 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: She might not have known what she was even agreeing to. 254 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: She might have a team who disagrees with her choice 255 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 1: to do that. She might have a competing product she's 256 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: supposed to promote, or she may not actually like his 257 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,920 Speaker 1: product and doesn't want to diss him on top of 258 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: his product being copied. There are a thousand different reasons 259 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: why she might not have posted about it. But she 260 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 1: didn't post about it, and he's claiming she cost him 261 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars. He cost himself ten thousand dollars. He 262 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 1: wrote a ten thousand dollars check and got bullish. He 263 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: was bullish in the market versus just letting her video 264 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: come out. She could have said she hated the product. 265 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: By the way, anything can happen in a courtroom, so 266 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 1: it's just funny that. But he also may have just 267 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: been in the queue and she wasn't gonna talk about 268 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: it for months. She might just have a lot of 269 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: things to talk about because she probably gets one hundred 270 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: boxes a week. I get products, and seven months later 271 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: I'll first talk about something. So I just found it 272 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:19,960 Speaker 1: to be a very interesting thing because it's sort of 273 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: like giving entitlement and like I'm gonna spend ten thousand dollars, 274 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 1: My whole life's gonna change. Mikayla's gonna talk about me, 275 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: and therefore it's her fault that she didn't like. That 276 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: is such fucking gaslighting. She didn't, she didn't, She said 277 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: she was gonna talk about it, and by the way, 278 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: I fucking changed my mind. Maybe I don't like the product, 279 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 1: maybe I don't like you changed her fucking mind, And 280 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: even gonna happen in business, do not rely on anyone else.