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Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast?

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Speaker 1: Firm Elvis Represents show you want to play? Who's chewing

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Speaker 1: those chips? Who could it be? Who could it be?

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Speaker 1: Who was in the room? Uh? Gandhi scary Garrett, Danielle

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Speaker 1: Straight and a Elvis do dad? All right? Okay, let's

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Speaker 1: I'll be quiet and let's see if we can guess

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Speaker 1: who's chewing those chips. Don't say anything, obviously it's not me.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, okay, Chip tour scary, scary? Before we

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Speaker 1: before we even cracked the mic, all you heard in

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Speaker 1: the background wasn't I gotta tell you scary? And I'm amazed?

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Speaker 1: Uh that your jaw isn't getting larger because it must

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Speaker 1: have the strongest muscles because you chew from six am

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Speaker 1: to ten am every day. I really do you? Really?

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Speaker 1: You're a NonStop chewer. He's like a pit bull of humans.

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Speaker 1: He is just a strong jaw. He can lock it

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Speaker 1: and then run down everything you've eaten this morning. He's

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Speaker 1: not impressive. No, no, it is impressive. You should keep

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Speaker 1: a food journal for one day. You would, You would

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Speaker 1: be shocked. Do you know what else is really funny

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Speaker 1: about his food is if you are paying attention. He

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Speaker 1: talks about it before he goes for it. So like

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Speaker 1: today we ordered breakfast from a place and he specifically

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Speaker 1: said I don't want anything, and then the food was

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Speaker 1: sitting here and there was a little pile of bacon

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Speaker 1: and he was leaning over and I don't think he

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Speaker 1: thought anyone was listening, but he was like, Oh, I

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Speaker 1: should try this. This looks good. I should probably have

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Speaker 1: some of this. He said, Did I really say that

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Speaker 1: to myself? Your justification? You really you already talked to yourself,

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Speaker 1: Like did you know that you talked to yourself? Like

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. It looks pretty good. Maybe

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Speaker 1: should like good. Actually he does that whenever we get

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Speaker 1: a birthday cake. He's like, said, anybody could cut the cake?

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Speaker 1: Should I just take it out there? Should I take

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Speaker 1: it out there and get some plates? I'll take it

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Speaker 1: out there and get some plate Amazing, just do it?

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Speaker 1: You really are amazing. I love you, scary, I love

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Speaker 1: you too. But he always does that when you're eating

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Speaker 1: something too, like he'll go, hey, Daniel, got over there,

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Speaker 1: what is that. I'm like, it's a chocolate Today I

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Speaker 1: was I was disappointed because I just saw a shiny

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Speaker 1: bag and I'm like, what's over there? And she said

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, he doesn't like the candy. Listen to this.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't like candy corn. And we already established all

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Speaker 1: the candy corn you could buy. This is like some

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Speaker 1: of the worst, but he still eats. It was like

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Speaker 1: yesterday too, with the bagels. He walked in with the

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Speaker 1: plate of bagels. These are the worst baseels ever. Days

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Speaker 1: are shitty bagels and he ate ten of them. Hey,

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Speaker 1: Daniels there, Hey, hey, don't call her that. She calls

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Speaker 1: herself that. How you doing, Daniel? And I just got

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Speaker 1: a text from your husband. He texted me, how are

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Speaker 1: you doing? Alex? Yeah? Yeah, he and I. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We had a bad day yesterday. We had a bad day.

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Speaker 1: I could tell Alex was in a like rambunctious, feisty

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Speaker 1: he needed like double up a med yesterday calmed out.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying that with all due respects. No, but

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Speaker 1: what's he texting you about? Oh? So I said, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to find out when me and your husband

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Speaker 1: I said, what are you guys doing? Lady you around?

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Speaker 1: He goes, I'm in sating down tonight. I go, oh,

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Speaker 1: how you don't you don't want very intellectually stimulated. Conversation

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Speaker 1: was very intellectually stimulated. Get him, get him riled up.

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Speaker 1: owes us, he owes us. He does us Alex, but

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Speaker 1: so so the other. A while ago we were talking

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Speaker 1: about how you know, Alex and I the honeymoon is over.

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Speaker 1: We've been we've been married for a month and a half,

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Speaker 1: and we finally, like I think two days ago, spe

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Speaker 1: yesterday we we we had a speed bump. Was it

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Speaker 1: a specific incident? Uh no, he's just being an asshole.

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Speaker 1: But he apologized today he did. But here's my thing,

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Speaker 1: so scary, says, and you're telling me I should get married?

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah. The difference is I said this earlier.

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Speaker 1: have to. That's the big things you're gonna disagree upon. So,

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Speaker 1: daniel Delilo down here. She's out there in the dating world. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's wild out there, I tell you. I mean, are

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Speaker 1: everything myself. Look at you like a butler, concierge or something. Honey,

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Speaker 1: But daniel is a catch. And there are so many

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Speaker 1: don't have to. There's no pressure. Just be happy. I

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Speaker 1: think you're a little silent over the Nathaniel, What do

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Speaker 1: let meyone, we're talking about something else. Relationship. About those

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Speaker 1: you're gonna work it out exactly. So like for Scary

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Speaker 1: That's not a perfect relationship, though, I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: better to fight and figure out how you get past

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Speaker 1: I mean, so scary. Did say that they do have disagreements.

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Speaker 1: So all the rest of those times is all downtime,

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Speaker 1: so so that's the times I want to see you.

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Speaker 1: And that's when compromise turns into a major thing. I

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