WEBVTT - Dean and Jared's Q&A Live on Stereo! 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell, I Suck a Dating with the Younger and Dared 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:11.319 Haven and I heard radio podcast. Welcome everybody to the 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:15.400 help I Suck at Dating episode live recording on the 0:00:15.520 --> 0:00:18.919 Stereo app. Just download the Stereo app if you'd like 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:22.440 to talk to us directly. We're gonna be answering listener questions. 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:25.599 We're going to be interacting with everyone for the next 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:27.600 who knows how long. It could be twenty minutes, it 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:31.800 could be four hours, could be the rest of the day. Anyways, Jared, 0:00:32.040 --> 0:00:35.559 how's it going over there? Oh? You know, just live 0:00:35.600 --> 0:00:37.519 in the dream right now on the East Coast, it's 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:40.680 actually quite nice. Uh. You know, Ashley and I are 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:44.720 planning to watch Christmas movie. I'm thinking Christmas Vacation. That's 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:47.800 personally my favorite Christmas movies of all time. Elf is 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:51.200 up There to Home Alone is a great one. Um. 0:00:51.240 --> 0:00:53.680 Ash wants me to see Best Man's Holiday. I've actually 0:00:53.680 --> 0:00:55.240 never seen it, so that's another one we have to 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:58.480 watch before December. But other than that, Man, we are 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:00.720 doing well. How was How is things over on the 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:05.759 West coast? West Coast is good weather, It's perfect. It's 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:08.759 gonna be a very warm Christmas out here this year. 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.760 Although I don't plan on being here for Christmas. It's 0:01:12.840 --> 0:01:16.760 nice to know that I can play some golf leading 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.440 ups for the next couple of weeks before I get 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:19.760 out of here. It's a little bit different than I 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.560 think you're experiencing out there, But eventually I'm gonna drive 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:26.119 up to Montana and celebrate with my brother whilst quote 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:28.720 quote celebrate with my brother up there. But Jared, we 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:32.880 have a very special stereo episode today for our listeners. Right, 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:34.720 we have a Q and A that you put out 0:01:34.760 --> 0:01:37.440 there on Instagram. We're gonna be answering some questions live 0:01:37.560 --> 0:01:41.120 here on the Stereo app, like we just said, and 0:01:41.120 --> 0:01:43.120 we're excited. We're excited to be on the stereo app. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:45.720 We've never really well we've done a live podcast before, 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:48.600 but we've never done a live audio podcast on stereo, 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:52.120 and what better way to kick it off than here. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:56.520 But I gotta say your avatar is spot on. That's 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.160 what I said. I made it, and someone said I 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:00.320 didn't look all that cool, and I was like, you know, 0:02:00.360 --> 0:02:03.600 I think it looks exactly like I do. But yeah, 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:05.960 well that doesn't necessarily mean it looks cool, but it 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:11.760 just looks exactly like right, Well, that's that's kin. I 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:14.200 see you have a little so you have a little 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:17.280 heart under your left eye. Yeah, that's just kind of like, 0:02:17.520 --> 0:02:19.760 you know, that's how I see myself. I I wish 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:21.400 I could get a face that too. I just don't 0:02:21.400 --> 0:02:25.799 think the society is ready to handle that yet. Uh. Also, 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:28.359 I think you're a little too tan in your avatar 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:30.960 than you're in real life. But I tried to give 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:32.639 myself a little color. You know, I'm not going to 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:36.359 make myself pale on this thing. Yeah, that's fair. That's fair, 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.240 all right. Jared asking some questions, Man, what do you 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:41.280 got for us? All right? So we asked some questions 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:43.160 on the help I Stuck at Dating Instagram, which, again, 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:46.640 if you're not following us, go follow us. It's a 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:49.720 grand old time. Um. And this is some of the 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:52.639 response that we got from Suck Army, which, if you're 0:02:52.680 --> 0:02:54.520 new to this podcast, help us Suck at Dating. We 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:58.480 of course referred to our wonderful listeners as suck Army, 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:01.480 which did and I have a little is pump musical 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:07.919 rendition of sucks suck, suck, suck suck everybody. So that's 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:12.000 always fun. Um. So, anyway, the first question from our help. 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:15.760 I suck a dating Instagram is for you, Dean ers 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:20.640 It's uh says what was it like the first time 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:28.240 Dean met Kalin's family, which I believe very recent. Yeah, 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:32.000 so I've actually met her family kind of in two 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:36.080 different scenarios. She's got a grand grandparents live in Las Vegas, 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.840 and her uncle and aunt live in uh in the 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:41.520 same neighborhood, and so I met them a while ago. 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.960 But just this past Thanksgiving, I finally got the chance 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:48.840 to go and meet her her parents in Virginia, her siblings. 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:52.200 And it's always a stressful time. I gotta say. I mean, 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:54.120 I'm sure you can attest to this as well. It's 0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:56.720 like meeting someone's family for the first time. Is it's 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:58.080 just a lot. It's like, you know, you have to 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.240 kind of like hunker down and get ready for like 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.640 some big, deep, serious conversations and um, you know, put 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:05.440 your best foot forward. We were there for like two 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.240 days and so it's you know, it's forty eight hours 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:10.400 of of trying to impress and like prove to her 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:14.040 father that I'm like a you know, uh, what's the 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:17.680 word capable? Man? No, Uh, what's the word I'm looking for? 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:21.440 Not capable but like deserving of Klin's affection and love 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:24.080 and all those things, you know. So it's it's pretty stressful, 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:25.520 I guess. But at the end of the day, I 0:04:25.520 --> 0:04:28.000 think pretty well. I don't want to speak for her family, 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:29.560 but I think that, you know, I knocked it out 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:32.440 at the park. I like them. I think that they 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.560 like me at least enough to where there was I 0:04:34.640 --> 0:04:37.360 really wish we could get I really wish we could 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:39.919 get Calin's family on this podcast too. It's kind of 0:04:39.960 --> 0:04:42.440 like to hear the different stories. I mean, I'm sure Dean. 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.840 First of all, they obviously love you. Everybody loves you. 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:48.240 You have this warm warmth about you whenever you meet somebody. 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:52.000 But I'm curious about what their thoughts were about you 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.520 before they met you, because I'm confident they fell in 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:57.200 love with you as soon as they see you. But uh, 0:04:57.560 --> 0:05:03.600 sometimes your reputation, You're reputation precedes you reputation. Well here's 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:07.039 the thing too. If and when I become a father 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:09.599 and I have a daughter, and in you know, twenty 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:12.599 five years after she's born, she brings a guy over 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:15.400 for Thanksgiving that you claims to live in a van 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:17.920 and doesn't have a job and these things. It's like, 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:22.359 I'm gonna not be excited to meet this guy, so uh, 0:05:22.800 --> 0:05:24.160 it's kind of like a it's it's a bit of 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:27.520 an obstacle to overcome, I think, but you know, hopefully 0:05:27.560 --> 0:05:31.280 I was able to to hurdle it with with with 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.680 some some aptitude, but I don't know, I don't know. 0:05:33.839 --> 0:05:35.520 I it went well for me. I had fun. I 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:38.400 met her siblings, who she adoors, and you know, she 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:40.720 loves them, and obviously she's really close with her mom 0:05:40.720 --> 0:05:42.160 and dad, so it was nice to be able to 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:44.919 kind of meet them for the first time. It's it 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:46.280 was it took a while. It was a year and 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:48.080 a half after dating before I finally got the chance 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:50.160 to get out there and meet them, which, um, you know, 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:51.920 I'm probably is a little little longer than it should 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:54.479 have been, but it is what it is, all right. 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:59.640 Another question coming from the Instagram, what's your best pickup line? 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:02.919 I heard this pickup line when I was in middle 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:06.200 school and it's stuck with me ever since I don't 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:08.440 think it's appropriate. I don't think you should really use it. 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:11.760 It's pretty funny, I would say. And again, this is 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:14.480 twelve year old Dean that would say this just because 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:15.880 I thought it was hilarious. Would walk up to a 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:18.040 girl and I would say, Hey, is that a mirror 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.440 in your pocket? And they'd be like, what, No, there's 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:22.240 no mirror in pocket. Your pocket in my pocket and 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:24.440 be like, Oh, that's weird because I can see myself 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:29.880 in your pants. Oh god, him got him after? That worked? Never, 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:33.320 it didn't. It didn't work once. But it's you know, 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:36.440 I think it was a little ahead of its time, 0:06:36.520 --> 0:06:39.320 is really what it was. Yeah, you just you needed 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.400 to wait another like six or seven years before you're 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.159 able to drop that. You were just a man before 0:06:44.200 --> 0:06:47.680 your time. That's all. Let me hear what yours is. Well, 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:49.800 I don't know if I exactly had one. One of 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:53.599 my favorites, of course, is are you from Tennessee? Because 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:57.800 you're the only ten I see. That's always a good one. 0:06:57.839 --> 0:07:00.560 I'm also looking up some cheesy pickup lines on on 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:06.480 the old Internet. One of my favorite is, Hey, my 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:11.640 name's Microsoft. Can I crash at your place tonight? I 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:16.160 also like this is a good one. Well here I am. 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:22.840 What are your other two wishes? Hey? Jared, before before 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:24.480 you read the next hour will pick up line We've 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:26.000 got a message and I want to top to play? 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:31.560 Is that okay? Yes, please, Okay, we've never done this before. 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:33.800 We're recording live on the stereo app, and so we're 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.400 learning as we go. It's it's it's been fun. But 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:42.440 let's see how this message. Here we go, here we go? Ready? Hey, wait, 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:47.160 this question is for Dean. Do you man escape? And 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.880 if so, what pattern do you do? Do you do 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:52.800 a landing strip? Do you do like a heart? I'm 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:58.160 just looking for some inspiration that is from user A 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:01.440 one to just some random anonymous user. I guess he 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:06.000 sounds like douche. Wow, that's I mean, it's a very 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:10.400 personal question. Do I man escape? Story? Short? Is I 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:13.160 do man escape? I probably don't do it as frequently 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:16.480 as I should. And it's this is actual. Really it's 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:19.160 a good question because I feel like men don't talk 0:08:19.240 --> 0:08:21.800 about the patterns that they shave into their you know, 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:24.080 their pubic regions enough and we should start to normalize 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:28.280 this conversation. So I do man escape. I what I 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:31.880 like to do is everyone's most men at least have 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:34.000 a happy trail that goes from their belly button to 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:36.120 their waistline. And what I like to do is just 0:08:36.200 --> 0:08:38.160 kind of carry that happy trail down all the way 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:42.560 down to the base of you know, my my the genitals, 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:45.360 I guess, for lack of a better word, Um, so 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:48.200 it's just it's just one continuous line of hair, just 0:08:48.240 --> 0:08:50.200 a giant landing strip that goes from my belly button 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:52.400 down to the base. Uh and then the rest of 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:54.240 it is just nice and clean shaven. So that's kind 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:57.200 of my that's my method. It's it's it's worked for me. 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.160 I'm happy with it every time I see it in 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:05.640 the mirror. Um. It detracts from the the the the 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:09.520 very embarrassingly small size of my other man parts. So 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:11.800 you know, it kind of keeps me, keeps me happy 0:09:11.800 --> 0:09:13.360 because of all that stuff. Jared, what about you do 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:17.480 you man? Escape? You know I used to really stay 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:21.040 on top of it. My poor wife. Now you know, 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:23.240 once you as you've known, once you get into a relationship, 0:09:23.320 --> 0:09:27.120 you get comfortable, you start uh losing yourself a little bit. 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:31.880 And I would include manscaping and that I'm no I'm 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.840 no pattern guy or I'm no landing strip guy. I 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:37.840 just you know, I you know, I just shaved the 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:40.920 whole thing. I'm a hairy man. If you haven't noticed 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:44.640 from my chest hair, very hairy ass, just the lots 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:48.880 down there. It's quite growth disgusting. Uh and uh, so 0:09:49.000 --> 0:09:52.560 I I do my best, not as good as I should, though, 0:09:52.600 --> 0:09:54.960 but you know, like you said, when you're you know, 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:58.920 clean up down there. Uh, the the you know Junior 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:01.800 grow you know, he just looks a little bit bigger, 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:06.440 And that's always the nice. Absolutely. Hey, I'll take anything 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:08.960 I can get. I need all the advantages, you know, 0:10:09.160 --> 0:10:13.320 so I appreciate that. So I should do a job. 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.160 Do you go like electric razor? Do you straight razor? 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:19.520 How do you electric razor? All the people who straight razor? 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:24.240 That part if you're a man, Uh, you're insane, that's 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:29.320 you're crazy. I've done it a few times, you know, 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:32.120 as like a young curious kid in my late teens 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:35.440 or like twenties, and I'm never gonna say it ended poorly, 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:37.200 but it just it just creates so much just comfort 0:10:37.200 --> 0:10:43.800 down there. Yeah, it's just do you have are you harry? Uh? 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:47.839 In general? Like do you have hair on your butt? Uh? 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:51.199 It's a really good question, Jared. Uh. You know, I'm 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:54.360 actually I'm pretty hairless for the most part. I don't 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:56.480 really grow facial hair. I don't really go chest chest 0:10:56.520 --> 0:11:00.240 hair the but I will say, ever since a young boy, 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.080 all of the hair that I wasn't growing on my 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:05.040 face and on my chest and stomach congregated on my 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.680 butt crack, and so I have a hairy butt crack. 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:10.640 I'm not gonna say it's overly harry. I think that 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:12.720 it was fully growing the butt crack care when I 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:15.120 was like fourteen. It fully grew out, and it just 0:11:15.200 --> 0:11:17.839 kind of maintained that, you know, that bushy nous ever 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:21.880 since then. So it's not like abnormally bushy down there, 0:11:21.960 --> 0:11:23.880 but it definitely was the first part of my body 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:25.920 that started growing hair was the crack of my butt. 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:28.120 And I was actually really self conscious about it for 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:31.480 a long time because I would like see my friends 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:34.160 growing like beards and you know, mustaches and stuff, and 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:35.800 I'd be like, well, I've got butt crack care if 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.920 that's like any consolation for you guys. But yeah, I 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:44.120 it wasn't. I'm pretty hairy down there, unfortunately. And there 0:11:44.160 --> 0:11:46.760 was actually on the show there was a group date 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.320 where there was a wrestling group date where the guys 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:51.560 had to wear I forget what they're called, but you 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:55.160 know what the sumo wrestlers wear where their butt cheeks show, 0:11:55.840 --> 0:11:58.240 so the guys had to wear those and think I 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:01.600 was dude, I was sweating, for lack of a better phrase, 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:04.320 my balls off. I was so nervous that they were 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:06.800 gonna put me on this group day and that I 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:09.480 would have to wear this thing. And honestly, I was 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:13.000 gonna say no because America was not ready to see 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:16.040 my ass cheeks. Uh, And I didn't know what I 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:17.400 for a second. I was like, am I gonna have 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:19.959 to go up and like just going the shower quickly 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:21.920 and try to shave as much as I can. Before 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:23.839 you know I, I take off my pants and we 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:28.280 do this thing. Thank god that you're telling me you've 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:33.240 got hair on your cheeks, Oh dude, Oh yeah, oh yeah. 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:35.600 Not to get t m I, but all over. And 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:39.240 one time I shaved, I I shaved everything, and it 0:12:39.320 --> 0:12:41.840 was the worst decision of my life because it was 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:45.040 it was it was itchy, it was uncomfortable, it was 0:12:45.120 --> 0:12:47.719 so cold. My ass has never been so cold in 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:51.000 my life, and it was just it was just uncomfortable. 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:53.120 And I was like, never mind, I'm never doing that again. 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:56.800 I'm just gonna accept you know me as me, and 0:12:57.000 --> 0:12:58.600 you know I'm just a little bit of a gorilla 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:01.120 down there. And that's quite all right self. Love is 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:04.040 beautiful on the contrary to that story. So my brother 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:05.760 is a big I don't I hope he doesn't mind 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:07.400 to share the story. I don't think he'll ever know 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:09.360 that I shared this story. But he's a big outdoorsman. 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:12.360 Uh you know, he hikes and and and goes back 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:14.720 country skiing all the time. And he had a month 0:13:14.760 --> 0:13:17.160 long excursion in Alaska where they sat at the bottom 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:19.520 of a of a mountain on a glacier for for 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:22.040 an entire month, they slept in a tent, uh you know, 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:25.679 freezing conditions, peeing and pooping outside. And before that trip, 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:29.000 for preparation, he got his This is what he told me. Obviously, 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:30.760 I don't have anything to confirm the story, but I 0:13:30.800 --> 0:13:32.800 believe him for for no, I don't don't know why 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:35.680 I wouldn't believe him. He got his butt crack waxed, 0:13:36.160 --> 0:13:39.560 not shaved, but waxed like a Brazilian wax because he 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:42.280 didn't want he wanted to have cleaner poops. Essentially, you know, 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:44.240 you don't want to have to worry about a dirty 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:47.240 butthole when you're out in Alaska skiing glaciers every single 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:50.000 day for a month. And he said it was the 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:53.080 most incredible experience of his life. You know, he said 0:13:53.080 --> 0:13:55.480 that he moved more freely. And I wonder if the 0:13:55.480 --> 0:13:58.280 waxing is different than that's shaving, and that's what maybe 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:01.680 makes the difference there. But he said, that's waxing permanent. 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:06.880 Absolutely not, Okay, just yeah, you know the more you know, 0:14:08.480 --> 0:14:21.440 absolutely not. We have another we have another voice question. 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:26.480 Do you have baby names picked out for your future children? Ah? 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:30.880 So user Becky. Becky wants to know, can you last? 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.520 Becky wants to know do you have Jared? This actually 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:35.560 kind of more pertains to you and actually because hey, 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:37.920 you plan on having kids, But do you guys have 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:41.400 a child names picked out? We do, Well, we have 0:14:41.600 --> 0:14:47.560 one name picked out and Ashley, Ashley likes it for 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.160 both sexes, where I just like it as a dude. 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:52.840 So we have a name. We don't we're not saying 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.720 what it is. But if it's a boy, if we 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.720 have a boy, uh, then we we definitely have a 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:00.080 name picked out. If we have a girl, we have 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:03.520 to discuss further because the name I don't think suits 0:15:03.520 --> 0:15:05.320 a girl as well as a boy. So, but we 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:07.160 got name picks out. We talked about it, you know, 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:10.120 we just will you tell us what it is? No, 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:14.680 we said we were not gonna say anything. Yeah, yeah, 0:15:14.680 --> 0:15:16.280 I don't know if you're heard in the background. My 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.520 my wife a k A. The you know, devil on 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:21.880 my shoulder who's always lottoming and just waiting to pounce. Uh, 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:25.360 is told me not saying anything, so sorry on your shoulder, 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:27.440 but also the angel on the other shoulder, she's both. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:32.160 I think, all right, I have names, I'll share them. 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:35.560 I'm not I'm not a scared little bitch like you, Jared. 0:15:36.600 --> 0:15:40.280 This is ridiculous, I think so. I think I was 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:42.120 listening to someone. Some people were saying the effort, So 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:45.680 I think it's free, free game. Um, if I have 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:48.760 a boy, I'm gonna I'm gonna name him a Hunter. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:54.000 And if I have a girl, I'm gonna name her Debbie. Uh. 0:15:54.040 --> 0:15:55.880 And I understand Debbie is kind of a dated name, 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:57.960 you know, it's kind of more of like a boomer 0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:02.440 name for lack of a better the word. But I 0:16:02.440 --> 0:16:04.400 think I think everything is cyclical, and I think that 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:07.160 name will come back into into style. I also don't 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:09.320 hear the name Alex. I think Alex can go either 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:12.880 girl or guy. So, um, those are the three names 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.800 that I'm kind of like, you know, leaning towards. I 0:16:15.880 --> 0:16:20.080 like Debbie. That's cute. Yeah, thanks, thanks, Yeah, I like Debbie. 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:22.760 I really like Hunter. Hunter was the name of my 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:24.680 best friend that died when I was like really young, 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:27.520 and so I've always wanted to like let his legacy 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.800 live on through that. You should totally do that. I 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:33.680 just think it's a badass name too. It's like, you know, 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:36.160 even if I wasn't doing it to commemorate my friend, 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:38.480 I still think it's a cool name. You would totally 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:40.960 give birth to a Hunter like that is just like 0:16:41.000 --> 0:16:45.120 the ultimate Dean child Hunter, because I think of Sean 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:47.480 Hunting is pretty good. Yeah, I think of Sean Hunter 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:49.200 the Boy Meets World and Sean Hunter is like one 0:16:49.240 --> 0:16:51.880 of the coolest characters to have a grace my television screen, 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:54.040 And like I could totally see and give birth to 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.440 a Hunter and him being like just a full school 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:59.080 didn't he adopt like a drug addiction at some point 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:02.640 on that show? Um No, I don't think so. I 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:05.600 heat No, there was an episode where they tried alcohol 0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:08.199 and like Sean had like a sip or two and 0:17:08.240 --> 0:17:12.720 got so drunk and Corey was like traumatized watching that 0:17:12.800 --> 0:17:15.040 episode back in age the best. It was definitely like 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:18.120 catered to scare you know, twelve year old little Jared 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:20.800 not to drink, and it worked right right, it worked 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.040 never drink out all in his life. All Right, we're 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.000 gonna do another voice question here. I'm gonna press the 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:26.359 button this time. I don't know if I pressed the 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:28.800 last time, but I'm pressing it again. What is your 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:34.560 favorite thing about each other? Oh, that's a favorite question. 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:39.119 I'm like, like I'm blushing. I'll let you, Dared go first. 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:46.040 My favorite thing about Dean, there's so many. Probably my 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:50.080 favorite thing about you, Dean is just your overall, uh, 0:17:51.200 --> 0:17:55.879 your your overall personality. It's hard to quantify you into 0:17:56.560 --> 0:17:59.320 a single sentence, but you always have a smile on 0:17:59.359 --> 0:18:03.679 your face, always make people around you feel very comfortable. 0:18:04.080 --> 0:18:05.920 I think one of the things that I really love 0:18:05.920 --> 0:18:07.960 about you most is the fact that you just you 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:11.520 truly care about other people's feelings to the point where 0:18:11.560 --> 0:18:14.600 you want to make sure that everybody's happy and smiling. 0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:17.280 And you'll go out of your way to make sure 0:18:17.359 --> 0:18:20.560 other people are doing okay, and not everybody possesses that 0:18:20.640 --> 0:18:22.360 quality and you do. That's one of my favorite things 0:18:22.359 --> 0:18:24.800 about you. Oh man, it's so great to hear you 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:27.000 say nice things about me. I love it. It doesn't 0:18:27.000 --> 0:18:31.440 happen often, so don't get used to it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:18:31.600 --> 0:18:35.240 My favorite thing about Jared, I think is it's funny enough. 0:18:35.280 --> 0:18:38.040 It's it's it's ironic because the thing that I like 0:18:38.200 --> 0:18:40.320 most about Jared is also kind of the thing that 0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:44.159 I make fun of him the most. Four. I really 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:47.320 like how Jared gets so excited about like the nerdiest 0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:52.760 things like Star Wars, Disneyland movies, you know, just the 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:56.240 boy bands, all of those things. Uh. And I think 0:18:56.240 --> 0:18:57.560 the reason I make fun of you for it is 0:18:57.600 --> 0:18:59.679 because I'm envs of your ability to, like, you know, 0:18:59.720 --> 0:19:02.960 be so passionate and excited about these things. Um. And 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:05.480 so I really admire that that characteristic that you're able 0:19:05.520 --> 0:19:08.040 to You have, you know, really good passion and really 0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:10.480 strong passion for those types of things. And well, I 0:19:10.520 --> 0:19:13.200 think that buddy, Yeah, I think I think one of 0:19:13.200 --> 0:19:14.879 the reasons I admire you so much for that is 0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:17.160 because that's something that I wish that I could see 0:19:17.160 --> 0:19:19.800 more in myself so I could keep that up. Buddy, 0:19:19.880 --> 0:19:22.040 it's thank you. Well, it's funny because I feel like 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:24.000 that's one of the things that actually and I really 0:19:24.040 --> 0:19:27.080 bonded over when we first started becoming friends and then ultimately, 0:19:27.760 --> 0:19:32.320 uh you know, partners, uh, partners in crime, Bonny and Clyde. 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:38.040 Really that's what they call us. Yeah, But as everybody knows, 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:40.239 Ashley has no shame, and that's one of her best 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:42.920 qualities is the fact that she is just so transparent 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:47.240 and she is passionate and lets everybody knows what she loves. 0:19:47.359 --> 0:19:49.879 And I'm very similar to that. I I played a 0:19:49.920 --> 0:19:52.200 little bit more close to the chest, but the chest, 0:19:52.280 --> 0:19:54.879 but once like you know, somebody brings up something that 0:19:54.880 --> 0:19:57.160 I'm really passionate about, then like they see the other 0:19:57.200 --> 0:19:58.679 side of me. And so that's one of the things 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:01.800 that really bonded over early. What's the next question, Dean, 0:20:02.760 --> 0:20:06.399 let's play it. I know you're in relationships now, but 0:20:06.440 --> 0:20:10.200 when you guys were dating, what was your number one 0:20:11.200 --> 0:20:18.040 non negotiable deal breaker? Like we need to know, like 0:20:18.440 --> 0:20:24.800 we need to nap a non negotiable breaker I have. 0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:27.000 I had a pet peeve when we were dating. I 0:20:27.000 --> 0:20:29.000 went on a date one time and the girl that 0:20:29.040 --> 0:20:32.280 I went on was just very ignorant to the bar 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:37.560 and waite staff, and I cannot stand that, especially hospitality background, 0:20:38.080 --> 0:20:41.359 like when somebody comes over and introduces themselves, or if 0:20:41.359 --> 0:20:44.359 they're a bartender and they say hello, make eye contacts, 0:20:44.400 --> 0:20:48.119 say hello back, don't you know, wave your hand. I 0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:50.160 just remember the waiter came over and he started doing 0:20:50.160 --> 0:20:52.240