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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater only on the Double Show.

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Speaker 2: Bethany is on the phone today for to Catch a

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Speaker 2: Cheater and she's been dating her boyfriend Dustin for two years,

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Speaker 2: but now she thinks something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Bethany, sorry

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Speaker 2: you have to come on the show this way, But

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Speaker 2: what's up? Why do you think Dustin might be cheating

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Speaker 2: on you?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Well, it's kind of a crazy story. So yeah, basically,

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Speaker 1: Dustin and I have been together for two years and

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Speaker 1: we've had like a pretty good relationship. I mean it's

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Speaker 1: been work, but like all relationships are worked, and I

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Speaker 1: don't ever really have any doubt that he loves me,

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Speaker 1: which is really important. Yeah, and there's just certain times

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Speaker 1: that I see him look at me or just you know,

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Speaker 1: little things he does that lets me know that he's

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Speaker 1: always thinking he looks me, and so we have a

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Speaker 1: good foundation. So even though.

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Speaker 3: There's no major problems about like a year into our relationship,

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Speaker 3: you know, I did touch him cheating a text messages.

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Speaker 1: I will say that. You know, he admitted it right

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Speaker 1: then and there. He was like, yes, you're right. I've

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Speaker 1: been wanting to tell you and it was it's done.

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Speaker 1: It was only one time, and so it did take

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Speaker 1: a while for me to trust him again. And you know,

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Speaker 1: that was like a year ago and it's been pretty

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Speaker 1: good ever since. But now there's like this moment that

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Speaker 1: happened and I am freaking out kind of what happened. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I just was like, like two days ago, I

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Speaker 1: was just you know, took care a man. And as

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Speaker 1: soon as I saw this, like, I just was like,

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Speaker 1: I need to call the show immediately because I don't

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Speaker 1: know how to handle us. Basically, I was just mindlessly

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Speaker 1: opening a letter and it was addressed to Dustin because

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Speaker 1: I just like opening our mant like I handle you know,

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Speaker 1: our bills and everything, and my heart saying it's a

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Speaker 1: court order for a fraternity.

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Speaker 2: Tex whoa does it say? Who's asking for it?

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Speaker 1: Yes? The name was there, and I probably can't say

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Speaker 1: on the radio, I've never heard of this woman in

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Speaker 1: my life. I even tried to look her up on

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Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. I couldn't really find anything. I'm freaking

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Speaker 1: did you.

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Speaker 2: So you haven't confronted him? Have you?

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Speaker 1: No? I don't even know how to.

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Speaker 2: You don't have any clue that he might have a

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Speaker 2: kid out there or anything like that, like or that

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Speaker 2: he involved in a court thing at all.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't know what I can do other than

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Speaker 1: going through his phone again, and I really don't want

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Speaker 1: to do that. I just don't want to like retraumatize myself,

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Speaker 1: and so I really I just want like a different

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Speaker 1: way to approach this, because at the end of the day,

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Speaker 1: it's like I just want to know why, Like we've

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Speaker 1: been through so much we made it out to the

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Speaker 1: other side. Like if he did cheat on me in

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Speaker 1: age when he cheated a year ago, this person is

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Speaker 1: pregnant or like I am had a child, like I

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Speaker 1: need to I don't even know if this is the

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Speaker 1: first person he cheated on me with another girl, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm so confused, Like there are a one year old

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Speaker 1: out there, Like what right happening there is?

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Speaker 4: I mean, there is definitely a chance that this could

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Speaker 4: be from that one girl, the one off quote unquote,

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Speaker 4: unless yeah, there were other ones something happened. So I

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Speaker 4: guess we have confirmation that he has cheated. We just

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Speaker 4: don't know yeah when or who.

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Speaker 5: We'll try to figure it out for you already told

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Speaker 5: us what grocery store he's a rewards card member at.

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Speaker 5: So we'll do the usual and call him and pretend

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Speaker 5: to be from the grocery store and say that he's

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Speaker 5: this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 5: floral department, and we'll see if he sends those to

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Speaker 5: you or somebody else.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Please, I'll come back and get your to catch a

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Speaker 2: cheater next. If you're just joining us for today, is

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Speaker 2: to catch a cheater. It's a big one. Bethany is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of

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Speaker 2: two years named Dustin might be cheating. So we're about

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Speaker 2: to call him and pretend to be from the grocery

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Speaker 2: store that he's a rewards member at, and say that

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Speaker 2: every single month, we choose one lucky rewards member who

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Speaker 2: gets a free gift from our store just for being

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Speaker 2: a loyal customer, and it's flowers delivered from our Florida

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Speaker 2: department to anybody that they want, and we'll see if

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Speaker 2: he sends those to his girlfriend, Bethany or to somebody else.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Bethany, why don't you run

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Speaker 2: down your situation for us again real quick?

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Speaker 1: Oh, my boyfriend I've been together for two years. A

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Speaker 1: year ago, he did cheat on me. We were very

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Speaker 1: responsible about you know, how we handled it with therapy

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Speaker 1: and we've been great. But two days ago, I was

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Speaker 1: going through our mayor and I see a court ordered

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Speaker 1: paternity cast and I'm I'm freaking out. It was addressed

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Speaker 1: in him and I just want to know. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: just want to know what the truth is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It's an ambery.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hey, this is Corbett calling

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Speaker 2: for this. I was looking for our rewards card member

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Speaker 2: named Dustin.

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, that's that's me.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Dustin. Please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations

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Speaker 2: and thank you for shopping with us. Here this month's winner.

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Speaker 6: Okay I won something?

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Speaker 2: Yeah the flowers.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, flowers. That's that's that's pretty cool. Yeah, I guess, yeah,

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Speaker 6: thank you, I guess.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you know. This is not but

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Speaker 2: every single month, we choose one Rewards card member who

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Speaker 2: gets a free gift from us just for being such

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Speaker 2: a valued and loyal customer. It's our way of saying

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Speaker 2: thank you for shopping. You've won thirty six long stem

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Speaker 2: red roses, a box of candy or chocolates, and a

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Speaker 2: card to be delivered to anybody that you want within

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Speaker 2: the fifteen United States, absolutely free. It's actually a three

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Speaker 2: hundred and sixteen dollars value.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, congratulations, and again thank you for shopping with us.

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Speaker 2: And it is all for And the first thing I

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Speaker 2: would need will be the name of the person and

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Speaker 2: then if you want to put anything on a card,

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Speaker 2: and then we'll get the address and you'll be off

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Speaker 2: the phone and they'll get you getting flowers.

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Speaker 6: Okay. So the person that's receiving the roses, her name

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Speaker 6: is Beth and me.

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Speaker 2: And the last name on that got you, okay? And

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Speaker 6: Yes, yes, okay, No matter what, it's always you and me,

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Speaker 2: Got that down. And at this point I'll let you

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Speaker 2: know it's not a grocery store at all.

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Speaker 6: On the phone, Hey what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is actually a radio show. It's called the

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Speaker 2: Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina. Hi I'm Victoria, and my name is Jewbel.

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Speaker 6: I'm on the radio right now.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we do a segment on a show that's called

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Speaker 2: to catch a cheater where if you think your significant

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Speaker 2: other might be messing around, you see they send flowers too,

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Speaker 2: And your girlfriend Bethany is actually on the phone and

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Speaker 2: I think still has some question.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, uh ti wow, it's so okay. You h

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Speaker 6: you saw the paternity ordered in you Oh so.

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Speaker 1: You know, yeah, buddy, I did. Okay, So so you

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Speaker 1: knew about it already because I haven't. Yeah, I haven't

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Speaker 6: I've known about it for for about a month. It's

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Speaker 6: it's it's from from that that same girl that we

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Speaker 6: talked about before. It might actually be be true. It

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Speaker 6: might her names a Alicia. I'm sorry, I'm sorry for

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Speaker 6: I'm so embarrassed right now.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm so confused because you told me this was

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Speaker 1: one time. I mean, it's so for example, okay, that's

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Speaker 1: pretty rare for that to happen. Like it's like, wouldn't

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Speaker 1: worse than that, it's like, you shouldn't have kept this

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Speaker 6: No, I know, And I'm so sorry about this. I

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Speaker 6: didn't mean to keep it from you or anything like that.

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Speaker 6: I was just trying to ignore it because it just

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Speaker 6: seemed like I feel so just I don't know what

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Speaker 4: It just.

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Speaker 1: Yah, you don't know what. I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 2: Did you cheat?

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Speaker 6: It was a year ago and we talked about it.

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Speaker 6: It was one time, and it was we've we've been

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Speaker 6: through it and everything like that. But it just keeps

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Speaker 6: coming back now with with this eternity test. And here's

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Speaker 6: here's the thing, Bestony, I don't think it's mine. I

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Speaker 6: really don't think it's mine because I've seen pictures of

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Speaker 1: First, well, I don't know why you're calling it in.

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Speaker 1: It's a child very likely to be yours, And like,

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Speaker 1: how is her life going to change if you're like

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Speaker 6: I don't know. And I'm so sorry about this. I

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Speaker 6: don't want this to mess us up. I don't want

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Speaker 6: this to ruin us. I know I have to take

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Speaker 6: that paternity test because she's definitely starting to come after

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Speaker 6: me for money to a she wants that praternity test

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Speaker 6: because she's gonna want some sound support.

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Speaker 1: I just don't know, like, of course she would like

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Speaker 1: if she had a child from you, I would also

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Speaker 1: like I would also want a child for it, Like like,

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Speaker 1: this is your responsibility, don't put it on her.

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Speaker 2: Bethany do you think you could stay if it is his?

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Speaker 4: Would you be willing to raise somebody else's kid with him?

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Speaker 1: I don't like my head is spending.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, personally, I promise you that this It was the

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Speaker 6: the therapy together about it, and I know that, and

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Speaker 6: I don't I did not want to go down that

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Speaker 6: I've been spending this whole time making up for that

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Speaker 6: one mistake, and now because of that one mistake, I'm

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Speaker 6: probably going to lose you anyway, and I don't want that.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to lose you. Okay, Please just believe

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Speaker 6: me on that, and please just just just hear me

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Speaker 6: out and just work with me with this. Please, I'm

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Speaker 6: begging you. You can even come with me to take

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Speaker 6: the test. We can find out at the same time together.

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Speaker 6: I'm not trying to hide this from you. I don't

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Speaker 6: know why I didn't tell you about it before. But

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Speaker 6: I don't want to hide it from you.

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Speaker 2: Obviously, you guys had a lot to talk about. Yeah, real,

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Speaker 2: I guess.

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Speaker 4: First things first, right, just find out what's going on

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Speaker 4: with the fraternity, and then you guys can take it

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Speaker 4: from there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like he has cheated. It's the time

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Speaker 2: that you knew about. But obviously there's lots so yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: give us an update and let us know how you

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Speaker 2: guys are doing well.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, You guys so much.

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Speaker 2: The jewbile shows to catch a cheater