1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,840 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for calling my boyfriend disgusting 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: for knowing so much about. 3 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: His sister's periods? Well, that's a question we're gonna have 4 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: to answer. No, he just knows about the body. He 5 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: went to freaking health class brow or he has a sister. 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 2: Well let's find out. I know about periods more than 7 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:20,239 Speaker 2: Riley because I had a sister. True, I'm learning. 8 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 3: Actually, maybe we might be the same because a lot 9 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 3: of people in my discord me. 10 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 2: Nice, there you go, go to the discord and educate Riley. Thanks, 11 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 2: you haven't joined our discord already? What are you doing? 12 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:38,200 Speaker 2: You and you haven't subscribed? Are you fucking kidding? Mescribe? 13 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 2: Subscribe to it. You've been watching these videos for months, 14 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 2: if not years, Wow, and have not subscribed? Come on, literally, 15 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 2: do you even love me? I am so hurt. I'm hurt. 16 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: Please heal our relationship. We are hurt, and subscribe. Listen. 17 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: Well, this comes from fer a United Forton, who says 18 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: boyfriend has a it's but not completely sure if he's 19 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: in the sub reason for the throwaway account might be 20 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: a bit confusing, but bear with me here. Me and 21 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: my boyfriend have been together for a year. My boyfriend 22 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: has been taking care of his siblings sixteen female, twelve female, 23 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: and eleven male. Then his oldest sister was born. When 24 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: he was eighteen, he moved out of his parents' house 25 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: and took them with him. At eighteen years old, took 26 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: his three younger siblings to care for them. 27 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: Goadd truly did dude? What did stand up? Dude? Wow? 28 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 2: Man standing up? Truly. 29 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,959 Speaker 1: He currently has custody over all of his siblings, and 30 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: he's a really hard worker. And I haven't seen him 31 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: or his siblings struggle at all. 32 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: Eight teen. That is a eighteen accomplishment move. Wow. 33 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: They have all they need as far as I know, 34 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 1: they have never gone to bed hungry because of him. 35 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 36 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: One of the reasons I fell in love with him 37 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: is because he is because of his caring nature, especially 38 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: for his siblings. 39 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 2: He's basically their dad. Yeah, yeah, hit a step in 40 00:01:59,280 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 2: his dad. 41 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: Not going to explain the whole dynamics as I know 42 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: what it is. But when I say taking care, I 43 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: mean he is taking care of them, buying food, helping 44 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: with homework. He did it all because he was basically 45 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: the mom and dad for them, and he still finished 46 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: school in the process. Dude, Yo, you lucked out with 47 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 1: this guy out the thing to fuck it up? 48 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 2: Yeah? Whoa. 49 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: His youngest brother even calls him dad. His parents are 50 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: the definition of dead beasts. Current situation with them is 51 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: they don't know if their parents are even alive, and 52 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: they have no other family. Wow, the four of them 53 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: is all that's left of their whole family. I slept 54 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: over at his house last night. This morning, around six am, 55 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: his sister twelve female came into the kitchen crying hysterically. 56 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: She woke up with blood in her pants and was 57 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: freaking out. She had started with her period. 58 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 2: Oh and OPI you know as what is he now? 59 00:02:55,400 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty eight? Okay, so he's older? Now hold sister? 60 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 2: Oh twelve? Owl's the op twenty eight? Ops twenty eight? Hell? 61 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 2: Is the kid? Twelve? No? No, no? 62 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: How old is OP? Is twenty eight years old? And 63 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: his sister coming to him with the period is twelve? 64 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 2: Wait? I thought this is from girl or from from 65 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,239 Speaker 2: the girlfriend's perspective? This is from the girlfriend's inspection. But 66 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,959 Speaker 2: the boyfriend is twenty eight, the sister is twelve? Okay? 67 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 2: And how old's OPI twenty six? Cool? Yes, there we go. 68 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,119 Speaker 1: We got there, my boyfriend got to calm her down 69 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: and explained that she is all right and that everything 70 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,239 Speaker 1: will be okay, oh right in the fields. He then 71 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: gave her a brief explanation about what is happening and 72 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: that her body is changing. He asked her to go 73 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: and take a shower and to get cleaned up, and 74 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: I told her where to find the pads his other 75 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: sister sixteen female is using, and to use them as 76 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: the as the oldest sister showed her too. When she 77 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: left to go take a shower, he said, shit, I 78 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: thought we would have another year left. I guess like 79 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: another year until this happened. 80 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 81 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: I asked what he meant by that, and he said 82 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: his sister saxteen females, started her period when she was thirteen, 83 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: and he knows not all females and bodies are the same, 84 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 1: but he thought it would be around the same time. 85 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: So he was a bit unprepared for the discussion, which 86 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: what are. 87 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 2: You ever going to be prepared? But the fact that 88 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 2: he's even thinking about that, the maturity on this man, truly, 89 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 2: he truly fuck's he's so cool. 90 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 1: That's and that's fair because because he's like oh, I 91 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: thought maybe it would happen around the same That's that's 92 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: a fair kind of like back of the mind assumption. 93 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 2: Bro, this man is like husband material to the maxeep. 94 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 2: But if they have kids, they'll have like so many 95 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 2: kids basically, well no, but by the time they have kids, 96 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 2: the kids that he has will be grown up. They 97 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 2: could have kids, now, that's true, that's true, they really could. 98 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: I was shocked with that comment and the fact that 99 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: he knew his sister used pads. Why does he know 100 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 1: when she started her period in the first place? 101 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 2: Does he raise them because he's their father? Yes? Red 102 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 2: flag for this girl, red flag, red freaking fla. 103 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask him why he knows this, but 104 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: he but I kept that question to myself. 105 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 2: You should good God, Bro, you're not going to fumble 106 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 2: the bag so hard, OPI truly so hard. Husband of 107 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 2: the Year turned into X of the Year. 108 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: When his sister returned from her shower, he asked if 109 00:05:18,200 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: everything was all right or is she having any discomfort? 110 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 1: I started to get disgusted when he asked that question, Hey, 111 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: are you okay? 112 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 2: Disgusting? You're disgusting, OPI, and op is a woman. That's 113 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 2: what is crazy. I don't know how, like, as a woman, 114 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,279 Speaker 2: you could think that is anything but amazing. 115 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: Like when you had your first period and your dad 116 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: was like, hey, are you right? Do you need anything? 117 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: Do anything else? 118 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: Go wrong? Anything go wrong? What I'm true? But I 119 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 2: like how I like how you said it. It was like, 120 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 2: you know, when you have your first period, your dad 121 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 2: is like what I'm saying? You know, you know Samuel's 122 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: daughter specifically, you know how that feels? Okay, don't why 123 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 2: My parents never had the sex talk with me that 124 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 2: your parents have the sex talk. 125 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:14,119 Speaker 1: They had me get a book that I shoved under 126 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 1: my bed until the library do date came? 127 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 2: Was it Playboy? It was not Playboy? It was The Anatomy? 128 00:06:22,839 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 2: So you read it, dope. Well, my dad tried to 129 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,599 Speaker 2: and he's like, you know, when two spiritual beings come together, 130 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 2: there's a but we never actually oh well never actually 131 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 2: really got it. My parents did. It's an okay story time. 132 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,440 Speaker 2: Yeah we did. We but me and my dad did 133 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 2: have an actual talk in addition to the book. But yeah, 134 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 2: I didn't have a talk. Oh Sam, do we have 135 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: do we have to have a talk to talk? What 136 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:51,799 Speaker 2: happens when I get my period up in a way 137 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: years that has happened. You'll never find out. Now, Are 138 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 2: we dreams the period of the men? No? Why not? 139 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 2: Because it's not the same thing. It's kind of the 140 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 2: same thing. One you wake up with blood in your underwear, 141 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: the other you wake up with coming your underwear. 142 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 3: Oh I thought I thought you were saying you woke 143 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 3: up with blood in your underwear too, after your wet dream. 144 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: Oh god Jesus. I was like, whoa a second, where 145 00:07:15,880 --> 00:07:20,680 Speaker 2: have we gone? You don't wake up with blood. No, 146 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 2: that's what Riley thought. That's what Riley thought. You said, Oh, 147 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: I say you're on something. You say, yeah, hude, wet 148 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 2: dreams are totally it's not period almost there but not. 149 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 2: You're not getting your nut off your body will female boners. 150 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: That is something that I've had a debate over and 151 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 2: I firmly believe, Well, well, female boner is just you 152 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 2: getting like wet exactly. You don't. Women don't have wet dreams? 153 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 2: Do they have orgasm dreams? Do women have orgasms in 154 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 2: their sleep? Certainly and certainly have wet dreams? Well? Like yeah, 155 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 2: like like do they have one? 156 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 3: Literally every morning? Because we get to guys get bonus 157 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 3: every morning. 158 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you don't, if you don't like, if 159 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 2: you don't jack off, then you will come in your pants. 160 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 2: We get here. Oh yeah, you didn't read the book, 161 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 2: but in the book you we talk about Dude, I 162 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 2: totally missed it. I totally missed it in the book. 163 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 3: Your body will regulate if you don't get it not off. 164 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:32,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, nut for you exactly. Thanks. You guys brought us here, 165 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 2: all right, brought it to mothers. We're just talking about nutting. 166 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 2: You brought it to the grave, and I'm dragging us 167 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 2: down to hell. Anyways, do you think. 168 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 3: That when guys have post nut clarity, women have post 169 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 3: ovulation periods? 170 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 2: Oh, post ovulation clarity or just ovulating. Yeah, I've heard 171 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 2: that from some of my lady friends. Like I didn't 172 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:53,400 Speaker 2: actually want to hook up with them, but I was 173 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: ovulating so I was in heat. Yeah. I think that's 174 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 2: how my parents explained that to me. It was in heat. 175 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 2: You know, when the when the goat getting eight, not 176 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 2: when a goat, not when a goat. Oh my god, 177 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: we have to end this conversation right now. This is 178 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 2: true though, this is amazing, This is amazing. Anyways, I 179 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: mean never returned to the story. 180 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 1: He told her that she doesn't have to go to 181 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: school today and he will take her for some shopping. 182 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: W move I get w W after breakfast? 183 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 2: Student do that he can provide for all these kids? 184 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 2: I mean honestly, where he puts the work in, that's 185 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 2: what he does. I'm honestly suspicious now of like broeen, 186 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 2: I mean something, dude, like, how are you making that much? 187 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. 188 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: I don't twenty eight but at eighteen eighteen. He started 189 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: at eighteen and still finish school. 190 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't paid for everything for them. 191 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 2: Maybe beter than tight. We don't know. Maybe we will 192 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 2: get to see what that was. 193 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: But after breakfast, he sat her down in the living 194 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: room and explained everything in detail to her regarding on 195 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 1: what's going on and what will happen all of it. 196 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: Regarding the period, he said he helped the older sister 197 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: with her first time and will help her as well. 198 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: He finished saying that her sister sixteen female will be 199 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: able to help more with. 200 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 2: The type of products to use and how they work. Exactly. 201 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 2: This is great, this is exactly what should happen. He 202 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 2: read the book. He read the He read the book. 203 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: I didn't. He sat her down and he's like, hey, here, 204 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 2: here's what it is. But your sister will be able 205 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:27,720 Speaker 2: to help with all the specifics. 206 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, perfect, still communicating all flawless execution. 207 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 2: A book for every male of the book. Literally, he 208 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 2: wrote the book at eighteen that I didn't read at 209 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 2: fourteen or whatever. I was surprised. Shock. Yeah, tag of fourteen? No, no, no, 210 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:44,760 Speaker 2: it was middle school. Was your first wet dream? Oh? 211 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 2: Fifth grade? For sure? I remember, I remember, I remember 212 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: the person. I guess it was the chick for Mike Carly. No, 213 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 2: it wasn't there a person. It was a person I knew. 214 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 2: Oh then we don't know. Yah, you'll literally never guess. 215 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 2: Was it in your grade? In my grade? Yet in 216 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 2: my class? In your class? Im embarrassing her when you 217 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 2: saw her? Next, I was like, what is happening? Wa? Bro? 218 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:17,079 Speaker 2: She visited you in her dreams? He wants, bro, No, 219 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:20,719 Speaker 2: do you talk to her? No? I didn't talk to 220 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 2: her outside of like like even middle school. She still 221 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:27,320 Speaker 2: she's still cute? Who knows? Ugly? For all I know, 222 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 2: I'm taking baby, I don't say it again direct to said, 223 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck, I don't buck with you, 224 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 2: he says. I was surprised and shocked and disgusted about 225 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 2: all the things he said, so insane, so lack. 226 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: He was correct and everything he told her, But no 227 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: brother should know that much about what. 228 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 2: Is happening to his sister's bodies. He raised them though, 229 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: he's basically father. It is that hard to learn. You 230 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 2: just like watch a video and then you go at all, 231 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 2: what videos are you watching? The ones people send me 232 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 2: in the discord? Ah, they actually send you videos. They 233 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 2: send me a video about how periods work. And I 234 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 2: watched it education. 235 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 3: It was starring, But I understand the system now scarring? 236 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: Why is it scarring? It just like fucking shit. 237 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 3: They got to go through every month that they getting 238 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 3: kicked in the balls once a month, you know worse, 239 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 3: but every day of that week. 240 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 2: That's like, so that's like twenty five percent of your 241 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 2: life that you're getting kicked in the balls, dude. 242 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,839 Speaker 3: But like, and didn't they build tolerance to the point 243 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 3: like you don't even hurt anymore? 244 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,760 Speaker 2: I well, that's why women have a higher pain threshold 245 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: because they kicked in the balls all the time, dude, 246 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 2: And so like, if they don't then it would just 247 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 2: be too rough. I could never. It makes sense, really, 248 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 2: I could never. I'm I don't. I am a weak boy. 249 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,440 Speaker 2: I would be a week period boy, and it'll be like, 250 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 2: shut up me, week period boy. You know what for 251 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 2: next Women's History month? I think we should all kick 252 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 2: each other in the balls or get the period simulator 253 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 2: solid hare. Well, I don't know about that, Riley. Do 254 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 2: you hate women? I just if you really loved women, 255 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 2: you would, yeah, in a line just constantly boom for 256 00:13:30,600 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 2: a week. 257 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 3: Or we love women so much that I let my 258 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 3: fans kick me in the balls for a month straight. 259 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a YouTube video right there. Now, that's fans 260 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 2: kick on the balls for seventy two hours. 261 00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm a feminist. But back to the story. Unfortunately, his 262 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: oldest sister wasn't at home to help. She had a 263 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: sleepover at a friend's due to a project for school, 264 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 1: so he took charge of explaining everything. He must have 265 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: seen the disgust in my face and asked me what 266 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: is wrong, and it just slipped out. I told him, 267 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: you are a disgusting pig. Disgusting, she said, no, disgusting pig. 268 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: I am not joking for you. That is the words 269 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: in this story. Disgusting pig. You are a disgusting pig. 270 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 2: Yo, So fucking way, Yo, how could you be that 271 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 2: out of touch? Maybe I'm I don't know, I'm not 272 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 2: a woman, so maybe this is an appropriate response. Okay, Well, Sam, 273 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 2: she did not stop there, no the words so glad. 274 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: The words just kept coming out of my mouth. I 275 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: could not stop, no, stop it. I told him exactly 276 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: what I thought about the situation, and that it's disgusting 277 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 1: that he knows that much, especially about his own sisters, 278 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: and is now trying to coach the younger sister on 279 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: what to do. 280 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 2: He's trying to be a rock. 281 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: Let him, Yeah, let him rock, dude. He just asked 282 00:14:56,120 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 1: me to leave. He didn't argue, yell, or nothing. He 283 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: just said, leave my house. 284 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 2: Holy fuck, bro, he's so mature, so fucking mature. Gosh, 285 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 2: he's so confident, mature. 286 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 3: That was the father of your children and he's now 287 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 3: out of your life. 288 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 2: Oh you did that? Wow, dude? Just badass, just badass. 289 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: I know I went about it the wrong way, but 290 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: my stance is the same. No brother should know that 291 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: much about his own sister's body function. 292 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:35,240 Speaker 2: And am I the a hole for this? Wow, what 293 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 2: a clear obvious just like beautiful almost yes, yes, sound 294 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 2: as you are the a hole one hundred you're a woman, 295 00:15:46,040 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 2: don't you understand? And also like think about the situation 296 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 2: they're in where like they don't have a mom did 297 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 2: they don't even have a dad mom or a dad? Who? 298 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 2: All right, let me ask you this, op, who do 299 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 2: you learn from your parents? Literally? Who? Who? What do 300 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 2: you do when your sister comes over to you and says, 301 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on, I'm bleeding. Do you say, 302 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 2: like fucking figure it out? Yeah I don't know? Yeah exactly, Like. 303 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: Dude, like what what is truly? What is he supposed 304 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: to do in this scenario? Almost maybe the clearest you're 305 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: the ahole of all time on this show, Like yeah. 306 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'm just I'm just I'm just baffled 307 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 2: how she could think that, and like, oh, and you 308 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 2: ask like what should he have done? Exactly what he 309 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 2: did exactly, textbook amazing response. He doesn't get mad, he 310 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 2: doesn't yell, he doesn't try to justify it. It just says, oh, 311 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 2: you're a dumb You're dumb. Yeah, I don't want you 312 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:54,239 Speaker 2: to infect your this house with your dumbness. 313 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 3: I want to know how long she talked for, because 314 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 3: after your disgusting pig and after a few more this 315 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 3: is after that, I would have asked her like that 316 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 3: to please leave. I wonder if it was like a 317 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,119 Speaker 3: five minute conversation or like a ten minute. 318 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:08,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, like a rant. Yeah, it feels like maybe like 319 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 2: a one to three minute rant. That's what. 320 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking, because he was probably processing 321 00:17:13,440 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 3: like this is absolutely ridiculous. 322 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:18,160 Speaker 2: I wonder if there were red flags before like this 323 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 2: is yo, if he posted on Reddit. Oh oh dude, 324 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 2: I want the other side. I want the other side. 325 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 2: So please tell me there's an up date. I am 326 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 2: so sad to inform you there is more. Thank god, 327 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 2: thank god. Do the edit. 328 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 1: If you don't believe me, that's fine, but don't comment. 329 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,800 Speaker 1: I was there, I said what I said. 330 00:17:39,200 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 2: Don't know what I can say other than what I 331 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 2: know is this is real and I have the proof. 332 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 2: I just wanted to know and ask am I the 333 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 2: a hole? 334 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: And if my stance is correct, and if I should 335 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:54,800 Speaker 1: apologize for everything I said, yes, yes easy. Seeing some 336 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: of the comments, I think you guys are not understanding 337 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 1: my points. Well, do tell I don't want to sound mean, 338 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 1: but he could have just called his sister to explain 339 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,359 Speaker 1: everything to her, or better yet, asked me to explain 340 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 1: it to her. 341 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 2: No, fuck, no, your response is so like your response 342 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 2: is exactly why you should be nowhere near those. 343 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 1: Kids, Like, oh, this is you are encouraging her to 344 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: make her feel disgusting about her body, Like that is 345 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 1: the vibes you are giving of me. I would have 346 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: been a lot better if it had come from another girl. Yes, 347 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: he explained everything correctly and even told her about the 348 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: different products to use, but said the other sister will 349 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 1: explain those better as she has experience in what actually works. 350 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 2: She literally is textbook perfect, perfect, perfect perfect. 351 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 1: No notes, Why didn't he ask me to explain anything 352 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 1: to her? I would have done it. You're a fucking child, nincompoop. Yeah, 353 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: well yeah, I would have been dating to look a 354 00:18:52,840 --> 00:18:56,479 Speaker 1: year a year like he's basically her dad. This is 355 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: like he's like, I'm your father. I need to come 356 00:18:58,560 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 1: to you in your in your time of need. 357 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 2: Who do you go to? Who do you go to? 358 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 2: And who do you want to hear from? Periental figure? 359 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,239 Speaker 2: You obviously want to hear from your brother's girlfriend of 360 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 2: one year? Yeah, one year? Yeah, yeah, yeah, for those 361 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 2: momentous decisions. 362 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 1: Why listen to the to the brother who is a 363 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: father to me, who has never failed me and is 364 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 1: amazing and he's a gold standard. 365 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 2: Why would I want exactly, why would I want to 366 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:21,000 Speaker 2: talk to him? Huh, you're crazy? You would what insanity? 367 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 1: There are certain things that should stay private, and especially 368 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:28,800 Speaker 1: a brother should not know stay in the docks, stay uneducated. 369 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,680 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I mean in a way a brother 370 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 3: shouldn't know that. 371 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:35,640 Speaker 2: But like, that's not her brother. I actually I don't 372 00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: think it matters. I think it's good that he knows. 373 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 2: The education is important. Don't make these women feel disguised 374 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 2: it about their own Yeah yeah, I think it's more 375 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 2: of like if your like, if my sister ever came 376 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 2: to me and was like this happened, I would help be. 377 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 1: There, to support, to be there because why is she 378 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: coming in this scenario? 379 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 2: Why is she coming to you? Because she trust she 380 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 2: trusts me, because she trusts you, And is it one 381 00:20:00,520 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 2: support from the person she's asking for it from? 382 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 1: Yes, this is making John mad I'm triggered. John Mad 383 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:10,119 Speaker 1: relevant comments. 384 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 2: I would absolutely dump you for the mere suggestion that 385 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,439 Speaker 2: he's being sexually inappropriate with his younger siblings. That is 386 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 2: the other thing. There's the undertones of like, oh he's 387 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 2: so interested. 388 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:26,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, disgusting, Yeah, bor row And in case you missed it, 389 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 1: this is exactly what you have done, OPI. I didn't 390 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 1: sexualize anything. It's just disgusting that he's trying to coach 391 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: his sister through something so personal. He could have called 392 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 1: his other sister for help or better yet, asked me 393 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: to explain, but he did it himself. Dudem Uh, you 394 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: are the giant asshole here. Don't worry, though, your ex 395 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,440 Speaker 1: will find someone better. 396 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:51,880 Speaker 2: Opie. 397 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 1: We haven't broken up, but do you believe he will 398 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,120 Speaker 1: break up with me over this? 399 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 2: Yes? I am allowed to have my own opinions, am I? Not? 400 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 2: You are, but not when they're wrong? Exactly. No, you 401 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 2: are allowed to have your own opinions, but he doesn't 402 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 2: have to endure them. Exactly exactly. Bar You can have opinions, 403 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 2: but there are consequences, ladies and gentlemen, This is far 404 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 2: from over. There's one more. There is another updates. I 405 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:22,680 Speaker 2: think he breaks up with her. Oh yeah, one. 406 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 1: To everyone saying he would leave me. Well, guess what 407 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:28,919 Speaker 1: you were right? 408 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 2: He dumped me. Fucking go man of principle, every right decision, 409 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 2: all of them, all of them, all of them. 410 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 1: I went to his house to apologize to him, and 411 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,879 Speaker 1: his little sister, the sixteen year old was there as well. 412 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 2: She slapped me, throwing hands and shouted at me, calling 413 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 2: me vile names. WHOA, that's crazy. I know. I wouldn't 414 00:21:53,400 --> 00:22:00,399 Speaker 2: condone the physical violence, but fire though it like that. 415 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 3: That girl said got upset on her older brother for 416 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 3: trying to keep her little sister safe. I mean, as 417 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 3: a sixteen year old girl, I'm not mad, yo. I 418 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:15,120 Speaker 3: would honestly, I would honestly laugh. I would honestly laugh. Probably. 419 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 1: She shouted at me for trying to break the family 420 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:22,240 Speaker 1: apart and trying to say her father is a peedo, which. 421 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 2: Is kind of what she was, which is what she 422 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 2: was implying. 423 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:28,239 Speaker 1: My now ex got her to stop and sent her 424 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 1: to her room along with the other siblings. Once again, 425 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: just parent dude of. 426 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,640 Speaker 2: All time, he's the best. I wanted to apologize. 427 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: Before I could even start, he told me to keep 428 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:42,439 Speaker 1: my mouth shut and listen. 429 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 2: You got your rant, little lady. It's time for his 430 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 2: dude he's so cool. 431 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 1: He forgave me before I even asked for forgiveness, but said, 432 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 1: what he can't forgive is the fact that I basically 433 00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: turned his little sister against him and making her doubt 434 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: his intentions. 435 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 2: It took him almost the. 436 00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,879 Speaker 1: Full day to get her to talk to him, and 437 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: she only talked to him after the sixteen year old 438 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: assured her that he did nothing wrong and only wanted 439 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 1: to help her like he did so. Basically, I think 440 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 1: the twelve year old overheard the did he do something 441 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 1: wrong and was like, oh, is there something wrong? 442 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 2: Like what's going on? Heartbreaking? Wow. 443 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 1: His exact words were, you turned one of my children 444 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 1: against me. That is something I can't and will not forgive. 445 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: You are dead to me. Now get the fuck. 446 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 2: Out of my house. But he kind of wied talk 447 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:44,119 Speaker 2: to me. What he said, I forgive you that it 448 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 2: doesn't sound like forgiveness. I forgive you over here, but 449 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,679 Speaker 2: over here you're fucking dead to me. 450 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 3: I think he forgave her for the words that she said, 451 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 3: but he won't forgive her for the consequence. 452 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 2: Does that happen the words that she said? Yeah, which 453 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 2: he shouldn't which he shouldn't be to be clear. Yeah. 454 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 2: Quick question to everyone watching in Samon Riley, is it 455 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 2: an a whole move to say you're dead to me? Now? 456 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 2: Is that too far? I feel like, I mean, like. 457 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 3: I from from his perspective, No, because those are his 458 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 3: ride or die and you don't do that with a 459 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:15,360 Speaker 3: ride or die. 460 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: Here's here's what I think. 461 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:20,040 Speaker 1: So you could say, I feel like you're absolutely done, 462 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:21,160 Speaker 1: like we like. 463 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, Like I could never. I like I don't, 464 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 2: I could never. I can't see you, guys. I think 465 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,359 Speaker 2: he's saying that to me is like a little strong 466 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 2: but understandable pig. Yeah, but it's but Riley, eye for 467 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,320 Speaker 2: an eye makes the whole world blind. 468 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 3: I don't think it was I for Note these are 469 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 3: words exchanged. 470 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 2: These are metaphorical eyes exchanged. What she did was she 471 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 2: got a disgusting pig. Well, right, I got a question. 472 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 2: I got a question for you. 473 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 3: Okay, okay. It's gonna be like there was wood person. 474 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 3: What would Jesus do? Oh okay, okay, all right, all right. 475 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 3: Just Jesus has been aggressive at points in the Bible 476 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 3: when it comes to his father's house, because at one 477 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 3: point these people were in this church, did flip some 478 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 3: tables because people were misusing the church for sailling goods 479 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 3: rather than you know, praying. So he was aggressive in 480 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 3: that aspect. But he and then with the woman at 481 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 3: the well, whenever people were mocking her, he did like 482 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 3: write out their sins in the sand. 483 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,159 Speaker 2: So he did exchange words there. I don't think he 484 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:28,360 Speaker 2: said the other cheek, Bro. 485 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,920 Speaker 3: He did say turned the other cheek in a way 486 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 3: with like turning the other cheek. It may have been 487 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 3: like if a brother were to hit you with and 488 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 3: he didn't know. Like, I just feel like these words 489 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,280 Speaker 3: were very targeted. 490 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,480 Speaker 2: Riley just wants Jesus to say you are dead to me. Yeah. 491 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 2: I don't think he would you. No, I don't think 492 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 2: he would. I don't think he would say enough he 493 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 2: should do it. 494 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 3: So he said he would he would be angry with 495 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 3: this woman, I think so. And he was fact he 496 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 3: would have the same voice as op in a way. 497 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. But we're not saying Ope should do anything wrong. 498 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 2: It's just the words were maybe yeah, okay, yeah, tinge strong, Yeah, 499 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 2: but bro, Jesus damn close. Yeah. God forgives Jesus here 500 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,880 Speaker 2: and he's like he's right after there. 501 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 1: I love that he said it was so much anger 502 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,439 Speaker 1: in his voice, and I could see it in his 503 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: eyes that he absolutely hated me in that moment. I 504 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 1: was actually scared for myself in that moment. 505 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 2: Bitch. I have talked to some of my friends about this, 506 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 2: and you all might be glad to hear, but I'm 507 00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 2: losing friends as well as even my own sister is 508 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 2: now refusing to talk to me. Yes, in our house, my. 509 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,199 Speaker 1: Father had nothing to do with our periods, and my 510 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 1: mom handled everything. What should I have done? I thought 511 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,920 Speaker 1: he did something wrong. I can see I'm in the wrong, 512 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,400 Speaker 1: but they still are punishing me for this. 513 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 2: You're not seeing, bro, the opposite of everything you did. 514 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I hate that. She's like, I can kind 515 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 2: of see women the wrong here a little. When I can't, 516 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 2: I can't. His words really hurt me. That is not fair. 517 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 1: I didn't even get a chance to explain myself or anything. 518 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 1: After he was done talking, he just kicked me out 519 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:11,680 Speaker 1: of his house. 520 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,119 Speaker 2: He was done, sister. 521 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 1: I am blocked everywhere and can't get a hold of him. 522 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,200 Speaker 1: I even tried his sister's phone. 523 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 2: Idiot, what the. 524 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: Worst idea ever? Oh, but I'm also blocked there. Yeah, 525 00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: you really think the girl who slapped you is gonna 526 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 1: is going to hear you out. 527 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,960 Speaker 2: Now, maybe she called the twelve year old. Oh that's 528 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 2: possible fucked. That would be mega, mega fucked. Oh my god, 529 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 2: this woman is such an idiot. I love stories like 530 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 2: this though. I love just like every movement is just idiocy. 531 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 2: It's true, true, I don't because people like this exists 532 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 2: in the world. That's I like to see justice. I 533 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 2: think just like justice. 534 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,199 Speaker 1: Please stop asking me for his contact number and his 535 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: name in the comments and personal messages. 536 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 2: That's wild. People are asking for these. Oh, because he's 537 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 2: obviously such a great guy. True, he's single. Fucking date him. 538 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,440 Speaker 1: He's single. I'm not going to give that to anyone. 539 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: Why would I do that and have one of you 540 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: try to steal him from me? That sounds like exactly 541 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:10,440 Speaker 1: what's going on. 542 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 2: I screwed up, I know, but I will fix it 543 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 2: and I will get him back. Oh she's crazy. 544 00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: No, I really do love him, and I know he 545 00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: still loves me. This was just a speed bump. Just 546 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 1: wait and see. We will be back together. 547 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 2: Is there date? There are some relevant comments where people 548 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 2: get into the association to this person. Yes, do I'm 549 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 2: ready for burn this person at this stake. 550 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: Let's go ding ding ding ning. So on Opie's upbringing. 551 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 1: Opie says, this is how I was raised. Our father 552 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,520 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with our periods and we weren't 553 00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: allowed to talk about them when he was close. 554 00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:53,120 Speaker 2: Again, just because you did it does not mean it's good. 555 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:56,200 Speaker 2: It is not. Sounds like some trauma. 556 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 1: Yes, true, Since y'all aren't together anymore, can I get 557 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 1: those digits? 558 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 2: Opie says, no way in hell. 559 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: I've given you or all the rest his number or 560 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: even his name, even if nobody wanted to help me 561 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: solve this, and everyone says that we are over. I 562 00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 1: made a mistake. I know that now, and I will 563 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 1: give it my all to get him back. Well, someone says, 564 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:23,160 Speaker 1: leave him alone, there's nothing to solve. You fed up 565 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 1: the end. You insulted him, and you did it in 566 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:27,240 Speaker 1: front of his sister. 567 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 2: Oh so that was in front day? 568 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you damaged their relationship with your backwards, 569 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 1: disgusting opinions. 570 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 2: Leave them alone? 571 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Opie, you are the disgusting pig, gotcha? I know that, 572 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,680 Speaker 1: no need to remind me. I love him and I 573 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: know he still loves me. 574 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 2: Too, delusional, just watch, I will get him back and 575 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 2: all of you will be stuck in it. Okay, this 576 00:29:54,320 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 2: person psycho, that is the end. Wow. But yeah, bananas 577 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 2: just wow. I don't think there's anything else to say 578 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 2: except bananas. Yeah, bonkers. The guy is perfect there. The 579 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 2: contrast between these two people is incredible. They get together. 580 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 2: That is the west. Yeah. The only thing, yeah, I do. 581 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 2: The only thing that I'm like unsure about this guy 582 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 2: is like, how could you think this person was okay? 583 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:23,560 Speaker 3: Truly truly he's probably I want him to post so 584 00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 3: then we could see the red flags. 585 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, because once you see one red flag, they see all. 586 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 2: But you know what I want to see pop up? 587 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 2: What one final story? Let's do it? And the a 588 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,760 Speaker 2: over cutting off a guy who lied about his relationship 589 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 2: status and try to move in with me after his breakup? Wow? 590 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 2: And guess what, John what this comes from our slash 591 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:49,040 Speaker 2: okop show, our subreader. This is okay game and this 592 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 2: is commercial age. So I twenty six female met Adam 593 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,959 Speaker 2: twenty six male at church before we both attend the 594 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,560 Speaker 2: youth group. He knows about those. While we weren't close, 595 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 2: we started chatting through messages when my friend persuaded me 596 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: into asking him to be my date to my high 597 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 2: school dance in twenty fifteen. At the time, he was 598 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 2: dating a girl named Adrian twenty four female, which I 599 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,080 Speaker 2: wasn't aware since he was the one who told me 600 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 2: he wasn't seeing anyone anyway. During our chats, Adrian also 601 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,560 Speaker 2: messaged me from Adam's phone. She seemed friendly, but it 602 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 2: felt odd that she was reaching out to me out 603 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 2: of the blue. A few months go by to the 604 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 2: day of the dance, also to note, Adam and Adrian 605 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 2: had broken up, so Adrian was the girl. Also, I 606 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 2: believe Opie put the ages they all are now. Yeah, 607 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,360 Speaker 2: but this is back in high school, back in the day. 608 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 2: Give it ten years, take off ten years. Yes, I 609 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 2: had a good time, but he seemed more interested in 610 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,920 Speaker 2: another girl from my class, Melissa, which made me feel uneasy. 611 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 2: Despite this, we shared a couple of kisses that night. Ooh, kissy. 612 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 2: I also love how clear all of this was and 613 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 2: it was ten years ago in high school. That's crazy. 614 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 2: She replaced this memory. I remember. After the ball, Adam 615 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:04,000 Speaker 2: asked me for Mchaalan's number, which I found inappropriate since 616 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 2: he kissed me. O my god, my sister who ended 617 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 2: up messaging him on my behalf to expressed my discomfort. 618 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 2: Over the years, I learned Adrian became pregnant with Adam's 619 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 2: child whoa. And again, Adrian was the girl he was 620 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 2: dating initially. 621 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: So she was like seventeen, We don't know when she 622 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 1: got pregnant right over the years. 623 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 2: Over the years of the year, despite this, Adam would 624 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 2: often lie to me about his relationship status and even 625 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 2: cheated on Adrian, leading to a toxic cycle of breaking 626 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 2: up and getting back together. So it sounds like op 627 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 2: is kind of in the mix of this toxic cycle 628 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 2: or a washing machine. That's god, dirty washing machine. Adrian 629 00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,960 Speaker 2: has been badmouthing me to a couple of girls in 630 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 2: our youth group, making it seem as though I'm the 631 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,560 Speaker 2: one who's been trying to break them up and that 632 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 2: I'm a home wrecker, which wasn't true. I decided to 633 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,560 Speaker 2: distance myself from Adam to focus on my as a 634 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:04,160 Speaker 2: software engineer. All right, let's go ope. I've been successful 635 00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 2: in my career and I'm financially stable enough to see 636 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,360 Speaker 2: my family as well, which has always been a priority 637 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 2: for me. However, Adam has recently reappeared the dirty laundry 638 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:19,680 Speaker 2: come to rear dirty Head expressing interest in rekindling our connection. 639 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 2: Despite my initial reservations, I entertained the idea of reconnecting 640 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:27,239 Speaker 2: with him. However, his behavior, like flirting in public and 641 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 2: making inappropriate comments made me reconsider I mean, he sounds 642 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,440 Speaker 2: like a trash dude. He literally asked for another girl's 643 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 2: number right after he kissed you, literally like, and also 644 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 2: was cheating on his ax. Why would you want to 645 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 2: be with his maniac? Okay, fam you're better than this. 646 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 2: You are truly. To be a bit more specific, we 647 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,720 Speaker 2: were on our way to a youth group and he 648 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,960 Speaker 2: took me and sat next to me, and he made 649 00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 2: a comment saying, I'd make a hot date if only 650 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 2: I were five sentimators taller. What kind of vile that 651 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:01,640 Speaker 2: I'm I'm sorry, I just was not righty boat floored. 652 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,720 Speaker 2: I ignored him, and that's when he started complimenting a 653 00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 2: different girl that sat in the seat in front of us. 654 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:10,720 Speaker 2: She's taller than me by how many centimeters? A lot 655 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,440 Speaker 2: after the event, we've been texting. I'll add the messages 656 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 2: to me. Hi him, Hey me, I must say, you 657 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 2: really do have time for games? Hey? Like, why would 658 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 2: you go and tell me all that when you already 659 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 2: have other plans. Him, what are you talking about? Him? 660 00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 2: Let's take it slow. This is this what we got. Now, 661 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 2: got my attention. Me. I just don't know where I 662 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 2: stand with you at this point. Him, I want to 663 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 2: know why you can't look me in the eyes when 664 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 2: I talk to you. Me. You'll soon find out why. Him. 665 00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,839 Speaker 2: How are you doing? Me? Hey? Good? And you? Him? 666 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 2: I'm good, blushy face. I was thinking about you earlier. 667 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 2: Me you thinking about me? Hm, yes, blushy face. Why 668 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 2: so confuse me? I'm not confused, just thinking, blushy face. 669 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,080 Speaker 2: So what are you thinking about? Him? Your smile and 670 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 2: the way you treat people, positive vibration mostly causing me? 671 00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 2: You Me? Really? Him, what are your plans this weekend? Me? 672 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 2: I don't have any plans this weekend? Him, I want 673 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 2: to see you blushy face. Me. I'm not doing anything 674 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,480 Speaker 2: this weekend, so I'm available. Me. You say that every 675 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 2: time I see you mostly kissing you. Me, I mean 676 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,920 Speaker 2: I won't stop you, but not in front of a 677 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:20,600 Speaker 2: live audience like the youth. Ah, potentially they are the 678 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 2: ages they are now. Yeah, this is over the years. Yeah, 679 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 2: I feel like they're both flirting with each other. They are, which, 680 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 2: hy you're flirting with each other? Why? And you shouldn't be? 681 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 2: He sucks? He sucks man him, why do you care 682 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 2: about what they think? Though? 683 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 3: Me? 684 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:40,719 Speaker 2: I don't mind public, just certain people like children. I 685 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:45,560 Speaker 2: guess for him, you link up this weekend? See you soon, okay? Him? 686 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:46,800 Speaker 2: How was the youth tonight? 687 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 3: Me? 688 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 2: It was all right? Him? Awesome. I wish I was there. Me. 689 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:55,560 Speaker 2: I want to see you there today him? Really Me? Yes? Really? Me? 690 00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 2: Where are we looking up? And what's your plan? Specifically? Him, 691 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 2: I'm gonna come to you. Me. You coming to this 692 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,600 Speaker 2: busy house? What your plan for this weekend? Him? It 693 00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:09,720 Speaker 2: ain't that busy him? Make time for your starters. Me okay, 694 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 2: But when are you free? Because I won't be here 695 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,399 Speaker 2: tomorrow and Sunday, but i'll be here Friday and Saturday. Him. 696 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:17,520 Speaker 2: I only work night shift seven to seven. What's happening 697 00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:20,200 Speaker 2: tomorrow though? Me? I'm not sure yet. I think they 698 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,320 Speaker 2: want to go out for the day. Him sounds interesting. 699 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,399 Speaker 2: I'll come around Saturday. Me okay, I'll be waiting there. 700 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 2: Oh he don't wait for him. Don't talk to him. 701 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 2: He's a whack, dude, whack. It's been a few days 702 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 2: since I spoke, and I did a bit of thinking. 703 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 2: I realized Adam doesn't align with the version of the 704 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 2: partner I envisioned myself with. Thank you. There's a recent 705 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 2: breakup with Adrian where he tried to pursue me while 706 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 2: still in a relationship, further solidified my decision, and there 707 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 2: is an updates. Oh my god, but thank god, Opie. Okay, fam, 708 00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 2: you deserve better you so do you deserve a king 709 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 2: for your queendom? So update I message Adam expressing that 710 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,760 Speaker 2: I don't think we can take things slow or continue 711 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,880 Speaker 2: getting to know each other better, which I felt was 712 00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 2: for the best. Was okay, cool, I'm gonna take it 713 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 2: so slow. Stop. His baby sister, Miela A, visited the 714 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 2: other day and she revealed that he broke up with 715 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:21,120 Speaker 2: Adrian three days ago, so he was still messing around 716 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 2: with Ope. This revelation came after he had been trying 717 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,040 Speaker 2: to chat me up, claiming he was single and he 718 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:31,720 Speaker 2: wouldn't lie to me liars gonna lie. Mala also mentioned 719 00:37:31,719 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 2: that she told Adam about my financial stability and plans 720 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 2: to move out on my own. However, she suggested that 721 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 2: he move in with me. The fuck what are you 722 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:43,120 Speaker 2: talking about? I found unsettling given his history. Despite his 723 00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 2: breakup with Adrian, Adam's behavior hasn't changed much. His brother 724 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,640 Speaker 2: informed me that Adam claimed I don't know what I 725 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,839 Speaker 2: want and that I have time for games, which upset me. Well, 726 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 2: I may not have everything figured out. I know what 727 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 2: I don't want, and it's someone with Adam's qualities, And 728 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:01,800 Speaker 2: to this day, Adam is still pissed that I stop 729 00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 2: things from going any further. On a brider note, I've 730 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,799 Speaker 2: received a significant pay increase and I'm close to a 731 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 2: senior engineer promotion. Oh, I'm planning to buy a house 732 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 2: for my family and I've been pre qualified for a mortgage. Additionally, 733 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,720 Speaker 2: I'm looking forward and traveling to Bali with my friends. 734 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 2: Oh freaking go right, and there is a quick at 735 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,360 Speaker 2: it preach our Balie episodes while you're there. Yeah, exactly. Truly, 736 00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 2: his parents are quite acquainted with mine. I didn't want 737 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:28,040 Speaker 2: to expect it before, but now that his sister has 738 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:30,799 Speaker 2: mentioned to him that I'm financially stable, it seems that 739 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:32,880 Speaker 2: ever since then, he's been trying to get with me 740 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 2: and has been quite persistent about us being together. He's 741 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,799 Speaker 2: looking for sugar mama. Oh no, can't seem to keep 742 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,640 Speaker 2: a job for as long as a week. He's tried 743 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 2: a few side jobs like fixing cars and doing tactoos. 744 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 2: I don't have a problem with him buying new things, 745 00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 2: but we're looking for a partner. I am seeking consistency 746 00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,240 Speaker 2: and someone who knows what they want in life. Bench 747 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,840 Speaker 2: So to note, he's currently staying with his parents, and 748 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,200 Speaker 2: his mother has warned him in these words, if you 749 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,759 Speaker 2: don't get your act together, you are out of the house. 750 00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,200 Speaker 2: Please kick him to the streets. Adrian is all also 751 00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,800 Speaker 2: gotten a better job and has told him to stay 752 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,160 Speaker 2: at home since she's earning money and she'd work for 753 00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,439 Speaker 2: both of them. Why is Adrian staying with this guy? 754 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 2: After telling him this, he also mentioned that he was 755 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 2: planning on proposing to her. But after I found out 756 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 2: from quite a few people, including his brother and sister, 757 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 2: about this plan, I did ask him about it. He 758 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 2: was in denial and said he never said that. When 759 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,640 Speaker 2: I refer to quite a few people, I'm talking about 760 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 2: a couple people in our church, his close friends and 761 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:27,279 Speaker 2: my sister. After I confronted him, it seems that was 762 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,960 Speaker 2: the time when the rekindling started and he mentioned to 763 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,480 Speaker 2: me that he doesn't really understand why I'm not dating anyone, 764 00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,759 Speaker 2: but he does know that I want to move out 765 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 2: on my own. Please, if you have any advice on 766 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:40,239 Speaker 2: ways to deal with the situation, please feel free. Our 767 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:44,200 Speaker 2: advice is stay clear of this ninkompoop. Run away from him, 768 00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:49,360 Speaker 2: run run far away. Yeah, I mean his baby sister 769 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:53,560 Speaker 2: Mila is like obviously trying to maybe find a better 770 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:58,960 Speaker 2: partner for his toxic brother, right, but someone to straighten himut. Yeah, 771 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:01,160 Speaker 2: but he's so toxic. Just stay away. He needs to 772 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 2: figure himself out. Let me just find someone who can 773 00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,560 Speaker 2: fix him. To fix himself, he needs to fix his 774 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,880 Speaker 2: stinky self and take a bath. Yeah but hey, okay, 775 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,160 Speaker 2: fam just listen to us, Please listen to us. Please 776 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:18,000 Speaker 2: don't see this guy anymore. He's bad news and you 777 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:22,200 Speaker 2: deserve better. Run away, run away, please run away. But 778 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:24,799 Speaker 2: I hope you don't run away from us, because if 779 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,719 Speaker 2: you love us, make sure to subscribe. We love you 780 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:29,239 Speaker 2: and see it all