WEBVTT - Ep 246: Sensual BDSM & Fire Play (Ft. Sir Marvelous & Syphen) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:08.840 Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 0:00:09.240 --> 0:00:12.880 welcome to yet another episode of Harvard Bled. This is 0:00:13.000 --> 0:00:16.040 Young Weasy got on me about not dropping my case, 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:17.959 so I'm gonna give it to you motherfucker's this week. 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.959 This is your girl, Mandy b a k A pitt 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:24.400 standing a k A debt bitch a k A full 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:26.880 core pumps a k A Peggan Marko a k A 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:33.720 uh Mandy Baskins a k A hid you, daddies, That 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:35.960 was Neal Basket might see you. She's about to sooner. 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:40.800 Now I'm Mandy Baskins, but she don't own that last name. 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:44.920 She well, I'm weezy f lady. We have two guests here. 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:48.280 We have another couple in the building, um, which I 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:50.159 think we love having couples on the specially. I think 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:52.960 they had a bad couple of I don't think couples 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:56.880 are harder to come by, but I think the only couple. 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:58.960 Oh yes, the one that wanted to remove their video 0:00:59.000 --> 0:01:05.280 from YouTube. Okay, but no audio wise, that episode was fired, Like, no, 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.520 that was a great episode. Yeah, it was a great episode, 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:09.640 but she just so And this is why I talked 0:01:09.760 --> 0:01:12.200 to our couple today and I was like, all right, 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:14.160 so y'all know we kind of popping right. So if 0:01:14.160 --> 0:01:15.640 you have a real job, which a lot of us 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:19.720 host do, let us know because your parents, your siblings, 0:01:20.040 --> 0:01:23.280 your co workers, your bosses will find you. UM. Well 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.440 we'll see what all the kinky stuff here into UM. 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:29.440 But without further ado, I want to introduce our guest today. 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:33.800 We have So Marvelous who is a prodom and we 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:38.279 are joined today by his sub siphon UM. I'm super 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:41.760 excited about this conversation because this is a dynamic that 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:45.240 Wheezy and I actually recently spoke about on our Patreon 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:49.000 UM when we were talking about so okay girl, do 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:51.920 not I mean what we do. We were talking about 0:01:52.000 --> 0:02:02.080 RT Kelly nothing like the thing ever the conversations them from. 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:04.160 We were watching UM and this is probably not gonna 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:06.880 make it sound any better, but we were watching the Deuce, 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:10.000 which is the sex goal on next UM. And the 0:02:10.040 --> 0:02:12.160 thing that I was talking about, more so with even 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:15.200 R Kelly, was the adults that chose to partake in 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:18.720 those type of subdom relations with with with R Kelly, 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:23.119 all especially being that my homegirl was one of those 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:25.960 girls that dealt with him and she let me know, girl, 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:29.320 I signed up for that, and it was did she 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:31.200 get what she wanted out of it? She? Oh, she 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:32.920 said she wanted to write the Nigga in jail, but 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:36.520 she knows he can't read the letter. Like she is 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:38.960 still for like, I mean, a lot of the women 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:41.640 that she even met, she was like, we knew what 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:44.000 was going anyways, by the way, it wasn't about I 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:46.560 finally watched that documentary. I couldn't bring myself to watch 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:48.120 it because I thought it would be too triggering for me, 0:02:48.160 --> 0:02:51.519 with like violence and ship and Mandy was saying like, oh, 0:02:51.600 --> 0:02:55.400 everybody was complicit, but a lot of the women on there, 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:58.680 the reason I couldn't really respect it as a dumb 0:02:58.760 --> 0:03:01.639 and sub relationship is because most of them were so 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:04.720 young and it was so much manipulation that it made 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:06.679 it hard to look at it as his real kink. 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:10.800 And then they kept using his molestation and different things 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:12.520 that happened in his life as an excuse for him 0:03:12.560 --> 0:03:17.200 having certain sexual fetishes and right, and that also is 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:20.320 a problematic thing too, because it's just like, so we're 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:21.799 all just sucked up in the hand because we want 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:25.240 to get slapped. Well, That's why I enjoy conversations like this. 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:28.320 I think a lot of times people assume that when 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:30.680 you're into some level of b D s M, that 0:03:30.760 --> 0:03:34.160 it stems from some traumatic experience. And so I love 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:36.920 that we have these conversations where it's like, nah, I 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:38.760 do it because this is actually what I do like 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:42.400 and I'm not trying to pull something out of my childhood. 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:45.320 This is genuinely something that pleases me. So I guess 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:49.200 let's start off a little bit because, Um, in introducing yourself, 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:51.920 I would love for you to explain how you are 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:58.720 essential prodom and how you bring sensuality to b DS. Yeah. 0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:00.760 A big part of what I do is I'm just 0:04:00.800 --> 0:04:03.720 trying to teach people that b D s M doesn't 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.800 have to be as rough and painful as people perceive 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:08.560 it to be. A lot of times, when you like, 0:04:09.040 --> 0:04:10.400 even if you were to google b D s M 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:12.160 right now, you're gonna see what a lot of people 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:13.960 would say, is like white people should like I'm not 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.800 necessarily into that. Not saying me, I'm saying, molt. The 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.960 average person is looking and looking at it and saying, 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:21.560 you know, that's not my cup of tea, so to speak. Um, 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:23.440 so I try to show people that there are more 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.560 pleasurable sides to it, Like you don't have to do 0:04:25.680 --> 0:04:28.200 everything so hard and so fast. You can start with 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:31.080 central massages. You can talk with affirmations, like even when 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:34.440 I'm spanking people, I'm giving them affirmations throughout that throughout 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:44.279 that experience. You know what I mean, Um, you can't 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:49.720 sit son is a bit hard affirmation you can well, 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:51.480 let me let me ask you that. Because for those 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:53.919 of you watching on our YouTube channel, you may see 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:55.600 he has a lot of things here on the table. 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.160 So we have the leather flogs that we've introduced, and 0:04:58.200 --> 0:05:01.320 weezy thing is spiked that don't look there. There is 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:04.400 a spiked flogging. There's rope for bondage, and we also 0:05:04.440 --> 0:05:07.719 have looks like a lighter. We'll talk about fireplay later 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:11.240 as well. But I guess get into what things do 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:14.560 you see that would be white people ship and how 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:17.000 have you turned that into sensual domination. Well, I don't 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.200 identify let me be clear, I don't identify it as 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:21.360 like white people ship. But that's like what you hear 0:05:21.400 --> 0:05:23.640 a lot of people say, like, especially like people of color. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:25.760 They like I try to google b D S m 0:05:25.800 --> 0:05:27.719 and when I saw it, I was like I saw 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:31.000 people in garbage bags, and guy, I'm not into that. 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:33.479 But um, I just try to show people, for example, 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:36.320 like these floggings right here. Absolutely I can flog somebody heart, 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:38.960 but usually when I start with someone that is totally new, 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:40.960 I'm going to start by just dragging it across their 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:43.159 skin so they can feel the sensation. A lot of 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:45.719 what we're doing an impact player, especially me, is about 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:49.360 providing different sensations. Um with the tools that I'm using, 0:05:49.360 --> 0:05:52.560 even the spiky uh flogger that you see right there, Um, 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:54.479 if you touch it, what you I suggest that you do? 0:05:54.560 --> 0:05:57.600 Now you're realized it's not like it's not what you 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:02.440 think it's it's about intimidation. I thought, yeah, actually exactly 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:05.160 what I thought. But yeah, and what I do with 0:06:05.160 --> 0:06:07.120 that is I'm going to drive that across somebody's skin. 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:12.520 Or I can do that. Yeah, so okay, I'll be honest. 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:14.720 It doesn't feel as bad, but I can see like 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:17.160 running on someone's skin. So a lot of times what 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:19.120 I'll do is I'll put that in like some ice, 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:20.800 so I might put it this in warm water. I'll 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.320 blindfold somebody, tie them up. You don't have them on 0:06:23.400 --> 0:06:25.760 my table as I drag it slowly across their skin, 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:28.080 And that is a different type of sensation. You know, 0:06:28.120 --> 0:06:32.040 when you couple things with like sensory deprivation, it makes 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:34.719 everything a lot more heightened, especially when you got somebody 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:37.839 talking dirty in you, so you know it's I don't 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:41.200 hold you. He loves to uh role place. So we're 0:06:41.200 --> 0:06:43.920 gonna have to hear some of those dirty times his 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:50.800 girls here because I have, like, what did you say? 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:54.560 I have like a basic four line. I'm really bad at. 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:56.440 Like sometimes I just be like yes and no, and 0:06:57.000 --> 0:07:00.720 that's what you got. Would you say it? Like? Yeah? No. 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.760 She hates when I really get into my sex voice, 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:09.400 but I think it's cute or whatever. Um well, we're 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:12.160 gonna super dive into what a prodom is, but I 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:14.840 do before we get into the vanilla ship, I want 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:18.560 to talk to you about being a sub Now. A 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:23.480 lot of women, especially inter hetero sexual relationships, show up 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:25.800 feeling as though they have to be submissive in a 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.120 lot of in a lot of relationships. So I want 0:07:28.160 --> 0:07:32.000 to know what really identifies you as a sub more 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:34.640 than it does just being a submissive woman in a 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:38.680 heterosexual relationship. I got you on that. So I am 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:42.120 not a submissive woman at all at all, in any way, 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:50.400 shape or form. That's because this man right here special 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:54.400 powers and it was just one night that I needed 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:56.960 to know that he was worthy of my submission. And 0:07:57.000 --> 0:08:00.880 for me, the submission is more about it's my opportunity 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.120 to stop being in charge of everything. It's it's me 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:07.680 being able to just free form and just be more childlike, 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:12.280 more playful. I'm eager to please. I love knowing that, 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:15.840 like he's turned on and he's excited and I and 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:18.800 I'm there to help him, like reach whatever depths he 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:22.360 wants to reach. Like that to me is like like 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.040 if I get something out of him, I'm just like, yes, 0:08:25.640 --> 0:08:28.160 keep doing this. I'm gonna keep doing this whatever he wants. 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:29.720 But I love to serve him and I love to 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.679 make him comfortable. And why don't know, I just want 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:36.040 to start singing. Let me get to see you. On Twitter, 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:38.880 somebody was like, there's no way in hell that a 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:41.320 woman like listen to these lyrics we were singing it 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:43.160 if the team were like, who would really live their 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.920 life like this your dinner, You're this, doing this and that, 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:51.800 And I'm like, but but what you just said rings 0:08:52.040 --> 0:08:55.760 to what my last relationship just was. Um and I 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:58.679 talked about how I didn't know like I was showing 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:01.240 up to him so differently than I before, Like I'm 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:04.520 pegging the motherfucker's salient. So even though I'm dominant in 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:06.439 my workplace and a lot of my friendships and when 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:08.280 I walk in, when I walk into a room, I 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:11.000 still demanded I did bring that into the bedroom until 0:09:11.400 --> 0:09:13.920 my last partner, who I just trusted so much, and 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:16.280 I knew he was aiming to please me that I 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:18.040 wanted to do the same, And a lot of that 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:21.560 had to do with not only submission but trust. UM. 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.360 So when it came to like the pillowcases, the choking, 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:28.840 it really had to be like, oh, okay, I trust you. 0:09:29.160 --> 0:09:30.560 I trust you, and that's all I know. I ain't 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:33.160 gonna die because I really feel like Wheezy and I 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:36.520 are gonna die by doing something super kicky. She's gonna 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:40.920 drown because she wants to be said. One time, I 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:42.839 didn't say I wanted to be shoved. I don't want 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:46.599 to be like waterboarded. Oh but you want to do 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:49.560 I was having sex and my head went a little 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:53.120 bit under the water. It will be hot that we 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:58.760 have done waterboarding too. Uh yeah, now that is white people, 0:09:59.480 --> 0:10:01.679 and I really only know, like really what it is 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:03.959 as an adult because it's scandal. How did you know 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:07.199 at one point both of you with waterboarding, Like how 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.640 far you go? Did you get scared? No? All right, 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:11.880 So we did a different variation of it. So, um, 0:10:11.960 --> 0:10:13.840 one time we did an intense scene and I'm giving 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:15.920 her aftercare. Part of her aftercare is like a shower. 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.559 She loves when I washed her and bathe after a scene, 0:10:18.800 --> 0:10:21.080 so I'm like bathing her. She's all clean. I'm like, yeah, 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:22.959 my little slide is all clean now, and I'm ready. 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.640 So um, we're kissing in the shower and all of 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.040 a sudden, when I kiss, it's just something about my 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:30.719 hands that gravitate towards her throat. Next thing you know, 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:33.360 I'm choking her in the shower. Water is ready gonna 0:10:33.440 --> 0:10:35.320 through her face and just turning me on. And she's 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:41.640 She's like, so this is happening. This is happening, ending 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:44.679 up standing off, It's like, yeah, this is happening. So 0:10:44.920 --> 0:10:47.360 that became like an ongoing joke for us. Allowed Literally 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.199 every time we get into the shower together. She's like, 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:52.880 it's about to happen again. Yeah, so how long have 0:10:53.000 --> 0:10:57.040 you guys been together? Um? Almost here now? Yeah yeah, 0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:59.280 so I was I wanted to tap in on what 0:10:59.400 --> 0:11:03.120 you said about the submissive woman thing. UM. So part 0:11:03.160 --> 0:11:05.000 of like what I do is I always give people 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.439 like a consultation before they book me in. Um. A 0:11:07.480 --> 0:11:09.280 big part of that is like taking the video of 0:11:09.320 --> 0:11:11.959 some quiz while I break it down and yep, and 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:14.160 when I see, like, you know, someone that comes back 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:17.400 with like really high i'm submissive values, I automatically assume 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:20.400 not that they're a submissive women, but they tend to be, um, 0:11:20.480 --> 0:11:22.360 a person that has a lot of responsibility in their 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.599 regular life. A lot of times women who have a 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:27.240 lot on their plate, they desire to relinquish some of 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:29.360 that control when it comes home. They don't want to 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:31.000 come home and still have to be the boss and 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:33.400 take care of everything, and they want somebody to be 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:35.480 able to say, like, hey, I went above and beyond 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:37.839 to make sure this are some of those values. Some 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:42.640 of those values, uh, submissive values. So sometimes like what 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.360 I mean by that is just the desire to want 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:47.800 to like just just relinquish some of that control is 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:51.320 what I mean? Like, um, like I said, the biggest 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:53.320 misconception is that you know they're going to be submissive 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.480 in all person life. But the reality is is that 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:57.839 they just want to break. They want somebody to say 0:11:57.920 --> 0:12:00.720 like they took the time to actually plan something out, 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:04.040 you know what I mean that simply I don't like 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:08.439 we all do yes those women, But like, isn't it 0:12:08.559 --> 0:12:10.679 strange how men still can't get some of this ship together? 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.440 We always how many times you're gonna see the meme 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:15.920 that says, oh, tell her to get dressed by seven 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:17.640 o'clock and do this, man, you still don't do it. 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.959 Still don't do it. But also even even what you 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:24.679 just said outside of the bedroom, like when when it's daytime, 0:12:25.080 --> 0:12:27.120 don't ask me what I want to eat, don't ask 0:12:27.160 --> 0:12:28.719 me what I like to do. I want you to 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:30.800 just be like this is where we're going to be 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:33.280 ready at this time, I'll pick you up. Then that's 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:35.920 how simple it could even be with dating. Like I 0:12:36.080 --> 0:12:37.559 joke about it and I say it like, so what 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:39.959 I'm hearing from you is you probably wouldn't recognize it 0:12:40.000 --> 0:12:42.360 as that, but I consider in a good way. And 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:47.079 so like though brads may have like a difficult I 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:49.559 mean a rough reputation being difficult to deal with. I 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:52.000 think they just work better with people who are super attentive, 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.480 so bright to the type of people that don't want 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:56.240 to have to tell somebody what they want. They want 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:58.000 you to know them well enough to meet them wherever 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:01.200 they're love. I'm a brad. You know. They don't want 0:13:01.240 --> 0:13:03.040 to say I need my pussy aid, I'm hungry, I 0:13:03.120 --> 0:13:04.800 need a hug, get off your phone. They want they 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.480 want to just be able to act up slightly, and 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:09.320 you recognize exactly what they need because that's the type 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:11.440 of ship they do for the people they love seeing. 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:14.600 And you say I'm toxic, it's I like acting up 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:20.640 so I can get told about myself. No, not like no, No, 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:24.000 it is perst of another anyway. Wait in the b 0:13:24.080 --> 0:13:27.120 d S I'm checklist. Um, do you have any hard 0:13:27.200 --> 0:13:29.280 knows that you've shared with the sub, like whether it 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.880 be punching or something like that. Well, yeah, I'm not 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:35.320 see the thing is I as long as it does well. 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:38.120 I'm still trying to like figure out what are some 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:40.559 of my heart knows because as I'm realizing, you know, 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:44.360 I'm evolving every single day. Um. And it's not about 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:47.199 necessarily doing it the way that I've seen it on 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:49.680 TV or in a magazine. It's about doing it where 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:51.800 I feel comfortable. So if somebody were to say, like, hey, 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:53.959 I'm into punching, I'm not gonna go and try to 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:56.040 Mike Tyson them. I'm gonna start with like, you know, 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:59.400 really really really super light you know, contact and then 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:02.000 slowly up and find where I'm calling and that, so 0:14:02.480 --> 0:14:03.800 you know what I mean that that's the way that 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:06.199 I try to approach everything with the central approach. The 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:09.640 same thing with flogging, spanking, choking, centrally, do you be 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:13.240 on him? He can be very something. I want to try. 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:17.960 Golden shower. That is the shower that y'all need to take. Okay, 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:22.880 drowning man, I was to say, doing that in the 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:25.920 shower is like where I've done it, And I mean 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:30.800 clearly I've now done it in the shower on her. 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:36.560 Don't count. It's not done. I ain't making no mess, bro, 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.600 like we did that ship well the one time we 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:42.440 did it in Miami, Bro, we have we have two 0:14:42.480 --> 0:14:44.960 more days in this hotel. I'm not sleeping in PISSI 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:49.000 sheets it was COVID. They not really coming to No, 0:14:49.200 --> 0:14:51.000 I wasn't doing that. And then every other time I've 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:53.680 done it, it has been in the shower or like 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:55.520 while I was sitting on the toilet. Wait, so you 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:57.840 did do it in the bed in Miami. No, I 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:00.440 didn't do it in the bed because I still had 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:02.040 to lay in the bed for two more days. So 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:08.160 I wasn't. No, definitely not an accident yet. No. Um, well, 0:15:08.200 --> 0:15:10.480 we're gonna get into our vanilla ship before we really 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:12.720 deep dive into B D s N with their marvelous 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:16.800 and siphon. This one comes from Mirror dot Co, of course, 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:19.080 with all of the crazy ship that they have. This 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:22.640 one is about a man who had uh to undergo 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:25.960 an operation because he had an erection for two days 0:15:26.400 --> 0:15:30.280 where he thought his penis would quote unquote die. I 0:15:30.320 --> 0:15:33.440 thought it would die. Um. A man at forty one 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:35.200 I'm not gonna say his name said he was in 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:39.480 excruciating pain when it happened while on holiday. Surgeons there 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.000 eventually warned Elliott he'd never be able to have an 0:15:42.040 --> 0:15:45.680 erection again if he didn't undergo the procedure. A hole 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:48.480 was cut into the base of his penis to drain 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:52.080 out blood and finally restore it to normal size after 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:55.680 about thirty six hours of discomfort. He said, I thought 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:57.640 it would never go away. It was bigger than a 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:01.920 usual erection and wouldn't stop for robbing. I've never experienced 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:08.800 the pain like now I wanted to. I wanted the vanilla. 0:16:11.720 --> 0:16:14.360 I stopped my toe, not even kidding in March, so 0:16:14.520 --> 0:16:16.840 you know, like the part of it is black. I've 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:19.000 always wear a black nail ballos. It doesn't matter. So 0:16:19.280 --> 0:16:21.000 I asked this lady like, oh, it only got to 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:22.400 the middle of my foot, Like, how do I get 0:16:22.440 --> 0:16:24.400 the blood out? And she said, there's the way we 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.360 do it. We can drill a hole to get the 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:27.840 blood out, or you can just let it grow out 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:31.200 a girl, Yeah, you really have to drill to get 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:35.000 the ship out. But what's crazy about UM this happening? 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:37.880 While this is a rare reaction, I wanted to actually 0:16:37.920 --> 0:16:39.960 share how this happens to the man. So it's a 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:44.320 rare reaction that UM is actually coming off of pain killers. 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:48.520 UM he was taking coatinge oxy and morphine sulfate after 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:51.920 tearing a leg ligament in a skiing accident seven years ago. 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:56.400 UM and Elliott, who was childish, feared for his fertility 0:16:56.880 --> 0:17:00.200 um and he just talks about how how excruciating the 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:03.480 pain was. But basically it was coming off of all 0:17:03.520 --> 0:17:05.520 of the paint colors that he had been taken that 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:08.840 caused this rare reaction for his penis too. I guess 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:11.800 I have a lot of blood there. Um. Of course, 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:15.040 in this conversation, I wanted to make it a little lighter, 0:17:15.720 --> 0:17:18.640 but I wanted to ask you what has been your 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:27.280 longest erection? So a funny story. I umy actually remember 0:17:27.320 --> 0:17:32.199 that time my dick broke your two um? So, uh 0:17:33.040 --> 0:17:35.959 did this pass erotica that that just passed? I had 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:38.879 came across this boofoo was selling that was selling like 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:43.000 these natural erection stuff or whatever. And I'm not gonna 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:46.640 lie like it always the idea of finding something supernatural 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:48.440 that's not gonna have anything, and it's gonna like and 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:51.440 I joke that was like destroy me. That's where it 0:17:51.480 --> 0:17:53.040 really comes out. He wants to destroy me. He's like, 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:58.560 what can I take that will? Literally? So I had 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:02.600 to like this old this puposably all natural um supplement. 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:04.320 It had like a lot of things like Dr Sevy 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:08.200 had recommended I'm like, oh, I'm not recognized that. I 0:18:09.119 --> 0:18:16.840 recognized that. That seems good, that's had something. Yeah, everything 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:19.639 I was on um. I was on a medium swoll 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:22.639 for like three days. Then it was really good, but 0:18:22.720 --> 0:18:26.440 I had the only headache I had. I had the 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:30.840 only headache and I will never take that again. And yeah, 0:18:33.760 --> 0:18:37.080 how many hours in did you start googling? I didn't 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:39.040 need to start going And I recognized it because I 0:18:39.119 --> 0:18:41.080 did try LAG in the past, you know what I mean, 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:43.480 just to give it a trial, like even and I'm 0:18:43.520 --> 0:18:45.080 pretty sure a lot of men will agree, like even 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:46.920 when you have a working dick, you still want super 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:49.040 dick for some reason, Like who doesn't want to dick 0:18:49.160 --> 0:18:51.760 that doesn't go down when whenever you wanted to be up? 0:18:51.920 --> 0:18:53.720 So I had tried it a few things, so I 0:18:53.840 --> 0:18:55.680 was like, I recognize this headache. I know exactly what 0:18:55.760 --> 0:18:57.320 it is. This ain't a natural as they say it is, 0:18:58.160 --> 0:18:59.960 Like that makes you think I think I love my wife. 0:19:00.000 --> 0:19:04.880 Do you remember that scene when Chris Rock Oh, yes, 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:06.959 and he took the viagrah and they had to call 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:12.080 an ambulance and like, I don't know, I'm not gonna 0:19:12.160 --> 0:19:15.240 front I do kind of like when dudes take enhancements 0:19:15.280 --> 0:19:18.440 because it's crazy hard. That's why I don't want you 0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:20.920 to feel sick. I brought up my men to where 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:24.840 my ex was taking beat juice was like so healthy, 0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:28.240 so healthy, but like when we had when we had 0:19:28.320 --> 0:19:29.960 sex to dick would get right back up and we 0:19:29.960 --> 0:19:32.119 would go out it again and again, like maybe he 0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:36.240 had that it was he said it was the beach. 0:19:37.520 --> 0:19:41.159 Beach is good for your blood. That's it's blood flow, right, 0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:43.280 can change your diet to make that work out, But 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:45.200 you got to be consistent, that's the problem, and not 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:47.560 consistent that you think you can just like I'm not 0:19:47.560 --> 0:19:49.800 gonna front I have a great three day health do 0:19:49.880 --> 0:19:52.240 y'all do this Where it's like he said, you have 0:19:52.280 --> 0:19:54.680 to remain consistent, I'd be like, oh man, just to 0:19:54.760 --> 0:19:56.720 watch a pineapple juicey get my pussy right, I'll just 0:19:57.160 --> 0:19:59.040 great little fruity diet and then if I'm not gonna 0:19:59.040 --> 0:20:00.480 get a dick for a while, I'll be like about 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:04.000 my diet pertains to sex. If i think I'm getting 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:06.560 chunky AA for other whisper nigga, I hate you so 0:20:06.680 --> 0:20:16.159 much it should be for your help. All right, Well, 0:20:16.240 --> 0:20:19.840 let's get into the hor derve. So the horde derve 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:22.440 is going to be both of you guys talking. Again. 0:20:22.800 --> 0:20:25.040 We have things on the table, but I really want 0:20:25.080 --> 0:20:27.920 to get into some sex tips. That is what this 0:20:28.200 --> 0:20:32.080 UM segment is. And so I want sex tips from 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:35.600