Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to yet another episode of Harvard Bled. This is
Speaker 1: Young Weasy got on me about not dropping my case,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna give it to you motherfucker's this week.
Speaker 1: This is your girl, Mandy b a k A pitt
Speaker 1: standing a k A debt bitch a k A full
Speaker 1: core pumps a k A Peggan Marko a k A
Speaker 1: uh Mandy Baskins a k A hid you, daddies, That
Speaker 1: was Neal Basket might see you. She's about to sooner.
Speaker 1: Now I'm Mandy Baskins, but she don't own that last name.
Speaker 1: She well, I'm weezy f lady. We have two guests here.
Speaker 1: We have another couple in the building, um, which I
Speaker 1: think we love having couples on the specially. I think
Speaker 1: they had a bad couple of I don't think couples
Speaker 1: are harder to come by, but I think the only couple.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, the one that wanted to remove their video
Speaker 1: from YouTube. Okay, but no audio wise, that episode was fired, Like, no,
Speaker 1: that was a great episode. Yeah, it was a great episode,
Speaker 1: but she just so And this is why I talked
Speaker 1: to our couple today and I was like, all right,
Speaker 1: so y'all know we kind of popping right. So if
Speaker 1: you have a real job, which a lot of us
Speaker 1: host do, let us know because your parents, your siblings,
Speaker 1: your co workers, your bosses will find you. UM. Well
Speaker 1: we'll see what all the kinky stuff here into UM.
Speaker 1: But without further ado, I want to introduce our guest today.
Speaker 1: We have So Marvelous who is a prodom and we
Speaker 1: are joined today by his sub siphon UM. I'm super
Speaker 1: excited about this conversation because this is a dynamic that
Speaker 1: Wheezy and I actually recently spoke about on our Patreon
Speaker 1: UM when we were talking about so okay girl, do
Speaker 1: not I mean what we do. We were talking about
Speaker 1: RT Kelly nothing like the thing ever the conversations them from.
Speaker 1: We were watching UM and this is probably not gonna
Speaker 1: make it sound any better, but we were watching the Deuce,
Speaker 1: which is the sex goal on next UM. And the
Speaker 1: thing that I was talking about, more so with even
Speaker 1: R Kelly, was the adults that chose to partake in
Speaker 1: those type of subdom relations with with with R Kelly,
Speaker 1: all especially being that my homegirl was one of those
Speaker 1: girls that dealt with him and she let me know, girl,
Speaker 1: I signed up for that, and it was did she
Speaker 1: get what she wanted out of it? She? Oh, she
Speaker 1: said she wanted to write the Nigga in jail, but
Speaker 1: she knows he can't read the letter. Like she is
Speaker 1: still for like, I mean, a lot of the women
Speaker 1: that she even met, she was like, we knew what
Speaker 1: was going anyways, by the way, it wasn't about I
Speaker 1: finally watched that documentary. I couldn't bring myself to watch
Speaker 1: it because I thought it would be too triggering for me,
Speaker 1: with like violence and ship and Mandy was saying like, oh,
Speaker 1: everybody was complicit, but a lot of the women on there,
Speaker 1: the reason I couldn't really respect it as a dumb
Speaker 1: and sub relationship is because most of them were so
Speaker 1: young and it was so much manipulation that it made
Speaker 1: it hard to look at it as his real kink.
Speaker 1: And then they kept using his molestation and different things
Speaker 1: that happened in his life as an excuse for him
Speaker 1: having certain sexual fetishes and right, and that also is
Speaker 1: a problematic thing too, because it's just like, so we're
Speaker 1: all just sucked up in the hand because we want
Speaker 1: to get slapped. Well, That's why I enjoy conversations like this.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times people assume that when
Speaker 1: you're into some level of b D s M, that
Speaker 1: it stems from some traumatic experience. And so I love
Speaker 1: that we have these conversations where it's like, nah, I
Speaker 1: do it because this is actually what I do like
Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to pull something out of my childhood.
Speaker 1: This is genuinely something that pleases me. So I guess
Speaker 1: let's start off a little bit because, Um, in introducing yourself,
Speaker 1: I would love for you to explain how you are
Speaker 1: essential prodom and how you bring sensuality to b DS. Yeah.
Speaker 1: A big part of what I do is I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to teach people that b D s M doesn't
Speaker 1: have to be as rough and painful as people perceive
Speaker 1: it to be. A lot of times, when you like,
Speaker 1: even if you were to google b D s M
Speaker 1: right now, you're gonna see what a lot of people
Speaker 1: would say, is like white people should like I'm not
Speaker 1: necessarily into that. Not saying me, I'm saying, molt. The
Speaker 1: average person is looking and looking at it and saying,
Speaker 1: you know, that's not my cup of tea, so to speak. Um,
Speaker 1: so I try to show people that there are more
Speaker 1: pleasurable sides to it, Like you don't have to do
Speaker 1: everything so hard and so fast. You can start with
Speaker 1: central massages. You can talk with affirmations, like even when
Speaker 1: I'm spanking people, I'm giving them affirmations throughout that throughout
Speaker 1: that experience. You know what I mean, Um, you can't
Speaker 1: sit son is a bit hard affirmation you can well,
Speaker 1: let me let me ask you that. Because for those
Speaker 1: of you watching on our YouTube channel, you may see
Speaker 1: he has a lot of things here on the table.
Speaker 1: So we have the leather flogs that we've introduced, and
Speaker 1: weezy thing is spiked that don't look there. There is
Speaker 1: a spiked flogging. There's rope for bondage, and we also
Speaker 1: have looks like a lighter. We'll talk about fireplay later
Speaker 1: as well. But I guess get into what things do
Speaker 1: you see that would be white people ship and how
Speaker 1: have you turned that into sensual domination. Well, I don't
Speaker 1: identify let me be clear, I don't identify it as
Speaker 1: like white people ship. But that's like what you hear
Speaker 1: a lot of people say, like, especially like people of color.
Speaker 1: They like I try to google b D S m
Speaker 1: and when I saw it, I was like I saw
Speaker 1: people in garbage bags, and guy, I'm not into that.
Speaker 1: But um, I just try to show people, for example,
Speaker 1: like these floggings right here. Absolutely I can flog somebody heart,
Speaker 1: but usually when I start with someone that is totally new,
Speaker 1: I'm going to start by just dragging it across their
Speaker 1: skin so they can feel the sensation. A lot of
Speaker 1: what we're doing an impact player, especially me, is about
Speaker 1: providing different sensations. Um with the tools that I'm using,
Speaker 1: even the spiky uh flogger that you see right there, Um,
Speaker 1: if you touch it, what you I suggest that you do?
Speaker 1: Now you're realized it's not like it's not what you
Speaker 1: think it's it's about intimidation. I thought, yeah, actually exactly
Speaker 1: what I thought. But yeah, and what I do with
Speaker 1: that is I'm going to drive that across somebody's skin.
Speaker 1: Or I can do that. Yeah, so okay, I'll be honest.
Speaker 1: It doesn't feel as bad, but I can see like
Speaker 1: running on someone's skin. So a lot of times what
Speaker 1: I'll do is I'll put that in like some ice,
Speaker 1: so I might put it this in warm water. I'll
Speaker 1: blindfold somebody, tie them up. You don't have them on
Speaker 1: my table as I drag it slowly across their skin,
Speaker 1: And that is a different type of sensation. You know,
Speaker 1: when you couple things with like sensory deprivation, it makes
Speaker 1: everything a lot more heightened, especially when you got somebody
Speaker 1: talking dirty in you, so you know it's I don't
Speaker 1: hold you. He loves to uh role place. So we're
Speaker 1: gonna have to hear some of those dirty times his
Speaker 1: girls here because I have, like, what did you say?
Speaker 1: I have like a basic four line. I'm really bad at.
Speaker 1: Like sometimes I just be like yes and no, and
Speaker 1: that's what you got. Would you say it? Like? Yeah? No.
Speaker 1: She hates when I really get into my sex voice,
Speaker 1: but I think it's cute or whatever. Um well, we're
Speaker 1: gonna super dive into what a prodom is, but I
Speaker 1: do before we get into the vanilla ship, I want
Speaker 1: to talk to you about being a sub Now. A
Speaker 1: lot of women, especially inter hetero sexual relationships, show up
Speaker 1: feeling as though they have to be submissive in a
Speaker 1: lot of in a lot of relationships. So I want
Speaker 1: to know what really identifies you as a sub more
Speaker 1: than it does just being a submissive woman in a
Speaker 1: heterosexual relationship. I got you on that. So I am
Speaker 1: not a submissive woman at all at all, in any way,
Speaker 1: shape or form. That's because this man right here special
Speaker 1: powers and it was just one night that I needed
Speaker 1: to know that he was worthy of my submission. And
Speaker 1: for me, the submission is more about it's my opportunity
Speaker 1: to stop being in charge of everything. It's it's me
Speaker 1: being able to just free form and just be more childlike,
Speaker 1: more playful. I'm eager to please. I love knowing that,
Speaker 1: like he's turned on and he's excited and I and
Speaker 1: I'm there to help him, like reach whatever depths he
Speaker 1: wants to reach. Like that to me is like like
Speaker 1: if I get something out of him, I'm just like, yes,
Speaker 1: keep doing this. I'm gonna keep doing this whatever he wants.
Speaker 1: But I love to serve him and I love to
Speaker 1: make him comfortable. And why don't know, I just want
Speaker 1: to start singing. Let me get to see you. On Twitter,
Speaker 1: somebody was like, there's no way in hell that a
Speaker 1: woman like listen to these lyrics we were singing it
Speaker 1: if the team were like, who would really live their
Speaker 1: life like this your dinner, You're this, doing this and that,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, but but what you just said rings
Speaker 1: to what my last relationship just was. Um and I
Speaker 1: talked about how I didn't know like I was showing
Speaker 1: up to him so differently than I before, Like I'm
Speaker 1: pegging the motherfucker's salient. So even though I'm dominant in
Speaker 1: my workplace and a lot of my friendships and when
Speaker 1: I walk in, when I walk into a room, I
Speaker 1: still demanded I did bring that into the bedroom until
Speaker 1: my last partner, who I just trusted so much, and
Speaker 1: I knew he was aiming to please me that I
Speaker 1: wanted to do the same, And a lot of that
Speaker 1: had to do with not only submission but trust. UM.
Speaker 1: So when it came to like the pillowcases, the choking,
Speaker 1: it really had to be like, oh, okay, I trust you.
Speaker 1: I trust you, and that's all I know. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna die because I really feel like Wheezy and I
Speaker 1: are gonna die by doing something super kicky. She's gonna
Speaker 1: drown because she wants to be said. One time, I
Speaker 1: didn't say I wanted to be shoved. I don't want
Speaker 1: to be like waterboarded. Oh but you want to do
Speaker 1: I was having sex and my head went a little
Speaker 1: bit under the water. It will be hot that we
Speaker 1: have done waterboarding too. Uh yeah, now that is white people,
Speaker 1: and I really only know, like really what it is
Speaker 1: as an adult because it's scandal. How did you know
Speaker 1: at one point both of you with waterboarding, Like how
Speaker 1: far you go? Did you get scared? No? All right,
Speaker 1: So we did a different variation of it. So, um,
Speaker 1: one time we did an intense scene and I'm giving
Speaker 1: her aftercare. Part of her aftercare is like a shower.
Speaker 1: She loves when I washed her and bathe after a scene,
Speaker 1: so I'm like bathing her. She's all clean. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: my little slide is all clean now, and I'm ready.
Speaker 1: So um, we're kissing in the shower and all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, when I kiss, it's just something about my
Speaker 1: hands that gravitate towards her throat. Next thing you know,
Speaker 1: I'm choking her in the shower. Water is ready gonna
Speaker 1: through her face and just turning me on. And she's
Speaker 1: She's like, so this is happening. This is happening, ending
Speaker 1: up standing off, It's like, yeah, this is happening. So
Speaker 1: that became like an ongoing joke for us. Allowed Literally
Speaker 1: every time we get into the shower together. She's like,
Speaker 1: it's about to happen again. Yeah, so how long have
Speaker 1: you guys been together? Um? Almost here now? Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: so I was I wanted to tap in on what
Speaker 1: you said about the submissive woman thing. UM. So part
Speaker 1: of like what I do is I always give people
Speaker 1: like a consultation before they book me in. Um. A
Speaker 1: big part of that is like taking the video of
Speaker 1: some quiz while I break it down and yep, and
Speaker 1: when I see, like, you know, someone that comes back
Speaker 1: with like really high i'm submissive values, I automatically assume
Speaker 1: not that they're a submissive women, but they tend to be, um,
Speaker 1: a person that has a lot of responsibility in their
Speaker 1: regular life. A lot of times women who have a
Speaker 1: lot on their plate, they desire to relinquish some of
Speaker 1: that control when it comes home. They don't want to
Speaker 1: come home and still have to be the boss and
Speaker 1: take care of everything, and they want somebody to be
Speaker 1: able to say, like, hey, I went above and beyond
Speaker 1: to make sure this are some of those values. Some
Speaker 1: of those values, uh, submissive values. So sometimes like what
Speaker 1: I mean by that is just the desire to want
Speaker 1: to like just just relinquish some of that control is
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, um, like I said, the biggest
Speaker 1: misconception is that you know they're going to be submissive
Speaker 1: in all person life. But the reality is is that
Speaker 1: they just want to break. They want somebody to say
Speaker 1: like they took the time to actually plan something out,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean that simply I don't like
Speaker 1: we all do yes those women, But like, isn't it
Speaker 1: strange how men still can't get some of this ship together?
Speaker 1: We always how many times you're gonna see the meme
Speaker 1: that says, oh, tell her to get dressed by seven
Speaker 1: o'clock and do this, man, you still don't do it.
Speaker 1: Still don't do it. But also even even what you
Speaker 1: just said outside of the bedroom, like when when it's daytime,
Speaker 1: don't ask me what I want to eat, don't ask
Speaker 1: me what I like to do. I want you to
Speaker 1: just be like this is where we're going to be
Speaker 1: ready at this time, I'll pick you up. Then that's
Speaker 1: how simple it could even be with dating. Like I
Speaker 1: joke about it and I say it like, so what
Speaker 1: I'm hearing from you is you probably wouldn't recognize it
Speaker 1: as that, but I consider in a good way. And
Speaker 1: so like though brads may have like a difficult I
Speaker 1: mean a rough reputation being difficult to deal with. I
Speaker 1: think they just work better with people who are super attentive,
Speaker 1: so bright to the type of people that don't want
Speaker 1: to have to tell somebody what they want. They want
Speaker 1: you to know them well enough to meet them wherever
Speaker 1: they're love. I'm a brad. You know. They don't want
Speaker 1: to say I need my pussy aid, I'm hungry, I
Speaker 1: need a hug, get off your phone. They want they
Speaker 1: want to just be able to act up slightly, and
Speaker 1: you recognize exactly what they need because that's the type
Speaker 1: of ship they do for the people they love seeing.
Speaker 1: And you say I'm toxic, it's I like acting up
Speaker 1: so I can get told about myself. No, not like no, No,
Speaker 1: it is perst of another anyway. Wait in the b
Speaker 1: d S I'm checklist. Um, do you have any hard
Speaker 1: knows that you've shared with the sub, like whether it
Speaker 1: be punching or something like that. Well, yeah, I'm not
Speaker 1: see the thing is I as long as it does well.
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to like figure out what are some
Speaker 1: of my heart knows because as I'm realizing, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm evolving every single day. Um. And it's not about
Speaker 1: necessarily doing it the way that I've seen it on
Speaker 1: TV or in a magazine. It's about doing it where
Speaker 1: I feel comfortable. So if somebody were to say, like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm into punching, I'm not gonna go and try to
Speaker 1: Mike Tyson them. I'm gonna start with like, you know,
Speaker 1: really really really super light you know, contact and then
Speaker 1: slowly up and find where I'm calling and that, so
Speaker 1: you know what I mean that that's the way that
Speaker 1: I try to approach everything with the central approach. The
Speaker 1: same thing with flogging, spanking, choking, centrally, do you be
Speaker 1: on him? He can be very something. I want to try.
Speaker 1: Golden shower. That is the shower that y'all need to take. Okay,
Speaker 1: drowning man, I was to say, doing that in the
Speaker 1: shower is like where I've done it, And I mean
Speaker 1: clearly I've now done it in the shower on her.
Speaker 1: Don't count. It's not done. I ain't making no mess, bro,
Speaker 1: like we did that ship well the one time we
Speaker 1: did it in Miami, Bro, we have we have two
Speaker 1: more days in this hotel. I'm not sleeping in PISSI
Speaker 1: sheets it was COVID. They not really coming to No,
Speaker 1: I wasn't doing that. And then every other time I've
Speaker 1: done it, it has been in the shower or like
Speaker 1: while I was sitting on the toilet. Wait, so you
Speaker 1: did do it in the bed in Miami. No, I
Speaker 1: didn't do it in the bed because I still had
Speaker 1: to lay in the bed for two more days. So
Speaker 1: I wasn't. No, definitely not an accident yet. No. Um, well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into our vanilla ship before we really
Speaker 1: deep dive into B D s N with their marvelous
Speaker 1: and siphon. This one comes from Mirror dot Co, of course,
Speaker 1: with all of the crazy ship that they have. This
Speaker 1: one is about a man who had uh to undergo
Speaker 1: an operation because he had an erection for two days
Speaker 1: where he thought his penis would quote unquote die. I
Speaker 1: thought it would die. Um. A man at forty one
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say his name said he was in
Speaker 1: excruciating pain when it happened while on holiday. Surgeons there
Speaker 1: eventually warned Elliott he'd never be able to have an
Speaker 1: erection again if he didn't undergo the procedure. A hole
Speaker 1: was cut into the base of his penis to drain
Speaker 1: out blood and finally restore it to normal size after
Speaker 1: about thirty six hours of discomfort. He said, I thought
Speaker 1: it would never go away. It was bigger than a
Speaker 1: usual erection and wouldn't stop for robbing. I've never experienced
Speaker 1: the pain like now I wanted to. I wanted the vanilla.
Speaker 1: I stopped my toe, not even kidding in March, so
Speaker 1: you know, like the part of it is black. I've
Speaker 1: always wear a black nail ballos. It doesn't matter. So
Speaker 1: I asked this lady like, oh, it only got to
Speaker 1: the middle of my foot, Like, how do I get
Speaker 1: the blood out? And she said, there's the way we
Speaker 1: do it. We can drill a hole to get the
Speaker 1: blood out, or you can just let it grow out
Speaker 1: a girl, Yeah, you really have to drill to get
Speaker 1: the ship out. But what's crazy about UM this happening?
Speaker 1: While this is a rare reaction, I wanted to actually
Speaker 1: share how this happens to the man. So it's a
Speaker 1: rare reaction that UM is actually coming off of pain killers.
Speaker 1: UM he was taking coatinge oxy and morphine sulfate after
Speaker 1: tearing a leg ligament in a skiing accident seven years ago.
Speaker 1: UM and Elliott, who was childish, feared for his fertility
Speaker 1: um and he just talks about how how excruciating the
Speaker 1: pain was. But basically it was coming off of all
Speaker 1: of the paint colors that he had been taken that
Speaker 1: caused this rare reaction for his penis too. I guess
Speaker 1: I have a lot of blood there. Um. Of course,
Speaker 1: in this conversation, I wanted to make it a little lighter,
Speaker 1: but I wanted to ask you what has been your
Speaker 1: longest erection? So a funny story. I umy actually remember
Speaker 1: that time my dick broke your two um? So, uh
Speaker 1: did this pass erotica that that just passed? I had
Speaker 1: came across this boofoo was selling that was selling like
Speaker 1: these natural erection stuff or whatever. And I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie like it always the idea of finding something supernatural
Speaker 1: that's not gonna have anything, and it's gonna like and
Speaker 1: I joke that was like destroy me. That's where it
Speaker 1: really comes out. He wants to destroy me. He's like,
Speaker 1: what can I take that will? Literally? So I had
Speaker 1: to like this old this puposably all natural um supplement.
Speaker 1: It had like a lot of things like Dr Sevy
Speaker 1: had recommended I'm like, oh, I'm not recognized that. I
Speaker 1: recognized that. That seems good, that's had something. Yeah, everything
Speaker 1: I was on um. I was on a medium swoll
Speaker 1: for like three days. Then it was really good, but
Speaker 1: I had the only headache I had. I had the
Speaker 1: only headache and I will never take that again. And yeah,
Speaker 1: how many hours in did you start googling? I didn't
Speaker 1: need to start going And I recognized it because I
Speaker 1: did try LAG in the past, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: just to give it a trial, like even and I'm
Speaker 1: pretty sure a lot of men will agree, like even
Speaker 1: when you have a working dick, you still want super
Speaker 1: dick for some reason, Like who doesn't want to dick
Speaker 1: that doesn't go down when whenever you wanted to be up?
Speaker 1: So I had tried it a few things, so I
Speaker 1: was like, I recognize this headache. I know exactly what
Speaker 1: it is. This ain't a natural as they say it is,
Speaker 1: Like that makes you think I think I love my wife.
Speaker 1: Do you remember that scene when Chris Rock Oh, yes,
Speaker 1: and he took the viagrah and they had to call
Speaker 1: an ambulance and like, I don't know, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: front I do kind of like when dudes take enhancements
Speaker 1: because it's crazy hard. That's why I don't want you
Speaker 1: to feel sick. I brought up my men to where
Speaker 1: my ex was taking beat juice was like so healthy,
Speaker 1: so healthy, but like when we had when we had
Speaker 1: sex to dick would get right back up and we
Speaker 1: would go out it again and again, like maybe he
Speaker 1: had that it was he said it was the beach.
Speaker 1: Beach is good for your blood. That's it's blood flow, right,
Speaker 1: can change your diet to make that work out, But
Speaker 1: you got to be consistent, that's the problem, and not
Speaker 1: consistent that you think you can just like I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna front I have a great three day health do
Speaker 1: y'all do this Where it's like he said, you have
Speaker 1: to remain consistent, I'd be like, oh man, just to
Speaker 1: watch a pineapple juicey get my pussy right, I'll just
Speaker 1: great little fruity diet and then if I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: get a dick for a while, I'll be like about
Speaker 1: my diet pertains to sex. If i think I'm getting
Speaker 1: chunky AA for other whisper nigga, I hate you so
Speaker 1: much it should be for your help. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: let's get into the hor derve. So the horde derve
Speaker 1: is going to be both of you guys talking. Again.
Speaker 1: We have things on the table, but I really want
Speaker 1: to get into some sex tips. That is what this
Speaker 1: UM segment is. And so I want sex tips from
Speaker 1: you as a prodom and sex tips for you as
Speaker 1: a sub in both communication and um, let's do in
Speaker 1: and out of the bedroom. So I would like a
Speaker 1: sex tip from you first, and we'll start in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: What is the tip that you would give to other
Speaker 1: men or women who take the dom role in the bedroom? Okay? UM,
Speaker 1: My number one thing that I would say that I've
Speaker 1: taken from B d s M is UM debriefing after
Speaker 1: every experience. So um, I like to do it in
Speaker 1: four different quantries. Anybody has ever had a session, you know,
Speaker 1: I always ask, hey, what was your favorite part about
Speaker 1: what just took place? Usually it's a session, of course, um,
Speaker 1: but even when we have sex, I'm like, what was
Speaker 1: your favorite part of it? What was your least favorite part?
Speaker 1: Was something you wish would have happened more, you would
Speaker 1: want more of in the future, and with something that
Speaker 1: you can do without. And before the conversation I was having,
Speaker 1: after all the things, but compound tips to make sure
Speaker 1: that you established a safe space for this conversation before
Speaker 1: it happens, because a lot of times, you you know,
Speaker 1: people be in a joking mood and they don't want
Speaker 1: to have a serious conversation. But you should be able
Speaker 1: to be honest with a person because you know, and
Speaker 1: I posted on my Instagram like, women tend to be
Speaker 1: able to take more criticism when it comes to sex,
Speaker 1: but men, they get right into their feelings or words.
Speaker 1: So go find somebody else with this. And now if
Speaker 1: you want all of them, like bro like, what you
Speaker 1: can do is you can cater her experience so exactly
Speaker 1: what she wants, so every single time is getting better
Speaker 1: and better. And if you should. You know, you don't
Speaker 1: have to do it every single time you have sex,
Speaker 1: but try to do it as much as you can
Speaker 1: every time you've done that with an experience, whether it
Speaker 1: be sex, whether it be a B D S M scene,
Speaker 1: debrief about it, talk about your favorite part, least favorite part,
Speaker 1: what you want more of in the future, and if
Speaker 1: it kills your ego. Just a tip out there. I
Speaker 1: would at least say this if someone is having terrible
Speaker 1: sex with me, I'm not giving them tips. I'm done.
Speaker 1: But if I like having sex with you and I
Speaker 1: have like a small improvement you like, trust me. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying it. In the last bist doesn't when you
Speaker 1: said that, I was trying to think, but you're right.
Speaker 1: Like to me, when I give criticism, it's because I
Speaker 1: really enjoy having sex with you and I want it
Speaker 1: to be better. I want us to both feel like
Speaker 1: it's better each time we have sex. If it's wet,
Speaker 1: we just never criticisah. And if it just came up
Speaker 1: out of nowhere all of a sudden, it's like, why
Speaker 1: did they do that? I don't like that. It's because
Speaker 1: they were trying something new because they wanted to surprise you.
Speaker 1: So it's like, let me just kind of, you know,
Speaker 1: say hey, I know you tried that. That was different.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure how much I really like. Okay, So
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, as a sub, give a sex tip
Speaker 1: to other subs. Listening sex tips to other subs. So,
Speaker 1: I mean everyone's sexual relationship with their dominant, don't get nervous.
Speaker 1: Everyone's relationship with their is very specific, right, Um, So
Speaker 1: it really depends on your kinks. I enjoy just being
Speaker 1: ravage being taken having zero control over what happens. You wanted,
Speaker 1: no problem, We're doing this. It's good. But I would
Speaker 1: say as a sub, it's communicating your desires. Something that
Speaker 1: we did early on was talking about the kind of
Speaker 1: porn we watch like because that that if it's getting
Speaker 1: me off, then it's something that interests me. So by
Speaker 1: sharing that, some people are kind of ashamed to like
Speaker 1: share there. It took me first. It took me forever
Speaker 1: to share with especially once I was like, well, I
Speaker 1: really like you like It took forever to share with
Speaker 1: him that I liked watching two men fuck, I watched
Speaker 1: gay Man. Yeah, And so he was like in the bed, like, well,
Speaker 1: let me see what you watched. And I was like,
Speaker 1: you ain't even you all want to see this. You
Speaker 1: don't want to see what gets me off. But I
Speaker 1: think that that start a conversation like well, why do
Speaker 1: you like it? And I told him too it had
Speaker 1: to do with the cleanliness. I feel like, um, there
Speaker 1: are a lot more sensual in gay porn. So men moan,
Speaker 1: men kiss their Buddha holes, be shaven and clean like
Speaker 1: straight sex, be a little rough. Like at first when
Speaker 1: you said more essential in gay porn I was like, no,
Speaker 1: but also I think it's just but no, No, I
Speaker 1: watched gay porn too. I think it's because we're watching
Speaker 1: porn be so rough against women. I don't think like
Speaker 1: my gay friends are never telling me about the most
Speaker 1: central sex they're having. But I think gay men like
Speaker 1: make kiss and they're not thinking about it. But we
Speaker 1: just rarely see kissing in porn. It is saying like
Speaker 1: how rough. I mean, I like watching rough sex I
Speaker 1: porn because I really watched porn for the novelty of
Speaker 1: it um, but it is kind of annoying sometimes where
Speaker 1: it's like god damn. I kind of like when the
Speaker 1: camera goes to the girl and I see her own
Speaker 1: like and you'll see even comments sometimes where it's like,
Speaker 1: oh she enjoys this. That's the most funny part to
Speaker 1: me about sex is that men are so focused on
Speaker 1: themselves and porn or fucking you know, high five and
Speaker 1: the other nigger in a gang bank. When all the
Speaker 1: comments that you'll see when a bitch is like really
Speaker 1: good at her jobs, Oh she loves it, that's what
Speaker 1: we want to see. We don't want to see you
Speaker 1: being like okay. So what I would recommend this is
Speaker 1: a good plug. Black Touch. Have you are you familiar
Speaker 1: with that company? Black Not Touch b B LK touch
Speaker 1: dot com. We have a scene on there. Um and
Speaker 1: they specialized well, he specializes and showing real sensuality and porn.
Speaker 1: It's an old black owned company. UM, and it's really good,
Speaker 1: very well done, very taste. It's it's it's it's totally
Speaker 1: different than anything you'll see on porn hub or x videos.
Speaker 1: And I'm about to check out for like two minutes.
Speaker 1: Get into outside of the bedroom. Is this dumb sub
Speaker 1: relationships still active outside of the bedroom. She's the boss
Speaker 1: outside of the bedroom. She's the boss outside, so outside yes?
Speaker 1: And how does how does this switch on and off
Speaker 1: with when you guys know you're relinquishing power to each other.
Speaker 1: Is it only in the sex space, because clearly you
Speaker 1: guys do a lot of things outside of Recently, I
Speaker 1: just I just discovered um and this is crazy to
Speaker 1: a minute, I just realized that I am a switch
Speaker 1: right um, but only for her. And I say that
Speaker 1: because you know, um, something that I deep down desires
Speaker 1: someone to help me remain more organized. Like I'm really
Speaker 1: good at performing and showing up and doing my thing.
Speaker 1: But it's the behind the scenes stuff that I struggle with,
Speaker 1: if I'm allowed to be honest. So I realized that
Speaker 1: she's super good with those things. And I'm like, Babe,
Speaker 1: when we're not doing the show, when we're not doing
Speaker 1: the scene, where we're not fucking, when we're not you know,
Speaker 1: presenting ourselves, I would love for you to tell me
Speaker 1: what to do and and keep me on, keep me,
Speaker 1: hold me accountable for those things, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And she does a really good job with that, like, hey,
Speaker 1: did you send an email, did you make sure you
Speaker 1: work out, did you you know, to contact the school,
Speaker 1: the kids, teachers or whatever the case be. Just making
Speaker 1: sure that, like I'm I'm you know, keeping on it
Speaker 1: up and up and that that that turns me on.
Speaker 1: So I mean, when you said you like the switch,
Speaker 1: at first, I was really thinking, like having a girlfriend
Speaker 1: that's girlfriend she well, I mean, but she she can't
Speaker 1: tap me when I when I when I don't do
Speaker 1: what I want to do, because um, you know that
Speaker 1: ission within the limits of he's willing to do what
Speaker 1: is topping within limits because I know how I'll be topping.
Speaker 1: I don't think you talking about riding because I was
Speaker 1: not technical that that well, talking is a BDS term,
Speaker 1: right like the b D s M. Excuse me when
Speaker 1: we say top and bottom generally on this show, you guys,
Speaker 1: do hear I say top and bottom? What I'm talking about, um,
Speaker 1: gay sex or an't no sex or whatever strapping up?
Speaker 1: But a top in D s M can be a
Speaker 1: term used for the dom, right, you can. It's interchangeable,
Speaker 1: but I think we just normally say it. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: are you I am cub Yeah, and you're Latina to
Speaker 1: Puerto Rican. I love PoCA ts Madicine, what man my
Speaker 1: new favorite clip on Internet. Ts Madiicine puts this wig
Speaker 1: on and she said, oh I feel like a porter
Speaker 1: reckon in that. And then she goes someone which is
Speaker 1: that's Mexicans. Many look at you knowing that I know
Speaker 1: we're Selenda. She was j Lo is a Puto Rican
Speaker 1: and the Mexican community was upset. I mean, I'll be
Speaker 1: real when I mean I saw the clipping, this is it.
Speaker 1: She was a Mexican. Oh damn, I wish we could
Speaker 1: hear it is not Oh my god, but uh, keep
Speaker 1: she's really getting this with j Lo a motown what
Speaker 1: she was saying in Motown and I'm I'll take it
Speaker 1: to go CCS Madison. Um, well, let's go ahead and
Speaker 1: get into it them. We are going to get into
Speaker 1: the sensual side of B D S M. However, I
Speaker 1: want to start this conversation off for anyone black listening,
Speaker 1: any person of color listening who is just like I
Speaker 1: know of this to be white people ship. So how
Speaker 1: do I introduce this to the people that I'm dating?
Speaker 1: And I asked that because I would love to know
Speaker 1: both of y'all's experience with being introduced to B D
Speaker 1: S M um, and how you've then been able to
Speaker 1: introduce it to your partners moving forward that you've been dating. So,
Speaker 1: as a dumb I guess, um, a lot of men
Speaker 1: that I've dated, especially black men, they assumed to just
Speaker 1: that they're doms because they run ship there, man, and
Speaker 1: they're gonna fuck you till you tired type of ship.
Speaker 1: So how did you how were you able to differentiate
Speaker 1: how you showed up as a DOM in the bedroom
Speaker 1: that was not just I'm in charge of the bedroom. Well, um,
Speaker 1: I'll take time to educate myself every day, like listening
Speaker 1: to the horrible decision, I literally wake up. I'm a
Speaker 1: huge nerd. I'm a huge nerd. I was. I was
Speaker 1: spending last last night learning about different hormones that are
Speaker 1: released from the brain, um, you know during sexual like
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get us. It's it's really it's a
Speaker 1: lot of science that that is evolved. I'm involved in
Speaker 1: b D s M and when you take time to
Speaker 1: understand it, like something that we're gonna do. Fireplay, which
Speaker 1: I always tell people to me, is like the epitome
Speaker 1: of what b D s M is to me. Like,
Speaker 1: you know, us as black Fold, we don't play run
Speaker 1: no fire, we don't specially around their hair and like,
Speaker 1: but when you take the time to understand what fireplay
Speaker 1: is why the temperature doesn't burn so hot that since
Speaker 1: station it gives you the reason it may make you
Speaker 1: feel aroused or potentially bring about orgasm, You're like, wow,
Speaker 1: imagine all the other things that I was afraid to
Speaker 1: try that you know that I didn't And you know
Speaker 1: that's that's basically what it represents for me. So I'm
Speaker 1: always constantly looking for something new that I can try
Speaker 1: to add to the list of things that I want
Speaker 1: to you know, explore in the bedroom. But more importantly
Speaker 1: is I think it's just the fact that I'm like
Speaker 1: a super active communicator, Like I'm always putting her onto
Speaker 1: something that I'm watching that I wanted to try. We're
Speaker 1: going to discuss it in and lengthen, and in fact,
Speaker 1: like we we have an ongoing joke, like we're always
Speaker 1: negotiating our next scene, because anytime I bring her bring
Speaker 1: up something, she's like, I know where this is going.
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about this for about a week. We're
Speaker 1: gonna try it next week. I wanted to ask that
Speaker 1: was he your first person to introduce you to this
Speaker 1: side of VideA something or did you have a partner
Speaker 1: before him that was into all of this. I have
Speaker 1: never had a dom before. However, um, when I entered
Speaker 1: into lifestyle and started going to like play party parties,
Speaker 1: you start to me people with different backgrounds. So there
Speaker 1: were other people that had don backgrounds that you know,
Speaker 1: they would come with floggers, they would come with things
Speaker 1: to spank people and do impact play, and I was
Speaker 1: very curious, like, I don't know what you're getting out
Speaker 1: of that. So of course automatically it's like put your
Speaker 1: hands here, bend over there, I'm gonna show you, and
Speaker 1: it was. It was not what I expected at all.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm thinking I'm just gonna get hit, and
Speaker 1: it was very it was a slow build up and
Speaker 1: it was like, you know, it's it's like this, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I could see that. But also I
Speaker 1: didn't feel comfortable to allow myself to be aroused because
Speaker 1: I wasn't aroused by this person, right, So I was like,
Speaker 1: I kind of get it. It kind of makes my
Speaker 1: body feel a little woozy. I kind of like like
Speaker 1: where this is going? But with and I want to
Speaker 1: talk about it because you guys, you have a dungeon
Speaker 1: as well. Correct. So my experience, my most recent experience
Speaker 1: uh in a dungeon was in Orlando, uh and I
Speaker 1: wish I could bring no. It was actually the dungeon
Speaker 1: at Secrets, So there's a dungeon there and I was
Speaker 1: able to experience. First off, I believe I'm claustrophobic, like
Speaker 1: I don't like ti areas. But I actually got suspended
Speaker 1: with bondage. And while I was suspended with bondage, not
Speaker 1: only was I being flogged by the wife um that
Speaker 1: was with the couple, but the doum that was also
Speaker 1: playing with me was doing electro play, and I had
Speaker 1: was just certain I was not going to like it.
Speaker 1: And ironically, not only was my back in such an
Speaker 1: amazing like being suspended with bondage, I just my everything
Speaker 1: just felt stretched out and just like in a different
Speaker 1: type of Oh my god. I was like, I didn't
Speaker 1: even feel like I was constrained. And then that's where
Speaker 1: right constrained. Yes, And then non insation is don't don't,
Speaker 1: don't don't confrontation what it was? Um, that's a Patreon joke.
Speaker 1: If you're not on Patreon, you won't get it. Um.
Speaker 1: But when the electro place started going, and I don't
Speaker 1: know if it was because my blood flow was, I
Speaker 1: was like, oh this is nice, this feels good. Um,
Speaker 1: electroplay I've only done in dungeons. I also did it
Speaker 1: in a dungeon here. I wanted to ask both of
Speaker 1: you with owning it, why someone would go to a
Speaker 1: dungeon and also what your favorite equipment in the dungeon
Speaker 1: is that maybe we wouldn't find on this table or
Speaker 1: in our bedroom, because that should be express. Yeah, yo,
Speaker 1: trust me, you must be rich grocer happens, Yes, your
Speaker 1: drove here. Goddamn y'all rich A big part of um,
Speaker 1: you know, like they say, the biggest of sex organ
Speaker 1: is the mind, right, So a big part of like
Speaker 1: getting the mind turned on is ambiance. So the dungeon
Speaker 1: itself creates that that that ambiance that you want, like
Speaker 1: the slow lead. Um, of course it smells good, but
Speaker 1: also the things that the furniture, not walking, wet plussy,
Speaker 1: you know what. The ambiance that's really it. Yeah, because
Speaker 1: when you talked about suspension, just now thought about it
Speaker 1: was our first episode. I think when I did that
Speaker 1: aerial yoga and I threw up on myself. That was
Speaker 1: the only time I've really been suspended. But Dad was
Speaker 1: probably it looked like a yoga studio right which I
Speaker 1: was in a whole The lights was down. It was
Speaker 1: red light, red light doing maybe I wait if they're okay,
Speaker 1: hold on you like a scientist, Now what is it
Speaker 1: with the red lights? Um? You know, so different lights
Speaker 1: do evoke different emotions. Okay, so that's been proven. I mean,
Speaker 1: we mean, we we know what to means stop, So
Speaker 1: I'm confused at how it brings out the dark the
Speaker 1: darker red so to speak, the bright red means stopped.
Speaker 1: Like that is the one that brings you to attention,
Speaker 1: like whoa, but a low light kind of red kind
Speaker 1: of makes you feel more comfortable, more soothing, more like
Speaker 1: chill versus like these bright lights right here. You feel
Speaker 1: awakened when you when you bring down the lights. Think
Speaker 1: about it. Anytime somebody's trying to get sexy, what you
Speaker 1: do exactly. If you think about anything that had a
Speaker 1: sex scene, they always changed the lights down a little bit.
Speaker 1: So you're already you're already like trained to recognize a
Speaker 1: light like that's kind of red in the background to
Speaker 1: kind of be like, Okay, this is something sexy. This
Speaker 1: is I was gonna say this. It just said when
Speaker 1: I looked it up, it said that red is a
Speaker 1: color that represents desire and love, and so we're trained
Speaker 1: to think that very interesting. I mean, there are many
Speaker 1: different colors. I mean, I'm not I'm not. I don't remember.
Speaker 1: I can't recall them all with the DIALA lights is
Speaker 1: blue and A shrooms that sex I haven't had in
Speaker 1: my life. So I have blue and shrooms and sex
Speaker 1: is the magic equation. And that's another thing to keep
Speaker 1: in mind. Like granted, like yes, for the most part,
Speaker 1: the red light is going to do it, but each
Speaker 1: person is different. Maybe you're like you said, the blue
Speaker 1: light work for you and ship she just says shrooms.
Speaker 1: I just had a thought whenever I go to sex
Speaker 1: clubs and people aren't like crazy fucked up, but like
Speaker 1: maybe someone's drinking, maybe someone's did a little molly isshrooms
Speaker 1: or we'd edibles whatever. Is there any drug that like
Speaker 1: you've seen heightening experience, not promoting it or done the opposite.
Speaker 1: Have you seen someone on drugs and you couldn't work
Speaker 1: with them? Or I mean I saw you were quick
Speaker 1: to last time I went to the sex club, everyone
Speaker 1: was dimly on molly and nobody's dick was working. A
Speaker 1: lot of men their dicks was just what I mean
Speaker 1: from a from a sub perspective or what you're doing. Well,
Speaker 1: I don't know me personally. Only thing I could do
Speaker 1: with smoke way because I'm like paranoid to try anything
Speaker 1: else because the way I was a crack baby. So
Speaker 1: it's a little differ but a little serious. But I
Speaker 1: really do try to stray away from it because I
Speaker 1: don't know what's in my system. I would be a
Speaker 1: little nervous if I'm honest. Um, So you know, family
Speaker 1: history is a big thing. So me personally, I can't
Speaker 1: say what I've tried or you know, Um, and a
Speaker 1: lot of the times, you know, we a lot of
Speaker 1: the parties that we go to now because we started
Speaker 1: in the regular like let's just go to any party,
Speaker 1: any club, But a lot of the parties we go
Speaker 1: to now like heavily vetted, like secret society, kind of
Speaker 1: kind of society, secret party, this kind of thing where
Speaker 1: everybody is a small you know, nick group so to speak,
Speaker 1: and the rules of engagement is like making sure that
Speaker 1: you are not you know, over intoxicated. Um, you're not
Speaker 1: like super hard. It is a really intense experience with
Speaker 1: something like that too. Yeah, So you know, like that's
Speaker 1: why I say, lott, we take off the edge for me,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Other people they might try
Speaker 1: other things, but for the most part, I've never really
Speaker 1: seen anybody in my particular scene that is like too
Speaker 1: fucked up, you know what I mean. Now that I've
Speaker 1: been really into like the scene, like I don't go
Speaker 1: to collegilate anymore, that's definitely. Yeah, I don't know what
Speaker 1: happened to that place. Um, But now that I'm like
Speaker 1: really in the mix of sex, clubs, and it's really
Speaker 1: like the only type of location membership, only the experience
Speaker 1: is more comfortable and you you don't feel like people
Speaker 1: they're even have the gens of it being like they
Speaker 1: need to be. And what I think a lot of
Speaker 1: you know, sex clubs have with the B y O
Speaker 1: B thing, which is what most do because obviously the
Speaker 1: liquor license and we want to make sure that we
Speaker 1: can keep these places safe. You kind of think if
Speaker 1: collegula is the first type time of place, someone's gonna
Speaker 1: getting sucked up to be there because they just don't
Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen, right, which is what happened. Like
Speaker 1: me and my friend the first time I went, we
Speaker 1: killed an entire bottle of Don Julio, and so there
Speaker 1: were bits and pieces that we both had to remind
Speaker 1: each other about that night. And you know, we ended
Speaker 1: up going again for Halloween, but we knew that that
Speaker 1: was we then felt safe enough to know we didn't
Speaker 1: have to be that intoxicated. But we both had such
Speaker 1: nerves and jitters that we we probably got way to
Speaker 1: too drunk drunker than we should have been in that space.
Speaker 1: I dont't drink, I don't really I'll have maybe one
Speaker 1: to max okay while I'm there, and even then it's
Speaker 1: not guaranteed. So I like to so I like to
Speaker 1: be free. I'm I'm usually one of the first people
Speaker 1: naked dressed downtoime because I'm ready. I brought this a
Speaker 1: little outfit. I'm ready to show it off. I really
Speaker 1: don't even put effort into the like party, actually we did.
Speaker 1: Really did you guys both have people with you know
Speaker 1: that night or did you you fell in love? And
Speaker 1: I hope it's like I'm not to find it for real,
Speaker 1: for real, like if you won't like mind the people
Speaker 1: you want, you want to be in areas where they're
Speaker 1: going to be to write. Um, I wasn't. I was
Speaker 1: there with my partner at the time, and I knew
Speaker 1: he was going to be there, so you know, this
Speaker 1: was kind of a small What had happened was, um,
Speaker 1: it's a small group, so everybody knew who was going
Speaker 1: to be there already. Was actually like a Christmas party.
Speaker 1: We're kind of doing like a secret Santa like and
Speaker 1: you know, the person who was promoting it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: we're going to also have this dom there. He's going
Speaker 1: to be doing demos and dropped his profile in and
Speaker 1: I was like stalker, stalker talking to my partner like
Speaker 1: he's going to be there, This looks dope. I want
Speaker 1: to try this. I can't wait to meet him. And
Speaker 1: he was. He had a partner at the time, and
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't wait to meet them both,
Speaker 1: you know. So I went for the party and also
Speaker 1: to meet him because like I wanted to know more
Speaker 1: about this, and his style was right up my alley
Speaker 1: because I'm not really into the you know, the the
Speaker 1: deep dark like what I say, yeah, the leather that
Speaker 1: doesn't really do it for me. But I mean, look
Speaker 1: at him. Were you guys relationships? Yes? Did you go
Speaker 1: from clients to it it um? Yes? Yes, I can
Speaker 1: say that I booked him. I booked him so you know, transpared,
Speaker 1: little transparent. Yes, I paid for the experience because after
Speaker 1: that demo, I got that night my like first time
Speaker 1: like squirting like on it was insane. He actually brought
Speaker 1: my partner to help kind of do it, you know,
Speaker 1: a massagic So you just know, like you you can
Speaker 1: make any woman square? Is that a thing? I would
Speaker 1: never say that talk about what I will say that
Speaker 1: I've never met a woman that I couldn't make s work.
Speaker 1: Thus fall Okay, we're not and I genuinely mean it,
Speaker 1: right because is it fingers? Is it? Um wandes? Like,
Speaker 1: what have you seen to be the easiest way into squirting?
Speaker 1: So I want to give you a short answer, but
Speaker 1: like I don't want to promote the wrong thing there.
Speaker 1: You have to take your time. You have to make
Speaker 1: a person feel comfortable, and you have to make a
Speaker 1: person feel like it's not They're not pressure to do that.
Speaker 1: If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
Speaker 1: I never even man, I never even mentioned the word
Speaker 1: squirting when I'm trying to make it happen. I just
Speaker 1: tell people to push out in it and the entire
Speaker 1: throughout the entire experience. Everything else I'm doing is to
Speaker 1: arouse you to get your pussy like feeling like damn,
Speaker 1: thats hard as the dick, so to speak, as the clickers.
Speaker 1: You know, the click is hard when it gets really aroused.
Speaker 1: So I'm taking my time to arouse them as much
Speaker 1: as I can, and then I'm giving them clatoral stimulation
Speaker 1: and that I'm I'm massage in the G spot. And
Speaker 1: then I'm also um I'm really good with making people
Speaker 1: come on command. That's that's like one of my tricks
Speaker 1: that I do. Kind of like that. One of the
Speaker 1: most amazing things that I saw recently on your page
Speaker 1: is that you make womens squirt with fire your face.
Speaker 1: So can you I'd like to see it. Can you
Speaker 1: talk a little bit about how I'm not gonna hold
Speaker 1: you fire by my pussy. I don't even know how
Speaker 1: my mind would allow me to relax and be aroused
Speaker 1: by that. So how are you getting to a place
Speaker 1: where you can use fire to make a woman squirt?
Speaker 1: If you can explain it, and then also if you
Speaker 1: could talk about the fire tools that you have. Okay,
Speaker 1: um so um. I normally started by just giving a
Speaker 1: regular massage and then I move on to like a
Speaker 1: fire massage. I'm big on temperature place, so I'll start
Speaker 1: with like using like ice on my hands, and then um,
Speaker 1: after a warm, warm or your massage, I'll start with
Speaker 1: the ice in my hands and our massage to bring
Speaker 1: their their temperature you know, um lower, making them cold.
Speaker 1: And then I was the mom I'm pretty good gae
Speaker 1: the temperature though. I want you guys to fill the
Speaker 1: fire today. That's why I brought it today so you
Speaker 1: can see. I won't put it on your pusy day.
Speaker 1: I'll let you fill it on your arm so you
Speaker 1: can see. How are you saying not today, like you
Speaker 1: just know you're gonna put I did, uh, And we
Speaker 1: both were experience. I did a fuse, like just a
Speaker 1: little skit thing with my friend Rory, and we basically
Speaker 1: pulled out all these sex toys and different things they
Speaker 1: brought and we didn't know what they're bringing. And we
Speaker 1: both used a candle when I was in the car
Speaker 1: and we were just sitting around with it, and in
Speaker 1: the car, I was like, dude, I fucking burned myself.
Speaker 1: He's like me too. And I realized when I watched
Speaker 1: the video back I was pouring it from here and
Speaker 1: it was so stayed for like a month. The higher
Speaker 1: it is, the more argus a chance it. And also
Speaker 1: want to use body safe oils, I mean a body
Speaker 1: safe but exactly there's also a difference in I think
Speaker 1: that that's very important. If you're listening and maybe you
Speaker 1: don't have the tools that their marvelous has, but you
Speaker 1: have candles, it does have to be a soy wax
Speaker 1: candle that is safe to go on your body. And
Speaker 1: basically what happens to then is when it's soy wax,
Speaker 1: it doesn't necessarily become hard. As soon as it hits taken,
Speaker 1: it becomes oil. So then it could be something that
Speaker 1: you massage, but for sure you want to. And that's
Speaker 1: how I played with my partner as well, like I
Speaker 1: started off higher and then I drop it. Then I
Speaker 1: bring it back up. But the but the higher you
Speaker 1: bring it it allows All right, let's see. Yeah, let's
Speaker 1: get into fireplay. Let's get into your tools. Kids. Don't
Speaker 1: try this at home, and yes you can real quick
Speaker 1: because we love a good audio experience here. I want
Speaker 1: to be sure that you're able to talk about what
Speaker 1: it is, what the tool is. Well, I'll tell y'all
Speaker 1: what it looks like. It looks like. It looks like
Speaker 1: a gun. Oh, go ahead, it looks like a torch.
Speaker 1: That's the word. Now he got a comrade. Okay, sorry,
Speaker 1: I'll looks okay, um, okay, So is that a marshmallow
Speaker 1: that it wasn't a fire? Can you really explain? So
Speaker 1: explain what this? Yeah? What is that? He just touched it.
Speaker 1: We only did the general insurance in the studio Okay.
Speaker 1: Now he said, there's no smoke that comes to you. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: don't put it by the mic How does that feel warm?
Speaker 1: It feels good though? Why are you? Can you push
Speaker 1: his microphone more? Yes? Thank you? Yes? How does that feel?
Speaker 1: It actually feels like you have hot oil on your hand,
Speaker 1: but you don't. There's no oil at all. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: I don't want to look okay. So also, I definitely
Speaker 1: want to tell you what I just saw coming over.
Speaker 1: He was holding a stick thing Mandy, and he was
Speaker 1: touching the fire with his hand and then touching Mandy.
Speaker 1: So are you going to get a different example that
Speaker 1: I thought you were? You light her ass off? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I do want to plug my fire really quickly. I
Speaker 1: want to plug my fire mentor right now. If you
Speaker 1: guys go to my page which will probably be tagged,
Speaker 1: and my professional and my link tree. Um is my
Speaker 1: fire mentor is located in my link tree. So he
Speaker 1: can teach you about creating a fire kit, how to
Speaker 1: be safe with it, everything that you need to know
Speaker 1: about fire. He does lessons, he does in class, lessons everything.
Speaker 1: He's the man. So I want to always any time
Speaker 1: I do an interview that involves fire. I always plug
Speaker 1: him because he said plug fire, but like, yes, support that,
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna switch through a quick so easy
Speaker 1: can experience this as well. I'm just confused. Why touch
Speaker 1: the fire? It feels good? Okay, okay, okay, wait, but
Speaker 1: also is there a way because I did see you
Speaker 1: sometimes you put that near someone's skin too, right, Yes,
Speaker 1: I do exactly, so I can massage your pussy with this,
Speaker 1: But how are you able to do massage it with that? Or?
Speaker 1: This is what I'm glad to explain. So the way
Speaker 1: the fireplay works now smells like burnt We've well, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's gonna smell because I'm burning the hairs off your arm.
Speaker 1: It does burn hair a little bit. Um, but my
Speaker 1: smell yeah yeah, yeah it's safe. There's hair so um.
Speaker 1: The way fireplay is usually um done is used that
Speaker 1: the the selerant is alcohol. So if the higher percentage
Speaker 1: that the water is inside of the alcohol, the higher
Speaker 1: percentage the water is inside of the alcohol, the less
Speaker 1: flammable and the less um the temperature of it is
Speaker 1: going to be brought down. So I smell like barbecue.
Speaker 1: I smelled like something charred girls, so a lot of times,
Speaker 1: not me because she got oil on you. Yeah okay
Speaker 1: again started like people, wait, you do do the oil
Speaker 1: massage first? So yeah, because it didn't. That didn't happen
Speaker 1: to me. Oh my bad, you didn't get oiled down.
Speaker 1: He oiled me down. Here he go as the dom
Speaker 1: and then it's not like he handed me the oil.
Speaker 1: He said, but your leg up, I got you started
Speaker 1: rubbing my leg um, So that's interesting. You have to
Speaker 1: take that step for ye, that's a good step. It's
Speaker 1: not it's not a necessary step. Um. If the person
Speaker 1: like you said, I'm comfortable with the smile. If I
Speaker 1: tell people all the time when I'm doing fire planet
Speaker 1: them if you have they have hairy legs and harry back.
Speaker 1: You might smell a little burn head. But don't worry
Speaker 1: long as you're safe, you know, like are you in
Speaker 1: any pain? I mean it ain't no different if not
Speaker 1: the flat iron to your hair. But honestly that hurts,
Speaker 1: like like that's the flat and graze my skin like
Speaker 1: but that's the skin. I didn't feel a sting at all.
Speaker 1: I think that was more aesthetic for anything like watching
Speaker 1: it made. But remember, like I said, the biggest sex
Speaker 1: organ is the brain. So imagine seeing that, Imagine knowing
Speaker 1: what's happening. Imagine being in my dungeon and light is down,
Speaker 1: I'm talking in your air. The music is playing, and
Speaker 1: I can't wait. I got a fireplaylist. I want to
Speaker 1: ask you, because I know you said sometime to take
Speaker 1: a week to try things out and stuff. Has there
Speaker 1: anything that he's been brought that he's brought to you
Speaker 1: that you've been like, I don't know about it. I
Speaker 1: think that's I think that's it's a problem that we
Speaker 1: have where we're both just like, all right, all right,
Speaker 1: I'll try anything twice, you can do it. It's fine.
Speaker 1: I trust him. I trust that he's gonna take the
Speaker 1: necessary precautions. He's going to make sure that he's doing
Speaker 1: in the safest There's times where what was it that
Speaker 1: we tried that you were the first time? Remind me
Speaker 1: where were we what were we doing? Was the first
Speaker 1: time that we were doing actual fire play after doing
Speaker 1: the training, and it was, you know, trying to navigate
Speaker 1: my tolerance level for it, because the best way to
Speaker 1: learn anything is to do it to yourself. So he
Speaker 1: knows his tolerance level, but he doesn't know mine, for say,
Speaker 1: but he wants to be able to make it last longer.
Speaker 1: So it was very like, okay, we're going to make
Speaker 1: sure this is here, the waters right here, right here,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna start now, and checking in frequently
Speaker 1: he would do a line of fire, how are you feeling?
Speaker 1: How are you feeling? Is that okay? All right? And
Speaker 1: then he'll keep going. So it builds the confidence of
Speaker 1: of where my tolerance is and what he's able to do.
Speaker 1: So I trust that he's going to take those steps
Speaker 1: because I know how he works. I didn't catch that,
Speaker 1: and I look, do you have any more question? No
Speaker 1: ending us on there? And what I am coingy joke
Speaker 1: person on this podcast, thank you very much. And I
Speaker 1: was waiting for my moment and you took the is
Speaker 1: joke and I just feel very upset. Sorry, damn, I
Speaker 1: missed the joke. I said it was okay, okay, you're
Speaker 1: right all right. Well, before we get out of here,
Speaker 1: I do want to get to homemail. Um and for
Speaker 1: this one, because we have a couple of this is
Speaker 1: when I really like to ask these types of questions.
Speaker 1: So this one, the title is Me and my boyfriend
Speaker 1: and different sex drives. So, hey, girls, have a big
Speaker 1: issue in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been
Speaker 1: together for four months and have only sucked five times,
Speaker 1: and I'm almost with him, and I'm with him almost
Speaker 1: every day. In my past relationships, I was used to
Speaker 1: doing it damn near every day, multiple times a day.
Speaker 1: I know this man really loves me and he treats
Speaker 1: me better than any man ever has, but sex just
Speaker 1: isn't a thing for him. I guess. I've talked to
Speaker 1: him about it, and he opened up to me and
Speaker 1: told me he was molested when he was younger by
Speaker 1: an older girl, and ever since, sex just doesn't really
Speaker 1: cross his mind that much. He has initiated sex a
Speaker 1: few times, but most of the time I have to,
Speaker 1: but sometimes he says he's tired when I ask. The
Speaker 1: sexual energy is always there, and he is always very touchy.
Speaker 1: It's like he's teasing me. So I'm confused. I really
Speaker 1: love this man and I don't want to cheat on him,
Speaker 1: but I'm horny every day and it's getting annoying. Um.
Speaker 1: She's pretty much asking what should she do in this situation? Oh,
Speaker 1: I want to I'm gonna take a secondal process. You
Speaker 1: want to try it? All right? We're giving advice. I
Speaker 1: want to put this claimer out there. I am not
Speaker 1: a registered sech therapist. I have to tell him the
Speaker 1: medicine not registered sex therapist. However, I will say this, um,
Speaker 1: sharing something that deep and and personal with someone is
Speaker 1: extremely intimate, and sometimes you need to find intimacy in
Speaker 1: order for someone to really feel like they're able to
Speaker 1: explore their things. And if you're willing to be patient,
Speaker 1: but you also need to be very honest with yourself.
Speaker 1: If I need to have sex five times a week
Speaker 1: and this is not something that they're able to do,
Speaker 1: then conversations about all right, are there ways that are
Speaker 1: you okay with me having side partners? Are you okay
Speaker 1: with us going to a play party? Baby? We can
Speaker 1: start using toys, mutual masturbation, things along those lines. So
Speaker 1: there's ways to go about it. There's so many things
Speaker 1: that can be pleasurable and are not actually penetrative sex
Speaker 1: that they can explore if the intimacy is there. Because
Speaker 1: she she she did mention that he's always teasing, he's
Speaker 1: always touching her, so definitely he used to try that
Speaker 1: say he probably has a blockage of course in itself,
Speaker 1: I would say as well, I did like what you
Speaker 1: say said in terms of introducing toys, but also I
Speaker 1: think that that is a very important conversation for us
Speaker 1: to have as adults. What does our sexual relationship look
Speaker 1: like in a relationship and if someone can't match your appetite,
Speaker 1: is there is there a way for us to exist
Speaker 1: together with with with opening our eyes to possibly non monogamy.
Speaker 1: I think that we've talked about non monogamy on this
Speaker 1: guy to be an open and willing partner, like you know,
Speaker 1: the last few months sound horrible. I've been talking about
Speaker 1: and been open about depression and how I've been unable
Speaker 1: to reach orgasm because of you know, antidepressants and not
Speaker 1: feeling super sexual. And I had to be honest and
Speaker 1: being like, Okay, well, I understand that I'm normally such
Speaker 1: a sexual person that I might bring you to the
Speaker 1: point where you have to lie right. So I want
Speaker 1: to make sure that I'm understanding that if I can't
Speaker 1: give you this for a few months or my brain
Speaker 1: isn't there right now, that I can't take it too
Speaker 1: personal either, And I think that somebody that can, because
Speaker 1: you can't expect someone to not fuck you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? You really can't. I don't think that. I
Speaker 1: mean maybe someone who's a sexual. I was just gonna
Speaker 1: say a sexual. If that your premise of your relationship
Speaker 1: started with no sex, that's understandable. A friend of mine
Speaker 1: who's selling it, she's been selling it three years. To me,
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Somebody who made a commitment to her
Speaker 1: cool the nigga. I'm having three with me for three years,
Speaker 1: So you know what I mean? If if I'm not
Speaker 1: there yet, I'm not there yet? What can I do? So?
Speaker 1: I do think it's sucked up to take something away
Speaker 1: from someone. So if this person has never been that
Speaker 1: for you, that'll be difficult. If the person was that
Speaker 1: person in a change, then it's time for congbo. But
Speaker 1: you can't hold something against somebody they've never had like
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? If a nigga was just like, damn,
Speaker 1: I really want to suck you in, ask I can't
Speaker 1: suck you in the ask? Well you never have? What
Speaker 1: did this happen? You know what that means? So fast
Speaker 1: for something that's like out of the wood word And
Speaker 1: I think the fact that the relationship is only four
Speaker 1: months old, this is the time to have that conversation.
Speaker 1: Don't let this relationship get to a year and a
Speaker 1: half and now it's only a didn't that didn't process either. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a four month relationship. They've only had sex third times,
Speaker 1: so I think that yes, in four months, she clearly
Speaker 1: didn't don't feel on the drink. Now I've heard five
Speaker 1: times she need four months, but maybe because you said
Speaker 1: five times a week. Yeah, here I see what you need.
Speaker 1: The math was the math and but now the math math. Yeah. Um,
Speaker 1: well I want to see how sex in the last
Speaker 1: few months. And another big question to access how often
Speaker 1: does he masturbate? Because an orgasm is still there, So
Speaker 1: they're like, if that's there, then you can work with that.
Speaker 1: Masturbation too would be a thing. Yeah. So if if
Speaker 1: if he desires and that that you can work with
Speaker 1: that and you can find other ways to meet in
Speaker 1: the middle, you know what I mean. Maybe well, no,
Speaker 1: he he was molested when he was young. Sex but
Speaker 1: right now, I mean, but to me, that's that's that's
Speaker 1: a trauma that a lot of people, a lot of
Speaker 1: people don't get over, especially women too. So if a
Speaker 1: woman's if a woman is not um trying to have
Speaker 1: sex or jump you, you should know that maybe she
Speaker 1: has traumas that she's still working on, and I think
Speaker 1: the patients doesn't need to be given for that. But
Speaker 1: you need to acknowledge if that's something you as a partner,
Speaker 1: are willing to be patient with what you say. If
Speaker 1: that's something you ain't got the patience because but you
Speaker 1: need Joe Nut, you might need to go ahead and
Speaker 1: just in that relationship and find someone who can be
Speaker 1: with you sexually as much as you need to. UM.
Speaker 1: By the way, UM, I'm super excited. It ain't even confirmed,
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna sit here today. I'm about to experience,
Speaker 1: UM something with it. You're coming to right Saturday? Oh yes, Okay,
Speaker 1: I didn't know y'all say you mentioned dinner, so if
Speaker 1: you guys can't even explain what that's like. So I've
Speaker 1: talked a lot about the sex club and stuff that
Speaker 1: I go here, and I've been to the dungeon as well,
Speaker 1: so this would be a new experience for me. Um,
Speaker 1: can you guys talk about what this part because y'all
Speaker 1: even set a secrets and lifestyle party, what type of dinner?
Speaker 1: What is expected? Doing? Well, we're gonna be performing at
Speaker 1: a high protocol dinner. UM this weekend and um, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of the guests are gonna be
Speaker 1: like super kinky there. Um people are gonna either identify
Speaker 1: as what we call big letters in a lifestyle, meaning
Speaker 1: like um, doms and tops and daddies and mommy's and mistresses, madams,
Speaker 1: things like that, and they're gonna be little letters people
Speaker 1: that might identify as like the submissives and um, you know,
Speaker 1: baby girls, the slaves, the servants, things of that nature.
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be like basically like you know how
Speaker 1: when you watch those movies sometimes where it's like super
Speaker 1: rich and fancy ideas and every everything. You got to
Speaker 1: have your forecare in this particular way, and you know,
Speaker 1: everybody has their roles in positions in the house. That's
Speaker 1: what it's going to pretty much be like. It's going
Speaker 1: to be some kinky performances going on. It should be
Speaker 1: a real sexy vibe. In fact, I'm excited, to be honest,
Speaker 1: this is my first one, so but I've been looking
Speaker 1: into This is something that I've been wanting to be
Speaker 1: a part of for so long. So I'm happy to
Speaker 1: be able to you know, to be there and to perform.
Speaker 1: And you're gonna see me insife and do our things.
Speaker 1: So I want to see your squork and make the
Speaker 1: fire go away. That what happens like when people squirt
Speaker 1: then the fire go out. Sometimes it was like water.
Speaker 1: It's not like an annihilater, right, So one thing that
Speaker 1: I like to do, I'm gonna scare you a little bit.
Speaker 1: The work girl. What you know what I meant? Right?
Speaker 1: It's not an exfoliate englisher, it's no. Oh is that extinguisher?
Speaker 1: Is that what? No? I'm talking about when something goes
Speaker 1: on something and it gets even bigger. An accelerant there, accelerant?
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, it's not an exceller. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just want an accelerant. No, no, no. If the
Speaker 1: fire that the case, we would need more. Okay, well sorry,
Speaker 1: I was gonna scare you. We gotta stop. Say. One
Speaker 1: of my favorite things to do is put fire in
Speaker 1: the pussy. Oh you're a motherfucking lie that for the
Speaker 1: last Rather do a drop and say, wait, I know,
Speaker 1: we give us two more minutes. You put the you
Speaker 1: put the fire in the pussy. So I can actually
Speaker 1: do that. It won't stay, it won't stay let of course,
Speaker 1: but you'll feel the warmth. I'm telling you a temperature.
Speaker 1: My pussy already warm, though, it's gonna feel better. It's
Speaker 1: gonna feel it feel Who's gonna make this she's burning
Speaker 1: joke here? You definitely not. We don't need that, but
Speaker 1: but seriously, it does feel amazing. What was your first
Speaker 1: test on me? And how white was she? I was
Speaker 1: my first test me? You ain't You ain't got a
Speaker 1: pussy to put fire in? Actually no, no, wait wait
Speaker 1: wait vieo wait wait wait what you hold on? What
Speaker 1: did you put in your ass? Excited? Does this take
Speaker 1: apple pey? This black and touch black type? He has
Speaker 1: this on his only fan? Okay, what yeah, I have it?
Speaker 1: You could. We have a really really intense and you're
Speaker 1: like it as well? You know what? I like it?
Speaker 1: I know like I got an idea. I have an
Speaker 1: idea working. You can't make it. We're about to work together.
Speaker 1: Fire in the pussy that you normally fuck. I'm telling
Speaker 1: you that feels amazing. Your dick in after you sat
Speaker 1: on fire. I'm telling you, yeah, you put your dick
Speaker 1: in there after you got you know, oh they do
Speaker 1: so what we're used to, Like you said, you know
Speaker 1: the type of fire that we're used to when we're
Speaker 1: not talking about fire playing video sim It's very different
Speaker 1: than what I'm talking about right now. So you know,
Speaker 1: of course it's not going to make sense because a
Speaker 1: lot of things, the as some money outside looking at
Speaker 1: it just doesn't It doesn't make sense into your experience
Speaker 1: in it. No, don't play with that fire. That's real
Speaker 1: fire this look you don't play it in the pus.
Speaker 1: You don't know. That's what's No, that's not far away
Speaker 1: from getting everything. Yeah, set that on fire and stuff
Speaker 1: in the puss, not stuff. I will put it on
Speaker 1: my hand and then I could transfer from my hand
Speaker 1: onto her pussy depending on how much he has on
Speaker 1: his hand. As far as the accelerant, he's able to
Speaker 1: keep fire in his hand like a ball. David Blaine,
Speaker 1: you like dragon ball We're not gonna do that. It
Speaker 1: is like dragon ball Z because he how can I
Speaker 1: never mind? Anyway? All right, well, sir, marvelous and sip
Speaker 1: and please drop where our listeners can listen to you
Speaker 1: and hopefully I'm trying to hopefully they get to see
Speaker 1: you perform live at our DC show, which has already
Speaker 1: passed by the time you guys listened to this episode. Um,
Speaker 1: but go ahead and let people know where they can
Speaker 1: book sessions with you. Again, you have a dungeon here
Speaker 1: in the Tri State area and also only fans to
Speaker 1: let everyone know where they can find you. All right,
Speaker 1: well I'm gonna let you all know that. Um. I
Speaker 1: love Instagram, but they don't love us goods. I got
Speaker 1: deleted for saying bit please please um if you're listening,
Speaker 1: you know, try to follow all the links. Um. Um.
Speaker 1: You can find me at Sir Marvelous Kinks, underscore on
Speaker 1: Instagram or Sir Marvelous Things. I also got my old
Speaker 1: original page back finally with my my real name, but
Speaker 1: I have no I've just started it like literally today.
Speaker 1: I was so happy to get it. So it's Regulus Marvelous.
Speaker 1: So I'm telling you how to backup to the backup.
Speaker 1: Marvelous Kinks is my original page, my bigger page right
Speaker 1: now with to score at the end and sur Marvelous Things.
Speaker 1: Um follow me on Twitter because hopefully I won't get
Speaker 1: the leaded from Twitter. Twitter has all the points, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I watch everything yeah, and then you can tap
Speaker 1: into my lank trees and inside of my bios and
Speaker 1: then follow us along there. We're gonna try to create
Speaker 1: our own site because Instagram natives different anxiety. Sure, I
Speaker 1: mean it, she just got hurt. She didn't have had
Speaker 1: a lot of my head fire pussy A. Yeah, well
Speaker 1: I probably. What I'll do is include your link tree
Speaker 1: in the description of this episode that at least will
Speaker 1: hold everything. Are you on anything as well? Um? I am,
Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, all right, it's it's a. It's a
Speaker 1: it's a lot of work. It is a lot of
Speaker 1: creating is a lot of work. Podcast is a lot
Speaker 1: of work. We don't just show up and talk like
Speaker 1: it's a ton of work. Um. And again, guys, if
Speaker 1: you haven't yet, be sure to go ahead and get
Speaker 1: your tickets. That's right. We still have tickets available for
Speaker 1: our l A show, which has taken place December three,
Speaker 1: and of course we are finishing it out in one
Speaker 1: of our favorite cities, Atlanta, that is December seventeenth. It's
Speaker 1: on a Friday. Um, A lot is happening. And I
Speaker 1: told I'm gonna work on getting that dungeon that's down there,
Speaker 1: so I'm hoping that the Atlanta show. Unfortunately, I wasn't
Speaker 1: able to have a party after the New York show
Speaker 1: because of scheduling. God damn it. I thought we were
Speaker 1: gonna have two shows. Um but um, Atlanta, I'm definitely
Speaker 1: working on a play party after that live show, So
Speaker 1: if you haven't been yet, that would definitely be the
Speaker 1: one to attend. Go to whore Hive dot com and
Speaker 1: get your tickets. We are putting on a hell of
Speaker 1: a show for you, guys, And of course you've probably
Speaker 1: seen the clips from our DC and New York show
Speaker 1: as is. Uh, wheezy, did you want to tell them
Speaker 1: anywhere else to go for anything? Alright? Got it? We're
Speaker 1: leaving you off with a five minute bonus clip if
Speaker 1: you're all cut up, that's right. We have bonus episodes
Speaker 1: once a week over on Patreon. That's patreon dot com.
Speaker 1: Back slash four Decisions. This has been yet another episode
Speaker 1: of Horrible Decision. You know it's bonus bitch. Maybe we
Speaker 1: all here, y'all know I love this and uh, for
Speaker 1: those of y'all who haven't gotten to go to a
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions live show, we have been honored with pretty
Speaker 1: much opening for the whole goddamn tour in so yeah,
Speaker 1: I love you. I've been on the road with Horrible
Speaker 1: Decisions and it's been amazing. And you can catch me
Speaker 1: at the next couple of show still or at a
Speaker 1: bar getting drunk with me, because that's apparently what we do.
Speaker 1: But I'm excited because this is kind of like I
Speaker 1: like to call it a Sin a month, kind of
Speaker 1: where we're just gonna talk about TV. And if y'all
Speaker 1: see me with Asante, you know the conversation is going
Speaker 1: to be about what housewives. So let me tell y'all.
Speaker 1: When we were in d C for our live show,
Speaker 1: Asante came a day early with me and on horrible
Speaker 1: decisions we actually got to of course, if you heard it,
Speaker 1: we interviewed Giselle and Robin from the Reasonably Shady podcast,
Speaker 1: not the Housewives of the Rest. All right, don't do
Speaker 1: that because you know, Black Effect fam had to connect.
Speaker 1: But I am a super fan, and Asante came to
Speaker 1: the podcast recording, uh and he wasn't he wasn't on
Speaker 1: the pod with us, but he was in the room,
Speaker 1: had to be in the building. And I guess I
Speaker 1: want to ask you because wey and I talked about
Speaker 1: it on a Patreon episode last week, but what was
Speaker 1: your personal experience with me in the Housewives? Okay, so
Speaker 1: let me start by saying Gazelle and Robin are both
Speaker 1: very lovely ladies, like they're very light, down to earth.
Speaker 1: What you see is what you get, no Boogenus. I
Speaker 1: really appreciated the fact that they were just two normal
Speaker 1: women out here working and they still were able to
Speaker 1: be polite and smile and they act like they think,
Speaker 1: and so I was just I was here for it.
Speaker 1: They were everything And then like them, I wish I
Speaker 1: wish all of y'all act like this across the board. Now,
Speaker 1: this is bonus content. So are we able to spill
Speaker 1: any of the tea because y'all know we was asking
Speaker 1: for the tea and I feel like we got some
Speaker 1: drops of it on whatever, So literally some drippity drops. Okay,
Speaker 1: what drops? Do you remember the one specifically that I remembered?
Speaker 1: I know that it was. It was funny because I
Speaker 1: watched Which What Happens Live last night with Porsche and
Speaker 1: she brought it up even with Andy that Mia has
Speaker 1: been in the blogs and on Twitter talking like she
Speaker 1: don't even want to be a part of the franchise anymore. However,
Speaker 1: the tea that we received is that she specifically moved
Speaker 1: to Potomach to be on this goddamn show. So she
Speaker 1: knew exactly what she was getting into when she signed
Speaker 1: up for her and her partner to be on Housewives.
Speaker 1: And I think for her to say she thought it
Speaker 1: was gonna be less messy, she thought it was gonna
Speaker 1: be more like Beverly Hills. But I just watched Beverly Hills.
Speaker 1: That ship. It's his own brand of mess But I
Speaker 1: see how Mia, the way that she acts and carries herself,
Speaker 1: or pretends to, because you know, it still seems very
Speaker 1: much like I'm putting on. Of course, she would pretend
Speaker 1: that she thinks she would fit on on the franchise
Speaker 1: like Beverly Hills. But she also remember she ain't got
Speaker 1: enough She ain't got enough money on Beverly Hills. She
Speaker 1: don't got enough money, and she's not like she's not
Speaker 1: of the caliber of Beverly Hills. You and I know that.
Speaker 1: Listen the fact that she bragged about making four hundred
Speaker 1: thousand a year. If you pick up them networks of
Speaker 1: the girls in Beverly Hills, Hunty, I think the person
Speaker 1: who makes the least amount of money is Crystal the
Speaker 1: new uh, the Asian girl who her husband made lyon
Speaker 1: King My Nigga, like, and I think that her net
Speaker 1: worth is like three million, but she makes the least
Speaker 1: Sun and it's like eight. Garcella is at like eight
Speaker 1: and those are the low you know, fucking Kyle and
Speaker 1: the Hilton, the whole Hilton brand was. She made it
Speaker 1: seem like she felt like she would fit more in
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. I was like, your net worth wouldn't have
Speaker 1: got you onto Beverly Hills. Um. You know, she's delisional,
Speaker 1: you know, has been delusional. That's been like her thing.
Speaker 1: And because she's been so delusional, I just assumed this
Speaker 1: was gonna be one of her taxis where she's like
Speaker 1: bluff thing to try to get a raise for the
Speaker 1: next season, or maybe it was her social media person
Speaker 1: doing that. And I hope they were in the hope
Speaker 1: that she gets fired afterwards, because I don't need to
Speaker 1: see another season. To me, honestly, that part, with the
Speaker 1: other bit of tea, I think I got. Um. I
Speaker 1: got the feeling that both Robin and Giselle actually like Karen.
Speaker 1: They had like really bad to say about Karen, and
Speaker 1: they do it as Pike h