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Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to yet another episode of Harvard Bled. This is

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Speaker 1: Young Weasy got on me about not dropping my case,

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Speaker 1: so I'm gonna give it to you motherfucker's this week.

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Speaker 1: This is your girl, Mandy b a k A pitt

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Speaker 1: standing a k A debt bitch a k A full

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Speaker 1: core pumps a k A Peggan Marko a k A

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Speaker 1: uh Mandy Baskins a k A hid you, daddies, That

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Speaker 1: was Neal Basket might see you. She's about to sooner.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm Mandy Baskins, but she don't own that last name.

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Speaker 1: She well, I'm weezy f lady. We have two guests here.

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Speaker 1: We have another couple in the building, um, which I

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Speaker 1: think we love having couples on the specially. I think

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Speaker 1: they had a bad couple of I don't think couples

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Speaker 1: are harder to come by, but I think the only couple.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, the one that wanted to remove their video

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Speaker 1: from YouTube. Okay, but no audio wise, that episode was fired, Like, no,

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Speaker 1: that was a great episode. Yeah, it was a great episode,

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Speaker 1: but she just so And this is why I talked

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Speaker 1: to our couple today and I was like, all right,

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Speaker 1: so y'all know we kind of popping right. So if

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Speaker 1: you have a real job, which a lot of us

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Speaker 1: host do, let us know because your parents, your siblings,

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Speaker 1: your co workers, your bosses will find you. UM. Well

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Speaker 1: we'll see what all the kinky stuff here into UM.

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Speaker 1: But without further ado, I want to introduce our guest today.

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Speaker 1: We have So Marvelous who is a prodom and we

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Speaker 1: are joined today by his sub siphon UM. I'm super

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Speaker 1: excited about this conversation because this is a dynamic that

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Speaker 1: Wheezy and I actually recently spoke about on our Patreon

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Speaker 1: UM when we were talking about so okay girl, do

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Speaker 1: not I mean what we do. We were talking about

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Speaker 1: RT Kelly nothing like the thing ever the conversations them from.

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Speaker 1: We were watching UM and this is probably not gonna

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Speaker 1: make it sound any better, but we were watching the Deuce,

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Speaker 1: which is the sex goal on next UM. And the

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Speaker 1: thing that I was talking about, more so with even

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Speaker 1: R Kelly, was the adults that chose to partake in

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Speaker 1: those type of subdom relations with with with R Kelly,

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Speaker 1: all especially being that my homegirl was one of those

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Speaker 1: girls that dealt with him and she let me know, girl,

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Speaker 1: I signed up for that, and it was did she

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Speaker 1: get what she wanted out of it? She? Oh, she

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Speaker 1: said she wanted to write the Nigga in jail, but

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Speaker 1: she knows he can't read the letter. Like she is

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Speaker 1: still for like, I mean, a lot of the women

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Speaker 1: was going anyways, by the way, it wasn't about I

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Speaker 1: finally watched that documentary. I couldn't bring myself to watch

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Speaker 1: it because I thought it would be too triggering for me,

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Speaker 1: with like violence and ship and Mandy was saying like, oh,

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Speaker 1: everybody was complicit, but a lot of the women on there,

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Speaker 1: the reason I couldn't really respect it as a dumb

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Speaker 1: and sub relationship is because most of them were so

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Speaker 1: young and it was so much manipulation that it made

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Speaker 1: it hard to look at it as his real kink.

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Speaker 1: And then they kept using his molestation and different things

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Speaker 1: that happened in his life as an excuse for him

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Speaker 1: having certain sexual fetishes and right, and that also is

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Speaker 1: a problematic thing too, because it's just like, so we're

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Speaker 1: all just sucked up in the hand because we want

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Speaker 1: to get slapped. Well, That's why I enjoy conversations like this.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of times people assume that when

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Speaker 1: you're into some level of b D s M, that

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Speaker 1: it stems from some traumatic experience. And so I love

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Speaker 1: that we have these conversations where it's like, nah, I

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Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to pull something out of my childhood.

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Speaker 1: This is genuinely something that pleases me. So I guess

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Speaker 1: let's start off a little bit because, Um, in introducing yourself,

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Speaker 1: I would love for you to explain how you are

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Speaker 1: essential prodom and how you bring sensuality to b DS. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A big part of what I do is I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to teach people that b D s M doesn't

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Speaker 1: even if you were to google b D s M

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Speaker 1: would say, is like white people should like I'm not

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Speaker 1: so I try to show people that there are more

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Speaker 1: pleasurable sides to it, Like you don't have to do

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Speaker 1: he has a lot of things here on the table.

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Speaker 1: So we have the leather flogs that we've introduced, and

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Speaker 1: weezy thing is spiked that don't look there. There is

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Speaker 1: as well. But I guess get into what things do

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Speaker 1: you see that would be white people ship and how

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Speaker 1: have you turned that into sensual domination. Well, I don't

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Speaker 1: like white people ship. But that's like what you hear

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Speaker 1: people in garbage bags, and guy, I'm not into that.

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Speaker 1: But um, I just try to show people, for example,

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Speaker 1: like these floggings right here. Absolutely I can flog somebody heart,

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Speaker 1: but usually when I start with someone that is totally new,

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Speaker 1: if you touch it, what you I suggest that you do?

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Speaker 1: Now you're realized it's not like it's not what you

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Speaker 1: I have like a basic four line. I'm really bad at.

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Speaker 1: Like sometimes I just be like yes and no, and

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Speaker 1: to talk to you about being a sub Now. A

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Speaker 1: But I love to serve him and I love to

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Speaker 1: make him comfortable. And why don't know, I just want

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Speaker 1: to start singing. Let me get to see you. On Twitter,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, but but what you just said rings

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Speaker 1: to be like waterboarded. Oh but you want to do

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Speaker 1: and I really only know, like really what it is

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Speaker 1: at one point both of you with waterboarding, Like how

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Speaker 1: so I was I wanted to tap in on what

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Speaker 1: What is the tip that you would give to other

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Speaker 1: able to take more criticism when it comes to sex,

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00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 1: but men, they get right into their feelings or words.

427
00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 1: So go find somebody else with this. And now if

428
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 1: you want all of them, like bro like, what you

429
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 1: can do is you can cater her experience so exactly

430
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 1: what she wants, so every single time is getting better

431
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,600
Speaker 1: and better. And if you should. You know, you don't

432
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,480
Speaker 1: have to do it every single time you have sex,

433
00:21:58,520 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 1: but try to do it as much as you can

434
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 1: every time you've done that with an experience, whether it

435
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 1: be sex, whether it be a B D S M scene,

436
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 1: debrief about it, talk about your favorite part, least favorite part,

437
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,119
Speaker 1: what you want more of in the future, and if

438
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 1: it kills your ego. Just a tip out there. I

439
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: would at least say this if someone is having terrible

440
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 1: sex with me, I'm not giving them tips. I'm done.

441
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,399
Speaker 1: But if I like having sex with you and I

442
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: have like a small improvement you like, trust me. I'm

443
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 1: just saying it. In the last bist doesn't when you

444
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 1: said that, I was trying to think, but you're right.

445
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 1: Like to me, when I give criticism, it's because I

446
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 1: really enjoy having sex with you and I want it

447
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: to be better. I want us to both feel like

448
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: it's better each time we have sex. If it's wet,

449
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:42,199
Speaker 1: we just never criticisah. And if it just came up

450
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 1: out of nowhere all of a sudden, it's like, why

451
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,120
Speaker 1: did they do that? I don't like that. It's because

452
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 1: they were trying something new because they wanted to surprise you.

453
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 1: So it's like, let me just kind of, you know,

454
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: say hey, I know you tried that. That was different.

455
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 1: I'm not sure how much I really like. Okay, So

456
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, as a sub, give a sex tip

457
00:22:57,640 --> 00:23:01,680
Speaker 1: to other subs. Listening sex tips to other subs. So,

458
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 1: I mean everyone's sexual relationship with their dominant, don't get nervous.

459
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: Everyone's relationship with their is very specific, right, Um, So

460
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,920
Speaker 1: it really depends on your kinks. I enjoy just being

461
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: ravage being taken having zero control over what happens. You wanted,

462
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 1: no problem, We're doing this. It's good. But I would

463
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: say as a sub, it's communicating your desires. Something that

464
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: we did early on was talking about the kind of

465
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: porn we watch like because that that if it's getting

466
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: me off, then it's something that interests me. So by

467
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 1: sharing that, some people are kind of ashamed to like

468
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 1: share there. It took me first. It took me forever

469
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 1: to share with especially once I was like, well, I

470
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 1: really like you like It took forever to share with

471
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,359
Speaker 1: him that I liked watching two men fuck, I watched

472
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:59,719
Speaker 1: gay Man. Yeah, And so he was like in the bed, like, well,

473
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: let me see what you watched. And I was like,

474
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: you ain't even you all want to see this. You

475
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: don't want to see what gets me off. But I

476
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: think that that start a conversation like well, why do

477
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: you like it? And I told him too it had

478
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: to do with the cleanliness. I feel like, um, there

479
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: are a lot more sensual in gay porn. So men moan,

480
00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: men kiss their Buddha holes, be shaven and clean like

481
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,919
Speaker 1: straight sex, be a little rough. Like at first when

482
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 1: you said more essential in gay porn I was like, no,

483
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,680
Speaker 1: but also I think it's just but no, No, I

484
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 1: watched gay porn too. I think it's because we're watching

485
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: porn be so rough against women. I don't think like

486
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 1: my gay friends are never telling me about the most

487
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 1: central sex they're having. But I think gay men like

488
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: make kiss and they're not thinking about it. But we

489
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 1: just rarely see kissing in porn. It is saying like

490
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: how rough. I mean, I like watching rough sex I

491
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: porn because I really watched porn for the novelty of

492
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: it um, but it is kind of annoying sometimes where

493
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: it's like god damn. I kind of like when the

494
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: camera goes to the girl and I see her own

495
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 1: like and you'll see even comments sometimes where it's like,

496
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: oh she enjoys this. That's the most funny part to

497
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 1: me about sex is that men are so focused on

498
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: themselves and porn or fucking you know, high five and

499
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,760
Speaker 1: the other nigger in a gang bank. When all the

500
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: comments that you'll see when a bitch is like really

501
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,520
Speaker 1: good at her jobs, Oh she loves it, that's what

502
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: we want to see. We don't want to see you

503
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: being like okay. So what I would recommend this is

504
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: a good plug. Black Touch. Have you are you familiar

505
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: with that company? Black Not Touch b B LK touch

506
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: dot com. We have a scene on there. Um and

507
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: they specialized well, he specializes and showing real sensuality and porn.

508
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,520
Speaker 1: It's an old black owned company. UM, and it's really good,

509
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: very well done, very taste. It's it's it's it's totally

510
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 1: different than anything you'll see on porn hub or x videos.

511
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,720
Speaker 1: And I'm about to check out for like two minutes.

512
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 1: Get into outside of the bedroom. Is this dumb sub

513
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,000
Speaker 1: relationships still active outside of the bedroom. She's the boss

514
00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: outside of the bedroom. She's the boss outside, so outside yes?

515
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: And how does how does this switch on and off

516
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: with when you guys know you're relinquishing power to each other.

517
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: Is it only in the sex space, because clearly you

518
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: guys do a lot of things outside of Recently, I

519
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: just I just discovered um and this is crazy to

520
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 1: a minute, I just realized that I am a switch

521
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 1: right um, but only for her. And I say that

522
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: because you know, um, something that I deep down desires

523
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: someone to help me remain more organized. Like I'm really

524
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: good at performing and showing up and doing my thing.

525
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: But it's the behind the scenes stuff that I struggle with,

526
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: if I'm allowed to be honest. So I realized that

527
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: she's super good with those things. And I'm like, Babe,

528
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 1: when we're not doing the show, when we're not doing

529
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: the scene, where we're not fucking, when we're not you know,

530
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: presenting ourselves, I would love for you to tell me

531
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: what to do and and keep me on, keep me,

532
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: hold me accountable for those things, you know what I mean.

533
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,719
Speaker 1: And she does a really good job with that, like, hey,

534
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: did you send an email, did you make sure you

535
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: work out, did you you know, to contact the school,

536
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 1: the kids, teachers or whatever the case be. Just making

537
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 1: sure that, like I'm I'm you know, keeping on it

538
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: up and up and that that that turns me on.

539
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: So I mean, when you said you like the switch,

540
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: at first, I was really thinking, like having a girlfriend

541
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 1: that's girlfriend she well, I mean, but she she can't

542
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: tap me when I when I when I don't do

543
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: what I want to do, because um, you know that

544
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: ission within the limits of he's willing to do what

545
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: is topping within limits because I know how I'll be topping.

546
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: I don't think you talking about riding because I was

547
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: not technical that that well, talking is a BDS term,

548
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 1: right like the b D s M. Excuse me when

549
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:45,120
Speaker 1: we say top and bottom generally on this show, you guys,

550
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 1: do hear I say top and bottom? What I'm talking about, um,

551
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 1: gay sex or an't no sex or whatever strapping up?

552
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: But a top in D s M can be a

553
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:59,240
Speaker 1: term used for the dom, right, you can. It's interchangeable,

554
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: but I think we just normally say it. Yeah, yeah,

555
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:07,280
Speaker 1: are you I am cub Yeah, and you're Latina to

556
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: Puerto Rican. I love PoCA ts Madicine, what man my

557
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: new favorite clip on Internet. Ts Madiicine puts this wig

558
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: on and she said, oh I feel like a porter

559
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: reckon in that. And then she goes someone which is

560
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:31,879
Speaker 1: that's Mexicans. Many look at you knowing that I know

561
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 1: we're Selenda. She was j Lo is a Puto Rican

562
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 1: and the Mexican community was upset. I mean, I'll be

563
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: real when I mean I saw the clipping, this is it.

564
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: She was a Mexican. Oh damn, I wish we could

565
00:28:48,760 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: hear it is not Oh my god, but uh, keep

566
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: she's really getting this with j Lo a motown what

567
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: she was saying in Motown and I'm I'll take it

568
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 1: to go CCS Madison. Um, well, let's go ahead and

569
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: get into it them. We are going to get into

570
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: the sensual side of B D S M. However, I

571
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 1: want to start this conversation off for anyone black listening,

572
00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: any person of color listening who is just like I

573
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: know of this to be white people ship. So how

574
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,360
Speaker 1: do I introduce this to the people that I'm dating?

575
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: And I asked that because I would love to know

576
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: both of y'all's experience with being introduced to B D

577
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: S M um, and how you've then been able to

578
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: introduce it to your partners moving forward that you've been dating. So,

579
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: as a dumb I guess, um, a lot of men

580
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: that I've dated, especially black men, they assumed to just

581
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: that they're doms because they run ship there, man, and

582
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: they're gonna fuck you till you tired type of ship.

583
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: So how did you how were you able to differentiate

584
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: how you showed up as a DOM in the bedroom

585
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: that was not just I'm in charge of the bedroom. Well, um,

586
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 1: I'll take time to educate myself every day, like listening

587
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: to the horrible decision, I literally wake up. I'm a

588
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 1: huge nerd. I'm a huge nerd. I was. I was

589
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: spending last last night learning about different hormones that are

590
00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: released from the brain, um, you know during sexual like

591
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get us. It's it's really it's a

592
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: lot of science that that is evolved. I'm involved in

593
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: b D s M and when you take time to

594
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: understand it, like something that we're gonna do. Fireplay, which

595
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 1: I always tell people to me, is like the epitome

596
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: of what b D s M is to me. Like,

597
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,719
Speaker 1: you know, us as black Fold, we don't play run

598
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 1: no fire, we don't specially around their hair and like,

599
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: but when you take the time to understand what fireplay

600
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: is why the temperature doesn't burn so hot that since

601
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: station it gives you the reason it may make you

602
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: feel aroused or potentially bring about orgasm, You're like, wow,

603
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: imagine all the other things that I was afraid to

604
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: try that you know that I didn't And you know

605
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: that's that's basically what it represents for me. So I'm

606
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: always constantly looking for something new that I can try

607
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: to add to the list of things that I want

608
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: to you know, explore in the bedroom. But more importantly

609
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: is I think it's just the fact that I'm like

610
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: a super active communicator, Like I'm always putting her onto

611
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: something that I'm watching that I wanted to try. We're

612
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: going to discuss it in and lengthen, and in fact,

613
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 1: like we we have an ongoing joke, like we're always

614
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: negotiating our next scene, because anytime I bring her bring

615
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: up something, she's like, I know where this is going.

616
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about this for about a week. We're

617
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: gonna try it next week. I wanted to ask that

618
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: was he your first person to introduce you to this

619
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: side of VideA something or did you have a partner

620
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: before him that was into all of this. I have

621
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: never had a dom before. However, um, when I entered

622
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: into lifestyle and started going to like play party parties,

623
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: you start to me people with different backgrounds. So there

624
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: were other people that had don backgrounds that you know,

625
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: they would come with floggers, they would come with things

626
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: to spank people and do impact play, and I was

627
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: very curious, like, I don't know what you're getting out

628
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: of that. So of course automatically it's like put your

629
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: hands here, bend over there, I'm gonna show you, and

630
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: it was. It was not what I expected at all.

631
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: You know, I'm thinking I'm just gonna get hit, and

632
00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: it was very it was a slow build up and

633
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: it was like, you know, it's it's like this, and

634
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I could see that. But also I

635
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: didn't feel comfortable to allow myself to be aroused because

636
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: I wasn't aroused by this person, right, So I was like,

637
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: I kind of get it. It kind of makes my

638
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: body feel a little woozy. I kind of like like

639
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: where this is going? But with and I want to

640
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: talk about it because you guys, you have a dungeon

641
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: as well. Correct. So my experience, my most recent experience

642
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: uh in a dungeon was in Orlando, uh and I

643
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: wish I could bring no. It was actually the dungeon

644
00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 1: at Secrets, So there's a dungeon there and I was

645
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: able to experience. First off, I believe I'm claustrophobic, like

646
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 1: I don't like ti areas. But I actually got suspended

647
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: with bondage. And while I was suspended with bondage, not

648
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: only was I being flogged by the wife um that

649
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: was with the couple, but the doum that was also

650
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: playing with me was doing electro play, and I had

651
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: was just certain I was not going to like it.

652
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 1: And ironically, not only was my back in such an

653
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 1: amazing like being suspended with bondage, I just my everything

654
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: just felt stretched out and just like in a different

655
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 1: type of Oh my god. I was like, I didn't

656
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: even feel like I was constrained. And then that's where

657
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: right constrained. Yes, And then non insation is don't don't,

658
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: don't don't confrontation what it was? Um, that's a Patreon joke.

659
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: If you're not on Patreon, you won't get it. Um.

660
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: But when the electro place started going, and I don't

661
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: know if it was because my blood flow was, I

662
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh this is nice, this feels good. Um,

663
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 1: electroplay I've only done in dungeons. I also did it

664
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 1: in a dungeon here. I wanted to ask both of

665
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: you with owning it, why someone would go to a

666
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: dungeon and also what your favorite equipment in the dungeon

667
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: is that maybe we wouldn't find on this table or

668
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 1: in our bedroom, because that should be express. Yeah, yo,

669
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 1: trust me, you must be rich grocer happens, Yes, your

670
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: drove here. Goddamn y'all rich A big part of um,

671
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: you know, like they say, the biggest of sex organ

672
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 1: is the mind, right, So a big part of like

673
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 1: getting the mind turned on is ambiance. So the dungeon

674
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: itself creates that that that ambiance that you want, like

675
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: the slow lead. Um, of course it smells good, but

676
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 1: also the things that the furniture, not walking, wet plussy,

677
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: you know what. The ambiance that's really it. Yeah, because

678
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,880
Speaker 1: when you talked about suspension, just now thought about it

679
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: was our first episode. I think when I did that

680
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: aerial yoga and I threw up on myself. That was

681
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 1: the only time I've really been suspended. But Dad was

682
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: probably it looked like a yoga studio right which I

683
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: was in a whole The lights was down. It was

684
00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 1: red light, red light doing maybe I wait if they're okay,

685
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 1: hold on you like a scientist, Now what is it

686
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: with the red lights? Um? You know, so different lights

687
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: do evoke different emotions. Okay, so that's been proven. I mean,

688
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: we mean, we we know what to means stop, So

689
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: I'm confused at how it brings out the dark the

690
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: darker red so to speak, the bright red means stopped.

691
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: Like that is the one that brings you to attention,

692
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: like whoa, but a low light kind of red kind

693
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,719
Speaker 1: of makes you feel more comfortable, more soothing, more like

694
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,919
Speaker 1: chill versus like these bright lights right here. You feel

695
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: awakened when you when you bring down the lights. Think

696
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 1: about it. Anytime somebody's trying to get sexy, what you

697
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: do exactly. If you think about anything that had a

698
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: sex scene, they always changed the lights down a little bit.

699
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 1: So you're already you're already like trained to recognize a

700
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: light like that's kind of red in the background to

701
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:05,920
Speaker 1: kind of be like, Okay, this is something sexy. This

702
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: is I was gonna say this. It just said when

703
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 1: I looked it up, it said that red is a

704
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: color that represents desire and love, and so we're trained

705
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: to think that very interesting. I mean, there are many

706
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: different colors. I mean, I'm not I'm not. I don't remember.

707
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,920
Speaker 1: I can't recall them all with the DIALA lights is

708
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,920
Speaker 1: blue and A shrooms that sex I haven't had in

709
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 1: my life. So I have blue and shrooms and sex

710
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: is the magic equation. And that's another thing to keep

711
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: in mind. Like granted, like yes, for the most part,

712
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:33,879
Speaker 1: the red light is going to do it, but each

713
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: person is different. Maybe you're like you said, the blue

714
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: light work for you and ship she just says shrooms.

715
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: I just had a thought whenever I go to sex

716
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: clubs and people aren't like crazy fucked up, but like

717
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: maybe someone's drinking, maybe someone's did a little molly isshrooms

718
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: or we'd edibles whatever. Is there any drug that like

719
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:56,240
Speaker 1: you've seen heightening experience, not promoting it or done the opposite.

720
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: Have you seen someone on drugs and you couldn't work

721
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: with them? Or I mean I saw you were quick

722
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,480
Speaker 1: to last time I went to the sex club, everyone

723
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: was dimly on molly and nobody's dick was working. A

724
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: lot of men their dicks was just what I mean

725
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: from a from a sub perspective or what you're doing. Well,

726
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,640
Speaker 1: I don't know me personally. Only thing I could do

727
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,120
Speaker 1: with smoke way because I'm like paranoid to try anything

728
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: else because the way I was a crack baby. So

729
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 1: it's a little differ but a little serious. But I

730
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 1: really do try to stray away from it because I

731
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: don't know what's in my system. I would be a

732
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: little nervous if I'm honest. Um, So you know, family

733
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: history is a big thing. So me personally, I can't

734
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: say what I've tried or you know, Um, and a

735
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: lot of the times, you know, we a lot of

736
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,720
Speaker 1: the parties that we go to now because we started

737
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,399
Speaker 1: in the regular like let's just go to any party,

738
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: any club, But a lot of the parties we go

739
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: to now like heavily vetted, like secret society, kind of

740
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: kind of society, secret party, this kind of thing where

741
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 1: everybody is a small you know, nick group so to speak,

742
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 1: and the rules of engagement is like making sure that

743
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: you are not you know, over intoxicated. Um, you're not

744
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: like super hard. It is a really intense experience with

745
00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 1: something like that too. Yeah, So you know, like that's

746
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: why I say, lott, we take off the edge for me,

747
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Other people they might try

748
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: other things, but for the most part, I've never really

749
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: seen anybody in my particular scene that is like too

750
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 1: fucked up, you know what I mean. Now that I've

751
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 1: been really into like the scene, like I don't go

752
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: to collegilate anymore, that's definitely. Yeah, I don't know what

753
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,400
Speaker 1: happened to that place. Um, But now that I'm like

754
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 1: really in the mix of sex, clubs, and it's really

755
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: like the only type of location membership, only the experience

756
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: is more comfortable and you you don't feel like people

757
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: they're even have the gens of it being like they

758
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: need to be. And what I think a lot of

759
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: you know, sex clubs have with the B y O

760
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 1: B thing, which is what most do because obviously the

761
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 1: liquor license and we want to make sure that we

762
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: can keep these places safe. You kind of think if

763
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: collegula is the first type time of place, someone's gonna

764
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,520
Speaker 1: getting sucked up to be there because they just don't

765
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen, right, which is what happened. Like

766
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: me and my friend the first time I went, we

767
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 1: killed an entire bottle of Don Julio, and so there

768
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: were bits and pieces that we both had to remind

769
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: each other about that night. And you know, we ended

770
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 1: up going again for Halloween, but we knew that that

771
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: was we then felt safe enough to know we didn't

772
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: have to be that intoxicated. But we both had such

773
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: nerves and jitters that we we probably got way to

774
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 1: too drunk drunker than we should have been in that space.

775
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: I dont't drink, I don't really I'll have maybe one

776
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: to max okay while I'm there, and even then it's

777
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 1: not guaranteed. So I like to so I like to

778
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: be free. I'm I'm usually one of the first people

779
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: naked dressed downtoime because I'm ready. I brought this a

780
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: little outfit. I'm ready to show it off. I really

781
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 1: don't even put effort into the like party, actually we did.

782
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 1: Really did you guys both have people with you know

783
00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: that night or did you you fell in love? And

784
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: I hope it's like I'm not to find it for real,

785
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 1: for real, like if you won't like mind the people

786
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,080
Speaker 1: you want, you want to be in areas where they're

787
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 1: going to be to write. Um, I wasn't. I was

788
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 1: there with my partner at the time, and I knew

789
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: he was going to be there, so you know, this

790
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: was kind of a small What had happened was, um,

791
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: it's a small group, so everybody knew who was going

792
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,359
Speaker 1: to be there already. Was actually like a Christmas party.

793
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:30,800
Speaker 1: We're kind of doing like a secret Santa like and

794
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: you know, the person who was promoting it was like, oh,

795
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: we're going to also have this dom there. He's going

796
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: to be doing demos and dropped his profile in and

797
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 1: I was like stalker, stalker talking to my partner like

798
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 1: he's going to be there, This looks dope. I want

799
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 1: to try this. I can't wait to meet him. And

800
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:50,279
Speaker 1: he was. He had a partner at the time, and

801
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:51,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't wait to meet them both,

802
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 1: you know. So I went for the party and also

803
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 1: to meet him because like I wanted to know more

804
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: about this, and his style was right up my alley

805
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: because I'm not really into the you know, the the

806
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,320
Speaker 1: deep dark like what I say, yeah, the leather that

807
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: doesn't really do it for me. But I mean, look

808
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 1: at him. Were you guys relationships? Yes? Did you go

809
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: from clients to it it um? Yes? Yes, I can

810
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 1: say that I booked him. I booked him so you know, transpared,

811
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: little transparent. Yes, I paid for the experience because after

812
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 1: that demo, I got that night my like first time

813
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: like squirting like on it was insane. He actually brought

814
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 1: my partner to help kind of do it, you know,

815
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: a massagic So you just know, like you you can

816
00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 1: make any woman square? Is that a thing? I would

817
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 1: never say that talk about what I will say that

818
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: I've never met a woman that I couldn't make s work.

819
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 1: Thus fall Okay, we're not and I genuinely mean it,

820
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: right because is it fingers? Is it? Um wandes? Like,

821
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 1: what have you seen to be the easiest way into squirting?

822
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: So I want to give you a short answer, but

823
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 1: like I don't want to promote the wrong thing there.

824
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 1: You have to take your time. You have to make

825
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,040
Speaker 1: a person feel comfortable, and you have to make a

826
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 1: person feel like it's not They're not pressure to do that.

827
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't.

828
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 1: I never even man, I never even mentioned the word

829
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:34,840
Speaker 1: squirting when I'm trying to make it happen. I just

830
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: tell people to push out in it and the entire

831
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: throughout the entire experience. Everything else I'm doing is to

832
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 1: arouse you to get your pussy like feeling like damn,

833
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,400
Speaker 1: thats hard as the dick, so to speak, as the clickers.

834
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: You know, the click is hard when it gets really aroused.

835
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 1: So I'm taking my time to arouse them as much

836
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 1: as I can, and then I'm giving them clatoral stimulation

837
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: and that I'm I'm massage in the G spot. And

838
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 1: then I'm also um I'm really good with making people

839
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 1: come on command. That's that's like one of my tricks

840
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:07,920
Speaker 1: that I do. Kind of like that. One of the

841
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: most amazing things that I saw recently on your page

842
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: is that you make womens squirt with fire your face.

843
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: So can you I'd like to see it. Can you

844
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:26,319
Speaker 1: talk a little bit about how I'm not gonna hold

845
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 1: you fire by my pussy. I don't even know how

846
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 1: my mind would allow me to relax and be aroused

847
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 1: by that. So how are you getting to a place

848
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: where you can use fire to make a woman squirt?

849
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: If you can explain it, and then also if you

850
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: could talk about the fire tools that you have. Okay,

851
00:43:43,640 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 1: um so um. I normally started by just giving a

852
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: regular massage and then I move on to like a

853
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: fire massage. I'm big on temperature place, so I'll start

854
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: with like using like ice on my hands, and then um,

855
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 1: after a warm, warm or your massage, I'll start with

856
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 1: the ice in my hands and our massage to bring

857
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 1: their their temperature you know, um lower, making them cold.

858
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 1: And then I was the mom I'm pretty good gae

859
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: the temperature though. I want you guys to fill the

860
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: fire today. That's why I brought it today so you

861
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,440
Speaker 1: can see. I won't put it on your pusy day.

862
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 1: I'll let you fill it on your arm so you

863
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:18,680
Speaker 1: can see. How are you saying not today, like you

864
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: just know you're gonna put I did, uh, And we

865
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: both were experience. I did a fuse, like just a

866
00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 1: little skit thing with my friend Rory, and we basically

867
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:30,840
Speaker 1: pulled out all these sex toys and different things they

868
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 1: brought and we didn't know what they're bringing. And we

869
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: both used a candle when I was in the car

870
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: and we were just sitting around with it, and in

871
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:40,760
Speaker 1: the car, I was like, dude, I fucking burned myself.

872
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 1: He's like me too. And I realized when I watched

873
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: the video back I was pouring it from here and

874
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:51,359
Speaker 1: it was so stayed for like a month. The higher

875
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: it is, the more argus a chance it. And also

876
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: want to use body safe oils, I mean a body

877
00:44:56,719 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 1: safe but exactly there's also a difference in I think

878
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: that that's very important. If you're listening and maybe you

879
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 1: don't have the tools that their marvelous has, but you

880
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: have candles, it does have to be a soy wax

881
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: candle that is safe to go on your body. And

882
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 1: basically what happens to then is when it's soy wax,

883
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 1: it doesn't necessarily become hard. As soon as it hits taken,

884
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 1: it becomes oil. So then it could be something that

885
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:20,600
Speaker 1: you massage, but for sure you want to. And that's

886
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: how I played with my partner as well, like I

887
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: started off higher and then I drop it. Then I

888
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,840
Speaker 1: bring it back up. But the but the higher you

889
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: bring it it allows All right, let's see. Yeah, let's

890
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:38,560
Speaker 1: get into fireplay. Let's get into your tools. Kids. Don't

891
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 1: try this at home, and yes you can real quick

892
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 1: because we love a good audio experience here. I want

893
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: to be sure that you're able to talk about what

894
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: it is, what the tool is. Well, I'll tell y'all

895
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: what it looks like. It looks like. It looks like

896
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: a gun. Oh, go ahead, it looks like a torch.

897
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: That's the word. Now he got a comrade. Okay, sorry,

898
00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: I'll looks okay, um, okay, So is that a marshmallow

899
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 1: that it wasn't a fire? Can you really explain? So

900
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 1: explain what this? Yeah? What is that? He just touched it.

901
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: We only did the general insurance in the studio Okay.

902
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: Now he said, there's no smoke that comes to you. Okay, okay,

903
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: don't put it by the mic How does that feel warm?

904
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 1: It feels good though? Why are you? Can you push

905
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:33,280
Speaker 1: his microphone more? Yes? Thank you? Yes? How does that feel?

906
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: It actually feels like you have hot oil on your hand,

907
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: but you don't. There's no oil at all. Oh wow,

908
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:46,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to look okay. So also, I definitely

909
00:46:46,280 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 1: want to tell you what I just saw coming over.

910
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 1: He was holding a stick thing Mandy, and he was

911
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: touching the fire with his hand and then touching Mandy.

912
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 1: So are you going to get a different example that

913
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: I thought you were? You light her ass off? No, no, no,

914
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:04,320
Speaker 1: I do want to plug my fire really quickly. I

915
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 1: want to plug my fire mentor right now. If you

916
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: guys go to my page which will probably be tagged,

917
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 1: and my professional and my link tree. Um is my

918
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: fire mentor is located in my link tree. So he

919
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,000
Speaker 1: can teach you about creating a fire kit, how to

920
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: be safe with it, everything that you need to know

921
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 1: about fire. He does lessons, he does in class, lessons everything.

922
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: He's the man. So I want to always any time

923
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: I do an interview that involves fire. I always plug

924
00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 1: him because he said plug fire, but like, yes, support that,

925
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna we're gonna switch through a quick so easy

926
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: can experience this as well. I'm just confused. Why touch

927
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: the fire? It feels good? Okay, okay, okay, wait, but

928
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: also is there a way because I did see you

929
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 1: sometimes you put that near someone's skin too, right, Yes,

930
00:47:54,840 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 1: I do exactly, so I can massage your pussy with this,

931
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 1: But how are you able to do massage it with that? Or?

932
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: This is what I'm glad to explain. So the way

933
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,439
Speaker 1: the fireplay works now smells like burnt We've well, yeah,

934
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: it's gonna smell because I'm burning the hairs off your arm.

935
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 1: It does burn hair a little bit. Um, but my

936
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:28,319
Speaker 1: smell yeah yeah, yeah it's safe. There's hair so um.

937
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: The way fireplay is usually um done is used that

938
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: the the selerant is alcohol. So if the higher percentage

939
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: that the water is inside of the alcohol, the higher

940
00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 1: percentage the water is inside of the alcohol, the less

941
00:48:40,320 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 1: flammable and the less um the temperature of it is

942
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 1: going to be brought down. So I smell like barbecue.

943
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 1: I smelled like something charred girls, so a lot of times,

944
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:58,320
Speaker 1: not me because she got oil on you. Yeah okay

945
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: again started like people, wait, you do do the oil

946
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: massage first? So yeah, because it didn't. That didn't happen

947
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,399
Speaker 1: to me. Oh my bad, you didn't get oiled down.

948
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:17,919
Speaker 1: He oiled me down. Here he go as the dom

949
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 1: and then it's not like he handed me the oil.

950
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: He said, but your leg up, I got you started

951
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: rubbing my leg um, So that's interesting. You have to

952
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: take that step for ye, that's a good step. It's

953
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: not it's not a necessary step. Um. If the person

954
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: like you said, I'm comfortable with the smile. If I

955
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 1: tell people all the time when I'm doing fire planet

956
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,359
Speaker 1: them if you have they have hairy legs and harry back.

957
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 1: You might smell a little burn head. But don't worry

958
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 1: long as you're safe, you know, like are you in

959
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: any pain? I mean it ain't no different if not

960
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: the flat iron to your hair. But honestly that hurts,

961
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 1: like like that's the flat and graze my skin like

962
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 1: but that's the skin. I didn't feel a sting at all.

963
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: I think that was more aesthetic for anything like watching

964
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: it made. But remember, like I said, the biggest sex

965
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: organ is the brain. So imagine seeing that, Imagine knowing

966
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: what's happening. Imagine being in my dungeon and light is down,

967
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking in your air. The music is playing, and

968
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: I can't wait. I got a fireplaylist. I want to

969
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,879
Speaker 1: ask you, because I know you said sometime to take

970
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: a week to try things out and stuff. Has there

971
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: anything that he's been brought that he's brought to you

972
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:29,239
Speaker 1: that you've been like, I don't know about it. I

973
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: think that's I think that's it's a problem that we

974
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: have where we're both just like, all right, all right,

975
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,439
Speaker 1: I'll try anything twice, you can do it. It's fine.

976
00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: I trust him. I trust that he's gonna take the

977
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: necessary precautions. He's going to make sure that he's doing

978
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:46,800
Speaker 1: in the safest There's times where what was it that

979
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:51,560
Speaker 1: we tried that you were the first time? Remind me

980
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 1: where were we what were we doing? Was the first

981
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:01,879
Speaker 1: time that we were doing actual fire play after doing

982
00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 1: the training, and it was, you know, trying to navigate

983
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: my tolerance level for it, because the best way to

984
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:11,880
Speaker 1: learn anything is to do it to yourself. So he

985
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: knows his tolerance level, but he doesn't know mine, for say,

986
00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: but he wants to be able to make it last longer.

987
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 1: So it was very like, okay, we're going to make

988
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: sure this is here, the waters right here, right here,

989
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,800
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna start now, and checking in frequently

990
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: he would do a line of fire, how are you feeling?

991
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,840
Speaker 1: How are you feeling? Is that okay? All right? And

992
00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: then he'll keep going. So it builds the confidence of

993
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 1: of where my tolerance is and what he's able to do.

994
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: So I trust that he's going to take those steps

995
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 1: because I know how he works. I didn't catch that,

996
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: and I look, do you have any more question? No

997
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 1: ending us on there? And what I am coingy joke

998
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 1: person on this podcast, thank you very much. And I

999
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,120
Speaker 1: was waiting for my moment and you took the is

1000
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: joke and I just feel very upset. Sorry, damn, I

1001
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 1: missed the joke. I said it was okay, okay, you're

1002
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: right all right. Well, before we get out of here,

1003
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 1: I do want to get to homemail. Um and for

1004
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: this one, because we have a couple of this is

1005
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: when I really like to ask these types of questions.

1006
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: So this one, the title is Me and my boyfriend

1007
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 1: and different sex drives. So, hey, girls, have a big

1008
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: issue in my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been

1009
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 1: together for four months and have only sucked five times,

1010
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: and I'm almost with him, and I'm with him almost

1011
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,560
Speaker 1: every day. In my past relationships, I was used to

1012
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: doing it damn near every day, multiple times a day.

1013
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: I know this man really loves me and he treats

1014
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 1: me better than any man ever has, but sex just

1015
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: isn't a thing for him. I guess. I've talked to

1016
00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 1: him about it, and he opened up to me and

1017
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:52,880
Speaker 1: told me he was molested when he was younger by

1018
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: an older girl, and ever since, sex just doesn't really

1019
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 1: cross his mind that much. He has initiated sex a

1020
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 1: few times, but most of the time I have to,

1021
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: but sometimes he says he's tired when I ask. The

1022
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,760
Speaker 1: sexual energy is always there, and he is always very touchy.

1023
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,359
Speaker 1: It's like he's teasing me. So I'm confused. I really

1024
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:13,359
Speaker 1: love this man and I don't want to cheat on him,

1025
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 1: but I'm horny every day and it's getting annoying. Um.

1026
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 1: She's pretty much asking what should she do in this situation? Oh,

1027
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: I want to I'm gonna take a secondal process. You

1028
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: want to try it? All right? We're giving advice. I

1029
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 1: want to put this claimer out there. I am not

1030
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 1: a registered sech therapist. I have to tell him the

1031
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: medicine not registered sex therapist. However, I will say this, um,

1032
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,800
Speaker 1: sharing something that deep and and personal with someone is

1033
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: extremely intimate, and sometimes you need to find intimacy in

1034
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: order for someone to really feel like they're able to

1035
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: explore their things. And if you're willing to be patient,

1036
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: but you also need to be very honest with yourself.

1037
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 1: If I need to have sex five times a week

1038
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 1: and this is not something that they're able to do,

1039
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: then conversations about all right, are there ways that are

1040
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: you okay with me having side partners? Are you okay

1041
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:16,359
Speaker 1: with us going to a play party? Baby? We can

1042
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: start using toys, mutual masturbation, things along those lines. So

1043
00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: there's ways to go about it. There's so many things

1044
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 1: that can be pleasurable and are not actually penetrative sex

1045
00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:29,919
Speaker 1: that they can explore if the intimacy is there. Because

1046
00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:33,759
Speaker 1: she she she did mention that he's always teasing, he's

1047
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: always touching her, so definitely he used to try that

1048
00:54:36,160 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: say he probably has a blockage of course in itself,

1049
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: I would say as well, I did like what you

1050
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:44,920
Speaker 1: say said in terms of introducing toys, but also I

1051
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: think that that is a very important conversation for us

1052
00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:51,759
Speaker 1: to have as adults. What does our sexual relationship look

1053
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 1: like in a relationship and if someone can't match your appetite,

1054
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: is there is there a way for us to exist

1055
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 1: together with with with opening our eyes to possibly non monogamy.

1056
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: I think that we've talked about non monogamy on this

1057
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: guy to be an open and willing partner, like you know,

1058
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 1: the last few months sound horrible. I've been talking about

1059
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,240
Speaker 1: and been open about depression and how I've been unable

1060
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: to reach orgasm because of you know, antidepressants and not

1061
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: feeling super sexual. And I had to be honest and

1062
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: being like, Okay, well, I understand that I'm normally such

1063
00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 1: a sexual person that I might bring you to the

1064
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 1: point where you have to lie right. So I want

1065
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,439
Speaker 1: to make sure that I'm understanding that if I can't

1066
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 1: give you this for a few months or my brain

1067
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: isn't there right now, that I can't take it too

1068
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 1: personal either, And I think that somebody that can, because

1069
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: you can't expect someone to not fuck you know what

1070
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:47,440
Speaker 1: I mean? You really can't. I don't think that. I

1071
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: mean maybe someone who's a sexual. I was just gonna

1072
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 1: say a sexual. If that your premise of your relationship

1073
00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 1: started with no sex, that's understandable. A friend of mine

1074
00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 1: who's selling it, she's been selling it three years. To me,

1075
00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Somebody who made a commitment to her

1076
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: cool the nigga. I'm having three with me for three years,

1077
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: So you know what I mean? If if I'm not

1078
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: there yet, I'm not there yet? What can I do? So?

1079
00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:09,799
Speaker 1: I do think it's sucked up to take something away

1080
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 1: from someone. So if this person has never been that

1081
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,800
Speaker 1: for you, that'll be difficult. If the person was that

1082
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,600
Speaker 1: person in a change, then it's time for congbo. But

1083
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: you can't hold something against somebody they've never had like

1084
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? If a nigga was just like, damn,

1085
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:24,040
Speaker 1: I really want to suck you in, ask I can't

1086
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: suck you in the ask? Well you never have? What

1087
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 1: did this happen? You know what that means? So fast

1088
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 1: for something that's like out of the wood word And

1089
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:32,879
Speaker 1: I think the fact that the relationship is only four

1090
00:56:32,960 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: months old, this is the time to have that conversation.

1091
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: Don't let this relationship get to a year and a

1092
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: half and now it's only a didn't that didn't process either. Yeah,

1093
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:45,239
Speaker 1: it's a four month relationship. They've only had sex third times,

1094
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:51,760
Speaker 1: so I think that yes, in four months, she clearly

1095
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:53,919
Speaker 1: didn't don't feel on the drink. Now I've heard five

1096
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 1: times she need four months, but maybe because you said

1097
00:56:56,680 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: five times a week. Yeah, here I see what you need.

1098
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 1: The math was the math and but now the math math. Yeah. Um,

1099
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 1: well I want to see how sex in the last

1100
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 1: few months. And another big question to access how often

1101
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: does he masturbate? Because an orgasm is still there, So

1102
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 1: they're like, if that's there, then you can work with that.

1103
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 1: Masturbation too would be a thing. Yeah. So if if

1104
00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: if he desires and that that you can work with

1105
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: that and you can find other ways to meet in

1106
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: the middle, you know what I mean. Maybe well, no,

1107
00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: he he was molested when he was young. Sex but

1108
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:36,920
Speaker 1: right now, I mean, but to me, that's that's that's

1109
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 1: a trauma that a lot of people, a lot of

1110
00:57:39,520 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: people don't get over, especially women too. So if a

1111
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,920
Speaker 1: woman's if a woman is not um trying to have

1112
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: sex or jump you, you should know that maybe she

1113
00:57:48,640 --> 00:57:50,400
Speaker 1: has traumas that she's still working on, and I think

1114
00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 1: the patients doesn't need to be given for that. But

1115
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 1: you need to acknowledge if that's something you as a partner,

1116
00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: are willing to be patient with what you say. If

1117
00:57:58,680 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 1: that's something you ain't got the patience because but you

1118
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: need Joe Nut, you might need to go ahead and

1119
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: just in that relationship and find someone who can be

1120
00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: with you sexually as much as you need to. UM.

1121
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: By the way, UM, I'm super excited. It ain't even confirmed,

1122
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna sit here today. I'm about to experience,

1123
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,440
Speaker 1: UM something with it. You're coming to right Saturday? Oh yes, Okay,

1124
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: I didn't know y'all say you mentioned dinner, so if

1125
00:58:22,920 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: you guys can't even explain what that's like. So I've

1126
00:58:25,720 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: talked a lot about the sex club and stuff that

1127
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:30,600
Speaker 1: I go here, and I've been to the dungeon as well,

1128
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: so this would be a new experience for me. Um,

1129
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 1: can you guys talk about what this part because y'all

1130
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 1: even set a secrets and lifestyle party, what type of dinner?

1131
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: What is expected? Doing? Well, we're gonna be performing at

1132
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 1: a high protocol dinner. UM this weekend and um, it's

1133
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:49,200
Speaker 1: gonna be a lot of the guests are gonna be

1134
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: like super kinky there. Um people are gonna either identify

1135
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 1: as what we call big letters in a lifestyle, meaning

1136
00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 1: like um, doms and tops and daddies and mommy's and mistresses, madams,

1137
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: things like that, and they're gonna be little letters people

1138
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 1: that might identify as like the submissives and um, you know,

1139
00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:08,200
Speaker 1: baby girls, the slaves, the servants, things of that nature.

1140
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be like basically like you know how

1141
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 1: when you watch those movies sometimes where it's like super

1142
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,440
Speaker 1: rich and fancy ideas and every everything. You got to

1143
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 1: have your forecare in this particular way, and you know,

1144
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:21,360
Speaker 1: everybody has their roles in positions in the house. That's

1145
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:23,000
Speaker 1: what it's going to pretty much be like. It's going

1146
00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 1: to be some kinky performances going on. It should be

1147
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 1: a real sexy vibe. In fact, I'm excited, to be honest,

1148
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: this is my first one, so but I've been looking

1149
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:33,800
Speaker 1: into This is something that I've been wanting to be

1150
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 1: a part of for so long. So I'm happy to

1151
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 1: be able to you know, to be there and to perform.

1152
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:39,560
Speaker 1: And you're gonna see me insife and do our things.

1153
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 1: So I want to see your squork and make the

1154
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,920
Speaker 1: fire go away. That what happens like when people squirt

1155
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:50,240
Speaker 1: then the fire go out. Sometimes it was like water.

1156
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 1: It's not like an annihilater, right, So one thing that

1157
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: I like to do, I'm gonna scare you a little bit.

1158
00:59:56,880 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 1: The work girl. What you know what I meant? Right?

1159
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: It's not an exfoliate englisher, it's no. Oh is that extinguisher?

1160
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,680
Speaker 1: Is that what? No? I'm talking about when something goes

1161
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 1: on something and it gets even bigger. An accelerant there, accelerant?

1162
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, it's not an exceller. I don't know.

1163
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: I just want an accelerant. No, no, no. If the

1164
01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 1: fire that the case, we would need more. Okay, well sorry,

1165
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 1: I was gonna scare you. We gotta stop. Say. One

1166
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: of my favorite things to do is put fire in

1167
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:38,040
Speaker 1: the pussy. Oh you're a motherfucking lie that for the

1168
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: last Rather do a drop and say, wait, I know,

1169
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:46,680
Speaker 1: we give us two more minutes. You put the you

1170
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: put the fire in the pussy. So I can actually

1171
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:52,120
Speaker 1: do that. It won't stay, it won't stay let of course,

1172
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 1: but you'll feel the warmth. I'm telling you a temperature.

1173
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 1: My pussy already warm, though, it's gonna feel better. It's

1174
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: gonna feel it feel Who's gonna make this she's burning

1175
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 1: joke here? You definitely not. We don't need that, but

1176
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 1: but seriously, it does feel amazing. What was your first

1177
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: test on me? And how white was she? I was

1178
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 1: my first test me? You ain't You ain't got a

1179
01:01:15,240 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 1: pussy to put fire in? Actually no, no, wait wait

1180
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: wait vieo wait wait wait what you hold on? What

1181
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:29,480
Speaker 1: did you put in your ass? Excited? Does this take

1182
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: apple pey? This black and touch black type? He has

1183
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:37,080
Speaker 1: this on his only fan? Okay, what yeah, I have it?

1184
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 1: You could. We have a really really intense and you're

1185
01:01:40,000 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: like it as well? You know what? I like it?

1186
01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 1: I know like I got an idea. I have an

1187
01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: idea working. You can't make it. We're about to work together.

1188
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: Fire in the pussy that you normally fuck. I'm telling

1189
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:58,080
Speaker 1: you that feels amazing. Your dick in after you sat

1190
01:01:58,160 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: on fire. I'm telling you, yeah, you put your dick

1191
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:04,520
Speaker 1: in there after you got you know, oh they do

1192
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 1: so what we're used to, Like you said, you know

1193
01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 1: the type of fire that we're used to when we're

1194
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:13,640
Speaker 1: not talking about fire playing video sim It's very different

1195
01:02:13,720 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 1: than what I'm talking about right now. So you know,

1196
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:18,080
Speaker 1: of course it's not going to make sense because a

1197
01:02:18,120 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 1: lot of things, the as some money outside looking at

1198
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: it just doesn't It doesn't make sense into your experience

1199
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 1: in it. No, don't play with that fire. That's real

1200
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:28,360
Speaker 1: fire this look you don't play it in the pus.

1201
01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 1: You don't know. That's what's No, that's not far away

1202
01:02:32,240 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 1: from getting everything. Yeah, set that on fire and stuff

1203
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: in the puss, not stuff. I will put it on

1204
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:40,320
Speaker 1: my hand and then I could transfer from my hand

1205
01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 1: onto her pussy depending on how much he has on

1206
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:46,520
Speaker 1: his hand. As far as the accelerant, he's able to

1207
01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:50,920
Speaker 1: keep fire in his hand like a ball. David Blaine,

1208
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 1: you like dragon ball We're not gonna do that. It

1209
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 1: is like dragon ball Z because he how can I

1210
01:03:00,080 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 1: never mind? Anyway? All right, well, sir, marvelous and sip

1211
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 1: and please drop where our listeners can listen to you

1212
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:10,160
Speaker 1: and hopefully I'm trying to hopefully they get to see

1213
01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: you perform live at our DC show, which has already

1214
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 1: passed by the time you guys listened to this episode. Um,

1215
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 1: but go ahead and let people know where they can

1216
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: book sessions with you. Again, you have a dungeon here

1217
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 1: in the Tri State area and also only fans to

1218
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 1: let everyone know where they can find you. All right,

1219
01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: well I'm gonna let you all know that. Um. I

1220
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:34,040
Speaker 1: love Instagram, but they don't love us goods. I got

1221
01:03:34,080 --> 01:03:37,360
Speaker 1: deleted for saying bit please please um if you're listening,

1222
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:40,240
Speaker 1: you know, try to follow all the links. Um. Um.

1223
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:43,080
Speaker 1: You can find me at Sir Marvelous Kinks, underscore on

1224
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 1: Instagram or Sir Marvelous Things. I also got my old

1225
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:49,440
Speaker 1: original page back finally with my my real name, but

1226
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 1: I have no I've just started it like literally today.

1227
01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 1: I was so happy to get it. So it's Regulus Marvelous.

1228
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: So I'm telling you how to backup to the backup.

1229
01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: Marvelous Kinks is my original page, my bigger page right

1230
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:02,080
Speaker 1: now with to score at the end and sur Marvelous Things.

1231
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:04,520
Speaker 1: Um follow me on Twitter because hopefully I won't get

1232
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 1: the leaded from Twitter. Twitter has all the points, yeah,

1233
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 1: and I watch everything yeah, and then you can tap

1234
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 1: into my lank trees and inside of my bios and

1235
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:13,840
Speaker 1: then follow us along there. We're gonna try to create

1236
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:18,880
Speaker 1: our own site because Instagram natives different anxiety. Sure, I

1237
01:04:18,920 --> 01:04:23,200
Speaker 1: mean it, she just got hurt. She didn't have had

1238
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 1: a lot of my head fire pussy A. Yeah, well

1239
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: I probably. What I'll do is include your link tree

1240
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: in the description of this episode that at least will

1241
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: hold everything. Are you on anything as well? Um? I am,

1242
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, all right, it's it's a. It's a

1243
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:43,200
Speaker 1: it's a lot of work. It is a lot of

1244
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:46,520
Speaker 1: creating is a lot of work. Podcast is a lot

1245
01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:48,920
Speaker 1: of work. We don't just show up and talk like

1246
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 1: it's a ton of work. Um. And again, guys, if

1247
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:54,440
Speaker 1: you haven't yet, be sure to go ahead and get

1248
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:58,920
Speaker 1: your tickets. That's right. We still have tickets available for

1249
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 1: our l A show, which has taken place December three,

1250
01:05:03,560 --> 01:05:06,840
Speaker 1: and of course we are finishing it out in one

1251
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 1: of our favorite cities, Atlanta, that is December seventeenth. It's

1252
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 1: on a Friday. Um, A lot is happening. And I

1253
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: told I'm gonna work on getting that dungeon that's down there,

1254
01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 1: so I'm hoping that the Atlanta show. Unfortunately, I wasn't

1255
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:21,520
Speaker 1: able to have a party after the New York show

1256
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 1: because of scheduling. God damn it. I thought we were

1257
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: gonna have two shows. Um but um, Atlanta, I'm definitely

1258
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 1: working on a play party after that live show, So

1259
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 1: if you haven't been yet, that would definitely be the

1260
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 1: one to attend. Go to whore Hive dot com and

1261
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 1: get your tickets. We are putting on a hell of

1262
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:40,240
Speaker 1: a show for you, guys, And of course you've probably

1263
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: seen the clips from our DC and New York show

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Speaker 1: as is. Uh, wheezy, did you want to tell them

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Speaker 1: anywhere else to go for anything? Alright? Got it? We're

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Speaker 1: leaving you off with a five minute bonus clip if

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Speaker 1: you're all cut up, that's right. We have bonus episodes

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Speaker 1: once a week over on Patreon. That's patreon dot com.

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Speaker 1: Back slash four Decisions. This has been yet another episode

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Speaker 1: of Horrible Decision. You know it's bonus bitch. Maybe we

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Speaker 1: all here, y'all know I love this and uh, for

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Speaker 1: those of y'all who haven't gotten to go to a

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions live show, we have been honored with pretty

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Speaker 1: much opening for the whole goddamn tour in so yeah,

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Speaker 1: I love you. I've been on the road with Horrible

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Speaker 1: Decisions and it's been amazing. And you can catch me

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Speaker 1: at the next couple of show still or at a

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Speaker 1: bar getting drunk with me, because that's apparently what we do.

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Speaker 1: But I'm excited because this is kind of like I

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Speaker 1: like to call it a Sin a month, kind of

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Speaker 1: where we're just gonna talk about TV. And if y'all

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Speaker 1: see me with Asante, you know the conversation is going

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Speaker 1: to be about what housewives. So let me tell y'all.

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Speaker 1: When we were in d C for our live show,

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Speaker 1: Asante came a day early with me and on horrible

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Speaker 1: decisions we actually got to of course, if you heard it,

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Speaker 1: we interviewed Giselle and Robin from the Reasonably Shady podcast,

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Speaker 1: not the Housewives of the Rest. All right, don't do

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Speaker 1: that because you know, Black Effect fam had to connect.

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Speaker 1: But I am a super fan, and Asante came to

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Speaker 1: the podcast recording, uh and he wasn't he wasn't on

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Speaker 1: the pod with us, but he was in the room,

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Speaker 1: had to be in the building. And I guess I

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Speaker 1: want to ask you because wey and I talked about

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Speaker 1: it on a Patreon episode last week, but what was

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Speaker 1: your personal experience with me in the Housewives? Okay, so

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Speaker 1: let me start by saying Gazelle and Robin are both

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Speaker 1: very lovely ladies, like they're very light, down to earth.

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Speaker 1: What you see is what you get, no Boogenus. I

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Speaker 1: really appreciated the fact that they were just two normal

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Speaker 1: women out here working and they still were able to

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Speaker 1: be polite and smile and they act like they think,

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Speaker 1: and so I was just I was here for it.

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Speaker 1: They were everything And then like them, I wish I

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Speaker 1: wish all of y'all act like this across the board. Now,

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Speaker 1: this is bonus content. So are we able to spill

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Speaker 1: any of the tea because y'all know we was asking

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Speaker 1: for the tea and I feel like we got some

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Speaker 1: drops of it on whatever, So literally some drippity drops. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what drops? Do you remember the one specifically that I remembered?

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Speaker 1: I know that it was. It was funny because I

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Speaker 1: watched Which What Happens Live last night with Porsche and

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Speaker 1: she brought it up even with Andy that Mia has

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Speaker 1: been in the blogs and on Twitter talking like she

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Speaker 1: don't even want to be a part of the franchise anymore. However,

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Speaker 1: the tea that we received is that she specifically moved

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Speaker 1: to Potomach to be on this goddamn show. So she

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Speaker 1: knew exactly what she was getting into when she signed

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Speaker 1: up for her and her partner to be on Housewives.

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Speaker 1: And I think for her to say she thought it

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Speaker 1: was gonna be less messy, she thought it was gonna

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Speaker 1: be more like Beverly Hills. But I just watched Beverly Hills.

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Speaker 1: That ship. It's his own brand of mess But I

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Speaker 1: see how Mia, the way that she acts and carries herself,

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Speaker 1: or pretends to, because you know, it still seems very

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Speaker 1: much like I'm putting on. Of course, she would pretend

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Speaker 1: that she thinks she would fit on on the franchise

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Speaker 1: like Beverly Hills. But she also remember she ain't got

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Speaker 1: enough She ain't got enough money on Beverly Hills. She

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Speaker 1: don't got enough money, and she's not like she's not

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Speaker 1: of the caliber of Beverly Hills. You and I know that.

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Speaker 1: Listen the fact that she bragged about making four hundred

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Speaker 1: thousand a year. If you pick up them networks of

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Speaker 1: the girls in Beverly Hills, Hunty, I think the person

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Speaker 1: who makes the least amount of money is Crystal the

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Speaker 1: new uh, the Asian girl who her husband made lyon

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Speaker 1: King My Nigga, like, and I think that her net

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Speaker 1: worth is like three million, but she makes the least

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Speaker 1: Sun and it's like eight. Garcella is at like eight

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Speaker 1: and those are the low you know, fucking Kyle and

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Speaker 1: the Hilton, the whole Hilton brand was. She made it

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Speaker 1: seem like she felt like she would fit more in

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Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. I was like, your net worth wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: got you onto Beverly Hills. Um. You know, she's delisional,

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Speaker 1: you know, has been delusional. That's been like her thing.

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Speaker 1: And because she's been so delusional, I just assumed this

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Speaker 1: was gonna be one of her taxis where she's like

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Speaker 1: bluff thing to try to get a raise for the

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Speaker 1: next season, or maybe it was her social media person

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Speaker 1: doing that. And I hope they were in the hope

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Speaker 1: that she gets fired afterwards, because I don't need to

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Speaker 1: see another season. To me, honestly, that part, with the

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Speaker 1: other bit of tea, I think I got. Um. I

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Speaker 1: got the feeling that both Robin and Giselle actually like Karen.

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Speaker 1: They had like really bad to say about Karen, and

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Speaker 1: they do it as Pike h