1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Jubils dirty little Secret. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hey, you have a dirty little secret? 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: I do. This one is kind of old. I was 4 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: kind of old. So I'm almost forty, and I've kind 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:16,159 Speaker 1: of been discovering piece of it for since I was 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 1: about five years old. What is it? So? I grew 7 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: up in partially in the Soviet Union, and their divorce 8 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: was kind of a dirty secret, and so not all 9 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: families told their kids, like if a dad had a 10 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: family before and was divorced, like they didn't usually tell 11 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:38,639 Speaker 1: their kids. I was a pretty early reader, and at 12 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: five years old, when my parents weren't home, I went 13 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 1: through my dad's desk and like started reading all his documents. 14 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: I found yeah, and I found out that he had 15 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: been divorced. I found out the name of his ex wife. 16 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if he had kids, though I thought 17 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: he might, and like he never told me, right, and 18 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: so kind of over the years I started discovering like 19 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: or pieces of this, And about maybe ten years ago 20 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: I kind of confronted my mom My Mama's corking me, 21 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 1: and she was like, oh, yeah, yeah, he's divorced. His 22 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: ex wife lives in the other country and he has 23 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,559 Speaker 1: a son. But it's probably not his. He wasn't sure, 24 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm like, oh, so I have a step brother, 25 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: and my mom was like, maybe, but it's probably not. 26 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: So then passed forward a couple more years. So two 27 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: years ago, I lost my grandpa and kind of so 28 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: I heard a little bit more from him right before 29 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: he died. So yeah, so I have a step brother 30 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: who I never met, who lives kind of far away, 31 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 1: but he is about five years older than me. But yeah, 32 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 1: now I talked about this with my dad. He never 33 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 1: shared this. Yeah, so he's not a step he's your 34 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: half brother, half brother. Yeah, have brother. I found his 35 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: profile on Facebook. He looks like my dad. Oh, he 36 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: does something very similar in his life to what my 37 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: dad and I do. He's like a PhD just like 38 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 1: my dad. I'm not, but you know, the smart guy. Congrats. 39 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 1: I hear about this happening a lot. Yeah, congrats, you 40 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: have a new sibling. 41 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah as long as. 42 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's congrats, thank you. Yeah. I think my dad 43 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: and his ex wife had a really bad relationship and 44 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 1: that kind of affected him over his life and that's 45 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: why he never shared it. So I haven't talked to 46 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: him about it yet. Like I don't feel comfortable. But yeah, 47 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: like I've been discovering this dirty little secret for the 48 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: past uh thirty five years. Wow, that's nuts. That is 49 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: a wild conversation. Yeah, hey, what's up? 50 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 2: So I heard your my brother? 51 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: Yeah you never planned to reach out to her? I might. Yeah. 52 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: I think he's even more geeky than I am. So 53 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: he's like all into his work. So that might be 54 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:40,679 Speaker 1: why he never reached out to me. I don't know 55 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: if he ever found me, So I'll probably reach out 56 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: to him, like I'll find a good moment and I'll 57 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 1: write to him on Facebook at some point. 58 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 2: I tell you, it is awkward though, because I've found 59 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 2: two half sisters and the first hello is hey, so 60 00:02:56,360 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 2: we're actually blood related and dime your brother, and they're like, 61 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: always wanted an older brother, You've always had one a 62 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 2: little bit here and there. It's awkward, man, Yeah, what 63 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: are you gonna do? 64 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: I like to do. It's random people on the internet. 65 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:17,040 Speaker 2: What well, thank you for selling est your dirty little secret. 66 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: Good lucky guys. 67 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: What's your dirty little secret?