WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Family Dinner Drama 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:02.160 We got a brand new second date podcast for you today. 0:00:02.160 --> 0:00:05.439 Thank you so much for being here on the podcasting Duffery. 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:05.600 In the morning. 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:09.200 Yeah, and they say it couldn't be done. Men thought 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:11.959 it was impossible. But yet twenty years one of our 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:16.200 listeners finally got out of the friend zone. Wow, crazy, 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:17.200 What do you do after? 0:00:17.400 --> 0:00:17.639 Yeah? 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.400 Well you like and stuff? 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:20.520 Yeah you end up here. 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:21.640 Yeah. 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:23.799 Yeah, it's a bumpy ride. 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:25.000 It's a bumby ride. 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:27.920 You know that there's no roadmap for this one. Oh 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.800 so that is happening in your second date here in 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:31.680 just a second. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:34.120 But what do you see, Alexis that you like people? Yeah, 0:00:34.479 --> 0:00:37.600 Shay said all Caps Brook Jeff Jose. 0:00:37.840 --> 0:00:40.560 Alexis, my sister sent me a second ate update about 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:44.120 a year ago. I have binged one and fifty seven 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:48.440 episodes in under twelve months. Just a random dude from 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:51.360 Metro Detroit hoping. Alexis reads my comment much love from 0:00:51.400 --> 0:00:51.760 the mitten. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:57.040 You got your what's next? Mitten? What's your next goal? 0:00:57.240 --> 0:00:58.640 You've heard everything you had? 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:01.040 Alexis read a comment, Well, I mean we need to 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:02.880 per I don't know a phone them or something. 0:01:02.920 --> 0:01:03.600 I think he gets it. 0:01:03.880 --> 0:01:04.960 He gets a spot on the show. 0:01:06.240 --> 0:01:09.680 We gotta start setting up plaques. 0:01:10.959 --> 0:01:14.680 I love that it'd be so rad Brook and Jeffrey. 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:17.080 But if only we had a marketing budget, Yeah, or 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:19.520 any budget. All right, Hey, thank you so much for 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:22.160 being here. Your brand new Second Date Update starts right now. 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:28.919 Second Date Update. What are the percentages of how people 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:31.600 meet when they come to us? It's Brook and Jeffrey 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:32.360 in the morning. 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:34.559 There, I'd say like eighty. 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:38.560 Yeah, dating apps, I think a couple of years ago 0:01:38.560 --> 0:01:41.280 that was up to like ninety. But lately people have 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:43.479 been starting to grow tired of that. They're finding new 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:46.280 ways to connect, and you hear about more people meeting 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:50.080 at run clubs and yoga classes. One couple even met 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:52.120 at the dentist's office in the lobby when they were 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:54.440 both high on nitrous waiting for the rides to take 0:01:54.480 --> 0:01:54.880 them home. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.400 Maybe just your personal story. 0:01:59.240 --> 0:02:02.880 Yeah, sexy and worth mentioning. But we don't get a 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:05.880 lot of folks on this segment who already knew each 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:09.240 other for years before they ever went out on a date. 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:11.720 Yeah, because you know they'd be comfortable enough to like 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:12.760 check in and see. 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:13.200 What was going on. 0:02:13.440 --> 0:02:15.320 That's what you think. But we're doing it today with 0:02:15.360 --> 0:02:18.280 our listener Jillian. So, Jillian, welcome to the show. 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:20.840 Hi, thank you for taking a call. 0:02:22.000 --> 0:02:24.720 I'm like, so, like, you got ghosted by someone who 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:25.679 is your friend. 0:02:25.720 --> 0:02:28.800 Like, how that makes it worse? How how long were 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:29.720 they were your friend for? 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:32.520 So, Thomas and I have known each other for almost 0:02:32.639 --> 0:02:33.360 twenty years. 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:37.720 Wait wait, how how do you guys know each other? 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:41.040 So we grew up in the same neighborhood. We were 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:44.440 on fourteen together, and our families were super close and 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:46.440 did be hung out together all the time, you know, 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:47.680 the barbecues and all that. 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.440 Oh man, that's like really interwoven. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:54.160 Yeah, was he your first kiss ever as a kid 0:02:54.200 --> 0:02:54.640 growing up? 0:02:55.440 --> 0:02:58.920 No, he did ask me out, like multiple times, like 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:00.960 over the years he'd ask you out, and I said no, 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:03.040 not because I don't like him, but just because I 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:04.800 thought it might be awkward for our families, you know, 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:07.960 like you he dated, it didn't work out. I didn't 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:08.840 want to get weird. 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:10.120 Families get that close. 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.040 I had somebody who I thought was my cousin my 0:03:12.120 --> 0:03:14.560 whole life, and like literally like five ten years ago, 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.000 my parents were like, that's not your cousin, a good 0:03:17.000 --> 0:03:17.520 family friend. 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:20.280 I'm like, wait, Lisa Marie is not my cousin. I 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:23.560 just love grow up and then they feel like blood. 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.440 They really on that one. 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:28.120 Okay. So he was trying for it and you kept 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:29.760 shooting him down for years. 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:30.880 Yeah, So what changed? 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:33.520 Well? I saw him a couple of weeks ago and 0:03:33.760 --> 0:03:35.600 picnic my family was hosting. It has been a while 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:37.960 since I've seen him, and I'm just gonna lie. 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:45.640 He looked really good, Thomas. 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.880 Okay, and that changed your mind? 0:03:46.760 --> 0:03:48.840 Yeah, was like, forget weird, let's just go for this. 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:52.640 Yah got hot. 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:54.760 Okay, it's not shallow. You've known each other for a 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:55.160 long time. 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:56.880 Yeah, I mean I feel like it was safe. In 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:58.840 these days, you find someone that's so safe with. 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:00.000 Oh totally okay. 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:02.240 So wait, how did you guys turn it into a 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:03.520 romantic date though? 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:05.160 Well? I hit him up. I hit him up, and 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:06.640 I was just like, hey, you want to meet up 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:09.800 hang out? And he kind of freaked up a little, 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:11.520 you know, he was like, when are you free? Let 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:12.240 me cook your dinner. 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:17.159 He's like, whole life, get it. 0:04:17.200 --> 0:04:17.680 All with you. 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:18.760 That'd be weird. 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:22.159 It's because you rejected him for so long, No wonder 0:04:22.240 --> 0:04:24.480 he was like totally caught back by it. 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:26.920 Well, I thought he'd be confused that maybe they were 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:29.080 just going to hang out as friends. But his response 0:04:29.200 --> 0:04:30.680 definitely doesn't sound like that. 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.719 You said the word date, obviously, you like made it clear. 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:35.840 I think it was more like in my energy and 0:04:35.880 --> 0:04:38.440 my tone, and that kind of made it like, yeah, yeah. 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:38.960 Let's hang out. 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:41.719 The eighteen hard emojis at the end of the text 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:43.840 message and the kissing emoji. 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:44.800 That wasn't the emoji she was using. 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.320 Okay, so that's cool. He wanted to cook for you. 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:48.920 How did that go? 0:04:49.680 --> 0:04:52.039 Oh, it's great. We had a fabulous meal. You know. 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:53.800 I did the whole like hanging out in the kitchen 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:57.279 watching him cook. It was like a coconut curry cast role. 0:04:57.839 --> 0:05:02.880 Wh Is there any awkwardness because sometimes when you turn 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:06.800 these friendships into something romantic like there can be I 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:08.279 don't know, just funny moments, you know. 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:11.960 To be honest, I was amazed at how comfortable it felt. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:14.839 The conversation was really good. We did end up like 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:16.479 a little makeout fresh in herp me. 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:19.320 So he picked up. 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.120 It sounds weird to say, but it may be hard 0:05:21.120 --> 0:05:23.280 to get out of the friend zone, like when you've 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:24.280 been friends for so long. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:32.359 Maybe his mind is just still blown and he hasn't 0:05:32.400 --> 0:05:35.080 like come to realize that this wasn't a dream. 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:36.719 Yeah, did that really happen? 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.120 What happened after the kiss? 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:39.880 Well, I did go home. 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:42.880 I was a good girl, okay. 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:46.120 But I got a couple of nice texts from him afterwards, 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:49.200 you know, thanking me for coming over. But then I've 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.080 texted him a few more times with just sort of 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:53.080 like some invitations, what are you doing, want to grab 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:55.320 a drink, et cetera. And he's been sending back the 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:56.040 word busy. 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:57.799 Oh, just the word. 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:01.440 Yes. Like the total attitude and energy and all of 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:04.440 it has just changed. And I have no idea what's 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:05.080 going on with him? 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:06.640 Do you think he's trying to play hard to get now? 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:08.680 I think it's really bad at him? 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:10.240 Yeap in the script? 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:13.240 So does him just texting the word busy to you 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:15.839 over and over? Is that worse than just getting straight 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:16.440 up ghosted? 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:18.960 I don't think he ghosts, because like our family is 0:06:19.000 --> 0:06:21.919 just raking like that would be really weird. 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:24.719 But just saying one word busy it implies that he's 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:31.080 mad at you or something's wrong. Though, so funny busy, 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:33.599 We're actually kind of busy right now. So we should 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:35.440 probably move on to the second part of this call, 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:37.840 where we reach out to Thomas for you and try 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:38.960 to figure out what's going on. 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:41.760 Well, he's honestly not super busy. 0:06:42.200 --> 0:06:44.760 It's really important. We'll find out where we do your 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:51.120 second date update right after this second date update if 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:55.279 you're just joining us. Quick recap of Jillian's date with Thomas, 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:57.880 a guy she's known for twenty years as a family 0:06:57.960 --> 0:07:01.599 friend and Thomas has actually asked her out several times before. 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:05.440 She always would say no to him until he showed 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:08.560 up to a family picnic looking like a total snack, 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:12.040 and she gave Tommy boy the old green light after 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:13.000 that when. 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:15.120 I just sit down next to the potato salad. 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:18.640 Oh yeah, it doesn't get any hotter. So eventually went 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:20.640 over to his place. He cooked a meal for her 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:22.800 so sweet. It sounds like a lot of their family 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:25.320 gatherings are kind of based around food, so that sounds normal. 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:28.800 But since then, he's only been replying to her text 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:31.000 with one word busy. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:33.040 Ah h really. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:36.800 Cold, and Jillian doesn't understand why. So we're trying to 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:39.440 help figure that out. Jillian, I'm curious, just going back 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.200 to the date night you said he cooked like a 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:44.240 coconut curry thing for you. When you bit into it, 0:07:44.280 --> 0:07:46.840 did you make a weird face or something that could 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:49.920 have been taken the wrong way by him, where maybe 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:50.680 he got offended. 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:54.160 No, No, there's no way. Like his coconut curry was amazing. 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:55.760 I was like gushing if anything. 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:58.080 Yeah, and they had a makeout session after words. 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:00.520 Well, I've made up with people angrily before when I've 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:02.960 been doing mad at them. Sometimes we settle differences. Though. 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:03.680 If you're a. 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:05.640 Manager and Jeff asked for the manager, do not come 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.080 yeah the way you. 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:09.600 Think you're about to get a piece of my mind 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:10.880 and my tongue. 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:14.160 I'm gonna say that their first kiss was like crazy 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:14.800 because it's like. 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:16.160 Twenty years in the baking. 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:17.840 That's wild. 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:20.720 You even said it all felt natural, the kids felt natural, 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:23.440 the chemistry, right, I mean. 0:08:23.360 --> 0:08:26.320 There is potential in this if we can get weird 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:27.160 keep going. 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:29.560 Yeah, So let's just dial his number. Hopefully he's not 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:31.640 too busy to pick up, and we'll see if we 0:08:31.640 --> 0:08:32.679 can get some answers. 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:32.760 Out of him. 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:40.760 But I'm dying you right now. Hello, Hey is this Thomas? 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:42.640 Yeah? Who's this? 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:44.959 Hey man? We're a radio show We're called Brook and 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:45.880 Jeffrey in the morning. 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:47.360 Hello, good morning. 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:52.640 Okay, we're just going to brag. 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:56.600 We're yeah, we are very excited to talk to you. 0:08:56.960 --> 0:08:57.360 I am. 0:08:57.400 --> 0:09:00.720 Anyway, We've actually we've heard a lot about you from 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:03.480 someone who asks us to reach out to you named Jillian. 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:06.080 Oh. 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:11.400 Okay, yeah, okay. We know you know her for a 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:13.560 long time, and this is a segment we do call 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:17.160 the second Date Update, because we're trying to figure out 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.200 why after you two hung out the other night and 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:23.360 had dinner together. I mean, she feels like there should 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:27.960 be another hangout session and you're not responding. Yeah, I don't. 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.240 I don't really know if I'm comfortable talking about this. 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:33.320 I'm sorry, I gotta she had the date went so well? 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:34.520 Did it not go well in your eyes? 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:36.280 I mean, it's such a cute story you two. 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:39.120 Yeahs been like in the making. 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:41.880 Right twenty years you finally get out of the friend zone, 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:43.320 which impresses every man. 0:09:44.760 --> 0:09:47.440 Yeah, yeah, I had. I was looking forward to it 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:49.440 and it went really well. 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:53.640 But well, there's just a violation of trust. 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:54.599 Unfortunately. 0:09:54.960 --> 0:09:57.840 Oh oh, I don't think she's aware. 0:09:57.559 --> 0:09:58.200 Of that at all. 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:00.560 Yeah, she probably isn't. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:03.960 Well, if you are such good family friends going back 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.520 twenty years. I feel like you should be comfortable enough 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:07.719 to reach out and talk to her if there was 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:09.400 an issue, a violation of some sort. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:13.600 I mean, I'm not sure like how malicious it was, 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:18.600 but it's just it's complicated. Unfortunately, and because of her, 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:20.440 my grandmother won't talk to me. 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:22.040 Right now, Wait, what what. 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:25.840 What does your grandma have to do with Jillian? 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:30.080 Yeah, well, I didn't realize at the time, but she 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.120 came over and I wanted to treat her right, right, 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.840 So I busted out grandma's secret recipe. 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:36.040 You know. 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:39.160 It's like this amazing dish that we always make for 0:10:39.160 --> 0:10:42.040 special occasions of coconut curry castle role right. And I 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:44.920 guess while I was in the kitchen, cooking and doing 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:47.760 my thing, at some point, I must have had my 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:51.280 back turned and the family recipe book is just sitting 0:10:51.320 --> 0:10:54.600 there open. It's not supposed to be shared with anybody 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:59.640 or anything like that. Apparently, at some point she must 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:02.480 have taken in a photo of the recipe and forwarded 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:03.559 it to her grandmother. 0:11:03.720 --> 0:11:06.319 Oh no, she's not a recipe. 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:08.360 Yeah, I don't. I don't know if she meant to 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:11.840 steal it. Like maliciously or for whatever reason. 0:11:12.040 --> 0:11:13.960 But the picture of it. 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:16.240 It's now a thing where her grandmother is holding it 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:19.400 over my grandmother's head. Now my grandmother's mad at me. 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:23.000 She's like, why would you share that? You know, she's hissed. 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:26.480 Some petty grandma right going. 0:11:26.760 --> 0:11:28.960 Dude, this feels not that petty to me though. 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.280 You get a signature dish that you bring to every 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:35.160 event and everybody wants to know what it is, and 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:37.320 you can't tell them because then they're going to bring it, 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:39.400 and then you have to ask like, oh are you 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:39.760 bringing it? 0:11:39.960 --> 0:11:41.199 I'm going to bring it. It's a whole thing. 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:44.760 Some restaurants have literally started based on someone's secret family recipe, 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.160 Like can't you see yeah, a secret recipe? 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:47.600 Yeah. 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:49.280 I just I feel like, at the very least you 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:52.200 should have like said something or asked me before, but 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:54.760 like now because of the way it went down and 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:57.480 I didn't realize. And then like, you know, these these 0:11:57.480 --> 0:11:59.800 grandma's they can they if they got claws. 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:02.640 You did you tell her it was a secret recipe 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:03.719 before the photo, like. 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:05.880 She knew Oh yeah, oh yeah, she knows it's my 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:09.800 grandma's secret recipe. Okay, Now my grandmother's like you let 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:14.760 some temptress come in and you. 0:12:14.360 --> 0:12:18.640 Okay, sat Hello, Hello, Hello, I'm here, Thomas, okay. 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:21.559 Hell shoot all right, yeah Thomas, that's Jilly and she's 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.000 been waiting on the other line wanting to talk to you. 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:24.760 Are you kidding me? 0:12:25.000 --> 0:12:25.080 No? 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:27.960 Yeah, that's that's how this segment works. It's kind of sneaky, 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:29.559 just like grandma. 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:35.040 No. No, so listen. I did not I think it 0:12:35.120 --> 0:12:37.000 was going to be that big of a deal. I 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:39.240 had no idea that my grandma was going to share 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:42.160 it with your grandma like that and like literally taunt her. 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:44.560 I did not know that she was going to do that. 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:47.880 Well, you've met our grandmothers. They they are like, oh, 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.160 they got like old school beef with each other. 0:12:50.440 --> 0:12:53.800 Oh, but I'm thinking it was going to be more 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:56.719 like like a funny thing, Like I didn't realize there 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.160 was going to be like that elevated emotionally. 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:03.520 Yeah, that's hilarious. Now she won't even like answer my 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:04.320 phone calls. 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:06.240 Oh that's bad. 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:08.960 Well you don't really want to answer any grandma phone calls. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:09.760 To be honest, I. 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:12.360 Think you should check the will because somebody may be 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:13.000 written out. 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:15.199 I mean, maybe I could talk to her. Maybe I 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:15.959 can talk to her. 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:18.800 Trust me, she does not want to talk to you. 0:13:19.000 --> 0:13:26.240 I appreciate that, but. 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:25.400 But I think there's only one way out of this, 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:28.199 and that's Julian. You have to go get your grandmother's 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:31.320 secret recipe and give it to Thomas's grandmother. 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:33.079 It's like tit for tat. 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:33.160 You know. 0:13:33.280 --> 0:13:35.040 Yeah, wait, wait, guys, I don't know. Maybe that's a 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:35.760 little too far. 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:39.720 Oh that's too far. But what you did was innocent. 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.920 I think that might actually work. I think I know 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.520 what recipe my grandmother would want. 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:47.680 Really tell us. 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:53.040 Don't say it, please, Thomas, Please don't say it. 0:13:53.280 --> 0:13:55.959 Grandpa Joe's bourbon pecan pie. 0:13:57.000 --> 0:14:02.079 I want pecan pie would be a solution to balance 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:04.560 things out and restore peace to the neighborhood, into the 0:14:04.559 --> 0:14:05.360 grandma versus. 0:14:06.000 --> 0:14:08.000 If you have to sneak it, I think it's worth it. 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:09.640 Remember how hot Thomas got? 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:14.720 Oh yeah, oh. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:15.439 You didn't hear that, Thomas. 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:15.880 Yeah. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.959 By the way, never mind, I mean, are we really 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.680 doing this right now? Are we just swapping old family 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:24.280 recipes to resolve a dating dispute? Yeah? 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:27.680 Yeah, somehow I find it sexy, the whole thing. 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.800 Yeah, but I don't want Jillian's grandma to now be 0:14:30.840 --> 0:14:33.280 mad at us for encouraging this, and now we're caught 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:35.160 up in this neighborhood feud. 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.120 Oh, we'll just give her one of Alexi's recipes. 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:40.320 Butter, no milk. 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:42.680 Water maybe? 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:45.480 Okay? Well, I mean, I can't believe we're doing this, 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:48.440 But Jillian, is it possible that you'd be able to 0:14:48.680 --> 0:14:51.680 give one leash, one family recipe in order to make 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:54.000 things good with Thomas Camp That's. 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:54.880 Right, the peacm pie. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:15:03.000 It's possible, she di Wow, Just quick correction. It's not 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:08.600 just the pecan pie recipe. It's a bourbon pecan pire. Yeah, 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:10.960 all right, that's the one we want, all right. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:15.200 Jillian says she's willing to betray her own grandmother and 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:16.280 give it up to you. 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:19.280 Well, I'm gonna have to ask her, and I'm gonna 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:22.920 take some work, but I'm willing to give it a try. 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:25.080 Well, there you go. Will you say yes to a 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:27.560 second date? Because if you do, we would pay for it. 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:29.840 I mean, how how can I say no? 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:30.320 Yeah? 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:38.480 Of course? All right, after that pecan pie cry, there 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:38.680 you go. 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:40.760 I'm hungry and turned on. 0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:43.120 That's normal. 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:46.600 Thanks, I'm looking forward to it cute. 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:48.520 You guys are going to be cute. 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.280 Yeah, of course. And if you come over again, I 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:53.480 got the rec of your book out. Just promise me 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:55.960 you'll you'll ask me to close it or no? No 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:57.160 wandering eyes right. 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:04.200 Yeah, you temptress. Jeffrey in the morning missed opportunity, not 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:07.200 for Thomas, not for Thomas, and not for Jillian, for us. 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:10.240 How did we not get a pie order in At 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:14.760 the very end we discussed pies for like the last 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:17.400 three minutes, not one of us asked for it to 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.160 be delivered to the dude. 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:21.520 What I want is an awkward Tuesday phone call with 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:22.760 those two petty grandmas. 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:25.840 Yes, that's where the real drama is. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:27.000 I want to I want to be part of a 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:27.440 bake off. 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:27.720 Dude. 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:29.880 I feel like her grandma set her up, put it 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:31.680 in her mind to go out with him just so 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:32.880 she could get that rest. 0:16:33.440 --> 0:16:35.920 I kind of thought that too. She was like, let's 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:36.760 just go on one date. 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:39.680 Yeah, but then she would have been asking us dirty 0:16:39.720 --> 0:16:41.040 work for me. 0:16:42.240 --> 0:16:45.640 Drama still, but we love it. Whatever drama is happening 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:47.520 in your life and your personal life or in your 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:50.000