1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: We got a brand new second date podcast for you today. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,439 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for being here on the podcasting Duffery. 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 2: In the morning. 4 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they say it couldn't be done. Men thought 5 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 1: it was impossible. But yet twenty years one of our 6 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: listeners finally got out of the friend zone. Wow, crazy, 7 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 1: What do you do after? 8 00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:17,639 Speaker 2: Yeah? 9 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 3: Well you like and stuff? 10 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: Yeah you end up here. 11 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. 12 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a bumpy ride. 13 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: It's a bumby ride. 14 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: You know that there's no roadmap for this one. Oh 15 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: so that is happening in your second date here in 16 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 1: just a second. 17 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: But what do you see, Alexis that you like people? Yeah, 18 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 2: Shay said all Caps Brook Jeff Jose. 19 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 4: Alexis, my sister sent me a second ate update about 20 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 4: a year ago. I have binged one and fifty seven 21 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 4: episodes in under twelve months. Just a random dude from 22 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 4: Metro Detroit hoping. Alexis reads my comment much love from 23 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 4: the mitten. 24 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 3: You got your what's next? Mitten? What's your next goal? 25 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 3: You've heard everything you had? 26 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 5: Alexis read a comment, Well, I mean we need to 27 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 5: per I don't know a phone them or something. 28 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 3: I think he gets it. 29 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:04,960 Speaker 2: He gets a spot on the show. 30 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 4: We gotta start setting up plaques. 31 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 3: I love that it'd be so rad Brook and Jeffrey. 32 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: But if only we had a marketing budget, Yeah, or 33 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 2: any budget. All right, Hey, thank you so much for 34 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 2: being here. Your brand new Second Date Update starts right now. 35 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:28,919 Speaker 6: Second Date Update. What are the percentages of how people 36 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 6: meet when they come to us? It's Brook and Jeffrey 37 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 6: in the morning. 38 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:34,559 Speaker 2: There, I'd say like eighty. 39 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, dating apps, I think a couple of years ago 40 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 6: that was up to like ninety. But lately people have 41 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 6: been starting to grow tired of that. They're finding new 42 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 6: ways to connect, and you hear about more people meeting 43 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 6: at run clubs and yoga classes. One couple even met 44 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 6: at the dentist's office in the lobby when they were 45 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 6: both high on nitrous waiting for the rides to take 46 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 6: them home. 47 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: Maybe just your personal story. 48 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, sexy and worth mentioning. But we don't get a 49 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 6: lot of folks on this segment who already knew each 50 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 6: other for years before they ever went out on a date. 51 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know they'd be comfortable enough to like 52 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 2: check in and see. 53 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 3: What was going on. 54 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 6: That's what you think. But we're doing it today with 55 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 6: our listener Jillian. So, Jillian, welcome to the show. 56 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 7: Hi, thank you for taking a call. 57 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: I'm like, so, like, you got ghosted by someone who 58 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 2: is your friend. 59 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 6: Like, how that makes it worse? How how long were 60 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 6: they were your friend for? 61 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 7: So, Thomas and I have known each other for almost 62 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 7: twenty years. 63 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 2: Wait wait, how how do you guys know each other? 64 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 7: So we grew up in the same neighborhood. We were 65 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 7: on fourteen together, and our families were super close and 66 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 7: did be hung out together all the time, you know, 67 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 7: the barbecues and all that. 68 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: Oh man, that's like really interwoven. 69 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, was he your first kiss ever as a kid 70 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 6: growing up? 71 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 7: No, he did ask me out, like multiple times, like 72 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 7: over the years he'd ask you out, and I said no, 73 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 7: not because I don't like him, but just because I 74 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 7: thought it might be awkward for our families, you know, 75 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 7: like you he dated, it didn't work out. I didn't 76 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 7: want to get weird. 77 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 3: Families get that close. 78 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 5: I had somebody who I thought was my cousin my 79 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 5: whole life, and like literally like five ten years ago, 80 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 5: my parents were like, that's not your cousin, a good 81 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 5: family friend. 82 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 3: I'm like, wait, Lisa Marie is not my cousin. I 83 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 3: just love grow up and then they feel like blood. 84 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 2: They really on that one. 85 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 6: Okay. So he was trying for it and you kept 86 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 6: shooting him down for years. 87 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:30,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, So what changed? 88 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 7: Well? I saw him a couple of weeks ago and 89 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 7: picnic my family was hosting. It has been a while 90 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 7: since I've seen him, and I'm just gonna lie. 91 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 2: He looked really good, Thomas. 92 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 6: Okay, and that changed your mind? 93 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, was like, forget weird, let's just go for this. 94 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 3: Yah got hot. 95 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 6: Okay, it's not shallow. You've known each other for a 96 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 6: long time. 97 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I feel like it was safe. In 98 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 7: these days, you find someone that's so safe with. 99 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 6: Oh totally okay. 100 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: So wait, how did you guys turn it into a 101 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: romantic date though? 102 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 7: Well? I hit him up. I hit him up, and 103 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 7: I was just like, hey, you want to meet up 104 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 7: hang out? And he kind of freaked up a little, 105 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 7: you know, he was like, when are you free? Let 106 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 7: me cook your dinner. 107 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 8: He's like, whole life, get it. 108 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 7: All with you. 109 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 3: That'd be weird. 110 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 6: It's because you rejected him for so long, No wonder 111 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 6: he was like totally caught back by it. 112 00:04:24,560 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: Well, I thought he'd be confused that maybe they were 113 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: just going to hang out as friends. But his response 114 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: definitely doesn't sound like that. 115 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 3: You said the word date, obviously, you like made it clear. 116 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,840 Speaker 7: I think it was more like in my energy and 117 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 7: my tone, and that kind of made it like, yeah, yeah. 118 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: Let's hang out. 119 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 6: The eighteen hard emojis at the end of the text 120 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 6: message and the kissing emoji. 121 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 2: That wasn't the emoji she was using. 122 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 6: Okay, so that's cool. He wanted to cook for you. 123 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 6: How did that go? 124 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 7: Oh, it's great. We had a fabulous meal. You know. 125 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 7: I did the whole like hanging out in the kitchen 126 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 7: watching him cook. It was like a coconut curry cast role. 127 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: Wh Is there any awkwardness because sometimes when you turn 128 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: these friendships into something romantic like there can be I 129 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 1: don't know, just funny moments, you know. 130 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 7: To be honest, I was amazed at how comfortable it felt. 131 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 7: The conversation was really good. We did end up like 132 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,479 Speaker 7: a little makeout fresh in herp me. 133 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 3: So he picked up. 134 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 5: It sounds weird to say, but it may be hard 135 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 5: to get out of the friend zone, like when you've 136 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 5: been friends for so long. 137 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 1: Maybe his mind is just still blown and he hasn't 138 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: like come to realize that this wasn't a dream. 139 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:36,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, did that really happen? 140 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 6: What happened after the kiss? 141 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 7: Well, I did go home. 142 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 8: I was a good girl, okay. 143 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 7: But I got a couple of nice texts from him afterwards, 144 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 7: you know, thanking me for coming over. But then I've 145 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 7: texted him a few more times with just sort of 146 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 7: like some invitations, what are you doing, want to grab 147 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 7: a drink, et cetera. And he's been sending back the 148 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 7: word busy. 149 00:05:56,360 --> 00:05:57,799 Speaker 3: Oh, just the word. 150 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 7: Yes. Like the total attitude and energy and all of 151 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 7: it has just changed. And I have no idea what's 152 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 7: going on with him? 153 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 2: Do you think he's trying to play hard to get now? 154 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 2: I think it's really bad at him? 155 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 3: Yeap in the script? 156 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 6: So does him just texting the word busy to you 157 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 6: over and over? Is that worse than just getting straight 158 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 6: up ghosted? 159 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 7: I don't think he ghosts, because like our family is 160 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,919 Speaker 7: just raking like that would be really weird. 161 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 6: But just saying one word busy it implies that he's 162 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 6: mad at you or something's wrong. Though, so funny busy, 163 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 6: We're actually kind of busy right now. So we should 164 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 6: probably move on to the second part of this call, 165 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 6: where we reach out to Thomas for you and try 166 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 6: to figure out what's going on. 167 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 5: Well, he's honestly not super busy. 168 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 6: It's really important. We'll find out where we do your 169 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 6: second date update right after this second date update if 170 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 6: you're just joining us. Quick recap of Jillian's date with Thomas, 171 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 6: a guy she's known for twenty years as a family 172 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:01,599 Speaker 6: friend and Thomas has actually asked her out several times before. 173 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 6: She always would say no to him until he showed 174 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 6: up to a family picnic looking like a total snack, 175 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 6: and she gave Tommy boy the old green light after 176 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 6: that when. 177 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 3: I just sit down next to the potato salad. 178 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it doesn't get any hotter. So eventually went 179 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 6: over to his place. He cooked a meal for her 180 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 6: so sweet. It sounds like a lot of their family 181 00:07:22,840 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 6: gatherings are kind of based around food, so that sounds normal. 182 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 6: But since then, he's only been replying to her text 183 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 6: with one word busy. 184 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 3: Ah h really. 185 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 6: Cold, and Jillian doesn't understand why. So we're trying to 186 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 6: help figure that out. Jillian, I'm curious, just going back 187 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 6: to the date night you said he cooked like a 188 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 6: coconut curry thing for you. When you bit into it, 189 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 6: did you make a weird face or something that could 190 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 6: have been taken the wrong way by him, where maybe 191 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 6: he got offended. 192 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 7: No, No, there's no way. Like his coconut curry was amazing. 193 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 7: I was like gushing if anything. 194 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they had a makeout session after words. 195 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 6: Well, I've made up with people angrily before when I've 196 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 6: been doing mad at them. Sometimes we settle differences. Though. 197 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 3: If you're a. 198 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 5: Manager and Jeff asked for the manager, do not come 199 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 5: yeah the way you. 200 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 6: Think you're about to get a piece of my mind 201 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 6: and my tongue. 202 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say that their first kiss was like crazy 203 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: because it's like. 204 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 2: Twenty years in the baking. 205 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 6: That's wild. 206 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 5: You even said it all felt natural, the kids felt natural, 207 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 5: the chemistry, right, I mean. 208 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 2: There is potential in this if we can get weird 209 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: keep going. 210 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, So let's just dial his number. Hopefully he's not 211 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 6: too busy to pick up, and we'll see if we 212 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 6: can get some answers. 213 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: Out of him. 214 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 6: But I'm dying you right now. Hello, Hey is this Thomas? 215 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 8: Yeah? Who's this? 216 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:44,959 Speaker 6: Hey man? We're a radio show We're called Brook and 217 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 6: Jeffrey in the morning. 218 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: Hello, good morning. 219 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 8: Okay, we're just going to brag. 220 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 2: We're yeah, we are very excited to talk to you. 221 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 3: I am. 222 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 6: Anyway, We've actually we've heard a lot about you from 223 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 6: someone who asks us to reach out to you named Jillian. 224 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,080 Speaker 8: Oh. 225 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, okay. We know you know her for a 226 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 6: long time, and this is a segment we do call 227 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 6: the second Date Update, because we're trying to figure out 228 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 6: why after you two hung out the other night and 229 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 6: had dinner together. I mean, she feels like there should 230 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 6: be another hangout session and you're not responding. Yeah, I don't. 231 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,240 Speaker 8: I don't really know if I'm comfortable talking about this. 232 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 8: I'm sorry, I gotta she had the date went so well? 233 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 3: Did it not go well in your eyes? 234 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 2: I mean, it's such a cute story you two. 235 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 3: Yeahs been like in the making. 236 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,880 Speaker 1: Right twenty years you finally get out of the friend zone, 237 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: which impresses every man. 238 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I had. I was looking forward to it 239 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 8: and it went really well. 240 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 7: But well, there's just a violation of trust. 241 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:54,599 Speaker 8: Unfortunately. 242 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: Oh oh, I don't think she's aware. 243 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 2: Of that at all. 244 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, she probably isn't. 245 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 6: Well, if you are such good family friends going back 246 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 6: twenty years. I feel like you should be comfortable enough 247 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:07,719 Speaker 6: to reach out and talk to her if there was 248 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 6: an issue, a violation of some sort. 249 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 8: I mean, I'm not sure like how malicious it was, 250 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 8: but it's just it's complicated. Unfortunately, and because of her, 251 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 8: my grandmother won't talk to me. 252 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 6: Right now, Wait, what what. 253 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 2: What does your grandma have to do with Jillian? 254 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, well, I didn't realize at the time, but she 255 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 8: came over and I wanted to treat her right, right, 256 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 8: So I busted out grandma's secret recipe. 257 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:36,040 Speaker 7: You know. 258 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 8: It's like this amazing dish that we always make for 259 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 8: special occasions of coconut curry castle role right. And I 260 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:44,920 Speaker 8: guess while I was in the kitchen, cooking and doing 261 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 8: my thing, at some point, I must have had my 262 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 8: back turned and the family recipe book is just sitting 263 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 8: there open. It's not supposed to be shared with anybody 264 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 8: or anything like that. Apparently, at some point she must 265 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 8: have taken in a photo of the recipe and forwarded 266 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 8: it to her grandmother. 267 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 3: Oh no, she's not a recipe. 268 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't. I don't know if she meant to 269 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 8: steal it. Like maliciously or for whatever reason. 270 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 3: But the picture of it. 271 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 8: It's now a thing where her grandmother is holding it 272 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 8: over my grandmother's head. Now my grandmother's mad at me. 273 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 8: She's like, why would you share that? You know, she's hissed. 274 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 6: Some petty grandma right going. 275 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 2: Dude, this feels not that petty to me though. 276 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: You get a signature dish that you bring to every 277 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: event and everybody wants to know what it is, and 278 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: you can't tell them because then they're going to bring it, 279 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: and then you have to ask like, oh are you 280 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: bringing it? 281 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 2: I'm going to bring it. It's a whole thing. 282 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 5: Some restaurants have literally started based on someone's secret family recipe, 283 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 5: Like can't you see yeah, a secret recipe? 284 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 7: Yeah. 285 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 8: I just I feel like, at the very least you 286 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 8: should have like said something or asked me before, but 287 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 8: like now because of the way it went down and 288 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 8: I didn't realize. And then like, you know, these these 289 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 8: grandma's they can they if they got claws. 290 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 4: You did you tell her it was a secret recipe 291 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:03,719 Speaker 4: before the photo, like. 292 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,880 Speaker 8: She knew Oh yeah, oh yeah, she knows it's my 293 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 8: grandma's secret recipe. Okay, Now my grandmother's like you let 294 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 8: some temptress come in and you. 295 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 7: Okay, sat Hello, Hello, Hello, I'm here, Thomas, okay. 296 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 6: Hell shoot all right, yeah Thomas, that's Jilly and she's 297 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 6: been waiting on the other line wanting to talk to you. 298 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 8: Are you kidding me? 299 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: No? 300 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's how this segment works. It's kind of sneaky, 301 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:29,559 Speaker 6: just like grandma. 302 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 7: No. No, so listen. I did not I think it 303 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 7: was going to be that big of a deal. I 304 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 7: had no idea that my grandma was going to share 305 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 7: it with your grandma like that and like literally taunt her. 306 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 7: I did not know that she was going to do that. 307 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 8: Well, you've met our grandmothers. They they are like, oh, 308 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 8: they got like old school beef with each other. 309 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 7: Oh, but I'm thinking it was going to be more 310 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:56,719 Speaker 7: like like a funny thing, Like I didn't realize there 311 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 7: was going to be like that elevated emotionally. 312 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's hilarious. Now she won't even like answer my 313 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 8: phone calls. 314 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 4: Oh that's bad. 315 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 6: Well you don't really want to answer any grandma phone calls. 316 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 6: To be honest, I. 317 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 2: Think you should check the will because somebody may be 318 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 2: written out. 319 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 7: I mean, maybe I could talk to her. Maybe I 320 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 7: can talk to her. 321 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 8: Trust me, she does not want to talk to you. 322 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 6: I appreciate that, but. 323 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 1: But I think there's only one way out of this, 324 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 1: and that's Julian. You have to go get your grandmother's 325 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: secret recipe and give it to Thomas's grandmother. 326 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:33,079 Speaker 2: It's like tit for tat. 327 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: You know. 328 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, wait, wait, guys, I don't know. Maybe that's a 329 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 7: little too far. 330 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 6: Oh that's too far. But what you did was innocent. 331 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 8: I think that might actually work. I think I know 332 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 8: what recipe my grandmother would want. 333 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 3: Really tell us. 334 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 7: Don't say it, please, Thomas, Please don't say it. 335 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,959 Speaker 8: Grandpa Joe's bourbon pecan pie. 336 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:02,079 Speaker 6: I want pecan pie would be a solution to balance 337 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 6: things out and restore peace to the neighborhood, into the 338 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 6: grandma versus. 339 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: If you have to sneak it, I think it's worth it. 340 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 2: Remember how hot Thomas got? 341 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 8: Oh yeah, oh. 342 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 6: You didn't hear that, Thomas. 343 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 344 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:18,959 Speaker 6: By the way, never mind, I mean, are we really 345 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 6: doing this right now? Are we just swapping old family 346 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 6: recipes to resolve a dating dispute? Yeah? 347 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, somehow I find it sexy, the whole thing. 348 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, but I don't want Jillian's grandma to now be 349 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 6: mad at us for encouraging this, and now we're caught 350 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 6: up in this neighborhood feud. 351 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 3: Oh, we'll just give her one of Alexi's recipes. 352 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 6: Butter, no milk. 353 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 3: Water maybe? 354 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 6: Okay? Well, I mean, I can't believe we're doing this, 355 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 6: But Jillian, is it possible that you'd be able to 356 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 6: give one leash, one family recipe in order to make 357 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 6: things good with Thomas Camp That's. 358 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 2: Right, the peacm pie. 359 00:14:57,040 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 8: It's possible, she di Wow, Just quick correction. It's not 360 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 8: just the pecan pie recipe. It's a bourbon pecan pire. Yeah, 361 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:10,960 Speaker 8: all right, that's the one we want, all right. 362 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 6: Jillian says she's willing to betray her own grandmother and 363 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 6: give it up to you. 364 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 7: Well, I'm gonna have to ask her, and I'm gonna 365 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 7: take some work, but I'm willing to give it a try. 366 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 6: Well, there you go. Will you say yes to a 367 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 6: second date? Because if you do, we would pay for it. 368 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 8: I mean, how how can I say no? 369 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 7: Yeah? 370 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 6: Of course? All right, after that pecan pie cry, there 371 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 6: you go. 372 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 2: I'm hungry and turned on. 373 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 3: That's normal. 374 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 7: Thanks, I'm looking forward to it cute. 375 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 2: You guys are going to be cute. 376 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, of course. And if you come over again, I 377 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 8: got the rec of your book out. Just promise me 378 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 8: you'll you'll ask me to close it or no? No 379 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 8: wandering eyes right. 380 00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, you temptress. Jeffrey in the morning missed opportunity, not 381 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 6: for Thomas, not for Thomas, and not for Jillian, for us. 382 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 6: How did we not get a pie order in At 383 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 6: the very end we discussed pies for like the last 384 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,400 Speaker 6: three minutes, not one of us asked for it to 385 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 6: be delivered to the dude. 386 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 1: What I want is an awkward Tuesday phone call with 387 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 1: those two petty grandmas. 388 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 2: Yes, that's where the real drama is. 389 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 3: I want to I want to be part of a 390 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 3: bake off. 391 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 8: Dude. 392 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: I feel like her grandma set her up, put it 393 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: in her mind to go out with him just so 394 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: she could get that rest. 395 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 3: I kind of thought that too. She was like, let's 396 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,760 Speaker 3: just go on one date. 397 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, but then she would have been asking us dirty 398 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 5: work for me. 399 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 6: Drama still, but we love it. Whatever drama is happening 400 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 6: in your life and your personal life or in your 401 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 6: dating life, you can always email the show and we 402 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 6: can call that person who's not calling you back. You 403 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 6: can find all of our second dates wherever you get 404 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 6: your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey benjam If you want, 405 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 6: it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.