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Speaker 1: Part two Let's do it double so. Part four t

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Speaker 1: oldr entitled cousin and coddled mom face backlash for their actions.

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Speaker 1: Attack on Opee, slash manipulation. Opie's mother in law struggles

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Speaker 1: Relatives plead for op to drop Blabermouth's charges. Ope refuses,

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Speaker 1: and earlier brother in law went to Opie's house and

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Speaker 2: Didn't go so well. Did not go well. It was

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Speaker 1: But now we are on to the updates to come.

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Speaker 1: Did you see that your college fund waving goodbye? Submitted

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Speaker 1: May fifteenth, Yo, okay, small but worthy update. Eldest, my

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Speaker 1: charc lf lawyer friend. This is the time Blathermouth and

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Speaker 1: brother in law's youngest child, eighteen mile I'll call him

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Speaker 1: from bro you Lover on the r slash okay storytime stelbreddit. So,

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Speaker 1: Eak is going to start college in September if everything

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Speaker 1: goes well, as some redditors might know, I have a

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Speaker 1: college fund for some people in the family Eak included.

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Speaker 1: The two middle ones are busy with college. Eak is

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Speaker 3: Yes, the only one of the children. Everyone else is like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Hashtag it.

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Speaker 1: That's what he's doing on these posts. With all that happened,

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Speaker 2: God told him, Tell him, God, you freaking idiot.

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Speaker 1: Hubby and I operated on the notion of a child

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Speaker 3: Put it in the middle, giant, like a giant like

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Speaker 2: Yo, that fire.

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Speaker 1: On, people are saying, baby blabber.

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Speaker 2: Baby blabber, that's funny. What do you think? That's pretty good?

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Speaker 1: Attached to it was a note that other student thanks

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Speaker 2: So it's like the other kids, they were already out

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Speaker 2: It's sad. It's so sad. Sad, dude, I kind.

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Speaker 1: So sad oh updates update. Mother in law goes with therapy.

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Speaker 2: What did I tell you? Wow? I said? Last episode?

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Speaker 2: I said, I think the mother and leave will come around.

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Speaker 1: Who owes John fifty bucks? Hey he put it bed in,

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Speaker 1: Blibermouth is in Joe. Mother in law asks us for

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Speaker 1: Hubby my husband, my rock, stand up comedian and greatest love.

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Speaker 2: Let us know where he performs.

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Speaker 3: Please, I just would have like have a dinner party

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Speaker 2: We produce a show. We have it playing in the background.

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Speaker 1: Perfect eldest, my oldest child, youngest, my youngest child born

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Speaker 1: Yep, I have twins. No, not identical, different gingers. Characters

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Speaker 1: are freakishly alike though. Therapists mother in law's therapists. This week,

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Speaker 2: Good. Oh wow, that's good. Good, good step.

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Speaker 1: This one is a part of the same practice of

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Speaker 2: Wow, and we know that father in law's w yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yep, you did good. Father in law.

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Speaker 1: Asked her why she thought so, and she told him

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Speaker 3: Hallelujah, Amen Amen brother. I also think it's a really

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Speaker 3: You still have to hold them accountable and not enable them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's love too. Holding someone accountable.

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Speaker 1: The power I think it's like a power of thirds

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Speaker 2: I forget what that's called. The power transform.

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Speaker 3: It's the it's the brain meme where it's like no waves,

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Speaker 1: It's like like lazy, I forget what that's called. Someone

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Speaker 1: Let we get into it. Let's die right in all

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Speaker 3: Uh oh, that sounds like to me Blabermouth's army is growing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think Barbermouth had some jail friends getting out

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Speaker 2: You're all. She needs new recruits. It's her henchman, dude.

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Speaker 3: Her her ranks are depleting like rapidly, mother in law,

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Speaker 1: And these people probably like Joie, so they're like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Hello redditors, it has been a month and I would

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Speaker 1: Cast Hubby, my soulmate, father in law, father in law,

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Speaker 1: once kissed his college fun goodbye, henceforth known as SOB.

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Speaker 2: Why do we gotta changeup the name again? He's baby

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Speaker 1: to my utter surprise, Mother in law continues with therapy.

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Speaker 1: She goes once sometimes twice a week, and according to

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Speaker 1: Hubby and I talked about it between ourselves and our

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Speaker 1: went quite well, thank you. Therapist started explain why we

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Speaker 1: even other family members about situations in which she blantantly

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hmm, that's tough, Okay. Hubby and I just absorbed

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Speaker 1: stop it, mama, stop it. Going to therapy and basically

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Speaker 1: dig up every dirty thing about this was difficult? What

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Speaker 1: She looked at me in the eyes and said, the

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Speaker 2: So she took everything like it was her fault. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: But I really like, what's what's happening here with like

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Speaker 3: What she say just before that point there, mother in law,

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Speaker 2: I got you.

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Speaker 3: So I think another really interesting lesson. So many lessons

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I I good stuff. I agree, that is

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Speaker 1: I was asking if I speak on my own behalf.

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Speaker 1: That just hurt us the most. I repeated what I've

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Speaker 3: She had like the opposite of what all of the

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Speaker 3: They're also the ones you love, your family, your other children,

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Speaker 2: I'm ready switching gears, switching gears.

437
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: In the meantime, we have also had to deal with

438
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:43,000
Speaker 1: sob Baby Blathers, Baby Blabber, Blabermouth's youngest. The last time

439
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: he tried to intimidate my eldest by doing so he

440
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 1: could say farewell to his college fund in the grape Vine.

441
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: His elder siblings told me that his father, brother in

442
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 1: law shout out at him for his stupidity. As Baby

443
00:23:57,560 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 1: Blabber had been warned not to do anything against any

444
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: of us, he knew better.

445
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 2: He's an idiot, idiot, goy.

446
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 1: We were still willing to let him use the funds

447
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: for his college education, but he had to stay out

448
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: of the situation. Brother in law and Blabermouth were told

449
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:19,920
Speaker 1: that they were very very clearly thanks to lawyer friend,

450
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,879
Speaker 1: and they were made sure that it was clear to

451
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: Baby blabber that's done over well, Baby Blaber wasn't too pleased.

452
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 1: He got yelled at by his father and by his

453
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: mother during a visit.

454
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 2: He'd in prison where she's sitting right now.

455
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: He didn't like it, and whatever funds his mommy and

456
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:46,439
Speaker 1: daddy have had were now being used for lawyer fees

457
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: and not quite sure if there will be any money

458
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,399
Speaker 1: left after everything. Wow, why did you not use your

459
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: two brain cells?

460
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 3: Bro?

461
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:56,360
Speaker 2: Because he lost them.

462
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 3: He's operating on negative two brain sales and negative two

463
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:00,200
Speaker 3: thousand aura.

464
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 2: Just Bro has the most negative aura ever.

465
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:05,720
Speaker 1: And will be in debt if he decides to go

466
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: to college. I don't worry for this kid so much.

467
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 1: He's he literally had it all he could have. He

468
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: just had to zip his mouth and he would have

469
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: made it.

470
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 2: Wow.

471
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 3: I love I love how even all of the other

472
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 3: like most blabbermouth, the queen of evil in the story,

473
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,479
Speaker 3: even she's like, you freaking idiot?

474
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, why'd you do this? What's wrong with you? My god?

475
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 1: He didn't like it that he got a firm and

476
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 1: resounding screw you no from his two eldest siblings after

477
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: he demanded from them that they pay for his college education.

478
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: What is wrong with you? People like what do you

479
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,360
Speaker 2: just go? Okay, you know what.

480
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 3: They go into a coffee shop, right yep, and then

481
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,119
Speaker 3: so there's a person in line or you know, they get.

482
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: To like, okay, I have you order.

483
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 3: I'll have a latte of blueberry muff and a don't

484
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 3: and all this stuff, right, and then turn around they're like, hey,

485
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 3: pay for my pay for my stuff. Yeah, They're like,

486
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 3: this is like twenty five bucks of stuff. Like, I'm

487
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 3: not gonna pay I don't even know you.

488
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 2: They're like, pay for it? Yeah, are you kidding me?

489
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 2: Do it? Do it? Why not?

490
00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,240
Speaker 3: You don't want to help a human brother in the

491
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 3: in the family of humanity.

492
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: Actions have consequences.

493
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 2: Actions have consequences.

494
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:25,359
Speaker 1: Learn God, somebody please this is so hard to buy

495
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 1: my God. His reasoning was that since they had jobs,

496
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: they should help him out. He didn't like it that

497
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 1: both sets of grandparents aren't helping him out either with

498
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,240
Speaker 1: the money.

499
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 2: How about you get a job.

500
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 1: He didn't like it that he doesn't get any support

501
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 1: or pity from anyone. He certainly didn't like it that

502
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: when he asked our aunts and uncles for money and

503
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: they started to wind down everything that fell on deaf

504
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: ears and got told that this was a lesson that

505
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,880
Speaker 1: he needed to learn. So I got told no from

506
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: everyone everyone. Literally, op he's the one that's loaded.

507
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's so stupid and his entitled mother taught

508
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 3: him to be so entirely everything. Oh, I'll just go

509
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 3: ask everyone and they'll just give me money. And it's like, no,

510
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 3: only people that are like insane geniuses and saints like

511
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 3: Opie who have been genius enough to earn a mass

512
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 3: such a fortune through her brilliance and be is such

513
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 3: a saint that she's willing to share said fortune. That

514
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:25,439
Speaker 3: is like, this doesn't happen, guy, we know this. Everyone

515
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 3: watching knows this. We don't have a random relative that's

516
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 3: just willing to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on,

517
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 3: especially kids of people that have like attacked you.

518
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 2: Like, it's just crazy.

519
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: Prince Ax says it's expensive to be stupid, and Socrates says.

520
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 2: How can he learn? He can't go to college now

521
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 2: he'll be stupid forever. Uh dread Oh four.

522
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 1: I like how that even deranged parents is telling baby

523
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: Blabber not to stir the plot, not to fumble the bag.

524
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, even them have reasoning. Even they when they

525
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 2: are like, don't do this.

526
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 3: The ones who have antagonized OPI the most, they're like,

527
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 3: don't antagonize.

528
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,719
Speaker 2: Ope, don't do it, you idiot.

529
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:09,399
Speaker 1: Dang.

530
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 3: At least, at least in this one specific instance, they

531
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 3: were able to understand logic.

532
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and operate that way.

533
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: Golly, poor baby blabber a lot of things that happened

534
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: that he didn't like, and in true blabbermouth's fashion, he

535
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 1: blamed it on our family. What does the need do

536
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: you do? He came to our house like entitled cousin

537
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 1: family stupidity. I think he came by our house. Unfortunately

538
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: for him, fro Fro and Lefu were waiting for him

539
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: in the backyard, out of sight.

540
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 2: But it's on site. They're on site.

541
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: Uh, these are Opie's dog and the neighbors are when

542
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:50,600
Speaker 1: he climbed over our fins.

543
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 2: He climbed over the fins.

544
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 3: Go time, call the security, get that round up the boys.

545
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 2: With snuff bread. Oh time.

546
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: A nice neighbor and neighbor's wife and us were at

547
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: some elder's neighbors of ours a couple of houses away,

548
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: and since the lady is a bit scared of dogs,

549
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: we opted to leave them in our yard real quick.

550
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 3: Sorry to interrupt. I'm also imagining Opie's family because they're

551
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 3: like all trained on like martial arts.

552
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 2: They just like pop out like family. A symbol just

553
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: like the Incredible Yeah yeah, like the Incredibles. Yeah exactly.

554
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: Also, I love that they went to the neighbor's house

555
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 1: that doesn't like dogs, so like, oh, we'll just leave

556
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: in the back yard.

557
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 3: Dude, chef's kiss, perfect timing, perfect timing.

558
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: Oh, the couple has adopted us, and since the lady

559
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,720
Speaker 1: of the house is an amazing cook and baker to

560
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 1: say the least, we love to frequent the place and

561
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: help them out with what is needed. We were sitting

562
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: in their yard chatting away when we heard the screams

563
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: and barks.

564
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 2: We know what's going down.

565
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: I can't really run, so I go and check the

566
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 1: footage at our home cameras lo and be old baby

567
00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: Blather is crouching on the same table and titled cousin

568
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: was when he had to flee for one hundred pounds

569
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: of protective muscle, fat and sweetness aka for frow.

570
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 2: Go doggy.

571
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: Now, baby brother got the honor and pleasure to meet

572
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: fro Frow and Lafrow at the same time. Baby Bather

573
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 1: was not happy. Blue clothed lads and ladies armed with

574
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: shiny and not so shiny accessories show up and take

575
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: him away to meet his mom.

576
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:43,479
Speaker 3: I was just about to say, is he bro the

577
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 3: the uh the the uh Opie's kids with their funny comeback?

578
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 3: They weren't just They weren't just giving a funny comeback.

579
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:50,959
Speaker 3: They were they were seeing the future.

580
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: They were foreshadowing.

581
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 3: They were foreshadowing. They are their fortune tellers. Bro, do

582
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 3: not tell them he ends up in prison with his mom.

583
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: We don't think he can leg be charged with anything

584
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 1: more than trespassing, but beggars can't be choosers. According to

585
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: our inside informants on that side, it's safe to say

586
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: brother in law wasn't happy. Would be an understatement.

587
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, because he's probably still hoping to land that Hail

588
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 3: Mary he was trying to do with, like hey, if

589
00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:19,520
Speaker 3: will you drop the charges?

590
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 2: If you please? Guilty, golly dude, gollly bye bye, babye.

591
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: Baby Bather was picked up from the station, got torn

592
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: some brand new holes, got his games consoles, iPad, and

593
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 1: everything deemed non essentially taken from him by his father.

594
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: He has limited access to his laptop, school only, and

595
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: has been grounded to boot Baby Bather is soaking a lot,

596
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: according to his siblings. When he started to cry to

597
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,479
Speaker 1: one of his brothers, he got told that it was

598
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: his own fault and that he was stupid, Like like you.

599
00:31:55,720 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 3: Were all you already lost your basically college full ride,

600
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 3: college scholarship essentially. Yeah, you think it's now a good

601
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 3: idea to go trespassing their home? You think that's smart?

602
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 3: You you think that's a good idea. What do you

603
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 3: think will happen? Do you think you'll go in there,

604
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 3: you know, surprise him and be like, oh man, you

605
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 3: know what, don't us? You're right, he knows his game

606
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 3: plan here, what's your what's your end goal?

607
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 2: Brother? What is it? Oh? Yeah? Yeah?

608
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: He certainly doesn't get any pity from others. Why is

609
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 1: baby Blabber so entitled? Bibermouth's coddled him and that he

610
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: had more effect on him than his father set him straight.

611
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: We do hope that away from the influence of evil

612
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: his mother, it might seem set him straight. Let's keep

613
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 1: our fingers crossed for this. Also, our cow day is

614
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: getting closer with Blibermouth.

615
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 3: I think I'm guessing. With Blobermouth, which one mouth and

616
00:32:55,760 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 3: title cousin. We got a whole roster which which was one.

617
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

618
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 2: As of now it's just family members.

619
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: They all have the same last name. As of now,

620
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: it is scheduled for the end of October. If there

621
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: aren't any delays, I will update again after that.

622
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: And we got another update