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Speaker 1: What's up y'all is your girl licks pet and you

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Speaker 1: are tuned into another episode of Poor Minds. You know,

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Speaker 1: that line just really stuck with us, Like, yes, it's

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Speaker 1: crazy how some things just like stick because I know,

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Speaker 1: like in the past, we try different segments, we know,

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Speaker 1: moving things in and out, but that is one thing

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Speaker 1: that has remained constant and true to the girls.

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Speaker 2: Well you look nice today, Yes, Mike, you got your

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Speaker 2: little sparkles on the little one too. You know, I

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Speaker 2: need to start doing a little shoecam every week because

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Speaker 2: I feel like you are a shoe girl I am,

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Speaker 2: and not a little some line. I got a little

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Speaker 2: fashion nova, you know on one. So you know, so

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Speaker 2: what you went up to girl with the fashion? What

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Speaker 2: you went up to this weekend?

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Speaker 3: I just been like working on stuff for mus I

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Speaker 3: have some stuff coming up, and I just had like.

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Speaker 2: A little sale. Ma Sel did really good.

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Speaker 3: But y'all, I just really been working and I was

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Speaker 3: chilling off of the weekend. I went out to eat

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Speaker 3: on Friday. It was really good. I went to this

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Speaker 3: place called Roomy's Kitchen.

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Speaker 2: I haven't heard it m hm.

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Speaker 3: So it's actually one in Midtown and then it's another

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Speaker 3: one in Sandy Springs. It's like I don't know if

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Speaker 3: it's Mediterranean or Persian, but yeah, but it's actually really good.

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Speaker 3: And so I went there on yeah Friday, but I

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Speaker 3: went to the one in Sandy Springs, but it's actually

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Speaker 3: one that's like in midtown far from my house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, me and Kiki and to.

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Speaker 3: A more a more Oh yeah, me and Elisee went

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Speaker 3: there a few months ago and it was actually really

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Speaker 3: really good the place where you like put the little

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Speaker 2: Actually really good. I was really pleasantly surprised. Yeah, that

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Speaker 2: place is really really good. I love the food, you know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like when you step in there, it's like

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Speaker 3: you stepped back into like the savingies, Like it's very

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Speaker 3: much giving, like Saturday Night Fever, like far faced By.

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Speaker 2: It's like it should have been in one of the movies.

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Speaker 1: When we went, they have the Valentine's Day set up,

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Speaker 1: so it's like all the streamers from the ceiling and

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Speaker 1: there's like heart balloons everyh But yeah, definitely, it's definitely

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Speaker 1: like a cute girls night or like a date night

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Speaker 1: bub show, so crazy thing I wanted. I did a

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Speaker 1: little shopping this weekend and I went to the Chanel store.

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Speaker 2: And one of the girls at the Chanelle store is

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Speaker 2: a poor girl. Really, yes, I said, oh, now we

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Speaker 2: got the little cane. Okay, I'm having to give her.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give her next time you go. Just let

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Speaker 2: me know. Girls, I'm gonna shoot her. Yes, send me info.

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Speaker 2: So what did you mean, girl? I got me? Okay.

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Speaker 1: So the thing is about me and Chanel. I am

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Speaker 1: trying to get my classic pieces together.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: When I got my first Chanelle back, I was actually

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Speaker 1: really mad because and I was just in the moment.

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Speaker 2: I was just excited to get a bag, bitch. And

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Speaker 2: I got the bag with the with the silver hardware.

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Speaker 1: I got the classic flat with but the type of

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Speaker 1: stuff like I wear. I like gold jewelry. All my

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Speaker 1: accessories are usually gold. I'm like, I can really never

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Speaker 1: wear this bag. So now I wear my Chanelle bag

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Speaker 1: like casually, like I wear it casually. So it's like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, so I went back.

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Speaker 2: You like silver, you like gold hardware more than silver?

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Speaker 2: I do? I do? I do?

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Speaker 1: So I went back and I got the bigger one,

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Speaker 1: and I got it in black, but I got the

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Speaker 1: gold hardware this time, and Honestly, Chanel, y'all really wild

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Speaker 1: with these prices. I mean, like y'all need to relax

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Speaker 1: mean prices. Yeah, of course. I mean I didn't buy it,

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Speaker 1: but that's besides the point. It was really extreme, but

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Speaker 1: the sales like it was really nice. Her name was Fairah,

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Speaker 2: You can go in and out. It was so cute.

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Speaker 2: She don't have to hit fair for us.

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Speaker 3: Yes, when I was just was telling my little boot,

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Speaker 3: that's what I want for Valentine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a nice little Chanel.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got my I had to get my little

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Speaker 1: I'm coming to take care of you. I just want

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Speaker 1: to let you know I watched you and I listened

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Speaker 1: to you Andrea every morning.

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Speaker 2: I said, nah, I about the plug. Okay, now we

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Speaker 2: got we do we do?

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Speaker 1: So Yeah, I had a good weekend. I got y'all know,

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Speaker 1: I just like I said, I did some shopping, but

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Speaker 1: I really just been chilling. I feel like I have

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Speaker 1: been back in therapy super hard. I think that was

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Speaker 1: what it is for me.

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Speaker 2: She was like, I think it's the weather, Like the weather.

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Speaker 3: Really affects my mood. I mean, well, seasonal depression.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the thing for a lot of people. Because I

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Speaker 2: was like, I've been I'm not gonna lie to y'all.

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Speaker 1: I've been down bad, like for the past like six weeks,

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Speaker 1: Like I've just not been in a good space. But

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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, like this week, I've been doing better.

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Speaker 1: But it's like the sun's out, you know, the sun

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Speaker 1: has been out all week, and I'm like, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm starting to feel like myself again.

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Speaker 1: Because I go through these like little bouts. So I'm back.

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Speaker 2: So we good. We're in this thing. All right, so

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Speaker 2: tie the beautiful time because baby, this shit but you

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Speaker 2: over that secment. I'm like, let me catch up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah girl, Well I like allo drinks first of all.

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Speaker 3: They all be good at But I just I don't

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Speaker 3: know something is wrong with me. Like I love spicy

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Speaker 3: sheet and I found out recently that like with people

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Speaker 3: that like spice, it's actually not like a flavor thing.

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Speaker 3: It's like a pain thing. Oh yeah, I found that out. No,

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Speaker 3: like you like pain.

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Speaker 2: Ooh that sounds a little free.

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Speaker 3: Like it's yeah, like because ivy, because I guess like

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Speaker 2: That makes it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I found that out recently. So apparently all

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Speaker 2: We we like pain. Interesting. I told you she was

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Speaker 4: And ty hand and I say that this one, this

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Speaker 4: So what you all are sipping on we call the

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Speaker 4: Prickly Pineapple. So it has a little taste of some

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Speaker 2: You know. So we have the tequila, we have some

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Speaker 2: orange liquore, some.

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Speaker 4: Lime juice, some pineapple juice, and then a halapeno gy

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Speaker 4: that I even muddled a few more holopenos in that thing,

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Speaker 4: just to give you an extra little kick. And then

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Speaker 4: we topped the rim with some tahin, so that's giving

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Speaker 4: you some of that preakus salt flavor to it as well.

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Speaker 2: I am fucking weedy.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's really good, and I'm getting a little tipsy already,

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Speaker 3: cause y'all know I am, because I don't barely be drinking, y'all.

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Speaker 3: I really do not barely drink no more. Well, it's

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Speaker 3: like my first drink that I done had since Friday,

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Speaker 2: I know that's right.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna lie, bitch, I've been getting fucked

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Speaker 1: up this past week, nobbing out of there.

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Speaker 3: I definitely this is my first drink I had since Friday,

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Speaker 3: and even last week. Like we didn't record last week,

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Speaker 3: so I only had a drink on Friday last week.

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Speaker 2: You are an angel. That is good. That is good

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Speaker 3: I just don't really be liking a feeling like that

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Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, Like I like to have me

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Speaker 2: Filled on my level feeling myself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but like getting drunk, I just think that ain't

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Speaker 3: ain't going back.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'll say this.

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Speaker 1: Let me not say I'm getting fun up because I

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Speaker 1: don't like that hangover. I had one hangover last week, y'all.

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Speaker 1: It took me so long to shake back. I was like, nah,

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Speaker 1: I'm really cool on this. I'm not twenty three year

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Speaker 1: old lex no more.

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Speaker 3: Girl.

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Speaker 2: I woke up.

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Speaker 1: I had a bruise right here. I don't know where

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Speaker 3: That's how it be too, when you be getting drunk

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Speaker 3: and you be having hangovers, you be waking up the

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Speaker 3: be like, how the hell is tapping? It's just like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I just I don't like.

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Speaker 2: The feeling of having a hangover.

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Speaker 3: And then it's like, it's no reason why I should

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Speaker 1: Right, and you're sick, and like you said, you wake

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Speaker 1: up ankle, swollen nails, busted booty hole hurt.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, okay, maybe that's just me. Hey, my booty

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Speaker 2: hall ain't never heard. I'll be having some wall nights.

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Speaker 2: My booty hall ain't never heard.

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Speaker 3: When I woke up, well, I feel like either something

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Speaker 3: you know, I will remember something going out or something

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Speaker 3: it hurting, not from nothing coming out.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, that's okay, speaking of stuff coming out your

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Speaker 1: booty hole. I know we talked about this before, but

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Speaker 1: I seen a tweet today, you.

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Speaker 3: Know of y'all just always to think about rhydism because

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Speaker 3: I'm like, yeh, because if it hurt when he's coming out, you.

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Speaker 2: Need to drink water, you need more fiber. Oh well

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Speaker 2: I was more so.

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Speaker 1: Oh in general, Yeah, I got another story later. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you about that too. But anyways, I had

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Speaker 1: a question. You had a loll coming out through? No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't, but I'll go ahead and tell you real quick.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know I've been on my healthy shit. I've been

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Speaker 1: eating good, eat healthy, and I have a slip up.

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Speaker 1: The other day I wanted some fucking taco bell beach. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so I was drunk. I ordered some Taco bell When

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Speaker 1: I tell y'all, I'm not kidding. Immediately I finished my taco.

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Speaker 1: I ordered two tacos, that's it. Immediately when I finished

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Speaker 1: that taco, my stomach was making the most horrendous noise.

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Speaker 1: Said, I think it's so crazy that y'all will share

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Speaker 2: Y'all are weird.

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Speaker 1: Yah, And I'm like, damn, because I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: But it was just so I was.

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Speaker 1: Just amazed at how many women just was like going

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Speaker 3: I don't shit in front of niggas neither, Like no,

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Speaker 3: I just in what world, I feel like, once you

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Speaker 3: I mean, if you gotta go, you gotta go. But

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Speaker 3: you know, if we don't live together, why are at

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: Even if we go on vacation, like if we staying

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Speaker 2: Same room with my men, and even in a house.

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Speaker 3: That's why it's like, yes, because when I live with

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Speaker 2: I'm on one end of the house.

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Speaker 3: You want to be on the other end of the house,

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Speaker 3: and that's how we gonna do that. It's maybe and

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't think that.

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Speaker 3: I feel like the only time you should be shitting

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Speaker 2: Then you gotta go. You gotta go.

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Speaker 3: Somebody brushing their teeth to night, right, but under no

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Speaker 2: Right or not? Or even if he's in the next

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Speaker 2: I used to fuck with this nigga. They used to

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Speaker 3: I used to be brushing my teeth and shit, it's

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Speaker 2: His nigga used to be Oh my god, I can't

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Speaker 2: you need to be asking me to bring him a

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Speaker 3: Never like hell, the pillow will be hurting when you

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Speaker 3: be on the twilet. Maybe my mama used to My

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Speaker 3: He just used to be hollering me because I guess

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Speaker 1: if I liked him. And he went to the bathroom.

439
00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:20,840
Speaker 1: Mind you, this man had a three story home. He

440
00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,680
Speaker 1: has a bathroom on the first floor, a bathroom on

441
00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,520
Speaker 1: the second floor, and two bathrooms on the third floor.

442
00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:30,359
Speaker 1: And he decided, while we came back to the crib,

443
00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,040
Speaker 1: I'm making the drinks, he decided to take his ass

444
00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,439
Speaker 1: in the half bathroom on the second floor that we

445
00:19:35,440 --> 00:19:38,600
Speaker 1: were on and take a shit. And not only did

446
00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:43,000
Speaker 1: he take a shit, he immediately came out, so the doodoo.

447
00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:46,639
Speaker 2: Trail followed him. The doodoo trail followed him.

448
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,199
Speaker 3: So when he came back around and hit me like

449
00:19:48,200 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 3: a ton of bricks, I said, I just.

450
00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:52,240
Speaker 2: Think niggas don't look at she in the same way

451
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 2: that no, I really don't.

452
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,800
Speaker 3: I think niggas don't look at she in the same

453
00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,720
Speaker 3: way that women look at she like.

454
00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 2: And then he probably felt like too, like meet you

455
00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 2: in my house, This is my house, go upstairs. He

456
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 2: probably wanted to be like, go home. He who asked

457
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,760
Speaker 2: me to come over there? Because maybe I would have

458
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:09,919
Speaker 2: to laugh? What if he was trying to get you

459
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:10,879
Speaker 2: to leave when he beat that?

460
00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,160
Speaker 3: For real? What if he really What if he did

461
00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,880
Speaker 3: that because he was I really want and I freak

462
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 3: for her to go let me.

463
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,119
Speaker 1: He sent me packing, then I ain't gonna lie see it.

464
00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,960
Speaker 1: He sent me fucking packing. But it was like I

465
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:25,720
Speaker 1: didn't want to and I didn't even want to go

466
00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,760
Speaker 1: over there because I have this theory I really feel

467
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,560
Speaker 1: like people be doing shit, So it's all like people

468
00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,720
Speaker 1: be scared to tell you, like god, they really feel

469
00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,959
Speaker 1: so they just be doing shit to like force you out. Well,

470
00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:37,280
Speaker 1: I don't think that was the case, because that definitely

471
00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,040
Speaker 1: was the case with this nigga. But it was just

472
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 1: kind of like mmmm, it was it was really and

473
00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,199
Speaker 1: honestly I didn't like him before that, but after that,

474
00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 1: it was really kind of like I'm done.

475
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:49,800
Speaker 2: And it's like why you ain't like him? And he

476
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:52,399
Speaker 2: was at his house. No, well, I was trying to

477
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:53,280
Speaker 2: give him a chance.

478
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,199
Speaker 1: He wasn't necessarily my type, but I was trying to, like,

479
00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 1: you know, I've been trying to like date outside the

480
00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,359
Speaker 1: box and you know, try something different. And up to

481
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,040
Speaker 1: that point he didn't do anything to me. I was

482
00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 1: just like, I don't know if this is the man

483
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,480
Speaker 1: for me. But I was trying to give him a

484
00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 1: fair shot, you know, like getting older and dating, I

485
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:09,000
Speaker 1: try to.

486
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,480
Speaker 2: Give people a fair shot. I was trying to give

487
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:12,280
Speaker 2: him a fair shot.

488
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,719
Speaker 1: You didn't like him, I didn't think I did. I

489
00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,560
Speaker 1: was like, maybe he'll grow on me. I thought that

490
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,880
Speaker 1: maybe he could grow on me, and it could grow.

491
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,879
Speaker 1: But honestly, is that where we at? Witty now?

492
00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: Honestly older, like I ain't look like that's still that's

493
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 3: like a form of settling.

494
00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 2: No, it's not necessarily settling.

495
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:30,399
Speaker 1: But I've had situations before where like I met a

496
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 1: guy and I didn't like him off the bat, and

497
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:36,639
Speaker 1: then like I got to know him and I was like, damn,

498
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 1: that's crazy because I really fuck with you, you know.

499
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,360
Speaker 2: So I was like, maybe it'll get there.

500
00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,920
Speaker 1: Maybe it'll get there, cause some guys I meet you

501
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:44,880
Speaker 1: in the first night, we tonguing each other down.

502
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 2: We love and you my man, my man, and my man.

503
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 1: But I'm like, maybe I need to slow things down

504
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 1: and just really get to know people. So in that situation,

505
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,239
Speaker 1: I was just trying to take it slow and let

506
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: him grow on me. And yeah, at.

507
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 2: Backfired because he was trying to get to know me

508
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,679
Speaker 2: too strong a bit, and then after that he has

509
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 2: an art try to kiss me. We're gonna move on.

510
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,880
Speaker 1: His breath was why why are you still smell like Hennessy?

511
00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,920
Speaker 1: Like it was just not given. It was just not given.

512
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,600
Speaker 1: It was But yeah, I'm just I was just making

513
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 1: sure we were on the same page with that because

514
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't you know.

515
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:19,400
Speaker 2: Do like Hennessy?

516
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 1: Bre No, I'm talking about like the going to the

517
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: bathroom in front of your nigga, Like I just don't

518
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 1: like that.

519
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 2: And the breath should have been the issue too. Oh No,

520
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 2: the breath was the issue. I never saw him after that.

521
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 3: Yes, uh uh what Train said on that song, it's

522
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:32,880
Speaker 3: been like bunk in Hennessy.

523
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,919
Speaker 2: What is a bunk? I don't know, do y'all? Do

524
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 2: anybody in the room know what it is? For real?

525
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:45,960
Speaker 2: It's called bunk Miami. People call it that what it

526
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:50,399
Speaker 2: smell like? Boom. It don't sound like anything you book,

527
00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: don't sound like it smelled good.

528
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 1: I feel like that's what you say, like when a

529
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 1: nigga did stink or something like girl, a nigga did

530
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: smell like bunk.

531
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,920
Speaker 3: I feel like niggas Dickson be smelling like bunk after

532
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 3: they work out. Wait, not a little salted dick Kuchi

533
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 3: be smelling a little Bookie too.

534
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 2: But Kouchi Bunk smells loki kind of good. Boom boom boom.

535
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 2: Don't never smell.

536
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 1: Gnom Like you know, you have a fuck with a nigga,

537
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:18,959
Speaker 1: like and he's like, y'all been out at the club

538
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 1: and you want to.

539
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 2: Take a shower real quick. He's like no, like he

540
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 2: wont it. He won't want that boom. He wants some boot.

541
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,560
Speaker 2: He want that book. Kochi bulk is different from Cochi bunk.

542
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 3: All that shit is bunkers. I don't give a fuck.

543
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 3: I don't want nothing around me smelling bookie.

544
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 2: But when I say boom, I mean just your pheromones. Bitch,

545
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 2: you don't have.

546
00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 3: When I think of pheromones, I don't know something about

547
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,120
Speaker 3: that word is just sexy to me, like I think

548
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:53,360
Speaker 3: of like something that smells delectable. Yes, book don't sound delictable.

549
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 1: Well, when I say kuchie bunk, I mean your pheromones.

550
00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 2: That that's what I meant. That's what I meant by it.

551
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 1: I don't like because honestly, nigga, that's his little nickname

552
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 1: boom boom ooh whoo. No, he don't even need a

553
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: nickname because, Babe, when I tell you, I'm not talking

554
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 1: about this man on MoU, you will never see.

555
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 2: Me again miss the boom oh boom daddy, hell no,

556
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:19,639
Speaker 2: and then I'm lavier.

557
00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 3: So I always wondered what it mean, but I always

558
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 3: it was just always a funny word to me.

559
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 1: You know what, Before we get into these topics again,

560
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: I was late today because I missed my turn because

561
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:31,920
Speaker 1: I was jamming Boosie so fucking hard.

562
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: I know, Boosie, did you miss your turn?

563
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: Because I was like, God, damn, this nigga spit. We

564
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: used to We used to, I mean, niggas, you really

565
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: used to be rapping about like real shit. And I'm

566
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 1: not problematic, but he said something in this song and

567
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: it was so simple, but it was so real. Mind

568
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: you the year what it is two thousand and five,

569
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 1: two thousand and six, and Boosie said, your better keep

570
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 1: yo girl on inside because girl's fucking nigga drys him

571
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: for the five and I'm like, hell yeah he.

572
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 2: Was, hell yeah, Boosy. We fucking was Boosy used to be.

573
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 2: I mean the ship that he was.

574
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,239
Speaker 1: Saying, he was just like he was just always on

575
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: some real ship. Shout out to Boosy, you maye me

576
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:22,359
Speaker 1: miss my exit today. But I was like really riding

577
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: to that shit, like yeah, so that's all I happened.

578
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: I love Little Boosy boys. He has a very distinct voice.

579
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 2: I do. I feel like that's what like, don't get

580
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,439
Speaker 2: me wrong, he be saying some real sit but I

581
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 2: think his voices wouldn't make.

582
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 3: No it's not funny, It just make it great. Yeah,

583
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,639
Speaker 3: Like his voice is what makes the music so great.

584
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, he said they be on a nigga. Yeah,

585
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,439
Speaker 2: they want a nigga.

586
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: They gonna take Little Boosy home, and NA could donkey

587
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: with him because he already know we're finna go stupid.

588
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:55,760
Speaker 2: But Poet.

589
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 3: Range Robot all white like a.

590
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:02,920
Speaker 2: Lot of pretty, is my smell real good? The only

591
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 2: time she need a mini too. They superstar stoop man.

592
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 2: You're supposed to say the next wort All I'm saying

593
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,680
Speaker 2: is this. I'm sorry, you're supposed to say the next worty.

594
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 2: You don't know no what I swear to God. I

595
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 2: swear to God I do.

596
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: I am just in the moment right now, and I'm

597
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: a little tipsy, so we gotta get I am.

598
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 2: But all, like I said, all had was the avocado.

599
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 3: I'm a little tips I had it all today, so exactly. Okay,

600
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: Well let's get to these topics. Bitch, we an't even started. Okay,

601
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,120
Speaker 3: I'm not eating. I've gotten in the I've gotten I've

602
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,359
Speaker 3: gotten in the one fifties and I'm just not gonna

603
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,800
Speaker 3: eat because I'm about to tip the scale. Let me

604
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 3: tell you how what happened got on the scale.

605
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 2: I got on the scale this morning, and I was

606
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: the one fifty nine point eight.

607
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:58,400
Speaker 3: So I said, whatever I eat today, determine how much

608
00:26:58,440 --> 00:26:59,440
Speaker 3: I'll paid tomorrow.

609
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,120
Speaker 1: I haven't seen ain't one fifty nine point eight scale

610
00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: since I was born.

611
00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:06,879
Speaker 2: Until I get one fifty nine point a is amazing.

612
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 2: I will never see that.

613
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 3: Well, bitch, I haven't seen one fifty anything on the

614
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 3: skill since twenty twenty one.

615
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 2: So I'm very very but you progress. Thank you.

616
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 1: One thing I do love about your body is like

617
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,160
Speaker 1: I know you like when you get bigger, you be like, okay,

618
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: I'm too big. But you carry your weight well because

619
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: a lot of girls your height like when you gain weight,

620
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: you gain it well, it goes into.

621
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 2: The right spots. Yeah, but I feel like.

622
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 3: That's only because I've had LiPo, you know, Like I

623
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 3: feel like when you have LiPo, when you get LiPo,

624
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 3: and then I've had lifo twice, so I feel like

625
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 3: when you get LiPo, your weight distributes these because it's

626
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 3: harder for the I mean, and I used to think

627
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 3: that was some bullshit when they would say that, but no,

628
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 3: I feel like if you go get your LiPo from

629
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,800
Speaker 3: the right person, it's hard for the fact to grow

630
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 3: back in the areas that you had LiPo.

631
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 2: Really, you know what I mean. So I feel like

632
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 2: that's why my weight distribute the way that they do.

633
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, and normally just don't really go to my waist,

634
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 3: Like my waist really.

635
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 1: Did go to your waist before though you never really

636
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: had much of a waste.

637
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 2: Speaking, I mean, yes, yes, that's that's true.

638
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 3: That's true, But I just feel like prior to me

639
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 3: getting leighto, I do feel like it just don't go there.

640
00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,159
Speaker 3: And that's why I think people can't really tell a

641
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 3: difference in like when my weight be fluctuating for real,

642
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 3: because I just feel like my waist is still small.

643
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 2: Do your titties grow? Yes?

644
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 3: Okay to me, they do at least I be noticing

645
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: the difference. But yeah, and I notice a difference in

646
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 3: my body too. I guess you know obviously you see

647
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 3: yourself naked every day. And I feel like when I

648
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 3: be like last year, when I was like in the

649
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 3: one seventies, which is insane to me because I've literally

650
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 3: lost like fifteen pounds since last year.

651
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 2: My booty and my legs be so big. It's juicy,

652
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 2: ain't it.

653
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 3: It's given a thick course when I tell you my allion,

654
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 3: my booty don't start.

655
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Speaker 2: When I was one seventy, I was a stallion, Yeah

656
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Speaker 2: I was. I know, what do you now a pony? Then?

657
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Speaker 2: But I'm cool.

658
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Speaker 3: But I'm cool with being a pony because you know,

659
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Speaker 3: I want to be a pony right now.

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Speaker 2: You want to be a pony. But I was a

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Speaker 2: stallion all right, But that's word to me.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, ty, speaking of may we miss you come

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Speaker 1: back please? Okay, amen, But yeah, I'm not gonna lie

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Speaker 1: to you. My booty is so juicy right now. It

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Speaker 1: is so juicy Like I lost I recently, cause y'all

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Speaker 1: know I was too ten. Then I got down to

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Speaker 1: one eighty. I accidentally got back up to one ninety.

668
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Speaker 1: But I'm back at one eighty again, and my booty

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Speaker 1: So the first thing I wanted to talk about is

738
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Speaker 1: what is your motivation to have children? So there's this

739
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Speaker 1: discourse going on right now, and y'all know, I be

740
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Speaker 1: on TikTok, I be scrolling, I don't post as much

741
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: as I should whatever. But it's basically like women with

742
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: children versus women without children, because women without children they

743
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 1: sell a not having children, and you can celebrate not

744
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: having children without offending people with children. So I've noticed

745
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: a lot of women without children. They'll say things like, oh,

746
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,479
Speaker 1: it couldn't be you got to wake up at six,

747
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 1: make breakfast.

748
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: Do this, do that.

749
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Speaker 1: Couldn't be me, I'm having a ball, I'm outside. Okay,

750
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Speaker 1: that's fine, but there's a way to celebrate your childless

751
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: life without bringing women in it who don't have children.

752
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 2: And then I noticed that the women with children.

753
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: Are like, well, I have somebody to love and this

754
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: is a small version of me, and I get to

755
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: give something to the world. And whatever their reason is

756
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 1: for having children, I'm just like and they be saying, oh,

757
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: you don't have a point. You don't have a purpose

758
00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,560
Speaker 1: in life until you really have a child and you

759
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: realize what's important, And.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, is that true? Though? So I want to

761
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 2: talk about what is your motivation to have children or

762
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 2: to not have children?

763
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Speaker 1: Because I'm on the fence with it obviously, right know,

764
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: is that I don't know if I want children. I

765
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Speaker 1: don't know yet. But you want children? How many you want?

766
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: I'm getting older, so I just feel like only I.

767
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 3: Just really want to toka, Like two is my max.

768
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 3: Like I'm really cool with that cause I feel like, honestly,

769
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Speaker 3: I haven't dated a guy in a while who don't

770
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 3: already have a kid or kids. So I just, you know,

771
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 3: to two is cool for me. I feel like that's

772
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 3: all this coming out, these kool chiepes.

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00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 1: Okay, so you want two children? What motivates you to

774
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: have children? Like when you think about being a mother,

775
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: what makes you want to be a mother?

776
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 2: I've always wanted to be a mom. I don't know.

777
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 3: I feel like I have motherly instincts, like I feel

778
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Speaker 3: like I'm very nurturing and stuff like that. And then

779
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:49,760
Speaker 3: on top of that, legacy, okay, legacy, Like I feel

780
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 3: like by that children are your legacy. So like when

781
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 3: I'm going, my children are still going to be here

782
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Speaker 3: right when my children are going.

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Speaker 1: If they're their children, it's a legacy. You know, I

784
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 1: hear you, But what does that mean to you? Because

785
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: that's kind of a lot of pressure.

786
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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

787
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 3: Because I feel like that's why it's important to choose

788
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 3: the person that you have children with and be smart

789
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 3: about who you choosing to have kids with. Personally, for me,

790
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:19,799
Speaker 3: this is why I don't have children. Somebody actually left

791
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 3: the comment ironically that we haven't that we're talking about

792
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Speaker 3: these right now. Somebody left the comment on one of

793
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Speaker 3: our recent videos and they was just saying, like me,

794
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 3: and you need to have kids. They was like, I

795
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,720
Speaker 3: don't know why y'all waiting. Y'all need to have kids.

796
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: Y'all are both beautiful, y'all have beautiful kids, and y'all

797
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,719
Speaker 3: just getting older, and you know, I think that y'all

798
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 3: are trying to find the right men. But it's not

799
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 3: about finding the right men. It's about children, our legacy.

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Speaker 3: Y'all are doing will in life and y'all are successful,

801
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 3: and when y'all get older, y'all just gonna have all

802
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 3: of this money and no legacy. But see, that's the

803
00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 3: thing to me, having a child is a legacy.

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00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 2: That's why it's.

805
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 3: Equally as important who you have children with. I wanted

806
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 3: to just bust out a baby. I could have been

807
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,359
Speaker 3: at the end of the day a long as time ago.

808
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 3: Because it's not being no nigga that I have daity

809
00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 3: that didn't want me to have a kid for them.

810
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 3: I have chose not to have children because it just

811
00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:15,919
Speaker 3: wasn't the right situation. Like I wanted to be a partnership,

812
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 3: like even if we don't end up being together.

813
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 2: And I feel like I used to be, like I

814
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 2: was cool with like.

815
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 3: Which I if things don't work out, I'm cool with

816
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 3: raising my kids on my because I want children, right,

817
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,839
Speaker 3: That's something that I want. So whether it works out

818
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 3: or not with the men, that's not gonna change my

819
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 3: mind about what I want to do and what I

820
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 3: want for my life. However, though, I do want to

821
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 3: have kids with a man where I feel like, no

822
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 3: matter what, even if we don't work out, we can

823
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: still partner and co parent together and it's a healthy relationship.

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Speaker 3: Whether you get a new girlfriend or a new wife

825
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Speaker 3: and I get a new man or a new husband, whatever,

826
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 3: we can still healthily co parent and be amicable for

827
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 3: our children, right, And that's why it's important who you

828
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 3: have kids with. People be having kids with people, they

829
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 3: break up and it's a terrible situation for the.

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Speaker 2: Children to be in, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: But like you were asking me, what's my reason, what's

832
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 3: my motivation? I feel like, for sure, legacy, like I

833
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 3: want to leave something right, Okay, so outside of what

834
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 3: I'm doing in my career, right.

835
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: So I agree with you a little bit, But then

836
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Speaker 1: I don't. The reason I say that is because I

837
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,759
Speaker 1: actually see this all happen a lot. I feel like

838
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: a lot of times people put pressure on their children.

839
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: So I say that, and I'm not saying you're saying that.

840
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times people have children

841
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: and they expect them to be so much because they

842
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: feel like, I'm this person, your dad is this person.

843
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 1: So you're supposed to continue the legacy and continue to

844
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: do this. Wait, wait, let me finish though, because what

845
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: if your child is born and they don't want to

846
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 1: necessarily do that. What if they just want to be, like,

847
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: you know, a regular person in a small town and.

848
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 2: They don't want to live like you, like you live.

849
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: So to say, oh, my legacy, that's a lot of

850
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: pressure to put on a child.

851
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 2: I feel like when you have a child.

852
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 1: You're spoken, And this is my opinion, a child should

853
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: just be because this is something made out of love.

854
00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 2: This is to extend my family.

855
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 1: But your legacy, it doesn't matter if you have a child,

856
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 1: and what this person does and what your legacy is

857
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 1: gonna always be different from your child. Like look at

858
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 1: how successful Paris Hilton still is and she's gonna continue

859
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 1: her own legacy, But the legacy of her grandfather that

860
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: started the hotels, that's not her legacy. Like Oprah Winfrey

861
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,799
Speaker 1: doesn't have children, but her legacy will be talked about for.

862
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 2: Years and years and years and years and years from now.

863
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: So I guess that's why when people say, like a

864
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 1: legacy of having a child, I'll be like, you can't

865
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 1: put that pressure on your key, Like they don't even.

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Speaker 3: Know left for eight Yeah, But I mean, I think

867
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 3: it's about how you look at legacy, because to me,

868
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 3: family is a legacy. It is like if I have

869
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 3: if my child is a part of my legacy, regardless,

870
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 3: it doesn't matter what they do. So to me, that

871
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 3: has nothing to do with it. Well, I'm not me personally,

872
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 3: like I know what I'm doing with my life and

873
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 3: who I am. I want my child to do whatever

874
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 3: they want to do with their life. They don't have

875
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 3: to follow in my path. They don't have to be

876
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 3: in the I guess technically we kind of in the

877
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:24,879
Speaker 3: entertainment industry or whatever. Yeah, so it's like, my kid

878
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 3: doesn't have to be a part of this world.

879
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 2: They can do whatever the fuck they want to do.

880
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 3: That's why I feel like I work hard too, Like

881
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 3: that's why I'm building what I'm building because I want

882
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 3: my children to have the luxury of being able to

883
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 3: do whatever the fuck they.

884
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 2: Want to do with their life.

885
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 3: If they don't want to go to college, they don't

886
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 3: got to go to college. I mean, you need to

887
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 3: figure out what you're gonna do. But if you don't

888
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 3: want to go to college, you don't have to. If

889
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 3: you don't want to be in this world, or you

890
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 3: don't want to be a part of whatever family business.

891
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,480
Speaker 2: You don't have to do that.

892
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 3: To me, that's not what I mean when I say

893
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 3: leaving a legacy. To me, a legacy is family, like

894
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 3: you a part of a legacy, Like before you you

895
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 3: had a mom, you had a grandma, you had a

896
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 3: great grandma when you don't have children their thoughts, I

897
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:08,719
Speaker 3: guess I feel and I.

898
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 2: Feel like, shit, I'm too great to not leave a

899
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 2: little me, not to leave a little dream behind, to

900
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,280
Speaker 2: leave a couple, you know.

901
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 1: I guess, Like for example, I guess because I feel like,

902
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:22,240
Speaker 1: you know, let's use the Kardashians as an example, because

903
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,240
Speaker 1: people always look at Rob like a quote unquote failure

904
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: because he's not doing what the other siblings are doing.

905
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 2: But maybe he is doing what he wants to do.

906
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: But who look at him as a failure?

907
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 3: Do society look at him as a fair to do

908
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 3: his because I'm sure Chris love him either way. Yeah,

909
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 3: I mean I feel like that's how most Yeah, I

910
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 3: feel like that's how.

911
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:42,720
Speaker 2: Most people feel about their children.

912
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:45,839
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, if you have a certain business and your

913
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 3: business is successful, of course a lot of people be

914
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 3: wanting their children to join the business.

915
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 2: But I feel like when you're a parent.

916
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 3: I can't really speak on it yet because I don't

917
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,360
Speaker 3: have kids, but I know even with my parents, my

918
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: parents love me regardless of what I chose to do,

919
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 3: Like I might not have taken in the path that

920
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 3: they wanted me to take. It, like there's plenty of

921
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 3: shit my mama wanted me to do that.

922
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 2: I was like, actually, fuck that, not doing that.

923
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 3: But it's like not doing that, and my mama still

924
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 3: loved me the same, And I feel like that's the

925
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 3: same way I'm gonna be with my kids. I think

926
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,319
Speaker 3: people that put pressure on their children to do what

927
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 3: they want them to do. You just trying to live

928
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:23,960
Speaker 3: your life vicariously through y'all.

929
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 2: Okay, talk about it. That's the point I'm.

930
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,720
Speaker 3: Getting why I'm not like that. But it's like, that's

931
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 3: the difference. I feel like it's people who be trying

932
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 3: to get their kids to do what they feel like

933
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:38,920
Speaker 3: they missed out on, or what they wanted to do,

934
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 3: what they like, so they're like, Okay, you gotta do

935
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 3: this because this is what I wanted to do, and

936
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,800
Speaker 3: it's like, no, that's a nah, we ain't doing that

937
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 3: over here. I want my child when I have a child,

938
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 3: I'm having my child to be who God put them

939
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,240
Speaker 3: on the earth to me, because realistically speaking, you belong

940
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 3: to him, not me anyways.

941
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: I'm just being honest.

942
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 3: That's how I feel about people, like we don't nobody

943
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,399
Speaker 3: belong to nobody. You don't as a child, you don't

944
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 3: even belong to your parents, and you believe in a

945
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 3: higher power than you know.

946
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,279
Speaker 2: We all belong to us, yes, and that's not.

947
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 3: Entrusted me though, to raise to birth you and to

948
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 3: raise you and to be responsible for you in this life.

949
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: But I don't own you and I And that's what

950
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,760
Speaker 1: I say. I see a lot of that, and people

951
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 1: like when they have these children, they say, oh, well,

952
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 1: this is what I want my kid to do.

953
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 2: My kid gonna do this, like you don't even know,

954
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 2: you don't even know.

955
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 3: Those the worst type of parents ever, And even very

956
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 3: thankful that I never had to deal with that. Like,

957
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 3: of course my parents had their opinions, and they had

958
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 3: things that they didn't want me to do, or things

959
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 3: that they preferred for me to do, or certain life

960
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,920
Speaker 3: paths that they preferred for me to take. But it

961
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 3: was never know, if you don't do things this way,

962
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 3: I'm disowning you.

963
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 2: Like to be out here. The craziest thing I be

964
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,480
Speaker 2: hearing or that I've ever heard.

965
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 3: Is when people be like they haven't talked to they

966
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 3: mom or they haven't talked to their child in five years,

967
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,240
Speaker 3: and one world, would I not talk to my mama?

968
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 2: For five years.

969
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 3: Craziness or what I'm not talking to my dad for

970
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 3: five years? Like that's insane. It's nothing that I feel

971
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 3: like they could do to make you or that.

972
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 2: I could do to them that would make them that

973
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 2: upset with me to not talk to me for a year.

974
00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 2: For me and my mama can't even go a day

975
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 2: without talking. That's the fact. You and your mama talk

976
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:27,920
Speaker 2: every day. Hey baby, what you do?

977
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: You'd be like, hey, mom, y'all talk and and we

978
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 1: don't even be talking about that.

979
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:36,839
Speaker 2: If we don't even talk about it, she'd be calling

980
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 2: me to tell me what she ate. I'm then she

981
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 2: went to the grocery store. She just she be calling

982
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 2: me to tell me what she watched on t.

983
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 3: Though, because Mama, she just calling me asking me the

984
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 3: wildest things that I don't even be knowing that she

985
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 3: be seeing on the internet, Like I don't know, it's

986
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 3: just be crazy, Like she be calling me to ask me,

987
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 3: did I see certain stuff on the internet because she's

988
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 3: seen it on the news.

989
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 2: That's how my mom used to be. She was definitely

990
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 2: like cause she don't have because my mom don't have

991
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 2: social sea.

992
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: My mom did, so she used to be a shade

993
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 1: room sending me all the tea girl.

994
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 2: My mom was in the know of the teacher.

995
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 1: No.

996
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 3: So I went through my Instagram this past weekend and

997
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 3: I was like the leading post, just because I wanted

998
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 3: to like clean up my Instagram and like to lead

999
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 3: a lot of old stuff. So I was like the

1000
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,719
Speaker 3: leading post. And I came across these posts that your

1001
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 3: mom had come in under coming under and we had

1002
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,680
Speaker 3: just got like some new merch and it was like

1003
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 3: a video and I was wearing a hoodie and she

1004
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 3: was like, you better promote that. She and I said, period,

1005
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 3: Annie was a wild, wild girl, and we Annie was

1006
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 3: a wild girl.

1007
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so we gonna get to the next topic.

1008
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,360
Speaker 1: So your motivation to have children, You want the legacy

1009
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: and you want to be a mother, like.

1010
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 3: I really want to be a mother, Like I feel

1011
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 3: like my life I'm one of those people. I just

1012
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,320
Speaker 3: feel like my life wouldn't be complete if.

1013
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 2: I'm not a mom. I'm not gonna lie though.

1014
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 3: And I think family is important, like I don't know,

1015
00:44:58,640 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 3: I'm really close to my head.

1016
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 2: I just family is important to them. I'm not gonna

1017
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 2: lie though.

1018
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 1: I really was thinking about this this morning because I

1019
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: knew we're going to talk about this. I was like, Bro,

1020
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: if I have a little girl, her closet gonna be

1021
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 1: laced up like when I'm old and I.

1022
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 2: Can pass it down to her baby. She gonna be

1023
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 2: the Dawn junior.

1024
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how I feel about my daughter too. She

1025
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:19,919
Speaker 3: gonna have this she she gonna have that ship.

1026
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 2: All right, let's get to the next topic.

1027
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 3: What you got a little dram okay stuff for this

1028
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 3: next topic.

1029
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,399
Speaker 2: I really want us to talk about these.

1030
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,399
Speaker 3: Me and my best friend be talking about these all

1031
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 3: the time because me and her be seeing the craziest

1032
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,800
Speaker 3: stuff because she be on Twitter all the time. I

1033
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 3: be spreendlyan. She be on Twitter all day terrorizing people.

1034
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 3: Facts she actually blocked from like a few blog pages.

1035
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:47,399
Speaker 2: I already know. You know, limn be willing on Twitter. Yeah,

1036
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 2: she be under terrorizing people.

1037
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 3: But anyways, so like she just always be telling me

1038
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 3: about what be going on on Twitter and stuff, because

1039
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 3: I don't really be scrolling.

1040
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 2: The timeline like that. I'm one of the people I

1041
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,359
Speaker 2: get on tweet and get off.

1042
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:03,720
Speaker 3: So like she was just like, Bro, people just don't

1043
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 3: be having no shame these days.

1044
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 2: People literally will do anything on the internet.

1045
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 3: Like people just don't care about making a spectacle of theirself.

1046
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 3: They don't care about making a fool of theyself, just

1047
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 3: anything for likes and retweets. Bring back shame, Bring back

1048
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 3: embarrassing and telling people you shame. People need to be

1049
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 3: shamed again. Back in the day, hos used to be

1050
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 3: a shame. And I'm not just talking about like ho hose.

1051
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 3: I'm talking about everybody, like if you did something stupid

1052
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:33,840
Speaker 3: or if you did.

1053
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 2: Something yo ellen in silence.

1054
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 3: People used to be shameful, Like niggas wasn't out here

1055
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:44,399
Speaker 3: bragging if they had two and three families, they was.

1056
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 2: Paying paying hushman. Yes, they were trying to keep that

1057
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 2: shit on the load.

1058
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,799
Speaker 3: Agreed, Like these days niggas be like, fucking you can

1059
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 3: send it to the blog.

1060
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 1: What but you know what, oh my god, and the

1061
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,760
Speaker 1: girls are actually I don't care what nobody saying.

1062
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 2: The girls are leaking their close friends.

1063
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: Now, I definitely think people be leaking their own close friends.

1064
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 2: I am a because we don't have shame in the community.

1065
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 2: We're not shaming people enough.

1066
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 1: It used to be shameful to be fucking on another

1067
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: girl man or used to be shameful. The fucking nigga.

1068
00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: That was fucking everybody. But it's cool now you get clout, you.

1069
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:26,919
Speaker 2: Get followers, you get attention. Bring back mother fucking shame, Like, yeah,

1070
00:47:27,080 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: bring back shame.

1071
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 3: I need feel like my theory on close friends though,

1072
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 3: I just be feeling like people be having people in

1073
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:38,839
Speaker 3: their close friends who you be thinking you cool with them,

1074
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 3: but you can't trust them. That's why I don't really

1075
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 3: post nothing on my close friends. I feel like Fensta

1076
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,879
Speaker 3: in close friends is like people just posting a whole

1077
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 3: bunch of shit. You don't need to be posting no way.

1078
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 3: That's why I be getting leaved because I don't understand

1079
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 3: the thirst for people knowing your business.

1080
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: Right. I know, I know I'm not gonna lie.

1081
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: I do have a fencer, but I literally have five

1082
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: people on my five.

1083
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 3: Can you but can you enlighten me on like the

1084
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 3: what's the purpose?

1085
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 1: Cause honestly, we all we all kind of do the

1086
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: same thing on our fensa okay, in a little community,

1087
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: like we be like talking about the men that were

1088
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:15,359
Speaker 1: dating and things that were going through and it's kind

1089
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: of like a little small community.

1090
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 2: But what's the difference between a group.

1091
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 1: Chad, Just because sometimes it just be like four in

1092
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:23,399
Speaker 1: the morning, you just post some shit.

1093
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,399
Speaker 2: I don't know, but yeah, I think all that shit.

1094
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 2: I just think it's like people be too again bring

1095
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:32,720
Speaker 2: back shame, like people be too thirsty to like post

1096
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 2: day Disney.

1097
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,879
Speaker 3: It's online these days. It's like do people really need

1098
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 3: to know?

1099
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,279
Speaker 2: Now? I will say this, everybody don't need to know.

1100
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 1: I'm even everybody in my close friends like I'm cool

1101
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 1: with I know whatever, but I still don't even post.

1102
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:50,760
Speaker 1: I have never posted, like I maybe post a hand

1103
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 1: or a foot maybe, but to post a whole nigga

1104
00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 1: y'all kissing and you know it's people and your close

1105
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 1: friends that you you kind of cool with, but y'all

1106
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: not cool like that. It's either somebody in your close

1107
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 1: friends is hoeing you or you really just want the

1108
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,760
Speaker 1: attention cause I'll be seeing too many closes.

1109
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I just yes.

1110
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 3: And then I think it's so weird, like people be

1111
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 3: having people in they close friends who they not even

1112
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:17,359
Speaker 3: cool wet like they like it's mad people who got

1113
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:18,800
Speaker 3: me in the close friends and I met.

1114
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 2: Them one time or never even met them at all.

1115
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 3: Right, we just be talking to each other Instagram, and

1116
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 3: then they got me and they close friends, and it's like,

1117
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 3: how do I get here?

1118
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 2: Right? And I'm not gonna lie.

1119
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm in a lot of people's close friends too that

1120
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: I don't really know like that, But they also don't

1121
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 1: they don't post too much.

1122
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 2: I be in people shit to be posting a lot.

1123
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: See, I'll be in people shit and they love post

1124
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: like a funny meme. Now I am in some people

1125
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: that they post a lot, and I'll be like, Okay,

1126
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: this is a lot. But like for the most part,

1127
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 1: my close friends, like you may get a little me

1128
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: about to, you know, in my pajamas, you know, a

1129
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 1: little throng pick, you know, a little one two, but

1130
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be no shit like this is my man, Oh,

1131
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:01,760
Speaker 1: this is this is what's in my bank account.

1132
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:03,919
Speaker 2: Like we gotta bring back shame.

1133
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's and that's why I'm saying that, because it's

1134
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 3: just like back in the day, niggas was not even

1135
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:12,240
Speaker 3: telling people when they was broke.

1136
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 2: They was embarrassed.

1137
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 3: Like people lights used to be getting turned off because

1138
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 3: they were scared to ask for money.

1139
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 2: I'm weird. I'm just being thrilled.

1140
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 3: People lights and people water was getting turned off. Families

1141
00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 3: was using water instead of milk because they was shamed,

1142
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 3: and like because they was shamed to have to ask

1143
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 3: for money for milk. And you and niggas be posting

1144
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 3: all y'all business online like I just don't get it.

1145
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 2: I was transit.

1146
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 3: Maybe that's where Maybe that's one area, because I don't

1147
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 3: feel like I'm very old school in a lot of areas,

1148
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 3: but maybe that's just one area.

1149
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna always be old school week.

1150
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 3: Keep your business to yourself, don't be over sharing, take

1151
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 3: your l's in privy, and I'm not posting like people

1152
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 3: be trying to act too on close friends, like they

1153
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:05,359
Speaker 3: be so mad when she'd be getting lead.

1154
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 2: Bitch, you posted that shit because you wanted it to

1155
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 2: get leags like it's certain shit.

1156
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 3: Me at this current point in my life, it don't

1157
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 3: matter how much I feel like I could trust all

1158
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 3: the people, because I got like about forty people in

1159
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:19,439
Speaker 3: my close friends, but I barely post anything in there.

1160
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 3: But if I post something that's juicy, I'm at a

1161
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 3: point where I know it's likely that somebody gonna send

1162
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 3: it to somebody, even if I feel like I fuck

1163
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 3: with these people, like somebody gonna send it to somebody,

1164
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 3: and if they send this to somebody, you don't know

1165
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 3: who else they gonna send it to, And like that's

1166
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 3: how shit be getting spread. Why are you so thirsty

1167
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 3: to post everything?

1168
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 2: I agree with that because I don't know.

1169
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: I think me and you don't even post that much

1170
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: on our stories, like all our story. If you go

1171
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:52,359
Speaker 1: look at both of our stories right now, it's like

1172
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 1: all like poor mind shit, amused, beauty shit.

1173
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 2: It is used to be shamed to be wholes like

1174
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 2: bitches be online bragging by stelling pussy and bragging.

1175
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 3: But you see that I did. That's why I'm talking

1176
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 3: about it. Bit just be online bragging about selling pussy.

1177
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 3: Holes used to be a shame to be holes. They

1178
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 3: used to still have dignity and try to be dignified. Holes,

1179
00:52:11,640 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 3: used to call themself ladies of the night.

1180
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,399
Speaker 2: Not a lady of the night now because they didn't

1181
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 2: want to call theyself a hole. Well, let me say this.

1182
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 2: I don't because they were shamed. I don't wanna, I

1183
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 2: don't want to.

1184
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 1: Well let me be on the other end, I don't

1185
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,279
Speaker 1: want to say. I don't want to shame sex work.

1186
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: That's not I'm not shaming it. I'm not shaming it.

1187
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,359
Speaker 3: However, though, I just don't think certain things are too

1188
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 3: brag about.

1189
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:37,919
Speaker 2: Now, I agree, So that's what I'm saying. I don't.

1190
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't. First of all, let me say this real quick.

1191
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck with none of you hoes

1192
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,520
Speaker 2: dude with pussy.

1193
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,879
Speaker 3: That rag don hitda, that's spicy, margarite and high.

1194
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 2: I'm just being honest.

1195
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck with no other woman walking

1196
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 3: God's green Earth to do with a pussy.

1197
00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 2: All I care about is my pussy. Like, so I don't.

1198
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 2: I don't care. They're not beautiful vagina, thank you.

1199
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 1: You know.

1200
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 2: I try to keep it cute whenever.

1201
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 3: Got a little bleeding on it, all right, But no,

1202
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 3: for real, I don't care what other women do with

1203
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,160
Speaker 3: a vagina. So I don't care about sex, work.

1204
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 2: And all this. That's not my business.

1205
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 3: But I just don't feel like some shit is work

1206
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:23,919
Speaker 3: like bragging right worthy either.

1207
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 2: Well, let me talk about the post.

1208
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 1: The post was basically a woman saying sometimes she'll go

1209
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:32,040
Speaker 1: to like a fast food restaurant or a retail store.

1210
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 1: She sees a woman so beautiful, and she was like,

1211
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 1: what are you doing here? You're too beautiful to be here?

1212
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 2: Do you know what you're doing is low key like trafficking,

1213
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 2: like trying.

1214
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: To convince young girls that just because they're beautiful, they

1215
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:43,720
Speaker 1: should be fucking.

1216
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 2: Niggas for money.

1217
00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 1: No, because a lot of times bitch y'all be going

1218
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: fucking through it. Like I think a lot of times

1219
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: we need to be honest about what y'all be going

1220
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:55,319
Speaker 1: through when it comes to.

1221
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 2: Any ratio of it.

1222
00:53:56,480 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: Though, not just talking about sex workers, but even with

1223
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 1: like women dealing with rich men sometimes, Like I hate this.

1224
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:08,720
Speaker 1: I'm tired of people talking about, oh, getting your divine

1225
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,920
Speaker 1: femininity and this is how you get a man, cross

1226
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: your legs, let him open the door for you.

1227
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 2: Talk soft talk, talk about when he lift you in

1228
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 2: Dubai exactly.

1229
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 1: Talk about that, talk about that, like y'all trying to

1230
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,959
Speaker 1: make it seem like it's such a pretty painted life

1231
00:54:24,000 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 1: and this and that, and it's like at the end

1232
00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,279
Speaker 1: of the day, you can still now all men are

1233
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:29,240
Speaker 1: not the same with money.

1234
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 2: I strongly agree.

1235
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:33,319
Speaker 1: With that, because I do kind of hate the conversation that, oh,

1236
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,280
Speaker 1: if you deal anytime you deal with the rich nigga

1237
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: comes with a price.

1238
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 2: No, that's not the case all the time. It's really not.

1239
00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 2: I mean, but it's not the case all the time.

1240
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. It is depending on what you

1241
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 2: consider it to be a price.

1242
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:50,240
Speaker 1: I consider if you're like extremely unhappy. If you're unhappy,

1243
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: that's the price, but not everybody's happiness.

1244
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:54,479
Speaker 2: It's the same like things that.

1245
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 1: May bother you probably don't bother me, or vice versa.

1246
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 2: So let just let people. But honestly, stops now.

1247
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 3: Don't let people. Don't let people be shame. They ass

1248
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:10,959
Speaker 3: bring back shame. That's the point of this conversation. Don't

1249
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 3: let them be shame them.

1250
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:14,400
Speaker 2: Let people be. I mean as far as like if

1251
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 2: if somebody's in.

1252
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: A relationship and they're not bothering nobody, they just want to,

1253
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:20,000
Speaker 1: you know, stay at home, be quiet.

1254
00:55:20,080 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 2: Okay, let them do that. But you hoes that's trying

1255
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:22,359
Speaker 2: to like.

1256
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 1: Convince people, Oh you need to come sell some puss

1257
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 1: the YouTube prey to be doing that.

1258
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 2: Bitch, you should be ashamed. You should be ashamed.

1259
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: I don't care when nobody says maybe we might get

1260
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 1: canceled and get in trouble for this what I don't know,

1261
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 1: because you know, we like that, you know, we have

1262
00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:39,960
Speaker 1: to be inclusive and supportive of all. But I'm not

1263
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:43,240
Speaker 1: gonna lie I don't support supportive. I don't support all women.

1264
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:44,839
Speaker 1: Some of you bitches just don't bitch.

1265
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 2: All women don't support me the fuck they don't. But

1266
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 2: I'll say this.

1267
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:53,520
Speaker 1: I know they're gonna be in the comments like, what's

1268
00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,120
Speaker 1: the difference between y'all talking.

1269
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 2: About bdb's and and sex words of this. Let me

1270
00:55:58,640 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 2: say this.

1271
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 3: The difference is I don't on and again not to

1272
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,600
Speaker 3: say anything is wrong with these do what you want

1273
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 3: to do. But I have never in my life personally

1274
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,839
Speaker 3: sold no pussy like I never gave no nigga no

1275
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 3: pussy in exchange for a.

1276
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 2: Man agreed on one thousand percent. It was never like.

1277
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 3: So I'm not it's out here, So I'm not on

1278
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 3: this show promoting being a hoe. I'm promoting you know,

1279
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 3: I'm promoting you being smart, dating men that are worth

1280
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 3: your while, dating men they like you, dating me, and

1281
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,440
Speaker 3: they do things for you. But I also feel like

1282
00:56:31,480 --> 00:56:32,320
Speaker 3: that's the bare minimum.

1283
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 2: He's dating somebody. They do nice shit for you.

1284
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 1: And I think that's and I'm glad you said that

1285
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:41,400
Speaker 1: because also I want to say we always say this

1286
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 1: a lot, well, me and Drea say it's not law.

1287
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 1: What Drea considers bare minimum might not be what you

1288
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: consider bare minimum.

1289
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 2: Do what works for you.

1290
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: Let's stop living in this society where you let a

1291
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 1: woman tell you, oh, he didn't buy you a Chanelle bag,

1292
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 1: couldn't be me, You not that girl. If it stop

1293
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: letting other people what they get determine how you feel

1294
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:04,759
Speaker 1: about yourself as a woman. And people who say that

1295
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: type of shit lame anyway, that's Corny's very it's very

1296
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 1: very corny. So I feel like we need to stop

1297
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,400
Speaker 1: living trying to live up to other people's standards. This

1298
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 1: internet shit is fake. Y'all don't know what goes on

1299
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: behind closed doors and a lot and a lot of

1300
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: these situations. So I feel like anytime you're in a

1301
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 1: situation with a man, it doesn't matter what he gives you,

1302
00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 1: what he does for you. If you're trying to please

1303
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 1: other people and you're trying to do what other people

1304
00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: think you should be doing, you need if y'all break up,

1305
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 1: you should leave that situation feeling like, Okay, you know what,

1306
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: I got everything from this.

1307
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 2: Situation that I wanted to get from.

1308
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 1: It, whether it was knowledge, trips, shit, maybe it is

1309
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: bags whatever it is, y'all need to start living for you.

1310
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: And I say this all the time. I love this

1311
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: show and I love that we can express ourselves. But

1312
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,040
Speaker 1: y'all need to go outside and touch some motherfucking grass.

1313
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 1: Y'all need to talk to people again. We need to

1314
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: start interacting with people again and talking, and y'all need

1315
00:57:57,800 --> 00:58:01,520
Speaker 1: to touch grass and understand that the Internet is like,

1316
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 1: it's really low key, not a real place. It's just

1317
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: a people It's just a place where people really event.

1318
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: And I feel like that's why Poor Minds is different,

1319
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: because we're not trying to fake no shit.

1320
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 2: We're not trying to look like we know bitch. We

1321
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 2: telling you what it is. I'm telling you, and I'm

1322
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 2: not even trying to be funny. Even in the beginning show. Yes, bitch,

1323
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 2: my shoes fashion over.

1324
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,840
Speaker 3: But let's play big baked tay, little bank my investing.

1325
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 3: I'm money good, I buy what I want, I bow

1326
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 3: what I like.

1327
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 2: Because sometimes I did finu to.

1328
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,280
Speaker 1: Say all it because it's the truth, because you know.

1329
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:34,479
Speaker 3: Why, you know why I go I trying to figure

1330
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 3: out where he's going.

1331
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 1: I have to say all that because people will look

1332
00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:40,520
Speaker 1: at somebody and feel like, oh, she doing this, She

1333
00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 1: doing this? Why she don't got on design or why

1334
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: she don't when the grand scheme of things that shit

1335
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: don't fucking matter. Everybody lives for the internet. That goes

1336
00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: back into what we were talking about, like women will

1337
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 1: feel shame because they don't have a Gucci bad friend,

1338
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: but like we be seeting, we be we have designers

1339
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,120
Speaker 1: shit though, like I don't know, that's why I'm trying

1340
00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:03,800
Speaker 1: to figure out. I don't know that's but that's what

1341
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like we do now you know in the beginning, No,

1342
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is we always talk about how in

1343
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: the beginning, like we were focused on getting ourselves together,

1344
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,240
Speaker 1: Like yes we have designer shit, we are, but that's.

1345
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 2: Not what makes us.

1346
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: If you look at some people's page, they design her

1347
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 1: down and they don't have shit to their name.

1348
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is stop feeding.

1349
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: Into social media because a lot of these people who

1350
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: be designer down don't have shit and they're struggling to

1351
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: get their next piece.

1352
00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 2: So that's what I'm saying.

1353
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: I agree with you one hundred percent because like I said,

1354
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:37,960
Speaker 1: this ties into bringing back Shamee just because that girl.

1355
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 2: That's what I was about to ask you, how do

1356
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 2: you feel about bringing back, bringing back, bring back Shane,

1357
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 2: because that girl feels like these girls are missing out

1358
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 2: on life because she feels like she's winning because she

1359
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 2: got a Chanelle bag. She feels like she winning.

1360
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:55,040
Speaker 1: Because she can keep up with the other girls who

1361
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:56,720
Speaker 1: got things on social media.

1362
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 2: Ooh, sorry, I studed a little bit.

1363
00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: But what I'm trying to say is stop looking at

1364
01:00:02,880 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 1: social media and looking up to these people just because

1365
01:00:04,840 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: they have things. And if we bring back shame, like

1366
01:00:08,680 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: she said, these people wouldn't be feeling so fucking high

1367
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: and mighty just because you got a fucking.

1368
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 2: Barking or something.

1369
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,480
Speaker 3: For real, y'all be posting, y'all be wanting post, y'all business,

1370
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:24,800
Speaker 3: post the banks, post up, post the bank, akinds, post instments.

1371
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 2: Hello post, why are you even do you have an investment?

1372
01:00:27,720 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 2: Do you even have an investment account?

1373
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: Do you even have an and like I And That's

1374
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 1: why I'm saying bring back shame, because you should be

1375
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 1: ashamed to be posting shit like yeah, bitch, I got

1376
01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: a brand new motherfucking burking I got a brand new Chanelle.

1377
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 1: You holes need to be doing X y Z and

1378
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 1: you don't have a home, you don't have a you

1379
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:54,000
Speaker 1: don't like you said, you don't have an investment account,

1380
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: you don't have your business together to where you can

1381
01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: get out.

1382
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 2: Of selling Kouchie. But that's what I'm saying.

1383
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 3: That's why when I like, people don't need to care

1384
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 3: about that type of stuff when you see it online,

1385
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 3: because you don't know what people be doing for they thing.

1386
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:05,920
Speaker 2: That's all.

1387
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 3: And the point that I was making is that if

1388
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 3: they are selling Kuchie, that ain't hard.

1389
01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:15,200
Speaker 2: Anybody can do that now and it's going for top pro.

1390
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:18,959
Speaker 2: You should not want to, but you can. I'm telling

1391
01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:20,760
Speaker 2: you right now, this ship go down to drain. I'm

1392
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:24,920
Speaker 2: probably gonna sell a little cool just to you know,

1393
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:28,439
Speaker 2: make sure I still got it. I'm just paying Relax, Relax,

1394
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 2: I'm joking.

1395
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:38,840
Speaker 3: Okay, So now it's time to get into the bid boo.

1396
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 2: To be getting us lit fig period. I love it.

1397
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:43,439
Speaker 3: But the sex type that we want to talk about

1398
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 3: is the deck a distraction from your goals?

1399
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 2: No? And I say why in the mini.

1400
01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 1: Okay, the wrong dick can be a distraction, But if

1401
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 1: you have the right man that's on your team and

1402
01:01:54,720 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 1: he's supporting you, why can't we fucking the when we

1403
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 1: get fucked, talk about our goals and ship and you

1404
01:01:59,240 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: can help me.

1405
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 2: No, dick, now, I will say the right elevating me.

1406
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, right dick, Hello, the right dick will

1407
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 1: elevate you.

1408
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 2: Let's talk about it, no facts. I really do feel

1409
01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 2: that way.

1410
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 3: I feel like when you fucking the wrong niggas distracts

1411
01:02:16,360 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 3: you from your goals. Absolutely, but if you fucking with somebody,

1412
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 3: because then too, if you really dealing with somebody who

1413
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 3: care about you, not even fucking them, like, then you

1414
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:30,560
Speaker 3: take the fucking word. Well maybe not even.

1415
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 2: Sweet sweet love, but you know y'all are having intercourse.

1416
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: So I want to fuck sometimes it's strict in here. Yeah,

1417
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 2: you gotta fuck your niggas sometimes.

1418
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 3: Like I can't like the word. I feel like the

1419
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 3: word fucking is so derogat and.

1420
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 2: It should because it's nasty.

1421
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: You like the hot drink, you like it spicy, You

1422
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 1: want a little pain, You need to get fucked with

1423
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:54,520
Speaker 1: the hants.

1424
01:02:54,640 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 2: I didn't say I don't be getting fuggs.

1425
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 3: I just said that I don't know if I like

1426
01:03:01,160 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 3: to use the word sometimes.

1427
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay.

1428
01:03:04,920 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I feel like if you having sex with

1429
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:10,360
Speaker 3: the wrong nigga, then absolutely you will distract. You read

1430
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 3: because he distracted, So why wouldn't you be distracted?

1431
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 2: You know what I mean. Because it's the wrong nigga,

1432
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 2: it's the wrong situation.

1433
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 3: But if you are dealing with the right person and

1434
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 3: y'all both care about each other, I don't see how

1435
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 3: sex is a bad thing. I think, if anything, sex

1436
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 3: is like a mood elevator for a lot of people.

1437
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,680
Speaker 3: You know, he changes your mood, it puts you in

1438
01:03:30,760 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 3: a bitter his space. Sometimes it actually makes some people

1439
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:36,360
Speaker 3: be more focused. I've heard men say they get some

1440
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 3: good piscy or they have some good sex, like they

1441
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 3: be more focused the next day.

1442
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 1: Bust that nugg You're right on Microsoft e sale, bitch.

1443
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 3: I feel you No, for real, I'm dead ass serious.

1444
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 2: Like niggas we having a well, niggas would be taking

1445
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 2: a nap.

1446
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 3: But I feel like, as a woman, you'll sometimes get

1447
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 3: a burst.

1448
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 2: Of energy after this. I absolutely get a no me too.

1449
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 3: So I just feel like, yeah, sex with the right

1450
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 3: person is not a distraction. I think that if you

1451
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 3: feel like you are distracted by some deck, it's because

1452
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:09,680
Speaker 3: it's attached to a toxic nigga.

1453
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: And it's draining you. And it's because I'm not gonna lie.

1454
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 1: I used to feel like Dick was a distraction. Yeah,

1455
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:16,400
Speaker 1: I used to feel that way.

1456
01:04:16,440 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 5: I'm not.

1457
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 2: I do not feel that way anymore.

1458
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: Like I feel like when you around the right person,

1459
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:25,160
Speaker 1: not only are they putting you on game and educating

1460
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:30,440
Speaker 1: you on stuff like, but you just feel motivated. I

1461
01:04:30,600 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 1: like fucking with niggas.

1462
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:32,240
Speaker 2: That motivate me.

1463
01:04:32,360 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: Like, I promise there's one nigg I used to fuck

1464
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 1: with and I probably will never fuck with him again.

1465
01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: I say probably because you never know, you know whatever.

1466
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 2: But oh, you know, I don't know.

1467
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 1: But I will say every time we have a conversation,

1468
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,160
Speaker 1: he always put me onto something as far as like

1469
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: what I can do with my business and what I.

1470
01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:53,600
Speaker 2: Should do and things that will help me, you know

1471
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:54,120
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1472
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: So it's like we always have that connection like Okay,

1473
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 1: this is what you need to be doing, and I'm like,

1474
01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 1: that's why I fuck with you, you know what I'm saying.

1475
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 1: But even when we were fucking around, he was never

1476
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: a distraction. It wasn't distracting from me. He never tried

1477
01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 1: to come in between what I had going on, it

1478
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: wasn't over because honestly, let's talk about it. Bdbs can

1479
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 1: be distracted too. Oh h take off work today. I'll

1480
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 1: give you some money. That's cool, that's cool. But why

1481
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 1: don't you say, you know what, go to work. We

1482
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 1: can link whenever we get off. But I would still

1483
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 1: give you some money.

1484
01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 3: Why do niggas be saying, take off work. I'm gonna

1485
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 3: give you some money. Tell me to take off work,

1486
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 3: and you gonna buy me like twenty Amazon shares with

1487
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 3: that money. Don't give it to me.

1488
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's buy me some shit. I'm saying.

1489
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 3: If you, okay, say you'd be like, oh, take off work,

1490
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:40,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you two thousand dollars. I'd rather you

1491
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 3: just buy me some stocks because a year from now

1492
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 3: this shit gonna be done increased by ten percent at least.

1493
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: You know, I think a lot of times people want

1494
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 1: stuff right now, and I'm glad we're in the position

1495
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: that we all.

1496
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 2: Need to be building wealth.

1497
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 3: You need to be building generational wills, you need to

1498
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 3: be building.

1499
01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,400
Speaker 2: Wealth for yourself. A lot of people right now, y'all

1500
01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:58,120
Speaker 2: be having fun.

1501
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 3: Good. We might need this for the next episode too,

1502
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 3: But a lot of people be so focused on the

1503
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,920
Speaker 3: now and don't be focused on the future.

1504
01:06:10,600 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 2: You need to think about where you.

1505
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:14,520
Speaker 3: Want to be five years from now, where you want

1506
01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:16,680
Speaker 3: to be ten years from now, and your life and

1507
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:18,760
Speaker 3: how you spend your money, and all of these things

1508
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,000
Speaker 3: need to be a reflection of that. By no means

1509
01:06:21,040 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 3: am I telling people to not have a good time.

1510
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 3: If you want to buy something or you want to

1511
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:27,640
Speaker 3: do like because me, if I want a purse, if

1512
01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 3: I want some shoes, I'm gonna ask my nigga to

1513
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 3: buy this, or y'all thought I was like apa.

1514
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 2: So now sometimes I do be buying my own sep.

1515
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 3: But most of the time, yeah, I don't spend my

1516
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 3: own money on stuff for real, because I feel like

1517
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 3: I be and I don't wait.

1518
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying you talking about I'll be buying

1519
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:50,640
Speaker 2: my own stuff. I do. You ain't got to do that.

1520
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:52,919
Speaker 2: You ain't got to do that with me, my girl,

1521
01:06:55,520 --> 01:07:01,000
Speaker 2: It has been it has been a minute anything, but yeah.

1522
01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 3: But but the point is because the person I'm dating

1523
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:07,640
Speaker 3: be buying me stuff. I use my money and I

1524
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,920
Speaker 3: invested every month. Every time that I make money, I

1525
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 3: save it before I spend it, and I just think

1526
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 3: people need to think about those type of things. Like people,

1527
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 3: it's cool to bout yourself. What you want is cool

1528
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 3: to like want lavish things. I love nice she but

1529
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 3: just know every time I get something, I put away

1530
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 3: something too. And I will say one mistake I did

1531
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:31,800
Speaker 3: spose they're like you a bitches wax.

1532
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 2: It's supposed to be the six. But I'm not gonna lie.

1533
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:37,480
Speaker 1: And let me say something before we move on. Let

1534
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 1: me say the one mistake I do feel like I

1535
01:07:39,320 --> 01:07:40,920
Speaker 1: made is when like niggas used to tell me to

1536
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 1: take miss.

1537
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:47,520
Speaker 2: Y'all used to talk about eating booty. Well, I can't talk.

1538
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:48,200
Speaker 2: I'm just waying.

1539
01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 1: I don't let me not say it. I just will

1540
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: say this. I really don't because like I don't even

1541
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:57,320
Speaker 1: want to get into it.

1542
01:07:57,360 --> 01:08:00,040
Speaker 3: I'm saying they probably thinking it.

1543
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 1: But this is the thing we're growing and we want

1544
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 1: you all to go grow with us because we went

1545
01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:09,040
Speaker 1: through a lot of things. Say y'all gotta go through that.

1546
01:08:09,120 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 1: And let me say the one mistake I made was

1547
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: what I said earlier. When niggas would take me tell

1548
01:08:13,200 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 1: me to take off work and they would give me money,

1549
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:16,639
Speaker 1: I would take off work and I would.

1550
01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:17,120
Speaker 2: Take the money.

1551
01:08:18,160 --> 01:08:20,559
Speaker 1: But the thing is I should have still went to

1552
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 1: work and used that money for extra you know what

1553
01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:24,439
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I would use that money like, oh,

1554
01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:26,360
Speaker 1: it's like I went to work today and I would

1555
01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:26,720
Speaker 1: pay my.

1556
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,760
Speaker 2: Bills and do that. No, still live your same lifestyle.

1557
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,439
Speaker 1: But the money that the man is giving you, you

1558
01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:36,680
Speaker 1: should do something with it or whatever the case may be.

1559
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:38,599
Speaker 3: Well, I kind of disagree with that cause the only

1560
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:41,519
Speaker 3: time that I would take off work because if you

1561
01:08:41,720 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 3: not taking me somewhere.

1562
01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:45,240
Speaker 2: Why the fuck you asked me to take off work you.

1563
01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 3: And I mean like somewhere like out of Atlanta, Like,

1564
01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:51,120
Speaker 3: if you are taking me out of Atlanta, why are

1565
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:52,640
Speaker 3: you asking me to take off work just to go

1566
01:08:52,680 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 3: eat stay?

1567
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,600
Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna lie. When I was younger, it

1568
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 1: was like I was in Houston. I used to work

1569
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 1: at the club. I hated being there. So niggas like, oh,

1570
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 1: I I'm in town for a weekend, and I'd be like, wha, well,

1571
01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 1: I gotta work. Well we'll take off work be cause

1572
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:05,400
Speaker 1: you know, and then we would just be outside.

1573
01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:07,519
Speaker 2: But I was in my twenties, you know what I'm saying,

1574
01:09:07,720 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 2: So that was cool for me. I don't have to

1575
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 2: go to work.

1576
01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm still making my money and I get to be outside.

1577
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:12,799
Speaker 2: With my nigga.

1578
01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I say all that to say, like you

1579
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 1: can still take the money, but I would still, you know,

1580
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:22,559
Speaker 1: try to live the same lifestyle like that you're used

1581
01:09:22,600 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 1: to living, but not trying to like, oh, he gave

1582
01:09:24,360 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 1: me two thousand dollars, I usually only make five hundred

1583
01:09:26,439 --> 01:09:28,760
Speaker 1: in the weekend, so I got extra fifteen hundred dollars.

1584
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:29,599
Speaker 2: Let me go get a bag.

1585
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:32,519
Speaker 3: Don't do that, no, And I mean, well, the point

1586
01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 3: that I was making is just like I feel like

1587
01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 3: life is about experiences. So if a nigga gonna pay

1588
01:09:37,840 --> 01:09:39,600
Speaker 3: for you to be off work, the only way I

1589
01:09:39,720 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 3: used to be going was because y'all left, we was

1590
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:42,839
Speaker 3: going somewhere.

1591
01:09:42,880 --> 01:09:44,799
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm gonna go experience the street.

1592
01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:47,800
Speaker 3: So I'm not still going to work, but I'm gonna

1593
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 3: be but I'm gonna be smart with how I use

1594
01:09:50,320 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 3: this money, you know what I mean. Like that's the

1595
01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:54,280
Speaker 3: thing about life. You just gotta be smart with how

1596
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:55,639
Speaker 3: you using your money.

1597
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:57,800
Speaker 1: Your experience is Like maybe you want to go out

1598
01:09:57,800 --> 01:09:59,640
Speaker 1: the country because you don't done everything in Houston, or

1599
01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 1: you don't on everything in Atlanta. Some girls they never

1600
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:03,920
Speaker 1: maybe they never been a STK, you know what I'm saying.

1601
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 1: That's why I say, like your people's experience in life

1602
01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:08,960
Speaker 1: a different. So maybe she's like, Okay, he says, gonna

1603
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:10,080
Speaker 1: come to time, he's gonna pay me to take off.

1604
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 2: We're gonna go to st K. Then we're gonna go

1605
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 2: to stake forty air or whatever the case may be.

1606
01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 2: That may be an experience for that girl, you know

1607
01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:18,320
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So it's okay, But the way just

1608
01:10:18,360 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 2: don't spend the money on don't know shit.

1609
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 1: Don't spend the money on no bullshit. So I don't

1610
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:23,760
Speaker 1: know how we got to that.

1611
01:10:24,040 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1612
01:10:26,040 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 2: We was supposed to be talking about.

1613
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I think we're you know, we

1614
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 1: always ramble the week after we're a week off.

1615
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 2: No, I can't be your batman because I'll be ribbing.

1616
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,720
Speaker 1: Okay, So item of the week this week, so I

1617
01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:45,840
Speaker 1: have the item of the week. So I have been

1618
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 1: back in my reading bag. I feel like reading is

1619
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 1: really have been saving me.

1620
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 2: Like, yes, I love me a good book. What you reading?

1621
01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:54,799
Speaker 2: See honestly having reading?

1622
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:58,519
Speaker 3: I'm saying you read different type of books reading Rainbow,

1623
01:10:58,600 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 3: that's what's gonna be.

1624
01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:02,839
Speaker 1: You read different types of books than I do. So honestly,

1625
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:04,560
Speaker 1: what I've learned that's made me feel better is like

1626
01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 1: I'd like to have an escape. Is that an erotical movie?

1627
01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:10,719
Speaker 1: It's not erotica. It's not an erotica. It's a romance book,

1628
01:11:10,720 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: though it is. It's a bestseller. This is it actually

1629
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:16,479
Speaker 1: took me by surprise because, like the first few chapters,

1630
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:19,000
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, what's going on here. It's a

1631
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 1: book called Seven Days in June by Tia Williams. And

1632
01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:26,880
Speaker 1: when I tell y'all, I really got like immersed in

1633
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: this book, like I could not stop fucking reading, like

1634
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:32,200
Speaker 1: once it started reaching the climax.

1635
01:11:33,439 --> 01:11:34,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god. It's just so good.

1636
01:11:34,960 --> 01:11:38,640
Speaker 1: And I have the type of imagination like I imagine characters

1637
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 1: and I imagine what they look like.

1638
01:11:41,040 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 2: And I really hope that they make this a movie.

1639
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 2: I really do. It's such a good book. It just

1640
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 2: gives me a little.

1641
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:49,560
Speaker 1: Escape so that I'm not gonna lie. Those are the

1642
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:51,920
Speaker 1: type of book I love, a self help book. I'm

1643
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:54,639
Speaker 1: reading a book right now called Master Your Emotions. That's

1644
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 1: really good and it's done wonders, like, I am really heavy.

1645
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:03,080
Speaker 1: I've been working on myself honestly for like the past

1646
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 1: three months. I have really just like, Okay, you do this,

1647
01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 1: you do this, you do this, and this.

1648
01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:14,680
Speaker 2: Is fucking wrong. But how do you tap into.

1649
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:17,200
Speaker 1: That and admit that you're wrong but not feel like

1650
01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:20,599
Speaker 1: guilt and things like that. Sometimes you should feel guilty, Yeah,

1651
01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 1: you should feel guilt, But what I'm saying is how

1652
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:25,640
Speaker 1: do you handle it without being too emotional and being irrational?

1653
01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 2: So anyways, yeah, I.

1654
01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 3: Mean so I like, I like self help, but yeah,

1655
01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 3: I feel but I also like fiction, and I like,

1656
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:36,519
Speaker 3: I don't know, I like to read all types of shit.

1657
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:38,680
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna I don't really I don't really be

1658
01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:40,679
Speaker 3: reading romance like that, okay.

1659
01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 2: But I might read. This is really good.

1660
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 1: Like I said, the first few chapters, you're kind of like,

1661
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:47,519
Speaker 1: but it's just like a black girl. It's like a

1662
01:12:47,520 --> 01:12:49,320
Speaker 1: story about a black girl just trying to be like

1663
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 1: and then it's.

1664
01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 2: Just it's just really good.

1665
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:53,559
Speaker 1: I don't want to give too much away because if

1666
01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:55,080
Speaker 1: I start talking about it, I'm gonna give it away.

1667
01:12:55,120 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 2: But yeah.

1668
01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:57,920
Speaker 1: My item of the Week is seven Days in June

1669
01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 1: by Tia Williams if Ta. Yeah, if you're watching this,

1670
01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:02,880
Speaker 1: or if this gets to you and you make a

1671
01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:04,640
Speaker 1: movie version of it, put me Andre in there.

1672
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:09,680
Speaker 2: We can play some characters. Okay, you can. Okay, So

1673
01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:16,719
Speaker 2: now it's time to get into the bop about bow

1674
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 2: wow bow Okay, what's your bot?

1675
01:13:20,360 --> 01:13:22,920
Speaker 1: So y'all know I've been on my afrobeat shit as

1676
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:23,519
Speaker 1: of recently.

1677
01:13:23,680 --> 01:13:25,640
Speaker 2: The weather is starting to get a little, you know,

1678
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 2: a little warm.

1679
01:13:26,840 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 1: Because March is around the corner. So my bop of

1680
01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:33,560
Speaker 1: the week is by Phil's p h E E l Z.

1681
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 1: He's that guy that had that song a fitness.

1682
01:13:38,360 --> 01:13:38,919
Speaker 2: My business.

1683
01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:40,680
Speaker 1: So he got a new song called stand by You

1684
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:43,599
Speaker 1: and it's like a love song. It's very romantic. I'm

1685
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 1: telling you right now, y'all listen to my words. You

1686
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 1: remember how Tims was the song when you on vacation?

1687
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:54,599
Speaker 1: Did is the piece that you cannot find Phil Phil's

1688
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:57,920
Speaker 1: got the song that the girls, I'm telling you.

1689
01:13:57,880 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 2: And she'll have to see him.

1690
01:13:58,680 --> 01:14:00,719
Speaker 1: She want to grant me the first note and female

1691
01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:01,639
Speaker 1: artist want a Grammy.

1692
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 2: But Phils has.

1693
01:14:02,640 --> 01:14:04,759
Speaker 1: A song called stand by You, and this is gonna

1694
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:08,120
Speaker 1: give the vibe of you know, record the vacation that

1695
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 1: you want because you on a vacation with your.

1696
01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 2: Nigga and he in love with you.

1697
01:14:12,400 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: You in love with him, even if it's not real love.

1698
01:14:14,120 --> 01:14:16,439
Speaker 1: That's what y'are feeling in the moment. So yeah, it

1699
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 1: feels stand by you. That's my bop of the week.

1700
01:14:19,920 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so my bap of the week, y'all.

1701
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 3: I y'all know, I be loving like a feel good you,

1702
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 3: a bad beach type of song.

1703
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 2: So I Spice got this song called in Her Mood

1704
01:14:32,680 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 2: like I love, y'all. I love that song a spice cat.

1705
01:14:39,040 --> 01:14:44,840
Speaker 2: I love my carried Top queen Annie. You love Annie song.

1706
01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:50,200
Speaker 2: I don't call her Annie. We ain't gotta call her

1707
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 2: that as it's hard life like anyways, I y'all, I

1708
01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 2: love that song. Okay, I love in Her Mood?

1709
01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:03,280
Speaker 3: That is my she is that the one where she's

1710
01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:06,360
Speaker 3: like big boos in the say plump yeah, okay, okay,

1711
01:15:07,120 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 3: I hate me too. Yeah she'd be up like what

1712
01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:15,599
Speaker 3: that is my song? I love that song. It's so cute.

1713
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 3: It's such a little girly anthem.

1714
01:15:17,800 --> 01:15:21,559
Speaker 1: Okay, shout out to like to have Ice Spice on

1715
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 1: the show. We'll reach out to a little Ice Spice bringer.

1716
01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:26,560
Speaker 2: You ain't trying that hard calling her Annie.

1717
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 1: I did not call her any they be calling her

1718
01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:30,679
Speaker 1: Annie Annie.

1719
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:34,599
Speaker 2: It was a Annie was cool, the orphan.

1720
01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:37,760
Speaker 1: Yes, she got off that hard knocked life.

1721
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 2: She found her a bd B, but a big daddy baller.

1722
01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:49,200
Speaker 2: Now it's time to get into the bed. I mean.

1723
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:58,120
Speaker 1: Exactly trying to switch it up. Now she know I'm

1724
01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:01,639
Speaker 1: trying to switch it up. What's up, Y'all's your girl?

1725
01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 1: LEXP and I have a very special announcement. Well I

1726
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 1: already announced it, but I'm gonna let yall know again.

1727
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 2: We are going on tour. It's starting in June, y'all. Look,

1728
01:16:11,479 --> 01:16:12,720
Speaker 2: we announcing it extra early.

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01:16:12,760 --> 01:16:15,200
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Speaker 1: Okay, So before we get into Pour your Heart Out,

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Speaker 1: y'all know, we have a voicemail segment. The number is

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01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 1: gonna be right here at the bottom.

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01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:13,439
Speaker 2: We're gonna be right here at the bottom. Listen.

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01:18:13,479 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 1: We really want y'all to leave voicemails, but this is

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Speaker 1: not Listen, this is not an advice line. We want

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Speaker 1: to hear y'all get things off of your chest. What

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Speaker 1: do you want to see more on Poor Minds or

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01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 1: tell us a story something, But this is not an

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Speaker 1: advice thing. Y'all are right, y'all are leaving voicemails. That's

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01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:33,160
Speaker 1: what Pour your Heart Out is for. Y'all still need

1779
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:35,840
Speaker 1: to write in and do the pour your Heart out,

1780
01:18:35,880 --> 01:18:38,000
Speaker 1: but the voicemails are something completely different.

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Speaker 2: Y'all need to vent.

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01:18:39,400 --> 01:18:41,960
Speaker 1: Y'all need to tell what y'all love about us, you know,

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Speaker 1: things like that, But it's not a question.

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01:18:44,120 --> 01:18:45,640
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna leave the number.

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01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:47,679
Speaker 1: Again and we're gonna try this again because we don't

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01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:49,839
Speaker 1: have no voicemails because y'all just been leaving questions.

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01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:53,320
Speaker 2: It's not a question thing. Okay, all right? Me first?

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01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:55,840
Speaker 2: Are you first? Me? Why would he be the long one?

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Speaker 3: To me? No?

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01:18:56,160 --> 01:19:00,160
Speaker 2: One, I can't read. I want to switch. Actually, you

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01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 2: being nice today? Bishal nice? Every day? You're not nice?

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Speaker 3: Question number ones My sisters, first and foremost, congratulations on

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Speaker 3: all of your most recent accolades that you've made with

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Speaker 3: your platform. I've been a fan since y'all used to

1795
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:20,600
Speaker 3: argue on the couch on wind down Wednesdays.

1796
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Speaker 2: I couldn't be.

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Speaker 3: More proud and thank you for being my safe space

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01:19:23,880 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 3: out of all of my friends in my head, all

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Speaker 3: of them. No, now to my question. Please forgive me

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Speaker 3: for the length because I feel it is important that

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Speaker 3: I provide detail for a perspective.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 3: I'm twenty eight years old and a gay male who

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01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:42,640
Speaker 3: is in the military. I've been in the military for

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01:19:42,720 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 3: nine years and I have a lovely thirteen year old daughter.

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01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:48,360
Speaker 3: The first and only time I ever had sex with

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01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:50,839
Speaker 3: the girl was when I was fifteen and she got pregnant.

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01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 3: Fast forward three years later, I enlisted so I could

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Speaker 3: provide what I thought would be stability for her and I.

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01:19:56,880 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 3: I ended up falling madly in love with my husband

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Speaker 3: and get it married at nineteen Unfortunately, trigger warning, my

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01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:08,599
Speaker 3: husband committed suicide in twenty twenty one. It was a

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01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 3: hard time for me because I still had to make

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Speaker 3: sure that I was present for my daughter while trying

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01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:16,320
Speaker 3: to hold his family and myself together. I've been in

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01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:18,920
Speaker 3: therapy for the past two years and feel as though

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01:20:18,960 --> 01:20:22,679
Speaker 3: I'm ready to date again. With my late husband being

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01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 3: the only man I've ever been with and the only

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01:20:25,120 --> 01:20:27,840
Speaker 3: other parent my daughter has had. I feel a sense

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01:20:27,880 --> 01:20:30,840
Speaker 3: of guilt even thinking about it, because I feel losing

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01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:33,640
Speaker 3: him was equally traumatizing to her as it was for me.

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01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:36,000
Speaker 2: I noticed our bond has.

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01:20:35,880 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 3: Been slowly deteriorating, which could just be teenage angst, but

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01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:42,920
Speaker 3: it was ways he could show up that I couldn't.

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01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:45,559
Speaker 3: I feel the need to find another partner because being

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01:20:45,600 --> 01:20:48,679
Speaker 3: her sole provider with no help has been a heart adjustment,

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01:20:48,800 --> 01:20:53,080
Speaker 3: especially with the schedule and deployments the military has me on.

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01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 3: When we moved every couple years, was my husband there,

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01:20:56,600 --> 01:20:58,640
Speaker 3: it was a familiar face at all times, with the

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01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:01,600
Speaker 3: support any man I choose to be with will have

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01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:01,960
Speaker 3: to know.

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01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:03,520
Speaker 2: My daughter is my priority.

1833
01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:06,400
Speaker 3: But dating within the gay community today, you could be

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01:21:06,439 --> 01:21:08,920
Speaker 3: in love today about to walk down the aisle, and

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01:21:08,960 --> 01:21:11,599
Speaker 3: the next day they are back, live and in color

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01:21:11,640 --> 01:21:16,000
Speaker 3: on Jack, the gay dating app Jack Whish, I know,

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01:21:16,080 --> 01:21:19,200
Speaker 3: will trigger her separation anxiety, and I don't want that,

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01:21:19,479 --> 01:21:22,920
Speaker 3: the separation, not the app. Do y'all think I should

1839
01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:25,679
Speaker 3: wait until she graduates from high school before I open

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01:21:25,760 --> 01:21:28,280
Speaker 3: her up to the possibility of another man entering our

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01:21:28,320 --> 01:21:31,439
Speaker 3: life knowing that there's a possibility of them leaving, or

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01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 3: how would you guys navigate with the situation. I know

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01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:37,280
Speaker 3: neither one of y'all appearents, but any advice would be appreciated.

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Speaker 2: I love y'all and thanks once again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I actually have a different perspective on this

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01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:44,400
Speaker 1: because I think I have a perspective from the child's

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01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:47,360
Speaker 1: point of view. So when I was very young, I

1848
01:21:47,360 --> 01:21:49,160
Speaker 1: think I talked about this more. My dad passed away

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01:21:49,160 --> 01:21:52,639
Speaker 1: when I was very young, and my mom got into

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01:21:52,680 --> 01:21:56,840
Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody that that's what I knew as dad,

1851
01:21:56,920 --> 01:21:58,760
Speaker 1: you know, like I knew him as what.

1852
01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:02,520
Speaker 2: You looking for? The other enveloped but you it's okay.

1853
01:22:02,560 --> 01:22:05,439
Speaker 1: So she got a relationship with this man and they

1854
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:07,840
Speaker 1: were together for a long time. They had actually got engaged,

1855
01:22:07,960 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 1: like this was daddy to me, you know, this was

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01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:12,640
Speaker 1: all I knew. So when they now it wasn't you know,

1857
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,320
Speaker 1: he didn't you know, commit suicide or he didn't pass

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01:22:16,360 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 1: away or anything. They just ended up breaking up And

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01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:21,639
Speaker 1: it didn't so much take a toll on my sister,

1860
01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 1: but it took a because I think because my sister

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01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:26,839
Speaker 1: remembered our dad, so she kind of knew the difference,

1862
01:22:27,320 --> 01:22:30,160
Speaker 1: and I really didn't. I don't remember anything from my father,

1863
01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:33,080
Speaker 1: so my first father figure was him. So whenever they

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01:22:33,120 --> 01:22:35,600
Speaker 1: broke up, it took such a toll on me, and

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01:22:35,640 --> 01:22:38,479
Speaker 1: it took me a long time to get over. And honestly,

1866
01:22:38,600 --> 01:22:40,840
Speaker 1: I realized that in therapy, like a lot of my

1867
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:43,800
Speaker 1: issues go back to that of having like feeling like

1868
01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 1: people just always leave and they don't try hard enough

1869
01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:49,120
Speaker 1: for me, Like I always feel like people are gonna leave.

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01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 1: So it comes into a lot of my personality traits.

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01:22:52,439 --> 01:22:54,600
Speaker 1: So I will say this what my mom did that

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01:22:54,720 --> 01:22:59,320
Speaker 1: I feel like what helped me is she worked on

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01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:02,519
Speaker 1: our relationship because it wasn't about who she was dating

1874
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 1: and making me feel comfortable about who she was. Like,

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01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I'm here, I'm your mother,

1876
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 1: So maybe I might date somebody, maybe it might work out,

1877
01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 1: maybe it won't. So I don't think you should put

1878
01:23:14,800 --> 01:23:16,720
Speaker 1: the pressure on the person that you're dating because you

1879
01:23:16,800 --> 01:23:18,559
Speaker 1: said that y'all were kind of growing apart and you

1880
01:23:18,600 --> 01:23:20,720
Speaker 1: felt this is the time for you to work on

1881
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:23,479
Speaker 1: y'all's relationship because at the end of the day, she's

1882
01:23:23,560 --> 01:23:24,520
Speaker 1: your responsibility.

1883
01:23:24,600 --> 01:23:26,400
Speaker 3: But I have a question, what do you think that

1884
01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 3: he could do though to help the situation more because

1885
01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:32,719
Speaker 3: you said that y'all did that, but then you still

1886
01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 3: feel that way, yeah as an adult.

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01:23:35,000 --> 01:23:37,080
Speaker 1: But yeah, I still feel that way. But it wasn't

1888
01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:40,160
Speaker 1: like a like something that hindered me. It was just

1889
01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:41,960
Speaker 1: kind of like affected me, like in my dating life

1890
01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:44,479
Speaker 1: and how I navigated and how I treated like people

1891
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:46,519
Speaker 1: in my life, you know what I'm saying, Like I

1892
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:49,640
Speaker 1: had serious trust issues, but it wasn't.

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01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:50,400
Speaker 2: Like hindering to me.

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01:23:50,520 --> 01:23:52,240
Speaker 1: Like as a child, I would just kind of be

1895
01:23:52,360 --> 01:23:54,080
Speaker 1: like sad sometimes, but.

1896
01:23:54,400 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 2: I got me and my mom got like this. No.

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01:23:57,000 --> 01:23:58,800
Speaker 3: Sorry, So that's what I'm saying, Like, what do you

1898
01:23:58,840 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 3: think he could do to wear?

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01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:03,640
Speaker 2: Because I don't know, I'm not gonna lie, I don't say.

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01:24:03,160 --> 01:24:04,840
Speaker 3: But like, what do you think he could do to

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01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:08,439
Speaker 3: where she doesn't have those problems as an adult, Like

1902
01:24:08,439 --> 01:24:12,000
Speaker 3: it doesn't hinder her in her dating life other relationships.

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01:24:12,400 --> 01:24:15,080
Speaker 1: I think for me, and I will and I will

1904
01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 1: say this very lightly because, like I said, my mom

1905
01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:22,960
Speaker 1: was an amazing woman, but my mom also had you know,

1906
01:24:23,360 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 1: trust issues and dating and with men and things like that.

1907
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:29,080
Speaker 1: So honestly, I think a lot of that stuff kind

1908
01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 1: of like trickle.

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01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:34,160
Speaker 2: Down to me. So that's another topic. But I feel

1910
01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:38,520
Speaker 2: like you just have to talk to her, have conversations.

1911
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:41,360
Speaker 1: I think sometimes people think your children are too young

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01:24:41,680 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 1: to handle certain types of conversations. So you can tell her, Hey,

1913
01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:47,320
Speaker 1: you know what, you're gonna meet somebody and you're gonna

1914
01:24:47,360 --> 01:24:49,080
Speaker 1: fall in love and they're probably.

1915
01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:49,439
Speaker 2: Gonna hurt you.

1916
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:51,680
Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean the next person can't come in

1917
01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:53,120
Speaker 1: and love you and you can trust them.

1918
01:24:53,439 --> 01:24:54,639
Speaker 2: You cannot let.

1919
01:24:54,520 --> 01:24:57,559
Speaker 1: Your future affect like you can't like you cannot let

1920
01:24:57,600 --> 01:25:01,439
Speaker 1: your past affect your future. And never told me that,

1921
01:25:02,000 --> 01:25:06,880
Speaker 1: so for me, it was like we had a lot

1922
01:25:06,920 --> 01:25:09,840
Speaker 1: of conversations, but we never really had conversations about like

1923
01:25:09,920 --> 01:25:13,120
Speaker 1: love and how to navigate the dating the dating scene.

1924
01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:16,519
Speaker 1: So but what she did that definitely helped me is

1925
01:25:17,320 --> 01:25:19,880
Speaker 1: she was there, like I didn't care about her having

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01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:22,439
Speaker 1: a boyfriend or not. Like she definitely dated after that,

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01:25:23,000 --> 01:25:24,840
Speaker 1: but I didn't get so attached.

1928
01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 2: It was kind of like, oh, hey, you're cool. You know,

1929
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:27,679
Speaker 2: we can be friends.

1930
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:31,400
Speaker 1: Like like at her service, one her exes actually showed

1931
01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 1: up and I was actually really happy to see him.

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01:25:33,479 --> 01:25:35,959
Speaker 2: It was never any like, you know, weird situation.

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01:25:36,120 --> 01:25:39,759
Speaker 1: So I think now is the time that you really

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01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:45,360
Speaker 1: just embraced her and develop a stronger relationship with her,

1935
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:47,599
Speaker 1: because that's the only thing you can do because you

1936
01:25:47,640 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 1: can't obviously you said, I don't know how the gay

1937
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:52,720
Speaker 1: dating scene is, but you said it's craziness. So you

1938
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:56,120
Speaker 1: actually would be hindering, like hurting her by trying to

1939
01:25:56,120 --> 01:25:59,160
Speaker 1: bring somebody in to kind of feel this void.

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01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:00,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I WASNA say.

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01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:02,679
Speaker 3: I don't necessarily think you should wait until she graduate

1942
01:26:02,680 --> 01:26:05,320
Speaker 3: from high school. I think that you should just wait

1943
01:26:05,439 --> 01:26:08,479
Speaker 3: until you find the right person. Don't be bringing nobody

1944
01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:10,880
Speaker 3: in just because you feel like somebody needs to feel

1945
01:26:10,920 --> 01:26:14,160
Speaker 3: the boy, because like, bring whenever you bring somebody in,

1946
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:16,439
Speaker 3: bring in a person who you feel like it's a

1947
01:26:16,479 --> 01:26:18,800
Speaker 3: good fit and you really love them, and y'all have

1948
01:26:18,840 --> 01:26:21,559
Speaker 3: a great connection and you feel like you want them

1949
01:26:21,560 --> 01:26:23,920
Speaker 3: to meet your daughter and build a relationship with her.

1950
01:26:24,760 --> 01:26:27,519
Speaker 3: That's the only way that it's gonna work, you know

1951
01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 3: what I mean? I feel like, do things when you ready,

1952
01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:32,720
Speaker 3: But I don't think it's a certain time limit. Like

1953
01:26:32,720 --> 01:26:34,920
Speaker 3: I don't think you should wait until she's in high

1954
01:26:34,960 --> 01:26:37,320
Speaker 3: school and then be like, Okay, I'm ready, because this.

1955
01:26:37,360 --> 01:26:39,280
Speaker 2: Might not be the right person. If you meet the

1956
01:26:39,360 --> 01:26:42,280
Speaker 2: right person next year, you just gonna wait, right, So

1957
01:26:43,240 --> 01:26:43,599
Speaker 2: that's the.

1958
01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:48,200
Speaker 1: Best advice we can get. Yeah, yes, so yes, wait,

1959
01:26:48,320 --> 01:26:50,519
Speaker 1: do I got question number two? I didn't really yet? Okay,

1960
01:26:50,800 --> 01:26:52,360
Speaker 1: when y'all want lad one, y'all, I know this is

1961
01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:55,720
Speaker 1: a long episode. We dragging it, okay, question number two? Hey,

1962
01:26:55,800 --> 01:26:58,799
Speaker 1: Drea and Lex When I tell y'all me, turning twenty

1963
01:26:58,800 --> 01:27:00,680
Speaker 1: five was just a turn for me.

1964
01:27:01,040 --> 01:27:02,360
Speaker 2: My love life is trash.

1965
01:27:02,760 --> 01:27:07,519
Speaker 1: I'm still not working my ideal job, and I'm pregnant, Yes, pregnant,

1966
01:27:07,920 --> 01:27:10,559
Speaker 1: especially pregnant by a man I don't even like for real,

1967
01:27:10,880 --> 01:27:12,479
Speaker 1: him and I are cool, But do I see a

1968
01:27:12,520 --> 01:27:13,240
Speaker 1: future with him?

1969
01:27:13,520 --> 01:27:14,640
Speaker 2: Hmm? I think not.

1970
01:27:15,120 --> 01:27:17,519
Speaker 1: I made my appointment to get an abortion, but I

1971
01:27:17,520 --> 01:27:20,599
Speaker 1: feel like this situation just added more trauma to my life.

1972
01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:23,599
Speaker 1: I discovered my depression at twenty one, and I feel

1973
01:27:23,600 --> 01:27:26,640
Speaker 1: like life be beating me up, Like God, can I

1974
01:27:26,680 --> 01:27:30,599
Speaker 1: catch a break? Sometimes my depression really sinks in because

1975
01:27:30,600 --> 01:27:32,920
Speaker 1: I realize I'm getting older and I need to stop

1976
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:36,040
Speaker 1: making reckless decisions. What advice do you have for someone

1977
01:27:36,080 --> 01:27:37,920
Speaker 1: like me trying to still cope with the fact that

1978
01:27:38,240 --> 01:27:42,719
Speaker 1: with getting older, overcoming depression and actually trying to enjoy life.

1979
01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:46,920
Speaker 1: Does life actually start to get better after twenty five regards?

1980
01:27:47,560 --> 01:27:50,280
Speaker 2: Absolutely? This is another this is our poor gay brother.

1981
01:27:50,320 --> 01:27:51,040
Speaker 2: This is from a man.

1982
01:27:51,160 --> 01:27:53,080
Speaker 1: Wait, why does it say your poor gay brother and

1983
01:27:53,120 --> 01:27:57,000
Speaker 1: it says pregnant? Well, I don't want to maybe he

1984
01:27:57,840 --> 01:27:59,080
Speaker 1: Oh you know what, Maybe that.

1985
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:02,479
Speaker 2: Was from the bottom of yours. Yeah, it's from the

1986
01:28:02,479 --> 01:28:03,320
Speaker 2: bottom of yours.

1987
01:28:03,560 --> 01:28:04,720
Speaker 6: Okay, So.

1988
01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:09,360
Speaker 3: Life absolutely gets better after twenty five. I think life

1989
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:11,519
Speaker 3: gets better as long as you have the mindset that

1990
01:28:11,600 --> 01:28:12,400
Speaker 3: he's gonna get better.

1991
01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:14,320
Speaker 2: To me, that's what he's about.

1992
01:28:14,479 --> 01:28:17,320
Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, life is not over after

1993
01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:20,120
Speaker 3: any age. You can always make your life better. You

1994
01:28:20,160 --> 01:28:24,880
Speaker 3: can always work on becoming a better person, being healthier,

1995
01:28:25,120 --> 01:28:29,120
Speaker 3: having a healthier mindset, changing character flaws, changing different things

1996
01:28:29,160 --> 01:28:33,200
Speaker 3: about you like and your circumstances. You being pregnant doesn't

1997
01:28:33,520 --> 01:28:36,080
Speaker 3: isn't gonna make your quality of life any different, unless

1998
01:28:36,080 --> 01:28:38,240
Speaker 3: you choose to let it make your quality of life

1999
01:28:38,240 --> 01:28:40,639
Speaker 3: any different. It's plenty of people who I mean, well,

2000
01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:42,960
Speaker 3: she said she was gonna give an abortion. Yeah, she

2001
01:28:43,040 --> 01:28:45,240
Speaker 3: did say that, So I mean, yeah, whether you choose

2002
01:28:45,280 --> 01:28:47,040
Speaker 3: to have a baby, whether you choose to get an abortion,

2003
01:28:47,680 --> 01:28:50,120
Speaker 3: those are all your decisions. But I think life gets

2004
01:28:50,120 --> 01:28:52,080
Speaker 3: better depending on your mind.

2005
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:55,960
Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, life is definitely what you make it.

2006
01:28:56,880 --> 01:29:00,880
Speaker 2: I feel like somebody have to be optimistic, not pissimistic facts.

2007
01:29:01,479 --> 01:29:04,400
Speaker 1: I feel like somebody who like struggles with depression. I

2008
01:29:04,479 --> 01:29:07,160
Speaker 1: used to let depression kind of like cripple me, and

2009
01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:09,680
Speaker 1: I used to have like this woe is me attitude,

2010
01:29:09,760 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 1: like always feeling sorry for myself. So you for yourself personally,

2011
01:29:14,400 --> 01:29:17,160
Speaker 1: you have to learn how to navigate your depression. And

2012
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:19,879
Speaker 1: I say that is because you know, I give myself

2013
01:29:19,960 --> 01:29:23,040
Speaker 1: time to be in my feelings and feel certain feelings.

2014
01:29:23,040 --> 01:29:26,120
Speaker 1: But I don't give myself too much time. Like, Okay,

2015
01:29:26,640 --> 01:29:30,160
Speaker 1: you went through these emotions. Now what's step two? So

2016
01:29:30,280 --> 01:29:32,200
Speaker 1: you need to learn what works for you and you

2017
01:29:32,200 --> 01:29:34,439
Speaker 1: have to learn how to navigate your own life. Going

2018
01:29:34,479 --> 01:29:36,880
Speaker 1: back to what we said earlier, find things that make

2019
01:29:36,960 --> 01:29:39,160
Speaker 1: you happy. Stop looking at on the outside on what

2020
01:29:39,280 --> 01:29:41,720
Speaker 1: you think you should be doing, and find out what

2021
01:29:41,880 --> 01:29:45,040
Speaker 1: makes you happy. You know, like you said, you want

2022
01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:47,920
Speaker 1: to stop making reckless decisions. And you know, a lot

2023
01:29:47,920 --> 01:29:49,640
Speaker 1: of times, a lot of the decisions and this is

2024
01:29:49,680 --> 01:29:52,120
Speaker 1: so unfortunate and crazy. A lot of times people make

2025
01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:55,280
Speaker 1: decisions because of the people around them are what they're seeing.

2026
01:29:55,600 --> 01:29:57,240
Speaker 1: It's not really something that you want to do. And

2027
01:29:57,280 --> 01:30:00,080
Speaker 1: that's something that I learned in a very young age. Oh,

2028
01:30:00,200 --> 01:30:02,519
Speaker 1: don't let people pressure you. Like if you're going out

2029
01:30:02,520 --> 01:30:04,479
Speaker 1: and you don't want to drink, don't fucking drink.

2030
01:30:04,840 --> 01:30:06,439
Speaker 2: Like a lot of times people be like, oh I hate.

2031
01:30:06,360 --> 01:30:09,200
Speaker 1: Drinking, but they let their friends pressure them and taking

2032
01:30:09,240 --> 01:30:11,479
Speaker 1: shots or whatever the case may be. I'm just using

2033
01:30:11,479 --> 01:30:14,280
Speaker 1: that for an example. So, and getting older is such

2034
01:30:14,280 --> 01:30:18,679
Speaker 1: a blessing. I feel like I have changed so much

2035
01:30:18,760 --> 01:30:23,320
Speaker 1: in this past like three months, because I decided in

2036
01:30:23,360 --> 01:30:26,599
Speaker 1: a new year that I'm actively working on myself. I'm

2037
01:30:26,640 --> 01:30:30,959
Speaker 1: actively admitting my flaws. I'm actively knowing that I'm not perfect,

2038
01:30:31,200 --> 01:30:34,479
Speaker 1: and I'm accepting those flaws, but I'm also working on them.

2039
01:30:34,520 --> 01:30:37,719
Speaker 1: Nobody is perfect, and it's a blessing to get older.

2040
01:30:38,320 --> 01:30:40,439
Speaker 1: Some people don't get to see thirty, you know what

2041
01:30:40,439 --> 01:30:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Some people don't get to see forty. So

2042
01:30:43,720 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 1: getting older is a blessing and it's inevitable. So you

2043
01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:47,519
Speaker 1: just need to learn how to navigate it.

2044
01:30:49,040 --> 01:30:58,519
Speaker 2: Amen. All right, Well, thank y'all for thank y'all for

2045
01:30:58,800 --> 01:31:00,800
Speaker 2: you know, listening to one of the episode of Poor

2046
01:31:00,840 --> 01:31:06,880
Speaker 2: Mine and you know it's karaoke time period. I don't

2047
01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:08,479
Speaker 2: know we singing, but we're about to sing. Oh, I

2048
01:31:08,560 --> 01:31:49,000
Speaker 2: know what we're singing. What's up, y'all? It's your girl

2049
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Speaker 2: x peet is. Your girls are in the call and

2050
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Speaker 5: three headed monster like you a monster? Yeah, man, I'm

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Speaker 2: dragon dragging down dragon down.

2081
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Speaker 5: No, it's no some shit harder than dragons, dragon balls.

2082
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Speaker 2: Dragon head monster. We just added another mother.

2083
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Speaker 1: Oh no, you got it.

2084
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Speaker 2: Nah, okay, just like dragons. Nah.

2085
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Speaker 5: But yeah, Denver, since the Wii it's the different Wii.

2086
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2090
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Speaker 2: You got to laugh right?

2091
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Speaker 3: No, baby, no baby, no baby, no no no.

2092
01:34:03,720 --> 01:34:10,120
Speaker 2: If you take your love away from me, I'll go crazy.

2093
01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:16,040
Speaker 4: I'll go win say no, no.

2094
01:34:15,880 --> 01:34:20,120
Speaker 2: No, no no.

2095
01:34:21,439 --> 01:34:23,760
Speaker 1: You got the first verse sing it to Andrea.

2096
01:34:24,200 --> 01:34:26,160
Speaker 2: Hey, yeah, go ahead.

2097
01:34:26,400 --> 01:34:31,000
Speaker 3: Now you've got your problems, baby, and I got mine.

2098
01:34:31,680 --> 01:34:36,599
Speaker 3: Let's just spend it all by putting it together. Yes,

2099
01:34:37,400 --> 01:34:42,200
Speaker 3: because when you say you love me, it don't mean nothing.

2100
01:34:42,320 --> 01:34:47,080
Speaker 2: If you can't you be there like you you sue me.

2101
01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:53,559
Speaker 1: I'm searching for the words to make you realize that

2102
01:34:53,880 --> 01:34:56,160
Speaker 1: I really really want.

2103
01:34:55,960 --> 01:35:03,920
Speaker 2: You to stay. Oh is a frustration, The whole is I.

2104
01:35:04,000 --> 01:35:07,120
Speaker 2: But if you walk away, you'll.

2105
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Speaker 1: Make this gromy Cray Dolly.

2106
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Speaker 2: Doly Mega.

2107
01:35:17,960 --> 01:35:26,840
Speaker 1: Please stay with me to night, dole me

2108
01:35:27,120 --> 01:35:35,120
Speaker 3: Girl, please stay with me to it you zay you

2109
01:35:35,640 --> 01:35:52,320
Speaker 3: I love away from me, I'll go crazy, crazy, crazy