1 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: Hi everyone, This is George with a very quick message 2 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: to say that if you are listening to this episode 3 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: on Tuesday, April first, that means my comedy special taping 4 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: in New York is to night. I repeat tonight. The 5 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: early show is sold out, but we just added some 6 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: last minute ten dollars tickets for the late show. There 7 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 1: are only ten dollars. 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So come 18 00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: to my special dating tonight, Come to Stradio Lab Live 19 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: aka Lesbian Lab on April sixteenth and enjoy this amazing 20 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: call in show. Thank you for your calls. You can 21 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: always call us. The three eight five Gay Guys Lavea. 22 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: Podcast starts now. Hello all and welcome to Stradio Lab. 23 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 2: We are coming at you bikosally per Huge and it's 24 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 2: just me and George today, just us. What's up. 25 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 1: You know, we're doing a call in show, which we 26 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: normally do for Patreon, and so in my mind, I'm 27 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 1: ready to spill all the tea. I'm ready to talk 28 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: to the Patreoni stays like they are my family. I'm 29 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: ready to be like, do you know what happened. 30 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: The other day? Do you know that she was being 31 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 2: so weird to me? 32 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: But I have to remember that, you know, I have 33 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: to put up my professional my profile, my professional mask. 34 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: I have to take off my gesterre mask that I 35 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: work for Patreon, put on my professional mask, my blazer, 36 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: my tie, my Brooks Brother's crisp non iron white shirt 37 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: that I got it's three for you know, three for 38 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 1: three seventy five, and I have to get into the office. 39 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 1: I'm on the subway. I'm getting off at Penn station. 40 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm crossing the street almost getting hit by a taxi 41 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 1: cab Allah opening montage of Delaware's products so I can 42 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 1: get into the studio and report the news. 43 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 2: Quite frankly, when I'm doing a regular episode, I feel 44 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,839 Speaker 2: like I'm the President of the United States giving a price, 45 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 2: feel like I'm giving a press conference. Everyone's going to 46 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 2: be picking apart every single word. There's going to be 47 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: multiple debates about like what I really meant by certain phrases, 48 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 2: and the pressure is on in a huge way. 49 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: Whereas when we're recording Patreon, it is Madonna in the 50 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:54,919 Speaker 1: Truth or Dare documentary simulating a blowjob with a water bottle. 51 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: That is what that is what Patreon episodes are. And listen, 52 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: if you know, you. 53 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,079 Speaker 2: Know, if you know you know, can we talk about 54 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: how Madonna's like whole thing is like I'm going to 55 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 2: simulate sex, Like she found out out one time and 56 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 2: she was like, I'm never gonna stop simulating sex. I'm 57 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 2: fucking crazy. I'm Madonna. 58 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna stop simulating sex. I'm never gonna stop 59 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: referencing Catholicism. 60 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, this is an interesting timing episode. 61 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 1: Interesting timing, Sam, How are you feeling. 62 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 2: I'm feeling mixed. So we found out this week that 63 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 2: the show I write for After Midnight on CBS is 64 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 2: being canceled. So it was a weird week, a very 65 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 2: weird week, and it's mostly a bummer. It's hard to 66 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 2: talk about, but it's a big bummer because, like I 67 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 2: do feel like the show, the group of writers was 68 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 2: so fun and like to get a space to actually 69 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 2: do like fun, silly, weird alt comedy and have it 70 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 2: be like through the CBS lens was like kind of crazy. 71 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 2: And I'm like feeling a little bit like damn, is 72 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: this ever gonna happen again? I even feel like I 73 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 2: don't know, like the working for head regular Joe Firestone 74 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 2: is the privilege of a lifetime, and it is like 75 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 2: it's a bummer because I'm like, what's yeah, no one 76 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 2: knows what's next. It's it's just a bummer. And like 77 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: they're not even like they're just getting rid of the 78 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 2: time slot now, like they're not even going to put 79 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 2: a new show in. 80 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: Like, oh they aren't. I didn't know if that was excited. 81 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: So does that mean there's going to be like a 82 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:39,360 Speaker 1: rerun of something. 83 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 2: There's gonna be like infomercials, like what yeah, okay, I'm 84 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 2: logging in and buying a treadmille. It's like fully like 85 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 2: local affiliates and whoa, it's they're just getting rid of 86 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: that the twelve thirty slot. 87 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 1: Well, I just want to say everyone involved in that 88 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 1: show truly did the impossible, which is take a late 89 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: night show on network television that is a reboot of 90 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: a previous show that was very of its time. 91 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 2: Let's face very of its time. 92 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 1: It's very difficult to reboot something like that and make 93 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: it relevant. And launched a new show in the midst 94 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: of sort of like an uninspiring late night you know, ecosystem, 95 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 1: and did it without like huge big name a list celebrities, 96 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: without you know, gimmicks where Sidney Sweeney is lip syncing 97 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 1: to Chapel Roone and really like in a very kind 98 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: of like throwback way, and listed real comedians and the 99 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: mix of up and comers and big names and actually 100 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: like made a funny show that was funny from the beginning. 101 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's such a there's just like not outlets for 102 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 2: comedians to do this type of thing. 103 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 1: So I was saying before we started recording that this episode, 104 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: this conversation is giving me such intense deja vus of 105 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: when we recorded our Patreon app after Gawker shut down. 106 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 2: So for anyone. 107 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: I can't remember how much of this was talked about 108 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 1: on a main episode versus Patreon, but from like twenty 109 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: twenty one to twenty twenty three, I guess I was 110 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 1: an editor at the reboot of Gawker that relaunched under 111 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 1: new ownership, and then it was shut down two years later. 112 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: And it's occurring to me think of the parallels the 113 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 1: time frame the reboot, like the time frame exact, same 114 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: time frame exacts. It was a reboot of something that 115 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 1: was popular in like the twentyds and early twenty tens. 116 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: It was a job that was unlike any other job 117 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: that existed in that industry. It's like, there's no other 118 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 1: late night show that does what the sort of like 119 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: old comedy thing that After Midnight did, and there's no 120 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: other like website that had the like sort of like 121 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: funky sensibility that that Cocker did. It's not like either 122 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: of us could then be like, Okay, great, so I'll 123 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 1: just I'll just go to this other, you know, similar 124 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: place both you know, sort of like women boss head 125 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: writers that we became good friends with, like various sort 126 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: of like tight knit group of co workers. 127 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, there are a lot of similarities. 128 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: Probably similar size staff like it's and especially the timeframe too, 129 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: It's like it was basically like between a year and 130 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: a half and two years for both of them. Yeah, 131 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: industries that are in crisis, to say the least, like 132 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: this sort of halfway point between. I mean not not 133 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:49,920 Speaker 1: to invoke the word journalism, but I just mean, like 134 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: there's it's it's like funny news commentary. 135 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's funny news commentary. 136 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: Of the type that you know more and more is 137 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: being replaced by talk and by influencers and whatever else, 138 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: and listen, the world goes on. I'm not saying that 139 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: I think we should freeze the state of culture in 140 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: twenty thirteen and not allow people to innovate. But it's 141 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: just a bygone era. 142 00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 2: It's a bygone era. And even like it's so I 143 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 2: don't know, like even little stuff like like just like 144 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 2: going to the paramount law is like, well this is 145 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 2: fun kind of totally totally like what do you mean, 146 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 2: I'm not allowed to come here anymore. 147 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: Something people don't talk about is how when a job ends, 148 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: you stop being a human person in the eyes of 149 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: the entity that once gave you that job, Like it's 150 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 1: really interest is your badge stops working, and you no 151 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: longer if you actually and if you like, you know, 152 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: open the door and go in, you will be arrested. 153 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 2: Like you are no. 154 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: Longer seen as a person in the eyes of the 155 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: Paramount law. 156 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: It's so weird to the weird. This is weird because 157 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: we know now the show is not coming back, and 158 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 2: yet the show is going till mid June, and so 159 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 2: it's like, what is the vibe going to be? Like 160 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 2: I sort of think. 161 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: That it'll be fun, Like there's gonna be this sort 162 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: of you know, we're all it's gonna be over soon anyway, 163 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: So why not like take risks? 164 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 2: Why not throw stuff at the wall? That's the hope. 165 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 2: I mean the classic is the Conan like last week 166 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 2: or whatever, when he was just like spent as much 167 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:34,199 Speaker 2: money as he possibly could. There's like something too, to 168 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:38,439 Speaker 2: go in Wild, to go in Buck Wild, And I'm 169 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 2: gonna miss the Paramount Lot. Jim. It's frozen in nineteen 170 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 2: ninety five in a way that you it literally should be. 171 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: A historic So I didn't know you went to the 172 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 1: gym in the Paramount Lot. 173 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 2: Oh of course, Well well yes, and me and Jason Ridder. 174 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you know I mean, we've talked about 175 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: Jason ridd but you know, I once saw him at 176 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: a bar and Los Angeles, at where Rachel Pegrim hosts 177 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 1: her show what's that place called? 178 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 2: Oh covell Well he that man handsome, handsome, handsome, handsome, 179 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 2: handsome and sweet. Now that is a cutie right there, 180 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 2: cutie pie, sweetie pie kind I got it all. 181 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: Oh perfect, sorry body, boyish face, boyish face, gorgeous, smart, 182 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 1: talented wife. Yes, beautiful marriage is able to sort of 183 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: like be publicly romantic in a way that isn't cringey. 184 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 2: Man of the people goes to the Paramount Lodge. 185 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,199 Speaker 1: Man of the people goes to the Paramount Lodge. 186 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 2: Him when he could go to Equinox. Oh, I just 187 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: know his as voted for Bernie Sanders. If you doubted 188 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 2: that for even one second, fool, Yeah, no, I'm addicted 189 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 2: to him. I'm trying to think. Oh yeah. The other 190 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 2: thing about losing the job now is that, like the 191 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 2: one big difference between the where the parallel stop is 192 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,200 Speaker 2: that I moved to La for it. That's true, And 193 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 2: I'm sort of like, wait, what, Like I'm like having 194 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:13,559 Speaker 2: to reckon with like do I stay here? Do I leave, 195 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 2: Like what's I'm like so confused. 196 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: People keep texting me art is Sam moving back, and 197 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm giving him three days And then I'm 198 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:26,439 Speaker 1: asking I very intentionally have not asked you, Like when 199 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 1: you told me that this was happening, I didn't immediately 200 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: respond like sorry an act. 201 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 2: It's really a confusing thing because there's so much of 202 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 2: LA that I feel like, like, one, it was like 203 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 2: a lot of work to get settled here and to 204 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:42,880 Speaker 2: like figure everything out. Yeah, and now I'm like there 205 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 2: is more to glean from this town. But also like 206 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:51,959 Speaker 2: I love New York, but there's it's it's really complicated. 207 00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: I mean, there's also something about moving to LA. And 208 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:56,840 Speaker 1: by the way, for people who don't listen to the Patron, 209 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: a good seventy percent of it is New York versus La. 210 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:02,559 Speaker 2: So buckle in, bitch, bitch, I mean, this whole podcast 211 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 2: is that's what it's about. That's what it's about. 212 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: So there is something about moving to LA that feels 213 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 1: like graduating, Like New York is college and La is 214 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 1: your first job totally. And so it's a very common 215 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: story that you know, someone in our circle moves to 216 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: LA for a job and then the job inevitably ends 217 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: and they stay there. Yeah, and so I would understand 218 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: if you wanted to stay. It's complicated because I mean, 219 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 1: we'll talk about LA a little bit in a bit, 220 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: because there's a question about, you know, the sort of 221 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 1: dreamscape of Los Angeles, California at this particular moment, but 222 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: it is in such a weird place. The vibes are 223 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,559 Speaker 1: off in such a way that I can imagine it 224 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:53,240 Speaker 1: would be especially uh not enjoyable to be unemployed there, 225 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: even if it was for a short amount of time. 226 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:57,079 Speaker 1: Like there's something about being aimless in LA that is 227 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: less romantic than being aimless in York. 228 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like curious to see how that feels. To 229 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 2: be honest, I've because even when we have hiatuses, I'm 230 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: like either flying to New York or doing it's like 231 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: feels busy. So I'm like, I'm like, I want to 232 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 2: know that that darkness I felt in New York when 233 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, it's Tuesday and I haven't had a 234 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:21,320 Speaker 2: job in three months, Like what am I doing today? 235 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 2: That's what I'm I'm I'm like wondering if it feels 236 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 2: more hopeless or more hopeful here but my lease is 237 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 2: still August. I think the end of August, so at 238 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 2: least i'll have Yeah, you'll definitely be there. 239 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:45,679 Speaker 1: I'm to reflect, well, poor one out if you're listening 240 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 1: to this, even if it's nine am, poor one out 241 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 1: for after midnight. And I just want to say thank 242 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: you to CBS for giving all comedians opportunities, even if 243 00:13:56,480 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: it was and even if you couldn't find want to 244 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 1: take over the show out of the various people that 245 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: could potentially do it anyway, should we take our first call? 246 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 2: Okay, let's say our first call. Okay, all right. 247 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 3: Hi, George and Sam. I'm calling because I am currently 248 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 3: attending library school in Los Angeles, California, and I have 249 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 3: converted several other members of my cohort into stradio lab listeners. 250 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 2: Thank you. 251 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 4: And we were wondering, we're all queer women. We were wondering, 252 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 4: we're on the range of gata strait. The different types 253 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 4: of librarian information sciences people lie. So that's public librarians, 254 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 4: academic librarians, archivists, media archivists, because it's kind of different. 255 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 5: Oh, in rare books people. 256 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, thanks love you guys. 257 00:14:56,040 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: Okay, literally perfect call. So I'm just going to listen 258 00:14:58,560 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: them again. Thank you librarian, academic, librarian, archivist, media archivist, 259 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: rare books people. 260 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 2: Damn, this is hard. First of all, I want to say, 261 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 2: it's funny to attend library school. I understand. 262 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,600 Speaker 1: First of all, I love one of my favorite phrases 263 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,800 Speaker 1: the information sciences. 264 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 2: Information science is library school. That's very doctor hospital. I 265 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 2: go to library school. 266 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: One of the most iconic things you can do is 267 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: go to library school. I'm always so obsessed with people 268 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 1: that have a master's in information science and the idea 269 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: that there is a group of queer women all in 270 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: library school that listen to Stradio Lab and potentially have 271 00:15:40,320 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: a group chat about it where they're like what they 272 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: said is so rare books coded. It fills my heart 273 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: with so much joy. And I just want to tell 274 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 1: you on this Friday, March twenty eighth, when we're recording this, 275 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: that you are a star. 276 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 2: You are a star. We appreciate you, and you fill 277 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 2: my mind with wonder. You know what you forget that 278 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 2: people can go to library school and be a group 279 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 2: of queer women in library school. I feel like when 280 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 2: you say that, I feel like I'm like literally reading 281 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 2: Harry Potter like, I'm like, there's magic in the world. 282 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 5: No, it is. 283 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm so, it's literally it actually brings me hope that 284 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: there is as I'm doing whatever I'm doing here and 285 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: having my protein bar and a seltzer. You know, there 286 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: is an alternate universe where there is literally a group 287 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: of queer women that are learning so much every day 288 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:29,560 Speaker 1: about information science, about rare books, about media archiving, and 289 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: at least at the end of the day we have that. 290 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 2: Damn. I bet their clothing swap goes crazy. 291 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, all right, public librarian, academic librarian, archivist, 292 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: media archivist, rare book. Okay, off the bat media archivist 293 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: is the gayest one. 294 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:51,960 Speaker 2: Really. No, well, I'm tell me your reasoning. I was 295 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,479 Speaker 2: thinking public librarian. 296 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: Oh, you're right, Okay, maybe, well, okay, here's the thing though, 297 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: lepers in society, public librarian obviously is the most kind 298 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 1: of politically radical, you know if yes, obviously, However, think 299 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:13,679 Speaker 1: about the archetype of a public librarian. It is, you know, 300 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:21,360 Speaker 1: kind of like older lady, long skirt, funky wood based jewelry, 301 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 1: like a little vest that has an apple with a 302 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 1: worm coming out of it, and as much as to 303 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: be clear, I would die for her. 304 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 2: She is straight rather than gay. That's true. If I 305 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 2: were in the library and I were looking for a 306 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:39,719 Speaker 2: gay book, I would I would sort of be like like, 307 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 2: I would almost be like, well, it's for school exactly. 308 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:46,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think it's like there's also something about 309 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:50,359 Speaker 1: the public librarian being the archetypal librarian, aka the default, 310 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: which makes it inherently in the framework of gay versus 311 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 1: straight that is the norm. 312 00:17:56,119 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 2: Doesn't mean she's bad. I'm sure she has a amazing 313 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:04,959 Speaker 2: center left politics. Totally damn Okay, I like that. So 314 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 2: she's the straightest. 315 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:10,640 Speaker 1: I almost think she's the straightest. Yeah, I almost think 316 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: she's the straightest. 317 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 2: I think the librarian scale is hard because it starts 318 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 2: at such a queer place. 319 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 1: I know, I know, And I'm now actually thinking maybe 320 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: Rare Books is the most queer. I mean, come on, rare. 321 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:29,920 Speaker 2: Well, it's pretentious, pretentious. It's also like knowing the B sides. 322 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 2: It's also like putting value in something like you're like 323 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,400 Speaker 2: creating a you're creating like wealth within something that shouldn't 324 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:37,800 Speaker 2: have it. 325 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: Totally okay, So here's my Okay, here's my right ranking 326 00:18:41,160 --> 00:18:47,320 Speaker 1: from GATA Straight rare books, media archivist, academic librarian, archivist 327 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,479 Speaker 1: public because I'm like, if there's media archivist, then if 328 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: you're an archivist, you're being exclusionary. There is the option 329 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: for media archivists, and you're just an archivist. 330 00:18:56,800 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 2: Are you kidding me? Wait? Okay wait, rare books, rare 331 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 2: books is gayest. Yes, media archivist. Media archivist's next gayist. 332 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 1: Because media archivist is literally you have an Instagram account. 333 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: Media archivist is you have an Instagram account dedicated to 334 00:19:12,560 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: like Issimiaki fashion photo shoots from the nineties. 335 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:17,880 Speaker 2: You're literally showing Julia Roberts and you like, she tore 336 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 2: with this exactly. 337 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 1: Then we have academic librarian because to me, it's like 338 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,159 Speaker 1: which is right down the middle, and to me that 339 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: is so bisexual and academic librarian you know she's into 340 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 1: Hookoh I'm seeing like the frame glasses, like I'm seeing 341 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: the little frames or even like a woman with spiked hair. 342 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, totally. And then I have archivist. Archivist is just 343 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 2: like put away your clothes. Yeah, it's kind of thing 344 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 2: about archivist's. 345 00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very like being interested in history in a 346 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 1: really earnest way without wink. 347 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm an archivist, and then I. 348 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:58,879 Speaker 1: Think last, and then I think straightest is public librariy, 349 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 1: and just because again that's the archetype of librarian. 350 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 2: I think. I think that's so genius. I think you 351 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 2: really nailed that. Thank you. And I don't disagree with 352 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,360 Speaker 2: any of them, and I'm glad we had a discussion 353 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 2: because at first I needed some convincing. But you're totally right, 354 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,199 Speaker 2: God to be a librarian. I literally like, there's so 355 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 2: many jobs. No, that's team. There's so many jobs where 356 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 2: you're like, damn, like you can really just do that. Okay, 357 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 2: next call. 358 00:20:32,119 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 6: And I'm calling back. It's the girl who wants to 359 00:20:34,960 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 6: talk about sexless LA. 360 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:37,840 Speaker 7: Sorry, I'll wrap it up. 361 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 6: I just wanted to you guys to expand on that 362 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 6: if you found it intriguing to do so, on the 363 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 6: sexist nature of LA and one, I just find it interesting. 364 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 6: And two, I literally have not wanted to have sex since. 365 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 7: The day I got here five years ago. And I 366 00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 7: was in a relationship. 367 00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,440 Speaker 6: When I got here, so that was a problem. And 368 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 6: now I'm newly single and have no I. 369 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 8: Am not inspired to go out there and pursue so 370 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 8: uh yeah, looking to jump start and just want to 371 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 8: know what your thoughts are. 372 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:18,719 Speaker 6: Overall, Okay, thanks. 373 00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: I do just want to say this is the second 374 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:24,040 Speaker 1: part of this caller's call, but the first part is 375 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 1: there's no way around it three minutes long. So I 376 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,240 Speaker 1: it and so I just I'm playing this as a 377 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 1: tribute to her, and the main gist of it is 378 00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 1: that she wants us to talk a little bit more 379 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:40,640 Speaker 1: about how La is sexless and Sam, you had a 380 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 1: something you wanted to share. 381 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 2: I had something I wanted to share, which I'm not 382 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 2: sure if I said. If I have said this before, 383 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 2: you're allowed to punch me in the face if you 384 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 2: see me. Yeahs. 385 00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 1: If he hasn't been through enough this week, folks. 386 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 2: Lose his job. 387 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 9: Now. 388 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,960 Speaker 1: Listeners are going to be chasing him trying to punch 389 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 1: him in the face. 390 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 2: I there's a I in trying to like La. I 391 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 2: was reading Joan Didion's The White Album and there's an 392 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 2: essay in it about La that you know was written 393 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 2: in like the seventies, and she's talking about how one 394 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 2: there's all this stuff that feels very relevant where it's 395 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:19,680 Speaker 2: about like the town like it. The industry is failing. 396 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,919 Speaker 2: The industry is failing, the industry as we know it 397 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 2: is gone. And it's funny because that's like nineteen seventy 398 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,119 Speaker 2: three that she's saying this, that everyone in town is 399 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: saying it, so it's just sort of an always that feeling, 400 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 2: always always there. But then she talks about how it's 401 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 2: at its core a gambling town where you're always like 402 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:40,560 Speaker 2: gambling on ideas and trying to get rich quick, and 403 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 2: because like all gambling towns, it is sexless, and it's 404 00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 2: like due to its gambling nature that people are not 405 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 2: horny for sex, they're horny for like money and success, 406 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 2: which I thought was cool. It really put it in 407 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 2: perspective for me. 408 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: I wonder if the gambling thing also erodes a sense 409 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 1: of trust, almost like there's just a general suspicion that 410 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 1: exists in the air. 411 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,679 Speaker 2: I think there's a suspicion. I think there's like a 412 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 2: you're always sort of plotting. You're like, well, when's my 413 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 2: next paycheck? Like, well, how what will this get me 414 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,679 Speaker 2: in the long run? In a way that's like you 415 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 2: don't you shouldn't be thinking like that. You should be 416 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: thinking about people's beautiful bodies totally. 417 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you need a baseline of comfort so that you 418 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,840 Speaker 1: can wake up and be horny. 419 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I even think you would think that you 420 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 2: would that people would be like, well, I'll sleep my 421 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 2: way to the top or something like that, but it's 422 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 2: like doesn't work. People have learned that it's better to 423 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 2: withhold and make people want you than to like give 424 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 2: it up, which is so disgusting I find. For me, 425 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 2: a big part of the sexlessness also is the car, 426 00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 2: because you in New York, you walk around, you see people, 427 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 2: and you just inherently are like as a person, You're 428 00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 2: like that's hot, that person's hot, or like that person's 429 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 2: serving or that. Like there's like a sexuality of just 430 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 2: seeing people all day, and when you are in a car, 431 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 2: you're like you are literally just like less turned on. 432 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 2: You just like aren't seeing people in the same capacity. Yeah, no, 433 00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 2: it's really true. 434 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:22,159 Speaker 1: There's also okay I'm trying to say this without misspeaking, 435 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 1: but it's like the depictions of sex within like the 436 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: idea of the casting couch. Is there anything less erotic 437 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 1: than that? Like you are literally taking imagine the most 438 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: kind of like dumpy room you've ever seen. 439 00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:34,640 Speaker 2: It's like a. 440 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: Like a conference room with overhead lighting basically, and then 441 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:44,479 Speaker 1: someone is attempting to infuse sex into that. It's like 442 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:50,320 Speaker 1: there's in New York and an appropriate sexual relationship is 443 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:54,040 Speaker 1: like you're in the boardroom and everyone is in blazers 444 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: and both people are powerful and they're just like so 445 00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 1: powerful that they have to fuck. 446 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they're like, what's this going to do to 447 00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,280 Speaker 2: the firm? And it's like, who fuck the firm? 448 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 10: The firm? 449 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I feel like, yeah, there is. Sex is 450 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 2: so entwined with like power here that it's not fun 451 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 2: because you're always thinking like is this Because even if 452 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 2: you're not coworkers, you're like, well, I could be, like 453 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 2: I could be co workers with essentially anyone on the 454 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 2: street right now, and so it's like, well, I can't 455 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 2: fuck them because I will effuct my coworker. It's very weird. 456 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also it's interesting the way sex is by 457 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:39,959 Speaker 1: default commodified in Los Angeles and Hollywood inherently deuroticizes it. 458 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, oh. 459 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 1: So you're looking at a naked man or woman or 460 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:49,440 Speaker 1: a person that's not sexy. That's a billboard, that's a 461 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:50,600 Speaker 1: movie trailer, that's. 462 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 2: A movie trailer. You're looking at Chris Pratt. Yeah, and 463 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 2: you're trying to be turned on. 464 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that's not what this is about. This is 465 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 1: about dollar signs. 466 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 2: Malma. I feel, yeah, I can feel it happening to me. Really, 467 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 2: I can feel myself being less horny. Yeah. Yeah, And 468 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 2: in a way that's like I almost have to remind myself, like, 469 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 2: don't forget who you are. You're the guy that sexualizes 470 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 2: everything totally. You're the guy that thinks everything so hot. 471 00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 1: That's like how that happened to me after I got married, 472 00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: where I only wanted to have sex with my husband, 473 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: and I had to remind myself, you're gay. Get out 474 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: there and find other men. 475 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:32,159 Speaker 2: You stupid. All right, call next. 476 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,520 Speaker 11: Call Hey, George and Sam. 477 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 2: This is Isle in Brooklyn and I'm calling. 478 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,720 Speaker 9: Someone asked me this question a few months ago, and 479 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 9: I think about it all the time, so I wanted 480 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 9: to see what your take on. 481 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 10: It was pretty simple question. 482 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 9: What is the most expensive emotion and what is the cheapest? 483 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 3: All right? Bye? 484 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 2: Love that past guest. 485 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: Isle shout out to Ale, what do you think? 486 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 2: So we talked briefly about this. First thing that came 487 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,760 Speaker 2: to mind is that love is the most expensive, horny 488 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 2: is the cheapest. 489 00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, we both independently came up with love 490 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,879 Speaker 1: is the most expensive. It is, you know, potentially obvious answer. 491 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 1: But of course love makes you act in irrational ways. 492 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 1: Love makes you sacrifice things you would not otherwise sacrifice. 493 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: Love is not transactional. Love can be unconditional. All these 494 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: things are gonna absolutely rob you of your money, dignity, 495 00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 1: and integrity on a day to day basis. 496 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 2: So watch out and I would know. Yeah, I hear. Okay, 497 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,479 Speaker 2: Love is the album and Horney is the single. 498 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, here's another expensive emotion. Yeah, I think maybe like 499 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:57,639 Speaker 1: resentment gnaws at you so much. You know what resentment is. 500 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,840 Speaker 1: It's like you think it's fast fashion, Like you think 501 00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 1: it's an easy thing, but then it's actually full of 502 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 1: microplastics and it's slowly killing you. 503 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 11: Wow. 504 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 2: In the enviral, I actually really like that. I like 505 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,439 Speaker 2: that you're I think you're taking this question in a 506 00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 2: different direction than I did, but in a way that 507 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 2: I really enjoy. Like you're thinking literally like the cost 508 00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 2: of having this emotion. 509 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, whereas you're thinking love is so I think it's 510 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,760 Speaker 1: like rich, unreachable, that it would take so much to 511 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 1: get to love. Yeah, I see it, Yeah, exactly. Whereas 512 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 1: horny is more simple. Yeah, I think that makes sense. 513 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,719 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of other cheap emotions. 514 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 2: I had a cheap one that I go back and 515 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 2: forth on. Okay, yeah, okay, nostalgia. I think you're so 516 00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 2: you get like a burst of nostalgia. I think that's 517 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 2: a cheap, cheap emotion. But okay, when it's nostalgia from 518 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 2: smell or taste, I think that's rich. I think that's expensive. 519 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 2: Oh interesting, when you like smell something and you're like whoa, 520 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 2: and you're like taken back, that's that can be kind 521 00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:03,360 Speaker 2: of crazy because that's like time travel. But when you're 522 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,600 Speaker 2: just like, god, I love the nineties, like let's watch 523 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 2: you know, the Simpsons, then it's a little like okay, stop. Yeah. 524 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,520 Speaker 1: Maybe it's the more personal to you, Yeah, Like, the 525 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,320 Speaker 1: more personal to you it is, the more sophisticated it is, 526 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,320 Speaker 1: and the more relatable words that are, like never forget 527 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: nine to eleven. 528 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, we know, honey, you wouldn't let me 529 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:26,040 Speaker 2: forget it if I tried. 530 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: Yeah I didn't. Yeah, I know one's gonna try. Don't worry, 531 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: we remember, we remember. 532 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:32,800 Speaker 2: I'm you know. 533 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 1: Of course, the to me a big open question here 534 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: is where does hate fit into it? And to expand 535 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 1: on that different forms of hate, like you know, sort 536 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: of like low level snark or criticism. I mean criticism 537 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: is not an emotion, but like you know, sort of 538 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 1: like disgusted. Like, where do those kinds of like toxic 539 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: negative emotions fit into it? Because on the one hand, 540 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 1: they are easy to go to as a default. It's 541 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: it's you know, you see something you don't like, immediately 542 00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 1: you recoil. On the other hand, of course, if you 543 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 1: are filled with hate, that's going to take a toll. 544 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 2: Well that's what I thought. Your resentment thing was very smart. 545 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 2: Where I do think hate is similar where it's like 546 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 2: it actually does cost the most, like m hmm, Like 547 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: I think hate maybe is even more expensive than love 548 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,040 Speaker 2: because it like could ruin you. 549 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: Right, and maybe discussed is more cheap because it's just 550 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: like eh and then you know you move on. 551 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. You ever see people that get like really 552 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,480 Speaker 2: lost in resentment and you're like, yeah, oh god. 553 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 1: Well, this is something I've been thinking a lot about 554 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: because there is I think the thirties are the resentment decade. Well, 555 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,560 Speaker 1: I guess what it is is resentment builds in your thirties. 556 00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: Either it solidifies into you just being a miserable person, 557 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 1: or you battle it and come out of the other 558 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: side and you are satisfied and comfortable with who you are. 559 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you put that live love poster up and 560 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 2: you say sey lovey exactly. 561 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 1: And by the way, this has nothing to do with 562 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: your level of success, your attractiveness. People can be the 563 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 1: President of the United States and be filled with resentment, 564 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 1: and people can. 565 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 2: Be you know, a random person. 566 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 1: Who is you know, does customer service at Sigma, and 567 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 1: they can be full of love. 568 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 2: I loved watching that because I was like, Where's how's 569 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 2: he going to land this? I was like, what what 570 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 2: is the appropriate random person? And you really? You really 571 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 2: nailed that. I think I nailed it. 572 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, So, but I do think yeah, and maybe it's 573 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: even like more thirty, you know, thirty five to forty 574 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 1: five or something. 575 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 2: It's not exactly thirties, But do you know what I mean, 576 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 2: it's I do. It's a time when you just slightly 577 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,480 Speaker 2: only because I don't want to poke holes in your theory. 578 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,760 Speaker 2: I mostly like it. And this podcast is about agreeing, 579 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 2: of course, but I'm just from personal experience. I feel 580 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 2: like in I knew people that were so much more 581 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 2: resentful in their twenties, really because maybe because they were 582 00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 2: like it was like stand up, and it was like 583 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 2: everyone had this idea of like trying to make it 584 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 2: before thirty or something, which is a false premise obviously, 585 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 2: and you kind of have to be turn thirty to 586 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:20,960 Speaker 2: realize that. But a lot of people I could feel 587 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 2: like in late twenties people get like clawing and being 588 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 2: so upset and so jealous and so angry, and then 589 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 2: in your thirties it's almost like the last scene in 590 00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,800 Speaker 2: Mean Girls where all the girls are like, actually we 591 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 2: like each other and we don't really care that much. 592 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 2: So I think it depends either way. Resentment. 593 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 1: It's like, you got to move past it. If you're 594 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 1: feeling resentful. 595 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 2: This is a wake up call. 596 00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:48,480 Speaker 1: Literally, it's not like it's not good, it's not sustainable. 597 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,200 Speaker 1: It will not give you anything you are looking for. 598 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: You have to move past it. 599 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 2: You have to move past it, and you can still 600 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 2: be critical. Yeah, oh my god, George and I are 601 00:32:56,520 --> 00:33:01,719 Speaker 2: such haters. Oh my god, we hate everything, but we 602 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 2: hate everything with love. That's okay. 603 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 7: Next high sam on George, It's Heidi. This is actually 604 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 7: my second time calling fun exciting. 605 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 10: Love it. 606 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:16,280 Speaker 7: I have two questions. I'll just do the first one 607 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 7: super super quick because I thought it would be fun 608 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,360 Speaker 7: and it's more so for George. So my family and 609 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 7: I are going on a super awesome spring break vacation 610 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 7: to greet which I'm so pumped about. And I was like, Oh, 611 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 7: that's fun. It's George's old stumping grounds. So I was like, George, 612 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 7: do you have any you know, recommendations, If you will, 613 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,200 Speaker 7: we're going to creat and appen, so pretty touristy but 614 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 7: very exciting. 615 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:45,240 Speaker 8: Yeah. 616 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:49,160 Speaker 7: So that's the first question. Thanks George, and seconds for 617 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 7: both of you, this is the most important one. So 618 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 7: me and my two long distance bessies love this pod. 619 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 7: We talked about it quite frequently. 620 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,719 Speaker 11: And we just really like when you guys are friends, 621 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 11: and we like when other people are friends, you know, 622 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,800 Speaker 11: just like cast members of TV shows. 623 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,080 Speaker 7: You were big into Broadway, so like Broadway cast, just 624 00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 7: like we like when other people hang out and we 625 00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 7: enjoy it and it's fun. So we wanted to know, 626 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 7: since you guys are not only podcasts coworkers but also friends, 627 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 7: what do you guys like to do together outside of 628 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 7: the pod that feels like different or you know, when 629 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 7: you just hang out, what what do you like to do? Yeah, 630 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,279 Speaker 7: keep doing what you're doing. We love the pod and 631 00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:40,800 Speaker 7: by me I mean me and my friends. 632 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 5: Okay, anyway, love you. 633 00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 10: Bye. 634 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 2: Shout out, shout out. That was sweet. That was very sweet. 635 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do a very very quick round of like 636 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:51,399 Speaker 1: things off the top of my head that I did 637 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:52,879 Speaker 1: in Athens last time I was there. 638 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 2: That might be helpful. 639 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:58,040 Speaker 1: So Athens is I think I've talked about this before, 640 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:01,799 Speaker 1: but it has been undergoing this like depending on your 641 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 1: point of view, renaissance or gentrification nightmare for the last 642 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 1: like five to six years. There was a moment during 643 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:12,680 Speaker 1: the financial collapse when you know, it was you know, 644 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: the prevailing idea was that the city was in crisis 645 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 1: and it needed to and like new businesses weren't opening 646 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 1: and the obviously the economy wasn't going well whatever, and 647 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,759 Speaker 1: then it became sort of like berlinified. Like I've told 648 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 1: you about how my grandmother's neighborhood, which was like a 649 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,399 Speaker 1: middle class neighborhood she has a one bedroom apartment, has 650 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 1: now become like the Bushwick of Athens, and she leaves 651 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:36,719 Speaker 1: her apartment, and it's literally all like expats, people on 652 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 1: their laptops, like people wearing sort of like head to 653 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:40,480 Speaker 1: toe kind of. 654 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:41,240 Speaker 2: Like club club. 655 00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 1: She's just sort of like okay, like going to the 656 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 1: farmer's market, and so it is. Honestly, people ask me 657 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 1: all the time for Athens recommendations, and I don't know 658 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,319 Speaker 1: what to say because it is such a different place 659 00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 1: than it was when I lived there, when I was 660 00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:01,120 Speaker 1: also like a teenager. So this latest time, I really 661 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 1: tried to get a bunch of recommendations for people because 662 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: I wanted to know, like, which of these new businesses 663 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:09,239 Speaker 1: are worth it. The answer is not all of them, 664 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,359 Speaker 1: but I did want to shout out that this one 665 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 1: restaurant called Pharaoh, like a like an Egyptian pharaoh. 666 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 2: I went to. It was so good. 667 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 1: It's just like updated Greek classics. But you got to 668 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,239 Speaker 1: make a reservation ahead of time. Sam, when you visit 669 00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: will go together. I had the absolute time of my life, 670 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 1: great wine lists, really good you know, sort of like 671 00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 1: shareable small plates. I was in absolute heaven that entire neighborhood. 672 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 1: He has become very like Williamsburg ified in a way 673 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 1: that is honestly pretty alarming because when I was in 674 00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: high school, that's literally where the anarchists would hang out 675 00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 1: and it would be like, that's all the protests where 676 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,719 Speaker 1: that's where a lot of the like sort of like 677 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 1: memorable news stories of protesters clashing with the police happened there. 678 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,720 Speaker 1: And now you go and it's literally like a record 679 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,000 Speaker 1: store that's run by like a chill guy with the mohawk, 680 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: and then the people in it are like Italian tourists. 681 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 2: It's very strange. 682 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 6: Wo. 683 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 1: So, but that restaurant, I have to say, if you 684 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,040 Speaker 1: want to go somewhere that's not a traditional tavarana, which 685 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,879 Speaker 1: you should also go to, and it's something a little 686 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: more contemporary, I would recommend. Another place I had a 687 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: store I went to is this store called It's a 688 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:22,480 Speaker 1: Shirt and they sell shirts and it's this like really 689 00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 1: cool gal whose dad worked in the garment industry in Greece. 690 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,200 Speaker 1: So then she is like taking sort of like fabrics 691 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:34,000 Speaker 1: that because she, you know, fabrics that her father would 692 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:39,360 Speaker 1: use potentially and making these like super cool like Japanese 693 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,279 Speaker 1: cut like cool shirts. 694 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 2: Wow. 695 00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 1: And they are much cheaper than the equivalent thing would 696 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: be if you went to like Hopenhagen or something. 697 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 2: It's a shirt. It's a shirt. Shout out to it's 698 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 2: a shirt. 699 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,319 Speaker 1: And the final thing I will say is people don't 700 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:53,759 Speaker 1: know this, but one of the best things you can 701 00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 1: do in Athens and in Greece in general over the 702 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: summer is go to an open air cinema. So they 703 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 1: have these open air cinemas. Imagine like a giant screen 704 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:07,920 Speaker 1: with just like you know, chairs and the little bar 705 00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:10,800 Speaker 1: and stuff, and the ones in the center of Athens. 706 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 1: You can literally look at the Parthenon behind the screen 707 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:14,720 Speaker 1: of the movie that you're seeing. 708 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,520 Speaker 2: So you can go and watch. 709 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,840 Speaker 1: Like they'll do like a Hitchcock retrospective or something, and 710 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,839 Speaker 1: you can go watch like a classic movie and then 711 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: the Parthenon is right behind that. And oftentimes people people 712 00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 1: will go to Greece and people I think would be 713 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:29,480 Speaker 1: in the know about these kinds of things, and they 714 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:30,600 Speaker 1: don't know that that's an option. 715 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 2: So that is my big recommendation. Beautiful recommendations, George. 716 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: Those are my three, Thank you. And the second question 717 00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 1: was what do we do as friends? 718 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 2: We party bitch, bitch, We party bitch. We're out on 719 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 2: the town. 720 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 1: What I mean, we like, we go to Maxwitter's house, We. 721 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,480 Speaker 2: Go we go to people's houses, or we go to 722 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 2: dinner and we get drinks and potentially if George isn't tired, 723 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 2: we go out. That's right. 724 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know what, I you know what I 725 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,799 Speaker 1: think in my own life has been a change since 726 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:11,480 Speaker 1: the pandemic. 727 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,240 Speaker 2: I used to do more like weekend friend trips. Oh 728 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 2: yeah for you. 729 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 1: Twenty twenty, I was I was getting like an Airbnb 730 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 1: upstate with four chicas. That was not an like a 731 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 1: something that was out of the ordinary for me. 732 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 2: Really, I didn't start really getting into that lifestyle till 733 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 2: till after pandemic. 734 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,879 Speaker 1: Interesting, I don't know what it is now. I think 735 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 1: it's a mix. Obviously, everyone's busier, but also everyone's like 736 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:38,959 Speaker 1: taste level has gone up, and suddenly it's not enough 737 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 1: to just like go to airbnb dot com and click 738 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,840 Speaker 1: the first one and just be like, yeah, we'll figure 739 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,399 Speaker 1: it out. Everyone suddenly wants to make reservations. Everyone wants 740 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,560 Speaker 1: to have like a specific hike planned, which I get, 741 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,399 Speaker 1: but it is it makes things more difficult than when 742 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: you are, you know, twenty five years old and are 743 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:54,880 Speaker 1: just like excited to be out of the city. 744 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,280 Speaker 2: I that was such a scary there's so many moments 745 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 2: in one's life when you realize like there's been grown 746 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 2: growing up and I always always am like the last 747 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,279 Speaker 2: one to know. And that was a real one when 748 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 2: people were like, well, no, I want the I want 749 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,320 Speaker 2: a nice house. Yeah, like I want a chic house. 750 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 2: And I was like, but we're just like sleeping there 751 00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 2: and listening to music and like having drinks, Like why 752 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:19,800 Speaker 2: does it matter? 753 00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:23,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know that if you if something was 754 00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 1: below your standards, you would also speak out. 755 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, my standards were pretty low though, but don't you 756 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 2: think they're higher now? Yeah? I think they're higher now. 757 00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,799 Speaker 2: They are. I'm learning, but I feel like I'm I'm 758 00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:41,120 Speaker 2: like sad that I'm learning total where I'm like, of course, 759 00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:41,800 Speaker 2: like there. 760 00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: Was a freedom of not caring in the threshold to 761 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:45,120 Speaker 1: be satisfied as higher. 762 00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 2: That sucks. 763 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, you wake up every day in the default is 764 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 1: you're like, Okay, someone better impressed me. 765 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 2: Today, even like caring about one's apartment, Like no, as 766 00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 2: soon as there was like a moment when it was 767 00:40:56,040 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 2: like suddenly we care about our apartments and I like fun, 768 00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 2: I know, like it happened all of a sudden, and 769 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:04,880 Speaker 2: it used to just be like, no, it's amazing, I 770 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,840 Speaker 2: can pay rent, and now it's like, no, you have 771 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:09,480 Speaker 2: to have a place that's nice. 772 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:09,759 Speaker 11: I know. 773 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,080 Speaker 1: And then you wake up one day and you're like, wait, 774 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:16,360 Speaker 1: so you've been collecting artisanal knickknacks from your travels since 775 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 1: you were twenty two. Yeah, you're not just sort of 776 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,359 Speaker 1: going to West Elm. 777 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:28,360 Speaker 2: It's interesting. It's it's interesting, and I'm like, it's fun. 778 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:32,440 Speaker 2: I think there's a certain level of like competition can 779 00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,080 Speaker 2: and can be helpful and motivating, but it's also a 780 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,120 Speaker 2: little scary. It was the moment was scary when I 781 00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 2: was like, oh, fuck, I have to catch up. I know. 782 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:44,160 Speaker 1: It's interesting to grow up consuming media about the urban, 783 00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:48,319 Speaker 1: petite bourgeoisi a. La Woody, Allen, et cetera, and have 784 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,759 Speaker 1: it be so foreign and then suddenly, whether you like 785 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,560 Speaker 1: it or not, And honestly, no matter your income level, 786 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,680 Speaker 1: you're sort of just agento having those values. 787 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,319 Speaker 2: You best start believing in love with deep BOUGEOISI. 788 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:57,880 Speaker 8: You're in. 789 00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 2: Okay, next call. 790 00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,400 Speaker 9: Hey, they're calling in for the second time from my 791 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:07,600 Speaker 9: northern New Jersey number. 792 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:08,279 Speaker 10: Shout out. 793 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,960 Speaker 9: I have a really important question. Do you think that 794 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,400 Speaker 9: with Chapel and all of us knowing what her personality 795 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 9: is now, I wanted to see what your thoughts are 796 00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:20,439 Speaker 9: and the revisitation of the Lizzo's past of it all, 797 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:22,560 Speaker 9: like is she cool? 798 00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 2: Is she not? 799 00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 10: How do we feel? 800 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,800 Speaker 2: Thanks? First of all, shout out to northern New Jersey 801 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 2: phone number. I don't know why, but. 802 00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 1: Because it's the same. I commented that this caller has 803 00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:37,720 Speaker 1: the same area code that my house did in New Jersey. 804 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 2: Oh okay, fun, I want to say thank you for 805 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:44,359 Speaker 2: bringing back Lizo's Pass. I've been thinking about it a lot. 806 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 2: It was recently mentioned on an episode of Keep It, 807 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:52,239 Speaker 2: which I was really excited about by Louis Ertell Yeah. So, 808 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 2: for those who don't know, Lizo's Pass is the moment 809 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:58,719 Speaker 2: when a rising pop star gets so big it has 810 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 2: to decide which way to go. In Litzo's pass, do 811 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,239 Speaker 2: you go towards Pitchfork and stay cool forever or do 812 00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 2: you go towards Target and make songs for commercials? And 813 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 2: I find I think Chapel is still at Lisso's pass. 814 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,399 Speaker 2: I think she is delaying her decision by releasing singles only. 815 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:19,160 Speaker 2: I think we won't know because I think good luck 816 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,680 Speaker 2: Babe was very okay, she's gonna be Pitchfork. She's like cool, Yeah, 817 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 2: like this is cool. And then the new one, the 818 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 2: giver is like good, I like it, but I'm like, 819 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 2: but it could go either way, and I'm like a 820 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:32,879 Speaker 2: little bit and it's like, yeah, I think it's cool. 821 00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 2: It's like about like, you know, giving an orgasm. That's 822 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:41,319 Speaker 2: like fun, but it's still like I don't know. So 823 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,799 Speaker 2: I think the album is really gonna we can't call. 824 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:47,240 Speaker 2: It's too early to call. We need a full album 825 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,240 Speaker 2: before we can say. 826 00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 1: Do you think going country is a way to delay 827 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,560 Speaker 1: Lozzo's pass. 828 00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:56,040 Speaker 2: One hundred percent because you can't both say anything about it? 829 00:43:56,160 --> 00:44:01,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, country is for the Pitchfork crowd. Country is alternative 830 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:04,800 Speaker 1: in its own way, and then for the target crowd. 831 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:12,080 Speaker 1: Country like it's for the target crowd. Country is like comforting, 832 00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 1: but also to be country and alt is scary. 833 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:17,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can. 834 00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,640 Speaker 1: You basically are having your cake and eating it too. 835 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:21,320 Speaker 1: It's called the Casey bus Graves effect. 836 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:27,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm very curious because at this point she's 837 00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 2: like trying on all these new sounds and styles where 838 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 2: I'm sort of like, okay, what is your sound? In style, 839 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:37,160 Speaker 2: like it's it almost feels like look over here, look 840 00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,640 Speaker 2: over your look over here, and I'm like, wait, I'm 841 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm I'm surrounded by smoke. I can't tell 842 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,760 Speaker 2: where you are or what your deal is. Yeah. 843 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,319 Speaker 1: Do you think Pink was ever at Lozzo's Pass or. 844 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,960 Speaker 2: She just started out Target? I think she started out Target. 845 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 1: So you think even her early R and B hip 846 00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,640 Speaker 1: hop phase was just destined for Target. 847 00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 2: It was still on the radio and it was still 848 00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 2: in the commercials. Yeah, I mean, one thing that is 849 00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,640 Speaker 2: I think one thing that's happening to Chapel is that 850 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,800 Speaker 2: she's at Lizo's Pass, but the wind is blowing really 851 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:11,359 Speaker 2: hard and it's like snowing, and it's like forcing her 852 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 2: to put like it's trying to make her go towards Target. Really, 853 00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:19,080 Speaker 2: because I really believe because every song, I'm like more 854 00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:20,719 Speaker 2: passionate about this than I've ever been about anything my 855 00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:24,439 Speaker 2: whole life, because she every song is in a commercial now. 856 00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,279 Speaker 2: And I know it's because the brands are like, she's 857 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,359 Speaker 2: cool enough but popular enough that we can look cool 858 00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,320 Speaker 2: and in on it. But it's every commercial has a 859 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 2: Chapel song. So the wind and the snow. She's going, 860 00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:37,719 Speaker 2: I want to go towards Pitchfork, and she's like, but 861 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,320 Speaker 2: the snow is too high. I have to go towards Target. 862 00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,239 Speaker 2: It's so I think the odds are against her, but 863 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 2: I hope that she can survive Lizo's pass. Yeah, she also. 864 00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:51,160 Speaker 1: Hasn't been claimed by either party because I think at 865 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:56,399 Speaker 1: this point the Pitchfork, the Pitchfork eistas are skeptical of her, 866 00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: and certainly the Target Mom's candlebuyers are skeptical of her. 867 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,319 Speaker 2: And so she is. 868 00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 1: It's like she's on top of the charts, but while 869 00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:11,200 Speaker 1: balancing on a tiny needle, like if one thing goes wrong, 870 00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:12,240 Speaker 1: she could be done forever. 871 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 2: And I also think that's why she's doing the singles thing, 872 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:19,400 Speaker 2: to be like like sort of soft change the narrative 873 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,840 Speaker 2: and like let people be like, Okay, I'm calm about 874 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 2: her now. Now she can really sny album. 875 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 1: She was on call her Daddy another way that you 876 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:27,640 Speaker 1: can delay Lizzo's pass. 877 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 2: What is called her Daddy's like space in the culture 878 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:41,200 Speaker 2: right now, no one knows. I'm so deeply confused and 879 00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,880 Speaker 2: I'm like trying to figure out. Even watching the clips 880 00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:49,839 Speaker 2: of that, I was like am I insane, Like it's 881 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 2: so bizarre. So that's how I feel about it all. Okay, 882 00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,160 Speaker 2: how do you how do you feel about Chapel at 883 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:56,640 Speaker 2: this stage? 884 00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,400 Speaker 1: No, I think you are absolutely right that she's delaying 885 00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 1: Lizzo's pass. I have to say, I'm I'm pro Chapel, 886 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,640 Speaker 1: like I'm just sort of like it. But it took 887 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:08,520 Speaker 1: me longer than you to get there in the beginning. 888 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,520 Speaker 1: I think because the first song of hers I heard, 889 00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,319 Speaker 1: I played, I press played the album and the first 890 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:17,080 Speaker 1: song was phenomenomenomenon, and honestly, I was like, get this 891 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 1: off my screen. 892 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 2: I was so upset. 893 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 1: People had been telling me to check out Chapel roone 894 00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 1: for so long. I press play that song and I 895 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:27,799 Speaker 1: and I was wrong. I just want to admit I 896 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,120 Speaker 1: was wrong, But there was something about it that felt 897 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,759 Speaker 1: so rue Paul that then I had to come back 898 00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 1: to it a few months later and realize, actually, this 899 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 1: is an incredible album which everyone agrees with. And since then, 900 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,680 Speaker 1: I've loved her performances. I think she's fun. I think 901 00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:46,719 Speaker 1: she's a fun figure. I like that she's provocative and controversial. 902 00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,239 Speaker 1: I like that sometimes she's a little embarrassing. She's young. 903 00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:51,960 Speaker 1: I like that she's speaking her mind. Everyone is so 904 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:56,120 Speaker 1: you know, poll tested these days that I say go. 905 00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,839 Speaker 2: Off, I say go off, I say go off. 906 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of other people who are at 907 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:06,040 Speaker 1: Lizzo's pass right now. I mean, do you think Twiggs 908 00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:10,640 Speaker 1: has I do think Twigs chose Pitchfork and and that's 909 00:48:09,480 --> 00:48:12,000 Speaker 1: Twigs chose Pitchfork. 910 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 2: I think Sabrina Carpenter is all started. Is target is 911 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:19,880 Speaker 2: target yea, yeah, she's targeted. Tate McCrae is targed at 912 00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 2: Lizzo's past, but she's targeted. 913 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 1: She was never Pitchfork to begin with. Ever, no one, 914 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:27,759 Speaker 1: no Pitchfork person was on her side. Yeah you know 915 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 1: what I noticed? Actually what? And it pains me to 916 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 1: say this because my dream is for Lucy Dacas to 917 00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 1: be the special guest at Lesbian Lab. 918 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:36,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I haven't even told you this. 919 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,440 Speaker 1: I don't have a I don't have a contact or anything, 920 00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 1: but I I just have this dream that will do 921 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,399 Speaker 1: Lesbio Lab. And then at the end she comes out 922 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:47,280 Speaker 1: and performs I Kissed a Girl. 923 00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:53,880 Speaker 2: Lucy. If you if you hear this Bellhouse. 924 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 1: On April sixteen, sixteen, and I just want to let 925 00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,960 Speaker 1: you know, Lucy, I got and this is a true story. 926 00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 1: I got my husband concert tickets to your show for 927 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 1: his birthday. 928 00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:04,279 Speaker 2: He's a huge fan. 929 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,239 Speaker 1: We can't wait to see you at Radio City and 930 00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 1: hopefully we'll see you at the Bell House. But what 931 00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,080 Speaker 1: I wanted to say is that Lucy Dacas and the 932 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 1: Boy Genius girls were definitely at Lizzo's pass. Yeah, and 933 00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:19,200 Speaker 1: I think Phoebe Bridges. It's sort of like the jury's out. 934 00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:23,279 Speaker 1: But something I noticed today is that Pitchfork herself gave 935 00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 1: Lucy Dacas a six point one on her new album. 936 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:30,920 Speaker 2: Which, in a sense is choosing to go Pitchfork totally, 937 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,399 Speaker 2: Like there's something about that where it's like, Okay, you're 938 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:38,240 Speaker 2: staying small. 939 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 1: On the other hand, so Lindsey and Bobby pointed this 940 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,640 Speaker 1: out on Hoo Weekly. There was literally a People magazine 941 00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,600 Speaker 1: exclusive about Lucy Dacas, and I'm like, hold on, a 942 00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,479 Speaker 1: few years ago, we weren't getting People magazine exclusives about 943 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,759 Speaker 1: members of Boy Genius, So Lucy, I think at any point, 944 00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:56,680 Speaker 1: and her tour tickets, I gotta say, shout out to 945 00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 1: Live Nation. Much more expensive than I thought they would be. 946 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,840 Speaker 2: Really, I thought I could. 947 00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:04,200 Speaker 1: Potentially add a few more elements to my birthday gift. 948 00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,320 Speaker 2: So I do think. 949 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,279 Speaker 1: That there's been a breakthrough with with Boy Genius, and 950 00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 1: I think they're much more mainstream than we think. That 951 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:14,600 Speaker 1: album did really really well. 952 00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:15,760 Speaker 2: That's true. That's true. 953 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: So I think if Lucy are you saying, I'm saying Lucy, 954 00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,799 Speaker 1: I definitely think she's still at the pass, but I 955 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 1: think she could snap her damn fingers and go target 956 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:26,799 Speaker 1: at any point. 957 00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:27,560 Speaker 2: Interesting. 958 00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,640 Speaker 1: Interesting, interesting because she is relatable in this way. She's 959 00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:34,440 Speaker 1: fun on videos, she's very millennial, she's very like, you know, 960 00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 1: does a video for Conde Nast Digital and talks about 961 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:38,840 Speaker 1: going to therapy. 962 00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:44,239 Speaker 2: M What do you think about heim? I, oh god, 963 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:47,279 Speaker 2: that is a really good question. I kind of think 964 00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:51,239 Speaker 2: it tastefully as tastefully as like very successfully. They've still 965 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:52,240 Speaker 2: chosen Pitchfork. 966 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 1: I agree, they've definitely still chosen Pitchfork, and that's cool. 967 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:57,640 Speaker 1: They're almost they're a twenty four. 968 00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:00,280 Speaker 2: Basically, they're a twenty FeH. That's literally what they are. 969 00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:08,040 Speaker 2: Fuck Okay, okay, all. 970 00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:17,640 Speaker 5: Right, Hi Sama, George random, but I'm on a big 971 00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:18,840 Speaker 5: George Michael kick. 972 00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:21,359 Speaker 10: So that's huge for. 973 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:21,960 Speaker 3: Me right now. 974 00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:25,240 Speaker 5: And I just had to know, for you George as 975 00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,200 Speaker 5: a gay man of Greek experience, and for you Sam 976 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:31,759 Speaker 5: as a gay man of not Greek experience. 977 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:33,879 Speaker 10: What does George Michael. 978 00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:34,040 Speaker 11: Mean to you? 979 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:39,359 Speaker 5: What are your favorite songs? Yeah, anything George Michael related love. 980 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:40,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, he means everything to me. 981 00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:41,560 Speaker 10: Yeah. 982 00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,799 Speaker 2: I used to die for George. You go first, I 983 00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 2: mean you, he was your post post nuptial song in 984 00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,479 Speaker 2: a fun way, in an amazing way. I had this. 985 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,320 Speaker 1: Idea that I wanted the song when we walked on 986 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 1: the islet, the song was going to be earnest, but 987 00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:58,800 Speaker 1: then at the end, when we kissed, the song was 988 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,800 Speaker 1: going to be like fun and poppy, and my initial 989 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:05,120 Speaker 1: my initial idea, of course, was Madonna's Ray of Light, 990 00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,319 Speaker 1: which would be iconic, Which would have been iconic, but 991 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,879 Speaker 1: we ended up going with uh with. 992 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:13,200 Speaker 2: George Michael's Freedom. 993 00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:17,080 Speaker 1: Not the most original choice, but it was like so fun, 994 00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:18,279 Speaker 1: everyone got into it. 995 00:52:18,400 --> 00:52:20,200 Speaker 2: I would say it's pretty original, to be honest. 996 00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:21,719 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just like I just mean in terms 997 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,440 Speaker 1: of his in terms of his uber it's like one 998 00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:23,719 Speaker 1: of his. 999 00:52:23,760 --> 00:52:25,560 Speaker 2: Oh top three songs. 1000 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 1: But that and I'll tell you why, And I think 1001 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,799 Speaker 1: I've maybe even said the story on the podcast. I 1002 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,799 Speaker 1: was at this big Pride party last summer. It was 1003 00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:41,880 Speaker 1: all you know, electronic, uh, sort of house music okay, 1004 00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:47,719 Speaker 1: and no lyrics, no references to any pop music. And 1005 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 1: then at some point, at like two am, the beat 1006 00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:56,279 Speaker 1: breaks into the chorus of Freedom and it was this 1007 00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:00,439 Speaker 1: like incredible moment where everyone was so it was though, 1008 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:04,160 Speaker 1: you know, we had all like taken mushrooms at the 1009 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:06,320 Speaker 1: same time or something. It was just like and every 1010 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:09,319 Speaker 1: it was almost like the results of an election had 1011 00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:14,520 Speaker 1: just come in and they were positive. I cannot, you know, 1012 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,040 Speaker 1: and so I am That really inspired me. I was 1013 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,000 Speaker 1: just like, this song has a power that is unlike 1014 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:20,960 Speaker 1: other pop music. 1015 00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:22,560 Speaker 2: Wow, that's amazing. 1016 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,279 Speaker 1: Of course, it means a lot to me that he's 1017 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:29,600 Speaker 1: gang Greek, he's so hot, he's such a sex symbol. 1018 00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:32,239 Speaker 2: It it's important to remember that. 1019 00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,759 Speaker 1: In terms of like our sexual politics and in terms 1020 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 1: of queer stuff, we're not moving in a straight line. 1021 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:43,280 Speaker 1: Like to me, George Michael was so much more cool 1022 00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:46,600 Speaker 1: and like fun than so many of the things that 1023 00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: are that are happening now. 1024 00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:50,879 Speaker 2: I really I think about the thing all the time 1025 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,440 Speaker 2: where he was when he was arrested for cruising yeah, 1026 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:55,360 Speaker 2: and he was like, not ashamed at all. And he's like, 1027 00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 2: what is my culture is like the quote he said, 1028 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:00,799 Speaker 2: and I was like, that's true. Like I'm actually it's 1029 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,439 Speaker 2: so funny the way that I like, when I was younger, 1030 00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:06,719 Speaker 2: I did not understand that, And now I'm like, no, 1031 00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,520 Speaker 2: it should be illegal for guys to get arrested for cruising. 1032 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:14,799 Speaker 2: That's literally what we do. That's like, it's a time 1033 00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,160 Speaker 2: honor tradition. That's sort of our thanksgiving. 1034 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 1: If you will, I will say, I as much as 1035 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:21,839 Speaker 1: I love George Michael, I really only know the hits. 1036 00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 1: I'm I'm not a sort of completist. I'm not listening 1037 00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:30,279 Speaker 1: to album's top to bottom, you know, I like everyone else, 1038 00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 1: I rediscovered Father Figure because a baby girl. I love 1039 00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,480 Speaker 1: adding some George Michael to a party playlist, But I'm not, 1040 00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not listening to B sides. Do you 1041 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,319 Speaker 1: have favorite songs that are sort of out of the 1042 00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:42,439 Speaker 1: off the beaten path? 1043 00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 2: Not really, I mean the hits are hits for a reason. 1044 00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,880 Speaker 2: I have listened to, like what is the one with 1045 00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 2: Father Figure on it? What's it called Faith? 1046 00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:54,479 Speaker 1: That was Faith, which also has the famous song Faith, 1047 00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:55,200 Speaker 1: but it has. 1048 00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,840 Speaker 2: Faith on it. I have that one on vinyl and 1049 00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 2: I've listened to it a good amount and it's I mean, 1050 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,799 Speaker 2: there's a lot of like weird shit on there, like 1051 00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,360 Speaker 2: which is a fun thing about listening to an album 1052 00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:11,759 Speaker 2: like that. But it's like it's fun. But yeah, the 1053 00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,960 Speaker 2: hits are the hits are the hits, like you just 1054 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:14,680 Speaker 2: you feel it? 1055 00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:19,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, he has he has it, he has it. 1056 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,839 Speaker 1: I was George Michael for Halloween, some may recall. Many 1057 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:29,320 Speaker 1: are talking about that. So that's our relationship with George Michael. Yeah, okay, 1058 00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 1: all right, final call. 1059 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:34,480 Speaker 2: Oh and what perfect timing. Such a well timed episode. Meanwhile, 1060 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:36,640 Speaker 2: I've never received more texts in my life. Everyone needs 1061 00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:37,480 Speaker 2: a call now. 1062 00:55:37,640 --> 00:55:41,720 Speaker 10: Hi, Simon, George. I'm calling in with an advice question. 1063 00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:46,160 Speaker 10: I'm going to a straight wedding in a couple of months. 1064 00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:48,880 Speaker 10: There are going to be very few gay people there, 1065 00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:53,879 Speaker 10: maybe in the single digits, and it's a pretty conservative 1066 00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:57,480 Speaker 10: religious wedding and it's going to be in the wedding party. 1067 00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 10: So my question is, what are the gayest things I 1068 00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:06,160 Speaker 10: should do without getting myself kicked out of the family? 1069 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:09,440 Speaker 10: All right, love y'all thinks bye? 1070 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 2: Well, this is a perfect call. Of course. Of course, 1071 00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:17,120 Speaker 2: I think this is such a you know, time on 1072 00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,880 Speaker 2: or tradition of being the gay guy at a traditional 1073 00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:24,680 Speaker 2: straight wedding, And it's sort of like traveling to like 1074 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:28,360 Speaker 2: a small town where you know, yes, you are literally 1075 00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:30,000 Speaker 2: not going to see as many gay people, but it's 1076 00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:34,000 Speaker 2: like with but it's also kind of fun because you 1077 00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:37,080 Speaker 2: get to like open up any app you want and 1078 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,120 Speaker 2: see the most random guys on earth. I think I 1079 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:43,920 Speaker 2: have no greater pleasure than like being in like, you know, 1080 00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:49,080 Speaker 2: random parts of Minnesota and opening up the apps because 1081 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 2: it's sort of like a time machine. Like you see 1082 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,080 Speaker 2: people that are like, I'm literally married to a woman, 1083 00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 2: and you're like that is really amazing. Yeah, that is 1084 00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:01,680 Speaker 2: so cool, and I'm like, I didn't know we still 1085 00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 2: had you. 1086 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:06,240 Speaker 1: I also am like, take a little take a little 1087 00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:10,520 Speaker 1: thirst trap with your suit in the bathroom. Unbutton literally 1088 00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:14,799 Speaker 1: unbutton your fly. Get a little pub in there, get 1089 00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,520 Speaker 1: a little pub in there, take a photo. We're talking 1090 00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:22,040 Speaker 1: close friends, directly to close friends. Maybe a little a 1091 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:24,560 Speaker 1: little comment that's like at a religious wedding. 1092 00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,000 Speaker 2: Lol, some nudes. 1093 00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,280 Speaker 1: The fire emojis are gonna start coming. 1094 00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:30,280 Speaker 2: At you fast. 1095 00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,360 Speaker 1: There is something about being actually far away from the 1096 00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:37,520 Speaker 1: people you are courting or making horny or flirting with. 1097 00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,040 Speaker 1: That makes it so much more erotic than actually having 1098 00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 1: the opportunity to meet them in person. 1099 00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,640 Speaker 2: This is so true. What a smart thing to say, 1100 00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:47,680 Speaker 2: because you literally there's no risk. It can just be 1101 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,840 Speaker 2: flirty without any follow through. That's genius. 1102 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:52,480 Speaker 1: Actually, one of the worst things that could happen to 1103 00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:54,360 Speaker 1: someone is when you think that's what's happening and then 1104 00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:57,400 Speaker 1: the other person's like, want to come over, and it's like, no, 1105 00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,800 Speaker 1: I know, I am doing something very very specific here, 1106 00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:03,320 Speaker 1: and if you can't tell, like, that's on you. 1107 00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 2: But I am such a I'm such a I'll be 1108 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,720 Speaker 2: right there type bitch. Oh really, I am like, I'm 1109 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 2: like the I'm ordering the car right now. It is. 1110 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:13,880 Speaker 1: It takes a lot to get me out of the 1111 00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,320 Speaker 1: house if I don't think that's what's happening with that night. 1112 00:58:16,400 --> 00:58:19,120 Speaker 2: Well, no, horniness is a disease. No, it is a disease, 1113 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:19,840 Speaker 2: I will say. 1114 00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,760 Speaker 1: On the other side of things, if I'm out, it's 1115 00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:25,760 Speaker 1: very easy for someone to convince me to stay out. 1116 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,880 Speaker 1: Like I had an experience recently where I was like, 1117 00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: I'm leaving and ended up going to three other locations 1118 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:33,400 Speaker 1: on a weekday. 1119 00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:40,600 Speaker 2: Wow, that's awesome, I think. Also, I mean I think 1120 00:58:40,640 --> 00:58:43,320 Speaker 2: you may be surprised. And I think if there are 1121 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,600 Speaker 2: any other gay people there, I think it could be 1122 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:50,520 Speaker 2: really really fun to flirt and even have something happen, 1123 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,080 Speaker 2: because it'll feel so secretive, it'll feel so illegal, and 1124 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:56,080 Speaker 2: even if they're like not your normal type or whatever, 1125 00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:59,720 Speaker 2: it's like, this is awesome. There's something evil about it. 1126 00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:01,160 Speaker 2: And also, here's one. 1127 00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:02,600 Speaker 1: Of the gayest things you can do at this wedding. 1128 00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 1: Show up looking absolutely snatched as hell, get a martini, 1129 00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 1: sit in a corner by yourself, watching everyone kind of 1130 00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:16,160 Speaker 1: judgmentally drinking the martini. If I like, you are gonna 1131 00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 1: be the talk of the town. People are gonna be like, 1132 00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:19,920 Speaker 1: is that Truman Capoti. 1133 00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:21,840 Speaker 2: Literally and complain about the food. 1134 00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:24,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, definitely complain about the First of all, when 1135 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,680 Speaker 1: I say order a martini, send it back immediately. 1136 00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:29,600 Speaker 2: Say I asked for a dry, as. 1137 00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,800 Speaker 1: For a dry and this glass is not cold. Can 1138 00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:34,840 Speaker 1: you please chill the glass? This is my number, text 1139 00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:39,160 Speaker 1: me when it's ready. That, I would say, more so 1140 00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,840 Speaker 1: than hooking up with someone. While of course that also 1141 00:59:41,840 --> 00:59:43,960 Speaker 1: sounds like a lovely thing to do. I would say 1142 00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:46,000 Speaker 1: that is the gayest thing you can do at a 1143 00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:48,000 Speaker 1: really straight religious space. 1144 00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,800 Speaker 2: I have to agree. I have to have to have 1145 00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:53,760 Speaker 2: to agree. I'm trying to think if there's anything else 1146 00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:56,680 Speaker 2: that's like, you know, it's it's like if you can 1147 00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:00,000 Speaker 2: like squeeze in like sort of a half sex story 1148 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,520 Speaker 2: to like someone's grandma, that could be huge too. Ooh 1149 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:08,240 Speaker 2: that's good. Yeah, yeah, Like even like some innuendo, like 1150 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 2: if you can be like no bottoming, No, that's something 1151 01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:12,360 Speaker 2: you endo if you can fully be like no bottoming 1152 01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:16,000 Speaker 2: for me tonight, like Grandma, Like, guess. 1153 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:17,760 Speaker 1: What, no bottoming for me tonight? Because of this dry 1154 01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 1: ass salmon that was served at this stupid ass wedding. 1155 01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 1: The hell where is this ship from some landlocked country 1156 01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:27,280 Speaker 1: that doesn't grow its own salmon? 1157 01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a great idea. 1158 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,640 Speaker 1: Kill two birds with one snown you you tell your ornie, 1159 01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:36,840 Speaker 1: you alienate grandma and you and you insult the food. 1160 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:41,640 Speaker 2: That's what being LGBTQ plus is all about. 1161 01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no, I think you're gonna And also I 1162 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:46,240 Speaker 1: just want to say, you know, there's a temptation when 1163 01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 1: you're in a straight space to be like, I'm not 1164 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: gonna care about my parents. I'm just gonna show up 1165 01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,440 Speaker 1: and fit in. Resist that temptation is tempt This is. 1166 01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:53,360 Speaker 2: When you want to try to look. 1167 01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:56,200 Speaker 1: You want to show these people what their lives are missing. 1168 01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:02,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and really really yeah, really you need to serve, 1169 01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:03,720 Speaker 2: You need to serve. Folks. 1170 01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:06,640 Speaker 1: You've been calling, You've been I'm deploying you. 1171 01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:14,720 Speaker 2: We're deploying you. Yeah, well that's pretty fun. Yeah, those 1172 01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:17,120 Speaker 2: were some fun calls. Those are some fun calls. Thanks 1173 01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 2: everyone for calling. Sorry, if we didn't get to your call. 1174 01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 1: You can always call us at three eight five. 1175 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:21,720 Speaker 2: Gay guys. 1176 01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,560 Speaker 1: Uh, we should mention this is, in fact the second 1177 01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 1: part of a two part call in show. The first 1178 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,600 Speaker 1: part was on patrenal Name. It's already happened, and honestly, 1179 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:33,080 Speaker 1: there was a very juicy call on it that I 1180 01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:35,680 Speaker 1: think I would personally pay five dollars a month to 1181 01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:36,080 Speaker 1: listen to. 1182 01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:40,200 Speaker 2: And I think we're gonna you know, we're sort of 1183 01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:43,200 Speaker 2: doing call in shows intermittently and at random. Yeah, whenever 1184 01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:46,120 Speaker 2: we feel like it, which I think is so cool. 1185 01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 2: I agree. I'm glad we're not scheduled. 1186 01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:53,560 Speaker 1: I'm also like, are we officially breaking the earnestness, non 1187 01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:57,040 Speaker 1: earnestness binary. I think, so we're being half earnest, half 1188 01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:59,440 Speaker 1: not earnest at any given point, I could, you know, 1189 01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:02,600 Speaker 1: sling a joke that would be worthy of Anthony Jesselnick. 1190 01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:06,640 Speaker 1: But I could also retreat into a more kind of introverted, 1191 01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:08,800 Speaker 1: vulnerable state and talk about my mother. 1192 01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:12,280 Speaker 2: I think, I think get you a podcast host who 1193 01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:15,680 Speaker 2: can do both. We are we contain moltitudes now, that's right, 1194 01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:19,440 Speaker 2: outwardly and inwardley now more than ever, what with everything 1195 01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:19,880 Speaker 2: going on. 1196 01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:23,200 Speaker 1: So, whether you're in library school or celibate in Los 1197 01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:28,600 Speaker 1: Angeles or at a straight wedding offending a grandmother by 1198 01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:31,880 Speaker 1: talking about how you got fisted at the big party. 1199 01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:33,080 Speaker 2: We love you. 1200 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,520 Speaker 1: You are always welcome in the lab and come to 1201 01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:37,520 Speaker 1: Lesbio Lab on April sixteenth. 1202 01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,800 Speaker 2: At the Bellhouse. Come to Lesbian Lab on April sixteenth 1203 01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:44,840 Speaker 2: and LRP after midnight. 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