WEBVTT - Char Char Binks 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:01.840 There was the problem. 0:00:05.640 --> 0:00:06.400 Wear taking M. 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:12.559 Five four too many. I'm not patient enough. Hey, everybody, 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:13.360 thanks for listening. 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:17.080 It's Joe Gatto and my friend Steve Burn and you're 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:18.280 listening to two pool moms. 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:21.760 Thank you for having us in your ear lobes. Steve 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:23.959 when I when I was. 0:00:23.960 --> 0:00:24.640 An ear lobe though. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:25.840 Yeah, I know. 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:31.440 It's called comedy when I think, when I think of 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.720 so we're starting someone who I just can't stand to 0:00:34.760 --> 0:00:39.080 be sitting across from awesome because they just throw sports 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:43.480 themes in my face with all their sports like Pittsburgh, 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:46.599 we get it. Yeah, I decided to wear my own 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:49.760 Pittsburgh colors and this is my jersey of love. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:52.560 It's with dogs, and these are my two favorite dogs. 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:56.720 It's almost match your colors, okay, white and Golden's. This 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:58.000 is a Spomonium. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:04.520 Biscotti, Pimonium biscati, Yes, Biscotti, the brown one, right one, Spomoni. 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:08.160 That's probably the cutest dog I've ever seen in my life, 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:11.280 which was, yeah, you met Spemoni in real life. Yes, 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:15.240 But it's like symmetrically a perfect like if you were 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:18.120 a cartoonist, that's how you would draw. It's like that 0:01:18.240 --> 0:01:19.959 looks like a perfect dog. 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:23.120 It's you know what. I appreciate that she is. Yeah, 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:24.360 and I. 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:26.840 Just why why is why is Pomoni the favorite of 0:01:26.840 --> 0:01:27.840 all of them? 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:30.440 Well, don't tell aout Scotty. Let me cover your ears, okay. 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:32.640 Uh, But Scotty looks looks a little high maintenance. 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:33.760 It goes back and forth. 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.640 Between them, It's really, yeah, it's it goes back and forth. 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:39.119 But Scotty is my first rescue. But Spomoni I found 0:01:39.120 --> 0:01:41.840 on the road in Vegas, and I adopted her on 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:45.760 the road. So on the road, you flew her back 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:48.160 with flew her back with me, took her to multiple states. 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:50.160 Vegas was our first out there, and went to Arizona 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:51.240 and then went to California. 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:54.320 That's weird. And then did she just glom onto you 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:54.920 pretty quickly? 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:55.600 Right away? 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:58.640 Really, I'm very glummable. I don't know if you've noticed this. 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:01.520 And you word gloms. Isn't glumm being that you're in 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:04.320 a bad mood glum things? 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:09.520 No, you might have might have multiple You could be glum. Yeah, 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:12.360 you could be glum, but you're very glommable. Is that 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:13.280 a word? No? 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:14.120 You made that up? 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:18.239 She gloms onto you? You said glums? Did I say that, Yeah. 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:22.080 Didn't you? You? You know what I mean? 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:22.720 Where am I? 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:26.040 It's like glum glum on you is the ear lobe 0:02:26.080 --> 0:02:27.200 of ear drums. 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:27.520 Exactly right. 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:29.600 And that's why we're here, because we're here to talk 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:31.320 to each other about how much we love each other. 0:02:31.360 --> 0:02:35.960 Stevie, name your top three favorite qualities about me? 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:37.560 Name the top three. 0:02:37.919 --> 0:02:40.200 Rabbit fire, I don't want along win that answers. 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:46.680 Blunt, blunt, hilarious, hilarious. Oh third ready fun. 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:50.840 Fun, wow, okay, very nice. My turn, I will say, 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.240 I will say, are you saying. 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:59.359 My three favorite things about you? Okay, Punctual, I will 0:02:59.360 --> 0:02:59.720 say this. 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:05.080 I will say sincere okay, I say lovable, and I 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:06.560 will say a good time friend. 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:08.839 Here we go, There you go cheers to that? Maybe 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:09.639 we go cheers my friend? 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:10.160 Okay? 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:13.800 Now three worse than pet peeves two pet peeves one 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:19.919 pets pu Punctual, I was here today on time. Yeah, 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:22.919 but the problems are supposed to here yesterday. 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.560 You can't say that you were supposed to be here. 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.799 I was here today on time when you missed the 0:03:29.880 --> 0:03:34.560 whole day, You missed a full day, and then you're like, 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:44.000 I was here at nine oh three humble brag. Well, 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:47.640 that is true. That is true. Will you late for 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:49.040 school a lot when you were a kid? 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:54.480 I was, I guess I was. Okay, I here's what 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:59.840 I'll say, like, yeah, to a degree, to a degree. Yeah, 0:03:59.880 --> 0:04:03.800 I'm pretty regimented and making sure. I'm you know, punctual. 0:04:04.400 --> 0:04:07.120 I'm usually pretty on the mark. But I'll tell you 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.040 when it comes to like stand up, when it comes 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:11.520 to like get to work on time, Like if your 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.080 show's at seven, you'll get there at six thirty. 0:04:14.360 --> 0:04:14.560 Right. 0:04:15.000 --> 0:04:17.560 If the show's at seven, I know the opener is 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:20.560 going to do ten, the feature is going to do fifteen, 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:24.960 So seven twenty five really, so I would love to 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:29.120 roll in at seven twenty three. That's like my dream 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:31.520 thing is to just walk in. They go, and you're righty, 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:33.200 I go, Yeah, they go. And now ladies and gentlemen. 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:36.040 That's my favorite. That is the best one. I time 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:36.679 it up perfectly. 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:37.520 Yeah I didn't. 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:38.799 You're very punctual. 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:39.920 I'm pretty punctual. Yeah. 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:43.200 I have this thing with the kids where they sleep 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:45.360 in the morning and Bessie won't let me wake them up. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:46.000 They're sleeping. 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:48.960 She said something to me, which is very stuck with me. 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:50.080 I said, they have to get up, they have to 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:51.800 go to school. She goes, they have their whole life 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:52.520 to be woken up. 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:55.360 And I was like, oh wow. She's like, who cares 0:04:55.360 --> 0:04:55.640 if they. 0:04:55.600 --> 0:04:58.040 Missed up that school agents and she's and I was like, 0:04:58.120 --> 0:04:59.760 I was like, wow, you terrorist. 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:04.039 But no, it's like isn't that you know? 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:04.280 Wow? 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:04.920 What a cool mom? 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:06.960 Yeah, she's like yeah, she's like so what She's like, 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:08.840 they miss five minutes to school whatever. But then like 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:10.719 my son started like pushing it, and he was like 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:11.960 waking up at like nine o'clock. 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:13.560 I'm like, Bessie, we gotta stock. Can we find a 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.000 middle ground? Can I like nudge them at eight forty five? 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.160 The kids going to bed at eight pm? Like, that's 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:20.440 not a he's a bear, But. 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:21.920 That's I thought that was very thinking. Like I came 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:24.120 from a house that you got off for school. My 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:27.000 mom was a school secretary where I was, so she 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:28.240 had to drive me. I had to go with her 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:31.960 early was so annoying. Yeah, so like that was that 0:05:32.040 --> 0:05:35.040 was tough. But I think I've been a little bit 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:36.840 punctual in my in my own time, and I'm trying 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:37.680 to put on my kids. 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:40.320 But it's a valid point. Spent a whole life waking up. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:43.839 Yeah, but look, anybody that owns thirty watches should be punctual. 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:45.120 That's true, That's very true. 0:05:45.279 --> 0:05:49.039 I wouldn't know I have sixty sixty Yeah, sixty four. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:50.680 I just count them the other day because Remo asked me, 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:51.320 are you serious? 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:52.000 Sixty four? 0:05:53.240 --> 0:05:55.400 Okay, we know your favorite dog is favorite watch? 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:57.480 And why my favorite watch them? Why? 0:05:57.480 --> 0:05:59.880 It is probably my Pane Ray that I got my 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.160 first one. It was my first, like Big Boy Watch. 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:04.360 I got it as a gift for the one hundredth episode. 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:05.000 Of in Bracical Jokers. 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:06.039 So a gift for yourself. 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:07.560 No, they gave it to us, Oh they did. 0:06:08.120 --> 0:06:10.840 And then my Tide for the Fat is my the 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:14.120 other Panora I have that I got when we I. 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:14.560 Was in La. 0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.240 I visited it at a shop. I saw it in 0:06:17.279 --> 0:06:19.480 the shop. I was with Q and I said, oh, 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:21.560 I'm going to get this and I was like. I 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:24.240 called Bessie and she was pregnant with Remo and she 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:25.960 was like, you have you know you have another child 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.760 coming in four months. You can't be Canna, all right? 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:30.560 And then we got the movie. I went back to 0:06:30.640 --> 0:06:32.440 La for meetings. We had gotten the movie and I 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:34.719 went by the window and it was still there, and 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:36.000 I said, I'm gonna get this watch now. 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:37.920 And so I was like, congregs with the movie with them. 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:38.560 That's great. 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:40.320 So that was it. Yeah, I like that. I like those. 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:43.240 I don't have my dad's watch, which I'm annoyed about 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:43.960 thinking about it. 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:44.480 I don't have. 0:06:45.400 --> 0:06:46.160 You didn't dig it up. 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:49.120 No, I probably got to go six feet into Moravian 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:53.720 cemetery and just go in and get them. 0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:55.240 You got to get a shovel and a friend with 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:55.840 a shovel. 0:06:56.000 --> 0:07:01.280 Yeah, you have a lantern. I would take somebody up. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:05.240 Oh my god, Joseph does he did he wear it? 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:07.360 No, he didn't wear he wore this. This is this 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:09.800 is my dad. This is the jay that was my father's. Really, 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:11.520 so he wore this. So I took this off his 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:12.040 dead body. 0:07:12.480 --> 0:07:14.840 Joseph, I did he he was the dead thing pronounced 0:07:14.840 --> 0:07:15.880 it does the first thing I grabbed. 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:17.680 Oh my god, my mom got his wallet and I 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:22.360 got his that's good. True, that's true. They were like, 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:24.400 oh yeah, oh I better get his wall. I'm like, 0:07:24.400 --> 0:07:28.920 I'm taking his jay. And he was still warm, still warm. 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:31.160 Yeah, that's that my dad was this there was this 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:33.440 was a gift from his from my mom, his wife 0:07:33.440 --> 0:07:33.800 for there. 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:37.520 I think they're twe maybe fifteenth winning anniversary or something. 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:39.960 He always work growing up. I knew it, like, that's great, 0:07:40.080 --> 0:07:40.520 I have that. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:43.280 And then my remo asked me if that's gonna be 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:45.400 when I when I dies, that gonna be his? 0:07:45.880 --> 0:07:48.520 And I said, yeah, but your name starts what a jay? 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:49.760 And I said, if Malana has a son and. 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.720 She names him Joe, it goes to her, except that 0:07:53.320 --> 0:07:54.800 he could have it right my grandson. 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:56.800 I was like, but I'm also still alive, so why 0:07:56.800 --> 0:07:59.880 don't you just went back it up? Buddy? Pretty sure 0:07:59.880 --> 0:08:00.600 it's go play it to. 0:08:01.440 --> 0:08:05.000 But like when you're when you're you know, when Bessie's saying, hey, 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:07.640 you know you have a second kid coming, you know, 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:10.000 let's temper it like that's that's the son of a 0:08:10.000 --> 0:08:14.680 great mom, right. So like my my wife when Sullivan's 0:08:14.680 --> 0:08:18.240 son got picked up, my daughter had just been born 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:20.840 and we needed a second car. We needed a car 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:23.600 in Los Angeles, yep. So I come home with a 0:08:25.320 --> 0:08:30.560 with a god, what the hell is it called a 0:08:30.600 --> 0:08:33.920 Dodge Challenger. I come home with a Dodge Challenger and 0:08:33.960 --> 0:08:36.680 she's like, are you fucking kidding me? You have a 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.000 baby And I was like, oh, oh yeah, I got 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:41.320 a babe because it's like a two seater and then 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:43.880 there's like a very small third seats. 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:44.400 She's tired. 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:46.560 What you throw it in there? She's like, you got 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:50.319 a fucking sports car and you just your daughter is 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.000 like three weeks old. And I'm like, yeah, I got 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.200 the show. It's like this is kind of cool. She's like, 0:08:54.640 --> 0:08:58.040 it's not cool, it's not practical, it's not smart, and 0:08:58.080 --> 0:08:59.160 she was not happy at all. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:00.800 But it or did you? 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:04.200 I kept it and it recently I ran that thing 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:06.559 into the ground. I ran into the ground. I was 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:09.360 hoping to save it for like Liviy or Kent when 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:10.840 they get a little older. We're gonna have it as 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:14.360 a third car. But yeah, I that engine just went. 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:19.200 That's because you're ripping around, which I'm not a car 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.240 guy at all, but I went to just this lot 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:22.920 and I saw the Challenger and. 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:24.200 I was like, wow, that just spoke to you. 0:09:24.320 --> 0:09:26.680 That looks cool. Yeah, I've never had a car like that. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:27.960 I never will again since. 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:29.560 So I'm glad you did it. 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:30.240 I did it. 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:31.960 I had fun it was. It was super cool. 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:33.880 I used to borrow my mom's My mom had the 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:37.040 Mercedes SLK, which is the two seater, the two seater 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:41.839 hard topped Mercedes convertible, and she used to go down 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:44.000 to Atlantic City with her boyfriends and I would borrow 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:45.079 her car for the weekend. 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.680 We walk around New York. I remember very vividly a 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:53.160 memory of my mother. She had never been through Times 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:55.200 Square at night, and we were. 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:57.439 Had dinner at Bellevite with the top down, and I 0:09:57.559 --> 0:09:58.600 took down the top and. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:09:59.400 We drove through. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:02.840 And then we were driving with the top down through 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:05.160 Times Square and she's like looking up everything and she's like, 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:07.079 this is so awesome. She was like, this is a 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:08.839 guy I've never done this. I'm so happy that we're 0:10:08.880 --> 0:10:11.360 doing this. And she's like only cute, like Tyaria. And 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.560 then she turns left it as a homeless man pissing. 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:19.000 She goes and this fucking guy's got to ruin everything. 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:24.360 It's great. She was just taking it all in and 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:26.000 was like, oh, She's like, oh, it was a movie. 0:10:26.000 --> 0:10:26.600 It was so fun. 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:27.880 That's a Gatto memory. 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:29.400 That's a great memory. Yeah, that's funny. 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:32.440 I couldn't believe she had never been through like in 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:33.760 Times Square, like at night. 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:35.160 But then like she never really. 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:37.280 Went into the city, especially not one of the convertible 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:38.440 and the top down kind of thing, you know. 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:40.960 So it was kind of it's also Staten Island. It's 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:43.920 like you're almost like a world away. It's like, why 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:45.520 would you leave when you have everything right? 0:10:45.679 --> 0:10:47.120 Right? Yeah, and it's what she's not going to go 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:48.760 into the city by so she does no, I member 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:49.360 she didn't. 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:52.880 We took her to uh it was her sixtieth birthday, 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:54.480 I think, and me and my sisters wanted to take 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:56.360 her somewhere. So we're taking her somewhere in the city. 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:58.920 And I was and she was like, uh, I'm like, 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:00.360 come on, I'm going on the subway. She goes what 0:11:01.240 --> 0:11:02.680 and she's like all right, stay close, and she was 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:05.040 like hugged me, like she was holding onto me. It 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:06.760 was so funny to take her. I'm like, mom, she's 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:08.160 just a subway and she's like no. 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.240 She was like scared to death. She's a New Yorker. 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:12.760 Yeah, I know, it's like she's some badass New Yorker, 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.319 but something about the subway, she just she's like, I 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:14.839 don't trust it. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:18.480 You're on the ground, like that's how a subway works. Well, 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:29.080 my father used to come up to New York City 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.040 all the time because he would you know, he had 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:33.600 he in a fish store. She'd have to come up 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:36.640 into the h whatever the market, yeah, the market, and 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:38.520 he would buy the fish in the morning. Every day 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:40.880 he'd leave before in the morning to be back at 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:42.960 the fish store and railway in New Jersey. And on 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:45.920 occasion I'd come up with him. And every time I 0:11:46.040 --> 0:11:48.080 come to New York, at least the first few times, 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:51.599 like especially when I was like first moved here, I 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:54.800 just always associate New York with the smell of cooking 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:59.800 pretzels because back in like the eighties, they were baking the. 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:01.200 And so I would smell it. 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:02.960 It was almost to the point where it's like burning 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:04.720 the pretzels, but it just smelled so good. 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:06.560 I was, oh God, I got a pretzel. 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:10.280 And you know, you're a kid, that. 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:12.120 That is ingrained in the nostrils of kids who grew 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.880 up at our time in New York like Radio City, 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:18.320 walking by, and the Peanuts and the and the pretzel stands. 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:21.760 Yeah, like they were also like the heaters of the street. 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:22.040 You know. 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:26.600 Yeah, that that for sure is is definitely a smell 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:27.280 of Manhattan. 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:31.200 But that was before it was dogs, pretzels, peanuts, and 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:35.640 now it's all like kebabs. Yeah, yeah, totally different, but 0:12:35.760 --> 0:12:37.800 still they still pretzels. 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:41.600 But different smells. Yeah, it's it's not it's not as 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:44.440 good as smell. It's not like clean and American. No, 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:47.120 it's not. You know what. That's what we were talking 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:51.160 about earlier about this wall building. We were saying, remember 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:52.720 when we were saying offline, uh. 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:56.880 You gotta build a wall build it came our pretzels safe. 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:01.360 We were like, it's because it's too many different smells, 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:03.480 not even about the food, right, like it all mixes together. 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:06.199 I was like, you just used to be pretzels, peanuts, 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:07.560 hot dog, that's what you would smell. 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:09.120 But now there's so many different food trucks. 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:11.839 There's pizza trucks and whatever, you know, sushi, right, there's 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:14.240 all this stuff. It's crazy and like this you walk 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:15.840 down the street, it's like restaurants on the street. 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:17.880 It's great to have the selection, but I do miss 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:20.559 the fact that it was just those the greatest hits. Yeah, 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:21.960 that's what it was, the greatest hits back in the day. 0:13:21.960 --> 0:13:23.160 That's it it's the VIP menu. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.840 But there's nothing better than a tasty freeze. 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:30.360 The soft served those trucks. Yeah, I hate them. 0:13:30.559 --> 0:13:32.320 You hate ice cream, that's right. 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:34.520 Yeah, but you know what, the food truck really came 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:35.520 on like a motherfucker. 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.680 Yeah yeah, right out of nowhere. Ready back that up 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:41.600 here we go. Food trucks came out of nowhere. Right, 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:43.560 they were all the talking lot. They're like, ready go, 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:48.240 people selling shit, throw money at you. Remember that, I 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:51.520 don't know where you're buying food. It's a globle restaurant. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:55.079 It's crazy. Yes, well, who's thowing the first food truck? 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:55.480 Do we know that? 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:55.760 You? 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:58.000 Who thought? What was the first food truck? Like straight 0:13:58.040 --> 0:13:58.720 up food truck? 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:01.000 Because like I would, Roy Choi is the one that 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:03.319 reinvigorated it out of Los Angeles. 0:14:03.840 --> 0:14:07.599 Remember with course Cho well kogie Yeah. 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:10.040 That was his his thing, and then that started the 0:14:10.080 --> 0:14:12.680 whole food truck scene in a in Los Angeles. And 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:15.920 then roy U Vavro did Chef based off of. 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.800 Yeah, but that was I mean, that was that's based 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:20.160 off about what he got chiggen go. 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:24.960 I just immediately want to do this. Nineteen thirty six 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:26.800 was the first food truck and it was called the 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:30.840 Wienermobile and it was for Oscar Meyer. 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:33.120 Meyers started it. 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.600 Yeah, it was the first food truck, not Roy Choi. 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:37.920 Oscar I said reinvigorated. 0:14:38.000 --> 0:14:42.520 Reinvigorated because it was he got his Wiener going the leader. 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:46.080 But they looked like it looks like a like a 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:48.880 covered wagon from like the eighteen hundreds. 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:51.760 Yeah, you think that they would take ownership of that 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.360 and be like we should do that and set those 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:55.400 up in major markets. 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:59.240 I would I would like to Oscar market for the 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:01.720 first food truck, the Oscar Meyer. 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.400 The Wiener truck became a thing of like what do 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:04.880 you call it though? 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:07.720 Right, it's like a lore to the Wiener mobilemobile, Right, 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:08.400 it became a thing. 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:10.160 Yeah, they just had in Times Square. 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:11.800 I forgot what I was doing something. I woke by 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:12.680 and it was down there and I was like, oh 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:14.800 my god, there's a the Widowmobile is in there. It's 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:16.960 it became like a promotional tool. You're not like an 0:15:17.120 --> 0:15:21.160 operating food truck. I wonder like, what's a. 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:24.480 Tent on a hot talk I e veggie jokes. 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:25.520 Gardens. 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:28.280 Gardening is well for me, hot talgs all about the topics. 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:30.280 I have all the great great topics. 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:33.880 No, no, no, don't tell me what's fing and what's 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.400 not faming. Okay, I won't, But what's for you? Why 0:15:36.480 --> 0:15:37.760 you think it's about the taste of the beef in 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:41.440 your mouth? Really? 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:43.760 The taste? Yeah, it's like saying a French fries, a 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:44.280 French fry. 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:45.640 It's just the ketchup. 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:48.080 I would McDonald the French fry. 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:48.920 Never say that. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:49.720 That's what you're saying. 0:15:49.760 --> 0:15:50.320 That's I would. 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.000 It's all about the toppings, your condiments. 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:53.440 Listen. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:55.160 If you don't like what I'm saying, stand up so 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.200 I can hear you when you're talking out of your ass. 0:15:56.920 --> 0:16:00.920 Because it's it's not anything this comes. She's not going anyway. 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:03.440 What I tell you is hot dogs are known for 0:16:03.520 --> 0:16:05.120 the time. What are the topics on your hot dog? 0:16:05.160 --> 0:16:06.800 It's always consistent, it's the same thing. 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:09.160 You never switch it up. You never switched it up. 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:10.960 Your hot dog topics. Your hot dog topics. That's what 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:11.400 you're eating. 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:12.120 What's your topings? 0:16:12.160 --> 0:16:15.640 Mine? I have the Big four Rotherish shower crowd. Ketchup mustard, 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:19.480 ketchup mustard. You mix them up, mix them up? Really, 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:23.320 I didn't break mix it up. Disgusting Okay, what's yours. 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.720 Let me get it. Let me guess mustards, soy sauce, 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.880 froyd choy. Right, you're like, I do a little bit 0:16:30.920 --> 0:16:33.440 of bomb. Okay, what do you do? 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:34.080 Mustard? 0:16:34.600 --> 0:16:35.400 Straight mustard. 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:39.880 It's gotta be charred, charred. I like a charred dog, 0:16:40.240 --> 0:16:44.160 charge dog. Yeah, I don't like a boiled dog. 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:56.400 Chart Banks so hungry. 0:16:56.880 --> 0:17:00.520 Uh real? Right. 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:04.240 But by the way, we said we're not gonna talk 0:17:04.240 --> 0:17:06.160 about food, and then we talk about it. But then 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:08.480 we because we always talk about food on the podcast 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:10.640 because we haven't eaten yet, we've already eate, I. 0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:12.080 Know, just saying no. But now I'm talking. 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:14.119 Now we're talking about your perception of food. This is 0:17:14.160 --> 0:17:16.000 different for me because this is why it's not about 0:17:16.000 --> 0:17:18.080 for you for the toppings. Because you have topping, you 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:19.840 have mustard, I must you might as well just have 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:20.520 a scoop of mustard. 0:17:20.520 --> 0:17:23.080 You're eating a hot dog. It's a difference for you. Yeah, sure. 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:26.760 Now for me, it's about like the the glorific, the 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:28.080 the cornucopia of topping. 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:31.560 You cannot tell me though a veggie dog is even 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:33.280 comparable to a real hot dog. 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:35.439 I will say that you take me out to the 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:37.479 Bowl game. I'm gonna you gotta go for it regularly. 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:40.680 You can't be taking a hot dog, you know. But 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:43.919 I never really did a hot dog as much as 0:17:43.920 --> 0:17:45.160 I did a burger. I was more of a burger 0:17:45.160 --> 0:17:45.840 than a dog guy. 0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:49.000 Really, Yeah, I love, I love A lot of talks 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:49.280 are my. 0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:54.160 Favorite from the booth. He's got more. 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:56.719 One of my favorite stories about show is we went 0:17:56.760 --> 0:18:00.439 to a Cubs game. He doesn't watch baseball. We went 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.119 to the Cubs game. We weren't even inside the ballpark, 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:06.320 and he had four hundred different snacks. I mean, there's 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:09.600 ice creams, peanuts, is everything, like everything in the box. 0:18:10.280 --> 0:18:12.280 And he's eating all this stuff. And then he looks 0:18:12.280 --> 0:18:14.840 at me and he goes, what's that guy doing standing 0:18:14.920 --> 0:18:17.160 on the field. I'm like, that's the first base. 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:22.520 Concert, Like, how do you get down there? 0:18:22.880 --> 0:18:24.480 It's so funny. 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:26.719 Do you ever go to a sporting event where you're like, 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:29.920 I'm invested in this. Has there been a sporting event 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:32.199 you went to where you're like, I'm into the stakes. 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:34.880 I want to see X win over why? 0:18:35.200 --> 0:18:35.480 Yeah? 0:18:35.560 --> 0:18:39.240 I did go to a Knicks game for Christmas one year. 0:18:39.320 --> 0:18:43.240 I got my nephew Anthony tickets courts Eye tickets for 0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:46.440 a game. So we went and it was a great game, 0:18:46.520 --> 0:18:48.080 and you felt like you were like in the action. 0:18:48.119 --> 0:18:49.760 We were like sitting right there, and it was a 0:18:49.800 --> 0:18:52.000 close game. So I felt that for sure super Bowls 0:18:52.040 --> 0:18:53.520 I get into it. I get into when I'm watching 0:18:53.560 --> 0:18:56.320 Super Bowls and it's coming down to it, I really 0:18:56.320 --> 0:18:59.880 get into it then because this food round, Yeah, those 0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:02.040 would mean. I mean, there was a soccer game I 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:04.520 played once that I was really invested in, and that 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:05.200 was the goalie. 0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:06.760 I remember that one. 0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:07.800 How many goals you let in? 0:19:07.920 --> 0:19:10.760 I was pretty good at something balls, I was pretty good. 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:12.880 But then I there was they had this We're playing 0:19:12.920 --> 0:19:15.159 Saint Rox, which is the other one, and they had this. 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:16.480 They had this one kid in this school. 0:19:16.520 --> 0:19:17.760 I wish I remember his name, because this is like 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:19.480 the third or fourth story I've told of him, recently. 0:19:19.640 --> 0:19:21.360 But he was like he got left back a couple 0:19:21.400 --> 0:19:24.399 of times, clearly, like he was a huge They were 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:24.919 in eighth grade, and. 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:26.399 He's got like pubes, you know what I mean, was 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:27.880 like one of those guys right, get a mustache. 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:29.960 Eighth grade, he was drove himself to the game with 0:19:30.000 --> 0:19:32.320 a cigarette, like you know, like one of those. So 0:19:32.359 --> 0:19:34.840 we're at the game and he's like charging down and 0:19:35.040 --> 0:19:39.919 we're we're tied, and he's coming charging down the open 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:43.120 field by himself and I'm I'm standing there and I'm 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:45.119 just waiting for him to like and he kicked it 0:19:45.200 --> 0:19:48.160 so hard that he hit me and I went back 0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:51.680 into the goal with like with it, like he got 0:19:51.680 --> 0:19:53.440 really close, like didn't well, he had like a full 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:55.600 like second to wind up. Nobody was near him, the 0:19:55.640 --> 0:19:57.880 defense fell apart, he was by himself, and he did 0:19:57.920 --> 0:20:01.159 like a full stop would like kick it yeah, like 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:04.440 and it hit me so hard that I fell back 0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:06.080 into the goal and the ball went right. 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:06.359 In with me. 0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:09.760 Your team's just like he got it joke, like he stopped, 0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:12.720 I stopped and it hit Yeah, but I didn't do anything. 0:20:12.800 --> 0:20:16.280 Yes, it started with me. Yeah, I remember that game. 0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:18.800 That was rough. I stopped being goalie after that game. 0:20:18.920 --> 0:20:20.440 I was like, what was the last time you did? 0:20:22.040 --> 0:20:24.600 You can't not you can't well should be doing. 0:20:26.359 --> 0:20:28.680 When is the last time you've done anything athletic? 0:20:32.080 --> 0:20:36.840 Uh, I was swimming. That doesn't really okay, that doesn't count. 0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:38.200 Bowling does not count. 0:20:38.280 --> 0:20:40.800 Okay, So something athletic like athletics like you mean I 0:20:40.840 --> 0:20:41.439 got a run on. 0:20:41.600 --> 0:20:42.040 Let's see. 0:20:42.040 --> 0:20:43.640 I think like bowling is a skill for sure. 0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:45.440 Oh, I just did a charity softball game. 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:47.920 I did a charity softball game and I and I 0:20:48.280 --> 0:20:49.560 made a hit and ran the first place. 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:50.320 Did you realize? 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:50.800 Yes it did. 0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:53.080 I got tagged out by Paul Rudd, but I still 0:20:53.200 --> 0:20:54.639 made it. I made it to the base. But I 0:20:54.680 --> 0:20:56.760 will say the first out of the game. So you 0:20:56.800 --> 0:20:58.359 know how all these charity games are. There's like nine 0:20:58.440 --> 0:20:59.800 hundred people. It's in Kansas City. 0:21:00.040 --> 0:21:02.000 It's a big slick which was a great weekend. 0:21:02.119 --> 0:21:06.760 And we it benefits the Children's Mercy Hospital out there 0:21:07.080 --> 0:21:09.240 and helps all these kids with cancer. So they have 0:21:09.280 --> 0:21:11.240 a big event all weekend and one of the things 0:21:11.280 --> 0:21:13.560 is a charity softball game. So I was talking to 0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:16.240 Eric stone Street and Paul and I was like, do 0:21:16.280 --> 0:21:18.200 I have to play? And they're like, no, you don't play, 0:21:18.200 --> 0:21:19.720 Like everybody stands out there and you just go. I 0:21:19.720 --> 0:21:21.280 was like all right, So so we stand out there. 0:21:21.280 --> 0:21:23.760 So I end up being like in between who's what's 0:21:23.800 --> 0:21:24.840 between third and second? 0:21:24.880 --> 0:21:28.080 Shortstop? So I'm like I'm like short stop adjacent, I'm 0:21:28.119 --> 0:21:30.119 like closer to second. There's like three people by us. 0:21:30.480 --> 0:21:32.119 The first hit in the game, I forget who it is. 0:21:32.119 --> 0:21:35.080 Somebody hits it and we're playing the and it comes 0:21:35.119 --> 0:21:36.920 right to me and I'm like, all right, and I stop. 0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:38.000 I get it and I'm like, now I have to 0:21:38.000 --> 0:21:39.800 throw to first base. Do you know how far that is? 0:21:40.119 --> 0:21:42.440 And I'm like, oh, all right, and I throw it 0:21:42.480 --> 0:21:44.800 like as hard as I can. And it takes four 0:21:44.840 --> 0:21:47.480 bounces to get to the first base and I still 0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:50.600 got the out. Yeah, but it was still like four 0:21:50.640 --> 0:21:52.400 I was like, how do people throw that fall? Yeah? 0:21:54.480 --> 0:21:56.199 It was we were none of us were really athletes. 0:21:56.240 --> 0:21:57.080 It was like a charity game. 0:21:57.160 --> 0:21:58.240 Sure, I forget who it was. 0:21:58.440 --> 0:22:00.720 So I threw and I like through my arm. I 0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:02.800 threw my arm out. I was like, that's it. I'm done. 0:22:02.960 --> 0:22:05.040 And then I when it was our turn to go up, 0:22:05.119 --> 0:22:06.840 I batted first. They had me up first, and I 0:22:06.880 --> 0:22:08.600 was like, does a mistake. I was like, I can't 0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:10.760 go for I'm making a fool myself. I can't go first. Yeah, 0:22:10.800 --> 0:22:12.320 And I went and I just sat there and I 0:22:12.440 --> 0:22:15.359 I swung and missed hard on the first one, and 0:22:15.359 --> 0:22:17.879 then the second one I connected really well and I 0:22:17.880 --> 0:22:18.960 got thrown out though, But it. 0:22:18.920 --> 0:22:20.879 Was h it was it was it was fun. That 0:22:21.040 --> 0:22:22.600 was I ran full speed. That's the last time I 0:22:22.680 --> 0:22:23.200 ran full speed. 0:22:23.320 --> 0:22:27.840 Last time I did this, I did a charity for 0:22:28.200 --> 0:22:30.480 We're in the Jersey for Troy Palamalo where he did 0:22:30.960 --> 0:22:33.760 the Resilience Neighborhood where he you know, it's under served 0:22:33.720 --> 0:22:37.280 communities and Pittsburgh and stuff. So we're playing flag football. 0:22:37.280 --> 0:22:38.720 I'm like, oh, this is gonna be fun. Like it's 0:22:38.720 --> 0:22:41.840 flag football. It's me and Billy Gardell and you know 0:22:41.920 --> 0:22:44.760 some folks, folks from Pittsburgh, and I'm thinking, Okay, this 0:22:44.760 --> 0:22:49.280 would be cool. I show up. Ben Roethlisberger is playing quarterback, 0:22:50.760 --> 0:22:57.840 James Harrison, h Troy Polamalu, heinz ward Uh, Mike Tomlin's coaching, 0:22:58.000 --> 0:23:00.200 Like I'm like, what am I doing here? Like and 0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:02.119 I are looking at each other like this is ridiculous. 0:23:02.240 --> 0:23:03.480 So it's basically a real football game. 0:23:03.520 --> 0:23:06.040 It's a real and these guys are all competitors and 0:23:06.080 --> 0:23:08.440 they want to compete. They're they're professional anthetes for a 0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:10.760 reason that when I win, So I remember I go 0:23:10.840 --> 0:23:14.960 out the first thing Byron Leftwood Shoo's a great quarterback, 0:23:15.320 --> 0:23:19.119 is on quarterback and I'm on offense and James Harrison. 0:23:19.119 --> 0:23:21.359 Do you know who James Harrison is. He's a guitar 0:23:21.440 --> 0:23:26.239 player right for the Beatles. Okay, someone makes sense to this. 0:23:26.280 --> 0:23:29.720 We don't know each other. He is maybe five ten 0:23:30.320 --> 0:23:33.560 and he is like three hundred and like twenty eight 0:23:33.600 --> 0:23:35.040 pounds of just pure muscle. 0:23:35.200 --> 0:23:35.600 Amazing. 0:23:37.359 --> 0:23:40.520 I mean he is just a brickshit house. Yeah, I 0:23:40.560 --> 0:23:44.280 mean unbelievable. And he's mean and he lines up against Byron. 0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:47.879 This is a charity flag football game. He was I'm playing, 0:23:48.400 --> 0:23:50.200 I ain't playing. I'm not here to play and left, 0:23:50.200 --> 0:23:51.920 which is like, yo, dude, just calm down. I have 0:23:51.960 --> 0:23:53.600 a PICTUREL send a jiggy will put it up here. 0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:56.680 He's telling him he's not playing, He's going to hurt him. 0:23:56.920 --> 0:23:59.000 And I'm literally going like this like praying to God. 0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:00.480 I'm like, oh my god, this is the first play 0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:03.840 of the game. So I sprint down, I make a route. 0:24:03.960 --> 0:24:05.919 He throws the ball to me, and as I go 0:24:06.000 --> 0:24:08.040 to catch it, I know I gotta like pivot down, 0:24:08.359 --> 0:24:10.959 so I'm sliding down to catch it, and as I do, 0:24:11.000 --> 0:24:13.359 I see Troy Polamalu running towards me, and I just 0:24:13.480 --> 0:24:16.520 let go of everything and I just slide and the 0:24:16.560 --> 0:24:18.720 ball hits me in the chest. And I played one 0:24:18.800 --> 0:24:20.520 route and I was like, I'm done. I did it. 0:24:20.800 --> 0:24:22.840 I'm out of here. I don't need to tear an 0:24:22.840 --> 0:24:26.320 acl playing with the I mean, it was unbelievable to 0:24:26.359 --> 0:24:30.560 be like against professional but also to see like just 0:24:30.600 --> 0:24:33.560 we're not the same species. Their enormous human beings. 0:24:33.840 --> 0:24:36.800 The network hades play for something. 0:24:36.880 --> 0:24:38.720 It was me Q and we were on the same 0:24:38.760 --> 0:24:41.919 We were on Boomer Osiasin's team. It was Boomer Science 0:24:42.000 --> 0:24:45.480 team and somebody else's and it was a softball game and. 0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:49.159 Q is playing third. 0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:51.040 I think it was who's the most athletic of all 0:24:51.080 --> 0:24:53.320 you guys? By the way, would would it be Q? 0:24:54.560 --> 0:24:55.280 Nor? 0:24:55.600 --> 0:24:55.760 Well? 0:24:55.800 --> 0:24:58.280 Mar's pretty athletic. Yeah, Mar's probably in the best shape. 0:24:58.720 --> 0:25:02.440 Q's not bad either. Actually Sal played uh. Out of 0:25:02.480 --> 0:25:03.960 all of us, Sal played the most sport. He was 0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:05.320 a hockey player throughout. 0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:06.160 Okay. 0:25:07.160 --> 0:25:08.720 I think he didn't play in college. I think he 0:25:08.760 --> 0:25:10.600 was stopped in high school, but he was. He was 0:25:10.640 --> 0:25:14.080 a I think we were all equally okay, if an 0:25:14.080 --> 0:25:15.879 intramural we'd all be okay. 0:25:16.200 --> 0:25:17.920 It came down like a sports sport. I probably think 0:25:17.920 --> 0:25:19.000 it's between anybody, but. 0:25:27.960 --> 0:25:30.719 So we would, uh, we were playing, you know, we're 0:25:30.720 --> 0:25:33.160 playing the cherry softball game, and you know, somebody hits 0:25:33.200 --> 0:25:34.639 the ball and we're not paying attention. Everybody's talking to 0:25:34.640 --> 0:25:37.280 each other in the field. So Boomer is they hit 0:25:37.320 --> 0:25:40.280 the ball. Boomer's pitching, and it goes to Q and 0:25:40.680 --> 0:25:41.760 he thinks it's. 0:25:41.600 --> 0:25:42.359 A foul ball. 0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:44.359 So whatever, he just picked it up because he didn't 0:25:44.359 --> 0:25:46.639 realize it bounced in and then it rolled out. So 0:25:46.680 --> 0:25:48.600 he's like in right you know, like in between the 0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:50.240 third base and right fields. So he picks up and 0:25:50.320 --> 0:25:51.320 he's like, oh, and he just looks at it and 0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:53.840 he goes, he goes, let's throw it around the horn, 0:25:53.840 --> 0:25:57.400 and he throws it to the outfield, which basically that's 0:25:57.400 --> 0:26:01.920 not the horn, but it was fair and so you 0:26:02.040 --> 0:26:04.119 throw it to Murray who was in center field and 0:26:04.200 --> 0:26:06.640 mur and Murray guns it in to try to get 0:26:06.640 --> 0:26:08.040 them and the guy get he got it. 0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:10.120 It was Al Roker and you got like in the. 0:26:10.280 --> 0:26:12.639 He got it, like cannot get Al ro. 0:26:12.920 --> 0:26:15.720 Got it in the park home run because you threw 0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:21.040 it around the horn and Boomer what he's like yelled 0:26:21.040 --> 0:26:22.879 at him and it was so funny. 0:26:22.880 --> 0:26:24.800 We were like, oh my god. And I was like, 0:26:25.160 --> 0:26:26.879 I'm not playing. I'm not playing this game, right. 0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:28.359 So I took the love off and I just started 0:26:28.359 --> 0:26:31.160 going into the crowd, taking selfies, cheering, making fun. 0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:32.760 I was like, I'm not gonna get yelled out. I don't 0:26:32.720 --> 0:26:34.960 know what I'm doing. It's so funny. 0:26:35.240 --> 0:26:37.440 Yeah, when you compete, the thing, like when you get 0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:40.879 asked to do these like tournaments or sometimes like mixed 0:26:40.960 --> 0:26:45.280 with professional athletes and like you know, quote unquote celebrities 0:26:45.320 --> 0:26:49.240 whatever it is, entertainers, comedians, you don't realize. It's like no, no, no. 0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:51.680 They spent their whole life competing. That's what they do. 0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:53.679 And I remember I played in this Mario le Me 0:26:53.800 --> 0:26:56.600 fantasy camp one year and this one guy was kind 0:26:56.600 --> 0:26:58.920 of mouthing off a little bit. And Alex Kovalev, who 0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:01.800 is like one of the great hockey players in terms 0:27:01.880 --> 0:27:05.119 of just raw talent, incredible drummer, you'd love him. The 0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:09.359 pitter patter, Yeah, nobody hit a symbol like him. You 0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:11.159 could see he was just like he was listening to 0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:12.919 guy and he was watching me just go and you 0:27:12.960 --> 0:27:15.800 could just see a switch golf. He goes okay, And 0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:19.159 I mean this guy before everybody was just playing with 0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:21.520 each other. They take it down a notch, some guys 0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:24.040 like take it up a notch, and the people that 0:27:24.240 --> 0:27:26.360 take it up a notch gotta get got to get 0:27:26.359 --> 0:27:28.520 taught from the guys that take it down a notch, 0:27:28.760 --> 0:27:33.040 Like I'm gonna show you, and he just he he 0:27:33.440 --> 0:27:35.120 like did this move where he just poked it off 0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:37.000 him and then he dangled around him and he was 0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:39.040 baiting him and the guy's like, I'm gonna get it back, 0:27:39.080 --> 0:27:42.160 and he made him look like it. It was great. 0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:43.879 And then I was one time I went in the 0:27:43.880 --> 0:27:46.879 corner to get the puck and Mark Reki Hall of 0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:51.560 Fame hockey player for Boston for Pittsburgh. Great guy fucking 0:27:51.960 --> 0:27:55.159 drilled me into the boards. I mean straight up drilled 0:27:55.160 --> 0:27:57.679 me into the boards. And I just I think I 0:27:57.720 --> 0:28:03.600 made a selling years and I just, oh, and it's 0:28:03.640 --> 0:28:06.640 back to Giky. I'm on the ice and I look, 0:28:06.880 --> 0:28:08.639 you know, anytime you get hit, you look up, and 0:28:08.640 --> 0:28:11.720 it was wrecky, and I just I remember him laughing 0:28:12.080 --> 0:28:14.679 so fucking hard because he mustn't. He must have just 0:28:14.720 --> 0:28:17.000 been lining me up. He's going to because you're not 0:28:17.000 --> 0:28:19.840 thinking you're gonna get drilled and I got housed. 0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:22.600 Yeah, I don't know. I don't think I could. 0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:26.159 I was going to try out for I actually was 0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:28.600 quick and had hands. In one of my high school years, 0:28:28.640 --> 0:28:30.080 I was gonna try out to be a wide receiver on. 0:28:30.040 --> 0:28:33.720 The football team. And uh, I know it was funny. 0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:36.679 Is already laughing at the thought of that, because you're 0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:37.680 sitting to see what I was like now. 0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:39.840 But in high school I was quite slender and fast. 0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:44.640 I always had wheels and I was two days before 0:28:44.640 --> 0:28:45.720 I get hit by a cop car. 0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:46.440 Wait. 0:28:46.440 --> 0:28:47.800 Wait, I gotta hit by a cop car so I 0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:48.440 couldn't try out. 0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:50.040 And I was like, if there was ever a sign 0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:53.000 from God that you shouldn't be playing sports, he sends 0:28:53.000 --> 0:28:56.400 a police vehicle to mow me down in the neighborhood. 0:28:56.440 --> 0:28:57.440 How did you get hit by a cop car? 0:28:58.360 --> 0:28:59.880 I don't know what part of that you don't understand. 0:29:00.400 --> 0:29:01.680 I was in the street and the car hit me, 0:29:01.800 --> 0:29:02.440 and it was a cup. 0:29:02.360 --> 0:29:05.600 Car with the lights on or anything. Or was he 0:29:05.680 --> 0:29:06.280 going somewhere. 0:29:06.320 --> 0:29:07.680 No, No, he was just driving to the neighborhood. 0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:09.880 Driver through the neighbor were playing we were playing manhunt, 0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:12.800 and I ran between Uh, I ran out between bushes. 0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:14.440 I remember you and Charlottesville. 0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:18.440 Is that correcting the white fact check? It gotcha? Oh, 0:29:18.440 --> 0:29:20.640 it's wrong. Let's get into the questions. Let's do it. 0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:23.200 Ladies and gentlemen, thank you so much for submitting your 0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:25.520 query so we can help you because we clearly have 0:29:25.560 --> 0:29:26.120 it all together. 0:29:26.360 --> 0:29:27.920 Of course, Yes, we're two cool. 0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:30.720 Moms at two Cool Mom's Pod on Instagram and of course. 0:29:30.640 --> 0:29:32.160 The new Gmail account. 0:29:32.360 --> 0:29:35.800 Yes, two cool Moms pod at gmail dot com. That's right, 0:29:35.880 --> 0:29:37.959 send us video submissions all that stuff. Will play it, well, 0:29:38.040 --> 0:29:40.680 we'll watch it. We'll have integrate, integrate. We have so 0:29:40.720 --> 0:29:45.000 many more new things and technology, it's unbelievable. 0:29:45.040 --> 0:29:48.040 This is this is nice, This is very nice. 0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:49.040 This is not a folding chair. 0:29:49.080 --> 0:29:50.520 This isn't a folding chair. We stepped it up. 0:29:50.560 --> 0:29:52.920 This is a budget. 0:29:55.000 --> 0:29:56.080 Take us the right JIK all. 0:29:56.120 --> 0:29:58.560 Right, So we have e who hit us up on Instagram? 0:29:58.600 --> 0:29:59.440 Just e E. 0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:02.840 How do you keep your head up and anxiety low 0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:05.720 when dealing with financial struggles? Times are tough out here 0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:08.000 and is really getting me down? It's hard not to 0:30:08.000 --> 0:30:09.640 think about all the time and let it consume me. 0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:11.840 How do any advice on how to cope? 0:30:12.680 --> 0:30:14.959 I think you spend your money on the right things 0:30:15.160 --> 0:30:18.800 like coming out to laugh at live comedy shows tickets 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:22.760 on sale now, Joe gattoofficial dot com or punch Up Live. 0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:25.200 I think that's the best way that you could really 0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:25.840 spend your money. 0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:30.320 Yeah, bet or recreational drugs, alcohol, any of the things 0:30:30.320 --> 0:30:33.560 you shouldn't do when you're depressed actually make you feel better. 0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:36.600 It's crazy, Yeah, distraction, I would take it seriousness. I 0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:37.200 think you need to. 0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:42.640 Finances are tough because they they carry a lot of 0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:45.840 weight to them, either you know, if worrying about you 0:30:45.840 --> 0:30:48.320 can provide for yourself or your family if which is 0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:49.840 even harder too if you have other people. 0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:52.920 I think you've got to try to conserve. 0:30:52.640 --> 0:30:56.479 Where you can, which is the biggest part of it 0:30:56.520 --> 0:30:59.000 for everybody. Try to conserve where you can, Like, don't 0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:03.320 try not to you spend forever listlessly that's the word, 0:31:03.520 --> 0:31:04.880 you know, the word I meant. 0:31:05.880 --> 0:31:07.320 You just go back and rewind and play that like 0:31:07.320 --> 0:31:09.280 three times. 0:31:09.840 --> 0:31:12.120 I would try not to spend that, you know, but 0:31:12.160 --> 0:31:15.640 it is, it is hard, there's no I think you 0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:16.880 gotta find comfort and in that the whole. 0:31:16.880 --> 0:31:18.800 It sucks for a lot of people now too, right though, 0:31:19.080 --> 0:31:19.680 Like that's the thing. 0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:24.040 Yeah, inflation is I mean, look, anybody taught. Look I 0:31:24.080 --> 0:31:26.719 had a bit about not being not going grocery shopping 0:31:27.680 --> 0:31:29.240 back in the day because like, my wife will buy 0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:32.120 vegetables and I'll be like djor no, and that's that's 0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:34.080 if I was in charge. But you know, I go 0:31:34.200 --> 0:31:35.600 back home and I talked to my wife. She's like, 0:31:36.200 --> 0:31:39.719 our grocery bill is literally almost double than what it 0:31:39.800 --> 0:31:41.960 was just a few years ago, and she was going 0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:44.680 through everything. I was like, holy shit, that's pretty crazy, 0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:47.760 I mean, because we're just always eating out right. Yeah, 0:31:48.000 --> 0:31:51.840 So I don't know, but but I look, it's tough 0:31:51.880 --> 0:31:54.680 all around, I guess for everybody, right, and Jiggy, you 0:31:54.680 --> 0:31:55.240 don't have money? 0:31:55.520 --> 0:31:57.680 Sorry, what do you? What do you do? 0:31:57.800 --> 0:31:58.440 Like, what do you do? 0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:00.800 Every stack starts with one? 0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:04.080 There you go, starts with one. That's great. Yeah, you 0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:07.800 are probably one of the most frugal guys I know. Actually, yeah, 0:32:08.680 --> 0:32:09.479 how long have we all been? 0:32:09.520 --> 0:32:09.720 Torn? 0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:14.080 Three? Two? Two years? Two and one tune a bit? 0:32:14.360 --> 0:32:17.600 One meal, yep, one meal, a breakfast too, a meal 0:32:17.800 --> 0:32:18.880 by my boy t Rex. 0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:22.760 Let me get this one. 0:32:22.440 --> 0:32:25.720 Can't guys still comes it just the fucking flippers. He's 0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:26.880 like a dolphin run. 0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:30.280 Oh yeah, we'll take for the table. Let's get the 0:32:30.320 --> 0:32:30.880 cheese platter. 0:32:34.400 --> 0:32:38.200 I you know the thing I guess with Eddie struggle, 0:32:38.200 --> 0:32:40.480 it's always good not to be or try to feel 0:32:40.480 --> 0:32:43.400 like the responsibility solely on you and alone. So try 0:32:43.440 --> 0:32:46.640 to get help from your partner or your family whoever, 0:32:46.840 --> 0:32:49.440 you know, get a rich relative again, but more so 0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:51.360 like try not to be in the fight by yourself, 0:32:51.360 --> 0:32:54.880 like hopefully try to instill with your family, like to 0:32:54.880 --> 0:32:56.840 think about, Okay, let's have how we spend money, how 0:32:56.880 --> 0:32:58.160 can we save money, how. 0:32:58.040 --> 0:32:59.040 Can we make more money? 0:32:59.120 --> 0:33:02.040 You know, things like that. I think opportunity, think about opportunities. 0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:04.800 But it is that initial hole. Right, there's that initial hole. Look, 0:33:04.920 --> 0:33:08.720 I went through something during COVID, Right, COVID hit Weird 0:33:08.720 --> 0:33:13.240 Don't tour, and then I had, unfortunately just a challenger. 0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:18.400 But I unfortunately had just done a documentary on the 0:33:18.440 --> 0:33:21.760 Amazing Jonathan, which I did out of pocket, and then 0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:24.479 I was on the opening act and I had to 0:33:24.520 --> 0:33:27.360 invest money into that to finish it because it was 0:33:27.440 --> 0:33:30.200 dragging out. And then on top of that, COVID is hitting, 0:33:30.480 --> 0:33:33.600 and now I'm not working, so my savings just went wow. 0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:37.920 Just garbage. And so it was a great lesson in 0:33:38.000 --> 0:33:42.640 terms of, like to your point, reprioritizing everything, getting down 0:33:42.640 --> 0:33:44.440 to the bear essentials. What is it I need to 0:33:44.440 --> 0:33:47.760 take care of? Where can I playcate money? And you 0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:51.480 know you're doing the ball and the three cup game, 0:33:51.760 --> 0:33:55.080 and so I'm just shifting my priorities over here and 0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:58.760 building it all up and ultimately just comes down to discipline. 0:33:58.920 --> 0:34:02.840 Comes down to discipline and also a healthy mindset of saying, Okay, 0:34:03.400 --> 0:34:05.680 this is the situation now, but if it work hard 0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:08.560 today on this, this will not be the situation six 0:34:08.600 --> 0:34:10.719 months from now, it won't be the situation twelve months 0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:12.879 from now. I'll be a little better off and I'll 0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:15.080 you know, it starts with building a nest egg again, 0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:18.279 you know, and through hard work and discipline and a 0:34:18.360 --> 0:34:22.879 really prudent and patient wife, you know, I definitely got there. 0:34:22.960 --> 0:34:23.879 So it took a while. 0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:26.840 I think it's all about I think it's about what 0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:31.880 I said. Okay, that was great, but it was inspiring 0:34:31.880 --> 0:34:32.560 me to add to it. 0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:39.319 Sorry, please, I would say I think it's all about 0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:42.480 hustle too, because we've all been there and broke right too. Right, 0:34:42.520 --> 0:34:45.280 you know, I was eating you know, sharing tuna fish cans, 0:34:45.880 --> 0:34:48.240 you know, in my late twenties with with my roommate 0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:50.839 in Hollywood of all plan now right, yeah, yeah, living 0:34:50.880 --> 0:34:54.440 the dream. So I think it's like always, I mean, 0:34:54.480 --> 0:34:57.200 you got it. You're gonna have to your situation. You 0:34:57.280 --> 0:34:59.120 got to work hard to change it, yes, you know, 0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:02.200 and sometimes that's really hard to do and hopefully you're 0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:05.239 able to you know, rally yourself enough to do it. 0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:07.719 But again, like with a partner, it's all easier, I 0:35:07.960 --> 0:35:08.359 don't know. 0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:11.960 Without like, if you're in it by yourself, that's that's 0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:13.680 that's tough too. And I would say try not to 0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:16.719 fight any battle by yourself. Try to find either confidant friend, 0:35:16.760 --> 0:35:19.239 somebody that can help you out, or you know, even 0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:20.279 just to motivate you. 0:35:20.320 --> 0:35:21.840 Because there's a lot more people that are in that 0:35:21.920 --> 0:35:25.880 situation that are not absolutely you know. So uh, I 0:35:25.880 --> 0:35:28.120 think it's I think it's all about what you said. 0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:30.439 This is about what we all what we said, because 0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:37.680 it's two cool moms, not one cool mom plus one. 0:35:37.800 --> 0:35:39.440 That's it, man, I got it. I could divide to 0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:41.840 every now and then he comes out of the shadows. 0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:53.359 Next question comes from Kelly skip the mommy to mommy category. 0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:55.920 Whoammy mommy? 0:35:56.160 --> 0:36:00.080 Actually all right, so she says, Hi, Mommy's i'd be 0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:02.439 came a mother in March to a beautiful baby girl. 0:36:02.480 --> 0:36:05.040 I'm struggling to find things to do during the day 0:36:05.200 --> 0:36:07.440 that are entertaining with a three month old. I sit 0:36:07.520 --> 0:36:11.240 around a lot watching TV while she sits in her crib. 0:36:11.440 --> 0:36:14.640 I'm so bored. Any suggestions to help with the boredom 0:36:15.120 --> 0:36:16.480 or any ideas of things to do? 0:36:17.080 --> 0:36:20.400 Walk, yeah, throw, throw the kid, stroll. 0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:21.920 Getting out of the house is the number one thing. 0:36:22.040 --> 0:36:24.239 Yeah, no one thing hands out and changes everything. Three 0:36:24.239 --> 0:36:25.759 months and three months of year at that spot. Now 0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:27.040 we're about to be able to do that a little 0:36:27.040 --> 0:36:28.759 bit easier. Here's what I would do too. 0:36:29.160 --> 0:36:33.719 I I Bessie was so thought she was going to 0:36:33.800 --> 0:36:35.239 be a stroller mom. She wasn't. He became one of 0:36:35.280 --> 0:36:36.760 those carrier moms and. 0:36:36.640 --> 0:36:39.120 Having the baby on you when you're out it gives 0:36:39.120 --> 0:36:40.440 you a sense of secure because you know where the 0:36:40.480 --> 0:36:43.719 kid's at. So I would say, get yourself a carrier, like, uh, 0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:46.600 you know, an ergo or one of those. Just dropped 0:36:46.600 --> 0:36:48.359 a baby in there and you've got a baby beyond 0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:49.359 it and just's out there. 0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:52.080 Hammicking it like a zach Alfanakis and if you. 0:36:52.080 --> 0:36:53.520 Trip it fall it's like a baby airbag. 0:36:53.560 --> 0:36:54.439 Yeah it works nice. 0:36:54.440 --> 0:36:57.600 You know the kids are fine. Yeah, your beautiful baby 0:36:57.600 --> 0:36:58.920 girl has got she'll take care of it. 0:36:58.920 --> 0:36:59.640 She's got there. 0:37:01.160 --> 0:37:03.840 But no, I would say those like you feel you 0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:05.480 feel like connected with your kids still, and you're out 0:37:05.480 --> 0:37:07.440 and about and you still have your arms. You're not 0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:09.600 worried about that kind of stuff. But number one, get 0:37:09.600 --> 0:37:10.080 out of the house. 0:37:10.080 --> 0:37:10.640 I think you're right. 0:37:10.719 --> 0:37:13.759 Yeah, I think our favorite thing to do just and 0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:16.400 I we just throw live or can't in the stroller 0:37:16.440 --> 0:37:19.279 and just walk around our neighborhood and then the child's 0:37:19.360 --> 0:37:22.480 just seeing everything and receiving everything and all this information. 0:37:23.880 --> 0:37:26.600 But the greatest part about three months to six months 0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:30.360 to eight months to twelve months is that just the 0:37:30.440 --> 0:37:33.640 development of personality that you say, the smile turns into 0:37:33.640 --> 0:37:36.600 a laugh, the laugh turns into a murmur. The murmur 0:37:36.600 --> 0:37:37.560 tends when a first. 0:37:37.320 --> 0:37:38.320 Turns into a boo. 0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:42.640 Boo dad man, I tried, But I'm telling you all 0:37:42.760 --> 0:37:47.200 that is just that all those firsts are the greatest, 0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:49.320 they're the best, like first steps and everything. 0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:51.279 I think that's part of it too. 0:37:51.280 --> 0:37:53.280 It's a little bit of patience, like you're gonna feel 0:37:53.600 --> 0:37:55.480 you know, you're going to feel alone and board right now, 0:37:55.520 --> 0:37:58.000 because that's what the stage is really for you, Like 0:37:58.040 --> 0:38:00.360 you have to just be there with the kid. But 0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:03.759 getting around adults helps, to getting around other humans help. 0:38:03.840 --> 0:38:05.120 So just sitting in your home is not. 0:38:05.040 --> 0:38:08.080 Going to help your mental state or right right, right, yeah, yeah, 0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:11.200 you don't want to be the Google Gaga dad at 0:38:11.200 --> 0:38:13.800 the at the thing. But but not to throw it 0:38:13.840 --> 0:38:15.600 out there, but to throw it out there, like I know, 0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:20.160 just because my wife's profession, she's sleep training. So sleep 0:38:20.560 --> 0:38:23.160 after the three month mark is when children are able 0:38:23.200 --> 0:38:27.200 to get like on a sleep calendar, and it it 0:38:27.239 --> 0:38:31.040 does so much to the baby's mental health and just 0:38:31.840 --> 0:38:36.080 their bandwidth of you know, sleep is just so important 0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.520 to it to a young kid, to everybody, right, everybody, 0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:41.280 it's a big part of it. But the mental strain 0:38:41.320 --> 0:38:44.080 that it takes on parents because you're not getting to 0:38:44.160 --> 0:38:47.520 sleep because the child's not getting a sleep. So uh, 0:38:47.640 --> 0:38:50.200 it's called my dreamy sleeper. That's what my wife does, 0:38:50.320 --> 0:38:52.880 and she she's out there and she gets emotionally invested 0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:53.400 in all this stuff. 0:38:53.400 --> 0:38:55.560 But it is so basically we should they should talk 0:38:55.560 --> 0:38:56.080 to your wife, not. 0:38:56.120 --> 0:38:57.920 They should talk to my wife, not me, but but 0:38:58.239 --> 0:39:01.239 being privy to it, now I understand like just how 0:39:01.400 --> 0:39:06.320 much how much of you know a baby's health dynamic 0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:09.319 is rooted in just getting enough sleep, which is something 0:39:09.360 --> 0:39:12.360 you take for granted, but getting them on that proper calendar. 0:39:12.400 --> 0:39:14.280 So her name's Jessica Burn. It's my dream of sleeper. 0:39:14.320 --> 0:39:16.600 I'm just throwing out there just because organically we're doing 0:39:16.640 --> 0:39:20.319 this and she is emotionally invested with every client. I've 0:39:20.360 --> 0:39:22.879 seen her cry after calls and stuff and she gets 0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:25.279 really really annoy it and very proud of her about it. 0:39:25.320 --> 0:39:28.640 So that's great. Yeah. So and now because speaking about 0:39:28.640 --> 0:39:29.400 our frugal. 0:39:29.120 --> 0:39:31.279 But she puts babies to sleep, and I put you 0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:35.359 to sleep, which you can see Steve Burn live at 0:39:35.400 --> 0:39:40.560 Punch Up Comedy. What is it it's fresh Towels dot Net. 0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:51.040 Yeah, I would say I would agree with that because sleep, 0:39:51.719 --> 0:39:54.200 all of it is just like it's all new, it's 0:39:54.200 --> 0:39:56.680 all new, and you can't help but over idalyze everything 0:39:56.680 --> 0:39:58.520 to you like I'm just sitting here with again, like 0:39:58.560 --> 0:39:59.080 it's all new. 0:39:59.080 --> 0:40:00.719 You'll you'll you'll get but. 0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:03.640 Even oh yo, yeah, but for the young lady. First off, 0:40:03.680 --> 0:40:08.040 congratulations on having a baby. Second, enjoy every second of it, 0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:11.360 because that was the one thing everybody always told me, 0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:14.839 like like older folks, any advice, but they're like, enjoy 0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:17.440 because it goes by so quick, and you think, oh okay, 0:40:17.480 --> 0:40:19.799 And even on those long days where like the baby 0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:21.560 won't stop crying, he's just like, oh my god, well 0:40:21.560 --> 0:40:23.360 you just eat or whatever. How many diapers am I 0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:27.000 going to change today? And you're you're foggy yourself, like 0:40:27.280 --> 0:40:29.280 you think, oh god, I got to get through today. 0:40:29.560 --> 0:40:30.759 Just like it is. 0:40:31.080 --> 0:40:33.360 It all does just go by so quickly. And I 0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:35.480 can't believe my daughter's in junior high school now and 0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:38.280 my son is like going on. It's like this is nuts, 0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:41.319 this is crazy. And I miss the days of taking 0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:43.160 my daughter and just chucking her up to the ceiling 0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:44.279 like catching her. 0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:45.440 You're doing now you throw your back out. 0:40:45.560 --> 0:40:48.480 Oh I wouldn't even be be eating out of a straw. Yeah, 0:40:48.520 --> 0:40:53.400 So enjoy changing your typers. Enjoy every second because it 0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:55.840 does fly. It does fly, goes by so quick. 0:40:55.960 --> 0:40:57.440 Yeah, And I know that's the last thing you want 0:40:57.440 --> 0:40:58.759 to hear right now too, because she's like, I heye, 0:40:58.760 --> 0:40:59.000 my life. 0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:00.919 It's miserable. I'm sitting here with this dumb baby that's 0:41:00.920 --> 0:41:02.800 crying all the time. It's in this room, in this 0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:03.680 stumb animal. 0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:06.279 All I have is this podcast, and this guy's telling 0:41:06.320 --> 0:41:06.920 me to enjoy it. 0:41:07.000 --> 0:41:08.719 I just want to apart myself with the fame. 0:41:08.760 --> 0:41:09.600 My nipples are sore. 0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:14.160 Yeah, I got sore nipples. I know, we know, we know, 0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:16.040 but we're telling you you got this. 0:41:16.440 --> 0:41:16.960 You got this. 0:41:17.040 --> 0:41:17.880 Yeah, great. 0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:21.560 Power through all right, I think we got time for 0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:21.920 one more? 0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:26.080 All right, more question. This one comes from Maria. She says, Hi, 0:41:26.120 --> 0:41:28.200 cool moms. My boyfriend and I have been together for 0:41:28.280 --> 0:41:31.080 ten years and live in a house we bought together. 0:41:31.200 --> 0:41:32.200 Ooh, spice it up. 0:41:32.360 --> 0:41:35.000 He wants to get married sooner than later, but I 0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:37.080 want to wait until we're a bit older and can 0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:40.360 afford a wedding. For context, we're about we're both twenty 0:41:40.360 --> 0:41:43.280 five and twenty six, and each have well over fifty 0:41:43.480 --> 0:41:46.640 family members, meaning that if we had a wedding only, 0:41:47.080 --> 0:41:49.360 the minimum we'd have is one hundred or two hundred people. 0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:52.480 I've grown up with a large family weddings and all 0:41:52.560 --> 0:41:54.239 my cousins. It's really important to me that I have 0:41:54.280 --> 0:41:56.480 everyone there. I wanted to be a party. I never 0:41:56.560 --> 0:41:59.439 envisioned my wedding to be small and intimate. I would 0:41:59.440 --> 0:42:00.960 like your advice, what should we do. 0:42:01.000 --> 0:42:02.920 I want to write the boyfriend and just go run. 0:42:04.600 --> 0:42:07.560 Look they've been dating since they were fifteen, they have 0:42:07.640 --> 0:42:14.440 a house together, they're twenty four. I mean this is yeah. 0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:19.880 I mean I'm all for not I'm all look, I 0:42:19.960 --> 0:42:24.359 think I've been very transparent. I'm all for garnering experiences 0:42:24.440 --> 0:42:27.520 early on in your life. It looks like, you know, 0:42:27.560 --> 0:42:31.080 the record's pressed, there's we're not changing tunes here. So 0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:34.560 for the young lady, I would just say, you know, 0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:39.600 the wedding is as important as, or not as important 0:42:39.600 --> 0:42:41.439 as to her. It sounds like it is. She wants 0:42:41.440 --> 0:42:44.759 everybody there. But I've noticed a trend lately there's a 0:42:44.760 --> 0:42:47.520 lot more young folks that are getting married at like 0:42:47.560 --> 0:42:50.120 the courthouse. They're going to Vegas, and then they're throwing 0:42:50.200 --> 0:42:53.759 themselves a party, which is the least less expensive around. 0:42:53.880 --> 0:42:55.640 And then I think it's kind of smarter, to be 0:42:55.640 --> 0:42:57.600 honest with you. I think had my wife and I 0:42:57.719 --> 0:42:59.840 gone back in time, I think we should have just 0:42:59.880 --> 0:43:02.040 go on to Vegas and just done it, and then 0:43:02.239 --> 0:43:04.160 throwing a party for everybody and then we could go 0:43:04.239 --> 0:43:06.840 on a trip somewhere and the same amount of money. 0:43:07.080 --> 0:43:13.759 Yeah, yeah, yeah, So her question is what they just 0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:19.960 It sounds like the boyfriend it's basically, should they wait 0:43:20.000 --> 0:43:21.680 till they can afford the wedding. 0:43:22.120 --> 0:43:22.879 Or just have a wedding? 0:43:22.880 --> 0:43:23.040 Again? 0:43:23.200 --> 0:43:24.000 Should they wait too. 0:43:24.080 --> 0:43:26.000 They can afford the wedding and do it the big 0:43:26.040 --> 0:43:26.719 way that they have to do. 0:43:26.840 --> 0:43:29.879 They're together, they're living together in the same house, they're 0:43:29.880 --> 0:43:33.160 already living in sin Yeah, I mean, like what does 0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:35.440 she worry about? Like, so just wait until you could 0:43:35.440 --> 0:43:37.120 have the wedding that you want. If you're not rushing 0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:39.640 to be married, if you are in a rush to 0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:42.080 get married to either start having children because you don't 0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:44.239 want to be you know, at a wedlock, or you 0:43:44.280 --> 0:43:47.080 want to make sure that you're all together, or if 0:43:47.120 --> 0:43:49.439 it's like because you want to buy a different house 0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:52.919 together or progress the relationship, that's a different story. That's 0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:55.799 only only you could answer from the outside perspective of us. 0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:57.560 That's all we could do. And I'm saying is like, 0:43:57.680 --> 0:43:59.080 wait till you can have the wedding you want. 0:43:59.280 --> 0:44:02.000 Why whatever the priority is to do that? 0:44:02.200 --> 0:44:04.520 Yeah, yeah, it seems like it seems like she has 0:44:04.520 --> 0:44:06.839 her heart set on having the wedding. Because then another 0:44:06.920 --> 0:44:08.600 thing too is just she rushes into this marriage with 0:44:08.600 --> 0:44:09.760 this guy after ten years. 0:44:09.920 --> 0:44:11.680 You don't want to rush into anything, you know. 0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:13.440 I mean you would have goten like nothing like a 0:44:13.480 --> 0:44:14.640 decade to see if it's for you. 0:44:15.600 --> 0:44:16.719 Yeah, trying it on. 0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:21.319 But I also think, you know, this is an old 0:44:21.360 --> 0:44:24.880 school mentality. But it's so I went into it with 0:44:24.960 --> 0:44:28.080 somebody saying, hey, it's her day, it's her day. If 0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:30.759 she wants that song to dance, the do that, you know, 0:44:30.800 --> 0:44:33.279 because no guy dreams about his wedding day. I've never 0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:35.400 I never went to bed at night thinking about my 0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:39.240 wedding day. I thought about on the other side, diving 0:44:39.360 --> 0:44:45.120 or I don't know your wedding night, hio. But I 0:44:45.120 --> 0:44:47.719 think it's ultimately, what what do you want? Make that 0:44:47.760 --> 0:44:51.200 the priority and pursue that. But yeah, it sounds like 0:44:51.280 --> 0:44:54.759 the don't make the family priority. Don't make you know. 0:44:55.200 --> 0:44:56.759 Here's the thing, though, she's got a lot of money 0:44:56.800 --> 0:44:58.840 on the street right now. She said, it's been a hamley. 0:44:58.920 --> 0:45:01.200 She's been non big family, She's been to a lot 0:45:01.200 --> 0:45:01.560 of weddings. 0:45:01.560 --> 0:45:03.160 She's looking to get someone that in return, she wants 0:45:03.160 --> 0:45:05.240 the boomerang effect, you know, the boomerang gift. 0:45:05.600 --> 0:45:07.719 Right, that's why already keeps the journal. Would you throw 0:45:07.800 --> 0:45:11.000 to me? Throw it right back to you? Two fifty 0:45:11.280 --> 0:45:13.239 two fifty back to you? What was it? Fifty dollars 0:45:13.239 --> 0:45:15.360 your cheap fuck here it is, you know what I mean? Like, 0:45:15.400 --> 0:45:16.040 that's what it is. 0:45:16.239 --> 0:45:18.719 So she probably is thinking that too, like that's a 0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:22.080 big opportunity to actually get a good run up, get 0:45:22.120 --> 0:45:24.040 some money to get started with the. 0:45:23.800 --> 0:45:25.960 Next thing that they want to do. So, yeah, you know, 0:45:26.000 --> 0:45:29.000 if you're not spending all of it on the wedding where. 0:45:28.880 --> 0:45:30.680 You get married at your house, Yeah, do that. Yeah, 0:45:30.760 --> 0:45:32.919 I went to one of my buddies, did that. That's 0:45:32.960 --> 0:45:35.960 what too. Yeah, Jiggy, you could do it at your apartment. 0:45:35.640 --> 0:45:37.680 Yeah, jig could actually you know what, And I am 0:45:37.920 --> 0:45:40.839 I will marry you guys because I'm a licensed practitioner. 0:45:42.080 --> 0:45:43.120 That's definitely not what it's called. 0:45:43.120 --> 0:45:43.960 That's not what it's called. 0:45:43.960 --> 0:45:46.200 But I am almost It was just a route. 0:45:46.600 --> 0:45:48.319 I'm apprecier, a preacher pass. 0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:49.320 You got ordained. 0:45:49.320 --> 0:45:52.520 I'm ordained, yah, because I married mer minister minister, Yeah, 0:45:52.560 --> 0:45:54.960 you got ordained, sal got ordained. He married me and 0:45:55.160 --> 0:45:59.000 Bessie and then me I married uh Murr and Molsa. 0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:01.400 That was and I was also his best man. I 0:46:01.440 --> 0:46:03.520 wore a lot of hats that day, a lot of hat. 0:46:03.680 --> 0:46:06.280 Or you did my ceremony and the best man. 0:46:06.160 --> 0:46:07.840 I did the both. Wow. So I said, you have 0:46:07.840 --> 0:46:08.680 the rings to yes, I do. 0:46:13.400 --> 0:46:14.759 You were sitting you were waiting on that one. 0:46:14.760 --> 0:46:15.040 I was. 0:46:15.120 --> 0:46:15.959 I was, that's great. 0:46:16.960 --> 0:46:18.840 Did you I could see you being a man of 0:46:18.840 --> 0:46:21.000 the cloth. Are you a fellow minister? 0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:24.520 I was ordained because I did this reality show on 0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:26.480 an NBC called The Real Wedding Crashes and I had 0:46:26.520 --> 0:46:28.560 to marry somebody on the air. So I did that, 0:46:28.600 --> 0:46:31.840 and then my buddy Dave Boland, who won two Cups 0:46:31.840 --> 0:46:35.680 with the Chicago black Hawks, asked me to do his, 0:46:35.680 --> 0:46:39.799 his wedding and their divorce now so that I'm one for. 0:46:39.719 --> 0:46:42.480 One, one for one, yeah, one in one or one one. 0:46:42.880 --> 0:46:45.600 I'm one, not one for one. You're right. I'm who's 0:46:45.640 --> 0:46:46.399 the sports guy? 0:46:46.480 --> 0:46:49.319 Now? Who's the sports guy? Now? One and one on 0:46:49.360 --> 0:46:51.360 your way to the the analytics guy. That's right. I 0:46:51.960 --> 0:46:53.959 run the numbers. I'm the guy that sludge you the sheet. 0:46:53.960 --> 0:46:55.399 And you can be like yeah, this is his four 0:46:55.480 --> 0:46:56.520 hundred and thirty seven of them. R. 0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:02.920 Yeah. It's a great responsibility to do that though, because 0:47:02.920 --> 0:47:05.040 then you wonder how personal do I get, and then 0:47:05.120 --> 0:47:09.960 how regimented, and you know, like stick to stick to 0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:12.239 the greatest hits. You don't want to think outside the 0:47:12.280 --> 0:47:14.720 box and go crazy here, so uh yeah. 0:47:14.560 --> 0:47:15.759 But you want to also make it like kind of 0:47:15.800 --> 0:47:17.719 feel tailored. I remember when Sala did ours, which was 0:47:17.760 --> 0:47:20.000 good because Sala did ours. 0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:21.960 And he gave us like homework. 0:47:22.440 --> 0:47:24.480 He met with Bessie Barry, he met with both of us, 0:47:24.520 --> 0:47:25.880 and he met with Bessy bars I met with me, 0:47:26.120 --> 0:47:27.600 and then he asked us a couple of questions to 0:47:27.640 --> 0:47:28.280 fill out. 0:47:28.280 --> 0:47:29.960 And that nom which was cool because it makes you 0:47:30.000 --> 0:47:32.400 think in a different way. And he just said it 0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:32.640 was cool. 0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:34.600 He said, pour yourself a cup of coffee, sit down, 0:47:34.680 --> 0:47:36.080 just write this when you try out. And he told us, 0:47:36.120 --> 0:47:37.200 you know, just have you know a couple of you 0:47:37.320 --> 0:47:39.080 just read read this and just write whatever you want. 0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:41.000 Some of the sweetest stuff came out of these prompts 0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:41.600 that he had. 0:47:42.239 --> 0:47:43.520 And then it was met. When I had to marry 0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:44.040 Murr and. 0:47:44.080 --> 0:47:47.839 Melissa, I honestly didn't Normalissa that well, you know, so 0:47:47.920 --> 0:47:50.160 I we went to dinner and we just sat down 0:47:50.160 --> 0:47:51.239 and we told it. It was like one of the nicest 0:47:51.239 --> 0:47:53.000 things because you're actually trying to get to know somebody 0:47:53.000 --> 0:47:54.879 and right right, yeah, And I knew the story from 0:47:54.960 --> 0:47:56.600 the perspective being with my best friend, but I wanted 0:47:56.640 --> 0:47:59.320 to make sure the wedding had about. 0:47:58.440 --> 0:48:00.640 Her too, like I feel of her too, because I was. 0:48:00.600 --> 0:48:02.680 More of the best man than the preacher, you know 0:48:02.719 --> 0:48:05.880 what I mean, like the pastor so. But that was 0:48:05.920 --> 0:48:08.719 It's really it's a cool experience as somebody when you're 0:48:08.719 --> 0:48:12.320 trying to get to know people that you're the conversation 0:48:12.520 --> 0:48:14.440 leans differently, you know, it's like, tell. 0:48:14.239 --> 0:48:16.439 Me about you know, what do you think about love? 0:48:16.640 --> 0:48:17.720 Like it was a question I asked. 0:48:18.000 --> 0:48:19.799 I wouldn't ask a dinner when we were just out 0:48:19.800 --> 0:48:21.759 as friends, being like, you know, it's like it's it 0:48:21.840 --> 0:48:24.160 was pretty interesting to get to know somebody fast tracked 0:48:24.160 --> 0:48:24.359 like that. 0:48:24.400 --> 0:48:26.520 And Murr's wedding was the only wedding you had ever 0:48:26.560 --> 0:48:29.560 been to where there was a merch standards. Yes, yes, 0:48:30.239 --> 0:48:33.799 just murried, just Murray, you know, just just Murray, just 0:48:33.920 --> 0:48:35.359 Murried t shirts, just Murky. 0:48:35.960 --> 0:48:39.040 We got Murried he doesn't have that T shirt. You 0:48:39.040 --> 0:48:39.480 should have it. 0:48:39.560 --> 0:48:39.960 Call him. 0:48:40.040 --> 0:48:43.120 It'll be up on tomorrow on his site. God bless him, 0:48:43.160 --> 0:48:45.200 but get murdered. Yeah, so it was. 0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:49.840 I really liked the whole process of being It is 0:48:49.880 --> 0:48:51.759 a lot of pressure to be the minister, to be 0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:56.680 the pastor of it because like you're like it, the 0:48:57.120 --> 0:49:00.440 whole vibe of the ceremony part. 0:49:00.800 --> 0:49:01.839 Really it really does. 0:49:01.920 --> 0:49:03.719 It does like you have to serve up the right thing. 0:49:03.880 --> 0:49:06.359 So I don't know if I would do it again. 0:49:06.800 --> 0:49:09.480 Yeah, yeah, if you're asked to do it again, if 0:49:09.800 --> 0:49:11.600 your best friend asked you, of course you're gonna do it. 0:49:12.080 --> 0:49:13.800 Okay, you're gonna get married again? What are you renewing 0:49:13.840 --> 0:49:14.920 your vows? 0:49:15.640 --> 0:49:15.759 What? 0:49:15.920 --> 0:49:17.759 What are you on an anniversary? You're on a big one 0:49:17.760 --> 0:49:21.920 coming up or now? We just had one. June sixteenth, Ah, 0:49:22.280 --> 0:49:23.160 was our anniversary. 0:49:23.320 --> 0:49:28.280 Was our eleventh via a wedding, but forty seven, fifteen 0:49:29.200 --> 0:49:32.000 fifteen all together and again, like we were sitting there 0:49:32.000 --> 0:49:33.480 and we always forget our annivers Well. 0:49:33.440 --> 0:49:34.400 You're married eleven years. 0:49:34.560 --> 0:49:38.040 Yeah, we're married the same year. No wait, wait you're 0:49:38.480 --> 0:49:41.839 hold on wait no, thirteen years. Yeah, sorry, I'm way 0:49:41.880 --> 0:49:45.200 off ed that thirteen years and fifteen together, thirteen years 0:49:45.280 --> 0:49:46.920 and then seventeen together. 0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:49.239 Thirteen and seventeen together. Yeah, okay, you know what, guys, 0:49:49.440 --> 0:49:51.080 we'll take it. I'll do him a favor because his 0:49:51.120 --> 0:49:52.080 wife watches the podcast. 0:49:52.160 --> 0:49:56.200 Let's redo this. Three two one. You just had an anniversary, 0:49:56.200 --> 0:49:59.560 didn't keep it. I've been veryed for you. Do not 0:49:59.600 --> 0:50:02.080 really sell thirteen years. You've been married for thirteen years. 0:50:02.440 --> 0:50:03.359 It was eleven. 0:50:05.880 --> 0:50:08.640 Because I'm like, oh, my daughter's my daughter's twelve, and 0:50:08.640 --> 0:50:09.360 we got married. 0:50:09.440 --> 0:50:11.000 We got married, my daughter was at my wedding. 0:50:11.040 --> 0:50:14.120 We were married a year, we had our daughter a 0:50:14.200 --> 0:50:17.279 year afterwards. Yes, oh, you got right to business, right, Well, 0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:18.640 we've been together for four years. 0:50:18.800 --> 0:50:22.320 Yeah, there's no my dreamy sleep for that night. Yeah, 0:50:22.360 --> 0:50:25.719 that's right, that's right. 0:50:26.840 --> 0:50:28.200 My sleep number sixty nine. 0:50:28.280 --> 0:50:32.399 Hey, thank you for listening to two Cool Moms. It's 0:50:32.440 --> 0:50:34.560 been wonderful sitting with everybody helping. 0:50:34.440 --> 0:50:36.879 The people, because I think it's about helping the people. Yes, 0:50:37.120 --> 0:50:38.279 we appreciate you too. 0:50:38.320 --> 0:50:40.840 Cool Moms Pod at gmail dot com to send your 0:50:40.880 --> 0:50:43.839 queries for us to help you, and also follow us 0:50:43.840 --> 0:50:46.560 on Instagram at two Cool Mom's Pod. Yes he's Steve 0:50:46.600 --> 0:50:48.560 Byrne he's on tour. You can find his tickets at 0:50:48.920 --> 0:50:49.480 punch Up. 0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:52.760 Yeah, and then you're at Canoli Productions. 0:50:52.920 --> 0:50:57.680 No website, you go, he's punch Why he's not my show? 0:50:57.719 --> 0:51:01.040 Up to your show, Steve, I've got punch Up. What 0:51:01.080 --> 0:51:02.040 does that even mean. 0:51:01.880 --> 0:51:04.560 That we'll just google punch Up. All these comics are 0:51:04.600 --> 0:51:06.920 on Okay, yeah, all these comics are on except for 0:51:06.920 --> 0:51:08.960 some of my best friends that I told about it. 0:51:09.200 --> 0:51:09.960 I'm not gonna say. 0:51:10.160 --> 0:51:13.080 I'm at Joe Gattoofficial dot com because I can remember 0:51:13.080 --> 0:51:13.960 the website name. 0:51:15.040 --> 0:51:16.640 No, it used to be upgraded. 0:51:16.680 --> 0:51:17.960 Oh, it's all under one house. 0:51:17.840 --> 0:51:20.640 Under one house, Joe Gottofficial dot com. Come on through, 0:51:20.880 --> 0:51:21.399 there we go. 0:51:21.560 --> 0:51:24.400 Well, yeah, on tour, grinding the new Hour, I'm getting 0:51:24.400 --> 0:51:27.239 close to film my new one, and on occasion, i'm 0:51:27.280 --> 0:51:28.560 sure you and I will be hitting the road. 0:51:28.600 --> 0:51:30.560 You should come out. It'll be fun. Jiggy's gonna be 0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:32.759 there featuring March your Guards again. 0:51:32.920 --> 0:51:36.480 Well, yeah, it's a pass. Yeah, I know, I know. 0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:40.160 When I come, I'll be buying dinner