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Speaker 1: It's the French Show. Good morning everyone, Good morning puberty

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Speaker 1: or something drop soon? Don't worry. Oh my gosh, do

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Speaker 1: I get to go through the whole thing again. We're

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Speaker 1: like a strong wind comes by and then I get excited?

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Speaker 1: Is that? God? What is going on with me today?

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Speaker 1: Have allergies are bad? I was reading this article about

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Speaker 1: what Americans are excited to have again post pandemic and

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Speaker 1: what Americans haven't missed. So what are some things that

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Speaker 1: come to mind for you? Is that you're excited to

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Speaker 1: have again, making it as strangest in the bar. Well,

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Speaker 1: you didn't make the list. Oh, I didn't know you

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Speaker 1: stop that a very funny I did, like responsible adult.

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Speaker 1: Well I know you didn't. You just had a boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: That was the only reason you weren't doing it. By

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Speaker 1: the way, I hadn't put this together, Christy, but when

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Speaker 1: the pandemic ended and he got a vaccine, he dumped.

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Speaker 1: I feel great about myself right now. And now he's

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Speaker 1: putting your email in like sports emails. Someone's doing that.

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Speaker 1: That's him. I thought it was you. Wait what happened?

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Speaker 1: I keep getting random like sports emails, like MLB updates

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Speaker 1: and like NFL stuff, and someone keeps signing me up

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Speaker 1: for all this sports stuff, and I think it's Rufio,

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Speaker 1: not me. Um Fred, isn't you no dumb not? Americans

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Speaker 1: are excited to have a pre pandemic morning routine again,

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Speaker 1: returning to that um, thirty four percent of Americans are

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Speaker 1: excited to wear makeup again, Oh not saying which, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say. I didn't think there were too

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Speaker 1: I didn't think anybody was too excited about wearing makeup again,

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Speaker 1: chatting with co workers and friends in person. Friend, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I never stopped talking to the co workers that I

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Speaker 1: the ones I didn't remember. I wasn't missing um returning

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Speaker 1: to daily transportation. I mean, we are happy that you

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Speaker 1: return to daily transportation because you know, we sort of

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Speaker 1: for ours, you know, sort of ability to eat food

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Speaker 1: and things. But I don't know how many other people

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Speaker 1: not missed small talk, looking presentable. Well that's weird because

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Speaker 1: apparently we've missed maka and wearing nice clothes, but we

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Speaker 1: haven't missed looking presentable. What the movie theaters, crowded stores

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Speaker 1: and traffic crowd How did mine not make the list?

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Speaker 1: Like it's hard being single and you can't talk to

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Speaker 1: a restaurant. Now I could finally do that. That's what

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Speaker 1: that doesn't necessarily mean you you stick your tongue on

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Speaker 1: it's unfortunate. But Christy's personal list I think is a

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Speaker 1: little bit different than the resident What did you miss? Fred? Um,

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Speaker 1: But I guess I guess i'd like to believe that

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00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 1: I would take the strong connection, the thing that's the

424
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:41,520
Speaker 1: thing that just checks the boxes and falls together, you know,

425
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 1: comes together in the right way. I guess I would

426
00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 1: like to believe I would take that over dating a

427
00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: hundred people again, yeah, whatever whatever the number is. I

428
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 1: was with my high school sweetheart for five years, and

429
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 1: it took us going to separate colleges because he didn't

430
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 1: get into the college I went to for me to

431
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 1: realize that there was other things out there. And then

432
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 1: I wasn't as into it anymore more as I thought

433
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 1: I was now. I loved him very much, but the

434
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 1: distance was what made me realize that it wasn't my

435
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,680
Speaker 1: forever thing. So, I mean, it doesn't sound like she's

436
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,399
Speaker 1: had a moment except for looking at her friends. Doesn't

437
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 1: look like it's been this moment where she's like lived

438
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: on her own or you know, there's more, there's more

439
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,919
Speaker 1: to life. I don't know what Trish, good morning, Welcome

440
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,679
Speaker 1: to the friend Show. How are you? I'm good? How

441
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,680
Speaker 1: are you guys? Tris So this woman, just to recap

442
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,520
Speaker 1: if you're just tuning in, Sophie has really only been

443
00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 1: with one guy through high school and college and into

444
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,239
Speaker 1: her twenties, and she's sort of wondering now, even though

445
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: everything's great, she's wondering, you know, is there more to life?

446
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 1: Should she kind of cut on this and move on

447
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 1: and try other things to make sure? Big risk? Right? Yeah? So,

448
00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 1: I personally, I've never related more to a stair go

449
00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:52,360
Speaker 1: in my life. So. I married my high school sweetheart

450
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 1: last year. But when we were together all through high

451
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 1: school and college and everything, and about about a year

452
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 1: two in the college, I started having the exact thought

453
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 1: she had, and he didn't the same exact situation, and

454
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: granted my situation, we had some friends I really like,

455
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 1: are you sure this is what you want? You know,

456
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 1: because we were the only people that we had fully

457
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 1: been with as well, and so in college we took

458
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 1: a month's break because I was like, you know, I

459
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: need to do this, this is what I want, even

460
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 1: though I loved him, And as soon as we broke up,

461
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: like I couldn't do it. I thought, this is what

462
00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: I wanted. I wanted to explore, and once you loved

463
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: somebody like that, I could not do it. And we

464
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: ended up getting back together and he was so glad

465
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 1: to have me back, but it took me personally, just

466
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: from her side, it took me years to forgive myself

467
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: because I broke his heart, Like this really has to

468
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 1: be what she wants, because I mean, this is my husband. Now.

469
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 1: We just had our ten months anniversary, our actually our

470
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: one year is on our ten year anniversary degree. But

471
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,680
Speaker 1: I just I know exactly how she's feeling, and for me,

472
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: at least, it wasn't worth it. It was just the

473
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: pressure of friends in the media, and as soon as

474
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: I had that opportunity, I couldn't do it. I thought

475
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: for sure, like this is what I want and I'm

476
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 1: gonna do and I could not do it. I was

477
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: saying before myself after if she if she dumps this guy, um,

478
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 1: he you know, it could be irreconcirable. I mean, you

479
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:21,880
Speaker 1: reconcile whatever the word is. I can't reconcile. You reconcile,

480
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:25,560
Speaker 1: your reconciling. There you go. I feel like I feel

481
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:31,719
Speaker 1: like Paulina today and I was like him. He did

482
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: take me back. He was so happy because it was

483
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: the same situation. He never thought about that, he never

484
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: wanted that. But it took me, I'm not kidding, years

485
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 1: to forgive myself for making his heart. Can I ask

486
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 1: a question, Trish? Absolutely does he does. He kind of

487
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,880
Speaker 1: use that sometimes when you guys have like little arguments

488
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 1: or like if he needs something done. Remember when remember

489
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 1: when you broke my heart? What a kid? That's what

490
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: she need? Like, No, you did what you wanted to do,

491
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,640
Speaker 1: but he was just for him to have her back.

492
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: And that's how I thank you so much. I really

493
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: appreciate you calling and Sharon. Have a great deal. Okay,

494
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 1: you too, Love you guys, Love you too. Hey, Sam,

495
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 1: good morning, Way, good morning, goody, Sam, So you've been

496
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: through this thing too. You've been to the thing where

497
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 1: you dated one person for a long time and maybe

498
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,919
Speaker 1: you know, didn't have a lot of experience and kind

499
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: of wondered, like what else is out there? Yeah, one

500
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 1: hundred percent. I'm actually the same age as the caller,

501
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,600
Speaker 1: and my husband and I have been together since high school.

502
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: I went to college, he did it, but we were

503
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 1: still togethers who's there? Um? And actually even just recently,

504
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: like I've had those same exact thoughts, and all I

505
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: can tell her is that if she has someone who

506
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: absolutely loved her and is there for her, it is

507
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,239
Speaker 1: not worth looking to see what else is out there. Um.

508
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 1: I think Rufio kind of touched on it right, like

509
00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 1: with dating, naps and all this stuff, and it's the

510
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 1: ghost scene and all that, Like if you have someone

511
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 1: who is there and loves you unconditionally. I totally understand

512
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: the time patient and having friends that are you know,

513
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: your age, so in their twenties maybe early thirties, they're

514
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 1: not married and they're going out and doing all this stuff. Um.

515
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: What really worked for us was just trying to spice

516
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: things up a little bit, like doing you know, going

517
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 1: out and maybe like doing like type of role play

518
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: stuff where like your strangers like kind of stuff like that,

519
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 1: like that chapter for I get, Yeah, like totally opened

520
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: new doors and it kind of gave you that that

521
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: new feeling again. Um and like the previous collar said,

522
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: you know, she she broke up with him, but she

523
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: broke his heart and just speaking from experience, it's just

524
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: not worth that if you have could I suggest Sam

525
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: a doctor disrespect custom mullet like opally, sunglasses, a bulletproof vest,

526
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: a mustache. I just I think that might really spice

527
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: thing stuff and make you feel like you you truly

528
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: stepped outside, you know what I want? So hey, yeah,

529
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 1: you're welcome. Sam, have a great ticke. Let's jump up

530
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 1: to Christie. This is mean. Christie has an interesting angle.

531
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: Christie high. Hi Christie. So you're saying stay? But why

532
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 1: I'm saying stay because everybody completely overlooks the fact that

533
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: just because the society wants you to be monogamous doesn't

534
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 1: mean you actually have to be monogamous. Polyamory is a

535
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 1: completely valid relationship style for a lot of people. Um,

536
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: you know you can talk to your husband, see, you know,

537
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to necessarily participate. Um, you know if

538
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to. But you know it's not You

539
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: don't have to be limitated by one person for the

540
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: rest of your life just because you found the one

541
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 1: person that you want to be with for the rest

542
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 1: of your life. Interesting take, interesting take, And then for

543
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,439
Speaker 1: some people that works for me, it would drive me crazy,

544
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: but that's just me. I know for a lot of

545
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 1: people it is exactly the kind of sort of variety

546
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 1: or um, I don't know, change of pace that keeps

547
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 1: them happy for a long time. So I get it.

548
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, Christie, have a good day. It would drive

549
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 1: me nuts if the love of my life we're going

550
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: on dates and doing other things to other men and

551
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: then you know, came home and whatever, Hey I'm back,

552
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:21,119
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh cool, Like you know, I need

553
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: a couple of days rest, love you, honey. Here's a

554
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: heating pad. Let no no, um, let's go to Natasha, Natasha,

555
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome, how are you hi? Um, So if

556
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: you're just tuning in for stay or go here Basically, Sophie,

557
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: this woman who called it has been with the same

558
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: guy for a very long time, through high school, through college,

559
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 1: through their twenties, and now she's wondering, is this it

560
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: is this as good as it gets? Should I Should

561
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: I try something else, another person? And um and take

562
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: my chances? What do you think? Honestly, I think it's horrible,

563
00:28:56,080 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: Like she should, you know, like if she really love

564
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: this person and the way that she died, I think

565
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: she should stay with them. I was, but I was

566
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 1: in a situation where not a high school sweetheart, but

567
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 1: I was with somebody for seven years and I ended

568
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:18,960
Speaker 1: up now feeling in love with them anymore. And it

569
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: was like more of the best situation of my life

570
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: because I met somebody else and now we have a

571
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: kid together. But you there was a sign for you,

572
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 1: like you you weren't happy, satisfied. This wasn't like is

573
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: the grass greener? You're saying something happened that led you

574
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: to break up with this person to move on. Yeah,

575
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 1: like you know, I don't hear that happening with her,

576
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: you know, for her, it's no. I'm happy. I just

577
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: you know, Oh, I look around and I see other

578
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: stuff and I wonder. But I mean, I guess that's

579
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: the question is is your wonder more valuable than what

580
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: might be right in front of you? Honestly with her,

581
00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: with how she is and how she feels. I feel

582
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 1: like she should stay with him. All right, makes sense?

583
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, And everyone's saying that. By the way, have

584
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:09,000
Speaker 1: a good day, inn Taea. Thank you for listening. All Right,

585
00:30:09,280 --> 00:30:10,760
Speaker 1: we may have to come back to this because I mean,

586
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: so many people have stuff to say. But I mean, Bree,

587
00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: there's a Sam says. Sam is the only one that says,

588
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: go over here, Thank you, Sam. All right, let's talk

589
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: to say. We'll just take the one dissenter over here. Hey, Sam, Hey,

590
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: what's going on? You're the only one. You're the only one,

591
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: is say, my solar processes. If she's really having all

592
00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: these thoughts she wants to blow her life up for

593
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: one reason or another. Yes, it's deeply psychological. He's just

594
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: tired of it. She wants a new start. I don't know,

595
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: so my thought processes, you know clearly it's it's gonna

596
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 1: sit in the back of her mind. I mean, she's

597
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: gonna be resentful about it for if she just stayed,

598
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: so you might you know, might as well pull trigg

599
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 1: and tigg all right, thank you, Sam. I mean here,

600
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 1: I hear that. I hear that logic too. But I

601
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: just think, you know, imagine if she destroys her life

602
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 1: because she's tempted by something else that it really has

603
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 1: no merit, you know what I mean? I asked her,

604
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: does he mean to you? Is he abusive? Is he?

605
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: I mean? Is there any other? Is he boring? Is it?

606
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: I mean? Is there something really fundamental going on here?

607
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: Do you guys have major challenges? No? I just think that,

608
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know, there might be there might

609
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: be something better out there. I think, Wow, you could

610
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: blow his life up and your life up and uh,

611
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 1: and you then imagine the regrets then if you're wrong. No,

612
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: I do see that. It was like, you know, I'm

613
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,640
Speaker 1: somebody with a different perspective from everyone. Yeah, Hey there

614
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: you go, Hey Sam, thank you have a good day.

615
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: I never would I typically would never advocate for the

616
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: angle of don't experience as much as you can and

617
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,960
Speaker 1: then make a decision. But in this case, you know,

618
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: I want to. I mean, this is not really something

619
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 1: to dabble with. Like if you found someone who you

620
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: connect with and you were happy with for that long,

621
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: through that many phases of life, Um, I don't know

622
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: you could. I know one guy who this happened to

623
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: um actually was it's kind of a distant family member.

624
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: And she she said, I need to do something else

625
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: that weregether for a while. I need to I need

626
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 1: to try the things. And he said okay, And it

627
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: broke his heart to do it, but she came back

628
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: to him and they got married us. He had the

629
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: discipline to say, well, I mean, I'm I can't keep you.

630
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: You know, I can't force you to stay with me.

631
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: You got to figure it out. But you know, it's

632
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 1: possible that she never comes back. It's possible that he

633
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: moves on, and even if she wants to come back,

634
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Speaker 1: that he's not available to her anymore. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but you really stay in a relationship when you're questioning it,

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Speaker 1: like I just saying. And then she's like, I'm satisfied.

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Speaker 1: If I've been a relationship, and I tell y'all that

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Speaker 1: I'm satisfied, get me out of it. I don't want

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Speaker 1: anyone else is out there. I get many married, Well,

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Speaker 1: how many how many people after ten they've been together

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Speaker 1: for ten or fifteen years, that's longer than most marriages.

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Speaker 1: How many I would have ventured to say a different topic, though,

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Speaker 1: I would venture to say that. There are a lot

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Speaker 1: of married people listening now who've been together for that long,

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Speaker 1: who if they sat down and thought about it, they

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Speaker 1: could come up with reasons, carry on cities to move on.

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Speaker 1: But they don't do it right because that's not good enough,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, it's not it's normal

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Speaker 1: to be curious. It's not good enough to cut bait

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Speaker 1: and move on from someone you know, you don't you

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Speaker 1: don't just reset every ten to fifteen years. If you

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Speaker 1: found someone and it's great, then you gotta have the discipline, right,

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Speaker 1: You gotta have the strength to say, yeah, that shiny

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Speaker 1: thing over there is not better than this foundation that

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Speaker 1: I've built. God, I'm so much sure she doesn't have

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Speaker 1: that discipline. She's like, I want to do that if

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Speaker 1: you go out and do other things and you're probably

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Speaker 1: not with the right person, or she ever had sex

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Speaker 1: with someone else and she's curious, you know, and it

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Speaker 1: might just be the shiny object. And if it's just

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Speaker 1: a shiny object and you can't identify that it's just

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Speaker 1: a distraction, then you're going to change the whole course

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Speaker 1: of your life. Well, the streets are open, the streets

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Speaker 1: are back, left them there's a hate. The latest entertainment

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Speaker 1: news is on the Fred Show. It's brought to you

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Speaker 1: by the Chicago Cubs. Kim cart Russian is going to

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Speaker 1: the Olympics, y'all. Kind of her skims line will be

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Speaker 1: creating undergarments, pajamas, and loungewear for America's Olympic and Paralympic athletes.

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Speaker 1: Him announced the news on Instagram along with Paralympian Scout

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Speaker 1: Bassett modeling the creation. She said, ever since I was

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Speaker 1: ten years old, I've heard every single detail about the

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Speaker 1: Olympics from my stepdad. As I would watch the athletes compete,

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Speaker 1: I would grow to understand the dedication and honor being

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Speaker 1: a part of the Olympics embodied Ralph Lauren will continue

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Speaker 1: to supply the actual uniforms for the athletes. By the way,

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Speaker 1: but wait to go, Kim, that's a huge deal, right

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Speaker 1: when I think him, what the hell is going on? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: The good old American drink? Oh, I mean, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Is she getting rich off this? I mean it's a deal. Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh really right, I know the people that's fair. Oh.

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Speaker 1: I thought she was like gifting them that even if

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Speaker 1: it were free. We're talking about it right, but she's

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Speaker 1: also providing them all with lip kids so they can

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Speaker 1: have nice plump yeah. Well, whatever her family efforts, that

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Speaker 1: would be iconic if they all just had like, really plump,

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Speaker 1: beautiful lips the universe. The Olympic Village will be supplied

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Speaker 1: by a one eight tequila. Honey. When they're done eight

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Speaker 1: one eight, they'll be wearing Good America, which is perfect

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Speaker 1: the Olympic and rob Salm. She'll be there casting for

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Speaker 1: a new boyfriend too, you know, because she loves the

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Speaker 1: athletes so perfect. It's all working out. She's like sizing

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Speaker 1: them though. She's like sizing up the basketball players herself.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I take your sure you are an extra,

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Speaker 1: Go America. Um. Christina Aguilera is the latest celebt you

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Speaker 1: offer support for Britney Spears. She wrote on Instagram. These

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Speaker 1: past few days, I've been thinking about Brittany and everything

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Speaker 1: she's going through. It's une acceptable that woman or human

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Speaker 1: wanting to be in control of their own destiny might

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Speaker 1: not be allowed to live life as they wish. She

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Speaker 1: released a pretty long statement. I won't read the whole thing,

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Speaker 1: but Christina went on to admit that she's not privy

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Speaker 1: to every detail. Of Brittany's case, but she said she

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Speaker 1: can empathize through her shared experience of fame, and I

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Speaker 1: mean it was the exact same time. If you want

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Speaker 1: to read her full statement, that will be on our website.

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Speaker 1: And I'm so excited about this. We're getting new music

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Speaker 1: from Halsey, you guys. She announced the release of her

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Speaker 1: fourth album, If I Can't Have Love, I Want Power

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Speaker 1: on social yesterday. No word yet on the release date,

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Speaker 1: but the album will be produced by Trent Resner from

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Speaker 1: A nine Inch Nails and addicis Raw. So it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be a little dark, yeah, you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: a little rock heavy. Halsey can go dark and then

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Speaker 1: we got trend on it, so I think it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be amazing. More to check out online today. This is

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Speaker 1: pretty funny. Nick Jonas ran into a fan while she

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Speaker 1: was walking her dog and she had a Jonas Brother

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Speaker 1: shirt on, so he went up to her and they

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Speaker 1: had a cute little exchange. Also, Jamie Lynn, I only

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Speaker 1: spoke out for Brittany, as Jason Brown would say. She

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Speaker 1: said a whole lot of nothing. But if you want

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Speaker 1: to hear what you're saying, that's on Fred Show. Radio

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Speaker 1: dot Com. I was watching that yesterday. I'm like, what is?

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Speaker 1: What is? What are we learning here? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't care either way. Well you probably should, man,

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Speaker 1: that's it I was concerned about. Yeah, um, Sheby Shelley

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Speaker 1: is here a little bit late, but we're doing it.

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Speaker 1: Shoby Shelley Showdown eight, five, five, five nine, one, one

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Speaker 1: h three five Can you beat the gorilla? One hundred

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Speaker 1: and three dollars and fifty cents? What is it? Rufio

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Speaker 1: to two game three game win streaks? Something like two

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Speaker 1: game win streak? Yes, two game win streak. Can you

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Speaker 1: stop the gorilla? Get that money? Hand her another loss?

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Speaker 1: I will play after Olivia d Rigo call now. Kiss

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Speaker 1: It's the frend show on one three five Kiss at him?

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Speaker 1: Do you have one? It takes the battle show Bis

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Speaker 1: Shelley in the Showbis Showdown shop morning, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: I got allergies. I was yelling team much last night.

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Speaker 1: Voices shot whatever, It's okay. We persevere, Shelley. We we

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Speaker 1: play the game. How you feeling today? We do pretty good?

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Speaker 1: Pretty good good? Four sixty two and thirty three is

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Speaker 1: your record? Two game wins treak? And we go live

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Speaker 1: to Hammond, Indiana, home of the Hammon Police Department. We

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Speaker 1: have friends there. We love the Hammon Police Department. Dan, Hello,

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Speaker 1: are you a member of the Hammon Police Department? Uh no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not. If anything ever happens, um, you know, and

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Speaker 1: I'm talking minor, not like murder or something. But if

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Speaker 1: anything ever happens like mine or like a traffic violation,

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Speaker 1: tell the officer that you listen to the friend show

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Speaker 1: and you might get favorable treat and not murder. Though

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Speaker 1: not murder, they will not help you then, you know what.

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Speaker 1: I believe my mom actually works for them though. Oh really, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we love friends murder. We got friends, Captain Steve. We

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Speaker 1: got all kinds of friends. Though I don't want to

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Speaker 1: say specific names because they may be working on some

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Speaker 1: kind of undercover operative out there. So you know, I

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Speaker 1: don't to kind of undercover operations. I don't want to

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Speaker 1: be exposing folks out there and Hammon shot guns. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna shoot guns. We're gonna do it with the cops. No,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do it. We're gonna do it. Yeah. Yes,

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Speaker 1: another time, story for another time. Yeah, Okay, we gotta

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Speaker 1: play the game. Guys. We got five questions against the

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Speaker 1: show by Shelley. Her record, as I mentioned, four sixty

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Speaker 1: two and thirty three, a two game win streak, and

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Speaker 1: if you win one hundred and three dollars and fifty cents.

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Speaker 1: Let's go guys, all right Hammond, Dan, good luck, thank you,

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00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: all right, good um, Shelly, with all due respect, if

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Speaker 1: you would get out into the sound booth poof here

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Speaker 1: we go, Dan in Hammond. Question number one, This rapper

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Speaker 1: announced she's pregnant with her second child at the Beet Awards.

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Speaker 1: That would be Cardi. Kim Kardashian's undergarment line will be

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Speaker 1: the official gear of Team USA. She'll be the official

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Speaker 1: sizer of the men um. This is happening at the Olympics.

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Speaker 1: What is the name of him's line? And we just

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Speaker 1: hit the story. Oh goodness three Jesus your wife Jesus no,

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Speaker 1: no okay regroup question number three. In a recent viral TikTok,

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Speaker 1: this singer is shown asking fans not to stand and

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Speaker 1: wait for him outside of his house. That would be

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Speaker 1: Justin Bieber. This whole. Singer attacked Olivia Rodrigo for her

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Speaker 1: new promo photos, saying she copied her album cover. I

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Speaker 1: believe that's Quirky Lowe. And this former member of Eden's

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Speaker 1: Crush and lead singer of the Pushy Cats Dolls is

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Speaker 1: forty three years old today, Nicole somethinger, I what was

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Speaker 1: that last name? Swearing matters? Even if we give it

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Speaker 1: to him, he's not gonna win. I don't think it matters. Well,

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Speaker 1: what can you give you a point five on that?

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Speaker 1: But no, which we don't do. But anyway, so it

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Speaker 1: was that technically two three three, okay? Three? All right,

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Speaker 1: so we'll bring Shelley back. Three point two five is

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Speaker 1: what he got? Three point two three point three three

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Speaker 1: is what he got? Is the official old score UM

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Speaker 1: question number one. This rapper announced she's pregnant with her

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Speaker 1: second child at the VT Awards Cardi B. Kim Kardashian's

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Speaker 1: undergarment line will be the official gear of TM USA

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Speaker 1: during their time at the Olympics. What is the name

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Speaker 1: of Kim's line? Skims? In a recent viral TikTok, this

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Speaker 1: singer is shown asking fans not to stand and wait

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Speaker 1: for him outside of his home. Justin Bieber, this whole

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Speaker 1: singer attacked Olivia and Rigo for her new promo photos,

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Speaker 1: saying she copied her album cover Courtney Love. And this

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Speaker 1: former member of Eden's Crush and lead singer of the

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Speaker 1: Pussycat Dolls is forty three years old today, right Yan, Dan,

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Speaker 1: I gotta say it was a pretty good performance, Dan,

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Speaker 1: not not terrible, respectable score, but you're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: say it. My name is Dan, and I got showed

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Speaker 1: up on the showdown. My name is Dan, and I

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00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: got showed up on the showdown. And I can't hang

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Speaker 1: with a gorilla. No, that's good. Nice. And you said

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Speaker 1: your wife would know some of these answers. What's your

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Speaker 1: wife's name? My wife names Jessica. She works at the

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Speaker 1: Hammond bmb NIC. Shout out, Shout out, Jessica. If only

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00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 1: we lived in Hammond, that would be so convenient work

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Speaker 1: out there. Yeah. The DMV is Oh that is not

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Speaker 1: no no, no, no no. Shout out to um DMV,

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Speaker 1: Jessica and Hammond. Dan and you guys have a great deal. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thanks for listening. Hold on all right, Thank you. Shoby

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Speaker 1: Shelley Radio extraffic ants huh ten to noon on one

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Speaker 1: on three point five f M and on the iHeart

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Speaker 1: Radio app. Pretty easy to use, just like me. What's

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Speaker 1: coming up? Every time. So I have Castaways gift cards

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Speaker 1: for you in the ten o'clock hour and then you

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Speaker 1: have the chance to meet afro Jack and the eleven o'clock.

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Speaker 1: That's cool. That is cool. That is cool. All right, Shelley,

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Speaker 1: we'll see you with ten. Have an amazing day. Thank you,

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Speaker 1: Okay you two? Bye bye? All right? Good good news

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Speaker 1: stories and waiting by the phone. Also one hundred bucks

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Speaker 1: to go puff and pit bull tickets between oh we'll

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Speaker 1: say eight and eight thirty five. And you know that

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Speaker 1: I like the Sons and I have nostalgia my grandfather

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Speaker 1: and I used to go to the games and I

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00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,360
Speaker 1: was a ball boy. And uh and the Bulls already

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00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 1: got one off of us, so um, you already have

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00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: your championship from the Suns. And the Bulls also aren't

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Speaker 1: in it, and they were never in it. So we

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00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: can all cheer for the Suns in Chicago, right because well,

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Speaker 1: because the alternative apparently is going to probably be Milwaukee. No,

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Speaker 1: don't want it, and I don't think very many Chicagoans

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Speaker 1: are going to here from Milwaukee. And I know there

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Speaker 1: are people from Milwaukee listen to us, and so you

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00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: might so we can have a friendly rivalry. But um

841
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 1: my voice is a little you know, messed up this

842
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: morning because I was screaming at doctor destruction. Yes or disrespect, disrespect,

843
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,479
Speaker 1: doctor disrespect. Last night he said we're very close friends

844
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: dot doctor disrespected. I are as I'm also friends with

845
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: doctor Destruction too. That's a whole different thing. At the

846
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: at the Sun's game last night, I truly believe that

847
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 1: I was going to attend the the most historic moment

848
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: in Arizona sports in twenty years last night, only to

849
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 1: get there for the Sun to get their aspects right

850
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: in front of me. That's what happened when two when

851
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 1: you went to the two World Series games spread. I

852
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: think it's very well possible. I am bad luck for

853
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: my favorite teams. I mean, yeah, but you go and

854
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 1: then you end up watching the rest on TV or

855
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: whatever and they end up winning. So look what were

856
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: the Cubs? Yeah, so maybe I won't be attending any

857
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: more games. I don't know, but I'll tell you right

858
00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 1: now if if the if it winds up being the

859
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,919
Speaker 1: Suns and the Bucks, I am that I will drive

860
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 1: to Milwaukee and I will pay whatever it is. We

861
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 1: will drive to Milwaukee and you'll pay one. Yes, Yes,

862
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: I knew exactly what I was showing as soon as

863
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: you said, if you want to go, I can sit

864
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: in a bar during the game. I don't need to

865
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,479
Speaker 1: go to the game if you if you buy a friend,

866
00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: I'll go with you to the drive Jason and I

867
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:29,280
Speaker 1: will see the town of Milwaukee. I'm on the email list. Okay,

868
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: I'll say right now, if you want, we can take

869
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: a family trip to Milwaukee where only two of us

870
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: get to go to the game. Because I can't. I can't.

871
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. That would be

872
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: fun though maybe maybe we'll have to do it. But anyway,

873
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,000
Speaker 1: suns in six everyone, and thank you for sharing in

874
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 1: my excitement last night on Instagram because that was pretty cool.

875
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: And I didn't have to buy the tickets either. My

876
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: friend Chad gave me a ticket and he knew how

877
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: excited that was. Of course, I know, I got, I got,

878
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:04,320
Speaker 1: I got Trevor, I got Chad. No, Chad, Chad is

879
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:08,760
Speaker 1: not single at all type I don't know, Yeah, anyone

880
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: who sounds like a brou No, No, I don't know

881
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 1: getting but no cha. Chad was a good friend because

882
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: he gave me a ticket and I don't want to

883
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: know how much it cost. But it was very expensive,

884
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: and we had access to one of those like little

885
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: little cool ass like club things. Yeah no, I mean

886
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: trust me. I even for me, I don't get to

887
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:40,880
Speaker 1: you know. I think people think that because we're on

888
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: the radio that we get to do like a lot

889
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 1: of amazing cool No no, no, like Noah, we'd have

890
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: to pay for this stuff and I don't. So not

891
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: only we don't get to attend things like this, but

892
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 1: it turns out that my buddy who's in the financial

893
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:10,280
Speaker 1: industry access to all of this. Oh God, Now sitting

894
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 1: just like she does on the toilet in a onesie,

895
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 1: she's naked in her chair in front of the microphone.

896
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: She's fixing her bangs right now for some guys she's

897
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 1: not gonna meet. Please no offense, Christie. But I couldn't

898
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: endorse you to my friendship. I just I couldn't. I

899
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:30,280
Speaker 1: wouldn't do that to him because Fred still needs the tickets.

900
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,479
Speaker 1: He doesn't have the tickets going to you, Christie. That's

901
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: why No, I want Chad. I want Chad to like me.

902
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 1: So the French show is on one three five, kiss

903
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 1: up feels good, And I say in you say goals

904
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 1: in Gulls in Gulls, University of Chicago, Ingles Memorial. No, Christy, Look,

905
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: I love you, but I prefer um no culpability as

906
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 1: a PoTA or dating life or like anyone I know

907
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 1: dating you like I just I want hands off of that.

908
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 1: I don't want anything to do with it. I went

909
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: on three dates this weekend. I don't blame you. I

910
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 1: get it. I'm not a great person to date. Tell

911
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 1: me about the good news, Kaylyn got I don't want

912
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: to keep talking about my terrible A different conversation. But

913
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: I don't even know how you can focus on three

914
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: dates in one weekend. I just I couldn't do it.

915
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:25,800
Speaker 1: It's too much. I don't know how you're giving anybody.

916
00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:30,800
Speaker 1: I'm not saying teacher, you're not doing anything wrong, but

917
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: but I don't know how. Like. I went on a

918
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 1: date with a girl a few weeks ago, and I

919
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,320
Speaker 1: liked her. I was attracted to her. I thought she

920
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 1: was super smart, really well educated. I actually really liked her.

921
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:43,080
Speaker 1: But she admitted on the date that she had at

922
00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: least at least a virtual date planned for the next

923
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: two weeks consecutively. Oh, it's not in person. Then on

924
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: FaceTime she had something planned every night for two weeks

925
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: because she was different men by the way, because she

926
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:58,800
Speaker 1: was essentially auditioning all these And I'm like, you know what,

927
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't how can you possibly focus? Like if I

928
00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: if I'm going, if I sit down and I say

929
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 1: I'm going on ten dates in the next ten nights

930
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,760
Speaker 1: and your date number one, you basically have no chance

931
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,760
Speaker 1: because if I'm if I'm committed to nine more dates,

932
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: then you're gonna forget about me. I was date number one,

933
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 1: I was ten days ago. What about you don't First

934
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,839
Speaker 1: of all, I don't even know why you that's too

935
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: much work. Second of all, I don't know why you

936
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: commit to that because what's say date number one is

937
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: amazing or date number two is amazing, then you bail

938
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 1: on the other eight? Right? Yeah, I mean if I well,

939
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: sometimes if it's a first date with a guy and

940
00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 1: it goes really really well and I want a second date, yeah,

941
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,800
Speaker 1: I would cancel all their plans. But so far I

942
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 1: haven't had one that went well. There you go. So

943
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm gonna keep doing it until I find

944
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 1: someone that I like. Keep on going. Yeah, I feel

945
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: like if I and I'm again, that's wonderfully. I'm not

946
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: you know, if that works for you, that's amazing. I'm

947
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 1: just saying for me, if I if I had three

948
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,399
Speaker 1: days plan in a weekend and date number one goes

949
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: really well, I don't know that I'm able to really

950
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 1: focus on that success because I'm thinking about the fact

951
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: that I've already committed to two others, and so I

952
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:05,759
Speaker 1: don't know that date number one is getting my full

953
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: attention because date number two and three are still to come.

954
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 1: And you can't honestly tell me that you're not more

955
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 1: excited about some than others. She absolutely, I'm more excited

956
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: about some than others, for sure. So I don't know

957
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:26,000
Speaker 1: me though, I don't I don't have the energy for

958
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,920
Speaker 1: all that. But good news, happy stories every day on

959
00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: this show. What you Got Kalen Okay, I love the

960
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 1: story so much so. A Pennsylvania woman had a sweet

961
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 1: reunion with her lost pop after over two years apart.

962
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 1: So Asia Knives from Allentown, Pennsylvania, was recently searching for

963
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:43,279
Speaker 1: a new dog for she and her two sons and

964
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: decided to look at the Lehigh County Humane Society's adoption page.

965
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 1: She immediately noticed that a tan pitbull roddy mix was

966
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 1: up for adoption at the shelter, and it was the

967
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 1: same beloved dog that she lost a few years ago.

968
00:50:57,000 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: I thought, yes, she said, I thought, wait, that ampy him.

969
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: And then I saw the little scar over one eye,

970
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 1: the scar from when he got caught in the gate,

971
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:06,880
Speaker 1: and I was like, Oh my god, that's my baby,

972
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 1: that's Coovu. She first adopted him when he was listed

973
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 1: on the website as Ash by the Way, but she

974
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:16,920
Speaker 1: first adopted him just seven weeks old. He lived with

975
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 1: her until he went missing in May of twenty nineteen.

976
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: Weeks later, he was found by the shelter in really

977
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: bad health. He was actually adopted by a new family

978
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,600
Speaker 1: soon after he was found, but he was returned to

979
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: the shelter earlier this month because the family who adopted

980
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 1: him was facing eviction. After seeing her lost dog online,

981
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:36,800
Speaker 1: Asia immediately called the shelter to verify that she was

982
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: the original owner and she wanted to be reunited with

983
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 1: the pup. When she saw her dog, she said, he

984
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,800
Speaker 1: was screaming, trying to get away from the guy holding

985
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 1: him and run to me. Then he just jumped on me.

986
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: We started kissing and hugging. He sat on my lap.

987
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: I told him, yeah, buddy, you're going home. I'm so

988
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: sorry this happened. Never again, am I losing you. Story,

989
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,879
Speaker 1: It's a great story. Never they never forget. They never

990
00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: forget two years. By the way, that's why I have

991
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: zero forgiveness for people who mistreat animals, because they remember,

992
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 1: they are watching, they are paying intention, they have cognitive

993
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: They so unconditional. I know, I know, and they're trusting,

994
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 1: and they don't forget. And I don't know if anybody

995
00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 1: who thinks it's it's just a dog or just a cat, No,

996
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 1: it is the same. No, it's better than kids because

997
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: they just they love you no matter what. I don't know.

998
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:41,560
Speaker 1: It's so hard for me to uh uh. Anyway, Um,

999
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,480
Speaker 1: I love old people. Kala loves old people. We have

1000
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 1: a thing for old people. In fact, we're gonna have

1001
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: to revisit now that the Lorona thing is hopefully winding down. Yes,

1002
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 1: I really want to do that. I did one about

1003
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:55,239
Speaker 1: fifteen years ago, maybe twelve years ago in Charlotte. It

1004
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: was so much fun, um the whole prom experience in

1005
00:52:58,440 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 1: the end, so I want to do it again. But

1006
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:02,520
Speaker 1: we were actually on track to do one and then COVID,

1007
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 1: so hopefully we can redis that? But yeah, it would

1008
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: have been not a great idea. No, as we come

1009
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: into the past, Matt suits and like no, not not

1010
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: exactly right. Yeah. Um, so, an eighty one year old

1011
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:19,520
Speaker 1: widow just finished her second Tough Mutter race. The only

1012
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 1: what a tough Mutter is It's it's essentially a five

1013
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: k obstacle course in the mud. They do these things,

1014
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 1: They travel and do these things all over the country. Um,

1015
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 1: this woman's name is Millsred. Of course, her name is Mildred. Um,

1016
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: she's from Missouri. Is it sickest him? Yeah? I actually

1017
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:40,320
Speaker 1: think I've been there on a palace and Saint Louis.

1018
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,879
Speaker 1: I don't know the surrounding areas that well. I don't

1019
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,359
Speaker 1: even know Illinois surrounding areas that much. I love them

1020
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:50,320
Speaker 1: for like a year run anyway, So this woman crossed

1021
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,360
Speaker 1: the finish line with a Tough Mutter five k obstacle

1022
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: course muddy and elated earlier in March, despite being eighty

1023
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: years old. This was Wilson's second Tough Mutter. In twenty nineteen,

1024
00:54:00,160 --> 00:54:03,200
Speaker 1: shortly after her eightieth birthday, Wilson was asked by her

1025
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: son if she wanted to do the race, because he

1026
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: finished one. The race is famous for immediately requiring participants

1027
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 1: to army crawl through pitchs of muddy water before tackling

1028
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,480
Speaker 1: a several mile run with obstacles. I watched him do it.

1029
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 1: I said, yeah, I'll do it, and she did. She

1030
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,919
Speaker 1: got the thumbs up from her doctor. She began training

1031
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 1: to ymca as to get him the medical all clear,

1032
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: and she did a great job, she said, except for

1033
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: the wall. I always wanted to try that wall. I

1034
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: realized it wasn't a piece of cake. It took a

1035
00:54:32,160 --> 00:54:34,839
Speaker 1: whole village to get me up. But she was able

1036
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: to do it, supported by I guess her husband now

1037
00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:42,240
Speaker 1: her husband, Farrell. Farrell and Mildred each yeared her across

1038
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: the finish line. I guess on the first one he

1039
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: was able to. Then he did pass away. That's the

1040
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:48,640
Speaker 1: widow part of the story. So then she did the

1041
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: second one in his honor in twenty twenty one, and

1042
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm actually gonna send this picture to Paulina

1043
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:56,640
Speaker 1: because the picture is amazing of Mildred crossing the finish

1044
00:54:56,719 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: line and this woman is a beast. Yeah, I love her.

1045
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 1: So I will send this uh and we'll get it

1046
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 1: up as our inspirational photo of the day on all

1047
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: of our platforms, uh, Fred Show Radio, Fred Show Radio

1048
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: dot Com. All that stuff waiting by the phone? Why

1049
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 1: no second day for this couple? How how come somebody

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00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: got ghosted? We'll investigate after Olivia Rigo in three minutes

1051
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: on the Fred Show one on three to five shown

1052
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 1: why were you left waiting by the phone? Hey read?

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00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 1: Good morning? Hey, good morning? Are you read? Here we go?

1054
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,399
Speaker 1: It's waiting by the phone. We all just wait each week,

1055
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 1: several times a week, with bated breath, to hear what's

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00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 1: going on with with you guys? Um tons of emails

1057
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: we get on the website about people who are or stumped.

1058
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: They don't know why they went out with somebody and

1059
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: now they're being ghosted. So why don't you tell us

1060
00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: about it? This woman's name is Lacy. How you met

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00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 1: about any days that you've been on and what's happening

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00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 1: right now? Yeah? So I met Lacy on smatch and

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00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 1: we talk back and forth for a few days. I

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00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: agreed to go out to dinner and we just like

1065
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 1: really hit it off. I mean I could totally see

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00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 1: myself dating the scroll. She's just smart, beautiful, funny. Um yeah,

1067
00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: like everything seemed great. And after the date, like I

1068
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 1: texted her saying that I had a good time and

1069
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to see her again, and no reply. Kay,

1070
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 1: text her a few days later and still the same.

1071
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: She just completely goes to me. And so here's my

1072
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,800
Speaker 1: thing with this. You know these dating apps that they're free,

1073
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: and I don't know that you don't really have to

1074
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: be serious to go on the dating apps. You can

1075
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 1: have any sort of motivation that you want. But but

1076
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: this You'll Match is one of the ones. I know.

1077
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,320
Speaker 1: You can get a free membership, but a lot of

1078
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 1: people pay for it, and so they're a little bit

1079
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: more committed to the process, right, I mean, like I

1080
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: feel like Match, you're you're serious about it, like you're

1081
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: actually trying to meet a partner, and maybe there's an

1082
00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:56,320
Speaker 1: investment in it, so you would expect someone to be

1083
00:56:56,360 --> 00:57:00,520
Speaker 1: a little less flaky. Yes, you're totally right. Okay, Yeah

1084
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:03,040
Speaker 1: that's what I thought that she was looking for, you know,

1085
00:57:03,120 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: a serious thing. And yeah, just having her from her

1086
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,359
Speaker 1: yeah you stomped, all right, Well that's annoying. No one

1087
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 1: likes to be ghosted. So let's we're gonna see if

1088
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: we can get Lazy on the phone and ask her

1089
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: some questions at some point, definitely jumping on the call,

1090
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: and you know, maybe there's a good explanation and we

1091
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: can set you guys up on another date that we

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00:57:20,280 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 1: pay for. Can you hang out? I play one song absolutely,

1093
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 1: let's find out what's going on. Part two of waiting

1094
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: by the phone right after this song, are on a

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00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 1: ground day back in three minutes on The Fred Show

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00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:33,040
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Speaker 1: by the phone on The Friend Show one h three

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00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 1: five Hey read yes, all right, welcome back. You met

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00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 1: Lacy on match you guys, you chat it for a while,

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00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:46,720
Speaker 1: You went out for dinner and drinks. You like Terry.

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00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 1: You thought the date went well. You expected that you

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00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 1: would reach out for another date, that she would respond

1104
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 1: and all would be well. Except she's ghosting you and

1105
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: you want to know why. Yeah, perfect, let's call her now?

1106
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: Good luck man, awesome, thanks, Hello, good morning? Is this

1107
00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 1: lazy Hey lazy frid from The Friends Show? The whole

1108
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 1: crew is here one or three five Kiss FM in Chicago.

1109
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

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00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 1: radio right now and I need your consent to continue

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00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 1: with this call. Can we talk for a couple of

1112
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: minutes on the show? Wow? Okay, thank you, Thank you

1113
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:28,160
Speaker 1: so much. We appreciate that. Um, I we'll get right

1114
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: to I don't want to waste much of your time.

1115
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 1: A guy named Reid reached out to us, said that

1116
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 1: you guys met on match and chatted and then went

1117
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: for dinner. Do you recall this guy? Oh? God, yeah,

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00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,400
Speaker 1: yeah I remember eight. You know, if you ever notice

1119
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: guys like um, almost always there's like this oh wow,

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00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 1: hey what's going on? Wow? Okay cool? And then we

1121
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: bring up the dates, like we go up the hill,

1122
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 1: we go down the hill. So what happened with this guy?

1123
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,280
Speaker 1: Because he was telling us the story about how we

1124
00:58:56,360 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: met you and really liked you and thought the conversation

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00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:00,800
Speaker 1: went great, the date was good, and he expected that,

1126
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 1: you know, he'd call you and that you'd say, yeah,

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00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 1: I want to go on another date. But your ghosting?

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00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 1: So what's up? Well? UM, I don't know if he

1129
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: told you what happened on the date, but basically the

1130
00:59:11,400 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 1: date was fine. I thought it was going well. And

1131
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,280
Speaker 1: the other place we wanted to go get another drink

1132
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: after um. The first place that we went to, and

1133
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: we went and it was closed, and it was right

1134
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: by his place. So he said, you know, do you

1135
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:24,439
Speaker 1: want to come up for a bit. He said, okay.

1136
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: Everything seems nice and casual and he seems normal. And

1137
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:30,680
Speaker 1: then we get up to his place and he disappears

1138
00:59:30,720 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 1: for a bit, and then he comes back in a

1139
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:39,439
Speaker 1: towel holding oil, and he said to me, why didn't

1140
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:49,920
Speaker 1: you give daddy a massaw? I mean, lay, why don't you?

1141
00:59:57,600 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 1: And he really said it like that. He really, I mean,

1142
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:01,439
Speaker 1: as if a man coming back in a towel isn't

1143
01:00:01,440 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 1: frightening enough. He really actually referred himself as daddy exactly.

1144
01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: That's that's read. By the way, I forgot to mention that, hey, daddy, Daddy,

1145
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:15,959
Speaker 1: does that work for you? Because I feel like that's

1146
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: not a high percentage opportunity there. But you know, I

1147
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: could be wrong. Seriously, you won't see me because of that,

1148
01:00:23,680 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 1: because of that, Hell, you would have given her one

1149
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:34,520
Speaker 1: right after aside. Oh yes, oh no, it was the

1150
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 1: first date. Like read the room, it's not cool to

1151
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: take your clothes off and surprise someone like that, Like,

1152
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: that's not with her without the oil. You know, you

1153
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: don't just go take your clothes off and then walk

1154
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: in the room. You don't do that. That's that's yeah,

1155
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:52,880
Speaker 1: everybody knows you're supposed to use whipped cream like in

1156
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 1: varsity Blues. Come on, brodn't right. You were at my place,

1157
01:00:57,600 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 1: we were having a good time. You were to give

1158
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,440
Speaker 1: me in thee I would have given you a massage

1159
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:04,480
Speaker 1: like we were having fun. Yeah, I don't know where

1160
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:08,560
Speaker 1: you learned courtship. But no, no, no, no no, that

1161
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: was so awkward. Didn't you see what I did? I

1162
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: freaked out. I need to be excuse it up my

1163
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,360
Speaker 1: dogs and I got out of there. Like it's not

1164
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 1: like I was excited about your entrance. That's a very

1165
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:20,439
Speaker 1: personal activity, by the way. I mean, I would venture

1166
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:22,200
Speaker 1: to say there are people who would do a lot

1167
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 1: of things before they would give a full body naked

1168
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 1: massage to with oil. Like I like how you wanted

1169
01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 1: hard to give you a massage first. I mean, I

1170
01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 1: have enough daddy issues. I might be into it, but

1171
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 1: that's not a first day. This is okay. I have

1172
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: to ask because I know where this is going already.

1173
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:44,400
Speaker 1: So you know you can incriminate yourself. Read does this?

1174
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,080
Speaker 1: Do you do this because it works? It does work?

1175
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean you're still single, so it

1176
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 1: doesn't work out well. But um look, I don't I

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01:01:52,400 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 1: really am uncomfortable with this. Would you is lazy? Is

1178
01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: there any chance that you'd forgive this guy for that? And? Uh,

1179
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. Tell him to keep his clothes on

1180
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 1: and keep the oil in the drawer or whatever and

1181
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,320
Speaker 1: maybe try it again. I had a great time, but

1182
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 1: that just treaked me out so much I have to say. No, Well,

1183
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 1: I thought she was going in a different direction. Okay,

1184
01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: all right, dude, read, I'm sorry, man, Uh you gotta

1185
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:18,360
Speaker 1: I guess you gotta read the room a little better.

1186
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 1: But which is a common theme around here. But no,

1187
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: uh no, second day, dude, she's not interested. I guess

1188
01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: it was it like was it warm oil? Did you

1189
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:29,280
Speaker 1: warm it up? Or is it like cold oil? Or

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01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: was it scented? And what kind of oil are we

1191
01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 1: talking about here? It's a very good oil. Was it

1192
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 1: a full body towel or like a little like a

1193
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:39,200
Speaker 1: little hand towel? What kind of towel are we talking

1194
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 1: about here? So it took him a minute to respond

1195
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,080
Speaker 1: because I didn't refer to him by this private title.

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01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 1: So he's upset. No no, no, no, Dad, I'm so sorry.

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01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 1: I'm not. Oh no, okay, I'm the guys are. He's

1198
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 1: already in a towel with some oil in his hand.

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Speaker 1: Right now he's ready to go. Hey, lazy, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for your time and read. I'm sorry, daddy.

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Speaker 1: A love of Ditty. James Gordon announced he's changing a

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Speaker 1: gross or whatever. I mean, it is gross, like I'm Asian,

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Speaker 1: Like we have food like ballot is like h fried

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Speaker 1: duck age that you just eat the embryo. It's gross,

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Speaker 1: like oh wow. I mean, but if it's a part

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Speaker 1: of a culture, I mean, obviously, then I could understand

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Speaker 1: why associating it negatively would would offend some people. Um,

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but he got backlash on TikTok from

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Speaker 1: a user who labeled the segment as racist, and she

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Speaker 1: actually created a change dot org petition calling for the

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Speaker 1: segment to be removed from the show. Um, so he

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Speaker 1: said he plans to make some changes to the segment.

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Speaker 1: I guess I understand that, right. I guess if that's

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Speaker 1: what people eat, yeah, I mean for us, it's not

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Speaker 1: really with our palate or whatever, but in certain parts

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Speaker 1: of the world, yeah, um, that is what they eat.

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Speaker 1: And I suppose if you're calling it gross for making

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Speaker 1: fun of it, and that's right, then I used as

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Speaker 1: like a punishment, you know, for not answering the question.

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Speaker 1: Then I guess I could see why it would be

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Speaker 1: painted in a negative light. But he heard the TikTok

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Speaker 1: user and he's going to change it. So there you go.

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Speaker 1: It's official, y'all, even though he's still sad about his breakup.

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01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:11,640
Speaker 1: Jason Sadekis is dating really hot British model Keiley Hazel.

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01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:15,560
Speaker 1: The new couple was spotted getting cozy during last weekend

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Speaker 1: in New York. The ted Lasso star and Motto were

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Speaker 1: first LinkedIn February. I guess they were just friends at

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Speaker 1: the time. He obviously was engaged to Olivia Wilde, but

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Speaker 1: they split in November after nine years and the former couple,

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01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: excuse me, have two kids together. But she's really hot,

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Speaker 1: so good for him. Weren't check out online today? Kim

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Speaker 1: Kardashian is going to the Olympics kind of if you

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Speaker 1: want to see what we mean, that's on our website. Also,

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Speaker 1: doctor Jill Biden on the cover of Vogue kind of historic.

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Speaker 1: That's on frencho Radio dot com. Let's come back, We'll

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Speaker 1: do trending stories bullet points to start your Tuesday. In Chicago.

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Speaker 1: Blogs are coming up. I got dump by a girl

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Speaker 1: after it one day, which I'll read. I don't even

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Speaker 1: know I don't think. I don't think I have the

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01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 1: text anymore, but I thought it was unnecessary and I'll

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01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:03,479
Speaker 1: share it with you and just I mean, I didn't

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Speaker 1: get dumb. How do you dump somebody after one date?

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01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: Like that's I guess that's my point. Um, yeah, let

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Speaker 1: me see. Oh in Pitfall, tickets got those next two

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Speaker 1: great shows Show one. This is what's trending. So this wild,

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Speaker 1: tragic story in Miami. Emergency workers recovered an eleventh body

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01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:28,080
Speaker 1: from the rubble of the collapsed Florida condo building as

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01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,840
Speaker 1: the search for survivors continued late Monday. There's still a

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Speaker 1: hundred and fifty people unaccounted for as the fifth day

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01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:38,080
Speaker 1: of searching was coming to an end. The around the

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01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: clock rescue operation includes dogs, sonar cameras, heavy equipment, and

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01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:45,040
Speaker 1: workers from as far as Israel. Miami Dad has created

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01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 1: a larger Family Assistant Center as the death poll increases,

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01:08:48,560 --> 01:08:52,639
Speaker 1: in families of the missing converge on surfside and await

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01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 1: the latest on their loved ones. I've read so many

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01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 1: different things about this story about you know, issues with

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Speaker 1: this building for a long time and potentially allegedly inspectors

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01:09:02,560 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 1: who were paid off to ignore stuffing and all kinds

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01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,040
Speaker 1: of things, and also a mass effort in Miami to

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01:09:08,160 --> 01:09:11,920
Speaker 1: inspect buildings beyond a certain age for similar issues so

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Speaker 1: it doesn't happen again. But I mean, it looked like

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Speaker 1: the side of the building was bombed out. I mean,

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01:09:17,400 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 1: it looks. It's awful and the fact that there's so

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Speaker 1: many people unaccounted for is very, very scary. But that's

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Speaker 1: the update on that story today and trending. After a

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01:09:25,479 --> 01:09:27,439
Speaker 1: brief dip, gas prices in the US are on the

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Speaker 1: rise again. The average price for a gallon of gas

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01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:32,080
Speaker 1: rose two and a half cents from last week to

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01:09:32,160 --> 01:09:35,599
Speaker 1: three zo nine. The national average is five cents higher

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01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 1: than a month ago, at ninety two cents higher than

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Speaker 1: this time last year. Make a Wish is trending today.

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01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:44,639
Speaker 1: They're just beating what it calls a misinformation campaign about

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01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 1: whether children who aren't vaccinated against COVID nineteen will be

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01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:50,719
Speaker 1: eligible to have their wishes granted, and the foundation says

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Speaker 1: that these kids are in fact still eligible. An edited

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01:09:54,479 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 1: video of Make a Wish Foundation CEO Richard Davis that

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01:09:57,439 --> 01:09:59,600
Speaker 1: went viral on social media over the weekend caused the

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01:09:59,640 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 1: stir by seeming to suggest that only vaccinated children would

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01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:06,719
Speaker 1: be eligible to have wishes granted. There were many stars

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01:10:06,760 --> 01:10:08,880
Speaker 1: and daughters that said at the foundation had decided not

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Speaker 1: to grant wishes to unvaccinated children, they wouldn't support it.

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01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:14,640
Speaker 1: The confusion arose from the arose from the fact that

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01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:17,839
Speaker 1: the video clip that went viral cuts off the CEO

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01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:23,440
Speaker 1: before he finishes his explanation about which children would be eligible.

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01:10:24,200 --> 01:10:28,400
Speaker 1: So that's not true that dude's fired the person that

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01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: dude our new job right now. You had one job, dude,

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01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 1: one job, lovemaker, wish love everything they do, and I'm

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01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:42,200
Speaker 1: glad they hopefully will straighten that out. Las Vegan, Las Vegan,

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01:10:42,200 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 1: I guess it is how you say it. Catalouda Enriquez

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01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:48,680
Speaker 1: will become the first openly transgender woman to compete for

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01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: the title of Miss USA after she was crowned Miss

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01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 1: Nevada on Sunday. According to CNN, the twenty seven year

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01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:58,200
Speaker 1: old beat twenty one other candidates to represent Nevada in

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01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:01,080
Speaker 1: the upcoming Miss USA pageant that'll be held on November

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01:11:01,120 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 1: twenty nine. If she wins, according to CNN, she'll be

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01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:07,240
Speaker 1: the second trans woman to join the Miss Universe pageant

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01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:14,120
Speaker 1: after Spain's Angelina or Angela ponse in two eighteen. The

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Speaker 1: NFL on Monday released a new Pride Month ad saying

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01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:21,639
Speaker 1: football is gay support of the LGBTQ community. The ad

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01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:25,400
Speaker 1: comes exactly a week after Carl Nasibe of the Las

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01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:28,280
Speaker 1: Vegas Raiders became the first active NFL player to come

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Speaker 1: out as gay. Football is lesbian, Football is beautiful, Football

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01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:35,719
Speaker 1: is queer, Football is life. Football is exciting, Football is culture.

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01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:39,599
Speaker 1: Football is transgender. The ad says, listening several other things

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01:11:39,680 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 1: before landing on football is for everyone. The league also

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01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:46,959
Speaker 1: said that it proudly supports the anti suicide LGBT organization

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01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: the Trevor Project, asking fans to donate as well. If

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01:11:50,560 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 1: you love the game, you're welcome here. Football is for all.

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01:11:53,280 --> 01:11:56,480
Speaker 1: Football is for everyone. The NFL stands by the LGBTQ

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01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:59,760
Speaker 1: plus community today and every day. They said in a

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01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 1: most so I wonder if they had that planned, or

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01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:04,680
Speaker 1: if they kind of had that in the can and

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01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:06,720
Speaker 1: they were just waiting for someone to come out and

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01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:08,720
Speaker 1: then they could run that. I don't know, or if

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01:12:08,800 --> 01:12:12,320
Speaker 1: they scurried or who knows. Other gay NFL players I

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01:12:12,360 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 1: follow one on TikTok. He's like really cute. I don't

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Speaker 1: think he's openly I'm not openly. Yeah, he's openly gay

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01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:22,040
Speaker 1: because Friend all the time. He might have been a

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Speaker 1: former player. I think this was the first active league. Yeah,

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01:12:25,160 --> 01:12:27,720
Speaker 1: this guy was still in the league, right right, Yeah,

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01:12:28,040 --> 01:12:30,400
Speaker 1: we're just talking about that. Yeah, people have come out

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01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:33,400
Speaker 1: like after playing in the league. But this is to

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01:12:33,400 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 1: come out weird, like I mean, Pride Month, you got

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01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 1: two days left, you're gonna come out with this thing now, NFL.

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01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:42,160
Speaker 1: You know, that's why I want. Do I believe they

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01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 1: really care? I don't know, but pushing it to the

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01:12:45,520 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 1: okay whatever looks on. You know, at least they're trying

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01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:51,639
Speaker 1: quote unquote I don't know. I mean supporting the Trevor project.

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01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,680
Speaker 1: It's never a bad of course. So there you go.

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01:12:54,920 --> 01:12:59,120
Speaker 1: It's National Camera Day, just all cameras, National Camera Day,

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01:12:59,280 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 1: and the National Waffle Iron Day. Yes, today they talk

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01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 1: better than they tie. These are the radio blogs on

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01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:12,080
Speaker 1: the Friend Show. I'm just gonna do the blog because

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01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:13,560
Speaker 1: we don't have a ton of time. And well, I

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01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 1: we didn't talk about it though normally, like we pow

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01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,360
Speaker 1: wow off the air, we say he was doing a

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01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 1: blog today, and then I didn't do that, so I

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01:13:21,479 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: am dear blog. So I'm sure I'm taking this the

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01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:32,719
Speaker 1: wrong way. But it was kind of a weird timing.

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01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:35,760
Speaker 1: But somebody, a few people actually had suggested that I

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01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:39,680
Speaker 1: meet someone who lives out of town. Hey, you might

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01:13:39,760 --> 01:13:43,880
Speaker 1: get along with this person, um, YadA, YadA, YadA. And

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01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:46,240
Speaker 1: so it just so happened around the time that this

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01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,680
Speaker 1: is being suggested that I was going to be in

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01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:51,280
Speaker 1: the exact city where this person lived. It was kind

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01:13:51,280 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 1: of weird that that happened like that, but it did.

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01:13:53,160 --> 01:13:57,560
Speaker 1: So I'm in this city. We go to dinner. I

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01:13:57,640 --> 01:13:59,520
Speaker 1: thought we had a good time. We had good conversation

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01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:01,679
Speaker 1: on text before. We had a good time. It's a dinner,

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01:14:02,360 --> 01:14:04,320
Speaker 1: nothing too crazy goes down, but like it was just

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01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: it was fun. Now this much, I will say. I

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01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 1: think to initiate a long distance relationship requires a lot

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01:14:14,120 --> 01:14:16,920
Speaker 1: of momentum, in my opinion, Like, I think you got

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01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,599
Speaker 1: to feel a certain kind of way, and it's it's

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01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: kind of an extraordinary way about someone to do what

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01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: it takes to maintain a long distance relationship. I think

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01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:28,680
Speaker 1: you gotta have wouldn't you agree like that if you've

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01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:30,559
Speaker 1: ever done it, Like it's gotta be a it's gotta

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01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:33,760
Speaker 1: be an over the top spark, which is rare. It's

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01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,600
Speaker 1: happened to me a few times. It's it's kind of

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01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: sizzled a lot of other times. I don't know. I mean,

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01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:42,000
Speaker 1: I get an email, I get a few dms now

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01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:43,760
Speaker 1: and again from people going, hey, you might love my

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01:14:43,800 --> 01:14:45,800
Speaker 1: sister who lives in this city or that city, and

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01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 1: these people are well intentioned, but like it's hard to

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01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:51,280
Speaker 1: maintain that, and um, I don't know. I don't know that.

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01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:53,280
Speaker 1: I think this was like a forever connection. But it

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01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:56,360
Speaker 1: was fun. I liked this person, I valued meeting this person,

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01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 1: and I kind of just thought we would be cool.

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01:15:00,840 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 1: So I get this text from this person last night.

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01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: It says, thanks for some good times the other night.

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01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:09,560
Speaker 1: I had fun, but I think you and I have

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01:15:09,640 --> 01:15:13,400
Speaker 1: a different set of values and are looking for different things.

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01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:16,920
Speaker 1: Happy flying, and thanks for the meet up. Now, to me,

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01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:21,519
Speaker 1: that was a slam. To me, that was her saying,

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01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 1: you know, the way I read it was that my

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01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: values are better than your values, or that I'm somehow

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01:15:31,000 --> 01:15:35,000
Speaker 1: more pristine or pure than or something than you are.

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01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:42,000
Speaker 1: And therefore I that was that was ending. I mean

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01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 1: that that that right there ceases to have any further conversation,

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01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:47,080
Speaker 1: Like it's we can't even be cool. Apparently, like it

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01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 1: was imperative that after one date, in one fun evening

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01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:52,200
Speaker 1: that didn't go as far as you think it did,

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01:15:52,280 --> 01:15:57,040
Speaker 1: it was just cool. She felt she felt it necessary

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01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 1: to basically break up with me after one date. Apparently

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01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 1: it was such that we can't even like chat anymore,

1440
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:09,719
Speaker 1: apparently like we can't even be friends. And I thought

1441
01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 1: that I read that, and I kind of stung because

1442
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:14,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, no, it wasn't going to go anywhere.

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01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:17,800
Speaker 1: And I think she knew that because we hung out

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01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:19,120
Speaker 1: and we had a good time, and then we last

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01:16:19,160 --> 01:16:21,040
Speaker 1: couple of days we haven't really texted or whatever. To me,

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01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 1: it kind of felt like she was saving face. It

1447
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:25,560
Speaker 1: kind of felt like she felt a certain kind of

1448
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:27,160
Speaker 1: way about it and wanted to make sure she got

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01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:30,840
Speaker 1: the last word. That's what that feels like to me, thoughts, Wait,

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01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:33,760
Speaker 1: can you reread the message one more time? Because to

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01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 1: bring in somebody who you don't really know very well,

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01:16:36,200 --> 01:16:39,320
Speaker 1: to bring in their values, to me, that that kind

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01:16:39,320 --> 01:16:41,599
Speaker 1: of talks about like what you're in it for versus

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01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:44,560
Speaker 1: what you're not in it. For and we're adults, and

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01:16:45,080 --> 01:16:48,400
Speaker 1: we made you know. We were both there for you know,

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01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: with equal risk and for equal motivation. And so I

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01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:54,360
Speaker 1: wouldn't say that our values differ. And I also wouldn't

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01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 1: say that I can tell you, or I could say

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01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:58,439
Speaker 1: about her what her values were. I wouldn't say that

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01:16:58,520 --> 01:17:00,639
Speaker 1: to somebody who I didn't know very well. I don't

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01:17:01,080 --> 01:17:02,880
Speaker 1: I don't know that we have different values. I think

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Speaker 1: we just didn't connect at the level that it would

1463
01:17:04,920 --> 01:17:08,280
Speaker 1: require for either of us to maintain a long distance

1464
01:17:08,320 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 1: relationship after one meeting. The text one more time, thanks

1465
01:17:11,439 --> 01:17:13,080
Speaker 1: for the good times here to night. I had fun.

1466
01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:15,080
Speaker 1: But I think you and I have a different set

1467
01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 1: of values and are looking for different things. Oh, I

1468
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:20,840
Speaker 1: don't actually think that's true. I just think we're not

1469
01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:23,439
Speaker 1: going to find those things in each other. But I

1470
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:25,760
Speaker 1: wouldn't have sent a message like that, because if I

1471
01:17:25,840 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 1: had sent that to her, I kind of feel like

1472
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:31,040
Speaker 1: that's the message you send to somebody who hurt your

1473
01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 1: feelings and you kind of want to get one last

1474
01:17:33,080 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 1: dig in on them before you cast them away. It

1475
01:17:36,320 --> 01:17:38,519
Speaker 1: does sound like a dig for sure. Did you ignore

1476
01:17:38,560 --> 01:17:40,680
Speaker 1: her for a few days after the date then, in

1477
01:17:41,000 --> 01:17:43,920
Speaker 1: not intend, and it wasn't intentional like we we hung out.

1478
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:46,400
Speaker 1: I did my business. I went and hung out with

1479
01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:48,439
Speaker 1: my family in a different part of this date. And

1480
01:17:48,520 --> 01:17:52,519
Speaker 1: then this was two days ago your business, Uh did

1481
01:17:52,640 --> 01:17:56,720
Speaker 1: you guys razzle dazzle? And then no, no, no, no, no,

1482
01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:58,840
Speaker 1: I'm not referring to her as my business. I'm saying

1483
01:17:59,120 --> 01:18:01,800
Speaker 1: I was. I was in her city for a different reason.

1484
01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 1: I didn't go there to see her, and so I

1485
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,400
Speaker 1: got to see her. I thought she was great. I

1486
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,640
Speaker 1: really did um and I but I was there to

1487
01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:12,320
Speaker 1: do something else. So I did what I was there

1488
01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:14,800
Speaker 1: to do, and then I moved on to my family trip.

1489
01:18:14,880 --> 01:18:19,080
Speaker 1: And then you know, that was Friday. It's Tuesday. So no,

1490
01:18:19,400 --> 01:18:23,040
Speaker 1: we didn't keep the you know, the texting didn't keep going.

1491
01:18:23,120 --> 01:18:28,519
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Yeah, it sounds like it sounds

1492
01:18:28,560 --> 01:18:30,400
Speaker 1: like she's scorned, and it sounds like it was kind

1493
01:18:30,400 --> 01:18:32,320
Speaker 1: of a crappy thing to say to somebody, because no,

1494
01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:34,639
Speaker 1: I don't think we need to question one another's values

1495
01:18:35,160 --> 01:18:36,640
Speaker 1: in which to say it just didn't work. It's just

1496
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:38,880
Speaker 1: probably not gonna work out like that. But it didn't

1497
01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 1: mean that I eat her any differently, or I didn't

1498
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 1: think we could just chat and be cool. But apparently

1499
01:18:43,520 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 1: we can't do that because she's not happy. If you

1500
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:47,439
Speaker 1: go on a date with someone you don't talk to

1501
01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 1: them for three days. I would be mad too, like,

1502
01:18:50,360 --> 01:18:52,760
Speaker 1: especially if we connected and then you decide what just

1503
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:56,320
Speaker 1: not to talk to me. I say. On Fred's side,

1504
01:18:56,920 --> 01:18:59,719
Speaker 1: he was going to where he was going for something

1505
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 1: else and decided to meet up with this woman. It's

1506
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:05,320
Speaker 1: not like usually he's not He doesn't live where she lives,

1507
01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:08,080
Speaker 1: so he was there for a certain reason. He was

1508
01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:10,160
Speaker 1: there for his business, he was there for his family.

1509
01:19:10,320 --> 01:19:11,960
Speaker 1: He just decided to meet up with this woman to

1510
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 1: have a date. It's not like he was there to

1511
01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:16,240
Speaker 1: meet with her and stay with her the whole weekend.

1512
01:19:16,360 --> 01:19:18,519
Speaker 1: You couldn't have send to like one message chicks two

1513
01:19:18,560 --> 01:19:20,680
Speaker 1: seconds day. Had a great time with you, That's all.

1514
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:23,200
Speaker 1: But I think we did do that. It was it

1515
01:19:23,320 --> 01:19:25,599
Speaker 1: wasn't like there was nothing afterwards. But what I'm saying

1516
01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:28,280
Speaker 1: is I it was it was a lot of It

1517
01:19:28,360 --> 01:19:30,120
Speaker 1: was a lot of lead up because I was in

1518
01:19:30,240 --> 01:19:32,360
Speaker 1: Chicago and I I don't know, it was a lot

1519
01:19:32,400 --> 01:19:33,800
Speaker 1: of lead up. But I was excited to meet her,

1520
01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:35,920
Speaker 1: and I met her and it was great. And I

1521
01:19:36,000 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 1: mean that it's not just me saying it, but again

1522
01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:41,519
Speaker 1: it's it's not an easy thing to maintain a long

1523
01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:44,160
Speaker 1: distance steel, and I don't know that it necessarily met

1524
01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:46,120
Speaker 1: the bar. It doesn't mean I don't value her, just man,

1525
01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:47,639
Speaker 1: I don't like her doesn't mean I don't think she's

1526
01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:50,560
Speaker 1: smart and clever and want to be her friend. I

1527
01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:52,960
Speaker 1: really hadn't made a decision about it one way or another.

1528
01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:55,479
Speaker 1: But I also had other things to do. I had

1529
01:19:55,640 --> 01:19:58,120
Speaker 1: other obligations. I wasn't sitting on my phone all weekend

1530
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 1: when I'm with my mom on her birthday, xting this girl.

1531
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 1: And so I feel like she decided after forty eight

1532
01:20:04,240 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 1: hours that she wasn't getting what she wanted from me,

1533
01:20:06,680 --> 01:20:09,280
Speaker 1: So so let me sort of send this last final

1534
01:20:09,439 --> 01:20:12,880
Speaker 1: job and essentially break up with somebody who she wasn't dating.

1535
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:16,080
Speaker 1: Maybe I didn't really see that it was necessary for

1536
01:20:16,240 --> 01:20:19,840
Speaker 1: us to have any kind of I would never question

1537
01:20:19,920 --> 01:20:24,200
Speaker 1: someone's values because values are important to me. Maybe, Frank, yeah,

1538
01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 1: maybe you know you talked about hey, you know this

1539
01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:28,320
Speaker 1: is what I do for living them on the radio.

1540
01:20:28,360 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 1: And then she goes your Instagram and it turns out

1541
01:20:30,479 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 1: you're a single parent. That flies planes because there's nothing

1542
01:20:33,439 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 1: there's nothing on Instagram that shows that you're in radio. Yeah,

1543
01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:37,160
Speaker 1: she's like, oh, you didn't even talk about this kid

1544
01:20:37,160 --> 01:20:45,360
Speaker 1: you got? You ever mentioned your daughter? Not a single

1545
01:20:45,439 --> 01:20:47,599
Speaker 1: parent that I'm aware of. Okay, so we all agree

1546
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:50,960
Speaker 1: this was a job though, right kaylin? Um, I don't know.

1547
01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:52,479
Speaker 1: It feels like I don't know what they talked about.

1548
01:20:52,520 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 1: So I don't know how she could know your values,

1549
01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:56,920
Speaker 1: but it feels very honest to me. I mean, but again,

1550
01:20:57,040 --> 01:20:58,960
Speaker 1: I know your values and I think you have great values.

1551
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 1: So I don't know where that specific part is coming from.

1552
01:21:02,160 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Maybe she felt like she was

1553
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:07,679
Speaker 1: like needed to overcommunicate and be honest. Um. I mean, look,

1554
01:21:08,760 --> 01:21:11,160
Speaker 1: I have a different way of communicating. I definitely am

1555
01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:14,160
Speaker 1: a little bolder and a little more sarcastic, and I

1556
01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 1: probably say and do things I admit, And I even

1557
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:19,960
Speaker 1: said to her, I kind of test people when I

1558
01:21:20,080 --> 01:21:22,120
Speaker 1: first meet them to see where my limits are. And

1559
01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 1: it's not for everybody, Um, but I kind of think

1560
01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:27,840
Speaker 1: that's just the way I communicate and if and if

1561
01:21:27,880 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 1: it's off putting to you, then it would never work

1562
01:21:31,280 --> 01:21:33,920
Speaker 1: between us. And I think she's kind of the same way.

1563
01:21:34,360 --> 01:21:37,479
Speaker 1: Was this how you're texting me about Yeah, okay, yeah,

1564
01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,559
Speaker 1: and so I don't know, I just I didn't think

1565
01:21:40,600 --> 01:21:42,800
Speaker 1: it was necessary. I think she kind of burned down

1566
01:21:43,000 --> 01:21:46,160
Speaker 1: any possibility of us even being cool, which I didn't

1567
01:21:46,200 --> 01:21:48,200
Speaker 1: I didn't think was necessary. I mean, I think it's

1568
01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:52,880
Speaker 1: possible that people can meet and just not be, you know,

1569
01:21:53,200 --> 01:21:56,479
Speaker 1: in love, and and and and again. I mean, add

1570
01:21:56,560 --> 01:21:58,599
Speaker 1: to it the challenge of being far away from one another,

1571
01:21:58,680 --> 01:22:00,880
Speaker 1: it just raises the bar, maybe to an unfair level.

1572
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just didn't think. I didn't think

1573
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:04,960
Speaker 1: it was necessary. And I think instead of this being

1574
01:22:05,040 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 1: something that could have just been a cool friendship, I

1575
01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:09,640
Speaker 1: think now I'm like, oh really, so so we we

1576
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:11,920
Speaker 1: talk for like three days, and now you you claim

1577
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:13,800
Speaker 1: to know who I am as a person, and it

1578
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 1: felt like kind of a character dig as opposed to

1579
01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:18,840
Speaker 1: just hey, this didn't work out. Is she like looking

1580
01:22:18,920 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 1: for marriage right away or kids right away? And you maybe,

1581
01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:23,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, you're not because I mean, maybe she's

1582
01:22:23,880 --> 01:22:25,320
Speaker 1: just not trying to waste her time. And I know

1583
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:28,240
Speaker 1: how a friendship isn't wasting time. But I don't know

1584
01:22:28,320 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 1: what you guys spoke about So it's hard to say, no,

1585
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: I know, it's kind of hard. I don't know. I

1586
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:35,519
Speaker 1: just I guess I wouldn't have said that for sure.

1587
01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 1: Blocker number, blocker, Instagram, blocker, from everything, Fred, that was

1588
01:22:39,479 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 1: a dig I agree with you, It was a dig.

1589
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 1: I don't know of all things, like you can say

1590
01:22:43,680 --> 01:22:47,120
Speaker 1: I think you're you know, I think you're a jackass

1591
01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:49,320
Speaker 1: or whatever. You say what you want or that was,

1592
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:51,240
Speaker 1: you know, you say stupid things that you could say

1593
01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:53,080
Speaker 1: all those things, But like, I actually take my character

1594
01:22:53,240 --> 01:22:55,839
Speaker 1: kind of seriously, and I think I do have good values.

1595
01:22:56,080 --> 01:22:58,160
Speaker 1: I don't think it's always transmitted in the first forty

1596
01:22:58,160 --> 01:22:59,559
Speaker 1: eight hours that I meet someone, but I think as

1597
01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:01,960
Speaker 1: people get to know me, they see, like there's another side. Yeah,

1598
01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:04,640
Speaker 1: you know, I guess your values unless you said, like,

1599
01:23:04,760 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 1: these are my values, here's the PowerPoint. Yeah. Anyway, I

1600
01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:10,080
Speaker 1: guess it was just more disappointing to me that it's like, oh, oh,

1601
01:23:10,160 --> 01:23:12,920
Speaker 1: so you didn't get what you wanted or it didn't

1602
01:23:12,960 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 1: go the way you wanted it to you or thought

1603
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 1: it would or whatever, so now we can't even be friends, Like, oh,

1604
01:23:19,160 --> 01:23:21,439
Speaker 1: I'm not even worthy of a friendship. It was like, oh,

1605
01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:24,479
Speaker 1: let's get around waiting by the phone friend. Let's go. Yeah,

1606
01:23:24,680 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 1: let's go.