1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: I adopted my daughter eleven years ago, and now the 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 1: birth mom is trying to take a back bracket. Play babe. 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 2: Is that legal? 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be legal if you just snatch them, 5 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: you know, finders keepers, baby snatcher, Yeah, finders keepers. You know, 6 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 1: I just take them. Go to Cuba. You know, Cuban's 7 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: of car and that baby's mouth, nobody. 8 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 2: Will know that it's not a local baby. 9 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. All the babies in Cuba are giving Cubans 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: of cards. 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:34,159 Speaker 2: They don't have passifiers. 12 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: My thirty six sister N twenty nine got pregnant at eighteen. 13 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: That's where're right at, Team mom, Team Mom. That's right 14 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: out the gate. If you got pregnant eighteen, would what 15 00:00:50,159 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: do you do? 16 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 2: What I do? Which straight? 17 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I am infertile and knew I couldn't 18 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: have kids. So when En said she was giving her 19 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: maybe up for adoption, I decided to be her mom 20 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,959 Speaker 1: and went no contact five months after giving birth for 21 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: a bit of background, and got pregnant by a one 22 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: night stand and she apparently didn't remember or know the 23 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: father at the time of birth. But when V was two, 24 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 1: a man named T thirty five, so V is the kid, 25 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: the baby. A man named T thirty five message me 26 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: on social media, claiming to be the father of my child. 27 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 2: I feel like you could just be some random guy 28 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 2: on Facebook. 29 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, how do you say. 30 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: Well, he was inside you, so you know, well, but 31 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 2: like someone. 32 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:39,440 Speaker 1: Someone else could have been inside her. 33 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, was it a really dark club or. 34 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 1: Well, people could have sex with multiple. 35 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 3: People in a week, but she would at least recognize 36 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 3: the person. 37 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: Maybe, so we have N twenty nine got pregnant. 38 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:52,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, N would recognize the man. 39 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: Yea, T is the man. T is the man thirty five? Right? 40 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: He ranandomly says, this two year old is mine? Yeah, 41 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: because I guess he hooked up with the eighteen year 42 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: old yeah, b which actually got pregnant at eighteen. 43 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 2: Barely. 44 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's a big age gap. Oh no, 45 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: I guess. 46 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,839 Speaker 2: No, No, it's years later. It's years later. 47 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. What would you do if you adopted this kid 48 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: and this random dude from Facebook is like, that's my. 49 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,359 Speaker 3: Good I would look into the law first, right, called 50 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: those lawyers. 51 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: I would just be like fuck off until actually the 52 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: lawyers recall. I mean, like, how like can anyone just 53 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 1: go and like that's my baby. 54 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:36,679 Speaker 3: Well, no, no, no, I would yeah, but I would 55 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 3: find out like, okay, if this is baby is this. 56 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 2: Man's baby, then you know, does. 57 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 3: He have rights to this baby? I've officially adopted it. 58 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 3: That's why I would go to the lawyer. 59 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: And had run into him at a club and drunkenly 60 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: confess to the pregnancy. We met up as an OP 61 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: and the man T M. Bonded with his daughter V 62 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: and now that man is my husband of seven years. 63 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,399 Speaker 1: Coming back to my sister, she wait. 64 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 2: What, what's a big jump? We missed some detail? 65 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: Wait? 66 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 4: So the guy that you're mister? Wait wait wait what's seck? 67 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,839 Speaker 4: So this guy has a one night stand with your sister. 68 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:26,760 Speaker 2: Has a baby with her. 69 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: Baby with her he's like, that's my baby, and you're OP. 70 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: He's like, now it's time to go to bone down. 71 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he sounds like a catch. 72 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: Maybe, I mean, at least he's got some strong swimmers 73 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: that is fertile. Coming back to my sister, she called 74 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: me yesterday. Although I was surprised at her call, I 75 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: picked up. We made some small talk and then she 76 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: said she had just gotten married a year back and 77 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: both of them wanted children but couldn't because her husband 78 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: wasn't fertile, but really want kids. Doesn't sound like a 79 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 1: problem for old p that teas for test tossed the 80 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: own baby man's pumping bullets. 81 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: Bah bah put him in the army man. 82 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, dude, he's gonna come all over the enemy. 83 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 1: I asked her if she wanted to adopt, and she said, 84 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: uh nah, just give me my baby back. 85 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 3: She legally adopted this baby. You can't just say trainzies again. 86 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: She didn't want the baby in the first place. I know, 87 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 3: I know, poor kid is gonna have the most fucked up. 88 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: I mean, but you're like, kids are basically like a 89 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: fucking blank slate until seven. 90 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 91 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 3: I actually think that your most impressionable years are in 92 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 3: early childhood. 93 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: I mean, sure you're not gonna remember it. 94 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: You subconsciously too. 95 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: I was speechless for a few moments before replying that 96 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: if she wants to meet my child as an aunt, 97 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: she is welcome to and we can both sit v 98 00:04:55,480 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: down and explain the reason for her absence. But she 99 00:04:58,760 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 1: can't just get up. But asked me to give my 100 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 1: child away. She said she'll sue me as she's the 101 00:05:05,160 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 1: birth mother. I told her she was out of her 102 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: goddamn mind, and I told her about tea dun't du dude, 103 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:18,559 Speaker 1: she's spelling the tea yoo. That's actually kind of crazy. 104 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 2: This is a really complicated sibling relationship. 105 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, She's like, oh, you want to take my 106 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: baby back? Well, you know the father, we're married, the fun. 107 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 3: And now the sister has no bargaining rights because the 108 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 3: kid is half his. 109 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: Well, I guess maybe they can split custody or something. 110 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:42,839 Speaker 3: Damn, I would hate to be the lawyers on this case. Complicated, 111 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 3: it's so confusing. 112 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: She exploded, calling me names and staying I store her life. Naw, girl, 113 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: I just stole your husband and your. 114 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 3: Baby, literally the life that came out of you. 115 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: I still, Oh my god. I then got a call 116 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 1: from my parents saying I was an asshole for telling 117 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 1: end she couldn't have her baby. I said I never 118 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: said that, and I welcomed her to bond with the 119 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: but they refused to listen and said I was being 120 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,560 Speaker 1: insensitive and harsh and flaunting my family. I now feel 121 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: bad because me and n we're very close as sisters, 122 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: and I feel quite close to her situations. I know 123 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: the struggles of inferterlity, but that's not going to stop 124 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: me from boone and T on the daily. Oh yeah, 125 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: it's kind of fucked up to like secretly marry the 126 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: guy that your sister hooked up with. 127 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's pretty fucked Yeah. 128 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: It's pretty fuck Yeah. Guys, what do you think, like, 129 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: would you secretly sleep with your siblings. 130 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 2: Lover and then marry them? 131 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 1: And then marry them? 132 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: And true love is true love? T wasn't enough for 133 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: n back in the day. 134 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 1: This is not making me very confident in the future relationship. 135 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 1: True love is true love. We got it though, Yeah, 136 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 1: we got it. We got it. He said there was 137 00:06:57,560 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: no way he was letting my sister have full custom 138 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: and I agree. But I want to know if I'm 139 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 1: being the a hole for being too tar But I 140 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: want to know if I'm being the a hole for 141 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: being too harsh and telling her about tea. So people, 142 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 1: I want to know, is OP the a hole? Put 143 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 1: it down the comments? But while you're comment in below, Arianna. 144 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: What do you think the verdict is? 145 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 3: I don't think her and the sister that close if 146 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 3: they don't know that they're getting married, why was the 147 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 3: sister not at the wedding. Why is she the household 148 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 3: for even revealing that T is her husband? 149 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think I think a piece in the clear. 150 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: I think it's pretty shitty to marry the guy, like 151 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: to knowingly marry the guy that your sister had a 152 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: baby with and not tell your sister. That's shitty. You 153 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: don't think that's shitty. 154 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 2: No, I mean it is, but it sounds like a 155 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 2: pretty strained relationship to begin with. 156 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think the sister has a right 157 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: to know. I don't think she has a right to 158 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: the baby though. That both that we both agree on. Yeah, 159 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: the sister does not have a right to ope. She 160 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: baby that she adopted, she gave it up. She can 161 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 1: come as an at that's nice. But yeah, anyway, let 162 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,559 Speaker 1: us know what you think. Put in the comments below. 163 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 5: You've just had the. 164 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:11,120 Speaker 1: Pleasure of knowing this beautiful gem Ariana. My girlfriend. John's 165 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: out for the week, but he will be back soon 166 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: and I'll catch you in the next one. 167 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 6: I blew up at my husband. He lied and said 168 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 6: my sister and her baby left when he was the 169 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 6: one that kicked him out. Am I the a hole? 170 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: Okayop? This is Okayop? I'm Samuel Dnner and I'm John Fry. 171 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 6: Uh huh, and these the best and the funniest, storied 172 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 6: wicked bird. 173 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, that's kind of sick. But John, I heard 174 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: you have a story for me. 175 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 6: I do, I do, But first I have to asked 176 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 6: you a question. Yeah, I mean they call it a 177 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 6: cold open for a reason. 178 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 5: You know, we got it was straight fire. It was 179 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 5: straight fire. 180 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 6: But you know, we gotta, you know, have a little 181 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 6: foreplay here when I can't just get straight to the 182 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 6: straight to the business. I think I think most of 183 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,960 Speaker 6: us in this world have had, you know, different messes 184 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 6: and disasters in the world of like dating and relationships. 185 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 6: What's what's what's a fun funny uh mess that you've 186 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 6: that you've been in your dating and relationship? 187 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:21,400 Speaker 4: Jeez? 188 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:29,520 Speaker 1: I okay, oh sorry, I have some. I have some. 189 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 6: I have to specify. What's a lie that somebody that 190 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 6: you were in a relationship told you a lie? Yeah, 191 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 6: like the clothing one, right, the clothing one. Yeah, the 192 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 6: one where she like lied that she. 193 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, so John just knows me too well. Yeah. Yeah. 194 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: So so my first real girlfriend or second real girlfriend? 195 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 1: Should I say her name? 196 00:09:58,520 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 3: No? 197 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: Omit all admit her last name. No, no, no, make a 198 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: new name. Make a new name, Addison Addison. 199 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 5: There we go. 200 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 1: Uh so not Addison Ray. So that's not public yet. 201 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 1: My my long term relationship with Addison right now. So 202 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: this uh, this girl Addison, like I we had broken 203 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 1: up because she cheated on me and h then like 204 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: she came back into my life years later. I'm like, 205 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: you know, I'll give her another chance, right, So we 206 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:34,440 Speaker 1: kind of start seeing each other casually and I'm like, yo, like, 207 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: I'm fine giving you another chance, but you got to 208 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: be completely honest with me, because if you're not, like 209 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,199 Speaker 1: this is this is not going to work, right. And 210 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: then she like she I'm like I see this skirt. 211 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you should get this right, and she's 212 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 1: like cool, I'm going to order it. And then she 213 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: like says she orders it, and I'm like cool, right, 214 00:10:57,120 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 1: very normal, right, And then like I check in. I'm like, hey, like, 215 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: how did you like the skirt? And she's like, oh, 216 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: it's great. I love it so much, and I'm like, cool, 217 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:11,599 Speaker 1: we'd love to see you it at sometime like a 218 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:16,719 Speaker 1: week passes by and like and then and then you know, 219 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: I still haven't seen the skirt, and I'm like, I'm like, 220 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: do you know it's just like how are you liking 221 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: the skirt? And she's like like like, don't worry, I 222 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: have it. I bought it. I'll even send you the 223 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,440 Speaker 1: receipt of like me getting it, and again like I 224 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: do not care about the skirt. 225 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 5: You You're like, oh wait, yeah, I don't care. 226 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 1: About the skirt at all. I just wanted to know, 227 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: like it was my suggestion diacon right. She sends me 228 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 1: a receipt of this very poorly doctored and like photoshop 229 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: receipt from the website where like the date is like 230 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: changed in comic sands. 231 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 5: On comic sands literally, and I'm like. 232 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: I look at it and I'm like, obviously this is fake, 233 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 1: and I'm like, why why did you wan? Did you 234 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: edit this this receipt And it's like I didn't at 235 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 1: the receipt. I got this when I when I told 236 00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:12,199 Speaker 1: you I got it, and I'm like, uh, I don't 237 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: think so. And then we basically have this whole conversation 238 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 1: like why are you lying about this? You're obviously lying 239 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 1: about this, and she just couldn't own up to it. 240 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: She just couldn't and I'm like, I don't think this 241 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: is gonna work right, and and and and it and 242 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: like it. Basically I found out later she's just like 243 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: this compulsive liar, but over a freaking skirt. Like, if 244 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna edit it, at least use the same freaking 245 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: thought and not comic Sands. So it's so obvious that 246 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: you changed the day. I don't care about the skirt. 247 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: I just care about you being truthful. 248 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 5: Wow, Comic Sands. 249 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 6: Okay, I admittedly already knew this story, but I had 250 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 6: completely forgotten about that detail. 251 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 1: Yeah. 252 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 5: No, that she doctored the doctor receipt with Comic Sands. 253 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, ridiculous. 254 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 5: Wow, Well, well that. 255 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 6: Was It was more of a doozy than I was expecting, 256 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 6: thinking I already knew the story. But we do have 257 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 6: another story for you, Samuel, about a lie, a relationship 258 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 6: and some hurt, some hurt feelings. 259 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: All right, let's hear it. 260 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 6: I blew up at my husband. He lied and said 261 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,760 Speaker 6: my sister and her baby left when he was the 262 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 6: one that kicked him out. Am I the a hole? 263 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:22,960 Speaker 1: Why are you lying? Don't lie all the truth? 264 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 3: Guy? 265 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 5: You always lying? Why are you always lying? Why are 266 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 5: you liing fine. 267 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 6: I think that's where that came from. 268 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 5: Okay, let's read a story, guys. 269 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 6: So my sister twenty got out of a terrible relationship 270 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 6: and moved in with me and my husband and brought 271 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:47,199 Speaker 6: her five month old son. Dang that we're already off 272 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 6: to a. 273 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: Very Jesus when it just like starts and it just 274 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: slams you against the wall with a bunch of horrible details. 275 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 6: And you know what's funny is like she's it's most 276 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 6: people like show how terrible is She's just like, here 277 00:13:59,400 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 6: are the facts? 278 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 1: That's actually like, oh no, this is bad. 279 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 6: My sister was dealing with a handful of issues like 280 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:07,839 Speaker 6: postpartum depression, and I asked my husband if he'd be 281 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,720 Speaker 6: okay with her moving in and he said absolutely, not 282 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 6: just this, but he was the one who picked her 283 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,680 Speaker 6: up and brought her here, so it seems like he's 284 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 6: like on board, fully in support, right. She stayed for 285 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 6: two weeks and helped around the house. My husband started 286 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 6: complaining about the baby crying. But a newborn is expected 287 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 6: to cry, especially at night. Is this unknown information? 288 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: This is what babies do. I cry, man, They eat, sleep, whoop, 289 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 1: and cry. 290 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 5: I've never had a baby. 291 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,400 Speaker 6: You've never had a baby, But would you be shocked 292 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 6: if a newborn was crying. 293 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 1: I would not be shocked. I would be awoken, but 294 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be shocked. 295 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 6: He says it causes some stress, so I suggested that 296 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 6: he puts some earbuds in. 297 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: He's probably the solution, but. 298 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 6: At that point he just seemed frustrated and just said 299 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 6: suddenly to forget it, and so I did. Last week, 300 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 6: I I had to go out of town to attend 301 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 6: a friend's funeral without my husband. Geez, gosh, these really 302 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 6: like heavy details just nonchalantly dropped in. 303 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, that totally didn't even register our funeral. Gah. 304 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. 305 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 6: He said he wanted to stay with my sister to 306 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 6: make sure she's okay. I returned home the next day 307 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 6: and didn't find her or the baby at home. My 308 00:15:21,040 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 6: husband said that she had contacted a friend in another 309 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 6: town and wanted to move with them and left that morning. 310 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: Okay. 311 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 6: He handed me a letter from her, claiming that it 312 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 6: was written by her. This felt so odd, especially after 313 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 6: reading the letter, so I called her phone many many times. 314 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 6: But it turns out that my husband found her phone 315 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 6: and said she must have left it behind. 316 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:48,520 Speaker 1: What this seems weird? 317 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 5: This is getting weirder and weird. 318 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: It seems really really weird. 319 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 6: I was worried and had no means of contacting my 320 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 6: own sister and her baby to make sure they were okay. 321 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 6: So I contacted relatives, but they knew nothing. 322 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 1: Jeez. 323 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 6: Yesterday I got a call from an unknown number and 324 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 6: it was her. We talked and she told me that 325 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 6: she didn't leave on her own, but my husband kicked 326 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 6: her out after telling her she was no longer welcome 327 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:18,840 Speaker 6: and she needed to take responsibility. 328 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: For her decisions. Oh my god, dude, that's so bad. 329 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 330 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 6: I was in shock as she explained that she's not 331 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 6: with a friend but at a shelter and has no money. 332 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, this husband is a piece of crap. 333 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 5: Dude, like this is. 334 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: Lied about it and then put her in a shelter base. 335 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 5: This is like evil stuff. 336 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 1: Yeah evil. I don't know how you can forget your 337 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: husband after this. Jesus, Yeah, this is egregious. I waited 338 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: until he got home and I blew up at him. 339 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: He admitted he faked the letter and hit her phone, 340 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 1: then argue that it's his house and he has to say, 341 00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: but he shouldn't have lied to me about my sister 342 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: and causing her to be homeless. 343 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 5: You think it just that statement. 344 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:08,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I shouldn't have a lied to you by writing 345 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: a fake letter and then putting your sister and then 346 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 1: making your and then making your sister homeless like like 347 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: obviously obviously. 348 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,360 Speaker 6: He said I was being unfair and it was wrong 349 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 6: to lash out at him for wanting peace in his home. 350 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 6: I went upstairs and refused to argue anymore. I told 351 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 6: him I'm going to pick her up tomorrow, and he 352 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 6: said he changed the locks while I'm gone, and I 353 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 6: won't be allowed to bring her home. Geez, this guy 354 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 6: is like this dude, this guy is insane. I'm thinking 355 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 6: of going to hotel. But he kept saying that I'm 356 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 6: letting my sister affect our lives by prioritizing her. But 357 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:53,159 Speaker 6: here's the thing. There's a baby involved, my nephew, and 358 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 6: I am not going to leave him homeless. 359 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're not going to leave your sister homeless either. 360 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 6: I get that it's his house too, but I don't 361 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 6: see why he is so incredibly against her staying and 362 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:10,360 Speaker 6: there isn't edit He returned home and we started arguing again. 363 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 6: I could not take it anymore. So I'm going to 364 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 6: stay at a hotel for tonight and I'm leaving in 365 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 6: an hour or so. He's wanting to talk again now, 366 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 6: but I'm incredibly overwhelmed and stressed out and need some 367 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 6: time to be by myself. Don't blame you at all 368 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 6: for that. I don't care if he's going to change 369 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 6: the locks or not. I'm working on meeting up with 370 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:34,120 Speaker 6: my sister as soon as possible so we can talk 371 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 6: more openly about what happened and hopefully try to figure 372 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:38,719 Speaker 6: something out and help her. 373 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: Wow, I mean great sister. Yeah, the sister. 374 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 6: This guy's like a sociopath and like everything combined, this 375 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 6: husband needs to be dropped like asap. 376 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 1: I like it's evil, Like it's evil, and like he 377 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 1: like he lied about the letter, you try to cover 378 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,000 Speaker 1: his track. Like the thing is, it's like it's not 379 00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: like he didn't know that what he was doing was wrong, 380 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,600 Speaker 1: Like he knew what he was doing was wrong and 381 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 1: so tried to cover up his tracks so to his wife, 382 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:07,640 Speaker 1: he wouldn't look evil, but he looks evil. Yeah. 383 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 5: See that's why I think. Is it sociopath? 384 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 6: The one where you like don't basically don't feel bad about, yeah, 385 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:16,640 Speaker 6: or psychopath maybe one of those, like basically the thing 386 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:20,439 Speaker 6: where like you do evil and you literally feel like 387 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 6: you have no guilts. 388 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, you just have like no conscience. 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