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Speaker 1: the dating world is hard when you've recently gone through

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Speaker 1: a divorce, and that's why you should date people while

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Speaker 1: But I'm no relationship expert, but I should be anyway.

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Speaker 1: Matthew is on the phone right now, and that's what

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Speaker 1: he said in his email. He's recently divorced, decided to

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Speaker 1: get back into the dating world, and now somebody's not

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Speaker 1: calling him back. What's up, Matthew? How are you? I'm

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Speaker 1: a oh man. How long has it been since you

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Speaker 1: were in the dating world? Well, I ran for five

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Speaker 1: years and then I got divorced and I didn't date

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Speaker 1: again for at least two years. Okay, Wow, it's a

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Speaker 1: long time. Yeah. So the girl you want to call today,

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Speaker 1: what's her name? Her name is Charlotte. Charlotte all right,

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Speaker 1: and how did you meet Charlotte online? Okay? And is

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Speaker 1: this the first time you've ever done online dating? It

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Speaker 1: was the first time I've done any dating in a

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Speaker 1: long time. Okay. So Charlotte is your first fourier for

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Speaker 1: what's the word there? I don't know first. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's the first date, the first date since you've been divorced. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's correct. Okay. And how did things go with Charlotte?

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Speaker 1: I think it went really well. We met for coffee

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I just didn't think I knew how to

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Speaker 1: she made it really easy. So is all you guys

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Speaker 1: did was coffee or did you do something else? Oh? No,

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Speaker 1: we just had coffee. And then I did invite her

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Speaker 1: to the Halloween party a friend of mine something that's

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Speaker 1: you don't know? It was a costume party, so I

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Speaker 1: I just kept asking it, would you please I play

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Speaker 1: up at a Halloween party. The only problem was. Matthew

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Speaker 1: And and even if she completely hates me and has

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Speaker 1: I'm a dollar phone of right now. I'm asking to Charlotte. Please.

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Speaker 1: This is Charlotte. Hey, Charlotte, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's radio show.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I've never heard of you. Oh, well I've

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Speaker 1: heard of you. If that means anything so creepy, it's

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Speaker 1: It's true, Charlotte. We've all heard of you, though. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a segment on our show it's called the Second Date.

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Speaker 1: Updates where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: us to get you on the phone and find out

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Speaker 1: what happened. And we got an email about you from

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Speaker 1: a dude named Matthew. You probably remember him. He likes

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Speaker 1: I know we were talking about Oh my gosh, are

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Speaker 1: you mad at Matthew? No, I'm not mad at them.

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Speaker 1: I'm just knna it didn't work out, that's all. You know,

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Speaker 1: it didn't work out. Well, how do you know it

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Speaker 1: where to meet. Well, I just I didn't go. You

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Speaker 1: didn't go to the Halloween party? Oh? Man, No, were

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Speaker 1: you not even interested in him? After coffee? Then? No?

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Speaker 1: He was nice at first. Then he this is I

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Speaker 1: I'm with you, Charlotte. What do you mean though? Like, okay,

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Speaker 1: a bad dude. That's pretty much how he described it

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Speaker 1: enough red flag I think for anyone to be fair

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Speaker 1: was really really into Halloween. But he was also really,

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Speaker 1: really really into serial killers, and so why shouldn't tell

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Speaker 1: to me he probably is a serial killer. I'm feeling it.

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Speaker 1: They often don't really give all their cars right away,

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Speaker 1: and they're always nice guys. They always come across as

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Speaker 1: nice guys. You're right, he was really nice, and that

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Speaker 1: serial killer. So I'm glad you didn't show up. Way,

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Speaker 1: who side are you on? Well, not yours? Serial killer?

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Speaker 1: What's gone on here? Oh, Charlotte, that's Matthew. He's actually

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Speaker 1: on the other line listening to the conversation. I wants

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Speaker 1: to talk to you, probably sharpening his knife while he's listening.

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Speaker 1: But he's on the other line listening. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sharpening my knife. Anyway, Charlotte, I have been

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Speaker 1: and I can assure you that I am not a creepy,

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