WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Girl Jumper

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of date. Is it possible to be

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<v Speaker 1>too hot to date? Asking for a friend?

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody in this room could answer you.

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<v Speaker 1>Seriously.

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<v Speaker 3>If you look on TikTok right now, there's all these

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<v Speaker 3>videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will approach

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<v Speaker 3>them because guys are too intimidated.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, my best friend is gorgeous and she

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<v Speaker 2>always had that problem.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah to them.

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<v Speaker 3>It was all part of Hoosa's hashtag ask a Hot

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<v Speaker 3>Girl out without peeing yourself challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, didn't go so pants.

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<v Speaker 3>That might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen,

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<v Speaker 3>is facing in her love life right now. She's worried

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<v Speaker 3>maybe she was too attractive during her first date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we'll try not to make fun of you right

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<v Speaker 2>out of the gate.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel sorry for you already. We want to

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<v Speaker 1>learn more how you doing.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm sorry? Can I just this was a one nighte phenomenon.

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<v Speaker 5>I am not that hot a true hot girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, we'll hang up on this girl.

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<v Speaker 2>What happened?

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<v Speaker 3>We're just joking around with you, krist tell us about

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<v Speaker 3>the guy that you ended up going out with. What's

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<v Speaker 3>his name?

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<v Speaker 5>His name is ben I don't even know if you

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<v Speaker 5>could call it going out. Last week, I was supposed

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<v Speaker 5>to meet up with my friend just get some drinks

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<v Speaker 5>or whatever. Girls nights. I have this thing where I

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<v Speaker 5>like to wear these one piece outfits now, like a jumper.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a jumper yeap oh yeah yeah, like those babies

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<v Speaker 3>wear that you zip up from the foot.

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<v Speaker 1>All the way to the neck.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I will say, I wish they had a zipper

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<v Speaker 2>down the wall, because going to the bathroom in a jumper.

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<v Speaker 5>Is really.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sorry, I keep going. You're you're looking good.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm sitting at the bar waiting for my friend

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<v Speaker 5>and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like

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<v Speaker 5>sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay girl.

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<v Speaker 5>And there's this one guy in particular who is just

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<v Speaker 5>like absolutely my type from head to toe. Like he

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<v Speaker 5>was even wearing like the outfit my high schoo will

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<v Speaker 5>crush you through it. That was like my favorite outfit

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<v Speaker 5>with like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt.

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<v Speaker 5>And he had a beard just like he was way

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<v Speaker 5>taller than me.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good, it's good that you got over him. So

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<v Speaker 1>did the ban approach you?

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<v Speaker 2>Then?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I mean, I thought maybe he was looking my

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<v Speaker 5>way a little bit, but like I said, I was

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<v Speaker 5>really feeling myself. So I went up to him.

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<v Speaker 2>As you watch all the other boys be jealous.

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<v Speaker 5>Cool.

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<v Speaker 1>In your situation, jealous.

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<v Speaker 5>About this. Well, okay, here's where it gets a little

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<v Speaker 5>bit weird because I've never had anything like this happened

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<v Speaker 5>to me before. So I'm like, I'm sitting with him,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm chatting with him, and I'm clearly into him,

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<v Speaker 5>and the bartender comes over and interrupts because some other

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<v Speaker 5>guys sent me a drink.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice while you're talking to the guy that you wanted

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<v Speaker 3>and competitive the guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I

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<v Speaker 3>see you.

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<v Speaker 1>She walked to you, but I still got a retention

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<v Speaker 1>over here.

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<v Speaker 2>You like that? Did did he seem to like that,

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<v Speaker 2>like as like a challenge or did he seem to

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<v Speaker 2>be put off by it?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, he had a beard, so it's pretty hard

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<v Speaker 5>to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he mostly beard? No idea?

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<v Speaker 2>Like I was actually bore like five o'clock shadow, no

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<v Speaker 2>Santa Claus.

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<v Speaker 5>That was like a little bit awkward. So I kind

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<v Speaker 5>of used that as an opportunity to like show him

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<v Speaker 5>that I was into him. So I kind of looked

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<v Speaker 5>at the other guy like, uh, thanks, but what the heck,

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<v Speaker 5>and just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually must have made him feel good.

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<v Speaker 5>Like wow, but here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again.

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<v Speaker 2>What whoa wait? Same dude, like, same.

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<v Speaker 5>Dude, kid, now different dude.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you send me a link to your jumps? I

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<v Speaker 1>want that.

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<v Speaker 5>I had like some sort of magical magnetism going on,

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<v Speaker 5>and I just I just I like saluted that guy awkwardly,

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<v Speaker 5>like okay, captain, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Thinking about setting you a drink right now.

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<v Speaker 1>The bar seems like the coolest place.

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<v Speaker 3>It's got captains, it's got lumberjacks Brooks over.

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<v Speaker 1>In the back saying like, how do you do.

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<v Speaker 4>Mama?

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<v Speaker 5>Tell them because I'm out of your commentation.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the weirdest bar. How did this interaction between you

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<v Speaker 1>and Ben? How did that end?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? I mean, eventually my friend let me know that

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<v Speaker 5>she wasn't coming, and I was like, that's actually fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot about and we.

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<v Speaker 5>Hung out for the rest of the night, had a

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<v Speaker 5>fantastic night. He gave me his number, I gave him

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<v Speaker 5>my number. Yeah, And I mean that's basically been did

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<v Speaker 5>you ask.

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<v Speaker 2>Him if he was single, like, point blank, Oh.

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<v Speaker 5>My god, no, I have not. Actually, this is mind blowing.

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<v Speaker 1>Because even if he wasn't interested in you.

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<v Speaker 3>The fact that you were like literally swatting other men

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<v Speaker 3>away in front of him and then telling him you

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<v Speaker 3>were so interested like.

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<v Speaker 1>That alone would make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy, just make all you back attention. Not him.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been theorizing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing

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<v Speaker 5>but since and maybe he like stalked me online and

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<v Speaker 5>is like, Okay, she's not always that hot.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it's like when they turn the lights on at

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<v Speaker 2>the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 5>Of the bar and you're like, do you have to understand? Like,

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<v Speaker 5>for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is I

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<v Speaker 5>don't have to put an outfit together. It's like no effort.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's like I don't want to make up.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true. I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you and your magic onesie hold on. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>play a song that we'll call Ben for you, and

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<v Speaker 3>we'll try and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Okay, I'm suddenly feeling very.

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<v Speaker 4>Hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Got this hold on update.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 2>right after you here part two.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel to

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<v Speaker 3>Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream cot Listen and

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<v Speaker 3>the Magic Do Attracting Onesie wants to link because she

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<v Speaker 3>went out and wore this one specific jumper that made

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<v Speaker 3>her look real fine that night. So guys at the

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<v Speaker 3>bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing,

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<v Speaker 3>except it was happening while she was sitting down with

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<v Speaker 3>the one dude that she really wanted to be with,

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<v Speaker 3>a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard

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<v Speaker 3>than body.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but she's worried.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe all that attention from other guys was a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit intimidating to Ben and it could have scared him away.

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<v Speaker 2>How could a guy with a beard like that be intimidated.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what happened, but he's not asking me out,

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<v Speaker 5>so I mean, whatever it is, I want to know.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe his beard got caught on the door and he's

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<v Speaker 3>just he can't get home to make the call to you.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's find out here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds right. Hey, is this Ben the beard?

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<v Speaker 4>What I mean? Ben?

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<v Speaker 1>Ben with a beard. This is Ben. Sorry, he sounded

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<v Speaker 1>exactly like I thought. I think Ben just flustered everyone

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<v Speaker 1>in the road. I know then, Sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>My name is jeff I also have a beard, but

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<v Speaker 3>probably not as nice as yours. I host a morning

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<v Speaker 3>radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and

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<v Speaker 3>we're hoping to talk with you a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh. You can also hear some podcasts too, if you

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<v Speaker 2>want to look us up on like Spotify, any of that.

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<v Speaker 2>We're there.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh all right, cool, that's all we wanted to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for your time.

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<v Speaker 2>Den.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes, No, we're really calling because we're doing something called

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<v Speaker 3>a second date update. We're trying to help one of

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<v Speaker 3>our listeners get a hold of you. Okay, her name's Kristen,

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<v Speaker 3>and you met her out at the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>The other night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it wasn't really a first date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, uh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a

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<v Speaker 2>really cute jumper on. Most guys don't recognize that stuffguage.

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<v Speaker 4>No, oh my gosh, I do know. I know who

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<v Speaker 4>that girl is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we got to talk to her. She sounded awesome,

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<v Speaker 2>like funny.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah, really fun.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she's super fun. She's right, Okay, I'm sorry she

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<v Speaker 4>told you that we hung out or something stild a

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<v Speaker 4>radio station. We hung out.

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<v Speaker 3>She said that she met you out at the bar

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<v Speaker 3>the other night and was having a really nice time.

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<v Speaker 3>And then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting ahold

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<v Speaker 3>of you, and she's curious.

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<v Speaker 1>Why.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, this is this is so crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I know this isn't a normal thing that happens,

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<v Speaker 3>but we're really hoping to help her out because she's

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<v Speaker 3>a listener.

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<v Speaker 4>Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just

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<v Speaker 4>kind of messed up.

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<v Speaker 2>What did she do something to you?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I was the situation was like I

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<v Speaker 4>saw her at a bar and like she came over

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<v Speaker 4>to me and we started chatting and she was really funny.

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<v Speaker 4>But I mean like she got like a drink from

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<v Speaker 4>another guy. I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, yeah, you mentioned that to us a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that something that intimidated you?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean not really not at first. I mean I

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<v Speaker 4>thought it was kind of funny that a dude was

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<v Speaker 4>doing that. But when it happened again, because it happened

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<v Speaker 4>like a second time, I was like, oh, he don't

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<v Speaker 4>know this is ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but how are you How are you blaming her?

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<v Speaker 4>That's not her fault. So, like, the situation that happened

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<v Speaker 4>was like she had to leave for a hot second,

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<v Speaker 4>step out to like talk to her friend, I guess,

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<v Speaker 4>because I guess the friend wasn't coming. But when she

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<v Speaker 4>was outside, I like walked over to the guy who

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<v Speaker 4>had set the drinks. Oh, like, hey, do you mind

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<v Speaker 4>not doing that? I'm talking to this girl right now,

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<v Speaker 4>and it kind of makes me look a little bad

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<v Speaker 4>or like feels like you're being competitive, which is like

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<v Speaker 4>so childlike that's not bad to go talk man to

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<v Speaker 4>man real quick and just say, hey, bro, yeah you

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<v Speaker 4>know you know you're not causing a scene, right and.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to wrestle? Beard's over now if he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>back on.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>talk with her, and you know, I think she's interested

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<v Speaker 3>in me.

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<v Speaker 2>So what did he say?

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<v Speaker 4>He said he didn't send it.

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<v Speaker 2>What Oh, so then you just obviously got the wrong dude, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like it was somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>The bartender said it wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>No, because like the bartender pointed to the guy out,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, because.

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<v Speaker 1>They're across the room. So the bartender was like.

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<v Speaker 2>From him, So you went to the bartender.

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<v Speaker 4>So I walked over the bartender and I asked the

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<v Speaker 4>bartender and he was like, I can't really disclose that

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<v Speaker 4>what I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>He just pointed the dude out.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Start or something, he say.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just weird that he was being coy and

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<v Speaker 4>I called that out. I was like, why do you

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<v Speaker 4>carry you literally pointed the guy out before And that's

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<v Speaker 4>when he told me, which is that I guess this

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<v Speaker 4>is something that she did.

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<v Speaker 1>That Kristen does.

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<v Speaker 4>She pays the bartender to like send a drink to

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<v Speaker 4>herself from some random guy every like that an hour hour?

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<v Speaker 3>Really, way do you believe that I'm going to start

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<v Speaker 3>doing this?

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<v Speaker 2>You think?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that's true?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because the second he like admitted it, he was like,

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<v Speaker 4>don't tell her. She does this often, Like she comes

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<v Speaker 4>in and does this every month.

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<v Speaker 2>Or soot like he doesn't he did it for like

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<v Speaker 2>a few months. He though, that's kind of nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm about to keep track of that sneaky trick.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you think that's a red flag? You don't

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<v Speaker 2>think it's just kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so it's so weird that.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's just trying to pump up her

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<v Speaker 2>own confidence. That some people need that, especially if they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to go approach another guy, which is a really

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<v Speaker 2>intimidating thing to do as a woman.

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<v Speaker 3>True, it's I mean, it sounds so outlandis you guys

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<v Speaker 3>are all believing it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still not sure if this is actually true. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we should.

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<v Speaker 3>Just ask Kristin directly. Kristin, did you pay the bartender

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<v Speaker 3>to send you drakes?

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<v Speaker 5>Of course not.

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<v Speaker 4>That's ridiculous, Ben, I forgot to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>Persons on the other line listening, she wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 5>So embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm embarrassed, but this is embarrassing for everyone.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, first of all, that is not even Drew. That's

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<v Speaker 5>complete nonsense. I would never do that. But let's say

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<v Speaker 5>theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious. I don't believe. No.

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<v Speaker 5>I was listening and Ben's all like, oh, she's messed up,

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, have you never seen the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Clueless and Clueless?

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<v Speaker 5>Remember she sends herself talkless and slow?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, in high school.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think they could be.

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<v Speaker 1>At a year to somebody that's denying it. You sure

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<v Speaker 1>do know a lot about how this system wars.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, you guys, a magician never reveals their secret.

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<v Speaker 1>Go okay, let me.

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<v Speaker 3>Get Is it not even that cute?

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm kind of like, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean, here's the thing. Does it even matter? Like? Who cares?

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<v Speaker 2>She sounds awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean you can kind of hear what she's saying

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<v Speaker 4>right now. She's making it seem like it's not that

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<v Speaker 4>big of a deal, but she's like not ohwing up

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<v Speaker 4>to it, but she kind of is owning up to it.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, if you're starting off on the wrong

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<v Speaker 4>foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or

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<v Speaker 4>maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that

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<v Speaker 4>right off the bat.

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<v Speaker 5>So you are like, I feel like you're taking this

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<v Speaker 5>really really seriously, considering we were a couple of random

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<v Speaker 5>strangers that met in the bar and had a laugh

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<v Speaker 5>and I just wanted to know you all right.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, then if you think that I'm taking it too seriously,

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<v Speaker 4>then just own up to it. Then I'll ask you again,

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<v Speaker 4>did you do it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Of course I did.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love it though a flirty It's like all

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<v Speaker 1>of us and so she didn't do it trick.

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<v Speaker 5>It works.

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<v Speaker 2>It's what dating is. It's like, you know, trying to

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<v Speaker 2>make yourself feel better, trying to make yourself look the best.

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<v Speaker 2>She just used a different method.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I do

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<v Speaker 3>need to let Ben know that there's another woman who

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<v Speaker 3>wants to send you a gift card to go on

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<v Speaker 3>a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like that gift card?

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<v Speaker 5>Ben?

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<v Speaker 3>Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go

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<v Speaker 3>out with Kristen one more time.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll pay for that.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, you know what?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure? Yeah, why not? But you have one strike against

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<v Speaker 4>you right now? You know you on a warning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sounds like a naughty thing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, agree. You know I have never ever cheated

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<v Speaker 5>or anything like that any ever in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to insist that no one asked.

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<v Speaker 4>Worry.

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<v Speaker 2>It's freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a few months since we did that second date,

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<v Speaker 3>and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back

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<v Speaker 3>on with us today to get an update on their situation.

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<v Speaker 4>But we don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Only Ben agreed, Kristen actually sent us an email calling

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<v Speaker 3>Ben a bunch of names.

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<v Speaker 1>What I don't know why but Ben, can you shed

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<v Speaker 1>some light on the situation. Tell us what happened?

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling you sweetheart

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<v Speaker 2>and babe.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not the name. I can tell you that. Then

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<v Speaker 1>what happened, dude?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I absolutely know why she refused to be

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<v Speaker 4>on the phone because we went to some sort of bar.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was a different one than we went to

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<v Speaker 4>on the first dape, obviously for obvious reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, we give you a gift certificate. So what happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, yeah, no. And I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it would be a really good joke. I mean, in retrospect,

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<v Speaker 4>it was kind of stupid, but I thought it was funny,

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<v Speaker 4>which is I decided to pull the same joke that

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<v Speaker 4>she pulled on me.

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<v Speaker 2>You had pretend women sending you drinks exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>That's it. I got that early and I told the bartender.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, Hey, I'm gonna sit over there. Missed

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<v Speaker 4>my credit card and you'll see when my day comes in. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and maybe wait like five minutes and then can you

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<v Speaker 4>bring me a vodka soda and sit like point to

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<v Speaker 4>the cutest girl in the bar like say it's from her.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you mind?

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what she did.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right,

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<v Speaker 4>But then when the bartender did it, she was furious.

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<v Speaker 2>Why Why was she so mad? Did she think you

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<v Speaker 2>were making fun of her?

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<v Speaker 4>Or I don't think that she really got the joke

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<v Speaker 4>at first. And I didn't really have much of the

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<v Speaker 4>time to kind of explain it because she just marched

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<v Speaker 4>right over to the woman. So I had to kind

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<v Speaker 4>of play damage control, and I like rushed up as well,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, hey, I'm so sorry, like it

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<v Speaker 4>was a joke, and then she like got in my

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<v Speaker 4>face for a hot second.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, she was the one that came up with this joke.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not as funny when a guy does it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do the joke, the joke.

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<v Speaker 2>So she seems so cool, not so unstable.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happens with.

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<v Speaker 3>All those cool girls, the cool one second nightmares the

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<v Speaker 3>next mony.

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<v Speaker 2>So was that the end? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean I guess she just got a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit of her own medicine and she's not really returning

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<v Speaker 4>my calls, so obviously.

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<v Speaker 2>She really was doing it because she had kind of

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<v Speaker 2>some maybe some self esteem. Okay, poor thing, dang it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it was a bummer but whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did you get that woman's number that sent you

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<v Speaker 2>the drink?

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<v Speaker 4>If I can get it, will you guys help me

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<v Speaker 4>out with the second date update?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>It obviously went so well the first time. Brook and

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the morning,