1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. 2 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 2: All of this stuff I never told you production by 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: Heart Radio, and recently we had the pleasure of getting 4 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 2: to talk to Olivia and Katie over at the What's 5 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 2: Her Name Podcast and it was an excellent conversation. We're 6 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 2: still trying to make this Savannah trip happen, but you 7 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 2: mentioned in there we had previously interviewed Olivia during early 8 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:43,839 Speaker 2: pandemic days and it was such a fascinating conversation, so 9 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 2: we thought we would bring this one back for people 10 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 2: to listen to. And it's two amazing stories of amazing women, 11 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: so please enjoy. 12 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 3: Hey, this is. 13 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 2: Annie and Samantha and welcome to stuff Mom told your 14 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 2: production of iHeartRadio. 15 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 4: So today we are excited to bring another crew who 16 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 4: also loves to talk about amazing women in history and 17 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 4: talk about all the amazing or even unknown accomplishments they did. 18 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 4: So let's welcome Olivia. 19 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: Olivia. 20 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 3: Hi, so happy to be here. 21 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 4: Yay, Olivia, thank you for joining us. Can you introduce 22 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 4: yourself for us? 23 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, my name's Olivia mikel and I teach women's studies 24 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: in Denver, Colorado, and I am the host of the 25 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 3: What's Her Name? Women's history podcast with my sister and 26 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 3: co host Katie Nelson. 27 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 4: And we are so excited that you have joined us. 28 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 4: You and I actually kind of connected because well, I 29 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 4: say you and I because I was the one handling 30 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 4: the social media at that point, because we got listed together, 31 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 4: and I was like, oh my god, it is cold. 32 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, crossover so exciting. 33 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 4: So can you tell a little bit about yourself for 34 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 4: our listeners and about your fantastic podcast and the reason 35 00:02:09,639 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 4: you and your sister decided to start all of it. 36 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. So I was finishing up grad school and jobs 37 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 3: were very thin on the ground here. I live in Boulder, 38 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 3: and like the people bagging your groceries, to have a 39 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: master's degree, so it's really hard to get an academic 40 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 3: job here. And I was afraid I wasn't going to 41 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 3: find anything. Thank goodness, I did, but and I didn't 42 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 3: want to do nothing with my degree. It felt like 43 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 3: it felt frustrating to not do anything with this degree 44 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 3: that I had discerned. And so I called Katie, my sister, 45 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 3: who is a history professor, and we had been talking 46 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 3: for a while about doing something for women's history since 47 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 3: it was the perfect crossover of our interests. And so 48 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 3: we thought about writing articles or doing a blog or 49 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,839 Speaker 3: something to get more women's history into the world. And 50 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 3: at that point podcasting was us about to shift from 51 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 3: do you know what a podcast is? To do you 52 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 3: listen to podcasts? And so we realized if we can 53 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 3: jump on this early on, then we have an advantage 54 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 3: over all the other podcasts that will start, and this 55 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 3: really seems like the venue that we're looking for. We 56 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 3: want this to be public and accessible and something that 57 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 3: you can use in classes, but also something that your 58 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 3: next door neighbor will enjoy. And so we decided to 59 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 3: do this to try to find a way to do 60 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 3: a podcast. We knew nothing about it at all, and 61 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 3: humanity professors learning to audio edit was hilarious, I will 62 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 3: tell you, and incredibly frustrating. But so we weren't really 63 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 3: exactly sure what we wanted to focus on. Just you know, 64 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: we knew women's history and that we were frustrated that 65 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 3: you keep hearing the same five women's stories over and 66 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 3: over again. And there are I don't know if you 67 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 3: know this, but there are more women than five who 68 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 3: didn't what I thought they were. There might be dozens 69 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: of women who did stuff throughout history, and Katie's idea 70 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 3: was that she really wanted to focus on all the 71 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 3: women that have not been talked about the you know, 72 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 3: our tagline is fascinating women you've never heard of, And 73 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 3: she knows this now. I didn't tell her at the time. 74 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 3: I thought it was a terrible idea, because you I met. 75 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 3: It was a brilliant idea, but a terrible idea because, 76 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 3: as you know, it's really hard to get people interested 77 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 3: in women's history anyway, and doing a whole podcast around 78 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: women that you've never heard of before just seemed like 79 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: such a hard sell to me, and I was worried 80 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:43,680 Speaker 3: that nobody would listen to it. And then I was 81 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 3: walking through a graveyard, as one does, I do. I'm 82 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 3: informed that people don't, but apparently they I do. And 83 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 3: I was walking through this great old cemeterian boulder and 84 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 3: I just sort of stumbled across this gravestone that didn't 85 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 3: have any name on it. All it said was mother. 86 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 3: And I was just horrified. I mean, it gutted me 87 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 3: because I'm a mother and I love being a mother. 88 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 3: I have three children who I love, and I am 89 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 3: not mother. I am Olivia, and I am more than 90 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 3: that identity and I just it suddenly just felt so 91 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 3: horrifying to me that this woman was gone. And I 92 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 3: know that usually there's a larger gravestone with all the names, 93 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 3: and you know that it was probably attached to something 94 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 3: at one point, but nothing else was there anymore, and 95 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 3: all she was was mother. And I freaked out frankly 96 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 3: and called Katie on the way back to my car 97 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,360 Speaker 3: out of the revery. Yes, we're doing it. We're doing 98 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,279 Speaker 3: the Forgotten Women podcast. We have to rescue these women 99 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 3: from obscurity. 100 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,480 Speaker 1: And that was it. 101 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 3: And she claims that since then that I've been forcing 102 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: her to do it, but it was her idea, so 103 00:05:56,279 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 3: and it's been it's been really fun to do, and 104 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 3: it's been way more successful than we expected, especially given 105 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 3: that setup of you've never heard of any of these people, 106 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 3: but we're going to make you interested in them, and 107 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 3: it's been really fun to have it take off and 108 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 3: be much much more successful then we anticipated it being. 109 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 5: I love that. 110 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 4: And it is the last day of March, which is 111 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 4: still technically women's first month. 112 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 3: We've forgotten it. Oh my god, March No, March ninety eighth, 113 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 3: the longest month in the world. 114 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 4: It really feels like it's been this month for over 115 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 4: two years now, Yeah, because I'm like, wait, I've been 116 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 4: in quarantine for how long? Because it feels like six years. 117 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure I died and came back and it's 118 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,760 Speaker 4: still the same time frame, right as Groundhog's Day all 119 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 4: the time. 120 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 5: Well, we were so. 121 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:54,239 Speaker 4: Excited when talking with you about bringing in some women 122 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 4: that you want to talk about, and can you kind 123 00:06:56,240 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 4: of introduce us to who you have brought for our listeners. 124 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I have picked two of our women who 125 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 3: I think are some of my favorite stories to tell. 126 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,559 Speaker 3: And it really is hard. I mean, it's you probably 127 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 3: get this one, which is your favorite episode? All of 128 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 3: them don't make me choose a child, but I think 129 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:24,520 Speaker 3: these are two important ones to tell, and some of 130 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 3: the most surprising that they have been erased or that 131 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 3: they have been ignored, because some of the women that 132 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 3: we profiled are are just genuinely like no one knows 133 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 3: about them, accept the person that we talk to, because 134 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 3: every episode we have a guest, and some of them 135 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 3: just genuinely like this guest found this person and no 136 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 3: one in the world knows about them except this person 137 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 3: that's talking to us. And those are exciting, but these 138 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: ones are more well known in certain circles and certain 139 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 3: areas of the world, but still just way less celebrated 140 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: than they should be. So I've chosen Harriet Jacob, who 141 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 3: is the author of Incidents in the Life of a 142 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 3: Slave Girl and she was a self emancipated slave in 143 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:10,400 Speaker 3: the American South, and noor Jahan, who was the only 144 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 3: Mughal empress to rule as a co emperor and sort 145 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 3: of even more important than her husband. Right, So we're 146 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 3: India and the US, yes, a couple of centuries apart. Yeah, 147 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 3: and opposite sides of the world, right, right. 148 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:34,719 Speaker 4: And completely different situations. One was slave, So yeah, I 149 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 4: love this variation. 150 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 5: So, yeah, tell us about Harriet Jacobs. 151 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. 152 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 4: When I was delving into it, we kind of had 153 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 4: a similar story from our female first also named Harriet, right. 154 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, there's a lot of I think we even 155 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 3: set up the episode with her similarity to to Harriet Tubman, Yeah, 156 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 3: the famous Harriet. Because one of the things that is 157 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 3: frustrating about women's history is that we have one slot 158 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 3: for each story, right, we have one slot for a 159 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 3: runaway slave, and we have one slot for a pilot 160 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 3: and we well, we already talked about a black woman singer, 161 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 3: so now there's no more room for them, and there's 162 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 3: plenty of room for everyone. Absolutely, we talk about all 163 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 3: kinds of kings, and we don't just have room for 164 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 3: one queen. But her story is bananas, like you couldn't 165 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,439 Speaker 3: make it up. If you made it up, no one 166 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:40,839 Speaker 3: would believe you. And that's what happened, is that her 167 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: story is so amazing and ridiculous that four one hundred 168 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 3: years everybody thought it was fiction. They believe that this 169 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:52,559 Speaker 3: must be a composite story trying to invoke the worst 170 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 3: possible experiences in order to serve abolition. And instead it's 171 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:02,560 Speaker 3: the absolutely factual narrative of this woman who was an 172 00:10:02,640 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 3: enslaved person who emancipated herself and whose story is not 173 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 3: at all what we expect. And that's what I love 174 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: about her, is that we when we think of in 175 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 3: the US, when we think of runaway slafe stories, the 176 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 3: story is that you run away, that you run north, 177 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: and you, if you're lucky, you go all the way 178 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 3: to Canada. But at least you run to the north. 179 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:27,560 Speaker 3: You leave the location and you go somewhere else and 180 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 3: that's how you become free, and Harriet Jacobs didn't. She 181 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:37,600 Speaker 3: ran away across the street because she was the man 182 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 3: who owned her, who probably stole her by forging a will, 183 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 3: which is a whole other horrific side of the story. 184 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 3: She probably should have been freed, but he forged a 185 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 3: will and it comes to own her and is at 186 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 3: least sexually harassing her and probably more. She can't tell 187 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 3: the truth about this. In nineteenth century eventually threatens to 188 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 3: sell her children to try to force her to put 189 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 3: up with his sexual advances, and she knows that as 190 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: long as she is there, he's going to keep trying 191 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 3: to abuse her children to get to her. But she 192 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 3: doesn't have any way to get north. She doesn't have 193 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 3: any funds, she doesn't have a network, she doesn't know 194 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 3: where the underground railroad is running, and so she runs 195 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 3: away across the street to her grandmother's house, wherein I 196 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 3: didn't know this was going to be this appropriate when 197 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 3: I chose her for this, but where she self isolates 198 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 3: in a coffin sized space in her grandmother's attic for 199 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 3: seven years. Now, if we're all losing our minds after 200 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 3: two weeks, and we can still go to the grocery 201 00:11:54,160 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 3: store and we can sit up. She is literally laying 202 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 3: down in a space that is seven x ten by 203 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 3: three feet tall, and it's in the eaves of the attic, 204 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 3: so it's three feet tall at the point, but it 205 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 3: slopes down to the side. She can lay on one side. 206 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 3: She can't even lay down and roll over in this 207 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 3: space for seven years. Wow, it's I genuinely don't even 208 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:25,199 Speaker 3: know how to think about this, right. 209 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: My back's already hard and thinking about this, I know. 210 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 3: And our guest Mario Indell, who's wonderful. She's a professor 211 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 3: at CU Boulder, and she talks about when she teaches 212 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:39,679 Speaker 3: this book, she tapes out on the floor these dimensions, 213 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 3: and the tables in the classroom are exactly three feet tall, 214 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 3: so she teaches it from under the table. Wow, just 215 00:12:46,640 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 3: to help them realize how small this space is. And 216 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 3: you know, after one hour she can barely get up. Yeah, 217 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 3: and I mean very Occasionally, in the middle of the night, 218 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 3: they would sneak her down and let her walk around 219 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 3: a little, and that's the only and she can walk, 220 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:03,400 Speaker 3: but she has physical damage to her body for the 221 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 3: rest of her life from this. She has difficulty walking, 222 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,839 Speaker 3: and she has back problems, and you know, aside from 223 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 3: the extreme isolation and the you know, being forced to 224 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 3: be in the space, it's also it's North Carolina and 225 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 3: it's you know, one hundred and twelve degrees and one 226 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 3: hundred percent humidity, and there are bugs. And this is 227 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 3: not a modern attic, this is just planks, and it's 228 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 3: raining and it's hot, and then it's freezing cold. And 229 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:38,679 Speaker 3: she is just entombed alive in this space. And that 230 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:42,679 Speaker 3: that to her is preferable to what looked from the 231 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 3: outside as a good situation as an enslaved person, I 232 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 3: think really drives home. We can tell all the narratives 233 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 3: we want about, Oh, slavery wasn't that bad. It was 234 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 3: bad enough that this woman spent seven years in a 235 00:13:55,960 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 3: coffin right to escape, right, yeah. And worse than that, 236 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,240 Speaker 3: to me is that her children didn't even know where 237 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 3: she was. Her grandmother knows where she is, and her 238 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 3: uncle knows where she is. No one else knows where 239 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 3: she is. And so she can see her children in 240 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 3: the street, she can hear them visiting her grandmother's house, 241 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 3: and they don't know she's there. That I just can't 242 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 3: I can't imagine it's brilliant too, because he's not looking here, right, 243 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 3: no one would stay here, and he immediately assumes she's 244 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 3: gone north, and she plays into that. She is writing 245 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 3: letters as if she's in New York and sending them 246 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: with people to mail back from the north, and he 247 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 3: is spending all of this time, He keeps going north 248 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 3: and wasting all this time looking for her when she's 249 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: five hundred feet away and he has no idea she's there. 250 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 3: I mean, it's brilliant and horrifying and sobering and amazing. 251 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 3: Eventually he agrees to sell her children to their father, 252 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 3: who's a white lawyer in town, and so she knows 253 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 3: her children are safe. He doesn't free his children this lawyer, 254 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 3: but at least they're not going to get sold to 255 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 3: the plantation anymore. So then she eventually does go north 256 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 3: and gets incredibly involved in abolition. She's running reading rooms, 257 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 3: she is working on running other slaves. You know, she's 258 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 3: doing all of this incredible work, but mostly she's focusing 259 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 3: on education. She was educated because the woman who owned 260 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 3: her before this man treated her well for an enslaved 261 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: person and educated her, and she knew how important that 262 00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 3: was to be able to read and write, to be 263 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 3: able to escape in a way from the absolute brutal 264 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 3: reality of her world. So she starts some of the 265 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 3: first colored schools. She starts these massive education programs for 266 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 3: all of these escaping and freed slaves. And she is 267 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 3: a huge force for black education in the Northern United 268 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:09,640 Speaker 3: States and just a hugely important person. And so when 269 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 3: she publishes this memoir anonymously, because she at the point 270 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 3: she publishes this memoir, she is still officially owned by 271 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 3: doctor Norcombe, her the man who owns her, or doctor 272 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 3: Norkam's daughter technically owns her. And so she publishes this 273 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 3: memoir anonymously, and no one knows who it is, and 274 00:16:35,440 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 3: it eventually gets it's so it's so wild that people 275 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 3: assume it must be fake and it must be written 276 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 3: by a white woman. And so the woman who writes 277 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 3: a preface for her one of her friends, it starts 278 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 3: being ascribed to her Lydia child. And even though she 279 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 3: keeps saying no, no, no, no, no, I didn't write this, 280 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 3: but that's how it's taught for one hundred years in 281 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 3: school that this is fiction by a white woman. And 282 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 3: it's not until the nineteen eighties someone starts putting this 283 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 3: together and realizes, wait a minute, this story tracks exactly 284 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 3: with the things that that important, famous abolitionist educator, Harriet 285 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 3: Jacobs said about her life. Tracks everything down and even 286 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:24,400 Speaker 3: to the floor plans of the houses and the description 287 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:28,479 Speaker 3: of all of these places. It matches exactly. And they 288 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 3: realized this was Harriet Jacobs who wrote this, So she 289 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:36,639 Speaker 3: was already important and famous, and no one knew she 290 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 3: wrote this book. Wow, it's just unbelievable to me. 291 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:45,080 Speaker 4: So it took over a one hundred and forty years 292 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 4: almost for them to realize who this belonged to, what right. 293 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 3: When, Even though when it first came out it wasn't 294 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 3: sold as fiction, it was old as this is a narrative, 295 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 3: This is a true narrative, but there were some fake 296 00:17:55,960 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 3: narratives floating around. But I think, you know, it's very 297 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:03,199 Speaker 3: easy for people to say, well, and I'm sure that 298 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 3: there was an element of this is very well written. 299 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:09,399 Speaker 3: It must be a white woman, and it's not employing 300 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 3: all of the tricks that we expect, and so it 301 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 3: just it makes me so happy that she's getting credit 302 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 3: now and it is being taught a lot more in classes. 303 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 3: But we don't have enough slave narratives, as this genre 304 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 3: is called already taught. But when we do read them, 305 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 3: we read Frederick Douglas's or we read these men's narratives. 306 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 3: When frankly, her story is the wildest story that you 307 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 3: have ever heard about. All this, I mean, this is 308 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 3: the very pair debt. There's so much more going on 309 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 3: in her story than these tiny little vignettes here and 310 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,639 Speaker 3: you know, running off over and over again or come 311 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: chruming to find her, and the white family she's living 312 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 3: with sending her off with their baby so that she 313 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 3: can escape, like no, no one will stop you if 314 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 3: you have a white baby with you, go go go, 315 00:18:55,359 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 3: and just astonishing, and the way that she she talks 316 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 3: about the importance of emancipating herself, that one of her 317 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 3: friends eventually purchases her to free her. And while that's 318 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:12,919 Speaker 3: a very kind act, and she acknowledges like that was 319 00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 3: probably the best way to prevent me from being sold 320 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 3: back into slavery, it breaks her heart because once again 321 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: she's been you know, after decades of being free of 322 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:29,639 Speaker 3: her own work, she is again, she said, Now history 323 00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 3: has a bill of sale that Harriet Jacobs was sold 324 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 3: in the nineteenth century in New York City, when I 325 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:42,719 Speaker 3: had already freed myself. So it's complicated and it's messy, 326 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:46,199 Speaker 3: and it doesn't conform to the ways that we like 327 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 3: to tell these stories. And this really was the first 328 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 3: one that pointed out that women have an exceptionally specific 329 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 3: problem when they are enslaved people. Right that now our 330 00:19:58,680 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 3: standard narrative of slavery and includes sexual violence, But it 331 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 3: didn't until that point. No one had talked about it, 332 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,959 Speaker 3: and it was carefully hidden away as a thing that 333 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,880 Speaker 3: didn't happen. And she's the one who shone a light 334 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:16,080 Speaker 3: on it and said, women, if you value Christianity, if 335 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 3: you value fidelity in marriage, you have to abolish slavery, 336 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 3: because look what's happening right under your nose. It was 337 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:26,880 Speaker 3: just brilliantly strategic writing, too, right. 338 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. One of the things I read while we were 339 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 4: researching this was the quote that our researcher said that 340 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 4: this was specifically for white women and for them to 341 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 4: acknowledge that this is something that's happening and to call 342 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,880 Speaker 4: out the patriarchy for sexual tyranny. 343 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,400 Speaker 1: Over black women like herself, and that she. 344 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 4: Was trying to put it in delicate ways, but to 345 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 4: let them know this is actually happening, and you were 346 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:53,400 Speaker 4: allowing this to. 347 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 3: Happen, and it's happening in your house exactly, because I 348 00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 3: think until it had been talked about, of course, most 349 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 3: women knew this was happening because it's happening in their house, 350 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:08,239 Speaker 3: but it's not spoken about, and so they don't know 351 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 3: that it's happening everywhere. It's humiliating and shameful that it's 352 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,199 Speaker 3: happening in my house. But once I find out that 353 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 3: it's happening everywhere, this is not me. This is not 354 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,120 Speaker 3: a me problem. This is a societal problem. Right. It's 355 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 3: not that I can't keep my husband's interest, which is 356 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,880 Speaker 3: usually how it was framed, or frankly, it's that this 357 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 3: system is a system of sexual assault that we have, 358 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 3: you know, codified, right, and that has to go if 359 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 3: we're going to call ourselves Christians. Right. 360 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I did like her point of saying that 361 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 4: she almost it almost seemed like she was implying and 362 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 4: you can correct me if I'm wrong, that it was 363 00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 4: a lesser evil to have. 364 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,120 Speaker 1: This love affair with this white man. 365 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 4: Oh, definitely, in ordered to kind of validate what's happening 366 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 4: and to actually pull herself from that situation as well. 367 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, that her only choices were succumb to. I mean, 368 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 3: in the story she doesn't succumb. But yeah, right, that's 369 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 3: not a choice you can make to her owner who 370 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 3: is trying to rape her or have an affair consensually. Whatever, 371 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 3: we can argue about what consent means in this scenario 372 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 3: with a white man who at least might be able 373 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 3: to buy her children his children right, and might at 374 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 3: least protect them from this system in a tiny amount, 375 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 3: and might at least give her some semblance of agency. 376 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,679 Speaker 3: That she made a choice to do this, but she 377 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 3: knows very well that this is a choice that will 378 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,480 Speaker 3: be hugely frowned on by these very devout Christian abolitionist 379 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 3: women she's writing to, and that balancing act she has 380 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 3: to do of that's the point. Look, what choices you 381 00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:54,120 Speaker 3: left me? You left me no choices. My choices are 382 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 3: a fair Her owner wouldn't let her marry the man 383 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 3: she wanted to marry, a free black man, so she 384 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 3: doesn't have choices outside of these ones, and she made 385 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 3: the best choice she could, Even though she says repeatedly, 386 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 3: knowing her audience, I know this was wrong, but it 387 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 3: was less wrong than the other choices. 388 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 4: And that man was Sam Trentwell Sawyer, who ended up 389 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 4: being in the US House of Representatives. 390 00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 3: Right right, Yeah, and also significant, Yeah, and who sent 391 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 3: who bought his children and then sent them to work 392 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:34,000 Speaker 3: for his white children as enslaved people. I mean they 393 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 3: they treated them a little better. No, they didn't. They didn't. 394 00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:41,120 Speaker 3: He bought his children and put them to work. It's 395 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,960 Speaker 3: just it's not the white Knight story that we wanted 396 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 3: to be, which is an important thing to pay attention to, 397 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 3: you know. 398 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 1: And that's kind of the. 399 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 3: There are no white saviors in this story. 400 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that was kind of her point, is Hey, 401 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 4: I think quote she said, to tell you the truth, 402 00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 4: let it cost me what it may. Yeah, And that 403 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 4: makes a lot of sense in this, like there's no 404 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 4: good situation. 405 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:05,560 Speaker 5: This is the best that I could do. 406 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 4: And now I'm able to fight for my rise and 407 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 4: for others and let people know the atrocities that are 408 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 4: happening that you are turning a blind eye to, which 409 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,119 Speaker 4: is really significant of a conversation in itself. 410 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a I mean, aside from the story, which 411 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 3: is all very I mean, it seems it's the first 412 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,760 Speaker 3: time you read it. You know, students reading go, this 413 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 3: can't be true. This is exaggerated, it's verified, it's fact checked. 414 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,400 Speaker 3: She is underplaying right story. If anything. 415 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,959 Speaker 4: They literally said that she was kind of trying to 416 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 4: make it mild enough that people would read it. 417 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,560 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, you can't tell the truth about what really happened, 418 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 3: or it'll be too vile for ladies to read. I mean, 419 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:52,120 Speaker 3: and walking that line of making it voyeuristically exciting enough 420 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 3: that people want to read it who might not be 421 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 3: interested in abolition, but also not selling out your own dignity. 422 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,600 Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's a masterful piece of writing. It 423 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 3: really is. And the woman who edited it, Lydia Child. Again, 424 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 3: often even when they said once they realized, oh, she 425 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 3: didn't write this, Harriet Jacobs write it, there are a 426 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 3: lot of people who still say, well, she heavily edited, 427 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 3: but she herself was very upfront and said I did 428 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 3: almost nothing. I moved a few things around. She wrote this. 429 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,120 Speaker 3: I didn't fix this. This is how she wrote it. 430 00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 3: And that urge to delegitimize her voice. I think is 431 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 3: it tells us a lot and it's upsetting, right, So, 432 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 3: I mean, it's an amazing book. I really strongly recommend 433 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 3: everybody read it. It's just astonishing from a plot perspective, 434 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 3: from a literary perspective, from a history perspective, it's a 435 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 3: gem of a book. And her daughter went on to 436 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 3: become an extremely important educator. And I mean she just 437 00:25:55,480 --> 00:26:00,160 Speaker 3: she really she made a powerful impact on the world 438 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:04,239 Speaker 3: and changed it in really important ways, even when no 439 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 3: one knew that she wrote this. And now that we 440 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,719 Speaker 3: put these things together, that this woman wrote this book, 441 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 3: that's it's amazing. So yeah, Harriet Jacobs, I hope she 442 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,840 Speaker 3: deserves a lot more attention than she's getting. 443 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 4: And she died in eighteen ninety seven DC, right, Yeah, 444 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 4: And she was a significant impact in just women in 445 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 4: bondage and slavery and again the horrendous things that were 446 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 4: happening that people oftentimes want to take ignore because it just, 447 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 4: you know, shames their sensibilities. 448 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, the determination of so many people to clean this 449 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:52,200 Speaker 3: up and to convince ourselves that slavery wasn't that bad. 450 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 3: It was so much worse than you can imagine. Imagine 451 00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:59,479 Speaker 3: the worst thing you can imagine about slavery, and it 452 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 3: was worse than that. 453 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,080 Speaker 4: And just let's just go it's slavery the word of itself. 454 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,520 Speaker 4: Any it is gonna be bad. That's such an obnoxious 455 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,879 Speaker 4: conversation in saying ownership is not a bad. 456 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 3: Thing, right, well, as long as you know, as long 457 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,240 Speaker 3: as they weren't physically beaten, it wasn't that. 458 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 5: But no, you owned a person, You own a person. 459 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 4: They didn't get paid, they didn't get any kind of conversation, 460 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 4: they didn't get help. They weren't treated as equals. That 461 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,959 Speaker 4: means as bad and whatever. The greatest situation is. 462 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you wouldn't be willing to trade right now, 463 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 3: then it was bad. 464 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 2: We have some more of our conversation, but first we 465 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,200 Speaker 2: have a quick break for a word from our sponsor, 466 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 2: and we're back. 467 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 1: Thank you sponsor. 468 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,400 Speaker 3: So let's get back into it now. 469 00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,200 Speaker 5: Let's go back even further, as you said. 470 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 3: Into the past and on the other side of the world. 471 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 4: Yes, and tell her was about her next famous fabulous woman? 472 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, uh noor Jahan, Empress nor Jahan. I had never 473 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,879 Speaker 3: heard of her until I did this interview for this 474 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,760 Speaker 3: episode with doctor Ruby Lall of emer University, who's wonderful 475 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 3: and Katie teaches this period in history a lot, so 476 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 3: she had heard of her, but there was still this 477 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 3: whole aspect of the story that she had never heard. 478 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 3: Because noor Jahan is wildly famous in India. She is 479 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 3: a household name. Her story is the story that you 480 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 3: hear from your grandmother and your mother. It is a famous, 481 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:44,440 Speaker 3: famous story. But her story doesn't tell any of her story. 482 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 3: The story that is famous about nor Jahan is about 483 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 3: her falling in love with Emperor Jahangiir and then marrying him. 484 00:28:55,320 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 3: And that's her story, like she she married him the end. 485 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 3: And it's a beautiful love story. I mean it is. 486 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 3: And I think that's important too, for especially those who 487 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 3: said a European history and Western history have this idea 488 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 3: that like love wasn't a thing courtly, you know, until 489 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,719 Speaker 3: courtly love, no one fell in love. Nonsense. The Eastern 490 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 3: world has been talking about love for thousands of years. 491 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:22,719 Speaker 3: But this love story, this really powerful genre of love story, 492 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 3: is an important thing to talk about in the way 493 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 3: that women influence societies. But it's so frustrating because this 494 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 3: woman was amazing and none of the stuff she did 495 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 3: is in her story that everyone knows. And so Ruby 496 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 3: Lall's biography, which is called Empress, and it's just amazing. 497 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 3: It's so great, and I recommend it really strongly takes 498 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 3: all of that and puts it all back together. And 499 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 3: as not a historian myself, but someone who has studied 500 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:56,600 Speaker 3: a lot of history in women's studies in one of 501 00:29:56,640 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 3: these related fields, I love when historians ignore knowledge, the 502 00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 3: power of literature, the power of mythology, the power of story, 503 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 3: and that it's not just written off as well, that's 504 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 3: the legend, yeah, but the legend has affected the history. 505 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 3: She is as much her legendary self as she was 506 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 3: her historical self now, and so she brings all of 507 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 3: those things in together and talks about the intersection of 508 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,680 Speaker 3: those in ways that I really love. But then also 509 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 3: tells us the unbelievable forgotten facts about nor Jehan, such 510 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:36,720 Speaker 3: as she was a world renowned tiger hunter and she 511 00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 3: once shot four man eating tigers with six musket shots 512 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 3: from the top of an elephant. I mean, there's not 513 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 3: a better story in the world than that, no matter 514 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 3: what else happened, Like just those sentences, she. 515 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 5: Was our tiger queen. 516 00:30:56,440 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean at the time when only the king, 517 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 3: only the emperor is allowed to kill a tiger, right, 518 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:13,200 Speaker 3: and she does it, which is how we know she 519 00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 3: was the emperor. She was co regent with her husband, 520 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 3: who was either ill or alcoholic or maybe both right 521 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:22,320 Speaker 3: and kind of out of the picture for a lot 522 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 3: of it. She took over and she is running it, 523 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 3: and instead of thankfully running scary sideshows us, she is 524 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 3: rescuing people from man eating tigers on the rampage. But 525 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 3: that I mean, I just muskets have barely been invented. 526 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 3: No one knows how to shoot them. And if anyone 527 00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 3: has ever shot an old school like black powder rifle 528 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 3: muskets something, they are difficult and they are wildly inaccurate. 529 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 3: I mean, if you hit anything within an eight foot range, 530 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 3: you did well. And she kills four man eating tigers 531 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:05,440 Speaker 3: in one day with six shuts from an elephant which 532 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,040 Speaker 3: you know is not standing there nicely while tiger is 533 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 3: nip at its heels and she's shooting a musket like 534 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 3: this is an impossible job, and she does it. That's 535 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 3: that woman is. I don't care what else she did. 536 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:21,640 Speaker 3: That woman I want to learn about, right, yes, but 537 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 3: she was absolutely incredible. She is taking over this very 538 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 3: male dominated society and ruling and stepping into the role 539 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 3: of emperor. In very public and meaningful ways and doing 540 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 3: it effectively that people love her. She is minting coins 541 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 3: in her own name, which is the number one sign 542 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 3: that you know, that's how in most of history we 543 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 3: know who was in charge there on the coin. And 544 00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 3: she's doing executive orders with her own seal, not her 545 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 3: husband's name. Her name. Just really astonishing power that she's wielding. 546 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 3: But like her husband gets kidnapped by people who are 547 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 3: trying to take over, probably one of his sons is involved, 548 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 3: trying to undermine his rule. And rather than send the army, 549 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 3: or send one of her step sons, or do political 550 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 3: channels or whatever you know a good WiFi should do, 551 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 3: she gets on another elephant and storms off across India 552 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 3: to go rescue him. And then when her step son 553 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 3: sells her out and it doesn't work, she gets captured, 554 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 3: and she's now captured with him. Rather than feeling bad 555 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 3: about that, she goes, great, I'm inside the machine. Now 556 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 3: this will be even easier, and she stages an elaborate 557 00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 3: like escape coup from inside the prison camp, raises an 558 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 3: army under the noses of her captors. Because she's a woman, 559 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 3: she couldn't be, and escapes and rides triumphantly back into 560 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:56,600 Speaker 3: town with her husband that she has saved. I mean, 561 00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 3: it's just it's made up, crazy, hilarious nonsense, and it 562 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 3: absolutely happened, right, It's impossible that you did that, and 563 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 3: she did it. She was just the coolest, unstoppable force 564 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 3: of this Mughal empress. She dressed like a man. She 565 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 3: would go hunting. She sometimes dressed like a man, but 566 00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 3: other times it was like the peak of fashion. She 567 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 3: was a fashion designer and influenced the entire fashion of 568 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 3: one hundred years of India. She designed jewelry, She was 569 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:33,280 Speaker 3: an artist. She designed tombs, she designed buildings. She shifted 570 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 3: the course of Indian architecture forever. Like the most famous building, 571 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 3: the taj Mahal, is based on the tomb she built 572 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:45,840 Speaker 3: for her parents. That was wild and ridiculous, white marble. 573 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 3: Who uses white marble, We use red sandstone. And she 574 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:53,279 Speaker 3: made up this new whole entirely different form and then 575 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 3: everyone went, oh, that's kind of cool and copied it. 576 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 3: And that's where we get the taj Mahal from her 577 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 3: step son. She was just this massive force in society 578 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:11,840 Speaker 3: and that she's known for getting married. It's frustrating right. 579 00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 4: Right, because not only would yes, she got married, but 580 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 4: she kind of fixed the mistakes that have been occurring 581 00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 4: or what are occurred under the husband's reign, who again 582 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 4: was either sick or an alcoholic or whatever whatnot. And 583 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 4: she's like, nah, I got this, let me let me not. 584 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 4: On top of that, she's like, and you're going to 585 00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 4: see me do it. You're going to see that I'm 586 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:34,920 Speaker 4: no one that's making this change. 587 00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 3: Right, and that everybody apparently was cool with it until 588 00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 3: until she wrote off on an elephant at the head 589 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:41,840 Speaker 3: of the army that seems to have been the line 590 00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 3: when her steps and went, okay, stop it, no, I'm 591 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:49,239 Speaker 3: in charge now, you're not a man. But I mean, 592 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:53,880 Speaker 3: it's just it's amazing, and I think it it illustrates 593 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 3: the point that we we as soon as she is 594 00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,799 Speaker 3: out of power, they erase her again. And they not 595 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,399 Speaker 3: only erase her, they debase all women, that all women 596 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,880 Speaker 3: are chaotic and unstable, and that's why she was chaotic 597 00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,880 Speaker 3: and unstable, and therefore she was terrible and we should 598 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:13,319 Speaker 3: not talk about her anymore. And this very effective erasure 599 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 3: that doesn't just erase her, that we do this over 600 00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 3: and over and over again, we act like women weren't 601 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 3: ever in power. And this comes up in the podcast 602 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 3: all the time that we pretend that women ruling is 603 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,880 Speaker 3: an aberration that just every once in a while we 604 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 3: get a weird queen victoria. But it's not the norm, 605 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 3: and it doesn't happen very often, and we shouldn't encourage it, 606 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 3: and that's nonsense. Women are in power all over the 607 00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,879 Speaker 3: place all the time. And one of our other guests, 608 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 3: Pam Toller, who's wonderful. She has a book called Women 609 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:49,680 Speaker 3: Warriors that's fantastic. She was our guest on another episode, 610 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 3: but she talked about when she went into writing that book, 611 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,840 Speaker 3: she had a list of you know, a few dozen 612 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 3: famous warrior women that she knew about and stood by 613 00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,240 Speaker 3: the end she had thousands. She had thousands of names 614 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 3: of these women who were rulers and warriors and broke 615 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,440 Speaker 3: all of these norms, which means they aren't norms. I mean, 616 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 3: it happens all the time, but we every time we 617 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 3: pretend like, ohoh, this was unusual, and then five years 618 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,839 Speaker 3: later happens again and go, oh, unheard of, never seen 619 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 3: this happen before. Maybe pay attention that it happens a 620 00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 3: lot and it's normal. 621 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:20,840 Speaker 5: Right. 622 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 3: But as long as we keep women convince that women 623 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 3: have never been in power, women don't ask for power, right, 624 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 3: it's easier to insist that it's not normal. Right. 625 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,960 Speaker 4: I think that's one of the conversations that we've had 626 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 4: with past guests is the fact that there's always a 627 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,720 Speaker 4: discovery that when we think we know who did the first, 628 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,520 Speaker 4: there was also someone else who may have done that first, 629 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,560 Speaker 4: and we just didn't recognize it until them because they 630 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,400 Speaker 4: weren't given the credit for the work they had done. 631 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 4: And then as we keep continuing to dig more and more, 632 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,359 Speaker 4: we're realizing there's a lot of significant people, specifically women. 633 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,839 Speaker 4: Are those who identify as women a non binary that 634 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:01,400 Speaker 4: just got passed over, right, just their idea is stolen 635 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,839 Speaker 4: or the credit taken from them, right. 636 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean even when we give women credit, it's 637 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 3: often at the expense of other women, like the famously 638 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 3: and I adore her. Mary Shelley invented science fiction, as 639 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 3: we all are told, No she didn't. Margaret Cavendish invented 640 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:25,080 Speaker 3: science fiction two hundred years earlier, but we don't pay 641 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,280 Speaker 3: attention to it, you know. And I love Mary Shelley, 642 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,759 Speaker 3: but she didn't invent science fiction. It was a thing 643 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 3: well before, and that we don't talk about the many, 644 00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 3: many generations and layers of women who have been doing stuff. 645 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 3: We picked the one story and Mary Shelley Sorry, is 646 00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 3: amazing and fantastic and we should tell it, but we 647 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,880 Speaker 3: don't need to add things that, you know, Frankenstein stands 648 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,640 Speaker 3: on its own. Whether it was the first time someone 649 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,319 Speaker 3: had done something like that or not, it's it is 650 00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 3: peak science fiction, right, but it's not the first. 651 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,360 Speaker 4: And yeah, and I do love when we talk about 652 00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,480 Speaker 4: these amazing women, whether it's true or not, we do 653 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 4: have this fantasized level of and we know beauty does 654 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,400 Speaker 4: accentuate and help give some privilege. But the fact nor 655 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,360 Speaker 4: John was known as a beauty as one of the 656 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:14,000 Speaker 4: first things as you recognize, and then all of the 657 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,880 Speaker 4: soap opera backgrounds, yeah, hinder. 658 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 3: That she was in love with the emperor but had 659 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,720 Speaker 3: to marry someone else. And I mean it's an unusual 660 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 3: story anyway, because now the Empress is someone who is 661 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:30,240 Speaker 3: a widow, right, she's already been married. That's not something 662 00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 3: that's supposed to happen, you know, But he loved her 663 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,880 Speaker 3: before she got married, so I mean, it's it's an interesting, 664 00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 3: unusual story, especially from a Western perspective who doesn't understand 665 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 3: the way these stories work in mingle culture. But it's 666 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 3: it's just it's a wild ride no matter what you 667 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,759 Speaker 3: know about her, and Ruby lall had to do all 668 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,520 Speaker 3: of this detective work to find out these things about her. 669 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:58,319 Speaker 3: You know that, Yeah, we all Why do they keep 670 00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:01,280 Speaker 3: talking about her hunting? Why is they they're so obsessed 671 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 3: with her hunting tigers? Because they were telling us something 672 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 3: because if you you know, if we don't know until 673 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,799 Speaker 3: Ruby Laule digs this up, who was allowed to hunt 674 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 3: tigers the emperor. When they keep talking about this in 675 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,280 Speaker 3: court documents, they're making a point she is the emperor 676 00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,359 Speaker 3: that we we don't have the historical knowledge to understand 677 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 3: the clues they've been trying to give us. 678 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 4: You know. And I do love that her fact that 679 00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,840 Speaker 4: her name was and I'm gonna butcher this mayor Unissa, 680 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,440 Speaker 4: that she was born the name which was son among women, 681 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:36,680 Speaker 4: and then the emperor changed her name to nir John, which. 682 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,600 Speaker 1: Is the light of the world, right right. 683 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,320 Speaker 4: I love that that kind of is like the transition 684 00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,399 Speaker 4: for that as well, to show the significance of how 685 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,080 Speaker 4: amazing she was. 686 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, and influencing the emperor. 687 00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean he absolutely that. The love story part 688 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 3: is not a lie. He absolutely adored her. I mean 689 00:40:55,719 --> 00:41:01,000 Speaker 3: it was a devoted, passionate love affair that also turns 690 00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:07,120 Speaker 3: into this astonishing story of female power and political boundary 691 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 3: pushing and historical detective work. It's interesting. It's really the 692 00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:17,680 Speaker 3: portraits of her bizarre and fascinating. There's one of her 693 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:20,960 Speaker 3: loading a musket. I mean, have you ever seen a 694 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:25,279 Speaker 3: royal portrait of a queen where she's loading a musket? No? 695 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 3: And she's dressed like a man. The only reason they 696 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,439 Speaker 3: can tell it's a woman is the very small waist 697 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 3: and the henna on her feet. I mean, this broke 698 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 3: every boundary of art. Women all look the same in 699 00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 3: Mughal art, Right, it's the same woman, the perfect woman 700 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 3: with different dresses on, and she doesn't look anything like that? 701 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,879 Speaker 3: Was that her? The royal artist who did this had 702 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,439 Speaker 3: never done another portrait like that ever for the rest 703 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 3: of his career. So is she insisting? Is she saying, no, 704 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:54,759 Speaker 3: draw me draw you know? Who knows? And it's so 705 00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:57,440 Speaker 3: many fun rabbit holes to go down, like who was 706 00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 3: this woman and you know, how did she manage all 707 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,799 Speaker 3: of this, all of these grown step sons that are 708 00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,799 Speaker 3: vying for power as soon as her husband dies. And 709 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,840 Speaker 3: it's just it's fascinating. It is She's she's such a 710 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 3: fascinating woman. 711 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,800 Speaker 1: I did love that that there was like a poem 712 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 1: about her. 713 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 4: She He's like though nor John being formal woman in 714 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 4: the ranks of men. 715 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:25,800 Speaker 5: She's a tiger slayer. 716 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:31,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, making it very clear, like, don't mess with her. 717 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 3: She's in charge here, you know. 718 00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 4: I mean, unfortunately it does sound like, oh, she's not 719 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:38,320 Speaker 4: one of those women. 720 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:38,879 Speaker 3: Yeah. 721 00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:39,400 Speaker 5: Different. 722 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:40,839 Speaker 1: I mean, that's an unfortunate say. 723 00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 4: But at the same time, it kind of is the 724 00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,600 Speaker 4: credit to her that she took a challenge. It was like, nah, 725 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,480 Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not going to stay behind. I'm going 726 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 4: to be the forefront of this. 727 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:49,239 Speaker 1: Watch me. 728 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, I will write an elephant into battle and I 729 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,200 Speaker 3: will bring my husband home. 730 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:56,080 Speaker 1: And she did. 731 00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 3: I mean, it's just amazing. And I we especially love 732 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 3: the stories where patriarchy ignores women and gets bitten for it, 733 00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,440 Speaker 3: right that over and over again women, i mean, the 734 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,560 Speaker 3: Roman Empire, every single time a woman rises up against them, 735 00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,480 Speaker 3: they're like, what is this we have never seen a woman. 736 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,239 Speaker 3: We had no idea women could fight, and they don't. 737 00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:21,759 Speaker 3: They refuse to acknowledge that it's possible. So it keeps 738 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,200 Speaker 3: happening over and over and over all. These women defeat 739 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 3: the Roman Empire because they refuse to admit that it 740 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:31,240 Speaker 3: might happen. It just happened three years ago. Many pay attention. 741 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's nothing more dangerous than an underrestimated woman, so. 742 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,799 Speaker 3: That when you can use that ideology, you know they're 743 00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:42,000 Speaker 3: not going to pay attention to you. You know, so 744 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,680 Speaker 3: many spies during the Civil War, spies all the time 745 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:48,879 Speaker 3: who just are absolutely they know that the men aren't 746 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:51,000 Speaker 3: going to think they're anything, so they can do whatever 747 00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 3: they want. I just did an interview about these amazing 748 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:57,840 Speaker 3: teenage girls who were some of the most effective anti 749 00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 3: Nazi resistance workers in the Netherlands during World War Two 750 00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 3: because they were cute teenage girls, and nobody thought the 751 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,920 Speaker 3: cute teenage girl is gonna ride by on her bicycle 752 00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:13,359 Speaker 3: and assassinate the Nazi captain, but they did. I mean, 753 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:19,880 Speaker 3: it was just I love those when you take the 754 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,720 Speaker 3: terrible structures you've been given and use them to subvert 755 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,920 Speaker 3: the power. Those my favorite stories always. 756 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:25,759 Speaker 1: I love it. 757 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 2: I'm just so glad people are doing this work because 758 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,799 Speaker 2: it is something we talk about a lot. How unfortunately, 759 00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:34,880 Speaker 2: these stories have been lost, and there's a part of 760 00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,720 Speaker 2: me that when I hear such an amazing stories like these, 761 00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,440 Speaker 2: I'm so glad to hear them. They're great, but I'm 762 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 2: also angry that I'm learning them so late in life. Yeah, 763 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:47,640 Speaker 2: I would have loved this story about a tiger slayer 764 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 2: when I was a kid. 765 00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 3: I would have loved How did this not feature in 766 00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,319 Speaker 3: our history classes? Come off? 767 00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:56,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's not a movie like a big 768 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 1: you know deal. 769 00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 3: They got lots in India, right, there's lots of great 770 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,960 Speaker 3: Bollywood versions of this, which I adore Bollywood, so like 771 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,840 Speaker 3: they've done it better than you need more dancing anyway, 772 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 3: so a lot more. We wouldn't have got enough dancing 773 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 3: in that fight. My teenage sons, when they were quite young, 774 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:14,640 Speaker 3: they've grown up watching Bollywood with me and one of them, 775 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,840 Speaker 3: we were watching some American, famous American movie I can't remember, 776 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,399 Speaker 3: and my son, at that point, probably about nine, set 777 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,480 Speaker 3: The problem with American movies is there aren't enough angry 778 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:27,760 Speaker 3: dance offs. So that is the problem with American movies. 779 00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:30,480 Speaker 4: True, you can only get that in the fifties and sixties. 780 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:35,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, the Galley, Yeah, that's why we love that. Right, 781 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,640 Speaker 3: you need more dance offs. And I'm just saying, Hollywood, 782 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:44,160 Speaker 3: get it together. Yes, agreed. And that's the other part 783 00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,360 Speaker 3: of this, right, that that we the Western world in 784 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:52,280 Speaker 3: scare quotes just feel free to absolutely ignore the entire 785 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,359 Speaker 3: rest of the world, and that you know, with that 786 00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:59,520 Speaker 3: story doesn't matter. I mean, come on, that story is 787 00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:01,440 Speaker 3: amazing and if you want to make kids. You know, 788 00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 3: my son, my younger son, just about a year ago, 789 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,279 Speaker 3: just in passing, mentioned that history was boring, and I just, 790 00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 3: like his brother, went, oh, don't know what he's like what? 791 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 3: And so I pulled it together because I know what 792 00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,960 Speaker 3: he means. Right, we tell history so badly. And so 793 00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 3: we were out. I was forcing him to walk with 794 00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,319 Speaker 3: me around this lake, and so for three laps around 795 00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:29,320 Speaker 3: the lake, I told him just the story of Henry 796 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:32,399 Speaker 3: the eighth and his three wives and his six wives, right, 797 00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,600 Speaker 3: and just all the details, and people walking past were 798 00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:39,440 Speaker 3: looking at us like what that's a weird covers and 799 00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 3: then she was beheaded. But by the end of the lake, 800 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,040 Speaker 3: I said So do you think history is boring? He said, no, 801 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 3: I think my history teachers are boring. That's amazing, thank you. 802 00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:53,719 Speaker 5: Mean, but that's that's like so many good stories. 803 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 4: And I think it's from where you're from too, because 804 00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,200 Speaker 4: growing up in Georgia myself, as you can tell from 805 00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:04,320 Speaker 4: my accent, uh, I got a very edited, dumb down, 806 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 4: not completely history of things because you know, when you 807 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:14,560 Speaker 4: are from a very politically angled Yeah. 808 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:16,120 Speaker 5: I don't even know how to say it all of that, 809 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:16,480 Speaker 5: but you. 810 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:20,080 Speaker 3: Know your history is it through a very specific filter variation. 811 00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:21,879 Speaker 4: I mean, even to the point when we're talking about 812 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:25,240 Speaker 4: Harriett Jacobs again, that point of slavery wasn't that bad. 813 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,440 Speaker 4: The Civil War wasn't based on slavery. 814 00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:28,279 Speaker 5: A little more like. 815 00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 3: Every single one of the states mentioned slavery in their 816 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:37,280 Speaker 3: statement of secession. But that's probably just a coincidence. 817 00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,080 Speaker 5: Right, I mean, that's kind of like a variation of history. 818 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 4: So you start being like, wait, this is not this 819 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,719 Speaker 4: history is not pertained And again for me as an 820 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,680 Speaker 4: Asian woman, and I could call myself brown woman, and 821 00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:49,800 Speaker 4: I'm like, this not pertained to me? Yeah, in that level, 822 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:51,960 Speaker 4: So you have a very like a skewed version, and 823 00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:55,440 Speaker 4: I would have loved it. Yeah, hear about this badass 824 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,319 Speaker 4: empress who was shooting up tigers and doing her thing, 825 00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,440 Speaker 4: rescuing her husband and fighting a pretty much a civil 826 00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:06,280 Speaker 4: battle with her own stepsons because they were afraid of women. 827 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,600 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, where was that at in 828 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,280 Speaker 4: my grow I want to know about those heroes. 829 00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, we You know, you can't be what you can't see. 830 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:19,000 Speaker 3: How are we supposed to grow into tiger shooting, elephant 831 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,879 Speaker 3: writing warrior women. No. And I will say, as someone 832 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,840 Speaker 3: who adores tigers a lot, like I can't even I 833 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,279 Speaker 3: can't even bring myself to watch the Tiger King show 834 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 3: because it will hurt my heart too much. But she's 835 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:37,920 Speaker 3: only shooting man eating tigers that are killing people. He's 836 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 3: not just out shooting tigers. The space send, No, they 837 00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,680 Speaker 3: send for the emperor to come and rescue them from 838 00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,080 Speaker 3: the tiger who's killed one hundred people, and then she 839 00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 3: shoots the tigers. That's the kind of awesome, badass warrior 840 00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:52,320 Speaker 3: queen that I can get behind. 841 00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 4: Again, it was fifteen hundred, so that's a whole different level. 842 00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,360 Speaker 2: We have some more for you listeners, But first we 843 00:48:58,400 --> 00:48:59,919 Speaker 2: have one more quick break for word from ours. 844 00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:14,480 Speaker 5: And we're back. 845 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 3: Thank you sponsor. 846 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,200 Speaker 4: Well, I mean these stories are not just for like 847 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:23,160 Speaker 4: a feminist perspective. These stories are yeah, the live realization 848 00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:26,839 Speaker 4: of how the amazing people are and the fact that 849 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,960 Speaker 4: women are very much ignored in or raced through history, 850 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,480 Speaker 4: and so we have to acknowledge and go beyond and 851 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,920 Speaker 4: be like, hey, listen to this. This is a fascinating 852 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 4: story about a human being. But because she's a woman, 853 00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 4: or because she has a vagina, people who chose to 854 00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:40,960 Speaker 4: ignore it. 855 00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:42,080 Speaker 5: But now it's time. 856 00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 4: This is just just listen to the good stories if 857 00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:45,000 Speaker 4: you want to. 858 00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:49,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that, you know, amazingly half of humanity 859 00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:56,560 Speaker 3: has done stuff and it's worth talking about. Yeah. I mean, 860 00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:01,120 Speaker 3: my my field makes me both very aware of things 861 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 3: and very cynical on some level. Like I'm angry all 862 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,279 Speaker 3: the time doing these podcasts, Like some of them are 863 00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 3: super inspiring, but a lot of them I end up 864 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,400 Speaker 3: just furious, right, furious about these women's lives or the 865 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 3: things they had to endure, or the way they were 866 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,880 Speaker 3: erased or you know, it's frustrating. And so I do 867 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:20,480 Speaker 3: this and then I teach women's studies and then I 868 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,440 Speaker 3: was writing a lot of women's studies stuff, and finally 869 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,520 Speaker 3: my husband said, I think you need a hobby that's 870 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:27,600 Speaker 3: not about feminism, because, like I just it was eating 871 00:50:27,600 --> 00:50:29,920 Speaker 3: me alive, and I thought, you were right. I need 872 00:50:30,000 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 3: something else that is just fun. Right, that's just positive 873 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:38,000 Speaker 3: all the time. But it also makes me unsurprised by things. 874 00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:41,160 Speaker 3: So like I have the platonic ideal of a supportive husband. 875 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:46,439 Speaker 3: He is the best there you could not improve as 876 00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:51,840 Speaker 3: a person, my husband, and so he is super helpful 877 00:50:51,840 --> 00:50:54,480 Speaker 3: and supportive and great on all of this stuff. And 878 00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:59,040 Speaker 3: he is consistently surprised by how few men listen to 879 00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:03,120 Speaker 3: our podcast, you know, pretty clear demographics. And when the 880 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 3: demographics came through the first time, he came in just 881 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 3: furious and he said, do you how many men? 882 00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:07,879 Speaker 2: What? 883 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 3: What percentage of your listeners do you think are men? 884 00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,840 Speaker 3: And I said, ah, three? And he looked at me startled, 885 00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 3: and he said. 886 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:15,520 Speaker 5: How did how did you know? 887 00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 3: How did you why? And he just was so angry, 888 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:22,200 Speaker 3: he was like incandescent with anger that men aren't listening. 889 00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:25,839 Speaker 3: He's like, why are men so terrible? Why aren't they 890 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,320 Speaker 3: listening to this? Don't they understand that this is just history. 891 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:31,600 Speaker 3: Women's history is not a niche subject, and he like 892 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,080 Speaker 3: ranted for a long time, and it was very good 893 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:38,200 Speaker 3: for my soul to see my husband just so angry 894 00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:40,960 Speaker 3: that other men just blow this stuff off. You know 895 00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 3: that it's not a podcast for women just because it's 896 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:49,960 Speaker 3: about women, Right, you can listen to it boys, exactly. 897 00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:52,239 Speaker 4: And I love that. So tell your husband. He gets 898 00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:56,520 Speaker 4: an A plus from us, and we are very much approving. 899 00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:00,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, those are very valuable. He's like out there, I mean, 900 00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,440 Speaker 3: he's out there pushing and challenging people like, oh, you 901 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 3: listen to history podcasts? Do you listen to any women's 902 00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 3: And they're like, oh, like, here's a list of options 903 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:15,200 Speaker 3: for you. But and it's frustrating, right, it is, just 904 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,560 Speaker 3: it keeps repeating, generation after generation. Your trains to believe 905 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,319 Speaker 3: that women aren't interesting and didn't do anything. And even 906 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 3: if we do the what we think is progressive version 907 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,719 Speaker 3: of it's not women's fault. They didn't do anything. They 908 00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,960 Speaker 3: just weren't allowed to. Women weren't allowed to write, and 909 00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:34,240 Speaker 3: so they didn't write anything good. It's not their fault. Rubbish. 910 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,879 Speaker 3: There's so much good stuff that's been thrown out and 911 00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:40,680 Speaker 3: this objective standard of only white men are good writers. 912 00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:44,040 Speaker 3: Oh interesting, who decided? Oh white men. 913 00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,920 Speaker 4: Right, who's the one that's the judges and the right 914 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:49,239 Speaker 4: in this moment. 915 00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:51,920 Speaker 3: There's so much good stuff, you know, when you watch 916 00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 3: I'm a huge fan of The Good Place, the TV show, 917 00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:58,040 Speaker 3: because there are so many jokes in that show we've 918 00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,319 Speaker 3: never heard before in our lives. Right, we've heard every 919 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:03,439 Speaker 3: joke on sitcoms. You always know where the joke is going, 920 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,480 Speaker 3: even when they're funny. You're like, oh yeah, all right there, 921 00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:07,719 Speaker 3: and we don't never know where the jokes are going 922 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,799 Speaker 3: there because they're written by people who've never written for television. 923 00:53:10,840 --> 00:53:15,279 Speaker 3: We've never let them write before. And it's great. It's 924 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,799 Speaker 3: not about diversity because we need to check a box. 925 00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 3: It's because it's better to have more people talking. There 926 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,600 Speaker 3: are new stuff you've never heard before. 927 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 4: Yes, oh we love that well, Olivia, you are amazing 928 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,400 Speaker 4: And obviously it's gonna be one of our best friends. 929 00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 5: Yay, because we're going to collaborate again. 930 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,319 Speaker 3: I have a feeling that's the dream. 931 00:53:38,680 --> 00:53:41,400 Speaker 4: Yes, And of course, let your sister know she is 932 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 4: always welcome as well. 933 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 3: Love. Yeah, hopefully she's a she's quarantined. With small children 934 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:53,000 Speaker 3: quarantine with teenagers, so mine are happy to ignore me 935 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:54,480 Speaker 3: and hers are not. 936 00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:58,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna say this women and the mothers with tiny 937 00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 4: children and children at all during start times. 938 00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:02,920 Speaker 5: Are rock stars and heroes. 939 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,279 Speaker 4: Yes, because I'm annoyed with my dog sometimes. 940 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,520 Speaker 1: And I could just tell her to be quiet. 941 00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:13,360 Speaker 2: Can you tell our listeners where to find you? 942 00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 3: Yes, we're everywhere. We're everywhere that there are podcasts is 943 00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 3: what's her name? All one word with the apostrophe. Some 944 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 3: of them are very picky about getting that apostrophe in there, 945 00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:26,840 Speaker 3: or just google us. We're also at what's your namepodcast 946 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,120 Speaker 3: dot com and from there there's links to all the 947 00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 3: main platforms, and we're also on Spotify and YouTube. Yeah, 948 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:35,920 Speaker 3: our website has tons of pictures and we always try 949 00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:37,880 Speaker 3: to have pictures and links and more information about all 950 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,319 Speaker 3: our subjects and our guests who are amazing. 951 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 2: That brings us to the end of that wonderful interview 952 00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 2: with Olivia. Definitely go check out their podcast if you 953 00:54:47,080 --> 00:54:50,080 Speaker 2: want to learn more about these two women. Are so 954 00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 2: many other women, and if you would like to email 955 00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:57,520 Speaker 2: us about women. We should be talking about our other podcasts. 956 00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 3: We should be collaborating with. 957 00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:01,799 Speaker 2: You can our email Stuff Media mom Stuff at iHeartMedia 958 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,080 Speaker 2: dot com. You can also find us on Twitter at 959 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,799 Speaker 2: mom Stuff Podcast and on Instagram at stuff moom Never 960 00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 2: Told You. Thanks as always to our super producer producing 961 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 2: from Afar, Andrew Howard, and thanks to you for listening 962 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,399 Speaker 2: stuff mom Never Told You the protection of iHeartRadio. 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