1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? It's your girl lex Peak and. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 2: It's your girls righting a call, and you are tuned 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: into another episode of Poor Mine. 4 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. Well, well, well, well, 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: this has. 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 3: Been an interesting past week. 7 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,919 Speaker 4: I'm not a lot going on this week. It's just 8 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 4: been one of those weeks. 9 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, like you, I'm dead. Okay, maybe to 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: stay helpful my. 11 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 2: Sound and maybe if you talk a little louder, you 12 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 2: just loud as hell? 13 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: Everybody ain't that loud? 14 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 3: Why was your week? 15 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: My week was good? 16 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 3: What you had going on? 17 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: I worked the Queen. I know it sounds so weird. 18 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that fight was so upsetting. 19 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 5: Bro, this is not the way we need to end history. 20 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 1: I still stand for him, though, absolutely, I don't. 21 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:52,840 Speaker 3: He's a Trump supporter free. 22 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 5: Yes, he's from Alabama, so that makes it. 23 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 3: He's a Trump supporter. 24 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 5: He's from Alabama. 25 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 3: He got what he desired. 26 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 5: That makes sense because he's from Bro. 27 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 4: That's like, I mean, I know Alabama is like a 28 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 4: Trump state, but it's states culture. 29 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:14,880 Speaker 5: I mean to me, being a Trump yes, they're a black. 30 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 3: Tu no, no, we're not. You can't eat on the mic. 31 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 6: Okay, okay, alright, cool, like my mom, I'm dead. 32 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,759 Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel like the fight it was very 33 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 2: They should have stopped it sooner because when he hit 34 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:31,319 Speaker 2: his ear and he was bleeding, it looked like his 35 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 2: equilibrium was off, Like it looked like he didn't even 36 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 2: know where he was. 37 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, okay, he's gonna kill this man. 38 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 3: But I'll tell you what I do. 39 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: Like, the only only reason I like Fury is because 40 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 2: I watched Love Island. 41 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 3: It's a show. 42 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:45,479 Speaker 2: It's like a British show, and one of the girls 43 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: that was on there is dating his little brother. 44 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: So I was watching their story the whole time and 45 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 1: they were like in Vegas and stuff. So I was 46 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: enjoying it. 47 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: But that was like the only a little bit of 48 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 2: me that was rooting for Fury because. 49 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 3: I like his little brother that was on the Love 50 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 3: Island show. 51 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: So that he's British. He no, he's Irish, but it's 52 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 2: a British show. 53 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, but yeah, but I like the fact 54 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: that we don't know nothing about fighters. 55 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 2: I don't either, but I know after the fight, like 56 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: they were showing fear and he was thanking God and 57 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 2: he was like saying Bible scriptures, and I really like 58 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:16,240 Speaker 2: that because a lot of people in the spotlight, they 59 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: don't tend to do that. They don't, thank God. So 60 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: a lot of people have like weird and different beliefs. 61 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 2: So I fuck with Fury for that reason. So, I mean, 62 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: it was not a good fight. I really wanted while 63 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 2: to wind still because you know, support the black people. 64 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: But he did it. You know, it is what it is. 65 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: But did you make money at the fight party? 66 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 3: Was it busy? 67 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: How was it? 68 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? I did because I was actually really really pissed 69 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 4: off because they asked me to come in earlier than 70 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: I normally do. And I'm like, y'all really pushing me 71 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 4: because you be booked and busy. 72 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: They just can't ask Dray and a Cole to come 73 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 1: in early period. So I just was like, what the 74 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 1: fuck y'all cutting into my free time? 75 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 2: I mean, Tom Tom, because I mean, working twice a 76 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:55,399 Speaker 2: week is hard, it really is. 77 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 5: I know. 78 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: I work three times a week, that's right, We at 79 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 1: work right now? 80 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 5: Yes, yes, foring what you're supposed to be. 81 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: Past week. I pretty much same thing, just working. The 82 00:03:14,919 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 2: weather has been kind of ugly today. I weighed myself 83 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 2: I'm officially twenty pounds down. 84 00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 3: I've been, yeah, I've been on my little diet. 85 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 2: I got off for a little bit, but I've just 86 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:26,360 Speaker 2: been drinking a lot of water and just eating healthy. 87 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,839 Speaker 2: So I'm twenty pounds down. I'm super excited about that. 88 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 2: I feel better. My clothes are fitting better. I don't 89 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 2: know when I'm just like when I'm like, I'm dead 90 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 2: when that happy way, see the reason. But see when 91 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: I'm with him, that's when I eat bad and I'm drinking. 92 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 3: I'm doing this. 93 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 2: So I got to prepare for the summer because I 94 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 2: know we about to be turned up and lit. 95 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 5: I'm here for it, damn it. 96 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 4: So I think yesterday, you know, we went to kekeys 97 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 4: Key and Medina's. Oh my god, we had so much fun. 98 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 4: We are sol shout out only seen our stories. 99 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, shout out to. I met a lot of the 100 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 2: fans yesterday. It was one girl that came up to me. 101 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: It was a few girls that came up to me, 102 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: so I know. One girl's name was Ashley. I met 103 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 2: another girl. 104 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 3: I can't even remember her name right now. 105 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: I told her I was gonna shot her out because 106 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: she sent me a story. 107 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 3: But shot to y'all. 108 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: Thanks to all the poor Poor Minds fans that came 109 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 2: out to traffic yesterday for the brunch. 110 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:18,799 Speaker 3: It was so much fun. 111 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 2: So we're gonna do another Bunch's gonna be a Cocktails 112 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: poor Minds brunch very soon, so keep out on the look. 113 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: We're gonna do that really really soon for y'all. But 114 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 2: we're gonna do it when the weather it's hot. Yeah, 115 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 2: y'all know, holes get cold and shit. Now they said 116 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 2: the hos don't get cold, but I was definitely you 117 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 2: see it. 118 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: I came in with a j I know. 119 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. So we gonna do it when 120 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 2: the weather gets a little warmer. But it was so 121 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 2: much fun, y'all. 122 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: I had so much fun. 123 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: Diamond was there, jazz On was there, We got lit. 124 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 2: We just had a good time, like no drama. It 125 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 2: was no drama at all. And y'all know we love 126 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 2: the drama free environment, so everybody's never. 127 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: Really drama when we be with that particular group of people. Yeah, 128 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: I feel like everybody gets along like me. 129 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 2: You, Diamond, Jazz, Kiki, Medina, like it was so so 130 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,039 Speaker 2: much money, So shout out to Kiki and Medina. Thank 131 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 2: y'all for us. We had a good time. 132 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: So let's go ahead and get into it, into the 133 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 1: into the real shit. 134 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about this because some things 135 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 2: just transpired, and I feel like a lot of times 136 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 2: when women are on the internet, yes, when things, when 137 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 2: girls get into it, the first thing a girl likes 138 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: to say is what I fucked your men and who 139 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 2: I got? 140 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: You fucking everybody and my thing. 141 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 2: And I feel like, congrats, you want a fucking cookie. 142 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 3: You look lame, especially. 143 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,480 Speaker 2: If that man is in a relationship with the girl, 144 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 2: because first of all, this is what I said, no 145 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 2: offense marine, but I said, because he's a man. A 146 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 2: man will fuck concrete as long as it's still wet. 147 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna fuck concrete. 148 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: First of all, you might think about it. 149 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 6: So the men again, like we said last week, the mayor, 150 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 6: y'all fuck with or anything moving. 151 00:05:57,839 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 5: But I do agree with what y'all saying. 152 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 6: The quote I fucked your man, it's like saying not graduated, 153 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 6: but you were a C student, Like right. 154 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 7: Care. 155 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 1: Fucking everybody? 156 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:09,799 Speaker 3: That is true? 157 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 4: I mean it's the truth. Everybody be fucking everybody, like, 158 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 4: who fucking cares? 159 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: You want a cookie? 160 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 4: Because you fuck the nigga that I'm with now, and 161 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 4: the thing, what did he do for you? And then 162 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 4: what makes it even worse is for the nigga to 163 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 4: get on social media and be like, no, you're lying, 164 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 4: you're lying, and he's like denying you. 165 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 2: Right, that's embarrassing as fuck, Like you look crazy. I 166 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 2: feel like women that do that you just don't realize 167 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 2: how sloppy and dirty that makes you look. 168 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 6: Because women do pushy. I have had beautiful women lyeing 169 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:44,480 Speaker 6: and say that I fucked you. Oh yeah, I didn't 170 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 6: fuck her, like she's fine, right right. 171 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 2: I feel like that's not a man or a woman thing. 172 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 2: I feel like that's a people thing. Like there's certain 173 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 2: things that men do that women don't do and vice versa. 174 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 2: But I feel like lying on your pussy or your dick, 175 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 2: that's things that people do. Yeah, you know, cause like 176 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 2: I said, I know men lining there. I mean, I 177 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 2: know we've been lied on before, like niggas being like, 178 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 2: oh I had sex with dre or I had sex 179 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 2: with leg but I know how that shit happened to 180 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 2: me in college. Yeah, fucking mad as hell, And what 181 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: the nigga doing now, see. 182 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: Y'all don't like ugly. 183 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 2: Exactly the same thing happened to me, and the bad 184 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,960 Speaker 2: thing is for me. I confronted him. I confronted him 185 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 2: in front of him too. I confronted him with my 186 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:22,840 Speaker 2: dude and I walked up to him. I was like, 187 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 2: so you fuck me? 188 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: He said yeah, he was like, whatever you say. Man. 189 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 3: I was like, y'all. 190 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: My jaw dropped because I was like, are you serious. 191 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 5: I would pay to see that. I would pay moddy 192 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 5: to see that. 193 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: And then I'm looking at my dude. He was like damn. 194 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 3: I was like, no, he's lying. 195 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: What you say. It was like, whatever you say, whatever 196 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 1: you say. I was like wow. 197 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 3: So yeah, anyways, back to the topic. 198 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 2: I just feel like it just makes you look kind 199 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 2: of corny, if anything, Like if you if you have 200 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 2: a way with words and you know how to read 201 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 2: a bitch, you're gonna read that bitch down and not 202 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 2: bring her children into it, and I bring her man 203 00:07:59,480 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 2: into it. 204 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 4: What However, you know, certain people don't know how to 205 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 4: read people. In this particular person that we talking about, 206 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 4: I don't even know if the can. 207 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:08,559 Speaker 1: I think she's a little slow. 208 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 3: She definitely is slow. 209 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: So and I feel like somebody else was typing all 210 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: this she. 211 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 3: I'm fucking dead. I don't. 212 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 4: Do you feel like I feel like it was like 213 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 4: one of her best friends or something, because she she's 214 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 4: not witty like she don'et beat on TV and she's 215 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 4: she not witty like that, she don't never be having 216 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 4: a good comebacks. 217 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: And if she's so, she was saying, I was over 218 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: here laughing as I'm not gonna lie, and I. 219 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 4: Don't ever laugh at her, I mean at her, not 220 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 4: with her. 221 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. When they posted a. 222 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 2: Little sawt thing, the little saw Man riding on the bike, 223 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 2: I was laughing at that. 224 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 1: Now, that was funny. That was funny. I'm not gonna lie. 225 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 2: But like I said at the end of the day, 226 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:47,559 Speaker 2: I feel like, like I said, we don't like to 227 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 2: say names too much, but I feel like she would 228 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: definitely get beat. 229 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: Up because that absolutely that other girl don't play. 230 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 2: I know she got them hands, but she don't pop 231 00:08:56,559 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 2: them long ass nails off and beat ass her. 232 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 3: And the baby get whooked. 233 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 4: No, but but with her though, my only issue with 234 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 4: her was like, you ain't have to read. 235 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: You all got to bring people kids in. 236 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean, especially when the situation 237 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 4: at hand with that specific child. 238 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, we all kind of know. 239 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 4: That that child has dabilities stuff like that, So I 240 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 4: just think, you know, kids should be off limmits. 241 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 2: Period, but especially children. Were like, right, yeah, I think 242 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,840 Speaker 2: the whole situation was messy. But like I said, ladies, 243 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, if you're arguing with 244 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 2: a bitch, read her down, talk about talk about her hell, 245 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 2: her nails, talk about how she grew up something, talk about. 246 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 1: The way she talked, the way she people talk about me. 247 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 2: All was on your country, ass, bitch, you from Orange, Texas. 248 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 2: Y'all was excited when y'all got a Chili's, which we was. 249 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: He was on the news when we got a chili 250 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: not the news. 251 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 3: When we got a Chili's. 252 00:09:53,520 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 2: It was on the news. I was like, y'all, we 253 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 2: got a motherfucking Chili's. Now what I thought? That was 254 00:09:58,440 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 2: the most lit thing ever. 255 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: It was on the news. 256 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:02,360 Speaker 2: It was on the news when we got to Chili's 257 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 2: because it was a big deal. That was like the 258 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,440 Speaker 2: nicest restaurant like that was in Orange at the time. 259 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,480 Speaker 1: Is it still there. It's still there, live and kick, 260 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: and it's still the only one. 261 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 2: No, I think they have more little restaurants now and 262 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: then they're getting a Chick fil a bill now, So 263 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 2: shout out to Orange moving all up. 264 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 4: Oh wow, that is really crazy. Yeah, you were supposed 265 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 4: to take me to Orange and you still haven't took me. 266 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 2: I haven't been to Orange. I haven't been to Orange 267 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 2: in so long. Like, I don't ever go there. I 268 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 2: mean unless it's to see my mom. But my mom 269 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,640 Speaker 2: most of the time comes to Houston. But I'll definitely 270 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 2: take you a Orange. We can go on a little tour. 271 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 2: It's gonna take ten minutes, but I'll take you on 272 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 2: a tour now. But yeah, I just feel like that's 273 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 2: something that you could talk about. People like you country 274 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 2: bumping ass bitch. You want to act like you this 275 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 2: and that bit you from Orange Texas. 276 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:47,959 Speaker 1: Read you know what I'm saying. 277 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 2: You want to say you you claim you from Houston, 278 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 2: because somebody could do that to me. Be like, bitch, 279 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 2: you claim me from Houston, You're from Orange fucking Texas. 280 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 1: I would be like ooh, ooh, you know what I'm saying. 281 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:58,400 Speaker 3: I like you read a bitch. 282 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: You gotta do your research, just like Eminem did his research. 283 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 5: Hey mom, girl, research. 284 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 1: When you want to read emits did not read him 285 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 1: for his right. 286 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 2: He put it on blast and he went to a 287 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 2: private school that both his parents. 288 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 5: Your parents are married, and his name is Clarence. 289 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:21,000 Speaker 1: Claren. 290 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 2: He did his research, and that's how you need. You 291 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 2: don't have to bring in they man. You don't have 292 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 2: to bring in their child. You don't have to do 293 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 2: none of that. 294 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, you could just you know, talk about that person, 295 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 4: talk about the beef. 296 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: If you was beefing at their wig, you should have 297 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 1: been at the period. 298 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 3: Period. So we're gonna move on. That's our advice. 299 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: That was really geared towards my ladies because I really 300 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 2: I really don't see men doing now. No men sometimes 301 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:46,960 Speaker 2: do that. Be like yeah, nigga, that's why I fuck 302 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 2: your beach. 303 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: Men do do the next day somebody getting shy. 304 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 3: I'm dead. 305 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, men be killing men, just be killing each other. 306 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 2: Niggas will step on somebody's shoe and then like thirty 307 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 2: minutes they did are crazy crazy. 308 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 1: That's why we don't never see no Twitter beef with niggas. No, 309 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: because they shoot niggas. 310 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 3: They be showing up at the dog like nigga, you 311 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 3: ready to die? You ready? 312 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: To dive out. 313 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, how do I feel about UDEs who really died 314 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 5: over pussy. 315 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 6: Though, because I'll like, I'll fight for my girl, but 316 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 6: I'll never fight over a girl that makes it. 317 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like that's something that happens at the 318 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 2: beginning of time. 319 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 1: The whole wars have. 320 00:12:23,280 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 2: Been started over pussy. True, you know what I'm saying, 321 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 2: Like that's historically what men do. 322 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 4: Damn this fight over pussy. I need a nigga to 323 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 4: start a war about my policy. 324 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 3: It's not no World War three over the gray scar. 325 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: He said, Na, you ain't I'm dead. 326 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 5: I never. 327 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: I know, that's right, friend, She trying to read you down. 328 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 2: No, But what I feel like, I feel like now 329 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 2: it's like life is really precious, So I feel like 330 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 2: to kill somebody. 331 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: There's no coming back from that. It's like that's a lie. 332 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 2: Why can't niggas just and whold somebody asks and get 333 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 2: it over with, Like men really take ship far they do. 334 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 6: I understand killing somebody who disrespected your girl, but fighting 335 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 6: over pussy like it's not yours. 336 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,120 Speaker 2: I mean, even if somebody disrespected your girl, like beat 337 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 2: his ass, but you doon't got to kill him. 338 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not. 339 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 6: I'm not condoning it, but I understand, man, Like I 340 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 6: wish somebody would touch on tiny in front of y right, 341 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 6: somebody would. 342 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 4: Do that when you know, when him and Maywell exactly 343 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 4: and he came down here, I don't know how, but 344 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:40,439 Speaker 4: he had got shot. I'm just saying, bro, that's all 345 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 4: I'm about that, and I'm just leaving at that. 346 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 3: Yo, That's what I'm saying. 347 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: But imagine, imagine if one of those bulls would have 348 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 2: hit somebody, like. 349 00:13:50,080 --> 00:13:52,079 Speaker 1: I think that was the point it was. 350 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 5: That's a girl, that's his wife. 351 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 2: I steel like, you know, death is just it's permanent. 352 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 2: I feel like anything could be worked out, Anything could 353 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 2: be worked out. 354 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 1: Somebody can't be worked out. 355 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 3: It can you could just move on. 356 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 4: I feel like I'm not gonna lie to you though, 357 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 4: maybe because I'm a little bit you know, we're in 358 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 4: the streets than. 359 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:16,839 Speaker 1: You are, okay, hood Rich Drea, period. 360 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 4: But anyways, I just feel like, nah, like for real, 361 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 4: when it be coming to like street sheet, some shit 362 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 4: just really for real can't be worked on, Like somebody 363 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 4: gotta die. 364 00:14:28,120 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 3: That's no, it doesn't happen. 365 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 4: But it's just like I don't have to but that's 366 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 4: how that's the type of mentality that them type of 367 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 4: niggas be having, like somebody gotta. 368 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 1: Die by these sheet. 369 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 4: I feel like, and I'm trying to be fucked up 370 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 4: because it'd be like casualties of war. Like sometimes the 371 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 4: niggas who are really the ones that's beefing, not even 372 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 4: the ones who end up dying and be like homeboys, 373 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 4: they poppingers, They mamas. 374 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, they girlfriends, they kids. Yeah that should be fucked up. 375 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 4: But it's like if I can't get to you, I'm 376 00:14:58,560 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 4: gonna get to who I can get to. 377 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 6: Were pussy though, I guess if it's about something like 378 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 6: you punched my mom in the face, like something like that. 379 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: Something like that, now you gotta die. You punch any 380 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 1: you gotta die. 381 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 2: You got to die because if an He's not gonna 382 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: kill you, you gonna kill Jackson Jackson next don't I 383 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 2: can't shoo the good Jackson. 384 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 4: But now, I mean, I don't think that it's okay 385 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 4: that niggas have died over pussy. But I'm just saying, 386 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 4: like some niggas be taking this ship serious. 387 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 2: I feel like I saw a video the other day 388 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 2: of a two girls fighting and she pulled out a 389 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 2: gun and shot that girl. She died over they baby daddy, 390 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 2: Like I guess they had the same baby daddy. 391 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:37,000 Speaker 3: It was like it went viral. 392 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 1: Damn, that's nasty. 393 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 4: That's really crazy because that show siblings, Mom, I mean 394 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 4: your child's siblings, my own. 395 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: Now it's like both like one dead, one going to jail. 396 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: Like so not a daddy gotta take both of them. 397 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 2: He probably can't take care of ship because y'all know, 398 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 2: y'all a ship. 399 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 1: These baby daddy. 400 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, That's why I said. 401 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 2: But I feel like women when it happens with women, 402 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 2: like I think shit kind of be on accident sometimes. 403 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 2: Like I always watched that show a Snaps, not Snap, 404 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 2: it's another show, and they were always like talking about 405 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 2: like people doing things on accident, like crimes. 406 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:14,080 Speaker 3: And it was one time, no. 407 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 2: Seriously, because like these two girls were fighting and the 408 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 2: girl like grabs something sharp from the ground, like a 409 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:20,040 Speaker 2: screwdriver or something. 410 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 3: She was just like swinging. 411 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 2: She ended up like piercing the girl's heart on accident, 412 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 2: and the girl ended up dying like three days later. 413 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 1: But you picked up the screwdriver, So what was you 414 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: thinking you gonna? 415 00:16:29,560 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 3: I don't know, child, but. 416 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 2: I feel like when she went to that fight to 417 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 2: fight that girl, her intention wasn't to kill her. 418 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: Right when niggas pull up, their intention is to. 419 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 3: Kill that nigga, You know what I'm saying. 420 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes when things happen between women, sometimes 421 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 2: things just escalate. I don't feel like women a lot 422 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,440 Speaker 2: of times show up somewhere like I'm gonna kill. 423 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: This bitch now. 424 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:48,840 Speaker 2: Just be trying to cut you though, Yeah, by just 425 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 2: be trying to cut you and they cut you in 426 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 2: the wrong spot and you're dead. That's what I'm saying. Like, 427 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 2: I feel like girls will slice each other's face up and. 428 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 1: They want to make you ugly this and that. Yeah, 429 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 1: you what you gonna actually? 430 00:16:59,680 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I don't know. I just feel like she. 431 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 4: Was dancing with somebody man in the club and she 432 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 4: was rolling that nigga, Yeah, and the girl got mad 433 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 4: and I ended up getting into a fight and the 434 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:12,879 Speaker 4: girl has slashed her face up. And then after that, 435 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 4: I ain't gonna talk about what happened to the girl. 436 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 3: He's talking that street ship now. 437 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 5: But that's about something. 438 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,720 Speaker 1: That's about something, yeah, yeah. 439 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 4: That's about something that shots were taking shots of fire. 440 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 4: You can't blame that though. So she got to beat 441 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 4: in her face. She still got like the scars and 442 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 4: stuff still on her face. 443 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 3: That sucks. 444 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so let us know how y'all feel about drama 445 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 2: over pussy or over That was an accidental topic. 446 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 3: That was so I want to talk about Love Is Blind. 447 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 2: Love Is Blind is a show that's on Netflix right 448 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 2: now and it is literally taking over social media. Everybody's 449 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 2: obsessed with it. Everybody loves it. It's such a good show. 450 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 2: So basically, if you don't know what Love is Blind is, 451 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 2: they put a bunch of people in like these little 452 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,840 Speaker 2: pods and they can't see each other, and they're getting 453 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 2: to know each other and they pick a partner just 454 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 2: based off their conversations, and the partner that you pick 455 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 2: you have. 456 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 3: To marry them. 457 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:22,120 Speaker 2: So mind you, these people are having conversations to get engaged. Yeah, 458 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: they get engaged, and then like five days later some 459 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:26,919 Speaker 2: people were like telling them I love you and this 460 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 2: and that. It was really intense, really really quickly. So 461 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,600 Speaker 2: this was shot in Atlanta. Most of the people are 462 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 2: from Atlanta, and there was one particular couple that kind 463 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:38,760 Speaker 2: of just stuck out. They were only on the first 464 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:44,239 Speaker 2: two episodes. But their whole situation was so crazy. So 465 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 2: everybody's talking about Carlton and Diamonds, and I want to 466 00:18:47,359 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 2: discuss this not only for what happened between them, but 467 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 2: just because something happened yesterday at the brunch and it 468 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 2: kind of goes into this as well. So yes, so 469 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 2: we're going to talk about all that. I just want 470 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 2: to explain carlton situation. And so if you watch Housewives 471 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,239 Speaker 2: or you are on Twitter, you know who Carlton is. 472 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 2: First of all, never leave. Yes, never thought he was straight. 473 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:12,119 Speaker 2: Let me just say that, and that's not anything offensive. 474 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:13,360 Speaker 2: I just never thought he. 475 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 3: Was a straight. 476 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 1: What did he do on Housewives? 477 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 2: He was Cynthia Bailey's assistant on one season, like working 478 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,879 Speaker 2: at the Bailey Agency, and he was very so much 479 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 2: trying to drag Kenya, very flamboyant, and even he was 480 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 2: that way on Ladder. So him and Diamond, the girl 481 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,440 Speaker 2: Diamond ended up connecting. They like each other, blah blah blah. 482 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 2: They end up going on their honeymoon or whatever they 483 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,639 Speaker 2: sent them all to can Kon and then he decides 484 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:44,800 Speaker 2: to tell her. You know, at this point, I want 485 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 2: to get married. I want to have kids. But I 486 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:49,120 Speaker 2: just want to let you know I used to date men. 487 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 2: I'm was a bisexual man. I no longer do that. 488 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 2: But I feel like that's something that he should have 489 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 2: disclosed on the first time that they talked. If you're 490 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 2: trying to be honest and actually during an experiment like. 491 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: That, you know the purpose of this is to get married. 492 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,399 Speaker 2: So once you figured out I won't say on the 493 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 2: first date, but on like their second or third day, 494 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,520 Speaker 2: when they're having conversations and they were pretty much talking about, oh, 495 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,640 Speaker 2: we're going to pick each other, that's what he should 496 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 2: have been like, Okay, so I know that we're going 497 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 2: to pick each other. So I just want to let 498 00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 2: you know this about me so you can decide if 499 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 2: you want to move on. 500 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:24,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like I feel like that's something that 501 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 4: should have been disclosed in the beginning, Like why would 502 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 4: you wait until we sit in face to face right 503 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 4: to tell me these because now at this point I 504 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:32,359 Speaker 4: already have feelings for you. 505 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: We done have numerous conversations, right. 506 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 5: Maybe he felt late, maybe he would like maybe when 507 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 5: they first started talking he liked her, but he wasn't. 508 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just think that he no, I think that 509 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,119 Speaker 2: he did it for the show. I don't think he's 510 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:49,400 Speaker 2: a straight man at all all because when they started getting. 511 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 4: Into it, he was like, he's how you need to 512 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 4: fix y'all weed? That shit been sliding back these whole time. 513 00:20:55,600 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: I mean, and it was. It was terrible. 514 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 4: It was it was sitting way make way back, like 515 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,399 Speaker 4: that episode of Love and Hip Hop and ray j 516 00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 4: A had kept sweetchee. 517 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:10,440 Speaker 5: Oh. 518 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 4: That's how I felt about that weed. Every every time 519 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 4: they would show, they would cut too. It would be 520 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 4: far the big I'd be like. 521 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 5: I gotta watch the show. But now that you say that, 522 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 5: I mean. 523 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 524 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,400 Speaker 2: I feel like he did it because he's always kind 525 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 2: of been like a cloud chaser type of person. So 526 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 2: seeing him on the show, I was like, Oh, why 527 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 2: is he on here? I'm like, I thought it was 528 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 2: cool because I was like, they're doing gay couples because 529 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 2: I think that it's messed up because a lot of 530 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 2: times these dating shows they don't do it for gay people, 531 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 2: and I think that's kind of messed up. For one, 532 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, Like they have all these 533 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:43,879 Speaker 2: like Love Island, they don't have any gay couples on 534 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 2: these shows like The Bachelor, they've never done a gay 535 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:48,359 Speaker 2: season for that, Like, I feel like they should do 536 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 2: stuff like that, you know what I mean. But anyway, 537 00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,520 Speaker 2: so I was like, oh, Carlton's on here. They're doing 538 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 2: gay couples too. I think that's amazing. And I see 539 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 2: him talking to Domind, I'm like, you don't even like 540 00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 2: puss it. 541 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 3: There's no way you're on that show. Change of heart, babe. 542 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 2: When he when he got mad, he was like, he was, 543 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,640 Speaker 2: no way, no way you are. Still I think he's 544 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 2: I think he's a versatile. I think he's a top 545 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 2: and the bottom. Yeah, because he definitely has he definitely 546 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 2: has some manly things. He has his manly moments. But baby, 547 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,400 Speaker 2: I could tell he'd be too net as so. 548 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 3: He looks like a tutor. 549 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 4: I just couldn't believe how upset he got with her, 550 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 4: just because she was trying to figure out if she 551 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 4: was gonna be okay with you, Like, you can't be 552 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:33,640 Speaker 4: mad as somebody, for you can't tell somebody that type 553 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 4: of information and then be upset because they're not ready 554 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 4: to accept it right then and there forward. 555 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,200 Speaker 2: And she was saying she wasn't mad about him being 556 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 2: the whole dynamic our relationship. She and she said that 557 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:47,879 Speaker 2: she wasn't mad about him being bisexual. She was just 558 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 2: mad that he disclosed that information because sometimes a lot 559 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 2: of people feel like, if you omit information, that's the 560 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 2: same thing as mine. 561 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 5: I agree with that. Yeah, don't waste people's time. 562 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 2: Don't waste people's time. So I well, it's different for men. 563 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 2: So you are dated by sexual women, right. 564 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 6: I'm definitely dated bisexual women niggas like that ship. 565 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 5: Is to me. It's not that big of a dem 566 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 5: there really isn't. 567 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 2: I guess it's different. It's very different for women though. Absolutely, 568 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,800 Speaker 2: would you date about sexual men knowingly? 569 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:24,640 Speaker 1: No? Yeah, I feel like I couldn't. I couldn't. 570 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 2: The thing for me though, it's not about the act 571 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 2: of sex with the man. It's just that, first of all, 572 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 2: we already got to compete with bitches. 573 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: Gotta compete with these there's some fine ass niggas out here. 574 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: I gotta compete with these fine ass niggas and the 575 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 2: bad bitches. 576 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 1: A lot of pressure. 577 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 6: I mean, we got to compete with the bad bitches 578 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,480 Speaker 6: too now because man like, it's it's weird, but man 579 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 6: like women. 580 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,359 Speaker 5: You see a gay woman it's like, damn, why are 581 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 5: you gay? Damn yeah, do what you want to do. 582 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 6: I'm not against it, but it's like, damn, you too 583 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 6: fine and too cool to be gay. 584 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:57,359 Speaker 4: Now that's sexual because I used to suck with a 585 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,680 Speaker 4: girl that was in a relationship with a nigga. 586 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:01,320 Speaker 3: I'm dead. 587 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: I was young. I was like twenty two. 588 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 4: But yeah, honeyad hated me because he knew that I 589 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 4: knew they was in a relationship and I. 590 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 1: Still used to be his bed. 591 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 4: He couldn't do shit about it. So every time he 592 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 4: would see me out, he would just be like he 593 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 4: couldn't fight me. 594 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,840 Speaker 1: Because I'm a girl. So it's like he used to 595 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: be so fucking mad but not we cool. Yeah you 596 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 1: know who it is. 597 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:26,679 Speaker 3: I probably do. 598 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 8: I just gotta oh, wow, y'all I want to tell 599 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 8: I could tell y'all, but I mean way y'all bored 600 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:37,760 Speaker 8: and cool? 601 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 3: Now? 602 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:45,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, ain't she crazy? Like comes full circle? 603 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 3: Well with me? 604 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 2: I the only reason, like I said, it's not about 605 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 2: the the sexual act with a man. I don't care 606 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 2: about that shuff Like, I don't care about nothing. I 607 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 2: just feel like Garfield can only do so much. Okay, 608 00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 2: I can I got to compete these bitches, like I said, 609 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 2: and these fine niggas, and I want to talk about 610 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 2: what happened yesterday because we were at traffic and the 611 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 2: whole time, I'm not gonna lie. This nigga was fine, y'all, 612 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 2: super fine. 613 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 1: He was fine, and he was he had a little 614 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: chain off. 615 00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 4: It's just funny how it's just funny how you don't 616 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 4: really notice things until something get said. Yeah, because once 617 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 4: I started looking over there for real, I was like, oh, 618 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 4: hell no, and we should have noticed that the whole time. 619 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 2: But anyway, so yeah, like Diamond, as soon as she 620 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,200 Speaker 2: came in, she was like, Oh, I see a bead 621 00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 2: b bitch. I'm like, we heard he played football. Yeah, 622 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 2: somebody said that he played. He played Ye, So she 623 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 2: was like, oh, I see a bead b bitch. I'm like, oh, 624 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 2: we're about to go get this nigga for you, like 625 00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:45,439 Speaker 2: were about to find you a BDB. 626 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,199 Speaker 3: So they go over in front like, okay, Diamond, come 627 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 3: sit over here. 628 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:51,000 Speaker 2: So y'all know Domin is crazy, and she starts working 629 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 2: shaking our ass in front of the nigga like and 630 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 2: so when he walked by me, I was like, I 631 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 2: was like donald. When he walked by, I'm gonna grab 632 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 2: him and I'm be like, hey, my friend want to. 633 00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 3: Talk to you. 634 00:25:58,119 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 1: She was like okay, So we taking shots, so we 635 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 1: get ready. 636 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 3: We were trying to get. 637 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: Off, and I did n't right there next to them, y'all, 638 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:04,640 Speaker 1: So I grabbed him. 639 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 3: I said hey. 640 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 2: I was like, my friend wants to talk to you, 641 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 2: and he was like oh, and I pointed. He was like, oh, 642 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 2: I'm gay as fuck, honey, and he definitely did that. 643 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: I was like what. 644 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 4: And at first I thought he was lying, like maybe 645 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 4: he just don't want to, like, yeah. 646 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 1: That's true. 647 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 4: But then when I looked at him sex but then 648 00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 4: once we started looking over there and paying the teachers 649 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,880 Speaker 4: to the section, all the niggas over there, was like. 650 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 2: And then once he said that to us, I feel 651 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 2: like he got more comfortable because he started being like, hey, y'all, 652 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 2: but y'all some bad bitches. Like he wasn't being like 653 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 2: he was like really just kind of sitting there chilling. 654 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 2: Like I didn't get no gay vibes from him, but 655 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 2: I respected him because he was real about it, you know, 656 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 2: like he obviously didn't want none of us, but he 657 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 2: was so he was so cool. He was super fine 658 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 2: and he was cool as fuck, like all his friends 659 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,160 Speaker 2: started coming over there and talking to us. 660 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 3: But that just that's how Atlanta. 661 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 4: But I will say this, and this is why Atlanta 662 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 4: be so scary to me. It was so many hood 663 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 4: like hood looking niggas that was over there, like they 664 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 4: just looked like regular niggas, Draco, And then when they 665 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 4: was starting dancing and she they was throwing ass, throwing ass, 666 00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 4: had on like chains and she. 667 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 2: And they were attractive men, like attractive enough for like 668 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 2: I shot like my like, like I said, I was like, 669 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 2: I grabbed him for her, and I was like yo, 670 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 2: and you know, my friend want to say, what's suck? 671 00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I was like, I finally 672 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,679 Speaker 2: got my friend a BDB. I don't know how we 673 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,439 Speaker 2: heard that he played football. Yeah, I don't know how 674 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 2: y'all heard that either. Yeah, she said somebody in the 675 00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:36,760 Speaker 2: somebody told her that in the section that he played football. 676 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 2: I guess I don't know if they thought he was 677 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,159 Speaker 2: somebody else. I don't know, maybe that's what it was. 678 00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,919 Speaker 3: But yeah, that's just how Atlanta is. You just you 679 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 3: just never know, you never know. 680 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 2: But like I said, I'm glad that he was honest 681 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,400 Speaker 2: about it and said it straight up, and he was like, oh, 682 00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 2: my man over there. 683 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 3: I was like, oh yeah. He was like, my man 684 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 3: is right over there. 685 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: But you know, they weren't hanging all over each other. 686 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 2: So because I know when I'll be in the club 687 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 2: with my man, I'm kissing him in the mouth. 688 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I do. 689 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 3: And Ship, I'm definitely kissing you in the mouth. I'm 690 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 3: grabbing on dick. I'm doing all that. I'm very inappropriate 691 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 3: territory in public. It's not even marking my territory. 692 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 2: I just be drunk and I get horny. 693 00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,119 Speaker 1: I think she let the hose. 694 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 3: No, I'm dead. 695 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,919 Speaker 2: I don't gotta let him know. He can he let 696 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 2: him know. I'm lying, No, he don't. I'm trying to 697 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 2: sound good drunk. 698 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 4: I'm trying to think if I ever made out with 699 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 4: a nigga in the club. I only made with one 700 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 4: nigga in the club, and you know who that was too. 701 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. 702 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 4: He's crazy ass, the nigga I used to fuck with 703 00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 4: in Houston seek for my first ct E Bay, Oh God, 704 00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 4: grab me by the face me down. 705 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 3: I would have been laughing, so hard. I would have 706 00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 3: never let you live. 707 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: That down, you know, never let me live down in 708 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 1: that situation. Period. 709 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 2: I'll be forgetting about that always. I don't know how 710 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:02,600 Speaker 2: I'm okay, So let us know how y'all feel. If 711 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:04,959 Speaker 2: y'all watch Love and Blind Love is Blind, please let 712 00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,200 Speaker 2: us know because that is like my favorite show right now? 713 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 3: Do you have? Have you finished and caught up yet? No? 714 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: I haven't finished you. 715 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 2: Okay, So my predictions are. I don't think Gigi and 716 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 2: Damien are gonna make it. I think he's gonna leave 717 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 2: her at the at the Altar. I think Lauren and 718 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 2: Cameron are gonna make it. I don't think Kelly and 719 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 2: I can't remember his name, Ken or something. I don't 720 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 2: think they're gonna make it. Who else is there? I 721 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 2: don't think what's her name? Jessica and Mark are gonna 722 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 2: make it. Jessica doesn't even like Mark. And I think 723 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,360 Speaker 2: Barnett is gonna leave Amber because Amber's are brokey. 724 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: So those are my prediction. Money is the White the 725 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: Black Girl, and the white Boie. Lauren and Cameron. I 726 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: love Lauren and Cameron. I love him. 727 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 3: Cameron got a. 728 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 2: Little swag, Yeah, cute yeah, and he likes black girls, 729 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 2: like he's made it clear that he's dated black women before. 730 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 2: So I think that Lauren Lauren just needs a little 731 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 2: more time to fall in love with him, but I 732 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 2: think that's gonna work out for them. So yeah, those 733 00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,280 Speaker 2: are my predictions. So let me know y'all's predictions. Let 734 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 2: me know what y'all think. And also I would like 735 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 2: to know have any of y'all ever dated a bisexual 736 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:09,680 Speaker 2: man and how I definitely do. I definitely do. I 737 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 2: used to tell you that all the time. The dude 738 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 2: I was day when I moved out here. Oh yeah, yeah, 739 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 2: because it's a tooth that ass up. And I used 740 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 2: to you know, I used to do, you know, do 741 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 2: what he wanted me to do. But I was like, 742 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:21,320 Speaker 2: I know you didn't done this before. 743 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, do I think I've ever well, 744 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think. 745 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely thought he would, but I liked 746 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 2: him and it was like it's too late now. And 747 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:32,800 Speaker 2: I know a lot of times men don't feel comfortable 748 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 2: disclosing that information, but I definitely don't wonder why though. 749 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 3: I mean because they because if it's what you're doing, 750 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 3: and it's. 751 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 2: Because it's easier said than done because a lot of 752 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 2: people are very biophobic, you know what I'm saying, Like 753 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:46,680 Speaker 2: people are still homophobic, like crazy. 754 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 4: So you have to give people the option to keep 755 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 4: dealing with you after you tell them that information. You 756 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 4: can't just not tell people stuff because you were afraid 757 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 4: of what they gonna think. 758 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 1: That's not fair. No, I that's want of AIDS rate. 759 00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:58,520 Speaker 1: So damn Hi in Atlanta. 760 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 2: I mean, but not it's not But AIDS is not 761 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 2: just coming from gay people and gay sex. 762 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 4: I'm not saying it, but I feel like it's a 763 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:05,920 Speaker 4: lot of download people. 764 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 2: I mean, but that comes from cheating period, because you 765 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like I could be in a relationship, 766 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 2: but my man can cheat on me and not use 767 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 2: a condom and come back and bring me AIDS and. 768 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 4: Or bring me absolutely true, that's absolutely true. 769 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:20,719 Speaker 1: But then I don't know. 770 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 4: I just feel like when it comes to like hetero 771 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,960 Speaker 4: sexual relationships and cheating, if your man cheating on you, 772 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 4: you probably know he cheating on you, not trying to 773 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 4: be funny. So it's like if you choosing to stay 774 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 4: with him, you kind of putting your own self at risk. 775 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 4: And I feel like a lot of women be knowing 776 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 4: that they man cheating, but they just still stay with 777 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 4: then you don't know if he using condoms and shit 778 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 4: every time he cheating. If you know that he's cheating, 779 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 4: you don't know if he's using condoms every time. I 780 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,800 Speaker 4: feel like when men be fucking with other men and 781 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 4: they have a wife or a girlfriend, the woman do 782 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 4: not be knowing. So that's some whole different she because 783 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:54,280 Speaker 4: you don't, You're you're literally oblieving. 784 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: When I say that all women know when they man 785 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: be cheating. 786 00:31:57,440 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 4: Not all of them, But I do feel like a 787 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 4: lot of women know and they just be choosing to just, 788 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 4: you know. 789 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,760 Speaker 1: Say, but yeah, some people don't know. 790 00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 2: Though, I felt like I felt like my ex was 791 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 2: definitely bisexual. 792 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 3: I mean, but I didn't care. 793 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 2: I just thought that I didn't think he was doing 794 00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 2: anything with another guy at the time, but I thought that, 795 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 2: you know, I was like, he definitely has dated a 796 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 2: man before, definitely has fucked with a man before. 797 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 3: But I didn't care. 798 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 4: I was just like, whatever, I definitely think I've dated 799 00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 4: somebody before too. I thought like, but you know what, 800 00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,040 Speaker 4: I will say that, I will say this. 801 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 2: He taught me different things in the bedroom. And I 802 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 2: still use those little tricks to this day. So now 803 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 2: he improved your sixth game. 804 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,200 Speaker 1: I feel like he definitely did. 805 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 3: He definitely did. 806 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 2: He taught me little things, a little shit here and there, 807 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 2: and I was like, okay, I can get with that. 808 00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 2: That's what's a ringing in time. Next topic. 809 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's what I was about to say. That's 810 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,240 Speaker 4: gonna bring us into the next topic. 811 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,560 Speaker 3: Get up into the bed. 812 00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 2: So our topic on the bed today is men who 813 00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 2: lift their legs up while you sucking this dick while 814 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,560 Speaker 2: you playing with the balls, like a nigga just lift 815 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 2: his legs. 816 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: Up like and hold them and hold him hold his ankles. Okay, 817 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 1: not the ankle, he just hold the ankles. I ain't 818 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 1: never had a nigga hold the ankle. 819 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 3: They put on their hands on the back of their knees. 820 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 1: I done had niggas do these. Well, Dre, you said 821 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,960 Speaker 1: somebody put their feet on you. Then I had a 822 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 1: nigga put his feet on my thighs. 823 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,640 Speaker 2: Okay, let me get Marien. Have you ever like a 824 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 2: girl was sucking your dick? You've never lifted your legs? 825 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 6: No, urt, No, I've never Like, I'm not into that 826 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:42,560 Speaker 6: ass ship on me. But I've never had it either, 827 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 6: so I don't know if it's good a track. But 828 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 6: at the same time, usually if I'm getting here, I 829 00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,640 Speaker 6: mean standing up on laying down, I like to be 830 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 6: comfortable when I. 831 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 5: Get right, Yeah, I do. 832 00:33:53,120 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 1: He laying down to I said, they laying down. 833 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 5: Well, I've never put my legs up while getting here. 834 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 1: Why I'm had a nigga like start lifting that leg 835 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: But I feel like I had a nigga grab his ankles. 836 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, he grabbed his ankles. 837 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 1: You is lying? 838 00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 5: Why would I lie about that? 839 00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 1: He grabbed his ankle, grabbed his ankles. He had to 840 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 1: keep him up because he wanted me to eat his ass. 841 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,319 Speaker 1: Oh well, I feel like that's trying to picture that 842 00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: in my head. 843 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:25,359 Speaker 3: I feel like this. 844 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: When a man start lifting his leg up, that means, okay, 845 00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,479 Speaker 1: he wants. 846 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 3: You to do something to his body like and it's 847 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 3: not just as. 848 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 2: Always you just know what he was. Just know what 849 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:38,359 Speaker 2: Tom it is? You know what Tom is And I'm 850 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:41,479 Speaker 2: not gonna lie or are you not? And the first 851 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:42,960 Speaker 2: time it happened to me, I was like, what is 852 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,560 Speaker 2: he doing? Because I had never asked before? And I 853 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 2: was like, I never doesn't grabbed his ankles. 854 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 3: Yes, he did. He absolutely did. I thought it was 855 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,600 Speaker 3: just like, okay, this is what he likes. 856 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:56,720 Speaker 5: So traumatized. 857 00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:00,160 Speaker 2: No, No, I just thought it was different. It was 858 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,240 Speaker 2: definitely different, but I was like okay, and I was nervous. 859 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, I've never done this before. 860 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,279 Speaker 2: The first time, I was nervous. But after a while, 861 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,479 Speaker 2: I just got used to it, like that's what he does, so. 862 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 1: Shit, let me go ahead, and I can. I believe 863 00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: he grabbed his ankle. Yeah, girl would never be able 864 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: to look at him the same. Well, you know, it 865 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: is what it is. So yeah, he grabbed his ankles. 866 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:27,880 Speaker 2: But I've had guys like, not necessarily, I've told him like, oh, 867 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:29,520 Speaker 2: I want to do this to you, and they're like, okay, 868 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 2: we can try it. And I've had to lift their 869 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 2: legs up because they didn't know like what to do. 870 00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,680 Speaker 2: Like I've lifted guy's legs up before, they like, let 871 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:36,160 Speaker 2: me lift it up. 872 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 3: They were just kind of like you could. 873 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,360 Speaker 1: Tell you needed to be nervous. 874 00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,960 Speaker 3: They know this is what I think. They don't be nervous. 875 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,600 Speaker 2: They be trying to act nervous and act like it's 876 00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,240 Speaker 2: like a girl and she's like no, yeah. 877 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 1: When they trying to pull it a pin, Yeah, that's. 878 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 3: What they be lifting. They like, man, hold on, man, 879 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:54,319 Speaker 3: bring the shut up. 880 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,239 Speaker 1: You know you want to toot that ass up, big father, 881 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:01,439 Speaker 1: do what she doing, But hold on, bro, Now, niggas. 882 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 4: Definitely do be trying to act like into until. 883 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 5: I'm telling you, I've never had it. 884 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 6: But at the same time, I think it will freak 885 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:12,640 Speaker 6: me up because that's not what comes to my head. 886 00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 1: Like your song gonna feel like he's leaving your back. 887 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 3: I'm telling you. I always tell men this. 888 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 2: If you like have a girl and she's giving you 889 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 2: head and she's incorporating like ain't no play in there, 890 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 2: that's gonna be the best nut. 891 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,879 Speaker 1: You ever have. Yeah, it is, I thine, like we know. 892 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,359 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm but I'm just saying like the first time, 893 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,960 Speaker 2: like my you know, my little situation I had with 894 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 2: the dude from Houston, Like the first time me and 895 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,160 Speaker 2: him tried that, he was like he didn't want to 896 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,799 Speaker 2: at all, Like it took me a lot while to 897 00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,320 Speaker 2: convince him, but once he did it, he was like okay. 898 00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:43,360 Speaker 2: You know, he was like he got more comfortable with it, 899 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 2: you know, what I mean, because it's not I think 900 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 2: men associate that with being gay, but it's like you're 901 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 2: doing it with a Yeah. 902 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 1: I don't think anything is gay that you do. 903 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 3: With your woman. Yeah, you know what I mean. 904 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 1: So I swing you do it with the me. 905 00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:54,919 Speaker 3: Yeah. 906 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 2: The only time. The only thing that makes you gat 907 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 2: ask your nigga you get yeah, you know what I'm saying. 908 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 2: The only thing that can make you gay is doing 909 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,360 Speaker 2: things with the man or somebody with the same sex. 910 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,239 Speaker 2: So I don't mind when men lift their legs up, 911 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:08,480 Speaker 2: like I don't feel like it's feminine. 912 00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:10,239 Speaker 3: I don't feel like it don't make. 913 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:17,440 Speaker 4: It just be funny barely as niggas ass whole ass niggas. 914 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 2: I definitely I definitely lift the football ba legs up. 915 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 2: He think he got Oh, he was ready. 916 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:26,160 Speaker 1: He was ready. 917 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 3: Then I was like. 918 00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: Close, y'all. 919 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 7: I'm like and I look up sad like this and 920 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:43,319 Speaker 7: I was like, oh my god, that's what we're doing already. 921 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,720 Speaker 1: And this was the first time we had eggs. 922 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,040 Speaker 5: I'm like, the first time. 923 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:50,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, this was the first time. 924 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 4: So I was like really shocked because I mean, I 925 00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,359 Speaker 4: feel like that's normally something where most guys gotta warm 926 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 4: up to know what I mean. 927 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 1: But I guess I ain't gonna lie. I'm really freaky. 928 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,719 Speaker 1: So maybe he was like I know she Yeah, I feel. 929 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,359 Speaker 2: Like with me and my football bab, I ain't eat 930 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 2: his ass, not yet, you out a way that, yeah, 931 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,680 Speaker 2: But I feel like when me and when me and 932 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,440 Speaker 2: my football bay like did it, it was like after 933 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 2: a while we had been fucking around and I had 934 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 2: to ask him and you. 935 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,480 Speaker 1: Know, be like, okay, can we do this? Can we 936 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 1: do this? 937 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 2: And he was still kind of like, but he's still 938 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 2: let me lift them legs. What about that nigga that 939 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:25,320 Speaker 2: tooted his booty in your face? 940 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:27,320 Speaker 1: I did not eat his ass. 941 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:28,920 Speaker 3: That was not that. 942 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 2: That was no. 943 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 3: Yes, he showing what he did and he looked back 944 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 3: at me. 945 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:37,480 Speaker 1: He looked back at me. 946 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:41,479 Speaker 6: He was like, wow, So this is Pooty Tang. 947 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 2: Poty Tang was the guy that we talked about that 948 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 2: asked me to fart in his face. So yeah, I 949 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 2: was sucking his dick one time. Tang with all the 950 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 2: change was wild. And he's so fine. 951 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:53,800 Speaker 1: He is fine. 952 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:54,719 Speaker 3: He is so fine. 953 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 2: I'm just like he hit me up the other day 954 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 2: talking about, oh can I have something I said. 955 00:38:58,760 --> 00:38:59,919 Speaker 3: Someone want you talking about legs? 956 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,759 Speaker 5: Narrow girl? 957 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,920 Speaker 2: Because when I seen him. Now, don't get me wrong, 958 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 2: I would eat ass. I'm not ready to eat a 959 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 2: nigga ass from the back. 960 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: How did it happen? Were you not in the room 961 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 1: and the UK? 962 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:14,960 Speaker 2: No? I was in bed, No, bitch, I was in 963 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,680 Speaker 2: the room. So how did he how did you allow 964 00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,239 Speaker 2: him to get happened? So I was sucking his dick right, 965 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,759 Speaker 2: He's laying down. I'm sucking his dick. So I get 966 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 2: up because at this point I'm ready to fuck. Now 967 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,799 Speaker 2: I thought. I don't know what he thought. So he 968 00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:29,720 Speaker 2: gets up, and I'm thinking. We're getting in a position, 969 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 2: and I'm like, I get on my hands and knees 970 00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 2: because I'm thinking he about to get behind me. 971 00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 1: He get on his hands and knees and we looking 972 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 1: at each other like. 973 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,520 Speaker 3: We both all all fours. 974 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:41,440 Speaker 7: That's aw u. 975 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,040 Speaker 2: No, his ass was in my face because he turned 976 00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,400 Speaker 2: around quicker than I was able to. 977 00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:47,520 Speaker 3: He beat me to the punch. 978 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,239 Speaker 1: He was like, no, bitch, what if he would have 979 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 1: farted in your face? Look because clearly he liked it. 980 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,919 Speaker 1: He likes but he loves ass. 981 00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:57,600 Speaker 3: He is. 982 00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 2: Oh god, I just I'm just mad as you brought 983 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 2: that up, because I was really I forgot I had 984 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 2: put you know when you forget about something because you 985 00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 2: stored it away. 986 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: He definitely put his ass in my fast because. 987 00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,440 Speaker 4: I just was thinking about all the different positions that 988 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:11,279 Speaker 4: dudes be eating in when they want you to eat 989 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:11,920 Speaker 4: the ass. 990 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:13,600 Speaker 1: But I've never had no nigga do that. 991 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 2: But like I said, I didn't eat his ass because 992 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,239 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not eating your ass because you 993 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 2: might fart. I mean they might fart either way. Well, no, 994 00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:26,959 Speaker 2: I feel like nigga's. 995 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 4: Going because even when your legs open like this, you 996 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 4: can't clench if you gotta fart. 997 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,040 Speaker 2: But I feel like a nigga gonna be like it 998 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,840 Speaker 2: might sli a nigga gonna say something like you feel 999 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:35,320 Speaker 2: it coming. 1000 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 3: But I feel like. 1001 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:41,280 Speaker 1: Him during said, no, you haven't never. 1002 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,280 Speaker 3: Not that I know of. Maybe a little air slipped 1003 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:44,239 Speaker 3: out that I didn't know about it. 1004 00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:47,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it has happened to me, not like 1005 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:56,880 Speaker 4: a fart fart, but like a I don't think so 1006 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 4: because the guy didn't say anything, so I don't think 1007 00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,480 Speaker 4: it's I think, you know. I was just trying to 1008 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:03,920 Speaker 4: make sure because I didn't want to say nothing if 1009 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,000 Speaker 4: he wouldn't go say nothing, So I was looking at him. 1010 00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:07,080 Speaker 3: Like, oh my god. 1011 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:10,120 Speaker 2: Maybe he probably thought it was your vagina, not if 1012 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 2: it's stunk. But I'm saying it didn't stink obviously, so 1013 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:15,759 Speaker 2: he probably thought but he couldn't hear it. That's what 1014 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 2: I'm saying. 1015 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 5: It wasn't. 1016 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:18,080 Speaker 7: No. 1017 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 5: I mean, have you ever farted durance section and then blame. 1018 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 2: It on Yeah, what is wrong with you? 1019 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,040 Speaker 1: When I was younger like that? 1020 00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:36,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, when I was younger. I mean, because you can't 1021 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:38,759 Speaker 4: blame it all that, because especially if y'all pussy doing 1022 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 4: the same thing at the same time. 1023 00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:44,480 Speaker 1: You are a sick bitch. I mean, it happens. 1024 00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:46,719 Speaker 4: It's a bodily function. Don't be trying to sit here 1025 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,120 Speaker 4: acting like you ain't. I haven't like you. 1026 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:51,719 Speaker 1: I haven'ty years. 1027 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 4: You've been fucking for twenty years. 1028 00:41:58,840 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 5: That's crazy. 1029 00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:06,080 Speaker 1: Why something? 1030 00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,880 Speaker 5: You better say something. She ain't lying well. 1031 00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:14,200 Speaker 1: And he was trying to tell me bro party during 1032 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 1: sick leve me alone, bro down. 1033 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:22,080 Speaker 3: Okay, so we're gonna move on. Let us know if y'all. 1034 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,759 Speaker 2: Ever have raised your man's legs during second or if 1035 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,959 Speaker 2: he raised his own legs during six. 1036 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,840 Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into the bop of the week. 1037 00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:32,320 Speaker 2: Bop of the week is always what we're been jamming 1038 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,680 Speaker 2: listening to this past week. 1039 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 3: You wanna go first, pop Smoke is. 1040 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: Gonna be my bop of the week. 1041 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:37,600 Speaker 2: Again. 1042 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,399 Speaker 1: This is so sad, you know what. 1043 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:42,719 Speaker 4: And I was just talking about two weeks ago when 1044 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,400 Speaker 4: I was saying, Hi, I just started getting into his 1045 00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:46,719 Speaker 4: music and I was really fucking with him. And then 1046 00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 4: Maria was saying, he feels like he like a new 1047 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,880 Speaker 4: age dipsy. Yeah, y'all killed the little homies. He was 1048 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 4: only twenty, that's such. 1049 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 1: He was a key. 1050 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:55,279 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. 1051 00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm not. I was never a big fan of his music. 1052 00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hide that. But it's definitely still a 1053 00:42:59,160 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 1: sad situation. 1054 00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not gonna lie. 1055 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,359 Speaker 2: When his song was playing in the club, of course 1056 00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 2: I was dancing, but I'm not over there doing Yeah. 1057 00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 2: I think it's some bloodship, but well, I know I'm 1058 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 2: talking about the gang sign of me and Diamond, but 1059 00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:17,240 Speaker 2: we're only supposed to do it when Diamond around. 1060 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,200 Speaker 5: Should have did that on camera that. 1061 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,040 Speaker 1: Well, Doamond said Laurie. 1062 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 5: Sorry, everybody. 1063 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:28,160 Speaker 2: Sorry to everybody, but anyways, Yeah, it's a sad situation. 1064 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:30,400 Speaker 1: I did. It's all right. 1065 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:33,479 Speaker 3: Some seeds up to make it even. 1066 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,320 Speaker 5: We're gonna quick walk at the Okay, So what what 1067 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:41,319 Speaker 5: is your bop of the week? 1068 00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,520 Speaker 1: It's door and welcome to the party. 1069 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 3: I'm dead. 1070 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 4: I'm gonna just say the whole his and his little 1071 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,800 Speaker 4: new mixtape they dropped, Meet the Woo too. Okay, that 1072 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:52,920 Speaker 4: could be my bop of the I haven't really listened 1073 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 4: to the whole album, but I just feel like, you know, 1074 00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,560 Speaker 4: I'm gonna make him make his music my pop of 1075 00:43:58,600 --> 00:43:59,280 Speaker 4: the week because. 1076 00:43:59,040 --> 00:43:59,799 Speaker 1: This is really same. 1077 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 3: It really sad. 1078 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 1: Like I said, he got with Kuevo slept though. 1079 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like and I don't want to get 1080 00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,440 Speaker 2: on the topic of it, but the reason that I 1081 00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 2: feel like that shit just really fucked up because it 1082 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,960 Speaker 2: wasn't a robbery, like they were going in there to 1083 00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,239 Speaker 2: kill him, like yeah, that one of him dead. I 1084 00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:15,360 Speaker 2: don't know what you know they had going on, but 1085 00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,759 Speaker 2: the situation sucks. I feel sorry for his family and 1086 00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,320 Speaker 2: everybody that was around him. He was only twenty. Like, 1087 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,399 Speaker 2: think about when you were twenty and like how much 1088 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,799 Speaker 2: you experienced between. 1089 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:25,920 Speaker 1: Like twenty and now, like, you know, he was just 1090 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:29,239 Speaker 1: really lord like yeah, so yeah, prayers up to him 1091 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,800 Speaker 1: and his family for me I have. I feel like 1092 00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 1: I haven't done. 1093 00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 2: A Bop of the week with my ladies in a while, 1094 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:37,799 Speaker 2: so I want to shout out. I hate her rap 1095 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,360 Speaker 2: name because I think it's kind of stupid. But Mulatto, 1096 00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 2: Sweetie and Trina have a song called Bitch from the South, 1097 00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:45,520 Speaker 2: and this whole goes so hard. I've never listened to 1098 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 2: Malatto's music, but like this song. 1099 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:50,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a real ass, rich ass shot. 1100 00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that song. I feel like I like 1101 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:53,480 Speaker 1: this song. 1102 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1103 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,600 Speaker 2: I feel like it's such like a bop, you know, 1104 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 2: like something that you can just dance to and just 1105 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:01,600 Speaker 2: you know, talk yo shit enough worst accurate. It's you 1106 00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like Trino was talking her ship 1107 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,799 Speaker 2: and you know, sweet he's not. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. 1108 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 3: It's like a song that the girls can bop to 1109 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:10,880 Speaker 3: him really. 1110 00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,680 Speaker 5: Wait, sweet record, yes from the West Coast. 1111 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:15,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but she on her line, she says, I'm a 1112 00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:17,440 Speaker 2: real ass, rich ass bitch from the West and she 1113 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 2: said something that rhyme with West. 1114 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 3: But but yeah, Sweetie did what she. 1115 00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:21,600 Speaker 7: Had to do. 1116 00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, I fuck with trying 1117 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 4: to slander sweet Yeah, I like Sweetie. 1118 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: She does. 1119 00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:28,839 Speaker 3: She be dressing her ass off for show. 1120 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 2: Beautiful girl alway, She's always very polished from head to toe. 1121 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 2: She always looks good. So yeah, that's my bop of 1122 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,960 Speaker 2: the week. Bitch Bitch from the South with Trina, Sweetie 1123 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:38,520 Speaker 2: and Melatto. 1124 00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,879 Speaker 3: Okay, what you got Marian oh Man? 1125 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 6: Right now, I've been pumping the boy jay Worthy from 1126 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,360 Speaker 6: Compton Gospel. 1127 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a gospel you know. 1128 00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:48,919 Speaker 5: The song is called Ghetto Gospel. 1129 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,400 Speaker 1: And we need the praise God after throwing up them gangs. 1130 00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:59,440 Speaker 6: Shout out to Jay Worthy from the West Coast. Definitely 1131 00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 6: been rocking with you. 1132 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,399 Speaker 5: Is he a rapper or singer from the West Coast? 1133 00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 5: Real chair, real people rapping over like soul samples and 1134 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 5: ship like that. 1135 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna get into that. We are gonna get 1136 00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:09,440 Speaker 3: into that. 1137 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna have to check that out for check 1138 00:46:11,880 --> 00:46:13,000 Speaker 1: it out, y'all enjoy it? 1139 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 2: Okay, alrighty, So now we're gonna read the advice people 1140 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,480 Speaker 2: that need their advice answered on the show. Make sure 1141 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 2: you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. 1142 00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 2: That's a s k p oh you are in my 1143 00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,720 Speaker 2: n d s at gmail dot com. And ladies, please 1144 00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,360 Speaker 2: make sure that you keep the emails as short and 1145 00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,479 Speaker 2: brief as possible because a lot of y'all be writing 1146 00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,160 Speaker 2: in essay, y'all be writing and it's really hard for 1147 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,239 Speaker 2: us to read and get through that. We're trying to 1148 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,040 Speaker 2: catch up on a lot of the advice questions, so yeah, 1149 00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 2: make sure y'all keep sending those in. We're always gonna 1150 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 2: anwer y'all's questions on the show. So I'm gonna let 1151 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,360 Speaker 2: Drea get it started. Which one did you say it was? 1152 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:48,720 Speaker 1: First? 1153 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:51,760 Speaker 3: Cool child? 1154 00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 4: Did she say don't say your name? I don't know, 1155 00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 4: just read it because I was about to say, girl, 1156 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 4: you out of line. Sorry for these for sorry, I'm 1157 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,360 Speaker 4: glad you know. Sorry for the length of this email. 1158 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:08,320 Speaker 4: I just didn't want to leave anything out. Hey, ladies, 1159 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 4: I want to start by feeing Girl and you guys 1160 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,279 Speaker 4: are amazing and I love the vibe you both have. 1161 00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,880 Speaker 4: It makes your topics and vibes so easy to listen. 1162 00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,120 Speaker 4: So here's my problem. Well, I met a guy about 1163 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 4: three years ago and we immediately clicked. Things went so 1164 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:24,040 Speaker 4: fast with our connection. We both had just gotten out 1165 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,600 Speaker 4: of long relationships a few months prior, and he told 1166 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,799 Speaker 4: me from the beginning that he didn't want a relationship. 1167 00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,320 Speaker 4: I honestly was cool with it because he was always 1168 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 4: with me. We practically moved in together, we went on vacations, 1169 00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,920 Speaker 4: and I met some of his family members. Not to 1170 00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:39,040 Speaker 4: mention the six was the best six in my life. 1171 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,239 Speaker 4: He also told me a week into us meeting that 1172 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,880 Speaker 4: he likes playing with men and he is bi sexual. 1173 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:47,799 Speaker 3: Other guy, that's crazy, it's just today. 1174 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,239 Speaker 1: She was like, you will know why this is relevant later. 1175 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,480 Speaker 4: So a year passed by and I said to him, Okay, 1176 00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 4: it's been more than enough time of this casual dating. 1177 00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 1: I want to work towards the future and buying a 1178 00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,880 Speaker 1: house and moving on with my life. Are you with 1179 00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:01,360 Speaker 1: it or not? 1180 00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:03,960 Speaker 4: He basically told me that he's sorry he can't give 1181 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,400 Speaker 4: me what I want, what I wanted, and said that 1182 00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,680 Speaker 4: he really can't commit to me because he wasn't where 1183 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,880 Speaker 4: he wanted to be with his job. I have a 1184 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,719 Speaker 4: great career with some degrees to fall back on. While 1185 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:15,840 Speaker 4: he dropped out of school in tenth grade, so he 1186 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:17,960 Speaker 4: felt as though, so you got. 1187 00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 3: A bo sexual man with no education. 1188 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 1189 00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:30,319 Speaker 5: That didn't fire. 1190 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,800 Speaker 4: For real. So he dropped out of school in the 1191 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,399 Speaker 4: tenth grade. So he felt as though because he wasn't 1192 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,640 Speaker 4: on my level, he couldn't be with me. Okay, that 1193 00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,839 Speaker 4: shit hurt like hell because he was my best friend 1194 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,279 Speaker 4: and lover. So after we broke up and what and 1195 00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,080 Speaker 4: was it even a breakup because we weren't official, I 1196 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 4: go to Puerto Rico for two weeks to be surrounded 1197 00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,960 Speaker 4: by family just to get my mind off him. When 1198 00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:53,880 Speaker 4: I come back about a week later, this girl was 1199 00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,879 Speaker 4: posting him and they were both claiming each other. 1200 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 1: I was heartbroken. 1201 00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,760 Speaker 4: The entire time we were dating, he never once posted 1202 00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,279 Speaker 4: me publicly, but I really didn't need that because he 1203 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:03,920 Speaker 4: was with me all the time and people in his 1204 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,440 Speaker 4: life knew about me. I don't need social media to 1205 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,839 Speaker 4: validate where I stay with anyone. But it was hard 1206 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:11,080 Speaker 4: seeing him with someone else doing what he couldn't do 1207 00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:14,839 Speaker 4: with me. When I confronted him about her, he said 1208 00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,080 Speaker 4: he chose to be with her because she was Colombian. 1209 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:22,719 Speaker 4: What she was Colombian like him, and he couldn't see 1210 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 4: himself being with the Puerto Rican. After that, we didn't 1211 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 4: talk for a year and not going to lie, I 1212 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:31,120 Speaker 4: would creep to their Instagram and see what they were 1213 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 4: up to, and it was killing me seeing the man 1214 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,480 Speaker 4: I loved just be with someone so freely. Anyway, after 1215 00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:38,880 Speaker 4: us not talking for a year, he called me randomly 1216 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 4: to ask how I was doing. The conversation turned into 1217 00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:44,239 Speaker 4: what happened with us, and I asked him about the 1218 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,239 Speaker 4: whole Colombian slash Puerto Rican excuse, and he said that 1219 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 4: he just told me that to shut me up because 1220 00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,759 Speaker 4: he connected with this new girl because she lived in 1221 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:54,319 Speaker 4: China for a while and she was a teacher over there, 1222 00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,840 Speaker 4: and he was intrigued by their conversations. So I was like, okay, 1223 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:02,960 Speaker 4: So then the conversation turned sexual. After us talking, I 1224 00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 4: gotta catch my brother, you know, because I thought I 1225 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:06,440 Speaker 4: was almost. 1226 00:50:06,200 --> 00:50:10,720 Speaker 1: Done and I'm not doing good. This is a juicy storage, 1227 00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 1: So then the conversation turns sexual. 1228 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,400 Speaker 4: After us talking and catching up a few times, we 1229 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:18,240 Speaker 4: eventually met at a hotel where I ended up bringing 1230 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,720 Speaker 4: a strap on and using it on him. Okay, since 1231 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:23,600 Speaker 4: I know he's into me and and women, I was 1232 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,360 Speaker 4: able to have that experience with him a few months 1233 00:50:26,400 --> 00:50:29,080 Speaker 4: have passed and he wants to continue the sexual aspect 1234 00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,600 Speaker 4: of me and his life. But I'm always conflicted and 1235 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,759 Speaker 4: my emotions are up and down when it comes to him. 1236 00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 4: How Come I'm only good enough for you to have 1237 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,880 Speaker 4: sex with to fulfill all of your sexual desires, but 1238 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,600 Speaker 4: you go home to her? How come I'm not good enough? 1239 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 4: How come I hate this girl so much? I have 1240 00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,839 Speaker 4: all of this hate towards his girl in my heart 1241 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 4: that consumes me. I guess what I'm saying is, how 1242 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,320 Speaker 4: do I let it go and let the anger of 1243 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,000 Speaker 4: how I feel about her go? Because honestly, she hasn't 1244 00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,480 Speaker 4: done anything to me. I want to tell her that 1245 00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:58,960 Speaker 4: her man cheating, cheated on her with me, and he's 1246 00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:03,040 Speaker 4: told me about being transsexuals behind her back. Oh child, 1247 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:07,280 Speaker 4: I have so many feelings. Sometimes it's anger, Sometimes it's sadness. 1248 00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,200 Speaker 4: Sometimes I'm happy because dealing with him behind her back, 1249 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:13,320 Speaker 4: I know it'll hurt her. Honestly, I just want to 1250 00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,160 Speaker 4: hear your thoughts because this is hard, and I know 1251 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,600 Speaker 4: a lot of people might call me dumb, and even 1252 00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:20,320 Speaker 4: typing out this email as hard as hell because rereading it, 1253 00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 4: I feel embarrassed don't. Yes, I'm going to start therapy, 1254 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,400 Speaker 4: which is which is what I'm sure a lot of 1255 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:28,040 Speaker 4: people will say. 1256 00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: Right now, I need some advice. 1257 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:31,960 Speaker 4: Is if you guys were my big sisters, please help 1258 00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 4: me because I want to completely let these. 1259 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 1: Go and move on with my life. Do I tell her? 1260 00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:37,360 Speaker 1: Do I move on? 1261 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 4: Let them live happily ever after? Help a bitch out 1262 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,279 Speaker 4: and please keep me anonymous? Ill not see cis you 1263 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:45,640 Speaker 4: should have put that at the time. Look y'all didn't say. 1264 00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,400 Speaker 2: If y'all ever want us to keep y'all anonymous, please 1265 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,360 Speaker 2: put that at the time or put it as the 1266 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:53,799 Speaker 2: But I'm glad we didn't say her name. Absolutely, don't 1267 00:51:53,800 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 2: say nothing to Yeah, don't say nothing to her at all. 1268 00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,520 Speaker 2: But this is I feel like me Andrea have had 1269 00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,080 Speaker 2: this conversation, because that's a normal feeling as a woman 1270 00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 2: to feel like what is wrong with me? Let me 1271 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:07,040 Speaker 2: tell you something, sister, right now, there's absolutely nothing wrong 1272 00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 2: with you. These are his decisions that he's making that 1273 00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,680 Speaker 2: he doesn't want to be fair. Obviously something if you 1274 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:15,480 Speaker 2: feel that way, something wrong with her too, because he's 1275 00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:18,320 Speaker 2: not being faithful to her. So you can't blame yourself 1276 00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:21,000 Speaker 2: for him. Being a fucked up person. And two he 1277 00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:25,000 Speaker 2: sounds like a user. Oh she's living and he's bragging 1278 00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:26,799 Speaker 2: on what everybody else around him does. 1279 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 3: What you doing? But what are you doing? What is 1280 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:29,120 Speaker 3: he doing? 1281 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 2: He got this girl who lives in China, she's teaching 1282 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,919 Speaker 2: and she's Columbian or whatever. But you're a beautiful Puerto 1283 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,560 Speaker 2: Rican woman, you have multiple degrees and you're doing well 1284 00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:41,279 Speaker 2: for yourself. But not once did you mention anything that 1285 00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,280 Speaker 2: he does except that he doesn't have no education. 1286 00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,400 Speaker 1: So you don't even tell us what do you do for? 1287 00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, because obviously, I think you need 1288 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:51,359 Speaker 2: to realize that you're the prize and he's winning by 1289 00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:54,160 Speaker 2: finessing you and making you feel like you're less staying 1290 00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,279 Speaker 2: and he still being with her and still being with her, 1291 00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:57,960 Speaker 2: he's having his cake and eating it too. 1292 00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:00,360 Speaker 1: Because you need to just put your foot down and 1293 00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:02,440 Speaker 1: move on. You deserve way better than that. 1294 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,279 Speaker 2: And I think a lot of women don't realize that 1295 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,680 Speaker 2: they deserve better until they get better, because that's how 1296 00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 2: I was when I was in my past situation. And 1297 00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,080 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie this nigga used to do me bad. 1298 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,520 Speaker 2: Dreya knows like it was a lot of shit going on. 1299 00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 2: It was just like really really bad. 1300 00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:17,399 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1301 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,000 Speaker 2: But it's like once I realized for myself that I 1302 00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,880 Speaker 2: deserved better and I knew what I was bringing to 1303 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:25,040 Speaker 2: the table, I was like, you know what, I don't 1304 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,360 Speaker 2: deserve this, so you have to get fed up. It 1305 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 2: was like one one morning, I literally just woke up 1306 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,200 Speaker 2: and I was like, you know what, I can't do 1307 00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:33,759 Speaker 2: this shit no more. So it's I think therapy is 1308 00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,080 Speaker 2: a really good idea, you know, but I think you 1309 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:38,359 Speaker 2: need to realize there's nothing wrong with you. It's things 1310 00:53:38,400 --> 00:53:41,680 Speaker 2: that heat that's wrong with him. Y'all are all being enablers. 1311 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:44,360 Speaker 2: Everybody who's like I feel like when people are cheating 1312 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:46,279 Speaker 2: or doing what they do, the people around them that 1313 00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:48,320 Speaker 2: are allowing this to happen, they're being enablers. 1314 00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,799 Speaker 4: So you're enabling him to do this, and you never 1315 00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:55,560 Speaker 4: really know like the insides of people relationship, like what's 1316 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,680 Speaker 4: really really going on? Like you never know, girl, for 1317 00:53:57,840 --> 00:53:59,919 Speaker 4: all you know, he might you already said, he don't 1318 00:53:59,920 --> 00:54:02,719 Speaker 4: have no education, and so he probably doesn't have a 1319 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:05,320 Speaker 4: good job, and you never know, she might be sliding 1320 00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 4: him some bread and she's some ship that. 1321 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:07,239 Speaker 1: You're not doing. 1322 00:54:07,320 --> 00:54:10,680 Speaker 4: You don't ever know why a dude is really sometimes 1323 00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:13,320 Speaker 4: choosing another woman over you, and you can't take it personal. 1324 00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 3: And I just feel like, thank God you dodged the bullet. 1325 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:18,319 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. It sounds like God gave 1326 00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:19,520 Speaker 5: you a girl. 1327 00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:24,920 Speaker 1: Sound find. 1328 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:27,000 Speaker 5: Puerto Rican. 1329 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:29,240 Speaker 1: Was reading. 1330 00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:32,439 Speaker 5: I mean, well, the way you describe the situation reading 1331 00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 5: real sexy. 1332 00:54:33,239 --> 00:54:35,640 Speaker 3: Well she's in China, she's a teacher. 1333 00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,880 Speaker 5: I just said, hey, Puerto Rican Bay, Hey, let that 1334 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 5: ship go. 1335 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, let that ship go sis. 1336 00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:43,319 Speaker 4: And we know we always say the poor girl, you're 1337 00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:45,560 Speaker 4: doing a freaky dicky shit to him that she probably 1338 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:46,040 Speaker 4: don't even know. 1339 00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:50,759 Speaker 1: He into this shop, right, that's claiming her. Hell now 1340 00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,840 Speaker 1: he obviously you really have the upper hand if you 1341 00:54:53,880 --> 00:54:56,520 Speaker 1: think about it, just leave him, Just leave him talking 1342 00:54:56,560 --> 00:54:59,480 Speaker 1: to that nigga, block him, lock him, and cut him 1343 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,080 Speaker 1: off because it it's not even beneficial. 1344 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 3: He ain't even give it. 1345 00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:06,719 Speaker 4: You know, you know that's me and Lick's problem free philosophy. Yes, 1346 00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:08,680 Speaker 4: this our problem free. 1347 00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:10,840 Speaker 1: Philosophy. 1348 00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:12,960 Speaker 3: Get that back. 1349 00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean to be beneficial. 1350 00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:18,279 Speaker 6: I don't condone ship like that, but I can't even 1351 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,279 Speaker 6: lize it's the fact you're getting You're doing so much 1352 00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,160 Speaker 6: and you have nothing. 1353 00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 1: You're getting nothing, child. 1354 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like and like we always say, we know, 1355 00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:29,920 Speaker 2: every time I meet fans of the show, there are 1356 00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,600 Speaker 2: always some baddies. They're always real key and you know, 1357 00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 2: confident girls, because I think that's the kind of people 1358 00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,239 Speaker 2: that we attract to listen to our show. 1359 00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 3: So I already know. You know, if you listen to 1360 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:40,120 Speaker 3: the show, you already know what to do. 1361 00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:45,080 Speaker 4: We know, into tap back into it because it's so 1362 00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:46,800 Speaker 4: many bdb's, girl. 1363 00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:47,600 Speaker 5: Go get you a bd B. 1364 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 2: I swear you will never look back ever again. That's 1365 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,520 Speaker 2: what happened with me. I got over. It's nothing like 1366 00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:56,520 Speaker 2: some new fresh dick that's taking you on trips and 1367 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,880 Speaker 2: paying for ship and just treating you like a princess. 1368 00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:01,360 Speaker 2: Let these news just treat you like a queen because 1369 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,160 Speaker 2: they will the right nigga rightly, will you know what 1370 00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:06,480 Speaker 2: I'm saying. So I think therapy is a great idea. 1371 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:08,480 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, So shout out to you. 1372 00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:12,560 Speaker 2: Definitely keep us posted and updated with everything. Okay, I'm 1373 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,680 Speaker 2: gonna read the second letter. This is short, thank you girl. 1374 00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:18,840 Speaker 2: It says my relationship is fairly new but I'm in 1375 00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,400 Speaker 2: love and I think he's the one. We've only been 1376 00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:25,040 Speaker 2: dating since November. We spent the holidays together and exchanged gifts. 1377 00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,040 Speaker 2: I met his family, he just hasn't met mine yet. 1378 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,880 Speaker 2: He's a good man come from He comes from a 1379 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:33,560 Speaker 2: good family and works a regular job. Here's where things 1380 00:56:33,600 --> 00:56:36,160 Speaker 2: get complicated. I live in Houston and he lives in 1381 00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 2: New Orleans. I want us to move in with each 1382 00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:42,440 Speaker 2: other expeditiously. I was single for four years prior to 1383 00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:45,399 Speaker 2: this relationship, so I don't want to waste time. I'm 1384 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:48,239 Speaker 2: really traumatized from past relationship, and he's teaching me how 1385 00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:50,840 Speaker 2: to love again, so I trust him. The dilemma is, 1386 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,640 Speaker 2: I'm really over Houston since I've graduated and the long 1387 00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:55,920 Speaker 2: distance is hard on me. To him, Houston is a 1388 00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 2: new city with bright opportunities, I do not feel the same. 1389 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,240 Speaker 2: I want to move back to New Orleans. We already 1390 00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:04,240 Speaker 2: disagree on the city, so now I'm tacond guessing the idea. 1391 00:57:04,760 --> 00:57:06,480 Speaker 2: I need my man here with me, though, so I 1392 00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,759 Speaker 2: need to decide. My question is do you think it's 1393 00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,919 Speaker 2: too soon for us to be moving in together. I'll 1394 00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:14,040 Speaker 2: say this, I don't know how old you are, that's 1395 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,440 Speaker 2: my thing. I think that's a big deal. So I 1396 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:20,680 Speaker 2: feel like dating me like in my thirties, I feel like, 1397 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 2: what are we doing? 1398 00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:22,480 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? 1399 00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:25,080 Speaker 2: Like, I feel like, Okay, if I'm dating somebody for 1400 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:26,640 Speaker 2: like a certain amount of time and were in the 1401 00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:28,720 Speaker 2: same city, I feel like that's a conversation that needs 1402 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:30,840 Speaker 2: to be had. If we've been dating each other for like, 1403 00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 2: you know, six months to a year, that's something that's 1404 00:57:33,840 --> 00:57:34,680 Speaker 2: a conversation that. 1405 00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:35,280 Speaker 3: Needs to be had. 1406 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:37,520 Speaker 2: But like, if you're in your early twenties, like I said, 1407 00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 2: I don't know how old you are, but that can 1408 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:42,000 Speaker 2: be a little soon because your tastes change, things change, 1409 00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,000 Speaker 2: even make sure at a different rate. So if you're 1410 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 2: in your twenties, I would say kind of hold off 1411 00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 2: on it. But I will say this, I don't know 1412 00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:54,160 Speaker 2: what y'all do career wise, but Houston versus New Orleans, 1413 00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,200 Speaker 2: it would be smart for y'all to be in Houston, right. 1414 00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 2: I feel like New Orleans there's not really much going 1415 00:57:58,800 --> 00:57:59,400 Speaker 2: on out there. 1416 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:01,640 Speaker 3: I don't know. So I know that you would. 1417 00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 2: I know that you want to move back to New 1418 00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:05,320 Speaker 2: Orleans and things like that, But I feel like Houston 1419 00:58:05,440 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 2: is one of the best cities, so it will be 1420 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 2: smart career wise. I feel like for y'all to be 1421 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:12,080 Speaker 2: in Houston, and then there's just I feel like there's 1422 00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:12,960 Speaker 2: more to do in Houston. 1423 00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,080 Speaker 1: It just seems like a more fun city. Like I 1424 00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:15,800 Speaker 1: go to New Orleans. 1425 00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:19,320 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I definitely feel like Houston is more fun. Yeah, personally, 1426 00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:22,360 Speaker 4: I mean New Orleans got good food. Yeah, barely that 1427 00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:26,440 Speaker 4: I mean last time to the rest of the Louisiana. Yeah, 1428 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:27,840 Speaker 4: that's why it was just like barely that. 1429 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:29,840 Speaker 2: It's really touristy now, So I mean, I don't want 1430 00:58:29,880 --> 00:58:32,280 Speaker 2: to get too much in your business, but yeah, I 1431 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,280 Speaker 2: feel like it's not too soon if you feel comfortable 1432 00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 2: to have the conversation as long as he's on the 1433 00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 2: same page. Because one thing I feel like, as women, 1434 00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,440 Speaker 2: a lot of times we run men off by rushing 1435 00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:42,840 Speaker 2: into things too soon. So make sure y'all are on 1436 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 2: the same page that he even wants to do, that 1437 00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:47,960 Speaker 2: that he even wants to move, Like, make sure that's 1438 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 2: something that he. 1439 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:49,040 Speaker 3: Wants to do. 1440 00:58:49,200 --> 00:58:51,880 Speaker 2: And if that is, I feel like the conversation should 1441 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:54,760 Speaker 2: continue because it's like, why not You only get one life. 1442 00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,440 Speaker 2: So I feel like you can't put a time on anything. 1443 00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,200 Speaker 2: Like I know people who are married for twenty years 1444 00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:01,600 Speaker 2: that got divorced and hate each other. I have some 1445 00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:05,560 Speaker 2: friends I know her parents. They met, they got they 1446 00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,400 Speaker 2: got married a month after they met, and they've been 1447 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:10,200 Speaker 2: together for fifteen years. So you really can't put time 1448 00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:12,480 Speaker 2: on anything. It's like sometimes you just know, and you 1449 00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:13,920 Speaker 2: know you just got to jump out on the leap 1450 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,320 Speaker 2: of faith. If it don't work out, okay, you'll just 1451 00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:17,720 Speaker 2: move out and you'll get you all own place. 1452 00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:20,320 Speaker 3: It ain't the end of the world. That's just how obvious. Yeah, 1453 00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:21,360 Speaker 3: I feel the. 1454 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 4: Times you do you just have to go ahead and 1455 00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:24,240 Speaker 4: do it because you don't want to like not do 1456 00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 4: stuff and then wonder what would have happened right, and 1457 00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 4: look back and regret it. I think that's great advice. 1458 00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,240 Speaker 4: I'm gonna read more. One more question because I feel 1459 00:59:33,240 --> 00:59:34,640 Speaker 4: like we were kind of like backed up. 1460 00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:35,360 Speaker 3: Believe yeah we are. 1461 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:38,880 Speaker 4: So this is a short one, so it says questions 1462 00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:42,440 Speaker 4: that need answers. Oh, hey, lex Andrea, please don't use 1463 00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:44,880 Speaker 4: my name. Love you guys and your banter so much. 1464 00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,160 Speaker 4: I like to know if y'alluld please give some free game. 1465 00:59:47,200 --> 00:59:49,040 Speaker 4: What do you think is most important, what type of 1466 00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:52,160 Speaker 4: men to look for, and how to initiate slash ask 1467 00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:53,000 Speaker 4: them to give you munchy. 1468 00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:54,040 Speaker 3: We already answered this one. 1469 00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:54,560 Speaker 1: Oh we did? 1470 00:59:54,880 --> 00:59:57,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I did this one. Don Oh? 1471 00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:05,520 Speaker 2: Okay, have you read this one? Sorry, y'all, it's not 1472 01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,640 Speaker 2: really a question. That one wasn't really a question either. 1473 01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:10,640 Speaker 3: Oh you know what? 1474 01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:12,040 Speaker 1: Read this one? Read this one? 1475 01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:17,880 Speaker 2: Oh it's a long one, you know what. We just 1476 01:00:17,920 --> 01:00:20,960 Speaker 2: gonna get caught up. Yeah, because that's a long one too. 1477 01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:21,320 Speaker 3: Okay. 1478 01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:23,880 Speaker 2: So, like I said, if y'all have any questions, email 1479 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,360 Speaker 2: us at Askpoorminds at gmail dot com. 1480 01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:31,640 Speaker 1: Do you have an item of the week this week? No, okay, 1481 01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 1: it's okay, I definitely do. 1482 01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,640 Speaker 2: Okay, So y'all know I wax every month and I 1483 01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:36,920 Speaker 2: get waxed every four weeks. 1484 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,360 Speaker 1: But like recently, I've had some problems down there. 1485 01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:41,120 Speaker 3: Like my skin has been really really dry. 1486 01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:44,800 Speaker 2: So it was like last time I got waxed, like 1487 01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,240 Speaker 2: on my bikini line, it was like when she ripped 1488 01:00:47,280 --> 01:00:49,480 Speaker 2: up the strip, I had a little bleeding for my pores, 1489 01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:51,760 Speaker 2: which if you get waxed, that's kind of normal sometimes. 1490 01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:53,760 Speaker 2: But like basically just my skin has been really dry 1491 01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:56,120 Speaker 2: down there. So she gave me some really good advice. 1492 01:00:56,600 --> 01:01:00,080 Speaker 2: So I want to tell y'all, I'm gonna get to 1493 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:01,760 Speaker 2: the ittum of the week in a second, but if 1494 01:01:01,800 --> 01:01:04,600 Speaker 2: you have dry skin, you have to stop taking hot showers. 1495 01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:06,480 Speaker 2: I did not know that that affects your skin, that 1496 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:08,800 Speaker 2: makes your skin really really dry. I know we love 1497 01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 2: hot steaming showers, but that's really bad for your skin 1498 01:01:11,960 --> 01:01:14,560 Speaker 2: if you're not like doing some kind of cold therapy 1499 01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:16,520 Speaker 2: on your skin and closing up those poors. 1500 01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:18,240 Speaker 3: Like if you notice like yourself. 1501 01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:20,400 Speaker 2: Getting ingrown hairs down there, or ingrown hair is anywhere, 1502 01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:22,640 Speaker 2: like on your legs, it's because you're taking these hot 1503 01:01:22,720 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 2: ass showers and that's opening up your pores for like 1504 01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:26,880 Speaker 2: bacteria and dirt to get in there. 1505 01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:27,480 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. 1506 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:31,400 Speaker 2: So try to take like like warm showers or like 1507 01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:34,040 Speaker 2: cold showers. I've been taking cold showers, so that's one 1508 01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:35,800 Speaker 2: thing that's been working for me. But I got a 1509 01:01:35,920 --> 01:01:38,160 Speaker 2: Jade roller, and I've been using my Jade roller in 1510 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:40,960 Speaker 2: that area and like my bikini area, so I've basically 1511 01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:43,680 Speaker 2: been doing like a cold therapy treatment, and it has worked, 1512 01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:47,360 Speaker 2: Like wonders, Like my skin has gotten real real soft 1513 01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:49,080 Speaker 2: down there, real real soft. 1514 01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:51,080 Speaker 3: I made some rose water. 1515 01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:54,040 Speaker 2: I made actual with rose petals and some water, and 1516 01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:56,120 Speaker 2: I've been spraying it in that area too, like not 1517 01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:57,600 Speaker 2: in there, you know what I'm saying, but like on 1518 01:01:57,760 --> 01:02:01,400 Speaker 2: my skin, and it has just worked wonders, like seriously, 1519 01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,080 Speaker 2: Like my skin was so dry down I was like, 1520 01:02:03,120 --> 01:02:03,840 Speaker 2: what the fuck is going on? 1521 01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:04,560 Speaker 3: Cause Garfield? 1522 01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:07,360 Speaker 1: You know what sing the weather been getting the little Garfield. 1523 01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:09,240 Speaker 3: So she was like, yeah, the skin is just really dry. 1524 01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:10,560 Speaker 3: You gotta do some better treatments. 1525 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:15,120 Speaker 2: So yeah, just using road water, rosewater, homemade rose water, 1526 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:16,880 Speaker 2: because you know, when you buy it from the stores, 1527 01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:19,000 Speaker 2: of course they have other stuff in there. 1528 01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,080 Speaker 3: So just go get you some flowers from Kroger's. 1529 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:27,480 Speaker 2: Pick off the petals, put it in the spray bottle, 1530 01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,280 Speaker 2: set it in there, let it, let it set. 1531 01:02:30,120 --> 01:02:33,480 Speaker 1: For like three or four days. Spray OKOUCHI USEU your 1532 01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:34,520 Speaker 1: J roller. 1533 01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 3: And you'll be good to go. 1534 01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:37,959 Speaker 4: Did you notice I tried to keep my comments about 1535 01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:39,080 Speaker 4: Garfield to myself. 1536 01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:41,120 Speaker 1: You did so good job. 1537 01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:43,840 Speaker 3: Bring up Garfield to that. 1538 01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:51,640 Speaker 1: I know, so sweet. I love okay, So uh, anything 1539 01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:52,800 Speaker 1: else you'll have to add. 1540 01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:56,120 Speaker 4: I don't I don't think I had anything else, sad, 1541 01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 4: do you have anything else? 1542 01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:57,760 Speaker 3: I don't. 1543 01:02:57,760 --> 01:02:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm about to take a shot of bumboo I. 1544 01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:03,240 Speaker 3: Like I'm dead. So once again, that's probably. 1545 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:07,200 Speaker 2: Wanna be a nice because you're sober. You are so 1546 01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:09,800 Speaker 2: much better when you're sober. 1547 01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:12,480 Speaker 1: So ye'all. We'll see y'all next week. Thank y'all for tuning. 1548 01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:13,360 Speaker 1: Inn y'all,