1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to back down, 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: giving them just like theming bus things and it's not 4 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: doing me through good Steve to mother for ste don't 5 00:00:39,159 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: join Jo. You gotta use that turn out. You gotta 6 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: turn to turn them out, got to turn them out, 7 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: to turn turn the water the water. Come, come on 8 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: your bah I show will good marded everybody you're listening 9 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: to the voice, come on dig me now, one and all. 10 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: It's Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well all right, 11 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: I've learned something and it sharing time. And I am 12 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: ever appreciated. I do appreciate God for all that he 13 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: allows me to learn in my life. One of the 14 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: best lessons I've learned is that hardship teaches you some 15 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: great lessons. Challenges brings about some of my best results. 16 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: I think what I'm trying to say is in every 17 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: challenge and hardship, every setback, I've learned something so so valuable. 18 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: So here's what I've You know, I've known this, but 19 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: I've just learned it at a different angle. Appreciation and 20 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: gratitude is the key to having more Now I don't 21 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: know how that sound to you, but I can't tell 22 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: you how true it is. God being fair and just 23 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: as he really is. He really is. He's a fair 24 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 1: and a just God. What's most beneficial to us is 25 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: he happens to be full of mercy and grace. And 26 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: I'm telling you something, man, I've probably benefited from his 27 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: grace and mercy more than anything else. I mean, really, man, 28 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: if it wasn't for him just forgiving me, and then 29 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: for him just touching my life the way he has, 30 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:05,119 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm not hearing this position today. I'm 31 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: just not. But a funny thing has happened along the way, 32 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: even to you. If you look at it, is it 33 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: your genuine appreciation and gratitude has been the key to 34 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:24,679 Speaker 1: you having more for your continued blessings and for making 35 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 1: room for having to open up and pour out blessings 36 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: that you don't have room enough to receive. If you 37 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,919 Speaker 1: look at it, see God being a fair and just God, 38 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: which he is, why would he put more on you 39 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 1: than you can bad? If you've noticed everything that's happened 40 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: in your life, if you're still here, you've made it. 41 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: You don't forget how rough it was got that, but 42 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: you made it. Forget what it sent you through, and 43 00:04:56,880 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: it hid made you feel you made it. Now, what 44 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: makes people give up and you hear about people committing suicide, 45 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: is they leave the God out of their life and 46 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 1: they start allowing that other voice to control. And if 47 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 1: it's really true that God never puts more on you 48 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: than you can bear, as long as you stay connected 49 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: to God, you can get through anything. But you lose 50 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 1: that connection, you lose that communication, you lose that relationship 51 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: with him. If you're not having a relationship with God, 52 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: then who you're having a relationship with now? And it 53 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: ain't but two forces at work at all time. It's 54 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: good and evil, it's positive and negative. It's God's satan. Now, 55 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: this is at work all the time. So if you're 56 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: not being positive about everything, you leave room for negativity 57 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: to step in. If you're not trying to be righteous 58 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,680 Speaker 1: in your way, then you allow evil to step in. 59 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: If you don't work on your relationship with God, come on, now, 60 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: look who you're letting step in. So now I'm asking 61 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 1: you to understand that God never puts the more on 62 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: you than you can bear. Okay, now that we got 63 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: that clear, that's a fact. Okay. Now with that fact 64 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 1: in mind, let's go over this right here. Why would God, 65 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: being as just and merciful as he is, put more 66 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: on you than you can bear? Example, if God has 67 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: given you blessings and all you're doing is complaining about him, 68 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: you're never showing any appreciation of gratitude about it. Why 69 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: would he give you some most stuff to be ungrateful for? 70 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: Why would he give you some more stuff to complain about? 71 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,359 Speaker 1: Why would he give you some more stuff that you 72 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: would not show any more appreciation for? I mean, this 73 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: thing is real simple, man, ain't it if you think 74 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 1: about it? So? A lot of times, man, when I 75 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: was going through my positions of not having it and 76 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 1: wondering at all, like here, I ended up checking myself 77 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: and going, man, I'm not even showing any gratitude or 78 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 1: appreciation for the things He has done for me. Start 79 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: showing some appreciation and gratitude, because it's the key to 80 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: having more. It's the key to continued blessings. It's the 81 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 1: key to the wonders of heaving opening up and pouring 82 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 1: out a blessing that you won't have room enough to receive. 83 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: It's the appreciation and gratitude of what you already have, 84 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: as minimal as it may appear to be right now 85 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: for you, it is still what you have. But if 86 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: you've shown no gratual, no gratitude for the minimal, why 87 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: would he give you the maximum? I mean, I'm just 88 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: really just trying to put it real, real, simple, so 89 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 1: I can keep understanding this thing right here. So let 90 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: me give you an example. In my life, I had 91 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: gotten so busy at one point that I had began 92 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: to complain about how busy I was. This is true 93 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: because I am busy, but it ain't the busy part 94 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: because I asked to be busy. You know, I asked 95 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: God to give me opportunities and to make a way 96 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: for me. Well, in that you got to do something, 97 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:33,440 Speaker 1: and you got to get busy. But I began to 98 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: complain about the business and how busy I was, and 99 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: I noticed that a couple of things slowed up for me. 100 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: So I had got to the point where I wasn't 101 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: showing real gratitude for it. Well, I looked up and 102 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: a couple of things started slowing down. And then I 103 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: had to catch myself and I went, wow, man, you 104 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: have got to start embracing the fact that you are 105 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: this busy, embrace the fact to what all comes along 106 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: with it. Because to whom much is given, much is required. 107 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: You got to start embracing the requirement part if you 108 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:12,440 Speaker 1: want to continue with the giving part. So I changed 109 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: my attitude. I caught myself and I started thinking him 110 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 1: and showing real gratitude for how busy I was, instead 111 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 1: of complaining about how busy I was. And then guess what, 112 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: It opened up the windows of heaven and some more 113 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: blessings got poured out. It just works that way all 114 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: the time, for everybody, for me, for you, for everybody. 115 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: So listen, y'all again. Your appreciation and gratitude is the 116 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: key to having more. Your appreciation and gratitude is the 117 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: key to continued blessings. And your appreciation and gratitude it's 118 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: the only way that you can get those windows of 119 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: heaven to open up and pour out these blessings that 120 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: you won't have room enough to receive. You gotta act 121 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 1: like you're glad for what you got in order to 122 00:09:53,240 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 1: get more. You feel me, Let's go, ladies and gentlemen. 123 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 1: Good morning, boys and girls. Man have your attention, please, 124 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: today's show It's dedicated to all Paltry employees, Churches, KFC, Popeye, 125 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:31,439 Speaker 1: El Poyo, Local Right, and Tropical Delight That's Florida. Things 126 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: like Oh and Ween Stop even though they don't do 127 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 1: four chicken parts. You are in the paltry distribution. Big 128 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 1: congratulations to all of you today. We're dedicating today's shows 129 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: to all paltry employees of all kinds. Thank you, Thank 130 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: you for the joy that you've given up. Thank you 131 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 1: for the motivation, thank you for the way I feel 132 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: sometime when I'm driving down the street and I see 133 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: that sign. What it means to me. This is for 134 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: the chicken lover in you. Yeah, this is for the wing. 135 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: This is for the wing in you. D dude, This 136 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,719 Speaker 1: is for the wing. This is for the wing in 137 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: You will make a song out of it, because that's 138 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: that's my soul. Boy over yea. We are authentic soul 139 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: bro song right, we go right in it. Name it, 140 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: sing it, we deeply, name first and sing it. Don't 141 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 1: committed love soul. You will never let it die. Have 142 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: no reason to buy a new season, name it, sing it. 143 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: That's deep right there No no, no, no reason to 144 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 1: buy a new still playing albums. Dog downloaded nothing now 145 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 1: five little sing in the Middle with the little thing 146 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: with the little Man. I just downloaded common Commodores and 147 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: followed you, Yeah, what's your favorite Commodores jam? It may 148 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 1: sound funny, but I just can't man the pain I'm 149 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: leaving you to my room seems to me. Girl. You know, 150 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:34,200 Speaker 1: I don't know when I can't And every damn you 151 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: see your big store that I buy room? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 152 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: do you know about that? John WAMIs my favorite Commodore song? 153 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: No One? Maybe just the food Dream. Yeah, But I 154 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: don't care, m because I know my half biness is 155 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: waiting for me somewhere. I'm searching for that sealver Linris 156 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: runs that I never see. I wish the way they 157 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: called coming up something funny? Who coming up? You don't 158 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: like you're listening show? Right now, It's time for the 159 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 1: nephew to run that prank back, mister Wiggins. Mister Wiggins, 160 00:13:54,920 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: guarantee that Wiggins that right there, that's the prank. Mister Higgins. 161 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: Come on, Renny, Hello, Hello, Hi, my name is George. 162 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 1: I'm with Green Lawn Services. We came out and cut 163 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 1: your yard yesterday and uh we're trying to make sure 164 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: that you liked everything thoroughly. That we cut the front 165 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: to back. We also did your hedges, put some mulch 166 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: in the flybads, the weed eating in the whole nine yards, 167 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 1: and we also left an invoice on your doorstep. Want 168 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: to make sure you got that as well. Cut my yard, man, 169 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: I'm going around man, look dude, without trying to fig 170 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: that cut it, sir. Yeah, we cut it as off yesterday. 171 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,960 Speaker 1: You were actually on our schedule and we did everything thoroughly. 172 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,760 Speaker 1: I'm actually just calling as a follow up. All right, 173 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 1: Hell I get on the schedule, sir. Are you mister 174 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: Malone at fifty Zimmerman? Hell no, man, I'm Wiggins from 175 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: fifty Man. You cut the wrong house. That's naked, do man? Yeah? 176 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: I guess you need to put you in boards on 177 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: there though, so so you you're not mister Malone at 178 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: fifty Zimmerman. Man, Say, man, I just told you. I'm 179 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 1: sitting three and I'm mister Wiggers. You don't cut the 180 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: wrong d y'all need to go mist mist alone how 181 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: to get you one because you ain't cut you got 182 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 1: the wrong crouse, No, sir, No, y'all coming over here, 183 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 1: trying to collect no money. Well, sir, hold on just 184 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: a second. Head. You're saying we didn't you don't cut 185 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 1: the wrong we are so I don't know schedule. I 186 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:25,040 Speaker 1: ain't tell you come over here and cut and you 187 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 1: go over there and talking Malone get your money. You can't. 188 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: Ain't sure. There's no way we can charge mister Malone 189 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 1: if we haven't cut his yard. Now, let's let's just 190 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: you need to take the cut. Mist them alone, y'all 191 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: put the member us and his You know you ain't 192 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: cut and than it thist sir, nothing want to cut 193 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: the wrong we're you go cut the right, yeah, and 194 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: get right that every you ain't got. You ain't getting 195 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: than this out. Okay, sir, I say that now, I 196 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 1: didn't call no out of the cool cut over here. 197 00:15:57,760 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: You go there, I haven't cut his right and get 198 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 1: him real voice, you get I understand that, sir. Listen, 199 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: what I want to say is, uh, well, we'll go 200 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: over and we'll take care of mister Malone's yard. I 201 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: understand that we've made a mistake, but I understand. I understood. 202 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 1: You say that you did like the services, So wouldn't 203 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: it be even right for you to actually go ahead 204 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: and send the invoice in along with the check since 205 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 1: you did like the services, well ever did listening? Like? 206 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: Yo just retarded because then I just tell you you 207 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: cut the wrong or you want to cut the right 208 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 1: yard and get you money, you ain't got none, but 209 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 1: practice here you're done. I understand that we cut the 210 00:16:38,480 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 1: wrong yard, sir. I understand that, but you got the services, 211 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: and you like the services. I don't want to have 212 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: to come out there and get the money from you. 213 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 1: We'll go on determine I got something. Come on home, 214 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 1: get what you said you like. I wouldn't give them 215 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: if I said the moon was green. You cut the 216 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: wrong yard, you go get you money from the right. 217 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: Ain't getting d charge you. I got something. You come 218 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: over here and see what you get. So I cut 219 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: the room. You know, trying to get money money you 220 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,640 Speaker 1: ain't getting. Now you you can go get you from 221 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:18,800 Speaker 1: the right either right next door, go cut that can 222 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: leave that paper over there. I'm coming over there. You 223 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 1: want many starts, I'm starts. Some ain't. Some come on 224 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 1: and do and be charging me no money? Now, yeah, 225 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:33,160 Speaker 1: I got more heathen him get money. If you want 226 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 1: to come get it. You got your yard cut, and 227 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 1: we deserve to get our money back. Now to get 228 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: to what you come around here trying to get some 229 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: bruney Now, I tell you don't cut come on yard 230 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,720 Speaker 1: like you. I'm gonna tell you. Don't make me whoop 231 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 1: y'all behind this yard. You come holding, you'll come round, 232 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: so I will whoop y'all behind in the front yard 233 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: that just got cut? Your man? Ain't your pamping you? 234 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get them money. I'm hello, you don't 235 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 1: you I check. I got one more thing to tell you. 236 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: What you're listening? Are you m standing? Now? Took the rope. 237 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,399 Speaker 1: I've got one more thing to tell you. Is you listening? 238 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:22,679 Speaker 1: Mister Wickens? Look, this is nephew Timing from the Steve 239 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:35,440 Speaker 1: Harding Morning Show. You just got pranked? Hello, what I'll 240 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:43,960 Speaker 1: you listen to this seven morning? Look a him? Your 241 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: boy Gary just pranked you. Man, we live now. I'm 242 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: gonna go get Let me ask you something though, man, 243 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the land? Man, 244 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:11,440 Speaker 1: it's the Steve Harvard Who what you think he wasn't? 245 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: He wasn't back and down. You don't come around y'all. 246 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 1: There ain't gonnahing do with me. You didn't go over you. 247 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: You just cut this yard for free potting. You ain't there, 248 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with me. All right, I'm 249 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 1: gonna tell it to you again. Chicago, Illinois. Here we 250 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: come the United Center, Baby, Washington, d C. Here we 251 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:34,840 Speaker 1: come Eagle Bank Arena and Atlanta GA State Farm Arena, Chicago. 252 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,280 Speaker 1: You are on the thirtieth DC. You are on the first, 253 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 1: Atlanta GA. You are on the second. It's the New 254 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: Year's Comedy Live Fest. Tickets available at all Ticketmaster outlets. 255 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 1: Here is the lineup. Earthquake in the Building, Edy Gripping 256 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: in the Building, sent you the entertainer D. L. Hughley, 257 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: hosted by yours truly nephew Tommy once again shot Down. 258 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: It is December the thirtieth watching d C. January first, 259 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:04,200 Speaker 1: Atlanta George Jo January the second day Farm Arena, all 260 00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 1: ticket Master outlets, or you can go to the box 261 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 1: office get yourselves from tickets. It's gonna be a hell 262 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: of a show because don't say right, no, yeah, you're 263 00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: listening all right, Steven. It's time to check your voicemail. 264 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 1: If you want to leave Steve a message or just 265 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,479 Speaker 1: give a holiday greeting to your loved one. Call us 266 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:30,080 Speaker 1: right now at eight seven seven twenty nine Steve and 267 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: leave a message. Okay, hey, good morning Steve Harvey and 268 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 1: the Morning crew. This is Robin More for Bolshible Merlin. 269 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:40,720 Speaker 1: Just wanted to wish you guys are happy, happy, safe, 270 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: part progressive New Year. Thanks Steve for all that you 271 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 1: do for everybody. Your words just combed a different lifestyle 272 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,399 Speaker 1: and meaning to people that you don't even know it 273 00:20:56,560 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 1: touched their life. Pas a lad, let's se harving to 274 00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,240 Speaker 1: the family and show members. I just want to tell 275 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 1: you y'all do a great job. I love you less 276 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: you like to see y'all do many more skips and 277 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: nats in twenty twenty two. Good blas Sho Frey and 278 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: Washington from two Louisiana. Love y'all, I see. This is 279 00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: Tina Chandler from Greenboro, North Carolina. Just want to wish 280 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: you and your staff a happy Posphorus New Year. I 281 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: love you guys. I listened to you every morning. I 282 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: like your prayers and your encouraging words. Keep doing what 283 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: you're doing. Love you guys. Bye bye, time now for 284 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 1: ask the CLO. You're ready, Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey 285 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 1: been Okay, let's go. This one is from Serafia and Montgomery, Alabama. 286 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: She says, I'm a fifty two year old woman and 287 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 1: I'm in a situation with one of my dad's cousins. 288 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:57,160 Speaker 1: My dad has called this man his cousin all my life, 289 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,960 Speaker 1: but it's one of those distant down the line cousins 290 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: that's neither here nor there. Because he and my dad 291 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: are close. His cousin is a handyman, and he came 292 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 1: to fix my washing machine three months ago and stayed 293 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 1: for dinner, drinks, and sex. I really put it on him, 294 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 1: and now he wants to be with me, and he 295 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 1: doesn't care what my dad thinks. He said at sixty one, 296 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,879 Speaker 1: he's finally found love and he's not letting me go. 297 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,920 Speaker 1: Should he tell my dad or should I? Well? No, 298 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: first of all, let's talk about because I ain't done 299 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 1: this in a while, so excuse me for having this 300 00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,639 Speaker 1: rich boy moment. But you say he came by the 301 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 1: house to fix your washing machine? Is the maytag man? 302 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: Still he's working making house calls. I didn't even know that. 303 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: And is it a maytag? She didn't say the brand 304 00:22:56,280 --> 00:23:02,919 Speaker 1: y'all came by fixed the washing machine, had dinner, drink, 305 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 1: and some sex. You put it on a real good 306 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:11,640 Speaker 1: your daddy's cousin. And now wait a minute, now down 307 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 1: the line, distant cousin. No, no, no, no, I don't 308 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 1: give a damn what you're saying. You're gonna have to 309 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: tell no. She said, that's neither here nor there, but 310 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: that's gonna be right here when you're going there, And 311 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: tell your daddy. Now, it's her daddy's friend right now. 312 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: She fifty one, her daddy probably in his seventies. Now, 313 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 1: this little cousin, boy, it's like me and nephew Tommy, 314 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 1: ten year difference. Little cousin Barden came over and tapped 315 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 1: his daughter. It's gonna be a situation in hire, lady, 316 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a situation in him. Well, the cousin said, 317 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,320 Speaker 1: he's finally found love. Don't forget this fellow, and he's 318 00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:00,600 Speaker 1: not letting her go okay, and he doesn't care what 319 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: her dad thinks. Going into ain't no yea dinner dreams don't. Yeah. 320 00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: All right, let's move on Alexi and Detroit, because that 321 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: relationship is gonna be what it is. Alexeie and Detroit. 322 00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: Steve says, I'm a twenty eight year old female and 323 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: I met a thirty two year old man at my 324 00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: new church for our first and only date. I met 325 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: him at a dance studio because he's into ballroom dancing. 326 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: He had on a full leotard and he flowed effortlessly 327 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 1: around the dance floor with his lips pursed and his 328 00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: toes pointed. I wasn't as good as him, so he 329 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 1: grabbed a mail partner and kept dancing as I watched. 330 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:54,000 Speaker 1: That date was so different, and I was turned off. 331 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,640 Speaker 1: He asked me for a second date. Should I ask 332 00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: him if he's heterosexual before the next date? Cel Oh, 333 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: I don't cloth, Come on, Cloth want to be involved 334 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,640 Speaker 1: in this type of question. Due to the climate we're 335 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,360 Speaker 1: end these dates, so I have to be very careful 336 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 1: how I answer this. So just let me go over 337 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: what you said. Okay, if you're on a date with 338 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 1: a man whose lips is perched and they have on 339 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 1: full leotade, and when you ain't dancing as flowing and 340 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: flee freely in your toes don't point as good as 341 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:45,160 Speaker 1: his point and he grabs a man to finish dan, 342 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,440 Speaker 1: should you go on another day? I ain't got to 343 00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:56,399 Speaker 1: ask him nothing about sexuality. I don't know. I'm not 344 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 1: gonna say that and get in no damn trouble. But 345 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: you got on the four leatar set. You can point 346 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 1: your toes better than she can't. Dancer. Yeah that ball 347 00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 1: room That ain't that. I thought it was ballroom too, 348 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:21,280 Speaker 1: Tommy to point ain't in ballroom dancing. But leotards ain't 349 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,360 Speaker 1: in ball Hello that you did that yourself if you're 350 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: in the dance studio, No not, But that's acceptable dance 351 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:37,239 Speaker 1: tu though, Yeah, that's ballroom dancing. Yeah, but every week 352 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: though we ain't see I ain't seen nobody. Nelly didn't 353 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:45,600 Speaker 1: have on foo leotard. But he's not a professional star. 354 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 1: He's the star on Dancing with the Star. Yeah, I 355 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 1: think you're looking at this a different way. See, we're 356 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 1: looking at it through a leotard. Just ain't way you 357 00:26:55,280 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 1: gave it to look to the level. The leotard is 358 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: acceptable for a man or a woman if you're a dancer. 359 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: Though plenty of my junior was saying, Steve. But just 360 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 1: like Junior, listen, dancing with the stars, when they dance, 361 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,960 Speaker 1: they do different types of dancing because they're professional dancing. 362 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: So you just never know what dance. Wait a minute, 363 00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:29,359 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on just to see say that k 364 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:36,160 Speaker 1: see how many more? Me? And he grabbed and finish 365 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 1: up the dance with all right, we're moving on, Edgar. 366 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: She said, I'm an older gentleman and I've been in 367 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 1: a relationship for eleven years. Would you pay attention with 368 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 1: a beautiful, feisty woman. I wanted to marry be quite junior. 369 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,960 Speaker 1: I wanted to marry her years ago, but she doesn't 370 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 1: believe in marriage. She's cheated on me twice years ago. 371 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 1: I forgave her, but I didn't forget. I think she's 372 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,560 Speaker 1: interested in someone new again because she's been talking about 373 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:07,640 Speaker 1: getting a breathlift and eyelift and boatox. I'm more laid back, 374 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,680 Speaker 1: but she loves to run the streets and travel. Will 375 00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,359 Speaker 1: she ever settled down? Or do you think she's up 376 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: to something? I don't know, dude, but I'm telling you, 377 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 1: if you can't get where you want to go with him, 378 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 1: if you go down to this dance studio, it's a 379 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 1: dude down there with some Leo tizzo with some pointed toes, 380 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 1: and when when when the right he snatched me in 381 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 1: up and go dancing and you might have your problem solved. 382 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: Thank you. See l O, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 383 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,520 Speaker 1: Jay is hearing this time for comedy Roulette. Take it away, 384 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,120 Speaker 1: Jay takes for a subject, put him on a wheel 385 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: spun and wheel wedge that we do the damn thing. 386 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,800 Speaker 1: All right, that's about that. Now what do you got 387 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 1: to say about that? What do you got to say? Steve? 388 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: I didn't say anything time right now? What you asking 389 00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 1: for me to say? So? All right, here we go. 390 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: Here go the subject. Things you say to talk your 391 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: way out of a butt whipping, your favorite lunchtime meal 392 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: at school. Stuff you say to yourself when you're trying 393 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:18,640 Speaker 1: to lose weight. I've said some things, okay, number four 394 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 1: things you say when you're lost? All right, Bunny, Yes, 395 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: I like to Jay. Let's go. Let's go way girl, 396 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: I'll be talking to myself. Oh what things you say 397 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,120 Speaker 1: to talk your way out of a butt whipping? Okay? 398 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: I want to hear the Yeah, let's go jas. I 399 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 1: go first. I go first, the classic, the very classic. 400 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: This is the classic. I ain't gonna do it no 401 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:58,959 Speaker 1: mo yes, come on, Junior. Okay, here's when I use 402 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,640 Speaker 1: the last it wasn't just me, all of us was 403 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 1: doing it. Yeah. Truth be told, Mama, Truth be told. 404 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: Daddy the one broke the dog onna play? I didn't one. 405 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: It ain't had nothing to do with me. He told me, 406 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 1: don't say nothing to you. You got a double. But 407 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:26,800 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, I was not ever even in there. Wait, 408 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: I just the one gonna get you a real bad 409 00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: but whoop? If you beat me, I'm gonna tell grandma. 410 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: Oh all right, things you say to tuck your way 411 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 1: out of a butt, whooping junior goal. Mama, I don't. 412 00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: I don't really want tens right now, but I feel 413 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: a crisis starting. He said it worked the hospital just 414 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: as healthy. Oh God, I don't want to be the 415 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 1: bearer of bad news, don't huh? But your car already 416 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: had it? Then on it? I thing you say to 417 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: talk you? Would you want me to beat you? Playing 418 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 1: those guilt streams? Mama, Mama? Would you want me to 419 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 1: beat you? All? Right? Things you say to talk your 420 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 1: way out of a butt? What? Then? Come on, Jay, 421 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: Please don't beat me because the last time you beat me, 422 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 1: I had real bad night. Man, You're gonna have some more. 423 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:52,160 Speaker 1: They too, Things you say to keep them getting the 424 00:31:53,360 --> 00:32:07,280 Speaker 1: mama daddy having an a found you stop right away, Mama, 425 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 1: look me in my eyes before you woman, just tell 426 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:24,160 Speaker 1: me what would Jesus jumps to Mama? We Christians, Mama, 427 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: weak Christians? Christian must I thought, y'all love me not actors. Okay, 428 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 1: I know he's gonna beat me. But before you beat me, 429 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: could I just have a hood? Yeah? Things you say 430 00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,200 Speaker 1: to tuck your way out of these are some good ones. Boy. 431 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait? You said if I made all 432 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 1: as you leave me alone. You made you feel like 433 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: if you did good at school? You you that didn't work. So, Mama, 434 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 1: what this is about? It's really about this telling me 435 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 1: I'm really not your son. That's a little belt. Things 436 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 1: you say to talk your way out of all I feel, 437 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: tell your but let's pray first. That's it? Right? Oh here, 438 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,680 Speaker 1: I think you're mad because daddy loves his job and 439 00:33:48,800 --> 00:34:01,240 Speaker 1: you taking it out on me. Things you say, keep 440 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 1: getting the way mama, way minute? What about your off 441 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 1: writers though? All right, Tommy, come on, than you talk 442 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 1: your way out of a you do this right now. 443 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 1: I got a baby on the way. You got a baby. Thanks. 444 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,319 Speaker 1: You say to talk your way out of a whip. 445 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: Close it out, Steve, have we not learned anything from slavery? 446 00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 1: All right, Jay, we'll be back with more of the 447 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening, Ladies and gentlemen. 448 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,719 Speaker 1: We're about to go into a place that you may 449 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 1: have never gone before, a place that gets dark, a 450 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: place that has corners and crevices and places where people 451 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 1: really could not belong. We are going deep into the 452 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:40,440 Speaker 1: mind of j Anthony Brown. All right, nice time for 453 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 1: murders the hit. Now, this segment is called Murders the Hits. Okay, 454 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:48,719 Speaker 1: do not compare it to the original hit, because this 455 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:52,279 Speaker 1: is being murdered. Listen to the message. That's what this 456 00:35:52,400 --> 00:36:10,880 Speaker 1: is about. Getting You won't know me on your black 457 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:22,080 Speaker 1: bron because I'm coming. We'veen catching hell from in the 458 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:29,880 Speaker 1: white house. Time is born over or homing shop beca 459 00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 1: don't jail, you donna be lave. The sign that the 460 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 1: maget reaching tadn need a fat w They're gonna in 461 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:52,799 Speaker 1: the me. They ain't a new that I'm gonna get 462 00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:59,800 Speaker 1: into try. I don't wanna die. I'm gonna stand in it. 463 00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:05,880 Speaker 1: Shoot me in my mind, I'm not gonna let it 464 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:12,879 Speaker 1: shoot me in mind. I don't even know what I say. 465 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:22,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try anyway. That new I'm just gonna take it. 466 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:28,520 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take it. I'm gonna do it. That 467 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 1: be a bit stood new vaccine. I got on them 468 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:45,359 Speaker 1: drums for you right now. I'm loving good. That was good, Jake. 469 00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 1: I love it, Jake taking that new vaccine. Taine do 470 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:57,719 Speaker 1: the Brothers vaccine. So we're doing we're doing a new else. 471 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 1: I was gonna do me when I was under sand 472 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 1: that damn Jay, I gotta ask you the same question 473 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 1: I asked the nephew. How do you come move with 474 00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,239 Speaker 1: the stuff? Hey, the brilliance of the show is on 475 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,399 Speaker 1: the side of the room. Okay, just so that come 476 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 1: right over here. This show is on this side, and 477 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 1: if you want to be brilliant, come on over here. 478 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 1: In the time we gotta go. Coming up with thirty 479 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,759 Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, all right, more of this 480 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 1: crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. 481 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steven Show. All right, guys, right now 482 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 1: with this hour's comedy segment, is Jay Anthony Brown? What 483 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,359 Speaker 1: is this shay stuff you did when no one was looking? Stuff? 484 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:47,280 Speaker 1: We all do when nobody's looking, well, a whole different 485 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:51,400 Speaker 1: person when nobody's looking. This is stuff we do, all right, 486 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 1: here's one. You ever get the wrong mail? You know 487 00:38:54,640 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 1: it's the wrong man, Would you open it anyway? Yes? Wow? 488 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:11,879 Speaker 1: Just where he worked at he makes this much here? Yeah, 489 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 1: it gave to my house. I'm opening it right. Okay. 490 00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:18,719 Speaker 1: You ever look at somebody's phone so you can guess 491 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:24,520 Speaker 1: they pass code? Anybody? Anybody? Oh here, yeah, I ain't 492 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 1: even did that. No women, the women's are saying, no, 493 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 1: Shirley too. I don't need to look at the phone. 494 00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:35,279 Speaker 1: Y'all know, y'all? Man, Oh no, yeah, I ain't gave 495 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:39,320 Speaker 1: it all. Yeah, timmy, I don't know mine, oh tim 496 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 1: dog my kids, no, man, y'all together. I have never 497 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:57,080 Speaker 1: been that together the dog dad on the phone. Yeah okay, yeah, 498 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:02,000 Speaker 1: everybody in my fa I'm know my parents cool. Wow, 499 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 1: it's open. Wow. No, that's never that's just with this marriage. 500 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:11,439 Speaker 1: You're so honest. That's just that's what dis mattered. It's 501 00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:18,920 Speaker 1: just a recent it that second manage right there. Let 502 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,480 Speaker 1: me tell you you pick this phone up. Man, it 503 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 1: was like listening to a tape on mission impossible as 504 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: soon as you touch my phone, just starts smoking it. Okay, 505 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 1: that's we do when nobody's looking. His one his on 506 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 1: this your own house. But you drink juice straight out 507 00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,880 Speaker 1: the bottom. Hell oh yeah, jee, I just did that 508 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,919 Speaker 1: the other day out the kids juice too. Yeah, y'all 509 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 1: wrong for this drink after kids. I see if it's 510 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:54,320 Speaker 1: the end. If it's the end of the container that 511 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,399 Speaker 1: I can no, No, it was, it was fresh. Yeah, 512 00:40:56,480 --> 00:40:58,840 Speaker 1: just open it. I won't took me. I took a swallow. 513 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 1: Hell I bought it. Yeah, that's where I got a 514 00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:08,799 Speaker 1: German factory. Okay, here's another stuff we doing. Nobody's looking. 515 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:14,080 Speaker 1: You ever go to somebody's house and looking at medicine cabinet? Hell, yeah, yes, 516 00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,239 Speaker 1: I've done that. Oh yeah, I quit dating the girl 517 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 1: calls it that yourself something. Well, if you got three 518 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:24,719 Speaker 1: bottles and I can't pronounce man one of them, out 519 00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,359 Speaker 1: of here because obviously you have something that I ain't 520 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: really because if he don't say three bottles or something 521 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,359 Speaker 1: with long names on it and I can't pronounce them, 522 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:39,080 Speaker 1: I got to get out of here. Max s Yeah, 523 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:46,919 Speaker 1: hadn't roll no one. She can't keep Still, y'all wrong 524 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:53,000 Speaker 1: if you look at that, yeah, and you see a 525 00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:59,319 Speaker 1: tube or anything, I'm out of here, an, I got 526 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,360 Speaker 1: to get it. Oh that ain't gonna be good record, 527 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 1: and the and the label ain't on it. Yeah, oh 528 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:13,160 Speaker 1: they took it out. If I see, if I see 529 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 1: gulls in there and have a gaus wrapping gulls, yeah, 530 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:23,200 Speaker 1: I got to go. Oh yeah, yeah, Okay, listen, listen 531 00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 1: might be kind of weird. Okay, okay, what you just 532 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 1: got some good news. You go to the elevator, you're 533 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 1: in there by yourself, the doors closed. You do a 534 00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:39,200 Speaker 1: happy dance by your damn self. Yeah, yeah, yeah, shouldn't 535 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 1: do that, Okay, sure, now, I surely dorks don't hurt anymore. 536 00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:00,960 Speaker 1: All right, last, but not least, but never that's yourself 537 00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,319 Speaker 1: real good. When ain't nobody looking, I mean, get up 538 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: in there, I mean back jake, and look over there 539 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:22,800 Speaker 1: as somebody been looking all right. Up next, it is 540 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,560 Speaker 1: a nephew with a brank phone call. Right after this 541 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:32,520 Speaker 1: you're listening, coming up at the top of the hour, 542 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 1: right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today, 543 00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:39,400 Speaker 1: subject her old man is taking care of my family. 544 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but right now, yeah, wait till you hear 545 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,400 Speaker 1: this one right now, though the nephew is here in 546 00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 1: the building with today's prank phone call. What you got 547 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 1: for his nef Raymond in the closet, Steve's all time favorite, right, 548 00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 1: Raymond greatest in damn prank ut? All right, let's go 549 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:21,839 Speaker 1: catch off. Hello, Hello, Harry, who the can you hear me? Yeah? Bad? 550 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,040 Speaker 1: Who's there? This Raymond man? Speak up? I can't hear you. 551 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 1: Who this this Raymond man? Speak up? I can't hear you. 552 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 1: Who is this? Raymond? Raymond? Raymond Verond is my sister 553 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:39,600 Speaker 1: Nda brother? Yes, what's up? What's up? Man? What's up? 554 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: Somebody them broke in the house, taking the house right now? 555 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 1: I'm in there. Hold on, hello, hollo man, I damn, 556 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,160 Speaker 1: I'm bad. I can't hear what you're saying. Somebody that 557 00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:52,400 Speaker 1: what somebody them broken house? I want to hear you 558 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,879 Speaker 1: what's erring? Because they're in the house right now. I'm 559 00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 1: wait a minute, Wait a minute. You're saying somebody in 560 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 1: the broken hawful sty in there? Somebody that I'm broke 561 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:05,600 Speaker 1: in the house. I'm getting the house now. Hold on, 562 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 1: you're saying somebody that broke it to your damn house 563 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:12,640 Speaker 1: and they steal in there. Yes, what you're doing? See 564 00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,719 Speaker 1: nothing there? Why you ain't call the police. I'm in 565 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,279 Speaker 1: the closet. I'm in the closet and I'm trying to 566 00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,560 Speaker 1: get somebody to hold on, hold on, Well, I don't 567 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:25,880 Speaker 1: know what to do. Man. You're saying, somebody in the house, 568 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:33,120 Speaker 1: in your damn house. White, Nah, just okay? Wait where 569 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 1: you live at? Where you live at? I'm on thirty 570 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,719 Speaker 1: six straight because I'm at thirty two and a half. 571 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,600 Speaker 1: You know what? Hold on? After the call the lords? Wait? Wait, wait, 572 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,160 Speaker 1: wait wait man, you know what what? Wait a minute? 573 00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 1: Don't call the police. You see your to the hold 574 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,120 Speaker 1: somebody to no piping to kill you and you're talking 575 00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:54,960 Speaker 1: about you don't want them arresting. We got some illegal stuff. Now, 576 00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:59,560 Speaker 1: don't call nobody. Don't wait a minute? Wait wait, nah, 577 00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 1: you're saying hold on. You're saying, don't call the damn lows. 578 00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 1: You have to run in the house. I call them 579 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:12,200 Speaker 1: week they got it. That's a Nickels and the hold doing. Man, 580 00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:18,480 Speaker 1: what you got? Man? You know what is bad? Do 581 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 1: you know what you're seeing? Your something there that's probably 582 00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:25,160 Speaker 1: while they're in the house. Now you have set you 583 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:27,520 Speaker 1: up in the house. That's you in there and there 584 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: that's I guarantee you that what you what you got 585 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 1: in there? And you know what, man, lem gonna tell 586 00:46:38,719 --> 00:46:40,640 Speaker 1: you something. I'm gonna tell you the best thing to 587 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,080 Speaker 1: do even doing the people in your house right now, 588 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,640 Speaker 1: you need the jumpers, let me call them. Man, you 589 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 1: need to let me call the damn lowse. I'm gonna 590 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,800 Speaker 1: tell you right now you can't get don't do that. 591 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put you know what, man, I'm gonna tell you. 592 00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:56,759 Speaker 1: Don't call back. You'll say that now. I'm gonna tell 593 00:46:56,800 --> 00:46:59,000 Speaker 1: you now, I get called the low dude, I'm gonna 594 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,080 Speaker 1: call the long hold. I get my wife the call 595 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,360 Speaker 1: right now. Don't call the police. Don't call them because 596 00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:14,600 Speaker 1: it's too much of leigga my wife. Don man, but 597 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna teach you something honest. I can't do it. 598 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:18,799 Speaker 1: Thank you, dame for to go down there. No, I'm 599 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,360 Speaker 1: gonna tell you something. I could call this food's contad me. 600 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 1: Don't even call the damn low You know what, man 601 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 1: looking at called to be honest with you, I'm i 602 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,160 Speaker 1: ain't gonna go down there. I'm gonna tell you right 603 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,799 Speaker 1: there now you know what. The first thing I'm gonna 604 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,160 Speaker 1: tell you now, Now, I ain't gonna take my down 605 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,479 Speaker 1: there first of us. They may be tapping my damn 606 00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,759 Speaker 1: lying and I ain't got to do with this. You're 607 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 1: gonna get do. Listen, man, look, I could call nine 608 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 1: one one they look, go ahead and call them, because 609 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 1: you know what, You're gonna get your kill down now 610 00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,640 Speaker 1: and they don't know who you are. I bitch man, 611 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:51,920 Speaker 1: you know what. And I ain't gonna steal on this 612 00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,279 Speaker 1: song with you so they can find out, you know what, 613 00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,759 Speaker 1: don't It's like call the lot. I ain't getting that. 614 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,399 Speaker 1: I ain't, man, you must get damn fool. Ain't gonna 615 00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: get an out one. So I'm gonna tell you what 616 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,200 Speaker 1: you can do. Got I called the law if they 617 00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:06,440 Speaker 1: had my wife right now, you know what. You may 618 00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,319 Speaker 1: not like it now, but you appreciate me later, because 619 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:09,799 Speaker 1: you know when you're gonna get your monk heads. Wait 620 00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 1: a minute, wait a minute, just west, but I think, 621 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:16,880 Speaker 1: damn sign, I think man, you know this is some 622 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 1: crazy got you to set your up. I'm gonna try 623 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:29,839 Speaker 1: to shook up for one. Don't get my damn low 624 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,960 Speaker 1: damn fool you gotta keep your monk heads in that closet. 625 00:48:34,239 --> 00:48:36,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, you're a damn fool. 626 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:37,400 Speaker 1: You walk out because I'm gonna tell you not, they 627 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,719 Speaker 1: show gonna kill your stupid man. You know what. I 628 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie to you. Man. The only thing I 629 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:44,240 Speaker 1: can tell you, Damn, I'm called a law. You're gonna 630 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:45,879 Speaker 1: go down, and I'm gonna tell you not. I ain't 631 00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,799 Speaker 1: going down with I don't know why you really even 632 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 1: call me unless you want some help, because I'm gonna 633 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,040 Speaker 1: tell you right now, I ain't to jumping eyes myself 634 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,879 Speaker 1: nor my damn family over your I want to think 635 00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:56,440 Speaker 1: I can do. I can help you out in one way. 636 00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:58,959 Speaker 1: I'm called the law. Now. My wife's got a cell phone. 637 00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,440 Speaker 1: What you want me to do when you can't get me? 638 00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:05,120 Speaker 1: You must be a damn boot. I'm ain't going down, 639 00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,479 Speaker 1: but I ain't going you know what. Man. Look look, 640 00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,400 Speaker 1: I can't get in there, and my wife did out 641 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:12,920 Speaker 1: of the count. The police comma kill you right now. 642 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,640 Speaker 1: They couldn't come, can't you? Can you? Can you hear me? 643 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 1: You can hear you? Your damn mouth shut up? Shut up? 644 00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,160 Speaker 1: Can you shut your damn mouth? Right now. Can you 645 00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,239 Speaker 1: hear me? Shut out? I don't know when the hoight 646 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:31,439 Speaker 1: that's why you shoot the shot and don't peek out 647 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:35,319 Speaker 1: that damn dope. Can I say something, Man, you need 648 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:39,200 Speaker 1: to shut your damn mouse. This is Nephew timing from 649 00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You know what you just 650 00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:56,480 Speaker 1: got pranked by? Man? Y'all y'all sock dirty? I do? 651 00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 1: Damn well, man, do you just got a brank by 652 00:49:59,800 --> 00:50:06,160 Speaker 1: your boy? Went down? Man? I'm sweating like here, sent 653 00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,759 Speaker 1: up in this damn house with drawns oh. Man, you 654 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,600 Speaker 1: sit up here. We'll play with the man. Look at here, boy, 655 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm sweating like here. Why are you sweating? It was 656 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:16,920 Speaker 1: for the dock because I damn sud't know wants to 657 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 1: come down to the house. That's the show. I know 658 00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:22,440 Speaker 1: you weren't coming to the I heard it in your voice. 659 00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:25,239 Speaker 1: I say, okay, you know what. He ain't coming to 660 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,000 Speaker 1: get me. Man. I'm sit up here right now, Man, 661 00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:31,719 Speaker 1: I might need to take off for work. Board up 662 00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 1: in here. Hey. Let me ask you something, man, what 663 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:39,080 Speaker 1: is the baddest radio show in the land. Can't be 664 00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:43,399 Speaker 1: nobody but the Steve Harvey's Morning Show with that other 665 00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:48,919 Speaker 1: that nephew Thommy with it's crazy. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 666 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:58,160 Speaker 1: yeah yeah. Are you talking about Rhonda Brother? Ya? Women? 667 00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:08,120 Speaker 1: Wait women, they were ye. Man, you lie, shut you 668 00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:11,759 Speaker 1: damn out shut. You're gonna You're gonna get your more 669 00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:17,719 Speaker 1: cast right now. What you want me to do? I'm 670 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,280 Speaker 1: calling law. But that's all I can do. I ain't 671 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,839 Speaker 1: coming down there, I ain't coming down now. I ain't 672 00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 1: got nothing to do with this here. I'm calling law. 673 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:36,279 Speaker 1: What you want me to do? What vern? What you 674 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,319 Speaker 1: want me to do? I don't know how you come 675 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,960 Speaker 1: up with him? Tell me, I really doubt Let side. Sure. 676 00:51:41,120 --> 00:51:42,920 Speaker 1: Let me explain something to a lot of people. Use 677 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,640 Speaker 1: the right side of the right. Yeah, I use the 678 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,800 Speaker 1: majority of the time, okay, And that's where all the 679 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:51,920 Speaker 1: creative stuff is on the left. And a lot of 680 00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,520 Speaker 1: people don't know that. A lot of people don't know 681 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 1: how to go there and use that side. Some people 682 00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:58,480 Speaker 1: are just stuck on the right. Then, you know, I'm 683 00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:02,040 Speaker 1: just happening to be blessed like that. Well, thank you 684 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 1: for breaking that down in your brain to the left. Okay. 685 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:14,239 Speaker 1: Let's everything he does is in his brain to the left, 686 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,640 Speaker 1: all right, Thank you? Left? Brained people. Coming up next 687 00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. We'll get into its subject, her old man 688 00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,799 Speaker 1: is taking care of my family. Right after this. You're 689 00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:33,080 Speaker 1: listening to Time Now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 690 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:37,040 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, on dating, sex, work, parenting, 691 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:41,360 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey 692 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:45,279 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be 693 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 694 00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:51,239 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Let's go. 695 00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 1: Let's buckle up and hold on tight. We got it 696 00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:58,160 Speaker 1: for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, Dear Stephen Shirley. 697 00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,280 Speaker 1: The subject her old man is taking care of my family. 698 00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 1: I jumped ahead of myself, excited to get into this one. 699 00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,319 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I have two children with my high 700 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:13,080 Speaker 1: school sweetheart. We both come from seriously dysfunctional families and 701 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:18,400 Speaker 1: we were all each other had. Shortly after we graduated, 702 00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 1: I got incarcerated for eighteen months on a drug possession charge. 703 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:25,919 Speaker 1: During this time, my kid's mother met an older guy 704 00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:28,880 Speaker 1: and he began to take care of her and my kids. 705 00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:32,360 Speaker 1: He bought her a new car and moved her and 706 00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:35,960 Speaker 1: the kids into an upscale apartment. I'm not a fool, 707 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:39,680 Speaker 1: so I know there was give and take in this situation, 708 00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:41,759 Speaker 1: but I was locked up, so what could I say. 709 00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,680 Speaker 1: I've been out of jail for about nine months, and 710 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 1: he has continued to cover all of my family's expenses. 711 00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,560 Speaker 1: I talked to my girl about the older guy, and 712 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:52,759 Speaker 1: she says she has no problem with me staying with 713 00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:56,960 Speaker 1: her and getting my life back on track. But here's 714 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,120 Speaker 1: a big problem. I can't take the disappearance of my 715 00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,560 Speaker 1: girl once or twice a week. I know where she's going, 716 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,640 Speaker 1: but we never talk about it, and feel I feel 717 00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:13,759 Speaker 1: more and more emasculated each time she disappears. I have 718 00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,080 Speaker 1: a decent job, but it's not the type of job 719 00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 1: that will keep her in the lifestyle she's accustomed to. 720 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:21,799 Speaker 1: The only way I know how to do that would 721 00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 1: be to go back to doing what got me sent 722 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,880 Speaker 1: to jail years ago. My girl told me that she 723 00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,160 Speaker 1: hopes I can step up to the plate and take 724 00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,359 Speaker 1: care of my family, so she can let the guy 725 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,719 Speaker 1: go and we can be a family again. I appreciate 726 00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:37,040 Speaker 1: this guy for holding it down while I was gone, 727 00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:39,720 Speaker 1: but she needs to let him go now and adjust 728 00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:44,279 Speaker 1: her lifestyle a little bit, but a little bit. I 729 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,120 Speaker 1: have thought about leaving while I still have some pride 730 00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:51,080 Speaker 1: and dignity, but I couldn't stand leaving my children again. 731 00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,319 Speaker 1: Is it too much to ask for her to move 732 00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,560 Speaker 1: to a less expensive apartment so that we can build 733 00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 1: a new life together. She says she loves me more 734 00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,560 Speaker 1: than anything, But I'm not so sure. What should I do? 735 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 1: Please advise, Well, if she loved you more than anything, 736 00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:07,840 Speaker 1: it seems like she would be with you, and she 737 00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:11,600 Speaker 1: would have already left this older guy. And if you 738 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:13,719 Speaker 1: love her like you say you do, you have to 739 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:17,120 Speaker 1: take that chance. You got to take that risk and 740 00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,480 Speaker 1: ask her, you know, what does she want to do? 741 00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:22,120 Speaker 1: Or will she come back to you and move to 742 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,120 Speaker 1: a lesser lifestyle. You know, sometimes when you get introduced 743 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 1: to two different things and newer things, you get accustomed 744 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,680 Speaker 1: to it and you don't want to leave that situation. 745 00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,480 Speaker 1: But you know you can take the risk and ask her, please, 746 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:38,400 Speaker 1: don't go back to doing what you used to do 747 00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:42,280 Speaker 1: to make money. You already know the end of that movie. Okay, 748 00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:44,759 Speaker 1: you know that drugs is not the way to go. 749 00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:48,080 Speaker 1: I do hope you get yourself together. I really do. 750 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:52,319 Speaker 1: You sound like a decent guy. You know. However, you're 751 00:55:52,360 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 1: moving in with her knowing the circumstances. You know, is 752 00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:00,600 Speaker 1: there a time limit? Are you have you made a plan? 753 00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:02,399 Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna stay with you for a couple 754 00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:04,520 Speaker 1: of months until I get myself together. Then I'm gonna 755 00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,239 Speaker 1: get my own and I want you and the kids 756 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,880 Speaker 1: to come back to me. That seems how it should 757 00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:11,120 Speaker 1: work out, you know, and then you won't have to 758 00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:13,320 Speaker 1: sit there and watch her go back and forth to 759 00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:17,280 Speaker 1: this man and all of that. So that's my advice 760 00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,319 Speaker 1: to you. Save your money, get yourself together, get out 761 00:56:20,400 --> 00:56:23,360 Speaker 1: of there with her where you can see what's going on, 762 00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:25,520 Speaker 1: and ask her if she wants to come back. Do 763 00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,600 Speaker 1: you really still want her back? If you love her, 764 00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:30,000 Speaker 1: then that's what you're gonna have to do. I don't 765 00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:32,600 Speaker 1: think you should, uh, you know, leave your kids and 766 00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 1: all of that, but get your own stuff, your own 767 00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:39,759 Speaker 1: self stuff, and you know, get your own house so 768 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:41,720 Speaker 1: you can be with her and be with your family 769 00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:43,719 Speaker 1: if that's still what she wants to do. But even 770 00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:45,920 Speaker 1: if she doesn't come with you, you'll have your own 771 00:56:46,000 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: place where your kids can come. Steve, this is a 772 00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,640 Speaker 1: pretty sad letter. Because this is a young brother had 773 00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:54,680 Speaker 1: wrote this letter. And you know, I could have a 774 00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,800 Speaker 1: ton of jokes for this, but let me try to 775 00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:01,239 Speaker 1: help you a little soldier. Try to just give you 776 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:07,160 Speaker 1: what I think. You got two kids, which is your 777 00:57:07,239 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 1: ultimate responsibility, which your high school sweetheart. You both came 778 00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:19,760 Speaker 1: from seriously dysfunctional families, you say, And so that's pretty 779 00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:23,120 Speaker 1: much explains what we're gonna hear in this letter. You say, 780 00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:28,160 Speaker 1: shortly after y'all graduated, you got incarcerated for eighteen months 781 00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:33,400 Speaker 1: for drug possession. Then while you await your baby, mama 782 00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:38,400 Speaker 1: met an older man and he began taking care of 783 00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: her and my kids, well the kids he hern the 784 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:47,080 Speaker 1: kids that put y'all in the upscale apartment. You know. 785 00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,200 Speaker 1: Then you say, I ain't no food, So I know 786 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:53,240 Speaker 1: there was some giving taking this situation, but I was 787 00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:56,520 Speaker 1: locked up, So what could I say. Now, you've been 788 00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,000 Speaker 1: out of jail now for nine months, and he has 789 00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 1: continued to come all of my family's expenses. You just 790 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,520 Speaker 1: said a little bit earlier, you know that from giving 791 00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:10,600 Speaker 1: taking this relationship, he's continuing to take care of all 792 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 1: your family's expenses. I talked to him a girl about 793 00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:17,160 Speaker 1: the older guy She says, she ain't got no problem 794 00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 1: with me staying with her getting my life back on track, 795 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,520 Speaker 1: which is exactly what she didn't had to tell this 796 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 1: man that my baby's father got out of jail and 797 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:27,560 Speaker 1: I need to help him so he can get his 798 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:31,720 Speaker 1: life on track. Not an older guy. Young man then 799 00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 1: went along with this because she got to come over 800 00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:39,280 Speaker 1: there a couple of times a week, and that's all 801 00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,000 Speaker 1: it was. And so they had a little arrangement going. 802 00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,240 Speaker 1: So as long as she's keep coming over two times 803 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,800 Speaker 1: a week, this ain't gonna be no problem for her, 804 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:50,800 Speaker 1: I mean for him. So you talk to my girl. 805 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:52,560 Speaker 1: She said, she ain't got a problem with you staying 806 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:56,360 Speaker 1: with her. But here's the big problem. I can't take 807 00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,840 Speaker 1: the disappearance of my girl once or twice a week. 808 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,640 Speaker 1: I know she's going, but we never talk about it, 809 00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:06,680 Speaker 1: and I feel more and more masculated each time she disappears. 810 00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:10,000 Speaker 1: Yes you do, and yes you should, and we come back. 811 00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what I think. All right, We're 812 00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,560 Speaker 1: gonna have part two of Steve's response coming up at 813 00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:18,280 Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour. Subject of today's Strawberry letter, 814 00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:22,080 Speaker 1: her old man is taking care of my family. We'll 815 00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:27,560 Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, 816 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:31,120 Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. This subject her 817 00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:34,920 Speaker 1: old man is taking care of my family. Here's a 818 00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:38,400 Speaker 1: deal without the jokes. Here's a young man that was 819 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:41,880 Speaker 1: high school sweetheart to have two kids. Sorely after they graduated, 820 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,960 Speaker 1: he got arrested on drug possession. He served eighteen months. 821 00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:49,240 Speaker 1: While he was away, his girl started dating this older man. 822 00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:53,640 Speaker 1: He moved her and them two kids into an upscale apartment, 823 00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:56,840 Speaker 1: and when he got out, he wanted to get his 824 00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:59,880 Speaker 1: life back together, so he thinking he had something. She's 825 01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:01,960 Speaker 1: that I don't mind you stand here while you get 826 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:06,400 Speaker 1: your life together, sounding me like, you know, get yourself 827 01:00:06,640 --> 01:00:09,440 Speaker 1: together and then get your stuff and get out. I 828 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,640 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just saying, she don't mind you coming 829 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,960 Speaker 1: overutil you get your life together. But you know there's 830 01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,720 Speaker 1: a give and take. This man paying all these bills, 831 01:00:18,920 --> 01:00:23,440 Speaker 1: taking care of these kids. She disappears twice a week. Now. 832 01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,960 Speaker 1: When she disappears, young man just throws you into something, 833 01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:30,840 Speaker 1: and you say, you feel more and more emasculated. Now 834 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,760 Speaker 1: that's a pretty good word for somebody that's been locked 835 01:00:33,880 --> 01:00:37,160 Speaker 1: up for eighteen months. So you've obviously taken some time 836 01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:40,200 Speaker 1: and you're pretty articularly god where you even put this 837 01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:44,400 Speaker 1: letter together. So I got a decent job, but it's 838 01:00:44,440 --> 01:00:46,560 Speaker 1: not the type that will keep her in the lifestyle. 839 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:49,600 Speaker 1: She's accustomed to that. The only way that you know 840 01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 1: how to do that, you say, is go back to 841 01:00:51,320 --> 01:00:53,960 Speaker 1: the thing that got you locked up. Okay, now, let's 842 01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:57,280 Speaker 1: be for real now, partner being locked up, there's nothing 843 01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:59,360 Speaker 1: in your house worth getting locked up for or less 844 01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:02,720 Speaker 1: somebody try to do bodily harm to your wife and kids. 845 01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:06,200 Speaker 1: This ain't your wife, and these are your kids. Now, 846 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,320 Speaker 1: if you protect your kids life, that's one thing. But 847 01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:12,200 Speaker 1: you want to buy some stuff, So you're gonna go 848 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:16,000 Speaker 1: back in prison cause of that? Oh no, sir, Oh no, sir, 849 01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:19,120 Speaker 1: oh no, oh no, We're not gonna do that no more. 850 01:01:19,640 --> 01:01:21,920 Speaker 1: You know, sometimes when you get when you get locked up, 851 01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:25,400 Speaker 1: sometimes when you lose stuff like your freedom or everything 852 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:28,320 Speaker 1: you own, sometimes it's God trying to get our attention, 853 01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:31,200 Speaker 1: to let us see something, and you might be getting 854 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:35,240 Speaker 1: the attention of what you see. Maybe your girl is 855 01:01:35,280 --> 01:01:40,160 Speaker 1: a little bit tricky. Now, look, she disappeared twice a week, 856 01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,360 Speaker 1: but then you know she told you that she hope 857 01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 1: you can step up to the plate and take care 858 01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:48,600 Speaker 1: of my family, so she can let the guy go. 859 01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:52,480 Speaker 1: What so, in other words, until you can prove to 860 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:56,000 Speaker 1: be more, she ain't letting this other guy go. Hold up, man, 861 01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:58,640 Speaker 1: what kind of chick is this? Now? And we can 862 01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:02,919 Speaker 1: be a family again. Whoa wait a minute. But until then, 863 01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep sleeping with this dude over here. You 864 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,040 Speaker 1: don't need to say nothing, because he taking care of 865 01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:11,040 Speaker 1: business that you couldn't. Now you said I appreciated this 866 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,600 Speaker 1: guy for holding it down while I was gone. Now 867 01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,600 Speaker 1: you didn't stop saying that you didn't. That's a nice 868 01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:19,479 Speaker 1: manly thing to say, But you didn't appreciate that because 869 01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,840 Speaker 1: you wish you was here doing it yourself. That he 870 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:24,280 Speaker 1: got a little bit more money than you. Now your 871 01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:28,760 Speaker 1: family over there, and now you say you appreciate him 872 01:02:28,800 --> 01:02:30,800 Speaker 1: holding it down. But she needs to let him go 873 01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:34,280 Speaker 1: now and adjust her lifestyle a little bit. I have 874 01:02:34,440 --> 01:02:37,240 Speaker 1: thought about leaving, you know, while I still have some 875 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:40,439 Speaker 1: pride and dignity, but I couldn't stand leaving my children again. 876 01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:42,600 Speaker 1: It's too much to ask of her to move. Is 877 01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,800 Speaker 1: it too much to ask her to lose a Spencer 878 01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:48,080 Speaker 1: apartment so we could build a new life together. She 879 01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,960 Speaker 1: said she loves me more than anything. Well, you can 880 01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:54,320 Speaker 1: find that out. All you got to do is say, baby, 881 01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:58,080 Speaker 1: I got the money for a lesser apartment. I want 882 01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:00,160 Speaker 1: my family together. I don't want you to have to 883 01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:03,720 Speaker 1: try to service this debt with this older guy. I 884 01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,479 Speaker 1: don't want you to have to pay for your rent 885 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,040 Speaker 1: with your body. So I think we all to just 886 01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:10,080 Speaker 1: I got us a place we can all be in here. 887 01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:12,080 Speaker 1: It's gonna be a little bit tight, and you find 888 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,560 Speaker 1: out right away if she loves you or she loved 889 01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:17,440 Speaker 1: the arrangement she got. Does she love you or she 890 01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:20,480 Speaker 1: loved lifestyle she got? And I ain't really saying nothing 891 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,480 Speaker 1: bad against this little girl. She got put in a 892 01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:25,560 Speaker 1: tough position when you got sent away for eighteen months. 893 01:03:25,960 --> 01:03:28,320 Speaker 1: But now you're back and you want some things to 894 01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:30,720 Speaker 1: go back to where they were, But sometimes they're not 895 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:33,360 Speaker 1: meant to go back to where they were, young man, 896 01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,680 Speaker 1: And that's oftentimes what we have to learn in life. 897 01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:38,920 Speaker 1: The things we want may not be what's in the 898 01:03:39,040 --> 01:03:41,920 Speaker 1: plan and the master plane. So you gotta kind of 899 01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:44,680 Speaker 1: be open to that because maybe you're finding out some things. 900 01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:48,040 Speaker 1: If it ain't this dude right here partner. It could 901 01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,040 Speaker 1: be somebody else. Now, I'm not gonna do what women 902 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,360 Speaker 1: do is say that wants a cheat always and cheat. 903 01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:55,520 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say that. I'm saying, but you got 904 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:58,480 Speaker 1: to least find out if she's willing to cut some 905 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:00,880 Speaker 1: of this goal, if she loves you more than anything 906 01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:03,840 Speaker 1: and want y'all to work together as a family, or 907 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,440 Speaker 1: she gonna keep service in this debt because that's what 908 01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,200 Speaker 1: she doing, and that puts you to the bad position. 909 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:12,040 Speaker 1: You dog gonna write it to masculate you. Every time 910 01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:13,880 Speaker 1: you look out the door, you know your girl going 911 01:04:13,960 --> 01:04:16,680 Speaker 1: somewhere twice a week, staying out all times a night, 912 01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:18,400 Speaker 1: and you're at the house these kids. You know where 913 01:04:18,440 --> 01:04:22,880 Speaker 1: she at, but y'all don't say nothing about it. So 914 01:04:23,800 --> 01:04:26,520 Speaker 1: I don't want you to get frustrated and then wind 915 01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:29,800 Speaker 1: up doing something stupid. So before you do that, I 916 01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:32,400 Speaker 1: know you think if you walk away that it's just 917 01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 1: gonna push your into his arms. But she's already in 918 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:40,840 Speaker 1: his arms, so you're really not pushing her nowhere. You're 919 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:44,360 Speaker 1: just moving out so you can get yourself together, And 920 01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:46,480 Speaker 1: I think you need to focus on that. Keep taking 921 01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:48,680 Speaker 1: care of your kids. Don't never stop taking care of 922 01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:52,640 Speaker 1: your children. That's our responsibility as men. Whether we're in 923 01:04:52,760 --> 01:04:54,880 Speaker 1: love with the girl or not anymore, has nothing to 924 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:58,040 Speaker 1: do without responsibility as men and fathers. You have a 925 01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:00,240 Speaker 1: main obligation to take care of your children, and if 926 01:05:00,280 --> 01:05:03,400 Speaker 1: you do that, then you're being a man. There's nothing 927 01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:05,960 Speaker 1: that says you have to stay with her. Try to 928 01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:07,880 Speaker 1: work through it and work it out. If you don't 929 01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 1: want to, you don't have to, but you do have 930 01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:14,240 Speaker 1: to take care of them kids. That's not an option 931 01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:17,520 Speaker 1: or an excuse. So take care of kids and then 932 01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:21,200 Speaker 1: ask her if she ready to make this thing a family. 933 01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:24,040 Speaker 1: You know, everybody make mistakes, and give her a chance 934 01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:27,120 Speaker 1: to let you know where she stands on that's my suggestions. 935 01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:31,040 Speaker 1: That's right. You can post your comments on Today's Strawberry 936 01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:35,320 Speaker 1: Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and 937 01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:37,920 Speaker 1: don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 938 01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:44,040 Speaker 1: demand you're listening to. All right, So here's the question, 939 01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:48,120 Speaker 1: the office topic of the day. What have you given 940 01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:59,160 Speaker 1: up for love? What pretend to ask these questions? And 941 01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:03,400 Speaker 1: no jobs? Why you got is this hard question y'all 942 01:06:03,440 --> 01:06:08,040 Speaker 1: gonna answer for that hall for me. We're asking you, guys, 943 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:14,640 Speaker 1: love I ain't. I ain't gave up nothing I lost. 944 01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:20,600 Speaker 1: It's a difference. I didn't give up nothing. I lost 945 01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:29,560 Speaker 1: what was tooking away from you for love? Yeah? Yeah, 946 01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:34,760 Speaker 1: most everything I've ever done for love? What I lost? 947 01:06:36,320 --> 01:06:39,280 Speaker 1: I lost my So what did y'all wanted to go? 948 01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:43,680 Speaker 1: I lost my ability thank for my damn self. I 949 01:06:44,040 --> 01:06:47,000 Speaker 1: lost my ability to eat what I want to eat, 950 01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:51,320 Speaker 1: where I want it. I lost my ability to all 951 01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:54,760 Speaker 1: who the hell I want to come? Man? I lost 952 01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:59,440 Speaker 1: lost your freedom. I gave a lost freedom, my ability 953 01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:02,720 Speaker 1: to have multiple people's phone. No, but I lost my 954 01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:08,240 Speaker 1: ability to lay my phone around. I lost But you're 955 01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:11,480 Speaker 1: not bitter about it, because you certainly don't sound like that. Well, 956 01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:14,920 Speaker 1: now it's a different love I have. But in the 957 01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:20,080 Speaker 1: past those loves were lost. I lost the fact of 958 01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:24,880 Speaker 1: being right. I ain't been righting thirteen years. You were 959 01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:29,760 Speaker 1: being right? Oh right? Oh no, we had to get 960 01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:35,560 Speaker 1: that up immediately. So you gave you gave up that? Okay, Tommy, Tommy, 961 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:40,880 Speaker 1: what have you given up? I don't Well, I'm stop 962 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,600 Speaker 1: doing what I would do? What it was? What is wrong? 963 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:47,680 Speaker 1: What what you Yes, you're supposed to stop what you're 964 01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:51,240 Speaker 1: doing for love, Tommy, Yes, you are gave a reasoning. 965 01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:58,440 Speaker 1: I reason, I just I reason. I'm just saying what 966 01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:01,160 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to give up, not think what I gave up. 967 01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:06,680 Speaker 1: I want to hear what you gave me. Yes, Ja, 968 01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:13,800 Speaker 1: damn man gave it up, pulling up knowing that in 969 01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:20,960 Speaker 1: that damn door, piece of mind is gone. A minute 970 01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:26,800 Speaker 1: from in our house, it's starts piece of damn All right, 971 01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:31,519 Speaker 1: coming up more of today's trending stories on the Steve 972 01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:38,559 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening, all right, So guys, here's 973 01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 1: a question for you. Do you have a hiding place 974 01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:44,400 Speaker 1: in your home to just have a few minutes alone? 975 01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:48,280 Speaker 1: You know? I mean everybody should have someplace, some little 976 01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:51,879 Speaker 1: getaway place that they can have some me time. For instance, 977 01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:53,880 Speaker 1: some women like to have what they call a she 978 01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:56,320 Speaker 1: shed or a small room that they can read in 979 01:08:56,560 --> 01:08:59,320 Speaker 1: or just chill in. I you know what, I love 980 01:08:59,360 --> 01:09:02,599 Speaker 1: the bathroom. Men usually go into the garage or their 981 01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:05,960 Speaker 1: man cave or the basement or someplace. Uh. Do you 982 01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:09,280 Speaker 1: take an extended break in your home hiding place? Do 983 01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:12,639 Speaker 1: you do it every day? Is the question? Or does 984 01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:14,920 Speaker 1: your family know not to disturb you when you're in 985 01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:18,040 Speaker 1: your favorite room or you're hiding place. Come on, Steve, 986 01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:21,040 Speaker 1: I know you take time for yourself. Yeah. I always 987 01:09:21,120 --> 01:09:23,240 Speaker 1: done that. Yeah, I go, I go to San Diego. 988 01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:26,519 Speaker 1: You lead a house, Yeah, get the hell out. Can't 989 01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:30,200 Speaker 1: follow me down there. Damn. Grandkids know how to use 990 01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:32,760 Speaker 1: the elevating everything. I'll be Damn, I'm going in to 991 01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:39,960 Speaker 1: San Diego. It's beautiful there. I don't care if it is. 992 01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: They not there, clearly you got one. Yeah, I love. 993 01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:49,639 Speaker 1: I will be in my bathroom for our words, ours 994 01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:51,680 Speaker 1: in the bathroom, in the bath because I have a 995 01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:53,920 Speaker 1: TV in there, and you know I do my makeup, 996 01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:58,439 Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, I don't mean the water. No no, no, 997 01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 1: I don't say spend most of my time in the bathroom. 998 01:10:03,160 --> 01:10:06,840 Speaker 1: No no, no, not there. I just out. Yeah, that 999 01:10:07,120 --> 01:10:09,519 Speaker 1: separate with the ban. I got my TV right in 1000 01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:12,920 Speaker 1: front of the toilet and a computer. Now that's how 1001 01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:16,320 Speaker 1: you go from Now, that's how you don't miss nothing. 1002 01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:18,519 Speaker 1: When I'm watching the game, I just get um going 1003 01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:24,760 Speaker 1: in the bathroom. It's on the wall right in front 1004 01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:28,400 Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, I ain't done that up a little 1005 01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:29,960 Speaker 1: high where you can keep your head up. You don't 1006 01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:33,120 Speaker 1: want to look either keep your head or be digestive. 1007 01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 1: Track is more open slight. What about you tell me 1008 01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:47,639 Speaker 1: I'm in my theater. I can get away from the theater. 1009 01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:52,080 Speaker 1: Did you hear that, rich ass? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, you 1010 01:10:52,280 --> 01:10:54,240 Speaker 1: said a rich ass statement that I ain't saying that. 1011 01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:57,400 Speaker 1: You said, my kids on my grand babies on the elevator. 1012 01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:59,400 Speaker 1: I ain't saying nothing about your elevating in your house. 1013 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,479 Speaker 1: Ain't even pay that. I know you say I was going. 1014 01:11:04,120 --> 01:11:08,960 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna go ahead, teeth you rosa. I thought 1015 01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:12,840 Speaker 1: I had it limited. Okay, all right, well passed his 1016 01:11:12,960 --> 01:11:16,080 Speaker 1: elevator on my theater. Hey, Julie, which one of your 1017 01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:18,559 Speaker 1: rooms in your house is your theater? Yeah, let's hear 1018 01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:23,080 Speaker 1: from the poet a theater. What I had to do 1019 01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:25,680 Speaker 1: is take some some drapes and put them on the 1020 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:30,960 Speaker 1: side of the TV. Make my ass to the with them. 1021 01:11:31,960 --> 01:11:34,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna make a theater. Hold on, y'all, come out 1022 01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:38,680 Speaker 1: the kitchen. Drapes gonna catch you. I'm gonna make a 1023 01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:43,640 Speaker 1: thill that boy, Paul, be nice. I ain't been here. 1024 01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:56,479 Speaker 1: I go to my theater. That nothing. I can't say nothing. 1025 01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:59,360 Speaker 1: How many seats in the theater. I'm not telling so 1026 01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:08,720 Speaker 1: many can't find him in there. Shut up, Steve, go 1027 01:12:08,920 --> 01:12:14,519 Speaker 1: down front. If down now, I'm gonna take my hand 1028 01:12:14,560 --> 01:12:23,040 Speaker 1: down and ain't look in the back and see you 1029 01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:25,400 Speaker 1: ask me where I go to get away? That's all 1030 01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:31,400 Speaker 1: I said. Man, Well the Lord is still blessing, bless you. Man, 1031 01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:34,519 Speaker 1: I didn't even know I'm s if you're talking to 1032 01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:36,400 Speaker 1: you like you have one? I got changed. I talk 1033 01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:38,240 Speaker 1: to you. How are you talking to him? At first? 1034 01:12:38,280 --> 01:12:40,320 Speaker 1: Like he had no theaters? Now he got a th 1035 01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:44,960 Speaker 1: I gotta changed. I talk to him. Man, mister Nethew, Now, hey, 1036 01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:52,200 Speaker 1: miss nephew, what time you go down to the Oh so, Steve, 1037 01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,320 Speaker 1: in case you don't make it to San Diego? What 1038 01:12:54,560 --> 01:12:56,880 Speaker 1: what room in your home do you go to? Where 1039 01:12:56,880 --> 01:12:58,680 Speaker 1: do you go? I'll go all the way down to 1040 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:03,120 Speaker 1: the basement. Was done done? Man? This little man cave? 1041 01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:10,000 Speaker 1: I god? Oh okay, all right, Steve, all right, coming 1042 01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:12,920 Speaker 1: up more of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey 1043 01:13:12,960 --> 01:13:15,240 Speaker 1: Morning Show, and then we'll be back in twenty minutes 1044 01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:17,439 Speaker 1: after the hour. Right after this, we'll be in the 1045 01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:26,320 Speaker 1: fen Yeah you're listening, Morning show. All right, Steven, it's 1046 01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:28,720 Speaker 1: time to check your voicemail. If you want to leave 1047 01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:30,960 Speaker 1: Steve a message or just give a holiday greeting to 1048 01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,639 Speaker 1: your loved one, call us right now at eight seven 1049 01:13:33,760 --> 01:13:37,280 Speaker 1: seven twenty nine Steve and leave a message. Okay, Well, 1050 01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:41,280 Speaker 1: I'm Steve and the born to show any called from himtown. 1051 01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:44,960 Speaker 1: Wishing happy New Year to you and the family and 1052 01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:47,800 Speaker 1: anybody else on Good Morning Show, also my wife and 1053 01:13:47,920 --> 01:13:51,559 Speaker 1: anybody else. Good morning, Steve Harvey. Um. This is Alice 1054 01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:55,040 Speaker 1: Belle called Corunna Racid, North Carolina. I just want to 1055 01:13:55,080 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 1: miss you and your family. Happy holidays. I love your 1056 01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:03,439 Speaker 1: morning stilly, so funny expected every time y'all. Y'all be 1057 01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:06,559 Speaker 1: encouraging people. I love y'all stale I hear every morning. 1058 01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:10,400 Speaker 1: Keep up the good word leg you see high Steve. 1059 01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:13,839 Speaker 1: This is Tabitha Johnson Peeler from Morgan to North Carolina. 1060 01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:17,040 Speaker 1: You guys are a great inspiration to me as a 1061 01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:19,800 Speaker 1: drive every morning into work at Bachelors. I want to 1062 01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:22,880 Speaker 1: say Happy New Years for everybody and traces your own Peeler. 1063 01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:25,840 Speaker 1: You're almost home, baby says so much that God has 1064 01:14:25,880 --> 01:14:28,000 Speaker 1: the store for us coming up. Thank you and God 1065 01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:31,439 Speaker 1: bless you guys. Greetings from the beautiful islands of the 1066 01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:35,400 Speaker 1: US Virgin Islands, the Island of Saint John. I greet you, 1067 01:14:35,840 --> 01:14:40,400 Speaker 1: mister Steve Harvey and all the Harvey family, as well 1068 01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:44,240 Speaker 1: as your family, your radio family, all your families, your 1069 01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:48,400 Speaker 1: work family, every family. For it is important to celebrate 1070 01:14:48,520 --> 01:14:52,360 Speaker 1: families and families are the foundation of our society. So 1071 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:55,519 Speaker 1: let's support families. Thank you so much for your support, 1072 01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:58,760 Speaker 1: and I do have a blessed date. You're listening to 1073 01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:02,920 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Ladies and gentlemen. We're about to go 1074 01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:07,240 Speaker 1: into a place that you may have never gone before, 1075 01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:11,120 Speaker 1: a place that gets dark, a place that has corners 1076 01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:15,439 Speaker 1: and crevices and places where people really should not belong. 1077 01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:20,040 Speaker 1: We are going deep into the mind of j Anthony Brown. 1078 01:15:21,160 --> 01:15:25,320 Speaker 1: A nice Time for Murders the Hits. Now, this segment 1079 01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:29,880 Speaker 1: is called Murders the Hits. Okay, do not compare it 1080 01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:33,960 Speaker 1: to the original hit, because this is being murdered. Listen 1081 01:15:34,040 --> 01:15:51,720 Speaker 1: to the message. That's what this is about. Getting you 1082 01:15:51,880 --> 01:16:05,200 Speaker 1: all know me because of even tching hell shooting the 1083 01:16:05,320 --> 01:16:14,240 Speaker 1: White House. Time is more over holding shoot, go, don't 1084 01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:23,559 Speaker 1: jail you donna leave the sign that the fog reading 1085 01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:29,920 Speaker 1: ta need the bad what they're gonna in the gain. 1086 01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:36,639 Speaker 1: They ain't a new that team. I'm gonna get into try. 1087 01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:45,200 Speaker 1: I don't wanna die. I'm gonna stand in. Shoot me 1088 01:16:45,280 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 1: in my behind, I'm not gonna let it pass, shoot 1089 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:57,880 Speaker 1: me in mind. I don't know what to say. I'm 1090 01:16:57,920 --> 01:17:11,080 Speaker 1: gonna try anywhere. I'm just not go I'm going to 1091 01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:23,560 Speaker 1: do that new I got on them drums for you 1092 01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:29,519 Speaker 1: right now. I'm loving good. That was good, Jay, I 1093 01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:34,040 Speaker 1: love it. Jake taking that new vaccine, taking vaccine, do 1094 01:17:34,479 --> 01:17:41,960 Speaker 1: brothers vaccine. So we're doing we're doing new. I was 1095 01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:43,680 Speaker 1: gonna do me when I was trying to sing that. 1096 01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:49,400 Speaker 1: Damn Jay, I gotta ask you the same question I 1097 01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:51,880 Speaker 1: asked the nephew. How do you come on with the stuff? 1098 01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:54,920 Speaker 1: And the brilliance of the show is on the side 1099 01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:59,560 Speaker 1: of the room. Okay, just that this show is on 1100 01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:01,560 Speaker 1: this side. If you want to be bread, come on 1101 01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:05,360 Speaker 1: over here in the time we gotta go, coming up 1102 01:18:05,479 --> 01:18:08,360 Speaker 1: our last break of the day. We'll be back at 1103 01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:11,759 Speaker 1: forty nine minutes after the hour right after this. You're listening, 1104 01:18:14,439 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Here we are last break of the day. 1105 01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:22,800 Speaker 1: Time for your closing remarks. Surely sent me something and 1106 01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:26,760 Speaker 1: it got me to thinking, I'm gonna share with you 1107 01:18:26,880 --> 01:18:30,040 Speaker 1: what she sent me, but I'm gonna paraphrase it, so 1108 01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:33,280 Speaker 1: it's more of how I talk, because sometimes I get 1109 01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:36,160 Speaker 1: a little stumbled up and it doesn't sound like me 1110 01:18:36,240 --> 01:18:38,799 Speaker 1: if I try to share directly with somebody what somebody 1111 01:18:38,880 --> 01:18:40,479 Speaker 1: sent me. So I just want to talk to you 1112 01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:42,040 Speaker 1: about it. I want to just talk to you about 1113 01:18:42,920 --> 01:18:46,040 Speaker 1: this life of abundance that we are all qualified for. 1114 01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:48,760 Speaker 1: I want to talk to you about the life of 1115 01:18:48,840 --> 01:18:52,040 Speaker 1: abundance that God really wants all of us to enjoy. 1116 01:18:53,080 --> 01:18:56,439 Speaker 1: If you're a righteous person, God will give you a 1117 01:18:56,560 --> 01:19:01,320 Speaker 1: life of abundance. I didn't say if you a saved person, 1118 01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:07,240 Speaker 1: if you are a member of this denomination, if you 1119 01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:10,960 Speaker 1: go to this church, if this is your pastor if 1120 01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:18,240 Speaker 1: this is your faith. I'm telling you that God has 1121 01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:22,880 Speaker 1: a life of abundance for you if you put your 1122 01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:28,479 Speaker 1: trust and your faith in Him. I'm just telling you, 1123 01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:32,960 Speaker 1: and you have to understand that God has equipped you 1124 01:19:34,160 --> 01:19:38,120 Speaker 1: to have this life of abundance. All of you have 1125 01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:41,679 Speaker 1: a gift that was given to you by God at birth. 1126 01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:46,640 Speaker 1: Everyone has one. Now you may not know what it is, 1127 01:19:46,760 --> 01:19:51,240 Speaker 1: but you have it. But because you've been so bent, 1128 01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:56,920 Speaker 1: so determined to do something to please somebody else. Your 1129 01:19:57,040 --> 01:19:58,760 Speaker 1: mother wants you to go to school and get a 1130 01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:01,679 Speaker 1: degree in this. Well, I told him I was gonna 1131 01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:03,320 Speaker 1: come down here and get a degree in that. So 1132 01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:05,960 Speaker 1: now I'm gonna get a degree in that where my 1133 01:20:06,120 --> 01:20:08,439 Speaker 1: father went to the army, So I'm going to the army. 1134 01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:10,680 Speaker 1: You know, it's nothing wrong with the army. It's nothing 1135 01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:12,920 Speaker 1: wrong with going to the army. But if that ain't 1136 01:20:13,080 --> 01:20:17,479 Speaker 1: really what you were created for, you find to waste 1137 01:20:17,520 --> 01:20:21,200 Speaker 1: a lot of time. Man, you really really are because 1138 01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:24,880 Speaker 1: God really did equipped you for a life of abundance. 1139 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:28,559 Speaker 1: When he created you, he had a mission in mind 1140 01:20:28,680 --> 01:20:32,560 Speaker 1: for you, had a mission in mind for me. He 1141 01:20:32,760 --> 01:20:35,000 Speaker 1: gave you a gift. Your gift is a thing that 1142 01:20:35,120 --> 01:20:37,599 Speaker 1: you do the absolute best with the least amount of effort. 1143 01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:42,679 Speaker 1: If you identify that gift, that's your greatest chance. Now 1144 01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:49,439 Speaker 1: here's a deal. When He prepared you for this life 1145 01:20:49,840 --> 01:20:54,320 Speaker 1: of abundance, and he gave you everything you needed to 1146 01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:56,680 Speaker 1: put on every day and go out and make your 1147 01:20:56,800 --> 01:21:00,479 Speaker 1: dreams and your life come true. If you put if 1148 01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:03,560 Speaker 1: you become passionate about your gift, you can be on 1149 01:21:03,680 --> 01:21:06,519 Speaker 1: your way to making your life happening and your dreams 1150 01:21:06,600 --> 01:21:09,720 Speaker 1: come true. He gives you everything you need to wear 1151 01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:11,840 Speaker 1: to go out and fight it. But what we do 1152 01:21:12,080 --> 01:21:18,759 Speaker 1: is we suit up, we suit up, and we settle in. Well, 1153 01:21:18,840 --> 01:21:22,439 Speaker 1: I got this job now, well out of our four 1154 01:21:22,560 --> 01:21:24,800 Speaker 1: years away from getting this another degree, I might as 1155 01:21:24,840 --> 01:21:27,360 Speaker 1: well go here. Well I got a promotion, now I 1156 01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:29,920 Speaker 1: might as well stay on here, well out of star 1157 01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:33,560 Speaker 1: ray start invested in my four one K. So you 1158 01:21:33,800 --> 01:21:38,280 Speaker 1: suit up, but you settle in, and then you know 1159 01:21:38,360 --> 01:21:40,800 Speaker 1: what you do. What we often do, and I did 1160 01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:45,479 Speaker 1: it myself for a while, we resign ourselves to living 1161 01:21:45,720 --> 01:21:52,760 Speaker 1: a mediocre life because we won't suit up and go 1162 01:21:52,920 --> 01:21:55,120 Speaker 1: out here and do what God wants us to do. 1163 01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:59,719 Speaker 1: So here's what I'm saying to you. If God didn't 1164 01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:03,080 Speaker 1: gave off you all the Scooba gear equipment you need, 1165 01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:08,120 Speaker 1: he then gave you the air tanks, the mask, the flippers, 1166 01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:14,519 Speaker 1: the nozzles, the hoses or as supply, don't put all 1167 01:22:14,640 --> 01:22:17,600 Speaker 1: this stuff up on and then head to the bathtub. 1168 01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:24,320 Speaker 1: What you're doing, you're settling in. Head out to the ocean. 1169 01:22:25,479 --> 01:22:29,360 Speaker 1: Get out in that ocean of opportunity. Get out there 1170 01:22:29,439 --> 01:22:32,720 Speaker 1: where in some of that deep water. Go out there 1171 01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,360 Speaker 1: where God has equipped you to go who He then 1172 01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:38,880 Speaker 1: suited you up. He gave you everything you need. But 1173 01:22:39,120 --> 01:22:43,679 Speaker 1: we want to go get in the bathtub where it's safe. Look, man, 1174 01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:47,840 Speaker 1: all of you have the gear to win, the gear 1175 01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:51,640 Speaker 1: to have an abundant life, the gear to be prosperous, 1176 01:22:51,880 --> 01:22:57,479 Speaker 1: the gear to be happy. You have the gear you 1177 01:22:57,600 --> 01:22:59,640 Speaker 1: about to get out. You got to get out that 1178 01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:02,160 Speaker 1: bad half tub and go out there in that ocean, 1179 01:23:02,240 --> 01:23:05,120 Speaker 1: out in that deep water. Because out in the ocean, 1180 01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:10,560 Speaker 1: it's the opportunity. Ain't no opportunities in the bathtub. You 1181 01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:13,120 Speaker 1: got to go out there in that ocean of opportunity 1182 01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:17,160 Speaker 1: and experience all the God got for you. Some of it. 1183 01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:20,559 Speaker 1: You gonna get tested. You're gonna feel like you're going down. 1184 01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:24,200 Speaker 1: You're gonna get a sinking feeling. But you're gonna be fine. 1185 01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:29,000 Speaker 1: You know why, because you got to give. You have 1186 01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:33,120 Speaker 1: what it takes you got to give. It's up to 1187 01:23:33,240 --> 01:23:35,880 Speaker 1: you to jump in. If you don't ever jump in 1188 01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:37,880 Speaker 1: the ocean, you ain't gonna really know if you can 1189 01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:41,200 Speaker 1: handle deep water or not. I got you scared of 1190 01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:44,080 Speaker 1: the deep water. I got sometime that deep water. Look 1191 01:23:44,240 --> 01:23:47,120 Speaker 1: rough out there. I know you've seen some purpose people 1192 01:23:47,200 --> 01:23:52,280 Speaker 1: try to acquire fame and prosperity and happiness and go 1193 01:23:52,439 --> 01:23:54,320 Speaker 1: out on their own. And I know you've seen them 1194 01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:56,479 Speaker 1: out there sinking in the water. Look rough. So now 1195 01:23:56,560 --> 01:23:58,920 Speaker 1: you want to stay over here in the bathtub. Ain't 1196 01:23:58,920 --> 01:24:02,800 Speaker 1: no opportunities in the bathtub. All your opportunities out there 1197 01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:06,120 Speaker 1: in the ocean. There's just some sharks out there, yeah, 1198 01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:10,600 Speaker 1: some bard coot out there. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, some 1199 01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:15,280 Speaker 1: whales out there. Yeah yeah. All that's out there. But 1200 01:24:15,400 --> 01:24:18,479 Speaker 1: what's to say you won't be one? Get out the 1201 01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:21,439 Speaker 1: bathtub with all this geared God and gave you, and 1202 01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:23,680 Speaker 1: jump in that ocean out there and swim like you're 1203 01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:26,560 Speaker 1: supposed to swim around. You're gonna get the life of 1204 01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:29,960 Speaker 1: your dreams, the life of abundance. That's all I got 1205 01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:32,479 Speaker 1: to say. Thank you very much. Hope you got it. 1206 01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:37,320 Speaker 1: Drop the dog, drop it. Yeah you still got it? 1207 01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:46,639 Speaker 1: Thank you? Yeah one of them, No, man, I ain't 1208 01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:50,840 Speaker 1: gonna do. Hey, y'all have a great weekend. 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