WEBVTT - EP 342: Deplorable Decisions 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:09.000 Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision, guys. 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:13.160 We are coming to the sixth Toronto, baby, yeah, way, 0:00:13.280 --> 0:00:15.520 what else is there to say for Toronto except that 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:19.560 we going to be there on November the fifth. Pun 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:23.159 that is a Sunday, So again, just make sure you 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:25.240 get your rest over the weekend so that y'all can 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:27.160 go back to work on Monday. I'm trying to make 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:28.880 a little day, a little weekend of it, you know 0:00:28.880 --> 0:00:30.760 what I'm saying. I'm trying to go to the Soundfa show. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.879 That way I can run into Drake and I'm and 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:35.720 be like, yeah, I have this podcast. Oh my god, yeah, 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:37.480 I know you've heard of it. Come to the show. 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:41.640 So Drake is not coming to the show. Let me 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:44.000 have my lives get love, and y'all should have it too. 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:46.360 Come and see how our lives get askedes. That's right, 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.000 So go to whore hive dot com make sure you 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:52.000 come and check us out. Again. That's November fifth, and 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:54.920 we are going to be at the Phoenix Concert Theater. 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:57.440 We cannot wait, y'all. We've only been to Toronto once 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.800 for horrible I think, so yeah, yeah, so this is 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:01.400 a deal for us. Come and see us on the 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:05.679 climax towards the final show. We can't wait to see you. Sorry, 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:07.000 I just wanted to say that because that was the 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:08.600 other thing that was very Canadian. Oh my god, and 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:17.120 we'll see you there. Boom bitches. Everybody, welcome to another episode. 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:21.440 Happy Halloween, happy all that things, Happy, happy slut day. 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:24.400 That's really what Halloween is for most of the people 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:26.320 who listen to this podcast, you know, me and girls. 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:28.360 Even though they think they invented that idea, bitch, we 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:31.120 all already knew. Okay, what day, you know, because they 0:01:31.160 --> 0:01:32.680 were like, Halloween is that one time a year in 0:01:32.760 --> 0:01:34.840 girl world where you can dress a business slut, but 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:38.240 like an animal slut. Remember you don't remember when? Oh yeah, 0:01:38.240 --> 0:01:42.200 and the mouse duh? Do you know what you want 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:45.399 to be? I'm gonna be multiple things. I'm actually gonna 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:51.080 do this TAM Parties, so it ain't TAM Parties Halloween Night. Actually, 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:55.760 I am going to the Blue Note. They have Robert 0:01:55.800 --> 0:02:00.400 Glasper with Common Fine and music, so child so really 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:02.080 excited for that. And I'm waiting to see if Lennys 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.080 and La La are still throwing their Halloween party of 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:06.400 first because I normally go to that. So I'm not 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:09.720 going to do that, but it's given us celebrity this year. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:13.200 So I'm actually doing a photo shoot now. I'm doing 0:02:13.240 --> 0:02:17.320 a photo shoot with uh, doing two different looks. So 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:21.560 I'm doing Peggy Bundy cute bitch y'all know why and 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:26.119 Doja Cat from the damn what's the guy he's gonna 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:27.680 say bitch on a cow? No? No, no no from 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.440 the video where she's in the in the web. Oh 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.760 uh with Kofe. I can't think, but yes, yes, what's 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:36.000 it called street? I was thinking about going as a cow. 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:38.920 I wanted to go as an a farming Okay, this 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:42.359 idea I have from my homeboys. So Andre was like, yo, 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:45.760 I want to like do a costume with all my friends. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:47.680 And I was thinking, like mad and my friends are homegirls, 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:49.360 so maybe I'll be hu After and their bunnies. 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:52.960 So I was like, yo, let's do the opposite. The 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.000 girls will all be Hugh Heffner and you wear a 0:02:55.000 --> 0:02:55.799 bunny costume. 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:58.800 That could be cool, right, like something like that, but 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:00.840 I want to be I want to just do farm animals, 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:04.440 but horror farm. I was penny Wise last year and 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:07.120 I did really crazy s effects makeup and I had 0:03:07.120 --> 0:03:07.799 a fucking red bull. 0:03:07.960 --> 0:03:10.120 If you need someone, I got it. But like really like, 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:12.160 oh I don't need no special effects, bitch, I said 0:03:12.200 --> 0:03:14.359 Peggy Bundy. And don't you kid No, but you could 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:17.239 be a dead one. It's fun. Why no, I ain't 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:19.400 putting that into the universe. I'd be rubbing him crystals 0:03:19.520 --> 0:03:23.720 manifesting only good things. Now, m not my stay hope, 0:03:24.880 --> 0:03:28.280 bitch talk about you could be a dead one. 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:32.200 I was I thinking, oh yeah, I'm gonna probably end 0:03:32.200 --> 0:03:34.240 at the Lenning hell Ala party. I went to that 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:37.560 Heidi Kluone one last year and really it's just a 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:38.920 parade of really. 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:42.760 Like beautiful women, no elaborate because people are rich there. 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.839 Also Elon Musto Win is like Superman or Batman or something. 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:48.440 I was like, you, what the fuck? You could have 0:03:48.520 --> 0:03:50.360 did anything else? But so did did he? But did 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:54.000 like jo I was there. That was last year, right, 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:55.760 he did Joker. But that's what I'm saying. I don't 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:57.800 know if they're because they did their party in La. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.560 I think last year the year before here it was 0:04:00.600 --> 0:04:06.120 here at don't be saying where the leak that at? 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:09.720 Look at her just she loved just sharing the Hollywood 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:12.720 tea and I really in my breath just la. So 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:14.520 I'm like, yeah, you know it's at the bitch bleep 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:17.560 that app that's like Housewives they be talking about, don't 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:20.080 they post it? They be bleeping. I don't know what 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:22.800 they be saying on Roney this season, but they was 0:04:22.839 --> 0:04:26.080 bleeping out this restaurant the whole season. Okay, well, I 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:28.560 don't know they bleeped it out, but I know, but 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:30.640 the threads must be like, oh they're talking about because 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.599 she said I film on Roney and I know the 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:35.200 unedited version bit you could. I don't know it. Oh, 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:36.599 let me let me tell you why I said that. 0:04:36.640 --> 0:04:38.640 You asked me some ninety Day Fiance tea. I'm gonna 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:40.480 know it. I also have a bone to pick real quick. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:43.039 A lot of people that work for Discovery or TLC, 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:45.440 they've like written me and tried to give me like 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:47.480 INSI T because they know I love the show. Whoever 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:50.240 with the fuck listens to this goddamn show and didn't 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:53.640 invite me to the first ever live studio audience ninety 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:56.920 Day Fiance reunion. You deserve to get your YouTube taken 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:59.719 from you, bitch. I've been giving this content out for 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:01.839 a years and none of you all niggas thought to 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:03.800 invite me. It's not even like it would have cost 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:04.159 you shit. 0:05:04.360 --> 0:05:06.159 You could have snuck me in the back door, didn't 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:07.840 even need to because I'm sure they had a link. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:10.960 I would have been here, bitch, if we had a show, 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.160 I'd have jumped off the stage just to sit there 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:16.120 and look at one of them fucking African niggas take 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:18.320 a white woman's money. I can't believe nobody invited me 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:21.280 to this shit. Did you imagine if Real Housewives had 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:23.960 a live studio they actually do? Oh, it's called what 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:24.640 Happens Live? 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:28.360 They all know. No, I'm talking about the reunion. Oh 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:30.280 hell no, bitch, that should be twelve hours. I don't 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.080 want to sit for that shit. Oh I do. Nah, 0:05:32.160 --> 0:05:36.600 them niggas being there all day, the night breaks cuts. 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.400 I'm good. I'm telling you right now, you're gonna hit 0:05:38.400 --> 0:05:40.160 me in the back with no neck ed you not 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:43.640 have you not having me nowhere for twelve hours for free, 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:46.440 Like unless I'm on a vacation, then I'll do even 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:49.640 the goddamn tour guides and shit I'll be doing. I 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:51.760 ain't doing f no twelve hours, So let me tell 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:55.400 you what I did last night, half half day. Last night. 0:05:56.920 --> 0:06:02.279 Was a very New York we can't Okay, So dating 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:07.200 this guy, the dread Nigga, and we basically were talking 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:09.919 about how there was like some little bone we had 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:12.000 to pick with each other. So we're like, yo, we're 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:13.080 not gonna have sex tonight. 0:06:13.279 --> 0:06:15.600 Let's just like enjoy each other. 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:18.560 Ok Let's just go on a date because like we 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:20.559 just are very attracted to each other, and we're always 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:24.000 like rushing to fuck, and we never like talk about shit, okay, 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:29.640 And the problem with that is that it's hard to do. 0:06:29.760 --> 0:06:31.040 I don't know what I was just about to say. 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:33.440 It's hard to not fuck somebody that you're already fucking. 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:37.800 So he's like, wherever we'll have a chill night. We 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:40.000 went to some comedy show that was trash in Brooklyn, 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:42.279 and we went to West Light, which is, by the way, 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:44.840 such a good like date night. I also think it's 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.520 probably a good you know what I'm talking about. It's 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.520 in the White Hotel, it's the rooftop bar. You've probably been, yeah, 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.160 but it's called west Night. But yeah, it's just great 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:54.800 views like great date night. 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:55.080 Shit. 0:06:55.440 --> 0:06:58.760 Also, it's funny because we were there, He's like, you've 0:06:58.760 --> 0:06:59.960 been here before. I was like, yeah, I think so, 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:02.239 like really worth there or something, and he's like, okay, 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:03.760 I always get this and like the drinks he are 0:07:03.800 --> 0:07:04.080 really good. 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:06.160 Yeah here. 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:08.320 That's all I could think about because I'm just so 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:10.440 in my head about niggas being horse. 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.440 So go to Lover's Rock. Pretty much everybody listened to 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:15.680 horrible decisions. Is there? Okay? So that was the. 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:19.040 Dub, and then I said, let's just go to the 0:07:19.120 --> 0:07:22.760 sex club to look okay and for some reason, really, 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:26.080 since you weren't fucking fucking yeah, I probably wouldn't have 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:32.720 fucked anyway, but being there and for some reason, and 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:34.280 this is the funny thing about sex clubs, and I 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:35.960 wanted to talk about this with you because you go. 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:39.120 There were moments where him and I were just like 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:42.560 talking about life shit, and I forgot that people were like. 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:45.000 Fucking around you. Yeah. So like when I go with 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:49.040 my friends and it's like I'm not interested at all 0:07:49.320 --> 0:07:53.560 in like playing, Like I took two of my homeboys 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:56.200 actually to the sex club the night. I ended up crying, 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:59.360 but we had a shit son of like life talks. 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.640 We were smoking and weed. I shroomed out that night, 0:08:02.720 --> 0:08:05.000 Like we were hell to talking about everything that wasn't 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:07.560 sex while people were getting their dicks sucked right next 0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:10.480 to us, Like and then he ran into one of 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:14.080 his homeboys there, which was also quite funny. But yeah, 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:16.640 like you go there, you could actually just have a 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:20.560 drink and walk around, meet people, talk Like in a 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:24.800 subw there's a huge Jenga board, so normally in the beginning, 0:08:24.920 --> 0:08:29.200 like people are just smoking fucking weed and playing Jenga. 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.400 Okay, but coon you like talk about something for a second, 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:34.600 isn't it frowned upon to go to the sex club. 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:36.960 To hang out. No, I go all the time and 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:39.600 don't have sex, Like there's a lot of people that don't, 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:41.640 like they just go to watch. Like if we talk 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:45.439 about all the kinks, voyeurism is a kink, exhibition is 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:48.120 is a like being watched is another king. But you 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:52.440 going and just watching and viewing people is absolutely fine, 0:08:52.640 --> 0:08:55.640 mind you, like when I go to Susia, but like 0:08:55.679 --> 0:09:01.640 also table but you're saying it's fine. Let's be honest. Yeah, 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:05.839 if someone never fucks and they go like, actually, I 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:09.240 don't think anyone goes there and never fucks, Like when 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:11.080 I go by myself or when I go with friends, 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:13.319 I'm not fucking I've been to the sex club hell 0:09:13.320 --> 0:09:14.640 of times and have it fun. How many times do 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.480 you think you've been to a sex club? Mind you, 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:20.319 I don't know. If y'all remember the very first do 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:22.559 you like Starbucks? About that? Man? If I'm not gonna lie, 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:26.679 the very first sex club? I brought up night and 0:09:26.840 --> 0:09:29.480 day from the type of experiences I have now. But 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:32.520 it was like, that's right. The caligular That was in 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:37.640 twenty seventeen. The don't caligular mean Greek? It means some bitch. 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:39.360 I don't speak other languages. Well, if you got the 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:42.080 Internet of it, it mean like, no, I think it's 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:44.280 a Greek word. It means like group sex or something. 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:46.920 I don't know if something. Maybe I think it means 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:50.160 group sex, or I think it means like hedonism. Maybe. 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:55.640 Oh maybe that's it. Caligular meaning since you know you're 0:09:55.640 --> 0:10:00.560 going a little slow. Oh wait, someone Julius was given 0:10:00.600 --> 0:10:09.320 the nickname Caligular. That's what what the hell? Uh? Today 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:12.040 he is known for his cool behavior and possible insanity. 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:18.480 Well Jesus, okay, so Caligula is this nigga's nick name. 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:22.720 I did it? You said what his dick name? His nickname? 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:25.920 Now you say dick? I sort of got many, you know, 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:29.040 Can I tell you I said nickname? Let me tell 0:10:29.040 --> 0:10:32.599 you what I thought? You said dick name? Did you 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:37.679 say dick? Did? Did I say dick name? Now we 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:44.439 sound kind of I'm so what happened? Okay? 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:46.440 We had an episode a few weeks ago we were 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.679 talking about tooths and common whatever the name is the 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:51.640 mummy that wanted his dick tos. I was like, Okay, 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:54.000 maybe this dude's dick had a name, and maybe that's 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:59.280 why everybody's using it in terms of saying no. 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:01.920 I don't know why. Oh so it actually means little 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:07.000 boots in Latin. You know what, I don't fuck it anyway. 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:09.080 I went to say that sex club back in twenty seventeen. 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:13.240 But I mean, I shared here my entire three year relationship. 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:18.600 We went bi weekly, damn here, So y'all do the math, 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:19.880 not the day period. 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:24.520 So I think what's crazy is I started to like 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:26.960 understand it. So this dude every time I'm in New York, 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:28.760 I've spent every weekend with him, like at this okay, 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:32.120 and I'm like, you know it's starting to feel real. 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:35.640 He not my man, He not gonna be my man 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:38.320 because I don't need a man, But it's feeling real. 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:38.760 Boyfriend. 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.199 Ye you know what I'm saying, loing, he's gonna watch 0:11:41.280 --> 0:11:42.680 Nina for a day when we have a show. And 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:45.520 I was like, oh, it's getting there. So literally we 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:46.240 were in that sex club. 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:49.200 I was like, oh, this is so close to my house, Like, 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:50.520 let's just go on the way home. 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:52.320 And I was like, what if this became a thing 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:55.360 for me? And I was like, bro, if Mandy starts 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:58.600 crying more and I start going to sex clubs, I 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:00.199 want the shift to go back. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.040 But there's no shift. I cry and go to sex club. 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.000 Stop nigga. I'm saying, what if we swap? What if 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:06.000 I became that girl? 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:09.000 But the main thing about it that was like I 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:12.559 really don't I have an issue with public sex. I'm 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:15.640 sew in my head, see that's you, not me. I 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:17.240 ain't go Hold what was your first time at a 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:21.480 sex club? Like I told you it was really weird. 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:23.720 I didn't. I knew I didn't want to have sex, 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:26.760 but this guy really wanted to eat eat me out 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:29.080 and thought and said I can make you come from 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.480 eating you out, And so I allowed him to eat 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:32.880 me out in front of like a group hell of 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:35.240 people watched him eat me out, and then I went 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:38.640 downstairs to the bar. Did you come? I remember? I 0:12:38.679 --> 0:12:41.120 think it was enjoyable. I don't you know, I don't 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:43.040 like his so I was like, huh, you know, it's cool. 0:12:43.120 --> 0:12:47.120 Nigga was eating pussy. And then I remember going downstairs 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:49.920 and just talking to a lady at the bar and 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.520 she was like, yeah, that was my husband eating you 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:55.120 out upstairs. And I just was shook. I was like, 0:12:55.240 --> 0:12:58.920 now what that She literally like, we're just having a conversation. 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:01.679 She was like, yeah, you were just upstairs my husband 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:05.400 and I was like, oh this is this is yeah, 0:13:05.400 --> 0:13:07.760 I don't know not that he said now normally the 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:09.920 wife isn't okay with you. Well, and that white that 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:13.280 night ended up actually strapping me. I shared the story 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:18.160 on you. Oh and we met her in Jamaica. We well, 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:22.040 we went to Hedonism, we did. She was there. You 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:23.640 probably don't remember because you kept going to your room 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:27.360 because they didn't have room service, y'all. Weeley was in 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:30.520 the room behind in Jamaica. I want to go I 0:13:30.520 --> 0:13:32.840 think I'm gonna go again. You should, Yeah, I think 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:37.480 I want to go. I mean I really enjoy I realized. No, 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:39.520 I mean not only be a naked but like lifestyle 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:42.920 Like I really think it's like a part of me, 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.720 which might be why I don't see myself with anybody 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:48.760 right now because I'm so fucking trumpa. 0:13:48.800 --> 0:13:50.640 You saying that reminds me of when Vinnie and I 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:53.520 used to be ravers. This is a part of me, 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:56.040 like I used to say, a part of me, such. 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:59.000 A community and everybody thinks all you do is your drugs, 0:13:59.000 --> 0:14:01.160 but really you're just talking and loving each other. Well 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:04.160 you do both in sexual and lifestyle culture, but I 0:14:05.200 --> 0:14:09.400 like it. I think that, like I might start because 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:11.800 I've been going to a lot of like burlesque shows. 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:13.839 And stuff, so it's been doing that a lot too lately. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:17.520 I haven't had a ok I don't want to say 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:21.560 the bored boyfriend. I haven't had a consistent man that 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:24.600 I'm doing something with on the regular since old day, Okay, right, 0:14:24.720 --> 0:14:26.960 Like I'll go on dates, but they're not as frequent 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:29.200 or I'm fucking someone, but I'm just traveling so much. 0:14:29.520 --> 0:14:32.280 So this whole like thing of like, hey, let's look 0:14:32.360 --> 0:14:33.840 up things to do this weekend. I'm like, oh, I'm 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:37.800 this is like relationship shit, okay, And so I'm wondering 0:14:37.800 --> 0:14:40.280 if I should incorporate this into just like a part 0:14:40.320 --> 0:14:41.840 of like having fun together. 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:45.600 But what's very scary about that? Not saying like you're 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:50.560 making me scared, but obviously we've both dated two terrible 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:54.640 people and within sharing those stories together, and the sex 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:58.320 club is one of your elements, and threesomes was mine. 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:00.360 I like, really, oh, I don't think I would take 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.080 my partner like that would not be a thing I 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:05.640 do with my next partner. Yeah, Like I'm not gonna 0:15:05.680 --> 0:15:08.720 fucking there though, but I fucking there. But regardless, like 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.080 going to that space will not Oh yeah, I won't 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:11.720 do that, sainted. 0:15:12.320 --> 0:15:14.120 But like even last night, I started telling him a 0:15:14.120 --> 0:15:15.560 little bit about our old day and like how we 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:16.920 would have three somes all the time, and I'm like, 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:19.480 you know, he told me that like the reason he 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:22.280 cheated is because I basically opened the floodgates, and I 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:23.560 remember you heard the same thing. 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:29.000 No, he literally said I set a boundary and he 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:31.840 felt like he was boxed in with my boundary. Two 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:35.520 different things. Oh that Nigga literally wanted to go against 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:38.880 whatever I set forth for the for our relationship, Like 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.600 so to respond and say, oh, when you said it 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:43.680 was a place that was just ours and we could 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.400 do that, we could only go there together. I felt 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:48.440 like you boxed me in and I needed to get 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:50.960 out of the cage you put me in. That is 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:54.080 not the same thing. I literally set a boundary and 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:59.640 he said a boundary, Now what are those and decided 0:15:59.640 --> 0:16:03.360 to break my boundary. That's way different, Like there wasn't 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:06.120 a floodgate, because that's I think what even started happening 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:09.040 was because we were having so much sex with other women. 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:12.640 He started like feeling like he wasn't enough and that 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:14.600 he was trying to force me and allow me to 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:16.880 have sex with other men. I was like, I'm good, 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:21.480 I don't bro I should have Oh, I ain't gonna 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:25.920 hold you though thirteen breaks. During those breaks we wasn't together. 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:29.160 I had other dick in between. Don't get it fucked, No, 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:31.200 I mean like, but you know, I really want to 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:35.480 get my shit off? Did he want to watch? He 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:38.080 was very like when we did like group sex with couples, 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:39.880 Like I remember we went to the beach, I think 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:41.400 I shared this. We went to the beach and brought 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:44.880 like three couples back to my house. One of two 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:49.720 couples well no one couple had a unicorn, so that 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:51.640 was a couple of three, and then the other couple 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:55.680 was just two in the I know bro on the beach. 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:58.080 We all went out to eat after eight lopsa and 0:16:58.160 --> 0:17:01.040 pasta and then say, y'all want to come back to 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:04.840 Queen's bitchall put the galaxy lights all over the house. Bitch, 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:06.679 it was lit. We was fucking from the from the 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:11.040 terrace all through the living room, not not the kitchen, bathroom, 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:13.879 but then my room. And he was fucking one of 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:16.399 the girls outside on my brick wall, and shit, she 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:20.640 was crazy. Where was the cat under the bed that 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:24.879 Nigga was shook? That's what fucked us up too, bitch, 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:26.920 I'll be forgetting. I had to alert the black people 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:29.879 that I got a cat. So the guy from the 0:17:29.920 --> 0:17:33.640 second couple, bitch started sniffling that Nigga was allergic to cats. 0:17:33.640 --> 0:17:36.200 I said, oops, my bad. You have a name Hailer 0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:39.959 for people to No, bitch, I got their tech. Ohhailer, 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:42.480 that's what I need. If I walk into a cat house. 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:45.199 Bitchy'all went into an Airbnb once and I was like, like, 0:17:45.240 --> 0:17:48.919 when you're allergic, Oh no, you're allergic, you're allergic. He's fine. 0:17:49.480 --> 0:17:51.080 So there. 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:53.400 It's funny because I saw this comment on an episode 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:55.040 that I really liked doing with you. We were what 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:58.359 do we call it, something about neat other dick or whatever. 0:17:59.119 --> 0:18:01.280 One day when you're in here, Yeah, I'm thinking of 0:18:01.320 --> 0:18:05.000 him when you're mean and I'm thinking of something I 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:07.840 said where I was like, Mandy, you deserve sixty forty 0:18:07.880 --> 0:18:08.359 some days. 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:10.920 This girl's like I hate when weezy teases Mandy. 0:18:10.760 --> 0:18:12.399 I said, bitch, I'm not right a lot. How do 0:18:12.400 --> 0:18:13.800 you think we're gonna get the shit out of her? 0:18:14.280 --> 0:18:16.399 For this bitch to get up here and say fuck 0:18:16.440 --> 0:18:17.879 my ass like all puss it hold. 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:21.800 You have to dig, bitch, really dig deep? Really? Yes? 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:24.640 And might might I add where is the teasing when 0:18:24.680 --> 0:18:28.000 I'm willingly saying moments like this, when you're like, yeah, 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:29.880 you're fucking all over the house and yalty lights, I'm like, yep, 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:31.520 I went to a sex club to hang out. It 0:18:31.560 --> 0:18:34.480 was crazy, But I do I do that too. No, 0:18:34.600 --> 0:18:36.840 I'm I'm saying, like, you really are. This is another 0:18:36.880 --> 0:18:39.040 sixty to forty moment. I need to have you know 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.480 you do with all the menu you know you and 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:44.760 you ain't keep it us alive. While I've been celibrated 0:18:44.800 --> 0:18:47.680 with all these dates and men's and little dits, medium dicks, 0:18:47.680 --> 0:18:52.280 big dicks, no dicks, not goldiecocks. I'm trying to think 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:56.840 little big day. There's actually nothing. Okay, see you keep 0:18:56.880 --> 0:18:57.240 us alive. 0:18:57.480 --> 0:19:01.880 Oh I do a little. I am hosting an event 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:06.960 in Orlando and I invited scissors. 0:19:07.359 --> 0:19:09.679 Okay. 0:19:09.800 --> 0:19:12.800 This is so fucked up because it brings me back 0:19:12.840 --> 0:19:14.160 to the moment where you said I was wrong. 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:16.720 Yeah, because I always think of a chance, still think 0:19:16.760 --> 0:19:21.080 that she's a whole baby and a man. Okay, I'm 0:19:21.119 --> 0:19:25.680 not trying to like be her man. M hmm. Most 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:28.440