1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decision, guys. 2 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: We are coming to the sixth Toronto, baby, yeah, way, 3 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: what else is there to say for Toronto except that 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: we going to be there on November the fifth. Pun 5 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,159 Speaker 1: that is a Sunday, So again, just make sure you 6 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 1: get your rest over the weekend so that y'all can 7 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: go back to work on Monday. I'm trying to make 8 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 1: a little day, a little weekend of it, you know 9 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm trying to go to the Soundfa show. 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,879 Speaker 1: That way I can run into Drake and I'm and 11 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I have this podcast. Oh my god, yeah, 12 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: I know you've heard of it. Come to the show. 13 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: So Drake is not coming to the show. Let me 14 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: have my lives get love, and y'all should have it too. 15 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: Come and see how our lives get askedes. That's right, 16 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 1: So go to whore hive dot com make sure you 17 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: come and check us out. Again. That's November fifth, and 18 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: we are going to be at the Phoenix Concert Theater. 19 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 1: We cannot wait, y'all. We've only been to Toronto once 20 00:00:57,480 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: for horrible I think, so yeah, yeah, so this is 21 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: a deal for us. Come and see us on the 22 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 1: climax towards the final show. We can't wait to see you. Sorry, 23 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: I just wanted to say that because that was the 24 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: other thing that was very Canadian. Oh my god, and 25 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: we'll see you there. Boom bitches. Everybody, welcome to another episode. 26 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: Happy Halloween, happy all that things, Happy, happy slut day. 27 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 1: That's really what Halloween is for most of the people 28 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,320 Speaker 1: who listen to this podcast, you know, me and girls. 29 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 1: Even though they think they invented that idea, bitch, we 30 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: all already knew. Okay, what day, you know, because they 31 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 1: were like, Halloween is that one time a year in 32 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: girl world where you can dress a business slut, but 33 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: like an animal slut. Remember you don't remember when? Oh yeah, 34 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: and the mouse duh? Do you know what you want 35 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,399 Speaker 1: to be? I'm gonna be multiple things. I'm actually gonna 36 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: do this TAM Parties, so it ain't TAM Parties Halloween Night. Actually, 37 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: I am going to the Blue Note. They have Robert 38 00:01:55,800 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: Glasper with Common Fine and music, so child so really 39 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: excited for that. And I'm waiting to see if Lennys 40 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: and La La are still throwing their Halloween party of 41 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: first because I normally go to that. So I'm not 42 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: going to do that, but it's given us celebrity this year. 43 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: So I'm actually doing a photo shoot now. I'm doing 44 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: a photo shoot with uh, doing two different looks. So 45 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: I'm doing Peggy Bundy cute bitch y'all know why and 46 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:26,119 Speaker 1: Doja Cat from the damn what's the guy he's gonna 47 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: say bitch on a cow? No? No, no no from 48 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: the video where she's in the in the web. Oh 49 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: uh with Kofe. I can't think, but yes, yes, what's 50 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: it called street? I was thinking about going as a cow. 51 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:38,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to go as an a farming Okay, this 52 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 2: idea I have from my homeboys. So Andre was like, yo, 53 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: I want to like do a costume with all my friends. 54 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 2: And I was thinking, like mad and my friends are homegirls, 55 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,360 Speaker 2: so maybe I'll be hu After and their bunnies. 56 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: So I was like, yo, let's do the opposite. The 57 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: girls will all be Hugh Heffner and you wear a 58 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 1: bunny costume. 59 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,800 Speaker 2: That could be cool, right, like something like that, but 60 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 2: I want to be I want to just do farm animals, 61 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: but horror farm. I was penny Wise last year and 62 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 2: I did really crazy s effects makeup and I had 63 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 2: a fucking red bull. 64 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: If you need someone, I got it. But like really like, 65 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 1: oh I don't need no special effects, bitch, I said 66 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: Peggy Bundy. And don't you kid No, but you could 67 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,239 Speaker 1: be a dead one. It's fun. Why no, I ain't 68 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: putting that into the universe. I'd be rubbing him crystals 69 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: manifesting only good things. Now, m not my stay hope, 70 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: bitch talk about you could be a dead one. 71 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: I was I thinking, oh yeah, I'm gonna probably end 72 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 2: at the Lenning hell Ala party. I went to that 73 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 2: Heidi Kluone one last year and really it's just a 74 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: parade of really. 75 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: Like beautiful women, no elaborate because people are rich there. 76 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,839 Speaker 1: Also Elon Musto Win is like Superman or Batman or something. 77 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: I was like, you, what the fuck? You could have 78 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: did anything else? But so did did he? But did 79 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: like jo I was there. That was last year, right, 80 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: he did Joker. But that's what I'm saying. I don't 81 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: know if they're because they did their party in La. 82 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: I think last year the year before here it was 83 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: here at don't be saying where the leak that at? 84 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: Look at her just she loved just sharing the Hollywood 85 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: tea and I really in my breath just la. So 86 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, you know it's at the bitch bleep 87 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: that app that's like Housewives they be talking about, don't 88 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: they post it? They be bleeping. I don't know what 89 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: they be saying on Roney this season, but they was 90 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: bleeping out this restaurant the whole season. Okay, well, I 91 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: don't know they bleeped it out, but I know, but 92 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: the threads must be like, oh they're talking about because 93 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: she said I film on Roney and I know the 94 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: unedited version bit you could. I don't know it. Oh, 95 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: let me let me tell you why I said that. 96 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: You asked me some ninety Day Fiance tea. I'm gonna 97 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: know it. I also have a bone to pick real quick. 98 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 1: A lot of people that work for Discovery or TLC, 99 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: they've like written me and tried to give me like 100 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: INSI T because they know I love the show. Whoever 101 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: with the fuck listens to this goddamn show and didn't 102 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 1: invite me to the first ever live studio audience ninety 103 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: Day Fiance reunion. You deserve to get your YouTube taken 104 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,719 Speaker 1: from you, bitch. I've been giving this content out for 105 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:01,839 Speaker 1: a years and none of you all niggas thought to 106 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 1: invite me. It's not even like it would have cost 107 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 1: you shit. 108 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:06,159 Speaker 2: You could have snuck me in the back door, didn't 109 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 2: even need to because I'm sure they had a link. 110 00:05:08,240 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 2: I would have been here, bitch, if we had a show, 111 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 2: I'd have jumped off the stage just to sit there 112 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: and look at one of them fucking African niggas take 113 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 2: a white woman's money. I can't believe nobody invited me 114 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 2: to this shit. Did you imagine if Real Housewives had 115 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: a live studio they actually do? Oh, it's called what 116 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: Happens Live? 117 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 1: They all know. No, I'm talking about the reunion. Oh 118 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 1: hell no, bitch, that should be twelve hours. I don't 119 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 1: want to sit for that shit. Oh I do. Nah, 120 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: them niggas being there all day, the night breaks cuts. 121 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm telling you right now, you're gonna hit 122 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: me in the back with no neck ed you not 123 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: have you not having me nowhere for twelve hours for free, 124 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: Like unless I'm on a vacation, then I'll do even 125 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: the goddamn tour guides and shit I'll be doing. I 126 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: ain't doing f no twelve hours, So let me tell 127 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: you what I did last night, half half day. Last night. 128 00:05:56,920 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 2: Was a very New York we can't Okay, So dating 129 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 2: this guy, the dread Nigga, and we basically were talking 130 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 2: about how there was like some little bone we had 131 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 2: to pick with each other. So we're like, yo, we're 132 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: not gonna have sex tonight. 133 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: Let's just like enjoy each other. 134 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: Ok Let's just go on a date because like we 135 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,559 Speaker 2: just are very attracted to each other, and we're always 136 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: like rushing to fuck, and we never like talk about shit, okay, 137 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: And the problem with that is that it's hard to do. 138 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 2: I don't know what I was just about to say. 139 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 2: It's hard to not fuck somebody that you're already fucking. 140 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: So he's like, wherever we'll have a chill night. We 141 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 2: went to some comedy show that was trash in Brooklyn, 142 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 2: and we went to West Light, which is, by the way, 143 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 2: such a good like date night. I also think it's 144 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 2: probably a good you know what I'm talking about. It's 145 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 2: in the White Hotel, it's the rooftop bar. You've probably been, yeah, 146 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 2: but it's called west Night. But yeah, it's just great 147 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 2: views like great date night. 148 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: Shit. 149 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 2: Also, it's funny because we were there, He's like, you've 150 00:06:58,760 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 2: been here before. I was like, yeah, I think so, 151 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,239 Speaker 2: like really worth there or something, and he's like, okay, 152 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: I always get this and like the drinks he are 153 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 2: really good. 154 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,160 Speaker 1: Yeah here. 155 00:07:06,240 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 2: That's all I could think about because I'm just so 156 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 2: in my head about niggas being horse. 157 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: So go to Lover's Rock. Pretty much everybody listened to 158 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: horrible decisions. Is there? Okay? So that was the. 159 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 2: Dub, and then I said, let's just go to the 160 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 2: sex club to look okay and for some reason, really, 161 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 2: since you weren't fucking fucking yeah, I probably wouldn't have 162 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:32,720 Speaker 2: fucked anyway, but being there and for some reason, and 163 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 2: this is the funny thing about sex clubs, and I 164 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: wanted to talk about this with you because you go. 165 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 2: There were moments where him and I were just like 166 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 2: talking about life shit, and I forgot that people were like. 167 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: Fucking around you. Yeah. So like when I go with 168 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: my friends and it's like I'm not interested at all 169 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: in like playing, Like I took two of my homeboys 170 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: actually to the sex club the night. I ended up crying, 171 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: but we had a shit son of like life talks. 172 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: We were smoking and weed. I shroomed out that night, 173 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: Like we were hell to talking about everything that wasn't 174 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 1: sex while people were getting their dicks sucked right next 175 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: to us, Like and then he ran into one of 176 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: his homeboys there, which was also quite funny. But yeah, 177 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 1: like you go there, you could actually just have a 178 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: drink and walk around, meet people, talk Like in a 179 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: subw there's a huge Jenga board, so normally in the beginning, 180 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: like people are just smoking fucking weed and playing Jenga. 181 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 2: Okay, but coon you like talk about something for a second, 182 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 2: isn't it frowned upon to go to the sex club. 183 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 1: To hang out. No, I go all the time and 184 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: don't have sex, Like there's a lot of people that don't, 185 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: like they just go to watch. Like if we talk 186 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 1: about all the kinks, voyeurism is a kink, exhibition is 187 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: is a like being watched is another king. But you 188 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 1: going and just watching and viewing people is absolutely fine, 189 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: mind you, like when I go to Susia, but like 190 00:08:55,679 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: also table but you're saying it's fine. Let's be honest. Yeah, 191 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:05,839 Speaker 1: if someone never fucks and they go like, actually, I 192 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: don't think anyone goes there and never fucks, Like when 193 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: I go by myself or when I go with friends, 194 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,319 Speaker 1: I'm not fucking I've been to the sex club hell 195 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:14,640 Speaker 1: of times and have it fun. How many times do 196 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: you think you've been to a sex club? Mind you, 197 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 1: I don't know. If y'all remember the very first do 198 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 1: you like Starbucks? About that? Man? If I'm not gonna lie, 199 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: the very first sex club? I brought up night and 200 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 1: day from the type of experiences I have now. But 201 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: it was like, that's right. The caligular That was in 202 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 1: twenty seventeen. The don't caligular mean Greek? It means some bitch. 203 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: I don't speak other languages. Well, if you got the 204 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: Internet of it, it mean like, no, I think it's 205 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: a Greek word. It means like group sex or something. 206 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if something. Maybe I think it means 207 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: group sex, or I think it means like hedonism. Maybe. 208 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: Oh maybe that's it. Caligular meaning since you know you're 209 00:09:55,640 --> 00:10:00,560 Speaker 1: going a little slow. Oh wait, someone Julius was given 210 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: the nickname Caligular. That's what what the hell? Uh? Today 211 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: he is known for his cool behavior and possible insanity. 212 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 1: Well Jesus, okay, so Caligula is this nigga's nick name. 213 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: I did it? You said what his dick name? His nickname? 214 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: Now you say dick? I sort of got many, you know, 215 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:29,040 Speaker 1: Can I tell you I said nickname? Let me tell 216 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:32,599 Speaker 1: you what I thought? You said dick name? Did you 217 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:37,679 Speaker 1: say dick? Did? Did I say dick name? Now we 218 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: sound kind of I'm so what happened? Okay? 219 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 2: We had an episode a few weeks ago we were 220 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 2: talking about tooths and common whatever the name is the 221 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,640 Speaker 2: mummy that wanted his dick tos. I was like, Okay, 222 00:10:51,679 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 2: maybe this dude's dick had a name, and maybe that's 223 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 2: why everybody's using it in terms of saying no. 224 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: I don't know why. Oh so it actually means little 225 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: boots in Latin. You know what, I don't fuck it anyway. 226 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,080 Speaker 1: I went to say that sex club back in twenty seventeen. 227 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: But I mean, I shared here my entire three year relationship. 228 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: We went bi weekly, damn here, So y'all do the math, 229 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 1: not the day period. 230 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 2: So I think what's crazy is I started to like 231 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 2: understand it. So this dude every time I'm in New York, 232 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 2: I've spent every weekend with him, like at this okay, 233 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 2: and I'm like, you know it's starting to feel real. 234 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:35,640 Speaker 2: He not my man, He not gonna be my man 235 00:11:35,720 --> 00:11:38,320 Speaker 2: because I don't need a man, But it's feeling real. 236 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 1: Boyfriend. 237 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 2: Ye you know what I'm saying, loing, he's gonna watch 238 00:11:41,280 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 2: Nina for a day when we have a show. And 239 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's getting there. So literally we 240 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 2: were in that sex club. 241 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is so close to my house, Like, 242 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: let's just go on the way home. 243 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 2: And I was like, what if this became a thing 244 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 2: for me? And I was like, bro, if Mandy starts 245 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 2: crying more and I start going to sex clubs, I 246 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:00,199 Speaker 2: want the shift to go back. 247 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: But there's no shift. I cry and go to sex club. 248 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: Stop nigga. I'm saying, what if we swap? What if 249 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: I became that girl? 250 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 2: But the main thing about it that was like I 251 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 2: really don't I have an issue with public sex. I'm 252 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 2: sew in my head, see that's you, not me. I 253 00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 2: ain't go Hold what was your first time at a 254 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 2: sex club? Like I told you it was really weird. 255 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 1: I didn't. I knew I didn't want to have sex, 256 00:12:23,800 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 1: but this guy really wanted to eat eat me out 257 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: and thought and said I can make you come from 258 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: eating you out, And so I allowed him to eat 259 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: me out in front of like a group hell of 260 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: people watched him eat me out, and then I went 261 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: downstairs to the bar. Did you come? I remember? I 262 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: think it was enjoyable. I don't you know, I don't 263 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,040 Speaker 1: like his so I was like, huh, you know, it's cool. 264 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: Nigga was eating pussy. And then I remember going downstairs 265 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 1: and just talking to a lady at the bar and 266 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: she was like, yeah, that was my husband eating you 267 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: out upstairs. And I just was shook. I was like, 268 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: now what that She literally like, we're just having a conversation. 269 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, you were just upstairs my husband 270 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh this is this is yeah, 271 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: I don't know not that he said now normally the 272 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:09,920 Speaker 1: wife isn't okay with you. Well, and that white that 273 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: night ended up actually strapping me. I shared the story 274 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: on you. Oh and we met her in Jamaica. We well, 275 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 1: we went to Hedonism, we did. She was there. You 276 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: probably don't remember because you kept going to your room 277 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: because they didn't have room service, y'all. Weeley was in 278 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: the room behind in Jamaica. I want to go I 279 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: think I'm gonna go again. You should, Yeah, I think 280 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: I want to go. I mean I really enjoy I realized. No, 281 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: I mean not only be a naked but like lifestyle 282 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: Like I really think it's like a part of me, 283 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: which might be why I don't see myself with anybody 284 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 1: right now because I'm so fucking trumpa. 285 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 2: You saying that reminds me of when Vinnie and I 286 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 2: used to be ravers. This is a part of me, 287 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 2: like I used to say, a part of me, such. 288 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: A community and everybody thinks all you do is your drugs, 289 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: but really you're just talking and loving each other. Well 290 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: you do both in sexual and lifestyle culture, but I 291 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: like it. I think that, like I might start because 292 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 1: I've been going to a lot of like burlesque shows. 293 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 2: And stuff, so it's been doing that a lot too lately. 294 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 2: I haven't had a ok I don't want to say 295 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 2: the bored boyfriend. I haven't had a consistent man that 296 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: I'm doing something with on the regular since old day, Okay, right, 297 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 2: Like I'll go on dates, but they're not as frequent 298 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 2: or I'm fucking someone, but I'm just traveling so much. 299 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 2: So this whole like thing of like, hey, let's look 300 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 2: up things to do this weekend. I'm like, oh, I'm 301 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 2: this is like relationship shit, okay, And so I'm wondering 302 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 2: if I should incorporate this into just like a part 303 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 2: of like having fun together. 304 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: But what's very scary about that? Not saying like you're 305 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: making me scared, but obviously we've both dated two terrible 306 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: people and within sharing those stories together, and the sex 307 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: club is one of your elements, and threesomes was mine. 308 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 1: I like, really, oh, I don't think I would take 309 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: my partner like that would not be a thing I 310 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,640 Speaker 1: do with my next partner. Yeah, Like I'm not gonna 311 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: fucking there though, but I fucking there. But regardless, like 312 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: going to that space will not Oh yeah, I won't 313 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: do that, sainted. 314 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 2: But like even last night, I started telling him a 315 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: little bit about our old day and like how we 316 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 2: would have three somes all the time, and I'm like, 317 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 2: you know, he told me that like the reason he 318 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 2: cheated is because I basically opened the floodgates, and I 319 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 2: remember you heard the same thing. 320 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: No, he literally said I set a boundary and he 321 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 1: felt like he was boxed in with my boundary. Two 322 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: different things. Oh that Nigga literally wanted to go against 323 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: whatever I set forth for the for our relationship, Like 324 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 1: so to respond and say, oh, when you said it 325 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: was a place that was just ours and we could 326 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: do that, we could only go there together. I felt 327 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: like you boxed me in and I needed to get 328 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 1: out of the cage you put me in. That is 329 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: not the same thing. I literally set a boundary and 330 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: he said a boundary, Now what are those and decided 331 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: to break my boundary. That's way different, Like there wasn't 332 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: a floodgate, because that's I think what even started happening 333 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: was because we were having so much sex with other women. 334 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 1: He started like feeling like he wasn't enough and that 335 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: he was trying to force me and allow me to 336 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 1: have sex with other men. I was like, I'm good, 337 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: I don't bro I should have Oh, I ain't gonna 338 00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: hold you though thirteen breaks. During those breaks we wasn't together. 339 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,160 Speaker 1: I had other dick in between. Don't get it fucked, No, 340 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 1: I mean like, but you know, I really want to 341 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: get my shit off? Did he want to watch? He 342 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: was very like when we did like group sex with couples, 343 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: Like I remember we went to the beach, I think 344 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: I shared this. We went to the beach and brought 345 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 1: like three couples back to my house. One of two 346 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 1: couples well no one couple had a unicorn, so that 347 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: was a couple of three, and then the other couple 348 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 1: was just two in the I know bro on the beach. 349 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: We all went out to eat after eight lopsa and 350 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: pasta and then say, y'all want to come back to 351 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: Queen's bitchall put the galaxy lights all over the house. Bitch, 352 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:06,679 Speaker 1: it was lit. We was fucking from the from the 353 00:17:06,840 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 1: terrace all through the living room, not not the kitchen, bathroom, 354 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,879 Speaker 1: but then my room. And he was fucking one of 355 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:16,399 Speaker 1: the girls outside on my brick wall, and shit, she 356 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:20,640 Speaker 1: was crazy. Where was the cat under the bed that 357 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 1: Nigga was shook? That's what fucked us up too, bitch, 358 00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: I'll be forgetting. I had to alert the black people 359 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:29,879 Speaker 1: that I got a cat. So the guy from the 360 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 1: second couple, bitch started sniffling that Nigga was allergic to cats. 361 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:36,200 Speaker 1: I said, oops, my bad. You have a name Hailer 362 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,959 Speaker 1: for people to No, bitch, I got their tech. Ohhailer, 363 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,480 Speaker 1: that's what I need. If I walk into a cat house. 364 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:45,199 Speaker 1: Bitchy'all went into an Airbnb once and I was like, like, 365 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: when you're allergic, Oh no, you're allergic, you're allergic. He's fine. 366 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 1: So there. 367 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:53,400 Speaker 2: It's funny because I saw this comment on an episode 368 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 2: that I really liked doing with you. We were what 369 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 2: do we call it, something about neat other dick or whatever. 370 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 2: One day when you're in here, Yeah, I'm thinking of 371 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 2: him when you're mean and I'm thinking of something I 372 00:18:05,000 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 2: said where I was like, Mandy, you deserve sixty forty 373 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 2: some days. 374 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 1: This girl's like I hate when weezy teases Mandy. 375 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 2: I said, bitch, I'm not right a lot. How do 376 00:18:12,400 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 2: you think we're gonna get the shit out of her? 377 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 2: For this bitch to get up here and say fuck 378 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 2: my ass like all puss it hold. 379 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 1: You have to dig, bitch, really dig deep? Really? Yes? 380 00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 1: And might might I add where is the teasing when 381 00:18:24,680 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: I'm willingly saying moments like this, when you're like, yeah, 382 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,880 Speaker 1: you're fucking all over the house and yalty lights, I'm like, yep, 383 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: I went to a sex club to hang out. It 384 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: was crazy, But I do I do that too. No, 385 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:36,840 Speaker 1: I'm I'm saying, like, you really are. This is another 386 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: sixty to forty moment. I need to have you know 387 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: you do with all the menu you know you and 388 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:44,760 Speaker 1: you ain't keep it us alive. While I've been celibrated 389 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: with all these dates and men's and little dits, medium dicks, 390 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: big dicks, no dicks, not goldiecocks. I'm trying to think 391 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: little big day. There's actually nothing. Okay, see you keep 392 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 1: us alive. 393 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:01,880 Speaker 2: Oh I do a little. I am hosting an event 394 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:06,960 Speaker 2: in Orlando and I invited scissors. 395 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:09,679 Speaker 1: Okay. 396 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 2: This is so fucked up because it brings me back 397 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 2: to the moment where you said I was wrong. 398 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I always think of a chance, still think 399 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: that she's a whole baby and a man. Okay, I'm 400 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: not trying to like be her man. M hmm. Most 401 00:19:25,720 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 1: side niggas aren't. Okay, here's the thing in my brain. 402 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: So like we definitely have a friendship, like we be 403 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 2: KEI King on the phone. Like mind you most relationships, 404 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,960 Speaker 2: if you have a good one, you're you got a friendship. 405 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 1: Right, but that is fine, but you want to know no, wait, 406 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 1: let me fit it off. 407 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:44,840 Speaker 2: The thing, So inviting her really was this friendship moment, 408 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 2: but for some reason, every time I see her, bro 409 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,399 Speaker 2: I get really nervous. I'm like trying to do my 410 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 2: makeup right. I'm like really like I don't know what 411 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 2: I'm thinking about. And then when I'm in front of her, 412 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:56,679 Speaker 2: I can't even be normal and the phone I can. 413 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 2: When I'm in front of her, I can't even be 414 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 2: normal because I start thinking like but I can't even 415 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 2: say it makes me sound crazy. 416 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 1: Well, what is your question? What would you like to ask? 417 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 1: Since you know we'll be answering questions on AMP too, 418 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: what is your question? Okay, let me explain it, and 419 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: then I know my question. 420 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 2: Okay, even though I know when I'm on the phone 421 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 2: with her, I'm like totally chill. When I see her 422 00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 2: in person, I literally start thinking shit like okay, well, 423 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 2: like if they broke up, like the baby could live 424 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 2: in LA because that's a lot easier for them, Like 425 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 2: she has family that lives in LA and I can 426 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 2: take care of her. My mom is there now, Like 427 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,879 Speaker 2: my brain goes there. I think about how I'd be 428 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 2: with this person, even though on a daily basis, I'm 429 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: not like obsessing over that. Do you think it's unhealthy 430 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 2: for me to keep a friendship with someone that I 431 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,680 Speaker 2: used to date that I think like that about. 432 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: You being a friend, I think it's unhealthy but also 433 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 1: unfair to her partner. So because you guys had that 434 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: relationship ongoing, I know there's a friendship, but there's also 435 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 1: a romantic element to that relationship. Not right now, no no, 436 00:20:56,240 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 1: no, no oh, but there was, and you thinking about where 437 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:01,840 Speaker 1: her baby gonna live if and when they break up. Ever, 438 00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: it's like that's so that's the romanticizing of her that 439 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,639 Speaker 1: is still there. Even if you're not having sex, you 440 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:09,959 Speaker 1: could be romantic with someone, could be a romantic partner 441 00:21:10,320 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: that with you that you don't have sex with currently, 442 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,600 Speaker 1: that's still a romantic partner. And that's what she is, 443 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: even though you want to keep throwing this friend word around. 444 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 1: That's a romantic partner that happens to also be your friend. 445 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 2: I don't know how to get out of the brain 446 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 2: of like taking care of her and doing things and 447 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:25,919 Speaker 2: like I just don't know. 448 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 1: And so it's unhealthy and again unfair to her partner, 449 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: her current partner. It's not like over here like I 450 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,360 Speaker 1: want and like this is the other weird thing. I'm 451 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: not gonna hold you if I was her partner, she 452 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to come around you. Okay, fair, But like, 453 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:45,439 Speaker 1: here's the thing, I genuinely like I want her to 454 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: have all the things she wants. I want to see 455 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: her be happy, get married, Like, I really want her 456 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,639 Speaker 1: to be happy, But I want her to live with 457 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: you and take care of baby. It's weird. 458 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 2: I think I just fantasized about it when I'm around 459 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,199 Speaker 2: her because I'm like, wow, this was really good, and 460 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 2: I don't do that a lot of access. I might 461 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 2: have a moment where like I want that dick Agan, 462 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 2: but like not like that. But I'm I'm really being serious. 463 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 2: I don't want them to break up. I really want 464 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:11,359 Speaker 2: her happy. Like ending up with forever with the person 465 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 2: you have kids with is a dream for some and like, 466 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 2: I think that that'd be great to see. But yeah, 467 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,199 Speaker 2: maybe how do I snap out of it when I 468 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:21,120 Speaker 2: get a partner? 469 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:22,960 Speaker 1: No, because I still did it with old Bay. See, 470 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,399 Speaker 1: she just might be the one that got away that 471 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 1: I'll always be like that about, right, Yeah, that's a 472 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 1: good way to look at it. Do you have one? Like? 473 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: Hell now, I was just thinking all them, girmy and 474 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 1: as we still talk to this day. Okay, he'll talk 475 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 1: to this day. No, Oh, I don't think I would. 476 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 1: I don't think, which is crazy. He still has no kids. 477 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,199 Speaker 1: I still think he's very, very attractive. It's weird because 478 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 1: I wonder. No, he's very attractive listen with a big 479 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: old dick, so to me. So, but I wonder now, 480 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: because we were fucking when I was like nineteen to 481 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: twenty two, how old was he? Oh, then he's ten 482 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: or eleven years older than me. Okay, so he was 483 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: in his thirties. I still don't. I'm sure it's still good. 484 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: But he was amazing from my nineteen to twenty two. 485 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 1: I wonder if I fuck him now, if it would 486 00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,120 Speaker 1: even be good because I had so much more good dick, 487 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 1: and I'm more kink bitch, bitch. I ain't. Brittany lied, 488 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 1: and Brittany is lie. I want you to do that. 489 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that well, especially because I didn't even realize. 490 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: In that interview with Shanna Sharp, she later talks about 491 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 1: how she got a yease infection because she fucked three 492 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: guys within twenty four hours. How you fucking three guys 493 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,359 Speaker 1: within twenty four hours and it stops? 494 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 2: Let me tell you some miss I think, oh, well, no, 495 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 2: you ain't sink you really really are amazing to be 496 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,640 Speaker 2: Brittany because I want Brittany on here bitch me too, 497 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 2: But I would never ask her in the body count questions. 498 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. But that don't have bring up the fact that, like, girl, 499 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold y'all, do not hop on amp 500 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 1: talking about Oh my god, I want to I'm trying 501 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 1: to keep my body count low. So what do I do? 502 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: Because bitch, I'm gonna actually tell you to go fuck 503 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:10,199 Speaker 1: your cousin or something, and I'm gonna say something trifling 504 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 1: because stupid questions get scoop And as anyways, I want 505 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 1: to do vanillaship before we get into these questions. And 506 00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,160 Speaker 1: as y'all know, Halloween is the best time to explore 507 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 1: your erotic alter ego in the bedroom. Which is also 508 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: crazy because they mentioned me and girls in this article 509 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: as kids. Of course we loved Halloween for you know, 510 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 1: Jose real quick, do you remember your favorite childhood Halloween costume? Yes? 511 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: What was it? 512 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 2: Ballerina? I posted it the other day. Really okay, actually 513 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 2: I could go for that again. But I was thinking 514 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:48,160 Speaker 2: about it and I was like, I feel like, how 515 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 2: could I go ballerina. 516 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: Hope it's already a leotard. I need more out, Yeah, 517 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: I mean you're asking me out. We were really no money. 518 00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,240 Speaker 1: My mama wasn't buying three cops asumes following, so we 519 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,239 Speaker 1: used to just make we used to make them up. 520 00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 1: I'll never forget. And this is damn my white side. 521 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: I just had a very long, straight brown like number 522 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:17,679 Speaker 1: four wig no I did. I was Shania Twain. I 523 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 1: think being a celebrity or remaking like artists and music 524 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 1: videos was the cheapest thing to do. So I just 525 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: put on some like ripped jeans. I think I had 526 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: like some cowgirl boots. One I was able to wear 527 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: like a vest top. And I was I don't know it, 528 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 1: no mode not now, I don't know about there we go. 529 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 1: That's probably what's another one though, showing skirts. Okay, we 530 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 1: really don't know shit. Wait wait, wait that time he 531 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 1: started singing these gospel records, I'd be knowing a little bit, 532 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: but I'll just be humming one of these fuckings, all right, 533 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 1: one of these thiggas I was fucking with. He was like, 534 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: I bet you'd be listening to white shit. I was like, like, 535 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: who we like? Like SHANEA. Twain, not Shanna Twain. That's crazy. 536 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: Hold on any man of mine. I don't know. I 537 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 1: don't know none of the record, but my mama used 538 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 1: to like some Shania Twain. Girl don't play, don't play, 539 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,680 Speaker 1: don't play. That's that's how Bobby got the Drake interf 540 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 1: be taken down. Girl, don't play no goddamn music. Hey, 541 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 1: I'll sticking her listen. Yeah, I did want to ask 542 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 1: you that, speaking of alter egos, I did want to 543 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: know what kind of like, let's say, three costumes, do 544 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,480 Speaker 1: you think a woman could go into the bedroom on 545 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 1: Halloween and really kink up? 546 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,359 Speaker 2: Okay, So y'all are gonna laugh at this, Oh Jesus. 547 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,680 Speaker 2: And it seems very basic. I feel like when you 548 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 2: listen to a podcast and they give you advice and 549 00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:48,520 Speaker 2: they say something, it just seems basic. 550 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: But doing it is a whole nother thing. 551 00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:56,879 Speaker 2: Nigga, That doctor nurse shit okay, is fucking so cliche 552 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 2: that it's actually cute. 553 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,000 Speaker 1: Nah Yah, y'all, y'all gotta give that process. 554 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 2: I hope he ain't mad that I told this, but 555 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 2: I have a friend that went on a date and 556 00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 2: he told me that him and Jack played strip operation. 557 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: What strip operation? 558 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:15,400 Speaker 2: Basically they're playing operation. If you hit something, you gotta 559 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 2: take a piece of clothes off. Oh that's cute, and 560 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:18,679 Speaker 2: so it just made me think of that. 561 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 1: But he was like, yo, He's like, I just had 562 00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: so much fun with her, Like we were just having 563 00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 1: mad fucking fun, and like, I feel like that could 564 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: be really funny and cute, and like you know what 565 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 1: I mean, Now, that's. 566 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 2: Cute just playing games together and doing shit like that. 567 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:33,400 Speaker 2: But I feel like Nurse obviously made. 568 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 1: Okay. I would say for people like wanting to and 569 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,560 Speaker 1: then have a I was literally gonna go there if 570 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,800 Speaker 1: you don't know how to introduce certain kinks or things 571 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,919 Speaker 1: to the bedroom, dressing up as a dom and making 572 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: him dress up even in just like the garter or 573 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 1: something like real dungeon, Like, I think that'll allow you 574 00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: to experience things just so much more kinky and fun 575 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,359 Speaker 1: because you'll get more into character. So getting latex gloves 576 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: or getting like a super sexy leather outfit with garter 577 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:11,359 Speaker 1: belts and fishnets and all of those things. Dressing up 578 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: like a real dom, I think that's a really good 579 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 1: idea because the like the outfit that you could wear 580 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: as a dom low key you could wear on a 581 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: fucking date night and like literally take the bottoms off. 582 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 2: So I'm gonna show you this picture. I say, so 583 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 2: last night I was wearing like a really big dress 584 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:35,160 Speaker 2: and it was kind of boxy, like you couldn't really 585 00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,159 Speaker 2: see my body. So I sent him this photo of 586 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: me and I was like, just so you know what 587 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 2: I'm wearing underneath. 588 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: That's cute. 589 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 2: So I'm wearing is my pussy out now. I don't 590 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 2: know if you guys can see this, but anyway, I'm 591 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 2: wearing lingerine with a garter belt and shit. And I 592 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,239 Speaker 2: was like, oh, just like knowing what's under So I 593 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 2: think if you want to do some role play like that, 594 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,720 Speaker 2: maybe wear a low body suit and know that you 595 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 2: know once it's once you're home, it's own. 596 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, wearing slutty clothes to fuck out is act like 597 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: super fun. I'm not mad at it. Have you ever 598 00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:02,760 Speaker 1: done that? 599 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 2: We're like a really nasty outfit because you knew like 600 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: somebody's own. I mean, I wear whatever fuck I want 601 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 2: when it's sluded, if it's slutty and it's none. 602 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: If it's not, I have someone, but I don't want 603 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: it like intentionally because I knew I was getting digged. 604 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 1: Like if I wanted to dress like a slut that day, 605 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 1: I just did. 606 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,200 Speaker 2: I had a story someone told me about some role 607 00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 2: play they acted out, and I saw that shit sounded 608 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 2: mad hot. He said that this girl really wanted to 609 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 2: be like a street walker, like wanted him to like 610 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 2: pick her up and pay for pussy. 611 00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: So she dressed fucking crazy. 612 00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 2: Said, I dropped her off on the corner and like 613 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 2: drove around and picked her back up, and like she 614 00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:37,320 Speaker 2: leaned around the fucking window and was like telling him 615 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 2: how much money it was, blah blah blah. And yeah, 616 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: He's like she sucked my dick in the car and 617 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 2: like I've had her, but he was already like it 618 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:44,560 Speaker 2: was just wow, that's hot. 619 00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 1: No, I've actually had transactional sex for money, so I wouldn't. 620 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean I have no but yeah, 621 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever wanted to be a street 622 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: walker though, like them hills, bitch, when I have to 623 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: walk three minutes the New York where heels, I'll be mad, witch. 624 00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: I know, lie, that'd be hot to get picked up 625 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 2: on the side it around, Okay, Like listen, I've made 626 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 2: money from sex, but. 627 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: Oh god, this just triggered me. This conversation. Bitch. I 628 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 1: went to a dinner with this model bitch. 629 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 2: I don't know her, that's what I'm calling her, model 630 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 2: bitch in La, and someone that was at our show 631 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 2: was talking about where it was this show and I 632 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:23,479 Speaker 2: made a joke about She was like, Oh, how much 633 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 2: do you sell the tickets for? And she was like, 634 00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:26,680 Speaker 2: can you believe all these people are paying? I was like, bro, 635 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,640 Speaker 2: as someone that sold the pussy before, No, it's crazy. 636 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:33,239 Speaker 2: And so the girl's like, what do you mean? And 637 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, like I've are you living, La? 638 00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 2: And so she just like kind of did this space 639 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 2: And I was like, didn't you just talk about an 640 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:44,160 Speaker 2: apartment that a guy got you? And she's like yeah, 641 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 2: but like he didn't pay me for sex. I said, 642 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 2: you literally said that he's so old that you don't 643 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 2: want to go out with him in public. So what's 644 00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 2: he doing? Exactly, bitch? 645 00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 1: And that's the hierarchy host shit dog like and this 646 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 1: whole dinner did She got mad cause I called her out. 647 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 1: So then we go to the next spot. I was like, like, 648 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:04,560 Speaker 1: are you like you're feeling a way. I was like, 649 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to make you feel bad about what you did. 650 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 1: I said, I'm telling you as someone that's been on 651 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: the other end of the seat. I realized, like I was, Hella, 652 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: judge you about like some shit when I've done it too. 653 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 1: And she said to my face, manby no, no, no, 654 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,480 Speaker 1: I get what you're saying. I'm saying that what I've 655 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 1: been doing with this man is not correlated in any 656 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 1: way to selling my body. That's fine. It's called delululamb 657 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 1: that's where most of these bitches live. Okay, girl, they're 658 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 1: in Delulu. Well, let's go ahead and get to some homemail. 659 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:40,600 Speaker 1: Deplorable decisions, baby, and not the Donald Trump deplorable bitch. 660 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,440 Speaker 1: The decisions? What the only way he said? He called 661 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: them deplorable? Oh is that what he did? Oh? 662 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were taking a new meeting to that bitch. 663 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,600 Speaker 2: That's right, deplorable decisions. 664 00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 1: And what's gonna be funny about the name of this 665 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 1: is there's gonna be so many moments where you and 666 00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: I are gonna be talking about it and we might 667 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: be lit or something like welcome to Deplora heart. I 668 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 1: don't know, bitch, where are give a deportation, bitch, I 669 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what's the D word, dick hoe, 670 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 1: dick in your mouth. But no, we're gonna go ahead 671 00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 1: and answer some of these whole mail questions. And again 672 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 1: we've been getting so many. I love that we're gonna 673 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 1: be able to do this because it's been a while. 674 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 1: I don't think we've gotten too many home mails recently. 675 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: So I chose some short ones. This first one to 676 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 1: love or to ho ooh cute now, baby, I I 677 00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,959 Speaker 1: already know what the answer gonna be, but we'll see. 678 00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: We got an email Anna and a non ho here, 679 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 1: so you already know what Mitch I'm not. I'm show. 680 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 1: First off, hey, ladies, I love you guys. I listen 681 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 1: to you guys all the time, and y'all are my 682 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 1: spirit animals. Okay, So here's t I've been with my 683 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: partner since I was seventeen, and i'll be thirty next year, 684 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 1: twelve years later, in two kids, and I'm at a crossroads. 685 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: On one hand, I love him and he's my best friend. 686 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 1: A lot of my first I experienced with him, oral 687 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: polly trips, et cetera. On another hand, I feel like 688 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,440 Speaker 1: i've been hide down for so long that I want 689 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 1: to experience other men. Whenever I bring it up, a 690 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: conversation happens, but it goes nowhere. I craved a single 691 00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,640 Speaker 1: life and voice it often, but I just cannot let 692 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:16,640 Speaker 1: this relationship go. We've talked about marriage, was even engaged once, 693 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 1: but it never but it never happened. Are my feelings 694 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: valid for wanting to see what else is out there 695 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,800 Speaker 1: for me? Or do I just suck it up and 696 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:31,840 Speaker 1: continue being good married? As he calls it, go easy 697 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 1: on me. I'm an artist and I'm sensitive about my 698 00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: ish love You ladies signed to hoe or to love? What? Girl? 699 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: You know what? I go ahead? You want me to 700 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 1: go first, Okay, So I'm not gonna lie. Dating right 701 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: now sucks. So if you have a man that you 702 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: have been able to openly experience things, it's weird because 703 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: you did mention that y'all were able to try poly relationships, 704 00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: So I would actually want you to revisit that because 705 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,080 Speaker 1: it sounds like maybe it was clearly one sided if 706 00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: you haven't been able to experience anything with any other men, 707 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 1: or I don't know if poly relationships were limited to 708 00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 1: you only being with other women, But I would say 709 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: want to do. I would say, you could do what 710 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:21,280 Speaker 1: it seems like most people do nowadays and take a break. 711 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:25,760 Speaker 1: Because I don't condone cheating, so I'm gonna say, maybe 712 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,880 Speaker 1: you can take a break to try to learn yourself 713 00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 1: and with you Well, no, well, just take a break, 714 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,759 Speaker 1: I would say, take a break. Clearly, maybe that's what 715 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,720 Speaker 1: this nigga he was cheating on me, but he also 716 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: maybe went on all them thirteen breaks with me so 717 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 1: he could go fuck some other bitches without feeling super guilty. 718 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I would say take a break. Say, listen, 719 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,919 Speaker 1: we've been together for twelve years. I feel like we've 720 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 1: you know, changed quite a bit in the last twelve years, 721 00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,280 Speaker 1: and I kind of want to explore more into my thirties, 722 00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,200 Speaker 1: Like let me explore the year of thirty by myself. 723 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:04,080 Speaker 1: Like that's that's what I would say. Like eight again, 724 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 1: first one would be revisiting poly relationships and talking him 725 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,399 Speaker 1: through allowing you to see other men, or be going 726 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 1: on a break that would and come back to the relationship. 727 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 2: I have a little bit of an issue with men 728 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 2: that put this title of polyamory on the way that 729 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 2: they want to live their lives. 730 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 1: Well polygamy is that way. No, no, no, polyamory a polyamory, 731 00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,080 Speaker 1: yet you just said poly I don't know which which 732 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:33,960 Speaker 1: poly bitch, they're not in Utah, it's a polygamy. You're right, 733 00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,320 Speaker 1: you're right. So basically, I really feel like the modern. 734 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 2: Day man is just hearing about the way that people 735 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,399 Speaker 2: are able to have these flexible relationships and how open 736 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 2: relationships are more acceptable. And they're really only more acceptable 737 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 2: because dating is so bad nowadays because of all the 738 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,400 Speaker 2: instant gratification of being online, and so therefore bitches are 739 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,760 Speaker 2: taking whatever they can get, and it just so happens 740 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 2: that men say polyamory to give a better title to 741 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,839 Speaker 2: them wanting to sleep with everyone. So I literally was thinking, though, 742 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 2: for real, I think that men are just kind of 743 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,600 Speaker 2: using that as a way to make you feel a 744 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 2: little bit better about the fact that they're gonna fuck 745 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 2: other people, because for some reason, we think that if 746 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:19,120 Speaker 2: we have some kind of identification to our bullshit, like 747 00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 2: a true polyamorous person is a lot more communicative, selfless, 748 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 2: like they're just when they're that yes, when they're honest. 749 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:28,360 Speaker 1: Yes. 750 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:34,279 Speaker 2: So basically, like what I'm thinking is, you have two options, right, 751 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 2: You can either really do polyamory with someone that is 752 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 2: polyamorous and feel it the whole way through. Because one 753 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 2: nigga being polyamorous and doing whatever he want to do, 754 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:47,920 Speaker 2: but saying that you can only fuck women, you could 755 00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:49,800 Speaker 2: only fuck people with a pussy, you could only do 756 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 2: it when he's there. 757 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: That isn't it? 758 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 2: So No, The second option is you can choose to 759 00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 2: walk away if the things that you wanted to reallyationship 760 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 2: are not happening with that person. That's so much harder, Yes, 761 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,879 Speaker 2: it is so much harder. But here's the thing we 762 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 2: need to stop focusing on, I will. I want this person, 763 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 2: so I will. Uh what's the word compromise? Compromise yep, 764 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:17,840 Speaker 2: when in reality we shouldn't be compromising the relationship that 765 00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 2: we want. 766 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, you know. 767 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 2: So I go in there with someone that has the 768 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 2: same dating goals as you that and even if the 769 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 2: same well that's the thing being together with someone for 770 00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 2: twelve years. 771 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: They probably did go in with the same dating goals 772 00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 1: twelve years ago, and now over time it's changed. Like 773 00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,600 Speaker 1: that's the thing too. We have to know that people 774 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 1: change in time. Twelve years is really tough. So to 775 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: walk away from a relationship that probably did give you 776 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,080 Speaker 1: everything you wanted, but now your mind and growth is 777 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 1: onely listening to horrible decisions makes you want to experience 778 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:55,560 Speaker 1: things differently or with other people. That's where you have 779 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:56,799 Speaker 1: to go into that conversation. 780 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 2: Okay, well, I mean, granted, what I was saying was 781 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,399 Speaker 2: definitely speaking to someone in a newer sense. But even 782 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,560 Speaker 2: now that you're saying again, I forgot it was twelve years. 783 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,600 Speaker 2: I don't want to twelve years. I feel like I 784 00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 2: might be with you the rest of my life. But honestly, 785 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,319 Speaker 2: if those things change, yeah, and we're our relationship goals 786 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:12,960 Speaker 2: are not looking the same for real, Like if the 787 00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,319 Speaker 2: dating goals relationship goes like how could I see it? 788 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:17,839 Speaker 2: I have a friend, I mean we're not close close, 789 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 2: but she's been with her partner for like ten years 790 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,279 Speaker 2: and she's like, Yo, we've been traveling a lot and 791 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 2: he realized he wants to move to Lisbon. There's a 792 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 2: big black X back community there. Whatever I just said 793 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 2: big black anyway, So she said, yo. 794 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 1: I'm not ready to do. 795 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 2: Its gonna hurt, but we got a break up and honestly, 796 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 2: he's a musician, and she's like, I know how badly. 797 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,280 Speaker 2: He needs this for his life. He wants to explore. 798 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 2: You know, he's an entrepreneur. He's kind of not retired, 799 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 2: but like his business running himself. She was like, he 800 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 2: wants to live that life. And she's like, we've been 801 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 2: traveling for years and when they go, they go for 802 00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:54,920 Speaker 2: months at a time. She was like, and now I 803 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 2: see it, Like I imagine if old Bay told me 804 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 2: I want to live in tou Loom forever, what the 805 00:38:58,840 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 2: fuck would I've done? 806 00:38:59,680 --> 00:38:59,879 Speaker 1: Right? 807 00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:01,920 Speaker 2: So she's like, you know, our life goals are just 808 00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 2: not in Aliven anymore. And after ten years, you kind of, hey. 809 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:07,320 Speaker 1: Listen, that's what happens if I go back ten years 810 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 1: from like back at twenty two, my life was completely. 811 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,520 Speaker 2: Different and they're in their forties, so like, you're absolutely 812 00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,400 Speaker 2: able to change. So, I mean, and it's not a 813 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 2: bad thing ten years. If I had a great relationship 814 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,359 Speaker 2: for ten years, actually wouldn't be mad at that. Yeah, 815 00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 2: I've been with a fuck nigga for three and a half. 816 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:26,440 Speaker 1: All right. So this next one comes from another lovely 817 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,040 Speaker 1: lady who says I don't want to be a cheater. 818 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 1: This is clearly a pattern here. Hey, my name is 819 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 1: Ashley bitch. I ainte telling people your name. I'm a 820 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,960 Speaker 1: twenty six year old female and I'm in my first relationship. 821 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:46,560 Speaker 1: We've been together for eight months. He is a gentleman, smart, 822 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,400 Speaker 1: respects me, and he's not like these other dudes that 823 00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:53,480 Speaker 1: I've had situationships with who just wants to fuck. Here's 824 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:59,280 Speaker 1: my dilemma. During these eight months, we haven't had penetrative sex. 825 00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 1: We've literally done everything else. It's been a year and 826 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,440 Speaker 1: a half since the last time I've had sex in 827 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,879 Speaker 1: two years for him. Also, I have a high sex drive, 828 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 1: and I would say I'm more advanced than he is. 829 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,640 Speaker 1: He says it's because he doesn't want to bus quick, 830 00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:18,160 Speaker 1: it's not his main priority for our relationship, or he 831 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 1: doesn't want a pregnancy scare. She said. We're a kind 832 00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: of damn Recently, a guy I went to high school 833 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: with DMed me on Instagram trying to get at me. 834 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 1: I told him I have a boyfriend. He respected that 835 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 1: and we left it at that. I ended up messaging 836 00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: him back, however, and we talked about meeting up, going 837 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,879 Speaker 1: on a date and getting a room after. I want 838 00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:40,520 Speaker 1: to so bad, but my boyfriend is not meeting my 839 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: sexual desires. Slash needs like I feel he should. I 840 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 1: don't want to fuck up a good thing? What do 841 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 1: I do? I don't want to be a cheater. All 842 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:54,840 Speaker 1: they're cute. It's been a picture, a picture. Oh I 843 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 1: fuck him? Oh sorry, Well he ain't fucking right now? 844 00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: So wait, why is he not fucking again? He's I 845 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: assuming he's celibate because uh he she said that. 846 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:07,799 Speaker 2: He said that he has not had sex in two years. 847 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 2: Why is this always happening to dudes that I want 848 00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 2: to fuck? Not try to say I want to fuck 849 00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:12,440 Speaker 2: your man? 850 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 1: I do, but but basically, like, seriously, this is some 851 00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:18,399 Speaker 1: of these ship It's an epidemic. Don't do that while 852 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:22,239 Speaker 1: you're sitting next to a celibate queen. Bro, you're abstinate 853 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 1: what it is? Celibacy? Like, No, that shit is real. 854 00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,680 Speaker 1: It is real. Like if you had a hot guy 855 00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:29,560 Speaker 1: right now that you were into that was treating you right, 856 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,400 Speaker 1: I'd say, he's hot, all my nigga's hot, bitch, fu 857 00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 1: out you Okay, that was treating you right, that was 858 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,239 Speaker 1: doing the things you wanted to do. He fucking Nope, 859 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:39,319 Speaker 1: now right now, not unless we're talking long. He said 860 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 1: this whole thing in San Francisco and got hid. That's 861 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,680 Speaker 1: just head. I don't even like it. That's because he 862 00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:49,959 Speaker 1: wanted to do it. I want penetration and I held out. 863 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 1: I'm just saying Wolf's head, we're not gonna do this. 864 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 1: Head is not bro. It was just head dog if 865 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:59,040 Speaker 1: you okay, no, everybody vote because we're not doing this 866 00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 1: voting because guess what in this sense, I's a trip 867 00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,360 Speaker 1: to the Lulu lamb bitch. It's my life, my reality, 868 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 1: not yours. Fuck out of you. Shit. Okay, so what 869 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: would you do to this person? I'm not gonna lie, ma'am. 870 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,680 Speaker 1: You already cheated when you replied back to the DM 871 00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 1: and set up a date, planning to get a room 872 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 1: after and all that shit. Y'all you're already a cheating Yeah. 873 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,040 Speaker 1: By the time she hears the shoe I fucked him, 874 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,920 Speaker 1: you're already a cheater. Here's the thing, too, Right, if 875 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:29,560 Speaker 1: you want a sexual relationship within your relationship, which of 876 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: course makes sense, you're with a person. Of course, this 877 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:33,799 Speaker 1: is the person you want to have sex with. I 878 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 1: think what we kind of I just want to say 879 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,400 Speaker 1: the word discombobulate. That ain't the word, but what we uh, 880 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 1: I don't know the word I'm trying to say, But 881 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:48,640 Speaker 1: there are times where you can really like hanging with someone. 882 00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:51,080 Speaker 1: Everything that she said she liked about him sounded like 883 00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:53,799 Speaker 1: he would make a really good friend. You like to 884 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: hang out, He respects you, he's a good guy. It 885 00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,480 Speaker 1: is okay to not be in a relationship with someone 886 00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 1: that treats you well. A lot of women mistake a 887 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 1: man treating them well as oh my god, I want 888 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:07,000 Speaker 1: to be with him so bad, when really he's just 889 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:09,720 Speaker 1: a kind man that would probably make for a better 890 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,799 Speaker 1: friend than a romantic partner. And I feel here, if 891 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: you're not having your sexual desires met, be a friend 892 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,640 Speaker 1: with this man, But maybe being in a relationship a 893 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 1: romantic one, especially with no romance, doesn't make sense. 894 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,440 Speaker 2: But that's not true. My celibate guy was super romantic. 895 00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 2: There was a lot of intimacy, and you went to 896 00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 2: another nigga get you wasn't get in sex. That's true, 897 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 2: but she wasn't my man. 898 00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 1: Secondly, or maybe it's third, I'm still hung over the 899 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 1: heavy petting and I can't even believe I'm saying this, 900 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,840 Speaker 1: but like there was like a lot of ways where 901 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,399 Speaker 1: like he tried to honor his celibacy and like still 902 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,960 Speaker 1: make me feel you know you were coming in here 903 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 1: screaming at the camera. They've been together eight months, y'all 904 00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:53,360 Speaker 1: were talking for six months at two more months on 905 00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,600 Speaker 1: does she have a sex podcast? No? Wow, my fucking 906 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,279 Speaker 1: I have to get up here and talk about dick 907 00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:03,960 Speaker 1: that I'm not getting I had sex in five months? What? 908 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,000 Speaker 1: But I do the math. My math is different, but 909 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,880 Speaker 1: it feels it's a long time. I don't had four periods, 910 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,920 Speaker 1: so it's for months. That's how I'm counting. Even if 911 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 1: one of them came like real quick, are you sure? Yeah, yeah, 912 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 1: don't tell you. Are you done? It's called Brittie runner math. 913 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,319 Speaker 1: Uh fuck out here. 914 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,239 Speaker 2: I really want to wonder when he asked her that, 915 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,320 Speaker 2: I feel like Brittany really just found a number in 916 00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,399 Speaker 2: her like brain, it was like thirty five, Like how 917 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:37,880 Speaker 2: how is it possible? No, seriously, she said she got 918 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:39,920 Speaker 2: a use infection for fucking three people one day and 919 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 2: then want us. That's what I'm saying, girl at the point, 920 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,439 Speaker 2: like you should have just been clining the question before 921 00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:46,399 Speaker 2: going with thirty five. 922 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 1: Now this one I want. Okay, we both pretty much 923 00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,440 Speaker 1: bitch break up with him be bestius. Okay, y'all go 924 00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:57,000 Speaker 1: get your nails done. He no, So what is what? 925 00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,520 Speaker 1: She's unhappy about? The cheat on this? Tell them the 926 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,520 Speaker 1: truth be like yo, like, I'm sorry, I got the 927 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,080 Speaker 1: cheat on you. No, magga from high school. That's the truth. No, 928 00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 1: the truth is like, Yo, this isn't working for me anymore. 929 00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 2: And now at this point, my sexual needs are taking 930 00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:13,719 Speaker 2: me to places where I feel like I'd be doing 931 00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,400 Speaker 2: something wrong to you. So we've got to figure out 932 00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:16,920 Speaker 2: a way where we can stick together and I can 933 00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:18,960 Speaker 2: get my sexual needs met elsewhere or with you. 934 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,279 Speaker 1: And I'm not trying to push you. I'm just letting 935 00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,200 Speaker 1: you know you can stay so a bit. I want cheat. 936 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: Stop saying cheat. She said, I'm about to be a cheater. 937 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:29,319 Speaker 1: She she knows what it is, so she's only gonna 938 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,520 Speaker 1: be a cheater. She's a liar. Oh okay, yes, so 939 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,440 Speaker 1: tell him you want other dick immediately learn from Mandy's 940 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 1: cancer patient. Wow, stop lying? Wow? Please please? All right? 941 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,200 Speaker 1: So this next one has to come from San Francisco 942 00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:47,680 Speaker 1: because it's given Wow, what is going on? Hey? We 943 00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,120 Speaker 1: see Hey Mandy. So I'm gonna try to make this 944 00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:52,399 Speaker 1: as short as possible. What she did. Thank you. That's 945 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 1: another thing. If you're calling the ant baby, we ain't. 946 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:56,759 Speaker 1: We ain't given you five minutes to break down your 947 00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:01,160 Speaker 1: life story. Okay, short and sweet, deplorable. You know, So 948 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,399 Speaker 1: I met this guy when I wasn't looking. This man 949 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 1: is amazing. He's everything I ever wanted in past relationships. 950 00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 1: He treats me, He treats me as such as well. 951 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,440 Speaker 1: This man keeps me smiling from ear to ear every 952 00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: single day. He takes out his busy schedule to see 953 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 1: me every single day. And I'm in La La Land 954 00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 1: see you every day? That's every single day. Then here's 955 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:28,160 Speaker 1: scheduling that Listen, must be a holbosexual. I don't know. 956 00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm in La La Land. He treats me really good. 957 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,920 Speaker 1: But we both agreed to just be friends. But it's 958 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,400 Speaker 1: so hard to remain that way for me because of 959 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,319 Speaker 1: how he treats me. What I tell you, he's God 960 00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,520 Speaker 1: damn bitches just don't know how to keep a good 961 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,439 Speaker 1: man a friend anyways? Is he actually? Anyways? I told 962 00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:47,520 Speaker 1: this man I love the way he sucks my bottom 963 00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,799 Speaker 1: lip when we kiss and do every time and every 964 00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 1: time he sees me, he makes sure to suck my 965 00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,959 Speaker 1: bottom lip whatever. He's showing interest in me. He cares 966 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,800 Speaker 1: about my well being. Make sure I'm doing okay throughout 967 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,480 Speaker 1: the day. All right, how can I keep this going 968 00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:05,880 Speaker 1: without catching feelings? We've never had sex, but I used 969 00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,399 Speaker 1: to have sex with his younger brother about nine years ago. 970 00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 1: Why does everybody this wise said he's got to be 971 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:13,920 Speaker 1: from San Francisco. Never knew they were brothers until I 972 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:15,920 Speaker 1: met him, until I met this amazing guy. 973 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:18,719 Speaker 2: For context, the San Francisco show, everybody's fucking someone's dad 974 00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:20,640 Speaker 2: or son, her son or cousin. 975 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,480 Speaker 1: It was nuts. Okay, hold on now, so yeah, she 976 00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,720 Speaker 1: fucks he's the younger brother. Nine years ago. They only 977 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:30,120 Speaker 1: went as far as making out and kissing, but he 978 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,239 Speaker 1: again treats her really well. Well, he's not her friend 979 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:34,560 Speaker 1: if they're making out so well, She's like, how do 980 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 1: I keep this going where we're at? I guess because 981 00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,440 Speaker 1: he already said he doesn't want a relationship. How do 982 00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:44,720 Speaker 1: I keep this going and stay around him without catching feelings? 983 00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: You will? So there you go, puriod, just the truth, period, Like, 984 00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 1: because here's the thing, right, I'm trying to think of 985 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 1: a man that I would see every Alex. I guess 986 00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:02,000 Speaker 1: I would say to me, became difficult, and now it's not. 987 00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:06,319 Speaker 1: With Black Jesus, I literally would try to one time 988 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,239 Speaker 1: it was, and then he became no one time. 989 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 2: Okay, so no, why it's So here's a long I'm 990 00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 2: trying to think of a man that I've spent every 991 00:48:16,160 --> 00:48:18,160 Speaker 2: day with, or like a long period of time with. 992 00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:22,640 Speaker 2: But Alex and I have never done anything, and our 993 00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:25,719 Speaker 2: relationship is truly platonic and a really good friend a 994 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:30,960 Speaker 2: lot of platonic. However, that depth in the friendship also 995 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,520 Speaker 2: comes from and this is the thing I think when 996 00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,520 Speaker 2: two people really are attracted to each other, if they've 997 00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 2: crossed the boundary, it's a little bit difficult to not 998 00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 2: get your hopes up for someone like that. So for example, 999 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:45,239 Speaker 2: uh BDD and I went on a date when we 1000 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,719 Speaker 2: first met, and then we became friends. 1001 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:53,880 Speaker 1: That whole time, even though we were just friends. I 1002 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,480 Speaker 1: remembered that, and I remembered how good the friendship would feel, 1003 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:57,719 Speaker 1: and I'd be like, ooh, this would be a great 1004 00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 1: relationship thing that could never happen with Alex because we 1005 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:04,000 Speaker 1: never had a boundary crossed and I was able to 1006 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:06,520 Speaker 1: be totally vulnerable with him. So that's because of that. 1007 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,279 Speaker 1: So that's exactly why I brought up, Like Jesus, we 1008 00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:12,720 Speaker 1: did have sex once we both got back with our partners, 1009 00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,960 Speaker 1: and now we're just friends. But we've also been so 1010 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,640 Speaker 1: much friends and hung out to where even though he's 1011 00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,600 Speaker 1: a dope ass nigga, even though he's cool as fuck, 1012 00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,760 Speaker 1: even though I enjoyed talking to him, I'm no longer 1013 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:27,319 Speaker 1: in the place where I had these envisions of us 1014 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 1: being more just because he's such a great guy to 1015 00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,800 Speaker 1: hang out with, even though we have crossed And though no, 1016 00:49:33,120 --> 00:49:33,960 Speaker 1: he doesn't either. 1017 00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,399 Speaker 2: No, but she's saying, like, how does she keep from 1018 00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:39,560 Speaker 2: doing that? What I'm saying is like, because you crossed 1019 00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,120 Speaker 2: the boundary, and oh, okay. I brought up Alex to 1020 00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:43,840 Speaker 2: say hold on, there was a point with that he 1021 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:48,960 Speaker 2: Alex shows up. How a friend is supposed to show up? Right, However, 1022 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:53,440 Speaker 2: with I don't want to say his name, BDD, he 1023 00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 2: was showing up how a friend was supposed to show up? 1024 00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:57,680 Speaker 2: But I know that I did something with him and 1025 00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:00,239 Speaker 2: had that romantic thing. Now I feel like he's showing 1026 00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 2: up as a partner. My brain couldn't go to friends 1027 00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,520 Speaker 2: because I had that attraction with him. I felt that 1028 00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:09,680 Speaker 2: with him. For example, if I was crying and Alex 1029 00:50:09,800 --> 00:50:12,239 Speaker 2: came over, I would be like, damn, my whole boy 1030 00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:13,000 Speaker 2: came we watched TV. 1031 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:13,359 Speaker 1: Whatever. 1032 00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:15,560 Speaker 2: If I was crying and BDD came over or Black 1033 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,080 Speaker 2: Jesus came over. Now that's what I'm saying. I'm you 1034 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:22,080 Speaker 2: are Alex, But that's what I'm saying she's not. But 1035 00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:24,960 Speaker 2: but that's why I said my example was valid. 1036 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,759 Speaker 1: A line was crossed with this person while we were 1037 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:30,759 Speaker 1: getting to know each other hanging out. Still very attractive, 1038 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:34,399 Speaker 1: but I have zero desire to be But there's still 1039 00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,960 Speaker 1: a boundary that you signed it. There was still a boundary. 1040 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 1: Some people need to have sex, but we're talking about 1041 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 1: across boundary. Mind you the sex was good. 1042 00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:42,839 Speaker 2: No, no, no, I mean they need to have sex 1043 00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:47,200 Speaker 2: to Now there's this what's the word tension? She's like, 1044 00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,880 Speaker 2: it's there. You already did it. It crossed it off 1045 00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:53,520 Speaker 2: the list. So basically now they only kissed and they 1046 00:50:53,680 --> 00:50:54,400 Speaker 2: never fucked. 1047 00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,960 Speaker 1: Okay, that's only like three out of ten niggas got 1048 00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 1: good dick anyway, so it probably any gonna be good. 1049 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,640 Speaker 1: It's not worth it. Just heavy on mind. He got 1050 00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: a little dick and that's why he don't want you 1051 00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,800 Speaker 1: to see it, because he probably wants you to be 1052 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,680 Speaker 1: in fantasy that you like him and want to be 1053 00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,759 Speaker 1: with him, and this probably chokes his ego. Little do 1054 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:14,880 Speaker 1: you know when you really like him? Like the dicks. 1055 00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 1: I saw a friend's dick on accident. 1056 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,120 Speaker 2: I was telling about it actually, and I was like, Bro, 1057 00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,880 Speaker 2: I wish I never saw that big ass dick because 1058 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,840 Speaker 2: now I can't even look at him. Thing, Wow, it's terrible. 1059 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:27,800 Speaker 2: I wish I never saw it. It was total accident. 1060 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,640 Speaker 2: See that's another thing, Like why think about like, oho, 1061 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:33,359 Speaker 2: it's weird. Maybe because I watched Dix a lot. 1062 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 1: Like me, knowing a guy has a big dick doesn't 1063 00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:39,480 Speaker 1: actually make me more attracted to him, Like I've never 1064 00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: wanted to fuck Pete Davis. Oh good for you. Like 1065 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:43,879 Speaker 1: just because I know a man has a big dick, 1066 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:46,480 Speaker 1: that doesn't make me be like bro, a man that's 1067 00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,840 Speaker 1: attract If you don't think Pete David okay, no no, no, 1068 00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,600 Speaker 1: no no, because he's not attracted if you knew someone that. 1069 00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,440 Speaker 1: But if I was just hanging out with my friends, 1070 00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:56,319 Speaker 1: but you said it was a friend, that's what I'm saying, 1071 00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:57,640 Speaker 1: then you were like, oh my god, I can't get 1072 00:51:57,640 --> 00:51:58,759 Speaker 1: it out that he got a big old dick. And 1073 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,719 Speaker 1: now wow, I'm thinking about that. Go dick. If it's 1074 00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,319 Speaker 1: a man like, I'll be attracted. I told you, bitch, 1075 00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:07,319 Speaker 1: I be coming off niggas being fine. I'll be watching 1076 00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:10,080 Speaker 1: videos like damn this niga fine rubbing one out. I 1077 00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:13,400 Speaker 1: don't even come to like dick sizes. Yeah, but now 1078 00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:17,040 Speaker 1: it's not foreign Mandy. So if what I'm saying is 1079 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:19,120 Speaker 1: you still got to look, let's just say it's someone 1080 00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:20,880 Speaker 1: you work with. Let's see you worked with, you got 1081 00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:24,040 Speaker 1: a big dick. One thing? Whoa No, See you're you're complaining. 1082 00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 1: You said big dick. Now you're bringing up attractive bitch. 1083 00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: I want to fuck attractive people. That's real. I'm saying 1084 00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:33,360 Speaker 1: that just because I find out that someone has a 1085 00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,800 Speaker 1: big dick, that doesn't make me curious for want to 1086 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,759 Speaker 1: fuck them just because they have a big dick. Thank 1087 00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 1: you you. On the other hand, my fuck pick Davidson 1088 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 1: because he got a big dick. I think he was 1089 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:49,160 Speaker 1: saying the only reason I got is because he Davidson 1090 00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:52,160 Speaker 1: is fucking. So she's like, oh, he know, bad, bitch. 1091 00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 1: I want to try to fuck bad bitches, because there's 1092 00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 1: probably something else there second to that. Boss, that's what, 1093 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 1: that's what. Maybe it's fun. Yeah he's a comedian. I'm 1094 00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,840 Speaker 1: sure he's funny. Makes you laugh. I see, I'm not 1095 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:08,440 Speaker 1: fucking your guys. Who makes me laugh? For the big 1096 00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:12,359 Speaker 1: dick who's not attractive, he's like ugly hot, like he's 1097 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:15,200 Speaker 1: not that like I like this dude. I've never explained that. 1098 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,480 Speaker 1: He guy. I have had sex with his ugly heart. Ever, 1099 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 1: everyone is fun as fun. Have I ever sucked the 1100 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:26,359 Speaker 1: ugly heart? I fucked niggas that fell off like they 1101 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,400 Speaker 1: was good looking at one point the nigga I just 1102 00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:33,560 Speaker 1: showed you his Instagram. Oh boy baby, no oh fell off? 1103 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:37,279 Speaker 1: I said, damn, honestly, many he gotta fall off. He 1104 00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:38,840 Speaker 1: gotta fall off my body count. Bro. 1105 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 2: I feel like if someone sent you a video of 1106 00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,080 Speaker 2: him panhandling, bro, I know I'd be like, oh, yeah, 1107 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:44,839 Speaker 2: he might. 1108 00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 1: That's how he looks. He looked, y'all. He looked like 1109 00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:51,440 Speaker 1: he shake a cup with quarters. He was so fine back, Oh, 1110 00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,200 Speaker 1: he was so fine. Mandy didn't even want to show 1111 00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 1: me his instaience. She's like, you're not gonna leave this 1112 00:53:55,800 --> 00:54:00,239 Speaker 1: him like and and yeah, wow, he needn't let them like. Guy. 1113 00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,160 Speaker 1: He kept the pictures on his page back from O 1114 00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:04,400 Speaker 1: nine because we I had to remember what looked like. 1115 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:06,839 Speaker 1: We went all the way back to Oh no, she said, yep, 1116 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:08,719 Speaker 1: this is what he looked like. Yeah, we go back 1117 00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:12,640 Speaker 1: up to twenty twenty three. Bitch, Wow, saw the dated 1118 00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:15,680 Speaker 1: niggas that fell off, But when I was fucking him, 1119 00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:19,920 Speaker 1: they look good. Yeah that's okay. I feel like the 1120 00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:20,960 Speaker 1: opposite happened to again. 1121 00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,160 Speaker 2: I feel like dudes love telling people they fucked me 1122 00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:25,600 Speaker 2: through my like I had a very funny looking stage. 1123 00:54:25,640 --> 00:54:27,360 Speaker 2: Like I think I was always cute because like, I 1124 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 2: started getting better looking as I got older, but really 1125 00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:30,440 Speaker 2: because I was getting money. 1126 00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,719 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. Shout out to shout out 1127 00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,600 Speaker 1: to the big girls, cause baby, I don't get niggas 1128 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:38,879 Speaker 1: on me no more. I'm about to start eating again. Bitch, 1129 00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,120 Speaker 1: got a gain some weight. I had all the niggas 1130 00:54:41,160 --> 00:54:44,680 Speaker 1: when I when I was a big bitch. Shout out. Listen, fellas, 1131 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,840 Speaker 1: don't be admitted by's love that body. I still have body, 1132 00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,080 Speaker 1: but I'm also one fifty. I'm not two thirty anymore. 1133 00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:53,400 Speaker 1: And that two thirty was my problem. What side niggas 1134 00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,480 Speaker 1: where right now? Right now, I feel the most comfortable, 1135 00:54:56,520 --> 00:54:59,160 Speaker 1: the most happiness. No, no, you like this body the most? Yeah, 1136 00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,799 Speaker 1: when do you think two twenty plus? Really? Girl, that's 1137 00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:04,719 Speaker 1: when I was getting fluid out. Niggas was actually giving 1138 00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,480 Speaker 1: me money. Now, niggas, I ain't even gonna tell you 1139 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:09,319 Speaker 1: what some of these niggas offering on my phone right now? 1140 00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:12,319 Speaker 1: It's like, is it because I can pay my own bills? Now? 1141 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:16,600 Speaker 1: Let me tell you I'm you know, I'm not gonna lie. 1142 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,440 Speaker 1: I got the most niggas and the most like I 1143 00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:23,880 Speaker 1: don't know, validation, loving niggas giving me stuff. When I 1144 00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:28,960 Speaker 1: was pouring bigger, not gonna lie. I'm not gonnay b 1145 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:30,600 Speaker 1: They was coming to the Bronx, not gonna be down 1146 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,560 Speaker 1: in my little basement apartment with bruepeates. Now, bitch can't 1147 00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 1: come to my penthouse. It's crazy, poor crazy. It's crazy. Well, 1148 00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:40,759 Speaker 1: now that I haven't been line, my teeth have been 1149 00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,440 Speaker 1: going back. I don't know if y'all know this. Did 1150 00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:51,440 Speaker 1: you notice? No? Fuck you a but bitch hot, I 1151 00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,759 Speaker 1: look at these videos every day, so everyone's regular teeth 1152 00:55:53,800 --> 00:56:00,919 Speaker 1: that look weird to me? No, No, Nah, they look great. 1153 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,640 Speaker 1: It's funny because like they don't look that different. But 1154 00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:06,640 Speaker 1: recently someone was like, I feel like you're like growing 1155 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:09,080 Speaker 1: into your smile, and I'm like, oh, they're saying the same, 1156 00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:10,880 Speaker 1: they're just going back a little bit. No, I was 1157 00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,560 Speaker 1: gonna say, I just feel like when I was smaller, 1158 00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:17,399 Speaker 1: my my teeth looked bigger, like I've probably gained maybe 1159 00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,719 Speaker 1: twenty pounds since the start of our show. Oh you know, 1160 00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you too. No, it's the braids, bro. 1161 00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:26,239 Speaker 1: When you used to do that little but you had 1162 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,840 Speaker 1: that little tony hair, your head looked bigger, Like the 1163 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:33,839 Speaker 1: braids have shaped your head differently. Like y'all go back 1164 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,279 Speaker 1: and if y'all come to our tour, y'all will see 1165 00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:38,879 Speaker 1: our old ass videos. Bro, you used to wear them 1166 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:42,400 Speaker 1: and the weed it just yeah, it was different, like 1167 00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:46,520 Speaker 1: this fits your head bone with the braids. No, that 1168 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,480 Speaker 1: was my struggle. Time was so many time. But you 1169 00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:49,840 Speaker 1: know what that shit is like because you worked in 1170 00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 1: the corporate office, Shedeed. 1171 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:54,880 Speaker 2: I was really like, I have to wear like I 1172 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,080 Speaker 2: have to do this, but my flat iron, Like I 1173 00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,279 Speaker 2: think I almost killed myself trying to fucking flatter myself. 1174 00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 1: Way the way. I'm so glad I ain't got to 1175 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 1: deal with with hair tools anymore. Bitch the blow dry 1176 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,799 Speaker 1: the flat on. My mama had a curling nine when 1177 00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:11,600 Speaker 1: we was in Greece, and that bitch it blew a 1178 00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:14,480 Speaker 1: fuse in one of the goddamn the first hotel. Yeah, 1179 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:17,000 Speaker 1: because it was different, I said, Mama. So she just said, 1180 00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:20,040 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go like it's just gonna go now, honey. 1181 00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:22,960 Speaker 1: You know jewels got three weeks for vacancy. Bro. Crazy. 1182 00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:25,560 Speaker 2: My mother came to the live show with a wig 1183 00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:27,200 Speaker 2: down to her ass. She goes, do you think it's 1184 00:57:27,240 --> 00:57:27,600 Speaker 2: too much? 1185 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 1: Yes? I think one of these live shows I want 1186 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,600 Speaker 1: like a thirty inch wig because when I come, I 1187 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:34,600 Speaker 1: already told you which one is about. I told you 1188 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:38,200 Speaker 1: what I want to do in New York. Girl, I'm 1189 00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,200 Speaker 1: not gonna learn a routine. Bro, I don't know how 1190 00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,400 Speaker 1: to dance. What the fuck is your problem? Why do 1191 00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 1: you think just work? Anyways? Guys, again, we on Patreon, 1192 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,240 Speaker 1: so make sure you go on over to patreon dot 1193 00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:53,880 Speaker 1: com Backslash Horrible Decisions, where we release a bonus episode 1194 00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:55,840 Speaker 1: every week and if you guys want to be caught 1195 00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:58,640 Speaker 1: up more like, right now, I'm celibate as we record 1196 00:57:58,720 --> 00:58:01,760 Speaker 1: this episode, but will I be when this episode really airs? 1197 00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,400 Speaker 1: Really find out on Patreon. But we're a little bit 1198 00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,360 Speaker 1: more up to date. But also I am getting a 1199 00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 1: little antsy, like I did text twenty four to seven, 1200 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,600 Speaker 1: like hi, hope you're well, and you tell him not 1201 00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:15,240 Speaker 1: to hit you up anyone? Yeah, I did, and then 1202 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 1: oh he was mad NIGGI. He had an attitude said yeah, 1203 00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:24,440 Speaker 1: I'm back, Nikka, We're together forever. Okay, sorry, no I'm not. 1204 00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:26,840 Speaker 1: I'm not because it was bad because he was really 1205 00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,240 Speaker 1: trying to be like real nasty to me. So then 1206 00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 1: I hit him up the next day, how's your day doing? 1207 00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,760 Speaker 1: And he responded, So he's in there, bitch, he's in there. 1208 00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:38,040 Speaker 1: He's responding, So I think we're good and official and 1209 00:58:38,160 --> 00:58:40,480 Speaker 1: be like, sorry, oops, now I told you we already 1210 00:58:40,520 --> 00:58:42,479 Speaker 1: do that. I just be like, let me drain them balls. Okay, 1211 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:44,600 Speaker 1: they could be stuff like that anyways. Again. Patreon dot 1212 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,520 Speaker 1: com back slash Horrible Decisions, y'all. Thank y'all for tuning 1213 00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:50,959 Speaker 1: in to yet another episode A horrible decision. Nice. Nice,