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Speaker 3: Kristin is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 3: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Cruse.
Speaker 3: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see
Speaker 3: if his house, why he's ghosting her, and maybe get
Speaker 3: her another date. But first, Christen, how long has it
Speaker 3: been since you talked to Cruz?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 5: Too?
Speaker 6: Meat?
Speaker 1: Okay, that's a while.
Speaker 6: I know I should have just forgot about it, but
Speaker 6: I don't know. This date was really good and that
Speaker 6: he's a catch.
Speaker 1: So he's got a cool name. Yeah too. You know,
Speaker 1: we didn't.
Speaker 5: Cruise along together, so hopefully that was cute.
Speaker 2: I guess you have to have a sense of humor
Speaker 2: about the idea of being ghosted anyway.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean happens all the time, kidding.
Speaker 2: Did you reach out to Cruz though in that time
Speaker 2: at all to try to get a hold of.
Speaker 5: Him, Oh, definitely. I was not about to let him go.
Speaker 5: I was like, like, hey, how are you nothing? Didn't
Speaker 5: do anything? Did it?
Speaker 6: Call me? I even then called him and left a voicemail.
Speaker 6: I don't do that a lot, but I left a
Speaker 6: voicemail letting him know, like, Hey, what's going on. I
Speaker 6: thought you were going to call me when like you
Speaker 6: wanted to hang out again, and then nothing.
Speaker 1: Okay, tell us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 6: Well, I first actually met him at my friend's boyfriends
Speaker 6: as a sun twister my friend's boyfriend's softball game. He
Speaker 6: was a player, okay, and after we all went out
Speaker 6: to eat, so technically that was the first date. You know.
Speaker 5: It was so good.
Speaker 6: We had a second date and I don't know, I
Speaker 6: had a great time. He was such a gentleman, opened
Speaker 6: the door for me, was polite, really good looking call,
Speaker 6: which is the plus. And I really liked him. And
Speaker 6: then all of a sudden, just he gave me a kiss.
Speaker 6: You know, we had a little makeout session, and then
Speaker 6: he just said I'll call you later and nothing.
Speaker 2: What did you guys do on your date though? So
Speaker 2: the first unofficial date was when you guys met at
Speaker 2: with food, and then when you went out together.
Speaker 1: What did you guys do?
Speaker 6: Well, we got Keith from beer after the game, and
Speaker 6: then when we went out the second time, we went
Speaker 6: mini golfing like blow in the Dark ones, you know, yeah,
Speaker 6: at least so much. But my teeth are really bright,
Speaker 6: you know. So I thought I was going great. I
Speaker 6: mightn't use a little too much tongue. I was trying
Speaker 6: a whole back, but.
Speaker 5: Like what it is? It's like, did you do this long?
Speaker 5: Did you do that wrong? Did I do this? Did
Speaker 5: I do that? You start thinking it's you, and then
Speaker 5: I'm like, did I use too much?
Speaker 6: Doung?
Speaker 5: Do you not use too much time on the first dame?
Speaker 3: What is the I like to use the side, the
Speaker 3: left side, because that's my dominant side, but I will
Speaker 3: not use the right side on a first date. So
Speaker 3: I just you know, I don't get a lot of
Speaker 3: calls back though.
Speaker 2: So you only like stick your tongue on one side of
Speaker 2: the Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, anything? Can you think of anything awkward? I mean,
Speaker 3: is it only the.
Speaker 5: Tone so funny? I can't get over what you just said?
Speaker 5: Will give you a.
Speaker 3: Kind of hear it maneuver, and yeah, not enough people
Speaker 3: can handle it.
Speaker 5: It's on the left side. But I no, I can't
Speaker 5: think of anything. I don't know.
Speaker 6: I just felt like we had a great time and
Speaker 6: then all of a sudden, I don't know, if like
Speaker 6: someone I don't know.
Speaker 5: That's why I'm calling you, guys. I have no idea
Speaker 5: because I thought we had a great time. We had
Speaker 5: a great session, you know, makeout session, like I said,
Speaker 5: but there was one thing that I guess did happen.
Speaker 6: His eyes saw someone that came in, and I kind
Speaker 6: of just like started kissing him really quick to hide
Speaker 6: my face.
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that?
Speaker 5: Well, like, I don't know.
Speaker 6: I just don't want them to see me. I'm a
Speaker 6: private person. I just don't want them to see me
Speaker 6: out with.
Speaker 1: People, Oh, like somebody you recognize.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I just like quickly tried to like,
Speaker 6: you know, kissed him. And I told him like jokingly,
Speaker 6: like huh, I'm just trying to hide away from someone.
Speaker 5: And I don't know if that was weird to him.
Speaker 5: There is something that happened.
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll try to figure it out for you to
Speaker 3: play on come back and then call him and see
Speaker 3: if they tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe
Speaker 3: get you another data right, all right, cool, Right, we'll
Speaker 3: play so come back and get your first day follow up next.
Speaker 3: Right in the middle of today's first date follow up
Speaker 3: and if you're just joining us, Kristen is on the
Speaker 3: phone she's getting ghosted by a guy named Cruz. So
Speaker 3: we're about to call him and see if you tell
Speaker 3: us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 3: But before we do that, Kristen, why don't you catch
Speaker 3: everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I pretty much went on a first date
Speaker 7: with the guy that I met at my friend's softball game,
Speaker 7: and then we had a great time with mini golfing
Speaker 7: at the end of it.
Speaker 5: We had a good makeout session. But before that, I
Speaker 5: did see.
Speaker 6: Someone kind of come in that I knew, and I
Speaker 6: tried to hide by making out with him. I don't
Speaker 6: know if that threw him off. I just didn't want
Speaker 6: them to, like see my face, So I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't know if that's the reason why he's ghosted me.
Speaker 6: But I thought we had a great time. He's a gentleman,
Speaker 6: checked all my boxes, So I kind of want to
Speaker 6: see what's going on.
Speaker 1: All right? You ready for us to call hin?
Speaker 5: I guess, so yeah, let's do it here.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi'm aspect the Cruise. Please this Hey Cruz, how
Speaker 3: are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a
Speaker 3: radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 2: Hi Cruz. I'm Nina. Also on the show.
Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Victoria. Hey I listen to you guys. Oh sweet,
Speaker 1: thank you. Now you're on the show. Oh wow, what's
Speaker 1: going on? Well, if you listen to us, have you
Speaker 1: heard a first date follow up before?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I have?
Speaker 1: Oh okay, is that what this is? Yes, it is.
Speaker 3: So you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us to get
Speaker 3: a hold of you and find out why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 1: Do you know who would email us? I got an idea.
Speaker 1: Is it Kristin? Yes it is.
Speaker 3: Kristen answered the first question correctly. Now the other question
Speaker 3: is do you mind telling us why you're ghostinger?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'll tell listen. First of all, she seemed like
Speaker 4: a great person. She was really really cool. The date
Speaker 4: was great, like we hit it off and it just
Speaker 4: got a little shady.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was.
Speaker 1: It was really suspicious.
Speaker 4: So we met up at softball. I play softball with
Speaker 4: a friend of mine who knows her, and so you know,
Speaker 4: they were out and we kind of hung out afterwards
Speaker 4: and hit it off like we were talking to chatty.
Speaker 1: It was great.
Speaker 4: So we actually went out went out, so I took
Speaker 4: her mini golfing, which I think is a good way
Speaker 4: to kind of get to know people. And we walked
Speaker 4: on the beach, wanted to see sunset at the park,
Speaker 4: you know, like it was really nice and romantic and
Speaker 4: she was really cool. But then at the parking lot
Speaker 4: when we're mini golf, like, she just attacks me, like
Speaker 4: like starts making out with me, like it forcefully.
Speaker 1: So it kind of threw me off.
Speaker 4: It wasn't that sweet, like you know, kind of get
Speaker 4: nose to nose and you're gonna get that first kiss,
Speaker 4: like it was right there, and I was like, what
Speaker 4: was that. She goes, oh, I just saw somebody I knew.
Speaker 4: I just wanted to and I want them to see me.
Speaker 4: I'm like, are you embarrassed by me? Are you embarrassed
Speaker 4: be out with me?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: I just want people in my business. That doesn't make
Speaker 4: sense to me that you would make out with me
Speaker 4: so that they wouldn't be in your business, Like now
Speaker 4: you're giving them something to talk about.
Speaker 1: It was a little odd.
Speaker 4: So I went and and talked to my friends and
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, I went out, and they're.
Speaker 1: Like, how to go?
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, it went great. It just
Speaker 4: she did this weird thing and they're like, yeah, she's
Speaker 4: kind of she's kind of addicted to drama. And I'm like, what, yeah,
Speaker 4: she she kind of does that, like like her baby
Speaker 4: daddy is is pretty mean and kind of bad news.
Speaker 4: But she keeps calling them over like they're always involved
Speaker 4: and all they do is fight in public. And I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, hold on, she didn't have kids, and they're
Speaker 4: like no, no, no, she's she's pregnant. Now. Oh yeah, see
Speaker 4: that reaction.
Speaker 1: That was my reaction.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, what boy?
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, pregnant Ruth, I'm allowed to date, can't date?
Speaker 5: I'm pregnant.
Speaker 3: Oh for that, she'ld be listening. Yes, that is Kristen.
Speaker 3: She's on the phone and has been listening this whole time.
Speaker 4: Hey, well you know I'm not. Yeah, my side is
Speaker 4: the truth. You didn't tell me that you were pregnant.
Speaker 6: So you're hating on a woman that's pregnant and saying
Speaker 6: she can't date.
Speaker 5: Is that what you're telling me right now?
Speaker 4: See, you'll see that drama. That's the drama. That's the
Speaker 4: drama right there. See you're putting no, no, no, you're putting
Speaker 4: words into my mouth. I don't want to be part
Speaker 4: of that drama. I don't want you need to tell
Speaker 4: me up front if you're pregnant. That's not something that
Speaker 4: I should find out.
Speaker 6: That letter telling you that I'm pregnant right away, Like, ky,
Speaker 6: nice to Misia. I'm Kristian and I'm pregnant. How you doing?
Speaker 6: What do you want to eat?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 5: Well when do you think that?
Speaker 2: Is that something you thought that you were going to
Speaker 2: tell them at some point Kristin.
Speaker 5: Of course, Well maybe I'm showing.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 4: Okay, listen, listen, hey, you do you. I'm not gonna
Speaker 4: I'm not judging you for anything.
Speaker 1: You do your thing.
Speaker 4: I'm just saying that's not here.
Speaker 6: I'm not until you first off, it was the first dates.
Speaker 6: Now your business until maybe two months.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, So if I love sorry you kept saying
Speaker 4: it was our second date.
Speaker 5: You've corrected me on that.
Speaker 6: So I'm trying to go on the same page you're
Speaker 6: on because you're like, not technically our birth date. So
Speaker 6: I'm telling you right now is our second date, but
Speaker 6: you said before it was our first, So it's our
Speaker 6: first because you want to count it as our first,
Speaker 6: because you don't count the fear and peace as well.
Speaker 4: I mean, we can change you can change the verbiage.
Speaker 4: Now you can say our last date. That's that's how I.
Speaker 5: Don't want to us. I don't want to camp. Man up?
Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? Can't man up?
Speaker 5: You're not you want to sign my grade? Am I dead?
Speaker 5: Or something like Okay, I'm pregnant D You're not mad,
Speaker 5: You're pregnant.
Speaker 1: Something.
Speaker 4: You're actually the opposite of dead.
Speaker 6: You've got more life in you.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 4: I don't like you to get it out and you've
Speaker 4: cheated it mini golf.
Speaker 6: You can't even play, you don't even hold.
Speaker 3: Hey, well, I have to ask the question, Cruise, would
Speaker 3: you like another day with Kristen?
Speaker 1: Will pay for it? No?
Speaker 3: Okay, Chris, And I'm sorry no second day congounds on
Speaker 3: your baby.
Speaker 5: Though, yeah, thank you. I'm definitely not naming him Kruse.
Speaker 1: Okay, jubile. First date follow up